Sabrina hails from Tobaccoville, NC. The passion for arts led her to photography, where she carved her niche. She balances motherhood and her professional pursuits. At 30 years of age, she embraced Jiu-Jitsu, proving there is no age barrier to personal growth. Sabrina is known for her creativity and commitment, her ability to embrace change, and her perseverance. She writes to inspire others to face challenges head-on and to craft their own paths to success.
Rynn is a writer and designer based in the Yadkin Valley region of North Carolina. She loves to share her ideas for adding simple beauty into hectic lifestyles. More than mere recipes, her mission is to offer practical shortcuts for food preparation along with visual tips for presentation. Rynn began her career in Aiken, SC, as a newspaper reporter writing feature articles about food, living, and the arts. For more about Rynn, even more recipes, decorating tips, and much more, visit thehouseofelynryn.com.
Eddie lives in Copeland, NC. His column reflects his life experiences and stories that have been passed down to him. He is an encourager and considers himself a cheerleader for daily life. Eddie builds custom-crafted furniture in his small business, New Venture Woodworx. He also turns wooden bowls on a lathe and sells those at art and craft shows.
Contributors
Madalyn Edwards
Madalyn is from Mount Airy, NC, and is currently a junior at Appalachian State University. She is studying English with a concentration in professional writing and minoring in communication with a concentration in journalism. She writes for Surry Living and also works on the news desk for her university’s student news organization. When she is not writing, she enjoys reading, being outdoors, and spending time with her two dogs.
Sheri, now happily retired, finds nothing more enjoyable than time spent with her husband of fifty years, her amazing daughter, and sweet elderly pup. She authored two novels, A Higher Voice and A Deeper Cut (which also ran as a serial feature in Surry Living Magazine). Her play, No Ordinary Wine, written in collaboration with a fine producer/director, was well received, and a second play, Improbable Grace, awaits discovery.
Blake grew up in and around the outskirts of Winston-Salem. He and his wife, Angie, currently live in the small town of East Bend. Blake graduated from Liberty University with a master’s degree in psychology and loves finding ways to help others. He also enjoys reading the Bible, painting, and spending time outdoors.
Carmen is a NC Cooperative Extension Agent for Family and Consumer Sciences. Making quick, easy, healthy food that tastes great on a budget is a challenge. Carmen and her husband have two grown children, both of whom were involved in sports from grade school through college. With busy careers and lots of time at sporting events, coming up with quick, healthy meals was a necessity. Carmen shares ideas and recipes to make this tough job easier.
Derina is the executive editor and owner of Surry Living Magazine. She is also a professional horsewoman with a passion for connecting horses, nature, and people. Derina lives on her ranch in Westfield, NC, with her husband, Kevin, son, Kage, and daughter, Kaleah. She enjoys horse riding, traveling, and attending church at Asbury Evangelical Presbyterian.
Kevin is a Christian business owner who loves serving Mount Airy and its’ citizens. In addition to being the publisher and owner of Surry Living Magazine, he is also a physical therapist, Jiu-Jitsu Black Belt, and published author. His passion is to help others find their way to health, success, and happiness through his areas of expertise. Kevin has assembled a first-rate team of therapists dedicated to keeping Surry County residents out of pain and in motion. He has an unstoppable, positive attitude that is contagious, and we hope you catch it through his column.
Blake Johnson
Sheri Wren Haymore
Derina Pyles
Eddie Lowe
Rynn Hennings
Kevin Pyles
Carmen Long
Joanna Radford
Joanna is the County Extension Director for NC Cooperative Extension in Surry County as well as the Commercial and Consumer Horticulture Agent with expertise in entomology, gardening, and pesticide education. Joanna began her career with NC Cooperative Extension in Stokes County in 1995 as a 4-H Agent, later switching to Field Crops and Pesticide Education in Surry County. She lives on a farm with her husband and two teenage daughters.
Josh Snow, from King, NC, is known for his big personality and love for adventure.
An avid fisherman, he finds peace on the water. At 41, Josh took on the challenge of jiu-jitsu, proving it’s never too late for new beginnings. He cherishes spending time with family and friends, bringing energy and enthusiasm to every gathering.
Contributors
Veronica Green-Got
As a roving reporter, writer, and marketer, Veronica is a passionate storyteller. After starting her career in corporate marketing, she founded her own business, Golden Fleece Marketing, in 2019. Now she puts her skills to work as a reporter covering equestrian sports, offering marketing strategy for clients in a wide variety of industries, and providing writing and editing services for small businesses nationwide. She believes that everyone has a story to tell and that they’re all worthy of being told. In her free time, she events her ex-racehorse, LB.
Larry VanHoose
Larry is the Executive Director for the Alleghany Chamber of Commerce in the Blue Ridge Mountains of central North Carolina. Some of you may know him as the former co-owner of SLM. He has more than 30 years of experience as a writer, graphic designer, photographer, and book and magazine publisher. Larry and his wife, Trina, have four wonderful, grown children and live on a small farm just off the Blue Ridge Parkway in Grayson County, VA.
Dr. Sarah Southard, DVM
Sarah grew up at Crooked Oak in the Pine Ridge community of Surry County. Raised in the agriculture world, she went on to earn degrees in animal science and veterinary medicine from North Carolina State University. She and her husband, Adam, and son, Malachi, currently live in Statesville with Oliver the house rabbit, a few cats, Blossom the donkey, and a flock of Katahdin hair sheep.
Josh Snow
Love—a word so simple yet so profound. It transcends cultures, languages, and time, serving as the thread that binds humanity together. But what does love truly mean? At its core, love is not merely a fleeting emotion or a romantic gesture. It is a steadfast, enduring commitment to care for, support, and nurture another person, regardless of circumstances. In its purest form, love is unconditional.
