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OUTNORTHWEST EDITOR’S LETTER OCT-NOV 2013
Minorities within minorities. We certainly are a very diverse communuty. Just because we might be lesbian, gay, bisexual or trans (LGB&T), doesn’t mean we know what life is like for every LGB&T person. The next couple of months see’s a whole variety of ‘days’ and events targetting minority groups, all of whom exist within the the wider LGB&T community. We’re marking some of those events in this issue of ONW. I’ve said before that it would be impossible for any magazine to be truly representative, but you can rest assured that we will work hard to make sure we fairly represent our diverse community. We’ve listened to you, and as just one example, you can expect to see a lot more content aimed at our bisexual readers. I’m really keen to hear from readers on what they’d like to see in the pages of ONW, and next issue will see our
annual readers survey, which will give you the opportunity to tell us what we should be doing more (or less!) of in ONW. Elsewhere in this issue, we’re again very proud to be a media sponsor for this year’s Homotopia festival in Liverpool. We’ve supported this amazing event since the beginning, and on page 26 we present just one or two highlights of what promises to be an amazing tenth anniversary for Homotopia. We’re also very pleased to talk to Sandi Toksvig (who is also an LGF patron), ahead of her performance at Homotopia. Check out www.homtopia.net for full details of the huge programme of events!
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EDITORIAL TEAM EDITOR & LAYOUT Grahame Robertson LAYOUT & LISTINGS Mark Eastwood NEWS EDITOR: Sarah McNally MEN’S HEALTH EDITOR Stacey Adams WEB EDITOR Marc Robinson DISTRIBUTION Shaun Lloyd, Sam Whalley, James Derham; Martin Cooper.
OUR IMPACT Nestled inside this issue of ONW is The Lesbian & Gay Foundation’s annual review for 2012-13. Inside you’ll find an overview of the work we undertook last year, and the impact our services have had. We’d like to thank everyone who has supported us over the last year, and everyone who used our services. Keep up to day with The LGF every day at www.lgf.org.uk
CONTRIBUTORS Lucy Rolfe; Andrew Gilliver; Kate Hardy; Connie Lingus; Sian Lambert; Jake Arturio Braden; Gaydio; Martin Cooper; Patrick Ettenes; Sean Gordon; Ben Squance; Sali Owen; Stacey Adams; Debbie Edwards; Stef Hartley. SPECIAL THANKS Jean; Karen; George; Manbears; Evelyn AsanteMensah OBEl; Hazel O’Keefe; Chris Coltrane; Gary and Lou at Homotopia; Sandi Toksvig; Parkinsons UK; Dr. Gabriel.
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IF YOU DO ONE THING THIS WEEK END HOMOPHOBIA AT YOUR OLD SCHOOL!
Were you bullied and teased at school because you were lesbian, gay or bisexual? Imagine you could go back to your old school and make it safer for those young people who are suffering the same today. You can. For a small donation of only £20, the LGF’s Enough Is Enough campaign will send a ‘Safer Schools Pack’ to your old school on your behalf. You can even send a personal message with the pack. To find out more, visit www.lgf.org.uk/enough today.
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06 ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! Sending our love to Russia. 08 NEWS & OPINION Be a Community Leader! Plus all the latest news from across the LGB North West! 16 VILLAGE PEOPLE A night in the life of the Village Angels. 18 UP YOUR WAY What’s going on in your region.
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FEATURES 24 BISEXUALITY We talk to comedian Chris Coltrane, and Pete wonders where the bi magazine are. 26 HOMOTOPIA 2013 As Homotopia celebrate 10 years, we look at a couple of highlights and talk to Sandi Toksvig.
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20 HEAD TO HEAD The positive and negative opinion page. 23 WOMEN IN COMEDY We look ahead to the Women In Comedy festival and talk to Hazel O’Keefe 22 OUTSPOKEN! This issue: Evelyn Asante-Mensah OBE. 28 WELLBEING This issue we look at Parkinsons, and how to cope with crisis.
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LOVE ALWAYS WINS
Last month The LGF hosted an event aimed at sending messages of support to our LGB&T brothers and sisters in Russia. Here’s just some of the pics...
The Lesbian & Gay Foundation were delighted to welcome over 100 people to our Community Resource Centre to join with campaigners around the world in support of campaigning and petitioning website All Out.
remain strong and the messages of support that people have given us will be sent to our Russian brothers and sisters via the Russian LGBT Network and our sister organisation Coming Out St.Petersburg. Here are just a few of the messages that people have forwarded:
“I cannot even begin to imagine the hardships that you are going through, but I wanted to say we support you in your struggle. You are not alone.”
They have been encouraging people to take action and speak out against Russia’s anti-gay laws and put pressure on world leaders ahead of the G20 which took place in St. Petersburg. The support between the sister cities of Manchester and St.Petersburg has meant our links with Russia
“It’s an outrage that you are being treated so hideously, a disgrace that the whole world can now see.”
Thanks to everyone for taking the time to send their messages either in person or via e-mail. If you want to find out more about the campaign e-mail: enough@lgf.org.uk. Check out the global campaign via: www.allout.org
“Please end the discrimination of LGBT people in Russia. An injury to one is an injury to all.”
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ANTI-BULLYING WEEK 2013 18th - 22nd November sees Anti-Bullying week. This year, Anti-Bullying Week calls on children and young people to take the lead on creating a future without bullying - using new technologies to promote positive communication rather than being held back by cyberbullying. Safer Internet Day 2014 will take place on the 11th February 2014, with the theme ‘Let’s create a better internet together’. The AntiBullying Alliance and ABA member Childnet International will be working together to
connect the two campaigns so that schools and colleges can plan activities throughout the school year to prevent cyberbullying, promote e-safety and create a positive online world. The Lesbian & Gay Foundation will be marking Ant-Bullying Week, with Exceeding Expectations taking its anti-bullying theatre production to schools in Salford. We’re also encouraging people to purchase Safer Schools Packs (see box-out). For more info on our activities over Anti-Bullying Week, keep an eye on www.lgf.org.uk
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BUY A SAFER SCHOOLS PACK TODAY! Were you bullied and teased at school because you were lesbian, gay or bisexual? Imagine you could go back to your old school and make it safer for those young people who are suffering the same today. You can. For a small donation of only £20, the LGF’s Enough Is Enough campaign will send a ‘Safer Schools Pack’ to your old school on your behalf. You can even send a personal message with the pack. To find out more, visit www.lgf.org. uk/enough today.
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OCT-NOV 2013
NOVEMBER
ANTI-BULLYING MONTH
Take action against homophobic bullying in schools! We’ll be asking for your support in getting more of our fantastic Safer Schools Packs to even more young people around the country. Donate now at www.lgf.org.uk/schoolspack
MOVEmBER
Your guide to the next two months in the LGB&T North West. Grab you diaries...
OCTOBER
Each year, Movember is responsible for the sprouting of millions of moustaches around the world to raise funds and awareness for prostate and testicular cancer and mental health.We’re looking for people to take part to raise funds for GB men affected by the disease. Get involved! Email andrew.gilliver@lgf.org.uk
Check out page 13 for a feature on Rainbow Noir, a group for LGBT people of colour and FIERCE, an exhibition showcasing up and coming young Black LGBTQ people. For up to date news and events visit the website:
ALCOHOL AWARENESS WEEK (18th-24th) Our Part of the Picture survey into LGB substance use is in its last year, and Manchester Pride saw over 700 of you take part. The online survey is still open at www.partofthepicture.co.uk.
NATIONAL HIV TESTING WEEK (25th-29th) Last year saw the launch of this awareness week which aims to encourage people to get tested for HIV. For more information about local clinics and testing services for gay and bisexual men visit www.lgf.org.uk/testing
TRANS REMEMBERANCE DAY (20th) The Transgender Day of Remembrance was set aside to memorialize those who were killed due to anti-transgender hatred or prejudice. For up to date events around the world visit the website at: www.transgenderdor.org
UPCOMING PRIDE EVENTS! Summer is over, but Pride events are still taking place around the region! Both Cumbria and Chester Pride take place on Saturday 5th October. For more info visit www.cumbriapride.org or www.chesterpride.org
Black History Month
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Spirit Day (19th)
read our inspiring interview with Jean on page 12, who is battling the disease.
Spirit Day was created in 2010 by Canadian teenager Brittany McMillan to encourage people to wear purple to show solidarity and support to young LGB&T people, as well as promote a wider awareness of the issues of homophobia and bullying that many young people face today. Spirit is represented in the rainbow flag by the colour Purple. For more ways to get involved visit www.lgf.org.uk/spirit
National Coming Out Breast Cancer Day 2013 (11th) Awareness Month Make sure you are aware of your breast health by visiting our ‘We ♥ Being Healthy’ section at www.lgf.org.uk/women. Also
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On 11th October, people from all over the World celebrate International Coming Out Day. We’ll be re-launching our fantastic ‘Coming Out’ resource, to get your hands on one email resources@lgf.org.uk. We’re also asking for your coming out stories! More on page 10.
AGENDA OCT-NOV 2013 CONTACT US: outnorthwest, The Lesbian & Gay Foundation, Number 5, Richmond Street, Manchester M1 3HF EMAIL: sarah.mcnally@lgf.org.uk TWITTER: @lgfoundation CALL: 0845 3 30 30 30
GATEWAY TO HEAVEN
Clare Summerskill presents ‘Gateway to Heaven’ – A celebration of lesbian and gay lives, and histories Aside from being a fantastic lesbian role-model, Clare Summerskill’s talents are seemingly never-ending; writer, comedienne, and actress - she’s done it all. On Monday 21st October, The LGF are proud to host her when she joins us as part of our year-long celebration of LGB heritage to talk about her book ‘Gateway to Heaven’ and the work she’s done collecting the memories and
histories of older lesbian and gay people. The evening runs from 7-9pm and will feature a talk by Clare followed by a book reading, Q&A session and book signing. This is a free event made possible through funding from the Heritage Lottery fund. For more information, or to book a place email history@lgf.org.uk. For more information about ‘Gateway to Heaven’ visit www.gatewaytoheaven.co.uk
MAN-O-RAMA! LGF launches new Gay & Bi Men’s Film Club
On the last Friday of every month beginning Friday 27th September and again on Friday 25th October The Lesbian & Gay Foundation will be hosting a Film Club for gay and bisexual men at our Community Resource Centre, Number 5, Richmond Street, M1 3HF from 6-8pm. We’re looking to show a selection of the best in gay world cinema to reflect the diversity of
gay and bisexual men’s experiences. All events will be FREE! - with refreshments provided. September’s film theme is ‘coming out’ while gay black history is October’s film subject. For more info and to suggest films you would like to see in the future e-mail: men@lgf.org.uk
FREE Events for Lesbian & Bisexual Women
Each month The LGF hosts free events for lesbian and bisexual women, each focussed around learning a new skill and having fun with like-minded people. Previous workshops have included tie-dye, rubbish revamped, political campaigning, gardening and photography. Over the next few weeks you can look forward to free events around politics and comedy! For a list of upcoming events visit www. lgf.org.uk/women and to sign up to our monthly free email newsletter with news, events and updates from across the region aimed at LB women, go to www.lgf.org.uk/register
CAROL AINSCOW Shortly before this issue of outnorthwest went to print, we were all deeply saddened to hear of the death of Carol Ainscow. Carol, a hugely successful businesswoman, was a patron of The Lesbian & Gay Foundation and was instrumental in regenerating The Village when she opened Manto on Canal Street in 1990 with her business partner Peter Dalton. The recently launched Community Book Of Rememberance has been dedicated to the memory of Lucy Meadows and Carol Ainscow, who were both significant within our community. ONW will be carrying a full celebration of Carol’s life in our next issue. If you’d like to share your stories of Carol, please e-mail them to outnorthwest@lgf.org.uk
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SHARE YOUR
STORY Share your experiences with thousands of LGB&T people.
COMING OUT
WE’RE COMING OUT! Friday 11th October marks National Coming Out Day, which is used to raise awareness and for people to show support for the lesbian, gay and bisexual community. We’ll be re-launching our fantastic ‘Coming Out’ resource, which give you tips and advice on how to come out, and where to get the support you need. For more information and to get your hands on a copy, email resources@lgf.org.uk
COMPETITION! We are always looking for people to share their story – whether that’s your experiences around your GP, coming out, being young and LGB, homophobic bullying – or to tell us about your civil partnership or upcoming wedding plans!
We’re also looking for people to share their experiences of coming out – good or bad, at 14 or 40, to friends or family at home, work or school!
We’d especially like to hear from you if you have used one of The LGF’s services and can speak about the difference it made to you. In each Issue of outnorthwest, we share the ‘Real Voices’ of people who have been part of The LGF - turn to page 14 for inspiration!
If you would like to share your story for our website, we’d love to hear from you! Email voices@lgf.org.uk for more information.
If you would like to share your experiences on whatever topic, for outnorthwest, or on our website email voices@lgf.org.uk or call 0845 3 30 30 30.
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We have two fantastic prizes to give away – and all you need to do is sign up at www.lgf.org.uk/register to make sure you keep up to date with all the latest news, events and updates! We have one signed copy of Stephen’s Fry’s Number One Bestseller ‘The Fry Chronicles’ AND a signed copy of Clare Balding’s book ‘My Animals and Other Family’. We will be choosing two lucky winners who will each receive one of these great prizes. All you need to do is go to www.lgf.org.uk/register and fill in your details (you can’t already be signed up – sorry). We’ll be drawing the winners the first week in December! What are you waiting for? Get signed up now!
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HIV STATUS?
Hello Vagina Diners. Ladies, why do we take it as an insult, when offered lube? Using lube doesn’t mean that your lady-garden is a dry, barren wasteland. And neither does it mean that your partner doesn’t turn you on. There are many reasons why a lady might not be able to produce enough lubrication herself: at different times of the month you may find you react in different ways. Stress, certain medications and changes with age can also make it harder for you to get wet. Even if you regularly experience a flood of biblical proportions, for certain types of sex we shouldn’t solely rely on selflubrication. The safest way to protect our lady parts from discomfort or injury is through lube! There are three main types of lube: •
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LGF to offer HIV home-sampling kits. The LGF has secured funding to provide 600 home sampling Dry Blood Spot HIV kits, targeted at Men who have sex with Men (MSM).
and men will also be able to pick them up at our building Number 5 Richmond Street, Manchester where they’ll have the opportunity to chat to LGF staff about sexual health, pick up condoms and lube and talk through how to do the kit at home.
The provision of a home sampling HIV service via the LGF will enable more MSM to know their HIV status, through increasing the testing options available.
This project is delivered in partnership with RU Clear and The Manchester Centre for Sexual Health and will be launched from 1st October 2013.
The home sampling HIV kits will be accessible via a postal scheme through the LGFs website in partnership with RU Clear
Want more information? Visit www.lgf.org.uk/men or email men@lgf.org.uk
Water-based - easier to wash off fabrics and doesn’t leave a lingering weird feeling that makes you want to wash straight afterwards. Silicone – this lasts longer than water based, is slightly more expensive but if long sessions are your thing then this is definitely worth the money. Be careful if you’re using it with sex toys though, as the silicone in the lube can damage the silicone of the sex toy! Flavoured – Now these things you have to use with caution. Some of my ex’s have found out the hard way they react to some of the flavours. ALWAYS try before you buy grrls, flavoured lube is full of sugar, so if you’re susceptible to thrush, don’t go there!
A word to the wise though, lubrication is a power that has to be yielded in the right way, in the wrong fingers this can lead to injuries. I know, I’ve been there, I’ve felt the pain, literally.. I was with a now-ex of mine (don’t worry in typical lesbian fashion we’re still friends) were both first timers in the lube department. I had my turn and it all went well, well an orgasm was achieved anyway. But when it came to her turn, in my opinion she was a little over-zealous with the lube and in the throes of passion entered me, in a rush and all I felt was fire. No, not porno-animal attraction fire, I’m talking the third-circle of hell fire that should never be experienced down there. Just remember, whilst you’re slip-sliding away, lube makes things go a lot more smoothly but too much too soon is still bloody painful! So what are we taking from my near fatal injury ladies? Be safe. Have fun. Relax. GO SLOW! Kisses for both lips,
Connie Lingus xxx
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JEAN’S STORY “Of course I am not glad that I have had breast cancer but it has given me a different view of life, myself and the people in my life...” Jean, from Oldham, shares her story with us about her experiences of breast cancer. “One pleasant spring morning I went along to the walk in centre to have my three yearly mammogram. As the machine came down on my left breast I was struck by it being unusually tight but didn’t think much about it until a letter arrived from the Nightingale Centre at Wythenshawe Hospital a week later telling me that further investigations were needed. This proved to be the most scary time, and in my own head I only had sixth months to live. The consultant examined me, did more mammograms and ultrasound and told me it was ‘worrying’. So by the time I returned two weeks later for the results I was well prepared to be told that I had breast cancer.
Things moved pretty rapidly from there and surgery was set for IDAHO Day (17th May) so I took my rainbow flag - courtesy of The LGF. Not having been in hospital since the Sixties I was very apprehensive. All went smoothly and the cancer and some lymph nodes were removed. It was then, what seemed a long wait to go back to be told that they had got all the cancer out and the lymph nodes were clear. Phew, how fantastic, but wait the surgeon then said I might want to consider chemotherapy as the cancer was grade 3 and was fast growing. I needed to make a decision. This was the first time that chemotherapy had been mentioned and I was quite thrown by it, but I did make the decision and as I write this I have just gone through the third cycle. It’s not been easy going, but not as bad as
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I thought it would be, mainly because of the care I have received at the Christie Hospital, as well as the fantastic support from friends and at home. I have three more cycles to go and then a course of radiotherapy. Luckily the tumour was oestrogen receptive so I will be given an oestrogen suppressant to help prevent it returning. Of course I am not glad that I have had breast cancer but it has given me a different view of life, myself and the people in my life - all for the better.”
To read Jean’s blog visit www.lankielass.blogspot.co.uk Make sure your aware of your breast health by visiting our ‘We ♥ Being Healthy’ section at www.lgf.org.uk/women
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RAINBOW NOIR
FIERCE
Northwest Takeover Photographic exhibition comes to The Lesbian & Gay Foundation
Artist/photographer Ajamu is extending his successful photographic project ‘Fierce’ to create 25-30 new portraits of young Black LGBTQ people across the country, with a special event taking place on 5th October at The LGF’s Community Resource Centre 2pm – 6pm. Earlier this year, the first Fierce exhibition of 24 portraits took place at London’s Guildhall Art Gallery. This landmark exhibition demonstrated a clear demand for work that highlighted the aspirations and creativity of young Black LGBTQ people in London and now Ajamu is keen to make sure that the next ‘Fierce’ phase represents those people outside of the capital that are making an important cultural contribution or representing Black LGBTQ communities and experiences where they live. “There is a paucity of celebratory, distinctive and aspirational images across the UK which
reflect the richness and diversity of the Black Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans and Queer (LGBTQ) lived experience. These portraits, that capture the next generation of Black LGBTQ movers and shakers, have national and international significance in terms of stimulating new dialogue about the Black British LGBTQ experience, particularly second ‘out’ and first queer generation. Fierce is a discernable record of our times for generations to come.” Now he is in the process of planning ‘Fierce 2’, Ajamu is looking for people to get involved from outside of London. To help with this and to celebrate black queer creativity and activism in the Northwest, a special free event is being hosted by LGF in partnership with BHA, Ajamu, Rainbow Noir, Chew Disco and featuring artist/performers/activists including Khalil West, Adam Lowe and others TBC with Food and refreshments, poetry and socialising. To attend RSVP to: andrewgilliver@lgf.org.uk Checkout Fierce: www.ajamufineartphotography.co.uk/fierce/
Rainbow Noir is a safe space created for and by LGBT people of colour (POC) ages 18 and above. Often LGBT people of colour are isolated and marginalised, and Rainbow Noir aims to address this by creating a space for people to meet, share experiences, socialise and develop confidence in a space in which they can be themselves and call their own. Stephanie, the Organising Member says; “We started Rainbow Noir because we felt there was nothing else like it in Manchester - a safer space for queer people of colour to meet and affirm our experiences, as we are often marginalised within LGBT communities. I love the space that we have all created - there is something joyful about being with other queer people of colour and no longer feeling like the only one. Community, solidarity, and a lot of fun.” The group meet once a month 7pm - 9pm in the LGBT centre on Sidney St, Manchester. Previous meetings have hosted film nights, a cultural sharing, games and friendly chatter. The meetings are free to attend and refreshments are provided. Up and coming dates: 17th October; 14th November; 12th December and 23rd January 2014. If you would like to know more about the group and our meetings visit the Facebook group page ww.facebook.com/groups/ rainbownoir
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Each issue we want to dedicate this page to YOU, to the people who have used The Lesbian & Gay Foundation’s services and want to share their story with the community. This time, we hear from Karen and George.
