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FEATURES VOLUNTEERS: Impacting Communities and the World ........................................................4

DEPARTMENTS from the publisher..................................................3 advertiser index ....................................................3

4 Photo courtesy Tamar Wilsher-Rivas

destinations Bull Run Mountains Conservancy: Curators to a Living Lab & Museum ......................8 local flavor Clarke’s Grill and Sports Emporium: “Come for the Food, Stay for the Sports” ............12 going places Neighborhood Transformer ..................................14 family fun Science Made Fun at the Planetarium ..................16 giving back Volunteer Fire & Rescue: You Don’t Have to be Paid to be Professional ................................22

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COLUMNS home & hearth ......................................................7 your finances ......................................................20 tambourines and elephants What’s in a Name?................................................27

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Prince William Living Editor in Chief and Publisher Elizabeth Kirkland ekirkland@princewilliamliving.com Prince William Living President Rebecca Barnes rbarnes@princewilliamliving.com Contributing Writers Rebecca Barnes, Cindy Brookshire, DeeDee Corbitt Sauter, Audrey Harman, Keasha Lee, Olivia Overman, Jennifer Rader and Casey Rives Copy Editor Peter Lineberry Copy Assistant Marya Wright Unrath Photography Cindy Brookshire, Sean Floars, Jennifer Garnett, Linda Hughes, Aleda Powell and Tamar Wilshire-Rivas Graphic Design and Production Alison Dixon/Image Prep Studio Advertising Account Executives Helena Tavares Kennedy, Christopher Meidt, Jennifer Rader and Patty Tracy Prince William Living, the premiere lifestyle magazine of Prince William and Greater Manassas, is published monthly by Prince William Living, Inc. e opinions expressed in the magazine are those of the authors and do not necessarily reﬂect the views of Prince William Living. © Copyright 2012 by Prince William Living, Inc. All rights reserved. Materials may not be reproduced or translated without written permission. Visit the Prince William Living website at www.princewilliamliving.com for reprint permission. Subscription rate is $12 (U.S.), one year. International subscribers add $12 each year. Change of address notices should be sent to Prince William Living President Rebecca Barnes. Reprints and Back Issues: To order article reprints or request reprint permission, please visit the Prince William Living website: www.princewilliamliving.com. Order back issues by calling Prince William Living President Rebecca Barnes at (703) 232-1758, ext. 1. For further information about Prince William Living, visit www.princewilliamliving.com, or contact Prince William Living at (703) 232-1758.

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olunteerism: it’s one of the most important things you can do, and it’s alive and well in Prince William County and Greater Manassas. It’s also the focus of this month’s issue of Prince William Living magazine.

Or, why not visit the Bull Run Mountains Conservancy (BRMC)? at’s the focus of this month’s Destinations feature, by Jennifer Rader (page 8). Consisting of 2,500 acres, the BRMC is Northern Virginia’s only Natural Area Preserve.

Perhaps no one is more in-the-know about volunteerism in Prince William and Greater Manassas than Mary Foley, executive director of Volunteer Prince William. Keasha Lee, the author of this month’s feature story on volunteerism, “Volunteers: Impacting Communities and the World” (page 4), interviewed Foley on the subject of volunteerism.

Looking to try out a new restaurant? Why not make your way to Clarke’s Grill and Sports Emporium, in Manassas? Author Casey Rives takes you there in this month’s Local Flavor feature (page 12).

“We connect about 40,000 volunteers in a year,” Foley told Lee. “More than 2,000 people are registered to receive alerts from us on needs for volunteers throughout the county.” Volunteers are an integral part of firefighting throughout the county. Be sure to read all about Prince William and Greater Manassas’ volunteer fire departments in this month’s Giving Back feature, by Audrey Harman (page 22). Also this month, be sure to read about public servant Kisha Wilson-Sogunro—the city of Manassas’ Neighborhood Services manager whose life has always centered on community service. Wilson-Sogunro is the focus of this month’s Going Places feature, by Cindy Brookshire (page 14). Under her leadership, the city of Manassas and its community partners have earned 11 state and national neighborhood awards, including the Virginia Municipal League’s prestigious President’s Award in 2011. Looking for something to do that’s fun, within driving distance, and won’t break the bank? Check out the Irene V. Hylton Planetarium, located at C.D. Hylton Senior High School. Olivia Overman writes about it in this month’s Family Fun feature (page 16).

Advertiser Index ACTS ..........................................................................................28 Alpha Pets ................................................................................28 Ameriprise Financial ................................................................26 Apple FCU ................................................................................21 The ARC of GPW ......................................................................24 Arts Alive ..................................................................................24 Bargain Relocation ............................................................25, 28 CAP Accounting, LLC................................................................20 CertaPro Painters ......................................................................11 Christ Chapel ............................................................................28 City of Manassas Park—Parks & Recreation ..........................11 Confidence Realty ......................................................................6 Cornerstone Landscaping........................................................29 Dansk Day Spa at Occoquan....................................................28 Edgemoor Art Studio................................................................28 Farmers Insurance ....................................................................28 Fred’s Best Windows ................................................................21 Gateway College Funding........................................................21 The Home Energy Detective, Inc. ..............................................7

And don’t forget to read DeeDee Corbitt Sauter’s Tambourines & Elephants column (page 27), in which, this month, she discusses “What’s in a Name?” Finally, be sure to check out the newest additions to Prince William Living: our Home & Hearth (page 7) and Your Finances (page 20) columns. Look for more of these in the months to come. We’re so grateful for all of the volunteers in Prince William and Greater Manassas, and it is our honor to be able to highlight them in this month’s issue, and in every issue of Prince William Living magazine. (If you haven’t already, be sure to check out this month’s and other months’ Giving Back features, in which we highlight different organizations and people who give back to our community). We are also very proud to announce that we have been nominated for the Prince William Chamber of Commerce’s Business of the Year Award. (e winner will be announced at the Hylton Performing Arts Center on April 18.) It’s been a lot of hard work, but seeing the joy on our readers’ faces is worth all of the effort we put into every issue of Prince William Living. We hope to put in as much effort for years to come. Sincerely, Elizabeth Kirkland Prince William Living Editor in Chief and Publisher

I-95 Business Parks Management ..........................................C4 Imagewerks ..............................................................................28 Kinnett Plumbing ......................................................................27 Lavender Retreat ......................................................................27 Lil Bit of Posh ............................................................................28 Magnificent Belly Dance ..........................................................28 The Maids ............................................................................19, 28 Minnieland Academy................................................................25 Okra’s..........................................................................................11 Peggy and Bill Burke, Long & Foster Realtors ......................C2 Potomac Place ..........................................................................25 Prince William Chamber of Commerce ..................................C2 Prince William County Historic Preservation Division ..........25 Prince William Ice Center ........................................................21 Reiki Master ..............................................................................28 Rebecca Crowley/Piano Lessons ............................................28 Sassy Gifts ................................................................................28 Stratford University ..................................................................11 Tea Time Tea Room ..................................................................28 Touch of Gold ............................................................................28 Washington Square Associates ..............................................28 WestRash Charities ....................................................................6

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Impacting Communities and the World By Keasha Lee, Contributing Writer

“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has.”

—Margaret Mead

he act of helping others by providing support, ensuring needs are met, and being willing and available to change someone’s life for the better with no monetary exchange for your time is essentially the deﬁnition of volunteerism. According to the U.S. Department of Labor’s Bureau of Labor Statistics, around 64.3 million people volunteered through or for

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an organization between September 2010 and September 2011. Prince William County boasts a number of organizations that, without the assistance of volunteers, might not otherwise be able to consistently provide successful programs and services to the community.

