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Holiday Specials It’s a Camping & Glamping Craze!. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10 Southern Quilts & Their Story . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 Confidence is Your Fun, New Fashion Friend!. . . . . . . 42 Creative Ways to Celebrate God at Your Wedding . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 44 Your Backyard Wedding Can Be Quaint, Cozy and Spectacular!. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 47 Cherished Wedding Memories Are Only a Smile Away . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 51

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Entertaining Colorful Summer Berry Cocktail Bar. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 61 The Kentucky Derby Makes for a Fun Party!. . . . . . . . . . 63 Easy, Fun Ways to Spice Up the Party . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 64

Recipes Twists on a Family Favorite!. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 67 Summer & Fresh Produce. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 70 Fennel Citrus Salad. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 75 Good Food, Happy Life. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 76 Savory Tomato & Poblano Pie. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 80

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Crafts/How To Anything & Everything Old Can Be New Again. . . . . . 30 Gallery Walls, Filled with Love. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34 Shooting Stars & Stripes Wreath. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 90

Southern All the Way Funky Junk Trail . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22 Strong Southern Women. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 38 Southern Brand Favorites. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 54 Southern Movies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 83 Where in the South is that?. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 86 Advertisers’ Directory. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 89

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Spring is nature’s way of saying “Let’s Party” — Robin Williams

Are you ready to party with nature?

I know I am. We survived another winter and spring is our reward!

While I have always loved spring and the new that comes with it, I didn’t truly appreciate the beauty of the season until a few years ago.

After having LASIK eye surgery, I remember driving to my doctor’s appointment the next morning. Because of my vision, the trees were always just a blurry glob of green in the distance, even while wearing contacts. But, thanks to my corrected vision, I saw the many shades of green for the very first time. To say it took my breath away is putting it mildly. And, ever

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since that day, I have taken the time to appreciate the shades of green in my life.

Spring is also a great time for change! And, you may notice a few changes inside Southern Holiday Life.

We kept everything you have come to love about Southern Holiday Life like the Funky Junk Trail, Southern Brand Favorites and Strong Southern Women.

This issue we are introducing a new component to Southern Holiday Life —Weddings. Because, seriously, there isn’t a much better party in the South than a wedding!

We also gave ourselves a little bit of a makeover and we hope you find the changes to be as pleasing as we do!

Enjoy Life!

Kelly

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we knew we wanted to highlight the Funky Junk Trail and what better way than to showcase a porch featuring a refinished antique glider. When it was salvaged, the glider was rusted through but with a little bit of work, it became new again! On the Funky Junk Trail, you will find gliders just like this and more!

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Most people remember basic camping, but now glamping — glamorous camping — gives your holiday a whole new level of fun and enjoyment.

In Alabama and Georgia

It’s a Camping & Glamping Craze!

There has been resurgence in recreational camping in the past few years as many baby boomers have retired and are looking to get back to the simpler days of outdoor recreation. And it’s not just the retirees any more who are getting in on the camping craze.

In an age of everything “tech” even the “hipsters” are unplugging from the world to de-stress and find a certain calm and stillness that only nature can bring. Families are also hitting the camping trails to show their kids fun in the outdoors and to make memories that last a lifetime. Along with the resurgence has come a rebirth 10

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in the campers of yesteryear and camping groups such as Sisters On The Fly or Tin Can Tourists. There are also many Face Book pages dedicated to the pursuit of camping and, the more upscale glamorous camping, known as glamping.

Old is New Again And it’s not just the mega, bigboxed campers you see anymore — although there are plenty of RVs still cruising the highways. Many people have scoured Craigslist, Ebay, and vintage camper websites looking for the perfect “canned ham” or vintage trailer to restore.

One can also look at Pinterest

and see many pins on vintage campers and glamping ideas.

Even the camping industry is getting in on the vintage camper craze by creating new models that bring back the look and feel of the campers of the past and also include the conveniences of today such as air conditioners, microwaves, and bathrooms. Riverside RV has several Amish-made Retro Models out that have the feel and look of those that our parents or we may have owned in the 50s and 60s. Shasta has also just released a reissue of their 1961 Airflyte model in both 16-foot and 19-foot versions which

also adds the modern conveniences.

And the silver Airstream models which originated in 1931 are still being made and going strong.

Tents Are Cool, Too If you’re not ready to commit to a camper, there are plenty of recreational tents out there for sale and many campers have gotten into “glamping” them up. I have even seen a tent with a full-size bed and chandelier — a big change from my military days of the old cot and sleeping bag for sure.

As both a Sister On The Fly and a member of the Tin Can Tourists, I have also gotten in on the fun of camping in my vintage 1964 “canned ham” Gypsy, as well as my 2014 Riverside Retro 177 affectionately referred to as Retro Ruby. Because of this I am always

Trackrock Campground, Blairsville, Ga. looking for the great spots to park my campers and get back to nature. Whether I am looking for a site with all the comforts — such as electrical hookups, showers, bathrooms, and recreation for the grandkids — or wanting to get away

from everything and “dry camp” or hit a “primitive site,” there is always a spot waiting to be explored.

Best Places to Camp Alabama and Georgia have some of the best camping areas …con’t to Page 14.

Inside the vintage 1964 Gypsy Camper

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Campsite of my White Water Retro, model 177, camper at Stone Mountain campground

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in the world in my opinion. But I may be a little prejudice since I’m a Southerner. And if anyone says otherwise, just tell them I said, “bless your heart.” If you’d like to know where some of these spots are I will share — but don’t tell everyone because I want to make sure I still have a camp site of the for Retro Ruby or the Gypsy when I get the urge to hit the trails.

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best places I have

Some of the best places I have found to camp found to camp have been the state parks and Corps of Engineer have been the state parks. Many reservations can be parks and Corps of made on line. Many of them also offer senior or military discounts Engineer parks. and perks, so be sure to ask.

In Alabama, you can go to the website at http://www.alapark.com/camping and in Georgia to http://www.gastateparks.org/campsites or for the Army Corps of Engineer campsites by state go to their website http://www. recreation.gov/campgroundDirectoryListByAgencyID.do

Grandson Jude feeds the wild geese on Stone Mountain Lake at the campground

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But don’t forget there are also some great private parks as well. I canvased my fellow camping and glamping friends and got some great recommendations for those of you looking forward to camping and glamping in Alabama and Georgia.

But don’t take my opinion — get out there and explore and find out why so many are getting into the camping craze. Happy Trails! •

Great Camping & Glamping Locations Stone Mountain Park, Stone Mountain, Ga.

Desoto State Park, Fort Payne, Ala.

Trackrock Campground, Blairsville, Ga.

Lake Guntersville State Park, Guntersville, Al.

HighFalls, Jackson, Ga.

Cloudland Canyon State Park, Cloudland, Ga.

Victoria Campground, Ga. Red Top Mountain, Ga. Lock ‘n Dam Park, Rome, Ga.

Vogel State Park, Blairsville, Ga. Amity Campground, West

Point Lake, Amity, Ala. Honeycomb Campground, Guntersville, Ala. Wind Creek State Park, Alexander City, Ala. Paul Grist State Park, Selma, Ala. Danes Ferry Park, Juliette, Ga. FDR State Park, Pine Mountain, Ga.

Camping with Retro Ruby at Trackrock Campground, Blairsville, Ga. Husband Tom and dog Buffy relax at Stone Mountain Campground

Debbie Smoot is a freelance journalist, camping enthusiast, crafter and junker.

She loves exploring the best places to take a short trip in her vintage “canned ham” Gypsy or her 2014 Riverside Retro she has nicknamed Retro Ruby.

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Southern Quilts & Their Story Just hearing the word quilt conjures up visions of the past, familiar places and people, mostly women, who were important to us and who live in our memories forever.

Instinctively we reach out to touch timeworn fabrics and feel the silky textures of times remembered.

Multicolor pieced quilts are treasured American icons but the appearance of quilts has changed dramatically, as has fashion, since the first quilts were made in the early days of the United States.

Multicolor pieced quilts

are treasured American icons but the appearance of quilts has changed dramatically‌

Fabric manufacturing dictated quilt making from the beginning.

Although the cotton gin was invented in 1793, machine carding or aligning fiber strands was not available until 1801 in America at about the same time that large scale spinning of thread became possible. Even then, the thread came back into the home for weaving. The

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Carpenter’s Wheel.

Women also made elaborate pieced quilts from imported calico prints. Stars were very popular.

A ” broderie perse” quilt with an early chintz border of block printed brown and china blue. Edges were often finished with a distinctive woven tape.

Whigs’ Defeat quilt.

The chintz border is technically more advanced suggesting a later date.

Mariners Compass.

Circular motifs and diamond shapes required great needlework skills.

Crazy Quilt. Recycled clothing was put to good use. This quilt is reversible

Pomegranate quilt.

This quilt has kept its bright colors Log Cabin design that has been associated with President Lincoln.

power loom became available in America in 1814 and, within ten years, the mass manufacture of fabric in the North overtook the home weaving of cloth. However hand weaving continued in the South into the twentieth-century.

A Leisure Pastime Prior to the availability and convenience of machine-made fabrics, most women were too overwhelmed with homemaking, child-rearing, gardening, doing farm chores and making family clothing to devote time to quilting.

Baskets Quilts. These quilts were made at the same time period but colors in one faded badly.

Most people used imported woolen blankets or “rugs” of wool that resembled chenille. Only the very wealthy could afford the brightly colored chintz and calico fabrics made in India and the Far East.

Sewing and embroidery lessons occupied daughters who enjoyed enough leisure time to practice while they waited to be married.

In the mid-Atlantic region of Maryland, Virginia and South Carolina, plantation owners, merchants and cotton factors had easy access to luxury silk and cotton fabrics and raw cotton for

bright printed bed covers and clothing from a fabric sandwich of backing, batting and a decorative top. Protective clothing came to America with De Soto and quilted petticoats with the Pilgrims before bed quilts made from whole cloth or a single piece of fabric. Strips of narrow handwoven goods were joined to create quilts for beds much bigger than modern ones. The quilting technique and artistry was what stood out. Some quilts had stuffing added to raise the design or cording run through double lines of running stitches …con’t to Page 20. for a raised effect.

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Quilts Had Special Uses Probably the most spectacular of the early quilts from the Atlantic coast region were made from cutting out separate design elements from expensive imported chintz then sewing it down onto a plain background creating a whole new design that made the expensive fabric go much further. This applied technique was called “broderie perse” which is French for Persian embroidery. Persia was about as far to the east as most people could imagine, so they used a pair of sharp scissors, advanced needlework skills and very sharp eyesight to recreate the look. The finished product was usually for a guest room, a wedding or to commemorate a special occasion. Because they were so often created for special occasions,

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many have survived the decades and are prized possessions these days.

they had the advantage of being washable. When Native Americans were removed from their ancestral As increased machinery lands, the settlers innovations moved west improved and took quilts fabric with them. The production quilts migration of and more were so often created settlers enabled American the development mills went into for special occasions, of distinctive local production, designs. Family many have survived the cost and friends of fabrics the decades and are made quilts and dropped. signed blocks as prized possessions About this keepsakes and same time, these days. fund raisers. imported Women’s groups English also made quilts calicoes made for soldiers, however, very few their way to the states. Cotton survived the rough treatment they quilts became more affordable and, received. After the War Between unlike many of their predecessors,

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the States, the northern economy took off while poverty and lack of technology in the south limited economic stability. Low wages and the local cotton supply eventually promoted the founding of cotton mills along southern rivers. These southern mills produced plaids and ginghams from yarn dyed thread. The quality of cotton fabrics produced in the north declined and the dyes became so unreliable that reds, greens and purples faded to a dull tan or pink. Partial circles called “Baptist Fan” quilting became a hallmark of southern quilts.