Karen, 48, took part in The BUPA Manchester 10k in May 2013, the Lytham half marathon in July and in 2014 plans to take on a London to Paris Bike Ride and The London Marathon – all in aid of The Lesbian & Gay Foundation! “In December 2012 I had a breakdown which was diagnosed as work related stress and as a result my long term relationship broke down. This led to an enforced period of time off work and huge changes in my personal life - it led to much soul searching. “I have always run but over the past years due to pressure this fell by the wayside. When my life kind of fell apart I started to run and just kept running everyday. At first it was a huge effort but I began to love my daily runs and benefited from the positive energy it generated. Running kept me sane and I want to continue to challenge myself and improve. “I wanted to raise money for The LGF as they do amazing work in reaching out to people in need, and acknowledging health issues both physical and mental. Also it allows me to shout out to all my friends and work colleagues that I am in fact proud to be gay!”
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If you would like to take part in a run or challenge for The LGF visit www.lgf.org.uk/fundraise or email volunteer@ lgf.org.uk. For support and advice call us on 0845 3 30 30 30 or email helpline@lgf.org.uk.
George* contacted The Lesbian & Gay Foundation as he was interested in volunteering and wanted to know more about our LGB Community Leaders Programme.
“I have been suffering with health care issues for the best part of half of my life. From an early age I had body image issues and I suffered from bulimia from the age of 14 up until I was 23. As a result of this I also dipped in and out of depression. I recently was required to stay in hospital to finally challenge my demons and work on some of the issues that have affected my life. A large part of this was down to the fact that I was not happy being gay. Looking back I realise I have always known deep down, however I was scared due to family and social pressures to ever come out. My teen years are not the happy joyful times that my friends
recount, but are plagued with lies and deceit. Mainly me lying to myself about who I truly was. This inevitably caused many issues within me which lead to various episodes of depression throughout my life. To hide these issues I started to self-medicate through the use of alcohol and drugs which only exasperated the situation. I would like to say that once I “came out” it all got easier but then came the guilt for lying all those years, guilt with myself and for those around me who I lied to. The self-medication then continued which only helped worsen the situation. If just one person reads this and realises that they are not alone and seeks help I will know that my contribution was worthwhile.” *We would like to thank George for sharing his story and have changed his name to protect his anonymity. Photo posed by model.
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AWARDS Community Champion of the year Anthony D Cooper Tony has taken a lead with many community initiatives, challenging decisions and ensuring that the community has a voice on many platforms. Simon James Clark Simon has set up an LGB&T help and support group in Bury, following a positive HIV diagnosis and a personal fight with depression. Rev. Hayley Matthews Hayley is an out gay woman working in the Church of England, challenging stereotypes, fighting prejudice and empowering others. Business of the year The Quest The Quest was formed in 2011 with a mission to transform the relationships Gay Men have with themselves, others and the world they inhabit. Co-operative Respect Network The Co-op has continued to make a visible and genuine contribution to the LGB&T community this year, with its employee network Respect. Serenity Security Solutions are proactively involved in promoting Manchester’s ‘Gay Village’ and supply security staff to a number of venues within it. lesbian, gay or bisexual role model of the year Andie Worral Andie plays for Manchester City Ladies F.C. and is currently the only ‘out’ in public LGB&T player in the game at elite level in the UK. Lee Wicks Lee, an openly Gay Activist all of his life, has been focussed on challenging discrimination affecting the LGB&T community. Jen Yockney Jen is editor of Bi Community News, and is also at the helm of BiPhoria, the UK’s longestrunning bisexual group Public Sector Partner of the year Greater Manchester Fire and Rescue Service have been committed to raising awareness of LGB&T issues for both their employees and the community for a number of years. Greater Manchester Police officers and staff work every day of the year to help keep people safe in communities across Greater Manchester. Working in partnership with the LGB&T community. Leicestershire Partnership NHS Trust established a work programme around increasing access to and improving outcomes from
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IN OTHER NEWS The LGF’s annual Homo Heroes Awards takes place on 3rd October. You’ve been voting in your thousands. Here are the nominees in each category. Find out who won at: www.lgf.org.uk/hero early intervention in mental health problems amongst Leicester, Leicestershire & Rutland’s lesbian, gay, bisexual & transgender (LGBT) population. Volunteer of the year Andrew Edwards Andrew has been volunteering for community radio stations for many years and his aim is to provide an alternative focus for the LGB&T community airwaves. Jonathan Bland Jonathan began volunteering in 2007, prompted by the Police interview after being raped and wanting to educate and inform to deal with such situations effectively. Sam Aldridge Sam has volunteered as a Section Supervisor for Pride in London, a steward at Sparkle and at the XIX International AIDS Conference. Sam volunteers for George House Trust, is a member of National AIDS Trust. Community group or organisation of the year Outdoorlads.com aim to increase the physical and mental health and well-being and reduce isolation amongst gay/bi men. Friends Of Sackville Gardens have been involved in creating things such as the world’s first permanent Transgender Memorial Garden. Manchester Canalsiders aim to provide an opportunity for LGB&T people to take up Rugby League. LGB&T VENUE OF THE YEAR Richmond Tea Rooms offer a safe environment for all members of the LGB&T community. Their traditional English style tea room has to be seen to be believed. Taurus, Manchester The team at Taurus actively gets involved in community fundraising and is a meeting space for many LGB&T social and support groups. Contact Theatre, Manchester Part of Contact’s ongoing commitment to diversity, Queer Contact presents and produces events throughout the year for LGB&T communities. The Alan Turing Memorial Award developed in partnership with Manchester City Council celebrates an individual or group that has made a difference to LGB people in Manchester. Outstanding Achievement Award is awarded by the board of Trustees of The LGF.
To find out if your favourite won, visit www.lgf.org.uk/hero from 4th October!
New interactive timeline of LGBT history launched In January 2013, The Lesbian & Gay Foundation (LGF) received generous funding from the Heritage Lottery Fund to undertake a history project which aimed at encouraging local people to learn more about the LGBT past. As part of the project, 10 volunteers worked with LGF staff to create an exciting new interactive timeline charting the many challenges and successes experienced by the LGBT community over the last 100 years. The timeline has a UK focus and charts events and people of significance including the death of Alan Turing in 1954, the first Gay Pride March of 1979 and the launch of the first magazine for lesbian women in 1963. As a Manchester-based charity, The LGF were also keen for the timeline to celebrate the LGBT heritage of the city as it has played a large role in pushing the equality agenda in the UK. The timeline therefore charts the rise of various charities that grew up in the region to support LGBT people and progress the fight for equality. The timeline will be a lasting legacy of this interesting and wideranging project and it is hoped that future milestones will be added in due course, making it a ‘live’ timeline. Hosted online and totally interactive, you can view the timeline at www.lgf.org.uk/heritagetimeline. For details about the timeline or any of the events please email history@lgf.org.uk
New! CAREER CLINIC In partnership with the National Careers Service the LGF is piloting an LGB&T career clinic starting on Wednesday 1st October. The clinic will help you to find accurate information on learning and work, with professional advice to help you make the right choices. We can help you: • Understand the job market • Find out about different careers and what qualifications and skills you require • Look at your current skill set and how to improve them • Find a learning or a training course • Find out about funding to support your learning Each session is forty five minutes here at The LGF’s Community Resource Centre; you will need to book an appointment. To book an appointment please speak to Samantha Days on 0845 3 303030 or email samantha.days@lgf.org.uk
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VILLAGE PEOPLE LOCAL BUSINESSES, CHARITIES AND THE COMMUNITY WORKING TOGETHER!
A NIGHT IN THE LIFE of
THE VILLAGE ANGELS
STEFANIE HARTLEY, one of The LGF’s Village Angels, takes us through a typical night for the Angels on Canal Street... 19:30 Our shift kicks off at 8pm. We always have a little brief before shifts just to make sure we’re all on track and up to date with what’s happening in the Village that night. Tonight we chatted about University Freshers. So we’ll just make sure we are extra helpful to any Manchester newbies. We also talked about any nights that were on in venues in and around The Village, just so we can give people good advice on where to go that night.
19:55 So, radio? Check. Fabulous pink high-vis vest? Check. Angels at the ready? Check. Lets go!
20:00 And the Angels are out! We’ve got two teams of Village Angels out tonight, but we
started as we usually do with a walk down Canal Street together so we can take in all the sights and sounds! We chat to door staff and the odd venue owner about the night ahead. Lots of people said hello which is always a delight! The weather taking a turn for the chilly so not a lot of people out and about outside venues. As always, we’re keeping an eye out for anyone that might need some help or assistance but it seems all quiet at this hour. Not complaining!
21:00 The Village is getting a bit busier now. People are having a nice time which is always nice to see! Starting to get approached a lot more by people that are new to the Village. “Which way is G.A.Y?” “Where should we go out?” Always a fun question - So much pressure to make sure someone’s night goes well! I always love
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welcoming people to The Village that are new though. We’ve spoken to people from all over the world that have travelled to our little city just to be happy and gay!
22:00 The music’s getting louder, and lets be honest people are getting drunker. Chatted to a couple of lovely police officers who were hoping for a steady night (I always wish them a quiet night) only to be told that using the q-word jinxes the whole night. Oops! Team two sent a call on the radio for people to be wary of a group of men that were saying homophobic comments and being a bit aggressive. We use the radio to report things like this as we can get CCTV onto specific areas, in an effort to keep people as safe and protected as possible in our space. My team talked to a young woman who told us she was struggling with some housing
issues and had come out to forget her troubles. We gave her some guidance and told her about how The LGF can help. Cheered her up. Angels to the rescue!
23:00 Met a wonderful group of women outside a venue who told us they felt safer knowing we were about, and also that they loved our pink high-vis (who doesn’t!). Team two talked to a homeless chap who needed some support for a variety of issues, they spent some time with him and gave him lots of resources. We helped a lady who had tripped on her heels - Ladies be warned, those killer heels might turn out to be literal killer heels! OK, perhaps thats a little over-dramatic, but take care of those ankles please! She was alright after a bit of a sit down and some Angel chat.
00:00 And the rain begins! Lots of people asking for taxis now. We waited with a young woman who was waiting to be picked up by her Dad after losing all her friends. She was a bit upset but we told her a couple of risque jokes cheered her right up! We heard on the radio that the police had to intercept a fight that was happening just outside of The Village. It appeared to be alcohol fuelled and the police calmed everything down quickly. We stayed in the are to offer any support we could although we’re definitely not there to get involved in any fights! Talked to a couple of men from Glasgow who were having an absolutely marvellous time in The Village and couldn’t praise it highly enough!
01:00 Team two intercepted an incredibly drunk man who was by himself and staggering down Richmond Street. He was really distressed and unwell so they administered some first aid and eventually called an ambulance for him. We all went to help out and offer support to the Paramedics if they needed it. It’s at times like these that I realise how necessary The Village Angels are. I can’t help but ask myself what could have happened to that poor guy if we hadn’t have been around to support him?
02:00 And it’s clocking off time! We all have a quick de-brief over a (much needed) cuppa. It’s been another eventful night in The Village! People have had a great time, and we’ve managed to help the few whose night hasn’t gone exactly to plan. Angels, our work here is done! See you next week!
If you want to be a Village Angel please get in touch! E-mail: Stefanie. Hartley@lgf.org.uk, or visit www.lgf.org.uk/volunteer
LIVERPOOL CONNECTION Gaydio spreads the love to Merseyside! This summer Liverpool got to share some Gaydio love when we broadcast across Merseyside on DAB for six weeks. It looks like our trial was a resounding success, with a loyal audience across Merseyside, Cheshire and North Wales making Gaydio part of their day. As well as covering the cities biggest pride festival to date, we broadcast several shows from local gay pub – The Lisbon.
70’s who fought for homosexuality to be legalised, we discovered a city of proud individuals - proud of their sexuality and proud of the city they lived in. The whole point was to leave a lasting legacy so future generations can listen back to the stories of their LGBT past. If you missed the documentary we broadcast in September, that and all the full interviews have now been made available on line at www.gaydio.co.uk/lgbt-liverpool
But that wasn’t our only venture to the end of the M62. Earlier this year we were commissioned by the heritage lottery fund to document the hidden history of Liverpool’s LGBT community. A city or a community’s history is much more than what you can read in dusty library books. What we wanted to capture was the Oral history – real people talking through their memories and their stories. Armed with several digital recorders, a team of Gaydio volunteers travelled to Liverpool in April and interviewed over 20 members of the LGBT community. From teenagers who had recently experienced their first pride to men and women in their
And if that was all about looking back, our next project is all about looking forward – as thanks to BBC Children In Need we’re now working with LGBT youth groups in Liverpool. If you’re a young person living in Merseyside and you’d like to learn more about our radio workshops please contact chris@ gaydio.co.uk. Don’t worry if your DAB radio is missing us, we’re still available across the UK online and on mobiles (download our Android or iPhone app), and who knows – we may be back on DAB throughout the area before you know it!
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UP YOUR WAY
THE FUTURE IS
HAIRY! PRE-HIBE WHAT’S ON? Friday 8 November 3pm: 8pm: 11pm:
Registration opens in the Bear Lounge in Sanctuary on Sackville Pre-Club Drinks at both The Eagle and Rem Bar HiNRG Club Night in Sub101 with DJ Peter Ord - £8 on the door
SATURDAY 9 November 1pm: Christmas Market in The Eagle Come and see what Santa has in his sack for you!! Free mulled wine and mince pies whilst stocks last. Stalls include: Moodybear, Grizzly Gifts, The Lesbian & Gay Foundation, George House Trust, Manchester City Council - Adoption Team, Manchester Pride. Please be aware that entrance is via The Richmond Tea Rooms and there are a number of steps. 1pm: Bear Sauna at The Basement complex - £10.00 7pm: Pool Party at Moss Side Leisure Centre - £8 including transport 8pm: Pre-Club drinks in The Eagle and Rem Bar 11pm: Club-Night in Manto - enjoy a night of dancing at Manbears takes over all 3 floors of this fantastic venue in the heart of the village. Two great DJs - Rick Parker and John Aggy £10 on the door
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The Bears are back in manchester this november for pre-hibearnation. we talk to organisers, manbears... Why do you think ‘bear culture’ has become so popular? One of the reasons bear events are so successful is that there is generally no attitude, everyone is there to have a good time, and certainly with The Great British Bear Bash (GBBB) we try to mix the bar/ club aspect with other events such as a pool party, sauna, market etc What do you think makes for a successful bear event? It comes down to listening to what the guys want. Every year we try to add something new, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t. But we listen to the feedback and do our best to act on it, where possible. In these tough times, we are very aware that money can be tight, which is why we always try and make sure that we give great value for money. The cost of registration for PreHiBearnation 2013 is £15, but actually has a face value of £26. What can people expect at PreHiBEARnation in November? Having listened to the feedback regarding our guys wanting venues in or closer to the gay village, we are very excited to be using two brand new venues to MANBEARS for
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Pre-HiBEARnation. Friday will see us dancing and cruising in Sub 101 with a great night of HiNRG with DJ Peter Ord. Saturday night we have taken over the whole of a newly refurbished Manto, where you will find Legends stalwart John Aggy DJ-ing in the top dance room and Rick Parker DJ-ing in the first floor area, plus two bars and lots of stairways to give you 360o cruising! Saturday there is the opportunity to attend the bear sauna, and/or the pool party, which has grown into a very fun event. Plus another first for MANBEARS, a Sunday carvery at Sanctuary. What’s next for the Manbears team? We are already in advance planning for GBBB17 - The Big Top. The clubs have been secured - there will be two nights being hosted by Alter Ego with Saturday in NQ Live. We are currently discussing details with acts for the Birdcage, and our host hotel for GBBB 17 the Ibis on Portland street is already on sale and going well. ’
Weekend Registration Packs are still available at manbears-manchester.co.uk
IN YOUR WORDS!
FOCUS
OUT IN SALFORD
DOOR SUPERVISORS TRAINED IN LGB&T AWARENESS An LGB&T awareness training session was recently delivered by Lancashire LGBT and Wyre and Lancaster District Hate Crime Project to FGH Security staff, who provide security staff for most of the Pride events in the North-West, hosted by Lancashire Constabulary HQ. Topics included the spectrum of transgender behaviour and transgender identity; gender reassignment; the law relating to toilets;
searches; “Why do we have Pride events?” and the history of and cultural sub-groups within the LGB&T community. Lancashire LGBT is a registered charity whose mission is to create opportunities for lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans communities in Lancashire to be happier, healthier and self-empowered.
To find out more visit www.lancslgbt. org.uk; contact: lewist@lancslgbt.org.uk or call 01772 717461
You don’t have to come out to come in! Mind are holding their fourth Rochdale annual event for National Coming Out Day and World Mental Health Day on Wednesday 9th October. Join in two venues for a day of learning, sharing and celebrating lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans experiences. Taking place 1pm to 4pm St Andrews Church
Smith Street Rochdale OL16 1HE and 4pm to 7pm Broadwater Centre Smith St Rochdale OL16 1HE. For more details and information on how to get involved and to book a stall, contact: pennystrickett2@ rochdalemind.org.uk, 01706 752334 - or just drop by on the day!
JUST A BALL GAME? Alongside the proud announcement of acquiring Sweden based and English born professional Football player and out and proud gay man Anton Hysen to its list of Patrons this summer, Just a Ball Game? have been busy campaigning not just against homophobia in football but helping to raise awareness and visibility for the LGBT community across the region. For further information on campaign work, or to team up as a partner club/ team/organisation please see: www.justaballgame.co.uk
The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender network group that works with partners in the Salford area to heighten awareness of issues of importance to our community. The main aim of the group is to enhance community cohesion and build relationships between local LGBT groups, to bring them together. Other aims include working together in tackling LGBT issues: such as hate crime, victimisation and homophobia in schools. The group helps organise community events to raise LGBT awareness and promote equality and diversity in the Salford area. The group meets on a monthly basis in either an official capacity or as a social event at venues throughout Salford. Visit: www.outinsalford.org.uk
new trans support health service launched in liverpool
The Trans Support Service (TSS), provided by Liverpool Community Health (LCH) NHS Trust, has been set up to support transsexual, transgender and gender nonconforming people by listening to them, providing them with information about their available options, and empowering them to move forward with their lives. Tim Blackstone, Sexual Health Training & Development Coordinator for Liverpool Community Health NHS Trust explains, “If a person thinks that they may have gender dysphoria, or feels a discrepancy between their birth gender and their sense of being either male or female, and it is causing them some distress, they may wish to seek professional support to help them address these feelings. The service will offer clients a series of sessions with a trained counsellor or therapist, which will help make them aware of the full range of available options for resolving their gender distress and will assist them in determining their life goals.” People can access the new Trans Support Service via their local GP who can refer them to it, or can contact the service directly for further information on: 0151 284 2500 ext. 149 or 150.
