POTPOURRI June 2015

Your gift‌ Their lives

A Pilot’s Life Meet Captain Steve Lablache

Why donate blood?

Beauty tips for Kids

Jennifa Marcel Taking the art of face-painting to another level

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Xavier & Camila Estico

A special father-daughter bond

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Daddies in the Kitchen

15 The Creole Buffet at the ‘Seselwa’ Restaurant

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Meet the father figures of the Miss Seychelles’ contest

C’est Moi… par Georges Grave

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From the

EDITOR

so, we find ourselves bewildered by the fact that they fail to see what we find to be simple logic. It is not wrong to teach them, but the way in which we do so is important. We must, as much as possible, do it in a kind, informative way that does not shatter their confidence or self-esteem.

Passing on information and teaching children extends beyond speaking to them. This is where it is crucial for every adult, parent or not, to understand that we are all collectively responsible for raising the children of this country. The way you talk to others, the way you drive, the way you dispose of your waste and the way you treat animals – all of it is significant because children see it and learn from it.

Photo credit: Suzanne Verlaque

Dear folks, The ‘Father’ talk is taken care of this month by our columnists who have embraced this month’s theme. With this taken care of, I’d like to address another celebration which appears on this month’s calendar; Children’s Day. What does being a child entail? The question might seem ridiculous since to most of us a child is simply a small person within a specific age bracket. However, more and more, I question whether we are failing to see the bigger picture of what being a child entails.

I will raise my hand and admit that I am guilty at times for having expectations of my children, especially of my eldest son, that is not appropriate for their age. As adults, we have expectations based on our experiences and life lessons which we have learned from. There is nothing wrong with that and yes, it is our job to teach them to our children.

However, we too often forget that a child is yet to learn these lessons and the ways in which they view the world are very different from ours. And

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In my journey as firstly an aunt and later on a mother, I have learned the importance of seeing life through the eyes of the children around me. It keeps reminding me of how beautiful life is and more importantly, how simple it can and should be. Don’t get me wrong, it requires patience and switching off from the person you currently are. When I play with my eldest son, I try to be a six year old since it means the mess created and my personal and professional worries are overlooked and everyone has a better time. It’s not always easy for me to do this but if I pull it off twice out of four play dates, I tell myself I’m doing okay.

Ultimately, I believe it boils down to this; a child is a being who needs to be protected and cherished. I avoid the word loved since it’s thrown around so much without much thought. To protect and to cherish come from love. Our children will grow up and learn that a tidy house looks better, that white shirts go better with blue jeans, that hearts break and people die but the longer we can make them believe in a perfect world, we must. This one is on each and every one of us.

For those of you visiting our beautiful islands this month, may you have a memorable holiday and be blown away by the Seychellois hospitality.

Chief Editor

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Cover Models Steve and Jacob Lablache

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From the cockpit It’s your Captain speaking.

What lies behind the uniform of a pilot? Marie-France Watson talks to Captain Steve Lablache of Qatar Airways and his wife, Angela to see if our assumptions are right.

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When Walt Disney announced the spin-off of Pixar’s Cars franchise and the first film in a planned Planes trilogy in 2013, boys all over the world went crazy. There is something about planes or the idea of them that simply appeals to the male child. Steve Lablache, from Praslin, was no exception.

Steve is the son of hoteliers Jonas and Lydia Lablache who own the well-known small family-run hotel Britannia in the heart of Grand Anse Praslin. Growing up on a small island in no way hindered the dreams of this Praslin boy who literally knew that the sky was the limit. Lydia witnessed the interest awaken in him as a child and it is no surprise that at 34, he is one of the youngest Seychellois to proudly wear the title Captain of an international airline.

P: When did you know you wanted to be a pilot?

S: According to my mum even before I started kindergarten I

was always drawing airplanes and helicopters, and I guess it’s every kid’s dream to fly. When I turned 10 onwards I knew this is what I wanted to do. I developed a passion for flying and wanted to experience the feeling of maneuvering an aircraft.

P: Tell us about the schooling to become a pilot S: I moved to Mahé to attend the International School when

I was 13. I then moved to the Seychelles Polytechnic where after completing my A-Levels, I went to the 43rd Air School in South Africa in 2000 for around ten months. I then joined Air Seychelles. I was 19 at the time. I started off flying the Twin Otters and the Shorts 360 for about four years; the last three years of which as a captain. I moved to the international fleet flying the Boeing 767 as a first officer for about five years. I then moved to Qatar.

P: Why did you decide to join Qatar Airways?

S: I wanted something different. Flying for Air Seychelles

had limitations in terms of destinations and to me, the flying was becoming monotonous. I was ready for something more challenging. I joined as a First Officer in 2011 on the Boeing 777.

Newborn photography shoot © Alicja Kalinska

Their wedding day in 2010

P: You are now a captain?

S: Yes, I started training in December 2014 and I graduated in February 2015 after completing all the required training flights.

When did you get married?

S: We got married in January 2010.

P: Tell us about your wife, Angela S: Angela completes my life and I never believed in soul

mates until I met her. I feel like I have known her forever. She is more than what I hoped for. We dated for a short while at school, and then over 10 years later we started dating again and got married.

P: How did you feel when you found out you were going to be a father?

S: When I found out I was going be a dad it was one of the

best days of my life. A feeling I just can’t really explain and when Jacob was born, it was the same feeling probably times infinity.

P: Why did you choose the name Jacob?

S: We chose the name Jacob because we had been trying

to get pregnant for a long time, and we feel like Jacob is our miracle baby and we wanted to use a name from the bible.

P: You’re settled in Doha now, what is life like there?

S: Life in Doha is great but very different from home.

Seychelles will always be home for me. Doha can also be a paradise, it’s what you make of it. It is basically a mindset.

P: How would you describe the life of a pilot?

S: Life as a pilot I must say is like an office job, maybe at times longer working hours depending on the destination and the office is displacing very fast indeed.

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Jacob’s baptism in March ‘15

P: How do you cope with being away from your wife and child?

S: It’s never easy to leave your family for days but I do get to Skype while away and seeing them even through a screen makes it better.

P: What is the biggest misconception about pilots would you say people have?

S: The biggest misconception I must say is that and I quote ‘you pilots just sit down and do nothing’. To actually fly you need to be seated anyway so the joke is not that funny. Although we are not physically walking or laboring away, mentally our minds are overloading every second as we need to expect the unexpected as we are moving over 1000km/hr.

P: What is your favourite destination?

S: Anywhere in the United States.

P: Pilots and unfortunate incidents about flying have made headlines in the past two years. Have they changed how you feel about flying?

S: Yes, there have been a lot of incidents and accidents over recent years, but flying remains the fastest and safest way of travelling. Social media tends to cover more on aircraft accidents than car accidents, which happens every minute in the world. The situation, I feel, has been blown out of proportion.

P: Where do you hope to be in five years time?

S: I hope to be an instructor so I can share my experience and knowledge to fellow pilots.

P: Do you have a plan B if things don’t work out?

S: Everything you perform in life needs to have a plan B, at times a plan

C too. For instance, a friend is supposed to pick you up, you need to have plan B to make it to your destination if he delays, or doesn’t make it at all.

My plan B is to head back home and start my own business.

Steve’s wife, Angela P: What’s it like being a pilot’s wife?

A: Being married to a pilot is no different to any other marriage! When

it comes up that I’m married to a pilot, I usually get told how lucky I am.

What people see is the endless travel on rebated fares. The truth is just like everyone else’s life it has its moments, the high and lows – such as a husband who has missed countless of special occasions. One has to be strong, independent, self sacrificing, understanding and adaptable. If you are parents, like us, it requires you to take the role of both parents when he is away. While I enjoy the perks that come with Steve’s profession, especially the traveling, it’s not been without challenges along the way.

Being an ex-cabin crew myself, I can relate to his pattern of work easily.

I understand that when he is back he needs his rest periods. I know very well how is it to live in a suitcase.

P: How do you cope?

A: By keeping myself busy. I enjoy reading, catching up on my favourite series, meeting friends, but above all, since the past eight months, our bundle of joy, Jacob, keeps me on my toes. It makes time fly by a lot quicker.

P: Generally people think a pilot’s wife has a glamorous life – would you agree?

A: I think the perception of a pilot’s wife leading a glamorous life is something from the 70’s when it was common for the wives to travel the world shopping and attending endless cocktail parties! The reality is that it’s not a 24 hour glamorous deal! While I’m grateful for what Steve’s job has and can afford me in life, it’s really tough when your husband is away on a five day trip, when he is missing special events and milestones especially relating to our son. I especially miss the support in difficult situations.

P: What tips would you give to someone who’s in a relationship with a pilot?

A: To be in a relationship with a pilot requires a lot of patience, trust, understanding, empathy and courage!

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SPECIAL FEATURE

Your Gift...Their Lives!

Every blood donation is special.

Every reason is unique.

By Elaine LaFortune The act of giving blood is not something the majority of the Seychelles population gives much thought to, in spite of the constant media appeals by health officials for blood donors.

Often times it is only when it hits close to home, when a close friend or relative is hospitalised, that the significance of blood donation is earnestly considered.

Just think that every time you donate blood, you help save a life. Sounds extreme? Not to the patients whose lives have been saved through the efforts of blood donors. With blood donation being a key element of Health Care services, the Ministry of Health reiterates its appeal for more healthy individuals, aged 18 to 64 years old to come forward and donate blood.

This is an article that might just help you to consider donating blood. It tells the amazing stories of two patients who can call themselves survivors all thanks to blood donation. While the tellers have decided to remain anonymous, we are incredibly grateful to write their stories.

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THE FIRST STORY Here is the story of *Luke, a 27 year old man A life or death operation It began like any normal day for 22-year-old Luke. He’d gone to see a relative who had promised to let him borrow the car for the weekend.

While heading home in the car, he made a stop to pick up his friend *Paul.

On the way, Luke boasted about his drifting skills to his friend, who was equally ecstatic to see how much speed the car could handle; but luck wasn’t on their side that day. Just minutes after pressing down hard on the accelerator, going more than 100 kilometres per hour, Luke lost control of the vehicle and overturned just before the Roche Caiman petrol station.

While his friend left the crash unhurt, except for a few scrapes and grazes, Luke was in dire need of medical attention. He was rushed to the nearest casualty department where the doctors discovered that although his seatbelt had saved him from flying through the windscreen of the car, the huge forces in the crash had caused serious internal injuries including broken ribs, a dislocated shoulder, torn ligaments and a very badly broken leg. He was bleeding internally, and needed more and more blood to replace the loss. The operation had to happen quickly if Luke was to have any chance of surviving. Thankfully, the blood bank had sufficient blood to help with the surgery as he would not have survived another day.

His mother says, “I was numb with the shock. All I remember the doctor saying was, ‘We don’t know if we can save this lad. All we can say is the operation is his best chance.’ I was desperate for them to help him so I signed the forms, and that was it. I didn’t see Luke again until three in the morning.” By then, Luke had already drifted into a small coma in the ICU. The doctors said that they had done all they could, and that it was up to Luke to pull through.”

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Amazingly, just one week after coming out of the coma, Luke’s condition started to improve, but there was still more work to be done on him.

A surgery for a total bone replacement was done as his femur had completely shattered. The doctors advised his mother that he might never walk and that if he did, he would probably have difficulty doing so. But now, five years on, Luke has reestablished his life. He is now married and has a five year old son.

“I promise to never act so foolishly ever again and I hope that my story inspires many young people who indulge in reckless driving. I was not under the influence that day, but my recklessness could have cost not only my life, but also the life of my friend.”

While he has sworn to never buy a car of his own, he also takes to walking daily, which he does quite well despite the doctors’ diagnosis. To the blood donors who donated the pints he needed to get through his operation, Luke will be eternally grateful.

THE SECOND STORY

Did you know that every two seconds, someone needs blood!

Estimated blood transfusion needs are calculated at 3% of the population which is about 2,400 units per year. The BTU relies heavily on family replacement donations, which is 80% of total donations.

Only 20% of donated blood is from voluntary donors.

(Source: BTU Seychelles) Look who’s living *Jane remembers the moment the doctors confirmed that she was carrying her first-born for the very first time. The doctor announced that the baby was a healthy baby boy and that the pregnancy was going well.

Her heart swelled with love, her eyes filled with tears of joy, and she was

What’s really incredible is that all of that was made possible by perfect strangers who donated blood not knowing where the blood would end up. It could have gone to a car crash victim, a cancer patient or, in Jane’s case, to a new mother fighting the greatest 24-hour battle of her life.

Nine days after delivering her healthy baby boy, Jane finally arrived home. But it would take nearly one year before she completely recovered and returned to her rich and full life as a mother, wife, teacher, and friend.

Once she became eligible, she began to donate regularly. And at every opportunity she shares her story with others, encouraging everyone who can to take a moment to give blood.

“I never donated until I received blood myself because I was always worried about passing out,” Jane admits. “Now I realise how trivial that fear is compared to the priceless gift I can give. I know that without strangers giving blood I wouldn’t be here to be a mother to my boy *Ty, and my husband, would be left without a wife. So my message to others is that blood donors truly save lives. They saved mine. And I encourage others to become life-savers, too.”

Find out more about how you can help save the lives of infants, children, and adults through blood donation by visiting the Red Cross Society of Seychelles and join the Blood Donor Recruitment Programme.

