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Every Issue

10 Features 10 What Dreams May Come New facility gives hope to homeless kids.

12 Educated Decisions Find the best school for your child.

14 School Smarts Tap into a slew of educational options.

15 Private School Guide Get the scoop on all the great local programs.

Dear Reader

Bits and Pieces Gimme a Gami-Bot Call of the Wild Symphonic Fairy Tale Feel the Beat A Gem of a Fair

26 Calendar of Events Get Your Slurp On

42 Humor Break Not This New Year

20 Small Talk Want your kids to â&#x20AC;&#x153;use their wordsâ&#x20AC;?? Chat with them.

22 Whistle While You Work Are you a visual, auditory, or kinesthetic learner?

24 From Resolution to Reality How to make positive life changes.

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“Why do They Keep Coming to this Doctor?...” A Doctor’s Confession to Petaluma (who admits to curing no one)

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Dear Reader

hat are your New Year’s resolutions? If you are like many parents, making sure your kids get a great education is Sharon Gowan Publisher/Editor one of them. With Sharon@family-life.us our “2016 Sonoma County Private School Guide,” we aim to make that task easier. We spoke with the staff of 28 local schools, and placed the most updated information in our guide. See “Educated Decisions” (page 12) for strategies to help you choose a school that suits your child’s needs. Hint: Read “Whistle While You Work” (page 22), and then factor your kid’s learning style into your decision-making process.

Before some kids can get an education, they need a home. In “What Dreams May Come” (page 10), we report on Social Advocates for Youth’s (SAY) new Dream Center, which is poised to help Sonoma County’s 678 homeless youth find not only shelter but also jobs.

Office Manager Patricia Ramos patty@family-life.us

Business Marketing Jolie Cook jolie@family-life.us

As the days of January tick off, your other resolutions—you know the ones about losing ten pounds or nixing smoking for good—are most likely patiently waiting for your attention. Let “From Resolution to Reality” (page 24) teach you about a research-based, three-stage process that will help you reach your goals.

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Features Editor Melissa Chianta melissa@family-life.us

We hope 2016 is the best year ever for your family!

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Contributing Writers Sandra Gordon Holly Hester Christina Katz Jan Pierce Denise Morrison Yearian

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he ancient originators of origami, which was invented in 105 AD, could only imagine their paper cranes taking flight on their own. They would no doubt be fascinated by Gami-Bots, the motorized origami robots kids 7 and up will learn to make at the Gaining STEAM workshop on January 9. The free event—part of a series that focuses on science, technology, engineering, art, and math (STEAM)—will be held at 2 p.m. at the Petaluma Regional Library in Petaluma. Materials will be provided. ¶

he symphony Peter and the Wolf has been entertaining families since it was first composed by Sergei Prokofiev in 1930s Russia. On January 24 at 3 p.m., the Santa Rosa Symphony and Platypus Theatre will offer their inventive take on the classic tale with a performance featuring two dancers, beautiful masks, and colorful sets. The show will be held at Weill Hall in the Green Center at Sonoma State University in Rohnert Park. Tickets are $17 for adults and $12 for kids, and may be purchased at tickets. santarosasymphony.com. A musical petting zoo will be held one hour before the show. ¶

Call of the Wild

o you have cat lovers in the family? Take them to the Wild Cat Adventure, where five felines— either a cougar, cheetah, serval, ocelot, fishing cat, black leopard cub, or Geoffroy’s cat—will take the stage at the Sebastopol Community Cultural Center on January 10, 3–4 p.m. Watch them safely show off their abilities to climb, leap, and even hunt as you learn about their habits and habitat. Reserve tickets, which are $10 for adults and $5 for kids under 12, by calling 874-3176 or by e-mailing wildcat@ wildcatfund.org. Find out more at seb.org. ¶

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Feel the Beat

he sounds of African rhythms are infectious, especially for little kids. Take your young ones (ages 3 and up) to hear some dynamic African drumming at the free performance of master percussionist Onye Onyemaechi on January 9, 2–3 p.m., at the Central Santa Rosa Library in Santa Rosa. Besides playing, Onyemaechi will also teach kids about African culture and tribal life. Find out more at sonomalibrary.org. ¶

A Gem of a Fair

ondering how to spend winter’s rainy days? Maybe jewelry-making is the ticket. To get inspired, go to the free Gem Faire on January 22–24 at the Marin Civic Center in San Rafael and walk through rows and rows of colorful gems, beads, crystals, minerals, and gold and silver. The fair will be open on January 22, noon–6 p.m.; January 23, 10 a.m.–6 p.m.; and January 24, 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Find out more at gemfaire.com. ¶

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mosaics by local artist Mario Uribe. Each step along the path features an uplifting word, contributed by homeless youth themselves—inspire, imagine, dare to win. They are words of hope, which is what SAY is all about, offering Sonoma County’s youth not only concrete homes, but shelter from the storms of their lives. “Thirty-seven percent of homeless youth in Sonoma County have

What Dreams May Come New Center Gives Homeless Youth a Fresh Start

ll youth have dreams and the homeless kids of Sonoma County are no different. The nonprofit Social Advocates for Youth (SAY) and its new Dream Center in Santa Rosa aim to help to turn those dreams into reality.

