Sabrina hails from Tobaccoville, NC. The passion for arts led her to photography, where she carved her niche. She balances motherhood and her professional pursuits. At 30 years of age, she embraced Jiu-Jitsu, proving there is no age barrier to personal growth. Sabrina is known for her creativity and commitment, her ability to embrace change, and her perseverance. She writes to inspire others to face challenges head-on and to craft their own paths to success.
Rynn is a writer and designer based in the Yadkin Valley region of North Carolina. She loves to share her ideas for adding simple beauty into hectic lifestyles. More than mere recipes, her mission is to offer practical shortcuts for food preparation along with visual tips for presentation. Rynn began her career in Aiken, SC, as a newspaper reporter writing feature articles about food, living, and the arts. For more about Rynn, even more recipes, decorating tips, and much more, visit thehouseofelynryn.com.
Eddie lives in Copeland, NC. His column reflects his life experiences and stories that have been passed down to him. He is an encourager and considers himself a cheerleader for daily life. Eddie builds custom-crafted furniture in his small business, New Venture Woodworx. He also turns wooden bowls on a lathe and sells those at art and craft shows.
Contributors
Madalyn is from Mount Airy, NC, and is currently a junior at Appalachian State University. She is studying English with a concentration in professional writing and minoring in communication with a concentration in journalism. She writes for Surry Living and also works on the news desk for her university’s student news organization. When she is not writing, she enjoys reading, being outdoors, and spending time with her two dogs.
Sheri, now happily retired, finds nothing more enjoyable than time spent with her husband of fifty years, her amazing daughter, and sweet elderly pup. She authored two novels, A Higher Voice and A Deeper Cut (which also ran as a serial feature in Surry Living Magazine). Her play, No Ordinary Wine, written in collaboration with a fine producer/director, was well received, and a second play, Improbable Grace, awaits discovery.
Blake grew up in and around the outskirts of Winston-Salem. He and his wife, Angie, currently live in the small town of East Bend. Blake graduated from Liberty University with a master’s degree in psychology and loves finding ways to help others. He also enjoys reading the Bible, painting, and spending time outdoors.
Carmen is a NC Cooperative Extension Agent for Family and Consumer Sciences. Making quick, easy, healthy food that tastes great on a budget is a challenge. Carmen and her husband have two grown children, both of whom were involved in sports from grade school through college. With busy careers and lots of time at sporting events, coming up with quick, healthy meals was a necessity. Carmen shares ideas and recipes to make this tough job easier.
Derina is the executive editor and owner of Surry Living Magazine. She is also a professional horsewoman with a passion for connecting horses, nature, and people. Derina lives on her ranch in Westfield, NC, with her husband, Kevin, son, Kage, and daughter, Kaleah. She enjoys horse riding, traveling, and attending church at Asbury Evangelical Presbyterian.
Kevin is a Christian business owner who loves serving Mount Airy and its’ citizens. In addition to being the publisher and owner of Surry Living Magazine, he is also a physical therapist, Jiu-Jitsu Black Belt, and published author. His passion is to help others find their way to health, success, and happiness through his areas of expertise. Kevin has assembled a first-rate team of therapists dedicated to keeping Surry County residents out of pain and in motion. He has an unstoppable, positive attitude that is contagious, and we hope you catch it through his column.
Blake Johnson
Sheri Wren Haymore
Derina Pyles
Madalyn Edwards
Eddie Lowe
Rynn Hennings
Kevin Pyles
Carmen Long
Joanna Radford
Joanna is the County Extension Director for NC Cooperative Extension in Surry County as well as the Commercial and Consumer Horticulture Agent with expertise in entomology, gardening, and pesticide education. Joanna began her career with NC Cooperative Extension in Stokes County in 1995 as a 4-H Agent, later switching to Field Crops and Pesticide Education in Surry County. She lives on a farm with her husband and two teenage daughters.
Josh Snow, from King, NC, is known for his big personality and love for adventure.
An avid fisherman, he finds peace on the water. At 41, Josh took on the challenge of jiu-jitsu, proving it’s never too late for new beginnings. He cherishes spending time with family and friends, bringing energy and enthusiasm to every gathering.
Contributors
Veronica Green-Got
As a roving reporter, writer, and marketer, Veronica is a passionate storyteller. After starting her career in corporate marketing, she founded her own business, Golden Fleece Marketing, in 2019. Now she puts her skills to work as a reporter covering equestrian sports, offering marketing strategy for clients in a wide variety of industries, and providing writing and editing services for small businesses nationwide. She believes that everyone has a story to tell and that they’re all worthy of being told. In her free time, she events her ex-racehorse, LB.
Larry VanHoose
Larry is the Executive Director for the Alleghany Chamber of Commerce in the Blue Ridge Mountains of central North Carolina. Some of you may know him as the former co-owner of SLM. He has more than 30 years of experience as a writer, graphic designer, photographer, and book and magazine publisher. Larry and his wife, Trina, have four wonderful, grown children and live on a small farm just off the Blue Ridge Parkway in Grayson County, VA.
Dr. Sarah Southard, DVM
Sarah grew up at Crooked Oak in the Pine Ridge community of Surry County. Raised in the agriculture world, she went on to earn degrees in animal science and veterinary medicine from North Carolina State University. She and her husband, Adam, and son, Malachi, currently live in Statesville with Oliver the house rabbit, a few cats, Blossom the donkey, and a flock of Katahdin hair sheep.
Josh Snow
streams of distressing news, Kevin and Derina Pyles have a different vision for their community. Tired of seeing discouraging stories at every turn, the couple made a bold decision in October 2023 to breathe new life into Surry Living Magazine – a local, family-owned publication with a mission to foster positivity and connection across Surry County.
noticeable void. Recognizing this, the Pyles family felt a renewed purpose: to give back to the community they love by relaunching Surry Living Magazine as a free publication dedicated to shining a light on the good that surrounds us.
