NEW YEAR
Dear neighbor,
Happy New Year! We hope 2025 is off to a great start for you and your family. While other parts of the country are experiencing cold weather, we are experiencing a cold real estate market. The holiday season and start to 2025 have brought more of the same, increased inventory and decreased demand. We anticipate it taking a few weeks for the market to warm up as consumers come out of their holiday fog.
The slight build up of inventory is a direct result of the higher mortgage rate environment. As rates continue to be stuck above 7% this has created affordability concerns for many buyers. San Diego County is a rate sensitive market. Rates go up, demand slows and inventory rises. Rates fall, demand goes up and prices start to rise. As a comparison, this is the highest mortgage rate start to a year since 2001 when we saw rates just above 8%.
While inventory is at record lows due to owners “hunkering down” combined with extremely low demand, we are seeing days on market rise to around the 90 day mark. Some buyers and sellers have not recalibrated their expectations of the market yet in comparison to recent years. In the luxury market, homes above $2 million dollars, demand has plunged even faster than inventory. Market times have grown to well over 120 days. We do continue to see more cash offers in this segment so buyers are not as rate sensitive, but they are definitely more cautious.
So what does this mean for buyers and sellers in 2025?
FOR BUYERS: I expect the market to heat up over the next several weeks. With increased demand and likely not much new inventory, we could see multiple offers as well as sellers not wanting to move on price.
FOR SELLERS: Pricing your home properly will continue to be critical as buyers gauge their affordability and adjust their expectations moving forward. Strategy and going to market at the right time will be the biggest factor in obtaining the highest price. Our years of experience can help you determine the right timing to maximize your equity.
This year, we introduced our Secret Seller Marketplace™ - a private network where sellers can connect with serious buyers discreetly, without public listings or open houses. Many in the community have often said, “If you could get us X for our house we would consider selling.” So we thought, why not organize this in a bigger way. If you’re considering selling and have a target price in mind, this option might be ideal for you. For more details, just scan this blue QR code to the right!
2024 was the biggest housing recession since 1995! We are extremely grateful to our clients and community for continuing to choose us for their real estate needs. We are cautiously optimistic for the housing market this coming year as we continue to face challenges like affordability. But, I know we will face them together to help you achieve your goals.
Mary Maloney, USN Veteran Owner & Team Leader • Lake & Coast Real Estate
Dear Neighbor,
As we stand on the brink of 2025, we can’t help but feel a surge of excitement for what lies ahead! The New Year brings with it a sense of fresh possibility — a clean slate to dream big, grow, and rediscover what lights us up. This year, we’re all about celebrating individuality and shining a spotlight on those who are helping their communities look inward, find their purpose, and heal.
2025 feels like the perfect time for optimism, innovation, and a much-needed balance of release and recharge. As we embrace the year ahead, we’ve crafted this edition to inspire, uplift, and spark joy.
We are beyond thrilled to feature an empowering essay by writer Vanessa Elle Wilde, whose piece, "Dare to Prosper," is a rallying cry to shed limiting beliefs and stride boldly into the future with courage and intention. Her words are a reminder that we have the power to create the life we dream of, one brave step at a time.
To help you channel your own vision for 2025, we’ve included a journal page for you to reflect on what you want to invite into your life this year. Whether it’s clarity, connection, creativity, or all of the above, take a moment to jot it down and make it real.
We're also diving into the world of fashion, exploring trends that can inspire your closet to reflect your unique style and values. And because life is about balance, we’ve cooked up some fun in the kitchen too! Our recipe for "How to Tackle Takeout Cravings" is a game-changer for anyone looking to savor home-cooked comfort with ease.
Oh, and don’t miss our new puzzle page! These brainboosting exercises are not just entertaining — they’re a wonderful way to keep your mind sharp and engaged.
As always, our goal with this edition is to nourish your mind, body, and soul. We hope it brings you joy, inspiration, and a sense of community as we all step into this new chapter together.
Here’s to a year of breakthroughs, bold moves, and beautiful moments. Wishing you a bright and Happy New Year!
With gratitude, Heather & Mary
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INSIDEISSUETHIS
How Mom Made It! Using Sound to Heal Souls
Embracing the Healing Arts for a Happier & Healthier 2025
A Year of Positive Intentions
Dare to Prosper An Outrageous Invitation
Financial Resolutions for 2025
Maneuvering Fashion Trends in 2025
Recipes for the Family (and the dog!)
Kickstart 2025 with a Clutter-free Home 4 6 7 8 10 16 18 22
stepping into 2025
Let’s make this the year we focus on growth, joy and transformation. Affirmations and journaling are powerful tools that shape our mindset and invite positive energy into our lives. They are more than just words they are intentions, declarations and reminders of the incredible potential within us. By starting each day with affirmations, you create a foundation for success, resilience and peace.
This year, let’s use affirmations and journals to align with our goals, embrace self-love and cultivate the courage to take bold steps forward.
Take a moment to center yourself, write your responses, and allow affirmations to spark your thoughts and intentions for the exciting year ahead.
See more 2025 inspiration on Page 7
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NORIKO USING SOUND TO HEAL SOULS
Noriko Whitfield, originally from Japan, moved to the United States with her daughter 28 years ago, following the loss of her first spouse. Her life journey has been filled with unexpected challenges and surprises, which have deeply influenced her mission to help others reconnect their body and mind. With over 35 years in the healing arts, she combines sound healing, body movement, energy healing and coaching to guide people toward unlocking their full potential and living with joy. She leads over 100 people each month on their personal healing journeys.
