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Celebrated March 17, St. Patrick’s Day recognizes its namesake, a patron saint of Ireland who was abducted at age 16 and taken to Ireland as a slave worker. He managed to escape, but later returned to Ireland to create churches, monasteries, and schools. Because of his efforts and the lore surrounding them — including myths that he explained the Trinity with a shamrock and also drove the snakes out of the country — St. Paddy’s celebrations, with feasts and religious services, take place on his death date every year.
The Americanized version of St. Patrick’s Day includes wearing green to avoid being pinched by leprechauns, who are unable to see you if you’re wearing the signature color of Ireland, also called the Emerald Isle. The holiday just may be your chance to introduce kids to an actual green meal, too! This keto veggie-packed soup is a great way to get your veggies in by the spoonful, and is brought to you by Zoup! Good, Really Good Veggie Broth! ❖
Source: www.britannica.com/topic/ Saint-Patricks-Day
Prep Time: 30 minutes
Servings: 6
1 tbsp. olive oil
3 celery stalks, chopped
2 cloves garlic, minced
2 tbsp. ginger, grated
1 lb. broccoli, chopped
1 lb. spinach
1 can coconut milk
1 tsp. turmeric powder
3 cups Zoup! Good Really Good® Veggie Broth
6 tbsp. Greek yogurt, for garnish
6 tbsp. pumpkin seeds, for garnish
1/4 cup cilantro, for garnish
Salt and pepper, to taste
1. In a medium to large pot, heat the olive oil over medium heat. Add the celery, garlic and ginger and cook for a few minutes until fragrant.
2. Add the broccoli, spinach, coconut milk, turmeric, and veggie broth. Bring to a boil. Reduce heat to simmer and cook for 10 minutes or until broccoli has softened.
3. Blend in a blender until smooth. Serve each bowl with Greek yogurt, pumpkin seeds, and cilantro, season to taste with salt and pepper. Enjoy!
The North Bay Science Discovery Day is a one-day public free science festival designed to spark children’s wonder and curiosity for science, technology, engineering, and mathematics. With 98 organizations and over 150 hands-on interactive exhibits, explore rockets, beehives, robots, sharks, catapults, animation, animals, art, and more. Meet and talk to professional scientists and engineers. Admission and parking are free. No tickets needed. Rain or shine. Saturday, March 8, from 10 a.m.–4 p.m. northbayscience.org
In celebration of more than 60 Sonoma County Regional Parks, the Parks Foundation is hosting a spring 2025 photo contest fundraiser. Photos of parks’ wildlife, views, and vistas can be submitted, and voting will take place from Saturday, March 1–Sunday, March 31. Winning photos will be featured on the Parks Foundation website, newsletters, and social media. Entries from any resident or visitor in Sonoma County, regardless of skill level or experience, are welcome. All proceeds directly benefit Sonoma Regional Parks. Top photos win prizes from local businesses. To learn more or enter, visit tinyurl.com/yc3hzu4w
From the creators of Dinosaur World Live, Dragons and Mythical Beasts features spectacular puppets, bringing visitors face to face with some of the most magnificent monsters and terrifying beasts ever to walk the earth. Recommended for ages 5 and up, but you know your child best. Lap passes for ages 2 and under are available in person on show day. Tickets range from $17.60–$23.10. Thursday, March 13 at 6:30 p.m. Luther Burbank Center. 50 Mark Springs Rd., Santa Rosa. Purchase tickets at tinyurl.com/4hsjua96
The St. Patrick’s Day 5K is a chip-timed race open to all ages and abilities and participants receive a commemorative finisher medal and mug. Stick around after the race for the post-run celebration complete with a beer or root beer, judged costume contest, fun activities, sponsor giveaways, and music! Proceeds benefit the Santa Rosa Recreation & Parks Scholarship Fund, providing swim lessons and summer camp experiences for children. Cost ranges from $23.39–$60.83. The event is Sunday, March 16 with sign-in from 7:30–8:45 a.m. Race starts at 10 a.m. Irish dancers perform at 11 a.m. Costume contest is at 11:15 a.m. Event ends around 12:30 p.m. Race begins and ends at Old Courthouse Square. 600 4th St., Santa Rosa. Register at tinyurl.com/zhz27z2d.
Bringing trusted home improvement specialists and homeowners together, the Sonoma/North Bay Home Expo presents resources for remodels, home offices, energy upgrade, landscaping, accent pieces, and more. On-line only 2-for-1 tickets are $10 and include parking. Tickets at the gate are $15 per person with $5 parking. Military and ages 12 and under are admitted free. Saturday, March 29, from 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Sunday, March 30 from 10 a.m.–4 p.m. Sonoma County Fairgrounds Hall of Flowers Bldg. 1350 Bennett Valley Rd., Santa Rosa. For a complete schedule of events, visit sonomanorthbayhomeexpo.com
The Climate Ready Cotati Fair brings together more than 30 community organizations and agencies providing climate-friendly resources and information. Food trucks, door prizes, kids’ activities, a tree giveaway, plus clothing and game swaps. Also, small appliance repair assistance and clothing mending opportunities available. In addition, experience activities to help you reduce, reuse, and recycle. Saturday, March 29, from 10 a.m.–2 p.m. at the Cotati Smart Depot, 970 E. Cotati Ave., Cotati. See a full description of activities at tinyurl.com/2fu24k6d.