What sets Surry Living apart is its commitment to positivity. The magazine’s pages highlight the voices and stories that too often go unheard, sharing tales of resilience, achievement, and kindness. From small businesses that are the backbone of the local economy to inspiring individuals making a difference, Surry Living seeks to connect readers with everything that makes Surry County vibrant and resilient. Each story published is an opportunity to cultivate hope and build community pride.
As the only magazine local to Surry County, Surry Living holds a unique position. It is a touchpoint for residents who want to stay informed about local happenings, but are weary of the negativity that pervades other media. Kevin and Derina are adamant that their magazine is a platform for unity – a place where the community can come together and share in stories that lift spirits and celebrate local successes. And because Surry Living is free, every resident has access to this positive resource, no matter their financial situation.
The magazine’s creation is truly a family affair. Kevin and Derina oversee every aspect of the publication, from content selection to design, ensuring that each issue reflects their vision. All design is done in-house, adding a delicate touch that is often lost in larger media outlets. It is this mindfulness that makes Surry Living feel like a shared community project – something that belongs to Surry County residents, who contribute their own stories and ideas.
Connecting Business… Uplifting Community is more than just a tagline; it is the driving force behind every issue of Surry Living. By telling positive stories of local businesses, the magazine strengthens community ties and boosts the visibility of the small companies that play a critical role in the local economy. These businesses, in turn, contribute to the vitality and uniqueness of Surry County, reinforcing the magazine’s mission to connect and uplift.
To deepen community engagement, Surry Living also created interactive pages such as “Fur-ever Friends” and “Love is in the Air.” These sections invite readers to celebrate the pets and people they cherish by sharing photos and personal stories. These interactive elements go beyond traditional print, encouraging readers to connect on a personal level with each other and with the magazine itself. By highlighting the beloved pets and meaningful relationships that enrich the lives of Surry County residents, Surry Living strengthens the bonds within the community and brings a sense of joy and togetherness to its readers.
The magazine’s reach is growing as more people discover its refreshing approach, and Kevin and Derina are excited about the future. They believe that by choosing optimism and highlighting what is working well in the community, Surry Living can help counterbalance the weight of national news and remind people of the joy and connection right in their own backyard. “Our goal is to bring a positive outlook on life and tell uplifting stories,” They explain.
For them, every issue is an opportunity to remind readers that there is always something to celebrate, no matter how small. Through thoughtful, heartwarming stories and a sincere focus on the positive, Surry Living Magazine has quickly become a cherished part of Surry County’s cultural landscape. In just a few short months since its relaunch, the magazine has reconnected with loyal readers and gained new fans who share the Pyles’ desire for a brighter, more optimistic future. Kevin and Derina’s dedication to this mission, combined with their passion for community and local pride, have set Surry Living on a path to become a lasting beacon of positivity for years to come.
In each free issue, Surry Living invites readers to join in its mission of spreading joy, celebrating local achievements, and strengthening connections. For Surry County residents, it is a reminder that positivity, even in small doses, has the power to bring people together and inspire real change.
by SABRINA LEE BAKER
Hope: The Light of the Christmas Season and Beyond
There have been times in my life when it seemed all I had left was ho
all we need when it is placed in the right One!
As the holiday season envelops us in its warmth and joy, Christmas stands out as a poignant reminder of hope. At the center of this observance is the life of Jesus; a life which allows our lives to be rich with promise and new beginnings. The birth of Christ was not merely an event. It was the ultimate hope, igniting a spirit within us that inspires resilience and faith in brighter tomorrows.
But what exactly is hope? Hope can be defined as a deeply seated belief that something good will come to pass. It’s an emotional state that fuels our desire for better circumstances, igniting motivation to strive for our aspirations. Hope transcends mere optimism. It is rooted in the faith that the world can change for the better, often propelled by spiritual or personal convictions. This season, as we journey through the stories of divine love and compassion, we are reminded that hope is a powerful catalyst for imagination. When we embrace hope, we begin to envision a future beyond our current circumstances. This envisioning process fuels creativity and innovation, allowing us to manifest our dreams into reality. Just as the Three Wise Men followed the star to find Jesus, clinging to the glimmer of light in the night sky, we too can navigate our paths when we focus on the possibilities that hope unveils.
In the context of business and personal growth, hope plays a critical role. Entrepreneurs often venture into the unknown, driven by a vision of what could be. Every successful business begins with a spark of hope, a belief in an innovative idea or a solution that can impact lives. This hope enables entrepreneurs to persist through challenges, adapt to market changes, and ultimately achieve their objectives. Similarly, in our personal lives, it can be easy to feel lost in the chaos of life’s demands. Yet, it is hope that pushes us to pursue our dreams, whether it’s a career change, nurturing relationships, or exploring new passions.
Moreover, hope serves as a bridge to tackle personal and professional issues. When faced with adversity, hope can empower individuals to seek solutions rather than succumb to despair. It nurtures resilience, enabling people to face life’s trials with courage and determination. This ability to look beyond our current struggles and towards a hopeful horizon is essential for overcoming obstacles, fostering a culture of support and collaboration both in workplaces and communities.
Every success story carries at its core a concept of hope. It is the driving force that propels individuals to begin their journeys, whether discovering their purpose or launching groundbreaking ventures. Without hope, the journey can feel overwhelming, stifling creativity and blocking pathways to progress. As we celebrate this Christmas season, we are invited to reflect on the hope embodied by the birth of Jesus, which transcends personal desires and extends into a hope that through Him, folks will find peace, joy, and unity.