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In Sonoma County, 678 homeless people under the age of 24 are on the streets. For more than a decade, SAY, which offers a variety of services to thousands of kids every year, has helped such youth find homes and jobs. The new facility is the result of the fastest fundraising campaign in Sonoma County history—9.5 million raised in a year and a half—and the generosity of Sutter Health, which donated the old Warrack Hospital building that now, after extensive renovation, houses the center. The entrance to the center is placed strategically by a bus stop for its clients low-income, car-free kids. As they walk toward the lobby’s wall of windows, visitors will be greeted by a walkway tiled with colorful

A mosaic on the walkway of the new Dream Center in Santa Rosa.

experienced emotional, physical, or sexual abuse in their homes,” says SAY Communications and Marketing Manager Caitlin Childs, explaining why for many kids the streets feel safer than their own bedrooms. As they come from such troubling circumstances, one of the first services youth receive when they reach out to SAY is counseling. “It’s an honor to have a young person let you in to support them,” explains SAY Counseling Services Program

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Manager Elizabeth Goldman. “It’s an honor [because] they are revealing some of their biggest vulnerabilities.” It is these vulnerabilities that SAY staff kept in mind when designing the new Dream Center. Most clients will get their own rooms, which are housed in a keycard-accessible part of the building that only

“Finishing the building is not finishing the work.” —Elizabeth Goldman

residents and staff will be allowed to enter. And when residents want to socialize with others, they can convene in community spaces rather than take people to their rooms, which are for formerly homeless youth “sacred space,” Childs says. Once a sense of safety is established, and youth are in counseling, they can start looking for a job.

“I like to ask people how they found their first job. And eight times out of ten [they] say…either their parents knew somebody or they worked for their parents,” says Childs. Homeless youth don’t have that kind of support. Through its Career Services program, SAY partners with various nonprofits to place kids in paid internships such as at the Santa Rosa Boys and Girls Club and the Redwood Empire Food Bank. One of SAY’s success stories, Jeramy, works at a nonprofit that helps youth coming out of foster care advocate for themselves. “I think it’s really great because now he is giving back to others,” enthuses Childs. With successes like Jeramy and a new building launched, Goldman worries that people will think the homeless youth situation is solved.

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Computer classes will teach kids the ins-and-outs of word processing and résumé building. Residents can also avail themselves of a phlebotomisttraining program, which will be held in a large conference room in the center. Meanwhile, the Ceres Community Project, the Sebastopol-based program that produces meals for families struggling with serious illnesses, will offer kids an opportunity to learn how to cook in the center’s commercial kitchen.

“Finishing the building is not finishing the work,” she says adamantly. “The young people need our help. We want…a healthy community and to do that we need healthy young people.”

Besides the chance to learn new skills, SAY offers youth another important component to finding work: connections.

To that aim, SAY, with its new center, will continue to offer youth the chance to imagine a better future and dare to follow their dreams. ¶

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But she wants the public to know it mostly assuredly is not.

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What are your children’s academic strengths, weaknesses, interests, and talents? Also consider what sort of learning environment your children would be most comfortable in. Self-motivated students, for example, may do well in a program where they get to direct their own learning.

Rather than look for a “perfect school,” parents should look for one that meets their children’s needs.

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But children in need of constant direction might be more suited to a structured environment. Certain schools are right for certain children, says Koetzsch. It’s just a matter of finding what fits.

or the past eight years, Josh Baker attended public schools. Up to this point, his parents were pleased with the kind of education he had been receiving. But as their son hedged toward high school, Mom and Dad felt a need to give him a more tailored education—one that would better prepare him for college. So when September rolled around, Josh began attending a nearby private college prep school.

As you evaluate your children’s needs, make a list of what you want in a school. Consider your own preferences, as well as your children’s personalities, gifts, and talents. “Be specific about ambiance, class size, teaching style, curriculum, the role of art and music, homework, where parents fit into the running of the school, and so on,” says Koetzsch. But remember, he advises, you are not constructing an absolute educational ideal, just one that is appropriate for your children.

Every year, scores of parents look into the option of sending their children to private schools. But because no two schools are alike, finding the right fit can be a daunting task. So where do you begin?

Next make a list of all the schools in your area that are potential candidates. Call and ask for information about the schools. Once the information has arrived, look at each one’s program, mission, services, faculty, and administration.

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In his book, The Parents’ Guide to Alternatives in Education (Shambhala, 1997), Ronald Koetzsch, PhD, states that rather than looking for a “perfect school,” parents should look for one that meets their children’s needs.

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What makes the school unique? What is its teaching philosophy? Is there a vision for the future? Is there anything the school does particularly well? What about the curriculum? Will it cater to your children’s talents and interests? Don’t let cost and commuting distance deter you. Many expensive schools offer scholarships and often others in your community will welcome ride sharing. After reviewing the materials, arrange to visit those schools that appeal to you—and even some that aren’t your favorites. “The school you expected to love may disappoint you, and you may

As a parent you know your children better than anyone else. If you’ve done your homework, you’ll know if it’s the right school or not. find a gem where you didn’t expect one,” Koetzsch says. While visiting, sit in on the classes and observe the teachers and students. “Note the obvious facts: school size, class size, ambiance of the school as a whole and of individual classrooms, absence or presence of a dress code, and general demeanor of the students and teachers,” Koetzsch says. Also be sure to record your reaction. Did you feel comfortable and relaxed, or uptight and anxious? When you visit, spend a few minutes talking with the principal or school administrator. Don’t feel www.sonomafamilylife.com

embarrassed about asking questions, says Koetzsch. If possible, also talk with teachers, preferably the ones who would have your children in class. As you get a feel for their personalities, consider how your children will interact with them. Next get the names of several parents whose children attend the school and would be willing to talk with you. Ask them what they do and don’t like about the school. Also try to obtain a few names of parents who were not happy there and enrolled their children elsewhere. Once you have visited several schools, narrow your selection to those that might work for you. Plan to return, this time with your children. Have them meet the teacher, and if possible, spend time in the classroom with the other students. Follow your intuition. As a parent you know your children better than anyone else. If you’ve done your homework, you’ll know if it’s the right school or not. And while it may not fit your specifications exactly, it more than likely will be an environment where your children can grow and flourish— intellectually, emotionally, physically, and in some cases, spiritually, too. ¶

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School Smarts H ow do you choose the right school for your child? It helps to break your search down into manageable tasks.