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“Non-profits could not do their work without volunteers,” said Mary Foley, executive director of Volunteer Prince William. As the director of an organization that specializes in connecting individuals who want to volunteer with organizations in need of them, Foley knows firsthand how important volunteerism is to Prince William County communities. For 30 years, Volunteer Prince William has played an important role in keeping people connected. It serves as the first point between a prospective volunteer and an establishment where a relationship could form that will positively impact everyone involved. “We connect about 40,000 volunteers in a year,” Foley said. “More than 2,000 people are registered to receive alerts from us on needs for volunteers throughout the county.” During the 150th commemoration weekend for the Battle of First Manassas/Bull Run Battlefield Park in July 2011, Volunteer Prince William was called upon to provide volunteers for Discover Prince William & Manassas. “We reached out to Volunteer Prince William for help and had more than 350 volunteers who helped out at the re-enactment,” said Ann Marie Maher, executive director of Discover Prince William & Manassas. According to Maher, from a tourism perspective, volunteers for the event served as “ambassadors for Manassas and Prince William County [because] they had face-to-face contact with people from around the world to provide them with information about the area, give directions, or to provide them with refreshments.” Volunteers are also used on a regular basis by Discover Prince William to work at the front desk in the Visitor Center located in Historic Occoquan. Student interns from George Mason University take on roles in a variety of places there, from data entry and updating the website, to outreach. e volunteer interns receive college credits while at the same time gaining invaluable hands-on exposure in tourism and event management.

The Many Faces of Volunteers e beauty of volunteerism is that all are welcome to join in the fun and choosing the volunteer activity that best ﬁts one’s skills sets and desires is the topping on the proverbial cake. Volunteering often gives people of diﬀerent ages, ethnicities and educational backgrounds an opportunity to work side by side with a common goal to help those who are in need. Sometimes, those who are considered to be in need because of certain disabilities can give their own contributions to society through volunteering. e Arc of Greater Prince William has served the community for more than 48 years with a purpose to provide programs and services for individuals with developmental disabilities and support their families and caregivers. “Folks with disabilities want to live like you and I [and] that’s one of our goals,” said Chris Caseman, director of development for e Arc. Some of the people that e Arc assists have learned to answer phones, participate with other organizations like Meals on Wheels, and use their creativity to make handmade gifts, blankets, or fashion accessories at SPINAWEB, a specialty weaving shop, operated by e Arc, in the heart of Historic Occoquan. ere are 40 volunteers who help the e Arc’s recreation department, and 125 events and programs that they plan and

coordinate each year. Local high school students partner with e Arc to assist with their bowling program and very popular Valentine’s dance. ere are also areas where volunteers are needed on more of a long-term basis to serve as decision makers regarding healthcare and planning for the future. “We’re seeking more volunteers who are willing to dedicate one year to a lifelong relationship with our friends,” Caseman said. Volunteers who have responsibilities that pertain to the welfare of e Arc residents and participants must undergo a thorough screening and training process. “Our volunteers go through the same training as employees,” said Susan Rudolph, deputy director of e Arc. Caseman added, “We want people to celebrate the lives that we take joy in knowing. ey need us and we need them because we are family.” e Arc offers services to individuals ranging in age from three months to 75 years, and has 10 group homes, two day care centers and a main location that can no longer comfortably accommodate its growing staff and the need for services. Construction is currently underway on a 13,800-square-foot addition that will provide more space for therapies, child care facilities and staff offices; completion is scheduled for December 2013. With a new building and plenty of space to provide more service options for e Arc community, there is hope that volunteers will help with the many programs they have to offer. “By working with people with disabilities, your perception on life and the world changes,” said Rudolph. “Volunteerism is the biggest way to make a difference.”

Demonstrating ACTS of Kindness Tom Benjamin, director of development for Action in Community rough Service (ACTS), can attest to the fact that volunteers provide a great, intangible value to organizations. “An organization like us would not be able to touch as many people without the diversity, talents and skills of our volunteers,” Benjamin said. ACTS assists those enduring such hard times such as homelessness, domestic abuse, and unemployment. “ere’s such a variety of programs that it’s easy for a volunteer to ﬁnd a niche,” said Rebekah McGee, ACTS deputy director. A volunteer application is given to prospective ACTS volunteers, allowing them to divulge their interests and skills. ACTS representatives later follow up with interested individuals, and match volunteers with programs of interest to them. One of ACTS’ most recognized programs is its food pantry, which has drawn assistance from the same volunteers for years. “We have volunteers who ﬁrst come when they’re young and grow up to bring their own families, said McGee. “It’s fun to see it [volunteerism] go from generation to generation.” Sometimes, people who once received donated goods return as volunteers themselves, wanting to give back and help others who are in a situation that they once experienced for themselves. is reality speaks to the fact that we are all connected in some way and (continues on page 6) prince william living April 2012 | 5

(continued from page 5) that hardships can affect us all. “It’s important to understand we’re all part of a community,” said Benjamin. ACTS has between 80 and 90 people on staff and more than 3,200 volunteers. “Our volunteers bring a fresh perspective, new ideas, and solutions to the organization,” he said. “e volunteers excite our staff to do their jobs even better.” Each program at ACTS has its own training requirements. Volunteers interested in working at the Helpline, a 24-hour and seven-days–a-week crisis hotline serving Prince William County and Greater Manassas and, most recently, Richmond, Va., must undergo 40 hours of training, followed by an apprenticeship. ere are even programs that allow volunteers to go on site after a suicide has occurred to counsel family members. “e great thing about ACTS is that internally we have a continuum of services and resources for people so that they don’t have to go to six different places for help, and that’s wonderful,” said McGee. In 2011, ACTS was able to provide services to 77,000 people within the community—a huge achievement for the organization. With such great successes it’s important for volunteers to understand and appreciate their value. “e worst thing for me to hear a volunteer say is, ‘I’m only a volunteer,’ said McGee. “I want to hear more of ‘I’m important, I make a difference, I matter,’ because it’s true.”

From the Mouths of Volunteers Ed Roman, a resident of Rollingwood Village, has been a volunteer since 1999, putting in more than 12,000 volunteer hours for Garﬁeld Police Department (GPD). He is a lead volunteer responsible for overseeing the activities of three other volunteers and has responsibilities that range from administrative work, to

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patrol car washing, to training recruits. One of the benefits of volunteering for Roman includes living a longer life. “Giving back to the county after all the county has done for seniors feels good,” he said. “I receive great fulfillment knowing what police officers do in the street and knowing how I help them.” During the sniper attacks of 2002 that followed closely on the heels of 9/11, Roman provided his support by volunteering for hours with the GPD. His advice regarding volunteering: “Anytime you can volunteer, do it, because you can’t let the world pass you by. It’s a wonderful life.” Manassas City resident Al Osborne has been a volunteer with Meals on Wheels for more than 10 years. He picks up prepared meals at the Senior Center in Manassas City and delivers them to five to 10 people once a week. “Volunteering keeps me off the streets,” he said. “It’s also nice to meet people and I have to get out rain or shine.” e weather doesn’t bother Osborne; he’s on the verge of starting two more volunteer opportunities with the park authority and as a mentor to community college students. “It’s a pleasure to do this work, it isn’t hard, it helps the community, and it’s something to feel good about,” he said. Volunteering can be done by one person or by many thoughtful, giving, and committed people willing to make things happen until change for the better occurs. Sometimes it’s a long road to see the larger changes, but as long as there is fun, faith, and people to help keep things moving, nothing is out of reach. Volunteers can be found throughout the community, in hospitals, schools, libraries, places of worship, recreational groups, and within police and fire departments. ey help our communities to thrive. So go ahead and give volunteering a try—you may discover talents and develop friendships that will change your life forever. Keasha Lee is a public relations professional, writer, and actress. She resides in Woodbridge. She can be reached by phone at (703) 402-6124.