So, let us allow the spirit of Christmas to renew our sense of hope. Let it encourage us not only to dream, but also to believe in the realities that our hopes can create. In doing so, we honor the legacy of hope that Jesus instilled within us, guiding our hearts toward a future filled with possibility and potential, a testimony that shines endlessly bright, lighting our way through every season of life.
by Kevin Pyles
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The Power of Hope in Rebuilding Western North Carolina
When Hurricane Helene swept through the tranquil mountains of western North Carolina, it left devastation in its wake— homes were torn apart, entire towns flooded, and trees that once stood tall and proud were uprooted as though they were twigs. For those of us who call these mountains home, the storm was more than just an event on the news; it was the moment when everything we had spent lifetimes building stood on the brink of collapse. Our lives, and the lives of our neighbors, changed in an instant.
Yet even as the storm began to subside and we waded through the floodwaters or stared in disbelief at the wreckage from videos and photos shared online, something remarkable began to emerge: hope.
Hope is often all that remains when the world falls apart. It’s not something we can touch or measure, but it’s a force that drives us to pick up the pieces, rebuild our homes, and restore our communities. Here in the mountains of western North Carolina, hope became the foundation on which we would begin to heal.
When Helene arrived, it felt as though the mountains themselves were roaring in anger. What began as a steady rain quickly turned our peaceful streams into raging rivers. Mudslides cut off entire communities, isolating them from the outside world. We watched as houses were swept away, businesses were buried, and farms, which had been the livelihood of so many in our small communities, disappeared under layers of mud. For many of us, it felt like our future had been washed away, too.
The sense of loss in those first days was overwhelming. Our mountain towns, normally so full of life and laughter, were eerily silent as people mourned what they had lost. Some of us had lost homes that had been in our families for generations. Others saw the businesses they had spent years building reduced to rubble. Farms that had fed both our families and the surrounding areas were left unrecognizable. It felt like everything we had worked for was gone.
But even in those darkest hours, a flicker of hope quickly began to light our path forward.
It started small, in ways that didn’t make the headlines, but meant everything to us. Neighbors who had lost their homes still found the strength to help others. Local churches, which had been partially damaged themselves, opened their doors to shelter those in need. Our community centers, which typically hosted picnics and town meetings, transformed into distribution centers for food and supplies. And even though many of us were cut off from outside help, we turned to one another, realizing that the power to heal was within our own hands.
The power of hope is that it doesn’t just sit quietly— it moves people to action. It brought volunteers pouring into our towns from all over. We saw power company linemen and tree service companies arriving from as far away as Wisconsin and Canada. Helicopter pilots and 4-wheel-drive warriors came from all over. They had no connection to our small communities, but they came anyway because they believed in something bigger: the power of hope and the strength of community.
Armed with chainsaws, shovels, and compassion, these volunteers didn’t just clear debris; they helped restore a sense of normalcy to our lives. They didn’t ask for anything in return. They came to help because they believed in us and in the resilience of our mountain towns. That belief, that hope, became contagious. We started to believe in ourselves again too.
One of the most inspiring parts of our recovery has been the sheer determination of the people who live here. Despite losing so much, we kept going. As we rebuild our homes and businesses, we’ve come to realize that hope isn’t just about survival. It’s about transformation. We’re not just putting things back the way they were. We’re building something stronger, something more connected. Our town and county governments are working on long-term recovery plans that will make our communities more resilient for the future. Local farmers, whose crops were wiped out, are joining forces to share resources and rebuild together. And perhaps most importantly, we’re leaning on one another more than we ever have before.
Rebuilding after Hurricane Helene isn’t something that will happen overnight. It will take years for some of us to recover fully. Some families may never get back everything they lost. But we’re walking this road together, and every day brings us a step closer to healing.
Hope doesn’t ignore the pain or the challenges we face. It acknowledges them but sees beyond. It shows us that even in the face of devastation, there is always the possibility for renewal. And as the mountains slowly recover from the scars of the storm, one thing is clear: hope is not just a feeling. It’s a force, a catalyst for action and change.
In the mountains of western North Carolina, hope is alive and thriving. It has turned despair into determination, and from that determination, a stronger, more resilient community has begun to rise. No matter what storms may come, we have learned that together, we can weather anything.
And in this place we call home, hope will always find a way.
“There is surely a future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off.” Proverbs 23: 18 (NIV)
By Larry VanHoose
Dear Blake,
Blake’s Take
BLAKE JOHNSON
I am in my late 30s and feel like I have entered a midlife crisis in regard to my career. I am paying my bills, but after a decade at the same job, I feel unfulfilled and stuck. I dream of pursuing a more creative career in something like writing or art. The problem with that is I need financial stability and I worry about what my friends and family might think. The fear of change paralyzes me but I long for happiness. How do I find the courage to change while managing my responsibilities and the expectations of others?
KEVIN
PYLES, PT
Sincerely,
Caught in the Comfort Zone
Dear Caught in the Comfort Zone,
Thank you for your question. It’s tough to approach a milestone like midlife and wonder if you’re on the right path. It’s even tougher when dreams of a different life seem to haunt you. Obviously change is the answer, but as you are finding out, it’s not always easy. Responsibilities and expectations can harness our ability to act on every desire without considering consequences.
According to Aniesa Hanson, PhD, in an article from Psychology Today, a midlife crisis is a period of emotional turmoil and strong desire for large-scale change between the ages of 40 and 60. This may cause a person a lot of confusion and uncertainty about their life’s purpose. It is often accompanied by doubt, depression, and anxiety. Impulsive behavior like quitting a job, starting new relationships, or engaging in risky activities can occur. However, Hanson also says that not everyone desiring change during this time is going through a midlife crisis. Sometimes the desire for change is simply a need for growth and development. If you are experiencing paralyzing doubt, depression, anxiety, or excessive confusion, I recommend seeking professional help.