By Rebecca Hastings
We were running errands when one of my teenagers shouted and pointed, “Look! It’s our old preschool!” Soon my other two teens were chiming in, “I loved it there!” and “That was my favorite school. Do you remember when...”
And just like that, we were walking down a memory lane of craft projects, field trips, and even that time when the teacher helped with a loose tooth that just wouldn’t budge. It made me happy that my kids remembered their days there as fondly as I did. Finding a preschool — or before that, a day school — may seem stressful but when you focus on the right things, you can find the perfect place for you and your kids. Here are seven tips to help you find a day school or preschool your kids will remember:
1. Talk to other children. At the park, at the library, at your friend’s house. Find out what the kids loved doing on a given day or their favorite thing about day school or preschool. Ask to see their latest project. Most kids will be thrilled to share their expertise. You can learn a lot from kids if you pay attention.
2. Talk to parents. See what day/ preschool they love and why. Find out if they are friends with other families there. Ask about the caregivers and teachers that make them great. The most important thing is to talk to real people. Don’t rely on social media for accurate information.
3. Consider the schedule. Does the day/preschool have a schedule that works for your family? The days and hours must align with your family schedule, but also with your child’s preferences. There are day and preschools with two-day-a-week
Finding a preschool — or before that, a day school — may seem stressful
but when you focus on the right things, you can find the perfect place for you and your kids.
programs and others that meet five days a week. Some schools meet for two hours while others are the whole day. Think about what you and your child would benefit from.
4. Ask about educational philosophy. Every day/preschool has a unique approach. Some schools focus heavily on academics while others focus on social skills. Some schools stress nature-based learning while others focus on the arts. Some day schools emphasize
education more than others. Don’t get caught up in what these approaches are called, but think about your child and how their interests line up with what the day/ preschool offers.
5. Talk money. The cost must work for your family. Consider tuition costs as well as extras like fundraisers, field trips, and parties. Be bold about asking these questions before you choose a day/preschool so you are not stressed later about unexpected expenses. Finding a program that your family can afford will create a less stressful environment for you and your child.
6. Find out about parent involvement. Ask how much parents are expected to be involved
and make sure it is something you are comfortable with. Some schools ask parents to volunteer regularly during the day while others only invite parents for holiday and year-end
Be realistic about your family’s needs and how they match up with the facility.
programs. Extras like fundraising or events can also be a requirement. Day schools may have their own parental involvement guidelines, too. Find out what is expected so you know if you can participate at that level.
7. Ask to observe. See if there is a good time for you and your child
to visit during the day. Watching the facility in action is one of the best ways to discover if it will be a good fit. Chat with some parents at drop-off or pick-up. Observe the kids as they work together. All of it fits together to create the atmosphere where your child will learn.
Finding the perfect daycare or preschool doesn’t have to be stressful. Be realistic about your family’s needs and how they match up with the facility. With these simple tips, you can discover a learning environment that will be perfect for your child. ❖
Rebecca is a published author and former teacher passionate about authenticity, faith, and family. In real life, she can often be found typing words, or driving her kids places. Connect with her at RebeccaHastings.net and on Instagram.
experiences. Personal attention, rich sensory experiences, and a generous supply of giggles!
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California law requires children entering TK or kindergarten to have these immunizations:
Diphtheria, Pertussis, and Tetanus (DPT) Measles, Mumps, and Rubella (MMR) Varicella (Chickenpox)
Hepatitis B Polio
By Mary Ann Blair
With summer calendars quickly filling up, it can be hard to try and squeeze in one more thing. But if you have never sent your kids to a summer camp, here are seven reasons why you should consider it!
With so many options, it’s easy to find a great fit for your child.
From sports camps and art camps to STEM-based camps and more traditional overnight options, summer camps are designed to serve a variety of ages and interests. The length of camp can range from a few mornings for younger kiddos to week long sleep-away camps for older kids. Local churches, school districts, and other organizations like the YMCA, Girl
Scouts, Boy Scouts, Camp Fire, and 4-H offer a wide range of camps. With a little bit of research, you can easily find a camp well-suited for your child.
Camps provide kids with experiences they might not have access to in “everyday” life. Horseback riding. Paddling a canoe across the lake. Wilderness survival. Conquering a ropes course. Sleeping under the stars. Adventures are endless at camp, and your
child will have an opportunity to try something brand new. For the youngest campers, trying a new craft activity or learning a new camp song can be so much fun!
Camps are a safe place to practice social skills. It might be awkward or uncomfortable for your child during those first few hours of
With a little bit of research, you can easily find a camp well-suited for your child.
camp when they don’t know a single soul. After all, stepping into a new social environment can be challenging. But the ability to comfortably communicate with new people is a life skill that all kids need, and a camp is a great place to practice! Camps also provide kids an opportunity to form friendships with a whole new group of peers they might never have met otherwise.
Camps give kids a muchneeded technology break. No matter how old your child is, they could probably benefit from a screen hiatus, especially during the summer months. Spending time outdoors, learning a new skill, having fun, and forming new friendships is good for the body and soul!
Sending kids to camp is beneficial for you, too. Driving away from your child(ren) on the first day might be a little gut-wrenching. But entrusting your kids to someone else for a while can be truly beneficial. Maybe it will free up time for some overdue self-care, or give you and your partner time to reconnect. Maybe it will provide an opportunity to hit
the reset button with your tween or teen. After all, absence makes the heart grow fonder! Parenting is tough work, so don’t feel guilty
Camps are staffed by amazing counselors who provide kids with all kinds of good, clean fun.
if you enjoy this time to yourself. Chances are, your kids are having a blast without you!