MOMSTOWN
You have a focus on sound healing and meditation. Can you explain what sound healing means and the practice of sound healing?
NORIKO
Sound healing, to me, is a gateway to connect deeply with myself and embrace the present moment. It's about aligning with the frequencies that bring me into balance and stillness and discovering myself at a deeper level.
However, offering sound healing to others is a bit different. In this role, I see myself as a guide, and my intention shifts to creating a space where individuals can connect with their inner wisdom and strength.
MOMSTOWN
There is a lot of science behind the benefits of sound healing. What are some of the most promising studies?
NORIKO
Studies have shown that sound healing promotes stress reduction, relaxation, and emotional wellbeing. Research highlights its ability to lower cortisol levels, improve heart rate variability, and help regulate brainwave activity, fostering calm and reducing anxiety.
MOMSTOWN
What are the benefits of sound healing?
NORIKO
From my own experience hosting sound healing events, I can see these effects firsthand. Participants often undergo a noticeable transformation, with their stress levels significantly decreasing. Their breathing deepens, and they are able to release negative emotions such as fear, resentment, and anger. Many people feel empowered and gain new perspectives. Slowing down in this fast-paced society and creating regular mindfulness practice time is very valuable to start with.
MOMSTOWN
How did you decide that sound healing was a career path you wanted to follow?
NORIKO
My journey into sound healing unfolded naturally over time. The pivotal moment that solidified my path was when an artist invited me to lead a wellness event during her solo exhibition at the museum. At that time, sound healing was rare in museums, and it felt like a groundbreaking collaboration with the artist and museum curators.
The event was a tremendous success, with over 50 people attending, and that ultimately evolved into an ongoing series. From there, my work has grown organically, supported by each venue I work with. Without their support, I wouldn't have been able to continue on this path. Through this journey, I’ve experienced deep personal healing—processing trauma, grief, and many other emotions. I see this same impact during my sessions, which aligns perfectly with my mission.
MOMSTOWN
If someone is unable to attend a session in person, is it possible to get the benefits of sound healing online? Do you have recommendations for online classes or resources?
NORIKO
Absolutely! I offer various online sound healing sessions from personal healing to corporate wellness events. Recently, I presented at Lululemon's international wellness event, where I combined self-care tools with sound healing via Zoom. I was traveling in the UK at the time, and hosting the event from overseas was pretty amazing! I always customize sessions based on individuals' needs - all in the comfort of their own homes while also providing a deep sense of community connection. Please check out my website for online sound healing options.
MOMSTOWN
It seems as though more people are starting to learn about the healing art of sound healing; do you find more people are seeking your classes and services? What do you think the future of sound healing holds for you?
NORIKO
Yes, more and more people are discovering the benefits of sound healing. I love introducing people to sound healing, yet I also have a lot of repeat attendees at every event. Part of the reason
people often come back to my sessions is that they resonate with my authenticity and the care I put into my work. A very important element is that at each event I give them useful self-care tools they can practice on their own.
I will continue to learn and refine my sessions without ego and offer support to those who need it. For the future, I would like to do more international workshops and collaborations.
MOMSTOWN
Finally, how can readers find you and reach out to you?
NORIKO
Readers can contact me on my website: gaialifestylecuration.com
Noriko hosts sound baths every Tuesday at The Seabird Ocean Resort & Spa in Oceanside.
DISCOVER CALM AND CLARITY WITH THE UPCOMING SOUND BATH JOURNAL!
Transform your inner world with the Sound Bath Journal: Reflections on Sound and Serenity. Designed to be your weekly sanctuary, this beautiful 52-week journal offers a mindful space to reflect, recharge, and renew. Each week, you’ll find thoughtful writing prompts and inspiring quotes related to sound healing, wellness, meditation and self-care. These gifts of inspiration will guide you through a journey of introspection, helping you release what no longer serves you and embrace the harmony within.
This journal is more than just a notebook — it’s your personal companion for discovering calm and cultivating balance. With dedicated sections for monthly affirmations and space for your unique reflections, it’s a fun and beautiful tool for anyone seeking serenity in today’s busy world.
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Whether you’re new to sound healing or a seasoned practitioner, the Sound Bath Journal invites you to explore your serenity one week at a time.
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The hustle and bustle of daily life often leave us feeling drained and out of sync. The healing arts act as a bridge back to balance, encouraging us to slow down and be intentional about how we live and engage with others. Let’s dive into why these practices matter and how they can transform your 2025.
THE SCIENCE OF SOUND AND MUSIC HEALING
One of the most profound healing arts is sound healing, a practice that uses vibrational frequencies to promote relaxation and wellness. Backed by science, sound therapy has been shown to reduce stress, improve mental health, and even alleviate physical pain.
A 2016 study published in the Journal of Evidence-Based Integrative Medicine explored the effects of a 60-minute sound meditation on participants. Researchers found that the session significantly reduced tension, anger, fatigue, and depression while increasing feelings of spiritual well-being. The study highlighted the transformative power of sound waves to harmonize body and mind, making sound healing a cornerstone of the wellness journey.
EMBRACING THE HEALING ARTS:
Your Guide to a Healthier, Happier 2025
AROMATHERAPY: SCENTS FOR THE SOUL
The healing power of scent is undeniable. Aromatherapy uses essential oils to stimulate the senses and support physical and emotional health. Lavender for relaxation, eucalyptus for clarity, or citrus for energy — there’s a scent for every mood. Integrating aromatherapy into your routine is a small change with big rewards.