Blood is meant to circulate. Pass it around. Share blood – Share life.

The reason I donate blood The Red Cross Society of Seychelles advises: The benefits of donating 1.

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The Joy of Saving Human Lives.

Free Health Check-up.

Reduces Risk of Heart Disease.

Burns Calories.

Reduces the Risk of Cancer.

Who can give blood?

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You can give blood if you tick these boxes:

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you weigh over 7 stone 12 lbs (50kg)

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you’re aged between 17 and 66 (up to 70 if you have given blood before)

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male donors can give blood every 12 weeks; that’s approximately every 3 months

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female donors can give every 16 weeks or approximately every 4 months.

You cannot give blood if you tick these boxes: •

you’re a male donor with less than 12 weeks’ interval between

donations

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you’re a female donor who had given blood in the last 12 weeks

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you have a chesty cough, sore throat or active cold sore

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you have travelled over the past 3 months

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you’re currently taking antibiotics or you have just finished a course within the last seven days or have had any infection in that last two weeks.

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you’ve had hepatitis or jaundice in the last 12 months.

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you’ve had a tattoo, semi-permanent make up or any cosmetic treatment that involves skin piercing in the last 4 months.

Where can you give blood?

The Ministry of Health has a blood donation mobile van. They can organise collection in the working establishment if there is a group of donors. Otherwise, you can visit the blood donation unit at Victoria Hospital for donation, but to avoid wastage of time kindly ensure that you are an eligible donor. http://www.seychellesredcross.sc/

“Yes I donated blood once. But then they did not want it again as they said I “travelled” in the last whatever months. I give blood because I am helping a life. Someone close to me or myself may also need blood one day. So if I don’t give, how do I expect others to give me?”

Luke Perreau

“I’m a blood donor and have been so since 2008. What got me into it was because a lady at work had given birth and apparently, there were complications and needed blood. The company I worked for appealed to the staff if anyone was willing to donate, and though I was new and had never met the lady, I did. Sadly, only one other guy and myself came forward. We became instant friends because of that. It seems people have some fears about donating blood. I was warned a long time ago that donating blood constantly can affect your blood pressure, but since I was young and fit (I was 24 at the time), I went for it. I am healthy over all up to now, so I still continue to donate blood. I do it because it costs me nothing, and because it helps people. No other reason than that. Whether or not I know them personally, it doesn’t matter to me. In fact, I do not think I’ve ever donated for someone I actually knew.

Usually, I get asked by people I know who knows of someone in need. If I’m able to (as you have to wait 6 months as a woman between donations), I go for it. Oh, I got denied once as I just had an additional piercing on my ear the month prior, and you can’t donate if you’ve had recent piercings and recently travelled. I don’t know why, but I felt like a failure because I wondered what if someone really needed my donation and I let them down? Anyhow, donating blood is simply something good to do for someone in need and you don’t need a reason to do that. You just do it.”

Dianne Dalida

“There are many ways to help each other in times of need. Being a Blood Donor is just one of the ways to make a difference and actually save a life. It is the main reason I am a blood donor. Unfortunately, I travel often for work thus I am not eligible to donate blood.

The Ministry of Health has strict rules on when one can donate blood.”

Sabry Bruce Khan

“I am a blood donor. Personally I do it because I am human. It’s all about sharing. We’re all family with different blood types. We never know who might need that blood, it could be your own parent or even a close friend. In the end after donating you feel a sense of relief knowing that you just did something noble and it will help save a life.”

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instantly caught up in a moment of pure bliss. But it was not long after two months in the pregnancy that her tears of joy became tears of pain.

And happiness was replaced with anxiety and urgency.

“My mum called the emergency services as soon as she saw how much pain I was in. Everyone thought I may have had a urine infection. While I was waiting for the ambulance to come, I had already fainted by the time they got to me.”

As soon as she arrived at the hospital, she was then diagnosed with an ectopic pregnancy and rushed straight to surgery. Jane needed to have one of her fallopian tubes removed and lost a lot of blood during the surgery.

“Initially they had tried to do the surgery, but as there was so much blood, it was not possible. I needed a transfusion and had to spend a couple of days in intensive care.”

Jane, who is now fully recovered from the surgery, remarkably fell pregnant within two months.

Jane says: “I have never donated blood before but my husband has always been a keen blood donor. I would like to encourage anyone who can donate to do so. It is such a simple act and now I have first-hand experience that it can help save the lives of those that are in life threatening situations.” “The most amazing doctors in the world couldn’t have saved me without the volumes of blood that were available because others gave so generously,” Jane says.

Dada Dearest…

Mawess Wirtz sits down with the reigning Miss Seychelles…

Another World 2014 winner, Camila Estico and her father, Xavier Estico, who she lovingly refers to as Dada, as they tell POTPOURRI about their special relationship.

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Camila Estico is the reigning Miss Seychelles…Another World 2014 winner, we all know that, but do we know the man who raised the girl and the special relationship they share that has helped her cope with all the strife that life has dealt her? Meet Mr Xavier Estico, a very special dad and Camila, the daughter who loves him.

Love at first sight

The first person to see Camila was her dad, he stood proud and comforting within the delivery room as his daughter was birthed. He still remembers exactly how he felt when he cut the umbilical cord and held her for the first time, a bond was forged there and then and it would remain strong up until now. At that moment, he dreamt of everything he would wish for his daughter.

For Camila, her earliest memory stems from, “when I was in Cuba. I believe I was about three years old and he was carrying me on his shoulders walking around and enjoying the annual Santigo de Cuba carnival”.

In God’s hands

The first thing on the agenda was establishing his child’s spiritual basis, straight from the hospital, Mr Estico went to a chapel and thanked God for blessing him. Camila was also baptised at the earliest convenience so that her parents could take her to church and commence her spiritual tutelage. Both father and daughter have a firm faith and they do not deviate.

Attached at the hip

According to Mr Estico, during the years that she was an only child, Camila would not leave him, so he found himself with his own little tag-along, a thing he remembers with much affection.

Near, far, wherever you are..

Whatever she dreamt of she has accomplished. However, her career as a professional dancer came to a halt after she was injured. She could not continue with the physical intensity that professional dance requires but she has experienced the best Dance School in New York, the “Alvin Ailey” on Broadway. It is a school that any aspiring dancer would dream to be accepted in. She made it through with her passion for dance, courage, perseverance, and above all faith. Her crowning as Miss Seychelles “Beauty With a Purpose 2014” came as a surprise for she was never a fan of beauty contests. She was encouraged by friends and family members to participate even against my will for genuine reasons. Reaching the semi-final of Miss World “Miss Talent” is also a great achievement in her artistic life.”

That special something

According to Mr Estico, the best thing about Camila is that while she is evolving and searching for her place in the world, it is not the glamour of being a beauty queen that she enjoys; he states, “This is about her faith, humility and the love of life.”

According to Mr Estico, the best thing about Camila is that while she is evolving and searching for her place in the world, it is not the glamour of being a beauty queen that she enjoys, he states, “This is about her faith, humility and the love of life. She loves life and she loves humanity, despite her direct way of talking that may upset people, who don’t agree with or understand her principles in life”.

His daughter remains a simple person of value despite it all.

Even when he had to commute between the States where Camila lived and the Seychelles, whenever he would come to her room, it would be pasted with quotes that Camila had extracted from the emails he would write to her. It didn’t matter that her father was not physically present because in essence, he was always there.

It was a hard eight years, as the father and daughter could only be together physically for three months a year but Mr Estico was never fazed. He successfully raised his daughter from across the oceans (I am personally in awe of this man), because of him, Camila was never swallowed up into her American way of life.

When asked how they are similar, the answer is simple. To quote Camila, “We are both hard headed”.

While it is easy to see how Camila has been influenced by her father, she and Mr Estico do butt heads sometimes. Camila sees herself as a realist where her father is a perfectionist. She regaled me with how, despite knowing that her father would win, she stils shares her opinion about politics with him. Debating politics has become something they enjoy doing when together.

This child of mine

Moving forward

From the very first day, Mr Estico had a plan, “I saw Camila having a life of adventure and creativity”. He became the type of father that embraced his child in her entirety. When Camila showed signs of being blessed with artistic talents, creativity and energy, he did all he could to nurture that.

However he was concerned about her being in New York, so he took her back to her native land, Seychelles, where he has watched Camila flourish, thus confirming that she needed to be home.

Mr Estico does not just give Camila what she wants, he has always pushed her to succeed, so much so that Camila is very aware of it but she confirms that it is because she knows that he wants the best for her.

A father’s pride

Mr Estico is proud of the woman that Camila has grown into. He describes her as, “a very daring, courageous child with a deep sense of spirituality and faith. She is also very kind-hearted but firm in what she believes in.

Same same... but different

Her father grudgingly admits that Camila now has her own life, he has accepted that she will make her own decisions and he remains always at the ready for guidance and prayers. Whatever Camila has gone through, her father has watched with pride as she rose above it. He has developed a new level of respect as she has forgiven the misdeeds and forged ahead.

He stands behind her as she continues to hone her character on the impetus of other people’s actions. He prays every day for her simple soul to remain untarnished.

The family mantra

So what makes these two so special? When asked what the biggest lesson she has learnt from her father is, Camila had this to say, “My father has always taught me never to lie (he hates lies), to be honest and respect everyone. Therefore, I don’t sugarcoat things, I come from a diverse cultural family, my mother is Cuban and my father is Seychellois so I am a true creole girl”.

Camila’s Father’s Day message to us?

“I know that not every Seychellois girl is blessed to have a father figure, but don’t let this become an obstacle in your life! Find support and motivation in your surroundings. Seychelles as a country has a lot to offer and is a safe and healthy environment to raise children in”.

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POTPOURRI managed to catch up with a few Miss Seychelles…

Another World 2015 contestants to get acquainted with the father figures in their lives. It was truly heartwarming to see the girls proudly show up with the main man in their lives.

Let’s meet some of them…

GENEVIEVE AND HER BOYFRIEND, DAVE What do you love the most about him?

I love how he cares and supports me in everything I do. He is like a second father to me since I never got the chance to grow up with mine. He taught me everything that I know my father would have if he had had the chance.

How did he feel when you told him you were taking part in the contest?

At first, he was not too keen. But now, with the training I have gone through to prepare myself for the pageant, he feels proud and he is very supportive of me since it’s also a chance of a lifetime.

Petra and her father, Patrick What do you love the most about him?

I admire him for being a hard worker. He has never given up and I must add that he’s also pretty cool.

How did he feel when you told him you were taking part in the contest?

I am the eldest daughter and he was very proud.

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Gillian and her father, William What do you love the most about him?

He is a very understanding person. I also love how passionate he is about everything.

How did he feel when you told him you were taking part in the contest?

He accepted my decision to participate and feels very proud.

Alanah and her brother, Stephane What do you love the most about him?

I love his sense of humour and I admire his courage. He has always been there for me; to make me smile when I am down or to cheer me on!

How did he feel when you told him you were taking part in the contest?

He wasn’t here when the 2015 pageant was launched but he was so happy when he found out! He has been very supportive.

Linne and her father, Donatien What do you love the most about him?

He is a devoted person with an amazing personality. He is always positive which is the reason why I always take on life’s challenges with an air of ease. I am also proud of his talent!

How did he feel when you told him you were taking part in the contest?

He feels emotional that his little girl is all grown up and taking part in a beauty contest but I know he is very proud.

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Stasia and her cousin, Conrad What do you love the most about him?

He’s always there to help in my times of need. He is a good listener and ever so kind.

How did he feel when you told him you were taking part in the contest?

He is happy and proud.

Marina and her step-father, Alex What do you love the most about him?

He has always been there for me as a real father should. He has been my guide through difficulties and good times as well.

How did he feel when you told him you were taking part in the contest?

He actually advised me to take part and naturally he was very happy when I confirmed the news!

Nisa and her father, Joseph What do you love the most about him?

His passion for his job and for his country. I am also moved by his love for animals and impressed with his creativity.

How did he feel when you told him you were taking part in the contest?

He feels proud of me and he is very supportive.

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Sarah Lang explores the other side of the parenting coin that we tend to forget I love the new movements to honour mothers and the postpartum experiences we all go through – from the woman who found it the toughest experience of her life but who wouldn’t change it for anything, to the real woman who has abs back within a week, to the woman who finds her calling in motherhood and learns to love herself more as a result. What is missing from most of these movements, however, and has struck me as a major shortcoming, is that we always focus on birth and postpartum as a primarily female experience. Sure only women carry the child; we deliver them (we all remember that!) and yes we are the only ones that can breastfeed. I know we may have a proven physiological predisposition to motherhood – but what of the fathers? I hear you shouting that not all fathers stick around or are involved along with all the rest of it but the same can be said for some mothers…so let’s not focus on those anomalies or negative stories I’m sure we have all been told. Having a child takes two people, so let’s take a moment to be grateful for the side of the pairing that is often forgotten.…

Fathers have a postpartum experience too! In fact, many have a birth story of their own to tell. One from another angle but one of seeing their loved one in pain and knowing they can do nothing to ease it; one of witnessing the birth of their child and themselves falling in love with a teeny tiny little being; one of seeing the strength of their partner and providing them support throughout; sometimes one of being terrified and struggling to stay strong. Sometimes their stories are less rose-tinted than that of the mother, but that doesn’t make them any less worthy of being told. And after the birth, they become the protector in an instant and eventually grow into a father figure. They provide love and support to their partner whilst also reveling in this new human being who blows their mind! Let’s not forget the dads – they’re pretty awesome too!

