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OCT 2014

UGANDAN MINISTER

REV. MARK

KIYIMBA

HIS MISSION FOR ACCEPTANCE

THE EVOLUTION OF ELI TRANSFORMING ONE LOCAL FAMILY WITH LOVE

GAYING IT FORWARD

THIS THANKSGIVING GOBBLE UP THESE

VEGETARIAN IDEAS

On Wednesday, November 26 stop by the following locations for free HIV testing and education:

941 Saloon 5801 Brewer’s Hotel Blue Moon Cattivo Cruze Bar Images Spin Bartini There Video Lounge

PITTSBURGH SKYLINE TURNS (RED) CHECK OUT THE HIGHMARK SPIRE, THE GULF TOWER, AND THE BNY MELLON SIGN AS THEY GO (RED) FOR WORLD AIDS DAY

WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 26 Pre-Thanksgiving Bar Event 941 Saloon, 5801, Blue Moon, Brewer’s Hotel, Cattivo, Cruze Bar, Images, Spin Bartini, There Video Lounge HIV Testing and treats!

Sponsored by Belvedere Vodka

SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 30

HIV Testing Macedonia Church, Ammon’s Rec Center 8:30 am - 2 pm 2217 Bedford Avenue PATF will be offering free HIV testing.

MONDAY, DECEMBER 1

(Pittsburgh)RED/World AIDS Day Press Conference Noon University Club, Oakland World AIDS Day: Is an AIDS free generation possible?

8 am - 5 pm University Club, Oakland Presented by Pennsylvania/MidAtlantic AIDS Education & Training Center.

For more info visit pamaaetc.org Candlelight Vigil Led by the Pittsburgh Faith Consortium 6 pm Forbes Avenue to Heinz Chapel, Oakland Info: info@deltafoundation.us 27th Annual World AIDS Day Commemoration 7:30 pm Heinz Chapel, Oakland Sponsored by the Pitt Men’s Study.

HIV Testing Judah Fellowship, Northside 7:30 pm - 9 pm 3305 Perrysv ille Avenue PATF will be offering free HIV testing.

TUESDAY, DECEMBER 2

HIV Testing Christian Church of Wilkinsburg 3:30 pm - 7:30 pm 748 Wallace Avenue PATF will be offering free HIV testing.

WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 3

M2M Project’s First Wednesday Cruze Bar, Strip District 6 pm - 9 pm 1600 Smallman St. Food and voguing. PATF will be offering free HIV testing.

SATURDAY, DECEMBER 6

The Pittsburgh Honors Ball: Galaxy Wyndham Hotel, Oakland 8 pm - 2 am 100 Lytton Avenue Voguing competion and free HIV/STD testing.

Sponsored by PATF. Info patf.org

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 7

HIV Testing Destiny of Faith 9 am - 2 pm 3737 Brighton Road PATF will be offering free HIV testing

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College Night at Cruze Bar 8 pm - 2 am 1600 Smallman St, Strip District cruzebar.com PATF will be offering free HIV testing.

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FRIDAY, DECEMBER 5

World AIDS Day Rally and March 8:45 pm Carnegie Mellon University March ends with a health fair, food, and a drag show. PATF will be offering free HIV testing.

Sponsored by PATF Pitt Student Ambassadors. Info: patfambassadors@gmail.com

HIV/AIDS Treatment & Prevention Research Team

CONTRIBUTORS & THANK YOU’S

G. Michael Beigay is a free-lance photographer and special education professional for Allegheny Intermediate Unit. His photography has provided educational tools to aid students with cognitive disabilities. He also has worked with a media specialist at his LGBT-friendly church to develop various multi-media productions. Michael has shot for Cue, Whirl, and now Equal. He is one of the hosts for G2H2 and also the main photographer.

Mike Buzzelli is a standup comedian and author. His book, Below Average Genius, a collection of humor pieces culled from his weekly humor column at the Observer-Reporter newspaper, is available at Amazon.com.

Jahmeela Clarke Jahmeela Clarke is a Pittsburgh native, born and raised in Penn Hills with her three sisters. A graduate of the University of Pittsburgh via Kent State. She likes writing about local events, national crazes and home-grown artists.

Chrissy Costa is a standup comedian, actress and freelance writer. She studied sketch comedy at Chicago’s famed Second City. Her work has been featured in several local LGBT publications and you may recognize her from her column, “Last Woman Standing”. She’s a fan of activism, big earrings and causing an awkward silence.

Philip Ezzo, one of the tallest men in Pittsburgh, is currently a pastry cook at the Duquesne Club downtown. He has been a writer and columnist in LGBT publications for over four years. He is known for his sense of humor and charming personality. In his spare time Philip is a chapter leader with Gay for Good, Pittsburgh chapter, where he is an outreach coordinator.

Stacey Federoff is a Sutersville, PA native, Penn State alumna, and reporter living in Park Place near Regent Square. She has written for The Daily Collegian, The Chautauquan Daily, and Trib Total Media. She loves music, vinyl records, coffee, running, and volunteerism.

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Jonathan Fobear is a native of Cass City, MI. For 12 years he has been an art director branding non-profits, corporations, destinations, and city festivals. He has worked with clients as big as The Dept of Agriculture and NASA and as small as his mom & dad. Jonathan has presented branding workshops both in Pennsylvania and New York and currently resides in Pittsburgh’s South Side.

Mara Rago specializes in portraits, fine art, pets, events, model portfolios, legal, and corporate photography. She has a studio in the East End of Pittsburgh and shoots instudio as well as on location. Photography is Mara’s life. It’s a passion. Capturing visions in her little black box is a gift and, every day, she is grateful.