TAI CHI: MOVING MEDITATION
Tai chi, an ancient Chinese martial art, is a gentle practice that combines movement, breath, and mindfulness. Often described as “meditation in motion,” it’s ideal for improving flexibility, reducing stress, and enhancing overall vitality. Tai chi invites you to flow through life with grace and presence.
THE YEAR TO PRIORITIZE YOU 2025 is your year. The healing arts offer a way to honor yourself, to slow down, and to nurture your well-being. They help us show up as our best selves — more thoughtful, more creative, and more resilient. Whether it’s the soothing hum of sound healing, the grounding energy of tai chi, or the uplifting scent of essential oils, there’s a practice waiting to transform your life.
MEDITATION: A PRACTICE FOR INNER
PEACE
Meditation, often called the gateway to mindfulness, is another healing art with immense benefits. Just 10 minutes a day can help reduce anxiety, improve focus, and boost emotional resilience. As we move into 2025, committing to a regular meditation practice could be the key to finding calm amidst chaos.
MUSIC THERAPY: NOTES THAT HEAL
Music has long been a source of comfort and joy, but it’s also a therapeutic powerhouse. Music therapy taps into rhythm, melody, and harmony to promote emotional and psychological healing. It’s particularly effective for managing stress, improving mood, and even aiding recovery from trauma. Turn on a favorite playlist or explore live music sessions designed for healing — it’s time to let the music move you.
Start small, explore widely, and embrace the journey. Here’s to a year of healing, growth, and boundless possibilities!
Welcome to 2025: A Year of Positive Intentions
As we step into 2025, let’s make this the year we focus on growth, joy, and transformation. Affirmations and journaling are powerful tools that shape our mindset and invite positive energy into our lives. They are more than just words — they are intentions, declarations, and reminders of the incredible potential within us. By starting each day with affirmations, you create a foundation for success, resilience, and peace.
Use the following journal prompts as starting points. Reflect, write, and adapt them to resonate with your unique journey. Here's to a year filled with purpose, positivity, and possibility!
10 Journal Prompts for 2025
1. What is one goal you want to achieve this year, and what steps will you take to make it happen?
2. Reflect on a challenge you faced last year. What did you learn from it, and how will you use that lesson in 2025?
3. Describe a perfect day in 2025. Where are you, what are you doing, and how do you feel?
4. What does success mean to you this year? How can you redefine it to align with your values?
5. Who inspires you the most right now, and why? How can you incorporate their qualities into your life?
6. Write about a habit or mindset you want to release in 2025. What will you replace it with, and why?
7. Imagine it’s December 2025, and you’re reflecting on the year. What do you hope to look back on with pride?
8. What areas of your life feel most aligned with your purpose? How can you nurture them further this year?
9. What is one new skill or practice you want to explore in 2025, and why does it excite you?
10. Write a letter to your future self at the end of 2025. What do you hope they’ve experienced, learned, accomplished?
Use these prompts as opportunities to explore your hopes, dreams, and reflections.
Writing them out will help you set intentions and capture the growth and transformation of your 2025 journey!
VANESSA WILDE
as simply having more money, but it’s so much more than that. True prosperity is a state of being that is in full alignment with your wealth, independence, and choices so the life you want is the life you’re living!
Yes, money is part of it — it’s a powerful resource that supports your freedom and creativity — but prosperity goes deeper. It’s a dynamic state of action and receptivity. You plant seeds with intention, nurture their growth, and allow the harvest to sustain and elevate you.
PROSPERITY AS A STATE OF BEING
True prosperity thrives on both bold action and bold receptivity. It’s not just about creating and giving—it’s about the courage to receive the bounty flowing back to you.
This isn’t passive. Bold receptivity means staying open, even when it feels vulnerable, and trusting in your worthiness to be nourished and supported by the fruits of your efforts. It’s about embracing the full flow of prosperity: giving, growing, and receiving.
flow? Let’s explore six secrets
1. YES, AND: APPRECIATE THE NOW + ADD YOUR MAGIC
Start where you are. “Yes” acknowledges your reality— your wins, challenges, and your glorious potential. “And” invites you to add color, details and a dash of your own magic to this vision.
Try This: Each morning, write down one thing you’re thankful for. Then ask yourself: What’s one bold way I can build on this today? Whether it’s setting aside money for an adventure, starting a new project, or simply treating yourself, let it be something that excites you.
Why It Works: Appreciation stabilizes you, and dreaming expands you. Together, they create momentum for growth.
2. LISTEN: TUNE INTO YOUR UNIQUE VISION
Forget the “shoulds.” Prosperity is about designing a life that reflects your heart's desires and priorities—not anyone else’s.
Try This: Take 10 minutes to map out what prosperity looks like for you. Is it financial freedom? If so, how much money equates to this freedom? Creative freedom? If so, are you painting, writing a book? Time for yourself? Write it down in detail along with the outlines of your plan.
Why It Works: Clarity transforms vague hopes into actionable goals. When you know your destination, you can steer toward it with focus and power.
3. BE PRESENT: FOCUS ON WHAT’S IN FRONT OF YOU
Prosperity as a state of being is cultivated in the heart, mind and action. Being fully present allows you to focus on both the intuitive call, and the task at hand without getting overwhelmed.
Try This: Pick one financial or personal nudge you’ve been avoiding — get your finances in order, setting a budget, or finally making a bold ask. Dedicate time to it today and complete it with a bit of TLC (tenacity, love and courage.)