First, go on a fact-finding mission to discover what’s out there. Are you considering a private school? Start your search on the facing page with the “2016 Sonoma County Private School Guide.” We surveyed staff and researched websites of 28 local private schools to collect vital information for this annual guide. While you are in research mode, don’t ignore your neighborhood public

school. Is there a public school that may be a great fit? You may be able to transfer. Ask the district office. (Charter schools, even though they’re public, generally don’t require transfer approval.) Figure out your priorities. What is your child interested in? What are your top expectations of a school? What college or trade school do you want your child to attend after he or she graduates?

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Next, decide on three to five schools for a “deep dive.” Write down questions to ask administrators before you schedule tours. Visit the schools’ websites and review upcoming deadlines. Talk to teachers and parents, especially parents whose children graduated from the schools you’re visiting. If possible, attend some school events to get a feel for the culture and community. Apply to your dream school and back-up schools as soon as you can, as spaces fill up quickly. Finding the right schools can be a daunting experience. There are so many options in our area. The best school for your child is out there, just waiting for you to find it! For even more ideas for how to shop for a school, see “Educated Decisions” on page 12.

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Graton Pacific Christian Academy

$3,500

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Christian values & philosophy taught and lived.

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Healdsburg Rio Lindo Adventist Academy

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165 / 190

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Learn. Serve. Lead. St. John Catholic School

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431-5100 riolindo.org TK–8

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Petaluma Harvest Christian School

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TK–8

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145 / NA

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Classical & Christian philosophy. Spring Hill Montessori

$7,500–$13,700

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Harvest Christian School

$7,500–$13,700

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Cross and Crown Lutheran St. Vincent De Paul High School$2,000–$5,600 $13,200 Pk–6

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N Lane N YY Y Y N Y N Y 3010 Ave.Snyder / 50 25 / 200 4676 Mayette5475 Leadership, Christian-based. exploration & theSpanish, love of Jewish life &enrichment. learning! 360-3000 795-7863 bethamisr.org art, music crossandcrownrp.org

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$250–$1585

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School Bridge Haven School $9,500 K–8 15 Enrollment 20 / 45 755 Baywood Drive, 2nd Floor Y Y Y Y N N Y School Name Tuition Grades Class Address Philosophy Size Current/Max Phone Structured academics. Strong creative arts program. 812-7227 bridgehavenschool.com

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Cardinal Newman High School

$8,750

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$5,355–$9,500

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100 / 200

Academic, physical, social & spiritual growth focus. Rincon Valley Christian School

$7,295–$8,495

PK–12

220 / 500

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Sonoma Country Day School

$1,807–$34,333

9–12 12–15 269 / 330 College prep with environmental & global leadership. $21,950

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$5,980

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545-1697 redwoodaa.com 4585 Badger Rd.

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didn’t speak to my brother and me with the expectation of hearing our responses, but at least she talked a blue streak and we learned a lot of vocabulary. She had a sense of humor that lent itself to plays on words. She wrote little poems for office parties and family gatherings. She was a verbal whiz. In turn, I learned to love words.

Small Talk By Jan Pierce

How to Grow Your Kid’s Vocabulary

ou most likely know that reading to your children paves the way to reading readiness. But did you know that talking to children is equally important? It’s true. Talking to preverbal children, and having two-way conversations with verbal kids, can mean the difference between success and failure in learning. Luckily, my husband and I were surrounded by verbal people during our childhoods. My husband lived with his grandmother, an elementary teacher, for the first ten years of his life. She made him nutritious meals and shared her knowledge about the natural world, and also grammar. She never stopped believing in him, even though he was a “late bloomer” in school. And me. Thank God, my mother was a talker. My father was a quiet man, but my mother more than made up for that. She

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So what, exactly, is the ideal home environment for later learning successes? Studies on key characteristics of children who learn quickly and do well in school clearly show that a home rich in talk is one of the essentials to later learning. Interestingly, the number of words spoken to children at home increases with socio-economic status. The higher the education level of the parents, the more they engage in speaking to their children, and the more complex the language they use. With education level,

Much of the language experience can take place while reading to your child. families move from only directive or disciplinary words to asking questions and talking about feelings, thoughts, goals, relationships, and the like. A landmark study conducted in the 1980s by Todd Risley and Betty Hart at the University of Kansas uncovered remarkable information about the talk/learning connection. This team tracked 42 families by observing conversation in their homes an hour a month for two

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ONE COMMUNITY

and a half years. The results were surprising. Low-income children heard an average of 600 words per hour, working class children heard about 1,200, and the children of professionals heard approximately

Studies on key characteristics of children who learn quickly and do well in school clearly show that a home rich in talk is one of the essentials to later learning. 2,100 words per hour. By age four the poorer children had heard 30 million fewer words than wealthier children. What made this study so important was not just the initial tracking of language spoken in the home, but the later follow-ups on these children and their performance in school. The children from language-rich homes were more successful learners, and scored higher on language tests. In Providence, Rhode Island, a group of city caseworkers has taken the information in the Risley and Hart study and given it feet. They’ve made home visits and added “conversation services” to their agenda. They provide recording devices to low-income families and encourage them to speak more to their children. With practice, the quantity and the quality of parent/ child interactions have increased. Parents are taught to respond to the child’s language use with more information (Doggy? Yes, that’s a www.sonomafamilylife.com

brown doggy.), and generally raise the number of verbal interactions throughout the day. What does all this information mean for your home learning environment? You can give your child a boost in language learning. Much of the language experience can take place while reading to your child. Books lend themselves to many forms of language experience, and you can begin the day your baby is born. Singing songs, reciting nursery rhymes, engaging in word games— all of these provide rich learning opportunities for your child. Talk to your child throughout the day. With older children make it a point to ask questions that are open-ended. What is your favorite color? Why are you feeling happy, angry, afraid? What was the best thing that happened today? Take the opportunity to praise your child appropriately. (You’re right, that is a dinosaur. Can you find another one?) You respond to their speech and add a bit more. If you grew up in a home where there wasn’t a lot of talking, you might find it a stretch to add to the number of words spoken to your children. But know that words are free and you are doing a wonderful service to your child’s language awareness and future learning success. So talk, talk, talk— your child will benefit from it. ¶ Jan Pierce, MEd, is a retired teacher and a writer. She is the author of Homegrown Readers: Simple Ways to Help Your Child Learn to Read (Homegrown Publications, 2015). Find her at janpierce.net.

