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Summer’s a-comin!
It’s about that time! Summer Camps are gearing up to show your kiddos a great time over the summer break. It never ceases to amaze me, how many awesome camp options there are around the area. I have to admit, as a kid, I never ever went to camp. I may or may not be feeling a little gypped! :) Sports camps, Art camps, Science camps- for all ages! Check out pages 18-23 to get some ideas and register early! I had great fun putting together a craft for a super easy, but adorable Mother’s Day gift- Mosaic crafts are fun for the whole family. Breaking tiles and plates? Every little kid I know, says “Yes please!” One of the best things about WK&F is getting to know my readers. You guys are amazing! Last Christmas, I asked a question on my facebook page, wondering what plans everyone had. One reader by the name of Mandy, answered that she was getting excited to spend it with 15 teenage boys. I immediately replied and told her that she just couldn’t leave us hanging. We wanted all the details! WellMandy spills the beans on page 24. Let’s just say, Oh Boy- she has her hands full! With this issue covering both Mother’s and Father’s Day- I wanted to take a minute to high five, fistbump or whatever you prefer, all you parents out there doing what needs to be done. Not too often are we recognized, but here’s your Atta Mom or Atta Dad. You really ARE making a difference! I asked my readers what brings us JOY. The replies were wonderful and varied. You can check those out on page 28 which is filled with a whole lot of joyful people. We live a charmed life, for sure! As always, I am here to serve. If you have questions or comments, please email or call me!
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July/August 2019 PUBLISHER Yvette Tripp
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EDITOR Yvette Tripp
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GROWING RESILIENT KIDS
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by Jenifer Trivelli M.S.
“WHEN WE EFFECTIVELY PROCESS TRAUMA WE HAVE EXPERIENCED, WE OFTEN COME OUT THE OTHER SIDE
FAR MORE RESILIENT THAN BEFORE“
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Protector Brain (basic, automatic, and survival oriented brain systems) and Wise Mind (higher-functioning areas involved with creative problem-solving, empathy, and emotion regulation) in Peanut and the BIG Feelings: A Guidebook for Children.
RESILIENCY is defined the ability to bounce back from stressful events we encounter in life. When something we encounter is so overwhelming to us that we become stuck in it, that is one definition of trauma. Resiliency can be viewed as the antidote to trauma. In fact, when we effectively process trauma we have experienced, we often come out the other side far more resilient than before. Our nervous systems have a higher stretch capacity, so to speak.
Here’s an activity from the book you can try at home: print a template, draw, or trace an outline of your child’s body. Invite them to think about a time they felt strong and confident (perhaps a time they did something well or spent time with an animal or in nature).
HOW DO WE HELP OUR KIDS STRETCH AND GROW THIS RESILIENCY WINDOW OF TOLERANCE FOR LIFE STRESSORS?
Once they find a memory of that, invite them to notice what’s happening in their body, and then to draw those sensations/feelings in their body outline on the paper. There’s no right or wrong answers here, simply a way for them to tune in and connect mind and body.
SCAFFOLDING. This is an educational term that describes a process which you might envision as a ladder. Your kiddo’s baseline level of dealing with stress (whatever it is) is the ground level. Your skill level of navigating stressful situations is at the top. (It can be helpful to draw this out.) Each rung on the ladder represents a step or skill your child needs to learn in order to climb the ladder to the top of resiliency. Some kiddos will need many many small steps, and some may have skill sets that already surpass many adults’ ability. How do you know what your child needs? You try teaching the first rung. If they aren’t successful, you know you either need repetition or a smaller rung.
MODELING. In the first example of scaffolding, we saw how our ability to navigate stress automatically set the top rung for our kiddos. Take a moment to think about your top rung. Do you feel resilient? Are you able to bounce back from life stress when it happens, or do you find yourself getting stuck in unhelpful patterns that might affect your job, your parenting, or your relationships? If your top rung isn’t very high up on a ladder of possibilities, it’s not your fault. Our resiliency is determined by a combination of our caregivers’ abilities to scaffold, direct our attention inwards, model, and tune in to our needs and the stressful events we encounter through life.
Here’s a classic example: a 4-year old child is afraid of drowning and doesn’t want to jump in the pool. Some parents opt to throw their kid in, while some may go to the opposite extreme and never teach them to swim - avoiding pool parties and water activities their whole childhood. A parent who has resiliency in mind has a goal of not only teaching the child to safely play in the water, but also teaching them how to approach and successfully work through a stressful situation. If we use the ladder idea, our question is What is the smallest step I can think of to help my kiddo approach the pool safely on their own and realize it’s ok? With each successful step, the child builds resiliency and the capacity to take the next one.