If you are going through a period of growth and development, then you just need to decide what type of change you can live with. Can you be satisfied with a career that meets your financial needs, but doesn’t necessarily bring you joy? If so, maybe a different job in the same or similar field would be rewarding and you could maintain creative fulfillment through a hobby. Sometimes just a change of environment can make a job more appealing.
If you hate what you do or need complete happiness at work, then maybe a fresh start is necessary. You said you need financial stability, but you want to be more creative. The challenge of starting over is the potential financial loss that may come with it. The decade of experience you have in your current field may not transfer to your new job. Starting over in a creative field can be even more challenging. Creative fields are extremely competitive, and many artists and writers endure apprenticeships before ever getting paid. It can take years to become established enough to make money. However, if you feel you have the talent to compete in a creative field and can afford a financial setback, maybe a fresh start is the right move.
There is also a way to transfer careers without causing any financial strain or worry to yourself and others. You can keep your job, or at least stay within the same field, while building a separate career on the side. The beauty of this option is you can build whatever career you want while maintaining financial stability. Many successful careers have arisen from people going back to school or starting an entrepreneurship while working a full-time job. No one can fault you for taking this path, but it may take more of your time. If you need financial security, happiness in a career, and want to avoid worrying your friends and family, this may be the best alternative.
I wish there was an easy solution, but in your circumstance I feel these options make sense. If you need encouragement and more direction, talk to someone you trust. What you desire is achievable; you just need to find your path. Don’t be afraid of change, be prepared.
I hope this helps and I hope you continue to chase your dreams. Even with responsibilities, there is always a way to find happiness in what you do. If it takes more time and work, then the reward will only be sweeter.
May God bless your journey and direct your paths,
By Gosh!
BY JOSH
By gosh, did you know? Surry County, located in the Piedmont region of North Carolina, has a rich history dating back to the Colonial era. Established in 1771, it was named after Surrey County in England, as was a common practice among early European immigrants who sought to bring a sense of familiarity to the new lands they inhabited.
Indigenous Roots and European Settlement
Before the Europeans arrived, Surry County was home to various Native American tribes, most notably the Saura, a group of Siouan-speaking peoples. The Saura, for whom the Sauratown Mountains in the area are named, were avid hunters, fishers, and farmers, thriving in the rich valleys and river systems that crisscross the region. Pottery and arrowheads have been found along the Yadkin River, which served as a vital resource for both the indigenous people and later pioneers.
European immigrants began moving into the area in the mid-18th century, as the North Carolina colony expanded westward. Many of these pioneers were of English, Scots-Irish, and German descent, drawn by the promise of fertile land and the opportunity to build a new life. The region’s geography— its rolling hills, rivers, and proximity to the Blue Ridge Mountains— made it ideal for farming and small-scale agriculture.
The Formation of Surry County
Surry County was officially formed in 1771 from a portion of Rowan County. The decision to create Surry was part of a larger effort by the Colonial government to manage and organize the rapidly expanding western territories of North Carolina. The County seat was originally established in Richmond (now part of Stokes County). Surry County played an important role in early political and social affairs of the colony.
The County’s growth accelerated after the American Revolution when veterans were granted land in the area as payment for their service. These newcomers, combined with an influx of others seeking new opportunities, began to shape the county’s identity. Small towns and villages grew up around key waterways and trading routes, most notably along the Yadkin River, which became a crucial transportation route for goods and people moving between interior and coastal cities.
Agriculture and Industry
Throughout the 19th century, agriculture was the backbone of Surry County’s economy. The fertile soils of the Piedmont were ideal for the production of tobacco, corn, and other cash crops. The County became a hub for the burgeoning tobacco industry, which would become a major driver of the region’s economy in the years leading up to and after the Civil War.
In addition to agriculture, the natural resources of Surry County— particularly its rivers— fostered the development of early industries, such as mills and distilleries. By the late 1800s, the County had developed a reputation for producing high-quality whiskey, thanks to the clean mountain water and ample grain supplies in the area. This tradition continues today as Surry County is home to several craft distilleries that celebrate this heritage.
A Legacy of Growth and Tradition
Surry County’s early growth was marked by its blend of agricultural prosperity and early industry, but it also retained a strong sense of community and tradition. Many of the families that moved to the area in the 18th and 19th centuries still have descendants living there today, contributing to the area’s deep connection to its past.
Today, Surry County is known for its scenic beauty, cultural festivals, and historic sites that draw visitors from around the region. The Blue Ridge Parkway, the Yadkin Valley wine region, and Mount Airy, the hometown of actor Andy Griffith, are just a few of the attractions that continue to highlight the County’s historical significance and enduring charm.
From its early roots to its place in modern North Carolina, Surry County’s history is a testament to the resilience and adaptability of its people.
Hope is always on our minds at Christmastime, isn’t it? We hope we haven’t left anyone off our gift list. We hope we get invited to the party, fix the decorations just right, and remember the kids’ costumes for the play. The kids hope it snows– we hope it doesn’t. There’s a lot of hope floating around before we even get to the day that Hope was born.
When we read the Christmas story, we find a story shrouded in mystery and stunning in its simplicity. An angel appears to Mary, a young virgin, and declares that she will become pregnant and give birth to God’s son, the long-awaited Messiah. “How?” asks a puzzled Mary. And the angel’s answer, rich with the mysterious workings of the Holy Spirit, includes a promise: “Nothing is impossible with God.” Mary answers, with simple faith, “I’m in.”
Thus begins Mary’s journey of hope. Surely, she fears that her fiancé, Joseph, won’t believe her, yet she trusts that the impossible will work out. Putting feet to that belief, Mary hurries to visit her cousin, Elizabeth, who is much too old to bear a child. The angel who had visited Mary had offered Elizabeth’s pregnancy as proof of the impossible. Through Elizabeth’s greeting, “You are blessed because you believed that the Lord would do what He said,” Mary’s hope becomes certainty. The certainty becomes months of hopeful waiting until the Child is born and Hope is fulfilled for all times.
