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Valley Fire Tale A silver lining X-mas Lights! 24 sparkling spots

Go Local! Get great gift ideas

Interfaith Families

A holiday how-to

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Extended Holiday Shopping Hours Monday - Saturday 9am to 9 pm • Sunday 9am to 6pm Christmas Eve - 9am to 5pm • Christmas Day - Closed Saturday, December 26 - 9am to 6pm

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Santa and Mrs. Claus

Beginning Saturday, November 28, Santa and Mrs. Claus will be in their Photo Studio in Village Terrace every weekend from 11am to 3pm. All proceeds benefit the Volunteer Center of Sonoma County.

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Chanukah Festival

Sunday, December 6 • 4pm in Village Court The Chabad Jewish Center invites you to Celebrate Chanukah. Join us for a Menorah Lighting Celebration. Hot Latkes, Live Music, Dreidels, Gelt, Prizes and More. For information, call 707.577-0277.

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The Secret Santa Marathon

Thursday, December 17 • 6am to 9pm While wrapping up your holiday shopping and enjoying the givestrolling entertainment, help us fulfill every last Secret Santa wish from our neighbors in need. For more information about Secret Santa, call 707.573.3399.

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The Gift of Endless Choices

Montgomery Village Gift Certificates are redeemable at all stores and restaurants in the Village. Plus if you purchase $100 or more in Gift Certificates at the Village’s Management Office you will receive a See’s Candies Certificate (good for 1 pound of See’s Candies, while supplies last). For details or to pre-order, call 707.545.3844. A PREMIER HOLIDAY SHOPPING EXPERIENCE

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December 2015

Every Issue

12 Features

Dear Reader

Bits and Pieces Sweet Digs Hit the Ice Krazy for Klezmer Honey, I Shrunk the Town Not Your Average New Year

24 Crafting with Kids

10 Great Gifts for Giving Perfect presents for kids.

12 Money for Makers How North Bay Made helps local artists grow their businesses.

16 Silver Linings A Valley Fire victim finds healing among the ashes.

18 Tell Me All About It Pass down family history through intergenerational interviews.

20 Ho-Ho Hanukkah! How to blend Jewish and Christian traditions.

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26 Calendar of Events Holiday Harmonies

40 Cooking with Kids In Praise of Pumpkin

41 Dear Teacher Turn Around a Lousy Day

42 Humor Break

22 Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Easy to Be Green Eco-friendly ways to celebrate the holidays.

25 Ultimate Guide to Christmas Lights Stroll through neighborhoods that shine and shimmer.

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WIN PRIZES PLUS A CHANCE TO BE ON THE COVER OF FAMILY LIFE!

Sweepstakes & Cover Contest Our Selfie Elves will be hanging out at these participating locations, waiting to have their selfies taken and e-mailed to info@family-life.us, before December 30TH. Scandia Family Fun Center Debbie’s Pet Boutique Great Clips Sports City Mountain Mike’s Pizza Laser Tag of Santa Rosa Rebounderz Rohnert Park Redwood Empire Gymnastics Made Local Marketplace Western Farm Center Restyle Marketplace Fundemonium Toys

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Dear Reader

Sharon Gowan Publisher/Editor Sharon@family-life.us

appy holidays! It’s the season of carols, lights, and strolling through your local downtown, looking for just the right gifts. Don’t let the stress of holiday shopping get the best of you.

Make it fun with Sonoma Family Life’s “Selfies with Elfies” contest. We’re giving away tons of prizes and a chance to have your child’s face grace one of our future covers. Entering is easy. Just go to any of the dozens of participating locations in your area and take your Selfie (or a picture of your kids or pets) with our Elfie. (See page 5 for a list of locations displaying Elfies near you.) New “Selfies with Elfies” locations are sprouting up all the time. For the latest list, visit

sonomafamilylife.com, and join our e-mail list for updates and news. Snap your Selfie at all the locations for more chances to win. E-mail your Selfies to info@family-life.us by December 30. We’ll choose winners in January.

Office Manager Patricia Ramos patty@family-life.us

When you make your annual gift list, remember to go local! See “Money for Makers” (page 12) to find out about retailers who sell the work of local artisans and farmers.

Business Marketing Jolie Cook jolie@family-life.us

As holiday hubbub grows, let Valley Fire survivor Tim Gill’s moving essay “Silver Linings” (page 16) keep your eye on what truly matters: family and love.

Renee Nutcher renee@family-life.us Marie Anderson marie@family-life.us

We hope your holidays are full of bright smiles, warm hearts, and buckets of joy. Thank you for sharing them with us!

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Production Manager Donna Bogener production@family-life.us

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Bits & Pieces

Sweet Digs

gingerbread house could never last around a sweet tooth for too long. Frosting trim, M&M shingles, candy-cane trees—those are some seriously munch-able digs. At Once Upon a Gingerbread House, little builders can use graham crackers, frosting, and way too much candy to create their own edible abodes. The free event will be held on December 19 at 10:30 a.m. at the Guerneville Regional Library in Guerneville. Ages 4 and up, with caregivers, are welcome. See sonomalibrary.org for more information. ¶

Family fun at the Union Square Rink in San Francisco.