If you become aware that you could use a resiliency boost yourself, there are many ways you can work towards a higher step on the ladder. Research has shown benefits from many styles of mindfulness, movement (such as taichi and some approaches of yoga), and relationship with an empathetic, attuned person (such as - but not limited to - therapists) help to build resiliency and strengthen our capacities for managing stress. Jenifer Trivelli is an author/writer, educator, and certified yoga instructor for youth and adults. A Salem parent of two, she has a master’s degree in counseling and has worked with families and educators since 2006. You can learn more about Parent Coaching, Childhood Educator Professional Development, and stay tuned for her new Resiliency Training Curriculum for Adolescents at her website www.wisemindservices.com.
INCREASING SELF-AWARENESS BY STRENGTHENING THEIR MIND-BODY CONNECTION. Helping kids connect to what’s happening in their bodies grows the connection between two important areas in their brains; referred to as the
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BOOK REVIEW Books that are recommended by dads who love to read them. Click, Clack, Moo Cows That Type
Llama Llama Red Pajama
by: Anna Dewdney Ages: 2-8 In this infectious rhyming readaloud book, Baby Llama turns bedtime into an allout llama drama! Tucked into bed by his mama, Baby Llama immediately starts worrying when she goes downstairs, and his soft whimpers turn to hollers when she doesn’t come right back. But just in time, Mama returns to set things right. Children will relate to Baby Llama’s need for comfort, as much as parents will appreciate Mama Llama’s reassuring message. Other books in this series that are just as fun to read aloud, are: Llama Llama Hoppity-Hop, Llama Llama and the Bully Goat, Llama Llama Holiday Drama, Llama Llama Home With Mama, Llama Llama Mad at Mama, Llama Llama Misses Mama Llama Llama Nighty-Night, Llama Llama Time To Share, Llama Llama Gram and Grandpa, Llama Llama Zippity-Zoom Llama Llama Wakey-Wake, Llama Llama Sand & Sun, Llama Llama Easter Egg Llama Llama I Love You, Llama Llama Jingle Bells, Llama Llama Trick or Treat.
Author: Doreen Cronin Ages: 3-5 A New York Times BestSeller Poor, hassled Farmer Brown begins to hear typing sounds coming from his barn. He soon discovers that his cows have found an old typewriter, and they are using it to type letters requesting insane things such as electric blankets to keep them warm on those cool nights in the barn. Of course, Farmer Brown refuses, and the cows go on strike and withhold their milk until they get what they ask for. Soon, the cows type a similar letter about the hens asking for blankets which Farmer Brown refuses to provide. The hens go on strike and refuse to lay eggs. In an attempt to re-establish order, he sends a letter back to the cows and hens but the animals hold an emergency meeting, in which they seemingly come to a resolution. Hilarity ensues when the ducks get in on the action and begin to compromise with the farmer as well. Other books from this award winning duo are Giggle, Giggle, Quack, Click, Clack, Splish, Splash: A Counting Adventure and Duck for President.
Dads love LLamas, and you will too. Available in softcover, hardcover and board books too!
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SUN SAFE
If you’re like me, there is nothing better than the feeling of sunshine on your face on a beautiful summer’s day. Health benefits of the sun’s rays are plentiful. Sunlight helps the body synthesize vitamin D, which is associated with immune support, improving mental health, and is needed for calcium absorption for strong teeth and bones. The sun’s rays also trigger a release of the feel-good brain chemical serotonin and generate nitric oxide on the skin, which helps improve blood flow and may help lower blood pressure.
Certain skin conditions, such as psoriasis, vitiligo, and eczema can also improve with sunlight. But along with the good, there is the bad. Overexposure or a lack of the right protection against the sun’s damaging rays can have devastating effects.
ULTRAVIOLET (UV) LIGHT
UV rays makes up only a small portion of the sun’s light. All of the sun’s UV rays have the potential to cause harm to our bodies. The majority of UV rays that reach us are UVA rays which can easily pass through the Earth’s atmosphere. This type of UV light penetrates deep into the skin’s layers and is associated with premature aging, skin wrinkles, eye damage, and the development of skin cancers. UVB rays are mostly blocked by the ozone layer, yet this type of ray is the main cause of sunburns as UVB damages the epidermal layers of your skin, or the top most layers. UVB light is also associated with eye damage, cataract development, and skin cancers.
HOW DOES THE SUN CAUSE SUNBURN?
Melanin is a chemical found in our skin. This substance provides the skin’s pigment and acts to absorb UV light in order to protect healthy cells. Sunburn occurs when the amount of UV light exceeds the melanin’s ability to protect.