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So awesome in fact that the postpartum mothers movement has branched out to recognise the role of fathers. Browsing the instagram account @dontforgetdads I stumbled across one post that read “Dads are important. Dads experience postpartum. Dads learn, grow, and find their way… into fatherhood” and was struck by the truth of the post. Mothers may be dropped into it from the moment they can hold their baby in their arms and they feel instant love, but fathers are falling in love as they watch this bonding and it is this love that fuels the learning and growth of fatherhood. They may not breastfeed but they’re pretty nifty at rocking a baby to sleep and have bigger hands to hold the baby on their stomach and burp them, they also have secret superpower skills for building fortresses and climbing trees. My dad turned out to be an excellent baker, the pushiest but most-devoted sports coach and my biggest fan. I know one dad who is the best listener a teenage daughter could want and another who is his toddler’s hero and ultimate cool dude. My husband makes the perfect climbing frame and swimming companion. When our son was a newborn he was the ideal makeshift cot for naps – he also made me the perfect cheese toasties when I was exhausted and starving from breastfeeding and night shifts. Another friend of mine is the perfect weekend hairdresser for his daughter and still to his son, he is the coolest man alive. I could list tons of amazing fathers I know who support their partners and are as involved with their children. Every dad has his own special talent and skill, and every dad who is there for his children deserves to be praised and loved - AND NOT FORGOTTEN! I urge all mums (and dads) to honour the fathers in your lives (be they your own or your children’s) and if you’re on Instagram check out the account and the hashtag – dontforgetdads. It tugged at my heartstrings to see pictures of adorable babies asleep on their dad’s chest, or tiny little hands resting safely inside daddy’s hands when I scrolled through the posts. So to the mothers out there – pay closer attention to how fatherhood is blossoming, appreciate the little acts carried out by your male counterpart, enjoy the adoration and love your children have for their father. And to the children out there – daddies rock! Let him know how great he is.

Happy Father’s Day!

Step by Step

Living on the Wedge

This month, Brigitte Monchouguy tells us how night explorations of her neighbourhood turn into fascinating discoveries.

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hose Fitbits are fantastic, aren’t they? Except when you typically spend your day at the office glued to a computer, then read your pedometer at close of business only to find that your activity is less than half of what it should be!

Determined to reverse this languorous trend, J and I set ourselves a minimum goal of 10,000 steps a day. No matter how late we finish work we throw on our trainers after dinner and set off to explore the neighbourhood by foot. Not only is a nightly constitutional good for your digestion and overall health, it’s also a great way to spend time with your partner away from the stress and routine of everyday life.

So this is how J and I found ourselves exploring the commercial office lots and gardens of West Perth. What we didn’t expect to discover was a bounty of urban agronomy. During our evening expeditions we have unearthed plantains, lemons, limes, oranges, cumquats, olives, chillies, tomatoes, aubergines, lettuces, rocket and every herb under the sun, including basil, sage, thyme, rosemary, mint, oregano and chives to name just a few. We dabble at living the “Good Life” and dream of giving up corporate culture for a hippie commune! In the meantime we have come up with all sorts of recipes to utilise the fruits of our labour. We have made plantain chips, pickled olives and preserved lemons. Best of all are our delectably alcoholic, sweet and succulent Spiced Brandied Cumquats. You can substitute the cumquats with local bigarade and we hope you give our recipe a try. Until next time, if you can’t be good, be good at it.

Spiced Brandied Cumquats (makes 4 small jars) 1 large saucepan 1 medium saucepan 4 sterilised Mason or Kilner jars* 750g ripe cumquats Water to cover For the light sugar syrup: 1 cup sugar 2 ½ cups water For the spiced sugar syrup: 2 cups sugar 2 cups water 1 stick cinnamon 6 whole cloves 6 pieces star anise 6 whole allspice 1 cup brandy *Sterilise jars by boiling in water, placing in a 120ºC oven or immersing in Milton’s solution for at least 20 minutes.

Wash cumquats. Place in large saucepan. Cover with water. Bring to the boil, uncovered, for 15 minutes. Drain. Repeat this process three times. Drain.

Prepare light sugar syrup: Place sugar and water in medium saucepan. Stir over low heat until sugar has dissolved. Remove from heat. Pour light sugar syrup over cumquats in large saucepan, bring to the boil, uncovered, for 25-30 minutes, or until fruit is transparent and tender. Drain liquid from fruit, being careful not to break them.

Prepare spiced sugar syrup: Place sugar, water, cinnamon stick (broken into several pieces), cloves, star anise and allspice into

medium saucepan, stir over low heat until sugar has dissolved.

Simmer over low heat for three minutes. Pour spiced sugar syrup over cumquats in large saucepan, bring to the boil, and boil gently for 15 minutes. Remove large saucepan from heat, add brandy and stir lightly. Allow to cool.

Place fruit and syrup into sterilised jars, ensuring you distribute pieces of cinnamon, star anise and allspice into each jar. Seal. Allow to stand in a cool, dark place for at least two weeks, although the flavour will keep developing for many months. Once opened keep jars in the fridge.

The brandied cumquats are delicious served with vanilla ice cream, yoghurt or cake and cream. The spiced syrup also makes a delicious spike for cocktails. Add a tablespoon of syrup to a glass of prosecco and you have yourself a Cumquatini!

Brigitte Monchouguy is a Seychelloise legal practitioner with a passion for social journalism. She is happiest when travelling, with interests in music, art, theatre and architecture. She also dabbles in mixology and will be sharing cocktail recipes along with her monthly escapades.

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BEHIND THE BUSINESS

Spreading Joy through the art of Face painting

By Elaine Lafortune Face painting is the perfect addition to any party, corporate event, or fundraiser. It brings fun, excitement, and joy to children and adults alike!

Seychellois artist Jennifa Marcel has the power right up her sleeves to make you believe little kids have morphed into superheroes, wild animals, and monsters with her amazing face painting skills. The 27 year old who found painting to be a breath of fresh air since she was but a young girl has a fascination with nature, which she often portrays on her canvases.

An A-level in Art and Graphic studies, presented Jennifa the opportunity to develop her innate artistic abilities.

Jennifa is the owner and sole artist of Fairy Face Painting. There is nothing she loves more than to see people light up with joy when they look in the mirror and see their transformation. She has been painting faces for the past seven years, which started upon a simple request from her nephew who offered her a box of face painting crayons. Ever since, she realised that face painting could turn into the next best thing. She’s been so successful at her craft that she’s already turned it into a part time business and is well known at festivals and birthday parties. In this exclusive interview, Marcel talks about how she got started and her life as a face painting artist so far.

How did you discover face painting and how did it transform into a full-time business?

I started playing around with some colours, and then I tried doing simple faces on my nephew who loved having his face painted. I also really enjoyed the opportunity to unleash my creativity. My family would see the creations I would come up with and suggest that I do it for an income.

With all the positive feedback I was receiving, I realised it was something I could really enjoy doing as a business. It all just grew from there.

Starting the business wasn’t so easy though, especially since face painting supplies are hard to come by. Thankfully, I have friends working abroad and this makes purchases slightly less hard to come by.

What’s your favourite subject to paint and why?

Designing creative character faces is as easy as using a crayon. I really love painting abstract designs and pretty stuff like flowers with lots of glitter. This is what I usually go for if I’m asked to freely face paint anything

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I would like. It is also a lot of fun to create designs that can really change the shape of the human face, and transform them into something else.

Whenever I go on a job, I come ready with an array of designs that the kids can choose from if they have no specific design that they would like to see, in mind.

What’s been the most difficult to paint, so far?

What’s been the most difficult to paint? Nothing, so far! Even when I don’t have my pamphlet of designs with me, I can still freestyle the designs that come to mind or that the clients request. I have gotten so used to doing it, that the ideas come almost naturally. I guess what I would consider the most challenging part of face painting is not the painting itself, but from having small clients who cannot sit still for too long. Having patience is definitely a necessity when working with small clients, but other than that, whenever I face paint, I just keep the line flowing and bring lots of smiles.

As an artist, what is the difference between painting on a canvas and on someone’s face?

I honestly find it easier to paint on the face, because it is more manageable as you can feel the surface you are about to paint on. For me, there is no better feeling than transforming somebody into a work of art; the process of creating something, which comes from visualizing an individual as a canvas. Taking in their personality and applying the paint to suit; enhancing their character and beauty. Feeling and seeing the joy this manifests is priceless.

What’s the weirdest face painting request you’ve received from a kid?

I have had so many different requests, so there is not a lot that I find strange anymore. A little boy asking to be turned into Dracula is probably not something I would have expected though.

I make it a must to ask the kids at home what they would like to have painted on them, and it is almost always something to do with wellknown Disney’s cartoon characters. So I try to remain updated with all the latest releases because I know they will definitely be requested.

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How long does each face painting take to finish?

When I am out on a job most paintings take between 5 – 10 minutes, although when I am trying something new on the kids at home it can take a little longer. I like to practice on them first before I try anything on a client. They are my guinea pigs.

How do you decide on the pricing for your clients?

When I go for events, I charge by the amount of hours I work. I can easily finish 30 kids under two hours. I used to charge per head, but I find it easier to just charge per hour.

What designs are you planning to paint next?

I have worked on a few designs but my aspiration is to expand into body painting. I am still waiting to get all the materials I need to start on that endeavour.

What face paint brand do you use and why?

I don’t have a particular brand because, like I said, they are hard to purchase. I do use these special crayons designed especially for face painting. Most of the local face painting

THE PROCESS 1. Tools are laid out

materials are not of particularly good quality and I refrain from using them; especially on babies, because their skin is more sensitive and they may cause allergies or rash.

2. A choice has to be made

Apart from your small circle of clientele, do you work with any other companies?

3. The canvas (face) is prepared

4. The fun bit!

I have worked with Air Seychelles and Creole Holidays, both during the Carnival and for company parties. I have also donated to charity and to the Cancer Association, all of which have really helped in advertising my business as well as expanding it. The joy of seeing repeat customers is so wonderful. I love it! I pride myself on my vibrant, clean, and beautiful work with the ability to also create edgy and modern designs, teens and adults love to get in on the fun as well! I feel quite content whenever I am able to use my talent to make someone smile.

You work alone. How hectic is your workload?

Yes, I do and I prefer it that way. Often times I find myself busy during the weekends and public holidays, so I have to keep a schedule to be able to meet all my clients’ demands. I love my job so much, but I am in the initial stages of growing my business. This means taking as much time as possible to perfect and learn new skills so I’m able to continuously progress. There are many other things that would definitely help enhance my business, but I’d like to feel confident that those things can come from my own hard work and perseverance. I love to be involved in as many community events as I’m asked to participate in, it’s been really difficult to turn people down - especially when I know it’s time I could have spent becoming better at what I do.

There is this perception that the business of art is not as rewarding here in the Seychelles. What are your views towards that?

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I do not agree. I believe if you want to make it as an artist, you have to love what you do and also believe in what you are doing. For this reason, I want to make an appeal to everyone with artistic skills to use and expose their skills to its maximum. There are a lot of green pastures out there for us to tread upon.

We just need to follow our dreams and we will make it through.

Face painting has proven to be a very good business for me thus far, and I believe it can do the same for those who share the same passion. My dedication is to bring joy to others through the experience of being turned into incredible works of art and I will continue to do until I’m unable to.

You can contact Jennifa on 2815429 for a booking.

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| From London to Mahé |

FIRST IMPRESSIONS Successfully navigating a first date can be tricky, but Daniel Balkwill has some tips to share

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he pulse beats at twice the normal rate and rivulets of sweat cascade inexorably down the brow. Conversely, the mouth is bone dry while the heart hammers unrelentingly in the chest.

These are all classic symptoms experienced just before going on a first date – the romantic equivalent of a particularly stressful job interview. Others include a sudden and inexplicable inability to speak or, perhaps even worse, talking twice as quickly as usual whilst spouting complete nonsense.

I haven’t been on a first date for some time now but I can still recall with stark clarity the almost palpable sense of fear that they can provoke. I imagine it is similar to what goes through a diver’s mind while he is standing right at the top of the highest platform about to take the plunge where all eventualities are possible, ranging from success to failure, to crippling injury.

While these experiences are always going to involve myriad variables with no guarantee of ultimate success, there are various methods that can be employed to help sway the dice in your favour. Firstly, remember that going on a date with someone is supposed to be fun, so be positive and do not allow yourself to adopt a negative, defeatist attitude. By both agreeing to meet up in the first place there must be at least a degree of initial mutual attraction so there is already definite cause for optimism!

Next, carefully consider the most appropriate venue for the date. Dinner a deux at a restaurant may be too formal an environment for some at this stage. And sitting next to someone you hardly know in a cinema without talking to them for two hours is not an ideal way of initially getting to know them. Meeting at a bar is often the best place to kick start a potentially successful date. The relaxed environment can act as the perfect icebreaker. Caveats include avoiding jumping the gun and having a few drinks beforehand, as ‘Dutch

courage’ invariably leads to a disappointing and prematurely curtailed evening. If you do go to a bar, then busy Friday and Saturday nights are best avoided, especially if a bunch of your mates are likely to be present in a state of advanced intoxication.