Hit the Ice

ou don’t need a frozen pond in your backyard to enjoy the winter thrill of skating outside. Pack up the kids for a special trip to the iconic Union Square Ice Rink in San Francisco, or stay local and go to the Outdoor Ice Skating Rink in Napa. The Union Square Rink is open through January 18, 2016. Ninety-minute skating sessions run 10 a.m.–11:30 p.m. and are $11; under 8, $7. Skate rental is $6 (unionsquareicerink.com). Meanwhile, the Outdoor Ice Skating Rink in Napa is open through January 10. Skating sessions are $13, including skates. Check website for times (onicerinks.com/napa-on-ice).

Other urban rinks include the Holiday Ice Rink at the Justin Herman Plaza at the Embarcadero Center in San Francisco, and the Little Ice Rink at the South Shore Center in Alameda. The Holiday Ice Rink is open 10 a.m.–9:30 p.m., Sunday–Thursday, and 10 a.m.–11:30 p.m., Friday and Saturday, through January 3, 2016. Ninety-minute sessions start every even hour. Admission is $11; kids 7 and under, $6. Skate rental is $5 (embarcaderocenter.com/event/holiday-icerink-2015). The Little Ice Rink runs through January 18. Hours are Monday–Thursday, 3–10 p.m., and Friday–Sunday, noon–10 p.m. Admission includes skate rental and is $16; kids 8 and under, $12 (thelittleicerink.com).

Jubilee Klezmer Ensemble

Krazy for Klezmer

he toe-tapping rhythms of Israeli music will fill the air on December 12, 2–3 p.m., at the Cloverdale Regional Library in Cloverdale. Listen to the Jubilee Klezmer Ensemble’s clarinet, accordion, and bass, as well as a Yiddish singer, churn out festive melodies, both ancient and modern. The event is free. See sonomalibrary.org for more information. ¶

For indoor skating fun, check out Snoopy’s Home Ice at the Redwood Empire Ice Arena in Santa Rosa (snoopyshomeice.com). ¶ 8 SonomaFamilyLife

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Not Your Average New Year

ou don’t have to be a night owl to go to a New Year’s Eve bash. On December 31, watch the ball drop when the clock strikes 12 (noon, that is) at the Charles M. Schulz Museum in Santa Rosa. The Happy New Year, Charlie Brown! event will be held 10 a.m.–4 p.m., with root beer toasts at noon and 3 p.m., and crafts for kids. Admission to the museum gets you into the event: $10; ages 4–18 and 60 and over, $5; and 3 and under and museum members, free. See schulzmuseum.org for more information. ¶

Honey, I Shrunk the Town

ee an itsy-bitsy winter wonderland at the annual exhibit Small World: Tiny Toys and All Things Miniature, which runs Wednesdays– Sundays, 11 a.m.–4 p.m., through January 3, 2016, at the Healdsburg Museum in Healdsburg. Let impossibly small churches and stores, horses and buggies, and even a model train, invite kids to imagine what life might be like if they were two inches, instead of two feet, tall. Admission is free. ¶

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Toys & Games (continued)

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Lakeshore, $19.99, www. LakeshoreLearning.com, Ages 4-11

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TONKA Mighty Dump by Dynacraft

Dynacraft, $349.95, www.dynacraftbike.com, Ages 3 and up

The Haywire Group, $22.99, www.haywiregroup.com, Ages 3 and up

Apps, Tech Toys & Websites

ABCmouse.com Early Learning Academy

Age of Learning, $7.95 per month (subscription), www.ABCmouse.com, Ages 2-7

Bluebee Pals

Kayle Concepts, $59.99, www.bluebeepals.com, Ages 3 and up

Speakaboos

Speakaboos, $4.99 for a 1-month subscription and $49.99 for a 1-year subscription, www.Speakaboos.com, Ages 2-7

Books HOUSE OF ROBOTS by James Patterson - Audiobook Edition

Hachette Audio, $17.98, www.soundcloud.com/hachetteaudio, Ages 8-12

I AM MALALA (Young Readers Audiobook Edition): How One Girl Stood Up for Education and Changed the World Hachette Audio, $22.98, www.soundcloud.com/hachetteaudio, Ages 10 and up

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Music Together Singalong Storybooks: Hey, Diddle Diddle, Ridinâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; in the Car and Two Little Blackbirds Music Together, $9.95 board book; $13.95 hardcover, www.musictogether.com/storybooks, Ages 1-8

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Music & DVDs

Deep Woods Revival

Red Yarn Productions, $15, www.redyarnproductions.com, Ages 2-8

Miss Melodee’s “Find Your Melody” Album

Melstar Entertainment, $14.99, www.missmelodee.com, For the entire family

French for Kids: Allons Danser! (Let’s Dance!) Whistlefritz, $14.99, www.whistlefritz.com, For the entire family

Simpatico by Renee and Friends

One Melody Records, $11.99, www.reneeandfriends.com, For the entire family

Meet the Pod Squad

NCircle Entertainment, $9.99, www.ncircleentertainment.com, Ages 3-7

The Gruffalo and The Gruffalo’s Child Double Feature NCircle Entertainment, $19.99, www.ncircleentertainment.com, For the entire family

Tomorrow Is a Chance To Start Over by Hilary Grist The Secret Mountain, $16.95, www.thesecretmountain.com, Ages 2-8

The Wonder Years Complete Series Time Life, $249.95, amzn.com/B00NUNILZK, Ages 8 and up

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Money for Makers

“There is a whole movement across the country to bring back local manufacturing and local making. The gist is to identify products that are made in our region, help promote those products, and actually get those makers into additional retail outlets,” says Kelley Rajala, who ade in China. Made in Honduras. officially cofounded North Bay Made with weaver Made in Mexico. Flip over or check Pam Dale in 2013. the tag of practically anything you Dale and Rajala are also co-owners of Made Local Marketplace, which features hundreds of locally buy, and chances are that it’s made made fine crafts. (See facing page for a sample of somewhere else. Even if it’s made the work they sell.)