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FETY 101 The damage caused by sunburns increases with the intensity and frequency of exposure, and severe sunburns before the age of 20 years are associated with the deadliest type of skin cancer, melanoma.
WHAT ARE THE SYMPTOMS?
Symptoms of sunburn typically develop in the hours following exposure, so you may not notice the burn as it is occurring. Symptoms may include skin which is warm to the touch, redness, pain, blistering, mild swelling, itching, and peeling skin within one week or so after the sunburn develops. Severe sunburns may also cause chills, fatigue, nausea and vomiting, fever, headaches, or confusion. If your child exhibits any blistering or severe symptoms, contact your healthcare provider right away.
HOW CAN I CARE FOR THE BURN?
Most sunburns can easily be cared for at home and do not require a visit to your health provider’s office. It is important to keep your child out of the sun until symptoms resolve and the burn has healed. Home care for sunburns typically includes: • cool compresses on the burned area or a cool bath • over-the-counter pain medications such as Children’s acetaminophen or ibuprofen • increasing your child’s fluid intake to help prevent dehydration, applying topical products such as aloe vera gel, moisturizing creams or lotions, and 1% hydrocortisone cream (only for children older than 2 years unless approved by your healthcare provider) to relieve symptoms and hydrate the skin.
HOW DO I PREVENT THE BURN?
UV rays are present year-round, but there are certain months when UV rays are at their highest levels. In the Northern Hemisphere where we live, April through October sees the highest amount of UV light, and avoiding the sun’s rays between the hours of 10AM and 4PM during these months is recommended. Sunscreen should always be worn, even on cloudy days. Find a sunscreen that is broad spectrum, meaning it protects against UVA and UVB rays, with a sun protective factor (SPF) of 30 or higher. Apply the sunscreen 30 minutes before going out into the sun, every 2 hours while outdoors, and more often if your child is swimming or sweating. Seek shade often, and for babies under the age of 6 months, sunlight should be avoided whenever possible. Covering skin surfaces with clothing, wearing widebrimmed hats, and wearing sunglasses with UV protection are also important steps in protecting yourself and your children from the sun’s rays. Having fun outdoors in the sunshine is an important part of being a kid. With the right consideration for safety, you and your children can reap the many health benefits of the sun’s rays while avoiding the damaging and potentially dangerous effects. As always, if you have any questions about UV light and its associated health risks or benefits, speak with your healthcare provider today! by: Adrienne Mee, FNP-C Adrienne Mee is a Salem area mother of two and nurse practitioner for Oregon families.
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Materials
Terracotta flower pots Tiles Discarded china plates Buttons and baubles Tile cutters (optional) Polymer-fortified thin-set mortar Sanded grout Hammer Butter knife Gloves Wire brush, sponge and cloth Bowls for mixing mortar and grout Spray Chalk
Directions STEP 1
- Shop for interesting plateware and tiles at local thirft stores, or hardware stores. Find baubles, marbles, buttons etc. at local dollar stores or clearance baskets in craft stores. - Wrap tile or plate in a cloth, glazed side down, and gently strike it with a hammer. - Lay out the broken pieces and modify with tile cutting pliers if desired. - Chalk the design layout onto the pot.
STEP 2
- Mix a polymer-fortified thin-set mortar with water until it’s the consistency of peanut butter. - Spread it on one tile piece at a time with a butter knife and stick the tile to the pot. - Repeat, leaving space between pieces as shown. Let set overnight.
STEP 3
- Mix sanded grout with water to the consistency of peanut butter. - Wearing gloves, rub the grout liberally over the pot’s surface. - Rub the grout deeply into the spaces between mosiac pieces. - Wipe off excess with a wire brush and cloth. Allow to dry. - Seal grout with a spray clear sealer if desired. - Let it air dry for 24 hours.
STEP 4
- Fill your pot with whatever your heart desires. Plants, Pens, special candies or even slips of paper with special sayings or wishes on them. Add a ribbon and gift to your favorite mom, or keep it for youself!