Guest contributors: Drue Miller Rick Sicilio

Masha Vereshchenko Erika June Christopher Laing

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WITH LOVE

Dear Friends The feature word this month is “Inspiration.”

We kick off the November issue with a couple of stories with this in mind.

We are excited to welcome Ugandan Minister Mark Kiyimba to Pittsburgh.

Mark’s compassion and advocacy for individuals living with HIV/AIDS inspired us to put his important mission front and center on our cover. You can read the full story and get all the information about his upcoming visit on page 32.

Another story that may inspire you is one that has been years in the making and comes to Equal Magazine via a dear friend of mine who confided in me that her child was trans. I encouraged the family to share their first-hand story in a very public way. I hope that it may help other families with gay or trans children find the love, compassion and acceptance demonstrated by this proud local family. Page 28.

If you are in need of more inspiration, check out the resource guide on page 34, for ways you can give back to our community as the GLCC kicks off a Winter- warm up drive along with a story about ways gays in our community are giving back and volunteering their time by serving Thanksgiving dinner and contributing to area food drives to help those less fortunate enjoy a meaningful holiday. Page 20.

Finally, It is with a heavy heart that I sign off as Editor-in-Chief of Equal Magazine.

I’m honored to have worked with such an amazing staff and I have enjoyed being able to help shape and share with you all the stories that affect our community. I’m proud of the work we have done since I came aboard and the way Equal Magazine has evolved into a conduit for change. Rest assured that I will continue my mission of LGBTQIA Visibility Everywhere and I look forward to working with Equal Magazine and other local media to feature our community in the best (glittering) light possible.

Thanks for inspiring me.

It’s been an honor.

Always love, Joe King

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FEATURES 32

Ugandan Minister: Preaching Love

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Vegetarian Alternatives

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Marriage Equality Showcase

IN (ALMOST) EVERY ISSUE 10 Calendar 12 What’s Gay and Going on?

16 Marriage Equality Update 18 Fall back into your ex 20 Giving back 22 Queer Seen 24 Travel: Las Vegas 26: Off the Record 28: The Evolution of Eli 34: GLCC Winter Drive 38: Hot Girl reads a Book

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EVENTS

What’s Gay and Goin’ on?

Photos by G. Michael Beigay

2nd Annual Miss TriState All Star Newcomer Pageant @ Cruze

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MARRIED LIFE

HERE COME THE BRIDES (AND GROOMS) Celebrate Marriage Equality Wedding Showcase returns November 9

By Drue Miller Photos by Michael G. Beigay November isn’t just the start of the holiday season; it’s also the kickoff to wedding planning season. Every winter, dozens of local wedding shows give couples the opportunity to meet different florists, photographers, and other vendors in one convenient spot. And now, Pittsburgh has a wedding showcase exclusively for same-sex couples who wish to tie the knot.

Show organizer Erin Calvimontes has been a wedding planner for 30 years, and has worked on many different types of nuptials and commitment ceremonies. The May 20th ruling legalizing same-sex marriage in PA prompted her to put together an event specifically for the LGBTQ community. “We saw a need for a show with LGBTQ-friendly vendors”, she said, and so on June 26, she held the first Celebrate Marriage Equality Wedding Showcase at the Heinz History Center. Although the event was put together in less than two months, the response was strong and many people asked her to produce another show.

Calvimontes pre-screens each vendor to be sure they’re comfortable with same-sex marriage and offer top quality goods and services. “We want to make sure they’re a good fit for our show.” Although same-sex marriage is legal in many states, some couples still face rejection from vendors.

Likewise, some vendors have turned down Calvimontes’ invitation to participate in the showcase, telling her they don’t want to work with LGBTQ couples. She hasn’t let this bother her, though, since her goal is to provide a positive, welcoming event for everyone involved.

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Calvimontes and her husband are longtime community allies. Their daughter is bisexual, and they have a transgendered cousin and many gay friends, so marriage equality has always been an important issue. She also donates a portion of each show’s proceeds to LGBTQ organizations; PERSAD is the November recipient.

The June showcase included 45 vendors; November’s show will offer expanded space for up to 60 vendors.

Although the show is growing Calvimontes doesn’t want to let it get too big. She limits the number of exhibitors in certain categories to maintain balance – “I’ve been to shows where there were 60 DJs,” she said. Her event will cover the gamut of wedding vendors, from bakeries to linen providers. Live music and plenty of food tastings will be offered.

The Heinz History Center was a natural choice for the showcase “since [marriage equality in PA] was an historical event”, she explained. The space is also very flexible, lending itself to intimate affairs or grand soirees.

And of course, it is uniquely Pittsburgh, which she loves since many of her clients are looking for unique venues for their ceremonies and receptions.

Calvimontes cites two key differences between LGBTQ and heterosexual weddings: Same-sex couples tend to be a little older, and the couples often want smaller, more intimate celebrations. The average straight wedding costs around $35,000 and has 150-300 guests. Average ages for first marriage in the US are 27 for women, 29 for men. She hasn’t seen many over-the-top, elaborate LGBT weddings. “There’s more focus on your support group, your friends and family, rather than having bigger, better centerpieces and inviting all of your distant relatives and co-workers.”

Whether you want a casual celebration or a glamorous soiree, you’ll find plenty of inspiration at the showcase in a fun, friendly atmosphere. “We want all couples to be comfortable with their planning process.”

The Celebrate Marriage Equality Wedding Showcase will be held on Sunday, November 9 from 1-4 pm at the Heinz History Center. Tickets are $5 in advance or at the door.

Register at CelebrateMarriageEqualityPA.com.

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Marriage Equality Update

In 32 states - AK, AZ, CA, CO, CT, DE, HI, ID, IA, IL, IN, ME, MD, MA, MN, NC, NH, NJ, NM, NV, NY, OK, OR, PA, RI, UT, VA, VT, WA, WV, WI, and WY, plus Washington, D.C. - same-sex couples have the freedom to marry.