Your child’s experience as a camper could help land a summer job in the future. Camps are staffed by amazing counselors who provide kids with all kinds of good, clean fun. Most of
these counselors were campers once, too. Now they get to help a new set of youngsters make unforgettable summer memories, all while sharpening their own teamwork and leadership skills. Your child might have that same opportunity one day. What a great way to spend a summer! Camp is just plain fun. So many adults have fond memories from their days spent at camp, and kids who have been to camp often say it’s a favorite part of their summer. Odds are, your kids are going to love it! And for that reason alone, it’s worth sending them to camp. ❖
Mary Ann Blair is a mom of two boisterous boys. Besides chronicling her adventures in motherhood at maryannblair.com, she loves the outdoors, reading, and all things crafty.
June 10-14&17-21
June 9-13, 6-20 & 17-21
Fun and educational week-long camps for rising 6th-8th graders, taught by Sonoma Academy staff and alumni, explore a huge range of topics: Art, Italian Cooking and Baking, Dance, Outdoor Adventures, Taiko Drumming & Storytelling, Photography, Filmmaking, Craftopia, and Floral Design! To find out more and register online, go to www. sonomaacademy.org
Fun and educational camps for rising 6th8th graders. Topics will include: Art, Italian Cooking and Baking, Speech and Debate, Outdoor Adventures, Ghost Story Podcasting, Storytelling, iPhone Photography, Filmmaking, Video Game Design, Beauty Brand in a Box, Sports and STEM, and Basketball! Find out more at www.sonomaacademy.org
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By Jill Morgenstern
Spring break can be both a blessing and a curse as parents try to make each year more memorable than the next. This pressure to provide a fun-filled vacation can be particularly true when both parents are working.
While summer break is full of sleepaway camps and day camps, there can be fewer options during spring break. But spring break does not have to be lavish and over the top to be memorable. By having an inventive staycation in your own home, you don’t have to break the bank to have a great time. Here are some ideas to get you started:
Have a karaoke night. If you don’t have a karaoke machine, there’s a chance that a friend has one you
could borrow. Not only that, but these days there are karaoke apps you can use on your phone!
Build blanket forts galore. Now is the time to get out maybe not the prettiest pillows, but at least the bulkiest ones. And once the fort is built, activities planned for inside become that much more exciting — board games, reading time, or even a movie night if the screen is small enough or the fort big enough!
The key is to have an open mind and a sense of fun.
Create a mini indoor golf course. What? You have no golf clubs? Even better! Let the children use their imagination to make something they might use. Paper towel rolls could be turned into golf clubs, for example. And who says the golf ball has to be one certain size?
Have a DIY home spa day. No need to go bankrupt if you already have nail polish or bath bombs on hand. Plus the Korean masks that are so popular right now can be bought for under $10. No Korean skincare store or Asian store in your area? You can find them on Amazon or even sometimes at Walmart!
Make homemade ice cream. If you want to splurge, it can be great fun for kids to see ice cream being made in a real ice cream maker. But if not, they can still have the satisfaction of creating their own sweet treat! Look
on YouTube for plenty of instructive videos on how to make single serving ice creams in sandwich bags. Pitch a tent nearby. If you happen to have a back yard, a strong sense of adventure, and favorable weather, this activity will be sure to make your spring break memorable. Use your senses to enjoy the outdoors — look for stars, smell the outdoors, listen for leaves blowing or critters crawling, all while knowing that, if necessary, a warm bed and hot shower can be only moments away.
the end) but children love them. Done often enough, children will start doing them for each other and if you’re lucky, they may make one for you!
By participating in these activities, or ones you think of on your own, a spring break vacation can be just as memorable and meaningful as an extravagant vacation, but without the extravagant cost. The key is to have an open mind and a sense of fun. It can be challenging to fit in the time for fun activities but as children mature they will take on more and more of the responsibilities for making their spring break a time to remember — thanks to parents who inspired them to do so! ❖
By Pam Molnar
St. Patrick’s Day is a pretty easy party to host. You ask everyone to come dressed in green, you serve festive green foods and drinks and you play some Irish music in the background. Now the only thing you need to make your party a success is some St. Patrick’s-themed games. Looks like you’ve come to the right place!
1. Throw Me the Money: Fill a canvas bag with coins – pennies will work nicely – and tie it closed. Players stand in a circle, with the reader holding the bag. A St. Patrick’s themed question (i.e. Name a food that is green) is read and the bag is tossed to the person who answered (correctly) first. That person is now the reader and the bag holder cannot answer the question, allowing someone else to get a chance. If
anyone answers incorrectly, they are out. Have a prize for the last person standing.
2. What’s in the Bag: This game is like the game Spoons in that you will need a spoon for every player, minus one. You will also need one lunch-sized paper bag for every two players filled with a variety of St. Patrick’s or green items like shamrocks, gold coins
and green pom-poms. Place the bags in front of every other person.
On “go,” the players choose something inside the bag and pass the bag to the next player. The bags continue around until a player finds four of that same item and they grab for a spoon. Like in the game Spoons, everyone else grabs a spoon quickly and the one without a spoon is out. Offer a small prize for the winner.
