The Phoenix rising

Words KEAN BUCKLEY

Well done you made it to the end of 2020 of what for many of us has been the hardest year of our lives. So, what has happened to our intimacy in our relationship? Have we got closer, or are we further apart? Sex is code for connection guys. ‘Growth was never created in a comfort zone.’

Here are some tips that will surely bring you closer over the festive period and into 2021. Focus your whole presence, on the good in your life right now, no matter what you feel, and use every breath to bring you closer. If you are going to do anything, decide to enjoy it. Get outside in nature, play, and have fun. Keep your heart open all the time. Do not react or get offended. Take an interest and listen to your partner intently. Look them in the eyes and smile into them. Mend fences wherever you can. Let in the incredible light of being and follow your inspiration wherever you can. If unsure, ask ‘what love would do?’ And always be yourself.

When my cat walks, she is soooo present – every footstep is soft and mindful. Become fully realised by intentionally taking care of every step, in every waking moment. Be like my cat – walk consciously through life.

KEAN BUCKLEY co-founded Be Yourself and now a golden new modality based on vibration. www.zeroplusnine.com His new group ‘emergence’ will be available soon on FB.