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Here at Brides & Weddings, we spend a lot of time talking about weddings, looking at weddings and writing about weddings. We include content from all over the globe to help inspire you as you plan your wedding.

Our website, www.bridesandweddings.com, is the go-to resource for Northern Virginia brides and grooms. There, and here you will find the people and places to make your perfect wedding day. You can use keywords that reflect your Rebecca Barnes wedding vision in our search bar and discover the best in Northern Virginia wedding professionals. Or, you can sign up for our newsletter to receive special offers and calendar of events — from bridal shows to bridal shops.

Read our blog, enter contests and follow us on social media for the latest information.

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Our wedding guide is packed with helpful tips, stories, timelines and photos to help create the perfect wedding for you. We give you the knowledge you need to make your planning successful and less stressful, showcasing some of the top wedding professionals in Northern Virginia for your convenience.

But the best part about Brides & Weddings are the relationships! We are your friends and neighbors — large enough to have resources, but small enough to provide personal service. Our commitment to engaged couples is to make the journey to your wedding day as smooth as possible, by sharing ideas, resources and maybe a little bit of inspiration for your celebration. This is the first day of the rest of your lives. What matters is that you are creating not just a day, but a lifetime together.

Thank you for taking the time to be a part of the Brides & Weddings community. Best wishes for a beautiful wedding and a happy marriage.

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CONTENTS WEDDING BLOGS

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7 THINGS TO CONSIDER WHEN SELECTING A WEDDING VENUE

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HOTELS YOUR ONE-STOP SHOP

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GIRL FOR ALL SEASONS

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Find the best venue for your event.

RECEPTION GUIDE

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WEDDING CAKES WITH STYLE

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How to use wedding blogs to plan your big day

A handy list of things that you should consider when choosing a venue for your wedding.

Flexible space, all-inclusive receptions and your guests under one roof.

Choosing the perfect season for your wedding

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Get the one that suits you.

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HERE COMES THE BRIDE

Where to find the dress of your dreams.

THE SHAPE OF YOU

See real brides wearing the most popular wedding dress silhouettes.

WEDDING FLOWER REALNESS

From bouquets & boutonnieres to ceremonies & receptions in flowers.

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TO FIRST LOOK OR NOT

Best areas and ideas for outdoor shoots in Northern Virginia

CAPTURING YOUR STORY

Find out what inspires wedding photographers from one of the region’s best.

PARADISE FOUND

Some of our favorite exotic places for your honeymoon.

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HOW TO USE WEDDING BLOGS TO PLAN YOUR BIG DAY 1. Learn to identify your wedding style.

When you begin planning your wedding, you may not know what your wedding style is, other than “beautiful.” Wedding blogs provide great descriptions and definitions that can help you understand and better refine what wedding style appeals to you. You might find that you love boho weddings with whimsical touches, or you may discover that regal elegance in a garden setting is precisely right for you. Whatever your style, wedding blogs can be an excellent way to find it before you make any non-refundable décor decisions.

2. Connect with vendors, designers & shops.

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vendors. When you see an incredible gown on a wedding blog, the chances are good that the post will also tell you the designer and possibly the boutique. By utilizing the vendor credits, you’ll likely also be able to track down the planner, florist, cake artist and more. This is particularly useful when you find posts that share weddings from your part of the country.

3. Encounter new ideas and trends.

Season to season and year to year, the wedding industry is changing and evolving … but trends don’t always hit every part of the country at the same time. There may be a fab new trend that hasn’t made it to your circle yet. Since wedding blogs are worldwide, they can expose you to ideas you wouldn’t otherwise encounter. When

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hen you’re newly engaged (or anticipating getting engaged), it can be easy to fall down the rabbit hole of wedding blogs. After all, there are so many great blogs out there, and they’re full of gorgeous images! Many brides find themselves spending countless hours scrolling through these blogs and becoming overwhelmed by all of the weddings they see published and by the imagined pressure to recreate those images or to compete with them.

Don’t worry – we’re not going to tell you to stop looking at wedding blogs! In fact, we are going to help you use them better! Here are some specific ways to use wedding blogs so that they inspire you rather than adding stress:

you come across an awesome new trend, pin it or add it to a “to research” list so that you can decide if it’s right for your big day.

4. Find sources of inspiration, not duplication!

This is a huge, important point that we hope stays with you as you go on to click and scroll through wedding blogs — wedding blogs are there to help you find inspiration for your celebration, not to get you to recreate someone else’s wedding!

Each image you see on a wedding blog is the record of a specific moment and is the product of a unique set of circumstances. With the millions of variables involved, it is nearly impossible to precisely recreate someone else’s image … and why would you want to? No matter how hard you

and you vendors try to create exactly what you saw on that blog, it will at best be a mimicry of someone else’s work at someone else’s wedding. If you choose to go that route, you’re missing out on the opportunity to make your wedding the unique celebration of you that it could be.

So instead of attempting to exactly imitate someone else’s wedding, use what you see and learn from wedding blogs to discover what you love and to inspire your own vision! When you communicate that vision to your vendors and then trust them to be creative, you’ll adore your special and custom-to-you wedding day!

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ENGAGEMENT RING A LT E R N A T I V E S

ot every bride is the same, so why should their engagement rings be? In fact, you may even find that your hopeful bride-to-be doesn’t even like diamonds. Diamonds aren’t mandatory in engagement rings or wedding bands as the featured gem. There are so many stunning gemstones out there that limiting yourself to just the diamond could be a disservice to your one-of-a-kind partner. If you want something a little bit more unique for your ring, here are some options that are quite gorgeous for you to consider.

Sapphires

There are a lot of reasons why you may want to consider a sapphire instead of a diamond. First of all, it’s almost as hard as a diamond, ranking just behind this more popular gem on the Mohs scale. And there are so many different color variations that you can buy — sapphires may be most famous for being blue, but they can also come in green, yellow, pink and white.

Amethyst

Garnet

Garnets are great for a few reasons. The color is unique and gorgeous, which makes it stand out against a ruby. Another is because they’re inexpensive and look richer than they are. If your bride loves the vintage look, this is the gem you should be looking at.

Ruby

Speaking of rubies, these are also a great option.

If you place a larger ruby with some accent diamonds, you are going to create a great ring.

Rubies have the same hardness and properties as sapphire, so this gem will last a lifetime.

Onyx

Onyx is a gorgeous gemstone that most commonly comes in black, though there are other varieties that you can enjoy. If you want something that’s modern and unique but very chic, the onyx could be an excellent choice.

Moissanite

Amethysts are beautiful, purple gemstones that add flair to your engagement ring. They’re another durable gem that can be worn on a daily basis without issues. They’re not quite as durable as a sapphire or diamond, but they’ll stand the test of time with some extra care.

Cubic zirconia and other diamonds get a bad rap, in part because they’re easily dulled and scratched and won’t stay perpetually shiny like a real diamond. Enter moissanite, a crystal that naturally occurs in meteorites, is nearly as hard, dense and scuff-resistant as a diamond and has greater brilliance and fire.

Emeralds

Man-Made Diamonds

With the gorgeous deep-green color found in an emerald stone, this is a timeless gem that offers a stylish and luxurious touch to your ring.

These may not be as popular as they once were, but you can get something that’ll really create a magical piece, especially when used with a modern setting.

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Man-made diamonds are physically and chemically identical to natural diamonds. White diamonds that have been grown in a laboratory typically cost 15-20 percent less than comparable natural diamonds, and colored, lab-made diamonds can be a whopping 80 or 90 percent cheaper than their mined equivalents. The fact that mined diamonds are literally millions (and sometimes billions) of years old is certainly romantic, but it’s wrong to call a lab-grown diamond “fake.”

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The following merchants are happy to assist you and your fiance in finding the perfect engagement and wedding rings. Please let them know that you found them in Brides & Weddings of Northern Virginia.

Achikian Goldsmiths 140 Church St. NW, Vienna (703) 255-2255 www.achikian.com

Belle View Jewelers Belle View Shopping Center, Alexandria (703) 768-4900 www.belleviewjewelersva.com

Adeler Jewelers 772-E Walker Road, Great Falls (703) 759-4076 www.adelerjewelers.com

Boone & Sons 1320 Old Chain Bridge Road, McLean (703) 734-3997 www.booneandsons.com

Ashby Jewelers 9407 Main St., Manassas (703) 368-4653 www.ashbyjewelers.com

Daniel Roberts Fine Jewelers 10254 Main St., Fairfax (703) 951-0070 www.danielrobertsfinejewelers.com

B & C Jewelers Bradlee Shopping Center, Alexandria (703) 379-6010 www.bcjewelers.net

Eternity Jewelers 267 South Van Dorn St., Alexandria (703) 823-0691

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Forever

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Express Jewelers Pentagon Row ej.jewelershowcase.com (703) 351-7481 Exquisite Jewelers 8404-A Old Keene Mill Road, Springfield (703) 912-5739 Hartman Jewelers 36 Main St., Warrenton (540) 349-4123 www.hartmanjewelers.com Hunt Country Jewelers Custom Bridal Jewelry Specialists 105 East Main St., Purcellville (540) 338-8050 www.huntcountry.com The Jewelers Workshop 169-B Broadview Ave., Warrenton (540) 347-1761 Jewelry by Designs 2932 Prince William Pky., Woodbridge (703) 457-1815 www.jewelrybydesigns.com

1775 Rockville Pike, Rockville (301) 231-0030 www.mervisdiamond.com Princess Jewelers 529 Maple Ave., Vienna (703) 255-5050 www.princessjeweler.com Quinn’s Goldsmith Custom Jewelry Designs Stonebridge at Potomoc Town Center (703) 878-1622 www.quinnsgoldsmith.com Salona Jewelers 1333 Chain Bridge Road, McLean (703) 848-2660 www.salonajewelers.com Solovey Jewelers 1475 Chain Bridge Road, McLean (703) 356-0138 www.solovey.com Touch of Gold Fine Jewelry 202-A Washington St., Occoquan (703) 490-4544

Ketterman’s Jewelers 38-C Catoctin Circle SE, Leesburg (703) 777-0033 www.kettermans.com

Waldin Jewelers 21100 Dulles Town Center, Ste 195, Dulles (703) 421-0030 www.waldinjewlers.com

May Jewelers 8032 Leesburg Pike, Tysons Corner (703) 448-0866 www.mayjewelers.com

Watch & Jewelry Exchange of Tysons 8150 Leesburg Pike, Vienna (703) 893-0566 www.watchandjewelryexchange.com

Mervis Diamond Importers 1900 Mervis Way, Tysons Corner (703) 448-9000

VA Gold Buyers 21580 Atlantic Blvd., Sterling (703) 444-7804 www.vagoldbuyers.com

1700 K St. NW, Washington DC (202) 293-0600 5480 Wisconsin Ave., Chevy Chase (301) 215-9500

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TYING THE KNOT IN NORTHERN VIRGINIA

The legal age for marriage is 18 years old. Couples under 18 must have parental consent. Blood tests are not required. There is no waiting period and licenses are valid for 60 days. Both bride and groom must be present to apply for and sign the marriage license. Identification (i.e. driver’s license or military ID) must include a photo and social security number. Divorce/death information regarding previous marriages must be provided under oath. Cost is $30 (cash), with the exception of Prince William County ($32.50 cash). Call your location for office hours.