IMPOSSIBLY
As I write this, people in the North Carolina mountains are scrambling under blue October skies to haul their lives out of the mud Hurricane Helene left behind. The catastrophe has been unfathomable. Imagine everything you own in two piles in your yard. Everything. Furniture, clothing, photos, mementos. Birth certificates. Grandma’s quilt. And deciding what can be salvaged, and what must go. For some families, nothing can be saved. Some homes might be restored after tearing out the interior sheetrock and floors. Some homes are ruined beyond restoration.
Imagine the hopelessness. The impossibility of life ever returning to normal. And yet, when I read online accounts, countless people have arrived to help. I notice these phrases repeated: “We’re bringing hope.” “We’re creating hope.” One friend, using his talent and equipment in the disaster relief effort, wrote, “It sounds simple, but repairing a driveway gives someone hope that they haven’t been forgotten.”
Boots on the ground is what I’m talking about. Getting dirty, shoulder to shoulder, with the hurting. It’s when we reach a hand to pull someone out of the mud that hope rises.
We’re not meant to be idle. We were created to do something. There’s an astonishing story in the Bible that takes place many years after the Christmas story. In the story, Jesus encounters a man who’s been an invalid for thirty-eight years, apparently wallowing in self-pity all that time. When Jesus sees him, he doesn’t get on the ground and wallow with him. Really, he doesn’t seem to show the man any sympathy. Rather curtly, he says, “Get up! Pick up that filthy mat and walk!” And the man does walk. It’s in the doing that the impossible becomes possible.
My husband and I received a refresher in this lesson just this week. Our fifty-foot bit of paradise on the New River was hard hit by the hurricane. I won’t recount our losses here. As my husband says, our experience is an inconvenience when compared to the horrific losses of others. Still, it’s been enough to overwhelm us. Where do we begin removing entire logs and a ton of debris stuck twelve-feet high in our walnut tree? We arrived at the scene after the water receded to find two neighbors already hard at work with two excavators, hauling and burning wood and making a mountain of metal to recycle. We learned that when we sit still, we despair. When we get to work, dragging what debris we could handle alongside our good neighbors, hopelessness recedes. The impossible becomes a little less frightening, less daunting. We have hope.
Our experience cannot compare to those who have lost homes, livelihoods, even family members. My point is that when we move beyond despair into action, we find hope. And when we as humans do what we can to help those who are hurting, then our combined hopes bring light and life to impossible situations.
When Jesus is born, a star shines down. Angels sing. Lowly shepherds and wealthy wise men come to visit. All is beautiful and peaceful for a time, and then Mary is given a divine message that because of her Son’s destiny, “ a sword will pierce your very soul.” Soon after, we find the Holy family fleeing to Egypt to escape the wrath of a jealous king.
Life isn’t always beautiful and peaceful. Sometimes it’s painful. Sometimes life feels impossible.
This Christmas, as we talk about hope and sing about the peace and joy that Jesus was born to bring, let’s remember the truth that Jesus also came to serve. And that His earthly life shows us how to serve in love. Because of Christmas, Hope, impossibly, can change the world.
by Sheri Wren Haymore
There Is Always Hope
When you think of the word hope, what thoughts come to mind? For many, the word hope is associated with peace from war, while others think of hope as related to a business or finances. Hope may take on a different meaning depending on what rung of the social ladder you are on. In light of the havoc wreaked by Hurricane Helene, hope could be as small as preparing a hot meal in your own home, which seems a given until there is no house to do it in.
In my mind, a classic example of hope is in the Bible in Acts 27. In this chapter, we see he Apostle Paul being held prisoner and transported by ship to Rome– an 1800 mile journey. Against the sound judgment of the Apostle, the ship sets sail just before storm season and the sailors soon find themselves in the storm of a lifetime. Physical storms certainly relate to personal storms in our lives, so let’s look into this chapter and compare.
From a historical standpoint, no ships would set out on such a long journey this late in the year. A study will show that at the start of their journey, the ship would have been protected by the mountains, thus a calm wind. In our personal lives, there are many times we hinge our hopes on “smooth sailing,” only to find life isn’t always easy. One call from the doctor or one letter in the mail and suddenly we find ourselves in a mental storm clinging to hope for better times. Hope is the harbor that shields us, but as we know in life, we must press on.
In Acts 27, we see a word used to describe this particular storm that is found only once in the Bible: Euroclydon. The definition of this word is a southeast wind that raises mighty waves. This is not a word you want associated with your sea voyage! In our personal lives, there are words we certainly don’t want to hear, such as cancer, fatality, or, for the farmer, blight. One certain word can be spoken and suddenly we are clinging to hope and longing for better days.
As we continue to read our Bible chapter, let us take note of the sailors’ actions and apply them to our personal lives when facing a storm. Verses 15 through 17 describes how the ropes holding the sails were taken loose. These physical ropes can be thought of as metaphors for the plans we make and how we may count on them to hold our course in life. But as we know, life has a way of throwing our plans into disarray and sometimes we
have no idea what direction to go. That’s where hope comes in.
Verse 18 states they lightened the ship. A secular study says this was most likely a grain ship and to lighten the ship meant they threw off the cargo. In our personal lives, there will come a time when we need to throw some things out. Some examples would be bitterness, holding a grudge, or even changing jobs. The point is that we do what we must to have happiness and peace. At the start of their voyage, it would have been insane to think of throwing the grain off their ship, for after all this was their means of making a living. In our lives, maybe there is something or someone you need to leave behind. Hope will help you to do that.