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“Through an audit, you will find out scientifically what the underlying issues in your home are that are causing your home to be uncomfortable and an energy hog,” said Troy Tanner of the Home Energy Detective. “[Energy audits] provide you with a comprehensive report and recommended repairs for your particular home.” Once an interview is conducted, several tests are run to find where it is in the home that energy is being lost. “The goal of the audit is to give you a roadmap to follow so you don’t make a decision to spend money on a product or service that does not give you the very best results for your money,” Tanner explained. Common things an energy audit might discover: ■

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Bull Run Mountains Conservancy: Curators to a Living Lab & Museum By Jennifer Rader, Contributing Writer

ust a short drive outside of the hustle and bustle of Washington, D.C., can be found Northern Virginia’s only Natural Area Preserve: a destination where environmental, ecological and historical come together, with the sounds of birds and soft breezes through the trees, and with views of vast mountain vistas. Ten miles of hiking trails allow you to rediscover nature. e mountain tells its story and, as one volunteer stated, “You can go as fast or as slow as you want.” As a Virginia Department of Conservation and Recreation (VDCR) Natural Area Preserve, 2,500 acres of the Bull Run Mountains are conserved because they “exhibit some of the best examples of natural communities and rare plant and animal habitats in Virginia and the world” (VDCR). is means that the Bull Run Mountains are “permanently conserved by placing binding restrictions on future activities and development.” A large reason the commonwealth of Virginia set up these preserves is to protect and maintain native plant and animal species. Protection of this preserve could not be possible without the expansive eﬀorts of Bull Run Mountains Conservancy Inc. (BRMC).

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Located at 17405 Beverley Mill Drive, Broad Run, BRMC is essentially the caretaker of 800 acres on the southern side of the mountain range. In partnership, Virginia Outdoor Foundation, a state nonproﬁt, owns the land, while BRMC helps to provide public access to its assets. Founded in 1995 as a 501(c)3 nonproﬁt, BRMC concentrates on research, public education and stewardship. is is done through a diverse portfolio of events throughout the year—some academic, with others oriented toward family enjoyment.

A Living Laboratory As the executive director of BRMC, Michael Kieffer enjoys the stewardship BRMC provides to the mountain and public. Coming to BRMC in February 2000 from the Piedmont Environmental Center in High Point, N.C., Kieffer took the opportunity to further his biology and naturalist background by leading BRMC in the development of educational programming and stronger research efforts. According to Kieffer, the Bull Run Mountains are one of the most studied natural areas in Virginia

dating back to the 1930s and ’40s with H.A. Allard. Allard was a Smithsonian botanist who spent several years collecting a baseline of more than 15,000 plant specimens and 2,000 lichen (fungus and/or algae) samples. One area of particular interest for Kieﬀer is the research projects that ﬁnally continue Allard’s baseline work with a focus on plant life and eco-systems.

Education in Action ere is a vast amount for the public to learn out “on the mountain.” BRMC provides enjoyable but no less imperative research opportunities that work to define an understanding of what has been preserved for the current generation. In this regard, the organization has monitored five Chesapeake Bay headwater streams while at the same time educating schoolteachers, students and public program participants. Discussion of the importance of maintaining the streams, effects of runoff and development are just a few of the issues these public participant-based research activities pursue. During the summer months, BRMC conducts science teacher workshops in ecology in order for participants to incorporate what they learn into upcoming lesson planning. e first Wednesday of each month, BRMC hosts “Hike With a Naturalist,” which focuses on specific ecological topics, such as Ferns and Allies, scheduled for the interpretive hike and discussion in May. Kieffer has hosted “Fireside Chat & Discussion” during the winter months where the group gathers around a fire on a scheduled afternoon to discuss the month’s BRMC newsletter article. is gives an opportunity for the executive director to connect with BRMC enthusiasts on a specific published topic. Each newsletter announces scheduled upcoming events, so it is a great idea to get on BRMC’s mailing lists and Facebook page to keep up with news and additions to the schedule. Young naturalists and researchers have a place, too, as BRMC offers youth outdoor programs throughout the year. Summer and winter camps, along with herpetology camp, are offered during the breaks in the public school schedule. Boy and Girl Scout badge work can be completed in addition to Eagle Scout projects. Affordable home-school science sessions will also be offered this spring. Upcoming topics include Discovery Hike on April 18 and Freshwater Ecology on May 9.

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e research efforts have created documentation of moth species, macro invertebrates in perennial (constant flowing) streams and a recently completed beetle survey. e organization is currently working with the Smithsonian Conservation Biology Institute and the Virginia Chapter of e American Chestnut Foundation on a two-year project to increase the knowledge needed to restore the American chestnut in Virginia. Seedling growth under diverse conditions and survival in various areas where the chestnut was once a dominant tree will be tested. Kieffer stresses that knowing the life cycle, function and possible disappearance of the preserve’s flora and fauna can assist the public to understand what is needed to perpetuate responsible sustainability. We must first ask the questions of “what” and “why.” Kieffer summarizes, “We fund it (with financial partners), assist it (and) try to understand it to educate and communicate it to the public.”

Historian Marcia Markey, a member of the Bull Run Mountains Conservancy Board of Directors for 14 years, portrays Sarah Nolan, a former landowner on the mountain, from 1855 to 1868. Dressed in self-created period costumes, she does not sugarcoat the realities of the era.

Experiential learning ﬁeld trips are available to the surrounding public schools making a science topic ever more impactful. BRMC continues to work with high school and college students on various research projects as well. In fact, the daughter of Leonard Burman, a valuable BRMC volunteer, completed her eighth grade science fair project at the conservancy. Since then, the elder Burman has had a constant presence on the mountain. On Fridays, Burman, a Falls Church resident, can be found maintaining the grounds, cutting shrubbery or building and repairing trails. “It keeps my physical and mental health alive,” says Burman, “I don’t have to deal with the speed of metro D.C. out here. It’s a diﬀerent world for me. I smile a lot more.” He has also been happy to serve as a chaperone at the summer day camps and enthusiastically supports BRMC because of the amount of programs they host that get children to discover and enjoy the environment. “I’m just amazed at how much the kids learn while they are there for a couple hours,” says Burman.

A Living Museum A constant outdoor museum, Bull Run Mountains Conservancy hosts annual events that give the public an opportunity to learn about both the natural and historical preservation of the mountain. Each February, BRMC holds an annual commemoration fundraising event that celebrates its stewardship of the Bull Run Mountains. In August, in partnership with Turn the Mill Around Campaign (TTMAC), the restorers of the Chapman/Beverley Mill and grounds (proﬁled in the January issue of Prince William Living), BRMC will provide an event to celebrate the Battle of (continues on page 10) prince william living April 2012 | 9