Nonprofit Helps Local Stores and Artists Thrive

in the US, it’s probably not made locally. Unless, of course, you shop at Made Local Marketplace in Santa Rosa or any of the other 14 Sonoma, Mendocino, and Lake County stores that participate in North Bay Made, a nonprofit that connects local makers and retailers.

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One of the purposes of both Made Local and North Bay Made is to help makers gain access to local retail stores. Both institutions have a different part in the process. Made Local assesses makers’ capacity to take on a larger market, helping them hone their product designs, packaging, and pricing, explains Rajala. Meanwhile, North Bay Made helps “established makers

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Kelley Rajala and Pam Dale, cofounders of North Bay Made.

Olive Oil from SunHawk Farms

Crocheted Wire Jewelry by Benedicte Moens

get into other retail stores to increase their sales and visibility,” she says. Besides makers, North Bay Made also works with stores, helping them find local products that are a good fit for their clientele. For instance, the owners of the Mendocino Country Store in Mendocino, parents Michael and Corinne Gordon, went through Made Local’s inventory with a clipboard in hand and selected products that appealed to both of them. “We connected them to probably 35 local and regional artisans that they now carry in their store. So that was great for them because it would have taken them a long time to hunt down those people. And it was great for the makers because now they have an outlet [in a local] store,” says Rajala. One of the first local businesses Rajala and Dale worked with was Westside Renaissance Market, owned by Scott Cratty. The Ukiah grocery, the last neighborhood market in the area, was revived by Cratty 7 years ago to www.sonomafamilylife.com

Woven Scarves by Pam Dale

“There is a whole movement across the country to bring back local manufacturing and local making.” —Kelley Rajala

outpost in the back of my store that they help maintain and keep up,” he says. “Then reciprocally there have been a lot of Mendocino products that they wouldn’t have otherwise encountered that they [have brought] from my store over there. When we started working together, their store didn’t have any refrigeration in front and essentially no food things, and my store had very limited nonfood things.” So does North Bay Made actually work? Are local makers expanding their businesses?

Pottery by Jessie Stimson

become a hub for locally produced food, and thanks to the help of Rajala and Dale, fine crafts. According to Cratty, Westside Renaissance Market and Made Local are “models” of what North Bay Made hopes to achieve: stores with a “whole bunch of product exchange” between them. “[Rajala and Dale] brought [some products] from their store to…a little December 2015

“Yes,” says Dale, adding that a good maker-store fit “creates the potential for substantial growth.” For example, North Bay Made helped the award-winning Sonoma Chocolatiers, run by Sebastopol parents David Gambill and Susan McCarn, sell their chocolates not just in their Sebastopol tea shop but also at the Mendocino Country Store. (Gambill and McCarn are currently running a crowdfunding campaign on sonomachocolatiers. com to help fund further product development and marketing.) SonomaFamilyLife 13

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Sebastopol potter Larry Robinson and Petaluma potter Candace Birchfield have also seen their businesses grow with the help of North Bay Made. Robinson’s “stuff just sells out constantly up in Mendocino,” Dale

Buying local products gives consumers a connection to their communities. enthuses. And Birchfield “has enough income coming in from her expansion into the North Bay Made retail outlets that she can...expand her line,” she continues. Meanwhile, Made Local has provided a successful retail outlet to several Mendocino County products, including biodynamic olive oil from Sky Hawk Farm in Hopland and goat cheese from Shamrock Artisan in Willits. A lot of the businesses that North Bay Made supports are, like Sonoma Chocolatiers, run by moms and dads: Gowan Cider, a new Philo-based company that makes award-winning hard cider; Sebastopol’s The Kefiry, which

produces non-dairy kefir products; Forestville’s Billy’s Mini Goat Farms, which rents out grazing goats and makes goat milk soap; and Poppy’s Creations, a Manzanita-wood candle, clock, and lamp maker in Middletown, are just a few examples. When Virginia Allen and her husband, Ray, owners of Billy’s Mini Goat Farms, first started making soap, they weren’t even planning to put it in stores. They were content to sell the soap, which they initially made for their daughter, at farmers markets. Then someone suggested they try to sell their product at retailers, including Made Local. Their soaps are now in several local stores, and are so popular, the company is expanding their distribution to San Francisco and Berkeley. Rajala says that giving makers like the Allens a chance to nurture their businesses and make a living at what they do is what North Bay Made is about. Retailers get an opportunity to grow, too: Made Local has just moved to bigger digs on Fourth Street to accommodate its burgeoning selection of products. Right now, nearly 300 makers sell their work in the store,

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Gift of Giving which is looking for even more artists to participate. Meanwhile, North Bay Made is reaching out to retailers to join the collective. Along with makers and retailers, consumers also benefit from “going local.” Small businesses create jobs, invest in local services and nonprofits, and draw in tourists, who are attracted to the one-of-a-kind items they sell. Buying

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North Bay Made helps makers gain access to local retail stores. local products also gives consumers a connection to their communities. “When you have a product that you love, that somebody hand made, and [making it] is what they do for a living, it just has so much more meaning than [something] made in China,” says Rajala. If you want to add more meaning and a greater sense of community to your holiday season, Rajala and Dale invite you to consider purchasing any number of the handcrafted products that are proudly North Bay Made. ¶ To find out more about North Bay Made, see northbaymade.org.