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HEAD TO HEAD With the news that the sale of HIV self-testing kits are to be made legal, we ask PATRICK AND SEAN...
“Do you think HIV home testing kits are a good idea?” THE HIV POSITIVE PERSPECTIVE
PATRICK ITALO ETTENES
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“Gay and bisexual men are so affected by HIV that any initiative that encourages guys to get tested is to be warmly welcomed. I know all about the agonising wait in the clinic, the nervous wait for your test results and the anxiety that comes from knowing you have put yourself at risk and the sooner that you deal with any kind of inkling that you may have been in contact with the HIV virus the better. However I want to make sure that when I go to the clinic I’m seeing the best people and getting the best support and advice and I do worry that if you are ordering a kit online you might not have immediate access to the all important care and support that you do when you get your results from a clinic. What I would say is that by all means men should take advantage of these home testing kits but that isn’t something you should do without accessing services. Make sure you get advice and support by calling The LGF Helpline, or George House Trust or Terrence Higgins Trust or any of the support organisations we have in the North West. Knowing your HIV status is important but knowing what to do if you get a positive result is even more crucial for your ongoing peace of mind. That doesn’t let negative guys off the hook either. Just because you may get a negative result doesn’t mean you can behave irresponsibly or that you are invincible . Au contraire! Always make sure that you get advice before and after testing and do we really need to keep reminding each other about condoms?”
THE HIV NEGATIVE PERSPECTIVE
SEAN GORDON
“Theoretically, it would make a lot of sense to have HIV testing kits to use at home to put people’s minds at ease of whether or not they have contracted the virus. I would need to be assured of the accuracy of these kits however, as getting an inaccurate result due to misuse of the kit itself could prove to be devastating. There is a three month window period for HIV to become detectable in a blood test after transmission, so if a person has recently been exposed to the virus it will not show up at all in one of these home testing kits. I think that for instant peace of mind, these home kits are a fairly good idea but I would still advise anyone who thinks they might have been exposed to the virus to get a blood test at their local GUM clinic and have a repeated blood test 12 weeks after the first for definite confirmation. If you are having regular sex with multiple partners, the best and still most effective way to avoid all of this is to use a condom. The Lesbian & Gay Foundation distributes their FREE condom and lube packs around Greater Manchester and there are other schemes across the north west, so pick a few up when you get the chance. If you are a drug user, avoid sharing needles! Most cities in the North West have charities that run a needle exchange programme so that you can use fresh needles which will significantly reduce the risk of picking up HIV, look up your local needle exchange program on the internet. And remember to keep yourself safe!”
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GAY & BISEXUAL MEN
SAME DAY
HIV TESTING EVERY WEDNESDAY
12.00PM - 2.00PM*
AT THE LGF
NUMBER 5 RICHMOND STREET
MANCHESTER
*BUT GET HERE EARLY, THE LAST TEST IS AT 1.30PM
FOR MORE INFORMATION CALL US: (10AM-10PM)
0845 3 30 30 30 DO YOU KNOW YOUR HIV STATUS? Reg. Charity No. 1070904
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OUTSPOKEN WHO’S EVELYN? Evelyn Asante-Mensah OBE has worked within a wide spectrum of organisations and partnerships for over 20 years, tackling inequalities and promoting equality. She is currently interim chief executive of BHA for Equality an organisation that she grew from a community group to a well respected regional organisation with a national profile and was its chief executive. Previous to that was Head of Equalities and Economic Inclusion for the Northwest Regional Development Agency (NWDA). She was Strategic Adviser for Community Cohesion and Diversity for the Government Office for the North West and has held several non-executive roles, including Commissioner for the Equal Opportunities Commission, Chair of Race for Health, and Chair of NHS Manchester. Evelyn is now a Commissioner for the Equality and Human Rights Commission and a Community Governor at St. Mary’s Primary School, and will take up a new role as Chair of Arawak Walton Housing association. She has 4 children and2 grandchildren, had her civil partnership 3 years ago after 15 years and received an OBE for work in Health Sum yourself up in three words... Honest, Fair and Warm. If we gave you £1million what would you do with it? That’s easy, sort out my family (my kids, grand kids and parents especially), pay off my mortgage then I’d be able to more of the voluntary work that I absolutely love and travel.
Evelyn AsanteMensah OBE Tell us your favourite joke... Do you know I don’t know any. How boring am I? If you were a chocolate bar what would you be? Green and Black’s Milk Chocolate with a hint of ginger. If you could be an animal, which one? - and why? A lioness, because they are strong and powerful, a matriarch that is protective and looks after her young.
What food could you never live without? Meat. I’m a total carnivore, I eat far too much of it. Where is your favourite places in the world? Having spent most of my summer in Herefordshire, it has to go down as one of my most favourite places ever and the view from Hay Bluff is absolutely spectacular. My other favourite place is Ghana in West Africa where I was born and my family come from. It is home.
What’s your one weakness? Basques and corsets If you could change one thing about the world what would it be? Goes without saying poverty. Second to that would be bigotry and hatred of any kind.
Tell us a secret... I’m a closet country and western fan..... especially dolly parton The best thing about being a woman... Everything. I love everything about being a woman.......everything!
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WOMEN
WOMEN IN COMEDY
UPCOMING WOMEN’S EVENTS AT THE LGF
The first ever UK Women in Comedy Festival will be held across Greater Manchester from October 1st until 27th 2013.
The Women in Comedy festival takes place across Manchester from 1st – 27th October.
Women In Comedy is a crosscollaboration between the growing number of women’s comedy producers, performers and supporters, spearheaded by Hazel O’Keefe founder of Laughing Cows Comedy. We spoke to Hazel... Where did the idea for the Women In Comedy festival come from? It’s been something I’ve been wanting to do for several years, so it was a matter of timing. Over the past couple of years I feel that the comedy scene has changed for the better, I used to be able to confidently name most of the female acts in the UK. That’s not the case now, there are so many females involved in comedy that I probably only know 20% of the artists. I wanted to create something which encourages networking but ultimately a festival to showcases and celebrates like this was inevitable. How did you get involved with promoting women’s comedy? I founded Laughing Cows Comedy in 1998, after a London comedy promoter inadvertently
threw down the proverbial gauntlet. ‘We were discussing female comics and I asked why there’s never more than one female comedian on the bill and he said, oh we wouldn’t take that risk.’ Running female dominated lines up was my natural feminist response, proving the point that a comedy night with more than one female could be successful. Laughing Cows shows now run all over the UK and the shows are always well attended. We are even producing comedy shows with mixed bills from November onwards. Why do you think that it’s important to focus specifically on stand-up from women? Less important each day which is a great thing. A lot has changed since Laughing Cows comedy was founded in 1998 but we are still not quite there. The circular conversations and myths still exist, ‘women aren’t funny’ is a general sweeping statement which is unfounded and unfair. Some women are, some women are not just the same as our male counterparts. For me its about equality of opportunity.
www.womenincomedy.co.uk
Two events are taking place at The Lesbian & Gay Foundation as part of the festival: ‘Stand-up and be counted!’, a free introduction to stand-up comedy workshop on Saturday 19th October 2-5pm and ‘Dry Wit’, a comedy night without alcohol featuring Bethany Black, Madge Hooks and Rosie Wilby. Tickets for ‘Dry Wit’ are £5 in advance (from www. womenincomedy.co.uk) or£7 on the door. ‘Stand-up and be counted’ is a free workshop, open to anyone who self-identifies as a lesbian or bisexual woman, but places are limited and must be booked in advance – drop an e-mai to:l women@lgf.org.uk or call 0845 3 30 30 30 to reserve yours.
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CHRIS
COLTRANE
BISEXUALITY
Sali Owen talks to comedian Chris Coltrane about bisexuality.
Chris Coltrane is a stand-up comedian and anti-austerity activist. A joke from his recent show, Compassion Is Subversive, was nominated by Dave as being one of the 10 best jokes of the Edinburgh Festival Fringe 2013. His first show, Activism Is Fun, is available as a free download at chriscoltrane.com. When did you realise you were attracted to people of more than one gender? In school I felt an attraction to a few boys, but I dismissed it because I knew I was attracted to girls, and therefore I must be straight. I don’t think I knew that bisexuality was an option. Later on, I remember watching a certain comedian in the late 90s and feeling attraction, followed by a realisation that something wasn’t quite normal. Luckily, I had a friend who had come out as bisexual, so I was armed with a bit of knowledge. Fortunately, when I realised, a lot of things slotted into place! What are the most common misconceptions people have about bisexuality? The two biggest issues for me are “bisexuals are greedy” and “bisexuals need to make their minds up.” Both are ludicrous. You can’t be greedy with sex. We’re not hogging all the sex! There isn’t a finite amount. In fact, it’s the opposite: when you have sex, you’re making new sex! People should be grateful. Bisexual people are like sex catalysts! As for making your mind up, the first time I had sex with a man and a woman at the same time, I proved once
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and for all that you definitely can have both! Another issue is that some people don’t see bisexuality as a sexuality in the same way that they see being gay or straight. They see bisexuality as something deviant, something naughty. The press describe Jessie J as “The bisexual Jessie J” in a way they wouldn’t talk about “The homosexual Stephen Fry” or “The heterosexual Philip Schofield”. Good grief, the idea that being gay is fine but being bi isn’t! You could only think that if you thought bisexuality was something kinky instead of loving people of more than one gender. What’s the best thing about being bisexual? Sex with hot dudes and cool girls at the same time. I understand that I’m rather contradicting what I said above. Please forgive me this one time. What advice would you give to someone who is thinking of coming out as bisexual? Be prepared to explain that sexuality isn’t binary. It’s a spectrum. Put gay at one end, straight at the other, and tell people that you can sit anywhere on the spectrum that you like. Also that it can change day to day, and year to year. Be prepared for ignorance but forgive people. They haven’t had the benefit of the knowledge we’ve got. And who knows, if you explain the concept properly, maybe you’ll empower them to explore their own sexuality too. You can follow @Chris_Coltrane and @SaliWho on Twitter.
BY THE BI
BY THE BI This issue, Peter asks:
“Where are all the Bi magazines?”
A week ago in store, browsing through the magazine section I thought isn’t it silly how there are no Bi magazines on the racks. I could complain I suppose at having to haul around GT, Attitude, and Men’s Health in one big thick anthology. I even had a good nosey through Diva whilst I was there, with the men’s magazines stuffed precariously under my arm. But I guess if there was a market for bisexuality then it’d be catered for right? Well in truth there actually is and before I bemoan the absence of any Bi glossy magazines I will say I’ve found one so far that touches the subject, Diva. Diva magazine itself proudly maintains its regular serial is for Lesbian and Bisexual women - and why not. Because of this inclusion, it is instantly more attractive and accessible to a
consumer/reader because it’s there on the front cover. But I’m a guy and although the articles are sometimes punchy, thought-provoking and interesting it isn’t really aimed at me. What is the tip of the literal iceberg does unfortunately point to the bigger issue of Bi invisibility. Many unfounded and blatantly clueless societal myths may allege that Bi guys are just closeted gay men and that I should be happy to get the word ’Bisexual’ mentioned in any publication. As a Bisexual person I don’t want to be the apologist for any mainstream commercial entities not daring enough to tackle an aspect of the human existence that’s endured since the beginning of time. Even if it’s a misunderstood identity. Mainstream magazines it seems often don’t want to be bogged down so much with what’s what of the LGBT world. Bisexuality to them may seem like a muddled and murky underworld of an identity, so putting time, money and effort into something they don’t entirely
have faith in seems pointless. But what media (of late) seems to balance upon, is the notion that they give readers what they want. But nobody really asks what they want and the biggest, most numerous and popular magazines don’t (it seems) necessarily follow that notion; they tell the readers what they want and quite likely who they should be. Maybe those readers want to be told how to live, hence why the magazines sell? I for one don’t need or want to be told that I don’t exist and for what it’s worth, neither does anybody else who may be unsure about coming out as Bi. It’s a shame society can’t always see Bisexuality as valid. With Bi readership often cut squarely out, with only a nod or two in the direction of the ‘B’ in LGBT, it will always remain that little rumour, embellished by myth and stereotyping. If that’s the future of being Bi then maybe there’s a financial solution for having to buy several gay or straight magazines at once; a 50% discount at the checkout?
Bisexual? We’d love to hear your story! Over the next couple of months, we’ll be introducing new pages on the LGF’s website, to increase the amount of information we have about bisexuality. As part of this, we’d really like to share bi people’s stories and experiences, to help offer insight and inspiration. If you’d be willing to be involved, please email voices@lgf.org.uk and we’ll send you some questions that can act as prompt. Your stories can be anonymous or named. We’re also hoping to do a photo shoot in the near future - so again, if you’d like to take part, please do get in touch! 23 www.lgf.org.uk OUTNORTHWEST 25
IS 10! David Hockney, John Waters, Boy George, April Ashley and Sandi Toksvig all feature in this year’s Homotopia Festival in Liverpool, which this year celebrates its 10th anniversary.
Over the next couple of pages we’ve highlighted just a tiny number of the amazing performances and events that will take place in Liverpool between 27th September and 16th November. We’re also very please to have spoken to Sandi Toksvig. Gary Everett, Artistic Director, has programmed a blend of international premieres, original commissions, emerging artists and established stars to celebrate 10 years of presenting the best of queer culture. He explains: “In 2004 we set out to unite communities around high quality cultural experiences with a handful of events in small-scale venues. The festival has grown with our ambition and our audiences and Liverpool has embraced the lesbian, gay and trans* experience; so much so that you will find Homotopia at the Philharmonic Hall, the Walker Art Gallery and the Museum of Liverpool this year. “This is in stark contrast to the experience of LGBT Russians who have witnessed retrogressive laws banning queer cultural expression introduced in Russia and a huge increase in violent homophobia. I believe it makes our work supporting and commissioning gay artists increasingly important.” For complete listings of this year’s Homotopia festival, and to buy your tickets, head over to the official website at:
www.homotopia.net
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Boy George In Conversation
Thursday 14 November, 6pm, St George’s Hall The ever candid pop icon, DJ, director & photographer Boy George discusses his life and work with Janice Long. Now exploring his creativity in visual media exclusively for Homotopia George will be joined on stage by longtime friend and Wirral born artist TradeMark to discuss their collaborative exhibition This Way Out. Tickets £16 Box office 0151 709 3789
John Waters This Filthy World
Friday 8 November 8pm Liverpool Philharmonic Hall The incomparable writer, director and actor John Waters’ one-man show is a vaudeville act that celebrates the film career and obsessional tastes of the man William Burroughs once called “The Pope of Trash.” This joyously devious monologue elevates all that is trashy in life into a call to arms to “filth followers” everywhere. Tickets £20, £26 Box office 0151 709 3789 www.liverpoolphil.com
ARTS Sandi Toksvig ‘My Valentine’
Tuesday 5 November, 8pm Liverpool Philharmonic Hall Comedian, novelist, actor, broadcaster, show-off and international treasure Sandi Toksvig continues her smash hit, sell-out solo tour. Long-standing host of Radio 4’s News Quiz and Excess Baggage and regular QI panelist, Sandi will be performing her uniquely witty evening of stand-up, stories and fascinating facts and also signing copies of Valentine Grey after the show.
SANDI TOKSVIG INTERVIEW
“We must not forget our brothers and sisters who continue to face the prospect of imprisonment or even death for expressing their love.” Can you tell us a bit about what the Homotopia audience can expect from ‘My Valentine’? Laughs, anecdotes, an attempt to find the cleverest person in the audience and a smattering of classical conducting. It is my hope with every live show that the audience might feel better when they leave than when they came in. I’ll do my best. Bringing the production to Homotopia may see a slightly more ‘LBGT’ audience – how will you be reflecting that in the show? I suspect I attract some LGBT people wherever I go but the more the merrier. Perhaps one or two jokes about my life will get their best reception with this lovely audience. Will you be catching any other productions at Homotopia? Sadly I am on the road and that means packing up as soon as we’ve finished and moving on so there won’t be time.
You’re a keen traveller and historian, and your book ‘Valentine Grey’ touches on injustice. What are you thoughts on the current struggles LGBT people face across the world? Anyone who thinks the battle for equality has been won had better think again. The recent homophobic laws passed in Russia are shocking but it is far from the only country where there are problems. Look at Libya, Morocco, Sudan, Ghana, Mauritania, Barbados, Oman, Syria and on and on. Britain has made great strides but we must not forget our brothers and sisters who continue to face the prospect of imprisonment or even death for expressing their love. Do you feel a particular responsibility to talk about your sexual orientation? When I came out there wasn’t a single out lesbian in British public life. I was told that my career would be over. I had death threats. I was, however, not
prepared to live a lie. It is easier now but I have not forgotten the fear which had to be overcome. I don’t think anyone should be defined entirely by their sexual orientation but I will keep talking about until it becomes so common place as to be boring. What are your opinions of how ‘out’ lesbians are portrayed in the media? There’s still a struggle to have lesbians portrayed in a reasonable manner. I disliked the film ‘The Kids Are Alright’ partly because the title suggested that the kids might not be ok. I’d love to see a lesbian couple depicted in a soap with the same worries and values as anyone else. What changes have you seen over the years in your own profession in regards to LGB people For reasons I can’t fathom it is still easier to be a gay man in public life than a lesbian but then I suppose it is still easier to be any man in public life than be a woman. Much to do. www.lgf.org.uk OUTNORTHWEST 27
WELLBEING
Every hour, THANK YOU FOR BEING someone in the UK is told they have Parkinson’s. One in 20 is under the age of 40. What is Parkinson’s?
What support is available?
Parkinson’s a progressive condition that can strike anyone, at any time. Although what causes someone to develop the condition is unclear, what is clear is the impact Parkinson’s can have on the lives of those forced to live with it. As well as difficulties with depression, pain and anxiety, people with Parkinson’s can find that their movements become slower, their muscles become stiff – some experience a tremor. This can make everyday activities, such as eating, getting dressed, or using a phone or computer, extremely difficult or frustrating.
Parkinson’s is often thought of as an older person’s condition, but it affects people of all ages and due to its fluctuating nature can have an impact on every part of life – from socialising, relationships and family life, holidays and travel to driving, work and money.
No two people with Parkinson’s are the same, symptoms can vary on a daily, and even hourly basis. There isn’t a cure for Parkinson’s, but there is a range of drugs, treatments and therapies available to manage many of the symptoms.
And you can connect with other people affected through our online forum, Facebook and Twitter. Our website also features the latest research news and answers to all your questions about Parkinson’s.
Parkinson’s UK is here to offer support to anyone affected by the condition. We have volunteer-run support groups throughout the UK, many for people of working age, and a free confidential helpline where you can speak to nurse specialists.
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Where can I find out more? Parkinson’s UK Free* confidential helpline 0808 800 0303 Text Relay 18001 0808 800 0303 Monday to Friday 9am–8pm, Saturday 10am–2pm. Interpreting available. *calls are free from UK landlines and most mobile networks. Website: parkinsons.org.uk E-mail: hello@parkinsons.org.uk
WELLBEING
C is for CRISIS!
