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Feature Stories 10 Chimera Arts & Maker Space

Nurturing creative genius & Creating the Light Cloud

14 Romantic Weekend Getaways Choose a getaway and remember romance.

17 Make Your Own Unique Valentines Valentine craft ideas to make with kids.

18 Preteen Dating How to guide these first relationships.

22 iLearn Fair Map Check out this incredible showcase of learning and fun.

24 Wintertime Family Hikes for Little Ones Too! The best places to hike and get dirty.

38 Ready, Set, Camp!

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28 Calendar of Events Elephant Seal Love

Bits and Pieces

39 Marketplace

Inspiration Station

42 Humor Break

Watching the Winter Olympics with Kids

Summer Scholars On the cover: Creator Caleb Adam Haye, his daughter Kalea and wife Michelle Saxton sit in front of the Light Cloud, constructed in the new Chimera Arts & Maker Space in Sebastopol. Photo by Dennis Urbiztondo.

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Dear Reader

February is the perfect time to take your loved ones on some spectacular local hikes. Our editors have selected some Sharon Gowan favorite wintertime Publisher/Editor family hikes that Sharon@family-life.us even preschoolers can enjoy. Discover banana slugs and sprawling vistas, minute mushrooms and soaring trees. And, if you’re tired of working out in a gym, you can recommit to those fitness goals and enjoy a little more nature. Parents of pre-teens may wish there was a little less nature-driven attraction going on. Parenting pre-teens through their first relationships or dating takes a watchful eye, careful timing, and tactful communication. These important tips can guide you through what can be a difficult time.

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Bits & Pieces

Amy Rosenbaum from Arts in the Garden Preschool hangs peace flags.

Inspiration Station

group of St. Vincent High School students called the Art Angels has covered a dilapidated former taqueria in Petaluma in beautiful murals representing peace and the history of the area. Led by St. Vincent High School art teacher Marla Pedersen, the space (also a former gas station) has now been dubbed the “Inspiration Station” where viewers can enjoy its beauty and be inspired to create their own.

Arts in the Garden preschool in Petaluma put the finishing touches on the space by creating peace flags to hang on the perimeter. Hanging the peace flags is the culmination of the children’s daily work to better understand the meaning of peace through art, music, literacy, math, and social and emotional experiences.

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Arts in the Garden Preschool dances in celebration of a job well done.

Pedersen envisions further transforming the space into an art center for children of all ages with afterschool enrichment and a children’s art gallery. Questions, please email Marla Pedersen at mpedersen@svhs-pet.org. ¶

Watching the Winter Olympics with Kids

hen the 2014 Winter Olympics in Sochi, Russia takes place on February 7th through the 23rd, twelve exciting new events will make their debut. Check them out with your kids. It’s a great way to show them what can be achieved when hard work, talent, and that immeasurable force, the human spirit, come together. It’s also fun to better understand the games through fun and educational activities.

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Chimera Arts & Maker Space

Nurturing Creative Genius

By Esther Baruch

f your kids want to get involved in real-life, adult activities like making things (and what kid doesn’t?) it’s time to head over to Chimera Arts and Maker Space in Sebastopol.

root around in a fun pile of parts to find just the right one, and they had a grand time driving the pedal car around to see if it was working at various stages of creation.

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In a word: VERY. “They’re very kind and welcoming and always happy to see us,” says Kimberly Mullen, whose three kids are regulars at Chimera. Twins Lisa and Emma are nine. Riley is eleven. As a homeschooling family, they look for creative ways of learning. Riley loves making things. He especially enjoys taking apart electronics. Chimera has hosted a few hacker nights around electronic hardware, and Riley’s been a regular. “Chimera has an adult vibe but is very welcoming to children,” Mullen sums up.

It varies all the time. A couple of people decide to work on a project. They list it on Chimera’s meetup page and a few more people come. It happens from the ground up, not from the top down.

The kids got to try out several 3-D printers and talk to the people who had made them. One twelve-year-old built a 3-D printer that takes Lego parts and assembles 3-D objects.

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Some projects kids have helped with recently: Building a Pedal Car While this project required a lot of dangerous activity such as welding, it was a fantastic opportunity for kids to watch hobbyists safely working on such a project. They got to see applied math and science. They also got to

Miniature Robot Fighting Competition This activity was very popular with families. Thirty-six robots entered the competition. What’s the attraction? “They’re loud, they’re fun, they’re exciting to watch,” says Dana Woodman, founder of Chimera. “One kid was clinging to the fence as his parents tried to

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Chimera Arts and Maker Space filled with creative work.

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on producing an amazing design accomplishment. See page 12 for more about the Light Cloud.

may be ant weight, beetle weight, or flea weight. The Great Light Cloud Project

Kids and dogs are welcome at Chimera.

leave, crying, ‘don’t take me away from the robots!’” The insect-weight robots fight each other in a round robin tournament. Kids are mesmerized by them. They

An art installation made of light bulbs, programmed to work interactively, the Light Cloud is considered cool by kids and adults. Kids got to participate in unpacking cases of bulbs, and their small bodies were useful in programming the Kinect-powered motion & proximity detection software algorithms. All collaborated

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Art Meetups These are not art classes. Art classes are available elsewhere. At an art meetup, people come down and work on something and get inspired by the work around them. Some bring a project from home. Others pick up art supplies that are there. Everyone benefits from the collective energy and support. How Do I Find Out What’s Going On? The best way is to go to Chimera’s meetup page. Folks post their meetup times there, and you can go on down and join in. meetup.com/ Chimera-Arts-Maker-Space/ “People aren’t making things anymore. And if they are, it’s not set up for kids.

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spoke with Caleb Haye, founder of Touchfab, Inc, and Dave Lowensohn of Touchfab’s design team, about how the Light Cloud project started. Google commissioned the project to represent its Cloud platform. It made its debut at a Google corporate event hosted at an area winery. The Light Cloud is an art installation made of light bulbs programmed to work interactively through the use of mobile apps. The opportunity to work on the Cloud was a result of the award-winning work the founding members of the Touchfab team had previously done as consultants for Google.