Play for a set time or number of rounds and give a prize to the person with the most points.
3. Competitive Hot Potato:
This is such a simple game and only requires one potato. Traditionally, players pass the potato around in a circle while music plays. When the music stops, the one holding the potato is out. If that is too simple for your group, you can add a challenge.
Ask everyone to stand in two lines across from each other, tossing back and forth. If the potato is dropped, the catcher is out. To make it more difficult, start every new round by taking a step back. You can also play with your eyes closed, pouring a smaller potato from cup to cup or play with a carrot and a potato going in opposite directions around the circle.
4. Tic Tac Gold: You will need gold and green plastic coins for this game. Set up a Tic Tac Toe board on the counter or table with tape. Players will slide their coins across the table
to try and get three in a row. If one player slides his coin into a space that is already occupied, he gets to remove his opponent’s coin. This can also be played with a bigger game board (four or five in a row) and more players. However, this game will take a little longer.
5. You’re One Lucky Spella: For this game, you will need Scrabble tiles and a cup for each player. You will also need a list of St.
a minute. Players get one point for each letter they use. The player with the most points at the end of the game is the winner.
6. Rollin’ for Coins: This game is great for larger groups as it is played in tables of four. Each player will need a score sheet. For each table, you will
The only thing you need to make your party a success is some St.
— Take the six when you roll 2 threes, 1 and 5 or 2 and 4.
The next player rolls and takes their corresponding card. Play continues until a player rolls a number that has already been removed. When that happens, the roller must give all his other collected cards (if any) to the player holding that card. At that point, the round is over and players tally their scores — a point for each value rolled. Switch tables as you
By Sarah Lyons
Tummy troubles are common in young children and typically aren’t serious. Stomach aches can be anything from constipation to stomach flu to an excuse to get out of school. The tricky part is figuring out if the stomach pain warrants a trip to the doctor and if it is something serious or a passing thing. Here are some common childhood tummy troubles and what to do about them.
Constipation. It’s common for kids to have occasional constipation. This is usually something that can be improved by a higher fiber diet or by using over-the-counter stool softeners or laxatives. Decreasing foods that cause constipation like bananas, milk, and cheese can also be helpful. (mayoclinic.org) Physical activity can also encourage the need to use the bathroom. If your child has chronic constipation that is not improving, speak to your doctor for more suggestions or ask for a referral to a gastrointestinal physician.
Stomach flu. The stomach flu is an unavoidable part of childhood.
Even with all the hand sanitizer in the world, your child is bound to catch it at some point. While a GI bug is miserable for both the parents and the child, it doesn’t usually warrant a trip to the doctor. During the virus it’s normal to have a fever, vomiting, and/or diarrhea. The most important thing to remember during a stomach bug is to keep your child hydrated. Children, especially babies and toddlers are more likely to get dehydrated during the stomach flu which can be dangerous. If your child cannot eat during the flu, make sure they are drinking small sips of clear liquids as much as possible. If the bug
persists longer than a few days and you feel your child is becoming dehydrated, see your doctor as soon as possible.
Gas. A common cause of stomach pain in children comes from trapped gas. Gas pain can be painful and make your child uncomfortable. If your child has frequent pain from gas, try changing their diet slightly. For example, many people with frequent gas are lactose intolerant. Reducing the intake of dairy products or trying lactose-free alternatives can help your child develop less gas-related stomach pain.
Acid reflux. Acid reflux, or heartburn, can be painful and persistent. If your child complains of a burning feeling in their upper abdomen or has a vomit taste in their mouth, they may be experiencing acid reflux. Try an over-the-counter antacid, a glass of milk, or prop up their pillow at night. You can also watch the foods they eat before bedtime. Acidic foods like tomato sauce, sugary, sweet foods, spicy foods, and chocolate can all be triggers for heartburn. If none of these ideas help, consult your doctor who can prescribe medication for acid reflux and make sure nothing more serious is going on.
For the most part, childhood stomach pains are not anything to be concerned about. However, if your child has symptoms that persist over time, has unexplained weight loss, has blood in their vomit or stool, or doesn’t seem to be improving, there is nothing wrong with reaching out to your family doctor for advice on what the next steps should be. ❖
Sarah Lyons is a mom of six children, including 10-year-old triplets. She enjoys reading, writing, and spending time outdoors with her family.
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Santa Rosa Symphony presents its Youth Orchestra & Santa Rosa Junior College Orchestra in concert, performing the music of Beethoven, Dvořák, William Grant Still, Giuseppe Verdi, Nikolay Tcherepnin, Mason Bates, and Nikolai Rimsky-Korsakov. Tickets purchased in advance are $15 for adults and $5 for youth, or $20 and $10 at the door. Ticket fees apply for online and phone orders. Tickets are non-refundable and subject to availability. Performance is Sunday, March 2, at 3 p.m. Green Music Center’s Weill Hall, 1801 E. Cotati Ave., Rohnert Park. To purchase tickets, visit tinyurl.com/bde88bm9
Saturday 1
Just Between Friends Kids’ & Maternity Consignment Sales Event. The largest of its kind in Northern CA. Mar. 1: 8–9 a.m. Sensory-Friendly Shopping. Free with on-line ticket. 9 a.m.–3 p.m. $4 entry fee or free with ticket. 4:30–8 p.m. Family Pass (2 adults/2 kids): $10. Mar. 2 Half-price Sale: 8 a.m.–1 p.m. Tickets not required. Sonoma County Fairgrounds. 1350 Bennett Valley Rd., Santa Rosa. Full schedule: northbay. jbfsale.com
Annie KIDS. A Theater for Children’s production for young audiences. $7. (Pre–show activities 30 minutes before show). Mar. 1 & 7: 1 & 3:30 p.m. Mar. 3 & 9: 3 p.m. Kid Street Charter School Theater. 709 Davis St., Santa Rosa. atheaterforchildren.com.