The popularity of designs at the Japanese Pavilion at the 1875 Centennial Exposition, prompted a new fashion trend that involved using throws to

decorate parlors. Random silk and velvet scraps were combined with ribbon and embroidery to create decorative pieces. A similar method of constructing a bed quilt from discarded clothing was an adaptation of the “crazy” quilt.

After the turn of the century, changes in business made it more difficult to recognize where or when a quilt was made.

Newspapers and magazines started regularly printing quilt patterns with re-invented names. Storebought fabrics were sold over large geographic areas. Standard machine piecing techniques were widespread. As a result, the appearance and workmanship of quilts were no longer recognizable as the product of specific areas. •

The quilts pictured are from the permanent collection of the Southeastern Quilt and Textile Museum, 306 Bradley Street, Carrollton, Georgia, 770.301.2187. The exhibits at the Museum change every three months. Historic quilts from the area will be displayed April through June. Our gift shop features quilts and handmade items made by local artists and we teach adult and children to quilt. The Museum is open from 10 AM to 4 PM Thursday through Saturday or by appointment.

Admission $5. Please visit us on Facebook or at www. southeasternquiltmuseum.com.

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The Funky Junk Trail embraces originality and of course the thrill of the hunt! Southern Holiday Life chose the following stores to be part of the trail because each of them embodies the spirit of the trail. All are an eclectic mix of old and new and none of them are your grandmother’s antique store! Happy hunting and be sure to share your treasures from the trail on social media! Use the hashtag #funkyjunktrail so we can all celebrate your finds!

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Two Guys and a Girl, Attics to Antiques

104 West Broad Street Wedowee, AL

3355 Highway 431 Roanoke, AL

906 Columbus Pkwy Opelika, AL

256-357-4557

334-863-5865

334-220-8925

Thurs, Fri & Sat 10-5

Wed 8-noon Thurs-Sat 10-4

Mon 10-7 Thur-Sat 10-7 Sun 1-5

Where the Funky Junk Trail begins! Our little shop gives you an extension of our magazine, offering our customers an eclectic mix of repurposed furniture, handcrafted custom made furniture, home décor, boutiquestyle clothing, handcrafted jewelry, gourmet food products, gifts, bath and body products and so much more!

A hometown small shop that offers a variety of antique treasures including, but certainly not limited to, vintage glassware, McCoy and Hull pottery, collectibles, small furniture, lamps, vintage keepsakes, and so much more.

Roanoke Discount Center 3800 Highway 431, Roanoke, AL 334-338-1300 Mon-Fri 9-5; Sat 9-1 It was a natural progression for Gary and Janice Wright to start a business of gently used furniture, appliances, collectables and funky junk due to all they had collected over the years. Their obsession of finding and buying at auctions, estate sales and junk stores gave them a large inventory to start Roanoke Discount Center over 6 years ago. Last year, the Wrights relocated to a location on Highway 431 in Roanoke. They now have a warehouse sized space filled with “stuff” inside and outside.

Roanoke Discount Center is a treasure hunter or picker’s dream. With just a little digging and a good eye you will find many treasures. I saw many treasures at bargain prices including antique furniture, lamps, collectable glass, dolls, pottery, music albums and more. Inventory constantly changes as the Wrights continue to buy at estate sales and auctions. Funky junk bargain hunters should definitely put this place on their radar.

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This shop is the place to go for the not-so-crafty funky junkers. We specialize in making your vision come true with custom refinishing, restoring and painting furniture. New Creations Upholstery is inside the store as well. The Refinery also offers trendy home décor at affordable prices.

Resurrect Antiques 559 Fob James Drive Valley, AL 334-756-0559 Mon-Sat 10-6 Resurrect is a one-of-a-kind antique store specializing in furniture, home decor, antiques, vintage inspired clothing, accessories and more.

Resurrect simply means to bring back to life or to bring about a new purpose…..and we love to do just that!

We have anything from primitive decor to elegant French inspired pieces.

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1. Southern Holiday Life Store & Décor 2. Roanoke Discount Center* 3. Two Guys and a Girl, Attics to Antiques 4. The Refinery 5. Resurrect Antiques 6. Marketplace on Lafayette Square 7. Southern Charm, A Vintage Marketplace 8. Scarlett’s Attic Antique 9. William & Mary’s

10. Blue Train Books 11. Just for You Thrift Shop 12. Born Again Antiques 13. Home is where the heART is 14. Eklektik Styles 15. 47th Avenue Antiques 16. RubySlippers Vintiques 17. Sweet Southern Salvage 18. Junk Mama’s General Store*

19. Kelly & Company Antiques 20. It’s About Time Antiques & Uniques 21. Collectors on 54 22. The Pineapple House 23. Feathers & Twigs 24. Memories Past and Present* 25. Romiette and Julieo* 26. Calhoun Pickers 27. Birds of a Feather

Here is a handy dandy list that you can use for your Funky Junk exploits. You also can pull our directory on the go by visiting our website www.shopsmallshopsouthern.com from any mobile device.

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William & Mary’s Antiques & Sport Collectibles 200 East Main Street Hogansville, GA

Marketplace on Lafayette Square 100 Bull Street Lagrange, GA 706-882-3338 Mon-Sat 10-5; Sun 11-4

Repurposed with style is what you will find by shopping with us! We carry Southern Brand Favorites like Dixie Belle Paint and Fox Point Farms Goat Milk Caramels. We also have shabby chic furniture and home décor items.

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Born Again Antiques is the place for the manly antique shopper. It is not your ordinary grandma’s antique store. They offer hundreds of replacement vintage furniture pulls, knobs, handles, and hardware. Crystal chandeliers are another specialty, including repair and restoration. Come see 4000 sq. ft. of mantiques, doors, windows, salvage, oddities, and more.

For over 15 years, Mary has been decorating homes with vintage art, pottery, lamps, glass, china and linens along with mid-century, modern, and mahogany furniture and accessories. Also, be sure to browse through William’s Sports Collectibles and Memorabilia.

706-637-9555

Wed-Fri 11-5; Sat 5-8

Blue Train Books

Home is where the heART is 18157 Main Street, Woodbury, GA 678-523-9126; Tues.-Sat. 10-6, Sun 1-5

Mon-Fri 9-5; Sat 9-6 Sun noon-4 Blue Train Books offers a diverse selection of quality books in a clean, well-organized store. This is a shopping experience worth the drive, with prices low enough to take a few books home. Something for everyone, from casual reader to dedicated book hound and collector.

Find us on the web.

Just for You Thrift Shop

300 E Main Street Hogansville, GA

307 S. Highway 29 Hogansville, GA

706-813-5058; Wed-Sat 11-6

706-637-6227

A charming little shop that offers Gone With the Wind collectible plates along with an array of great primitive to mid-century antiques, repurposed and refurnished furniture, shabby chic décor, vintage collectibles, gifts, keepsakes, memorabilia, home décor, beautiful glassware, pottery and so much more.

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785-766-7257

304 East Main Street Hogansville, GA Tues-Sat 10-5

200 Main Street Hogansville, GA

10 Wares Cross Road Suite 70 Lagrange, GA

Born Again Antiques

706-333-2520

If you are looking for high-end antiques and the out of the ordinary treasures, this is the place to stop. Marketplace has a large collection of rugs and other décor to meet your needs, too!

Southern Charm, A Vintage Marketplace

Here you will find antique furniture, home décor, and many pieces that are sure to satisfy the bargain hunter’s adventure. Don’t forget to ask them about their layaway program and scheduled auctions that are held at their other location.

Home is Where the heART is is as much an art gallery as a retail space and Kelley Bonner wouldn’t have it any other way. Art is a passion of hers and it shows throughout the store.

“There is one of a kind art throughout the place,” Bonner said. “And I love it!”

You will come for the art, but you will make return visits for all the other unique items on display.

Home is Where the heART is also sells antiques and home décor as well as upscale women’s and children’s consignment clothing.

Eklektik Styles 324 East Broad Street, Suite 232 Griffin, GA 404-788-3338 Wed-Thurs 11-5 Fri-Sat 10-5 Located in Broad Street Mill, Penny offers an retro-eclectic mix of furniture, jewelry, personal gifts and antique treasures. She carries Southern Brand Favorite Dixie Belle Paint and loves to refinish furniture using the paint line.

47th Avenue Antiques 324 East Broad Street Suite 212 Griffin, GA 404-569-4760 Wed-Sat 10-5 An “Antique Boutique” located in Broad Street Mill, 47th Avenue features a little of everything including handmade metal art, custom baskets as well as antique furniture. The Bath Cocktail Bar is also a must see with bath salts, lotions and skin products.

RubySlippers Vintiques 324 East Broad Street Suite 238 Griffin, GA 678-428-3528 Wed-Sat 11-5 You never know what you might find at Ruby Slippers… It changes constantly with a mix of new and old, trendy and vintage.

Sweet Southern Salvage 324 East Broad Street Suite 210 Griffin, GA 770-584-0116; Wed-Sat 11-5 The more rustic the better is the theme for Sweet Southern Salvage. You can find light fixtures, antique artifacts, Man Cave essentials and garden décor.

Junk Mama’s General Store 125 Fisher Ave, Fayetteville, GA 770-461-4607, Mon-Sat 10-5 Junk Mama’s General Store owner Cindy Phillips is assisted by several talented mamas who are artistic, love to create and have a good eye for things that others would love to buy.

The store is located in a charming 1916 house, two blocks off the square in historic downtown Fayetteville.

store is also a DIY person destination, offering Dixie Belle Paint and Old Fashioned Milk Paint products. And, just like mama, they are about teaching you how to do it yourself with paint and craft classes. Check them out on Facebook, Instagram and their website www.JunkMamasGeneralStore.com.

A unique boutique of hidden treasures old and new, the mama’s search high and low for an eclectic mix of merchandise. They have a mishmash of whimsy, recycled stuff, antiques, vintage and reinvented treasures. The

It truly is a beautifully displayed store and reflects well on what mama’s love!

Kelly & Company Antiques 1850 Highway 85 S Fayetteville, GA 678-817-7788 Mon-Thurs 10-6; Fri-Sat 10-5 Sun 1-5 Take your time here. We have lot to see and don’t want you to miss a thing. There are lots of antiques, signs and industrial finds. We have also been known to see a “Walking Dead” zombie or two.

It’s About Time Antiques & Uniques 117 Franklin Highway Newnan, GA 404-910-9389 Thurs-Sat 10-4

Collectors on 54 8861 Highway 54 Sharpsburg, GA 770-251-6835 Mon-Sat 10-5; Sun 1-5 Together under one roof, Collector’s 54 and The Boneyard offers beauty, inspiration, and design with over 22,000 square feet filled with favorites such as Arthur Court, Brighton, Byers’ Carolers, Quoizel Lighting, Stephan Baby, Willow Tree, ladies’ accessories, antiques, repurposed furniture and home décor, candles, and so much more.

This sweet little shop is a treasure hunter’s dream. They offer many interesting things that have been repurposed and recycled creating great pieces for you to decorate your home or garden, vintage collectibles, memorable keepsakes, handcrafted home décor pieces, jewelry, furniture, gifts and so much more.

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Memories Past and Present

139 City Hall Ave. Suite F. Bowdon, GA 770-258-8822, Tues-Sat 10-6

While most of those artifacts are not for sale, Memories Past and Present has plenty that is.

The Pineapple House 518 Maple Street; Carrollton, GA

“My son is in the movie business and we all know a lot of people,” Browning said. “We get really unusual pieces from all over the world.”

770-880-7613 Mon-Fri 10:30 -5:30; Sat 10-3 Shopping local is easy at The Pineapple House. With more than 50 vendors all producing handmade products, the inventory is ever changing. Popular items include jewelry, furniture, wreaths, cutting boards, soaps, candles and scarves.

Feathers & Twigs

Memories Past and Present, located in Bowdon, Ga. Is truly worth the visit.

Located in the old Plunkett’s Shirt and Suit Factory building, now known as Bowdon Station, Memories Past and Present is a working museum with all kinds of unique artifacts to see and purchase.