Why It Works: Presence creates progress. Clearing any mental and physical clutter opens the door to new and prosperous opportunities.
4. MAKE IT BIG: CELEBRATE LIKE YOU MEAN IT
Prosperity loves celebration. Recognizing your wins—no matter how small—affirms your progress and energizes you onward.
Try This: At the end of each day, note one way prosperity showed up for you. It could be as simple as saving money on a purchase or as significant as landing a big juicy win. Celebrate in a way that feels good, whether that’s dancing, toasting, or journaling.
Why It Works: Celebration shifts your mindset into abundance, helping you attract and create more of the good stuff.
5. DARE TO SUCK: TAKE THE RISK ANYWAY
Perfection isn’t a requirement for prosperity. Growth thrives in messy, imperfect action—so take the risk, even if you feel unsure. Try This: Identify one thing you’ve been avoiding because it feels too big or scary. Take one step toward it today, whether it’s pitching a big
idea, starting a new project, or investing in something that will bring rich rewards in the future.
Why It Works: Risk creates rewards. Even if it doesn’t go perfectly, you’ll gain experience and move closer to your goals, lesson by lesson, dollar by dollar, day by day.
6. MAKE IT MUTUAL: SHARE THE WEALTH
Generosity is a multiplier for prosperity. When you give freely — your time, energy, or resources —you create ripples that flow back to you in unexpected ways.
Try This: Set aside time or money to give. Whether it’s mentoring a youngling, giving a meal to a person in need, or surprising a friend with a thoughtful treat or letter, notice how the act of giving opens your heart and enlivens your soul. (That’s some serious magic there!)
Why It Works: Sharing creates connection and instills a sense of abundance, expanding prosperity beyond yourself and bringing it back full circle.
YOUR PROSPERITY AWAITS
Prosperity isn’t just about what you have—it’s about who you are and how you engage with the bounty of resources at your disposal. It thrives in alignment: the boldness to act, the courage to receive, and the generosity to share.
Think of your life as a thriving ecosystem. You plant seeds with intention, nurture them with care, and trust in the process of growth. When the harvest comes, you savor it, share it, and let it fuel your next adventure.
So, what’s your next bold move? How will you direct your time, energy, and resources to cultivate the prosperous life you want? With that, I say: Dare to create. Dare to receive. Dare to prosper.
Vanessa Elle Wilde is an artist, entrepreneur, and playologist. She is the founder of the Fruitologie Card Deck—a playful tool for self-discovery and growth. Explore her work and connect at vanessaellewilde.com.
As an entrepreneur, playologist, and writer, Vanessa is passionate about helping diverse individuals build thriving businesses and lives through the transformative power of play.
Vanessa is also the founder of Peace Ornaments and WildeCards.
(yeah, she’s passionate about a few things)
HAPPY NEW YEAR NEIGHBORS & FRIENDS!
Maybe it’s a sign of my age, but it feels like just yesterday we were all anxious about Y2K! Yet, that was a solid 25 years ago! Whether you were already working back then, a baby, or not even on this planet, it’s wild to think the next 25 years could fly by just as quickly for all of us. So, picture celebrating New Year’s in 2050. How do you want to feel when you look back at today?
Will you be content with the choices you made and the steps you took?
I truly hope you’ll feel proud, especially if you take on some achievable resolutions starting now, particularly in terms of your finances. These resolutions can have a lasting impact, not just for you, but for the family you may have in the future.
If you’re ready to make those changes, here are some financial resolutions you might consider for 2025 and beyond.
1. Exploring Opportunities
Every one of us carries a distinct background with unique life experiences, which also shapes our financial stories. While there are universal guidelines for maintaining good health, we also have basic principles for sound financial management. A strong financial foundation typically begins with a sensible budget, along with a commitment to saving and investing consistently over time.
2. The Importance of Budgeting
About a year ago, I shared my first insights here on MomsTown on budgeting.* At its core, maintaining positive cash flow—ensuring your income exceeds your expenses—is essential for setting aside that *extra* money for the future. The secret lies in spending less than you earn. Nowadays, many banks and credit card companies help track where our money goes, allowing us a clearer view of our spending habits. I recommend examining your spending reports and focusing on the top discretionary categories to uncover potential savings.
3. Saving Smartly for Your Goals
When you're able to save money each month, it’s important to consider where those savings go. Think of your savings as fitting into three categories: short-term, mid-term, and long-term. Short-term savings, which typically cover 3 to 6 months of living expenses, are essential for emergencies. Mid-term savings target goals within the next 1 to 5 years, like vacations, new cars, or home renovations. Long-term savings usually focus on retirement or education for kids. One effective vehicle for retirement savings is a workplace plan (like a 401K), which often offers tax benefits; the first two categories may require a bit more discipline on our part.
4. Diving into Investing
Investing can encompass much more than just the stock market, though that's our primary focus here. You have options like stocks, mutual funds, and exchange-traded funds (ETFs). The real challenge lies in choosing the right investments, knowing when to buy or sell, as these decisions can significantly impact
your returns. Each investor has different circumstances, interests, knowledge, timelines, and risk tolerance, all of which are crucial to consider. Investing carries the potential for growth, but it also comes with risks. Therefore, it’s wise to tread carefully and seek professional advice when necessary.
5. Crafting a Financial Plan
Benjamin Franklin once said, "If you fail to plan, you are planning to fail." This is especially true when it comes to achieving your financial goals. A robust financial plan not only guides you in your saving and investing journey but also helps you understand the impact on your future—ultimately determining whether you can achieve the lifestyle you envision for yourself and your family.