(continued from page 9) oroughfare Gap. More details will be forthcoming. Interested parties, keep an eye on the organization’s website at www.brmconservancy.org. Each October the Halloween Safari is open to the public on Friday and Saturday nights before Halloween. is fun family event takes participants up through candlelit trails to find creatures of the forest and mountain that come from the shadows to tell their role in nature. is event is presented by student and veteran volunteers who study their forest creature, compose a short presentation and create an often realistic costume. It’s a unique event where each year you meet different species of bird, bear or even mushroom then finish the fun with s’mores at the campfire. Old Home Sites is another very popular event. In its thirteenth year, it takes place in the spring and fall. On April 21 the registrant will engage in a guided tour beyond the trails to an exploration of historic home sites, cemeteries and foundations that mark past landowner residences. After the tour, a hot breakfast in the woods is served. is is not a continental offering; you’ll be toasting your mimosa to the beauty of Bull Run Mountains while watching a living history reenactment from historian Marcia Markey. Markey’s family heritage is deeply rooted in Virginia history, which influenced her to study early American military and domestic history. Markey has been a member of the BRMC Board of Directors for 14 years, and shortly after being asked to sit on the board, she started the living history appearances. Using diaries, letters, court documentation and business ledgers, Markey portrays Sarah Nolan, a former landowner on the mountain, from 1855 to 1868. Dressed in self-created period costumes, she does not sugarcoat the realities of the era. Nolan discusses her slave, Pansy, the work they do in the fields, and may inform listeners of what goods Mr. Nolan was able to bring from his most recent trip to Baltimore. Markey constructs a living history presentation to be a teaching process for attendees. She encourages listeners to think of Nolan’s world and how it has affected their own lives in the present day. It is definitely a unique experience and Markey does not disappoint with her historical knowledge and ability to perform a difficult persona discussing challenging social topics for present-day audiences. She also can be found at the August event commemorating the Battle of oroughfare Gap with an entirely different living history presentation. Get your tickets for both of these unique events early, as space is limited and tends to fill quickly.

The Mountain’s Meaning When speaking to any of the staﬀ members, volunteers or hikers, all have diﬀerent and deeply passionate perspectives on Bull Run Mountains and the accomplishments of Bull Run Mountains Conservancy. Preservation and serenity are core interests against a backdrop of metropolitan speed and scheduling. “e modern world throws us into so much of what is ready-made for us with the accessibility of technology,” Markey says. “is takes you away from the contrivances, the made-up world.” 10 | April 2012 prince william living

The first Wednesday of each month, BRMC hosts “Hike With a Naturalist,” which focuses on specific ecological topics, such as Ferns and Allies, scheduled for the interpretive hike and discussion in May.

Burman reiterates its importance as an environmental oasis through the work that BRMC is doing to monitor its natural assets and biodiversity. “I like what they are about: conserving the area and working with camp children,” says Burman. “Over the years I’ve come to appreciate what they (BRMC) do with limited resources.” Still others appreciate what Markey says the mountain does—it makes you very aware of nature. “It was fun and I recommend it highly for anyone in the area who wants to get out and take in some amazing views while enjoying the fresh air,” posted one trail hiker online. And as HikingUpward.com describes the mountain experience, “As one of the closest hikes to the Washington Metro area, this is one of our favorites, especially when the days are shorter in the winter months.” When asked the future plans of BRMC, Kieffer mentions work to be done on the “mountain house” or the administrative office that was built in 1944. rough the generosity of an anonymous donor, the property will undergo renovations beginning this spring. But, in general, BRMC strategic plans evolve on a twoyear cycle of attainable goals. ere is no plan to stray from the successful research and education components only to possibly expand as financial resource allows. However, Kieffer emphasizes that one tenet does remain Priority #1: communication with the public. Beyond the scheduled events are 10 miles of trail for anyone to enjoy during daylight hours. Just grab some stable and comfortable shoes, maybe a walking stick, breathe in the clean air and surrender to the quiet. For more information about Bull Run Mountains Conservancy, connect to their Facebook page or visit www.brmconservancy.org. A nonprofit development director for 10 years, Jennifer Rader now works as a freelance writer and consultant. She lives with her son and husband in Manassas and can be reached at Jennifer.Rader@verizon.net.

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local flavor Clarke’s Grill and Sports Emporium:

“Come for the Food, Stay for the Sports”

By Casey Rives, Contributing Writer

larke’s Grill opened its doors to Manassas Park in May 2009 after owners Mike Larkin and Clarke Congdon decided to pursue a lifelong dream.

“We were high school roommates,” said Larkin, of Clarke and his relationship. “After college, I went off to play hockey and Clarke traveled around the world to become an amazing chef. Finally, in the most recent years we called each other up and decided to do this—it’s what we’ve wanted, our own restaurant.” e talents shared between Congdon and Larkin work together to create the perfect atmosphere for sports enthusiasts looking for amazing food. Larkin played minor-league hockey for the Washington Capitals and New York Islanders for five years before moving to the area in 2000 where he worked in the GPS market. He currently owns Larkin Golf in Gainesville with his wife, professional golfer Erika Larkin. Mike’s career in sports can be seen when entering the restaurant. e walls are decorated with jerseys from various teams and from every sport. It truly resembles a pub in a college town. “We love every team and we enjoy watching people root for their favorites,” said Mike. “I’m pretty sure we’re the only restaurant who likes the Red Sox and the Yankees!” Sports and business ownership comes natural for Mike, and between him and his business partner, Congdon, Clarke’s Grill and Sports Emporium is a true force to be reckoned with. It’s Congdon’s skills as a chef that help to create a sports pub unlike the ones that merely serve up chicken wings and salted peanuts. Congdon graduated from the New England Culinary Arts Institute in Montpelier, Vt. He traveled internationally to learn different cooking methods and techniques from such areas as the Caribbean, Italy and France. “Most people go to sport bars for the sports and say the food’s

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OK, but I wanted to be the place where people come because the food's great and they stay because their favorite game is on,” said Congdon. “We have a sports pub, a hangout for locals and a great place to be, but we also have top-quality food with fresh ingredients.” Everything in the kitchen is made daily—freshly prepared with fresh ingredients in an exceptionally clean kitchen. Don’t believe it? Just ask the owners for a quick tour; they’ll happily show you their fully stocked kitchen and introduce you to the chefs. In Vermont, Congdon and Larkin grew up with restaurants changing their menus according to the season, which is something Clarke's continues to do. In the summer, watermelon salad can be found on the menu and fresh homemade guacamole can be found in-season when the avocados are just right. e menu offers everything from shepherd’s pie to macaroni and cheese, but the one item that can’t be find at any other restaurant in town is the churger. But what exactly is a churger? “Well, a churger is a chicken-fried burger—no one else has it,” said Congdon. “When Mike looked at me and said ‘Hey, can we make this?’ I said ‘Of course we can!’ ey’ve been a really big hit ever since.” To keep along with the sports-themed atmosphere, Congdon and Larkin have created a hot dog menu with each variation named after a famous sports star. Each flavorful hot dog is prepared to order and steamed or grilled. Rolls are also either steamed or grilled, depending on patrons’ requests. Customers can order a regular hot dog, or try one with creative toppings. e Larry Bird comes complete with Boston baked beans piled on top. Or, for the daring, try the Stephen Strasburg, which comes complete with Clarke’s homemade “Death” hot sauce, in addition to blue cheese, onions, peppers and jalapenos. Wings can be ordered to taste as well and are made in-house from fresh chicken. e sauces are homemade by each chef and include a variety from Jurassic (mild), or Death (extremely hot). Blue cheese dipping sauce can be ordered with wings and doesn’t come from a bottle—it is also made from the chef ’s recipes. e restaurant’s mac and cheese, which features ziti noodles drenched in a five-cheese custom sauce, is also a favorite menu