In an additional three states - KS, MT, and SC - federal appellate rulings have set a binding precedent in favor of marriage equality.

In AR, FL, KY, MI, and TX, judges have struck down marriage bans.

Marriage Broad Domestic Partnership / Civil Union and Anti-Gay Constitutional Amdendment Neither Relationship Recognition or Anti-Gay Constitutional Amendment Anti-Gay Constitutional Amendment Source: FreedomtoMarry.org Equal M ag az ine.org

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HORROR

TURN THE CLOCK BACK!

Fall Back Into your ex

By Chrissy Costa

emotion-based decisions.

It’s that time of year again… the leaves are changing colors and falling all around us. The days are becoming shorter while the nights are growing colder. Lesbians are aggressively searching for camping gear and pulling chunky sweaters from closets. Our favorite television shows are returning and we’re all longing for the same thing; a cuddle buddy. While some of you are snuggling up to someone new, there are others contemplating rekindling old flames with an ex in hopes of giving the relationship another try. I know this because I have friends and a vagina; two of the most essential elements for making

There’s something about autumn that brings out the hopeless romantic in even the biggest cynics. It also brings out loneliness, neediness and Seasonal affective disorder, making it difficult to identify the source of such feelings. One woman’s lust is another woman’s lack of vitamin D.

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Aside from those I know considering getting back with their exes, most people feel that there’s a cardinal rule in dating where you must only move forward, leaving the past in the past. I, however, am a believer in having no rules. I also believe that anything is possible if you put your heart into

that which you desire. Some people are guarded and take longer to understand and sometimes it takes dating more than once to really see the person. I’m speaking on behalf of complicated women everywhere. If you’re someone in this predicament you may want to first start by asking yourself why you broke up in the first place.

Often times we discover the biggest obstacle in a relationship wasn’t in the actual relationship, but in those around it. Your ex-partner’s friends, your friends, the exes of either party; any or all of these could have been a cleverly disguised enemy posing as a supporter. This is why I prefer my relationships the way I prefer my martinis and my chai tea lattes: dirty and far away from other

lesbians. Call me mistrustful or possessive, I don’t mind. Relationships can be difficult enough without the added stress of other people’s opinions. And most of us do a great job at dishing out advice that we ourselves do not follow. We may not always know how to solve our problems together but the least we can do is not air them for others to attack. If you weren’t one another’s go-to person in your own relationship then you left that door wide open for anyone to enter and desecrate your home.

If this is the case and you feel there’s still unresolved feelings on both sides and that you can grow from past mistakes then I say ditch the naysayers and ‘go see about a girl’. Yes, I went there. Situations change, people most often do not. We do bend though.

Perhaps you’ve been daydreaming about a reunion with an ex who didn’t treat you the way you deserved. If so, then it may be time to be honest with yourself. Love can be such a delusion. We will illuminate an imperfection in someone who treats us well in order to convince others that we weren’t loved, just as easily as we downplay acts of unkindness in someone who treats us less than in order to convince ourselves that we were loved. It may be okay to love someone more than they love themselves, but it’s not okay to love someone more than you love yourself. If you hung on to her every word while she casually fit you into her life at her convenience she wasn’t and isn’t worth your time. It’s an amazing feeling when she decides to reach out but the inconsistency is intolerable. And if you’re not giving to each other equally then it’s like eating a large bowl of tomato soup; what’s the point? Sure there may be comfort in the familiarity but wouldn’t you rather wait for someone who will make you feel like they’ve won a prize every time they’re with you? Don’t allow the fear of being alone to push you back into the wrong arms. There are other ways to keep warm this season. I may not shave my legs. The advantages are twofold: it will keep me celibate and protect my legs from harsh elements. You can also add layers. Why chase after a selfish ex when you can just buy longer socks?

Before you pull that trigger or roll the dice take a little time alone to reflect.

You may discover some wonderful things about yourself that you never realized before. You may find new things you like. You may find you like yourself for the first time ever. You may also find that you don’t even like people, and that’s okay too. Should you decide to fall let it be into open, loving arms. Walk away from the game players. Hold out for the game changer. Until then grab a comfy blanket, tell yourself you’re awesome and stock up on toilet paper because it’s going to be a long, cold winter.

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& giving back GAY IT FORWARD

giving thanks

By Jahmeela Clarke

Leaves are changing color, there’s a chill in the air, and Thanksgiving’s right around the corner. The image of a big family seated around a dinner table crowned with turkey, stuffing, and cranberry sauce has been imbedded in us since childhood. One thing we tend to forget about though, is that image isn’t always the reality. One in nine Pennsylvanians are living in poverty and aren’t able to enjoy the holiday whole-heartedly. We can change that. There are plenty of opportunities available right here in Pittsburgh to help our fellow Pittsburghers this Thanksgiving, and here are a few of them:

GAY FOR GOOD (G4G)

This national organization specializes in “mobilizing the LGBT community to […] volunteer time to various social welfare and environmental service projects.” G4G allows LGBT communities in different cities to come together with the greater public to build relationships between the two, and also has a track record of more interesting ways of volunteering. From providing a helping hand at zoos and animal shelters to transforming empty lots into community gardens, G4G partakes in a variety of activities. The different chapters range from San Francisco, Los Angeles, Chicago, and right here in Pittsburgh.

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volunteered 4,900 hours of time and teamed up with over 25 other nonprofit organizations for different projects! For example, last summer during the first annual Harvey Milk Day of Service, volunteers planted trees in Lawrenceville, and in the past they have worked with Toys for Tots and Shepherd Wellness during the holiday season.