The Light Cloud under construction.

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As soon as the Touchfab team accepted the challenge, they began to look for a space, and quickly chose Chimera. “It was a rousing experience,” says Haye of the Light Cloud project. “Like a child being born.”

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The team bonded around this project. “We came to care more about the people executing the project than about the project itself. It gave us great joy. It was a breakthrough in our getting things done and was part of our evolution as a company,” Haye relates.

Do Kids Get It? “Kids are the best,” says Haye. “Kids get it the most. They see it; they run to it; they stand under it; they look up at it. They’re curious. The app mimics a familiar concept, finger painting. They choose a digital color and put their fingers into it, and watch the cloud change color. They can also cause it to change brightness and can trigger interactive sequences.”

From a structural engineer who happened by and saved the day, to a kinetic sculptor and McArthur genius grant winner, to Caleb’s six-year-old daughter who was often on site, everyone had a respected place in its construction. Lowensohn and Haye stress the fact that it was the entire team, working together, that pulled it off. “The coder and the welder, the dreadlocked and the bald, were all equal and all joined together to create so much joy and energy. We get giddy when we talk about it.”

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Creator Caleb Adam Haye, his daughter Kalea and wife Michelle Saxton sit in front of the Light Cloud

PHOTO BY Dennis Urbiztondo

An interesting aspect of downloading the app is that you have to be there, at the event, to do so. It’s a hyper-local connector, encouraging people to come together, to join the fun and be part of the magic.

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Not all parents have the skills,” says Kimberly Mullen. “This is the only place of its kind in Sonoma County. It’s a wonderful find for families with creative kids.” How It All Started When artist Dana Woodman realized there wasn’t room in his small apartment to paint, he asked friends on Facebook if they were interested in a maker space, a shared space where all could come together to create, share tools and inspiration, and form a creative community. A week after he created the Facebook group, there were over 800 members. From there he and a few others went on to form Chimera Arts and Maker Space in Sebastopol. Their website, chimeraarts.org, calls it a DIY creative space and playground for artists, inventors, and hackers. Chimera is in its temporary headquarters while its large long-term space is undergoing renovation. The temporary mini-maker space is in the back lot of the Ford Garage building in downtown Sebastopol. The main space should be open soon. Focus on Kids’ Programs Now that membership has grown and renovation of the large main space is underway, the next focus is developing programs for kids. “Kids are the creative geniuses. If you want good ideas, ask the kids,” chuckles Caleb Haye, a Chimera board member. “We just hope a little of their coolness rubs off on us.” To become a member, participate in a meetup, donate, and more go to chimeraarts.org. ¶ www.sonomafamilylife.com

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Romantic Weekend Getaways By Ann Ingraham

atching your husband cuddle your baby or seeing him patiently help your toddler learn to ride a bike can bring out some of your most loving feelings. But, sometimes you need to connect with your partner away from the kids. You need to remember that youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re not just parents, but also lovers. 14 SonomaFamilyLife

Northern California offers some of the most beautiful places to get away for a night or two with your loved one. So bribe your mom or dad or sister or find a reliable babysitter and run away for a weekend. Here are a few romantic places scrupulously tested by busy Sonoma County parents. All agreed that it was worth it. A Wild Getaway The spring is when many of us start to feel more frisky and the animals of Safari West are no exception. For those that want a wilder getaway, Safari West in Santa Rosa, offers glamping at its finest with luxury tents built on high wooden platforms and spacious decks. Pale green walls enclose plush beds, hot showers and rustic but elegant surroundings with polished wood floors, gleaming copper basins in the bathrooms, and one-of-a-kind hand-hewn furniture. Take a safari to see giraffes, zebras, wildebeests, rhinoceros, flamingos, kookaburras, lemurs, Patas monkeys, and donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t forget to check out the lovebirds. Safari West also offers romance packages that include a safari drive, wine, chocolate, a Swedish massage, and overnight lodging. $$$ SafariWest.com.

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Not Your Usual Getaway The Featherbed Railroad Caboose Bed and Breakfast in Nice offers romantic rooms with private Jacuzzi tubs in Lake County wine country. These cozy cabooses set in a park-like setting overlooking a private boat launch and beach, offer a unique way to get away from it all. The B&B is also surrounded by thirty premium wineries and hiking, biking, kayaking, and geocaching (where you participate in a real-world outdoor treasure hunt using GPS-enabled devices). Explore the wineries and come back to your custom caboose with a bottle of Ceàgo biodynamic pinot noir from their nearby winery and enjoy a quiet glass with your love in the hot tub. $$ Featherbedrailroad.com

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While you are there check out the Henry Miller Memorial Library down the street. Miller’s saucy books were banned in the United States until 1961, and he wrote a love letter to Big Sur entitled Big Sur and the Oranges of Hieronymous Bosch.

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Then walk along the beach or hike in one of the parks in Big Sur (Andrew Molera State Park, Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park, or Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park or travel north to Point Lobos), soak in the natural hot springs overlooking the ocean at Esalen Institute and get a world-class massage, then have dinner at Nepenthe or another fabulous restaurant in the area and come back to your little cottage at Deetjen’s to listen to your partner contemplate what is more beautiful, the power of the Pacific ocean or the depth of your eyes.