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May 1
Salem- Teen Coding Camp: Video Game Design Wed 3:301This free eight-week online coding camp with a focus on video game design tools is open to middle and high school-aged youth. This basic class teaches beginning coding. Sign up is a commitment to attend all eight class dates—April 3, 10, 17, 24; and May 1, 8, 15, 22. Sign up using the link below: http://bit.ly/SpringTeenCoding or at the Teen Scene Desk, 503-588-6315 Salem Public Library 585 Liberty St SE, Salem, Oregon 97301
May 2
Salem- Marathon Kids
$15/participant- 8 dates Join our running /walking club and get moving! Work at your own pace to run, or walk, and earn a Nike reward for each 26.2 miles completed. Minto-Brown Island Park 2200 Minto Is, Salem, Oregon 97302 City of Salem Recreation Services egov.cityofsalem.net
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May 5
Salem- Storytime & Craft - Venti’s
3:00PM Join us on the first Sunday of each month at Venti’s Cafe downtown to keep your little ones engaged and entertained! We have partnered with local Usborne Books & More Literacy Advocate, Brecia Hale, to present a free story time and craft series! All ages welcome Venti’s Cafe + Basement Bar 325 Court St NE, Salem, Oregon 97301
May 11
Salem- Sheep to Shawl
Saturday, May 11, 2019 at 10 AM – 4 PM Join us in celebrating our annual Sheep to Shawl festival for fun and educational activities. Animals and Children’s Activities: Rope making, crafting pioneer-era toys, cornhole competitions, weaving, creating their own lamb’s earsand the popular rubber duck races. Blacksmithing, butter churning, flint knapping, knitters, spinners, weavers, and wool tatters. Entertainment, music, vendors and food. Willamette Heritage Center 1313 Mill St SE, Ste 200, Salem willametteheritage.org
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May 18
Independence- Touch A Truck
Brooks- Antique Powerland STEAM’D Up for Kids!
Saturday, May 11, 2019 at 10 AM – 3 Come spend the day exploring big trucks, tractors, construction, police, fire, and rescue vehicles all up close! There is no admission costs, but we are asking for attendees to please bring nonperishable food items to help “stuff a truck” for the local Ella Curran Food Bank! City of Independence Town Hall
Saturday May 18th 9am-4pm Come join us for a family fun day of learning and STEAM activities about Oregon’s rich agricultural heritage! There will be demos, Trolley and train rides, and much more! 14 Heritage museums and groups will be celebrating local history. Kids 12 & under get in FREE! 13 and over only $5 Powerland Heritage Park Exit 263 Brooks PowerlandHeritagePark.com
May 11
Albany- A Royal Dessert
May 11, 2019 - Seatings at 2:00 pm and 6:00 pm - Ticket Price- $15.00 and can be purchased at royal.ticketleap.com Make memories with some of your favorite Disney characters. Includes: seated dessert, beverage, prize from Captain Hook’s Treasure Chest, souvenir craft, raffle ticket, sing-a-longs with characters, Jedi Training, and more. Be treated like royalty with nail painting, face painting, and makeup (including beards and mustache options). Hosted by Grace point Church 210 Clover Ridge NE, Albany, Oregon 97322
May 27
Corvallis- $1 Day at Otter Beach!
Mon 1 PM It’s time to celebrate the seasonal opening of Otter Beach, so bring your suit and a smile, some flippers and lots of energy because everyone swims for only $1 today! Osborn Aquatic Center 1940 NW Highland Dr. in Corvallis
May 18
S.T.E.A.M.’D UP FOR KIDS
Keizer- KeizerFest Car Show
Sat 9 AM Please join us for the KeizerFest Car Show at St Edwards Catholic Church featuring music by DJ Russ Strohmeyer. St Edward Catholic Church 5303 River Rd N, Keizer, Oregon 97303
Saturday, May 18th
9am-4pm
All are welcome for a family fun day of learning and S.T.E.A.M activities about Oregon’s rich agricultural heritage! DEMOS, TROLLEY & TRAIN RIDES AND MUCH MORE!
May 18
Corvallis- Kids to Parks Day
Sat 10 AM Starker City Park · Corvallis, Kick off summer and celebrate our beautiful city parks! Come explore Bruce Starker Arts Park & Natural Area to learn the species of fish that call the pond home and take a guided hike. There will be games, nature related crafts and more! Event is suitable for all ages and free of cost.
14 HERITAGE MUSEUMS & GROUPS CELEBRATING LOCAL HISTORY!
Brought to you by Powerland Heritage Park,
Home of the Great Oregon Steam-Up!
Off I-5 at Exit 263 in Brooks, OR
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ADMISSION Kids 12 & under GET IN FREE! 13 & over only $5!