G4G hasn’t announced its specific plans for this year but will through their Facebook page, which is updated at least once a week with other opportunities and pictures from different projects.

You can see galleries of previous projects at gayforgood.org/pittsburgh_pa and look for even more projects coming up.

BILL CHISNELL PRODUCTIONS (BCP)

Location – 1111 Penn Avenue Pittsburgh, PA 15222 This local company plans and supplies decorations including stunning floral arrangements for special occasions, including weddings, parties, and even baby showers. For the past two years, working alongside local businesses BCP hosted a huge Thanksgiving dinner for the homeless complete with entertainment and dessert. The dinners were nothing short of amazing as guests left with not only a full tummy, but also with gift baskets including blankets and water. They haven’t announced the plans for this year yet, but you can check their Facebook page or website at billchisnellproductions.com, for notification of

what’s to come this year and how to volunteer along with information and photos from previous events.

JUBILEE KITCHEN

Location – 2005 Wyandotte St, Pittsburgh, PA 15219 Most all Pittsburghers know of the Jubilee Soup Kitchen, and plenty have volunteered there before.

The kitchen has served hot meals to ill, needy, and impoverished people every single day since 979.

The nonprofit organization extends its hospitalities to any and every one in need by creating a safe and comfortable environment.

This Thanksgiving, Jubilee plans to offer a special Turkey feast to any person or family in need.

Helping hands are needed to serve meals, cleanup afterwards, and greet people with friendly faces.

Paulette Blasko, executive coordinator of the kitchen, expresses the mission of Jubilee is to serve the hungry not just on holidays, but every day and it’s easy to sign up by just calling ahead of time at 412.261.5417 or visiting their website, jubileesoupkitchen.org.

RAINBOW KITCHEN

Location - 135 E. 9th Avenue Homestead, PA 15120 All year since 1984, Rainbow Kitchen provides meals and groceries to low income families and

individuals along with supportive services. Their annual holiday food drive offers traditional holiday foods by accepting donations to their pantry and distributing them before Thanksgiving. Participating in the drive allows you to still spend the day with your family and friends on Turkey Day, but also helps another family do the same. The Rainbow Kitchen also accepts monetary donations and volunteering year round. Visit rainbowkitchen.org for more information on clothing drives and pantry donations.

KDKA-TV TURKEY FUND

For the past 33 years KDKA has run a fund to help local families enjoy a true Thanksgiving dinner.

They accept any and all amounts of contribution and match donations over $50 all the way up to 50,000! They work with the Greater Pittsburgh Community Food Bank. This is a great option for those of us with other plans this holiday. You can send your donation by check or money order to KDKA Turkey Fund, P.O Box Thanks, Pittsburgh PA, 15230.

24TH ANNUAL TURKEY TROT

Location – PNC Park, N Shore Drive & Mazeroski Way Pittsburgh, PA 15212

Looking for something a little more active? This event co-sponsored by PNC and the YMCA offers three different races: the 1Mile Fun Run, 5k Race, and a 5 Mile Race. It’s easy to register, everything is online starting at $13.00 up to $50.00, and you can register online at ymcaofpittsburgh.org/turkeytrot all the way up to November 24! No need to worry about being too exhausted from the turkey to participate either, these events are all in the morning, one after the other. Make it a family affair: strollers are welcome and kids can race too with a specific package. Even if you’re not a runner, volunteers are needed to pass out water and get the races going. The proceeds from registering go to local charities and food banks.

YMCA

Different Y locations have plans to help the needy this year. For example, the McKeesport and Homewood Y offer families the chance to partake in crafts with their children before the Thanksgiving feast. The Wilmerding and Western area Y are both promoting food and/or coat drives this season.

Wilmerding also has a Turkey Bowl Parent/Child Flag Football game planned, while Western Area plans to distribute Thanksgiving baskets. At the North Boroughs Y, 250 turkeys will be given away

at the community center. The different locations collaborate and receive contributions from many other organizations like The Pittsburgh Food Bank, Parkway Rotary, KDKA, and Calvary church. You can check what your local YMCA has planned by checking the website or stopping through.

I’m sure we all have our own special plans this Thanksgiving, whether that’s spending the day with family and friends the traditional way or not, but these opportunities are here to make this Turkey Day a little more unique to us all. Understandably, it may be difficult to fit in volunteering at a food bank or church on Thanksgiving day, but even if we donate food or clothes towards a local drive, that could make the world of difference to a family or person in need.

Looking for more or closer opportunities? Most high schools and churches have their own specific activities planned for the holiday, be sure to check it out! We all deserve to relish in Thanksgiving festivities, and knowing just one more person is able to enjoy the holiday from your involvement makes the gift of giving even more worthwhile.

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VIVA GAY VEGAS!

By Rick Sicilio Las Vegas, Nevada, is becoming one of the top destinations in the United States for LGBT visitors.

Founded on the pursuit of pleasure and sensory stimulation, Las Vegas offers its LGBT guests a variety of entertainment options.

World-renown as the undisputed gambling capital of the world with literally thousands of casinos to try to strike it rich, Vegas adds to the mix music and entertainment shows that are second to none.

Perpetuating the splendid illusion that Elvis, Sinatra and Michael Jackson are alive and well, these shows succeed at blurring the line between fantasy and reality.

Now you can make marriage a reality since the Ninth Circuit ruled last month to include the state of Nevada part of those who support marriage equality! Here’s your chance to get to the Chapel of Love and have Elvis preside over your wedding! How’s that for a hunk-a-hunk-a burnin’ love?

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scene. The recipe for creating the most scintillating parties on the strip is mixing hot bodies with cool water! Pool parties in Vegas are the popular way to keep cool while being cool.