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Quaint Small Town Getaway The Sweetwater Spa & Inn in Mendocino offers rooms and cottages with hot tubs and a spa with an eight-foot Redwood hot tub and massage therapists. The quaint town of Mendocino with its beautiful rocky coast and sandy beach is a quiet getaway from a busy life. Visit the giant Redwood trees of Montgomery Woods State Park or the pygmy forest in Van Damme State Park, enjoy the Mendocino Botanical Garden, then return to the little town of Mendocino, listen to the waves and remember what romance is. $$ Sweetwaterspa.com. ¶ Rooms range from approximately $105 to $300. One to three dollar signs indicate where they fall on the scale. February 2014 www.sonomafamilylife.com

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alentines Day is a joyful and simple holiday. It’s a time to tell your friends and loved ones how much you really like them. You can buy valentines at the drugstore, but it always feels better to create and give your own unique valentines. Your children’s (and your own) friends will truly appreciate the care that was taken during the creation of these sweet gifts. Handprint Hearts

Supplies: white paper, pink and red finger paint, large paintbrush, black Sharpie • Paint the palm of one hand red and stamp the hand on your paper facing downwards on a diagonal. • Paint the opposite palm pink. Stamp the hand on your paper facing downward on a diagonal, opposite the other handprint. They will overlap to form a heart. • Using a black Sharpie, write cute loving messages around the handprint.

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Heart Crayons Supplies: old crayons, silicone pan with heart-shaped molds, scrap paper, double-sided foam mounting tape, scissors, colored card stock, and markers. • Heat oven to 250 degrees. • Collect old crayons, peel off paper, and break into pieces. • Fill each heart-shaped mold with crayon pieces. • Bake 10 to 12 minutes until melted. • Once cool, remove hearts and use foam tape to stick them to card stock circles. • Write or stamp loving messages around the heart. ¶

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Preteen Dating By Denise Yearian

Trivial Terrain or Timely Talks?

oys and girls have always been attracted to one another. But when attraction begins varies tremendously from one person to another. For some, those feelings of attraction start in late elementary school. For others, it’s not until high school. Although the age gap varies, experts agree when a child of nine-or ten-years-old begins showing interest in the opposite gender, parents need to sit up and take notice.

“Kids this age may have a boy-or girlfriend, but still not know what dating means,” says Shaunti Feldhahn, relationship researcher and analyst, and author of For Young Women Only. “They are mimicking what they see played out on TV or by teenagers, but they don’t have a full grasp of how a relationship works.” Parents, she says, may have a tendency to dismiss these early relationships as trivial, but they should be taken seriously. 18 SonomaFamilyLife

“It’s an advanced signal of what is to come and needs to be addressed by Mom and Dad while they still have a major influence in their child’s life,” Feldhahn suggests. Jane Bowen, director of a statewide parent education organization agrees. “Parents should take the lead in facilitating age-appropriate discussions with their preteen regarding friendships, dating, decision making and sex. If your son says he has a girlfriend or is ‘going

out’ with someone, ask what that means,” she says. But according to Bowen, talking about it shouldn’t be a one-time deal. “These conversations need to happen frequently so parents know where their preteens are in relationships and preteens know what their parents’ expectations are,” she continues. This is what Patty and David Ford did with their nine-year-old daughter Amber. “When she was in the fourth grade, Amber would tell me that so-and-so liked her and that other girls in the class had boyfriends,” recalls Patty. “I felt like if she came and shared it with me, it was important that we talk about it.” Ford told her daughter she was too young to have a boyfriend, but she was careful to keep the line of communication open. Two years later, a bigger relationship issue cropped up.

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With the parent-child dialogue already established, Ford was able to help her daughter navigate the sticky situation. “This past fall, a boy at school gave Amber a necklace,” says Ford. “Since it was right before her eleventh birthday we told her if she wanted to keep it, it would have to be a birthday gift.” But on her birthday, the same boy gave Amber a card with $50 tucked inside of it. Amber didn’t know what to do, so she brought the money home and talked it over with her mother. “I told her there was no way she could keep it, and she understood,” Ford explains. “We talked about how accepting a gift like that could make the boy think their relationship could possibly go to the

next level—holding hands, giving him a kiss, that kind of thing. We agreed that I would call the boy’s parents, explain the situation and tell them the money would be returned the next day.”

“Rather than imposing rules preteens may resent, help them understand reasons why the rules are there.” When parents talk with their children, they should communicate their values and expectations and then lay out boundaries. Equally important is to explain why the boundaries are there. “Rather than imposing rules preteens may resent, help them understand

reasons why the rules are there so they begin to develop that internal compass,” says Feldhahn. Parents should also try to find out what is influencing their child—be it friends, an older sibling, or some form of media—so they can address the issue as a whole. “When Amber and I talk about relationships, I find out what is going on not just with her, but with the entire sixth-grade class,” says Ford. “It helps me understand what’s influencing her. Is it persuasion from a new friend? Is she trying to fit in? Does she feel pressured?” Although ten-year-old Jordan Adams isn’t yet attracted to the opposite gender, he fell prey to a

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peer-induced pair off that made him uncomfortable. “This past fall, Jordan’s school organized a dance for the kids,” explains his mother Amy. “It was supposed to be a reward for good

“Attractions are normal and will only increase as children grow.”

nothing about the pair offs; it had been instigated by the students. “Up to this point, I hadn’t discussed boy/girl relationships with Jordan,” Amy says. “I didn’t think I needed to. But I’m realizing now that even if he isn’t thinking about girls, the kid sitting next to him in class may be, so I’ve got to maintain a constant dialogue with him.”

grades, but things spiraled out of control. Jordan came home one day and told me he didn’t want to go to school because everyone had a date for the dance and he didn’t.”

“Attractions are normal and will only increase as children grow,” Bowen concludes. “If we want to prepare our kids for healthy dating relationships later on, we need to start communicating and building a trusting relationship with them now.” ¶

Amy called the school and talked with the principal. He informed her that the administration knew

Denise Yearian is the former editor of two parenting magazines and the mother of three children.

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Host a Rocket-Fueled Birthday Party I s your child building rockets and blasting off to space daily? Are they dreaming of being an astronaut and asking questions about the planets and stars? Do they want a telescope for their birthday? It might be time to host a Rocket-Fueled Birthday Party and take their knowledge of space to greater heights.