item. It’s slightly crispy with cheese on the outside, but one scoop with a fork and the still-hot melted cheese erupts like a volcano on the surrounding noodles, with perfect texture and an amazing taste. “We have something for everyone,” said Mike. “We even have a fresh oyster bar that is often requested. People call ahead for our oysters.” To help with the cooking, Mike’s father-in-law, George Zwetkow, takes his expertise to the kitchen daily—preparing dishes that replicate those he created in five-star restaurants when he was a chef in New York City. “I love working here,” said Zwetkow. “is is truly a dream. It’s a great atmosphere and our food is amazing. I get to sit with our customers and talk to them—create relationships.” Not only did Zwetkow have a long career in five-star restaurants in the New York area, he was also a personal chef for the infamous Claus von Bulow, a cook for Disney World’s Contemporary Hotel and an executive chef at Time Warner—to name a few. Zwetkow is known to clients as “Papi” and can be found interacting with customers throughout the day and creating a family-type atmosphere, another trait unique to Clarke’s. “We’re from the New England area so we wanted that neighborhood pub feel,” said Mike. “We wanted a fun place to come watch a game and eat great food. But we’re also a family restaurant. I have family members that have been coming in here since we opened. In fact, one guy who stops by often just had his first child. He and his wife brought the baby in for lunch the other day—what other bar-type restaurant can you do that at?” e restaurant often hosts fundraisers to support the local community. In the summer, cornhole tournaments are held on the 850-square-foot patio. Scrabble tournaments are also a weekly event. “We’re the type of place where people come to stay awhile—you don’t just rush in and rush out,” said Zwetkow. Clarke’s Grill is located at 9103 Andrew Drive, Manassas Park. Writer Casey Rives, who resides in Haymarket, is a graduate of George Mason University. She can be reached by email at crives@princewilliamliving.com. prince william living April 2012 | 13

going places

By Cindy Brookshire, Contributing Writer

t 7 a.m. on May 5, Kisha Wilson-Sogunro, Neighborhood Services manager for the city of Manassas, will be in her element, deploying an army of youth throughout the 550-townhome community of Bristoe Station as part of the Big Day of Serving Manassas. As many as 700 volunteers are expected to rally residents to roll up their sleeves, affirm pride in their neighborhood and join the work and fun, from home repairs to hauling out large item donations for Habitat for Humanity’s ReStore. Street teams will disperse to rake, mulch, landscape, pick up litter, remove graffiti, paint signs and install new trash cans. A massive haul-out of discarded TVs, computers, paint, chemicals, excess trash and recycling will further “green” the community. e finale will bring everyone together for a Cinco de Mayo block party. “My life has always centered around community service,” said Wilson-Sogunro. She grew up in a military family, with a father in the U.S. Air Force and a grandfather in the U.S. Navy. “My father would say, ‘work your plan.’ I went to school on a scholarship, and every step has been a map to where my next step will be.” As an undergrad at Brigham Young University, earning a bachelor’s degree in communications, she spent summers at home in Maryland collecting thousands of towels, washcloths and toiletries to deliver to homeless shelters like Shepherd’s Cove Women’s Shelter, in Capitol Heights, Md., and Angel’s Watch Regional Women’s Shelter, in Hughesville, Md. “When a new family comes in,” she said, “you hand them a package and they know

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immediately, ‘is is a safe place. I can get a hot shower here and pull myself together and figure out what to do next.’ at meets their biggest need.” After college, working as a Fox News editor in the District of Columbia, one of her first dates with her now-husband Isaac Sogunro was delivering Christmas meals. “ere we were in the cold, at the crack of dawn, loading up a van full of hot meals at the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception,” she recalls. “Isaac squeezed in with me and my family and we delivered them one by one to folks in need. I didn’t know what he was going to think then, but I do now. is has become a Wilson-Sogunro family tradition.” e couple has been married seven years. Isaac works as a software developer consultant for numerous government agencies. eir first son, Nathaniel, four, was born shortly after Kisha launched the city’s first neighborhood conference in 2007. In 2010, she earned a master’s degree in strategic communication and leadership from Seton Hall University, graduating on the due date of their second child, Sebastian, now 17 months old. “We like to do things that my kids can one day be a part of,” said Kisha. “I want them to understand that work is good and healthy, but it’s even more special when you can help others. at’s what attracts me about the City of Manassas.” At a time when some advocate demolishing blighted neighborhoods, Kisha is carrying out the city’s mission to prevent

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Neighborhood Transformer

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Last May, Lt. Tim Kotlowski of the Manassas City Police Department coordinated public safety for the 1 By Youth project in the Point of Woods 1, 2 and 3 neighborhoods. At the end of the day, Neighborhood Services and their community partners, including Old Towne Sports Pub and the George Mason University cheerleaders, hosted a huge block party at Stonewall Park that brought all 700 volunteers and neighbors together.

blight before it happens and inspire greater civic involvement in the process. e Big Day of Serving Manassas (formerly known as 1 By Youth) has sparked continued change in at least two other neighborhoods, from greater support for at-risk youth in Georgetown South to a thriving community garden in Point of Woods. Ian Lovejoy, a Point of Woods resident who helped plan last year’s event, is even running for City Council in the May 1 election. “e city hired me to build community and handle complaints, but it’s really problem-solving,” said Kisha. In a typical day she might find support for an elderly hoarder with no family nearby or offer space for conflict resolution in her first-floor City Hall office. She is constantly on the move, connecting with residents at community meetings and working her contacts and partnerships. “Bottom line, you have the responsibility to keep your property up to code for the safety of our community. If you have a problem, I will help you find the resources. If you don’t want to take responsibility, then I have authority, through code ordinances, to motivate you. I’d rather go the compliant way.” Kisha manages a team of five full-time employees, including one neighborhood coordinator and four property code inspectors, and 15 seasonal public pool staff. Besides the annual neighborhood conference and Big Day of Serving projects, she also manages the summer Week of Hope program, which brings 700 volunteers over seven weeks to work in city neighborhoods. “I never look at a neighborhood as if it was hopeless,” she said. e February walkthrough of Bristoe Station to identify projects brought several chronic problems to light, including an alleyway plagued with flooding issues and exposed phone and cable lines that must be addressed. But she also found vast green space, with children playing, music wafting, and pedestrians using the pathways.

“A neighborhood is a very personal place,” Kisha said. “No one wants others to say, ‘you live in a dump’ or ‘something’s wrong with your neighborhood.’” In 2011, after the city held a gang prevention summit and city council passed a resolution identifying neighborhood revitalization as a city priority, Kisha secured a federal grant to bring four AmeriCorps VISTA members to lead the revitalization of the Georgetown South Community. An AmeriCorps alumna herself, Kisha oversees their work, which has already engaged residents to reestablish a Neighborhood Watch, connected 80 at-risk youth to the Manassas Boys & Girls Club through an activities bus, and increased participation in afterschool tutoring and other programming. e multi-year grant stresses that VISTA’s work must be sustainable and expanded to other city neighborhoods. at’s a challenge that Kisha is willing to take on. “She’s a champion,” said Randy Acosta, former director of the Manassas Boys & Girls Club, and now executive director of the B&G club in Baltimore. “She hit the neighborhoods head-on and did a remarkable job of laying down roots, building trust and connecting with folks one on one. Everybody says renters don’t care. at’s not true. She made renters feel like they were a part of something. “And now she’s got an activities bus stop at [Georgetown South]? What a breakthrough,” he continued. “Getting kids to the club was always an issue, until now. With Kisha, it’s not about speeches, it’s about action. She rolls up her sleeves and gets it done. What if there wasn’t a Kisha out there improving communities?” In fact, six years of revitalization projects have propelled Manassas (continues on page 19) prince william living April 2012 | 15

family fun

Science Made Fun at the Planetarium By Olivia Overman, Contributing Writer

afety warning: you are now entering a very cool place of fun and learning! While the signs may not exactly say this at the Irene V. Hylton Planetarium, it is certainly something that could be said about Prince William County’s only planetarium. Located at C.D. Hylton Senior High School on Spriggs Road, the planetarium was first opened in 1991. It is used by schools to enhance students’ interest in astronomy and to teach them how to locate things that are visible in the night sky. But even more exciting is the fact that it is also open to the public throughout the year. Whether it be a birthday party, an anniversary, a scout troop get together or just a fun evening out, the planetarium offers both entertainment and education all wrapped into one. “Prince William County has 98 schools, and all 98 schools come and visit me,” said Anthony Kilgore, planetarium director. “High schools, elementary, [and] middle schools, typically third grade, fourth grade, sixth grade, and ninth grade because there are Standards of Learning that are attached to astronomy [for them]. For them, the planetarium is not even considered a field trip, it’s an extension of the classroom. “I tell the students it would be very tricky to take a field trip to outer space, so what I do here is to simulate it. at’s how I view myself as an extension of the classroom.” Back in 1991 the planetarium was called the Skydome Planetarium and contained an outdated Spitz 512 ATM 3 star projector. So when Kilgore took the position as director of the planetarium in 2008 he knew the technology had to be updated if it was to succeed in its primary effort to bring science to life for children without boring them with outdated teaching tools. By updating the technology, Kilgore knew that he could then