FREE Creating Camp Snoopy. Go behind the scenes of Camp Snoopy and The Snoopy Show (Apple TV+) with director Rob Boutilier and storyboard artist Gavin Freitas. Cost included with
Museum admission. $5–$12. Ages 3 & under: free. Discounts available for qualifying guests. 2 p.m. Charles Schulz Museum. 2301 Hardies Ln., Santa Rosa. schulzmuseum.org/ creating-camp-snoopy.
Annual Crab Feed Benefiting Kids. Hosted by Active 20-30 Club of the Redwood Empire. $95/person. Ages 21 & up. Proceeds support programs for local disadvantaged youth throughout the year. 5–10 p.m. Friedman Event Center. 4676 Mayette Ave., Santa Rosa. Tickets: tinyurl.com/23ucnsk9.
The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee. Based on the Tony Award-winning musical. Follow the captivating journey of six middle schoolers as they compete for spelling glory in the high-stakes spelling bee. Tickets: $15–$25. Mar. 1, 6, 7, 8: 7:30 p.m. Matinee: Mar. 2, 8 & 9: 2 p.m. SRJC. Burbank Auditorium. 1501 Mendocino Ave., Santa Rosa. Tickets: tinyurl.com/yc7erwmb.
Spring into Parks Photo Contest. Open to all Sonoma County residents
and visitors. Submit photos from any of the 60+ Regional Parks. All proceeds directly benefit Sonoma Regional Parks. Top photos win prizes from local businesses. The contest runs Mar. 1–31. tinyurl.com/yc3hzu4w.
Sensory Swim at the YMCA. For kids with sensory, motor, or other developmental needs. Registration not required. $10 for a family swim pass (2 adults & any minors in the same household). Fridays: 2:20–4 p.m. Sundays: 9–10:30 a.m. YMCA. 1111 College Ave., Santa Rosa. tinyurl. com/37z2kwws.
SRSYO March Concert. Performances by Santa Rosa Symphony Youth Orchestra with Santa Rosa Junior College Orchestra. General seating performance first-come, first-serve basis. $5–$20. 3 p.m. Weill Hall Green Music Center. 1801 East Cotati Ave., Rohnert Park. Tickets: tinyurl.com/45j6suzk
FREE Disney at the Movies: Healdsburg Community Band.
Matthew Wallace conducts the 40-piece ensemble through a program of Disney animated and live-action films. Donations accepted. 5–7 p.m. Raven Performing Arts Theater. 115 N. St., Healdsburg. tinyurl.com/ mwes3fpj.
Monday 3
FREE Sound Studio Basics. Ages 13 & up. Record a song, podcast, or story with GarageBand. Learn the basics of the sound studio hardware and software. Maximum of 3 participants. Mondays. 10–10:30 a.m. SR Central Library. 211 E. St. Santa Rosa. Rincon Valley Library will host this event on Thursdays starting Mar. 6. View full schedule: tinyurl.com/pdptvv5a
FREE Drop-In Camera Help. Grades 7-12 & adults. Learn the basics of checking out and using the camera library, operating a Canon T7i DSLR, getting answers to your audio and video questions. Registration not required. Mondays. 2:30-3:30 p.m. SR Central Library. 211 E. St. Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/ywerc67t.
Tuesday 4
FREE After School Hangout. Grades K–6, 7–12. Do homework, socialize, enjoy arts and crafts, and more. Office supplies, board games, and craft materials provided. Ages 8 years old and younger must be accompanied by an adult. Tuesdays: 3:30–5:30 p.m. Wednesdays: 1:30–3 p.m. Thursdays: 1–3 p.m. Petaluma Mini-Library. 150 Fairground Dr., Petaluma. tinyurl.com/4r56dw3z
Petaluma Music Festival Mardi Gras. Food trucks. Entry: $10–15. Ages 12 and under: free. All proceeds benefit music programs in Petaluma
public schools. 5–8 p.m. Lagunitas Brewing Company Taproom. Tickets online or at the door: tinyurl.com/ mr2hr83u
Paying for College with Scholarships. Grades 7–12 & their parents. Join scholarship advisor Becca Lippman for three interactive
workshops on finding, applying for, and managing scholarships. Mar. 4 & 11: 6:30–7:30 p.m. Sonoma Library. 755 W. Napa St., Sonoma. Rincon Valley Library will host this event Mar. 5 & 12. Schedule: tinyurl. com/3fbra7z9.
Sat & Sun, April 12-13 at the historic Sebastiani Theatre
Doors open at 12:30 | Show starts at 1:00
Get Tickets Now: SonomaConservatoryofDance.org/events Learn More: info@SonomaConservatoryofDance.org • 707.938.1424
Wednesday 5
FREE Postpartum Planning for Expectant Parents On-line Support Group. All expectant parents (2nd & 3rd trimester) welcome: moms, birthing people, non-gestational parents, partners, couples, & single parents. First & third Wednesdays. Mar. 5: 4:30 p.m. Mar. 19: 4 p.m. Register: tinyurl.com/yzka8ncs.