There can be no swifter passion killer for a lady than their date’s beer-fuelled friends arriving unexpectedly and proceeding to burp the national anthem.

Take an active interest in what she says and don’t try to consciously hog the conversation by talking about yourself all night. That can come across as being

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What happens if everything goes amazingly well and you end up in a scenario where a potential kiss is on the cards? I’ll leave working that one out up to you….

Dan works for Kreol Wines - a wine shop located at Eden Plaza on Eden Island, specialising in Argentinian, Australian, French and South African products.

Opening hours: Monday - Friday, 9am - 6.30pm; Saturday, 10am - 6pm; Sunday, 10am - 4pm

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insufferably arrogant and is generally a big turn off. Avoid taboo subject matter such as talking about ex-girlfriends and don’t try too hard to impress. Just act as naturally as possible. If that’s not good enough for her then she’s not for you and it’s not meant to be.

L’effet mode Cette période marque l’influence grandissante du mode de vie à l’américaine au sein de la bourgeoisie française, à travers l’adoption des sports en plein air comme le tennis, la natation, et les balades en bicyclette

Récemment, une vidéo parue sur le site buzzfeed, sur « le corps idéal des femmes à travers les âges » a beaucoup fait parler d’elle sur les réseaux sociaux. En l’espace de trois minutes, des femmes aux corps et aux styles distincts illustrent les idéaux de beauté à des époques et dans des civilisations différentes. Cette vidéo dresse un panel rapide mais intéressant : de la vision idéale de la femme de l’Egypte ancienne, svelte et athlétique, en passant par l’idéal de beauté voluptueuse de la Renaissance italienne, la silhouette fine et sportive de la garçonne des années folles, la silhouette en « sablier » des stars hollywoodiennes des années 50 à nos jours, les principaux canons de beauté féminine sont représentés.

L’idéal actuel, celui de « la beauté postmoderne, des années 2000 à aujourd’hui » correspondrait à un physique mince mais en bonne santé et aux formes généreuses, soit une beauté plantureuse à la Laëtitia Casta. Cet idéal de beauté rompt avec le canon de la décennie précédente, celui des silhouettes filiformes et androgynes des top models des années 1990, dont le mannequin le plus représentatif est l’anglaise Kate Moss. En l’espace de deux courtes décennies, la mode nous fait suivre un idéal et son contraire. C’est ce que souligne Umberto Eco dans L’Histoire de la beauté : notre époque se caractérise par une conception de la beauté vécue comme

L’omniprésence dans les médias des mannequins aux corps artificiels et retouchés sur Photoshop nous enchaîne au culte de la beauté et nous soumet à un idéal inatteignable.

provocation et remise en cause des canons esthétiques précédents. Elle se caractérise également par la pluralité des modèles de beauté, et par la disparition d’un modèle fixe et immuable du beau, comme c’était le cas auparavant. Nous vivons à l’ère de la beauté de la consommation, nous évoluons constamment dans un supermarché de la beauté où chacun achète et consomme ce qu’il veut, pour atteindre l’idéal de beauté qu’il s’est choisi.

Mais ce qui est dangereux aujourd’hui, c’est la rapidité à laquelle l’effet mode se dissipe. Ce qui était à la mode hier ne l’est plus aujourd’hui et la quête d’une beauté idéale, dans le vent et au goût du jour devient de plus en plus tyrannique, car elle est amplifiée par les médias. L’omniprésence dans les médias des mannequins aux corps artificiels et retouchés sur Photoshop nous enchaîne au culte de la beauté et nous soumet à un idéal inatteignable.

Les adolescentes sont les cibles privilégiées des médias puisqu’en France il existe actuellement environ 30 000 à 40 000 anorexiques selon le député et médecin Olivier Véran. Pour lutter contre l’anorexie des mannequins et empêcher que la maigreur s’impose davantage comme norme et idéal de beauté dans les mentalités, ce député a présenté un amendement récemment adopté par l’Assemblée nationale, interdisant l’exercice d’une activité de mannequin à toute personne présentant un indice de masse corporelle trop faible et signalant un état de dénutrition (IMC inférieur à 18, soit par exemple, 55 kg pour 1m75). Les députés espèrent un effet régulateur sur l’ensemble du secteur de la mode et des industries du luxe : les agences de mannequins ne respectant pas cette loi seront en effet soumises à de lourdes amendes. Avec cette nouvelle législation, la France emboîte le pas à l’Espagne et à l’Italie, mais seul le temps pourra déterminer l’efficacité de cette mesure.

Marie Welsch

Passionnée de littérature et de cinéma, Marie Welsch est responsable culturelle à l’Alliance française des Seychelles depuis maintenant un an. Originaire de la Réunion et ayant mené des études de lettres modernes et de sciences politiques à Aix-en Provence, elle s’intéresse à l’indianité et à l’identité créole des îles de l’Océan Indien et espère plus tard en faire l’objet d’une thèse.

Evènements culturels culturels

Cours de français

Ateliers créatifs

AllianceFrançaise de Victoria Toutes les informations sur les évènements culturels à l’Alliance sur notre site internet www.allianceseychelles.org

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C’est Moi…

Tous les mois maintenant depuis quelques années grâce à Potpourri, nous nous retrouvons vous et moi. Dernièrement l’un d’entre vous m’a demandé… mais qui êtes-vous Monsieur Georges ? Ce mois-ci, donc en toute humilité je partage avec vous l’excellente interview de Celine boura, responsable du blog Le luxe d’être soi. (http://leluxedetresoi.com) Directeur de la formation et du développement personnel dans un hôtel 5* aux Seychelles, Consultant pour l’ouverture du 1er village français conçu pour les personnes atteintes de la maladie d’Alzheimer, Responsable de la pédagogie de la prestigieuse école de Savignac, Responsable des bénévoles d’une unité de soins palliatifs, Premier maître d’hôtel au Ritz…Un parcours de haute voltige entièrement dédié au service de l’autre. Parce que finalement, tout dans sa vie et sa manière d’être transpire le luxe d’être soi, Georges Gravé s’est prêté avec beaucoup de générosité au jeu de l’interview.

Une Rencontre que je considère comme collector, tant ses mots font sens ici.

Georges, racontez-nous votre incroyable parcours de vie.

J’ai reçu une éducation simple, avec une maman qui a arrêté de travailler les 5 premières années de ma vie pour bien baliser le futur parcours (merci Maman). La première phrase que j’ai dite quand on me demandait ce que je voulais faire plus tard fut : « Je veux servir et aider les gens ».

Et c’est ce que j’ai toujours fait dans ma vie jusqu’à aujourd’hui. Une grande chance, car je

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(par Georges Gravé)

Etre heureux est un choix personnel, et ce n’est pas un hasard. Il faut travailler tous les jours à ce bonheur. ne me suis jamais ennuyé une seule seconde, je ne me suis jamais réveillé un seul matin en me disant « Zut, il faut que j’aille bosser ».

J’ai donc fait une école hôtelière, c’était ma façon d’apprendre à servir les autres, et j’ai fait carrière dans cette industrie du voyage, du loisir, de la gastronomie et de la grande hôtellerie, en passant par de grandes maisons comme le Ritz de Paris. SERVIR, et pas servitude. Certains ont besoin d’aller en Inde dans des âshrams pour découvrir leur vie spirituelle, moi je l’ai découverte à travers mon métier. Très jeune, j’ai ouvert le premier restaurant français de Cologne et j’étais lancé sur une grande carrière sans failles… Mais heureusement, un rêve et une rencontre m’ont fait comprendre que je devais partir découvrir le monde. A suivi un voyage initiatique de deux ans (à travers l’Inde,

le Pakistan, l’Afghanistan, le Népal et le Tibet), où j’ai vraiment compris ce que voulait dire le mot Servir. Je n’ai eu de cesse par la suite de continuer ma passion de ce métier.

10 ans en tant que Premier maître d’hôtel au Ritz à Paris, en étant en parallèle responsable des bénévoles de la 1ère unité de soins palliatifs en France, 18 ans en tant que directeur de pédagogie à l’école de Savignac. J’ai créé et dirigé l’une des écoles de management hôtelier les plus cotés de France avec la vision de former des Managers heureux de vivre. Je n’avais jamais été directeur d’école, mais je suis toujours arrivé à faire des choses au bon moment, au bon endroit, avec les bonnes personnes.

Les choses arrivent quand elles doivent arriver, si nous sommes dans l’accueil et le recevoir. Et maintenant, le Maia aux Seychelles…

Comment vous êtes-vous retrouvé aux Seychelles dans cet endroit idyllique et quel est votre travail au quotidien ?

Il y a 18 ans, un de mes anciens étudiants ouvrait ce fantastique resort dans lequel l’humain devait être au centre de l’aventure, et il cherchait un formateur capable d’enseigner l’amour.

J’étais dans sa mémoire le seul à pouvoir le faire.

J’y suis depuis 2007 Directeur de la formation et du développement personnel. Take care of your staff and they will take care of your guest.

Voilà mon métier, former des gens heureux !

L’originalité du resort Maia est d’avoir mis l’accent sur une nouvelle forme de luxe, à savoir la recherche du plaisir émotionnel et la

liberté personnelle dans un environnement naturel, grâce à un séjour d’un nouveau type : l’expérientiel, faisant appel aux cinq sens.

Parlez-nous de votre expérience en tant que responsable des bénévoles d’une unité de soins palliatifs. En quoi cela vous a enrichit sur le plan humain donc professionnel ?

Une expérience et une aventure absolument extraordinaires. Je travaillais aux soins palliatifs en parallèle du Ritz. Cela peut paraître complètement paradoxal, en fait non. Servir avec le cœur, donner de l’amour, de l’écoute et de l’attention, c’est la même chose en soins palliatifs qu’au Ritz. Certes le costume change, les dialogues sont différents, mais c’est la même chose. Travailler dans une unité de soins palliatifs est une expérience magique de découverte de soi. Un lieu où il est impossible de tricher avec soi ou avec les autres.

Des moments intenses de vérité et d’humilité, car ce qui est important, c’est d’être soi et d’être vrai. De savoir respecter son émotion et les émotions des autres, et surtout de les partager.

On y apprend qu’il n’y a plus de temps à perdre en futilité. Chaque seconde est la seconde la plus importante à vivre ! Il faut savoir oublier ses propres désirs et le mot empathie prend toute sa signification. Et surtout le plus important à comprendre, c’est que c’est uniquement un travail d’équipe. Chaque rouage a son importance, et ainsi l’ego de chacun disparaît pour le bien être de l’autre.

Chaque mot doit être en cohérence avec sa pensée et ses actions. Mais surtout, ne pas croire qu’une unité de soins palliatifs est un endroit triste. Certes le deuil est présent, mais l’amour, la joie, les rires sont aussi là, et vraiment c’est un apprentissage de la vie d’avoir eu la chance d’être à cet endroit-là au bon moment.

Et une fois de plus, j’y ai rencontré des gens fantastiques qui m’ont enseigné l’art de vivre et de mourir.

Quel savoir souhaitez-vous transmettre à travers votre manière d’être au quotidien ?

Etre heureux est un choix personnel, et ce n’est pas un hasard. Il faut travailler tous les jours à ce bonheur. Donner et recevoir, c’est le secret de notre métier et certainement le secret de la vie.

Ce qui est important, c’est aussi d’être en éveil sur le monde, tant au niveau technique qu’humain. Nous faisons un métier d’épicuriens et nous avons la chance de fréquenter les

merveilleux produits de tous les terroirs du monde, et derrières ces terroirs il y a toujours des hommes passionnés. J’ai passé ma vie à rencontrer les bonnes personnes au bon moment. Elles me portent ou me blessent, mais toutes m’ont fait avancer.

La grande hôtellerie, c’est comme la haute couture, un métier de rigueur, un métier d’acteur.

Savoir son texte peut demander des années de travail et de recherches, mais comme un

L’originalité du resort Maia est d’avoir mis l’accent sur une nouvelle forme de luxe, à savoir la recherche du plaisir émotionnel et la liberté personnelle dans un environnement naturel, grâce à un séjour d’un nouveau type : l’expérientiel, faisant appel aux cinq sens.

acteur, la liberté est de savoir maîtriser sa prison, et alors seulement après ce long travail, nous avons peut-être la chance de devenir un GRAND professionnel.

Dans ce métier, il nous est aussi donner l’opportunité de servir les grands de la planète, sportifs, politiques, stars de cinéma… Le secret pour durer et pour bien servir est tout simplement de savoir rester à sa place, et de maîtriser le luxe d’être soi.

Se connaître, avec ses forces et ses faiblesses, et surtout s’aimer. Il est strictement impossible de servir et d’aimer l’autre sans jugement, si nous ne commençons pas par se donner à soi-même de l’amour et du respect.

Qu’est qui vous passionne dans la vie ?

La vie en elle-même, découvrir l’imprévu de chaque jour, la rencontre de l’autre. La passion de mon métier, métier de magicien et de faiseur de rêves. Le goût de transmettre et de faire partager mes passions aux autres.

J’ai la chance en ce moment de vivre aux Seychelles, où les gens se disent encore bonjour en se croisant, où la lumière est tellement belle qu’il n’est pas rare d’arrêter la voiture, de descendre, de s’asseoir et juste de regarder, le cœur plein de beauté.