The Space Station Museum (Thespacestationca.org) located in Pacheco Plaza Center in Novato can help. You can bring the kids to Boca Pizzeria and then arrange a free private guided tour of the museum for your party. Children can see real space suits, try on space gloves and check out the fifty-pound meteorites. Then they can visit the Mars exhibit, learn more about this planet, and see real photos taken by the Mars Rover of its surface. Kids can also see the relative size and position of planets, learn about jet propulsion, and see signed photos of astronauts. Then sign up for The Space Station Museumâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s email list and they will tell you about their recurring telescope nights where volunteers will help kids look through telescopes and discover the changing beauty of the night sky. Âś

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Wintertime Family Hikes for Little Ones Too! Fun for the Whole Family (Even the Little Ones) By Ann Ingraham

y son spies a cute red with white spots Amanita mushroom and kneels down to get close. “Don’t touch it!” I say. I am always the cautious mama and warn him about the poisonous mushroom, but come down to his level and kneel close to him to have a look. The small grouping of oversized red and white mushrooms looks just like a tiny village for fairies that drink rose hip tea out of acorn caps. “This is where the fairies live,” my son whispers then gets up and jumps into a puddle with two feet soaking us both. Winter hiking is the best. 24 SonomaFamilyLife

Being out in nature is not just fun. Richard Louv claimed in his 2005 book, Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children From Nature Deficiency Disorder, that lack of nature can contribute to childhood obesity, attention disorders, and depression. So get out in nature with your kids and hike. Here’s some great ones to try. Palomarin Trail in Bolinas The Palomarin Trailhead on Mesa Road starts as a flat trail that winds down a eucalyptus-lined path near the ocean. The first path on your left leads down a narrow dirt path to a rocky beach. The last bit of the trail before the beach is very steep and rocky. It helped to be wearing hiking boots, and I kept a strong hold on my four-year-old son as we scrambled down the rock path. At the beach we built a house from old driftwood, collected huge crab shells and the first chiton shell I’ve ever seen, and gathered up beautiful rocks to make a fairy house for one lucky beachfront fairy. The waves crashing in and out were our only companions. I felt lucky and special to find this place. You can too. If you have older, stronger hikers, continue down the original trail four miles to Alamere Falls that is in its full glory during the wettest days of winter. February 2014 www.sonomafamilylife.com

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Howarth Park in Santa Rosa When you plan a family hike with little children, all parents know it’s good to have a back up plan. Howarth Park in Santa Rosa has a great playground where kids can climb and run around. But if everyone is up for a little hike, across the parking lot from the playground is Lake Ralphine that offers about a mile hike around. As you arrive at Lake Ralphine, there are ducks and geese to feed and as you move around the lake there are little inlets to explore for frogs and tadpoles (in the summer you can fish for crawdads!). For older children, Spring Lake close by is a 3.5 mile hike around. Both are nice flat hiking trails. Olompali State Historic Park in Novato Olompali (pronounced O-lum-pa-lee) State Historic Park is never crowded and is often discounted because of its location close to 101, but the park embraces thousands of years of history that is uniquely Californian, from the native Miwoks, to the Chosen Family Commune and the Grateful Dead. Children enjoy seeing the old buildings and the small demonstration Miwok village, and as you hike into the woods of Mt. Burdell, you forget you are beside the highway and focus on your 600-foot elevation gain and 2.75-mile round-trip hike. The trail is a loop so it doesn’t matter which way you take it. The way is steep and would serve as a real challenge for young children. I’m afraid my four year old would want to ride on shoulders for some of the steepest paths. But third graders and above could do it with coaxing and feel a great sense of accomplishment when ascending to the top and looking out over the great expanse of the Petaluma River and San Pablo Bay below. Heading back feels easy and free—you can imagine the Grateful Dead jamming down below. These hikes, replete with waterfalls, banana slugs, and mushrooms will leave you grateful for California winters. ¶ February 2014 www.sonomafamilylife.com

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February Calendar of Events Elephant Seal Love

he elephant seals are recovering their population and returning to breed in Point Reyes in February. Weekend shuttle bus service is available at the Point Reyes National Seashore for interested visitors. The bus service eases traffic congestion at prime viewing areas that include the Point Reyes National Seashore’s historic lighthouse and Chimney Rock headlands.

The bus service runs only on weekends and federal Monday holidays in good weather through mid-April. Tickets are $5 and on sale between 9:30 and 3:30 p.m. at the Ken Patrick Visitor Center at Drake’s Beach. The Sir Francis Drake Highway is closed between 9:30 and 5:15 p.m. at the South Beach junction when busses are operating. Docents are also available weekends and holidays at the Elephant Seal Overlook at the end of Sir Francis Drake from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. to answer questions about elephant seals. More information is available at the Bear Valley Visitor Center at (415) 464-5137 and at nps.gov/pore. ¶

1 Saturday FREE Sculpture Trail. Features

works in the Plaza & the Blvd. Trail thru May 8, 2014. Downtown Cloverdale & Geyserville. cloverdaleartsalliance.org. Henri Matisse Exhibit. Thru Sep. 7,

2014. Daily, except Mon. $6–$10. 12 & under free. Legion of Honor. San Francisco. famsf.org. FREE Whale Watch at Bodega Head. The amazing sight of the yearly

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Weekends. January thru April 2014. Bodega Head. Petrified Forest Meadow Walk.

See live oak, douglas-fir, madrone, manzanita, rare wildflowers & Mt. St. Helena. Sat. & Sun. 11 am weather permitting. Includes price of admission, $16, $15, free 11 & under. The Petrified Forest. 4100 Petrified Forest Rd., Calistoga. petrifiedforest.org. FREE Friedman’s Kidsworx Creative Workshop. Children’s

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fun science activities. 9 am–noon. Friedman’s Home Improvement. 4055 Santa Rosa Avenue, Santa Rosa. cmosc.org. FREE Science Saturday at Environmental Discovery Center.