HOTELS THE COSMOPOLITAN LAS VEGAS

http://www.cosmopolitanlasvegas. com/ One of the best new casino/hotels to open in Vegas since, maybe, ever. Located in the heart of the Strip, The Cosmo is the coolest place to stay in the city. The decor, the guests, and the bars are all topnotch. This may be the most gayfriendly casino in Vegas, with gays and lesbians never far from sight.

Make sure to eat at the delicious tapas restaurant Jaleo and get a drink that will blow your mind at The Chandelier bar.

THE DELANO

http://www.delanolasvegas.com/ Newly opened this fall, The Delano is the Vegas version of the Miami classic. Formerly Mandalay Bay’s THEhotel, The Delano is restrained, sophisticated, and looks and smells

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RESTAURANTS COMME ÇA AT THE COSMOPOLITAN

http://commecarestaurant.com/ las-vegas/ The sweeping views of the Strip are almost as good as the food at this Vegas outpost of the West Hollywood institution. Chef David Myers’ rich and delectable French fare is on the menu, like roasted bone marrow and oxtail jam, but there’s also slightly lighter plates like smoked salmon rillettes and trout amandine. Drinks are just as sumptuous.

EAT

http://eatdtlv.com/ This downtown restaurant is a favorite of the hipsters, but they don’t just come for the scene. The food here is excellent, especially the hearty breakfasts and strong coffee. Beat your hangover here, and then walk over to the nearby

Container Park, which is filled with cool stores.

BARS, CLUBS, AND SHOWS What would Vegas be without its famous nightlife (and daylife)?

There are numerous options for liquid lubrication, flirting, and grinding to some good ol’ house music.

MICHAEL JACKSON ONE

http://www.cirquedusoleil.com/ en/shows/michael-jackson-one/ default.aspx This celebration of everything Michael Jackson is what everyone in Vegas is talking about now.

A production of legendary performance house Cirque du Soleil, ONE is Cirque at the top of its game. It starts off with a bang and doesn’t let up — there is no schmaltzy nostalgia for Michael, just an appreciation for the amazing music and dance he brought to the public. With tunes from the Jackson 5 days all the way to the recent past, the song is a visual and aural feast that relies more on dancing agility and amazing special

effects than dancers balancing on a high wire. Look for sizzling renditions of “Dirty Diana,” “The Way You Make Me Feel,” “Beat It,” and “Don’t Stop ‘Till You Get Enough.”

DIVAS STARRING FRANK MARINO

http://www.thequadlv.com/shows/ Frank-marinos-divas-las-vegas.html Bursting with energy, the 75-minute production starring Frank Marino (portraying Joan Rivers) is Las Vegas’ longestrunning headliner. Marino’s all-star cast – all female impersonators - is much more than your average drag show. These star performers replicate the likenesses of your favorite females, from legends like Diana Ross, Cher and Madonna to today’s hottest like Katy Perry, Britney and Rihanna. And while all of these divas lip sync, you’ll still have the time of your life. Besides, it’s all about performance and flashy attire anyway.

LIAISON NIGHTCLUB

http://www.liaisonlasvegas.com/ Liaison Nightclub is located just off the gaming floor in Bally’s next to the Indigo Lounge. It’s the first gay nightclub housed inside a casino on the Las Vegas Strip. Liaison was conceived and developed by nightlife visionary Victor Drai with Eduardo Cordova, who has a long history in Las Vegas of promoting gay events and parties for the LGBT community. Everything in this 7,000-square-foot nightclub suggests luxury and sensuality.

The décor boasts a gold and black color palette as well as an abundance of mirrors, elegant Venetian-style chandeliers and

sexy artwork. Liaison features an eclectic mix of hip-hop, rap and top 40 music. Comprised of two different rooms, each has its own DJ including Nick Ayler, who is one of the resident DJs at Liaison.

You’ll also find multiple bars and plenty of booth-style seating.

There’s also a stage, where guests can expect to see a drag show and watch other surprise performances.

PIRANHA NIGHTCLUB

http://www.piranhavegas.com/ From the outside, the building housing Piranha Nightclub is fairly unremarkable. The squat, stoneencrusted building on the south end of the so-called “Fruit Loop” is not terribly glamorous. But don’t be fooled by the inconspicuous exterior -- this place is so much fun that to miss experiencing Piranha could cause some serious regret. Inside, a concrete dance floor is flanked by a full-service bar and cushy seating. VIP tables on the main floor are separated by beaded curtains. A dazzling lighting system is capable of countless effects, and the sound system can be felt throbbing through the floor and seating.

FREEZONE

http://www.freezonelv.com/ Conveniently located in the Paradise “Fruit Loop” area, Free Zone is a great casual place to grab drinks and food (they have a bar menu). The crowd here is varied, the bartenders are friendly, and you can find karaoke or drag shows many nights of the week. Be sure to catch their Cloak & Dagger after hours party every Saturday.

REVO SUNDAYS AT REVOLUTION LOUNGE AT THE MIRAGE HOTEL & CASINO

http://www.mirage.com/nightlife/ the-beatles-revolution-lounge.aspx Sunday is gay night in Vegas, so make sure to swing by REVO Sundays. A perfectly-sized gorgeous club — not too big, not too small — REVO’s DJs spin great contemporary tunes and remixes. It’s also a great place to meet someone. This could be your last chance to be able to use the excuse “what happens in Vegas...”

FREEDOM AT MARQUEE NIGHTCLUB AT THE COSMOPOLITAN http://marqueelasvegas.com/ One of the newest gay parties in Vegas, FREEDOM is a rousing good time with some seriously beautiful dancers.