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June 1
June 4
Salem- Father’s Day Breakfast & History of Radio Presentation
Corvallis- Learn Infant Massage
Sat 8 AM Join us at Center 50+ for a “Father’s Day” Breakfast. This is open to everyone but, Dads eat free. Adults $3 and $1.50 for kids 12 and under. Breakfast will be served from 8a.m.-10a.m. Then plan on staying for the Northwest Vintage Radio Society’s presentation on the “History or Radio”. This free lecture is open to the public and will be a fantastic history lesson for younger generations and a great walk down memory lane for others! Center 50+ 2615 Portland Rd Salem
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June 1
Salem-Kidz Love Soccer- Mommy/ Daddy & Me
For ages 2-3.5, $95/participant Introduces your toddler to the world’s most popular game! Come participate in our fun age appropriate activities. The fun happens on the field, and in Mommy/Daddy & Me Soccer, parents are part of the action, not watching from the sidelines! All kids receive a Kidz Love Soccer jersey! Visit online to register and for info. www.cityofsalem.net
June 4
Salem- 2 hours for the price of one at SuperBounce
Every Tuesday! Enjoy our indoor inflatable park with 7 large inflatables in a safe and clean environment. Relax in the air conditioning while your kiddo enjoys jumping. 3160 Blossom Dr NE, Salem www.superbouncesalem.com
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Tue 10:30 AM This class is designed for parents and caregivers to easily learn a basic massage routine and integrate it into the daily care of baby. This 90-minute class is led by Anastacia Townsend, a holistic midwife, massage therapist, certified childbirth educator, and doula. Group class is $15. The class takes place in the Community room next door to the Corvallis Birth Center. For more info please contact : Phone: 425-577-3533 Email: Birthsentient@gmail.com Corvallis Birth & Women’s Health Center Corvallis
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Corvallis- Get Outdoors Day
The OSU Research Forests, OSU Extension Service, and Benton County Health Department are hosting the seventh annual Get Outdoors Day event at Peavy Arboretum. This FREE FAMILY EVENT will take place on Saturday, June 8, 2019, from 10:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. as part of National Get Outdoors Day, an annual event encouraging healthy, active outdoor fun. Participating partners will offer a variety of activities designed to engage visitors and connect youth with the outdoors. OSU Research Forests 8692 NW Peavy Arboretum Rd, Corvallis, Oregon 97330
June 10
Salem- Storytime & Craft - Venti’s
June 10 10:30AM Join us on the second Monday of each month February through June at Venti’s Cafe + Taphouse (South Salem) to keep
your little ones engaged and entertained when it’s cold and wet outside! We have partnered with local Usborne Books & More Literacy Advocate, Brecia Hale, to present a free story time and craft series! All ages welcome, with stories and crafts tailored for ages 2+. Venti’s Cafe 325 Court St NE, Salem, Oregon 97301
June 15
Salem- Movie Night at the Vineyard *The Incredibles*
Sat 8:30 PM Join us for free family fun in the vineyard! We will be showing “The Incredibles” on our patio with food, wine, soda, popcorn and candy available for purchase. Feel free to bring blankets to keep you nice and cozy! **Please note that the movie will begin at sunset. Please RSVP. FREE of charge Kids welcome. NO PETS PLEASE Cubanisimo Vineyards 1754 Best Rd NW, Salem, Oregon 97304 www.CubanisimoVineyards.com
June 29
Salem- World Beat Festival
Jun 28 at 5 PM – Jun 30 at 7 PM The 22nd annual World Beat Festival is right around the corner! Join us as we celebrate the cultures of India. Experience world customs, traditions, ethnic foods, crafts, demonstrations, children’s activities, parades, and dragon boat racing! Help us kick off World Beat on Friday, June 28th in the Amphitheater from 5:00-10:00 pm for some live music, food and fire dancing! Friday: $5 / person (14 & under free) Saturday: $5 / person (14 & under free) Sunday: Admission by donation Riverfront Park 200 Water St NE, Salemwww.salemmulticultural.org
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June 22
Salem- Corvettes at the Carousel
ALL DAY! Come see some gorgeous Corvettes and enjoy a day at the park and stop by the Carousel. Hosted by NW Corvette Association. Salem’s Riverfront Carousel 101 Front St NE, Salem, Oregon 97301 Salem, Oregon
June 28
Keizer- Safe & Secure Symposium for Families with Disabilities June 28, 2019 at 1 PM – 7 PM This is a FREE event for families of children with disabilities. TRAININGS: Wandering Prevention, First Responders, ER Visit Readiness, Behavior Strategies, Internet Safety Disaster Planning, Suicide Prevention EXHIBITS:Pathways to Justice, Emergency Registry, Injury Prevention, CPR Basics, Car Seat Safety, Poison Control, Safety Plans and more. Keizer Civic Center 930 Chemawa Rd NE, Keizer, Oregon 97303
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FULL DAY CAMPS 9AM-3PM for PRE-K - 8TH GRADE
JULY 8-12
Around the World Tinkering Camp Sweet Science & Field Day
JULY 15-19
Robotics Mad Science Splish, Splash, Summer FUN Art: Inside and Outside
JULY 22-26
Who & What is in your Garden Pathfinder - Travel Around the World Ocean Fun Robotics BattleBots
July 29-August 2
Playwriting Sunny Crafts and Games Dungeons & Dragons
August 5-9
Baking Basics & Basic Coding Mr. O’s Summer Playlympics Farm Discovery
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Camps are $195 when you mention this ad! Includes Snack!