ALEXANDRIA CITY Alexandria Circuit Court, Clerk’s Office Marriage License Division, 3rd Floor, Rm. 307 520 King St., Alexandria 703.746.4044

FAUQUIER COUNTY Fauquier County Circuit Court Clerk’s Office 40 Culpeper St., Warrenton 540.422.8100

ARLINGTON COUNTY Arlington County Courthouse 6th Floor, Room 6700 1425 North Courthouse Road, Arlington 703.228.7010

LOUDOUN COUNTY Loudoun County Circuit Court Clerk’s Office, 3rd Floor 18 North King St., Leesburg 703.777.0270

FAIRFAX COUNTY Clerk of the Circuit Court Public Services Counter, 3rd Floor 4110 Chain Bridge Road, Fairfax 703.691.7320

PRINCE WILLIAM COUNTY Clerk of Circuit Court Room 305 9311 Lee Avenue, Manassas 703.792.6019

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estled in picturesque Loudoun County, Virginia, Oatlands Historic House and Gardens boasts more than 200 years of history and 30 years as a wedding venue. The mansion and beautifully terraced landscapes offer the perfect setting for exchanging your vows, enjoying cocktails, and exploring the 4.5 acre formal gardens.

For your reception, celebrate under an elegant tent either on the mansion’s front lawn or paved terrace near the historic greenhouse, or in the 1903 Carriage house. The gardens, grounds, history and stunning vistas provide a charming and timeless setting for your special day.

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20850 Oatlands Plantation Ln. Leesburg, VA 20175 703. 7 7 7 . 3174

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Say My Name, Say My Name

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Changing Your Name After the Wedding

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hanging your name after the wedding is a personal choice. If you do decide to make the traditional change, it is important to be organized and thorough in this endeavor.

Where to start?

STEP FOUR: Update your bank accounts.

Request the change in person at your local branch (bring your new driver’s license and marriage certificate). Ask for new checks and debit and credit cards, as well.

STEP ONE: Get your marriage license.

An original, or certified copy, of your marriage license will be required before you speak to other agencies. Call the clerk’s office where your license was filed to get copies.

STEP FIVE: Apply for a new passport.

The fees and process change depending on whether your current passport was issued within the last year. Except to wait 4-6 weeks for processing.

STEP TWO: Change your social security card.

Fill out the Social Security Administration’s application for a new card. Take or mail your application and required documents to your local SSA office.

What else? Additional details vary by person, but you should update records for your payroll.

Email accounts, insurance policies, utilities, legal documents, doctors’ offices, school alumni offices, credit cards, checking account, loans, and social media accounts are some others to consider.

STEP THREE: Update your driver’s license.

In most states, this must be done in person, so prepare yourself for a trip to the DMV. Bring your original license, your marriage certificate and your new Social Security card.

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7 THINGS TO CONSIDER WHEN

SELECTING A WEDDING VENUE

If you close your eyes right now and picture your wedding, you probably see your fiance beaming at you, the ring slipping onto your finger and your loved ones happily gathering together. But where is all this merriment taking place?

After the decision to get married, a location is usually the next big choice that newly engaged couples make. But even though selecting the venue is an early and important decision, that doesn’t mean it’s an easy one! Here is a list of things that you should consider when choosing a venue for your wedding.

Capacity

Space is a crucial consideration when selecting a wedding venue. Before you begin your search for the perfect venue, it’s a good idea to have an estimate of how many guests you plan to invite.

This often means creating a rough draft of your guest list. If your guest list is expansive, many churches and banquet halls may not have the capacity to fit everyone. And if your guest list is small and intimate, you don’t want to be rattling around in a huge space! Knowing a rough number of guests you want to invite will help narrow down your search from the beginning.

Style

To some extent, you’ll be bringing your aesthetic into the venue when your vendors set up for the wedding, but the inherent nature and style of a venue is a foundation that cannot be changed. It’s best to choose a venue that fits with the style and feel that you’re envisioning for your wedding day. For example, a cathedral ceremony and ballroom reception might not be the best fit if you crave a whimsical wedding, and a barn venue will not be a great option if you have your heart set on an elegant, formal affair.

Budget

Unless you are working with an unlimited wedding budget, money is another factor to consider. If you have a wedding planner, they will be able to steer you toward venues that are a good fit for your budget initially. Beyond that, make sure you ask a lot of questions as you tour each venue to get a good handle on what’s included and what features will incur additional costs so you can try to compare apples to apples when considering multiple venues.

Upkeep

One thing to pay attention to when touring venues is their cleanliness and general maintenance. Is the landscaping well tended? Are the bathrooms clean? What kind of staffing will there be on your wedding day to keep everything spic and span? The condition of the venue on a touring day will tell you a lot about the management and their standards.

Make sure that those standards match with your own!

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Packages

Depending on the venue, they may offer different packages for events. Look into each venue’s catering packages to see whether they suit your needs. Some locations will provide tables, tablecloths, cake stands and other things that will save on your bill with an outside rental company, while others provide only the space.

Neither is right or wrong, but you need to be sure you know what you’re getting before you book the venue.

Permits & Privacy

If you’re planning to have your wedding outside or in a public place, permits may be required. Do your research and get the necessary documents ahead of time. Another thing to consider is whether other people will have access to the area during your wedding. Holding a wedding in a public place can lead to a lot of onlookers, so consider how important your privacy is to you on your big day!

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Management

Trust your gut! The workers and management can tell you a lot about what your future experience might bring. Make sure you feel a connection with the staff and that you trust them — they are going to be the ones who ensure your day runs smoothly.

As you tour different venues, take note of whether they are listening to you and whether you will feel comfortable working closely with them throughout the months leading up to your wedding day.

For many couples, their wedding is the only time in their lives that they will ever book an event venue. So, it’s OK if you feel a bit out of your element and experience a steep learning curve!

We encourage you to check out online photos of other weddings at the venue. Seeing other people’s weddings can give you inspiration and a better idea of what the space looks like in all its glory.

It’s also a very good idea to check out reviews or talk to other brides about their experiences with the business! And as we mentioned before, a good wedding planner can be a huge help in guiding you toward the venues that will suit your wedding best!

Let your best self shine

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for newlyweds HOME-BUYING ADVICE

FROM VIRGINIA REALTY

Brides & Weddings recently sat down with real estate husband and wife combo Bill and Peggy Burke to get their advice for engaged or newly married couples when it comes to buying their first home together. Peggy gave us some great tips on buying your first home and even a little marriage advice.

How long have you been a REALTOR? I was first licensed in NC in 1981....and licensed in VA in 1984. I have been a REALTOR for 36 years....33 years in Virginia. Bill has worked in and around development of real estate forever and has been a REALTOR forever too.

What do you enjoy most about your job?

The best thing about my job is that I get to meet a lot of different people from different places.

They all have a different need. I assist people with the purchase of “home” and how to make it home. I work with sellers who are moving up or moving out of the area and I help them to start on the next leg of their life’s journey. I also work with landlords and tenants. Everyone’s situation is a puzzle and I feel like my job is to help them solve the puzzle. Bill works on the commercial side. So he handles any of the people we know who have a need for commercial space or land for commercial or residential. Sometimes it is a company that someone we know works for who has a new need or evolution to a new situation.

He also does business and church consulting. All of this, too, is a puzzle.

We really like helping people with whatever game plan they have and sometimes help them to see where it needs tweaking!

Do you offer any real estate services for engaged couples or newlyweds?

They are really no different from everyone else.

They are just typically a little more nervous.

We thrive on being patient and helping them to discover what their needs are. We can easily explain the process one-on-one and craft the process to fit the individual couple.

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Some brides get overwhelmed with planning a wedding at the same time that they are shopping for a home. Are there any ways to make the home buying process easier and less time consuming?

Because everyone’s situation is different, we meet with the couple and get a really good idea of what they are looking for, where they want to be and what their price range is going to be. Then we do the hard part and will try to narrow things down for them so that they can worry about the “getting married” part. After we discover what their likes and needs are we can keep them from having to look at “everything.”

Then if what we find turns out to not be what they are looking for, we switch gears and go in a different direction until we get it all right!

Any tips you can give readers on the home-search process and how to compromise if your styles are different?

Most houses are pretty much the same in this area. Neighborhoods offer different amenities and yards are level or not. So, as soon as we zero in on where they want to live, we can help them to figure out how to adapt the house to the cook in the family, the garage mechanic or craftsperson, the man cave, the library, the sewing room...the game room...that’s the fun part...helping them use the house in ways that make it “their” home.

What is your advice for the young to-be-married or newlywed couple who both own homes but are looking to “trade up” after the wedding?

If they both own a home coming into the marriage we can help the couple decide if they want to sell one of them, rent one of them or keep or sell them both and buy something different. It is all part of the discovery process that starts with getting to know them and what they really want to accomplish. They may be able to become landlords or they may not want to do that. So, we explore all possibilities with them before making any suggestions. It really is a counseling service. We

want to help them to do what is right for them.

Not what we want them to do.

What are the two or three hottest neighborhoods/ areas for first-home purchases right now?

Again, this really depends on the couple, their age, their lifestyle. In this area lots of people getting married are already established in a community and want to stay there. Others will want a place with a good walkability score, or more rural where they don’t have an HOA, or a golf community, or near a rec center, or close to commuter routes. Some want something newer.

Others want something older with character.

Still others want a townhouse or condo. So, again, that first meeting is so important and sometimes we make them think of things that have not crossed their mind. It is a puzzle.

Bill & Peggy Burke are brokers for Virginia Realty Partners, LLC, a Real Estate Brokerage and consulting firm offering services in Residential, Commercial, Land and Specialty Markets. They can assist you with any real estate needs in Northern Virginia, as they have a combined 75+ years of experience. Visit their website at virginiarealtypartners.com to see local listings and find out more.

One Destination, Three Venues, Nine Settings,

Endless Possibilities!

Farm Brew LIVE at Innovation Park offers nine distinct, yet equally beautiful, private spaces with custom menus and personalized service ensuring your wedding day is as amazing as you envision.

For further information, please contact Events@FarmBrewLive.com or go to

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Spend or invest?

New thoughts on an age-old dilemma A familiar experience for many Americans is that as fast as money comes in, it goes out the door again in pursuit of the next “must have” purchase. Such spending habits can take a toll on plans to build up savings for the future. The key is finding a balance between immediate gratification and long-term financial security.

Judging the “real” cost

In many instances, we can all find ways to save on daily purchases to set more money aside to help meet goals like saving for retirement or a child’s education. The bigger challenge comes when it is time to make a major purchase – a home, a car, appliances or home improvements.

These expenditures can require the immediate outlay of thousands of dollars. You may have to drain money from savings or, at the very least, reduce available funds to invest for your future.

When is the expenditure worth it, and when is the cost too prohibitive in relation to your financial future?