Ending Homophobia,
Empowering People
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Registered Charity No.1070904
Continuing our series of articles especially for young people, we’re going to take you through the A-z of mental health and wellbeing.
If you need urgent support
If you are in a crisis, whether you’ve harmed yourself or feel like doing so, then you need to go to the A&E department at your local hospital. There you will be able to speak to someone and decide what the best way will be to keep you safe.
HELPLINES There are a number of helplines you can contact who offer listening and support if you’re in a crisis. If you feel anxious or unable to talk to friends or family, then a helpline can be a useful place to go to for support. Here are a few useful contacts: The Lesbian & Gay Foundation 0845 3 30 30 30 (10am – 10pm 365 days a year) or you can pop-in and see us between 10am and 8pm Samaritans 0845 7 90 90 90 (24 hours a day, 364 days a year) Hopeline (for young people) 0800 068 41 41 (Mon-Fri 10:00 am to 5:00 pm and 7:00 pm to 10:00 pm and Weekends 2:00 pm to 5:00 pm)
The word ‘crisis’ means different things to different people. What might feel like a crisis for a friend could be something that you feel able to deal with and vice versa. Feeling that you’re in a crisis could be due to specific event or situation, should as losing your job, or it could be because you’re struggling with feelings like depression, anxiety or stress and feel that you just can’t cope. Whatever the cause, a crisis can have a big impact on both your physical and mental health, so it’s important you get some support as soon as you can. Sometimes, being in a crisis can lead us to experience feelings of wanting to harm ourselves; whether this is to help us cope with difficult feelings, or because life just doesn’t feel worth living anymore. Having these thoughts can be very distressing and they make take you by surprise – they’re perhaps more common than you may think, especially amongst young LGBT people and there are people out there who can offer support.
SELF-HARM
Self harm happens in lots of different ways, although there are said to be three main types of self harm: • Deliberately harming yourself to cause physical injury (e.g. burning, pulling out hair, cutting or scratching)
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Putting yourself in dangerous or risky situations (e.g. dangerous driving, having lots of unprotected sex) Self neglect (e.g. not eating properly, not taking care of your health and personal hygiene)
If you’ve been using this to cope with a crisis, or if it’s crossed your mind, it’s important to talk to someone you trust and share with them how you’ve been feeling. Some of the support services below can help you do learn ways of coping that are safer and more effective in the long-term. If you have seriously injured or harmed yourself, then you should attend the nearest A&E department at your local hospital.
SUICIDAL THOUGHTS
Sometimes in a crisis, the situation or pain we’re feeling, might feel so bad that life just doesn’t seem worth living anymore. You might have noticed feelings like hopelessness, guilt, shame and perhaps that there’s no way other way out of the situation you’re in. Again, we urge you to have a chat to someone you trust, or a service like The LGF or Samaritans. It might not feel like it now, but things can get better – the right support can help to get you back on your feet step-by-step, at your own pace. There’s no shame in talking about these feelings but if you’re struggling, it might help to write things down. 23 www.lgf.org.uk OUTNORTHWEST 29
GAY MEN’S HEALTH
ASK THE DOCTOR Dr Gabriel is a consultant in Genito-urinary medicine at the Manchester Centre for Sexual Health. he know’s his stuff. We put your sexual health questions to him. Dr Gabriel graduated from the University of Malta in 2001 and worked in various medical specialties until 2006, when he developed an interest in dermato-venereology. He later moved to the United Kingdom and trained and worked in sexual health in Leicester and then Manchester. He has always had a keen interest in research and would like to develop this aspect of his career further in the future. On a more personal note, Gabriel is married, owns the biggest dog in the world, and is passionate about good food and wine. He enjoys long walks in the countryside and cooking up new recipes. How risky is oral sex? All infections passed through anal and vaginal sex can be passed on through oral sex. Some transmissions are less likely to be passed through oral sex, such as HIV, or more likely, such as herpes. How long would I wait for results for STI tests? Typically about two weeks for most tests but in urgent cases most clinics can have the blood test results available the next day. Microscopy results are usually available within 15 to 30 minutes which means that in certain cases you
can be diagnosed and treated within the same visit. How will I find out the results? Usually the results are sent by text on the mobile number you provide when you register with the clinic. Some clinics have a telephonetics system where an automated voice can read out the results for you over the phone. If a positive result is identified, you may receive a phone call or a text asking you to call the clinic. Do all STIs have symptoms? No. This is a common misconception and we certainly diagnose our fair share of infections in individuals who came to clinic reporting no symptoms. I would encourage anyone who has put himself or herself at risk to come for an STI check regardless of whether they are showing symptoms. How accurate are home testing kits for HIV? This depends on the kit you are using. The home kits provided by the National Chlamydia Screening Programme, where a blood spot is collected on blotting paper and sent to the laboratory, are almost equivalent to the HIV blood test we use in clinic. The rapid tests which give you an HIV test result in a few minutes are known to give false positives results (telling you that you are positive when in reality you
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are not) and occasionally false negative results (telling you that you are negative when you are actually HIV positive) and are not as accurate as the test done in a sexual health clinic. How accurate they are depends on the kit itself and how well the test itself is performed. What do you see the most of in the clinic? We see a variety of cases, from individuals with no symptoms asking for a ‘check up’, to individuals with sexually transmitted infections attending for treatment. The most common sexually transmitted infections we see are probably chlamydia and genital warts, we see pretty much everything. We also run an HIV service, attended by HIV positive patients. What happens at a sexual health clinic? This depends on the reason why you are visiting the clinic, but everyone will get offered tests for sexually transmitted infections (STIs) - blood tests for HIV and syphilis and urine/swabs for chlamydia and gonorrhoea. Any sexually transmitted infections found will be managed and treated as appropriate. Health advisers are usually available for advice and to assist with partner notification, when required. Other tests and specialist services can be offered but these depend on both your individual circumstances and the clinic that you visit.
Manchester Centre for Sexual Health The Hathersage Centre 280, Upper Brook Street Manchester M13 0FH Opening Times: We offer a mixture of walk-in times and appointments. A limited number of appointments are available daily: to book an appointment telephone 0161 276 5200 or call into reception. Walk-in times: You do not need to book, but we recommend that you come as early as possible as waiting times can vary. During exceptionally busy times, we may need to close the last walk-in registration earlier.
Why do you think people don’t get tested? There are a number of reasons for this. Lack of awareness and education, stigma and anxiety associated with a positive result, not wanting to be seen in a sexual health clinic, implications to the relationship, needle phobia, misconceptions about the testing process, lack of time and availability of appointments by clinics to mention a few. With an HIV test in particular, usually the individuals who cannot be persuaded to have a test are the ones who suspect that the test result will be positive. How effective are condoms in preventing STIs? This depends on whether you use the condom correctly and consistently, and on the STI in question. For example, we know that condoms are very effective and preventing HIV transmission when used correctly, but they are less effective in preventing transmission of herpes or the human papilloma virus. That is why sex with a condom is called ‘safer’ sex, not ‘safe’ sex. What do you think about the change in law for rapid home testing kits for HIV to be available from next April? This sounds like a good idea in principle as it may help increase the uptake of the test. We
know that an earlier HIV diagnosis is associated with a better outcome. However, this needs to be supported by education surrounding the limitations of the test (particularly in inexperienced hands) and the prompt availability of appropriate advice to individuals who test positive using such kits. What is PrEP? PrEP is short for HIV Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis. It is a new HIV prevention approach in which people who do not have HIV take a daily pill to reduce their risk of becoming infected. When used consistently, PrEP has been shown to reduce the risk of HIV infection among adult men and women at very high risk for HIV infection through sex. It differs from Post-Exposure Prophylaxis (PEP) which is used after the risk has occurred and is only taken for 4 weeks. What’s the PROUD trial all about? The PROUD trial is an important UK based multi-centre trial which looks at a new way to reduce the risk of catching HIV, using PrEP, in men who have unprotected anal sex. It is also looking at whether individuals on PrEP change their sexual behaviour compared to those not on PrEP.
How does it all work? If you want to take part, we will first need to see you in clinic for an HIV test, to make sure that you are HIV negative. If eligible, we will see you for an ‘enrolment’ visit and where a computer program will let us know whether you will be given PrEP immediately or after 12 months. You will have to complete an online questionnaire regularly and a daily diary of sexual activity, and come to see us every 3 months. That’s all there is to it. How does someone get on the trial? The easiest way to get onto the trial, if you live in Manchester, is to give us a call on 0161 701 1504 or drop us an e-mail on MCSH.research@cmft.nhs.uk We are a friendly and approachable team and we will do our best to work around your work schedule when organising the trial visits. The PROUD trial is also recruiting in Birmingham, Brighton, Sheffield, York and London and the contact details for your nearest clinic, along with much more information about the trial itself, can be found on the PROUD trial website: www.proud.mrc.ac.uk/
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GAY MEN’S HEALTH
RULES OF
ENGAGEMENT Manchester has the second highest rates of HIV outside of London, Brighton and Hove being the first. 1 in 10 gay or bisexual men are living with HIV; more so 33% of those living with HIV were infected by a partner. So how do you negotiate the mind field that is status disclosure? A lot of people think that if you’re HIV positive it’s the law to disclose before having sex with someone, and albeit this is ‘technically’ true, 1 in 4 guys don’t know their status in the first place! So guys, it’s time we started having those conversations. Let’s go through some typical scenarios that you might find yourself in;
Scenario 1
Guy 1: I’m really into you, but I thought you should know I’m positive. Guy 2: Oh god, I’m sorry! *steps away* Firstly, why on Earth are you sorry? Guy 1 was smart enough to disclose his status to you, not only does this say that he cares not only about his health but about yours as well! And secondly, how on earth do you think HIV transmission occurs? It’s transferred through bodily FLUIDS, so touching someone who is positive will not give you HIV, nor is it airborne. What Guy 2 should have done is say “Ok, I’m HIV negative”, this means you’re both proactive about your own sexual health. As long as you use the right condom (non-latex ones are available so no excuse guys!) and water-based lube, this drastically lowers your risk of transmission. But if you’re not ready to sleep with someone who knows they are positive, that’s fine! Simply say “Thanks for letting me know but that isn’t something I am comfortable/ ready for right now”. You have to look after yourself first!
SAM WHALLEY asks how we should disclose our status Scenario 2
Guy 1: For the record, I’m positive. Guy 2: Oh right, yeah me too. OK so this classes as a ‘sero-concordant’ liaison but there are things that still need to be negotiated here. Just because you both have HIV does NOT mean that condom use can go out of the window at all! Both guys might have different strains of HIV or one might have something else as well which could lead to serious health complications!
Scenario 3
Guy 1: FYI, I’m positive/ undetectable Guy 2: Yeah that’s fine I’m on PrEP So Guy 2 is on a Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP), this is when a person takes daily medication that is used to treat HIV when they are uninfected, some studies suggest this can prevent infection if the user is exposed to HIV. However this is still in its early stages and PrEP doesn’t protect you from any other STI’s Guy 1 might have. So
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it’s best to use condoms and lube as well to keep the risk of transmission to a bare minimum. There is a study being conducted at the moment called PROUD which is recruiting gay/bisexual men who may be at risk of getting HIV. If you’re interested in participating email: www.PROUD.mrc.ac.uk
Scenario 4
Guy 1: I’m positive/ undetectable Guy 2: Ok yeah that’s fine, I’m a top anyway! Oh dear Guy 2, what are you doing? Yes this does mean you’re at a lower risk but there is no such thing as no risk! HIV and STI’s can be transferred through anal mucus, so you’re still at risk even if you are a top. So wearing a condom, can protect you a lot better than nothing at all. If you have any more questions about negotiation, knowing your status or testing visit www.lgf.org.uk/men
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OPINION JAKEB ARTURIO BRADEN
RIGHTLY SO
HOMO! Because gay and bisexual men are affected by cancer too... During November each year, Movember is responsible for the sprouting of millions of moustaches around the world. With their “Mo’s” men raise vital funds and awareness for prostate and testicular cancer and mental health. As an independent global charity, Movember’s vision is to have an everlasting impact on the face of men’s health. A vision that we share here at The Lesbian & Gay Foundation and we are working with Movember to make sure that gay and bisexual men are part of the awareness raising too. Movember challenges men to grow a moustache for the 30-days of November, thereby changing their appearance and the face of men’s health. In October, ‘Mo Bros’ sign up at Movember.com, and on the 1st of Movember, with a cleanshaven face, start their Mo growing journey. Then for the entire month, these selfless and generous men known as Mo Bros, effectively become walking, talking billboards for 30 days. Through their growing efforts they raise awareness for the often ignored issues of men’s health, by prompting conversations wherever they go. Another crucial part of being a Mo Bro is to raise funds for men’s health. The Lesbian & Gay Foundation is encouraging gay and bisexual men to join in the hairy happenings by raising funds and awareness of cancers in our communities. To find out more about Movember, visit: http://uk.movember.com To get involved e-mail: men@lgf.org.uk
Well Pride season and the Summer is at an end, and we’re entering Autumn. Shorter days and darker evenings. How was the Summer for you? Well weatherwise we have probably had the best Summer for a while. A real highlight for me was Manchester Pride. It was awesome, and much gratitude and appreciation to all those who made it so. There have been criticisms of Pride not being what it was and having lost its heart somewhere along the way in the search for money and securing its own future. Just before Pride started, and on the day of the Parade, I was thinking about my first Gay Pride in 1992 and just how different things were back then. Just 21 years ago! The police on the Parade (in London) were really not best pleased to be there, being spat at outside Brixton tube station on the way to the festival in Brockwell Park. Yet, what a feeling of community and the sense for me (as a gay man who at 23 had just come out!) of wonder and amazement at just how many of us out there were. At how a diverse a community we are. What a revelation it was. Now while watching the Parade pass through Manchester this year, and seeing how many people were participating and watching, I felt that essence of Pride is still there, that someone who has just come out or who is in the processing of doing so would perhaps find this a wonder, to be surrounded by so many LGB&T people. Just the sense of that is so empowering for people just coming out! Now, at the close of Pride during the HIV Candlelit Vigil, a message was sent to LGB&T people of Russia, although there are numerous places were being LGB&T is a crime. A message of solidarity and support - again the way Prides have always been and now that equality is almost completely achieved here we are turning our focus on our LGB&T brother and sisters elsewhere. That is powerful and it’s good, we have achieved rights and now we have a responsibility to support our LGB&T brothers and sisters elsewhere to achieve the rights that we have.
“I felt that essence of Pride is still there, that someone who has just come out or who is in the processing of doing so would perhaps find this a wonder, to be surrounded by so many LGB&T people.” Not just that, but also to support people here in the UK who are still afraid to come out as LGB&T, who have worries or issues about their sexual orientation or gender identity. October 17th is Coming Out Day, a good day to reflect on our own coming out process and maybe have a think about how we can support others to do the same. Equality isn’t just about getting rights and equal treatment it’s about how we can move on from that and support others who are not as far down the path as us. Pride season maybe over however people are still coming out and coming to terms with who they in terms of being LGB&T. You can find me here: www.twitter.com/authenticgayblg www.youtube.com/user/NorthernFella www.theauthenticgayblog.wordpress.com/ Love and best wishes
Jakeb
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WELLBEING DO YOU FIND YOURSELF FEELING LONELY AND ISOLATED? KATE HARDY LOOKS AT WHAT WE CAN DO...
THANK YOU FOR BEING
LONELY? We all, at some point in our lives, feel lonely and isolated. There are also various statistics that say that lesbian, gay and bisexual people are more likely to feel these feelings than our heterosexual counterparts.
It can be a difficult and almost impossible feeling to conquer, and quite often our negative thinking can get in the way of our progress… ‘Why would anyone want to be my friend?’, ‘what’s the point in trying things when I only fail?’, ‘why do I feel so lonely when my life is going ok?’. This negative thinking can be really disabling, and for quite a lot of people, can stop them even leaving the house. After all, what’s the point?Moving area, just coming out of a relationship, mental health issues or life traumas can all contribute to feeling lonely, even when you have a supportive family, friends and a good job – sometimes
loneliness can be present in even the best situations. So what to do? Should we just hope the feelings will pass and ‘get on with it?’. This may work for some people, but for the majority of us, a little more help may be needed. Going to social groups, taking up a new hobby, learning new things and being part of a community can all help us in times of loneliness, but quite often going to a social group and actually talking to new people can be a daunting and terrifying experience, especially if you aren’t used to being in social situations. We talk to our Wellbeing Officer, Kate, about getting over these barriers; “Quite often people feel nervous at going to a group for the first time, which is understandable. Your first experience may not be the best, and you may feel even lonelier than you did before, but I always recommend people try the group a second time. You won’t be as nervous and the people that were strangers the first time will now be a bit more familiar to you!” Being part of something, working towards common goal,
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and sharing interests and experiences with the people around you is something that all humans need. Maybe volunteering for your local community may be a good way to meet new people, or joining a new group? “There are some people that have been thinking about coming to a group for years” says Kate. “I always remind newcomers that in all probability, there will always be someone else in the room feeling similar feelings, and you won’t always be the ‘newbie’”. So, whether it’s joining a gardening group, volunteering your time at a local community centre, taking up a sport or going to a social group – these are all ways to increase your self worth and feelings of belonging. It’s not easy though, and if you are struggling, you can always access our befrienders’ service, which is 10 one to one sessions with a volunteer befriender, who can help you with confidence and attend the groups with you. It’s a good way to start tackling these feelings of isolation with a friendly face to support you. For more information on our Befrienders service and the LGF groupwork programme, please email kate.hardy@ lgf.org.uk or phone 0845 3 30 30 30.
LGF GROUPS
So, for the last few issues, we’ve had the opportunity to talk to some of the amazing volunteers that are involved with The Lesbian & Gay Foundations groups.
Ending Homophobia,
Empowering People
The volunteers work really hard to plan and deliver a range of welcoming, fun, social and supportive groups, and we would like to thank them all for their dedication! From now on this page will concentrate on what is planned in the groups in the next couple of months, but remember, the volunteers are always looking for suggestions on how to make the groups better and more relevant to the people that attend them.
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Art Class 2nd and 4th Monday of the month, 7pm to 9pm In the next few sessions, volunteers Brian and Fran will be putting together a ‘street wall underground’ piecem taking inspiration from art you may see on the Berlin Wall. Thinking about current issues that are happening around the world, such as anti gay leglislation in Russia, group members will be creating their own ‘propaganda’ and looking at themes such as ‘straight pride’ and stereotypes. This is a really exciting project to be part of, and there is no artistic background necessary for any Art Class sessions, just enthusiasm!
Bloomers Every 1st and 3rd Tuesday of the month, 1pm to 3pm This is our newest group , and is aimed at bisexual and lesbian women who identify as older. It’s a really relaxed, friendly, fun and safe group, with the occasional film afternoon thrown in. Come and have a natter and build new friendships, and meet the volunteers Donna and Sara! The session on the 17th September will be a film afternoon (film TBC!).
Carousel Every 1st and 3rd Tuesday of the month, 7.30pm to 9pm A lesbian and bisexual womens’ group for all ages, Carousel is a fun social group. Volunteers Sarah, Ashley, Nat and Hannah are welcoming and are always coming up with fun ideas to make everyone feel relaxed and welcome. The next few sessions will include a Halloween style party, as well as a singing workshop in November (no talent necessary!)
LGF GROUPS did you know that a whole range of diverse groups, for all kinds of people meet regularly at the lgf? Here’s a rundown of what’s on offer. why not get invovled?