Unconditional love is often described as love without limits or expectations. It is the kind of love that remains constant despite imperfections, mistakes, and hardships. This form of love goes beyond romantic notions often portrayed in media; it encompasses the love of parents for their children, deep friendships, and even a profound connection to humanity or a higher power.
Unconditional love is rooted in acceptance. It sees the other person— or even oneself—as inherently worthy of love, not because of achievements or actions, but simply because they exist. This kind of love recognizes and embraces imperfections, understanding that flaws are an intrinsic part of being human. It is the gentle reminder that love does not need a reason; it simply is.
Consider the love of a parent for their child. From the moment a baby is born, a parent’s love is not contingent upon what the child does. Whether the child is laughing, crying, succeeding, or struggling, a parent’s love endures. It is not transactional. Similarly, in friendships, unconditional love means standing by someone even when they are at their lowest. It is about being a source of comfort and encouragement without expecting anything in return.
Unconditional love is patient. It understands that growth and change take time. Whether it is waiting for someone to heal from past wounds or supporting them through personal struggles, unconditional love never rushes but instead offers steady, unwavering support. Empathy is at the heart of unconditional love. It means putting yourself in someone else’s shoes and seeking to understand their feelings and perspectives. Empathy fosters deeper connections, as it allows us to truly see and value others for who they are. To love unconditionally is to forgive. No one is perfect, and mistakes are inevitable in any relationship. Unconditional love does not hold grudges or keep score; instead, it chooses to let go of resentment and move forward with compassion. True love encourages growth and self-improvement, but it does not demand change as a prerequisite for affection. Supporting someone without expecting anything in return is a hallmark of unconditional love. It is the quiet assurance that you are there for someone, no matter what. Finally, unconditional love often involves putting someone else’s needs before your own. This does not mean neglecting self-care or boundaries; rather, it is about prioritizing the well-being of others in a balanced and healthy way.
Loving unconditionally is not always easy. It requires a great deal of vulnerability and courage. To love someone without expecting anything in return can feel risky, especially in a world that often emphasizes reciprocity and transactional relationships. It can be difficult to offer love when faced with rejection, betrayal, or indifference. Yet, the beauty of unconditional love lies in its resilience—in its ability to persist even in the face of challenges.
One of the greatest hurdles to unconditional love is learning to love oneself. Self-love often comes with the burden of societal expectations, selfdoubt, and the pressure to be perfect. Yet, accepting and loving ourselves as we are is a foundational step toward offering that same love to others. As the saying goes, “You cannot pour from an empty cup.” Self-compassion allows us to show up fully for the people we care about.
Unconditional love is not just a feeling; it is a practice. It is the small, everyday acts of kindness that demonstrate care and commitment. It is the parent who stays up late to comfort a sick child, the friend who listens without judgment, or the partner who offers reassurance during moments of doubt. Love in action often speaks louder than words.
In a broader sense, unconditional love can extend to strangers and communities. Volunteering, helping someone in need, or simply offering a smile to a passerby are all expressions of this love. It reminds us that love is not limited to close relationships, but is a boundless force that can transform the world.
Unconditional love has the power to heal, inspire, and unite. It can mend broken relationships, restore hope, and bring joy even in challenging times. This love creates a safe space for people to be their authentic selves, fostering trust and deeper connections. It challenges us to rise above selfishness and embrace the interconnectedness of humanity.
When we choose to love unconditionally, we contribute to a ripple effect. One act of love can inspire another, creating a chain reaction of kindness and compassion. In this way, love becomes a force for good that transcends individual relationships and touches entire communities.
At its heart, love is not about grand gestures or perfect moments. It is about showing up—day after day—with patience, empathy, and an open heart. Unconditional love teaches us to see the beauty in imperfection, to forgive, and to embrace the messiness of life. It reminds us that we are all deserving of love, simply because we exist.
In a world that often feels divided, love is the common thread that connects us all. By choosing to love unconditionally, we not only transform our relationships but also contribute to a more compassionate and understanding world. That is what love truly means.
by SABRINA LEE BAKER
with Kevin Pyles
Love Conquers All:
The Foundation of Success and Happiness
In a world that often seems divided, one powerful truth remains steadfast: love conquers all. This universal sentiment serves as the bedrock for success, happiness, and fulfillment in life. When we prioritize love in its many forms, we cultivate a life rich with purpose and connection. Let’s explore how love can be the driving force behind our greatest achievements and our deepest joys.
The Love of God
The love of God serves as a guiding light, a source of strength in times of hardship and uncertainty. This love instills in us a sense of belonging, purpose, and hope, reminding us that we are part of something greater than ourselves. When we nurture a relationship with God, we find resilience in adversity, and our lives take on deeper meaning. Embracing this love allows us to approach life with gratitude and compassion, enriching both our personal journeys and the lives of those around us.
Love of Yourself
Next, the love we cultivate for ourselves is paramount. In a society that often pushes us to achieve more, look different, and be perfect, self-love can feel like a radical act. Recognizing our intrinsic worth is essential for personal growth and fulfillment. When we love ourselves, we prioritize our well-being, set healthy boundaries, and cultivate a positive self-image. This love acts as a foundation upon which all other relationships are built. By embracing our flaws and celebrating our strengths, we empower ourselves to pursue our passions and dreams without hesitation. Ultimately, self-love leads to greater resilience and a stronger sense of identity, making us better equipped to face life’s challenges.
Love for Others
The love we extend to others is perhaps the most visible manifestation of our inner world. Love for others fosters connection, empathy, and understanding, creating a ripple effect that can transform communities and societies. When we love others, we invest in relationships that bring joy and support, enriching our lives and the lives of those around us. Acts of kindness, whether small or grand, create bonds that are essential for emotional well-being. Moreover, loving others encourages reciprocity, leading to a cycle of support and encouragement that nurtures collective growth. When we prioritize love in our interactions, we create a more compassionate world, paving the way for collaboration and success.