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longer there. I was really struck by the finality of what has happened. That the space in which that memory was created is gone forever. However, I also realized that, in a way, the fire gave that memory back to me. Despite replaying it, the images were not as crisp as they were when my boys were 3 and 7 years old. They

Silver Linings Healing from the Valley Fire By Tim Gill

was on a Southwest flight to San Diego tonight. As we were taking off, I closed my eyes and replayed the same memory I always do when my plane takes flight. During the more than 14 years since I left my teaching position at Middletown High School, I have flown at least 100 times for various reasons related to my job. When my sons were little, they would always have the same response when I would get home from a long trip. They would run over to

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our front door and, one at a time, as I came around the corner, yell “Daddy!,” running as fast as they could into my arms. I would give them a big bear hug, flip them over backwards, and then land them on their feet. That moment when they would yell “Daddy!” and jump into my arms is the memory I replay during every takeoff. When they got too big for me to flip, they would still yell “Daddy!,” and run and jump on me. Then when they became teenagers, they would yell “Daddy!,” and I would get a high-five instead of a hug. My sons are 16 and 20 now. Before the Valley Fire, the last time Jake, the elder, was home, I came home from work, and he and Connor yelled “Daddy!,” and we all had a good laugh. So tonight, when I instinctively closed my eyes and hit the play button, I realized that the home where this memory was made is no

Photo by Amber Sheridan

The Gill clan: Son Connor; Tim; Tim’s wife, Jamey; son Jacob; and Jamey’s dad, Jim Thompson. The family plans to rebuild their home, which was lost in the Valley Fire.

Thanks to the fire, many of my once-faded memories of living in our Cobb Mountain tree house are coming back to me. had faded a bit. Tonight, however, that memory was as clear as if it had happened last week. That wouldn’t be true if we hadn’t lost our home in the Valley Fire. As we headed toward 35,000 feet tonight, I realized that, thanks to the fire, indeed many of my once-faded memories of living in our Cobb Mountain tree house are coming back to me. It makes me happy to think of these moments, many of which I haven’t thought of in years. I had the middle seat and tears in my eyes; the two strangers on either side of me must have thought I was crazy. The tears were happy tears, though. Silver linings are sometimes hard to find when you are looking through the ashes. I found one tonight. Tim Gill works for Kelseyville School District. He and his wife, Jamey, have lived in Lake County most of their lives. They owned their home on Cobb Mountain for 16 years, and plan to rebuild.

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Tell Me All About It Conduct a Family Interview

By Sara Marchessault

ids are always crazy happy when winter break starts. But how do you keep them occupied so that you don’t actually go crazy yourself? Family interviews. Chances are, you will have a house full of out-of-town relatives or you’ll be on your way to visit them. See them as walking encyclopedias of information, family stories, and life experiences just waiting to be mined. When your child interviews Aunt Joann or Grandpa George about holidays of old or what life was like when they were kids, the path is paved for meaningful intergenerational connection as well as the preservation of family history. And you get to keep your sanity to boot! Here’s how to do it. 18 SonomaFamilyLife

Choose the tools. How will the interview information be collected? A voice recorder? A video camera? Pen and paper? Keep in mind that some folks don’t

Prepare a list of questions. Encourage your youngster to think of questions that will invite people to share their stories. (See sidebar for some examples.) Of course, some family members will be eager to talk. In this case, it doesn’t hurt to have a few strategies planned for keeping conversations focused. Ask for the interview. Once your preparations are made, it’s time to think about how you will invite family members to be interviewed. One approach is to ask in advance via e-mail or phone call. Another is to just wait until the holiday family gathering and ask in person. Make time and space. When the big day arrives, make sure the interviewer and interviewee have a reasonable amount of time and a quiet place to talk. Set up some glasses of water and a bowl of snacks to create a welcoming environment.

like being videotaped, but are okay with having their voices recorded. Once you’ve chosen a device, give your budding journalist an opportunity to use it before the interview begins. It’s a good idea to have more than one tool available, in case of technical difficulties.

Copy, edit, present. After the interview is over, copy the video or voice recording file, and save the original. Then edit the duplicate as necessary. If your kids don’t know how to edit, they can use online tutorials or instruction manuals to increase their skills. If the interview was captured via handwritten notes, type them up. Just the raw text is a treasure in and of itself, but if you want to go the extra mile, create a slideshow

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using dialogue from the interview and a combination of old and new photos. Another option is to prepare the information in a story format.

Encourage your youngster to think of questions that will invite people to share their stories. Say thank you. Have your kids send the final presentation to the interviewee, along with a note of appreciation. However it is packaged, the interview will be a wonderful gift. ¶ Sara Marchessault is a writer, coach, and mom. Learn more about her work at saramarchessault.com.