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Whistle While You Work

Exploring Different Learning Styles

By Christina Katz

chool should be an adventure in learning. But if you have not taken the time to observe how your child learns best, your child might be struggling unnecessarily. Most people’s learning styles land in one or more of these categories: visual, auditory, verbal, kinesthetic, tactile, and logical. You don’t have to get tested to find out what kind of learners are living in your house. You simply have to be willing to reflect on what makes each of you tick. Which qualities do you see in each family member and yourself? Which qualities are less apparent? Listed below are ideas for trying out each approach.

Visual • Draw pictures, doodle, or color. • List both sides of an argument. • Use flashcards for memorizing. • Make a lesson into a comic strip. • Search for and read fun, visual blogs. • Research topics on Pinterest with an eye for colorful infographics. • Watch videos with a steady stream of images or drawings. • Play a video game or flip through a magazine as a break from learning. Auditory • Use music in the background while learning. • Read work out loud into a recorder or 22 SonomaFamilyLife

to the dog or yourself. • Listen to lectures or stories. • Write down what you notice as you listen or after you listen. • Listen to the opinions of others to help sharpen your point of view. • Enjoy discussion, dialogue, and debating. • Turn what you are learning into a rhyming poem or song lyrics. • Listen to some upbeat or moving music while taking a break from learning. Verbal • Read up on topics of interest, highlighting any points to remember.

Most people use a combination of learning styles. Do you know yours? • Look up word definitions to spark ideas. • Write and rewrite thoughts to clarify what you think. • Talk through your thoughts with another person. • Play with acronyms. For example, make up a story using every letter in one word as the first letter in a part of the story. • Increase memorization by turning written words into spoken words and vice-versa. • Immerse yourself in reading as a break from learning. Kinesthetic • Physically act out ideas you are trying to understand. Play all the parts. • Draw your ideas out on large sheets of paper or on a whiteboard. • Memorize information while you are in motion. • Use storyboarding techniques.

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BILINGUAL | BILITERATE | BICULTURAL | BY CHOICE

Cesar Chavez Language Academy • To integrate what you’ve learned, get outside and get your hands dirty. • Teach other students what you’ve learned. • When sitting for long periods, take frequent breaks to stretch or move. Tactile • Incorporate art projects into your assignments. • Pull together a bunch of seemingly disparate parts into a collage or sculpture. • Create a 3-D visual representation of lessons. • Keep your hands and fingers moving while learning. • Trace words or images to help you study. • Work with clay, putty, or dough when stuck or integrating ideas. • Build a model or bake some cookies as a break from learning. Logical • Notice patterns in whatever you are studying. • Classify or categorize things. • Break up information into small chunks. • Set goals and track your progress. • Make a to-do list. • Use examples, stats, and research. • Pose a word problem and solve it. • Use a spreadsheet to track progress. • Tidy or organize things, or do a jigsaw puzzle, as a break from learning. ¶ Author, journalist, and writing coach Christina Katz can increase her productivity quite a bit by paying better attention to flexing her dominant learning-style muscles.

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create a 500-calorie-a-day deficit by logging 250 calories worth of steps on your pedometer and cutting 250 calories from your diet by, for instance, switching to skim milk and nixing your midday frappucino. If you think this seems precise, you’re right. To be successful, your goal has to be specific, Norcross says.

Sustained behavior change doesn’t happen overnight.

From Resolution to Reality 3 Steps for Reaching Goals

By Sandra Gordon

egardless of your goals—to pay down credit card bills, get along with your mother-in-law, lose a few pounds—these three steps will help make your New Year’s resolutions a reality.

If you’re like nearly 50 percent of Americans, you made at least one New Year’s resolution on January 1, most likely involving your health, money, or improving a relationship. But research shows that many of us abandon our resolutions by mid-February. How can you avoid being part of that daunting statistic? John C. Norcross, PhD, a distinguished professor of psychology and coauthor of Changing for Good 24 SonomaFamilyLife

(William Morrow, 2007), knows how. His research shows lasting change happens in three stages. STAGE 1: PREP TIME Start by taking a few minutes to clearly define a realistic and measurable goal. Rather than trying to get to what you weighed in high school, set a modest goal of losing just 10 percent of your body weight in six months. For example, you could

Next, plan a healthier substitute for any behaviors you’re trying to eliminate, for example, tea with lemon instead of that frappucino. While you’re in the prep stage, troubleshoot. Before vowing to take a brisk walk every morning, ask yourself why you haven’t done that before. Will it disrupt your schedule? Are you really not a morning person? If your resolutions aren’t a good fit for your schedule, lifestyle, or your personality, tweak them until they are. STAGE 2: TAKE ACTION Once you have a measurable, realistic, and doable goal, and a healthy surrogate for any habit you’re trying to give up, you’re ready to just do it, right? Not exactly. Check the timing. If you’re changing jobs, moving, or otherwise going through any other major life transition, put off implementing your New Year’s resolution until the dust settles. When your life is relatively calm, you’re ready to plunge in and actually make the resolutions you’ve been planning. Go for it—but be sure to