Create
A Memory Art Camp!
REGISTER BY JULY 1ST!
Ages 6 and Up!
CALL 503-375-3664 OR VISIT OUR WEBSITE CLAY CAMP
MIXED MEDIA 2
JULY 16 – JULY 19
JULY 30 – AUGUST 2
Clay campers will create their own works of functional art, by building on basic techniques to include sculpting, carving, molding & even hand-building!
Campers will explore art using different mediums and techniques, by working with clay, glazes, mosaic, acrylics, glass & more!
10am-1pm
10am-1pm
Create 503-375-3664
FUSED GLASS CAMP 10am-1pm
Glass campers gain experience using the tools and techniques for glass fusing as well as have the opportunity to create smaller and larger works of fused glass art!
A Memory
270 Commercial St NE Salem,Oregon
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AUGUST 13 – AUGUST 16
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MAKE THIS SUMMER BRILLIANT MP 9-3! FULL DAY CA
AGES 5-12
OUR CAMPS TEACH THE SCIENTIFIC METHOD. Campers will create, experiment, innovate and learn through hands-on activities and lessons taught by knowledgeable instructors.
Wacky Machines Camp
AY MONDAY- FRID
Adventures in Architecture Camp
July 15 - July 19 Towers and Bridges and Pyramids, Oh My! Campers will learn and study various architectural elements and engineering principles,and put their knowledge to use with hands-on design and construction activities.
Space Exploration Camp
June 17 - June 21 or August 19 - August 23 Invention is the intersection of art and engineering. Campers will learn about the elements of machines and will get inventive by creating machines of their own and testing them.
July 22 - July 26 This camp is out of this world! Campers will get acquainted with several aspects of space exploration and fields of study–rockets, rovers, intergalactic travel. They will learn, design, build and experiment; and will use their knowledge and imagination in hands-on activities every day.
Physics of Superheroes Camp
Exploring Earth Camp
Let’s Get Scientific Camp
STEM + Minecraft Engineering Camp
June 24 - June 28 or August 5- August 9 Calling all superheroes! Campers will learn about the laws of physics—and defying the laws of physics as exhibited by many of their favorite heroes. Campers will engage in hands-on activities to create their own masked identity. July 8 - July 12 Campers will learn about chemistry, biology, astronomy, physics; and the technological applications of science, and then apply their knowledge through real-word examples and hands-on activities.
July 29 - August 2 There is so much to learn about our world. Campers will study rocks and soil, ocean ecosystems, weather and climates, plant science, atmospheres and even volcanoes. Campers will experiment all week through hands-on activities and projects. August 12 - August 16 This Lego-Inspired engineering camp allows campers to dive into Play-Well’s massive collections of LEGO® parts with support of specially trained instructors. Build elaborate objects, structures and vehicles, and explore the principles of engineering and physics.
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www.SilverLeafSchool.org 1274 CUNNINGHAM LN S. SALEM, OREGON 97302
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Hoopla Kids’ Clinic
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PRESENTED BY DRS. HOWERTON, HOPKIN & KENNEDY
Friday, August 2, 10:00am-Noon Each year, Hoopla conducts a kids’ clinic for interested youngsters, focusing on basketball fundamentals. This awesome, informative and fun event is sponsored by Drs. Howerton, Hopkin & Kennedy, Oral & Maxillofacial Surgeons, and is FREE to area kids. A two-hour event, the Kids’ Clinic annually attracts hundreds of young basketball-loving ballers, who run drills and are given tips on the game by coaches and players from local colleges, high schools and the Salem YMCA. NO PRE-REGISTRATION REQUIRED - JUST SHOW UP!
Hoopla 3x3 Tournament August 3-4, 2019 on the streets surrounding the Oregon State Capitol Building. For more information and to register a team, visit www.oregonhoopla.com
Studio Moon Salem
SUMMER CAMPS . Printmaking . Collage. . Painting . Pen & Ink.
June 24-28 July 22-26 August 19-23
JUNE 17- 20 & AUGUST 5-8 8yrs - 12yrs 10am-1pm 13yrs-16yrs 2:30pm-5:30pm
Ages 3-14 9am-2 pm
COST $140/session (supplies included) Abbey Art Studio 331 state St. Salem contact: Jessica Meyers 541-480-9273
Starting at just $85 per child!