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Conversation Starters

ood questions are the foundation of a great interview experience. These queries are focused on the holidays, but your young interviewer can ask about anything: careers, vacations, advice to a young person, or even where to get the best pizza. Sometimes open-ended invitations like “Tell me about yourself” or “Tell me about your life” elicit the best stories of all. There’s plenty of room to make different queries and see to what the interviewee most eagerly responds. Where and when were you born? How many people were in your immediate family? What were the holidays like when you were growing up? What traditions did you have in your childhood? What new holiday traditions have you introduced to your children? What was the best gift you ever received? Who gave it to you? What is the gift from your childhood that you most remember? Did you have any holiday disappointments when you were a kid? If so, what happened? Was the situation ever resolved?

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Talk to each other. The bottom line on celebrations, holiday or otherwise, is to always do whatever you and your spouse deem best for your family. The only way to come to an understanding about what this means is to discuss it

Holiday joy can be doubled when you choose to light the menorah and decorate the Christmas tree.

How to Honor Different Traditions in Interfaith Families

Ho-Ho Hanukkah! By Christina Katz

s a woman who was raised Catholic and has been happily married to a Jewish man for the past 13 years, I can attest that once you become a parent in an interfaith family, you quickly become accustomed to not being able to please everyone. But since the wisdom of your hearts brought you and your partner together in the first place, why not call on that same source of wisdom to guide you through creating your own version of happy holidays? Holiday joy can be doubled, rather than halved, when you choose to light the menorah and decorate the Christmas tree. Here are a few tips about how to honor two traditions with grace. 20 SonomaFamilyLife

with each other. Be prepared for this to be an ongoing conversation, and probably one that you revisit each year. Protect your joint point of view. Never let bossy or opinionated family members home in on conversations that rightly belong between you and your partner. You only have one spouse, and that’s the person whose opinion you should value most. Your kids come next and the grandparents after them. Don’t treat your parents like children or allow them to treat you like a child. This behavior will only create conflicts between you and your spouse. Ignore disapproving outsiders. Never apologize for being an interfaith family, even if people in your extended family or circle of close friends do not approve of your union. You are not seeking their permission—as Perchik expressed so boldly in Fiddler on the Roof—you are asking for their blessing. Creating harmonious and joyful dual holidays in your own home is your parental right and your familial duty, even if it means agreeing to

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disagree with certain members of your extended family. Keep both sets of traditions. At our house, we celebrate as much of both traditions as we can, without a worry about whether the holidays overlap or not. For me, this means a Christmas tree, presents, cookies, and a big dinner. For my husband, this means lighting two menorahs (one for him and one for our daughter) for eight nights of Hanukkah, and having our daughter’s friends over for potato latkes and some lively dreidel games. Focus on the beauty of ritual. You may be amazed at how moving such simple rituals as lighting the menorah candles can be, even on busy

The bottom line is to always do whatever you and your spouse deem best for your family. school nights. Likewise, look for quiet, awe-inspiring Christmas moments, such as ending the day admiring the decorated tree and window lights. Don’t double your gift budget. We make an effort to celebrate the bounty of two holidays without going overboard. If you are an interfaith family, your kids’ friends may consider them “lucky” because they assume that they get double the gifts every holiday season. However, that’s not necessarily the case at our house. Our daughter typically gets a little present on the first day of Hanukkah and a bigger present on the last day of Hanukkah. One set of grandparents sends a couple of little Hanukkah gifts and a check, and the other sends a www.sonomafamilylife.com

couple of stocking stuffers and a check. The amount of gifts she receives is essentially the same as it would be if we only celebrated one holiday. Share the love. Another thing we enjoy about celebrating two holidays is that our daughter can share rituals from both traditions with her friends, no matter what religion they follow. This may expose her friends to a culture they may not have had the opportunity to learn about otherwise. Participate wisely. When invited to join a new or old tradition on either side of the family, give the ritual a chance. We will try just about anything once. But we reserve the right to say no to pressure or anything that makes us feel uncomfortable. Maintaining an atmosphere where you can say yes or no without stern chastisement may not come easily in your extended family system. But start trying it, or you’ll never get there. Honor the choices of others. We don’t try to protect our family members from our choices. They need to be exposed to what we value, if we expect them to understand and accept our decisions. However, we also try to respect the choices that each of our family members make without imposing our values on them. Jewish families get Hanukkah cards and Christian families get Christmas cards. With interfaith families, we go with “Happy Holidays.” ¶ Author, journalist, and writing coach Christina Katz loves celebrating the winter holidays with her family and friends. Each year her family enjoys exchanging ornaments for the tree, and inviting a new group of friends over to play the dreidel game and eat potato latkes.

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suppose the winter holidays have always been one big clutter-and-junk accumulating fest. Our landfills are bulging, and more people are realizing it’s time to start thinking green for the holidays. But how can you do that with so many people to shop for? These 11 ideas will help you not only make eco-friendly choices, but save some cash, too. It turns out being green is also good for your wallet!

Reduce. Consumer polls have shown that millions of Americans are still paying off in October credit card debt accumulated over the holidays. Why do we do that to ourselves when the holidays are not about money, but religion, tradition, heritage, history, and family? Here’s an easy way to get into a green mood: Pretend you

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have a total of $100 to spend on everyone on your gift list. You’ll soon be thinking of creative gift ideas to cook, bake, make, and more.