Verse 20 tells us that the seamen lost all hope. This storm would certainly be their death. Have you ever lost all hope? If you’ve lived any length of time, you have looked at situations and lost all hope. Verse 21 and 22 tell us that Paul, after a long absence, proclaims that he has prayed and that God will make a way and that not one person would die– but he warns that the ship will be destroyed. The lesson we can take away from this is that a storm will change us and that we will lose some things, but ultimately God has a plan and that plan is packaged in hope.
A biblical account says there were 276 people on board. In the last verse, we see them floating safe to the shore. Hold on to hope even if your life plan doesn’t work out the way you thought it would.
Consider this final story to close. A boy is reading a western novel in which the damsel-in-distress is tied to the train tracks, while her hero is held captive. The boy reading becomes impatient to know the end of the story. He flips to the back of the book and sees the damsel and hero safe in a loving embrace. He then turns back to the present chapter and whispers, “You’ll be ok. I’ve read the back of the book and you win!” I also would like to say, I’ve read the back of the book and it’s gonna be okay!
by Eddie Lowe
SURRY SEEN
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Holidays awaken a variety of feelings. One moment there is excitement and joy and the next there may be sadness or feelings of being overwhelmed. With many still dealing with the aftermath of Hurricane Helene or other life-changing events, you may experience different emotions this holiday season. We can’t change the past, but we can control how we approach the future.
Treasure holiday memories. 2024 may be the time to begin new holiday traditions. Think about what is really important to you about the holidays and focus on those areas. These tips were shared at a Diabetes and You class held at the Surry County Extension Office. For less stress, use these helpful hints as a guide to help you enjoy the holiday season.
• Set Realistic Goals: This is important for keeping expectations simple.
• Make a Budget and Stick to It: Financial worries add more stress. Spend what you can afford.
• Don’t Overdo: Try not to overeat to escape stress. Eat healthy food and get plenty of exercise.
• Sleep: Give yourself the gift of rest. Strive for 7+ hours of sleep each night.
• Pace Yourself: Scatter enjoyable activities throughout the entire season.
• Try to Stay in the Present: Focus on what is important in your life right now and what’s wonderful about this particular season of life.
• Organize Your Time: Make a list and prioritize important activities. Be realistic about what is and is not achievable.
by CARMEN LONG
• Spend Time with Supportive and Caring People: There is no better time of year to be with the ones you love.
• Seek Help if Needed: If you or someone you know is in crisis and needs help, call or text 988. The 988 Lifeline connects you with a trained crisis counselor who can help. It is free, confidential, and available 24/7.
Cooking together is a fun activity for families and friends that results in delicious outcomes. The life skills learned in food preparation are a wonderful gift for recipients of any age. Try Cranberry Pumpkin Muffins for an easy breakfast to make ahead of time. Add some fresh fruit and yogurt or a glass of milk and enjoy. I hope your holidays are healthy, happy, and full of fun!
Cranberry Pumpkin Muffins Makes 12 servings
INGREDIENTS
• 2 cups flour
• ¾ cup sugar
• 3 teaspoons baking powder
• ½ teaspoon salt
• ½ teaspoon cinnamon
• ¾ teaspoon allspice
• 1/3 cup vegetable oil
• 2 eggs (large)
• ¾ cup pumpkin (canned)
Prep time: 20 minutes
• 2 cups cranberries (fresh or frozen chopped)
DIRECTIONS
1. Wash hands with soap and water
2. Preheat oven to 400 F
3. Sift together dry ingredients (flour through allspice) and set aside
4. Beat oil, eggs, and pumpkin together until well-blended
5. Add the wet ingredients (pumpkin mixture) to the dry ingredients all at once
6. Stir until moistened
7. Fold in chopped cranberries
8. Spoon into paper-lined muffin cups
9. Bake for 15 to 30 minutes
Note: Serve with a glass of low-fat milk for a healthy snack.
Nutritional facts:
• Calories: 203kcal
• Carbohydrates: 32g
• Protein: 3g
• Fat: 7g
• Cholesterol: 31mg
• Sodium: 255mg
• Calcium: 83mg
• Sugar: 14g
Helpful Hints:
• Buy fresh cranberries during the holidays when in season and freeze for use later in the year when sometimes they are hard to find.
• Have some leftover pumpkin?
1. Make your own pumpkin spice latte
2. Stir it into your favorite chili
3. Add it to a smoothie
4. Stir it into oats
Information and nutritional facts accessed at: https://www.myplate.gov/recipes/supplemental-nutrition-assistance-program-snap/ cranberry-pumpkin-muffins
by RYNN HENNINGS
The Art of Braising Beef Short Ribs
Braising is a cooking method that browns meat and then simmers it in a flavorful liquid until it becomes tender and succulent. When it comes to beef short ribs, braising is the perfect technique to transform this tough cut of meat into a melt-in-your-mouth delicacy.
When choosing beef short ribs for braising, look for well-marbled, bone-in cuts. The marbling ensures that the meat will become tender and juicy during the braising process, and the bone adds flavor to the cooking liquid. Opt for meaty, well-trimmed ribs for the best results.
Serve the short ribs atop a bed of creamy mashed potatoes, buttery polenta, or al dente pasta, and drizzle with the reduced braising liquid for an extra burst of flavor. Garnish with fresh herbs and enjoy a meal that is sure to impress.
2. Add the olive oil to a large Dutch oven and heat over medium heat. Sprinkle the short ribs (on all sides) with salt and pepper and add them to the pan, browning them on all sides. Be careful not to overcrowd the pan. Move browned ribs to a platter.