As we step into 2025, I encourage you to take a moment to reflect on your current financial situation and think about where you want to be over the next year or even decades. It’s a great opportunity to identify areas for improvement. Once you have clarity, create a practical plan and stick to it! Whether that's accelerating your debt repayment, starting your first ROTH IRA, or entering the investment world, the key is to take the first step and remain committed to your goals. Wishing you all the success and amazing experiences that lie ahead! Happy New Year, my friends. I appreciate your time in reading this, and I genuinely hope these brief insights prove helpful to you and your loved ones.
If you still need help, please feel free to reach out. We offer complimentary initial consultation to every family. My email is: li.tian@lpl.com
You can find the short budgeting article on my blog page: theintegritywealthgroup.com/blog/how-a-tiny-pocket-notebookcan-change-your-life-in-a-big-way
Securities and advisory services offered through LPL Financial, a registered investment advisor. Member FINRA/SIPC. Li Tian, Ph.D., CFP® and LPL Financial do not provide tax or legal advice or services. Please consult your tax or legal advisor regarding your specific situation. . CFP Board owns the marks CFP® and CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER® in the U.S.
Ph.D., CFP®
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DEBORAH SORLIE
Since my days at Nordstrom doing their fashion shows, I’ve always enjoyed keeping my thumb on the current trends and to this day, for me personally and as a personal stylist I still do. During my time working in the Fashion Office it was my job not only to represent in the shows what was trending but to also wear the trends while at work. In reality it wasn’t feasible to purchase and wear every single trend out there just because I was in the fashion office, however, I would choose a few trends I personally loved to represent that season’s hottest items.
One thing to remember when watching fashion shows. They are meant to entertain you. There’s music, there’s model choreography, there’s lights, cameras and everything seems to be exaggerated and bigger than life. They are meant to inspire you and move you. You are meant to leave there breathless.
You may look at the fashions and say, I would never wear that, but in reality that amazing and over exaggerated trend that you see in a NYC fashion show will be transformed into an everyday wearable item that you could definitely see yourself in.
My philosophy as a stylist is to start with a good solid base. What I mean by that is, start with items that are the staples in your wardrobe, the anchors.. They are the classic items that are the investment pieces that will stand the test of time. They are the forever pieces that if they were the only things you owned, you would have a variety of outfits to wear. The six that are a must for your wardrobe are, a white blouse, black pants, a pair of jeans, a trench coat, a blazer and a Little Black Dress (LBD).
I find that trends put a little punch into your wardrobe. Trends are meant to be added into your timeless staples. They are the pieces that may last a season or two. They are a fun accent to your wardrobe. Trends can easily go with one of your staple items, complimenting rather than overshadowing their functional role. A few trends that have caught my eye for Spring ‘25 are: the color blush, fringe, stripes, sheer and wallpaper florals, to name a few.
Not all trends are for everyone, so choose what speaks to you and what you are comfortable wearing. We fall in love with them, we wear them, then we are over them. From shoulder pads, to bell bottoms, the burning question with these past trends is, are they coming back in style? My answer is, probably. Just like the song. Everything Old is New Again. But what I've observed is that designers do have a way of putting a new spin on them when they resurface in the fashion scene.
Fashion Weeks are held twice a year to show the spring/summer and fall/winter collections. These shows happen usually in February and September with New York kicking it off, then London, Milan, Paris and Miami. Fashion Week is the heartbeat of what’s next. You just might be intrigued by what lies ahead in this next season's trends.
Deborah Sorlie is a personal stylist who is passionate about helping women in midlife look their best. With her background as a Nordstrom fashion show coordinator, personal shopper, and special events coordinator, she has gained extensive experience in the fashion industry. Her degree in Art Education has also enhanced her style abilities as she learned about colors, textures, and other artistic elements. With over 30 years of experience as a fashion advisor, Deborah believes that a style consult should be insightful, progressive, and fun. She offers virtual wardrobe assistance, keeping her clients updated on the latest trends and showing them how to wear them.
WAYS TO LIVE HEALTHIER IN 2025 8
Take steps to limit risk for cardiovascular disease
The last decade has seen a surge in cardiovascular risk factors such as uncontrolled high blood pressure, diabetes and obesity, each of which raises the risks of developing heart disease and stroke. These trends are leading researchers to conclude that the prevalence of cardiovascular disease (CVD) will continue to rise.
More than 60% of U.S. adults will have some type of CVD by 2050, according to forecasted projections from the American Heart Association, which is celebrating 100 years of lifesaving service as the world’s leading nonprofit organization focused on heart and brain health for all. Additionally, total costs related to CVD are expected to nearly triple in that time to more than $1.8 trillion.
The increase will be driven by an older, more diverse population, but these risk factors are rising even among children and adults.
“We recognize the landscape of cardiovascular health will change over the next three decades because of the coming tsunami of rising health care costs, an older population living longer and increasing numbers of people from under-resourced populations,” said American Heart Association volunteer Karen E. Joynt Maddox, M.D., M.P.H., FAHA. “Yet these are still leading causes of death and disability in the U.S.”
While continued systematic changes are needed in science, policy and health care, the majority of CVD is preventable at an individual level. You can help turn the tide on the dire outlook of CVD while improving your own health by following and encouraging others to follow the American Heart Association’s “Life’s Essential 8.”
EAT BETTER
Aim for an overall healthy eating pattern including whole foods, fruits and vegetables, lean protein, nuts, seeds and cooking with olive and canola oils.