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interest more members of the public to visit the planetarium and, thus, bring in some much needed funding. e solution was the Hylton Family Foundation—“Jason Calhoun, science supervisor for Prince William County Schools and Carolyn Custard, former principal of Hylton Senior High, worked with me and all three of us were able to work together to get the grant from the Hylton Foundation to be able to upgrade our facility.” With a grant of $250,000, the outdated optical mechanical star projector was removed and replaced with the new digital Media Globe 2. “Bad technology, nobody comes,” said Kilgore. “I made more money in ticket sales the first year [with new technology] than the [planetarium did] eight years before.” So what exactly do you get to see at the planetarium? “I try to explain to people what we do here, but you have to see it to understand,” said Kilgore. First and foremost the children in Prince William County schools learn about the stars, planets and constellations, the moon, the sun, along with other objects in the sky. Although the planetarium is located at Hylton Senior High School, the facility serves as a field trip experience for surrounding school districts as well. “Fairfax County schools, Stafford and Fauquier County schools come. It only costs $25 to run a school bus [here],” said Kilgore. Kilgore purchases different programs from different companies that he believes are both educational and fun for the different grades. For example, “animated shows that can be compared to movies are great for third and fourth graders, while full dome shows are great for adults, said Kilgore. “We even have a show that we do that’s pretty cool, where we go under water, called e Enchanted Reef. I normally do that with third graders and I tell them the entire dome is protecting us and when the shark comes

and busts through the glass, there are shrieks of terror.”

e planetarium does not receive federal funding so Kilgore does his best to bring in money for the facility by putting on public shows. e price for each one-hour show is just $10. “e same show that they are showing at the Einstein Planetarium in D.C. is [up to] $23,” he said. Public shows are usually scheduled for the months of February, April, October and December. With seating for 65 people, the planetarium can make $650 per show if fully sold out. Demonstrating some of the aspects of the new digital technology, Kilgore ﬁrst set it up so that it starts at 9 p.m. with a view of the sky from the parking lot of the high school. “I can take it a step further and put you in the parking lot,” he said. “With this digital system, I can highlight the lines, put the name on it [the star]... I can leave the mile markers on the dome. With the sky, I can bring everybody [the stars] up. Any constellation in the night sky I can talk about and, again, I can bring everybody to light.”

Laser Shows

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A third grade teacher at Old Bridge Elementary, Allison Cresap has been bringing the children to the Hylton Planetarium for the past six years. “It is our favorite and best ﬁeld trip,” she said. Speaking on behalf of the third grade teachers at Old Bridge, she said, “We value this ﬁeld trip because Mr. Kilgore brings science to life and inspires our students to think about and be curious about science. Another reason we value this experience is because the program aligns with our curriculum in a fun, exciting way. Students leave the planetarium with a clear understanding of the earth, moon, and sun cycles.” Cresap continued to say that the students make comments such as they are “learning so much” or “I didn't know that” or “now I get it.” Cresap will continue to take her third graders on the annual trip to the planetarium because of the “wonderful, educational experience Mr. Kilgore creates for us.” Located at C.D. Hylton Senior High School on Spriggs Road, the Irene V. Hylton Planetarium was first opened in 1991. It is used by schools to enhance students’ interest in astronomy and to teach them how to locate things that are visible in the night sky.

for a private show, or $300, because I’m coming in trying to raise money for the planetarium. I put the shows on, I’m the janitor and the bookkeeper here,” he said. Last year the holiday show had snow (made from soap) fall during the laser show, while the Halloween Fright Light shows had fake lighting cauldrons and, of course, scary music. e planetarium is currently putting on the April laser shows, which could include anything from country music laser night, a Metallica laser night, and a very current show called iPop that includes music from Selena Gomez, Katy Perry, Michael Jackson and others. (Visit http://hylton.schools.pwcs.edu for showtimes and dates.)

Part of the recent renovation included the addition of a SkyLase laser projection system. While describing the Media Globe 2 as the heart of the planetarium, Kilgore describes the SkyLase laser system as the soul.

“Laser shows are the most popular, really,” Kilgore said. “All I have to do is put it in the paper and there is a line out the door. For the holiday show, I had over 300 people show up; I only seat 65 and I do three shows a night.”

Shows can include both a talk about the stars as well as a laser show. “Over the Christmas holiday period, 300 people showed up, with some showing up at 6 p.m. for the 9 p.m. show. e more shows I can do, the more I can oﬀer the students during the day,” said Kilgore.

All types of people show up for the public shows. Of course, it depends on the show itself. “For the Halloween shows it’s mostly fathers and sons, for the Christmas shows, it is mostly a family event, while country music night sees lots of cowboy hat-wearing guys and girls in shorts,” explained Kilgore. “Metallica night will see people wearing Goth clothing with black pants and chains.”

e planetarium is also open for private events such as birthday parties, anniversaries, wedding proposals—“anything anyone can dream up,” said Kilgore. e laser shows are mostly noneducational but in some instances Kilgore will talk to kids about how lasers work for ﬁve or 10 minutes and then proceed with the laser show. In other instances, people have provided a disk with pictures of the birthday person and these are displayed throughout the laser show. “I’ll come in on my time but you have to have a minimum of 30

e Brooks family is one of many families in the area that regularly attends laser shows at the planetarium. Based in Woodbridge, Rainy Brooks was amazed when her eldest son came home from his third grade ﬁeld trip raving about this awesome light show he just saw at a planetarium. She thought he had gone to the museum in D.C. Unbeknownst to her, the planetarium was right at her back door. (continues on page 18 prince william living April 2012 | 17

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(continued from page 17) “Growing up in San Diego, Calif., I can remember going to the Ruben H. Fleet Science Center and watching Pink Floyd laser light shows with my friends…so you can imagine my delight when I found out that Mr. Kilgore does those very same laser light shows, and many more, at the Hylton Planetarium,” Brooks said. “Not even the Air and Space planetarium oﬀers that.” She described being “wowed” this past year with the Halloween Fright Lights laser light show. e Holiday Lights show was fantastic too, she said. Brooks continued to describe how her children “really enjoy getting to ‘see the music’ in the vivid color, and energetic animation of these laser light shows. It really gets their imagination going, and it inspired some pretty cool artwork from the kids once they had ‘seen music’ in a diﬀerent medium. ey still haven’t stopped talking about it, and can’t wait to go back with their friends. “People don’t realize how lucky they are to have such a fantastic venue in their own backyard, and for less than the price of going to a movie at the theater,” she said.

The Future is Bright To increase eﬃciency and to ease ticket purchases, advance payment by PayPal is being considered. “Right now we’ve never had this volume,” said Kilgore, so installing a way to buy tickets online would certainly be a step up from the current cash only at the door method.