506 Maple Street; Carrollton, GA 770-214-9191 Mon-Fri 10:30 -5:30; Sat 10:30-4:30 Most Saturdays Granny will greet you with goodies at Feathers and Twigs. The family-run business features different vendors from West Georgia including art by Charlotte Scarce. The owners pride themselves in ensuring the store appeals to all ages. They sell refinished furniture as well as a variety of antiques.

Birds of a Feather

3696 Hwy 78W, Heflin, AL 256.463.3121; Mon-Fri 10-5; Sat 9-3 Debbie and Presley Murray have been buying, selling and creating for a few years but opened their storefront almost a year ago.

The mother-daughter duo uses the gifts God gave them to create one of a kind products through their “Presley Purses” and “Daisy Grace Jewelry” lines. But there is more to see at Romiette and Julieo.

256-403-2991 Tues-Sat 10-6; Sun 1-4

Another customer favorite came by accident.

A charming little shop located on

“I had another line when I had booth space, but discovered Spicy Kudzu soap before we opened the store and our customers just love it,” Debbie said.

Main Street in Downtown Oxford, Birds of A Feather is the epitome of the Funky Junk Trail. Owner Lisa Scott is always on the hunt to bring treasures back to her customers. She specializes in Vintage, Antiques, Restorations, Architectural Salvage & Unique Gifts.

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“We have baby clothes that have been real popular and then people really love our garden and metal art,” Debbie said.

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“We are really like a museum of sorts,” Vicky Browning, one of the owners, said. “Most of our stuff is the real deal, not reproductions.” On a typical visit, you will find numerous artifacts from the buildings history including original suits from the factory as well as memorabilia from around Bowdon.

Spicy Kudzu soap is made in Oxford, Ala. and while some of the scents are traditional, the creators also offer caffeinated soaps for an extra kick.

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With Dixie Belle Chalk Paint…

Anything & Everything Old Can Be New Again Times, they are a-changing! It used to be that if you wanted to paint a piece of furniture it would take lots of time, lots of energy, lots of talent and it still might not turn out the way you had envisioned! Very disappointing!

Do that once or twice and you’d probably never try it again.

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Dixie Belle Paint, Clear Coats and Glazes are available at Southern Holiday Life Store in Wedowee, Al and many of the shops on the Funky Junk Trail.

Luckily, times, they really are a-changing or should I say going backwards! The “new” paint is actually very old and has been used for centuries, way before the time latex paint showed up on the scene! Ironic huh!

So let’s say you have space that needs updating and you’re thinking, I really need to brighten up this room and I’d really like some nice creamy white furniture. You know, the kind you’re seeing in all the magazines. You go to the store, price it out and have absolute sticker shock! Definitely not in your budget (as my husband always likes to remind me!).

OK, no problem, let’s get the change you want in your space for one tenth of the cost, a price that fits in just about any budget!

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walking around your home with a paint brush looking for other things to paint. Really!

First thing you need to do is clean your piece. This, honestly, is my least favorite part, but only because I just want to get to the painting part, however it is necessary.

We’re not talking an elaborate cleaning, simply some warm soapy water will do to remove dirt and dust. FYI, kitchen/bath cabinets are a different story and need more of a cleaning, so we aren’t talking about those.

OK, so you’ve got your piece all clean ready to go, now what?!

Simple, just stick your brush in the paint and start painting! Here are some tips to get you going.

Brush Preferences I’m not a big fan of the typical brushes that are used in latex paint. Dixie Belle Paint is very thick and dries quickly. With a standard paintbrush, people tend to use too much paint, therefore, paint will work its way up the

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bristles, get dry and clump.

If that happens you could be using more paint then necessary and by the end of the project your brush could be a big clumpy mess.

I prefer the round brushes made for this type of paint and chip brushes.

The round brushes hold a lot of paint but the bristles are shorter therefore holding less paint overall. The chip brushes have thin, short bristles and don’t hold much paint either. That’s really what

you want because a little goes a long way with chalk paint.

The biggest tip I have here is to keep your brush damp.

Note, not wet but damp. I’ll have a small bowl of water and paper towels next to me so when the paint starts drying on the brush I simply dip it in the water, wipe it off with the paper towels. I won’t even need to put it back in the paint because there’s still enough paint on the brush to keep going! One of the biggest issues I see is people loading their brushes with too much paint and fighting with their brush practically the whole time. Remember water is your friend!!

Distress or Not to Distress Now you have a decision to make. To distress or not distress, that is the question!

If you choose to distress, simply grab yourself a piece of

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Start on the edges where you would see normal wear and tear from years of bumps and use. Remember we don’t want it looking perfect, so sand away. Then stand back and take a look, if you like it, stop there, if not, keep going! When finished simply wipe it down.

However, if you’re going for a more modern look and don’t want to distress, then all you would do is grab 220 grit sandpaper or a higher and give it a really quick sand to knock down

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the paint and smooth it out.

Then wipe it down and it will feel as smooth as silk!

The third and final step is also your choice, to clear coat or leave as is.

Dixie Belle Paint doesn’t have to be sealed. If it’s left unsealed, your piece will age and distress naturally, which is a beautiful look.

If your preference is to keep your piece

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protected then very thick coats causes Coat to become Clear Coat is sticky or tacky, the Clear Coat to recommended. so focus on Again, I like become sticky or tacky, fewer strokes using the chip and a thin coat. so focus on fewer brush when After putting Clear Coating. strokes and a thin coat. on a thin coat, The Clear step away from Coat is very your piece, go thick and a little goes a long way, get a snack or something! It should if it’s too thick for your liking it take no longer than an hour to dry. can be thinned out by adding a If it takes longer, then chances are little water or by keeping your you’ve used too much! After that brush damp. Take a little on your hour, go back and take a look at brush and just brush it on. your masterpiece. Most likely you’ll Now, the biggest issues I’ve seen with the clear coat occur when it’s overworked. This happens when there is brushing back and forth, back and forth, back and forth.

Usually it’s because there’s too much Clear Coat on the brush. Putting on very thick coats causes the Clear

notice some “dry” spots where it looks like you’ve missed and that’s perfectly normal!! Simply take your brush, dip it in the Clear Coat again and just go over those spots.

It is not necessary to do the whole thing again. Now go do something else and come back in about an

hour and look again. You shouldn’t notice anymore “dry” spots but if you do just repeat the last step.

Once you’ve got it all covered you’re done! But if you’re worried about protection, feel free to go over it as many times as you’d like for some more durability, but, remember THIN COATS and let them dry!!!

Hope all this info helps and please remember that the best results are not based on perfection.

Imperfect is perfect and gives your project character and uniqueness.

Just have fun and let the creative diva in you come out and play!! • Suzanne Fulford created Dixie Bell Paint in 2012 and in her spare time loves to sip martinis by the pool. To find out more about her paint line, visit www.dixiebellepaint.com

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My home décor isn’t what anyone would ever call “Pintresting.” Let’s just safely assume that my house will never be featured in Better Homes and Gardens, and I am okay with that.

I feel like my decorating, or often lack of, is more of a reflection of our family motto: “simple, homemade, filled with love.”

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Gallery Walls, Filled with Love

One area of my home that fits this description in particular is our gallery wall. When we bought our house there was a huge chunk of blank wall right by our front door beckoning to be decorated. It was a gaping hole of aesthetically displeasing horror.

I have long been obsessed with gallery walls. I have spent countless hours gazing at gallery walls on Pinterest and perusing the aisles of Hobby Lobby trying to find the perfect items for my gallery wall.

But our family, like many of you, is on a budget.

I just couldn’t justify spending a lot of money on photo frames and kitschy items to hang on the wall.

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floor arranging it in the same way I would on the wall, just to see what would go where and how it could all fit together.

I had an eclectic collection of things, with a general theme “this family loves each other.” could pull together a gallery wall that was a reflection of our home’s priorities.

I had a sign my husband and I had made on our honeymoon; under it I would place two photos of our sons.

An hour or so of looking through our things and I had my vision in mind.

I had another sign that I purchased after our youngest son was born it reads: “How is it possible that out of all the Little Boys in the world, we got the best ones?”

To begin I stood in front of the wall with my collection of items. I placed each item on the

And at the heart of the wall, four hand and foot print painted canvases I

made with our babies. When you step back you can see they spell the word “LOVE.” My only obstacle was the painted over nails and screws the previous owner left in the wall. If I removed them I would also be removing paint and possibly dry wall. So instead I incorporated those preexisting hooks into my plan.

Less than an hour later I had everything placed on the wall exactly where I wanted it. The wall

And at the heart of the wall, four hand and foot print painted canvases I made with our babies. When you step back you can see they spell the word

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has received lots of compliments from visitors and I feel really good when I look at it.

When creating a gallery wall, don’t be intimated or afraid to experiment. It’s your wall. Who is going to judge?

Feel free to mix different colors or textures.

Monochromatic gallery walls are all the rage on Pinterest, but I don’t live in a monochromatic world. Our wall has lots of black frames, but I highlighted it by adding muted blues and greens.

Find pieces that represent your family. We have an adorable photograph of our youngest son sitting on a tractor and another of our oldest being held upside down by his daddy. These are such great snapshots of our boy’s personalities.

Organize by Shape Also, create visual groupings. Our wall has a section of tall items paired together and then a section of items that are smaller and shorter. This way the eye sweeps across them, but nothing steals focus or gets lost in the mix. Just because your decorating budget is limited or you’re a design novice, this doesn’t mean you cannot make the house you own your own, special home. •

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Looking Forward & Reaching Back Search the words “strong,” “southern” and “women” on Pinterest and hundreds of pins pop up. Images of our real life heroes like Rosa Parks and inspiring fictional characters like Scout Finch are mixed with movie and television marquees for “Steel Magnolias” and “Designing Women.” Quotations of all kinds from literature to Facebook fill the page. One of my favorites is this one:

“Here’s to good women: May we know them, may we be them, may we raise them.”

In fact, these words are displayed in my kitchen on a tea towel (of course!) given to me by one such “good woman,” a friend of 27 years who is two decades older than me. We have watched each other navigate many important events in our lives.

I believe those crucial turning points and crossroads highlight our need for friendships. I remember having my first child and thinking how useless all those books I read seemed now that I was dealing with a living, breathing human, totally dependent on me for her every need.

life thinking “bring it on” and the reality comes crashing in. Entering college, believing we are ready; then arriving and realizing we are way out of our comfort zones.

Confidently starting a new job, then wondering why we ever thought we could do it.

Making tough decisions for elderly parents who seemed clear at first but became impossible in the moment.

Losing a loved one and realizing we are never going to be “ready” for life without them.

And don’t even get me started on those first few months of marriage.

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But there is a secret, I think. A way to come through those times

like the good, strong women we want to know and be and raise.

We. Need. Other. Women.

But not necessarily those who are in the same season of life.

Those same-season friendships are crucial. But they are not enough.

One of greatest blessings in my life has been a group of friends spanning from 20-something to 90 plus years old, and literally every decade in between. Because of our work with the American Legion Auxiliary’s Alabama Girls State program, I have seen strong and beneficial friendships develop across many generations. We all would benefit more from relationships with remarkably strong women who are ahead of us on life’s journey and also with those to whom we can reach back and help along the road we are all traveling.

Betty Zoller, Mama Lucy l and Dr. Mary Lee Caldwel Stephanie Ortel After an extremely successful and high powered career on Capitol Hill working for congressmen and senators and then as a lobbyist, Stephanie Ortel and her husband moved their family back to her home of Huntsville, Alabama, after their twin girls were born. Due to the initially fragile health of their twins, she decided to take “the longest maternity leave on record” and not return to work for now.