TEMPTATION SUNDAYS AT THE LUXOR LAS VEGAS

http://www.luxor.com/lgbt/ When you think of Vegas pool parties, you likely imagine a crowded scene with sweaty bodies, ear-splitting music, and pounding sun. Temptation Sundays is actually nothing like that: it’s relaxed, chill, friendly, and there’s great music and plenty of room to flop around in the pool (with great views of Luxor’s pyramids).

SHARE

http://www.sharenightclub.com/ This off-the-Strip club is a serious blast. Patrons flirt underneath gorgeous dancers; while reputable DJs put sexy spins on the songs we all know and love. This is

a good old-fashioned gay club experience, where you’ll find yourself crawling outside as the sun rises. SHARE opened in November 2011 by gay owner Mike Crisp and Partners. The gay nightclub, bar and ultra-lounge spans 2 floors with the ultramodern and hip nightclub downs stairs creating a unique dance floor encased by couches, tables and VIP cabanas while keeping a full view of the dance floor at all times.

Upstairs every SHARE guest can enjoy the luxury and privacy of the SHARE Ultra Lounge and bar with open seating or VIP Private Rooms and if you want to make your experience a little more Sharable, ask a shot boy what he can do for you.

For travel recommendations, please contact me at RSicilio@ TRIPSandCRUISES.com www.TRIPSandCRUISES.com or 800-411-8747.

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Off the Record Former journalist pens book about deep relationship with female senator, who fought breast cancer.

By Stacey Federoff At first, Terry Mutchler says she and state Senator Penny Severns kept their relationship a secret because Mutchler led the Associated Press statehouse bureau chief in Illinois.

For a journalist to have a relationship with a source is a major breech of ethics, as Mutchler was covering issues related to Severns and the rest of the Illinois capitol.

“We struggled on a regular basis with the ethical failures there, but I think now all these years later, all my homophobia and fear of being a lesbian was dressed up as an ethical concern,” Mutchler says.

She and Severns met in 1993 when Mutchler was newly on the AP job and visiting a vending machine. She saw Severns for the first time coming down the steps of the capitol.

The pair maintained the secret relationship even after living together by having Mutchler park her car two miles away and leave before sunrise.

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America,” recalling her deep but private relationship with Severns, which was cut short when the senator -- making a run for secretary of state – died of cancer in 1998.

“No matter what your story is, the most important thing is to tell the truth about it,” Mutchler says. “There’s no wrong time to do the right thing.”

The book brings the politics of LGBT rights in the United States in to focus, as even a pair of strong, driven women so familiar with the legislature were closeted in part because of their sexual orientation.

“In ideological terms, it was a century ago,” Mutchler says, adding that central Illinois and Pittsburgh have very similar attitudes when it comes to recognizing and accepting LGBT people with full rights.

Mutchler, 48, who now lives in suburban Philadelphia and works as the first executive director of the state Office of Open Records, says she first starting writing as therapy.

She was in a “downward spiral” for six years after Severns’ death before a friend suggested a 10-day California writing retreat in 2004.

Mutchler says she wanted to get some relief for her feelings there, but that didn’t happen.

“It’s didn’t bring relief, it called up an extreme amount to pain, but that’s what needed to happen,” the author says. “The book started out as really trying to work some healing into my life and to work out some of the pain.”

She says she never wanted her current public office become a “silent editor.”

“If I was going to tell the story, I was going to tell the whole story,” Mutchler says. “Some of it I wish I didn’t have to tell, but if you’re going to tell it, you’re going to tell it.”

In the book, she describes how she and Penny felt about each other, happy days spent traveling or in bed and the pair’s exchange of jewelry to “join their hearts” because they couldn’t be legally married.

Then, Mutchler tells of the heartbreak when the pair found a lump in Severns’ left breast.

Mutchler, who grew up in a fundamentalist family, felt tremendous guilt, even taking a new AP job in Alaska.

“I really felt I was the cause of Penny’s cancer because we were lesbians and that leaving her would be the cure,” Mutchler says.

She could not sit in the front of the church at Severns’ funeral, but she was there in November 2013 to see Illinois Gov. Pat Quinn sign the bill to make the state the 16th to legalize gay marriage.

Mutchler says she encourages others not to quickly dismiss those who don’t agree with same-sex marriage.

room for people who are still working through that,” she says. “It’s an individual walk that everyone has to make regardless of whether you’re walking with a million people of walking alone, you still have to put one foot in front of the other.”

Mutcher says no matter someone’s politics, she hopes everyone can take something away from the book, whether about preparing better for a partner’s death, taking steps for early cancer detection or supporting same-sex marriage.

“I do hope just one person would read this and say, ‘I’m going to do something differently,’” she says.

On Voting Mutchler says everyone should vote, especially in midterm elections like those on Nov. 4, while considering a candidate for all of their platform, not just LGBT rights.

“For myself, I make sure I look at a three-dimensional person,” she says. “The great equalizer is the vote,” adding that everyone – from the construction worker to the CEO in the corner office – gets one ballot.

“I think government in the Commonwealth and everywhere, needs to get back to one purpose and that’s serving the public,” Mutchler says.

Marriage equality is an important topic, but simply disagreeing with it may be only one aspect of a candidate’s background, she says.

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“Where I do draw the line is people who would use their public position for harm and who are unwilling to say there’s room at the table,” she says.

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The Evolution of Eli

by Susan Nitzberg On Aug. 24, 1989, my husband and I were blessed with the birth of identical twin girls… or so we believed at the time. From the age of 4, Liz was determined to dress, look, and act differently than Diane. For many years, we thought she simply wanted to differentiate herself from her sister because most people could not tell them apart. As Halloweens came and sent, Diane dressed as various iterations of Disney princesses, while Liz chose to be the zombie du jour. Diane enjoyed gifts of clothing and jewelry, while Liz, on the other hand, was thrilled with a tool belt and a sword.