1. Opportunity cost

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There are a variety of ways to assess the financial value of a major purchase. The approach you choose can vary depending on the type of expenditure you make. Here are three ways to think about it:

Whenever you’re making a significant purchase on a product or service, you need to look at how it will impact your financial future. It is important to assess the opportunity cost of making a cash purchase today. For example, consider what could happen if instead of spending $5,000 on a home entertainment center, that money was invested for 20 years earning 7% per year. Over time, that $5,000 could grow to more than $19,000 (not accounting for SPEND — CONTINUED PAGE 28

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SPEND — CONTINUED taxes or investment fees). Assessing potential opportunity cost is one way to better evaluate the real cost of making a significant purchase.

2. A “return on investment” Another consideration is whether there is a payback on the purchase. For example, paying for a class or a college degree may provide a future return in the form of the potential for increased income. Anybody who has spent (or taken loans for) $100,000 or more for a medical or law degree likely does so with a reasonable expectation that future income will more than make up the difference. A home improvement may be looked at in the same way – an investment that may be recouped in the future.

3. Borrowing the money to cover purchase costs While it may be tempting to pay for purchases with credit cards, home equity loans or other types of financing, you have

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to think about how much borrowing the money will cost in the long run. The key here is to limit interest charges as much as possible. It’s not that you necessarily need to avoid all debt. In some instances, you can incur “good debt,” which is used to purchase an asset that has a long lifespan, increasing value and other potential benefits such as tax deductibility of interest. Mortgages and student loans are typically considered good debt.

Major expenditures aren’t just about the immediate benefit. You should consider whether the current cost would become more significant over time because the money was not invested for your future.

Bennett Whitlock, CRPC ®, is a private wealth advisor and managing director with Whitlock Wealth Management, a franchise of Ameriprise Financial Services, Inc. Learn more at WhitclokWealth.com or call 703-492-7732.

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WONDERFUL WEDDING WEEKENDS

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n this modern day of transient lifestyles, wedding guest lists contain relatives and friends traveling from both coasts. To make the most of the time couples can spend with their friends and family members, brides and grooms are planning wedding weekends and hosting multiple events in unique venues.

Rehearsal Dinner This event is held the night before the wedding and now includes not only the bridal party, but family members and out-of-town wedding guests. It is not unusual to have a guest list of 50 attendees. More couples are utilizing interesting venues, such as wineries, for these events.

The wedding weekend consists of numerous parties and activities centering around guests getting to know each other while enabling the bride and groom time to relax and enjoy catching up with friends and family. A wedding weekend agenda typically goes like this:

The Wedding & Reception By now, your guests have had some time to get to know one another better, so let the good times begin. Relax and enjoy the day, whether it’s an elegant ballroom event, a trip back in time at a historic bed & breakfast or a casual catered affair in the countryside.

The Ice Breaker This party is usually held on the Thursday evening prior to the wedding. This dinner has replaced the traditional rehearsal dinner as it is often the first time the bride and groom’s families meet. It’s a good idea to keep this event on the casual and fun side, incorporating themes like a barbecue or Hawaiian luau.

Bridal Party Outings These events are designed to allow for some relaxation before the big day, and again, give guests a chance to make new acquaintances and renew old friendships. Outings can include trips to a spa for the feminine side of the bridal party, golfing for the groom and his buddies and sightseeing tours and excursions to local wineries for wedding guests.

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Post-Festivity Brunch This is the perfect opportunity for the bride and groom to thank out-of-town guests, friends and family members, and to open gifts. Put the emphasis on hospitality and relaxation.

The wedding weekend allows you time to relax and enjoy visiting with all of your guests.

Use venues that offer many opportunities for different events for your guests while keeping their traveling time to a minimum. With a wealth of historic sites, B&B’s, wineries, shopping outlets, spas and golf clubs, Northern Virginia is the perfect place to hold your wedding weekend.

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YOUR ONE STOP WEDDING RESROURCE

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fter the engagement ring is on your finger, the questions looms, “Where should I have my wedding?”

Although many options are tempting, from historic homes and favorite restaurants, to exotic locations like mountain tops, many brides must find a balance between budget, planning time and out-of-town guests’ requirements. Hotels offer convenience, value, a wide array of capabilities and experienced staff to make wedding planning and the big day effortless, costeffective and polished.

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Sometimes a bride and groom cannot get a church location for their ceremony. They may practice different religions and decide that a non-religious ceremony is more appropriate.

Hotels offer space for ceremonies and decorations such as lattice panels and archways to personalize the room.

In addition to the ceremony and reception, there are many other events that surround a wedding, including the rehearsal dinner, bridesmaids’ luncheon and departure brunch. Most hotels offer custom menus and even discounted rates for these additional events and with a variety of function rooms from which to choose, each event can take on a unique atmosphere.

With so much going on, the guests and the bride can find themselves running all over town. Hotels frequently offer a complimentary bridal party hospitality room removed from the cocktail hour to allow the bride, groom and their closest friends and family members a chance to catch their breath in privacy.

Where should I have my wedding?

Convenience Today’s brides are busy with families, careers, studies, travel, hobbies and, of course, a fiance.

Some brides are even planning weddings from another town or state. Many of the wedding guests are traveling from a distance to share in the special day. Some will be drinking during the reception. Hotels offer the ability to hold both the reception and guest rooms in one place so that no one will need to drive afterwards. Most hotels offer a complimentary bridal suite with wedding packages and many airport hotels allow the couple to leave their car in the parking lot and take the courtesy shuttle to and from the airport for the honeymoon.

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HOTELS — CONTINUED number of guests, time of day or year and menu selected. Hotels offer reception packages that typically include reception room set-up with tables and chairs, a selection of tablecloths and napkins, staging for the head table or a band, a dance floor, cake and gift tables and basic centerpieces — all at a per-person price. Hotel menu packages come complete with hors d’ oeuvres, two to four courses for plated meals or lavish buffets, hosted bars featuring cocktails, beer, wine and soft drinks and champagne toast and cake cutting for every guest.

Capabilities As many brides quickly discover, much about the wedding experience has very little to do with the bride and groom themselves. There are friends, families, friends of families and other guests who must be thought of every step of the way. Most families contribute some or all of the funds for the festivities and expect to have some say in everything from the time of year and the guest list, to the location and relative distance many of the guests must travel.

Hotels can offer the best of all possible worlds when it comes to satisfying a multitude of requirements. By law, hotels are required to maintain accessibility for guests with all kinds of disabilities. From ramps and elevators leading to their public spaces, to Braille signage throughout the building and smoke detectors for the hearing impaired, your guests will be treated with the utmost in discretion and comfort.

Reception catering is another example of how hotels can accommodate a wide variety of needs. Most offer pre-planned children’s meals consisting of a fruit cup, chicken fingers, fries and soft drinks, but they can also prepare vegetarian or vegan meals, low cholesterol or sodium entrees and other specific requirements.

They can further customize their beverage offerings so that your bar features your favorite drinks, including expanded wine bars, microbrew beers or specialty martinis.

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Ethiopian or Korean cuisine or any other requirement you may have. Some will even contract the caterer for you.

Experience The execution of the events on the day of your wedding is not something that should be left in the hands of the inexperienced. Hotels employ and train teams of experienced and professional staff members to cater to your every need.

The banquet manager and captains will ensure that your ballroom is set correctly with gleaming glassware, crisp linens and a uniformed staff to wait on you. From the lighting of the candles to adhering to your carefully planned agenda, the banquet department will deliver everything you planned and more.

The chef and his culinary team prepare delicious meals to tempt your guests.

Guaranteeing that the food is fresh, hot and tasty, they can feed from 50 to 500.

The catering director and managers tie it all together: your initial site visit, menu planning, agenda detailing and table placement diagramming. They will place your favors and place cards and greet your limo. As your liaison to the other hotel departments, they can assist with guest rooms and special dietary requests.

They can also recommend florists, bakers, photographers and entertainment.

Most hotel chains maintain brand standards of operation that add yet another level of experience to the team of professionals working with you. From equipment and staffing guidelines, to continuous training and operational policies and procedures, hotels offer you their good name and reputation for hospitality. Many also award frequent traveler points for all of your catered functions — a great way to pay for your honeymoon!

From your guests checking in to the shuttle for the airport where you depart on your honeymoon, hotels offer convenience, excellent value, a wide range of capabilities and an experienced team. Hotels are your one stop shop for weddings.

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MEALW H ASERV I CE T’S YOUR STYLE?

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eddings come in all different sizes and styles, each uniquely beautiful and representing a happy couple. Based on a couple’s theme and plans for the day, it makes sense then that the style of the reception at a black-tie wedding varies from that of a backyard barbecue. While there are different styles of catering that can be utilized during your reception, keep in mind that only you and your significant other can decide which option – or options – best fit your needs for your overall wedding vision.

Sit-down dinners typically consist of a multi-course meal in which each course is plated and served individually to guests.

This elegant option allows your guests to feel pampered and is traditionally used for more formal affairs. This style of service has a greater expense due to the increased staffing requirements needed in order to adequately serve your guests. Formal sit-down dinners can be quite regal, especially when butlered French service is used where each guest is served at the table, offering an extra layer of elegance for your guests.

Family-style dinners are a cozy, intimate way to serve your guests. With platters and bowls placed on each table, your family and friends have the ability to select their portions through self-service. In order to successfully carry out a family-style meal, you must have enough staff to service each table and enough space at the tables to comfortably fit your guests, as well as the food 36 |

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and equipment. This style emanates the casual comfort of family gatherings at home – without all of the work and worry!

Food stations are a fun, interactive alternative to buffets, allowing for increased flexibility and options. Stations provide your guests with the opportunity to customize their meals and they promote mingling in a more casual atmosphere. Because items are often made to order, it’s important to have more staff and more time for dinner. Food stations are a great way to provide an additional dimension to your reception.

Buffets are always an excellent option, particularly for couples who want to serve a wide variety of food choices to their guests.

They provide greater flexibility, allowing guests to pick the items that most satisfy their palates, as well as controlling how much or little of each item is served. This style tends to be the least expensive and may be a good option for those on a budget. With endless display possibilities, buffets are a great way to provide a dramatic focal point for your reception.

By working with your caterer or food and beverage manager, you’ll find the right set-up that fits your style!

Michael Evans is the owner of Helga’s Caterers in McLean and a regular contributor to the Brides & Weddings website blog. To schedule a consultation, call 703.556.0780 and visit www.helgascatering.com.

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Our Favorite Things W

e love finding new gift ideas for our readers to showcase. Here are a few of our favorite things that are a little unique than what is the usual wedding party gift. Consider these items for your wedding party or just as an anytime gift for those you love.