Reuse. There’s no shame in purchasing used items for presents. You’ll spend half of what you would on new presents, and at places like craigslist.com and ebay.com as well as thrift shops,

Package sustainably. Cloth bags are an excellent substitute for wrapping paper. (Check out page 24 for directions on how to make your own.) You can also wrap presents in pages from old atlases, magazines, newspapers, or phone books. My mom sometimes wraps a present for me in a nice dish towel—a gift in itself!

Make it useful. Give herbs in pots, stainless steel water bottles, or beloved books that can be read again and again. Make your own gift certificates for services like babysitting, car washing, or some other helpful act. For a teen, how about an iTunes gift card, eco-friendly cosmetics and bath products, organic T-shirts, or a solar-powered desk lamp? Check out treehugger.com’s annual Green Gift Guide.

Join in. My mom likes to buy us a family membership to our

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3 LESSONS FOR $99! local zoo, which we put to use many times throughout the year. Other ideas include a membership to a children’s museum, an indoor pool, or the World Wildlife Federation (worldwildlife.org).

Donate money. Consider giving money to a charity in the name of each person on your gift list. Not only will you avoid using paper to wrap presents, you’ll get the satisfaction of helping another human being as well.

Stocking stuffers. Instead of filling stockings with cheap junk that’ll end up in the trash in a week, try art supplies like colored pencils and crayons. Stubbypencilstudio.com has a great selection of products made from environmentally friendly materials.

No gift at all. Although you may feel inadequate about not giving everyone a present, realize that not everyone wants one. When my grandma told us that she didn’t want any holiday gifts, it felt strange at first. Then we realized how much stuff she already has in her home; it made sense that she would not want to add to the clutter. We don’t even miss giving her gifts because we make memories in other ways. Kerrie McLoughlin is a writer and mother to five children. Find her at thekerrieshow.com.

Give an experience. For adults, event tickets, a spa gift certificate, or cash for a date night and a sitter fit the bill. For kids, how about tickets to an upcoming circus or children’s music concert?

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Crafting with Kids

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t may be hard to imagine the holidays without gifts wrapped in crisp, shiny paper adorned

with ribbons and bows. But imagine this: Four million tons of wrapping paper and shopping bags crumpled in trash bags and thrown away. That’s a lot of waste, and despite tradition, it isn’t necessary. Cloth gift bags are beautiful and reusable. Inspired to reduce the amount of paper she used during the holidays, mother of five Beth Plummer started making her own cloth shopping bags a few years ago. She and the kids have never looked back. Opening gifts may sound a little different—no more crinkling and ripping—but it’s not any less fun. It’s Sew Easy to Build Your Stash If you have basic sewing skills, putting together your own bags is really simple. Cut rectangles. Hem both short edges. Then fold the rectangle in half to form a square (right sides in). Sew up both sides. Turn right side out, and you have a bag.

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Plummer recommends starting off making bags that are 12 inches square, a size that fits many items. Use scraps for making smaller bags. Tie close your finished product with

To reign in costs, build your stash of bags over time. pretty cloth ribbon or twine, and make your own gift cards out of recycled greeting cards. There is an initial expense involved in switching to cloth bags. To reign in costs, Plummer recommends building your stash of bags over time, reducing

your use of paper as you go. Start with fabric you already have on hand or buy some on clearance. Come January, you’ll find sales on holiday-themed fabric that you can use next year. As you switch from paper to cloth, you may need to reimagine what your wrapped gifts will look like and what opening them will sound like, but give it a try. Likely the biggest difference will be in the amount of trash you haul out to the curb. ¶ Sara Barry writes about seasonal family topics. She uses cloth bags to wrap gifts for her daughters.

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Holiday Harmonies

ut your vocal chords to good use at the Redwood Empire Sing-Along Messiah on December 19 at 7 p.m. at the Jackson Theater in the Sonoma Country Day School in Santa Rosa. Copies of Handel’s Messiah will be handed out to the audience. Participants will join a 100-person on-stage choir and full orchestra in singing this great work, including the famous “Hallelujah Chorus.” Tickets are $20 and may be purchased at sing-along-messiah.org. ¶

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your favorite winter pajamas & enjoy hot cocoa & treats while being entertained by storybook characters & Santa. The Christmas Train will depart afternoons & early evenings daily from Willits or Fort Bragg, Dec. 3–Dec. 23; & from West Sacramento weekends & some weekdays thru Dec. 23. $34–$61. 800-866-1690. xmastrain.com. A Christmas Carol. $15–$37.

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Street Playhouse. 52 West 6th St., Santa Rosa. 523-4185 ext. 101. 6thstreetplayhouse.com. FREE Open Mic Night at Hopmonk Sebastopol. Musicians, comedians, beat boxers, jugglers, hula hoopers. All ages welcome. 7:30 p.m. Hopmonk Tavern. 230 Petaluma Ave., Sebastopol. hopmonk.com. FREE First Tuesday at the de Young Museum. 50 Hagiwara Tea Garden Dr., Golden Gate Park. San Francisco. deyoung.famsf.org.

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Wednesday 2 FREE Bibliobop Dance Party for Preschoolers. Ages 0–5. 11 a.m.