Stephanie had been an accomplished participant in the Alabama Girls State program and had served on its staff. Once she returned to Alabama, she quickly took her place back on the program’s staff. In her 40s, Stephanie is in the middle age-wise of this multi-generational group. Her influence on the younger women is tremendous as she has much wisdom and advice pertaining to a lucrative career in Washington DC. Many of those younger staff members rely on her experience and knowledge. But she also gains tremendously from those staff women older than her. She shares common ground with both those who have raised their children and those who are caring for elderly and aging parents.

Jane Shelton One particularly influential friendship from this group is Jane Shelton Dale of Camden. Stephanie shares, “I view Jane Shelton as a

strong southern woman because she has a great value system, and would never compromise or waiver on what she feels is right.

But she also is careful not to force those values on others. In that way, it is a quiet strength. I love her sense of humor and her great gift of storytelling. She’s the kind of person you would want to sit on the porch with and listen to for hours. I admire her love of God and country. Again, she’s not boastful about these things, but if you ever need to know anything about how to show proper respect for our flag, our veterans, or our country, Jane Shelton Dale is the person to see.”

Jane Shelton, who is in her 60s, is one of those women who reach back to those behind her, to help influence them in positive ways.

Called by friends the “original community organizer” she stays busy in her communities of Camden and Bon Clarken in Flat Rock, NC. Organizing historical homes tours, writing and taking photographs for local papers, planning presentations for community groups, serving as an officer for the Associate Reformed Presbyterian church, and having teenagers up to stay in her home in North Carolina are but a drop in the bucket of what takes up her schedule.

In a world where involvement in such valuable community activities seems to be waning, she has doubled-down her commitment to furthering the work accomplished by these types

of local groups. When asked why she continues volunteering in these areas, she says she thinks about all the people who did these kinds of things for her when she was growing up and wonders “who is going to do it now?” Who is going to do it for all the young people coming along who need a sense of history and connection to their communities? So, she reaches back.

“Mama” Lucy Jordan But Jane Shelton has had a remarkable example in this area.

“Mama” Lucy Jordan is a legend in the Tuscaloosa area for many things, one of which is her tireless, decades-long work with Druid City Hospital and its foundation.

(The foundation named their annual fundraising ball “The Lucy Jordan Ball” in her honor.)

What is extraordinary about Lucy though, is that at 90 plus years old, she continues to cultivate intentional relationships with women in the Girls State program in their 30s, 20s, and even their teens. She is not intimidated by a perceived generation gap and inspires them with her wisdom, humor, and dignity.

She turns around and reaches back, as far back as necessary, to inspire those coming behind her. She is a true force of nature in her community and among the women who are blessed enough to travel in her wake.

About Mama Lucy, Jane Shelton says, “She has held important positions at work and in the community (including Department President of the American Legion Auxiliary) but loves being a “girl” and knows how to always work that feminine side. She loves fun, and she always tries to make us and others seem like WE are the special ones. [I admire] her love of life and people. She always …con’t to Page 40.

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These are three extraordinary women among a group of women whose names we could use interchangeably as having affected and been effected by one another.

What we desperately need in the “big” (and small) moments of life are women who are ahead of us on the journey. Women willing to reach back to us and say “This is how you do it. This is how it’s done.”

Women who are not just mentors but also friends. Those who can speak to us with the invaluable wisdom experience brings.

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Finding, developing, and maintaining these relationships can be challenging. Being grouped according to age almost all our lives can make forming friendships outside our particular season of life hard. Yet, those are the essential connections we need. Let’s determine to be intentional about putting ourselves in places where they are and pursuing them, asking how they did it, how they met the challenges of being a woman and what the costs were. The book of Proverbs calls it “acquiring wisdom” and it is an active, worthwhile pursuit.

Just think about the strong southern women we could know, be, and raise if we simply seek out those who have been there and ask them to help us along.

Think about the joy that could come from those connections.

And then think about how we can

reach back to those coming behind us. How we can pour into their cup everything we have in ours because it has been filled from those ahead.

Imagine finding that kind of place. I want to live there. Even more so, I want my daughters to live there. Where they know the truth of another quotation I read:

“You can tell who the strong women are. They are the ones you see building up one another instead of tearing each other down.”

A place where we learn from and love the strong, southern women of all ages, all around us. • Stacy Cook Fountain has volunteered with the American Legion Auxiliary’s Alabama Girls State program for more than 20 years, and she currently serves as the program’s Assistant Director. Stacy lives in Dothan with her husband, Troy, and their four children: Kate, Mary Dean, Bess, and Edward.

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Confidence is Your Fun, New Fashion Friend!

Are fashion trends even trendy anymore?

Do we even have fashion trends or have they all died out? It’s a question we all ask these days with so many fashion seasons overlapping and the lines between the trends blurring.

It appears that the latest “trend” is not a real fashion trend at all — it is simply knowing what style and color looks best on you and what makes you feel good about yourself.

Feel Good, Look Good All women know if you FEEL like great, then you will radiate with beauty and confidence.

It doesn’t matter if all five friends tell you how great you look in that new short fitted red dress, if that is not a style or color you are comfortable wearing, your confidence level will be low and it will show. I had a friend in my younger years who loved to wear yellow, even though the ever-popular color charts of the time said based on her skin tones and hair color she could not wear yellow. She said she did not care because it was her favorite color, and I must say her brunette hair and olive skin tones rocked her some yellow every time!

The Changing World For years, the fashion houses published huge books depicting their predictions for fabrics and styles. These would then be used as the holy book for designers and brands who would work diligently for years using these as rigid guidelines. Those days are over. People now see the idea of a group of “fashion specialists” sitting around and choosing the colors and fabrics for the next two to three years as pure nonsense.

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trends come and which ones go. Social media gives birth to and kills trends almost without care, without even allowing it a decent amount of time to live!

In today’s world where a single Instagram photo can go viral in a matter of minutes, creating a whole new trend in a matter of hours, how do we keep up and how do know when it is over?

2015 Surprises So what are the 2015 spring and summer trends? I am so glad you asked. Yes, there are some to consider! The lavender, sky blue, and pale yellow shades are going to be popular. Pinks and mints will be making a return as well.

Feminine floral prints are here again, as will be anything with white lace, sequins, or fringe. The Boho look is larger than ever.

Flare leg pants and jeans are enjoying another turn and denim/chambray skirts, dresses, and shirts are trying to make a show. You will also be happy to hear that loose and flowing is making a popular return for all ages and sizes.

But I repeat — anything goes, ladies. We have watched this happen with fashion as well as weddings. There are so few traditional weddings anymore. Today’s bride knows that it is HER wedding and it can reflect her style, no apologies necessary. Bridesmaids in cowboy boots and hats and all of the eclectic out-of-theordinary locations works if that is what the couple wants.

This new “trend” of doing your own thing has spilled over into many aspects of our lives as we all strive for an easy-going lifestyle. Just let your choices truly reflect your inner self and existence is the trendiest trend of all.

Love who you are, do what you love, wear what makes you happy and, if it doesn’t feel right then it probably isn’t. That can be applied to just about anything, don’t you think? Now go forward and be fashionable, or trendy, or not. That is totally up to you!

Stephanie Smith is the owner of Little Black Dress and Nathan & Claire in Alexander City, Alabama.

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If you’re a newly engaged couple and looking for some inspiration on how to include the man upstairs on your wedding day, ladies and gents, I’ve got you covered. The following tips showcase creative and unique ways on how to have a God-centered wedding throughout your ceremony and reception.

At the Ceremony Cross at the altar: Many couples seek a wedding venue that either has a cross at the alter, or permits them to add one. If you’re a DIY bride you can construct a beautiful cross at your venue, if they allow it, and it can be fun creative project for your friends and family to participate in as the wedding approaches.

Bible quotes along the aisle: When you get married your wedding ceremony is such a special place.

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the first place your guests get to witness the bride and groom as a newly married couple. Placing inspirational bible quotes along the aisle of your ceremony is a beautiful way to set the mood and tone of your wedding.

The following bible quotes are some of my favorite verses on scripture about love.

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Let’s face it, planning a wedding is downright crazy. You have to think about the florist, vendors, party favors, invitations, rentals, venues, decorations and the list just goes on and on. Yes, we all know planning a wedding takes a village to make it successful but oftentimes the flurry of activity finds us Christians forgetting what’s really important and letting God take a back pew at the wedding.

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Creative Ways to Celebrate God at Your Wedding Wedding rings: Who needs a ring pillow when you have a bible? One amazing way to have your ring bearer present your wedding rings down the aisle is to tie them on top of the bible. This way not only will they never get lost but God is at the head of your marriage guiding you before you say “I Do.”

Love is patient, love is kind.

It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

— 1 Corinthians 13:4 At the Reception Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.

— Ephesians 4:2 I have found the one whom my soul loves.

— Song of Solomon 3:4 Encouragement: One way to ask God for guidance and encouragement is simply to speak to him. Praying before and after the ceremony with your wedding party and fiancée is an encouraging way to get your heart and mind focused on what’s to come. Also don’t forget to pray about not tripping over your dress because everyone is going to be watching.

Party Favors: Having party favors at your wedding is a nice gesture that lets your guests know you appreciate them for attending your event. Kraft favor bags are an affordable way to do so and another area where you can place your favorite bible quote.

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Room Layout: discover unique A wedding ways that you centerpieces‌ reception layout can make your can consist of wedding personal rounds, elongated tables or a mixture and memorable for you of both. If you choose to go with and your loved ones.

Charmaine Sylvia is the bubbly editor behind the wedding blog Rustic Folk Weddings. She is a wife, mother, blogger, and owner in the organic baby shop Nyla Marie Kids.

You can follow her recipes, diy projects, and wedding inspiration at http://www.rusticfolkweddings.com/.

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Centerpieces: The centerpieces at elongated tables and your reception your wedding are perfect for letting space is large enough you may want you and your future spouse’ s design to consider placing some of those skills and creative side really shine. tables in a cross formation. Not only Placing words of is this unique to encouragement look at it will also such as faith, take your guests words love, respect or by surprise. a cross at every of encouragement These are just table is an exciting some of the ideas such as faith, love, way to dress up you can try to your centerpieces respect or a cross incorporate on and keep your wedding day. at every table is your wedding I encourage you to spiritually do some of your an exciting way centered. own research and

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Your Backyard Wedding Can Be Quaint, Cozy… …and Spectacular!

We all wish we had $50,000 Options to to spend on the wedding of our Expensive Rentals dreams. But most of us are not Speaking of tables and chairs, so fortunate. After the initial most of us don’t have enough excitement of the proposal, most tables and chairs to accommodate people are shocked when they a guest list over 20. So renting is start pricing the actual cost of a a must. However, this can quickly wedding. Backyard weddings can take up a HUGE portion of your be extremely cost efficient and budget. Make sure to price around! when done right, very beautiful.

Or better yet, Now hold up! ask around. If When I say you’re a member “backyard” a lot of a church or of you think of a local country the movie “Father wedding can club, they may of the Bride.” A allow you to backyard wedding actually be done borrow tables can actually be and chairs. done smoothly smoothly and However, and tastefully remember with a little tastefully with a to provide a planning and little planning and donation that an open mind. fits in your an open mind.

Does the size budget as a fit the need? thank you to them.

The major thing you need to consider before Brighten the Night you decide to have a backyard The beauty of a backyard wedding is if you’re backyard wedding is you get to play entirely is big enough to accommodate off nature. That just so happens to your guest list. Don’t forget to be a set back as well. Most outdoor think about tables and chairs weddings, especially during this for guests. You’ll need tables for season, are set for evenings. Using your food and cake, and a dance strands of lights to brighten up floor and space for a DJ to set up. your backyard Personalize it by having a place for …con’t to Page 48. fun games or a photo booth set up! is an easy, cost

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will also set up great romantic lighting for your photographer.

Plan B is Essential No one wants to talk about this one, but we all know living in one of the most unpredictable weather states in the country,

you have to consider all the options. I actually pray it rains on my wedding day because I need all the luck I can get!

However, when you’re planning an outdoor wedding this can be a category 5 disaster. A great way to solve this is renting a tent.