Tangible experiments & projects let children explore the natural world. Every 1st Sat. 1, 2 & 3 pm. 393 Violetti Rd., Santa Rosa. parks. sonomacounty.ca.gov. Family Night at Cal Skate. Music, fun, games & prizes. Every Sat. 6–8:30 pm. $49 Family of four. Admission,

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Bennett Valley Union School District skates, pizza. 6100 Commerce Blvd. Rohnert Park. calskate.com. FREE Children’s Sale Day at Petaluma Library. Benefiting the

Petaluma Regional Library. Half price sale all day. 10 am–3 pm. Petaluma Library. sonomalibrary.org. FREE Lego Club. Build your own

unique creations. Lego bricks provided, along with a different theme each month. Ages 6–12. 2 pm. Windsor Library. sonomalibrary.org. FREE Red Panda Acrobats.

Thrilling & exciting acrobatic feats! 10:30 am. Rincon Valley Library. 6959 Montecito Blvd. Santa Rosa. sonomalibrary.org. Sonoma County Orchid Show.

Orchids in the Redwoods show & sale. Sat. 10 am–5 pm & Sun. 10 am–3 pm. $8. Santa Rosa Veterans Building. Across from Sonoma County Fairgrounds. Santa Rosa. sonomaorchids.com. Stunt Dog Experience. Amazing

tricks, big air stunts, comedy antics, dancing dogs, athletic feats! Every show includes interactive crowd participation. 3 pm. $21 adult. $16 child. Wells Fargo Center for the Arts. Santa Rosa. wellsfargocenterarts.org.

2 Sunday Groundhog Day. Free Day at the Exploratorium! 10 am–5 pm. Pier 15. San Francisco. exploratorium.org.

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Turning your fleeting moments into precious memories

3 Monday Museum Mondays for Little Ones.

Enjoy stories, movement games, art & crafts. Ages 1–5. Every Monday. 10 am–noon. $5 child. Free for up to 2 adults per child (before 11 am). Charles M. Schulz Museum. Santa Rosa. schulzmuseum.org Rock-n-Glow Bowling. Two hours, shoes included. LED lane lighting & automated scoring. Special bumper-rails for kids. Every Mon. 5–10 pm. $9. Windsor Bowl. 8801 Conde Ln. Windsor. windsorbowl.com.

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5 Wednesday FREE First Wednesday at Bay Area Discovery Museum. Creative play for all children. 9 am–5 pm. Bay Area Discovery Museum. 557 McReynolds Road, Sausalito. baykidsmuseum.org. Frank Lloyd Wright Civic Center Tours. Docent-led tours of historic

landmark. Every Wed. 10:30 am. $5. 2nd Floor Café. Rm. 233. Marin Civic Center. 3501 Civic Center Dr. San Rafael. marincounty.org. Meditation Group for Mothers.

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6 Thursday FREE James K Visits Storytime!

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funding to shelters, rescue groups, & individuals dedicated to improving the health, welfare, & adoptability of unwanted & abused animals. 6–10 pm. $40 donation advance. $50 door. Finley Community Center. 2060 W. College, Santa Rosa. pawsforlove.info.

Tickets held at will call. 8 pm. $15 under 22. $22 adults. Cinnabar Theater. 3333 Petaluma Bl. N., Petaluma. cinnabartheater.org.

under 3 free. Lawrence Hall of Science. 1 Centennial Dr., Berkeley. lawrencehallofscience.org. All Breed Cat Show. Feline agility

Meet the Makers Fixit Clinic. DIY inspiration & support. Free family admission if you bring something to disassemble. 12:30–3:30 pm. Admission. $12, $9, $6, children

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competitions, adoptable cats & kittens, cat toys, furniture, gifts, jewelry. Benefitting Forgotten Felines, Humane Society & others. 10 am–6 pm Sat. 9 am–5 pm Sun. $5 adults. $3 children. Free under 5. Sonoma County Fairgrounds. sonomacountyfair.com. FREE Peanuts on the Go. Learn

how to draw Snoopy! Make a hand puppet and other fun crafts! Ages kindergarten thru 2nd grade. Under 6 may participate with parent. 11– noon. Northwest Santa Rosa Library. Coddingtown Shopping Center. sonomalibrary.org.

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CLOVERDALE CITRUS FAIR PRESIDENTS’ WEEKEND CONTINUOUS FAMILY ENTERTAINMENT FEBRUARY 14-17 CITRUS EXHIBITS • ARTS & CRAFTS • FARM ANIMALS CARNIVAL • CHEFS’ DEMOS • KIDS TOWN • QUEEN PAGEANT WINE TASTING - SATURDAY & SUNDAY

AT Y CAMP, YOUR CHILD WILL MAKE MEMORIES THAT WILL LAST A LIFETIME! SIGN-UP FOR CAMP STARTING MARCH 3RD Adventure Camp•Sports Camp•Super Science Camp•Little Campsters•Moving On Camp•Kids Club & Counselor in Training Program Call or visit us for more details & registration information. 707.544.1829 www.scfymca.org Sonoma County Family Y  1111 College Avenue  Santa Rosa 707-545-9622  www.scfymca.org The Y is a non-profit community based organization.

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DAILY! – PAY ONE PRICE FOR UNLIMITED CARNIVAL RIDES PRE-SALE DISCOUNTS AVAILABLE AT OFFICE THURSDAY Pre-Fair Cabaret “Fair’ly Country” Dinner and Show - $40. – 6 pm - Pre-Sale Only FRIDAY BINGO - SENIORS’ DAY, 62 & OVER $1. SATURDAY PARADE AT 11 AM • Talent Show PAULIE’S GARAGE Country Western Dance & the Kicken’ Country Girls – Line Dance Lessons SATURDAY 7 pm - $15. Admission! ($10. Pre-Sale) SUNDAY MARIACHI MUSIC 1 pm & 3:30 pm Fair’ly Country Dinner & Cabaret (Pre-Sale Only – 6:30 PM) SOURDOUGH SLIM Country Entertainer Extraordinaire SUNDAY 2 pm & 4:30 pm - Free with Fair Admission! MONDAY KIDS’ DAY 12 & UNDER FREE! General Admission - $7. • Juniors 6 – 12 & Seniors - $5. Children 5 & Under are FREE! COME RAIN OR SHINE! TAKE HIGHWAY 1O1 TO CITRUS FAIR DRIVE EXIT IN SONOMA COUNTY • FOR INFO CALL 707.894.3992

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FREE Happy Valentine’s Day Craft Program. 1–2 pm. Santa Rosa

Downtown Library. sonomalibrary.org. FREE Nature for Kids: Indian Valley.