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reward yourself frequently so you’ll keep up the good behavior. And while you’re at it, try to control your environment so old behaviors don’t tempt you. If weight loss is your goal, spend time with active people and avoid high-fat restaurants. During the action stage, which typically lasts two to six months, you’ll also need to implement that long-term healthy substitute you planned for, such as taking swigs from your water bottle instead of opting for a caffeine/sugar fix. You’ll also want to avoid a saint-or-sinner mentality. That is, when you lapse into old behaviors (don’t kid yourself, you will), don’t fall prey into thinking, “Well, I overate, I might as well give up.” That’s demoralizing and demotivating. Instead, simply get right back to your new routine. Stage 3: MAINTENANCE At this end-of-the-line stage of behavior change, your New Year’s resolutions are reality. To avoid reverting back to your old ways, you’ll need to continue everything you were doing in the action stage: rewards, environmental control, opting for a healthy substitute, and snapping back after a slip. That is, unless you’re among the select few who reach the final, be-all, end-all stage of behavior change: termination. At this utopian juncture, your former, less-than-healthy habits feel as foreign to you as your new habits once did. Congratulations: You’ve developed a new lifestyle. Sandra Gordon is an award-winning freelance writer who delivers expert advice and the latest developments in health, nutrition, parenting, and consumer issues.

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January Calendar of Events Get Your Slurp On

et out your soupspoons. The 13th Annual Chowder Day will take place in Bodega Bay on January 30 at 10 a.m. Take in the beauty of a serene bay while you taste local chowders and vote for your favorite. Plan on taking three to four hours for the full experience. Tickets are $10 and go on sale on the day of the event and will be sold until 2 p.m. or the competitors run out of chowder. Parking is limited, so get into town early. For more information, including answers to frequently asked questions, see visitbodegabayca.com. ¶

Friday 1 Union Square Ice Rink. 90-minute

skating sessions. Thru Jan. 18. 10 a.m.–11:30 p.m. $11. 8 & under $7. Skate rental $6. Holiday Ice Rink. Union Square, San Francisco. unionsquareicerink.com. Outdoor Ice Skating in Napa. Thru

Jan. 10. Check website for hours. $13, including skates. Inside the grounds of the Napa Expo. 3rd St. between Soscol Ave. & Silverado Trail, Napa. napaonice.com.

FUN FOR THE WHOLE FAMILY! Birthday Parties Public Skating Fundraisers Private & Group Instruction

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Resolution Run 5K. Resolve

to be fit for 2016! 10 a.m. Nonmembers $10. Race day entry $20. A Place to Play Park. 2375 West Third St., Santa Rosa. empirerunners.org.

FREE Sculpture Trail. Enjoy &

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Gift of Giving wine, art & art receptions all around Guerneville. 3–8 p.m. Sonoma Nesting Company. 16151 Main St., Guerneville.

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Hot tamales, fruit crepes, savory sandwiches, fresh spring rolls, unique gift items, musician of the day. Saturdays. 9 a.m.–1 p.m. Sharpsteen Plaza. 1235 Washington St., Calistoga. localharvest.org/ calistoga-farmers-market-M7724. FREE Santa Rosa Original Certified Farmers Market. Open year-round. Wednesdays & Saturdays. 8:30 a.m.–1 p.m. Wells Fargo Center for the Arts. 50 Mark West Springs Rd., Santa Rosa. thesantarosafarmersmarket.com. FREE Santa Rosa Community Farmers Market. Live music. Open year-round. Wednesdays 9 a.m.–1 p.m. Saturdays 8:30 a.m.–1 p.m. Veterans Building. 1351 Maple Ave., Santa Rosa. localharvest.org. FREE Bilingual Storytime: Hora de Cuentos para Niños. Stories

in Spanish & English, songs, crafts. Ages 2–5. 10 a.m. Roseland Community Library. 779 Sebastopol Rd., Santa Rosa. sonomalibrary.org.

Sunday 3 FREE Boating at the Barn.

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Their future begins with a great education. Registration for One & Two Year Kindergarten for Santa Rosa City Schools Begins on January 12, 2016 Sonoma Clean Power is celebrating another great year of service to Sonoma County. Customers received $207,000 in payments for local renewable energy generation, one third of which benefited local schools.

13 Kindergarten programs to choose from: Albert F. Biella 522-3110 Brook Hill 522-3120 Luther Burbank 522-3140 Hidden Valley 522-3180 Hidden Valley Satellite 522-3190 Helen Lehman 522-3200 Abraham Lincoln 522-3210 James Monroe 522-3230 Proctor Terrace 522-3240 Steele Lane 522-3260 Charter School for the Arts 522-3170 French/American Charter 522-3161 Cesar Chavez Lang. Acad. 528-5011 Applications are being accepted for attendance area schools, dependent charters and inter-district transfers

Sonoma Valley Unified School District receives their NetGreen payout check. (L to R) SCP Board Member and Sonoma County Supervisor Susan Gorin, John Bartolome, Chief Financial Officer, Louann Carlomagno, Superintendent.

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SCP Great Year 3.46 x 4.56 Monday, December 14, 2015 1:12:14 PM

Register early because classes fill quickly. Children must be five on or before September 1, 2016 for Kindergarten. We also offer a two year introduction to formal education for children turning five between September 2 and December 2, 2016. Children who turn 5 between December 3, 2016 and January 31, 2017 may also be eligible for the two year program if space is available. Bring proof of birth date, proof of residence and immunization records with you to registration.