3. Deglaze the pan with the beef stock to remove any stuck-on pieces from the bottom of the pan.
4. Whisk in the tomato paste and wine. Mix the cornstarch and water until smooth and add it to the pan. Stir to mix.
5. Then, place all the browned ribs in the Dutch oven.
6. Add the onion, carrots, celery, and garlic.
7. Add the bay leaves, thyme, and rosemary. Cover with the lid and bake for 3 hours, stirring twice during baking. Add extra stock if needed. Season with salt and pepper to taste.
Sweet & Savory Hints
• Beef short ribs are most commonly cut in English style or flanken style. English style is cut parallel to one long bone, and the meat runs nearly the length of it. Flanken-style short ribs are cut across the ribs and have several short bones. For this recipe, use English-style short ribs. Make sure there is ample lean meat around the bones for each rib.
• In the absence of beef stock, you can substitute either beef broth or chicken stock or broth for beef stock.
• Instead of a Dutch oven, you can use a slow cooker to cook these short ribs. Brown the ribs first, add all the other ingredients, and cook on low for 6-8 hours or until fall-off-the-bone tender.
For more recipes and entertaining/lifestyle tips, visit Rynn’s blog at www.thehouseofelynryn.com
Prep time: 10 minutes
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by SARAH SOUTHARD, DVM
I write this article on the first anniversary of my Daddy’s untimely and completely unexpected death. Given the year that I personally have experienced, and that North Carolina as a whole has experienced, we could all use a reminder of how we may find hope in unexpected places and delivered in unconventional ways.
In the days and weeks since Hurricane Helene ravaged the western third of North Carolina, pack mules from various places have brought hope to hundreds of folks who became trapped when their driveways, and the roads leading to them, were washed away entirely or blocked by storm debris. Carrying a variety of survival supplies, trains of pack mules carefully made their way into areas of utter despair and near-total destruction. Upon arrival, they delivered necessities to meet many immediate needs and offered hope to survivors along with these goods. They brought an unspoken message that folks had not been forgotten and that outsiders were doing anything it took– by whatever means necessary– to find them and help them make it through to the other side of this nightmare.
In certain ways, mules are particularly well-suited for the challenging job presented to them in the wake of Hurricane Helene. The result of a mating between a female horse and a male donkey, mules are a hybrid animal. Generally speaking, mules are larger and stronger than most donkeys and hardier and wiser than most horses. They are sure-footed and very aware of where their feet are, being able to see all four hooves at the same time. They are quite in tune with their abilities, refusing to carry a load that is heavy enough to cause them bodily injury. What is often perceived as stubbornness from mules and donkeys is actually more often wisdom. They will refuse to do what is asked of them if it cannot be done safely.
Across the world, hope has been delivered on the backs of equines. Mary, the mother of Jesus, rode to Bethlehem on the back of a donkey. Jesus, God’s only son, rode into Jerusalem on Palm Sunday on the back of a donkey. Generally speaking, donkeys and mules are not regal animals. They aren’t associated with winning races or carrying royalty. But just over 2000 years ago, and again about 3 months ago, equines have been the bearers of the only hope available physically, mentally, and spiritually. Mules in western North Carolina brought hope physically and mentally to storm-ravaged families. Donkeys carrying the only Son of God brought spiritual hope to all of us. Because of Jesus’ virgin birth, sacrificial death, and triumphant resurrection, I have hope of eternal life with Christ and hope of seeing Daddy again. Because of Jesus, I do not mourn as those who have no hope. Because Jesus’ sacrifice was for all the world, you too can have hope of eternal life after an earthly death.
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Navigating Life with a Horse, Faith, and Common Sense
by DERINA PYLES
“Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.” Proverbs 3: 5-6 (KJV)
Traveler looked up at me from his Bible, waiting for my reaction to the verse he had read. We had finally started our morning devotions again after the busy fall season. It felt good to get back to our normal routine.
“I like that one, Traveler. Any particular reason you picked it for today?” I asked. As he thought about my question, his big brown eyes narrowed and he struggled to find the right words.
“It’s okay if you’re not sure, my friend,” I said, attempting to relieve his uncertainty. “Sometimes I’ll have a verse that speaks to me and I may not know why. That’s one reason why I love our devotion time together. It gives us a chance to reflect together.”
“I’m not sure why I picked it, Hay-Woman. Seems like the last few months we were so busy running around like chickens with our heads cut off…” he scowled. “Why is that even a saying? ‘Chickens with their heads cut off?’ I mean it’s so disturbing,” he shook his head to clear the image from his mind.
“Traveler, stay on task, buddy,” I gently reminded him.
“Anyway, you know when you’re so busy going from one thing to another that you forget to pray every day or read your Bible and let the selfish side take over,” Traveler said, hanging his head. “I guess I’m just feeling a little guilty. I have been so focused on myself and all the horse shows and clinics.”
“You know, I’ve been feeling the same way lately,” I begrudgingly admitted. “I think most Christians feel this way at times, Traveler. I also think that, even though we get busy with our day-to-day lives, our convictions help us return our focus to God. We shouldn’t dwell on it, but get back on the horse,” I said. We both rolled our eyes in unison at my statement. “Just like us starting back with our devotion time. To me, this verse speaks of hope.”
“Hope?” Traveler said, tilting his big gray head as he spoke.
“Hope is a feeling of trust. If we trust in God, and not our own understanding, we have faith and hope that his plan is the best plan. That’s not easy to do. Especially when we get busy with our own everyday problems and challenges,” I said.
“Let’s remember one thing, Hay-Woman,” Traveler stated, matter-of-factly. “God is always in control.”
“He most definitely is, Traveler.”
The Sweet Symbol of Hope: Honey Bees
In a world that often feels chaotic and overwhelming, it’s easy to lose sight of hope. Yet, if we take a closer look at the remarkable honey bee, we can find a powerful symbol of resilience and optimism. To produce just one pound of honey, these tiny creatures visit an astonishing 2 million flowers and travel distances equivalent to three trips around the Earth. This monumental effort serves to not only create something sweet, but also to remind us of the interconnectedness of life and the importance of perseverance.