See insects, flowers & lunch by the beautiful waterfall on 2.5 mile walk. 10 am–2 pm. Meet at the College of Marin Indian Valley campus, parking lot #6. 1800 Ignacio Blvd. Novato. marincounty.org.

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9 Sunday FREE Sunday at California Academy of Sciences. All day.

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12 Wednesday FREE African American Folktales & Legends. Celebrate Black

History Month with storyteller Kirk Waller. 4 pm. Sebastopol Library. sonomalibrary.org. FREE Pajama Movie Night. Mr

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Design, Create, Innovate! All the electronics supplies you need to make your world! Arduino Boards & Arduino Parts Electronic components & kits 3D Printing supplies & services 3D Scanning Services Awesome Consumer Electronics

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bears, pillows highly encouraged. 5:30 pm. Rohnert Park-Cotati Library. sonomalibrary.org. FREE Tweens Create Sugar Salt Scrubs & Valentine Cards.

Taught by Siobhan Loughney. All materials provided. Ages 9–12. 4 pm. Healdsburg Library. sonomalibrary.org.

14 Friday Annie Get Your Gun. Musical Western about the one & only Annie

Oakley. Thurs. Fri. Sat. & Sun. thru Feb. 23. Various times. $22–$26. Spreckels Performing Arts Center. 5409 Snyder Lane, Rohnert Park. rpcity.org. Schulz Museum is Calling All Red-Haired Girls! In honor of Charlie Brown’s affection, red-hared girls get free admission on Valentine’s Day! 11 am–5 pm. $10 adults. $5 youth & senior. Charles M. Schulz Museum. Santa Rosa. schulzmuseum.org 46th Annual Coin Show. Free

appraisals. 10 am–6 pm Sat. & Sun. $2. Kids under 12 free. Sonoma County Fairgrounds. sonomacountyfair.com.

THE BIRTHDAY PARTY PLACE

Cloverdale Citrus Fair. Runs

Dr. Charlene R. Chan Dr. Monica L. Chmiel Public Skating • Fundraisers Private & Group Instruction

CAL SKATE Roller Skating & Blading Center

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President’s weekend rain or shine. Kids 6–12 Free on Mon. Feb. 17. Seniors 62+ $1 on Fri. Feb. 14. Admission $5–$20. Cloverdale Citrus Fairgrounds. cloverdalecitrusfair.org.

15 Saturday FREE Family Hikes at Spring Lake.

Naturalist guides one-hour tour of areas plants & wildlife. Third Sat. 1 pm & 3 pm. Environmental Discovery

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Spring Hill Montessori

Center. Spring Lake, Santa Rosa. sonoma-county.org. FREE Chinese New Year Festival

10 am–4 pm. Tues. & Thurs. 10 am–4 pm. $5–$10. Under 5 free. pacificcoastairmuseum.org.

and Parade. One of the largest

5th Annual All Girls Chess

Asian celebrations outside of Asia. 5:20 pm–8 pm. $30 tickets only for bleacher seating. Parade starts on Market and 2nd. St., San Francisco. Chineseparade.com.

Tournament! All ages and skill levels welcome! 9:30 am–1 pm. $25 entry fee. Trophies and prizes for all! Roseland Prep High School. Santa Rosa. chessclubforkids.com.

FREE Hobby Expo 2014. Theme is “Building the Future” & will include model railroads, RC planes, ships & cars, battling robots, war gaming & RC car racing. 9:30 am–4 pm. Petaluma Community Center. 320 N. McDowell Blvd., Petaluma. ipmssantarosa.org.

tools, die-cast vehicles, train whistles, scenery items, Railroadiania Slides, t-shirts, videos, railroad gift items, books, photos, more. 10 am–4 pm Sat. & Sun. $7. Kids under 12 free. Sonoma County Fairgrounds. greattrainexpo.com.

Open House Feb. 1st & 8 th

Bilingual Toddler & Pre-K Elementary STEM Curriculum

Please RSVP to reserve your space

707-763-9222 springhillmontessori.org

Educating Hearts and Minds for 125 years

Great Train Expo. Hobby

Climb Aboard a Vintage Aircraft!

Pacific Coast Air Museum features DC-6 cockpit & history. Sat. & Sun.

You are invited to our Monthly Tour and Shadow Program

TypeA+ teaches computer keyboarding to students grades 2-8 Enrolling Now for Winter

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Donate Your Vehicle. Help Keep Kids Safe. Your donation funds programs to find missing children.

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16 Sunday 24th Annual Valley Ford Relay.

Four teammates each run 2.75 miles on beautiful west county rural roads. 9–11 am. $10 per person. Dinucci’s Restaurant. Hwy. 1, Valley Ford. empirerunners.org.

17 Monday Celebrate Chinese New Year.

Dragon dancers, Asian food and crafts, and more. 9 am–5 pm.

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RINCON VALLEY CHRISTIAN SCHOOL

Free with admission. Bay Area Discovery Museum. Sausalito. baykidsmuseum.org

21 Friday Stuart Little. Performed by the

Dallas Children’s Theater Company, mild-mannered Stuart learns to survive in his super-sized world of humans & discovers the true meaning of family. 6:30 pm. $17 adult. $12 child. Wells Fargo Center for the Arts. Santa Rosa. wellsfargocenterarts.org.

22 Saturday Star Party! The Robert Ferguson Observatory’s three main telescopes will be open for viewing with a docent available. 7 pm. $3 Adult, Under 18 free, $8 parking. Sugarloaf Ridge State Park. 2605 Adobe Canyon Rd., Kenwood. rfo.org. FREE Microbusiness Expo. Meet

local micro-businesses, have fun, win prizes. 11 am–4 pm. Steele Lane Community Center. 415 Steele Lane, Santa Rosa. Call Marlyn Garcia for more information 544-6911 ext. 1090.