Love of Your Time
In our fast-paced lives, it’s crucial to love and value our time. The moments we choose to invest in reflect what we deem important. By making time for what truly matters— whether that’s family, friends, or personal passions— we assert control over our lives. Loving our time means being intentional about how we allocate it, ensuring that it aligns with our values and aspirations. This conscious approach enables us to find balance, reducing stress and enhancing overall happiness. When we cherish our time, we create space for growth, creativity, and joy.
Love for What You Do
To truly thrive, we must cultivate love for what we do. Passion is a powerful motivator. When we engage in work that ignites our spirit, we unlock our potential for greatness. This love fuels our creativity, drives innovation, and leads to greater satisfaction in our endeavors. Whether it’s a career, a hobby, or a calling, pursuing what we love brings fulfillment and purpose to our lives.
In conclusion, love is not just an emotion; it is a powerful force that can guide us toward success and happiness. By embracing the love of God, ourselves, others, our time, and our passions, we create a harmonious existence that allows us to conquer any obstacle.
When love is at the forefront, all else falls into place.
I have developed a bad habit of comparing myself to others, especially on social media. I’ve noticed it often leaves me feeling inadequate and unhappy about my life. How do I stop this cycle and begin to appreciate my own journey?
Sincerely,
Socially Sad
KEVIN PYLES, PT
Dear Socially Sad,
Thank you for sharing this habit and giving me the opportunity to respond. We all experience periods of dissatisfaction and in those moments it’s easy to begin making comparisons. The desire for growth is part of human nature. However, we must learn to balance that desire with contentment. If we are always striving for more, we will never be satisfied. If we stop progressing, then we become complacent.
I see very little benefit in comparing yourself to others. We are all uniquely born with different talents, struggles, and environments that shape who we are. It doesn’t mean we can’t set similar goals and go after the same things; it just means the route, the timing, and the level of ease will differ. For these reasons, it’s better to measure yourself by your own accomplishments. The only reason I can think of to compare yourself to someone else is if you find it motivating. If you can use it to responsibly propel yourself forward, then have at it.
If you do find it beneficial to make comparisons, at least make sure you are assessing real people. Consider people you know personally who are honest about their lives. Social media is the last place you should look. No one on social media is real. Content usually consists of carefully selected flashes of happiness, loving memories, and successful events. The finished product is nothing more than a highlight reel of an individual’s greatest moments. The few who do choose to include less than glamorous events are probably seeking attention or may even have a more ominous reason. Either way, if the presentations were accurate depictions of daily life, social media would be far less entertaining, and you would likely prefer the life you have to that of others.
When you switch the focus from those around you back to yourself, you should begin to find satisfaction in your own life. It’s easier to see your success when you’re not comparing your life to a fairytale. If you’re still struggling to find your blessings, make a habit
of reflecting. Your journey is full of gifts that can be overlooked when you avoid acknowledging them. I suggest taking a moment to celebrate or at least recognize every one of life’s achievements no matter how small. It will help you remember what success feels like and you will naturally begin to seek more of it.
Additionally, take time every day to list things you are grateful for. It’s much harder to feel inadequate or unhappy when you express gratitude. If you still find it difficult to be happy, don’t hesitate to talk to someone or get
professional counseling. Sometimes we just need a little extra guidance and support.
We all have things to be happy about–sometimes we just need to look a little harder. Remember when looking at others, we only see what they want us to see. We all have strengths, and we all have weaknesses. The key is to use both to our advantage.
I hope this response helps you appreciate your journey. It is yours and you get to choose every turn. Choose wisely.
Sincerely, Blake
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BY JOSH
The Great Wagon Road: A Path Through History
By gosh, did you know that the Great Wagon Road was one of the most significant migration routes in Colonial America?
This historic trail stretched over 700 miles, connecting Pennsylvania to Georgia, and played a pivotal role in shaping the cultural and economic landscape of the American South. As settlers ventured into the frontier, the Great Wagon Road became their lifeline, guiding them through valleys, over mountains, and into opportunities for a better life.
The Great Wagon Road originated as a Native American trading path, primarily used by the Iroquois and other tribes for commerce and communication. European immigrants expanded and adapted these routes in the 18th century, transforming them into major thoroughfares for migration and trade. The Road’s northern starting point was in Pennsylvania’s Lancaster County. From there it wove its way southward through the Shenandoah Valley, crossing into Virginia, North Carolina, and South Carolina, to eventually reach Georgia.
Pilot Mountain and the Journey South
Those traveling the Great Wagon Road faced immense challenges. The rugged terrain often necessitated clearing paths and repairing wagons, while the threat of wildlife and unpredictable weather added to the danger. Despite these obstacles, the promise of fertile land and economic opportunity drove thousands of families to embark on the arduous journey.
Pilot Mountain in North Carolina was one of the most iconic landmarks along the Great Wagon Road. This striking quartzite monadnock, visible from miles around, was a natural guidepost for travelers. Its prominence provided reassurance to pioneers as they navigated the wilderness, offering a sense of direction and a place to rest.
A Melting Pot of Cultures
The Great Wagon Road was more than a migration route– it was a cultural corridor. Immigrants from diverse backgrounds, including Germans, Scots-Irish, and English, traveled the Road, bringing their traditions, languages, and skills along with their belongings. These cultural influences shaped the communities they established, creating a unique blend of customs that defined the Southern Colonies.
Trade flourished along the Great Wagon Road as settlers transported goods such as tobacco, grain, and livestock. Local economies grew around the route, with towns and villages emerging as trading posts and supply stations. The Road became a vital artery for commerce, linking remote settlements to larger markets.