Early Release Enrichment at Sandy Loam. Ages 6–12. Farm, nature, and art activities during early release schools’ hours. Includes homework help and snacks. $25–$45/ day. Parents can stay on campus (free Wifi). No transportation provided. Wednesdays. Noon–5 p.m. 3:30 p.m.–5 p.m. option available. Veronda-Falletti Ranch. 175 W. Sierra Ave., Cotati.
Registration required: sandyloam.org/ enrichmentprograms
Thursday 6
FREE Create and Build: Thursday Fun Days. Ages 0–5, K-6. This informal program offers new games, process art, and STEAM challenges. Spanish with English Translation. Thursdays. 10:30 a.m.–2:30 p.m. Roseland Library. 470 Sebastopol Rd., Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/3chj73ye.
FREE Game-On! Grades 7–12. Weekly video game club. Available for checkout through the library and playable on Nintendo Switch, PlayStation, and Xbox. Thursdays. 3:30–5:30 p.m. Guernville Library. 14107 Armstrong Woods Rd., Guernville. tinyurl.com/vs5enhkw.
Friday 7
FREE Bodega Marine Laboratory Tours. Docent-led public tour as an individual or a group of less than 10. Geared for ages 10 & up. Suggested donation: $5 student, $10 adult, $25 per family. Free Parking. Questions: cmsi@ucdavis.edu. Mar. 7, 14, 21. Register for 1 of 3 time slots: 2 p.m., 2:30 p.m., or 3 p.m. Bodega Marine Laboratory. 2099 Westshore Rd., Bodega Bay. Reservations required: tinyurl.com/yc4ekye4
Saturday 8
Dinosaur Adventure. Experience the prehistoric world featuring life-sized, realistic dinosaurs that move and roar. Kids can enjoy Jurassic scooters, obstacle courses, rides, and more. Ages 2-12: $40. Ages 13–adult: $32.
Mar. 8: 9 a.m.–8 p.m. Mar. 9: 9 a.m.–7 p.m. Sonoma County Fairgrounds. 1350 Bennett Valley Rd., Santa Rosa. Tickets: tinyurl.com/ycu2r8f8
FREE 2025 North Bay Science Discovery Day. For children, teens, & families. 70 organizations & 100 hands-on interactive exhibits. Parking free. 10 a.m.–4 p.m. Sonoma County Fairgrounds. 1350 Bennett Valley Rd., Santa Rosa. northbayscience.org.
FREE Rialto Cinemas Family Matinees. Matilda. Family matinees held the first Saturday & Sunday of the month. Mar. 8 & 9. 11 a.m.–12:45 p.m. 6868 McKinley St., Sebastopol. rialtocinemas.com/sebastopol.
FREE Family Day at the MSC Museum. Celebrate the newest exhibition, UNRULY: North Bay
Artists from the San Francisco Art Institute, with family-friendly art activities and special artist talks in the galleries. Second Saturdays. 11 a.m.– 5 p.m. Museum of Sonoma County. 425 Seventh Ave., Santa Rosa. tinyurl.com/ mr8y6aht.
Bluegrass & Folk Festival. Bring your own instrument to jam. Food & beverages on site. Workshops rain or shine. $47.50. Ages 12 & younger: free with adult admission. Noon–8 p.m. Sebastopol Community Cultural Center. 390 Morris St., Sebastopol. tinyurl.com/nhvhr7t6.
Second Saturday Cartoonist. Meet, watch, & talk to award-winning filmmaker, stop-motion animator, & artist Matthew Sandager. Cost included with Museum admission.
$5–$12. Ages 3 & under: free. Discounts available for qualifying guests. 1–3 p.m. Charles Schulz Museum. 2301 Hardies Ln., Santa Rosa. schulzmuseum.org/ matthew-sandager
Sunday 9
Art & Nature Hikes. Docent-led 3-mile nature hikes through the Sculpture Meadow. Hike admission includes gallery access. $25–$30. Ages 5–17: $10. Ages 4 and under: free. 11 a.m.–1 p.m. di Rosa Center for Contemporary Art. 5200 Sonoma Hwy., Santa Rosa. Advance tickets required: tinyurl.com/4fkzvbsu
Tuesday 11
FREE Spanish Music & Movement at Huerta Gym. Ages 0–5 yrs. Even
SONOMA COUNTY FAIRGROUNDS
MARCH 29 / SUN MARCH 30
• Zach Giffin from Tiny House Nation
• Daniel Fitzpatrick from Tiny House Industry Association LIVE MUSIC
BRAD WILSON & THE RHYTHM DRIVERS
FOOD TRUCKS
• Tri Tip Trolley
• Heavenly Butterfly Bakery
• Carnival Food Stand RAFFLE PRICES 4 BUILDINGS PET EXPO ADU FAIR/DISPLAYS
BOUNCE HOUSES FOR THE KIDS
if you are not fluent in Spanish, experience the language through stories & activities. Bilingual program. Mar. 11 & 25: 11–11:30 a.m. Windsor Regional Library (Offsite Huerta Gym) 9291 Old Redwood Hwy., Windsor. Other Sonoma Library branches will host this event. View schedule: tinyurl.com/yc7x2432.