Older & Bolder Every 2nd and 4th Thursday of the month, 7.30pm to 9pm. This is a group aimed at older bisexual and gay men, and is a mixed social and support group. This means that sometimes there will be relevant discussions, and sometimes the sessions are based more around activities. Volunteers Nick, Kush, Andrew and Andrew are really welcoming and friendly! The next couple of sessions include a discussion about LGBT representations in the media, plus a laughter workshop!
Stepping Stones Every 2nd and 4th Tuesday of the month, 7.30pm to 9pm. This is a social discussion group aimed at lesbian and bisexual women. Run by Linda, Laura, Bernie and Katie, this group explores themes such as stereotypes, religion and making positive changes. It’s for women who are new to the area, just coming out, or who are low in confidence and would like a safe, non judgemental environment in
which to listen and share. The next couple of sessions will cover relationships and dating, and coming out. If you want to know about specific dates and events, visit www.lgf.org.uk/whatson We also realise that going to a group the first time can be really scary and nerve wracking. All our volunteers are experienced in supporting people, and if you are not sure or just need some reassuring, please approach them and they will help you (plus will make you a brew!). They can even meet you before the group if it’s easier, just e-mail kate.hardy@lgf. org.uk to arrange, or if you have any other questions. The LGF’s groupwork programme is kindly supported by the Big Lottery, Manchester Pride and a Neighbourhood Funding Grant from the Adactus Housing Group. A big thank you to them! www.lgf.org.uk OUTNORTHWEST 35
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MEET DEBBIE “Hello my name is Debbie Edwards and I’m the Giving Manager here at The LGF. My task is simple but important; although all of our support services and programmes are available to LGB people free of charge, we as an organisation, need to ensure that these can continue by generating an income separate from the amazing support we already get from Grant Giving Bodies and organisations such as the NHS and the Local Councils. I’d like us to continue to be able to say ‘Enough is Enough’ and take action against Homophobia for many years to come, but to be able to do this to our full potential and to reach out to as many people as we’d like to, we need your help. This month we received a lovely email via our CEO Paul Martin from someone we have previous assisted who is now one of our amazing volunteers and I wanted to share it with you…..
“I just wanted to say thank you to you and your incredible staff and volunteers at the LGF. They have transformed my life profoundly and literally saved me when I was severely depressed and suicidal and struggling to accept I was gay. They accepted me, believed in me, supported me and really empowered me to become the out and proud gay man I am today. I still have some way to
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go in my life but I know that with the LGF by my side I can continue to be empowered on my journey where ever that takes me hopefully to achieve my full potential.” Help us to continue to be there for members of the LGB community like we were able to be there for him. Giving even a small amount each month makes an impact on the number of people we can help. The money you donate will go directly to delivering our life changing services. I’d like us to be in it for the long term; I want us to be here for you if you ever need us, even if you don’t feel you do at the moment there is someone out there who does need our help and you could be part of that solution. Please call me on 0835 3 30 30 30 or email me debbie.edwards@lgf.org. uk for further details on setting up a regular or one off donation. Or visit our website www.lgf.org.uk and click on the donate now button.
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Free Safer Sex Packs available at most venues Funded and supported by local authorities across Greater Manchester.
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PUBS, CLUBS & Bars 2 x Pasante Regular shaped, teat-ended condoms, nominal width 54mm at base, and 2 x Pasante 10ml clear water-based lubricant sachets. Use condom only once. Use of a condom cannot guarantee 100% protection against pregnancy, HIV or Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs). This product is made from natural rubber latex and may cause an allergic reaction. Pasante condoms are certified to international standard ISO 4074. The Kitemark applies to the condoms only. Store in a cool, dry place, away from direct sunlight.
This pack is provided by The Lesbian & Gay Foundation and contains:
1 Alter Ego 105-107 Princess St, 0161 236 9266, home to Poptastic every Tuesday and Saturday night, clubalterego.co.uk
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Mixed Mainly Men Mainly Women Mainly Trans Bar Serves Food Cash Point Outdoor Seating Disabled Access
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6 Churchills 37 Chorlton St, 0161 236 5529, karaoke Tues and Thurs, facebook.com/ churchillsmanchester
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3 Baa-Bar 27 Sackville St, 0161 247 7997, glitter balls and a flashy dance floor, baabar.co.uk
The Bay Horse 35-37 Thomas St, 0161 661 1041, a traditional gay friendly pub, thebayhorsepub.co.uk Belinda ScandAl’s Show Bar 33 Sackville St, 0161 236 1311, Cabaret, Competitions and Fabulous Shows. 4
Bull’s Head Gay Friendly 84 London Rd, 0161 236 1724 5
Please email any new or updated listing to: listings@lgf.org.uk
company bar 28 Richmond St, 0161 237 9329, companybarmanchester.co.uk 7
8 Coyotes 14 Chorlton St, 0161 236 4007, pleasant two floor bar, coyotesbar.co.uk
Crunch 10 Canal St, 0161 236 0446, crunchbar.co.uk 9
10 Cruz 101 101 Princess St, 0161 950 0101, one of Manchester’s most popular nightclubs, cruz101.com 11 Eden 3 Brazil St, 0161 237 9852, food served daily, edenbar.co.uk
All information provided by venues. Please check before arrival
15 ICON Richmond St, 0161 237 3000, iconmanchester.co.uk
30 OSCARS 34 Canal St, 0161 237 9201 oscarsbarcanalstreet.co.uk
17 Manto 46 Canal St, 0161 236 2667, bar over three floors, mantobar.com
23 Overdraught Student 121 Princess St, 0161 237 0811
Mint Lounge Gay Friendly 46-50 Oldham St, 0161 228 1495, trendy bar, mintlounge.com 18 The Molly House 26 Richmond St, 0161 237 9329, bar over three floors, themollyhouse.com 16 Monroes 38 London Rd, 0161 236 0564
Napoleons 35 Bloom St, 0161 236 8800, welcomes all LGB&T customers, napoleons.co.uk 19
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13 Eagle 15 Bloom St, 0161 228 6669, open daily from 5pm till late, eaglemanchester.com
111 Princess St, 0161 228 1492, newunionhotel.com
14 G-A-Y Canal St, 0161 228 6201, lively and modern three-floor bar, g-a-y.co.uk
21 New York New York 94 Bloom St, 0161 236 6556, busy fun pub, popular with lesbians and gays of all ages.
24 Paddy’s Goose 29 Bloom St, 0161 236 1246, traditional pub. 35 Polari 28-30 Canal St, 0161 236 6523, polarimanchester.co.uk 25 Queer 4 Canal St, 0161 228 1360, queer-manchester.com 4 Rem BAR 33 Sackville St, 0161 236 1311, traditional pub, rembar.co.uk 26 Retro Bar 78 Sackville St, 0161 274 4892, retrobarmanchester.com 27 The Lodge Richmond St, 0161 237 9667 28 Taurus 1 Canal St, 0161 236 4593, taurus-bar.co.uk
Let's Do Lunch
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Meet at 2pm, 2nd Sunday of every other month in Manchester’s Gay Village. Next Meetings: 11th September and 13th November Enjoy a lazy Sunday afternoon, chill & chat over good food and a bottle of wine. For info or to reserve a place: Tel: 0781 308 3242 email: paula650@aol.com www.lesbiandiners.co.uk Thompsons Arms 23 Sackville St, 0161 228 3012 29
Tribeca Gay Friendly 50 Sackville St, 0161 236 8300, New York style lounge, tribeca-bar.co.uk 31
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Shops & Services
Eclypse Lifeline 73 Ardwick Green North, 0161 273 6686, young persons drug & alcohol support service, Mon-Fri 9-5, Thurs 9-7, fiona@eclypse-yps.org.uk
Anubis Pack BDSM group raising awareness of the pack and pup community www.anubispack.com
Kath Locke Centre 123 Moss Lane East, Hulme, 0161 455 0211, traditional & complimentary medicine Manchester Pride 5 Oak St, 0161 831 7700, manchesterpride.com MANCHESTER MIND Mental Health services, 0161 226 9907, manchestermind. org NARCOTICS ANONYMOUS LGBT Friendly group every Wed and Sat at the Joyce Layland LGBT Centre, Sidney St, 0300 999 1212 Self Help Services Zion Community Resource Centre Stretford Rd, 0161 226 3871, mental health services, selfhelpservices.org.uk
Friendly 36-38 Whitworth St, 0161 236 6864
hilton double tree One Piccadilly Place, Auburn St, 0161 242 1000, cityinn.com
Becky Johansson Counselling 07841 837029, Experienced individual and couples counsellor. M2 and SK9 locations. integrative-psychotherapy.eu
CLYDEMOUNT GUEST HOUSE 866 Hyde Rd, Debdale Park, 0161 231 1515, bookings@clydemount.co.uk, clydemount. co.uk
47 VILLAGE Off License 37-39 Bloom St, 0161 236 1788
20 The New Union HOTEL 111 Princess St, 0161 228 1492 newunionhotel.com
Central Manchester Osteopathy & Sports Therapy Friends Meeting House, 6 Mount St, 07866 705 385, help relieve your aches by looking at the bigger picture, centralmanchesterosteopathy.com 42 Clone Zone 36-38 Sackville Street, 0161 236 1398, clonezonedirect.co.uk
Counselling Services Manchester 07913 781 982, Experienced LGBT friendly woman counsellor based in Chorlton, counsellingservicesmanchester.co.uk
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Velvet 2 Canal St, 0161 236 9003, food served daily, velvetmanchester.com
The City Centre Project 52 Oldham St, 0161 228 7654 and 3309, project works with young people 16-25 yrs who’s primary disadvantage is homelessness
Men’s therapy Men’s Psychotherapist and relationship counselling, 0161 256 1890, menstherapy. co.uk
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Via 28-30 Canal St, 0161 236 6523, viamanchester.com
THE COUNSELLING PARTNERSHIP Family, couples and individual therapy, thecounsellingpartnership.com
ESSENCE COUNSELLING info@essencecounselling.org www.essencecounselling.org
View 40 Canal St, 0161 236 9033, viewbar.co.uk
The Lesbian & Gay Foundation (LGF) Number 5, Richmond St, 0845 3 30 30 30, for all your LGB information and services, lgf.org.uk
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Club Nights ALERT Fetish at Alter Ego, 0844 884 8695, 4th Friday of the month club-alert.com BACK2BACK every Thus at Cruz 101 Bear Club UK at Alter Ego, 3 Fri of the month facebook.com/bearclubuk rd
The Big Scrum Rugby/Sports Kit at Alter Ego, 1st Fri of the month, bigscrum.com BOLLOX Pop/Indie 3rd Friday of the month at Alter Ego Club HD Arch 66, Whitworth St West, gay/ mixed bar/club Fri & Sat nights CLub lash Fetish at Alter Ego, mixed fetish /SM night 2nd Fri of the month, clublash. com Countdown to the 80’s at Eagle, 0161 228 6669 #DYAO @Bed, Tribeca every month playing disco, house, electro & pop Deviant Fetish at Eagle, 0161 228 6669, FEDERATION clubfederation.com Homoelectric homoelectric.com Morning Glory at Queer, Sat nights Organic at Spirit, after hours every Sat. POP CURIOUS? @Kraak Pop night once a month, popcuriousclub@gmail.com for details POPTASTIC Pop/Indie at Alter Ego, 07974 248 247 poptastic.co.uk
Community & Health Albert Kennedy Trust 5 Oak St, Northern Quarter, 0161 228 3308, providing supported lodgings, mentoring, be-friending and information and advice to young LGBT people, contact@akt.org.uk ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS LGBT Friendly group meets 1st Fri of the month at Joyce Layland LGBT Centre, Sidney St, 0845
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Trans Resource Empowerment Cantre (TREC) Trans activities & info, transcentre.org.uk
Eateries BRASSERIE Gay Friendly Albert Sq, 0161 834 7633 CROMA Pizza and Pasta 1 Clarance St, 0161 237 9799, cromapizza.co.uk CROMA Pizza and Pasta 30 Longfield Centre, Prestwich, 0161 798 7666, cromapizza.co.uk 38 DRIP COFFEE Fourways House, 57 Hilton St, 0161 235 5100, relaxed and friendly coffee bar.
Eighth Day Vegan 111 Oxford Road, 0161 273 1850, eighthday.co.uk Lava Café Bar Castle Quay, 0161 833 2444, lavacafebar.co.uk LIVEBAIT Gay Friendly 22 Lloyd St, 0161 817 4110, livebaitmanchester.com Olive Deli 36-38 Whitworth St, 0161 236 2360 46
27 Richmond Tea Rooms Richmond St, 0161 237 9667, richmondtearooms.com 52 Sanctuary 46 Sackville St, 0161 237 5551, sanctuarymanchester.co.uk
SAPPORO Teppanyaki 91-93 Liverpool Road, 0161 831 9888, sapporo.co.uk SIDNEY STREET CAFE The Joyce Layland Centre, 49-51 Sidney St, 11am-5pm That Café 1031 Stockport Rd, 0161 432 4672, thatcafe.co.uk Villagio Canal St, 0161 244 5222, villaggiomanchester.co.uk
Hotels & B&B’s
41 Bannatynes Health Club Gay
Survivors Manchester Confidential support for male survivors of sexual abuse and rape, 07919 246 2671, survivorsmanchester.org.uk
32 Vanilla 39-41 Richmond St, 0161 657 8890, vanillagirls.co.uk
UPPERCUTS BARBERS The Arndale Market
Funky Crop Shop 37 Bloom St, 0161 237 1032, village hair shop 44 Gayter Hairdressing 57 Hilton St, 0161 236 1128, hair salon, gayterhairdressing.com
HANA K PLUMBING friendly female plumber, 0161 408 4605 or 07588 249 229, hanakplumbing.co.uk, Helen smith FUNERALS Ceremonies funerals that are individual fitting and true,0161 881 9568 or 07870 541 668, helensmithfunerals.co.uk Into-Latex 0161 336 8723, for all your rubber gear, into-latex.co.uk 45 NICE ‘N’ NAUGHTY 39 Bloom Street, 0161 228 0020
52 LeVille Hotel 38-42 Canal St, 0161 937 1400, levillehotel.com 34 Velvet Hotel 2 Canal St, 0161 236 9003, velvetmanchester.com
Saunas 50 H2O Sauna 36-38 Sackville St, seven day sauna for gay and bi men, 0161 236 3876, h2osauna.co.uk 51 The Basement Complex 18 Tariff St, seven day sauna for gay and bi men, 0161 236 8131, basementcomplex.co.uk
Agencies 42nd St The SPACE, 87-91 Great Ancoats St, advice for young LGB’s, 0161 832 0170, fortysecondstreet.org.uk Addaction 31 Robert St, Prison resettlement for people with drug problems, 0161 214 0770, addaction.org Addiction Dependency Solutions 29a Ardwick Green North, for people with drug problems (or their freinds and family), 0161 272 8844, adsolutions.org.uk Barnardo’s Health Through Action The Progress Centre, Charlton Place, Ardwick Green, 0161 273 2901 BARNArDO’S MANCHESTER LEAVING CARE SERVICES 36 Monton Street, 0161 226 6722, barnardos.org.uk The BHA Stretford Rd, health, social care & advocay services for BME & other marginalised communities, 0845 450 4247, thebha.org.uk
PAMELA UNSWORTH PERSONAL TRAINER Home, gym or outdoor bootcamp training, 07710 572 283, pamela@bodyofbrilliance.co.uk
CENTRAL MANCHESTER WOMEN’S AID confidential accomodation & support services to lesbians experiencing samesex partner abuse, 0161 273 4366, info@ cmwomensaid.org.uk
Pants 3rd Floor, Aflecks Palace, 07816276925, men’s designer underwear store, pantshq.com
Community Alcohol Team 0161 234 5055, manchestercat.org
Pink Counselling gay male Therapeutic Counsellor working in Didsbury & Altrincham, Roger: 07506 924 801 Pro-Balance health gay friendly personal training gym in the City Centre, 0161 833 4777, pro-balance.co.uk 47 Pure Tanning 37-39 Bloom St, 0161 236 1788 48 ROB 17 China Ln, for all your leather, rubber and twisted gear, 0161 236 6222, rob.eu
Spa Satori 112 High St, holistic health & beauty spa, 0161 819 2465, spasatori.co.uk