Legacy of the Great Wagon Road
Today, the Great Wagon Road is remembered as a symbol of perseverance and pioneering spirit. Many of the modern highways and roads in the eastern United States trace their origins to this historic path. In places like North Carolina, remnants of the Road can still be seen, offering a tangible connection to the past.
For history enthusiasts and adventurers, retracing the steps of the immigrants who traveled the Great Wagon Road provides a window into the challenges and triumphs of America’s early expansion. From its Native American origins to its role in Colonial migration, the Road’s story is one of resilience, discovery, and the enduring quest for a better future.
The Great Wagon Road wasn’t just a trail through the wilderness, it was a pathway to opportunity and the foundation of countless communities in the American South. Its legacy continues to inspire and reminds us of the determination that built a nation.
Beyond
love
by Sheri Wren Haymore
Over Christmas, we watched the movie, “Love, Actually” (again). And I wondered, what is it about a love story that we find so compelling? If the success of the Hallmark Channel is any indication, happy endings are a big industry. All that yearning, heartbreak, attraction, more heartbreak, followed by the big kiss at the end– it strikes a chord.
Consider the story of how my sister and her husband met. Their thirty-fifth high school reunion in Irmo, South Carolina, was coming up. Because Meg was on the planning committee, she was often commenting in the class Facebook group. Tommy remembered her from high school, noticed she had moved back to Irmo, and was using her maiden name again. A little snooping revealed that they had mutual friends, and those friends assured Tommy that Meg was not seeing anyone. Looking forward to the reunion, Tommy was hoping for a chance to speak to her, perhaps she would remember him and be interested in going out.
On the big night, Tommy arrived early and positioned himself beside his white Mustang convertible, watching for Meg. Here she came, running toward him, blond hair streaming, laughing, arms open wide… and she blew right past him to hug a girlfriend. On to Plan B, thinks Tommy.
The reunion was held at a marina on Lake Murray and as part of the festivities, class members who owned boats were scheduled to take groups for sunset cruises on the lake. As the classmates gathered, Tommy made a point to join a circle of mutual friends that my outgoing sister would be certain to visit as she breezed around the room. Sure enough, he got his opportunity to speak to her, and yes, she remembered him. Boldly, he offered to save her a seat on his Scarab speedboat.
When the cruising hour arrived, one by one the boats filled up and pulled away from the dock, until only Tommy remained, jet engine idling, watching for Meg. His other passengers began grumbling about being left behind by the other boats. Disappointed, he eased the boat into the channel, still watching for her. At the last second, he spotted her, running down the dock, yelling for him to wait for her.
As the evening wound down, Meg sought Tommy out to invite him over to her house, where a few classmates were gathering after the reunion. Because Tommy had to get his boat out of the water and take it home, it was after midnight when he arrived at Meg’s. Uncertain whether he’d still be welcome, he approached the front door hesitantly, only to hear her voice from inside say, “Where’s Tommy? I thought he was coming by.”
When Tommy told me that story, he chuckled and said, “I knew in that moment that I was in.” They talked all that night and married the next year. I recently asked Meg, “What’s your favorite thing about being married to Tommy?”
She answered with one word, “Peace.”
I knew exactly what she meant, because isn’t that what we’re all looking for in a love story? We desire to find that moment when we know we’re in; we’re accepted. And we want to believe in all those moments beyond the happy ending, when we find the thing we’ve always instinctively known we needed: peace.
If we walk this earth long enough, most of us will carry the trauma of life’s hard knocks in our very molecules. Perhaps the redemptive nature of a romantic story is what resonates with us. We see a character find a path out of heartbreak, and our hearts cry, “Yes! There’s hope beyond pain!”
A couple of years after the trauma of divorce, my daughter, Carrie Wren, confided, “I’m sort of pre-dating someone.”
While the wording of that revelation still makes me chuckle, now, eight years later, I asked her, “What’s the best thing about your relationship with your guy?”
“Stability,” she answered. “Consistency. Knowing where I stand with him gives me the security to be myself.”
Again, the beauty of a love story goes beyond The Big Kiss; it’s about living the story that fits you.
Sometimes I’m asked how my husband of fifty years and I met. It happened while I was in high school, on a Saturday night when, thankfully, I had no plans. The telephone rang. A girl I knew from school but was not particularly close to asked whether she and a couple of guys could come over. It seems Clyde (now my husband) had been conscripted to chauffeur his buddy so he could date my classmate. His buddy was temporarily unable to drive due to a medical condition.
The night before, the couple had set Clyde up with a blind date. Let’s just say that when he went to pick the girl up, he thought the woman who came to the door was the Mama, but it was his date– false teeth and all. Saturday night, he told my classmate to get her yearbook out; he wanted to pick out his own date, thank you very much. Our yearbook photographer had snapped a photo of me walking down the school hallway toting my books, and that picture caught Clyde’s eye.
When asked by our daughter what he liked best about being married to me, Clyde answered with a simple truth that stunned me to tears. I thought, ‘This man really does get me!’ Isn’t that what we’re looking for in any relationship? Our desire is to be seen and known, accepted and understood. Whether we find it in friendship, family, or our own love story, it’s what every person deserves.
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A How-to Guide toLove in the ‘80s
My young heart raced as the glass soda bottle spun on the old plywood. The tip of the bottle went from boy to girl, boy to girl, each of us seated as such (these were the rules). The pop bottle slowed and stopped on a giggly girl. An innocent peck of a kiss leaning over the board and then it was the next person’s turn to spin the bottle. So began “love” for me. Or there was the first “real” kiss from a neighborhood girl. At a tender elementary age, our education on what a kiss was apparently came from a daytime soap, because as she leaned forward her mouth was wide open and I remember thinking… “love hurts!”