Honey bees play a crucial role in our ecosystem, pollinating one in every three bites of food we consume. Their tireless work contributes significantly to the health of our planet and food security. In this way, they embody the spirit of collaboration and community, working together for the greater good of the hive. This is a poignant metaphor for our own lives– just as bees support one another, we too can uplift those around us, creating a stronger, more hopeful community.
Honey bees thrive in challenging environments and navigate a world filled with potential dangers, yet they continue to forge ahead, driven by instinct and purpose. Their resilience in the face of adversity is a powerful reminder for us all. Life often throws obstacles in our paths, but like honey bees, we can find strength in our struggles. Each visit to a flower, every drop of nectar collected, is a testament to the belief that even the smallest efforts can lead to great rewards.
Recently, the Surry County Beekeepers Association celebrated the beauty and significance of honey bees through a photo contest, in collaboration with WIFM Radio and H&S Bee Supply. The entries showcased not only the stunning visuals of these creatures, but also the stories behind them, highlighting the resilience and hope that honey bees inspire in us.
Congratulations to the winners: Robin McGuirt of Harmony, NC, took home first place ($1,000), followed by Anton Joubert of Salisbury, NC, ($500) and Stephanie Slater of Elkhorn, WI ($250). Each contestant also submitted an essay. The essays can be viewed at the Surry County Beekeepers Association website: http://surrycountybeekeepers.org.
As we reflect on the incredible journey of the honey bee, let us remember that hope exists even in the most difficult circumstances. Just as these remarkable insects find the strength to overcome challenges, so can we. They remind us that through resilience, community, and hard work, we can cultivate a brighter future.
In a world that sometimes feels bleak, let us draw inspiration from the honey bee. May we approach our challenges with the same determination and optimism, knowing that every small effort counts. Together, we can create a landscape filled with hope, much like a field of flowers waiting to be visited by the diligent honey bee.
by JOANNA RADFORD
1st Place
Robin McGuirt, Harmony, NC
2nd Place
Anton Joubert, Salisbury, NC
3rd Place
Stephanie Slater, Elkhorn, WI
DECEMBER EVENTS
MOUNT AIRY
Half Mile of Christmas Cheer & Tree Lighting
Thursday, December 5, 2024 at 6:00 pm
Downtown Mount Airy
Main St, Mount Airy, NC 27030
Dailey & Vincent Christmas Tour
Saturday, December 7, 2024 at 7:30 pm
Historic Earle Theatre
142 N Main St, Mount Airy, NC 27030
North Surry High School Concert
Tuesday, December 10, 2024 at 7:00 pm
Andy Griffith Playhouse
218 Rockford St, Mount Airy, NC 27030
Elkin Big Band Christmas Show
Wednesday, December 18, 2024 at 7:00 pm
Andy Griffith Playhouse
218 Rockford St, Mount Airy, NC 27030
Christmas with the Embers Featuring Craig Woolard
Thursday, December 19, 2024 at 7:30
Andy Griffith Playhouse
218 Rockford St, Mount Airy, NC 27030
PILOT MOUNTAIN
Christmas Parade & Tree Lighting
Saturday, December 7, 2024 at 5:30 am
Dowtown Pilot Mountain
Main Street, Pilot Mountain, NC 27041
ELKIN
62nd Annual Christmas Concert!
Sunday, December 1, 2024 from 4:00 pm to 7:00 pm
First Baptist Church
110 Gwyn Ave, Elkin, NC 28621
Reeves Open Mic Night
Wednesday, December 4, 2024 from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm
The Reeves Theatre
129 W Main St, Elkin, NC 28621
Light Up Elkin
Friday, December 6, 2024 at 4:00 pm
Historic Downtown Elkin
100-104, US 21 BUS, Elkin, NC 28621
Santa Claus is Coming to Town!
Monday, December 9, 2024 from 6:00 pm to 7:00 pm
State Road Volunteer Fire Department
1973 Old Hwy 21, State Road, NC 28676
Light Up the Reeves with the Elkin Big Band
Friday, December 13, 2024 from 7:00 pm - 10:00 pm
The Reeves Theatre
129 W Main St, Elkin, NC 28621
DOBSON
Music On The Terrace
Sunday, December 1, 2024 from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm
Shelton Vineyards
286 Cabernet Ln, Dobson, NC 27017
Duck Doughnuts #1 in Dobson
Thursday, December 9, 2024 from 1:00 pm to 7:00 pm
Dobson Square Park 110 S Crutchfield St, Dobson, NC 27017
New Year’s Eve Party
Tuesday, December 31, 2024 from 6:30 pm - 10:30 pm
Shelton Vineyards
286 Cabernet Ln, Dobson, NC 27017
GALAX
Christmas Tree Lighting & Parade
Friday, December 6, 2024 from 6:45 pm to 8:00 pm
Downtown Galax
601 South Main St, Galax, VA 24333
The Embers Christmas Show
Saturday, December 7, 2024 from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm
The Rex Theater 113 E Grayson St, Galax, VA 24333
Kinnfolk Celtic Christmas
Friday, December 13, 2024 from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm
The Rex Theater
113 E Grayson St, Galax, VA 24333
Old Time Appalachian Christmas Festival
Saturday, December 14, 2024 from 12:00 pm to 6:00 pm
Downtown Galax
601 South Main St, Galax, VA 24333
The Malpass Brothers
Friday, December 20, 2024 from 7:00 pm to 9:30 pm
The Rex Theater
113 E Grayson St, Galax, VA 24333
2024 Galax Cruise Nights
Saturday, December 28, 2024 from 6:00 pm to 10:00 pm