Vintage Dishes Add a Loving Touch A backyard wedding opens up a variety of options for food and how you serve it.

Renting tableware and serving dishes can be expensive. A beautiful alternative is using a collection of vintage dishes. Borrow from friends and family or shop local second hand stores. Also instead of catering, having a potluck is an easy and affordable alternative.

Overall, backyard weddings can be as expensive as any other venue, if you’re not careful and don’t do your research. But with the right planning and an open mind if can be done beautifully and save you lots of money for the rest of your lives together. •

Laura Velazquez is a wedding photographer in Birmingham, Ala. She is obsessed with Alabama football, super heroes and Taylor Swift. You can learn more about her and her work at www.laphotographybylaura.com

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In Covington

County, Alabama, just a few minutes outside of Andalusia, owners and innkeepers Ricky and Laura Oswald reside at their top rated bed and breakfast, Sweet Gum Bottom.

Named for the native tree, Sweet Gum Bottom boasts twelve secluded acres, beautifully landscaped gardens is truly unique and walkways, and a gorgeous inn to Sweet Gum with local historical Bottom Bed and significance. This romantic and restful Breakfast is its getaway is visited onsite wedding by patrons from all over the country, chapel and enjoying lush reception center. accommodations, delicious meals, and true southern hospitality.

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What is truly unique to Sweet Gum Bottom Bed and Breakfast is its onsite wedding chapel and reception center.

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Cherished Memories Are Only a Smile Away idyllic location, either in a garden wedding or in the quaint chapel.

Having hosted numerous weddings of all types and scales over the years, Laura Oswald is a seasoned veteran wedding planner. When it comes to the ceremony, reception, catering, and overall aesthetic, she can offer sound advice from her experience working with so many blushing brides. Her tips are guaranteed to reduce the stress of your wedding planning challenges.

Communicate to Avoid Inconvenient Surprises A month before the wedding, communicate thoroughly with your bridal party. Let them know exactly what will be expected of them, including rehearsal and photography times, responsibilities during the wedding itself, the reception, or after the celebration has come to an end. This will allow for less stress on the bride and groom the week and day of the wedding since these have been communicated up front.

in your contact with them!

Give Special Friends Special Jobs

To avoid confusion for your wedding party or family, think ahead to what items need to be returned to rental companies, or delivered to your home.

Assign someone in the Having someone bridal party to designated for these be responsible things while you for items that are away on your are guaranteed to are to be taken honeymoon will home from avoid confusion in reduce the stress the wedding. your absence and of your wedding Too often ensure a happy the focus is planning challenges. homecoming when placed only on you get back. what needs to Have someone be taken to the wedding assigned to intervene with chatty ceremony and reception, not guests.

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there can be those who try to monopolize the bride’s time when there are others who want to deliver well wishes to the newly married couple, as well. Having someone there to intervene on the bride’s behalf can help ensure the happy couple can get to all of their guests.

You Will Laugh Later, So Smile Now Make a good memory out of a bad situation. Wedding day catastrophes are often unavoidable, whether it’s a spill on your dress, a hiccup with the caterer, or some unforeseen circumstance.

Try to take things in stride and be gracious when things happen. Handle those situations in a manner that you will be able to look back on in a year and laugh rather than cringe. •

To find out more about booking a reception, chapel or garden wedding, or just a romantic weekend getaway, go to www.sweetgumbottom.com

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Southern Brand Favorites is our way of introducing our readers to incredible entrepreneurs and products made right here in the South.

The criteria to be a Southern Brand Favorite is

simple. We have to love the product, it has to be made in the South and it is available to purchase in the Southern Holiday Life market area.

An Appealing Plan A Year of Everyday Celebrations

Krayl Funch has been a contributor to Southern Holiday Life for a year and in that time has shared numerous recipes and tips with our readers. In her first book, “An Appealing Plan – A Year of Everyday Celebrations,” she takes it a step further.

“For as long as I can remember, I have dreamed of writing a book to inspire others, to remind them that each and every day can be a celebration of the season…”

“For as long as I can remember, I have dreamed of writing a book to inspire others, to remind them that each and every day can be a celebration of the season, of life, and that it doesn’t need to be stressful or complicated to be perfect,” writes Krayl. Funch reminds us that every day is cause for celebration. Whether she’s sharing one of her favorite gardeninspired entranceway designs or tips on hosting a luxurious dinner party, each gathering is equally breathtaking, and vivid photography brings each menu to life. From a perfectly themed baby shower to a New Year’s open house, Krayl’s recipes, tablescapes, and décor tips are sure to inspire you the whole year through. Each section of An Appealing Plan features seasonspecific menus and design ideas. Apart from being inspired by the seasons themselves, Krayl also finds inspiration for her recipes from her childhood, travels, and favorite restaurants. •

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Hot Damn Jelly Company

The Hot Damn Jelly Company is a “hot” commodity at the Southern Holiday Life Store. We introduced you to this product last year in our Christmas issue and it is now known as the go to appetizer. It is an easy and delicious appetizer to be served with cream cheese or pimento cheese and you can turn it up another notch by serving it with the Hot Damn Jelly Company’s Firecrackers. The pepper jelly can also be used as a glaze on beef, pork, chicken or fish. How about a pepper jelly margarita? It gives your drink a little kick with some sweet heat. (The

margarita recipe can be found on the Southern Holiday Life website.)

Hot Damn Jelly is hand packed in small batches, full of peppers and includes only the freshest local ingredients.

Check out the new flavors for 2015 Spring/Summer.

And our year-round favorites: Mango Peach Habanero, Smoked Jalapeno, Hoppin’ Holly Jalapeno, Nero Habanero, & One Second ‘til Tears.

Jessi says, “We will have more flavors mid-summer.

Our master gardener is growing some WILD peppers we can’t wait to get creative with!” •

Strazzberry Pepper Jelly

Peach Pulla Chile Jam

Fresh strawberries, a handful of raspberries, a dash of hibiscus for natural sweetner, and a few habaneros. Heat Scale: 3/10

Chilton Co peaches and a unique fruity and sweet pepper with plenty of zip, the Pulla chile! Heat Scale: 4/10

Spicy Tomato Jam

Big Blue

Fresh heirloom tomatoes and our housesmoked jalapenos. Heat Scale: 4/10

Fresh local blueberries with a little heat.

Fruit is picked from bush and canned all in same day! Heat Scale: 3/10

Dixie Belle Paint Company Dixie Belle Paint Company is located in Land O’ Lakes, Fla. and has a line of beautiful chalk mineral paint in designer colors, several glazes and clear coat products that are “easy peasy” to use. New colors and glazes are being developed and continually being added to the line for more choices and customization.

Dixie Belle Paint can be used on wood, metal, laminate, and glass, ceramic; you name it, with no prep work! All water based with soap and water cleanup.

How does Dixie Belle Paint work? Dixie Belle Paint has superb adhesion qualities which allow you to skip the sanding and priming prep work required of other paints. Using 150-220 grit sandpaper, sand the edges, high points and area where there would be normal wear. Dixie Belle Paint will simply fade away.

A large jar will cover a large size dresser and 2 nightstands, the small jar, a coffee and 2 end tables. Dixie Belle Paint is thick and adding small amount water as you paint is recommended. Doing that will also make it last longer! Check out the website www.DixieBellePaint.com for instructional videos and tips. • SOUTHERN HOLIDAY LIFE

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Fox Point Farm - Goat Milk Caramels Fox Point Farm, located in Kellyton, Ala., is the place that Patrick and Christie Jamison make their incredible goat milk caramels.

One taste of these wonderful little candies will have you craving more and more. The richness of the goat milk creates a smooth candy that literally melts in your mouth.

Their main flavors include Salted Vanilla, Café Latte and Smoky

Mama’s Secret Cookies

Let me just say, “We all love cookies!” And, Mama’s Secret Cookies are fantastic little cookies that have recently been made available to the public in East Alabama. The Secrets as the family named them many years ago have just the right amount of sweetness. Secrets are pure Southern goodness baked into small round balls and dusted with powdered sugar. Secrets were first baked in South Alabama but are now baked in small batches in Auburn, Alabama.

Cocoa, giving several choices for sampling and gift giving all year long. Our favorite is the Café Latte which has just a hint of coffee flavor. As the seasons change other flavors are available, including as Honey Bunny, Pumpkin Patch and Red Velvet Goat Milk Caramels.

Fox Point Farm was started in 2014 when Pat and Christie Jamison moved cross country to a 40-acre

farm in the Lake Martin area of Alabama with their five children, four goats, and three dogs. More than 300 animals now call Fox Point Farm their home.

The Jamison’s handcrafted product selection includes goat milk caramels, goat milk soa, and goat milk lotion, and is continuing to evolve and be inspired by what they produce right there on the farm. Enjoy! •

Mama says “you best Irma “Mama” delight at her parties.

Robinson, My Mama served be careful when eatin’ explains that them at every baby Secrets because the fine and bridal shower for three generations, and even gave them white suga’ will tell on her family’s as wedding gifts to you if you’re not careful!” the bride and grooms contribution to social events to enjoy. The Aunts has been the served Secrets at Three melt-in-your mouth creations they Arts Club, Bridge Club, and of call Secrets. “And I learned early of course, at the Episcopal Church their importance,” says Irma. “My Ladies’ Meetings. Secrets were a hit grandmother served them as the last everywhere they were served!”

Secrets are not to be saved only for special occasions.

They’re perfect for any gathering: from weddings to tailgates, potlucks to gifts. Secrets are a favorite everywhere they’re served. •

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Calla Vistas Candles

Calla Vistas Candles is a home based business run by Tina Suggs of Oxford Alabama. The name Calla Vistas is in honor of her grandmother and her husband’s grandmother, Calla and Vista. The candles are vintage inspired with natural colors, beautiful circle labels and in glass jars with bronze caps.

The candles and melts are hand poured soy.

The soy and wicks are Southern made and the jars are made of recycled glass. The available scents are numerous; just to name a few… Apple Orchards, Rice Petals & Shea Butter, Brown Sugar & Fig, Driftwood, Peony, Pomegranate, Loving Spell, Lemon Squares, Kudzu, Lavender and three of my personal favorites Narcissist, Butt Naked and You Sexy Thing. And, as

the Holidays approach additional scents are added.

The candles come in large and small sizes as well as the wax melts at very affordable prices.

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Dixie Belle Paint

Eklektik Styles at the Broad Street Mill Griffin, GA

Southern Sisters Gourmet

Southern Sisters Gourmet is full of flavor in more ways than one. In talking with the “Sisters” you immediately pick up on their genuine Southern drawl. The “Sisters” are full of personality and passion for their gourmet food business located in Mississippi. They divide and conquer to get the job done, Claire Easley is the mixologist for the dips and mixes and Kay Allison is the marketing guru and photographer for the team. The “Sisters” definitely know how to make great food that is easy to prepare.

They also know how to show off their creations.

The mixes only need a few simple ingredients added to have a spectacular appetizer, salad, dessert, or main course. Most of the sweet dips only require cream cheese and eight ounces of a whipped topping.

Most savory dips need sour cream and mayonnaise.

With very little effort you can be the hit of the party or your next family gathering by serving one or more of their sweet dips as a cream pie, salad or as frosting to cupcakes. We recently served the Lemon Blueberry spread between vanilla cookies for miniature whoopie pies; the Strawberry Dip prepared as directed; and added sliced strawberries, pineapple and marshmallows for a fabulous salad. Last but not least, the Key Lime Dip was prepared and poured into a graham cracker pie crust. The mixes are very versatile and can be served multiple ways.