FREE Sensory Friendly Afternoon. Exclusively for children with sensory processing differences and their families or caregivers. Enjoy hands-on exhibits in a safe, accessible environment. Second Tuesdays. 2–5 p.m. Children Museum. 1835 W. Steel Ln., Santa Rosa. Pre-registration recommended: tinyurl.com/2wp63xds
Thursday 13
Dragons and Mythical Beasts Live. From the creators of Dinosaur World Live, featuring spectacular puppets. Recommended for ages 5+, but you know your child best. Lap passes for ages 2 and under available in person on show day. $17.60–$23.10. 6:30 p.m. Luther Burbank Center. 50 Mark Springs Rd., Santa Rosa. Tickets: tinyurl.com/4hsjua96
Friday 14
Purim Pi Party. Featuring a Mad Science Show, explosive science activities, test tube concoctions, lab treats, Purim delights, dinner, and more. Costumes encouraged—Einstein lab coats welcome. $10–$15. 4:30 p.m. Chabad Jewish Center of Petaluma.
205 Keller St., Ste. 101, Petaluma. tinyurl.com/5atf9tdu
Saturday 15
FREE Laguna Stewards Day at Meadowlark Field. All welcome family event. Tools & training provided. No experience necessary. Heavy rain cancels. 9 a.m.–Noon. Laguna de Santa Rosa Trail. 6303 Hwy. 12, Santa Rosa. Register: tinyurl. com/38rjx3tt.
Feelin’ Crabby. Experiment with crabbing nets/cage and take home your catch. Se habla español. $30–$32. Parking $7. 10 a.m.–Noon. Spud Point Marina. 1818 Westshore Rd., Bodega Bay. Registration required: tinyurl. com/mw9u624h
FREE CPR Instruction & Certification. Grades 7–12. Course
covers CPR. 11–12:30 p.m. Healdsburg Library. 139 Piper S. Healdsburg. Registration required: tinyurl. com/4x652pdz
YAMATO–The Drummers of Japan. With the meticulously crafted sound of over 40 taiko drums of varying sizes and sounds. $40–$100. Ages 12 and under get 50% off tickets. 7:30 p.m. Green Music Center. 1801 East Cotati Ave., Rohnert Park. Tickets: gmc. sonoma.edu/all-events
Sunday 16
St. Patrick’s Day 5K. Annual themed run/walk race open to all ages & abilities. $23.39–$60.83. After the race a celebration with music & entertainment. Sign-in: 7:30–8:45 a.m. Race starts 10 a.m. Irish dancers: 11 a.m. Costume contest: 11:15 a.m.
Event ends: 12:30 p.m. Race starts & ends at Old Courthouse Square. 600 4th St., Santa Rosa. Register: tinyurl. com/zhz27z2d
George Gershwin and His Times. Enjoy Gershwin’s timeless music and other ragtime, jazz, and classical pieces of his era. Refreshments served. $20 (includes parking). Seating limited. 2–4:30 p.m. Jack London State Historic Park. 2400 London Ranch Rd., Glen Ellen. Tickets: tinyurl. com/yt78nnhw.
Monday 17
FREE McNear’s Annual St. Patrick’s Day. Performances by Keenan Irish Dance School. Live music. Irish food & drink specials for purchase. Dancers: 4–5 p.m. McNear
Restaurant. 23 Petaluma Blvd. N., Petaluma. 707-765-2121.
Tuesday 18
FREE Sibling Support (SibShops) Meetup Common Ground. Tayler Hockett and Bella Martinez will facilitate a group for ages 7–17 with siblings who have disabilities. Questions, contact: cgmeetupcoordinator@gmail.com 4–6 p.m. Common Ground Society Oak Grove Room. 85 Brookwood Ave., Santa Rosa. Register: commongroundsociety.org/calendar
Friday 21
Annual California Artisan Cheese Festival. Chef demos & pairings, educational sessions, authors, cheesemakers, & more. $37.74–$184.
Mar. 23 Only: Noon–4 p.m. Ages 2–12: $32.49. Mar. 21–23: 9 a.m.–4 p.m. Various locations in Sonoma County. Tickets & full schedule: artisancheesefestival.com.
Saturday 22
FREE Whale And Seabird Watch. Join Mendonoma Whale and Seal Study researchers for a fun, up-close look at whales and their fascinating natural history. Parking $7. 10 a.m.–2 p.m. Gualala Point Regional Park. 42401 Hwy. 1, Gualala. tinyurl. com/536v2ate
FREE Cunamacué Family Dance Class. Grades K-6. Dance or watch— bursting with Afro-Peruvian joy. 11:30 a.m.–12:30 p.m. SR Central Library. 211 E. St., Santa Rosa. Rohnert Park
Library will host this event on Mar. 29 View schedule: tinyurl.com/3krc8u7n
Sunday 23
Inside the Mind of a Dog. Celebrate National Puppy Day with a documentary and meet service dogs and puppies from Canine Companions. Cost included with Museum admission. $5–$12. Ages 3 & under: free. Discounts available for qualifying guests. 1 p.m. Charles Schulz Museum. 2301 Hardies Ln., Santa Rosa. schulzmuseum.org/ inside-the-mind-of-a-dog
Sebastopol Family Dance. All ages welcome. Dance leader will teach easy-to-learn dances from American and British Isles folk traditions with live music. Snacks provided. Sliding scale: $5–$10/adult, $10–20/
family. Fourth Sundays. 2–4:30 p.m. Wischemann Hall. 465 Morris St., Sebastopol. nbcds.org.