Tie the Knot: These hair tie favors are the perfect way to ask you favorite ladies to be part of your special day! $2.75 each by Sweet Repose Boutique www.etsy.com/shop/ SweetReposeBoutique

Sgt Brooks BBQ: This homemade recipe turned business for a USMC veteran is a perfect gift for your wedding party or guests. Several flavors to choose from. $6.50 www. sgtbrooksbbq.com

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Dopp Kit: This R.Rieveter Dopp Kit is handmade by military spouses and has a genuine leather handle and pull tab. Fits perfectly inside a larger bag. Often used as a women’s make-up pouch or a men’s toiletry bag. $85 R. Riveter www.rriveter.com Stemless Champagne Glasses: These glasses are perfect for your bridesmaid proposals and getting ready wedding morning!

Customization available.

Starting at $9 Naturally Chic Gifts www.etsy.com/shop/ NaturallyChicGifts

Team Bride Shirts: These soft 100% cotton tees are a perfect way for your maids to show their support! Great for bachelorette weekend or getting wedding ready attire! $16 Shop Luv Olive www.etsy.com/shop/shopluvolive Custom Magnets: These custom magnets are a fun, artistic way to ask your best friends to be a part of your special day or to say thanks! Illustrated and created by hand from your photos! Starting at $18 Kit Atlas www.etsy.com/shop/KitAtlas Initial Necklace: Lovely tiny round charm exquisitely imprinted in charming calligraphic font will be beautiful on your bridesmaid’s neckline. Your choice of letter and color on a delicate, high quality 18’’ gold plated chain. $28 Palomaria www.etsy.com/shop/Palomaria

Classy Tacks: Set of 12 assorted flower magnets or thumbtacks, perfect for beautifying your fridge, locker, corkboard, photo board, or filing cabinet and a unique way to show thanks to your wedding party. $9.75 Classy Tacks www.etsy.com/shop/EbidebAndMe

Custom Name Rings: These sterling silver custom rings are a perfect touch for the sentimental bride. Can be done in chosen fonts or your own handwriting. Finish rose gold, silver or gold. $28 Caitlyn Minimalist www.etsy.com/shop/CaitlynMinimalist Pencil Pouch: This pencil pouch from military spouse owned R. Riveter is made with durable waterproof duck material and the perfect gift for your bridesmaids to help keep their special items separated in their purse. $35 www.rriveter.com

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PLANNING FOR

Mother Nature

(WHETHER SHE’S INVITED OR NOT!)

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oday’s brides and grooms are increasingly interested in outdoor weddings. Being outdoors gives a sense of relaxation, freedom and visual excitement that four walls just can’t match.

Declaring your vows and saying “I do” with a slight breeze in the air and the sun setting behind the trees is romantic and unforgettable.

Having your wedding outdoors does come with some unpredictable elements. But with a little planning and a bit of affability, nothing will stand in the way of experiencing all the best of your special day.

When choosing an outdoor venue, determine if a “Plan B” is needed in the event of uncooperative weather. Additional tenting may be necessary in the occurrence of heavy rain, storms or high winds. Consider the seasonal temperatures to determine if additional heating or cooling may be necessary to keep you and your guests comfortable.

A professional caterer will know how to handle the open air, but put yourself at ease by making sure they are familiar with the site, its specific amenities and how important it is to you that they are prepared for weather-related surprises. And talk to your photographer in advance. Discuss your backup plan and ask for suggestions in the event of poor weather conditions. Photographers often remark at how amazing photographs are in the rain. Clouds seem to filter the sun’s harsh rays and create the perfect lighting.

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You’ll also want to consider your clothing — and let’s not forget the shoes. Highheeled shoes aren’t always the best for grassy conditions, so consider going with some trendy flats. Think about the style of your gown and your comfort while mingling with your guests.

Choose lightweight, romantic dresses for the bridesmaids with lengths that won’t get caught on outdoor surfaces. In early spring and fall, you may need to add a decorative layer to enjoy the falling temperatures that arrive with the onset of the evening. And don’t forget about the man you love and his groomsmen — a traditional tux may not be the perfect option.

Remember, many types of insects are attracted to flowers, so keep your arrangements simple and elegant. In the same way bees are attracted to flowers, mosquitoes can be attracted to you. To keep them at a distance, use citronella candles and torches. They also love perfumes and colognes, so think about going au natural on the big day.

With a little planning, the unexpected becomes expected! And if Mother Nature does in fact arrive and brings an unruly guest, relax, enjoy and laugh. You have Plan B! Remember that rain on your wedding day does not mean bad luck. It simply means that the atmosphere was sufficiently unstable to support any more rising air and consequently, precipitation happens. Happy Planning!

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14 Q U E S T I O NS TO ASK YOUR CATERER

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ood and catering typically comprise one of the largest portions of a wedding budget.

Whether it’s a local vendor who provides cuisine specific to your wedding theme or a full-service caterer equipped to help make your day seamless, asking the following questions can help to ensure your wedding food and reception will be unforgettable for you and your guests: Do you specialize in a certain type of food or serving style? Whether you’re looking for a certain serving style or a specific cuisine to coordinate with your wedding theme, it’s important to find out how your caterer typically handles receptions. Ask if menus are set or if there’s the option for customization.

Can you make a family-favorite recipe for our reception? Some caterers are willing and able to recreate the dish on a large scale for all of your wedding guests if you provide them with the recipe.

Have you previously worked at our wedding venue? Many venues provide a list of preferred or exclusive caterers while other locations may not have any restrictions. Make sure the caterer has at least done a walk-through at the site to know how the kitchen is set up, where their staging area will be and how the reception will be laid out. And if you’re still on the hunt for the perfect wedding venue, your caterer may be able to point you in the direction of a location that can accommodate your guest list and wedding theme.

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Are you licensed and insured in the state of ___? Some venues require proof of insurance for outside vendors and/or a liquor license if there is going to be a bar. You will want to make note of this early and discuss this requirement with your caterer prior to booking.

Will someone be there to oversee the event? On the day of the wedding, it will be important that someone experienced is there to coordinate the event from set up to break down to ensure that everything runs as planned.

Can you break down the anticipated costs of our reception? It is crucial to determine what is included in the cost per person, any staffing and/or set up expenses and whether or not equipment rentals are included. When discussing rentals, be sure to inquire about color options to customize your event and match your color scheme.

What are your payment policies for deposits, cancellations, overtime and gratuity? Figuring out the company’s payment methods and policies will help to make sure you’re both on the same page when it comes to securing your wedding date, as well as financial expectations.

Do you provide any additional services to help coordinate on the day of the wedding? Catering companies vary greatly in terms of their additional services. Some are associated with restaurants and/or specific cuisines and provide food service only. Others may act as full-service caterers who provide optional services such as

event coordination and/or design, as well as assist with finding and booking other vendors, such as florists, DJ’s or bands, photo booths and chocolate fountains.

Can we provide our own alcohol? Is there a corking fee? If your venue and/or caterer allow you to provide your own alcohol, stocking your own bar can be a great cost-saving solution. Just make sure to ask about any fees that may drive up the cost.

Is the wedding cake included in our package?

Some catering companies provide beautiful and delicious wedding cakes that are perfect for couples who appreciate a good “one-stop shop.”

But if you have a specific baker in mind, be sure to address this early in the planning. If you are providing your own cake, ask about a cake cutting fee so there are no last minute surprises.

What is the usual ratio of staff to guests? The answer depends on the size of the event, serving style, menu demands and equipment needs.

However, by asking up front, you’ll have an idea of what to expect and understand how the caterer works to ensure a smooth dining experience for all of your guests.

Is it possible to set up a tasting? Most catering companies provide some sort of tasting experience for their clients either prior to booking or before the event to finalize your menu choices. When arranging your tasting session, inquire how many food options will be available, if there are any associated costs and how many guests can participate.

When do you need a final head count? This will help you to determine when you need your RSVPs so you have time to contact any stragglers and submit your final numbers to the caterer in time for preparation for your event.

What happens to the leftovers? Unfortunately many couples do not get the opportunity to enjoy as much of the delicious food because they’re so busy mingling with their guests.

Having the catering team package any leftovers for you and your new spouse is a great way to make sure you get to have your cake and eat it too!

Michael Evans is the owner of Helga’s Caterers in McLean. To schedule a consultation, call 703.556.0780.

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HOW TO INCLUDE YOUR

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a basic obedience test (ie: Canine Good Citizen(CGC)) they may have the obedience and ability to perform during the ceremony.

Typically, a well-trained family pet needs several weeks of specific training to conduct a few simple tasks during the ceremony. Two of the easiest would be an escort of a groomsman or bridesmaid, a Ring Bearer or Flower Girl.

Both only expect your pet to follow five or six basic commands (sit, down, wait/stay, come, heeling/walking, focus, and hold/carry)

Another consideration would be an outfit and wearing a pillow or carrying a basket.

Prepare your dog ahead of time if you expect them to wear special attire or have additional weight on their back. Start simple, a bandana, harness or dog clothing. When your dog is accustomed to wearing different types of clothing, transition them into their attire for the event or wearing a pillow.

have icing and a similar design to the wedding cake, but they’re made with dog-friendly ingredients. Most bakeries should easily be able to make something for you.

Getting Groomed

While you probably expect your wedding party to get their hair and nails done before the big day, don’t forget about your pet! Take them to the groomers for a fresh bath and cut.

Here are some basic tasks that your dog will need to know for their prospective roles:

1. Ring Bearer/Flower Girl: • • •

Prepare, prepare, prepare.

Your setting and event play a huge part of your success on the big day. There may be 100 people, and countless new sounds and smells that your dog will need to ignore.

Start to take your dog and train in every dog friendly environment in which you have time and access. Treat every new or old training environment just like the big day. If your dog is not very social to people or exciting situations, don’t expect them to fake it on the big day.

Make the training as fun and enjoyable for you both as possible.

Have an exit plan in place.

Arrange to have someone who is not a guest at your wedding come and take them as soon as the ceremony is over, or as soon as they finish walking down the aisle. You don’t want to have to worry about your dog at the reception. If you want your dog to stay, be sure you have that designated person on hand for bathroom breaks, etc.

But if you do bring your pup to the reception, get them a cake.

A lot of people will get their dog a special cake from a doggie bakery on their wedding day to make sure that they also have something special happening. They look like regular cakes, they

Carrying the rings or flower petals during the ceremony Walking with an usher or escort while carrying a basket or wearing a pillow Coming down the aisle unescorted. A controlled recall or ‘come’ command while carrying a basket or wearing a pillow

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Escorting the wedding party to their position at the altar The dog takes the position of an usher, escorting a bridesmaid or groomsman The dog will be handed off to the designated person who will maintain control of them for the duration of the event.

3. Groomsman/Bridesmaid: •

The dog is escorted to their position and remains standing or sitting during the entire ceremony. (This would require the most training and preparation.)

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AllSeasons P

erhaps the biggest decision you’ll make in regards to your wedding – besides the engagement itself, of course – is your venue. By locking down a location, you’re also making a final selection on your date, and therefore, your wedding season, which is a huge step toward hosting your nuptials.

As with all aspects of your event, the decisions that you make will have their benefits and consequences, and this notion is particularly the case when the timing of your vow exchange is concerned. You may have your heart set on having your celebration during a certain month, but it’s important to do your research on what problems you may encounter before you sign that contract.