It’s funny looking back on my concept of love growing up. As a child of the 80’s, some Friday nights found me listening to the Top 40 on the radio. And there was always the “long distance dedication” as listeners would call in to profess their love to so-and-so. If you are from my era, you might remember those perfume-soaked love letters in middle school with the words “I love you, do you love me?” A quick glance showed two boxes, with a yes in one and a no in the other. If it was really serious, there’d be a box saying maybe.
And then there was your first real love. A sweaty hand extended to be held– if taken, then the deal was done, you were going steady! Long phone calls with an even longer phone cord stretched from the kitchen to a semi-closed bedroom. Then came the cordless phone, when a low battery meant it was time to drift off and dream of your future together. I even went so far as to present a cubic zirconia ring purchased off channel 45 to seal one relationship.
Do you remember your first break up? For me it stung, maybe because I had to get my blue jean jacket back (80’s tradition).
Then there was going to my first prom. I rented a solid white tuxedo with tails and wore a pink cummerbund with super shiny shoes. If I think back, I can still feel the sting of hairspray in my mullet. In my time, prom meant driving to Winston for a fancy meal and then returning to the high school to dance– or, in my case, jump around which was my idea of dancing. A slow song would play and I’d switch from jumping around to swaying back and forth, trying not to step on her toes with my rented, uncomfortable shiny shoes.
My childhood was filled with love and serious relationships. I suppose it started on the playground in a cloud of dust, as one girl emerged from beating up a boy. I remember thinking “she’ll be a good girlfriend because after all, she’d protect me!” Sadly,
upon signing my yearbook, she wrote some bogus phone number with a couple extra digits.
Just in case a time machine is invented and you find yourself in the ‘80s and looking for love, I’ve put together a checklist of things you’ll need to have and do.
#1- The Mixtape. You must be skilled in pressing the play and record button at the same time. Also, if the song is recorded off the TV, then you must be quiet during the whole song.
#2- Get a huge bottle of hairspray. Either Aqua Net or White Rain should suffice. Your scalp will sting, but the mullet needs reinforcement. Also, you’re looking for business up front and party in the back, which translates to a possible perm in the back. Sidebar, a trend will come along called a “rat tail,” so don’t cut your hair length!
#3- You’ll need to secure these clothes: Panama Jack shirt , used army field jacket, faded blue jean jacket, izod shirt, members only jacket, parachute pants… the more zippers the better.
#4- If at all possible, learn to moonwalk now because that one dance move will become epic.
#5- Speaking of which… learn to breakdance now! I can’t stress enough how this one skill will increase your level of cool!
#6- Your car is key to your success. Please remember when purchasing tires to turn the white letters out. There’ll be a wheel called saw blades, be ready to purchase those! Your car will need 6x9 door speakers with ear-piercing treble. You’ll also have to get a good amp and subwoofers. Buy a car with T-Tops, they will leak but that’s ok. Be prepared to ride bumper to bumper for hours crammed in a car with friends listening to loud music. Guys will need to learn the air guitar (which is neat because it doesn’t take up any space).
#7- As a personal bonus given for reading this far, take a house phone and unplug the phone and cord (cord will be curly). Put the phone in the car hiding the plug somewhere in the dash. Next, record a phone ringing on tape (remember press play and record at the same time). Upon arrival at a “cruise-in,” wait until you’re positioned beside another car and insert your tape of the phone ringing. Now, place the phone to your ear and press stop on the tape with the other hand. You’re guaranteed to look cool with this move… ask me how I know!
by Eddie Lowe
A Floral DelightPink Cherry Cake
This delightful three-layered pink confection is a feast for the eyes and the palate, featuring a luscious almond cherry-flavored cake that perfectly complements its sweet frosting. The captivating pink hue is derived from Maraschino cherries, giving the dessert a charmingly vibrant appearance. The design, decorated with piped flowers created using a variety of piping tips, is beautiful and approachable. Although it may seem complicated, the frosting is quite forgiving, allowing you to place the flowers close together in any creative pattern you desire. This makes it an ideal choice for bakers looking to create a beautiful cake without the stress of perfection!
This small but tall cake will go far because of its three layers. It has a lot of frosting from the piped flowers, so a small piece will be filling. You can get about 18 thin slices from this cake.
INGREDIENTS
Cake
• Olive oil or shortening
• All-purpose flour
• ½ cup whole buttermilk (shaken and at room temperature)
• ½ cup maraschino cherry juice
• ⅓ cup vegetable oil
• ⅔ cup sour cream (room temperature)
• 4 large egg whites, (room temperature)
• 2 teaspoons vanilla extract
• 1 teaspoon almond extract
• (1) 15.25-ounce box white cake mix
Cherry Buttercream
• 1 ½ cups (3 sticks) unsalted butter, softened
• ¼ teaspoon salt
• 4 tablespoons Maraschino cherry juice
• 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
• 1 teaspoon almond extract
• 6 ¾ cups powdered sugar, sifted
• Whole milk or cream to thin frosting (optional)
• 8-10 Maraschino cherries, chopped
EQUIPMENT
• (3) 6-inch round pans (can use two 8-inch rounds)
• Parchment paper
• 4-5 piping tips (tips should be different sizes and shapes)
• Large piping bag
• Piping bag coupler
INSTRUCTIONS
Cake
1. Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F. Coat the inside of eachpan with olive oil or shortening. Dust with flour. Cut (3) 5 3/4 inch rounds out of parchment paper and place in the bottom of each pan.
2. Add the shaken buttermilk, Maraschino cherry juice, vegetable oil, sour cream, egg whites, vanilla, and almond extract to a mixing bowl. Whisk until blended.
3. Sift the cake mix and stir into the liquid ingredients until just moistened. Do not overmix. Divide evenly between the threepans.
4. Bake for 25 minutes or until an inserted toothpick comes out clean or with crumbs. Remove from the oven and cool on a wire rack for 5-10 minutes. Then, turn the pans upside down and remove each cake onto the rack. Pull off the parchment paper. Cool.