So often with her hair cut short, baseball cap on backwards, Liz was mistaken for being a boy, and nothing could make her happier.

This pattern continued through high school and her years at Penn State. When Liz came out as gay, we were surprised, but looking back at her personality, it felt consistent with whom she was. We supported her fully, and encouraged her to engage with the PSU LGBT Student Resource Center to find a community for herself. We thought this might be a “phase” in her sexual development. Ironically, we were right, because her lesbian identity was temporary.

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While she lived a lesbian lifestyle for a few years, it took a visit by Chaz Bono during Penn State’s observance of National Coming Out Week to help Liz finally figure out who she was. Chaz talked about his journey as a transgender man. This was an illuminating moment for Liz. Liz told us that she felt he was describing her life. Suddenly, everything took on a new perspective. It wasn’t easy, at first, to understand. We began to read books and articles about transgender people. The relationship between my husband and Liz had always been strained. Suddenly, that evaporated when Liz became Eli the barriers came tumbling down. Eli no longer had a wall of defense he had to maintain. Their relationship became much closer.

While in graduate school, Eli posted a succinct announcement on his FB page. “My name is now Eli – I am transgender – and if you don’t understand this, please message me. And, thanks to my friends and family for all of their love and support.” Eli received over 100 likes and no negative comments and numerous words of support as a result of his post.”

We were so touched by the outpouring of understanding and support that was expressed to Eli.

After receiving a Master’s Degree, Eli and his girlfriend, Morgan, moved to Virginia to start their careers. Morgan has been by Eli’s side as his partner through the entire process of Eli’s becoming a transgender man. She embodies true commitment. It was at that time that Eli changed his name and formalized his legal status as a man.

We’ve come to realize that sexual preference and gender identity are not the same. Morgan has loved Eli through his transition from Liz to Eli, and so have we. It’s the person who matters. That doesn’t change with a change in gender. As my sister told my 85 years old mother, Eli is still the same kind, generous and funny person as he was as Liz. And, the love we feel for him and the admiration of his courage has only grown.

For those who would like to learn more about transgender people, here are some resources: Persad Center www.persadcenter.org National Transgender Law Center www. transgenderlawcenter.org National Center for Transgender Equality www. transequality.org TRANS - a documentary movie

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Medical research has allowed us, in this generation, to learn more about how our bodies will react to certain foods. From lactose intolerance to gluten sensitivity, as well as a host of other food allergies, we are now more equipped to adjust our diets accordingly. Often times, there is a substitute readily available for consumption.

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Even if a guest has a voluntary food restriction (i.e. vegetarians, vegans) it is courteous to provide them with the same amazing culinary experience that is in store for other guests without the same dietary requirements.

Should one decide to tackle the creation of essentially two meals, there are a few things

to keep in mind, aside from finding the right recipes. Reading labels is very important.

Items like soy, dairy, and gluten are required to be listed in case of allergy or special dietary needs. For instance, many store-bought soups are made with a roux, which uses flour as a thickening agent. The easiest way to avoid mistakes like this is to steer away from any processed foods.

Although not mentioned above, nut allergies can be a severe issue and special care needs to be taken to avoid using nuts, nut flours, or

nut oils in the preparation of any of the items, should there be a special need on the guest list.

IT MAY BE HELPFUL TO BREAK DOWN THE ADJUSTMENTS BY TACKLING ONE TRADITIONAL THANKSGIVING FOOD ITEM AT A TIME. HERE ARE SOME TIPS FOR A FEW OF THE PROBLEM STANDARD LINE-UP.

The internet and cookbooks are a great resource, but doing a little homework and testing a new recipe before waiting until the last minute can save many a headache. Often times, recipes that are heavily altered do not always turn out as hoped, and some just donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t work at all.

Unfortunately, no matter how hard one may try, it is impossible to please everyone. A host can only seek to please the few that are set before him/ her. Now, go forth and create some special delights. Happy Thanksgiving!

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Possible Dietary Restriction: Vegan/Vegetarian This one is a lot easier for most to substitute as there are a variety tofu based turkey products on the market. In fact, the most popular of the bunch is actually trademarked as Tofurkey.

Possible Dietary Restrictions: Gluten, Vegan/ Vegetarian This one can be tough because it is typically made in larger quantities. Unless all the guests are fine with gluten-free bread cubes that are dried and then cooked with vegetable stock and other seasoning, making a small amount of gluten-free/vegan stuffing, in addition to the traditional stuffing, is advised.

Any and all of these items can be stressful to make for the first time.

Making a traditional Thanksgiving meal can be hectic enough.

However, sometimes being the host means going the extra mile.

Possible Dietary Restrictions: Gluten, Vegan/ Vegetarian, Dairy Desserts are tricky because there are so many ingredients that go into them. First there is the crust, which in and of itself is filled with gluten, and butter. Using Cup4Cup brand flour and margarine should do the trick, unless the crust is purchased from a specialty bakery pre-made.

Next, the filling needs to be made with a dairyfree milk (i.e. coconut, soy, almond, etc.). Many vegan pie fillings use cornstarch as a thickening agent and do not require any baking beyond the baking of the crust. The other option is to simply have the pie completely made and ready to serve by a bakery that specializes in desserts with dietary restrictions.

Possible Dietary Restrictions: Dairy, Vegan Mashed potatoes may seem like a simple food that not many would have an objection to, but the addition of butter, milk or sour cream can be an issue. Using margarine and a non-dairy milk should solve the problem. If cheese is included in a standard recipe, simply omit, or use a specialty vegan cheese.