*multiple child discount FOR MORE INFO or TO REGISTER
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Over the holidays, I posed a question to my
facebook readers asking about their plans for the holidays. A reader named Mandy just casually dropped that she was gearing up for a wonderful Christmas with her 15 teenage boys. No explanation, no further comment. She just stated it as if that was a perfectly normal reply. I let her know that if she was going to drop THAT kind of bombshell on us, she better be ready to discuss. And discuss, she did! Blown away by her grace and humor, and lighthearted but heart-centered approach to parenting, I asked if I could interview her for the magazine. Luckily, she said yes! So I got nosey. Here’s what I found out. Mandy and her husband, Thom came up with the concept of AFFECT Youth Services where they would live with the kids full-time in an extended foster family setting and provide additional staff for extra support, after six years of fostering. They saw the need for foster homes where kids truly feel loved and part of the family, then set out to solve it. Here are a few of the burning questions I posed her about this extrordinary mission of love and parenting.
WKF: If I unexpectedly dropped by our house, what on earth would I find?
MANDY: This question totally depends on the time of day! Let’s say after school on a normal weekeday: At 3:20pm the kids arrive from school. The alpacas and goats are wait-
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ing in the pasture for a little bit of love and when they enter the house, the dogs and house pigs ( yes- she said house pigs ) go crazy for a bit of attention. By 3:45pm all youth are sitting at the table either working on homework or reading and winding down from a typical full and boisterous day. After homework the boys head downstairs to clean their areas and fold their laundry. Then they spend time playing basketball, 30 minutes of video gaming, play pool, card games and visit with staff. By 6pm we wash up for a large family dinner, followed by group. We discuss relevant topics such as integrity, respect, responsibility, anger management and personal goals. Then we end our time with apologize / appreciate where we either apologize to someone in the room or we appreciate someone including staff. It’s a great time to make things right and to show our appreciation. You will hear a lot of laughter, a bit of bickering, and lots and lots of love.
WKF: What drew you to this work?
How did you end up with 15 teenage boys?!
MANDY:
Great question! My husband Thom and I were volunteering at a camp, one summer years and years ago, for foster children that our church was putting Continued on pg 26
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AVERAGE COST OF FAST FOOD 30 burgers 15 nuggets 30 sauces 15 drinks EACH 15 fries WEEK! people gallons in the of milk per week PROGRAM for cereal (staff & kids) 25
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WKF: So tell us more about your husband
on. We both felt that these kids needed so much more than just one week every summer and we both felt called to do more. We chose teen boys because that fit the best with our family at the time and wenaturally get along great with teen boys. We came up with the concept of AFFECT Youth Services so we could take in more youth and commit ourselves to them full time.
Thom, what does he provide to AFFECT?
MANDY:
Thom is the Program Manager for AFFECT. He is the full time “Dad” of the house so I guess his main responsibility is telling Dad jokes. No, seriously though….Thom is in charge of making sure everything is working smoothly around here. He takes care of vehicle and property maintenance, does the water / well-testing, performs fire and emergency drills, covers night shifts when staff are out sick, assists with transporting kids to / from appointments and takes care of all of our animals. He is extremely gifted in assisting youth to de-escalate when they are dysregulated and to top it all off, he does all of the shopping and cooking! We couldn’t run this place without him. A typical dinner! 35 huge tortillas 5 onions 3 lb bacon 15 lb potatoes 10 lb sausage 60 eggs 3 lb cheese 2 jars salsa
WKF: I’m sure there are tons, but what would you say is your best memory?
MANDY: Oh boy, there are too many to count. I guess the very best memories for us are when the boys really let loose and
play like kids, the laughter is amazing! We have had some great trips that were a ton of fun too- taking them all to Ski Bowl and watching them bungee jump, zip line and ride the ski lift to do the alpine slides! Car rides where we crank up the music and all sing at the top of our lungs are the best, too. But maybe it’s my memories of bedtimes where I stand in the dorm while they are settling down and we just talk to each other about the things that we didn’t have time for earlier in the day. I really couldn’t pick just one.
WKF: Whoa! Thom does a lot! I can imag-
ine it takes a ton or organization to care for the boys like you do- what do your typical daily responsibilities look like?
MANDY: While the youth are at school, I
WKF:
What would you say is one BIG wish you have for the boys in general?
spend most of my time working in my office. I schedule appointments and handle writing assessments and service plans. I also coordinate with caseworkers, mentors, therapists, schools, doctors, etc. and screen new referrals to our progam. During the week I will usually have meetings for youth on four days per week. I work on various committees such as the Juvenile Court Improvement Program, Foster Care Ombudsman Advisory.
MANDY: One wish? To be men of integrity.
It is what we strive for at all times. We want these young men to find their purpose in life and to live life fully committed to being men of integrity!