Quelle empreinte souhaitez-vous laisser auprès des gens ?

Strictement aucune ! Je m’explique : au début de ma carrière de formateur, je voulais absolument que mes élèves retiennent ou comprennent ce que j’avais à leur dire. J’ai mis des années à comprendre que j’étais dans l’erreur. Mon ego me dominait et j’avais la non humilité de croire que mon message, ou mon cours, ou mon conseil devait absolument être une vérité absolue. J’étais dans l’erreur et absolument pas dans le détachement. L’autre est libre de prendre ou de laisser, d’aimer ou pas ce que je suis en train de dire ou d’enseigner.

Je suis d’autant plus performant que je ne suis plus dans le pouvoir… Et en étant totalement libre moi-même et sans aucune attente, l’autre en face le devient aussi.

Un message à faire passer aux lecteurs.

Malgré ce que je viens de dire juste avant, oui ! Je voudrais faire partager un message primordial pour moi, c’est le secret de la vie, le secret du bonheur, et c’est ce qui me permet d’être moi : rien n’est stable.

Rien, mais vraiment RIEN n’est stable dans la vie. Tout change, tout évolue, tout apparaît et disparaît, les émotions tristes ou joyeuses, les sentiments, l’amour, tout passe avec le temps, avec la vie.

J’ai vraiment compris cela, lorsqu’un jour, je n’ai pas pu me souvenir du visage de ma grandmère morte depuis longtemps. L’exemple suprême, c’est l’amour ! Rencontre, passion, plaisir et puis parfois rupture, souffrance, chagrin d’amour… et puis un jour, pfff, plus rien, c’est fini et la vie reprend… Rien n’est stable, pour moi c’est le secret du bonheur, et je le mets en pratique chaque jour (ou presque).

Ce qui me permet de vivre à fond chaque chose car tout finalement est éphémère.

Georges Gravé is the Personal Development & Training Manager at the Maia Luxury Resort and Spa

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KNOW YOUR RIGHTS WITH BERNARD GEORGES Will the parent be bound to refund the cost of the renovations? Can the child enforce a refund? Can the parent ask for the building to be removed? Bernard Georges looks at all the possibilities in this month’s dilemma.

Question: I renovated my mother’s house with the intention of moving in with my family to live with her.

After one year I had to make the decision to move out because we simply could not get along. She is now threatening to take me to court since the renovations are not conducive to her living by herself. I do not have any papers indicating that she allowed me to conduct any of the renovations. Could she have a case?

This question raises a common problem and one for which the law has constantly to find new solutions in order to render justice. It concerns, at its core, the rights and obligations of people who build on land belonging to others. These situations range from a parent granting a child permission to build on the parent’s land, to extending a house belonging to a spouse or companion, to a house renovation as in the example given here. They are all variations on the same theme. So long as the relationship between the owner of the land and the builder of the construction is good there is no problem. But what happens when they fall out?

Readers of my column will have become familiar with my statement that the law always finds a solution to problems. The business of the law is never to cross its arms and say that it can do nothing. Justice requires that the law is applied fairly and a solution found to ensure that nobody is ever left high and dry. In doing so, the law has designed a series of rules which guide one through the steps to a solution. Very briefly stated, these steps as concerns the current problem are the following: The intention of the parties will first be sought. What was their plan in the arrangement? That will answer most questions and the law will enforce what the parties intended. If the intention cannot be ascertained because, for example, the parties never discussed what would become of a particular situation, the law provides a set of default rules which will apply. These rules, whether they are contractual or others, will determine what will be fair and just in a given situation. It sometimes happens that the parties have discussed a part of the plan, but not all of it. For instance, a parent and child may agree – as in our problem here – to the child making changes to the parent’s house, without discussing what will happen if the child leaves the house. Will the parent be bound to refund the cost of the renovations? Can the child enforce a refund? Can the parent ask for the building to be removed?

The answer to these questions lies not only in a search for the intention of the parties, but also in a series of other considerations, which include whether the construction was made in good or bad faith, whether the landowner asked the person who had built to leave or whether that person chose to do so, as well as the relationship between the owner of the land and the one building on it. It is a complex issue and is sometimes a difficult one to resolve. However, a general rule is that a person who builds on the land of another in good faith and with permission will be entitled to be compensated by the owner of the land for the building if that person wishes to leave or is asked to do so. This can sometimes lead to some hardship as the owner of land may end up with having to pay for a building (or part of one) that the person never wanted in the first place and only obtained through trying to help another. The answer to this is that it would be equally unfair to ask someone who has spent money on somebody else’s property to leave without compensation. The law seeks a fair balance between the two extremes.

Applying these principles to the question here leads us to a clear answer. There was an agreement for the child to renovate her mother’s land with a view to moving in with her. That is clear. The fact that the child has no document to evidence that is neither here nor there. The

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mother’s silence in the face of the renovations being carried out shows that she must have agreed to them.

So, the good faith rule is observed. It is equally clear that the mother and child never discussed what would happen if the child moved out after the renovations. The law will step in here and allow the child to claim the cost of the renovations since these have increased the value of the mother’s house. The situation would have been very different if the two had agreed that in the event of the child moving out, the renovations would belong to the mother without compensation. If that was the agreement, then the law will enforce it. If not, the child has a theoretical right to the cost of the renovations.

So far, so good. Or so bad, depending on which way one wants to look at it.

But that is not the question which is asked.

The child here is not concerned with the cost of the renovations. He or she is concerned that the mother may have a claim because the renovations have transformed the house and it now is no longer conducive to the mother living in it alone. Does the mother have a winnable case? Again, the point of departure is to seek the intention of the parties. What exactly

did they have in mind? The probability is that they never thought about it. Most people do not. The mother would have a possible claim if the house had clearly been transformed into one where she could no longer live in it alone – for example if she is handicapped and the renovations have now put all the bedrooms on a floor above. If, however, the renovations have merely made it inconvenient rather than impossible for her to reside in the house – it is now too big for her to clean by herself, for instance – then she may not have a winnable claim. Or at any rate not one that will bring her much satisfaction. A court looking at the case is likely to say that this was a risk taken by two adults and that the mother has benefitted from the renovations. The result is likely to be a give-and-take one. If the child insists on being refunded the renovation costs, the mother may reduce that by a factor to compensate her for the inconvenience of living alone in a bigger house. If, on the other hand, the child does not ask for a refund of the cost of the renovation, the mother is likely going to fail in any claim on the basis that she has done rather well in having a renovated house, inconvenient to live in alone or not.

Educated at Seychelles College and Cambridge University, Bernard Georges has two Masters Degrees – in the law of divorce and in canon law, the law of the church. He is best known as a lawyer, having been in private practice for over 30 years. Over the past ten years, he has also been a member of the National Assembly. He is currently a part-time lecturer in law at the University of Seychelles, where he teaches Constitutional Law. And, he is a budding writer. He has written and published two novels to date and he promises many more books on history, law and Seychelles.

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VIEW FROM THE STATION

THE JOURNEY’S END Is exactly where we are by Jenny Gilbert with Dr Jyotsna Gundecha It is so incredible to be connected! And I don’t mean to the world wide web. That too, mind you, but much more profound is the connection to the immense matrix that is the universe and the universes beyond. And I am in that matrix – you too.

By submerging ourselves into this ocean of wisdom and guidance, we easily find exactly what we need exactly at the right time. Sometimes we aren’t aware that this is happening in perfect order but if we’re only willing to look at how things fit together we get a chance to realise that we’re part of the connection and that it happens without us even trying!

I went through a brief moment of despair about five weeks ago when I wondered how on earth I would find someone to fill the shoes of not only our lovely Homeopath, Dr Apurva Tamhane but also to take over our yoga therapy at The Station. It all happened at once and I was at a total loss despite accepting that there was nothing I could do to change things. Reaching for my ancient guides, the Runes and I Ching (more about them in another issue), I knew everything would be alright. As I sat down, opened my computer and typed in ‘homeopath yoga therapist’, the

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first link at the top of the page led me to Dr Jyotsna Gundecha, or Dr Jyo (pronounced Jo) as she is more fondly known.

As if by magic, Jyo came to The Station. Magic, however, has nothing to do with it as I understand. Our connection has everything to do with us being connected to this matrix and, more sublimely, with the trust that we have in allowing the universe to direct us by accepting this as a reality.

And it all happens right now, in this very moment. We don’t have to travel anywhere or do anything. My journey to Jyo was where I am.

As Jyo herself exclaims: “Even in Mumbai, the chances of meeting a Yoga Therapist who trained at Svyasa University in Bangalore would be so slim as to be remote. Even more unlikely would be meeting a Homeopath who not only studied at the same medical university in Pune, India but who also lived in the same neighbourhood!”

Within a day or two of arriving at The Station, Jyo realised that our previous yogi who came to the end of his contract, studied Yoga Therapy as she did – at the same University. As if that’s not enough, our previous

Over to you Dr Jyo. “Aham Brahmasi”. I am the Brahman – the divine power. This is the Truth that we seek; the quest of all knowledge ends here. As Swami Vivekananda said “Every soul is potentially divine”. We just have to decide to manifest this divinity in our everyday life. And how is this done? The answer is Yoga.

I believe that we are connected by energy – and this energy is real; it weaves its way in and out of our immediate environment, touching us, through our friends, acquaintances, places and objects, reminding us of our connection to someone who, at some point will touch us when the time is right.

Homeopath not only studied at the same Homeopathic medical university but also lived in the same neighbourhood! “What is this?” one may wonder. Can it be anything less than what I experience all the time?

Let me try and encapsulate my thoughts on this: I believe that we are connected by energy – and this energy is real; it weaves its way in and out of our immediate environment, touching us, through our friends, acquaintances, places and objects, reminding us of our connection to someone who, at some point will touch us when the time is right.

Jyo was bound to come here. Touched by the flow of connective energy surrounding our past homeopath and yoga therapist, she can now touch us. Who knows where that connectivity will show up next and that is not important. What matters is that she’s here now and she is exactly what we need and desire in order to carry on our healing work at The Station.

I’ve asked Jyo to take over writing these articles so that she can connect with you. I owe that to you and to The Station. And I owe it to Jyo to share her love and passion for Homeopathy and Yoga, both ancient forms of healing with energy. Jyo has practiced Homeopathy for 18 years.

Yoga is often misunderstood for its twisting body postures, whereas it is much much more than that. Yoga is a way of living. And is this some kind of living that can be practised only in the Himalayas? Obviously, if that was so, the knowledge wouldn’t be available to us at all. The fact that the seers of this ancient wisdom decided to share it with the common people means this path is meant for all to follow.

Since time immemorial, yoga has guided humans in their quest for ultimate knowledge. The commoners have used yoga to achieve enviable bodies and grace. But beyond all this, the relevance of yoga today lies in its capacity to heal the diseased. The stress of modern day living, combined with the high paced lifestyle has taken a toll on mankind. The answer to this is to SLOW DOWN. And this doesn’t mean that we stop doing our duties. But yoga teaches one how to remain in balance while we go on with our everyday life.

Yoga has been used widely for ailments affecting the joints and muscles, for hormonal disorders such as diabetes and thyroid, for anxiety and depression. There have been numerous research papers citing the efficacy of yoga in conditions of the heart, where early heart problems have been reversed and repeat angioplasty has been avoided in patients who already had a stent in one or more arteries. For the younger generation, yoga benefits these hyperactive minds to be focused and refrain from addiction and to develop healthy relationships. Yoga is the need of the hour as we see our nations burdened with increasing health costs.

At The Station we have been blending yoga with homeopathy and other healing techniques to give patients the confidence to take their health into their own hands.

Yoga therapy at The Station is personalised, in the sense that we give one-on-one, tailor-made sessions depending on the need and state of the patient. The use of breathing practices, pranayama, meditation, yoga postures and swara-yoga-chanting gently soothes the mind and the body and ailments simply melt away as one progresses on the path.

I conclude by saying that no matter what the ailment, and what mode of treatment you choose, yoga can be an effective complement to it. And very soon, you may be pleasantly surprised when you no longer need anything else!

Jenny Gilbert is the founder and owner of Everglow Ltd, the island’s premier natural health manufacturers and service providers. She is also Director of Wellness at Resonate Wellness at The Station. Homeopathy is a well recognised system of natural medical treatments for most diseases and conditions. Please visit http://www.thestationseychelles.com/ reflections or email wellbeing@thestationseychelles.com

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Having been intensely involved in the application of simply shifting Yoga Therapy as an adjunct to homeopathy to lead patients to a life free of disease, she has spent years in research programmes dedicated to this work.

This article alone, information from the matrix, is connecting you to knowledge that you already have. It’s now over to Dr Jyo, our new light at The Station, to touch you and guide you onwards, to the place where you are already.

AGONY AUNT

A daughter’s pain and a mother’s desperate situation.

Annalisa Labiche addresses two complex issues this month.

Q: Dear Annalisa,

I have decided to end my relationship with my mother. I have reached a point where I have realised that her constant abuse has the potential to turn me into her – bitter, angry and malicious. I have tried time and time again to forgive and to have a normal relationship but it always backfires. There is a pang in my heart even if I know it’s for the best. Will I live to regret this?

Jill, 37 Dear Jill, One can never make a call on such a question. One should never have to.