Preschool– High School

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FREE Day at Charles Schulz

5K Run with Heart. Post-race

Museum! All day during Starry, Starry Night exhibition. 10 am–5 pm. Charles M. Schulz Museum. Santa Rosa. schulzmuseum.org .

celebration with chocolate & wine tasting. 9 am. 16 & under $15. Adults $30–$45. Parking $7. Riverfront Regional Park. 7821 Eastside Rd., Healdsburg. runwithheart.kintera.org.

FREE Dave the Horn Guy! Come see Dave Enns, a musician’s musician with a lot of horns. Ages 3 & up. 2 pm. Rincon Valley Library. 6959 Montecito Blvd., Santa Rosa. sonomalibrary.org. Sleepover at California Academy

Chucho Valdez & the Bahia Orchestra Project. Brazilian youth orchestra in their U.S. debut tour. 3 pm. $40–$85. Green Music Center. Sonoma State University. gmc.sonoma.edu.

WINDSOR 707-838-7207 SEBASTOPOL 707-832-5207

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the albino alligator. Storytime with Pierre, the wetsuit-wearing penguin. Rainforests of the World exhibit. Full breakfast. Price includes next day admission. $99 non-members. $79 members. Golden Gate Park. San Francisco. calacademy.org.

Bring Your World into Focus • In House Optical & Lab • Licensed opticians • Thousands of frames in stock, including designer brands. • Accept majority of insurance plans • State of the art instruments

23 Sunday FREE Tolay Lake Sunset Hike. Enjoy sweeping views of southern Sonoma County & learn more about the property’s rich biodiversity & cultural history. 2–5 pm. Petaluma. parks. sonomacounty.ca.gov.

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Ready, Set,

You are considering a summer camp, but how to choose? There’s a camp that is ideally suited for every child, providing a summer of growth and fun whether your child attends a day or overnight camp, a specialized or traditional camp.

Camp! Finding the Right Camp for Your Child

With a little help from the American Camp Association, here’s some sound advice that helps parents sort through the choices that camp delivers. As spring approaches, parents and children can look forward to planning for the future—a future that includes the opportunities for exploration and discovery that arrives with summer camp. How to Decide When Your Child is Ready for Camp Children are ready for new experiences at different stages. Parents know their children best and these questions can help gauge whether this is the summer your child will start camp. What is your child's age, and what is your perception of his or her readiness 38 SonomaFamilyLife

level? Children under seven who have not had overnight experiences may do better with a day camp as their first camp experience. If you think your child might not be ready for an overnight camp experience, consider day camp to prepare him or her for overnight camp. How did your child become interested in camp? Does your child talk about camp on a sustained basis? How much persuasion is necessary from you? Has your child had positive overnight experiences away from home? Visiting relatives or friends? Were these separations easy or difficult? What does your child expect to do at camp? Learning about the camp experience ahead of time allows you to create positive expectations. Are you able to share consistent and positive messages about camp? Your confidence in a positive experience will be contagious. If you decide this is the summer that your child is ready for a great camp, Family Life’s Family Expo and Camp Fair on April 11th has representatives from tons of camps to help you choose the perfect one. ¶

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HULA LESSONS

Check out our online lessons directories Wings After School Martial & Arts Program

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All Levels Ages 6 & Up

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Camps

Parties

Super Kids Camp Fun weekly themes, field trips, swimming, rock wall climbing, & so much more! An exciting, recreational, & educational experience for campers, ages 5-11. A full week of camp starts as low as $125 per week. Call, email, or check out our website for details.

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Pets

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Op M o n d ae n y Saturdathru y

(707) 494-5490 Artful Arrangements

Parties

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Need A Venue For Business Events? PACIFIC COAST AIR MUSEUM

WE HAVE THE PLACE FOR YOUR PARTY A real airplane to sit in and play with the controls. Refrigerator available. Call the museum at 575-7900. See what we have! www.pacificcoastairmuseum.org

Let Us Decorate Your Next Party for You! • Birthdays • Quince’s • Weddings • Events • Corporate

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Art’s for the soul – a gift to the eye Life is too short, to even ask why

Animal Hospital of Sebastopol 707-823-3250

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Conferences • Meetings Presentations Non-Profit Discounts

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Health

Your Family Chiropractor Dr. Jennifer Price, DC, CACCP

Boarding • Daycare • Training Grooming • All Day Play Web Cams Rohnert Park 206-9000

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Law Office of Joel Richard Rubin

Certified Family Law Specialist 707-527-4470 • joelrrubin.com

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Language

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YMCA PRESCHOOL MOLDING YOUNG ONES INTO A BRIGHT FUTURE... Santa Rosa: 2590 Piner Rd.

- Part time /Full Time Care-Flexible Plans Available-

PROGRAM OBJECTIVES: Health & Nutrition, Motor Skills, Interpersonal Relationships, Self Confidence, and Cognitive & Academic Skills.

For All Ages - Since 2004 Sonoma & Marin Counties

PRICING & REGISTRAION: Contact the YMCA Program Office at 707.544.1829 The Y is a non-profit community based organization. Financial Assistance is available.

www.ColorsofSpanish.com

(707) 782-1084

Childcare/Preschools Casa dei B o’s Since 1981 amb i h Montessori School

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Preschool•Kindergarten Parent-Toddler Class Ages 18 months to 6-years

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707-528-0889 Developing the Whole Child ages Play-Based Learning 3 to 5 hours 8 am to 3 pm, years

Monday - Friday Christ Methodist Preschool

1717 Yulupa Ave., Santa Rosa • 707.526.0204 www.cmpreschool.org

Supportive Counseling. Helping children and families with anger, stress, depression and healing from physical, emotional and sexual abuse. Counseling for parents. Kathleen Dunham, MFT. 829-7051. Se Habla Espanol.