BE ACTIVE
Adults should get 2 1/2 hours of moderate or 75 minutes of vigorous physical activity per week. Kids should have 60 minutes every day, including play and structured activities.
QUIT TOBACCO
Use of inhaled nicotine delivery products, which includes traditional cigarettes, electronic cigarettes and vaping, is the leading cause of preventable death in the U.S.
GET HEALTHY SLEEP
Most adults need 7-9 hours of sleep each night. Children require 10-16 hours for ages 5 and younger, including naps; 9-12 hours for ages 6-12; and 8-10 hours for ages 13-18.
MANAGE WEIGHT
Achieving and maintaining a healthy weight has many benefits. Body mass index is a useful gauge. Optimal BMI is less than 25, but less than 18.5 is considered underweight. You can calculate it online or consult a health care professional.
CONTROL CHOLESTEROL
High levels of non-HDL, or “bad,” cholesterol can lead to heart disease. Your health care professional can consider non-HDL cholesterol as the preferred number to monitor, rather than total cholesterol, because it can be measured without fasting beforehand and is reliably calculated among all people.
MANAGE BLOOD SUGAR
Most of the food you eat is turned into glucose (or blood sugar) your body uses as energy. Over time, high levels of blood sugar can damage your heart, kidneys, eyes and nerves.
MANAGE BLOOD PRESSURE
Keeping your blood pressure within acceptable ranges can keep you healthier longer. Levels less than 120/80 mm Hg are optimal. High blood pressure is defined as 130-139 mm Hg systolic pressure (the top number in a reading) or 80-89 mm Hg diastolic pressure (bottom number).
Find more ways to manage your health in the new year and beyond at heart.org
TAKE BACK BUSY SCHOOL DAYS with simplicity & creativity
Ease and convenience are the name of the game during the school year as parents and students alike adapt to overwhelming schedules, mounds of homework and seemingly never-ending after-school activities. Oftentimes it’s school day meals that take a hit with families opting for quick bites or drive-thru dining, but that doesn’t have to be the case.
Sharing meals that are filling and flavorful can still be a quick endeavor you just need creative recipes that help simplify school day schedules. In fact, with kids, more imagination can mean more deliciousness. This playful Caterpillar Sandwich is a ham and cheese spinoff crafted to excite little ones and their little taste buds at lunchtime.
CATERPILLAR SANDWICH
TOTAL TIME: 20 minutes
Servings: 1
2 slices whole-wheat bread mayonnaise, divided
1 slice Kretschmar American Cheese
2 slices Kretschmar Off the Bone Ham
1 leaf iceberg lettuce
1 cherry tomato
1 carrot, shaved
1 slice Kretschmar Provolone Cheese black decorating gel
On two slices whole-wheat bread, spread thin layer of mayonnaise on each.
Lay American cheese, ham and lettuce leaf on one bread slice then top with other bread slice.
Using biscuit cutter, punch four holes into sandwich, removing crust from sandwich, then set aside.
Using toothpick or knife, poke two holes into cherry tomato. Insert small cores of carrot into tomato for “antennae.”
Using pastry tip, cut “eyes” out of provolone cheese. Cut out sliver of provolone cheese for “mouth.”
Dab mayo on back of “eyes” and “mouth” then attach to cherry tomato.
Use black decorating gel to add tiny dots to eyes for pupils; set aside.
Place four mini sandwich circles on plate to form caterpillar body then place cherry tomato face at one end
SPICED PINEAPPLE SKEWERS
TOTAL TIME: 30 minutes
Servings: 4
8-10 stainless steel or wooden skewers
16 ounces pineapple,
1 1/2 pounds Kretschmar Spiced Pineapple Ham
1/2 cup Hawaiian-style barbecue sauce
1 green bell pepper
1 red bell pepper
1 small red onion
1/4 cup canola oil
1 teaspoon salt black pepper, to taste oil, for grates
Prepare skewers. If using wooden skewers, soak in water 30 minutes.
Heat grill to 300 F.
Trim and cut pineapple and ham steak into 1-inch cubes, 1/2inch thick, and lay on paper towel to pat dry before placing in mixing bowl. Add barbecue sauce to bowl. Toss to combine.
Cut bell peppers and red onion into equal-sized, 1-inch cubes. Place in small bowl and coat with canola oil, salt and black pepper, to taste.
To assemble skewers: Alternate threading ham, pineapple, bell peppers and onion onto skewers then place on baking sheet.
Using paper towel, apply oil to grill grates or grill pan then place skewers on grill uncovered, turning every few minutes until charred, no longer than 6-7 minutes.
Discover more delicious recipes to take back hectic school days at KretschmarDeli.com
ELEVATE LUNCH with comforting staples
Savory and satisfying, comforting ingredients can transform simple recipes into mouthwatering meals. As temperatures fall, people look for comforting foods to warm the soul. For inspiration, consider Italian ingredients to help make homemade lunches easy and satisfying.
To get ready for weekday lunches, Kale Grilled Cheese sandwiches with Grana Padano PDO paired with hot soup and a Fall Grain Bowl with Prosciutto featuring Prosciutto di Parma PDO and filled with your favorite veggies are tasty options for discovering the possibilities of high-quality Italian ingredients.
These authentic products are Protected Designation of Origin (PDO) certified, a highly esteemed classification for European foods that have been produced according to the same traditional methods in a defined geographic region for centuries.