However what one can tell is that all relationships, be it familial, spousal, partner or friends, go through phases and different situations. Some of those phases or situations are easy to move on from while others may be that much harder to get through. Simply because relationships are never easy, they come with bumps and hurdles along the way.

Relationships require the coming together of people. Which translates to the coming together of different beliefs, thoughts and ways of doing things. No two people are ever the same. Not even family, although we tend to think that as a family, we should have similar views and ways of doing things.

Let’s think about this for a moment. Has your mother been able to change her ways into your ways? Then why should you fear changing your ways into her ways? As much as she is resistant to changing into your ways, you have as much power to resist turning into her. So the fear is really, just that, fear. There is a popular belief that life’s important decisions should not be made from a place of fear. So maybe you can re-evaluate.

Also important to explore is your expectation of a “normal relationship” with your mother. I gather that in your opinion to have that “normal relationship” your mother has to change. Now this is where it starts to become hopeless. You are unable to control the change that you require from her. Have you considered having a different relationship from the expected “normal relationship” with your mother? Is that possible?

Could you restrict your relationship with her to the basic interaction, so that you don’t cut her out of your life but you restrict her input and impact in general?

I wonder for you if this seems to be the only thing to do, why do you foresee the “regret”? Could it be because you have not been able to convince yourself enough of that decision?

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Dear Annalisa, When I dreamt of having a family, I dreamt of a house, a garden, a husband and happy kids. Turns out I was wrong about all of it. I live in a flat along with my divorced status and two young boys who I am constantly screaming at and who resent me. I have started to feel resentment towards them as well. Is it possible for a mother not to love her children? I feel like I am in a hopeless situation – I am tired and barely making ends meet with no support at all. I wish I could just run away. I must sound awful to you but how can I start to make things better?

May, 25 Dear May, There is nothing awful about recognising our fallen moments and seeking

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help to make a positive change. It is clear that you had a “happily-everafter” picture of marriage and family that did not quite go according to what you had sketched. Most times when things do not go according to our plan, it is not uncommon for us to experience pain, anger, hurt, resentment, disappointment and even guilt, the not-so-good feelings.

These not-so-good feelings are preceded by a number of unhelpful selfstatements and thoughts that are triggered when we consider situations as failed or when we experience the loss of what we perceive as our ideal or perfect situation.

Unhelpful thinking styles have long been linked with conditions such as anxiety and depression. Such thought patterns such as “catastrophising”, “labelling”, “black and white thinking” (to name but a few) trigger and maintain conditions that do not necessarily allow us the energy to move ahead. When depressed or harbouring low mood one has little energy to be active in attending to life’s challenges, in your case the ability to deal with two young boys. In addition, people lose interest in activities that they previously found pleasant and satisfying. Therefore the person engages in less and less activities, which inadvertently decreases one’s interest in attending to life.

By feeling down, you go through a phase where you are unable to effectively deal with your children’s behaviour. Consequently, you resort to less effective methods such as screaming. What develops in the future is your children get accustomed to engaging in that “naughty” behaviour and to your screaming. At the same time, your preoccupation with all things related to the “failed marriage” means you inadvertently give little attention to the children. The catch here is that the screaming, although poor, serves as attention to the children. Children thrive on attention, any attention for that matter.

I would recommend first identifying your source of social support, in whatever form it comes in (family, friends, or work colleagues). Don’t be afraid to ask for their help. If you are someone who lost everyone as you embarked on your own “family journey”, then go back, talk to them and try to reconnect. Through it all, allow your ex-husband to help out with the children as much as he wants to. You need the alone time. Avoid using children as weapons to fight with, for what was lost.

Good luck with it all.

Note: I would recommend assistance of a trained professional to help you adjust your thoughts about your ideal situation versus your actual situation. Some parenting training would also assist in re-learning how to manage your children’s behaviour in a more appropriate manner that would allow you more control over the parenting situation. Control over that situation will allow you to at least continue to be the kind of mother you pictured for yourself, despite losing other parts of the equation.

Annalisa Labiche is a practicing Clinical Psychologist with over five years experience. She completed her Bachelor of Art (Psychology) degree and Masters in Psychology in Australia. She gives advice on a multitude of subjects, including relationships, parenting, family issues, psychological disorders, substance misuse amongst many others.

WELLBEIN G

A PRESENT FATHER Celia delves into the world of fathers and pays homage to her own For the longest time, the stereotypical father came home from a long day at work to find supper on the table, the children clean and quiet and his newspaper by his chair. Fathers were seen as the figurehead and disciplinarian of the family and mothers were the go-to person.

Things have changed in the last 20 years and research is showing that a fathers role within his family dynamics has an important effect on his children’s well-being and their personalities as they get older. Parents have a critical influence in our upbringing and development and play a vital role in shaping our behaviours and ensuring our emotional balance as adults.

Emotional From birth onwards, a father’s active participation can have a lasting effect on his child’s emotional well-being. A loving dad influences healthy self-esteem and teaches his children empathy and a positive social outlook. This involvement, starting at infancy, encourages curiosity and emotional security.

Education A dad being there for his child has benefits that carry over into the classroom. Men who involve themselves with their school age children, especially in a single-mother environment, help them perform better in school. Even if the male parental figure is not the biological father, his active contribution translates into fewer behavioural issues at school and better social interaction with fellow students.

Relationship with Mother A healthy marriage translates into happy children. If a father’s relationship with the mother is good, chances are that they will raise

emotionally and psychologically healthier children. Fathers who have a satisfying rapport with mothers tend to be more able to handle the ups and downs of toddlers, be more affectionate and responsive to their teenage children and are responsive to their infants.

Discipline and Problem Solving A father’s role in his children’s discipline is not to be overlooked. Being there to back up the mother and to share responsibilities can make discipline easier, less frustrating and more positive for all concerned. Effective communication, controlled anger and applying problem solving to mistakes with your child encourages positive self-esteem and sets a good example well into adulthood.

And my father?

My earliest memory of my father was probably him lying down on my bedroom carpet and me combing his long hair. I don’t particularly have memories of him playing hide and seek or teaching me sports but rather just being there present for me to just feed him with my baby kitchenette or just serve him tea or play hairdresser.

I also have memories of him travelling a lot, not being home often but talking to him every single day wherever he was, he never failed to call us and say goodnight.

Despite him being very rarely physically present I could never say he was not present in my life. To me, he was very much present in every moment and every important step I took growing up. The occasions he was home he was constantly involved in everything that we were doing and when he was away, he was constantly updated and from however many kilometres away he was there for me.

I have been away from home since I was 18 years old. Sometimes I look around and see that so many people have made choices in life to be close to their family members. I see how beautiful it is to be able to share and reunite on certain occasions without having to travel anywhere. To me, it is normal to be far from my family and only see them on special occasions and I don’t even remember how it feels like to have family live close to you. One thing I know is that today technology has opened communication channels to allow you to really share important moments of your life even if it’s from a distance. My father is definitely one which has embraced this technology and even if I am going on 28 he still never fails to call me.

I sometimes joke and tell him I am now an adult and that he doesn’t need to check on me all the time, but it’s like this; his presence will always be here.

Ti voglio bene Puapey

Célia is passionate to inspire happier and healthier lives by sharing holistic tips to her public.

Her background is in medical anthropology and public health. She is currently working in the nutrition unit at the ministry of health.

Life, love and everything else African literature reveals aspects of African history and its colonial experience in three different ways: firstly by portraying characters that undertake soul discovering journeys, secondly those that expose myths and confront racial archetypes and thirdly those that provide counter discursive narratives, reinterpreting and rewriting history.

The Diverse Stories of Africa A love for African literature has Alexandria Faure appreciating the continent’s culture and history that much more

Plays like Ovonramwen Nogbaisi, Children of The Goddess, Death And The King’s Horseman and books like Chinua Achebes When Things Fall Apart, expose different aspects of Africa’s response to colonialism and offer a scope of a multiplicity of voices in the colonial experience.

There are elements that refrain the reader from stereotyping the colonial history of Africa. The voices of a people can be heard through these stories.

The plays encourage an engagement with different accounts of history and provide

awareness of different perspectives of the colonial history of Africa. The plays also reveal how slavery disrupted an indigenous culture, threatening its social and cultural structures, value systems and dignity of its people.

The relationship between colonialism and African history is one that is paradoxical. It confronts issues concerning language, culture, identity and politics. The reader better begins to understand why today Africa faces so many social and economic issues. Although I learnt about slavery and colonialism in school, reading African literature enabled me to empathise with the struggles these people faced and understand the ongoing struggle today.

Africa is a continent bursting with culture and history. But there are many stories to Africa and many unhidden ones yet to be discovered.

If there’s one thing that is truly inspiring and sensational, it’s reading African literature.

Alexandria Faure is a freelance writer with a degree in Drama & Theatre Arts and hopes to pursue a masters in the near future. She is passionate about preserving the unique Kreol culture and heritage of Seychelles, and her hobby is researching different cultural aspects of Seychelles and the historical stories behind them. She hopes to share ideas and thoughts drawn from her life experiences in her articles.

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Daddy’s Dishes Nathalie Hodgson shares with us what goes on in her kitchen and how Daddies can be in charge.

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today. He would then send you on errands back and forth from the BBQ to the kitchen fetching the next load of marinated meats or special sauces. Even though I was forced to finish all the meat on my plate, as even back then I knew my body did not like meat, family meal time were fond memories I treasure.

My children enjoy my simple dishes, and one day they will understand that they were not just ‘the standard’, but healthy and nutritious meals chosen for their growing bodies. I enjoy cooking now, knowing that they are eating balanced meals that give them the minerals, vitamins and energy they require. From a lot of research in my health studies, I now have the experience and am able to see very clearly the distinct effect food has on their moods, concentration span and energy levels. Being able to expose them to the right foods for as long as I can, in these early stages of their life is the least I can do.

Teaching nutrition to children early and often is the key to developing healthy eating habits. My husband often gets the kids to sit up with him on the kitchen bench while he works his magic explaining the processes and letting them help with certain actions.

We talk a lot about the ingredients, where it comes from, how it grows and how it got to our kitchen and on our plate. It’s great to get them to talk about food and we choose a favourite fruit and vegetable each week (saying them out loud with a Mr or Miss, for example I am ‘Mrs Mummy Mango’). With brand new dishes or foods, it normally takes a few weeks and around 10-15 requests before they will accept. What we emphasise is not the fact they eat it all but they are willing to try it. That way they will not head into life (maybe at friend’s house or in restaurants) refusing to try new foods, as it will get harder to get a balanced nutrition with a limited boring diet. Start with small bites (of Mummy’s), and don’t make it a drama if they don’t want to.

Nathalie Hodgson, is a writer, mother, PR & Marketing consultant, Doterra essential oils advocate and yoga instructor, riding the waves of life with her two kids and adorable beau and enjoying each moment, she can be contacted on natsavy@hotmail.com.

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Most of us have memories of our mothers making and serving delicious meals through the week, definitely weekends with extra special efforts during the holidays. I grew up in a household where everyone loved to be in the kitchen, and even fought over who would cook. With both parents experimenting with new dishes, and from the time that my sisters could reach the kitchen bench, I was served delicious sandwiches.

I fell into the role of ‘the entertainer’ which meant setting the tables, getting the drinks and prepping for the meal to be served. As a mother, my cooking skills have come a long way and my forte is still the hostess, however Daddy is most certainly the chef in our household.

I never had a large appetite and unlike the rest of my family, my day does not circulate around the ‘next meal’, rather I am reminded by the noises in my belly that it’s time to replenish and then I go searching for what is available. I was always the health fanatic, however things change a lot when you become a parent. You are always thinking about food.

The meals for the week, the snacks, the dishes for playdates, lunchboxes, birthday parties and picnics. Their necessary daily intake of sugar, carbohydrates, fibre, protein, minerals and most importantly trying your hardest to stay away from preservatives and other nasties that are so convenient in packet food but have so many side effects.

Lucky for me for having a husband that loves to cook and experiment in the kitchen, have led to our children (aged 3 and 4), to not be attached to certain kinds of foods. They are however very picky on quality and tasty foods, which everyone should be. An example of the average weekly meals are tofu stir-fry, fish cakes with spinach and corn, chicken tagine with chick peas and pumpkin, rosemary lamb and vegetable pie, stuffed mushrooms, sweet and sour fish, vegetarian pizza, all accompanied by several side dishes such as lentils, couscous, spinach salad and roasted beetroot to name a few. So versatile are their tastebuds that I am even sometimes shocked at what they eat.

My father used to specialise in meat dishes. Looking back we had the most sumptuous crackling pork, roasted chicken, tender lamb chops and wagu beef on the BBQ in Australia. I remember his ritual of marinating the meats the night before (which took up so much room in the refrigerator), cleaning the BBQ a few hours prior, taking out his cooking tool set and inviting you to stand around while he spoke in length on how to cook which meat on which hot plate or grill and for how long.

This knowledge was so useful and my sisters still use his tips and tricks

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The House of Kankan From unique fashion offerings to a recently launched homeware section, there’s no stopping Kankan’s Karine Dupouy

By Lynette Botha Kankan is a household name in the Seychelles. The brainchild of talented Seychellois designer Karine Dupouy, Kankan was launched shortly after she graduated from the world-renowned Central Saint Martins College of Art and Design in London. Instead of leaving her home country, like many do, to make a success in the big wide world, Karine chose to remain in the Seychelles and contribute to the local design and fashion trade of the islands.