Community Arts North West 46-50 Oldham St, 0161 234 2975 can.uk.com turning Point The Exchange, 3 New York St, mental health support & short term crisis accomodation, 0161 238 5100, turning-point. co.uk George House Trust supporting people living with or affected by HIV in the North West, 77 Ardwick Green North, 0161 274 4499, ght.org.uk Gregory’s Place 69 Ardwick Green North, support for children and young people with HIV, 0161 273 2901, gregorysplace@barnardos.org.uk
THE SISTERS OF PERPETUAL INDULGENCE Offers fund-raising, performs camp housewarmings, memorials etc sister-jacquimoff@hotmail.co.uk for details
Lifeline 101-103 Oldham St, 0161 200 5486, lifeline.org.uk
Therapy In Manchester Professional psychotherapy and counselling in south Manchester, 07592 340 211, therapyinmanchester.co.uk
Manchester Drug Service The Bridge, 104 Fairfield Street, 0161 273 4040
Please note all listings information is provided by third parties. The LGF can accept no responsibility for the quality of the services/groups listed
Lifeshare male sex workers advice, 0161 235 0744, lifeshare.co.uk
Manchester Rainbow support & Homecare providing care and support to adults in their own homes and
Greater Manchester Agencies Continued communities, 0161 720 6369, m-r-s-h. co.uk Stop Smoking Service 0161 205 5998, stopsmokingmanchester.co.uk Pankhurst Centre 60-62 Nelson Street, Chorlton-on-Medlock, 0161 273 5673, thepankhurstcentre.org.uk St. Mary’s sexual assault Centre New St. Mary’s Hospital, Hathersage Road, sexual assault referral centre, 0161 276 6515, stmaryscentre.org
GOLD GROUP Support group for LGB&T adults with learning disabilities. Meets monthly at The LGF. For more information call Jane on 07708 564 697
LGB&T led christian church, 0161 881 6050, mccmanchester.co.uk
House of Rainbow meets at the LGF, LGBTI friendly Christian fellowship Welcomes people struggling with their sexuality and belief. Meets 1st Tuesday of the month, 07751 693708
MORF at The LGF, social & support for transguys 4th Mon of the month, 0794 824 3289, morf@morf.org.uk, morf.org.uk
Icebreakers gay & bi men's support group meets 8pm every Wedn at The LGF, 0845 3 30 30 30, icebreakersmanchester. org.uk
St Vincent’s Housing Association 0161 772 2120, svha.co.uk
Imaan at The LGF, For LGBT Muslim’s 1st Friday/mnth 7.30-9.30pm, 0845 3 30 30 30, imaan.org.uk
THE COUNSELLING PARTNERSHIP family, couples and individual therapy, thecounsellingpartnership.com
Inner Enigma 0845 838 1264, trans and intersex support and advice, info@innerenigma.co.uk
ThE Manchester Foyer 61 Booth St West, Hulme, supported accomodation for young people 16-25’s, 0161 276 1000, svha.co.uk
KESHET Advocacy, education and support service for jewish LGBT, 07906700114, info@ keshetmanchester.org.uk
SALFORD CITY Citizen Advice Bureau 25a Hankinson Way, Salford Precinct, employment services for LGB&T people, 0161 834 2005, salfordcab.org.uk
Lesbian and Gay Youth Manchester (LGYM) LGBT Centre, 49-51 Sidney St, young LGBT people aged 14-25, Tues 7.30-10pm, Sat 3-7pm, 0790 0680725, lgbtyouthnorthwest.org.uk
Clinics North Manchester sexual health clinic Delaunays Rd, Crumpsall, 0161 720 2681 North Manchester Hospital Same day HIV test clinic Tues mornings and Thurs evenings , 0161 720 2845 outreach Clinic at the LGF and 4 other locations, Tuesdays, no appointment needed, if presenting symptoms, please go straight to a GUM clinic, 0845 3 30 30 30, lgf.org.uk/testing Rapid HIV Testing at the LGF Weds 122pm, no appointment needed (last test 1.30pm) results in 30 mins, if presenting symptoms, please go straight to a GUM clinic, 0845 3 30 30 30, lgf.org.uk/testing Rusholme Health Centre Walmer Street, 0161 225 6699 South Manchester Sexual Health Clinic Withington Hospital, 0161 217 4939 the hathersage centre 280 Upper Brook St, 0161 276 5200 / 5212
Groups THE ART CLASS a mixed group for LGB and T people of all abilities. Equipment provided. Meets 2nd and 4th Monday of the month 7pm-9pm at the LGF, 0845 3 30 30 30 BiPhoria bisexual support 18+, meets 1st Tue of the month, 07941 811 124, biphoria. org.uk CAROUSEL social support group for lesbian/bisexual women meets 1st and 3rd Tuesday of the month 7.30-9pm at the LGF, 0845 3 30 30 30 Edward carpenter community Heart Circles 1st Sunday of the month, 3pm 49-51 Sidney Street, edwardcarpentercommunity.org.uk/ local-groups friends of sackville gardens Meets monthly to plan improvements, maintenance and new planting in Sackville Gardens, 0845 3 30 30 30, Gaydio info@gaydio.co.uk Gay in the uk Refugee Action, 23-37 Edge Street, LGBT social group for refugees & asylum seekers, 1st Tue of the month 6pm, 07824 473 479, refugee-action.org.uk Gay Naturist SWIM all ages, nude_n_manchester@yahoo.co.uk
lesbian Culture Club Over the village but not over the hill? Monthly cultural socials for like minded women lesbiancultureclub@hotmail.co.uk Let’s Do Lunch lesbian diners every other month, 07813 083 242, paulad650@ aol.com lesbiandiners.co.uk LGBT DISABLED PEOPLE’S ADVISORY AND SOCIAL INCLUSION GROUP Meetings held each month, for more information contact regem12@yahoo.co.uk LIK:T 49-51 Sydney St, run by and for young lesbian & bisexual women. Meets alternate Tue of the month, 07813 981 338, likt_info@ yahoo.co.uk Manchester gay Christians manchestergaychristians.org Manchester Concord transgender Social group every Wed 7pm Villagio upstairs bar, (changing room available), mary@manchesterconcord. org.uk The Manchester counsellors & Psychotheripists Reading Group Two reading groups running sep-dec. Meets regularly on Fridays (limited spaces) from 6:30-8:30pm for more information and dates please contact, 07592 340 211, paul.melia@ therapyinmanchester.co.uk Manchester Deaf Triangle Club group for deaf LGB, triangle@ manchesterdeafcentre.com manchestertriangleclub.co.uk Manchester gay skinheads oi-skinhead.com Manchester Feminist Network Women only group, meets 2nd Sat of the month 2-4pm at Friends Meeting House, manchesterfeministnetwork@riseup.net Manchester Lesbian & Gay Chorus 07944 056 047, mlgc.org.uk
MMU LGBT mmulgbt@live.co.uk
New Family Social Meeting monthly in South Manchester. For more info go to newfamilysocial.org.uk Out In The City Social group for over 50’s LGBT. Drop in Weds at Mount St, activities every Thurs. outinthecity05.webs.com out to the theatre , gay men’s social group, nigeladams@talk21.com OLDER & BOLDER A social and support group for gay/bi men over 40. Meets 2nd and 4th Thur of the month 7:30pm-9pm at the LGF Proud 2 b Parents for LGB&T parents and their children every 4th Saturday, 0161 226 0162 or 07506 515932, m.roberts4@ manchester.gov.uk queer skinhead brotherhood queerskinbrotherhood@googlemail.com Queer Youth Manchester 07092 031 086, info@queeryouth.net , queeryouth.org.uk Rainbow Families peer support & monthly social for current & prospective lesbian parents and their children, 07903 397 108, rainbow_families@hotmail.com, rainbowfamilies-manchester.co.uk RAINBOW NOIR LGBTQ black & minority ethnic social/activist group. Meets fortnightly Thu at The Joyce Layland LGBT Centre, 49-51 Sidney st. Call 07725 581 945, rainbownoirmcr@gmail.com
CANALSIDERS UK LGBT Amateur Rugby League club. For more information or to get involved email info@canalsiders.co.uk, canalsiders.co.uk Gay gordons manchester Scottish Country and Ceilidh Dancing and classes gay-gordons-manchester.co.uk GAY OUTDOOR GROUP transpennine walking group, 07855 197 607, goc.org.uk Ghap badminton ghapbadminton.org.uk MANCHESTER BADMINTON CLUB Badminton club for the less experienced player, 07939 477 026 Manchester Front Runners LGF Box 106, Number 5, Richmond Street, M1 3HF, running club catering for all abilities, meets every Thurs in the city centre, 07813 336 445, manchesterfrontrunners.org Manchester jessies Lesbian & bisexual women’s walking group, meets twice monthly manchesterjessies@googlemail.com MANCHESTER PRAIRIE DOGS line dance sessions, every Tue 7.30-10 at Thompson’s Arms, 07960 351 882, manchesterprairiedogs.co.uk Manchester SHARKS Miles Platting Pool, Varley Street, water polo club manchestersharks.co.uk Manchester Stingers WFC Womens football club for all abilities, manchesterstingers.co.uk manchester walking women its.elly@yahoo.co.uk
Rapture play day For LGBT parents and kids, 3.30-5.30, search facebook
Marlin swimming group Levenshulme Swimming Pool, Barlow Rd, trans swimming group, swim@marlin.org.uk, marlin.org.uk
salford youth service lgbt youth group at The Base, 0161 778 0700, chris.rice@salford.gov.uk
NETBALL women only group with weekly coaching, training every Mon 8-10pm, 07939 477 026
SM Dykes 49-51 Sidney Street, 07952 237 526, smdykes@smdykes.org.uk, smdykes.org.uk
NORTHERN ACES TENNIS GROUP Social tennis club for all abilities, including beginners hour and women’s hour taster sessions, northernacestennis.com
STEPPING STONES A support group for lesbian and bisexual women meets 2nd & 4th Tue 7.30-9pm, 0845 3 30 30 30 Transforum Ninian’s Church, Wilbraham Rd, Chorlton, TransGender discussion & mutual support group, meets 4th Sat of the month 3.30pm, 07500 741 955, transforum.org.uk VADA LGBT community theatre group drama workshops & performances, all welcome, vada.theatre@gmail.com VILLAGE BAKERS LGBT Baking Social group. Meets every 2nd Sun of the month at 1pm. details can be found at Facebook.com/villagebakers and Twitter @ villagebakers, villagebakersmanchester@ gmail.com WOMEN’S CORNERHOUSE FILM GROUP Informal social group for l&b women. Meets 6pm on 1st Sat of month at Cornerhouse, rachelm.cross@btinternet.com
Manchester Parents Group 0845 652 2674, meets at the LGF, support for parents of LGB children, manpg.co.uk
women’s domestic violence Refuge: 0161 861 8428, Helpline: 0161 636 7525, support and advice to women and children experiencing domestic violence, wdachoices.org.uk
Manchester Rubbermen social group for gay men into rubber/latex fetish, manchesterrubber.co.uk
UMSU LGBT Society student group, for social events, campagins, drop-ins and support, enquiries@lgbt.manchester.ac.uk
Mango Men’s dining club 07866 909 677, 1st Thursday of the month, mango.news@btopenworld.com
Sports Groups
Metropolitan Community Church United Reformed Church, Wilbraham Rd,
absolutelydancing.org.uk
Absolutely DANCING Trinity High School every Wed 8pm-10pm, latin and ballroom lessons for the LGB&T community, absolutelydancingmanchester@hotmail.com,
NORTHERN FLIGHT BADMINTON CLUB For experienced players, northernflight.org.uk northern jump volleyball group, G/L/T/ TV meets weekly. All ages & abilities welcome, 07783 297 965, northernjump. org NORTHERN Rebound LGBT squash club for all abilities. At the National Squash centre Wed & Fri & hold regular tournaments, northernrebound.org north Manchester LGBT Corner Safe new social web space for people of diverse sexualities, identities & lifestyles to come together, share thoughts & make new friends, nmlgbtcorner@hotmail.co.uk Northern Wave swimming club swimming for all, 0161 872 1990, northernwave.org OPEN ATHLETICS Trains on Weds, 5K every 1st Sun. 07709 000 436, openathletics.org OUTDOORLADS 0161 420 0001,outdoor pursuits org aimed at gay and bi lads. Climbing, hiking, camping, caving and more, all abilities welcome, outdoorlads.com PEAK RUFTIES Lesbian walking group, holds longer walks in the Peak District, peakrufties. webs.com Slam Dunkin’ Divas basketball group for lesbian/bi/trans women, Tue eve, 07769 691 360, slamdunkindivas@gmail.com, slamdunkindivas.co.uk
Village Manchester FC gay men’s football club for every level, vmfc.co.uk Village Spartans Rugby Training sessions on Wed evening from 7pm, villagespartans.co.uk WEEKENDERS lesbian and gay walking group based in the North of England, geocities.com/weekenders_uk wheelies fc Manchester Leisure Sports Centre, mixed women’s football every Sun 11am-1pm. WOMEN TRI SPORTS Range of sports every Sat 12-1:30pm at Our Lady’s Sport Centre, Blackly, call Amelia on 07813 981 338
BoLtOn pubs, clubs & bars
Carbon Bar Gay friendly, 01204 776 325
The Star 11 Bow St, 01204 361 113
club NightS
Twisted tuesdays J2 & The Attic Sq
aGENCIES & CLINICs
Bolton Centre for Sexual Health Minerva Rd, Farnworth, 01204 390 771 Positive Bolton People Royal Bolton Hospital, HIV worker Emma Massey, 01204 390772 MENTAL HEALTH independent support (MhIST) Hanover Str Bolton, 01204 527200, mhist.co.uk The Parallel 9A Churchgate, 01204 462 444, theparallel@bolton.nhs.uk
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Loud & Proud LGBT Youth 07824 541211 or 07918 913937, Meets Wednesdays 5.30 - 8. For 13-19 yr olds, boltonlgbtyouth@bolton.gov.uk OCTAGON BASIC using theatre and drama techniques to advocate and celebrate the LGBT community, ages 16-25, contact helen. barnes@octagonbolton.co.uk for more information
shops
Nice n Naughty rear of 72 Newport St, 01204 396 944, nicennaughty.co.uk DEE SELECTA 20 Cawdor Street, deeselecta.co.uk
bUrY aGENCIES & CLINICs Connexions 13-15 Broad St, safe environment for young LGBTQ people to meet, 0161 253 7733, connexions-bury. org.uk Manchester Rainbow support & Homecare providing care and support to adults in their own homes and communities, 0161 720 6369, m-r-s-h. co.uk LGB&T police liaison officers North Bury - kevin.day@gmp.police.uk South Bury - andrew.hall@gmp.police.uk Bury sexual health Services Townside Primary Care Centre, 0161 762 1588, buryccg.nhs.uk YPAS Bury Townside Primary Care Centre, 0161 762 1588, buryccg.nhs.uk
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Connexions, 13-15 Broad St, Bury, safe enviroment for young LGBTQ people to meet alt Mondays, connexions-bury.org.uk The Rainbow house project LGBT community group based in Bury providing information and advice to LGBT people. Hold a weekly coffee morning with guest speakers, therainbowhouseproject.org.uk
SaUNaS
signpostforcarers.org.uk
aGENCIES & CLINICs
People Like Us (PLUS) LGBT Social support group, 2nd Wed of the month at The Arden Arms, 7.30pm, stockportplus.org
Brook Advisory 3 Derby Road, Weaste, 0161 622 9848, brook.org.uk eccles gateway 28 Barton Lane, 0161 212 5717, Thu 6-8.30pm, drop in
PLUS Exercise Group (PEG) arranges monthly walks in the Stockport area, 07880 746 079 PLUS Reading Group 07880 746079
NERO’S ROMAN SPA Whitelegge st, Toddington Rd, 0161 763 7440, nerosonline.co.uk
higher broughton health centre Bevendon Square, Wed 6-8.30, Fri 9.3011.30 drop in, 0161 212 4500
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irlam medical centre MacDonald Rd, Wed 6-8.30pm drop in, 0161 212 5400
Queen Inn 37 Oldham Rd, Ashton-under-Lyne, gay friendly, 0161 339 8145
Goodman Sexual Health Clinic Lancs Burn Health Centre, Churchill Way, Appt only: Mon 9-11.30am, 1-4.30pm, 6-9.30pm, Tue 9-11.30am, Wed 1-4.30pm, Thurs 9-11.30am & 1-4.30pm, Fri 9-11.30am. DROP IN: Tue 2-4.30pm & 6-8.30pm, 0161 212 5720
CLINICs
Timeless Funeral Services 265 - 267 Dumers Ln, Radcliffe, 0161 959 0108
ChOrlTon pubs, clubs & bars
THE NIP & TIPPLE 197 Upper Chorlton Road, 0161 860 7330, nipandtipple.com Rapture Club Nights The Chorlton Irish Club, 17 High Ln. Women centred but all invited - 7.15 until LATE, raptureclubnight.co.uk
EaTERIES
CROMA Pizza and Pasta 500 Wilbraham Road, 0161 881 1117, cromapizza.co.uk The Lead Station 99 Beech Road, 0161 881 5559, theleadstation.co.uk
Manchester Rainbow support & Homecare providing care and support to adults in their own homes and communities, 0161 720 6369, m-r-s-h. co.uk starting Out Project Salford City Council’s young LGBT tenancy support service, Neil 07766 550 264 / 0161 607 1620, neil.cochrane@salford.gov.uk
pubs, clubs & bars
Sexual Health Clinic Ashton Primary Care Centre, 193 Old Street, Ashton-under-Lyne, 0161 342 7101 Outloud Diane King: 0161 368 0076, Tameside youth service 11-19 youth group.