The sweet dips are just the beginning of what Southern Sisters Gourmet has to offer. They offer sweet, savory, glazes, condiments, and more. •

Junk Mama’s General Store Fayetteville, GA Southern Charm, A Vintage Market Place LaGrange, GA www.DixieBellePaint.com

Calla Vista’s Candles

Southern Holiday Life Store Wedowee, AL

Fox Point Farms - Goat Caramels Southern Holiday Life Store Wedowee, AL

Southern Charm, A Vintage Market Place LaGrange, GA

Hot Damn Jelly

Southern Holiday Life Store Wedowee, AL www.HotDamnJelly.com Festivals and Events in the Southeast

Mama’s Secret Cookies

Southern Holiday Life Store Wedowee, AL www.MamasSecretCookies.com See Facebook for additional retailers

Southern Sister’s Gourmet Southern Holiday Life Store Wedowee, AL

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Suggested Items for your Berry Bar SPIRITS Vodka • Gin • Bourbon • Rum

FRESH BERRIES Strawberries • Blueberries Red or Yellow Raspberries Blackberries

SLICED FRESH CITRUS Lemons • Oranges Limes • Grapefruit

ADDITIONAL ITEMS Ice bucket with ice Scooper for ice Wooden muddler Rocks glasses or other drink glasses with solid base Bitters • Simple Syrup • Club Soda Tonic Water • Sparkling Water

FLORAL + DECOR Tray • Napkins Dusty Miller, Freesia, or other fresh cuttings from the garden

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Invite your guests to make their own favorite beverages at your…

Colorful Summer Berry Cocktail Bar The summer entertaining season is upon us and just as if mother nature could read our minds, so is the juicy summer berry season. How did she know? What a fantastic combination! And what better place to combine this match made in heaven than on the cocktail bar. Prepare to greet your warm weather revelers!

Join me as I walk you through setting up a welcoming Summer Berry Cocktail Bar. Strawberries, Blackberries, Blueberries and Red Raspberries placed in small bowls or low dishes, provide the perfect colors and flavors to add to your favorite spirit. Provide a large bowl of ice, a wooden muddler and plenty of rocks glasses.

Arrange a variety of fresh-cut citrus on a cutting board or plate for muddling together. Your guests tastes are sure to vary so provide 2-4 spirits including, vodka, rum, bourbon and gin. A few small arrangements of cuttings from the garden in Julep cups or clear juice glasses will liven up your bar and add to the festive summer display. •

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Kentucky Derby Party Planner Checklist 1-3 Months Before Race Day (This is a general timeline. Don’t let it stop you from pulling together a last-minute gathering!)

o Check your local listing for television coverage schedule and timing. Ensure you will be able to view at your home or if you will need to host your party elsewhere. o Contact friends or relatives with a “Save the Date” email or call. if you have time, surprise your friends with a mailed invitation. The Derby is a fun time to go all-out formal. o Determine attire and other requirements of guests (Dressy or Casual / Hats or No Hats.)

Be sure to include this in your invitation wording. o Shop for your Kentucky Derby hat or wardrobe! o Pull out your julep cups, silver vases and any china or linens with an equestrian theme.

Purchase additional supplies and favors as needed. o Order official Kentucky Derby Race Day programs to be delivered to your home. Believe it or not, this can be done through the official website and adds a fun touch.

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2 Weeks Before

1 Day Before

o Create your race day menu. Select recipes. Develop your shopping list. o Determine your race day bar offerings and recipes. Check your stock and create a list spirits, mixers and garnishes needed. o Check the menu and bar list against your silver, china, serveware and linen collection.

Purchase or borrow to fill. o Tally RSVP’s to finalize guest list and count.

o Arrange your table top the night before. This allows you time to get ready but also to enjoy your display before guests arrive. o Create your flower centerpiece.

Traditionally roses are the flower of choice but use what is fresh and available. o Prepare dips or other items that will hold {or improve} overnight. o Stock your bar with spirits, mixers and garnish. Ensure you have plenty of mixers, glassware and water available for guests to stay hydrated, or for those not partaking in alcoholic beverages.

1 Week Before o Create a Derby Party music playlist. Of course it must include “My Old Kentucky Home.” o Shop for all menu items and bar offerings. o Order flowers to be delivered, if you do not intend to create your own display.

Kentucky Derby Race Day o Make or purchase extra ice. o Finish preparing your menu items.

Place on table when ready. o Print out racing forms for guests to track their wins! o Pour yourself a Mint Julep and put on your party dress… and hat of course! o Welcome guests as they begin to arrive. o Tune in early for coverage of the undercard races and Red Carpet.

That’s the best part right!? o Breathe and relax. You did it! Enjoy the race in style!

Saturday, May 2, 2015

The Kentucky Derby Makes for a Fun Party!

The Kentucky Derby is an annual horse race held in Louisville, Kentucky, on the first Saturday in May, at the conclusion of the two-week-long Kentucky Derby Festival. The stakes race for three-year-old thoroughbreds is held at Churchill Downs on a one and a quarter miles {2 km} track.

This year the race will be held on May 2.

Known as “The Most Exciting Two Minutes In Sports” and also “The Run for the Roses,” it was first raced in 1875. Recently celebrating its 140th anniversary, the Kentucky Derby is the first leg of the American Triple Crown, which includes the Preakness Stakes, then the Belmont Stakes. A horse must win all three races to win the Triple Crown.

the attendance of all other stakes races! If you are not one of the lucky “few” to acquire a ticket to this year’s race, I highly recommend hosting a viewing party of your own. Who can resist chilled drinks in fabulous silver cups and the opportunity to wear a gorgeous hat?

With just a little prep work your gathering will run smoothly, and with the odds in your favor, it can be stress free! •

The attendance at the Kentucky Derby frequently hits over 165,000 people, ranking it first in North America. It usually surpasses

An accomplished home and event stylist, author and fearless entertainer, Krayl Funch’s passion for living well is evident in everything she touches. Raised in Connecticut, and currently residing in Tampa Bay, she easily blends New England sophistication with Southern hospitality.

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Easy, Fun Ways to Spice Up the Party Planning a graduation party or a bridal shower? Hosting a dinner party or a birthday bash? Keep things current by incorporating one or all of these trending party décor ideas.

Bold Party Backdrops Take the opportunity to be creative here. Whether you use the

backdrop for your food table or for a photo booth, it is sure to make a statement. Try scallops, sequins, geometric shapes, or fringe. Tip: Go for the gold! Gold metallics are in for weddings and parties this year! For DIY steps to make this fringe backdrop, go to http:// cultivatecreate.blogspot.com/p/ fringe-party-backdrop.html

Tassels Instead of the ever popular bunting or banner, opt for the popular tassel garland. It’s an easy DIY project to tackle and pairs really well with a fringe backdrop. Simple yet bold.

Florals Huge, oversized flowers made from tissue paper are wonderful for whimsical parties. An easy and inexpensive DIY project, these flowers can make huge impact at your party without making a huge impact on your wallet.

Tip: A wall of various sizes of flowers makes a beautiful and elegant backdrop for your food or gift table.

#yourpartynamehere Hashtags have been popular for weddings for a while now.

Why not create a hashtag for your themed party or gathering, as well? (Your hashtag — such as #partyatlake or #Daddyis50 — included with Facebook posts, tweets, etc, enable easy access to any photos your friends and family post in honor of the event.)

Display your hashtag where your guests can see it, on a chalkboard or at each place setting. Later, easily look up all of the fantastic photos that were taken throughout the event on social media.

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with gum paste flowers and opt for the more simplistic naked cake. Leaving the outer layers unfrosted, this cake is as pretty as it is simple. Whether you are an expert or novice baker, this gorgeous cake is one anybody can tackle. This also gives the you opportunity to play with glazes opposite of the and flavors that not elaborate fondant only taste delicious, but add an element cakes bedecked to the design as well. Decorate with with gum paste fresh flowers or flowers and opt for sugared fruit.

Go with

the more simplistic naked cake.

Go big with balloons!

Instead of a grouping of five to seven small balloons, opt for the oversized thirty-six inch balloon. To add a little more pizzazz, use a clear balloon and add confetti inside, add a tassel garland to the string, or go all out and do both. Find these large balloons and balloon tassels on Etsy or at party supply stores. • SOUTHERN HOLIDAY LIFE

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Fried Summer Squash Parmesan Sliders 2 tbsp olive oil 2 garlic cloves, minced (or 1 tbsp granulated garlic) 1 28 oz can crushed tomatoes 1 16 oz can tomato sauce 1 1/2 tbsp oregano, dried 1 tsp onion powder 1 tbsp basil, dried, plus I added some fresh 1 tbsp freshly ground black pepper 1 1/2 tbsp seasoned salt (like Lawry’s) 1 tbsp Worcestershire sauce

1/2 cup red wine (or 2 tbsp red wine vinegar) 1 lb summer squash, washed and thinly sliced (try to get the bigger ones) Plenty of kosher salt 2 eggs, whisked 2 cups bread crumbs, Italian seasoned 2 cups canola oil 1 lb Italian blend shredded cheese 1 bag frozen yeast rolls (I used Sister Schubert’s 10-count)

Heat the olive oil over medium heat – add the garlic and saute until fragrant. Add the tomatoes through Worcestershire sauce. Bring to a boil, reduce heat to low and cover. Simmer for at least 3 hours; but stir every now and then to keep from scorching. I know this is longer than I said in the past to simmer this sauce – but I’ve found lately that the longer I keep it on a low simmer the deeper the flavor is.

Preheat oven to 350°. Arrange the yeast rolls on a baking sheet and heat for about 5 minutes – or until warm – NOT golden brown and all crispy.

Cover with a towel and set aside.

Increase the oven temp to 400°.

On your workspace, lay out a good bit of of paper towels, then lay the squash discs out in a single layer. Sprinkle with kosher salt and let them “sweat” for about 15-20 minutes. When they look like they are dying under a blanket of sweat, flip them over

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and salt the other sides. When that side is good and dehydrated – paper towel them all off and get them ready for their bath.

Now, dip each squash disc into the milk, then dredge in bread crumbs; set aside.

Heat the oil in a large frying pan (or use a fryer if you have one) to about 375°. Fry the squash until golden brown and drain on a plate lined with paper towels.

Line a baking pan with aluminum foil and spray with cooking spray.

Slice the rolls in half and spread butter on each piece, arranging them on the pan. To each bottom half, add enough squash slices to cover, ladle on some of the sauce, add one more squash piece on top, a little more sauce, then the cheese.

Do not put the tops on the bottoms. Bake for about 10 minutes, or until the cheese is melted thoroughly and the bread is golden-y buttery brown.

Chicken Sliders With Fried Green Tomatoes 1 batch Barbecue Sauce, recipe below 3 cups chicken, cooked (or grilled – better option), and shredded 3 cups canola oil 2-3 green tomatoes, sliced 1 cup corn meal 1 cup all-purpose flour 1 tbsp sea salt 1 tbsp coarse black pepper 2 eggs, beaten 6 slider buns (I used yeast rolls; they made these so good) 1 stick salted butter, melted

Barbecue Sauce

Over medium heat, saute the onion until translucent.

Combine everything else in a medium size sauce pan.

Turn heat to medium high and whisk until incorporated; bring to a boil. Turn heat down to low, cover and simmer for 45 minutes, stirring occasionally.

Store in a tight container and set aside. If not using now, store in fridge.

Preheat oven to 425°.

After making the sauce (if you choose to use bottled sauce that will work just fine), get prepared to make the tomatoes.

Mix the corn meal, flour, salt and pepper in a bowl, and heat canola oil over medium high heat.

Dip tomato slices in egg, then dip in flour mixture until coated. Fry until golden brown and drain on a paper towel lined plate.

Spread butter on bun halves and put them in the oven for about 2-5 minutes, until lightly browned.

To make sliders, stack chicken on bottom followed by fried green tomato, then barbecue sauce. If you like this as much as I do, you’ll want at least two tomato slices.

1 tbsp olive oil 1/4 white onion, diced teeny tiny 1 cup brown sugar 1 can tomato paste 3/4 cup ketchup 1/2 cup white vinegar 2 tbsp Worcestershire sauce 1/4 cup beef broth 1 tbsp hot sauce 1 1/2 tbsp seasoned salt 1 tbsp garlic powder 1 tsp coarse black pepper

Twists on a Family Favorite!