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After that, the next big idea is to upgrade the planetarium seats. e seats are the original seats from 1991. “I want to get the seats that are interactive where I can rumble you a little bit or where they have buttons on the armrest where I can say to the kids like ‘how many of you think it’s this?’ and I’ll have instant results to know where we are at,” said Kilgore. “We need to get the planetarium into the 21st century and we’re getting there.” While still discussing the idea with the Prince William County school system, Kilgore thinks it would be a great idea to ask 65 people or businesses to buy one seat rather than one person to buy 65 seats. It was plain to see the time, love and dedication Kilgore puts into the planetarium. e astronomy teacher and planetarium director is bringing the sky to life and making science fun with the one hope that kids will walk out of the facility saying ‘I want to take more science classes.’

A graduate of American University’s School of Communication, Olivia Overman has written articles for a number of online and print publications. She lives with her husband and son in Woodbridge. Overman can be reached by email at ooverman@princewilliamliving.com.

service. Lockheed Martin, Micron, BAE Systems, Lowe’s all are great examples of how companies are team-building their employees out in the ﬁeld at a very grassroots level.”

(continued from page 15) into the national spotlight, from Kisha’s presentation at the National Conference on Neighborhood Concerns in Spokane, Wash., in 2009, to her invitation to attend the President’s Champions of Change program in Washington, D.C., in 2011. Under Kisha’s leadership, the city of Manassas and its community partners have earned 11 state and national neighborhood awards, including the Virginia Municipal League’s prestigious President’s Award in 2011.

So where does she want to be in 10 years? “I hope I’m still engaged with young people and transforming communities,” admitted Kisha, who continues to serve on the boards of several nonproﬁts. “Every neighborhood needs a plan, so that any group or individual who wants to plug in can bring their talents and their expertise immediately into the heart of your community and help the children, the veterans and the disabled who need their help.”

Karl Schultze is manager of the Manassas Lowe’s Home Improvement store, which has contributed building materials to several of the city’s neighborhood projects.

And her best advice for others?

“Kisha’s amazing,” he said. “She has a real passion for her job and the positive eﬀects of it. You want to take part in what she’s doing.” Schultze pulled together a team of Lowe’s employees to work on 1 By Youth last year. “Any time you help on a project like that, it brings you together as a team and builds camaraderie. And you feel good about what you’re doing in the community. We rely on a lot of people to come in and shop with us and keep us in business. is is a way for us to give back. It’s a good morale boost for us employees from the store as well.”

“Surround yourself with people who have a lot of energy, so you can keep the energy going yourself!” For more information on the Big Day of Serving Manassas, contact Kisha Wilson-Sogunro, either by phone at (703) 257-8240, or by email at kwilson@ci.manassas.va.us.

Cindy Brookshire is a freelance writer and co-founder of the local writers’ networking group, Write by the Rails, on Facebook. She lives in Manassas.

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Many put off doing their taxes out of fear, or because of a lack of time, lack of knowledge of tax law, disorganization, or a combination. “It is procrastinating on your tax return that gets most people in trouble,” said Ceda Putiyon of CAP Accounting. “They either overlook income or fail to take all their entitled deductions and wind up paying more taxes than required. Waiting until the last minute to file your tax return can cause costly errors.” Mathematical and other errors can usually easily be avoided by double-checking your math and by doublechecking to be sure Social Security numbers and financial institution information is correct. And, said Putiyon, be sure to compare last year’s return to this year. Not doing so could mean that you miss income, deductions, exemptions, and/or credits. “It is of the utmost importance to double-check your work, compare this year with last year,” said Putiyon. And, she added, “When you are unsure, hire a professional.” Here are a few tips to make next year’s tax season easier: ■

Be organized. Have one central location for all your documents. Invest in an accordion folder or a binder for storing checks, statements, receipts and forms. Mark the year on the outside and make a habit of filing on a regular basis. Once you have developed this habit, preparing your taxes will be much easier than the proverbial “shoe box” method.

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hen a fire or other emergency occurs, people are primarily concerned with getting their loved ones rapid and well-qualified help. What they might not stop and think at the time is exactly who these men and women coming to their aid are. About two-thirds of the fire and rescue services in Prince William County are run by students, business owners, government workers, retirees, homemakers, military members, and people of all sorts of professions and backgrounds coming together as one team. Volunteers can be “any person 18 years or older in good health,” according to the Prince William County Fire and Rescue Volunteers website, and some departments accept junior members as young as 16 or 17. Depending on interests and ability, volunteers can be the people on the scene or behind the scenes as administration volunteers. ere are approximately 1,000 overall volunteers, and about 175 are on

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duty nights, weekends, and holidays. e “majority of the stations and apparatus are owned by and managed by the volunteer departments,” said Steve Chappell, Dale City assistant chief and member since 1989. With so much of the staffing being volunteers, it saves county taxpayers tens of millions of dollars, both in staffing and maintaining the apparatus and buildings, he said. Prince William County is currently serviced by 10 volunteer fire and rescue departments—soon to be 11, as one is restarting in Gainesville with recruitment and training beginning this summer. ese departments are: Occoquan-Woodbridge-Lorton (OWL), Dale City, Dumfries-Triangle, Coles District, Lake Jackson, Buckhall, Stonewall Jackson, Nokesville, Yorkshire, and Evergreen. Of these, OWL is the oldest, dating to 1938, and Buckhall is the youngest, having emerged in 1987. All of the stations in the county are numbered based on when they are built—the departments gain these stations as needed.

OWL Life Member Jeﬀ Scheulen said that when he began volunteering in 1975, “there were only two aerial ladder trucks in the county and they were in Woodbridge and Manassas.” By the time they drove halfway across the county, the ﬁre was usually out. Because of that, departments are created as needed to protect the growing population. All of the various departments in the county are collectively governed under the Prince William Fire and Rescue Association, but run individually, and each has its individual history. e Manassas Volunteer Fire Company, which serves the city of Manassas and has operated since 1892, is independent of the rest of the county.

Firefighters in Prince William go through about 350 hours of training in firefighting, health privacy, infection control, critical incident stress management, CPR, incident management, and hazardous materials. EMTs require approximately 250 hours of training for certification, and paramedics require nearly 1,000 hours of training. Apparatus drivers, unit officers, and chief officers require additional training as well. e Prince William County Fire and Rescue Association Recruitment and Retention Committee has a Volunteer Leadership Academy which is a program purposed to fill in any gaps between the technical training required and the expected behavior. Many of the volunteers go on to manage projects and lead people, so this program is designed to help any member prepare to be a successful leader. About 20 percent of the county volunteers go on to pursue the fire and rescue service as a profession, and approximately half that number go on to obtain EMS and fire science-related degrees. Volunteers in Prince William undergo most of the same training and certifications as career staff. Scheulen said that volunteering led to his career in emergency medical services. “I was interested in public safety and started volunteering without knowing anything about firefighting or EMS,” he said. e certifications from Prince William and his experience with OWL helped him transition into his career. Scheulen also said that, to volunteer, “It takes motivation and dedication to serve the community” because training and staying an active member takes a lot of time and a love for the job. What made it worth it, for him, was that it led to a successful career. Many of the career staff begin as volunteers, so they have the same

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ough the volunteers are from so many different backgrounds and not all have a career in the field, they are highly trained professionals and receive continuous training. Emergency medical technicians [EMTs] and firefighters receive six to nine months of training to become proficient, and all personnel undergo testing and recertification annually. Tom Wood, chief of Stonewall Jackson Volunteer Fire and Rescue and Prince William volunteer of 21 years said, “We train all the time, either taking new classes or through instation drills.” It’s not unusual, even on holidays, for Wood’s crews to spend several hours at a time to refresh their skills on rescuing victims using rope (rappelling, etc). “We [train] with career members as well, since we all work together on calls and have to know the same skills,” Wood continued. “And whenever new tools, techniques, and protocols come out, we train on them.”