CHILDREN LEARN THROUGH PLAY • Child Therapy • Family Counseling • Parent Coaching

Jennifer Ballard, MFT 707- 483-9061 FREE CONSULTATION SolutionFamilyTherapy.com

Is Your Child Defiant, Stubborn, or Aggressive? It doesn’t have to be that way. For children 3-6. Start to see results in just 6 sessions. ASK ABOUT A FREE CONSULTATION

707-545-4600 www.srcbt.org

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Enroll now K12.com/AAS or 877-506-8631

For more information on these business & more check out our online directories

Program of First United Methodist Church Year-round • Play based Ages 2 - 5 (Pre-Kindergarten) Excellent Teacher-Child ratios Open 7am-6pm

Diane: 546-7012

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Preschool & Child Care Center

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Schools

The Bridge School. Located in Central Santa Rosa, 1625 Franklin Ave. Year-round full/half–day. Rich nurturing environment. Center based program for ages 3–5 with separate 2’s program. Caring, qualified teachers. Julie & Andrew Day; owners. Lic.#493005697. 575-7959.

Playtime Daycare/Preschool Join our loving family. Spacious playroom, large yard, meals provided. CPR & first aid certified. M-F. Infants & up. Call Wendy 539-7524. Lic. #04746. Presbyterian Preschool is a developmental, play-based preschool with dynamic, caring teachers. Generations keep returning! We foster the love of learning. We are accepting applications for 2013. Call 542-7396 or go to our website: www.presbyterianpreschool.org

Beth Ami Community Nursery School Home School Program Grades K - 5 Educating the whole child; head, heart, & hands.

OPEN HOUSE

Thursday Feb. 6th 5-7pm Tours Always Welcome All faiths welcome

4 Classrooms • 2 years to pre-k Reggio Emilia & Emergent Curriculum Potty training not required, 1:7 Ratios

www.sunridgeschool.org 707-824-2844 February 2014

4676 Mayette Ave., Santa Rosa

707-360-3030

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Humor Break

AS THE DERBY IS STARTING

entire auditorium of parents shushed, their heads swiveling in unison toward me, I thought to myself: “I should have used a hair dryer.”

By “Bull” Garlington

et us establish now I am not very good at this fatherhood thing. Never have been, never will be. I am a struggling father, an amateur, a dilettante. My children know this—I’ve been proving it to them since they were born. For my son, the proof was never so obvious as during the pinewood derby. I tend to plan the way some people fall off a cliff. I back plan, coming to my senses moments after something expensive lies smoldering at my feet long enough to say “Maybe I should have read the instructions.” So nobody should be surprised I screwed up my, I mean my son’s pinewood derby car.

First of all, the manufacturer’s verbiage claiming their paint will dry in one hour is a big fat lie. The only thing happening in an hour is the Scoutmaster will come into the broom closet where you’re building your car (your son’s car) as the derby is starting to tell you [unprintable] or he will [unprintable]. And the wheels will get stuck to the fuselage. Which really doesn’t matter in the great story arc of life. But there is a moment when it does matter. There is, in fact, a moment where those wheels, 42 SonomaFamilyLife

shellacked to the body of the car by a generous application of Krylon Red #5, bear the weight of a ’57 Chevy in a single glance as your son tries to place his racecar on the track . . . and it sticks to his fingers. However, there is another moment even heavier. When the chucks release

Look, I know something about being shamefaced: I attempted dating in the 80s. I worked at a theme park. I drove a Gremlin. I drove a purple Gremlin. and all the cars speed down the slope toward the finish line. All the cars. Except his. Yeah, the manufacturer coulda said something about that. Look, I know something about being shamefaced: I attempted dating in the 80s. I worked at a theme park. I drove a Gremlin. I drove a purple Gremlin. So I knew how to react. I knew precisely the harrowing precipice of dignity my father-and-son dynamic skidded uncontrollably toward in the gravity of that glance. As my son’s public humiliation went nuclear, as an

The next year was no better. Heck, the next two years were no better. My car—my son’s car—never placed. I spent at least fifty bucks on kits, sand paper packs, chrome pipes, high gloss lacquer; but no matter how many hours I put into my car–into my son’s car—I didn’t place. He didn’t place. Finally the kid said, “Dad, can I try?” and then I got it. I mean, it was soooo obvious. I should have seen it coming a mile away: this was one of those blunt lessons of fatherhood, a Zen smack, a light bulb as bright as the sun, and it was shining across that dim auditorium directly onto me and I knew, I knew right then I needed powdered graphite lube. The kid was having none of it. He grabbed a chunk of pine and built what appeared to be a wedge of cheese with a number 7 scrawled on its side. It wasn’t sanded. The wheels were crooked. It was yellow. This car had nothing going for it. He didn’t win. I mean, he was racing a block of cheddar against a Sponge Bob, a 3rd generation doorstop, and a perfectly rendered 1967 Camaro Super Sport. He came in fourth. And he didn’t care. Winning has nothing to do with it. ¶

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We LOVE what we do.

The luckiest people on earth are those who love getting up every day and heading out to do work they enjoy. We are among those who are blessed with this gift. There’s great pleasure in pruning trees and plants to make them strong and healthy, to bringing light and air to their branches, and to finishing the day proud to have accomplished a job well done.

When we nurture plants, they respond with vigorous growth. It’s pretty rewarding to see that happen! Right now most plants are in their dormant stage. This is the time of year when you can clearly see the shape of branches for aesthetic pruning. It’s also time to prune for maximum yield on fruit trees, trim flowering trees for beauty, and prepare plants for spring when they come out of their protective winter sleep.

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If it’s been a few years since you’ve had your trees trimmed for health and beauty, bring us by to evaluate what they need. Your property can be dressed for spring so it has a head start going into the growing season. You might it even find that having us do your pruning gives you time to take some time for yourself instead of spending the weekend doing yard work. Love yourself and your plants… give Fine Tree Care a call today.

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