Cherry Buttercream
1. Beat the butter and salt until smooth and creamy. Then, add the cherry juice, vanilla, and almond extracts. Beat until mixed.
2. Sift the powdered sugar into the butter mixture. Beat until well mixed. Add milk or cream a teaspoonful at a time and mix if the buttercream is too thick. It should be soft enough to spread with ease on the cake.
3. Add one layer to a cake plate and coat the top with frosting. Chop the cherries and place half on the layer, spreading evenly. Repeat with the second layer. Then, add the third layer and coat the top and the sides of all the layers with a thin layer of buttercream. (If making an 8-inch layer cake, add all the cherries on the first layer.)
4. Add a coupler to a piping bag. Cut the end of the bag to allow the coupler to fit in it with the nose sticking out. Add a tip and secure it with the coupler ring. Add frosting to the bag. Pipe frosting shapes in various places on the cake. Unscrew the coupler ring and remove the tip, adding another one in its place. Pipe shapes in random places. Repeat with the other tips until the cake is fully decorated.
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and Savory Tips
• You can use a variety of tips to decorate this cake. Some ideas include star tips in different sizes. Open star tips and folded ones will give you different looks. Russian tips will make flowers with intricate patterns. Scatter the stars and flowers around the cake instead of placing them in clumps so there is a lot of visual interest. Then, fill in any holes with frosting piped with small tips. You can buy a kit with starter tips to make it easy.
• The batter is easy to mix, and you do not need a mixer. However, sifting is necessary to prevent lumps and overstirring.
• Cake will sometimes stick to the bottom of the pan and tear when you try to remove it. You can help ensure that your cakes come out in one piece by following an extra step. Cut out 3 parchment paper circles (a little smaller than the pans) and place them into the bottom of each pan. Then, pour the batter into the pans.
• Maraschino cherries give this cake a pretty pink color. If you are concerned about red food coloring (Red 40) in the cherries, use Maraschino cherries dyed with natural plant coloring, such as Mezzetta Maraschino Cherries. They are also free of high fructose corn syrup. .
from the House of Elyn Ryn
Prep time: 20 minutes
Calling All PizzaLovers
February is the month of love. When we think about foods we love, different things come to mind for each of us. My family harbors a deep love for pizza. One year for Valentine’s Day, my husband had a special heart-shaped pizza made for our family at a local pizza restaurant. It was so cute and delicious, it’s still a favorite Valentine’s memory.
Along with celebrating Valentine’s Day, February is also American Heart Month, raising awareness for cardiac disease. You too can celebrate love and Heart Month with pizza, just like my husband did. This is less challenging if you make the pizza at home, so you are aware of what is in and on your personalized treat.
There are so many different options for pizza, it is a food that you could eat multiple times a week and never be bored. Looking for a healthy option? Include ingredients from all of the food groups on a whole grain crust for a healthier pizza. Get creative with your toppings! Use fruit, vegetables, lean meat and low-fat cheeses. Not only do you get to choose what to put on your homemade pizza, you can control the amounts of the toppings, which helps lower saturated fat and sodium. Pile veggies on your pizza to your heart’s content–but think of your cardiac health before you pile excessive amounts of meat and cheese on your pizza.
Worried that homemade pizza requires more time than you have? You are in luck. Here’s my secret to speedy pizza making: pita bread. You can actually make two individual thin crust pizzas from one piece of pita bread. Just separate the top from the bottom of the pita circle (a lower carb option great for diabetics) or use the whole pita for a thicker crust. The whole wheat variety works great, even for those family members who may not typically choose whole grain products.
When we don’t have a dinner plan, pita pizzas are often the solution. Add a salad and your dinner is complete. Less expensive and much healthier than a restaurant because you have a wholegrain crust, plenty of vegetables and a reasonable amount of lower fat cheese. To make your meal even more fun, set up a pizza bar and let everyone choose their toppings for personalized pizza creations. Quick, easy and delicious!
Personalized Pita Pizza Recipe for 2
INGREDIENTS
• 2 round 6-7” whole wheat pitas
• Spaghetti sauce (use as little or much as you prefer)
• 3 oz. part-skim shredded mozzarella cheese
• 1 cup chopped vegetables (onions, peppers, mushrooms, spinach, olives – your choice)
• Cooked Italian turkey sausage crumbles or small pieces (optional)
• Olive oil
DIRECTIONS
1. Preheat the oven to 350°F. Spread sauce on each pita round. If you’re using chopped fresh spinach, add it now, before the cheese, so it won’t dry out too much.
2. Top with cheese, divided between the two pizzas, and then vegetables and sausage. Drizzle with olive oil.
3. Bake at 350°F for 15 minutes on a pizza pan or cookie sheet.
VARIATIONS
Barbeque Chicken Pizza
• Substitute barbeque sauce for the spaghetti sauce. Top with cooked chicken (a great way to use up leftover rotisserie, grilled or baked chicken), cheese of your choice and vegetables. Bake as directed above.
Hawaiian Pizza
• Top sauce with diced deli ham, well-drained pineapple tidbits, cheese, and desired vegetables. Bake as directed above.
by CARMEN LONG
Hometown Heroes
Navigating Life with a Horse, Faith, and Common Sense
by DERINA PYLES
“Whoa Traveler! Slow down!” I pushed my feet hard into the stirrups to brace myself and encourage him to stop. He ignored me for a few more strides before coming to a screeching halt.
I hollered, “Can you please quit watching John Wayne Westerns the night before our trail ride? The only things you want to do the next day are jump fences, gallop way too fast, and rear up like you’re the Lone Ranger’s horse.”
“I can’t help it Hay-Woman. I get so excited and imagine it’s me in one of those Westerns—in the shootout, catching the bad guys, saving the day, the star of the show.”