WKF: If I could wave a wand and grant just one wish, what would it be?
MANDY: It has come to our attention that
I am also the President of the Marion Polk Yamhill Foster Parent Association, so those keep me busy too.
SB 825, which is currently being addressed in legislation, could possibly change the way we run our program. If we had one wish, it would be that there are no changes that would negatively impact the youth that benefit from our program.
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Once the boys get home I go back and forth between my office and assisting with them. I serve dinner and run our group time and then make sure they are all getting to bed on time.
WKF: It is said that it takes a village to raise
a child. It looks to me that you have your own sweet, sometimes challenging, always exciting village right here. Let me see if I get it right- You and Thom had 7 of your own kids, and now have 15 foster youth, a staff of 8, which includes two of your biological adult kids and a former foster son, and let me count... you said THIRTY animals?
MANDY: Yep! Our mini farm includes 30 ani-
mals to include: 2 old pugs, 3 indoor mini piggies, 1 jenday conure (small parrot), 4 outdoor mini pigs, 2 ponies, 2 alpacas, 2 goats, 4 chickens, 1 rooster, 5 ducks, and lastly, 4 cats!
WKF:
I’m exhausted just listening! At the end of the day, when everything quiets down for the night, what thoughts do you have before falling asleep?
MANDY: Gratitude. I think we are most grate-
HOW YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN THE LIFE OF A LOCAL FOSTER CHILD. 1. BECOME A FOSTER PARENT
There is no set standard for being a foster parent. Older adults, single people or couples with or without children may foster. -You can be single, married, or domestic partners -You can live in a house or apartment, but must have room to house a child -You can work inside or outside the home -You must be at least 21 years of age or older -You must have sufficient income to support your family -You must be able to physically care for a child -You must pass a child abuse and criminal background check
2. OFFER RESPITE CARE
ful that we have this opportunity to work with so many amazing youth and that we get the chance to be a part of their lives. (Our assistant says he is grateful to get to make a difference in the boys lives and that his job doesn’t feel like work, he gets to do what he likes to do.)
Respite providers offer breaks for foster children living in a foster home. To become a respite provider you don’t need to go through the state’s training to become a certified foster parent. If you are interested in providing respite care, approach a foster family you know. If you don’t know any foster families, take a moment to visit www.EmbraceOregon.org and ask to connect with foster families.
We are also grateful for our amazing staff, we simply could not do this without them!
3. OFFER YOUR SERVICES
Know a foster family? Offer to mow their lawn. Freeze some meals for them. Call and set a time to fold laundry while you visit. Pick up some groceries and drop them by. Foster parents have a long list of responsibilities, and welcome a short reprieve in any form or fasion. Get creative! www.EmbraceOregon.org has programs set up where you can create welcome boxes for foster children, or join a hospitallity team to encourage staff members on the front line.
4. MAKE A DONATION
To find out more about AFFECT Youth Services, Contact Mandy and Thom on their facebook page at www.facebook.com/AFFECT Youth Services or email affectyouthservices@gmail.com.
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Foster families can always use donations of goods or financial gifts. Monies collected go to help families offset the cost of extracurricular events such as music lessons, summer camps, and sports, to name a few things. Visit Marion Polk Yamhill Foster Parent Association - Public Page on Facebook to reach out locally to parents in our area, to assess their most dire needs. The Marion Polk Yamhill Foster Parent Association also accepts financial donations.
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Re KATRINA SAYS:
What makes you happy?
KRISTEN SAYS:
Watching my kiddos when they don’t know I am watching or listening. They play and are so sweet with each other. Also love when my oldest would read to my youngest!
APRIL SAYS:
Kids happily playing together, hot coffee, blue skies, fresh cut grass, and morning snuggles! CORINNE SAYS:
A hug from my children after a long day. Those hugs replenish my soul. JENNIFER SAYS:
My children. Working. Going on adventures and growing as a woman.
I’m not sure things or moments or even people can make us happy; we can choose to live contented and grateful, positive and happy, or we can choose to always chase someone or something else to provide that feeling. Absolutely there are things that bring joy into my life - my kids laughing or snuggling together; a hot, fresh cup of good coffee in the morning; that first warm sunshine on my skin in spring after winter; a brief summer rainstorm and that smell it makes on the warm pavement; quality ice cream; monthly sister nights; snuggling up with my hubs to a good movie, the beeeeaaaacchhh - all of these things bring joy to my soul. But they don’t define my happiness.
KRISTEN T. SAYS:
Coffee with cream, Take-out night so I don’t have to cook, when my husband folds the laundry, when the kids share with each other -without being reminded, and when the Wild Turkeys show up in my Englewood area yard at random. 29
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