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Choosing the perfect season for your wedding reminds us of the scene in Grease 2 (if you have not seen it, we suggest that you do!)

‘A Girl for All Seasons.’ For the talent show, the Pink Ladies dress for each season in a sort of calendar girls walk the runway skit. With that in mind, we’ve gathered a list of the main pros and cons of each season as it relates to your wedding to help you make this appropriate choice!

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PROS: The natural beauty. It’s a time of rebirth, and Mother Nature does not take that lightly.

Think of the abundance of bright blooms and

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CONS: It’s peak wedding season. Because the timing and weather come together quite nicely, spring is often thought of as “wedding season.” This means that prices will be higher and vendors will be more difficult to book.

Allergies are in full swing. If you manage to avoid the April showers, you could still be caught up in the midst of annoying allergies.

Stuffy noses and lots of sneezes don’t make for the best wedding atmosphere.

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Minimal décor required. The changing leaves, rich colors and organic splendor of this season can make up about half of your planned decorations — especially for a bohemian or rustic-chic celebration.

CONS: • Finances could be tough. This is notably the time of year when budgets are a little tighter. In the aftermath of summer vacations and anticipation for the holidays, both couple and guests alike may find this a hard time to shell out extra money.

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PROS: Extended celebrations. Those long summer nights make for great party-til-dawn receptions, as the sun sets much later and the climate stays mostly mild in the evening. You have the option of a much longer wedding.

The most theme options. This season is typically the most friendly toward every kind of concept you can think of – minus a snowy wedding, of course. Everything from rustic chic to garden party to ballroom glamor to tropical fun is up for grabs.

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greens – all highly photographable with the soft lighting of spring!

Timing will be ideal. There aren’t many major holidays, and people are less likely to be taking any vacation during the spring, other than parents taking children on trips during their spring break. Hopefully, this will ensure maximum attendance from your guests.

CONS: Difficult to beat the heat. In most places, the scorching summer sun could pose a major problem for any outdoor element of your big day. In some places, this can limit you to an entirely indoor celebration!

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barns and lodges will have been booked up long in advance. Additionally, you may feel that your theme has been overdone by the time November rolls around.

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There’s such a sense of romance. Tying the knot around the holidays – or even in January or February when it’s still crisp and cold – can be so lovely and warm. What better feeling to have while celebrating your commitment to one another?

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The most limiting time of the year. You will find that a winter wedding doesn’t allow for much flexibility. Due to the cold, you’ll likely have to be indoors, which can limit your concept options drastically. Additionally, due to the holidays, the beginning of a new semester, and Valentine’s Day, your available dates are also quite limited.

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WEDDING WORD GLOSSARY

ARBOR: An arch of branches, vines and/or flowers that the bride and groom stand under to say their vows. Also sometimes called a “wedding arch.”

• BUSTLE: Fastening the wedding dress in back to lift the train off the ground. This is usually done for the reception to allow the bride to move and dance more easily. Bustling the dress is often accomplished with hidden buttons, hooks and/or strings.

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DAY-OF PLANNER: A wedding coordinator who works with you primarily on the day of the wedding to make sure everything goes smoothly (as opposed to a full-service planner who works with you throughout all of the months leading up to the wedding).

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DESTINATION WEDDING: A wedding that takes place away from the couple’s home.

Often, a destination wedding takes place in a dream vacation spot.

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ELOPE: Long ago, eloping meant getting married without telling your family, usually because they didn’t approve. Now, eloping has evolved to mean any wedding that takes place with only the bride, groom and officiant.

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ESCORT CARDS: Cards that display the guest’s name and indicate the table they have been assigned for the reception.

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GRAND ENTRANCE: The moment when the bride and groom are announced and enter the reception. The grand entrance often leads directly into the first dance.

• PROCESSIONAL: The part of the ceremony in which the wedding party and bride walk down the aisle. This can also refer to the music that plays during this time.

• RECESSIONAL: The part of the wedding in which the newly married couple, followed by the wedding party, walk back down the aisle after the ceremony.

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SIGNATURE COCKTAIL: A specialty drink chosen just for the wedding. The recipe or name often has meaning for the couple.

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STATIONERY SUITE: All of the stationery for the wedding: save-the-dates, invitations, RSVP cards, envelopes. This is sometimes also called an “invitation suite.”

• TABLESCAPE: The arrangement of the place settings, centerpieces, table numbers and other decorations on the reception tables.

• TROUSSEAU: The clothes, linens and other items that a bride saves for her wedding and new married life. Often includes pretty lingerie.

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TRUNK SHOW: A special sale where wedding dress designers travel to a store and offer their gowns directly to the customers. It often includes a discounted price or the ability to purchase gowns that are not otherwise available.

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sually, when someone asks you to name a brand you love you immediately think of a company or logo. But a brand is so much more than just a logo! Along with design elements, a brand encompasses a feeling, a personality and values. The features that make a brand cohesive are things like a logo, fonts, color schemes, textures and even sounds.

A wedding is supposed to represent you and your partner as a couple. Branding your wedding boils down to paying attention to the details. We all know that it’s not necessarily the biggest budget weddings that are the most beautiful or memorable, but rather the ones that let the couple shine, and personal touches help do this. Here are some things to think about when deciding on a wedding brand.

Looks & Mood: Determine how you want your wedding to look. When you close your eyes and picture your big day are you making a grand entrance in a princess gown with heaps of flower petals strewn along the aisle or do you see yourself and your fiancé holding hands at the beach with your closest friends and family? You can boil this vision down to a phrase for easy communication such as “rustic villa” or “intimate beach” etc.

Colors, Patterns, & Textures: Now that you have an idea of what your wedding looks like & have your vision pared down to your keywords, you can determine colors, patterns, and textures. This is where inspiration boards come into play! Look for color palettes and patterns that really speak to you and work well with your ideal venue. Colors and patterns can set the mood and tone so choose wisely!

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Logo & Motifs: Your save-the-dates and wedding invitations are the first things your guests see, so it’s essential to work with your invitation designer in customizing the look of them. Some couples love the monogrammed look, and others prefer custom drawings or a symbol that represents their unity or wedding theme. Whatever you choose, use it throughout your wedding!

Fonts: Fonts are essential when branding your wedding. Pick them early, use them on everything, and don’t change your mind. You

should choose two or three fonts to use on everything (with your logo or motif) from your save-the-dates, wedding day programs, menus, wedding website, RSVP cards, escort cards, custom bottle labels, favor tags, and all the way down to your thank you cards. Using the same (and appropriate fonts) for these elements will help to tie everything together and add personal touches to all the little details that make your wedding yours.

Details: This is where you work with your wedding vendors on bringing your wedding brand to life. Show them your inspiration board, your fonts, your save-the-dates and invitations and go from there. Your florist will recommend flowers and textural details that will

compliment the look you’re going for, and your wedding stylist will help pull it all together and make it look fabulous.

Talk to your caterer about a signature cocktail in a color from your chosen palette Think about ordering cocktail napkins that include your wedding logo or motif. Select menu items that reflect your keywords from step 1 like ‘hearty and rustic’ or ‘elegant and refined,’ etc. And of course – the wedding cake is often a centerpiece so don’t forget to make sure that it reflects your brand as well. Sound is another branding element that shouldn’t be overlooked. (Last sentence seems to end article abruptly after introducing a new topic. bridesandweddings.com |

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Facility

Sep.Ceremony Area: Outside Space: Dance Floor: Changing Room: Caterers Permitted: Guest Rooms:

Menu Price Range: Seating Capacity:

Reception & Rehearsal Guide COUNTRY CLUBS Chantilly National GC: Pg. 3 $$$ 160 Y Y Y N N NB We schedule only one 14901 Braddock Road, Centreville wedding a day, allowing 703.631.8560 us to focus all of our www.chantilly-national.com attention on you!

Laurel Hill Golf Club: Pg. 27 $$$ 150 N Y Y Y BC NB 8701 Laurel Crest Drive Lorton 703.493-8849 ext. 2221 fairfaxcounty.gov/parks/golf/events Piedmont Club: Pg. 3 $$$ 200 Y Y Y Y E NB Affordable, elegant 14675 Piedmont Vista Drive receptions. Ask about Haymarket special savings on 703.753.5922 ext. 225 select dates. www.piedmontclub.com $$ 300 Y Y Y Y E NB River Creek Club: Pg. 2 43800 Olympic Blvd., Leesburg $$ 703.779.2022 www.rivercreekclub.com

Breathtaking views of the Potomac. Classic elegance, fine service and exquisite cuisine.

Stonewall Golf Club: Pg. 21 $$ 150 Y Y Y Y N NB Flagstone patio 15601 Turtle Point Drive overlooking Lake Gainesville Manassas, perfect 703.753.6156 for ceremony or www.stonewallgolfclub.com cocktail hour.

Twin Lakes Golf Course: Pg. 27 $ 200 N Y Y Y CR NB

6201 Union Mill Road Clifton 703.324.9701

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RESTAURANTS 2941 Restaurant: Pg. 22 $$ 200 Y Y Y Y N NB Wonderful food from 2941 Fairview Park Drive our awarded Falls Church chef. Lush landscaping, 703.270.1601 koi ponds, waterfalls, www.2941.com world-class artwork,

and a lakeside view.

The Conche: Pg. 37 $$ N Y Y N OS NB To Come 1605 Village Market Blvd. SE Leesburg 703.779-1800 www.the-conche.com

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Nearby . . . . . . . . NB Ethnic . . . . . . . . . . E On-Site . . . . . . . . OS Tented Patio . . . . TP

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$101-$125 . . . $$$$ $126 & up . . $$$$$

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Under $50 . . . . . . $ $51-$75 . . . . . . . $$ $76-$100 . . . . . $$$

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Hilton Garden Inn Woodbridge $$$ 180 N N Y Y E OS Onsite catering, per Pg. 33 person, all-inclusive 2500 Neabsco Common Place, pricing, complimentary Woodbridge honeymoon suite, 703.590.2500 complimentary use www.woodbridge.hgi.com of breakout room.

Holiday Inn $$ 150 Y Y Y Y E OS From beautiful room Washington Dulles: Pg. 29 TO décor, delicious menu 45425 Holiday Drive, Sterling 300 options, and dressing 703.480.7443 room packages, we www.hidullesairport.co have truly thought

of it all.

The Hotel at the $$$ 1200 Y Y Y N OS OS University of Maryland: Pg. 29

7777 Baltimore Ave., MD 301-277-0777

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BED & BREAKFAST/INNS Briar Patch: Pg. 31 CR 200 Y Y Y Y BC OS Plan a countryside 23130 Briar Patch Ln. Middleburg wedding weekend at 703.327.5911 our historic B&B. www.briarpatchbandb.com Poplar Springs Inn & Spa: Pg. 15 $$ 100 Y Y Y Y N OS 170 natural acres. 21 5025 Casanova Road, Warrenton $$$ room Inn. Full service 540.788.4600 Spa w/salt water pool. www.poplarspringsinn.com One stop - catering;

pastry chef; minimal/ no rentals required.