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nonmotorized vessel on the Petaluma River, including canoes, kayaks, rowboats, or sailboats (yours or theirs). Open year-round. Sundays. 10 a.m.–1 p.m. friendsofthepetalumariver.org. FREE Sebastopol Farmers Market. Accepting

CalFresh. Open year-round. Sundays. 10 a.m.–1:30 p.m. Sebastopol Plaza. Weeks Way across from Whole Foods Market. Downtown Sebastopol. sebastopolfarmmarket.org. FREE Rohnert Park Certified Farmers Market. Open

year-round. Sundays. 10 a.m.–2 p.m. City Center Plaza. 500 City Center Dr., Rohnert Park. ci.rohnert-park.ca.us.

Monday 4 Rock-n-Glow Bowling. Family

fun with LED lane-lighting & automated scoring. Special bumper-rails for kids. Mondays. 5–10 p.m. $10 for 2 hours. Shoes included. Windsor Bowling Center. 8801 Conde Ln., Windsor. windsorbowl.com.

Tuesday 5 FREE First Tuesday at the de Young Museum. Golden

Gate Park. 50 Hagiwara Tea Garden Dr., San Francisco. deyoung.famsf.org.

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Rain or shine. 10 a.m.–1:30 p.m. Deer Creek Village next to City Sports. 501 N. McDowell Blvd., Petaluma. communityfarmersmarkets.com.

Wednesday 6 FREE Drawing the Peanuts Way with Schulz Studio Artists. Artist

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Nomi Kane demonstrates. Supplies provided. Ages 5 & up. 3:30 p.m. Petaluma Regional Library. 100 Fairgrounds Dr., Petaluma. sonomalibrary.org. FREE Castles & Crowns Chess Club.

Ages 7–18. 3:15–5 p.m. Rincon Valley Library. 6959 Montecito Blvd., Santa Rosa. sonomalibrary.org. FREE First Wednesday at Bay Area Discovery Museum. 9

a.m.–4 p.m. 557 McReynolds Rd., Sausalito. baykidsmuseum.org.

Friday 8 FREE Bodega Marine Laboratory Tours. Explore

the dynamic biodiversity of the Northern California Coast. Closed Jan. 1. Fridays. 2–4 p.m. 2099 Westside Rd.,

Bodega Bay. bml.ucdavis.edu. FREE Sonoma Valley Certified Farmers Market. Open year-round. Fridays. 9 a.m.–12:30 p.m. Arnold Field. 241 W. First St., Sonoma. svcfm.org.

Into the Woods. Tony

Award– winning musical intertwines the plots of several Brothers Grimm fairy tales. Thru Jan. 17. Times vary. $16–$26. Spreckels Performing Arts Center. 5409 Snyder Ln., Rohnert Park. rpcity.org.

FREE Fitness Fun with MyGym.

Fitness & movement activities for little ones with mobile MyGym. Ages 0–3. 10:30 a.m. Healdsburg Regional Library. 139 Piper St., Healdsburg. sonomalibrary.org. FREE Mindful Minis. Kids Yoga &

Meditation Workshop. Playful yoga practice & exploration of mindfulness through fun activities. Ages 6–12. Register 433-3772. 4 p.m. Healdsburg Regional Library. 139 Piper St., Healdsburg. sonomalibrary.org.

Saturday 9 FREE Village Rhythms with Onye Onyemaechi. World-renowned

master percussionist performs program featuring the music, rhythm & drums of African culture & village life. Ages 3 & up. 2–3 p.m. Central Santa Rosa Library. 211 E. St., Santa Rosa. sonomalibrary.org. FREE Somebody’s Darling: Songs from the Civil War. All ages. 2–3 p.m. Cloverdale Regional Library.

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Transitional Kindergarten

Free full day for all 4-year-olds

401 N. Cloverdale Blvd., Cloverdale. sonomalibrary.org. FREE Carl & Eddie Musical Duo.

American roots music, western, folk & swing performed with voice & acoustic & steel guitars. 2 p.m. Rohnert Park Cotati Regional Library. 6250 Lynne Condé Way, Rohnert Park. sonomalibrary.org. FREE Teen Leadership Council.

Discuss favorite resources, phenomenal books, ideas for programs, events, volunteer opportunities, more. Grades 7–12. 3–4 p.m. Sonoma Valley Regional Library. 755 W. Napa St., Sonoma. sonomalibrary.org. FREE Gaining STEAM: Gami-Bots.

Learn how to make your very own motorized origami robot. All materials provided. Ages 7 & up. 2 p.m. Petaluma Regional Library. 100 Fairgrounds Dr., Petaluma. sonomalibrary.org. Star Party! 6

p.m. $3. Under 18 free. Parking $8. Robert Ferguson Observatory. 2605 Adobe Canyon Rd., Kenwood. rfo.org.

Sunday 10 Wild Cat Adventure. Featuring

five wild cats displayed on stage as information about their natural behaviors & habitat is shared. 3–4 p.m. Adults $10. Children under 12 $5. Sebastopol Community Cultural Center. 390 Morris St., Sebastopol. seb.org.

Wednesday 13 FREE Family Movie Night. Manolo goes on a journey through three different worlds to face his

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FIVE AMAZING SCHOOLS ENROLLING NOW FOR 2016 La Tercera Elementary School

Featuring a focus on Science, Technology, Engineering and Math (STEM)

Loma Vista Immersion Academy Charter School

Featuring the internationally acclaimed Dual Immersion Language Model

Miwok Valley Language Academy Elementary Charter School Featuring a focus on language and hands on Experiential Learning

Kid’s Care Program

Old Adobe Elementary Charter School

Available at all schools 6:30am–6p.m.