“Well, I’m taking that TV I put up in your stall out when we get back.” My threatening tone was clear. This had happened on our last three rides and I’d had enough. I thought back to early in my horsemanship career. A mentor of mine had said, “If your horse is having too much fun, you usually aren’t.”
Between hard breaths, Traveler gushed, “I wish I had been a stunt horse.”
“Oh really?” I tried to hide the sarcasm in my voice. “You know Traveler, those stunt horses did not have an easy life back then. They worked long hours. They weren’t treated very well and were injured regularly from all the stunts they were forced to perform. It wasn’t at all the glamorous life you see in the movies. That’s the edited version.”
He pawed the ground sheepishly. “Wow, I didn’t know.”
“Let compromise.” I dismounted, walked around to his sweaty head and foamy chest, and looked him in the eye. “Next time you want to pretend you are in a Western movie, tell me first. We can plan to do a little Western movie stuff, but safely. You can be happy, and I can be prepared. You forget you are a 1200-lb animal sometimes.”
“Yeah, and you weigh …”
I cleared my throat loudly to interrupt his comment. “Well, my weight doesn’t matter,”
Traveler nickered softly, then said, “I like this compromising stuff.”
Nodding my head in agreement, I replied, “Just remember Traveler, compromising with others is the right thing to do in your day-to-day life, but never, ever compromise your faith and love in God.”
I walked back to his side, checked the cinch on my saddle to make sure it was snug, and climbed back on. I squeezed his sides hard with my legs and yelled, “Hi ho Silver, away!” Surprised by this unexpected command, Traveler hesitated … but only for a second.
“Okay, Hay-Woman, here we goooo!”
Now it was my turn to have some fun!
True Valentine
When I think of Valentine’s Day, I confess I get a bit uncomfortable, “squirmish” even. While I don’t want to come off as a curmudgeon or shy away from spoiling my wife on Valentine’s Day, I believe there’s more to this holiday than just chocolates, flowers, heartfelt notes, and fancy dinners. Beneath the surface of these customary gestures lies a wonderful opportunity to reflect on the deeper essence of love. Although this day has turned into a cultural celebration of romantic affection, it also serves as a moment to contemplate the profound nature of true love— a love that echoes the selfless, sacrificial love that God shows us.
At the heart of Christian theology, at least as I study it, is the belief that God’s love for humanity is the truest and most perfect form of love. John 15:13 captures this beautifully: “No greater love has any man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.”
These words, spoken by Jesus, define love not as a fleeting emotion or a self-serving pursuit but as an act of ultimate sacrifice. They invite us to think about how we show love in our own lives. True love challenges us to move beyond superficial gestures and instead embrace a love that gives, serves, and sacrifices. On Valentine’s Day, this divine example reminds us that love is not about what we receive but what we are willing to give.
In our human relationships, true love often requires us to set aside our own comfort, desires, or convenience for someone else’s well-being. This principle stands in stark contrast to the transactional view of love often promoted by modern culture, which emphasizes personal gain and self-gratification. Think about a couple navigating the challenges of daily life together. True love isn’t about grand romantic gestures but is found in the small, daily acts of kindness and selflessness. It’s
in the spouse who wakes up early to make coffee for their partner, the parent who sacrifices sleep to care for a sick child, or the friend who goes out of their way to provide support during a tough time. These seemingly ordinary moments reflect the extraordinary nature of sacrificial love.
But how do we recognize true love in a world that often confuses it with infatuation or convenience? Now this can get tricky, but I personally think we need to examine the motivations and actions behind the relationship thoughtfully. True love isn’t self-serving; it’s about seeking the good in the other person, even at a personal cost. Jesus’ life and teachings provide a clear example of this. His love for humanity wasn’t passive or conditional, it was active and sacrificial. He gave up the glory of heaven, lived a life of humility, and ultimately laid down His life so that others might have eternal life. That’s the ultimate standard for how we should love one another.
Valentine’s Day serves as a reminder to all who are open and thoughtful, that true love isn’t about what we can get out of a relationship, but about what we are willing to give. It’s about putting the needs of the other person above our own and showing commitment through action. The Apostle Paul’s description of love in 1 Corinthians 13 captures this beautifully: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.”
These words challenge us to be patient and kind, to put others first, and to forgive freely. In doing so, we reflect the love of God to those around us.
While Valentine’s Day is often associated with romantic love, its origins lie in the story of St. Valentine, a Christian martyr who demonstrated love through his faith and actions. His legacy reminds us that love isn’t limited to romantic relationships, but also encompasses our love for friends, family, and even strangers. When we celebrate Valentine’s Day, it’s a chance to reflect on the sacrificial love of Christ and how it can strengthen our own relationships. By focusing on what we can give rather than what we can receive, we honor the true spirit of the day and draw closer to God’s vision for love.
As we plan experiences and exchange cards and gifts this Valentine’s Day, let’s try to remember that the greatest expression of love isn’t found in material things, but in the sacrifices we make for others. Jesus’ words in John 15:13 challenge us to embrace a love that is selfless and sacrificial, reflecting the heart of God. Whether it’s through acts of kindness, words of encouragement, or quiet sacrifices, we can embody the true meaning of Valentine’s Day by loving others as Christ loves us. In doing so, we not only strengthen our relationships, but also offer a glimpse of God’s perfect love in a world that needs it.
by Larry VanHoose
Gardening and Love: A Growing Connection
by JOANNA RADFORD
When we think of love, we often picture relationships, heartwarming gestures, and moments of deep emotional connection. But love can also be found in the soil, in the gentle care we give to plants, and in the growth that happens when we nurture the earth around us. Gardening, at its heart, is a labor of love—an act of patience, care, and connection that brings beauty and joy not only to our surroundings but to our hearts as well.