FARM/BARN WEDDINGS Farm Brew LIVE: Pg. 25 $$$ 162 Y Y Y N OS NB 9901 Discovery Blvd, Manassas m.arnest@VillagioGroup.com

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Sep.Ceremony Area: Outside Space: Dance Floor: Changing Room: Caterers Permitted: Guest Rooms:

Menu Price Range: Seating Capacity:

Reception & Rehearsal Guide HISTORIC PROPERTIES Oatlands Plantations: Pg. 18 CR 250 Y Y Y N RL NB 20850 Oatlands Plantation Lane Leesburg 703.777.3174 www.oatlands.com

Two beautiful tented spaces; elegant gardens for ceremonies & cocktails; stately mansion and rolling vistas for photo ops.

Morven Park: Pg. 23 $ 2- Y Y Y Y PL NB 17195 Southern Planter Lane 600 Leesburg 703.777.2414

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Waverly Mansion: Back Cover $$$ 150 Y Y Y Y N NB Celebrate in beautiful 2300 Waverly Mansion Dr., wooded areas and Marriottsville MD gardens and beneath 301.572.7744 the gorgeous silk-lined www.historicwaverlymansion.com tent.

Historic Rosemont Manor $$$ 200 Y Y Y Y RL OS Center: Pg. 41 540.955.2834 www.rosemont1811.com

Manassas Park Community: CR 200 Y Y Y N Y NB Budget friendly Center: Pg. 51 wedding packages!

703.335.8872 www.manassasparkcommunity center.com

MUSEUMS, GALLERIES, ART CENTERS Hylton Performing Arts Center: CR 300 Y N Y Y BC NB Rich colors and interesting Pg. 1 architecture throughout 10960 George Mason Cir., Manassas the building provides 703.993.9344 stunning settings for www.hyltoncenter.org photos.

WATERFRONT WEDDINGS Anchor Inn: Back Cover $$$ 175 Y Y Y Y N NB The perfect intimate 7617 Water Oak Point Road, Chesapeake Bay wedding Pasadena MD venue, surrounded by 301.572.7744 water on three sides. www.anchorinnmd.com

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Nearby . . . . . . . . NB Ethnic . . . . . . . . . . E On-Site . . . . . . . . OS Tented Patio . . . . TP

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Sep.Ceremony Area: Outside Space: Dance Floor: Changing Room: Caterers Permitted: Guest Rooms:

$101-$125 . . . $$$$ $126 & up . . $$$$$

Menu Price Range: Seating Capacity:

Under $50 . . . . . . $ $51-$75 . . . . . . . $$ $76-$100 . . . . . $$$

Celebrations at the Bay: $$ 300 Y Y Y Y N NB This all-inclusive Back Cover $$ beautiful Chesapeake Bay 2042 Knollview Ave, Pasadena MD waterfront venue is the 301.572.7744 perfect backdrop. www.celebrationsatthebay.com Harbour View: Pg. 9 CR 320 Y Y Y Y PL NB Unique events on the 13200 Marina Way, Woodbridge river’s edge. Special 703.910.4273 incentives for select www.harbourviewevents.com

dates.

ACROSS THE RIVER (The) Villa: Back Cover $$$ 300 Y Y Y N N NB Two beautiful ballrooms, 4060 Powder Mill Road, award-winning catering Beltsville, MD and planning. All- 301.572.7744 inclusive packages.

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edding stationery may seem like a minor wedding detail, but it is actually an important part of your overall event concept. Wedding stationery is a couple’s first opportunity to delve into the “personal branding” of their big day.

Sounds overly serious and corporate? It isn’t.

Personal branding just means that the engaged couple is closely planning the overall look and concept of their wedding day, and that they are making sure that every aspect of the day is appropriate and recognizable. Read more about branding your wedding on page xx.

Generally speaking, the “save the date” cards are a wedding guest’s first glimpse into the style and personal branding of the engaged couple.

These are traditionally sent out very early (well before the invitations), making it critical for the bride and groom to develop their personal branding well in advance. For example, if a

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bride and groom are planning a lush, tropicalthemed wedding featuring hot pink and orange flowers and exotic palm trees, the save the date cards should reflect this look. In this instance, sending out sleek black and white save the date

cards will not help to build the excitement surrounding the event like theme/color–based ones could.

Of course, not every wedding has a theme but the overall look and vibe must still be considered. For example, before ordering stationery consider the following: Color scheme: Be sure the wedding stationery reflects the exact color scheme of your event.

Everything should tie together flawlessly.

Font: Be choosy about your font. Fonts have the power to create a mood and a style. Some are fun and whimsical, others are elegant and simple.

Formality: Your stationery should give guests a clue about your event. A beach wedding should have beachy wedding stationery. An elegant black tie affair should have traditional and classic stationery.

Texture/fabrics: Many couples are now using wedding stationery with a bit of texture, whether it be upscale fabrics or eco-friendly recycled papers.

Personalized touches: A popular trend is to incorporate personal photographs into the wedding stationery. Use a fun engagement picture on the save the date cards.or thank you cards, pose on the day of the wedding holding signs that say “Thank” and “you!” for an adorably stylish and thoughtful touch.

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edding cakes are a centerpiece for the reception — they balance a bridal couple’s style, palette, theme and creativity. And couples are now mixing tradition with contemporary elements to create unique designs. Here are some helpful tips when choosing your wedding cake.

Find your comfort zone: It’s important to be comfortable with your wedding cake vendor, whether it’s a full service bakery or dedicated wedding cake specialist. You should be offered a consultation where you are able to taste various flavor combinations, browse through a portfolio of their work and begin to create your cake.

Celebrate with style: Gone are the days in which wedding cakes had to be round and covered with a thick white icing with

tons of piping. Brides and grooms are now incorporating color, shapes, sugar flowers, height and even cupcakes. Consider having a square cake with each tier slightly off-set and decorate it with very delicate piping to highlight the squares like custom gift boxes. Think about using taller round cakes with vibrant-colored sugar flowers for extra height and attention.

Defy gravity with a “topsy turvy” cake that looks ready to topple over. Try adding brushed embroidery to a traditional round cake to awe your guests. Or change things up a little and make each tier a different shape, color or design. Have some fun with cupcakes and create a cupcake tower with a small cake on top for tradition. Create your own statement!

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CAKES WITH STYLE—CONTINUED Look good and taste good: The wedding cake is usually one of the first items guests see when they enter the reception.

They admire it all evening and, finally after much anticipation, get to have a slice.

Make those bites memorable — the cake should taste divine! Ask when your cake will be baked to ensure freshness. Use seasonal flavors such as mango with fresh berries (summer), pumpkin or apple spice (fall), peppermint or gingerbread (winter) or carrot or lemon (spring).

You can even mix up some classics to create your own combination. Try a vanilla sponge cake layered with chocolate ganache and raspberry mousse topped off with vanilla whipped cream, or a devil’s food cake with chocolate buttercream filling and iced with vanilla buttercream. Or surprise your guests with red velvet cake filled with Chantilly cream and fresh strawberries! Different tiers can be different flavors to make for variety. And for your guests with special dietary needs, there are bakers who can make sugar-free, gluten-free and even vegan (egg and dairy-free) cakes!

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The “icing on the cake:” Fondant is dough-like icing made with sugar, glucose and glycerin. Because of the ingredients, fondant is usually a very sweet icing. It is beautiful for covering cakes because of its ultra smooth and glossy finish. Fondant is also great for designs involving draping, hand painting, brushed embroidery, stenciling or embossing. If you are not using those elements, most skilled cake decorators are able to achieve a smooth, almost fondant-like look using a soft icing such as whipped cream or buttercream.

Groom’s cakes: Most people think of the bleeding armadillo cake from the movie Steel Magnolias when they hear “groom’s cake.” While you may want to tease your new husband, you can also surprise him with a special cake made with just him in mind.

If he is a huge football fan, have the baker recreate his favorite team’s helmet. For the avid fisherman, how about creating a bass boat? You can also recreate his night out with the boys with a complete poker table. This cake can be served alongside the wedding cake, or at the more intimate rehearsal dinner.

The final touches: What will you do with the top tier of the cake? Think about using some fresh or sugar flowers to enhance the colors and design of your wedding cake.

Monograms are also very popular, as are the traditional bride and groom. And the details don’t stop there. Once the cake is delivered to your reception site, how will it be displayed?

Cover your table with a beautiful linen and complementary overlay. Elevate your cake and place some votive candles around for ambiance.

Or how about flooding the table with rose petals? Your wedding cake vendor will help you find the best way to highlight your cake.

Remember to choose a reputable cake professional who you are comfortable with, one who can accommodate your needs and will not be affected by weather, staffing or “Plan B” on your special day. Keep all this in mind as you prepare to eat (cake), drink, and be married!

Emily Wu and her sister Victoria are the owners of Cakes by Happy Eatery, a full service bakery.

To see their cake designs and learn more about the bakery, visit www.cakesbyhappyeatery.com.

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xcited about rehearsing that new “first dance” choreography you learned but have no room to practice? For about $10 an hour you can practice in one of the many professional studios around the area. Here are some tips to help ensure a pleasant environment and allow you to feel comfortable practicing in the studio.

• If space allows, dancers should set up speakers and use mirrors at opposite corners of the studio; once all four corners are full, fill in the middle sections. Rent space during non-peak hours (anytime before 6 p.m.) if you are practicing tap or flamenco, drumming or other loud percussive dances.

• Use earphones — especially if you need to play music loudly or nonstop and when directly next to ongoing lessons. Be mindful of volume levels and speaker location/angle. Turn your music off when not dancing to minimize the overall noise in the room.

• If you are beside a privacy/noise-dampening curtain, assume that your neighbors expect you to use it or switch places so they can take advantage of this amenity. Check with the office about if/when the curtain can be used. Ask permission before adjusting the teaching environment.

• Due to the close and direct contact nature of the dancing, use sanitizer or wash hands frequently. Don’t leave your belongings around the studio to “save” a space indefinitely. Let your neighbors know when you plan to return.

By using common sense and good etiquette, you’ll create a fun practice environment.

Remember, successful practice will help you shine in the wedding day spotlight.

Deborah Joy Block is the owner of The Wedding Dance Specialists. To learn more about wedding dance bootcamps and lesson packages, visit theweddingdancespecialists.com.

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“Planning a wedding is one of the most stressful things I have ever done. The best advice I can give is don’t try to please everyone, do what will make you happy when you look back on this day. Also, don’t sweat the small stuff. There will be a few things that don’t go right on the big day, so just try and go with the flow and have a good time!” —Allison H “The two best tips I received was that no one else knows what you wanted to plan so if it doesn’t happen it’s OK because no one knows it was supposed to happen and at the end of the day the only thing that matters is that you get to marry your best friend. Enjoy it all and don’t let the little things hold you down!”

—Mandy J

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“Soak it up! I paid way too much for a veil and then forgot to put it on for the ceremony.