PDO-certified foods offer a guarantee of quality and authenticity. Only products made following traditional methods within defined production areas, under strict supervision and using carefully monitored ingredients qualify for PDO certification from the European Union. Among these artisan products, you’ll find some of the world’s most delicious cheeses and cured meats.
For your comfort food cravings, on an appetizer plate, drape thinly sliced, savory Prosciutto di Parma PDO and chunks of Grana Padano PDO to complement your favorite nuts and olives. Both pair beautifully with fruity red, white or sparkling wines, though they also are enjoyable with your favorite beer or soft drink. While these tastes of Italy can be enjoyed on their own, they are also capable of transforming simple dishes into decadent meals.
FALL GRAIN BOWL WITH PROSCIUTTO KALE GRILLED CHEESE
TOTAL TIME: 20 minutes
Servings: 2
1 cup baby arugula
1 teaspoon olive oil
1/2 teaspoon lemon juice
salt, to taste
1 cup cooked farro
2 tablespoons pesto
3/4 cup cooked squash
4 mozzarella bocconcini balls, halved
2 slices Prosciutto di Parma PDO, halved
In mixing bowl, toss arugula, olive oil, lemon juice and salt, to taste.
Transfer to serving bowl; if packing for lunch, transfer to plastic container.
In another bowl, combine cooked farro and pesto; toss to coat. Transfer farro to serving bowl or plastic container next to arugula.
Top farro with squash and mozzarella bocconcini balls. Drape prosciutto next to squash.
Find more comforting fall meal ideas by visiting distinctlydeliciouslyeuropean.eu
TOTAL TIME: 25 minutes
Servings: 2
2 teaspoons olive oil
1 garlic clove, smashed
4 cups (about 1/2 bunch) Tuscan kale, cut into ribbon salt, to taste
1/2 lemon, juice only
2 tablespoons salted butter, softened
4 slices sourdough sandwich bread
2⁄3 cup (about 2 oz) finely grated Grana Padano PDO cheese, divided 2/3 cup shredded mozzarella cheese
In large skillet over medium heat, heat oil. Add garlic; cook until golden and fragrant, about 3 minutes. Add kale; cook and stir until slightly wilted and dark green, 2-3 minutes. Season lightly with salt, to taste, and lemon juice. Remove to plate.
Wipe skillet clean. Spread butter on one side of each slice of bread, dividing evenly. Place two slices, buttered sides down, into skillet over medium-low heat. Onto each slice, divide half the Grana Padano; top with half the mozzarella.
Cook until cheese is melted and bottom is golden, 6-7 minutes. Add half the kale to one slice and close sandwich. Repeat with remaining ingredients.
HOMEMADE MEALS to tackle takeout cravings!
Many busy weeknights come down to one decision for frazzled families: cook at home or give in to takeout cravings. Instead of stressing over a decision, enjoy the best of both worlds and make Asian-inspired dishes from the comfort of your own kitchen.Featuring a blend of chilled, freshly chopped vegetables; ready-to-eat, pre-cooked noodles; gourmet dressing sauce; and crispy toppings, Fresh Express Hot or Cold Salad and Noodle Meal Kits offer two meal options in every bag – hot or cold – so you can make your salad, your way. Available in Teriyaki, Asian Sweet Ginger and Korean Sesame flavors, they’re the perfect inspiration for making takeout-style dishes at home.
Consider this Marinated Teriyaki Steak with Teriyaki Noodle Salad recipe, which combines juicy steak with crisp vegetables and pre-cooked Udon noodles for the ultimate at-home comfort food in an effortless meal. For a quick and delicious solution that may just become a family go-to, these Teriyaki Tofu Bowls are jam-packed with flavor, noodles and fresh veggies.
These homemade favorites feature a delicious blend of broccoli, red and green cabbage, kale, shredded carrots, radish and green onions in Fresh Express’s Hot or Cold Teriyaki Salad and Noodle Meal Kit. The vegetable blend is tossed with pre-cooked Udon noodles, white sesame seeds and crunchy wontons then finished with a gourmet teriyaki dressing sauce for familiar Asian flavor.
MARINATED TERIYAKI STEAK WITH NOODLE SALAD
Prep time: 1 hour
Cook time: 24 minutes
Servings: 4
1/2 cup dark soy sauce
1/2 cup brown sugar
1 tablespoon Sriracha sauce
1/2 cup unsalted chicken stock
1 pound flank steak
1 tablespoon sesame oil
1 bag (16.9 oz) Fresh Express Hot or Cold Teriyaki Salad and Noodle Meal Kit
In saucepan, add soy sauce, brown sugar, Sriracha sauce and chicken stock; bring to simmer while whisking. Simmer 4 minutes.
Cool mixture down until cool to touch, about 20 minutes.
Slice steak into thin strips and place in bowl. Pour marinade over steak and marinate for 1 hour.
In large pan over medium-high heat, stir-fry steak 2 minutes.
Remove steak from pan and allow to rest.
In same pan used for steak, add oil and cook hot or cold kit according to instructions on bag.
Add steak back to pan and stir to incorporate.
Garnish with toppings from hot or cold kit and serve.
TERIYAKI
TOFU BOWLS
Prep time: 20 minutes
Cook time: 10 minutes
Servings: 4
1 tablespoon rice wine vinegar
2 tablespoons dark soy sauce
1 tablespoon honey
1 teaspoon fresh grated ginger
1 tablespoon minced garlic
2 teaspoons white pepper
2 teaspoons Chinese five-spice
1/3 cup neutral oil
1 package (16 oz) extra-firm tofu, cut into 1/2-inch pieces
1 bag (16.9 oz) Fresh Express Teriyaki Hot or Cold Salad and Noodle Meal Kit
In bowl, whisk vinegar, dark soy sauce, honey, ginger, garlic, white pepper and Chinese five-spice until combined.