Featuring a focus on Arts and Ecology

Sonoma Mountain Elementary Charter School Featuring a focus on Arts and Music

845 Crinella Drive, Petaluma • 707-765-4321 • www.oldadobe.org

Bennett Valley Union School District Registration for Kindergarten and Transitional Kindergarten (Kinder Bridge) for 2016-17 School Year begins February 9 & 10

Call 542-6272 to sign up

A limited number of interdistrict transfer requests for 2016-17 is being accepted

California Distinguished Schools

Yulupa Primary School Preschool–Third Grade 2250 Mesquite Drive, Santa Rosa 707 542-6272

Strawberry Intermediate School Fourth–Sixth Grade 2311 Horseshoe Drive, Santa Rosa 707 526-4433

Consistent high academic performance indicators (API) at both schools

Your child’s joy of learning is nurtured with our: • Excellent Teachers • Reduced Class Size (K–3) • Kinder Bridge Transitional Kindergarten • Extended Day Kindergarten (8:30-1:25) • Fully Staffed Libraries and Technology Labs • Visual and Performing Arts Programs YMCA provides on-site child care

• Band, Percussion and Chorus (4th–6th) • Boys’ and Girls’ Interscholastic Basketball (4th–6th) • Emphasis on Environmental Stewardship • Gifted and Talented Education (4th–6th)

Call to reserve tours: Yulupa 1/11, 2/1, 2/22, 3/2, 3/16, 4/11 Strawberry by reservation only 526-4433 Registration Packets available Jan. 4. Children must be five on or before Sept. 1, 2016 to be eligible for kindergarten. Two year Kinder Bridge program offered for children turning five on or after Sept. 2, 2016.

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fears. PG. 6 p.m. Rohnert Park Cotati Regional Library. 6250 Lynne Condé Way, Rohnert Park. sonomalibrary.org.

Thursday 14 FREE Knit Wits Club. Learn how to knit or share your knitting tips & tricks. Crocheters welcome, too. Ages 12–17. 4 p.m. Sebastopol Regional Library. 7140 Bodega Ave., Sebastopol. sonomalibrary.org.

Color Me Sleepy

hat happens in a museum after the lights are switched off and the doors locked? On January 30, Girl Scout Brownies will find out at the Art and Adventure Sleepover with Snoopy at the Charles M. Schulz Museum. Girls will earn a badge as they learn to design a stamp and letterbox. Drop off your Brownie at 5:30 p.m. and pick her up at 9 a.m. on January 31. The $30 fee includes dinner and a continental breakfast. To register, which is required, go to girlscoutsnorcal.org/events/1731 or call 544-5472. ¶

Friday 15 Sleepovers at California Academy of Sciences. Live

animal demonstrations, after-hours planetarium show, continental breakfast. Price includes next-day admission. Nonmembers $109.

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For up to 6 participants. Additional climbers $24 each

Evidence-based, in-classroom therapy in an inclusive Santa Rosa preschool among typical children.

Includes: • 2 hours of climbing with Vertex staff belaying/supervising the group. • Access to our fun and challenging Obstacle Course (weather permitting). • Use of our party room during and after event. • Harness rentals are included. • Shoe rentals are $5 per pair (not necessary if kids are wearing closed-toe shoes).

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Members $89. Golden Gate Park. 55 Music Concourse Dr., San Francisco. calacademy.org.

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San Francisco Boat Show. Northern California’s premier boating event. Thru Jan. 18. Jan. 15: Noon–8 p.m. Jan. 16–18: 10 a.m.–6 p.m. Adults $15. Ages 15 & under free. McCovey Cove & Pier 48 at AT&T Park. San Francisco. sfboatshow.com.

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Spring Lake Family Nature Walks. Families

can return to the Environmental Discovery Center after each hike for nature-themed crafts & exploration of the touchable tide pool. Every 3rd Sat. 1 p.m. & 3 p.m. Hikes free. Parking $7. Environmental Discovery Center. 393 Violetti Rd., Santa Rosa. parks.sonomacounty.ca.gov.

Learn to fish with firefighters at Lake Ralphine in Howarth Park C

Fishing Derby

Kids’ fishing contest with prizes at Lake Ralphine in Howarth Park

Fairytale Ball

February 20

A dance party for kids and their favorite chaperone at Finley Center

Crab Feed at Finley

February 27

Annual all-you-can-eat dinner to benefit Senior Programs

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Arbor Day Tree Planting Party Visit santarosarec.com for event details

March 12

Plant trees & celebrate Luther Burbank’s birthday at Southwest Park

St. Patrick’s Day 5K

March 13

Celebrate the Irish Holiday with fitness and fun at Juilliard Park

Spring Egg Hunt for Tots

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Bay Area Guitar Show. Dealers, artists, collectors, foreign buyers, authors & celebrities. Thru Jan. 17. Jan 16: 10 a.m.–5 p.m. Jan. 17: 10 a.m.–4 p.m. $20. Ages 11 & under free if accompanied by adult. Marin County Civic Center Exhibit Hall. 10 Avenue of the Flags, San Rafael. texasguitarshows.com.

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EST. 1951 A Place to Play. A Place to Learn. A Place to Grow. • 2 & 3 year old class and a Pre-Kindergarten class for academic & social Kindergarten readiness • Positive Discipline tools and classes for parents • Oooey gooey fun environment combined with teaching communication and responsibility skills.

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Central Santa Rosa Library. 211 E St., Santa Rosa. sonomalibrary.org. Water: Super Solving for Drought, Storms & Floods. Participants tackle the drought problem. Everyone gets a cape & a badge. 9 a.m.–4 p.m. General $13.95. Babies & seniors $12.95. Bay Area Discovery Museum. 557 McReynolds Rd., Sausalito. baykidsmuseum.org.

Redwood Hwy., Bldg. 100, Windsor. sonomalibrary.org.

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Saturday 23 RoCo Dance on Stage: Peter. Modern twist on the classic story of Peter Pan. Features ballet, modern, hip hop, jazz & break dancing. Thru Jan. 24. Jan. 23: 7:30 p.m. Jan. 24: 4 & 7:30 p.m. $27. Marin Veterans’ Memorial Auditorium. 10 Avenue of the Flags, San Rafael. rocodance.com.