Shea Goldstein, of Dixie Chik Cooks, is one of the newest contributors for Southern Holiday Life. She is a self-proclaimed Southern Belle who’s “thinking about what’s for dinner while eating lunch.”

She began her blog in 2010 as a way to document her recipes for her children and family members as well as share her food and culinary experiences with others. In this issue, Goldstein shares her creative twists on the burger.

www.dixiechikcooks.com

California Roll Burger 4 salmon fillets (about 2 pounds), skin removed 2 eggs 3/4 cup bread crumbs 4 tsp sesame Dice salmon and run through a food processor just until almost ground, but not completely. You don’t want to over process it.

Combine the salmon, eggs, bread crumbs, 2 tsp sesame oil, soy sauce and ginger

with your hands. Form into four patties, cover and refrigerate for 30 minutes.

Add the avocado, mayo and about 1 tsp of wasabi paste in a food processor.

Pulse until smooth,

oil, divided 3 tbsp soy sauce 1 tsp ginger powder 1/2 avocado, peeled and pitted

continuing to add wasabi until you’re happy with it.

Cover and refrigerate.

Add the remaining 2 tsp sesame oil to a large frying pan over medium heat.

Double Decker Brisket Burger

See Page 69 for a Crab Slider Recipe.

Combine ground round, Worcestershire sauce, salt and pepper.

Form into patties and grill or broil until done.

Add cheese and cover heat until melted.

Make sliders by layering the mayo and brisket on a bottom bun top with jalapenos, followed by another bottom bun, more mayo, a burger, tomato and a top bun.

Indulge.

1/2 cup mayo Wasabi paste, to taste Hamburger buns Alfalfa sprouts Cucumber slices

When the oil begins to get hot (not smoking!) add the burgers and cook about 3-4 minutes on each side, until done.

Add to buns, top with sprouts, cucumber slices and avocado mayo.

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Twists on a Family Favorite!

Crab Sliders Salsa

Sliders

2 kiwis, peeled and diced 1 16 oz can petite diced tomatoes, drained and rinsed 1 jalapeno, diced 1/2 white onion, diced Handful fresh Cilantro, chopped 2 tbsp lime juice Drizzle of olive oil Salt, to taste

12 oz lump crabmeat 1 1/2 cups mayo 1/2 sleeve Ritz crackers, crushed 2 eggs 3/4 cup scallions 1 tsp hot sauce 1/2 tsp Old Bay seasoning 1 tbsp lemon juice 1 tsp salt 1 tsp pepper Canola oil, for frying 1 package of 12 slider buns

Guacamole 1 avocado 3/4 cup Kiwi Salsa, give or take depending on your taste 1 tsp lime juice

To make the salsa, combine all ingredients and toss.

Same for guacamole. Store separately in airtight containers in refrigerator until ready to use.

For the crabcakes, mix crabmeat through lemon juice.

Form into 12 (roughly) slider size patties, and put them in fridge while you prepare the pan. Heat a big drizzle of canola oil over medium high heat until hot. Add the sliders a few at a time, with plenty of room between them, and fry about 2-3 minutes on each side, until browned.

Add the crabcakes to bottoms of the buns, top with guacamole and salsa.

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Sarah Elizabeth Cleveland uses her blog as a way to share with the world her explorations into the love of food and new recipes.

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Summer & Fresh Produce: As Southern As Cooking Gets!

I get my love of cooking from all sides of my family, from my grandmother, also known as Nanny, to my first cousin once removed, Shiela.

My Nanny, who was a nurse by trade, opened a tearoom with one of her best friends.

It was THE place to lunch for the ladies of Dothan, but sadly has closed.

BRIE EN CROUTE 1 wheel of Brie (large or small) light brown sugar pecans (chopped) 1 or 2 rolls of crescent dough 2 pears (sliced) Preheat oven to 350°. Pack brown sugar and pecans on top of the Brie. Cover in crescent roll dough and place in a well-greased baking dish.

Bake for 20-25 minutes, or until golden brown on top and cheese is melted. Serve with pear slices or crackers.

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As an adult, who thoroughly enjoys and appreciates food, I wish I could go back in time to the tearoom’s kitchen and help Nanny cook. She encouraged a love for food and cooking in her three boys, who then, instilled that same love in my cousins and myself.

For years my mother has told me that she didn’t know how to cook when she got married. She said that no matter what, my dad would always eat whatever she made and would never complain, and never compare

it to his mother’s cooking. For someone who “didn’t know how to cook” at my age, she has made countless fabulous meals throughout my life.

Mom has a pound cake recipe that everyone asks for, but they just end up getting her to make it for them because no one makes it quite like she does.

She has lovingly and tirelessly perfected a cinnamon roll recipe that our family has gotten to enjoy at Christmas time for years.

This is a task that she has now happily passed on to me.

I like to believe my affinity for dark chocolate, red wines and new, interesting foods comes from my father.

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RATATOUILLE 2 – 6 oz. cans tomato paste 2 garlic cloves (minced) 1/2 onion (finely chopped)

2 T olive oil (divided) 1 small eggplant 1 small zucchini 1 small yellow squash

Preheat oven to 375°.

Mix tomato paste with garlic cloves, onion, 1 T of olive oil, salt and pepper.

Spread in an oval baking dish.

Trim the ends off all the vegetables and carefully core the bell pepper. Cut the vegetables into thin slices. (About 1/16 in. thick) Arrange the slices on top of the sauce, concentrically from the outer

1 longish red bell pepper 2 t dried thyme TT salt and pepper Parmesan cheese (for serving) edge to the inside of the baking dish, overlapping so just a little bit of each surface is visible, alternating vegetables.

Drizzle with remaining olive oil and season with salt, pepper, and thyme.

Bake for 35-45 minutes.

Top with freshly grated Parmesan and serve with cooked angel hair pasta or spaghetti squash.

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the answer of why something didn’t work out in the kitchen.

I chose these three recipes because I think spring and summer time should be filled with produce, even if it’s baked in a cake or served in lieu of a cracker.

I can’t get enough of the Brie en Croute. I love the combination of the buttery and flaky pastry, with the warm gooeyness of the mild Brie, and the sweet crunch of the brown sugar and pecans.

All of this goes perfectly with the crispness of a fresh pear.

I’m not ashamed to say, I fell in love with Ratatouille after I saw the Pixar movie.

I swear I could smell and taste all of the alluring dishes that cute rat cooked up. This is a light dish, but it fills you up just enough so that you are satisfied, but not miserably full.

My Pride and Joy The peach poundcake recipe is kind of my pride and joy. A few years ago, my mother’s friend let us try her peach poundcake and it was divine. I went to make it last year and her friend wasn’t able to find the recipe. So, I had to get creative and come up with my own. I knew that my mother’s poundcake was great so I just basically added peaches to it. As long as you have a stand mixer, this recipe is not that hard and is completely phenomenal.

Come peach season, you will definitely want to add this to your baking list. •

PEACH POUNDCAKE 3 sticks butter (softened) 1 package cream cheese (softened) 3 cups sugar (sifted) 3 cups cake flour (sifted)

7 extra large eggs 1 t vanilla extract 1 t butter flavor 1 t almond extract (optional) 2-3 cups fresh peaches (chopped)

Cream together butter and cream cheese until fluffy. Sift sugar and gradually add while continuing to beat until light and fluffy. Sift and add flour then scrape the sides of the bowl.

Add one egg at a time, while continuously beating until mixed. Add extracts and

flavorings and mix well. Pour in a cup of fruit and beat. Then, fold in the rest.

Pour batter into an extremely well greased Bundt pan and smooth the top.

Starting in a cold oven, bake at 300º for 1 hour and 25 minutes. Cool 10-15 minutes before removing from the pan.

ICING 1.5 cups powdered sugar 5 T peach juice (divided) 1/2 stick cream cheese (melted)

While continuously whisking, pour in 4 T peach juice.

Mix thoroughly, then add in cream cheese and combine completely. Add in last T of peach juice and mix. Once cake is completely cool, pour icing until it is covered all over.

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Fennel Citrus Salad

An accomplished home and event stylist, author and fearless entertainer, Krayl Funch’s passion for living well is evident in everything she touches.

Raised in Connecticut, and currently residing in Tampa Bay, she easily blends New England sophistication with Southern hospitality.

Learn more at www.AnAppealingPlan.com

1 fennel bulb 6-7 radishes, sliced 1/2 red onion, sliced 1 large red grapefruit 2 tablespoons olive oil 1 tablespoon honey 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt 1/2 teaspoon fresh ground pepper Remove tall leafy greens from the top of fennel bulb and save for later. Slice Fennel in quarters, remove the dense center, then slice in thin {1/4 inch} slices. Place in a large salad bowl. Add sliced radishes and red onion and mix together.

In a smaller separate bowl place olive oil, honey, salt, pepper and the juice of half the grapefruit.

Combine ingredients until the honey is thoroughly mixed in.

Slice the remaining grapefruit half and slice into small sections, chill until ready to serve.

Remove small pieces of the green fennel tops and chop to bite size pieces, 1/4 cup to 1/2 cup. Chill until ready to serve.

In the large bowl, pour dressing mixture and combine. Chill.

I’m not sure when I first fell in love with fennel or red onions but radishes are a completely different story.

I clearly remember eating radishes as a young kid when my mom prepped them for salads.

I would grab a whole one and savor the crisp cool peppery-ness of those little red beauties.

This Fennel Citrus Salad combines three of my favorite flavors into one dish, it is a favorite of mine to pair with grilled tuna on a summer night, or heaped on top of a bed of arugula for a refreshing lunch.

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Tracy Carpenter lives in Wedowee and loves to create regardless of the outlet. She likes to draw, paint, bake and cook.

Good Food, Happy Life The warmer temperatures lately have allowed me to spend a bit more time on the deck. As I sit here looking out across the rolling fields down to the glassy lake I can almost see the grass turning greener right before my eyes. If you could just see the view from my deck in person throughout the different seasons you would understand why God is my favorite artist. He paints a different picture everyday and every night. Though the summer days can get pretty hot on the deck the nights bring a muchwelcomed breeze that makes it perfect for stargazing.

Before we had the deck, during the summer nights, when the boys were in grade school, we would lay on the trampoline and stargaze. It was always easy to find the big and little dipper. I can still hear the gasp of excitement in their little voices when we would on occasion luck up and see a shooting star.

On one side of the house we have a utility light that comes on automatically at dusk. Obviously the light attracts all sorts of bugs. We would often find frogs and other insect predators hanging around, taking advantage of the easy pickings. One of those predators was a bat. The boys named it Batman. As Batman swooped back and forth catching insects in midair, the boys would yell out, “Hey Batman! Where’s Robin?” A couple of times Batman would swoop down really close to us but would never actually touch us. I told the boys he was saying it is time for bed. It was then we would call it a night and head inside.

Today the trampoline is gone and the boys are grown but that doesn’t keep me from enjoying one of my favorite pastimes. Now when my niece Tanner comes for a visit, we take a blowup mattress out on the deck and watch for shooting stars while catching up on each other’s lives. …con’t to Page 78.

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Strawberry Shortcake 1 pre-baked angel food cake or pound cake 1 quart heavy whipping cream 1 box instant white chocolate pudding 1 to 2 lb. fresh strawberries 1/3 cup sugar Blueberries (optional) As you will see from the pictures, I had to buy mini angel food cakes because the grocery store did not have a full size angel food cake available.

This is a good example of improvising. Just look how cute they turned out. Makes serving them a snap too!

On low speed in a stand mixer whip the heavy whipping cream and pudding mix until soft peaks form. I have found that whipping the cream on low speed opposed to a high speed will create a smoother more pleasing texture. Plus there’s less of a mess to clean up afterwards.