After almost five successful years dressing Seychellois and tourists alike in beautiful garments, the store has now branched out into home-ware.

We catch up with Karine to hear about this next venture.

The Kankan fashion brand is wellknown and loved in Seychelles; tell us why you’re now introducing home-ware?

We wanted to extend our product offering to home-ware as we noticed the lack of designer home and décor shops in Seychelles. There are of course many good shops on the island, but none dedicated to bringing in the latest and more modern designer pieces that we do.

When did you first notice the demand for luxury and quality home-ware products in Seychelles?

It was more of my mother’s idea (she is also a director of the company). She is the one with the love for home-ware and décor, so this section is more of her ‘baby’.

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I focus mainly on the fashion side, but we do agree on all aspects of the business together. She loves to entertain at the house and always had to buy her tableware from abroad in the past. This is when we realised that branching out would be a great idea as we see so many beautiful things whenever we attend trade fairs.

So far people have been very satisfied with the quality and choice we are offering. Kankan Victoria is our signature boutique, and we put a great deal of work in to it, trying to make it a designer store

The Kankan store in the CBD is one of the slickest shop setups in all of Mahe – who designed the layout of the store for you?

Paris Searles did the concept and design of the shop. He knows the brand very well and created it in a way that would suit our needs. The architect made sure that our branding was seen everywhere, from the logo behind the main desk to the steel bars under the table.

What’s next for Kankan?

I will definitely do an online store when the time is right and will start getting my atelier here in Seychelles to produce custom-made dresses.

Kankan is open from 9.30am to 5.30pm on weekdays and from 9.30am to 2.00pm on Saturdays. They also offer wedding gift registries, gift vouchers and free gift-wrapping. Do yourselves a favour and pop by soon!

Where do you source these products?

We go to the Italian trade shows every September to source our products. We choose everything according to the next season ahead and choose products from Italy, France, the UK and Holland, for now. At the moment we have some amazing brands, including Mario Luca Giusti, Onlylux and Brandani. We have another two brands that we’ll be stocking shortly that offer modern and sleek designs for the kitchen.

Does Kankan currently produce any of the home-ware?

Not at the moment but it is definitely something we’ll be doing in the future. Currently I am planning to design prints for towels, cushion covers and bed sheets, as a starting point.

What has the reaction from customers been this far?

So far people have been very satisfied with the quality and choice we are offering. Kankan Victoria is our signature boutique, and we put a great deal of work in to it, trying to make it a designer store. When we started, we knew it had to stand out and feel unique. We have been very happy with all the reactions from the locals and tourists so far; they always take the time to mention how much they like the shop. This is really great to hear when you work so hard on something and put all your passion into it.

Tell us about your favourite home-ware items currently available.

I am in love with the Mario Luca Giusti collection. It sometimes makes me upset that I don’t have my own place yet! I would love to set my table every night with the beautiful synthetic crystals available. The colours are so striking and the fact that you can mix and match them is also so great and part of the selling point. We also just received a crystal glass collection from Italy; all the glassware is mouth-blown – it’s incredible. They are very refined pieces and are also available in a wide range of colours.

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Eden Springs is all about clean, beautiful water from paradise When Sanjay Naidoo started Eden Springs in 2014, it wasn’t just about launching ‘another bottled water’, he really wanted to encapsulate the spirit and natural pureness of the Seychelles in a bottle. Lynette Botha chats to him about Eden Springs and where to from here…

What made you start a water bottling company?

Manufacturing has always been a passion of mine.

When we discovered a water source on the property, which the factory is currently based on, I knew I wanted to set up a water bottling company. Although there are many manufacturers in Seychelles, I knew I could bring something special to the market – the natural purity of Seychelles in a bottle.

Why the name Eden Springs?

The factory is located on Praslin otherwise called the “Garden of Eden”, so it only seemed appropriate to capture that essence of Praslin and its untouched beauty by naming our brand Eden Springs.

Is your source the Vallei de Mai on Praslin Island; and what makes it the perfect place to draw from?

Actually our source is most probably from Pasquere rather than Vallei de Mai. The reason, I say “probably” is because it is difficult to identify and trace back the initial source, as the point where we draw our water from is a natural spring. The water flows to the spring

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Bottled water is healthier and safer than tap water in many parts of the world.

It is convenient and easy to transport.

It doesn’t need to be refrigerated, so has a long shelf life if stored correctly.

Bottled water is a much healthier alternative at the shop than carbonated or sugary drinks, for both adults and children.

Lead and other precarious minerals levels are reportedly much lower in bottled water than in tap water.

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through underground aquifers, which is naturally filtered by sub terrain granitic rocks, and bamboo roots. Since the water flows underground there are no polluting factors that get in contact with the water, which makes Eden Springs naturally pure.

Are you able to bottle water throughout the year, or are there restrictions during the dry period?

Before I set up the factory, periodic checks were made on the viability of the source during dry season and it was found that the flow rate was consistent throughout the year. Additional reservoirs were built down stream to ensure that water was collected for processing and to ensure that we don’t disturb or drain the spring during dry periods.

Why should Eden Springs be the bottled water of choice for locals and tourists alike? What distinguishes it from the others on the market?

The reason is simple – its paradise in a bottle. It is the most pure and natural bottled water in the Seychelles. Eden Springs is easily distinguishable from the others because of its taste and freshness.

I have had many of my customers compliment Eden Springs on its taste and its lightness. We have also ensured that our product looks attractive and is bottled in a clear bottle rather than a light blue bottle.

Furthermore we offer our product in three variations that is 1L, 500ml and 250ml, which provides our customers with a choice. We are the first bottled water company to offer the 250ml variants and this is mainly targeted at school children to encourage them to replace sugary drinks with water.

How is your water quality maintained and managed?

Although the water from the springs is naturally pure, we have to ensure that the water quality is consistent and safe for our customers.

Firstly we ensured this by making sure we bottle directly at source to prevent any cross contamination therefore eliminating the need for the transportation of water through a long piping network. The water is then collected through a series of catchment tanks that are placed immediately downstream from the source. This is done to ensure that there is minimal impact on the spring. The water is then filtered through a series of machines that remove any micro and macro biological matter. Finally passes through a UV and ozone machine to eradicate any bacteria making it safe for human consumption. Quality and taste of the final product is ultimately gauged by our staff, who take pride in what they do. Additionally our product is constantly monitored by the Ministry of Health to ensure that we meet standards set forth by them.

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Compulsory for body function First and foremost, for the body to run as efficiently as possible, it needs to be hydrated, this alone is reason enough to drink up.

Clears the skin Drinking more water flushes toxins out of the body, which prevents pimples, acne and other blemishes.

Boosts concentration When you’re feeling distracted or can’t focus on a task – a glass of water will help concentration.

Aids digestion Nobody wants digestion issues – they’re uncomfortable (and sometimes embarrassing); ensuring you drink enough water regularly is a certain way to prevent any tummy issues.

Eases cramps Cramping is often a sign of the body being dehydrated – grab a glass as soon as you feel the onset of cramps.

Wakes you up A glass of warm water and lemon in the morning will wake you up far faster than caffeine – and it’s a gentler boost. If you can’t forego the coffee, have the glass of water first.

Healthy kidneys Without enough fluids your kidneys can’t function. Kidney stones anyone? Thought not. So drink up!

Helps with weight-loss Drinking water has many benefits for weight-loss, not least keeping you fuller for longer. Often when our brain tells us we’re hungry, we’re actually just dehydrated. Reach for a glass of water before you reach for the snacks to ensure you actually are hungry and not just thirsty.

Currently you only produce pure bottled water; what’s next on the cards for Eden Springs?

We are firm believers in providing our customers with healthy beverage options. We do plan to diversify at a later stage with sparkling and flavoured water, however for the meantime we would like to expand on the sizes of bottled water that we currently offer. We have just launched our new 20L variants, which are targeted to customers who use water dispensers in their homes and offices.

Eden Springs currently only supplies the Seychelles islands; is there potential to export water in the future?

We have generated some interest from overseas markets with regards to exporting our product. However we are constrained by the logistical limitations of Praslin, whereby it’s very difficult to transport export containers to and from our factory. If the right infrastructure becomes available, we definitely wouldn’t hesitate on exporting our product.

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Essential Beauty Tips For Kids

By Marie-France Watson This heading might raise a few eyebrows for those who believe that beauty is a topic that should be kept off a child’s radar. We are of course, not making reference to beauty from a cosmetic angle, but rather from a health one.

Expectant and new mothers spare very little when it comes to products for their little ones. Soothing and nourishing are words that ring in our minds and we have been commercially rigged to believe they are necessary. However, once our babies hit the toddler age and beyond, we tend to skip on those products since the need for them seems rather null and void. But, is that so?

In this article we look at what parents and caretakers should bear in mind when it comes to children.

Eat Right It all starts right from the beginning. Our outward appearance is largely determined by the kind of food we consume and this is also true for kids.

So, establish in them a habit of loving nutritious food like meat, fish, fruits, vegetables, brown rice etc. As much as possible, do not encourage junk foods and soft drinks and juice.

Good Sleep

It works wonders for us and it works wonders for them. Plenty of sleep is essential. It may seem tricky putting your child to bed early, but if you allow them to have their share of fun outdoors and engage them in indoor activities in the afternoons, they are sure to hit the hay on time. It is up to you to decide whether napping should also be on the agenda but a decent nap can also help with energy levels and moods.

products. Do not forget the olive oil in your kitchen, as it is really good for kid’s hair too. Nutritious food like lettuce has also been said to improve hair texture.

Skin Care

In line with mild products, the same logic goes for skin care; say no to chemical soaps, only use mild and quality soaps. Again, massaging their body with olive oil before bath time really helps.

Outdoor Fun

Make sure you give your child plenty of time outdoors. We are surrounded by beaches so allow them to soak in the sun rays. Just don’t let them go out in between 12-2pm because that is when the sun emits its harmful UV rays that can affect your child’s skin. Also, don’t forget the all too important SPF and sun hat before leaving for outdoors.

Bath Time

Parents know too well that bath time can be a painful time of day with the little ones if they do not cooperate. Encourage them, as early on as possible to take a shower every day, if possible twice a day. This will surely allow them to imbibe a healthy habit. A daily shower will help them keep energetic and active for the whole day.

A beautiful smile

‘Teeth’ also have a box to tick on the beauty list. In order to maintain their pearly white teeth, teach them to brush twice a day and that too in the right manner on a daily basis.

Healthy Hair

There is so much talk out there about organic and the dangers of chemical products. Read up on what you use and try to go for mild range mild

Burt’s Bees Brand: A natural brand, creating ‘Earth Friendly’ products for all to enjoy, by only using natural ingredients and colours, Burt’s Bees have kept their product line clean and allergy free, ensuring nothing chemicallyenhanced is used.

Products can be bought and shipped to Seychelles from www.lookfantastic.com

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Gina Laurencine gives some great tips on how Dads can teach their children the ‘green way’ of life. local fruits make lovely juices and are just delicious eating as is. For a green lunch and family BBQ later in the night, locally sourced vegetables and meat are better for you, your family and our planet.

3. Reduce your fuel consumption: Exhaust fumes from the burning of fossil fuels used to power a car contains a number of particulates and gases that are known to cause air pollution, drive climate change, and in all, deteriorate one’s physical and mental health. This Father’s Day, be a good role model, and avoid using your car for short distances that can be dealt with on foot, or better yet, on a bike! Help your child, and teach him how to ride a bike too. No doubt you’ll be spending lots of quality time together (an awesome gift for yourself for Father’s Day), and you’ll be doing your bit to save our planet.

4. Try a 4-minute shower: Water is one of the most precious resources human beings need but water shortages are becoming a fact of life around the planet. Water conservation has been passed down through generations here in Seychelles, so don’t let it stop with you. Teach your child how best to save water! It will save you some cash on that bill, but feel good too as you are also helping save the environment. Keep it fun: who between you and your child can have a shower in less than 4 minutes (and still get the job done)? Other tips to save water include: closing the tap when not using it, fixing and preventing leaks, and harvesting rainwater.

This Father’s Day, we celebrate our brilliant dads who try their very best to extend their roles as father figures beyond that of merely ‘winning the daily bread’! We celebrate them as they strive to be responsible, loving and caring towards their children, teaching their kids all the tips and tricks expected of a loving dad…from teaching your child how to fish, swim, juggle or cook, to how best to behave on a first date. The possibilities are endless. But Dads: have you ever thought of teaching your child to love the Earth, and nature? Can this be taught, and how best can it be done?

Your responsibility as a good role model can certainly extend to include this.

Children learn best by copying what adults do. So this Father’s Day, celebrate your achievements as a Dad, from start to finish, by keeping Earth in mind! Whether tiny or big, your kid(s), might be intently watching you and wondering about the new routine, and you may take this opportunity to help them learn. Don’t worry if you’re not sure where to start – here are a few tips to help you go green this Father’s Day.

1. Reduce waste: Do you need a shave as you start off your day? Think twice about that disposable razor if it’s what you are using. Disposable razors need changing every other day, and do nothing but end up on the landfill, where the plastic components release toxins into our environment as they disintegrate. Try a non-disposable razor instead. They are more expensive to buy, but are generally better for the environment than their disposable counterparts. If you are using an electric razor, start thinking of switching to one powered by solar energy.