These things happen and you won’t care in the moment, you will just be floating and enjoying the moment.” —Erin M “Make your wedding about you and your groom. Everyone loves to chime in with their ideas, but it’s really about you two. When all of the glitz and glamour is done, and your special day is over, it will just be you and your new husband.” —Erin R “We planned every second of the day, and were ONLY worried about poor weather. Guess what? It was supposed to be a gorgeous fall day, and instead, it was freezing, it poured and hailed. But, it was still the most beautiful day.

Truly try to enjoy every moment, and keep in perspective that it’s just the first of the rest of your very best days.” —Cait B “Enjoy the process and start early! Plan for extra expenses and don’t take it too seriously.

At the end of the day, no matter what goes wrong (and something will), you will be married to your best friend.” —Remington J

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BRIDES & WEDDINGS: Three words that describe your wedding:

MODERN, TIMELESS & CHIC

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Real Brides & Weddings

Chelsea and Mo met while attending Marshall University in Huntington, WV. Chelsea saw him while out one night and tried to grab his eye to no avail. She knew he was the one and told her roommate that he was he man she was going to marry...although she did not even know his name!

A couple of weeks went by and they ran into each other again, they had mutual friends so were able to be introduced and started dating! After graduation, they relocated to Washington, D.C. which was Mo’s hometown. After a few years of dating they purchased a home and Chelsea officially became a Washingtonian. That Christmas, they went back to her hometown in Ohio to visit family. Christmas morning Mo popped the question in front of the whole fam and recorded the occasion. Chelsea says when she watches the video she loves hearing her grandparents reaction to the proposal...and that is her favorite part! Chelsea recently spoke with Brides & Weddings and we interviewed her about her planning experience and her wedding day!

BRIDES & WEDDINGS: What was your theme? What inspired you to pick that theme?

BRIDE: Like every little girl, I have always dreamed of my big day. The dreamy white dress, the bouquet of flowers, my perfect man standing at the end of the aisle. As I grew up,

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the vision changed and evolved. From growing up in Ohio and West Virginia, I was accustomed to the simple, small town lifestyle, until we made the big move to Washington DC – a metropolitan hub of politics, class, and glam. Mo and I had talked about a downtown DC wedding. I searched and searched for over a month in the city, but couldn’t find a venue that felt right to us. Ultimately the balance between my small-town life and our big-time city life was what gave us the perfect vision for our perfect day. Blending both of our styles – modern yet classic chic with a twist of rustic was going to be a challenge, so we started there.

With Mo leaving for a 3-month long training across the country, this gave me plenty of time to begin the planning process. I met my mom and our family friend in Charlottesville, VA for a winery hopping girls trip. I had never been and it was conveniently a mid-way point between DC and my hometown in southern Ohio where my family lives. The first winery we stopped by was slightly north of Charlottesville in Madison, VA –Early Mountain Vineyards. Within 5 minutes I knew this was the place! The style and vibe fit Mo and I perfectly. The rolling foothills of the Blue Ridge Mountains were stunning and it kept us close to DC. Mo saw a few pictures and was immediately on board. We booked EMV that day, for November 11, 2016.

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BRIDES & WEDDINGS: Describe your dress and how you knew it was the one.

BRIDE: I knew finding THE gown was going to be difficult. I loved so many things about so many different dresses. I knew I wanted to be different yet classic. I went to Bridal Beginnings in Pittsburgh, PA. We were there for hours with the sweetest girl, named Sarah.

I made sure to try on every style that interested me. I thought I had it. I ordered an all lace gown with sleeves, but when I went home, I immediately cancelled the order. It just didn’t feel right. At that moment, I realized that I had underestimated the task of finding THE dress.

I went back to see Sarah for a second day of shopping. She pulled a 2017 Atelier Pronovias crepe satin, long sleeved, backless dress (style– Ivania) and I knew my search was over. The venue played a huge role in choosing the right gown. I could see myself in this dress standing next to Mo with the foothills and vines behind us. My vision was coming true.

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BRIDES & WEDDINGS: What were your favorite details?

BRIDE: The day was filled with beautiful moments I will cherish for life but nothing beats walking down the aisle to the man of my dreams with my #1 guy, my dad. In that moment, what I’ve always dreamed of was coming true. We savored each step because we both knew it was the one and only time we would get to do this - so surreal and unforgettable.

I found an amazing jewelry designer named Andrea of Helena Noelle Couture through Etsy.com. She designed my earrings and belt to achieve the glamorous look I envisioned. I loved them so much I had her design my mom her own earrings and bracelet for the big day. It was so great working with Andrea to pin down the exact details and to give my mom a keepsake she will cherish forever.

My dad needed cufflinks for his tuxedo. I was shopping around and came across the sweetest custom cufflinks. Each one was made with pictures of me from when I was little. One had my first day of kindergarten and the other picture was from my first birthday. They brought tears to everyone’s eyes when I gave them to him during our first look.

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REAL BRIDES & WEDDINGS—CONTINUED I put together gift boxes for my bridesmaids to open during breakfast on wedding day. I included my favorite pictures of each girl, a spa kit, lip gloss, mini wine bottle, stemless flute for the mimosas with their name painted in gold calligraphy and their earrings for the day. It was pure joy seeing their faces as they opened their boxes.

I most enjoyed the meaningful details we were able to add. I carried my great-greatgreat grandmother’s cameo next to my greatgrandmother’s brooch attached to my bouquet and wore my grandma’s rose gold and chocolate diamond ring. Mo and I had recently lost our grandfathers. it was important to us to have a remembrance table on display with our favorite pictures of all our passed loved ones.

BRIDES & WEDDINGS: Do you have any advice for other brides planning their wedding?

BRIDE: My advice to other brides is to start the dress search early. It may take longer than you expect and take the venue into consideration. Hire a videographer and savor each moment. Before you know it, it’s over. We wish we could do it all over again, times 10.

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Labella Bridal Boutique:

A Premier Choice H

ave you recently gotten engaged and are starting to plan the all-important parts of a dream wedding? We sat down with Ellalyne Brayman of Labella Bridal and she detailed some of the elements that make her bridal shop stand out above the rest. First, we discussed the shop’s name, Labella Bridal. Brayman decided on this because Labella means ‘beautiful’ in Italian. “When I was doing modeling in Italy, it was a word I heard all the time and could see how good it would make women feel,” she says. “And that is the feeling I am trying to recreate to this day. It’s a very humbling experience to work with women, and help them reach a certain level where they can look at themselves and think to themselves ‘labella.’”

Brayman says, “Additionally, we pride ourselves on customer service. As we like to say, we are here to serve, not to sell. Our appointments are a minimum of one hour long and completely one-on-one with the bride. We don’t let our appointments stop once she leaves for the day; we like to follow up with her over the following weeks to make sure she is not too overwhelmed.”

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A PREMIER CHOICE

Another key component to the success of Labella Bridal is its location. Located in Occoquan, it’s nestled between wine shops, small cafes and the river. The picturesque setting couldn’t be more perfect. A little dress shopping, a little wine tasting and a nice lunch—sounds like a win-win to us.

“Occoquan is a wonderful town to be in because it allows us to have formalwear, but not an intimidating storefront,” says Brayman about why Occoquan is ideal. “It’s right on the water, and is kind of a hidden secret. There’s a quaint charm here, and everyone knows each other. There isn’t that competition with neighboring businesses that you might feel in city areas; instead we all work together on referring customers to one another.”

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And speaking of storefronts, have you noticed their elegant windowscaping? She explains, “It really is a team effort, especially when we get in new dresses. If there’s a holiday or season we want to celebrate, we plan all the windows to match accordingly, and sometimes add in hanging decorations.

Sometimes you get so into decorating one window, you forget about the other three and then have to match those as well. It’s a lot more work than people might expect.”

As if you needed more reasons to visit Labella Bridal, they recently added on an additional bridal room with three more dressing rooms, so now they can carry a wider selection of bridal sizes. “We are also adding

new formal dresses and accessories every day. Recently, we got in a new line of sweet sixteen and Quinceañera dresses. We’d like to add more, but they sure take up a lot of space. Right now we are focused on spreading the word about our store and helping every customer that walks in that door,” Brayman says with a smile. Labella Bridal is located at 313 Mill St., Occoquan, VA. Lisa Collins-Haynes is a wife, mother and international travel writer. Her life’s tagline is “Living a liberated life of leisure.” She holds a Master of Business Administration degree. Follow her on Instagram @living_a_ charmed_life. bridesandweddings.com |

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Select your wedding fashions from the finest bridal salons in Northern Virginia. Gowns, bridesmaids dresses, formal wear, accessories and shoes — it’s all there at your full-service independent bridal shop. For a custom-designed gown, check out the area’s bridal fabric retailers and designers. And don’t forget to shop for your trousseau!

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Amy’s Bridal Boutique 9082 Center St., Manassas (703) 490.2697 amysbridalboutique.com Ann’s Boutique 5709 Burke Center Parkway, Burke (703) 250-3100 annsboutique.com Anna’s Bridal Spot 8804 Pear Tree Village Ct, Alexandria (703) 360-4272 annasbridalspot.com Best Bridals & Tailoring 4300 Chantilly Shopping Center, Chantilly (703) 378-3222 bestbridalsva.com Bobbie’s Bridal Boutique 11258 James Swart Circle, Fairfax (703) 273-2629 bobbiesbridal.com Bridals by Natalie 705 King Street, 2nd Floor, Alexandria (703) 751-8620 bynatalie.com Ellie’s Bridal Boutique 225 North Washington St., Alexandria (703) 683-8697 elliesbridal.com Eternity Bridal Boutique 6531-A Little River Turnpike, Alexandria (703) 354-9330 eternity-bridal.com Global Bridal Gallery 687 South Washington St., Alexandria (703) 739-2743 globalbridalgallery.com Gossypia 325 Cameron St., Alexandria (703) 836-6969 gossypia.com Katherine’s Bridal Boutique 3104 Duke St., Alexandria (703) 370-8922 katherinesbridalboutique.com

Labella Bridal & Consignment Boutique 313 Mill St., Occoquan (703) 494-2929 labellabridalboutique.com Le Reve Bridal & Tuxedo 213 Loudoun St., SE, Leesburg (703) 777-3757 lerevebridal.com Leesburg Bridal & Tuxedo 705 East Market Street, Suite D Leesburg, Virginia 20176 (703) 777-8822 leesburg-bridal.com Macy’s Bridal Salon

by Demetrios Tysons Galleria Mall, McLean (703) 902-4330 demetriosbride.com Metropolitan Formalwear Fair Oaks Mall, inside of Sears (202) 390-6633 metroformal.com Rosalin’s Bridal Boutique 706 S. Washington St., Falls Church (703) 532-0288 rosalinsbridal.com Soliloquy Bridal Couture 754 Elden St., Suite 103, Herndon (571) 449-2580 soliloquybridal.com Tang’s Alterations 8675 Sudley Road, Manassas (703) 393-8458 www.tangsalterations.com Trousseau 306 Maple Ave. W, Vienna (703) 255-3300 trousseaultd.com White Swan Bridal 425 Maple Ave. W, Vienna (703) 255-9032 whiteswanbridal.com bridesandweddings.com |

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amy’sbridal YOUR ONE-STOP SHOP

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t’s that time of year when our Facebook timelines are flooded with pictures of brandspanking-new engagement rings and status updates screaming, “I said yes!”