Slowly pour oil into mixture while whisking vigorously. Place cut tofu in mixture and allow to sit 15 minutes.
Bring large sauté pan to medium-high heat and place tofu in, turning when crust forms.
When tofu is finished, set aside and prepare hot or cold salad and noodle meal kit.
Serve with tofu on top of hot or cold salad and noodle meal kit.
Find more ways to take care of your pets at Culinary.net or eLivingtoday.com
After a long day at work or an eventful weekend, don’t just treat yourself to a delicious dessert – make sure you’re treating your pets, too. These homemade dog treats are easy to make with organic ingredients so you can show your pets some love while feeling confident that you aren’t putting their health in jeopardy.
Gather just a few ingredients and cute dog-shaped ice molds (like paws or bones) to give Fido the attention he deserves. The best part: these treats keep well in the freezer, meaning you can make a bigger batch to stay stocked up on your furry friends’ new favorite treat.
1/2 cup plain Greek yogurt
2 tablespoons organic peanut butter (no salt added, no xylitol)
1 medium ripe banana
In blender, blend Greek yogurt, peanut butter and banana until smooth.
Place silicone molds on baking tray to prevent spills. Fill molds with blended mixture and freeze 3 hours, or until firm.
Store in freezer-safe container or zip-top bags.
Berry Good Dog Bones
10 fresh strawberries 1/2 cup plain Greek yogurt
2 tablespoons raw honey
Remove stems from strawberries and slice in half. In blender, blend strawberries, Greek yogurt and honey until smooth.
Place silicone molds on baking tray to prevent spills. Fill molds with blended mixture and freeze 3 hours, or until firm.
Store in freezer-safe container or zip-top bags.
Peanut Butter Banana Paw-sicles
KICKSTART 2025 WITH A CLUTTER-FREE HOME
10 TIPS TO ORGANIZE & SIMPLIFY
The New Year brings a fresh start, and there’s no better way to embrace 2025 than by transforming your home into an organized, clutter-free sanctuary. A tidy space isn’t just visually pleasing; it’s a mental refresh that can boost productivity, calm anxiety, and open up emotional clarity. Studies show that an organized home can significantly reduce stress and improve overall well-being, helping you to feel empowered and in control of your life.
Ready to kick the clutter and reclaim your space? Here are 10 simple, expert-backed tips to start the New Year on an organized, uplifting note!
1. START SMALL BEGIN WITH JUST ONE ROOM
Tackling clutter can feel overwhelming, but starting with a single room, like the kitchen or bathroom, gives a sense of accomplishment. Decluttering expert Marie Kondo suggests focusing on what brings you joy. Once you feel the benefits in one area, motivation will ripple through the rest of your home.
2. CREATE A DONATION BOX
Keep a designated donation box somewhere accessible, like in your closet or garage. As you come across items you no longer need, drop them in. Professional organizer Julie Morgenstern says, “Letting go is easier when you know your items are going to someone who will appreciate them.”
3. SET UP A DAILY DECLUTTER HABIT
Set aside just 10-15 minutes daily to declutter one small area. It could be your junk drawer, a cluttered shelf, or a few piles of papers. As the saying goes, "Small steps lead to big results!" Consistency is key.
4. TRY THE “ONE IN, ONE OUT” RULE
Every time you buy a new item, choose one old item to donate, recycle, or toss. This keeps your space balanced, and you’ll quickly see how much you can do without.
5. MAXIMIZE VERTICAL SPACE
Make use of walls and doors with shelves, hooks, or pegboards. Emily Henderson, interior stylist, recommends wall-mounted storage for maximizing space without cluttering floors or counters, giving your home a lighter, airy feel.
6. GO PAPERLESS WHENEVER POSSIBLE
Digitize your bills, receipts, and documents, and keep only essential hard copies. Reducing paper clutter helps streamline your home office and keeps surfaces tidy. The Paperless Movement community suggests setting up online storage for easy access to important documents.
7. ESTABLISH “HOMES” FOR YOUR ITEMS
When each item has a designated spot, you’ll always know where to find it and where it should return. Label containers, drawers, and bins to make it even easier. Organizing guru Peter Walsh stresses the importance of "a place for everything and everything in its place."
8. USE CLEAR STORAGE BINS
Transparent bins allow you to see what’s inside without opening every container. This is especially useful for closets, pantry spaces, and kids' rooms. The Container Store experts recommend clear bins for easy access and to inspire routine clean-up.
9. SCHEDULE A MONTHLY PURGE
Choose one day each month to go through your home and remove items you no longer use. Decluttering coach Tracy McCubbin suggests making this a regular habit to prevent unnecessary buildup over time.
10. CELEBRATE YOUR PROGRESS!
Reward yourself with small treats or a relaxing activity every time you reach a milestone. The National Association of Professional Organizers (NAPO) encourages recognizing each step you take toward a more organized space as a motivator to continue.
By reducing clutter, you’re not just organizing a space; you're creating a sanctuary that reflects a peaceful, intentional life. Start this year with a home that lifts your spirits, one that encourages productivity and offers a haven of calm. Let 2025 be your year of clarity and comfort!
Cover: The Boathouse at Lake San Marcos
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