2. Eat local: Buying and eating local produce not only provides you and your family with more nutrition as they are fresher, it also helps combat climate change by reducing your carbon footprint. And you are helping support local farmers! Much of our meat and eggs are local, and in season

5. Hit a local trail: Seychelles is known for its many hike trails and they come in an array of different forms: long, short, easy, tough. They also all help you connect to nature. As you spend time with family and friends, take the time to educate your child about the beauty of our natural environment why it merits protection. Help your child appreciate being outdoors: investigate plants, creepy crawlies, streams and mangroves - get dirty and have fun! Your child will see you as a nature enthusiast. Keep it light and fun, and your child will surely remember to respect nature as he grows up.

The importance of your role in the development of your child cannot be stressed enough. It is vitally important that your child gets the opportunity to develop her or his full potential in a holistic way. Do not ignore the importance of the environment, nature and planet Earth in his development. Be an even better role model and incorporate learning about how to be green and live sustainably to your child. Happy Green Father’s Day! Internet resources for Father’s Day and teaching kids about the environment: http://www.earthshare.org/2011/06/ tips-for-a-green-fathers-day.html https://www.pinterest.com/ drigreenpower/fathers-day-the-ecofriendly-way/ http://education.natureseychelles.org/ publications/ Contributed by Ginnie Laurencine for Sustainability for Seychelles, a local NGO whose mission is to promote sustainable living in Seychelles. Contact us on info@s4seychelles.com or tel. 251-9135 / 422-4072.

Find us on the web at www.s4seychelles.com or on Facebook.

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DINING R E S TA U R A N T R E V I E W

Seselwa – a perfect venue for a Creole Buffet Ineke Camille tells us the details of her Sunday family lunch at the Seselwa restaurant at the Constance Ephelia Resort.

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A lazy Sunday family lunch is something most of us look forward to. It is a time to catch up, relax and make new memories over good food and possibly a glass of something chilled. Of course, it needs not only be with family; a group of good friends sharing a laugh is just as special. Whatever your grouping may be, couple it with great creole food, served meters from one of the islands most beautiful beaches, and you have the perfect combination.

The ‘Seselwa’ restaurant at the Constance Ephelia Resort at Port Launay, provides such an option. The building has a vibe that will instantly mellow you with its wooden decking straight onto the soft sand, and white furniture with colorful cushions. The restaurant is large but somehow doesn’t seem busy even when full and there is a chatter that’s nice on the ear. Children squeal with delight from the nearby play area and you can hear the balls being occasionally tossed on the beach. A local band plays their tunes in the background and if there is a lull in conversation it’ll probably be because you are temporarily lost in the melody.

Then we have the food. Oh, the food is delicious. On weekends, lunch times and evenings the restaurant serves a delicious creole buffet while also offering an à la carte menu that offers international cuisine options. However being called Seselwa, which is the creole word for Seychellois, the buffet is typically creole based and widely promoted. While the menu may vary, the

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essence remains the same and it is a good example of what creole cuisine entails; a balanced mix of meat and seafood options as well as healthy salad and vegetable options. Dessert options are slightly less local but decidedly good with a delicious assortment of cakes, pancakes, pudding and soufflés as well as a decent range of fresh fruits including oranges, watermelons, papayas and bananas.

Aside from the food and location, what makes this venue a delight is the cheery staff who go the extra mile to make the client comfortable. Whether it is the helpfulness in choosing from the wine list or a kind word to the youngest child, there is an easy smile on their faces and what looks like a genuine desire to do the job at hand. It was the cherry on the cake for what was already a wonderful afternoon.

Lunch goes from 12 to 5pm and is open to the public for lunch and dinner but to avoid disappointment, it’s advisable to call the resort’s Reservation Desk on 4395059 in advance as admittance can be restricted depending on the resorts occupancy. The Seselwa restaurant is one of five at the resort so they do usually accommodate requests however it is a long way to go to be turned away.

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By Marie-France Watson

A week in the life of Jeremie Rhorer ‘Garden of Eden’ and ‘Paradise’ are just some of the names that people all over the world have associated with our beautiful islands for many many years. Most of the tourists who have set foot in Seychelles will tell you it truly is the most beautiful place they have ever seen. One of our most recent admirers is an internationally known composer and music director, Jeremie Rhorer who has, to put simply, fallen in love with the Seychelles.

A short visit to the Seychelles islands in January 2015 left a lasting impression on Jeremie Rhorer. To him, the islands provided the perfect setting for him to do what he does – make music. With tranquility being one of the prerequisites to sit down and fully focus on the task at hand, in April, merely four months from his first taste of the island, Jeremie came back.

The working holiday was slotted in Jeremie’s hectic and unpredictable schedule primarily to prepare for some big events which featured on his calendar. In May, he performed at the London St Andrew’s Hall and then continued his European trajectory to Holland and France, the latter where he will be performing at the opening of the Festival International d’Art Lyrique d’Aix-en-Provence, happening in July.

In the midst of creating music in a room at Petit Amour Villa, Sorento, Jeremie took a break and had a chat with us.

P: Why Seychelles?

J: I have travelled the world and I always wanted to go to Seychelles. But my schedule barely allows for forward planning since everything is very last minute. Dates change all the time and prior to this year it just had not happened. I had heard of Seychelles so many times and I knew it was a place I had to visit.

P: Your expectations of the islands were met?

J: I had great expectations but I was shocked when these islands exceeded them many times over. I love the nature that they have to offer. It is a fundamental thing for me especially given that I come from Paris which is a busy city. I have a particular affirmation with tropical nature; I find the flora exceptionally beautiful here.

Jeremie Rhorer in Seychelles

P: Why did you choose Petit Amour Villa?

J: I formed a bond with this place and the owners very quickly when I came in January. In all my travels I have never met someone like Michel Benoit who hosts so well and so ‘naturally’ with elegance and tact. I appreciated it and we became friends. I actually discovered the Villa through a french agency. I recall arriving here so well; I had just arrived from South Africa and I had this amazing dinner, which had been prepared by Michel himself, with this beautiful view. I remember thinking there and then that the next time I had intense creative and intellectual work to do this would be the place to be – and here I am!

To him, the islands provided the perfect canvas for him to do what he does – make music.

P: And all is going well so far?

J: In addition to all its amazing qualities, Petit Amour Villa is also very peaceful and the set-up along with this view – to me is incredibly inspiring. I have achieved so much since I got here a few days ago.

P: Tell us about the music.

J: I have been a fan of Mozart of since I was a child. It has without a doubt fuelled my love for music further and inspired my career. My career took off with Mozart and I humbly admit I have been successful at it. I feel very close to Mozart though I will add that my love for music is not limited only to Mozart’s music. I also like other music. From the scope of a career, if you have a success in one particular repertoire you are immediately boxed in.

It does become an identity crisis in a way.

P: So, you make music and you conduct?

J: I have my own orchestra, ’ Le Cercle de l’Harmonie’. I founded it and

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selected the musicians for it from all over the world. I am the artistic director of the orchestra.

P: Any chance of performing in Seychelles one day?

J: I would love to come and perform in Seychelles. In fact, the sooner the better! I will bring my orchestra and perform for the wonderful people of Seychelles.

P: Any last words?

J: I hope Seychelles does not change too much. I have witnessed so much development in similar island countries. Modernity can destroy the essence of an island. There is something very special here and I hope every Seychellois feels it and feels proud.

Jeremie with his host and friend, Michel

Jeremie Rhorer’s Music Profile Rhorer made his Wiener Staatsoper debut in 2011 and his Glyndebourne debut in 2013 with the London Philharmonic Orchestra. He conducted Poulenc’s Dialogue des Carmelites with the Philharmonia Orchestra at the Theatre des Champs-Elysees in December 2013, winning the Syndicat des Critiques Francaises award for Best Opera Production. Recent operatic highlights also include Gluck’s Orfeo at the Wiener Festwochen, the world premiere of Thierry Escaich’s Claude in Lyon, Spontini’s La Vestale at the Theatre des Champs-Elysees, and Le nozze di Figaro at the Wiener Staatsoper. Rhorer is an annual visitor to La Monnaie where he conducted the complete Egmont in concert last season. Operatic highlights this season include Die Entführung aus dem Serail for his debut for Frankfurt Opera, La clemenza di Tito at the Théâtre des Champs-Élysées, Cosi fan tutte with the Bavarian State Opera and Die Entführung aus dem Serail at the Festival International d’Art Lyrique d’Aix-enProvence with the Freiburg Baroque Orchestra. http://intermusica.co.uk/artist/JeremieRhorer

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Easy Listening Our ‘what’s hot’ on the music scene column with Paradise FM’s DJ Ezy D Joseph Sinon – Anmenn Mwan *Oli Problem* He is probably the best entertainer in Seychelles, constantly touring and usually packing out every venue he visits. The household name that is Joseph ‘Pa Tous Tous’ Sinon brings ‘Anmenn Mwan’ the 10 tracks studio album also coined by the popular local slogan, Oli Problem! In typical Joseph Sinon style, the album is rhythmic with funny lyrics that get you laughing almost immediately before your feet even start moving. The album comprises of mainly ‘moutya’ and ‘sega’ but throws in a curve ball in the manner of a reggae track featuring the likes of Jakim, Elijah, Regi, Ruben and Ion Kid surely to be a popular one with the youth. Hot from packing out the ex-Reef Hotel for Labour Day, Joseph Sinon continues touring and is expected to also visit neighbouring islands soon.

However when asked about another possible Road-Block event at ex-Reef Hotel? He replies smiling that if permission is granted by the authorities, then 100% yes. For now, aside from the album road shows, he is busy doing video clips for all the songs on the album that will later be available to purchase as a bonus DVD. Tracks to watch are number five, ‘Msye Marcel’ number one, ‘Madanm Angle’ both currently local favourites on the airwaves.

RAMPAGE – Sets ‘Carnaval Des Victoria’ record

The moment STB announced that RAMPAGE ‘the mass carnival party’ will be introduced for this year’s 5th edition of the Carnaval De Victoria, it was anticipated to be a popular event especially with the youth since it was being hosted by the popular followed young duo ‘DoubleTrouble’. More fuel was added to the fire, when promoters Hype Production released the Line Up for the event with Headlining act MIKEONE International celebrity DJ/Producer that goes by the deserved title ‘The King of Dance floor.’ The line-up also included Dubai’s DJ SHERO & Tama4Show, UKG’s MO DADA from UK and the very best in local talents. The date was set for 25th April, Carnival’ Saturday night, on main-stage Freedom Square. From when the stage went dark at 9:30pm, sharp and loud thumping bass started pumping with blinding strobe lights lighting the Victoria sky, the crowd knew instantly that they were in for something special. As each act graced the stage the crowd’s applause and screams increased, finally when MIKEONE hit the stage at 11pm the crowd was at a climax. Dubbed the Seychelles version of ‘Tomorrow Land’, RAMPAGE is still being talked about with a large number of fans asking for a repeat. Estimation puts the mass attendance at 33,000+, a Carnival record for a single event attendance.

Hype Production and main sponsors Heineken and ISPC have promised to produce a similar event in September but details are yet to be released.

For now all that is certain is Carnival RAMPAGE 2016 will have a big task to top this year’s party.

Over – The – Sea & Beyond

Father’s Day Special Justin ‘Homer’ Bieber is at it Again… Selena Gomez & Miley Cyrus: Pregnant By The Same Man — Justin Bieber?

The Miley and Selena feud is NEVER going to end now that this bombshell is out there! At 22 years old, the ladies have both previously gotten pregnant by the same man, a new report claims. And it just so happens to be Selena’s very famous ex-boyfriend!

One-time pals Selena Gomez Miley Cyrus may never be able to get past this one. The “Slow Down” singer is reportedly furious with her fellow former Disney darling after finding out that she had a steamy fling with Justin Bieber, 21…and it led to a pregnancy!

Royal Baby. Princess Charlotte Elizabeth Diana is born.

Little Charlotte is the second child of Prince William and his wife Kate, the Duchess of Cambridge and her official title will be Her Royal Highness Princess Charlotte of Cambridge. The princess is the fifth great-grandchild of Queen Elizabeth II and she will be fourth in line to the throne, after her grandfather Charles, her father William and her older brother George.

Charlotte was born on Saturday 2nd of May and weighed in at 8 pounds, 3 ounces.

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Up Coming Live Concert & Gigs

National Day Concert Date : 29th June Venue : Tequila Boom

The Charts ParadiseFM Top 10 Local Songs 1 Myse Marcel – Joseph Sinon 2 Believe Dan Love – Mercenary 3 Frazil – Travis 4 Fight Pou Love – Jakim 5 Pa Oubliy Nou Lanmour

– Danielo ft Taniah 6 Ti Lenbesil – Joseph 7 Dibwa Rape – Elijah 8 Island Girl – Mercenary 9 Madanm Angle Sesel

– Joseph Sinon 10 Lavi Martiy – Smash Kid Top 5 Hits In The Club’s 1 I LOVE COCO – OT GENASIS 2 ROULA – MERCENARY 3 NO FLEX ZONE – NICKI MINAJ 4 OULE OU PALE – XTRA BIG ft CHARLIE 5 GANGSTA DAN UNIFORM – REZ & RAS RICKY

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