GROUPS
lgbt group Tameside Young Peoples Centre, Duke Street, 0161 336 6615
trAfFoRd CLINICs
The Trafford Centre for Sexual Health Trafford Hospital, Moorside Rd, 0161 746 2621
shops
swinton clinic 139 Partington Lane, 0161 212 5100, Mon 2-4.30pm, Tue 6-8.30pm, Fri 2-4.30pm drop in, 0161 212 5100
Relate 346 Chester Rd, 0161 872 0303, relategms.co.uk
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WALKDEN gateway 2 Smith Street, Mon 6-8.30pm, Tue 2-4.30pm drop in, 0161 212 5717
Jamie Burnie Counselling/ Psychotherapy, 07590 926 009
PUBS, CLUBS & BaRS
Groups
Pad Gift Shop 105 Manchester Road, 0161 881 0088, pad-chorlton.co.uk
The Brewery Tavern 42 George Street, 0161 287 0751
THE ABBEY INN Mixed 77 West St, 0161 652 2226
CLINICs
Sexual Health Oldham Oldham Integrated Care Centre, 5th floor, New Radcliffe Street, 0300 303 8565
SaUNaS
Pennine Sauna 96 Rochdale Rd, 01706 842 000
GROUPS
OLDHAM LGBT FORUM LGBT Events groups that helps run Oldham Pride. to get involved email oldhamlgbtforum@oldham. gov.uk OUT IN OLDHAM Youth group for young (13 to 21 year old) LGBTQ people, 0161 770 8648 OUT AND ABOUT Social group for the older LGBT community, 0161 633 0213 pink triangle theatre St Cuthberts House, Tanners Fold, 07932 928 134 pinktriangletheatre.co.uk
ROcHdAlE CLINICS
Sexual Health Improvement Service 1-to-1 support for young people, 01706 261 954 Specialist Health PROMOTION UNIT 01706 517 613
Bury Anti-homophobic bullying group 0161 253 5884
THE BRIDGE SEXUAL HEALTH CLINIC Baillie Street, 0161 627 8753
bury lgbt networking group residents and service providers improving the LGBRT profile in our town, burylgbtnetworking@live.co.uk
GROUPS
bury Council lgbt employee group 0161 253 6625, lgbt@bury.gov.uk
LGBTq Wellbeing Group 3-11 Drake St, Promoting postive mental health and wellbeing for all, 07896146109, rochdalemind.org.uk
POG (Proud of Gayness) 0161 253 7733,
SaLfOrD
church group meets at the Inspiration Ministries Christian Spiritualist Community and healing Centre, 07906 795 712
Out in Salford meeting regularly in Salford to socialise and looks at ways of improving LGB&T life in the city, outinsalford.org.uk SALFORD LGBT YOUTH Group The Beacon Centre, 1 London Street, safe space for young LGBT people - loads of different activities, 0161 788 0702, chris.rice@ salford.gov.uk
sTOcKpOrT PUBS, CLUBS & BaRS
ARDEN ARMS 23 Millgate, 0161 480 2185, ardenarms.com
CLINICs
stepping hill gum Stepping Hill Hospital, 0161 419 5370 Stockport Council HIV Social Care Team HIV social care service for people with HIV and their carers, 0161 474 3636, hiv.service@stockport.gov.uk
aGENCIES
Age uk 56 Wellington St, 0161 480 1211, ageuk. org.uk Central Youth ADVICE AND INFO 1 St Peters Sq, counselling and sexual health services for young people up to 25, 0161 426 9696, centralyouth.org.uk RELATE Relationship counciling, 0161 442 2443, relategms.co.uk
SOLICITORS
B. J. McKENNA & CO 182A Heaton Moor Road, Heaton Moor, 0161 432 5757, bjmckenna-solicitors.co.uk O’Neill Patient Solicitors Chester House, 2 Chester Rd, Hazel Grove, 0161 483 8555, oneillpatient.co.uk
GROUPS
Carers’ voice A forum for carers based in or visiting relatives in Stockport, meets every two months - for more details contact glenys@signpostforcarers.org.uk,
aGENCIES & Services
CITIZENS ADVICE, 0844 644019
GROUPS No! Attitude LGB youth group, 0161 912 2453 STRETFORD HIVE Community hub with LGBT advice, Stretford Mall, Unit 47/48
WIGan CLINICs
Sexual Health Clinic The Shine Centre, No 6, Galleries Shopping Centre, 01942 483188 LEIGH CENTRE FOR SEXUAL HEALTH Leigh Health Centre Ent. C, The Avenue, 01942 483188
aGENCIES
Age UK 68 Market St, help, advice & support for over 50’s, 01942 241972
GROUPS
B.you project 01942 203 363, for LGBTQ young people (11-25), b.youproject@wigan. gov.uk Open Minds Group 07759 352 974, group for 18-25yr old LGBTQ, openmindslgbt@gmail. com brook LGBQ support Group 8 Ashton Gallery, for under 19’s, Tues 6-8pm, 01942 483 180, louise@brookwiganandleigh.org.uk Wigan LGB Social Group Gay and Bi-sexual Men and Womens social group wchristopherdavid@rocketmail.com
wYtHenShAwE aGENCIES
New Start Trust Alderman Downward House, 0161 498 0615, drug advice and support
GroupS LGBT YOUTH GROUP youth group for ages 13-25 07762740133 or cliodhna@lgbtynw.org.uk
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Hotels Blackpool Accommodation for Gays (BAGs) 56 High Street, 07762938783, bagsblackpool.com 1 Anchorage 18 Withnell Road, 01253 341771
Ash Lea Hotel 76 Lord Street, 01253 628161, ashleahotel.com 2
Astor Hotel 83-85 Lord Street, 01253 290669 3
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Athol 3 Mount St 01253 624918
BENTLEYS OF BLACKPOOL 55-57 Banks Street, 01253 622 814 5 Belvedere 77 Dickson Road, 01253 624733, belvederehotel@fsmail.net belvederehotel.biz
BLENHEIM HOTEL 75 Lord Street, 01253 623204, blenheimhotel.org.uk 6
bracondale Guest House 14 Warley Road, 01253 351650, nosmokingblackpool.co.uk 64
61 bradbury HOTEL 25/27 Banks St, 01253 624972, bradburyhotel@hotmail.co.uk bradburyhotel.co.uk 7
Brene Hotel 37 Lord St, 01253 621854
Brooklyn 7 Wilton Parade, 01253 627003 8
Brownes hotel 15 Vance Rd, 01253 753089 browneshotel.co.uk 61
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Camelot 80 Hornby Rd, 01253 620518
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CHaps 9 Cocker St, 01253 620541
Christine’s 1 Lord Street, 01235 312260, christineshotel@fsmail.net 11
Cumforth Hotel 24 Springfield Rd, 01253 626133, cumforth-hotel-blackpool.co.uk 12
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DERBY HOTEL, 2 Derby Rd, 01253 623708
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Dixon 84 Dickson Rd, 01253 752379
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FOUR SEASONS 74 Lord St, 01253 622583
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62 Granby lodge 15-17 Lord St, 01253 627842, granbylodge.com 19
Guyz 16 Lord Street, 01253 622488
20 Heatherdale Lodge 2 Pleasant Street, 1253 626268
Homecliffe Hotel 5-6 Wilton Parade, 01253 625147 homecliffehotel.com 21 HOTEL Bacchus 326 Queens Promenade, 01253 350387, hotelbacchus.co.uk
HOTEL NEVADA 23 Lord Street, 01253 290700, gaybeds.co.uk 22
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Park House 81 Lord St, 01253 314571
PHOENIX 12 Cocker Street, 01253 299130, phoenixblackpool.com 39
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Pier View 16 Banks St, 01253 624555
41 PRIDE LODGE 12 High Street, 01253 314752, pridelodge.com 42 Rubens Hotel 39 Lord Street, 01253 622920 43 Sandylands 47 Banks St, 01253 294670
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Legends Hotel 45 Lord Street, 01253 620300 Lenbrook 69 Lord St, 01253 626737
25 Bay liberty's on the square Hotel Cocker Square, 01253 291155 bayhotels.co.uk
Lonsdale Hotel 25 Cocker Street, 01253 621628 26
Lyndale Court Hotel 01253 354033 27
Lynmar 74 High St, 01253 290046
31 Merecliff Hotel 24 Holmfield Road, 01253 356858
MOUNT PLEASANT 75 Dickson Road, 01253 620362, mountpleasanthotel.com 32
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New Bond 72 Lord St, 01253 628123
34 New Hertford 18 Lord Street, 01253 621831
North Central Hoilday Flats 29 Lord Street, 01253 621831
18 Grampian House 4 Pleasant Street, 01253 291648, info-onw@grampianhouse.com
36 NORTHERN LIGHTS HOTEL 26 Springfield Road, 01253 317016
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Woodleigh 11 Yates St, 01253 624997
Worcester House 22 Cocker Street, 01253 620007 60
Pubs, Bars & Clubs 1
Buzz 5 Dickson Road, 01253 649153,
46 Sunnyside 16 Charles Street, 01253 622983
2 Funny Girls Gay Friendly 5 Dickson Rd, 01253 649154, funnygirlsonline.co.uk
47 SUSSEX HOTEL 14-16 Pleasant Street, 01253 627824
3 KAOS Mixed 38-42 Queen St, 01253 318798, kaosbar.co.uk
THE Berkeley 6 Queens Promenade, 01253 351244 selfcatering.tv
8 Lucy’s at TABOO Mixed 69-71 Talbot Road, 01253 622573, lucysattobago.co.uk
48 THE GYNWAY HOTEL 205 Dickson Rd, 01253 314747, gynwayblackpool.com
5 Mardi Gras Mixed 114 Talbot Road, 01253 296262, mardigrasblackpool.com
Thorncliffe 63 Dickson Road, 01253 622508
30 McHALL’S HOTEL 5-7 Lord Street, 01253 625661
58 Windsor House 47-49 Dickson Road, 01253 206 206, windsorhouse.info
Taboo Bar 23 Dickson Rd, 07946 528153
Mardi Gras 2 9-11 Lord Street, 01253 628073, mardigras2.co.uk Manhattan 27 Cocker St, 01253 290070, manhattanblackpool.co.uk
57 WILLOWFIELD GUESTHOUSE 51 Banks Street, 01253 623406, willowfield-guesthouse.co.uk
THE Seacroft 27 Lord Street, 01253 628304
49 The Wilcot Hotel 80 Lord Street, 01253 621101
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WESTBOURNE HOUSE HOTEL 21 Vance Road, 01253 624734, westbourneblackpool.co.uk
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29 Mardi Gras 41 Lord St, 01253 751087, mardigrashotel.co.uk
Gabrielle’s Women Only 77 Lord Street, 01253 295565 17
63 north grange hotel 238 Queens Promenade, 01253 351409, northgrangehotel.com
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51 Trades Men Only 51 Lord Street, 01253 626401
VALENTINE HOTEL 35 Dickson Road, 01253 622775, valentinehotelblackpool.co.uk 52
VIDELLA HOTEL 78-82 Dickson Road, 01253 621201, videllahotel.com 53
Village Hotel 14 Springfield Road, 01253 290840 54
55 warwick Holiday flats 39 Bank Street, 01253 623787, warwickflats. co.uk
Waves Hotel 12 Wilshaw Rd, 01253 593312, john@wavesblackpool.co.uk Westfield House 78 Lord Street, 01253 621992, westfieldhouse.co.uk 56
New Road Inn Gay Friendly 244 Talbot Road, 01253 422691 7 ROXY’S Gay Friendly 23 Queen Street, 01253 622573, roxysonline.co.uk 9 The Alabama Showboat Mixed 1 Cocker Sq, 01253 291155, thealabama.co.uk
THE DUKE OF YORK Dickson Road, 01253 625218, traditional pub and live entertainment. 10 The Flamingo NIGHTCLUB Mixed 44 Queen St, 01253 649151, flamingoonline.co.uk 11 The Flying Handbag Mixed 44 Queen Street, 01253 649155, flyinghandbagonline.co.uk
Eateries 12 AJ’s Bistro Gay Friendly 65 Topping Street, 01253 626111 14
Buddies Chippy 28 Dickson Street
53 Cascades Restaurant Gay Owned 82 Dickson Road, 01253 62120, cascadesrestaurant.co.uk
Don Antonio 91 Redbank Rd, 01253 352440
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33 Paul’s 5 General St, 01253 290928 unisex hairdresser. 34 Perfect Fit Alterations 42 Topping Street, 01253 290156
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Mandarin Cantonese Restaurant Gay Friendly 27 Clifton Street, 01253 622687
Slick Gardens 0796 8329464, Gay run gardening business, facebook.com/slickgardens
17 Nite Bites Gay Friendly 50a Dickson Road, 01253 627976
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PUBS, CLUBS & BarS
cumbria police hate crime reporting line 0845 33 00 247 cumbria.police.uk
Outrageous 77-79 English Street, 01228 593745, outrageouscarlisle.com
SMILE SPA AT HELIO FITNESS Newton Drive, 01253 393909
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REGENCY CARLISLE 6-8 Fisher Street, 01228 267 247, regencycarlisle.com
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SLICES SANDWICH HOUSE Gay Owned 10 King Street, 01253 751441
THE GARDEN PLACE Gay Owned Cropper Road, 01253 699987
Chapel House Kirkstone Road, 01539 433 143, chapelhouse-ambleside.co.uk
The Buttery 1 Cheapside, 01253 296667
Waxing Specialist & Male Grooming Cleveleys, 07950 944460 kt.lamb@live.co.uk
Chestnut Villa Keswick Road, Grassmere 01539 435 218, gay run B&B, chestnutvilla.com
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Truffles Steak House Gay Friendly 51-53 Topping Street, 01253 294804 20
West Coast Rock Cafe Gay Friendly 5-7 Abingdon Street, 01253 751283 21
Anton’s Cafe-bar Gay Owned 9 Park Rd, Lytham St Annes FY8 1QX 01253 724721
Saunas 22 ACQUA SAUNA CLUB 25-26 Springfield Road, 01253 294610, acquasaunas.com 24 WET WET WET SAUNA 1-3 Charles Street, 01253 751 199, wetwetwetsauna.co.uk
LIQUID SAUNA 22-24 General Street, www.liquidsauna.co.uk
Clinics & Agencies 25 Body Positive BLACKPOOL 23 South King Street, 01253 292803, info@bodypositiveblackpool.org
City Learning Centre Bathhurst St, 01253 478 309, clcbusiness.com Connect 01253 751047, connectyoungpeople.co.uk also runs a counselling service, by appointment only Tue 11:30am-13:15pm call 01253 655 858 26
Connexions 2-8 Market Street, 01253 754840, connexions-direct.com 27
HIV Nursing Team 150/158 Whitegate Health Centre, 01253 657171 NHS Walk-In Centre Whitegate Health Centre, 150 Whitegate Dr, 01253 953953 richmond fellowshiP/NEXUS 07876 568260 or 01253 629400, Metal Health support to aid recovery for LGB&T people. Blackpool Locality Office, 2nd floor, Winstone House, 199 Church Street, nexus@richmondfellowship.org.uk Sexual Health Clinic 150/158 Whitegate Health Centre, 01253 657171 30 SHIVER (Sexual Health HIV Education & Responses Drugline Lancashire Ltd) The Corner House, 102 Dickson Road, 01253 311 431
Solicitors 31 Atkinson, Cave & Stuart 45 Springfield Road, 01253 293151
Shops & Services 32 Daran Hairdressing Gay Owned 10 Edward St, 01253 441000 darans.co.uk
Evolution Hair Studio Gay Owned 255 Dickson Road
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Sticky Bits cafe community cafe at LGBT HQ, Fisher Street 10am-8pm
SaUNaS
Sweat Sauna Club Atlas House, Nelson St.
KenDal
25/55 Icebreakers 07875 355 390, gay and bi men 22-25. Meets last Tues of the month, 7-9pm.
sexual health clinic Furness General Hospital, Dalton Lane, phone appts only, 01229 404 464
Sexual Health Clinic Westmoorland General Hospital, Burton Rd, 01539 716 706
55+ older men’s Luncheon Club 07875 355 390, meets Thurs 12.30pm for light lunch and chat.
aGENCIES
aGENCIES
Blackpool Freinds of Dorothy 07985606802, LGBTQ Social Group for nonscene people who may feel isolated. Thurs 5.30pm except 2nd Thurs of month, Spencer Court Community Centre. secretary@ blackpoolfriendsofdorothy.co.uk engayge 01253 477911, Blackpool Coastal Housing’s LGBT Tenants Forum. 5.30pm 2nd Tues/mnth @ 102 Dickson Rd sandy.o’grady@bch.co.uk Freedom 07875 355 390, Transgender support group 11-2pm. meets at Renaissance Dickson Rd. Call for more info. HIV/HEP C support group 07875 355 390, call for details. Lancashire Lad’s group (trans f to m) 07875 355390, meets 7-9pm 2nd Tues of the month for chat and support. Aldeane8@gmail.com lgbt forum 07875 355 390, Informal meeting between LGB&T communities & local agencies. Meets: Town Hall every 2nd Thurs monthly at 6.30pm. lgbtforum@hotmail.com LGBT PACT (Police & Community together) 07940979610, police and community meetings 1st Thurs of the month. Liberty Church North Shore Methodist, Dickson Rd, 07955 597771, libertychurchblackpool.org.uk LGB&T EMOTIONAL WELLNESS/ WELLBEING DROP-IN 16-25 year olds experiencing emotional distress. By appointment only call 01253 655 858 Ok2be 07827983392, support service for young people up to 19 years of age, amanda.hayes@blackpool.gov.uk Relaxation group 01253 311431 at SHIVER Sugar Lounge 07875 355390, gay & bi women’s group meet 7-9pm 1st Tues of the month The Renaissance Transgender Support Group 01253314717,meetings twice monthly, gynwayblackpool.com/ renaissance_transgender_forum.htm Transgender Freedom Group On the 2nd, 3rd and 4th Monday of the month 12-2pm and 1st Wednesday 6-8pm 01253629400 transgenderblackpool.com Transinclusion group (M2F) 7-9pm 3rd Tues of the month for an informal chat, 07875 355 390 WALKING GROUP Mixed LGB&T meets every Monday Stanley Park cafe @ 2pm. For more details call Darren 0787 656 8260
Advice services, delivered by Inspira 237-241 Dalton Road, 01229 824052
GrOUPS
Freinds & Supporters of Furness LGBT Community52 Paradise Street, 07833 447604, klwicks@hotmail.co.uk PRO ACTIVE YOUNG GAYS AND LESBIANS (PAYGAL) Wendy Phizacklea, 07742 353 520, wendyp.rorys@googlemail.com trans lakes nights 07952278760 (evenings), One night per month at CADAS, 52 Paradise St. Also open every Tuesday 10am-4pm, trans.lakes.nights@googlemail. com Furness & South Lakes LGB&T Forum 24 hr helpline, drop in service and youth club, furnesslgbt@gmail.com
cArLisLe CliNICS
Cumberland Infirmary 01228 814 814
aGENCIES
Advice services, delivered by inspira 28 Lowther Street, 01228 596272
CliNICS
advice services, delivered by inspira 124 Highgate, 01539 730045
Groups
Cumbria LesbIans Network 01539 741 285, 1st Saturday of the month, clnetwork@sky.com south lakes lesbians for lesbian & bi women meeting monthly in Kendal for socials etc & walking groups, southlakeslesbians@gmail.com
Maryport HOTELS & B&B’s
Calder House Hotel Gay Owned The Banks, Seascale, 019467 28538, calderhouse.co.uk
wHiTeHaveN Groups
lgbt youth group 07727 297948, 13-25 lgbt youth meets every Tues
WInDerMerE HOTELS & B&B’s
Thorncliffe Lesbian Owned Prince’s Rd, 01539 444 338, thorncliffeis@tiscali.co.uk, thorncliffe-guesthouse.co.uk
outreach cumbria lgbt project 07896 250662, outreachcumbria@live.co.uk
WorKiNgToN
GrOUPS
Sexual Health Clinic Workington Community Hospital, Park Lane. 01900 705050
Pride in north cumbria 07901 765453, Young people 13-25 meet twice weekly, Tues & Thurs 6-8pm prideinnorthcumbria.webs.com
CliNICS
PUBS, CLUBS & BarS
Steam packet inn 51 Stanley St, 01900 62186
WE’RE HERE IF YOU NEED US 08453303030 www.lgf.org.uk
Reg. Charity No. 1070904
Merseyside & Lancashire
Liverpool Stanley Street Quarter 21
Tithebarn Street
Tithebarn Street
13 Superstar Boudoir 22-24 Stanley St, 0151 236 6633 14 The Lisbon Mixed
35 Victoria Street, 0151 231 6831 15 The Masquerade Mixed 10 Cumberland St, 0151 236 7786, masqueradebar.com
Club Nights BROKEN BISCUITS Monthly at Jupiters Bar FEDERATION LIVERPOOL Monthly gay night, clubfederation.com
Sexual Health Clinic Royal Liverpool Hospital, Prescot St, 0151 706 2620
Liverpool Students Union LGBT Society 0151 231 4947
20
nice 'n' naughty 16 Colquitt Street
LIV.FAST NETWORK an FTM support group, meeting on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month 18+ liverpool. ftm@gmail.com
21 Splash Sauna 5 Fazakerley St, 0151 236 1001, splashsauna.com
Groups
Gay Youth ‘r’ OUT (GYRO) 36 Bolton St, 0151 203 0824, LGB Tyouth 13-25, gyro.org.uk
Sahir House 2nd Floor, 151 Dale St, 0151 237 3989, providing free & confidential services to people & families living with or affected HIV on Merseyside, info@sahir.uk.com
LCVS, 151 Dale St, 0151 227 5177.
nice 'n' naughty 85 Seel Street
Agencies & Clinics
OUTREACH LIVERPOOL Citizens Advice Beareau drop-in at Armistead Centre. Tues 5-9pm & Thurs 2-6pm joe.l@northliverpoolcab. org.uk
Piccadilly Train Station
19
TRAVEL INN METRO Vernon St, 0870 238 3325
Liverpool Pride liverpoolpride.co.uk
2
Berry Street
Liverpool Women’s Book Group Meets last Tues of the month, liverpoolbookgroup.moonfruit.com
Being Out with Learning Difficulties (BOLD) c/o Armistead Centre, 0870 9908996, meets every other Monday.
et
Back Berry Stre
19
18 NEWS FROM NOWHERE Bookshop 96 Bold Street, 0151 708 7270, newsfromnowhere.org.uk
SAunas
AIDS Helpline 0151 709 9000
Roscoe Place
Bold Street
Bar Wicked 25 Stanley Street
Bold Street
11
Shops
Puschka Gay Owned 16 Rodney St, 0151 708 8698 puschka.co.uk
FACT
Culquitt Street
Roscoe Lane
Poste House 23 Cumberland Street
18
Wood Street
10
Wood Street
Navy bar 27-29 Stanley Street
17 The Armistead Project 1 Stanley St, 0870 9908996, armisteadcentre.co.uk
OSQA’S Oldham Square, 0151 709 6611, osqa-restaurant.co.uk
The Feathers 119-125 Mount Pleasant St, 0151 709 9655, feathers.uk.com
20
Culquitt Street
London Road
SHIVA LIVERPOOL 27-29 Stanley Street, findshiva.com 9
Back Culquitt Stre
Victoria Street
UNIT 3 DESIGN STUDIO architects and graphic designers, free consultations, 07886248490, unit3-designstudio.com
Hotels
et
1
Seel Street
Modo Gay Friendly Concert Square
Fleet Street
ESPRESSO PLUS COFFEE Bar & Bistro 173 Rose Lane, Mossley Hill, 0151 724 6161
16 THE MONRO Gastropub 92-94 Duke St, 0151 707 9933, themonro.com
7 Jupiters 10 Hackins Hey, off Dale Street, 0151 227 5265
Seel Street
Victoria Street,
2 CAFE TABAC Gay Owned 126 Bold Street, 0151 709 3735
Parr Street
G Bar Mixed Eberle Street, 0151 258 1230, g-bar.com 6
16
Duke Street
Garlands Mixed 8-10 Eberle Street, 0151 709 9586, garlandsonline.co.uk 5
10
Sir Thomas Street
Stanley Street
Temple Street
Curzon Club Mixed Temple Lane, 0151 236 5160, curzonliverpool.co.uk 3
Reg. Charity No. 1070904
Gen-e-sis Vinyl Vasement Bar, Lark Lane, Women’s night last Sunday of the month.
Eateries
CAFE TABAC Gay Owned 126 Bold Street, 0151 709 3735
Slater Street
14
Motor City Secrets, Stanley Street, monthly alt night 1st Fri of the month.