While the cream mixture is whipping, start finely dice the strawberries and place in a bowl. Add the sugar and mix well. Since I did not plan ahead, I mixed the strawberries and sugar with my hand so I could squeeze the strawberries and make them juicy and to help

completely dissolve the sugar.

Doing this a day ahead of time and letting them sit in the fridge over night will also do the trick.

Slice the cake so that you have two layers. If you have a full size cake you can slice it into three layers if you want. Keep in mind, you will need twice as much cream mixture and strawberries if you choose to do so. You will also have twice the goodness!

Spread or pipe a layer of the cream mixture on the bottom layer of cake. Top with the diced strawberries. Place the top layer over the strawberries and gently press it down. Spread or pipe another layer of the cream on the top layer and garnish with whole, sliced or diced strawberries and blueberries. I spooned the excess juice from the strawberries down the sides of the cake to add more flavor and moisture. Keep in the refrigerator until ready to serve.

Italian Pasta Salad 2-16 oz. Fettuccine, linguine, bow tie or egg noodles 1-1/2 cup diced green pepper 1 can sliced black olives 4 medium carrots thinly sliced 2 to 2-1/2 cups broccoli florets 1 16oz bottle zesty Italian salad dressing 1 teaspoon garlic powder or garlic salt 1 teaspoon dried oregano 1 teaspoon Italian seasoning Boil pasta according to the directions on the box or bag. Drain well and pour pasta in a large bowl. While the pasta is cooking dice the peppers and carrots and set aside. Cut the broccoli florets and add to the peppers and carrots. Drain and rinse the olives. Add the veggies and olives to the cooked pasta and mix. In a separate bowl combine the Italian dressing, garlic powder, oregano and Italian seasoning and mix well. Pour over pasta and toss until evenly covered. This is great by itself or with grilled chicken added to it.

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Italian Honey Grilled Chicken 2-3 lbs chicken tenders 1 24oz bottle zesty Italian dressing 1/2 cup honey

1/2 cup apple cider vinegar 2 teaspoons dried basil 1 teaspoon black pepper 2 teaspoons dried oregano

Rinse the chicken tenders and place in a large Ziploc bag. Put the bagged tenders in a bowl that will help hold the bag open. Mix dressing, honey, vinegar, and seasonings in a bowl.

Pour over chicken tenders. Seal the bag pressing out as much air as possible.

Once securely sealed, pick the bag up and press around and make sure the chicken is totally immersed and covered in the marinade. Place the bag back in the bowl and let it marinate over night in the fridge. You can marinate the chicken for at least two-three hours if you want but the longer you marinate the chicken the tastier it will be.

After well oiling the grill grate of a gas or charcoal grill, place chicken over direct heat. Grill until the chicken turns

from a pink color to white along the edge (about 5 minutes). You will see the white moving up the sides. Flip and grill another approximate 4-5 minutes until internal temperature is 165 degrees and the juice runs clear. Time will vary with size and thickness of the tender and your exact grill temperature. Be careful not to overcook the chicken. Using a charcoal grill just adds more flavor to this dish. I also like to spray each side of the tenders with nonstick cooking spray to help prevent them from sticking to the grill.

Serve the strips whole or cut them into pieces and mix with the Italian pasta salad.

Let the cooked chicken sit for at least ten minutes before cutting into pieces.

Corn Salad 2 cans shoe peg corn 5-6 green onions, thinly sliced, chives and all 2 cucumbers, peeled, seeded & diced 1/3 cup mayo Well drain the corn. Add the cucumbers, onions , chives and mayo.

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Watching a meteor shower on a clear, dark night is an unforgettable experience. It brings a certain peace to you.

Take time today to notice the things that other people are overlooking.

Here are a few quick and light recipes you can try this spring and summer. If you try to make all of them on the same day they aren’t so quick so you will want to plan ahead and do some of the prep work the night before. That way you will have the time to slow down and notice the beauty around you. • 78

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An accomplished home and event stylist, author and fearless entertainer, Krayl Funch’s passion for living well is evident in everything she touches.

Raised in Connecticut, and currently residing in Tampa Bay, she easily blends New England sophistication with Southern hospitality.

Learn more at www.AnAppealingPlan.com 4 shallots, minced 3 garlic cloves, minced 4 tbsp. extra virgin olive oil 1 medium Poblano Pepper, small chopped 1/2 Jalapeno, minced *optional 1 tbsp. Dijon mustard 9-inch pie shell 1 lb. assorted heirloom tomatoes, sliced 1/4 inch thick 3 oz. goat cheese, crumbled 1/2 oz. fresh basil chiffonade 1 tbsp. Grenache vinegar 1/2 cup fresh bread crumbs 1 oz. grated Parmesan cheese Salt & Pepper

SAVORY TOMATO & POBLANO PIE

Preheat oven to 400 degrees.

Saute shallots, garlic, poblano & jalapeno in 1 tablespoon of olive oil until tender , 3-5 minutes. Set aside.

Place pastry shell in a 9-inch pie dish. Layer in half of the tomatoes, and season with salt & pepper, spread shallot mixture over top. Crumble goat cheese and half of basil on top. Layer on remaining tomatoes.

Salt & pepper, top with remaining basil.

Pour 1 tbsp. vinegar & olive oil over top of all.

In a small bowl, combine bread crumbs, 2 tbsp. olive oil, mustard and Parmesan cheese. Sprinkle over tomato filling.

Bake 30 minutes, or until crust and topping are golden brown. Let stand to cool slightly before cutting.

Inspired by the bounty of produce found in the farmers markets during the summer months this Savory Tomato Pie recipe is kicked up just a touch with a little heat added by Poblanos and optional jalapeno peppers. This Tomato Pie is the perfect use of the abundant tomatoes in New Jersey gardens with a nod to my new-found appreciation of southern cooking. I hope you enjoy it as much as we did!

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There are some people who look at the United States as a whole, we’re all one living in the greatest country on Earth. Then there are others wholook at it in regions, the eastern north and south being the most popular for obvious historic reasons. As in real life, I often enjoy the movies that take place in the southern states because I’m a fan of the sultry southern settings.

treat, “Fried Green Tomatoes,” and a perfect cast including Mare Winningham, Christine Baranski and the screen debut for Lucas Black (Sling Blade). Relive the glory days with this gem of a film, you won’t regret it.

Warm, humid and filled with gothic undertones, we have the coolest cities that are filled with mystery, strange but familiar characters and a charm one has to experience outside of celluloid to understand. Hollywood has been traveling our backroads and small towns for decades and here are just a few of my personal favorites.

“Selma” It’s very rare that a movie comes along that is so clearly topical right now more than

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by Andy Petty

Andy Petty is a true movie lover, on a lifelong mission to see any and all films in no particular order and to know all things related to creating a motion picture that can change your life.

“The War” Much like more popular titles “The Sandlot” or “Stand

By Me,” “The War” is more than not, your life story growing up in the south. A beautiful tale about a family coping with their recently returned husband and father of two (Kevin Costner) from the Vietnam war, during one summer in Mississippi. Elijah Wood plays Stu, a rambunctious kid who with his sister Lidia and friends, decide to build a treehouse just for themselves.

in a way that says the battle was it ever has been. Martin Luther Things get out of control though won but the war is far from over.

King, Jr. is a historic figure that was when Lidia is caught taking things always taught in school growing The setting is 1965 and Dr. King for the treehouse from one of the up. But even in the late 80s and and company have the uphill battle poorest families in the counties throughout the 90s, his story was of securing equal voting rights, junkyard, this setting off a war that never presented in a relevant way. especially from Governor George will eventually teach Wallace. What follows is them all about life and of history when an I grew up never seeing color and it made what really matters. epic march is staged from When you’re young wasn’t until my adult age that I saw Selma to Montgomery, and the county lines are resulting in just how different my view of life is. ultimately all you’ve experienced, President Johnson signing family is your haven, the Voting Rights Act. friends despite their I grew up never seeing color and While some skipped on this race or color are your life and war it wasn’t until my adult age that I theatrically, it definitely deserves a is child’s play. This is from the same saw just how different my view of home viewing.

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history can entertain and teach you at the same time to be a better person. I highly recommend this to all, especially for actor David Oweyolo’s performance.

Doc Hollywood I’m always fascinated by the answer people give me when asked where they are from and how and why they have ended up in my small southern town.

Some come for their jobs, others for family, and then there are some that by chance pass through and fall in love with everything the town has to offer.

For Dr. Benjamin Stone (Michael J. Fox), his answer as to why he landed in the small rural town of Grady, South Carolina, makes for quite a funny story.

As an up-and-coming star surgeon from Washington, D.C., Ben has taken a job in Hollywood, California for better pay. While on his cross country trip, he crashes into a local judge’s fence and is sentenced to community service at the

local hospital. Not making friends and sticking out like a sore thumb, Ben slowly starts to slow down his life and see all the potential small town living can offer.

One of the greatest comedies of the 90s, and on the eve of its 25th anniversary, this film shouldn’t be missed. Sometimes accidents can be life changing.

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In the South, we like unique ways to decorate our buildings, towns or businesses. Andy Petty captured these images on recent trips around Alabama, Georgia and Tennessee. Can you guess where each photo was taken? You can find the answers by visiting, www.southernholidaylife.com (Hint: Atlanta was used four times while Carrollton and Cedartown were used twice.)

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Docks Plus More, 84 Dr. Michael Edwards, 53 EHC Pharmacy, 74 Eklektik Styles, 28 Emergency Medical Transport, 79 Farmer’s Insurance Laraine Anglin, 84 Feathers and Twigs, 35 First State Bank, 5 Fox Point Farms Goat Milk Caramels, 46 Frugal Debt Free Life, 68 Ft McClellan Credit Union, 27 Great Lakes and Land Marine, 88 H&M Drugs, 42, Back Cover Halls Propane, 72 Home is Where the HeART is, 32 Hot Damn Jelly Company, 46 It’s About Time Antiques, 32 Junk Mamas General Store, 37 Keller Williams Realty, Gene & Ramonda Crouch, 74

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State Farm Insurance, KenSeiffert, 72 Steele Chiropractic, 74 Superior Gas, 79 Sweet Southern Salvage, 28 Tallapoosa River Electric Coop, 40 The Checker Berry Shoppe, 16 The Nest, 89 The Refinery, 37 The Self-Trained Chef, 65 Thompson Cabinets, 17 Town of Hogansville, 29 Two Guys and A Girl, 33 Udderly Cool Cheese, 21 Waste Solutions, 41 Wedowee Building Supplies, 79 Wedowee Lake and Lands, 53, 72 Wedowee Marine, Inside Front Cover West Georgia Eyecare, 21 Williamsburg Manor, 41 WM Grocery, Inside Back Cover

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Shooting Stars & Stripes Wreath One of my favorite Fourth of July traditions is firecrackers and sparklers. Pretty colors, sparkles and all that glittery goodness! I thought this year I would add some sparkle to our front door with a firecracker inspired wreath.

When I make a wreath using one of these stars forms, I like to leave the plastic wrapping on. This keeps the stars from going everywhere and making a very large mess. Start with the blue ribbon and wrap a little less than a quarter of the wreath, gluing as

you go. To make the stripes, alternate wrapping the red and white ribbon around the remainder of the wreath.

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stick the stars along the wire pieces one on the front and one on the back, sandwich style. Make sure you stagger the stars and sizes so that when you go to put them on the wreath, they will have a fuller effect.

Take all of the wire pieces and glue them to the back of the wreath in the blue section. This is not the pretty side so don't worry how it looks. Glue a piece of blue

ribbon over the top of all the wire once you're finished. Then tie some extra ribbon in a loop for a hanger and you're ready to hang!

Here's to a Happy Independence Day full of good food, friends, and fun!

Set the wreath aside and cut small pieces of wire in varying lengths.

To make the wire more durable, I wrapped two pieces together. Now

Kelly Genn strives to find joy in the little things of everyday life.

You can follow her journey at www.thelilthingsblog.blogspot.com