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While here in the United States LGBT people have continued to celebrate as more and more states grants marriage equality, the fight to be recognized as more than second-class citizens is very different in Uganda.

In February, the Uganda Anti-Homosexuality Act of 2014 was signed into law, not only prohibiting samesex relationships, but also carrying a punishment of life in prison. The law was struck down in August, but homosexuality is still illegal, however and carries a 14-year prison sentence.

Eva Beal, youth ministry coordinator at First Unitarian Church in Shadyside, will host the Rev. Mark Kiyimba, a Unitarian Universalist minister from Uganda on Nov. 16 for 9:30 and 11 a.m. Sunday services at the church, 605 Morewood Ave. “I’m excited to meet him and hear what he has to say,” Beal says. “I think there’s a lot of possibilities to bring people together in Pittsburgh.”

Kiyimba, 38, leads a church of 150 people and a school for 650 children orphaned because of HIV/AIDS in Kampala, the capital of the East African country.

In Uganda, some of the homophobia and prejudice has been perpetuated by American evangelical Christian groups.

KIYIMBA, 38, LEADS A CHURCH OF 150 PEOPLE AND A SCHOOL FOR 650 CHILDREN ORPHANED BECAUSE OF HIV/ AIDS IN KAMPALA, THE CAPITAL OF THE EAST AFRICAN COUNTRY.

Even though he himself is not gay, Kiyimba has been an important part of the Unitarian Universalist “Standing on the Side of Love” advocacy campaign that “seeks to harness love’s power to stop oppression” begun in 2008, according to standingonthesideoflove.org.

“I think a really big challenge with oppression is you’re meant to feel alone,” Beal says, which is why she feels connecting people to one another is important.

She hopes with Kiyimba’s visit, participants get a better picture of the human rights struggle in Africa from Africans, supporting him and gaining courage to stand up for LGBT rights.

“It’s heartbreaking to hear somebody say I just want to love the person I love,” Beal says. “I’m a big believer in love.

Love is what we make it to be, not what others tell us it should be.”

For more information about Kiyimba’s speaking events, visit first-unitarian-pgh.org or the church’s Facebook page.

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At the GLCC, workers and volunteers have experience not only with daunting statistics connecting homelessness and poverty to the LGBT community, but also needs directly from the realities of visitors.

Sue Kerr, social media manager at the center, recited numbers including how 29 percent of LGBT people were food insecure at least one day in 2013, 20.7 percent of LGB people earn less than $12,000 per year compared with 17 percent of heterosexuals, and 15 percent of transgendered people earn less than $10,000 compared to 4 percent of the general population.

“The community center’s a good vehicle to ask neighbors who do have extra to share with those who don’t,” she says.

The GLCC held a winter gear drive last year that collected about 8,000 items including not just

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coats and blankets, but clothes and sleeping bags.

the center’s hours from 3 to 8 p.m. Monday to Saturday and 1 to 5 p.m. Sunday.

After the success of last year’s effort, the center began the drive for a second year on Oct. 1 and it will continue through March 31, 2015.

To volunteer or organize a drive, visit glccpgh. wordpress.com/winter-gear-drive or email info@ glccpgh.org for more information.

“It was amazing how it really resonated with people,” Kerr says.

Kerr asks anyone in need of items to call the center at 412-422-0114 to make an appointment, to help staff plan ahead.

Some recipients of the items even helped volunteer at the center, sorting and organizing the items. Donations were either distributed at the center or to shelters and organization that are LGBT-friendly, which is planned again for this year.

“We’re able to be a conduit so people know their stuff is going to a place that treats people with dignity and respect,” Kerr says.

To donate, items can be dropped off during

The GLCC even encourages caseworkers, friends and family to seek items for those in need, who may not be comfortable visiting the center.

“Anyone can ask for help, you don’t have to be a teen, you don’t have to be LGBT,” she says.

“It’s very much for anyone because that’s the spirit of what we are.”

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Delta is the official airline sponsor for 13 Most Wanted Men: Andy Warhol and the 1964 World’s Fair.

This exhibition was developed collaboratively by the Queens Museum and The Andy Warhol Museum. 13 Most Wanted Men: Andy Warhol and the 1964 World’s Fair is made possible by a generous grant from the Henry Luce Foundation.

Also on view:

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Support for the Pittsburgh Biennial has been provided by The Fine Foundation; Hillman Family Foundations; the James L. Baker Memorial Fund, the Hollen Bolmgren Fund, and the W. Alfred Turner Memorial Fund of The Pittsburgh Foundation; Richard King Mellon Foundation; Highmark; and an anonymous donor.

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on “In the Woods” by Tana French Photo by Mara Rago Erika June Christina Laing is an avid explorationist whose adventuresome spirit runs through both her career and her hobbies.

As a frontierswoman in neuroimaging, she develops methods for neurosurgical planning and research applications by harnessing the information encoded in the fleeting magnetic fields of the brain; meanwhile, she moonlights as a multi-instrumentalist and songwriter in the bands Working Breed and Faithful Sinners, playing musical saw, trombone, keys, building simple analog synths, and, of course, singing her heart out. For her, reading (and writing) play a critical role as she plumbs the depths of the human experience.

I found In The Woods to be a refreshingly absorptive novel. Indeed, it has the requisite suspense of a psychological thriller and detective piece, but moreover, French’s representation of the primary characters and vivid examination of the adolescent experience won me over. She deftly demonstrates the ungraspability of adult relationships, so often amorphous in their definition, while expertly tying them to the swerve of the protagonist’s childhood history in a thread that parallels and accentuates the mystery of the dominant story line. Ultimately, as is so often the case in life, that which is at the surface is not the story at all, but rather one must be willing to risk probing what lurks beneath. The cracks are how the light gets in.

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