Windsor Regional Library. 9291 Old Redwood Hwy., Bldg. 100, Windsor. sonomalibrary.org. FREE Santa Rosa Original Certified Farmers Market. Open year-round. Wednesdays. 9 a.m.–1 p.m. Saturdays. 8:30 a.m.–1 p.m. Wells Fargo Center for the Arts. 50 Mark West Springs Rd., Santa Rosa. thesantarosafarmersmarket.com. FREE Santa Rosa Community

Windsor schoolchildren, carriage rides. Bring your letter for Santa! 5–8 p.m. Windsor Town Green. 701 McClelland Dr., Windsor. townofwindsor.com. FREE Light up a Life. Heartland Hospice Tree Lighting Ceremony. Cherish memories & help celebrate our community. 5–6:30 p.m. Montgomery Village. 911 Village Ct., Santa Rosa. mvshops.com.

Festival of Lights. The gardens are decorated with colorful holiday lights. It’s a spectacular scene. Handicap accessible. Adults $10. 16 & under free. Fridays, Saturdays & Sundays. 5–7:30 p.m. Thru Dec. 20. Santa visits Dec. 12 & 18. Mendocino Coast Botanical Gardens. 18220 N. Hwy. 1, Fort Bragg. 964-4352. gardenbythesea.org. The Sound of Christmas. With the

von Trapps and the Justin-Siena Choir. $25–$45. 8 p.m. Napa Valley Performing Arts Center at Lincoln Theater. 100 California Dr., Yountville. 944-9900. lincolntheater.com. Zoo Lights. Enjoy the San Francisco

year-round. Wednesdays. 9 a.m.–1 p.m. & Saturdays 8:30 a.m.–1 p.m. Veterans Building. 1351 Maple Ave., Santa Rosa. localharvest.org.

Zoo under twinkling lights. This year’s lights will include the brand new, warm, indoor South American Tropical Rainforest and Aviary as well as the Little Puffer Steam Train. 5–8 p.m. Fri.–Sun. thru Dec. 13. Dec. 18–30: Fri.–Wed. Jan. 1–3: Fri.–Sun. San Francisco Zoo & Gardens. Sloat Blvd. at the Great Highway, San Francisco. sfzoo.org.

Mary Poppins! This enchanting Disney musical is filled with irresistible characters & high-flying spectacle. Ages 6 & up. Thru Dec. 6. 1:30 p.m. & 7:30 p.m. $12–$22. Santa Rosa Junior College. Burbank Auditorium. 1501 Mendocino Ave., Santa Rosa. santarosa.edu. FREE Windsor Holiday Celebration 2015. Train rides, musical concert by

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constellations, planets of that night at Santa Rosa Junior College (SRJC) Planetarium. 7 p.m. & 8:30 p.m. Arrive early for free parking pass. SRJC. Burbank Auditorium. 1501 Mendocino Ave., Santa Rosa. santarosa.edu. FREE Bodega Marine Laboratory Tours. Explore the dynamic

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entertainment both days. Thru Dec. 6. Dec. 5: 9 a.m.–5 p.m. Dec. 6: 10 a.m.–4 p.m. $2. 12 & under free. Finley Community Center. 2060 W. College Ave., Santa Rosa. srcity.org. 36th Annual Holiday Open House.

Thru Dec. 6. Free rides on Rosie the Trolley to the Holiday Craft Fair. 10 a.m.–4 p.m. 12 & older $2. Luther Burbank Home & Gardens. Santa Rosa & Sonoma Aves., Santa Rosa. (Free parking on First & D Streets.) lutherburbank.org. FREE 20th Annual Calistoga Lighted Tractor Parade. 7–8 p.m. Downtown Lincoln Ave. between Cedar & Stevenson, Calistoga. visitcalistoga.com. Performing Arts Academy of Marin Holiday Spectacular. Performers

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The Norcal Fit Expo. Test your

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FREE Jubilee Klezmer Ensemble. A trio made up of clarinet, accordion & bass players. Ancient to modern Israeli music. 2–3 p.m. Cloverdale Regional Library. 401 N. Cloverdale Blvd., Cloverdale. sonomalibrary.org. FREE Triple Goddess Crafts Faire.

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Sunday 13 VOENA: Voices of the Season— Cameo. Children’s voices representing 35 cultures. 4–6 p.m. $30–$40. Napa Valley Opera House. 1030 Main St., Napa. nvoh.org.

Wednesday 16 FREE Gingerbread Houses for Little Ones. All materials provided. Ages

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$12–$22. Thru Dec. 20. Dec. 18: 7 p.m. Dec. 19: 11 a.m. & 4 p.m. Dec. 20: 2 p.m. Complimentary pre-matinee Sugar Plum Parties. 824-8006. sebastopolballet.com.