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satisfaction and motivation for doing the work they do. Chappell estimated that 75 percent of the volunteers reside in Prince William County, and if they do not currently, they have at some point (residency is not a requirement). Chappell joined a department in the county because, as he put it, “the opportunities to volunteer with the Fire and Rescue department in Prince William County outweigh those of the other jurisdictions.” Wood noted, “I joined in Prince William because of how essential volunteers are,” whereas in nearby jurisdictions, “volunteers are supplemental staffing, and career personnel staff all the units in the stations.” To show thanks for the amazing men and women volunteering to keep our county safe, there are multiple ways—proactive and otherwise—for the community to give back. According to the Prince William County Government website, 21.85 percent of taxpayers’ money goes to public safety. e volunteer fire and rescue programs receive the majority of their funding from these tax dollars. e money goes towards training and equipment to allow each department to run like a career department would run. Other funding sources include donations, bingo nights, and renting out halls and facilities for events. Said Wood, “Without volunteers, emergency services would be diminished substantially, or costs to county citizens would have to be dramatically increased.” At night and on the weekend, if you have an emergency, there’s a pretty good chance that a volunteer is responding, and if the emergency is a fire, the chance that the responder is a volunteer is about 100 percent To keep taxes low and the volunteer fire and rescue resources up to date, it is critical for county citizens to continue their support. If you can’t offer money, donating meals (continues on page 24) prince william living April 2012 | 23

(continued from page 23) and snacks is also a great way to show your appreciation. Bring your family and stop by your local department to meet the people who put their lives on the line for you and see how these services operate. It is helpful for citizens, young and old, to learn ﬁre safety and prevention along with becoming familiar with basic ﬁrst aid and CPR.

Author Audrey Harman is a 2011 Hollins University alumna with a BA in English and Spanish. She currently resides in Woodbridge with her family. She can be reached via email at aharman@princewilliamliving.com.

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barista (“barista”… I have no idea how or when I learned that word) so long to make my drink. An attractive, well-dressed woman walked by and referred to a topic she overheard from my phone call. OH GEEZ! I was too loud. Wait… She was making small talk and chatter. She was clearly at home in this place. “Do I know you?” she asked. This question is near the top of my list of anxiety-producing phrases—right next to, “Welcome to Starbucks. What can I get you?”

I recently learned that there is a difference between “non-fat” and “skinny” drinks at Starbucks. This was explained to me in great detail, in hushed tones to make it sound vital to my existence. The already confusing menu wavered in the refected sunlight and all the letters morphed into alien hieroglyphics that mocked my coffee ignorance. Just the fact that such a distinction exists created a void in my gray matter where all that information fell, clearly never to be used in a practical setting. Already, I fear my next trip to this Mecca of caffeine will send me right over the edge with anxiety. I will just have to order the exact same thing I have ordered, in the same way, for the past six years. No need to start tranquilizers while trying to order coffee.

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The only reason I have actually ever gone to Starbucks was to meet my cool friends. These are the people I keep near and dear so they can guide me through the perils of adulthood. Not only do they help me with gourmet drinks but they also assist me with fashion accessories, the color of shoes I should buy and even tell me how to match my clothes. I have no sense of modern, up-to-date anything, and these people are as necessary to me as a red-tipped cane is to the visually impaired. I shifted from foot to foot, searching for my friends through the window and mumbling to my husband on the phone. I don’t like listening to other people’s conversation while in public so I desperately try to keep my volume low. Naturally, the most respectful and easiest choice would be to not talk on the phone at all. But remember, I was in a palace wearing my peasant clothes and I needed the reassurance. I hung up the phone and wondered what was taking the

We laughed at the fact that both of us lack the ability to recognize people we have met a dozen times; even long-time friends are not immune to my recognition problems. We shared stories about previous missteps and suddenly the coffee shop seemed more intimidating. Now I was worried about potentially insulting other people who expect me to know them. Just a couple of months ago I was at dinner with two of my friends. Another friend approached the table, joyously shouted my name, leaned in for a hug and asked me several personal questions. Obviously, she knew me very well and as I studied her, I recognized her too. I knew where our lives intersected and what boards we sat on together. I knew what projects we had shared and what meetings we had attended. The faces of her children even floated in my head but I COULD NOT REMEMBER HER NAME! How can that happen? While flushing a crimson hue, I chatted with her before the appetizers arrived. I never introduced my two sets of friends to each other. Is it because I was rude? Probably. Mostly though, I just can’t remember anyone’s name. We said our goodbyes in Starbucks and “we’ll talk soon” and “ha-ha, we’ll recognize each other” and I continued to wait for my drink while she went to order. In a matter of those 10

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Safeway 2205 Old Bridge Road | Woodbridge Safeway 12821 Braemar Village Plz | Bristow

Minnieland at Rippon 2100 Rippon Blvd | Woodbridge

Shopper’s Food and Pharmacy 9540 Liberia Ave | Manassas

Minnieland at Technology Drive 9511 Technology Drive | Manassas

Shopper’s Food and Pharmacy 14000 Shoppers Best Way | Woodbridge

Minnieland at The Glen 4290 Prince William Parkway | Woodbridge

Shopper’s Food and Pharmacy 4174 Fortuna Center Plaza | Dumfries

Minnieland at Wellington 10249 Hendley Road | Manassas

Shopper’s Food and Pharmacy 10864 Sudley Manor Drive | Manassas

Minnieland Corporate Offices 4300 Prince William Parkway | Woodbridge

The Sign Shop 2603 Morse Lane | Woodbridge

Northern Virginia Community College Manassas Campus | 6901 Sudley Road

Stratford University 14349 Gideon Drive | Woodbridge

Northern Virginia Community College Woodbridge Campus | 15200 Neabsco Mills Road

Town of Haymarket 15000 Washington Street | Haymarket

Old Bridge Preschool 3966 Old Bridge Road | Woodbridge

Town of Occoquan Town Hall | 314 Mill Street | Occoquan

Pope John Paul the Great Catholic High School 17700 Dominican Drive | Dumfries

Town of Dumfries 17755 Main Street | Dumfries

Prince William Association of Realtors 4545 Daisy Reid Avenue | Woodbridge

Town of Quantico 415 Broadway Street | Quantico

Prince William Public Library System–Independent Hill Neighborhood Library 14418 Bristow Road | Manassas

Wawa 15809 Jefferson Davis Highway | Woodbridge 13355 Minnieville Road | Woodbridge 2051 Daniel Stuart Square | Woodbridge 14461 Lee Highway | Gainesville

Prince William Public Library System–Lake Ridge Neighborhood Library 12964 Harbor Drive | Lakeridge Prince William Public Library System–Nokesville Neighborhood Library 12993 Fitzwater Drive | Nokesville

Wegmans 8297 Stonewall Shops Square | Gainesville 14801 Dining Way | Woodbridge

Prince William Public Library System–Bull Run Regional Library 8051 Ashton Ave | Manassas Prince William Public Library System–Central Community Library 8601 Mathis Ave | Manassas Prince William Public Library System–Chinn Park Regional Library 13065 Chinn Park Dr. | Woodbridge Prince William Public Library System–Dale City Neighborhood Library 4249 Dale Blvd | Dale City Prince William Public Library System–Dumfries Neighborhood Library 18007 Dumfries Shopping Plaza | Dumfries

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