Tuesday 25
FREE Neurodivergent Bingo for Teens and Adults. Designed for young adults who are neurodivergent. Family & friends welcome. Hosted by Considerate Coach & Speechaluma in conjunction with Common Ground Society. Fourth Tuesdays. Questions, email: cgmeetupcoordinator@gmail. com. 5:30–7 p.m. Round Table Pizza. 1003 Guernville Rd., Santa Rosa. Register: commongroundsociety.org/ calendar
Wednesday 26
FREE Universal Yums for Teens. Grades 7-12. Explore a new country through music and trivia. Snacks and materials provided. 4–5 p.m. Northwest Santa Rosa Library. 150 Coddingtown Center, Santa Rosa. Rohnert Park Library will host this event on Mar. 27 View schedule: tinyurl.com/38k8ut99
Thursday 27
Naghash Ensemble. Led by composer-pianist John Hodian, blends Armenian folk, classical, post-minimalism, and jazz-rock energy. $30–$80. 7:30 p.m. Green Music Center. 1801 East Cotati Ave., Rohnert Park. Tickets: gmc.sonoma. edu/all-events.
Friday 28
FREE Teen Pride Book Club. Free book copies available at the reference desk. Didn’t finish the book, you’re still able to join. Drop-ins & allies welcome. 4–5 p.m. Sebastopol Community Cultural Center. 390
Morris St., Sebastopol. Registration encouraged, but not required: tinyurl. com/mu7yfdar.
Saturday 29
Sonoma/North Bay Home Expo. Resources for remodels, home offices, energy upgrade, landscaping, accent pieces, & more. On-line only 2 for 1 Tickets: $10. (includes parking Brookwood Lot ). At the gate: $15 pp. Parking: Brookwood lot: $5. Military and ages 12 & under: free. Mar. 29: 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Mar. 30: 10 a.m.–4 p.m. Sonoma County Fairgrounds Hall of Flowers Bldg. 1350 Bennett Valley Rd., Santa Rosa. sonomanorthbayhomeexpo.com.
Public Star Party. Astronomical topics & telescopes open for viewing.
$6–$17. 5 & under: free. State parking $10. 8–11 p.m. Robert Ferguson Observatory. 2605 Adobe Canyon Rd. rfo.org/index.php/calendar-of-events
Monday 31
Gabby’s Dollhouse MEOWseum Discovery Days. The Children’s Museum of Sonoma County in partnership with Gabby’s Dollhouse MEOWseum Discovery Days, DreamWorks Animation, and the Association of Children’s Museums. Meet & greet with Gabby herself and enjoy a day of fun at the Museum. Event included with general admission, and Museum members are free. 10 a.m.–1 p.m. Children’s Museum. 1835 W. Steel Ln., Santa Rosa. cmosc.org/ calendar.
By Katy M. Clark
Another post on social media from a friend singing the praises of her child: “How lucky am I?” she wrote.
“My son finished Harry Potter and he’s only in second grade!”
“You are lucky,” I thought, damping down my jealousy. I can’t exactly post, “My son hates reading!” on social media. He’s a teenager, and I’ve waited years to admit publicly how much he loathes it. I felt that my son’s lack of interest in reading meant I was a bad mother.
The truth is kinder to me than I am to myself: Reading is a pursuit that he is not passionate about.
He can read. He doesn’t like to read. There’s a difference.
Ever since my son was born, I tried to instill in him a love of reading. In no particular order, here are the word-nurturing, pro-book,
literature-lovin’ experiences I exposed him to:
I read in front of him. I love to read!
I read to him. Daily from birth until third grade.
I took him to the library.
I took him to the bookstore.
I bought him books from the school book fairs.
I made sure his daycare was a developmentally-appropriate, NAEYC-accredited child care center chock full of book nooks, story times, and language-enrichment activities.
I signed those homework reading logs that came home every night from kindergarten through sixth grade.
I chatted with him about books.
I bought him an e-reader.
Did I mention I read in front of him? I love to read!
For years, I’ve felt bad about his lack of fervor for reading, especially during National Reading Month. Until one day I stopped.
It was the day a mom came over to pick up her child from a play date with my youngest (who loves to read, by the way). I don’t remember how the topic of my son’s lack of interest in reading came up, but she shared her thoughts.
“I hate reading, too,” she commented. “It was never social enough for me. I always wanted to be doing something else.”
Here she was, a successful vice president at an international company with three lovely children, confessing that reading wasn’t for her.
What a relief! It was the first voice I heard that defied the cacophony telling me that I must get my child to love reading. That day I allowed
He can read. He doesn’t like to read. There is a difference.
myself to believe, to embrace even, that my son could succeed in life even though he doesn’t like to read.
Reading is not for my son. However, what is for my son is socializing with friends and family, chatting with anyone he meets, participating in classroom discussions, being a leader, playing sports, and being pretty great.
Maybe I should put that on social media. He can’t be embarrassed by such a post. Chances are he won’t even read it ❖
Katy M. Clark is a writer and mom of two who embraces her imperfections on her blog Experienced Bad Mom.