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ake cooking an educational experience this holiday season with the help of this recipe, gleaned from the very first colonial cookery book, The Compleat American Housewife. Your kids will learn about 18th-century America while cooking up a tasty, traditional dessert. Colonial Pumpkin Pie Ingredients 1 3-4 pound culinary pumpkin (also called a “pie” pumpkin) 3 eggs 1/4 cup butter (let soften at room temperature) 1/2 cup whole milk 1 teaspoon ground ginger 1/2 teaspoon ground nutmeg 2 teaspoons vanilla 1/4 cup brown sugar 2 frozen piecrusts Directions Note: The italicized portions of this recipe are excerpts from The Compleat American Housewife. 1. Stew a fine sweet pumpkin till soft and dry. Cut the pumpkin into chunks. Place the pumpkin in a large pot and add water to cover. Bring to a boil, then turn down the heat and let simmer until the pumpkin is soft. Imagine doing this on a wood stove! When the

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A Holiday Favorite with a Historical Twist

pumpkin is done, drain, let cool, and peel. 2. Preheat the oven to 350ºF. 3. Rub it through a sieve. For a more authentic take, use a fine mesh sieve or food mill to puree the pumpkin. For convenience, you can also use a food processor. If you don’t have any of these tools on hand, mash the pumpkin using a potato masher or sturdy fork. Measure 2 cups of pumpkin puree and place it in a mixing bowl. 4. Mix with the pulp six eggs quite light. Eggs have gotten larger over the years. If you compared a modern egg to an egg from the 18th century, it would be twice as big! Whip three eggs (instead of six) with a whisk, and then combine with the pumpkin. 5. a quarter pound of butter... There was no refrigeration in the 18th century, so butter was kept at room temperature. Let the butter soften on the counter before use. When soft, add the butter to the pumpkin mixture and mix well. Colonial housewives measured ingredients by weight. Standardized measuring cups came later. 6. half a pint of new milk... Add the whole milk to the pumpkin mixture. Baking with half-curdled sour milk

was so common in colonial times that when fresh milk was used in a recipe, it was called “new milk” to avoid confusion. 7. some pounded ginger and nutmeg... Add the ground ginger and nutmeg to the pumpkin mixture. Ginger could be harvested locally, so it was a popular spice in the colonies. 8. a wine glass of brandy, and sugar to your taste... Add the vanilla and sugar. Brandy has a powerful, sweet flavor and helps enhance other flavors, but vanilla is more commonly used today. 9. Put a paste round the edges, and in the bottom of a shallow dish or plate... Unwrap the frozen piecrusts. Colonial bakers made “paste,” or dough, as they needed it. 10. Pour in the mixture, cut some thin bits of paste, twist them, and lay them across the top. Pour the pumpkin mixture into one of the piecrusts. Cut shapes out of the second piecrust and arrange them in a pattern on the pie for a decorative touch. 11. Bake it nicely. Place the pie in the oven and bake for 50–60 minutes, or until toothpick inserted in the middle comes out clean and dry. To find out about other seasonal activities like the Colonial Pumpkin Pie, sign up for free at education.com.

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The 12 Denials of Christmas

Holiday Hazards I Won’t Avoid

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I will not send out Christmas cards late this year. Sending a Christmas card after New Year’s does not say “Merry Christmas.” It says, “Behold, my disorganization!”

I will not send my mother-in-law another gift that contains nuts. She is allergic to nuts and even though I know this, I keep gifting her with heavily nut-laden products. At this point, even a casual observer would think I was trying to kill her.

I will not eat sugary desserts the entire holiday season. The roof of a gingerbread house does not constitute a healthy breakfast regardless of its raisin chimney.

I will not forget about the mailman’s present again. I can’t just hand him a bunch of cash like he’s my drug dealer.

I will not go out and buy a bunch of crappy toys. Just because my kids want a megaphone that makes farting noises and a plastic dog toy that vomits on the floor doesn’t mean I actually have to buy these things. It also doesn’t mean that a relative has to buy them either. If Aunt Marge wants to give my kids

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a potato gun that shoots ACTUAL PIECES OF POTATO around our house, then she can get her butt out of assisted living and clean up my mush-covered walls.

I will not let my children pick out the Christmas tree. The inside of our house is not the size of Rockefeller Center. It cannot accommodate a 50-foot tree with a family of bald eagles living in it.

I will not let my children string the lights on the Christmas tree. A tree with 4,000 lights wrapped tightly around it’s base and absolutely no lights on top looks strange, and I’m pretty sure is a fire hazard.

I will not lose all the receipts. This year, I’m going to buy a large box, stick all the receipts in it, and bury it in our yard. Then when all the crappy toys I swore I wouldn’t buy start breaking, I can proudly announce, “I have the receipt for that! Will someone please hand me my shovel?”

I will not wait until Christmas Eve to realize we’re out of batteries. Sure, I can send my husband out for the fifth year in a row to look for batteries at 11 p.m. on Christmas Eve. And yes, he will

return with batteries. But he will not return full of Christmas cheer.

I will not use the busy holiday season as an excuse not to exercise. Actually, I will. Forget I said that.

I will not just say, “Oh, whatever” when my family asks me what I’d like for Christmas. Because “Oh, whatever” means a bathrobe.“Oh, whatever” means another loofah scrub. I’m not Aunt Marge. I want some fun presents. Like skateboarding lessons, a tube of bubblegum flavored lip-gloss, and a solar-powered margarita blender.

I will not forget that Christmas is actually about love. That late Christmas card is just a way of saying “I miss you.” All those odd presents are just a way of saying “You’re in my heart.” Christmas is also about the moments. Making hot cocoa together and watching the marshmallows disappear into the chocolate. Reading “T’was the Night Before Christmas” and feeling excited children squirm on my lap in footed pajamas. Hearing my son whisper, “Mommy, you know what? I love you.” Those are things I don’t need a list to remember. Happy, happy, happy holidays. ¶ Holly Hester lives in Sebastopol and writes about life on her blog, Riot Ranch. Find her book, Escape from Ugly Mom Island!, on Amazon.

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