At its core, gardening is about cultivating life. Whether you are planting seeds, tending to a flowerbed, or harvesting homegrown vegetables, each act is an expression of love for the earth and all its creatures. Research shows that gardening, much like other forms of creative expression, nurtures our well-being by reducing stress and boosting our mood. Spending time in nature, especially engaging in activities like gardening, can lower anxiety and improve mental health. There is something soothing about the repetitive act of digging, planting, and watering, each small movement connecting us to the rhythms of the earth.
The emotional benefits of gardening are profound. As you nurture your plants, you create a space of serenity and tranquility—both for yourself and for those around you. Studies show that people who spend time caring for plants often feel a sense of purpose and accomplishment. Watching something grow under your care is an incredibly rewarding experience. Whether it’s the thrill of seeing your first tomato ripen or the joy of a blooming flower, these small victories remind us of the beauty that comes with nurturing and patience.
Gardening also provides a unique opportunity for self-reflection. It’s a mindful practice, where you can slow down and focus on the present moment. Just as love requires patience and attention, so too, does gardening. The process teaches us that good things take time, and that growth— whether in a plant or in ourselves— is not always immediate, but is always worth the wait.
Gardening can also deepen our connections with others. It fosters a sense of community and encourages the sharing of both knowledge and the bounty of our gardens. Whether it’s gifting freshly harvested produce to neighbors or sharing gardening tips with friends, gardening can be a way of spreading love and kindness. Many gardeners find joy in participating in community gardens, where collective efforts grow something meaningful for everyone. The simple act of giving back through gardening can be a powerful expression of love for others.
Moreover, the benefits of gardening extend beyond the garden itself. In cultivating a space filled with life, we are reminded of the importance of environmental stewardship. By caring for our gardens and our environment, we also express our love for the planet. Sustainable gardening practices— such as composting, planting native species, or reducing water usage— not only make our gardens thrive but help protect the world for future generations.
Love, at its essence, is about connection. Gardening is one of the most universal ways to connect with the world around us. Regardless of age, experience, or background, gardening offers everyone the opportunity to experience the joys of growth and connection. Whether you are planting a tiny seed or watching a vine stretch toward the sky, each moment spent in the garden is an opportunity to nurture, heal, and experience the profound beauty of love in its purest form.
Gardening is not just about the plants we grow; it’s about the love we cultivate in the process. From the love we show for our gardens to the joy we find in sharing our harvest, gardening reminds us of the power of nurturing and connection. So, this season, take a moment to plant something with love— whether it’s a tiny seed, a new relationship, or simply a bit of peace in your soul. The garden is waiting to share its gifts with you.
NC State Extension Master Gardener volunteers of Surry County offer a wide variety of gardening classes and handson workshops in libraries and senior centers throughout the county. For more information call NC Cooperative Extension at 336.401.8025 or visit https://surry.ces.ncsu.edu/ for a listing of opportunities.
MOUNT AIRY
Tailgate Saturday Night
Saturday, February 1, 2025 from 6:00 pm to 10:00 pm
Cross Creek Country Club
1129 Greenhill Rd, Mount Airy, NC 27030
Adult Visual Arts Class
Tuesday, February 4, 2025 from 10:00 am to 11:00 am
Surry Arts Council
218 Rockford St, Mount Airy, NC 27030
Visual Arts Class (Ages 6-12)
Saturday, February 7, 2025 from 4:00 pm to 5:00 pm
Surry Arts Council
218 Rockford St, Mount Airy, NC 27030
Ma Rainey’s Black Bottom
Sunday, February 8, 2025 from 7:30 pm to 8:30 pm
Mount Airy Museum of Regional History
301 N Main St, Mount Airy, NC 27030
Sean of the South
Friday, February 14, 2025 at 7:00 pm
Historic Earle Theatre
142 N Main St, Mount Airy, NC 27030
American History: The Black Experience
Saturday, February 15, 2025 at 6:30 pm
Andy Griffith Playhouse
218 Rockford St, Mount Airy, NC 27030
Heart of a Child Ball
Saturday, February 15, 2025 at 6:00 pm - 11:00 pm
Cross Creek Country Club
1129 Greenhill Rd, Mount Airy, NC 27030
Surry Arts Ball
Friday, February 28, 2025 from 6:00 pm - 10:00 pm
Cross Creek Country Club
1129 Greenhill Rd, Mount Airy, NC 27030
ELKIN
Valentine Truck Paint Class
Saturday, February 1, 2025 from 12:00 pm to 3:00 pm
Cabeland Farm
2060 Mountain Park Rd, State Road, NC 28676
Brunch @ Southern on Main
Sunday, February 2, 2025 from 11:00 am to 3:00 pm
Southern on Main
102 E. Main St, Elkin, NC 28621
Big Elkin BrrrFest + Great American Soup-Off
Saturday, February 8, 2025 from 11:00 am to 4:00 pm
Coley Hall at The Liberty
222 Main St, Elkin, NC 28621
Saturday @ The Red Barn! Original and Tradiational music by CandelFirth!
Saturday, February 22, 2025 from 12:00 pm to 3:00 pm
Coley Hall at The Liberty
235 Chatham Cottage Circle, State
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DOBSON
February Wine Social Club
Saturday, February 1, 2025 from 1:00 pm to 2:00 pm
Shelton Vineyards
286 Cabernet Ln, Dobson, NC 27017
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Valentines Weekend
Friday, February 13, 2025 at 8:00 am to Sunday, February 16, 2025 at 5:00 pm
Shelton Vineyards
286 Cabernet Ln, Dobson, NC 27017 GALAX
JD Simo / Luther Dickinson
Thursday, February 6, 2025 from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm
The Rex Theater
113 E Grayson St, Galax, VA 24333
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The Lonesome River Band
Saturday, February 7, 2025 from 4:00 pm to 5:00 pm