Sunday 24

Songwriters in the Round.

Featuring the North Bay’s most prolific songsmiths. Standing room only. All ages. 8 p.m. $8. Hopmonk Tavern. 230 Petaluma Ave., Sebastopol. hopmonk.com.

Friday 22 FREE Gem Faire. West Coast’s Premier Jewelry & Bead Show. Thru Jan. 24. Jan. 22: noon–6 p.m. Jan. 23 & 24: 10 a.m.–6 p.m. Marin Center. 10 Avenue of the Flags, San Rafael. gemfaire.com. FREE Build It Club: Marble Runs.

Awesome marble runs made out of recycled materials. All supplies provided. Ages 5 & up. 4 p.m. Windsor Regional Library. 9291 Old

Peter & the Wolf. Santa Rosa

Symphony. Arrive 1 hour early for instrument petting zoo. 3 p.m. Adult $17. Child $12. Sonoma State University. Green Music Center. Weill Hall. 1801 E. Cotati Ave., Rohnert Park. santarosasymphony.com. Hick in the Hood: Michael Sommers.

Touching, funny, suspenseful, one-man show featuring 30 different characters. Sold out at The Marsh in San Francisco! 3 p.m. $15. Occidental Center for the Arts. 3850 Doris Murphy Ct., Occidental. michaelsommers.com.

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FREE Celebrate the Lunar New Year with the SOVA Lion Dance Team! All

ages. 4:30 p.m. Northwest Santa Rosa Library. 150 Coddingtown Center, Santa Rosa. sonomalibrary.org.

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Friday 29 Tahoe Adventure Film Festival Road Tour 2016. All ages. 7:30 p.m. $15.

Mystic Theatre. 23 Petaluma Blvd. N., Petaluma. mystictheatre.com.

Saturday 30 a culinary tour of Bodega Bay. You’ll have 3–4 hours to taste all the best chowders. 10 a.m. $10. Various locations. visitbodegabayca.com.

• Family owned and operated for 33 years • Excellent personable service • Free loaner cars & rental deals • 10% off deductible

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FREE Puppet Art: The Tale of the Dragon’s Tail. Ages 4 & up. 11 a.m. Cloverdale Regional Library. 401 N. Cloverdale Blvd., Cloverdale. sonomalibrary.org.

Sonoma County Airport

Art & Adventure Sleepover with Snoopy. Brownies

earn a badge designing a stamp & letterbox. Dinner & continental breakfast included. Advance reservations required. Go to girlscoutsnorcal. org/events/1731 or call 544-5472 to register. 5:30 p.m.–9 a.m. $30. Charles M. Schulz Museum. 2301 Hardies Ln., Santa Rosa. schulzmuseum.org.

We want to know what you think.

Experience Flight Training Aircraft; Helicopters

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Humor Break

Not This New Year

Resolutions I Won’t Keep

By Holly Hester

Get in shape. No longer will I be able to use my stomach as a convenient tray for snacks while I watch TV. No longer will my son be able to hide his matchbox cars in my belly button. I’m going to exercise so much this year that a random person is going to walk up to me and say, “Wow, you look amazing. I can’t believe you’ve had three children.” I’m not above paying someone to do this.

I will be early everywhere. I will no longer leave the house every day like I’m on fire. I am going to become what is known as “one of those really annoying early people.” If you have a party, expect me to arrive while you’re still in the shower. If there’s a school assembly, I will be seated in the first chair, video camera poised and ready. And if you are late anywhere ever and I happen to witness it, I will be the very first to judge you.

I will live in an organized house. Whose house this will be, I don’t know yet. But I will find an organized person, and I will steal his or her house.

I will make meals ahead of time. No more take-out pizza on the way home from soccer. No more cereal with a side of nachos for dinner. I’m going to get one of those

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gigantic freezers and stuff it full of mind-blowingly delicious homemade meals. And I’m going to make stuff really far in advance. Like I’m already making next year’s Thanksgiving dinner, some food for when my children have their own children, and some fried chicken for my own funeral. I’ll put a little sticky note on it that says, “As soon as I die, turn oven to 350 degrees. Serve with frozen side salad. Enjoy!”

fail to do it, but that’s because I try to learn something that’s too hard—like how to speak French or how to walk in high heels. So this year, I’m going to lower the bar on what I’m learning. So far, I’ve decided to learn how to spit really far, how to eat a pie with no hands, and how to burp the alphabet. Or at the very least, the vowels.

I will appreciate my husband. Sure, he might not do things exactly the way I would do them or let’s say, any sane person would do them, but hey, the guy is trying. So the next time he puts our daughter’s Olaf underwear in my underwear drawer, or gives the kids left over cake for breakfast, or let’s them ride on top of the car for “just part” of the way home, just smile and say, “Thanks, honey. I really appreciate the fact that our children are still alive and full of four thousand pounds of Twizzlers. I would love to give you a hug right now, but I’ve lost all feeling in my legs because of this size 4 underwear you put in my underwear drawer.”

I will learn something new. I know I always put this one on my list and I always

I’m going to stop biting my nails. I’m pretty sure I’m not in third grade anymore chewing the Bitter Apple off my fingertips. I’m an adult now and I can release my stress in different ways. Like drinking.

Enjoy the moment. Grocery lists, things to do lists, resolution lists…Moms make so many lists. Lists are necessary, but they can distract from the moment we’re living in right now. And that moment is perfect. So my only real resolution this year is to enjoy each and every beautiful, funny, imperfect moment I have.

And possibly get in shape. Have a happy, happy New Year. Holly Hester lives in Sebastopol and writes about life on her blog, Riot Ranch. Find her book, Escape from Ugly Mom Island!, on Amazon.

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