2
8
4
Mathew Street
Baby D Temple Street
0151 236 4832
Temple Lane
3345 Mixed 33-45 Parr St, 0151 708 6345, 3345parrst.com 1
12 Heaven
12
13
Victoria Street
Pubs, Clubs & Bars
Princes Street
North John Street
£
Train Station Parking Cash Machine Pedestrianised
3
9
15
Cumberland Street
11
Davies Street
17
88 Listing Indicator
Concert Street
8
Dale Street
Dale Street
Sweeting Street
Duke Street
5
Hockenhall All.
6
Eberle Street
7
Vernon Street
Tempest Hey
Hackins Hey
Exchange Street East
£ £
Around FACT
Liverpool Hope LGBT Liverpool Hope Student Union, Hope Park, 0151 291 3651, lgbt@hope.ac.uk Liverpool Guild LGBT Society 160 Mount Pleasant, 0151 794 4165, liverpoollgbt@googlemail.com lgos.org/lgbt LIVERPOOL GAY MEN’S DATING meets quarterly. for more information, email igdc@ talk21.com liverpool lgbt Choir For all abilities, meets Sun 6-8.30pm at St Stephens Church, liverpoolgaychoir@hotmail.co.uk liverpool lgbt community network
08453303030 www.lgf.org.uk
Open Table St Brides Church, Catharine St, 07776 476024, monthly eucharist for LGBT Christians and supporters 3rd Sunday of month at 6pm open.table@yahoo.co.uk OUR STORY LIVERPOOL 0151 709 4988, LGBT History community project. info@ourstoryliverpool.co.uk ourstoryliverpool.co.uk Parents & Carers Group 0870 9908996 Queer Notions 0151 227 9977, provides information and support at the Armistead Project queernotions@hotmail.com QUEST LGBT CATHOLICS 07983 021 589, 2nd Saturday of month, liverpool@questgaycatholic.org.uk SPIRIT LEVEL 0151 227 1893, Transgender support group. Storm LGBT Christians Level 2, 96 Bold Street, 0151 547 3562, meets 1st Sun of the month 3pm storm@somewhere-else.org.uk Young Gay Sefton 0151 330 5841
Sports Groups Gay Kick Boxing Armistead Centre, Wednesday Evenings 7-8pm, info@armisteadcentre.co.uk
Please email any new or updated listing to: listings@lgf.org.uk
Lancashire
GAY OUTDOOR GROUP 07855 197607, transpennine@hotmail.co.uk goc.org.uk LIVERPOOL QUEER GAMES AND ADVENTURE (LQGA) mixed sports group, lgqa.org.uk MERSEY MARAUDERS part of the Gay Football Supporters Network practice weekly, mmfootball.co.uk
BlACkBuRn PUBS, CLUBS & BaRS
Bar Ibiza 43 Darwen St, 01254 695379
CHOrlEy
C’est La Vie 11-15 Market St
GROUPS
Websites
Stagedoor 23 Mincing Lane, 01254 51691
GAYLIVERPOOL.COM Website of Gay Liverpool, gayliverpool.com
agENciEs & CLINICS
Liverpool Gay Quarter liverpoolgayquarter.com
ElLeSMerE PoRT GROUPS
Tea with Teela (TV/CD social) 0151 356 855, 7pm 3rd Monday of the month at Transpose, trans-pose.com
WORK IT OUT LGBT Wednesday 4pm-6pm, call Jackie 07889057520
bsure 0845 602 0894, Chlamydia screening for under 25’s, b.sure@bwdpct.nhs.uk b-sure.org.uk RENNAISSANCE @ drugline lancashire 2 Union Court, 01772 253840, Also has services for those living with & affected by HIV. enquiries@ druglinelancs.co.uk
breakout LGBT community radio group, c.o Chorley FM, lgbt@chorley.fm breakoutshow.co.uk POUT! 0800 7831524, youth group and helpline, every Wed. pout99@hotmail.com yps.lancashire.gov.uk/pout-lesbian-gaybisexual-trans-youth-group
HYNDBURN GROUPS
WORK IT OUT LGBT Monday 4pm-6pm, call Jackie on 07889 057520
utopia (Ellesmere Port) Whitby Rd, Ellesmere Port, 0151 348 5621, LGB youth meets every Tues 6.30-9, eport@utopialgb.org.uk
Lifeline Project 68-70 Darwen St, 01254 677493, supporting young people up to the age of 25, with substance and alcohol misuse issues, yps@lifeline.org.uk
SoutHpOrT
Sexual Health Clinic Blackburn Royal Infirmary, Bolton Road, 01254 687 304
DANCING DIVA For more information, dancingdiva5@hotmail.com
SHOUT 01254 300126, young sexual health team up to 25 shoutteam@yahoo.co.uk
PUBS, CLUBS & BaRS
CLINICs
Sexual Health Clinic Southport & Formby District General Hospital, 01704 513303
St HELens CLINICs
Sexual Health Clinic St Helens Hospital, Marshall Cross Rd, 01744 646 473, free & confidential sexual service, rapid HIV testing results in 30 mins. sthk.nhs.uk
Groups
OUTRITE ST. HELENS 01270 653 156, outrite.org
tHE wIrRaL PUBS, CLUBS & BaRS
DV8 @ The Picture House 46 Conway Street, Birkenhead, 0151 647 8883, Wed 8pm till late, hello@thepicturehousewirral.co.uk Tallulah’s Late Lounge Rowson St/ Victoria Rd, New Brighton, 0774 7561587, Wed nights till late, marion@tallulas.co.uk
CLINICs
Sexual Health Clinic Arrowe Park Road, 0151 604 7339
SaUNas
Dolphin Sauna 129 Mount Road, New Brighton, 0151 630 1516, dolphinsauna.co.uk
aGENCIES
Terrence Higgins Trust 5 Bridge Street, Birkenhead, 0151 666 9890, Sexual health info& LGBT affirmative counselling, info.wirral@tht.org.uk tht.org.uk
GROUPS
GROUPS
Blackburn LGB Youth Group Brook Advisory Centre, 54-56 Darwen St, BB2 2BL. 07809 847541, jonny.daniels@brookblackburn.org.uk
AGENCIES
WORK IT OUT Brook Blackburn, Darwen St, LGBT Tuesday evenings 6pm-8pm
LUNNETES social group for lesbians in Lancaster & South Lakes area, lunettes@ btinternet.com
Burnley
CLINICS
CLINICS
Sexual Health Services for the Under 25’s condomcollective.com
WIRRAL TRANSISTERs 07759045117, support/social group for TV/CD/TS, 2nd Tues of the month, mazykate@toucansurf.com
Red Triangle Café St James St, 01282832319
GROUPS
Quaker L&G Fellowship 16 Newfield Drive, Nelson, 01282 605724 Rossendale LGBT Youth Group 07817 541242, LGBT youth from Rossendale, Accrington and Burnley, rossendalelgbt@hotmail.co.uk STRIKE Tenpin bowling group meeting every 2nd Wed of the month. For more information call David on 07927 667 372
GROUPS
edgehill university LGBT society search on facebook
PrEstOn PUBS, CLUBS & BaRS
Blowing Wild Club Grimshaw Street, open Thurs, Fri, Sat, 07752 512232 Oblivion 12-14 Grimshaw St, 01772 252876 Hangout Harry Reloaded Fridays 11pm-4am 134 Church Street. PR1 3BT. Search Hangout Harry on Facebook
CLINICS
Sexual Health Clinic Royal Preston Hospital, Sharoe Green Lane, 01772 522814
AGENCIES
RENNAISSANCE @ drugline lancashire 2 Union Court, 01772 253840, Also has services for those living with & affected by HIV. enquiries@ druglinelancs.co.uk Preston HIV Support Team Helpline: 01772 468170, PO Box 515, Preston, PR1 8XP, phivst@aol.com
OLDER & OUT informal, friendly services for older LGB&T people, including, health promotion, anti-stigma activities, befriending and service user participation and older LGBT awareness training to service providers. Call 01772 552897 or email olderandout@55plus.org.uk, www. olderandout.org.uk
PYRO (Proud Youth Are Out) 07717 301821, 13-25 years, naomh.mckee@lancashire.gov.uk
Sexual Health Clinic St. Peter’s Centre tel 01282 644300
Sexual Health Clinic Ormskirk General Hospital, Wigan Road, 01695 571043
GROUPS
TOWN MOUSE gay friendly bar/b&b, 2 Royal Road, Burnley, 01282 458 006 bsure 0845 602 0894, Chlamydia screening for under 25’s, b.sure@bwdpct.nhs.uk b-sure.org.uk
CLINICS
GROUPS
Garden Bar 133-135 St James St.
BACKSTAGE BAR 135 St James St, 01282 414895
OrMsKIrk
WYRE & LANCASTER DISTERICT HATE CRIME PROJECT support and advice for victims of hate crime, 07791318772, wldhatecrime.net
Out in the Bay 07960 462 921, one to one friendship service, support group 3rd Thurs of month in Lancaster Library 7-9pm. Coffee afternoons Fri 2-4 at Sulyard St, Lancaster. lgbtoutinthebay@googlemail.com
PUBS, CLUBS & BaRS
E.A.G.L.E. - EQUALITY FOR ALL GAYS & LESBIANS EVERYWHERE 07972 507679, meets Tues 12-2pm at Burnely Town Hall, informal LGBT drop in, e.a.g.l.e_support@ hotmail.com
WIRRAL DIVAS 0151 666 9890, weekly lesbian and bisexual women’s group.
Gregson Café/Bar Gregson Community and Arts Centre, 33 Moorgate, 01524 849959, gregson.co.uk
Cygnets2Swans Jarman Centre, 53 James St, supports those who are or considering going through gender reassignment, both Trans Women and Trans Men, 4th Tuesday of the month 6.30pm-8.30pm, cygnets2swans.org.uk
Gay Wirral 0151 666 9890, THT, 5 Bridge St, for all Wirral’s LGBT Community, contact for details, gaywirral@hotmail.co.uk
TransWirral 90-92 Chester St, 07833 385126, for TS/Intersex, transwirral.btik.com
THE DUKE OF LANCASTER 75 Church Street, 01524 842843, info@thedukeoflancaster.com
The New Albert 84 King Street, 7 days a week, serving food and entertainment, thenewalbert.com
EaTERIES
Tea Time Special 0151 666 9890, Terrence Higgins Trust, 5 Bridge St, Fri 4.30-6.30pm, safe space for LGBT, info.wirral@tht.org.uk
CLUB NIGHTS
Out Youth LGBT Group East Lancs The Hub, Accrington & Rossendale College, 07895 794850, 14-19 yr olds, 6-8pm 1st & 3rd Tues.
Freedom Trans Youth Foundation, freedom@freedom.zzn.com freedom.btik.com
OUTRITE WIDNES 01270 653156, outrite.org
LanCAStEr
meets 6-8 on the last Thursday of the Month at Morecambe Library. lgbtoutinthebay@googlemail.com
Lancaster GUM Clinic Ashton Community Care Centre, 08450590015, apps only (in the next 48 hrs)
LeYlAnd GROUPS
POUT! 0800 7831524, youth group and helpline, every Wed. pout99@hotmail.com yps.lancashire.gov.uk/pout-lesbian-gaybisexual-trans-youth-group
MorEcAmBe PUBS, CLUBS & BaRS
oscar’s bar 25 Victoria St, 07543 900678, gay friendly/mixed, oscars@tiscali.co.uk
CLINICS
Morecambe GUM Clinic Queen Victoria Centre, Thornton Rd, 08450590015, apps only (in the next 48 hrs) Under 19 Young Person’s GUM & Contraception Drop In The Information Shop, Mon & Thurs 3:30 -5:30
GROUPS
Out in the Bay 07960 462 921, one to one friendship service, support group
CENTRAL LANCASHIRE HIV ADVICE 01772 825 684, Helpline: 01772 253 840, Drugline Lancashire Ltd, 2 Union Court.
OLDER & OUT - ToTo Twice monthly social group for 50+ LGB&T people on the first Thursday and third Thursday of every month @ Disability Equality North West, 103 - 104, Church Street, Preston. PR1 3BS and ‘straight allies’. Call 01772 552897 or email olderandout@55plus.org.uk, www.toto-olderandout.org.uk lancashire county council lgbt network lgbt@lancashire.gov.uk Lancashire LGBT Centre Last Tues of the month at The Urban Exchange, Mount Street, Preston between 6pm-8pm. lancashirelgbt.co.uk UCLAN LGBT Society Every Thurs at 8.30pm lmcourtney@uclan.ac.uk, uclansulgbt.weebly.com uclan lgbt employee network lgbtstaff@uclan.ac.uk VIBE c/o Young Peoples Service, 07814 493750, LGBT youth group meets Thurs evenings. yps.lancashire.gov.uk/get-vibe
WE’RE HERE IF YOU NEED US 08453303030 www.lgf.org.uk
Cheshire, Yorkshire, Staffordshire, Isle of Man & North West
Cheshire
North West
CRewE
MACcLeSfIelD
WEBSITEs
CLINICs
CLINICs
Just4lesbians.com a friendship site for singles and couples all over the world. just4lesbians.com
aGENCIES
GROUPS
j4ldating.com a lesbian dating site. j4ldating.com
Sexual Health Clinic Leighton Hospital, Middlewich Rd, 01270 612255 BP Cheshire & North Wales PO Box 321, 01270 653 150 outrite 01270 653 156, social and support groups, counselling, condoms and lube by post, outrite.org
GROUPS
men’s Group 01270 653 156, outrite.org
UTOPIA 01270 253633, LGB youth group Weds evenings, utopialgb.org.uk
CheStER PUBS, CLUBS & BaRS Bar 6T9 01244 313 608
Liverpool Arms Northgate Street, 01244 314 807 GENDER BENDER @ ROSIES 12-16 Northgate street, 01244 327 141
CLINICs
Sexual Health Clinic Chester Hospital, Liverpool Road, 01244 363 091
aGENCIES
LGBT Health Promotion01244 650534 or 07747 631021, West Cheshire - help & support including LGBT health issues.
GROUPS
CHESTER lgbt BOOK GROUP 07818 021 947, 2nd Monday of the month at 7.30pm at the Bear & Billet Pub, Lower Bridge St, alispad@aol.com Dinin’ Divas womens dining group dinindivas@yahoo.com Encompass 07790904718, 07833114752, 01745337144, LGBT social & info group for Chester & N. Wales, encompass.btik.com GAY WOMEN IN CHESHIRE Social group for lesbian and bisexual women living in Cheshire meetup.com/gay-women-in-cheshire Mersey & Dee Women Social group, madw@merseymail.com Sole Sisters Penny: 07917 533104 or Sandra: 07921 222101, womens walking group. unique tg support group N. Wales & West Cheshire meets 3rd Tues of the Month, 8pm, uniquetg.org.uk UTOPIA (chester) 0151 348 5621, LGB youth group meets every Weds 7.30-9pm, chester@utopialgb.org.uk
Sexual Health Clinic Macclesfield District General Hospital, Victoria Road, 01625 264116 OUTRITE groups 01270 653156, support and social groups, outrite.org
NOrtHWicH SaUNaS
Northwich Sauna Winnington Lane, 01606 784881, sauna-sauna.info
RunCoRN CLINIC
Sexual Health Halton General Hospital, 01928 753217
EaTERIES
The Canalside Bar & Restaurant 01928 580 669, 45-47 Canal Street.
GROUPS
Groups Gay North West Camping & Caravanning Club Free club for LGBT people who enjoy camping and caravanning, gnccc.co.uk Gay Outdoor Group - Ability Group Outdoor activities for people with all types of abilities/disabilities and their friends and family, ability@goc.org.uk LGBT Youth Northwest PO BOX 153, Manchester. M60 1LP, 0753 106 1777, Support & fun projects for LGBT Young people 14-25; support & training for practitioners working with young people, lgbtyouthnorthwest@yahoo.co.uk
Halton LGBT Group meets at: Halton Voluntary Action, Public Hall St, twice a month on a Wed 7pm-9pm, haltonlgbt.co.uk OUTRITE RUNCORN 01270653156, outrite.org
WARringToN PUBS, CLUBS & BaRS
White Hart Sankey Street, 01925 241994
Club Nights
Exposed Showbar, 15/17 Friars Gate, alexvalentine@mail.com
CLINIC
Sexual Health Clinic Lovely Lane, 01925 662476
OLGA an all inclusive community group for Older Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Trans. Meet weekly. 07929465044
HUDdERsFiEld PUBS, CLUBS & BaRS THE GREYHOUND Manchester Road, 01484 420 742
The New Union 3 Union Bank Yard, New Street, 01484 535435
Chester Uni Warrington Campus LGBT Society search facebook
Trans Resource Empowerment Centre (TREC) 07513 880647, Trans activities and info, meets 2nd Sat at the LGF, board@transcentre.org.uk transcentre.org.uk trans youth support (north west) 07530 352079, Supporting Trans young people & those questioning their gender identity, aged under 25, through email, phone & up coming Trans Youth Events, trans.youth@yahoo.co.uk
SHOPS & Services D.C.H.A. Services Dean Cooper: 07534 509108, Help for and training around the needs of disabled people, dchaservices.co.uk
GROUPS
HUGG Social group for gay & bi men, 18+,every Tuesday from 8pm. hugg.org.uk
HeBDEn BrIdgE PUBS, CLUBS & BaRS
Inn on the Bridge Gay Owned & Run 1-5 Market St, 01422 844 229, inn_on_the_bridge@live.co.uk NELSONS WINE BAR Crown St, 01422 844 782
Isle of Man
1806 Group 11 Palmyra Square South, 01925 241994, initiative for sexual health.
GROUPS
Queer Youth Network info@queeryouth.net, queeryouth.net
Yorkshire
aGENCIES
Gay Healthy Alliance Project PO Box 539, 01925 631101
Please note all listings information is provided by third parties. The LGF can accept no responsibility for the quality of the services/groups listed
HOTELS
PUBS, CLUBS & BaRS
DEVONIAN HOTEL Gay Friendly 4 Sherwood Terrace, Douglas, 01624 674676, thedevonian.co.uk
Guys & Dolls Showbar Gay Friendly Peverill Sq, Douglas,
Gay & Lesbian Youth Support Services (GLYSS) 07747 473 829, every Wed/Thurs 6.30-9.30pm and alternate Sat. glyss@hotmail.co.uk freewebs.com/glyss FLUID (Freedon to Love Ur IDentity) 07747 473 829 LGBT Warrington lgbtwarrington.co.uk
Please email any new or updated listing to: listings@lgf.org.uk
Staffordshire PUBS, CLUBS & BarS
GROUPS
Fierce 3 Goodson St, Hanley.
LGBT Network 01782 266998, charity providing support, advice for all LGBT & social groups, gaystoke.com
The Pink Lounge Piccadilly, Hanley, pinkloungebarandclub.com The Factory 67 Bryan St, Stoke, thefactorystoke.co.uk The Polari Lounge 52 Piccadilly, Hanley, 01782 212200, gaystoke.com
SaUNas
Panthers LGBT Badminton/Squash 01782 266998, meeting weekly in Stoke South Staffs MES MEN Project 01543 411413, PO Box 3919, Lichfield, Married Men’s group, TV/TS group and social groups.
Inferno 14 Garth St, Hanley, heatsauna.com/stoke-on-trent
SPACE 01543 419002, LGBT Youth Group (16-21), youth@mesmen.co.uk
CLINIC & agENCIES
Staffordshire Buddies PO Box 474, Stoke on Trent, 01782 201251
Gaylife North Staff 0300 1230970
Reg. Charity No. 1070904
08453303030 www.lgf.org.uk
To find out more about leaving a legacy to The Lesbian & Gay Foundation, call 0845 3 30 30 30, or e-mail rachel.bottomley@lgf.org.uk