Are you one of the lucky ones who updated your status recently to engaged? If so, time is of the essence once you set a date — and Amy’s Bridal Boutique is waiting to serve you.

“Why should I consider Amy’s Bridal?” you may ask. Well, for starters, it’s been a staple in the community since August 2008 and has developed into a one-stop boutique for all your wedding needs. Amy Domenech, the owner, has thought of everything and eliminated a lot of unnecessary steps in the process. Amy’s Bridal Boutique has the resources and capabilities to take care of you, the groom and the bridal party.

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“My boutique has all sorts of things to offer,” Amy says. “I love many aspects of weddings and we are ever changing. Wedding gowns are my specialty. However, we also offer bridesmaids dresses, tuxedo rentals, gown preservation, accessories, photo booth rental, wedding planning, coaching and day-of coordinating. If I don’t have it or offer it, I have an amazing network of professionals that I can refer you to.”

Now that you know why Amy’s Bridal is the place to start for your wedding day planning, you may wonder what kind of experience you can expect when visiting the boutique.

“My brides should look forward to a quaint, low-key personal experience. We do kindly request and recommend that you schedule an appointment. I prefer to see one bride at a time.

It’s a great time, no pressure. I am very fair and I run an honest business. We operate by the Golden Rule, ‘Do unto others as you would have them do unto you,’” explains Amy. She goes on to say, “My mission is to change the way things are done in my corner of the world.

Having experience at other bridal salons, as both a consumer and employee, I just always felt there had to be a better way. A way to simplify the process, remove the ‘stuffiness’, and value the clients that are keeping your business in existence.”

As we chatted a little more with Amy, we asked her what the upcoming trends would be like for this wedding season. She was a wealth of information and shared some industry hot tips and nuggets of knowledge with us. Brides can expect to see more low and sexy backs with lots of details, flirty-layered skirts, soft feminine lace, plunging necklines and even more color for 2017. Bridesmaids: Stella York just introduced a beautiful deep burgundy. The metallics dresses are hotter than ever with the release of a long sleeved version! Tuxedos: I’m seeing lots of fitted styles and maybe even more grooms opting for a wedding suit instead of a tuxedo. There you have it ladies — some real insider information that will keep you looking classy, fabulous and stylish on your wedding day.

As you’re making your decision on dresses and the details, Amy offers some valuable advice to all brides. She wants you to remember to keep an open mind. The gowns look ridiculous on the hangers. Don’t pass them up just because it’s not something you had envisioned. Try them on!

Wedding dress shopping is unique. More often than not, women walk away with something they would have never thought of wearing! Also, do not fall for the pressure sales! There is nothing worse than a bride’s buyer’s remorse! Sleep on it, think about it, and pray about it, but whatever you do, buy with confidence! That’s a refreshing piece of advice and something you don’t hear every day from salespeople; but that’s just another reason why Amy’s Bridal Boutique is such a special place. They have an amazing wow factor and it’s customer service! Brides continually share their experience with family and friends, and Amy explains that’s why her word of mouth business is so strong. “More and more people are choosing Amy’s because when you’re here you’re family. You will never be a number, and you will always be celebrated in my boutique,” she says with pride.

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Tuxedos 101 WEDDING

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nce you have picked your wedding colors and the groomsmen for your wedding party, it is time to select tuxedos. Finding tuxedos for your wedding party is an easy item to check off your to-do list, and gives your groom a pivotal role in the wedding planning process.

Most tuxedo shops work with out-of-town wedding members; don’t let that be an excuse for tardy measurements. Here’s a crash course in Tuxedos 101 to ensure you pick the right look for your wedding party.

For starters, have all of your men measured as soon as you pick out the tuxedos. (The ring bearer should wait until one month out to ensure his growing body fits his tuxedo).

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LESSON 1: TUXEDO JACKETS

When selecting a tuxedo jacket, pay close attention to the number of buttons and the lapel. Basic styles will have between one to three buttons. Two-button styles are most common due to their ability to look great on a number of body shapes and sizes. The most common lapel choices are notched and peak.

Peak lapels are very popular on the red carpet right now but notched lapelsare still most common in weddings. Next, pay attention to the detail on the coat. Traditional black is most popular followed closely by a shadow stripe detail. Chocolate tuxedos have emerged in full force and gray tuxes have also recently become

popular. Sand is another color option and is great for beach weddings!

LESSON 2: SHIRTS

When selecting a shirt, pay attention to the collar. A laydown collar is most common with a long tie but the wing collar is also an option e. You also usually have the choice of a white, ivory or black shirt.

LESSON 3: TIES

When selecting a tie, you must choose between a bow tie or long tie. The long tie, typically a Windsor (typical suit tie) instead of an ascot, is the most popular choice.

Traditionally most long ties worn for weddings are solids but now many offer striped and other patterns.

LESSON 4: VESTS

Most vests are 5 buttons and are either a fullback or bib style. Bib styles work well with some jacket styles. Some wedding parties are opting for patterned or metallic vests, designed to coordinate with bridesmaids’ dresses.

Cummerbunds are a less popular choice, but they are usually available in a limited color selection.

LESSON 5: OTHER ACCESSORIES

Shoes and cufflinks are also commonly included with tuxedo rentals. Be sure everyone in your party rents shoes to keep a consistent look. A mixture of patent leather and matte

finish shoes will be noticeable by your guests and visible in pictures. Pocket squares that coordinate with the vest and tie are also a popular accessory that finishes off a tuxedo.

LESSON 6: THE RULES

All tuxedos should be rented from the same vendor. Any man who will be in many of your wedding pictures should be in a tuxedo to ensure a consistent look across your wedding party and in the pictures you are taking to create memories. This means if grandfathers will be in many of the pictures, they should wear a tuxedo, too. It is a good overall look for any man with a role in the wedding to be in a tuxedo.

The groom’s vest, tie and shirt color usually match the bride’s dress color, usually white or ivory. The groomsmen’s vest and ties match the color of the bridesmaids dresses. The ring bearer matches the groom or flower girl. The ushers, fathers and grandfathers typically don vests and ties in black or silver. This is to avoid too many different colors in a small group. Again, think of how the wedding photos will look.

Traditionally, the bride and groom request that each groomsman pays for his own tuxedo.

Be sure to make this clear to groomsmen so they are prepared when they are asked for payment during their initial measurment.

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THE SHAPE OF

KNOWING YOUR WEDDING GOWN SILHOUETTES

By Lisa Beth Miller

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o, you are engaged and ready to shop for the perfect wedding gown. You arrive at your very first appointment at a bridal boutique and the consultant suggests that you try on classic wedding gown silhouettes. I know…you are thinking, “Ugh. I already know what I want! Look, I have a huge pile of pictures of my favorite dresses!”

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try on formal wedding gowns throughout their lives, most do not actually know what gowns will work with their body type. As you look through your huge pile of pictures of gowns that appeal to you, try to keep in mind that the model wearing the gown in your beloved pictures is most likely almost six feet tall and around a size 2. Be sure to give yourself the chance to find a dress silhouette that is perfect for your own size and shape!

Let’s look at the four silhouettes that your consultant may show to you:

A-line

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This style is slim on top, fitted through the waist, and softly flares away from the body.

This style tends to be universally flattering, as it creates an illusion of a small waist!

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Ball Gown

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Studios

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The fullest, most formal style—a traditional ball gown features a boned and fitted bodice and a full skirt supported by layers of crinoline.

The shape here is similar to A-line but is fuller and more structured.

Extremely petite brides could be overwhelmed in this style.

Empire

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This style features a high waist that hits under the bustline. The look is elegant, youthful, and comfortable.

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Mermaid

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This style hugs the torso then flares out from the knee or just below. This style works well for short-waisted brides.

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Be open to trying these different silhouettes! Brides are quite often surprised to find out that a style they had not considered is actually the most flattering option on them!

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BRIDESMAID DRESS SHOPPING

By Lisa Beth Miller

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our bridesmaids are your closest friends and family members, right? Then you need to be sure that being your bridesmaid is a happy experience!

Every bride has a dream for her big day, but there are definitely ways to make your vision and your bridesmaids’ comfort level combine flawlessly!

STEP 1: The color should be the bride’s choice.

The hue selected for the dresses will set the tone for flowers, groom accessories, invitations, table linens, and the cake. Most girls can wear a flattering shade of most colors and look completely presentable. Neutrals and medium tones are easiest to wear, but pastels are workable in summer months for most complexions.

STEP 2: Dress length should be based on the formality of the event and the bride’s preferences.

STEP 3: Dress style is the area where the bride should work with her bridesmaids. If there are just a few, bring them all along on the shopping trip! It is perfectly acceptable for your girls to get different styles of dresses in the same color and fabric! Let the girls pick styles they feel pretty and comfortable wearing. Trust us, your pictures 94 |

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will look fabulous (and your bridesmaids will be SMILING)!

STEP 4: Shop in boutiques that offer personalized service. Especially important to your bridesmaids are group discounts (who doesn’t LOVE bargains?), expert alterations, and fun accessories.

Be picky!

STEP 5: Don’t stress too much about matching shoes. Give your girls simple instructions such as “silver strappy sandals” or “black heels”. Girls know shoes, and they know what they can handle wearing for an entire day!

STEP 6: When things get stressful, remember that being a bridesmaid is supposed to be FUN!

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Drama-Free

BRIDAL ATTIRE CHECKLIST B

ridal attire is more than just a gown. This handy checklist, courtesy of Trousseau Ltd., will keep you – and the ladies who play a key role in your wedding day – looking great from head to toe.

Personal Attire: o Tiara, Hairpins, Headband or Comb o Bridal Veil o Bridal Jewelry o Garter o Bridal Foundation Bustiers and Shapewear to Look Your Best! o Hosiery o Shoes o Handbag or Make-up Pouch o Handkerchief o Gloves o Wedding Night & Honeymoon Lingerie o Get fitted with Trousseau’s Bra Expert

Bridal Attendants:

o Foundation o Dyeable Shoes and Handbag o Jewelry o Hair Ornaments

Mothers of the Bride and Groom:

o Foundation o Dyeable Shoes and Handbag o Jewelry and Hair Ornaments

Stationery:

o Save the Date Cards o Wedding Invitations o Thank-you Notes & Personal Stationery

Bridal Accessories: Guestbook and Pen Ringbearer Pillow Cake Knife and Toasting Flutes Lucky Sixpence

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WHATS A

Mother to Wear?

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owadays, the role of the mother of the bride is changing. She is a fashionable woman who not only wants to express her personal style at her daughter’s wedding, but also wants to make a fashion statement, feel comfortable, and shine like the star that she is on this special day.

Mothers (of the bride OR groom) are cherished guests of honor and often hosts of a wedding.

They are NOT required to wear dresses to match or coordinate exactly with the bridesmaids!

They should also never be pressured to wear beige or to “blend into the background.” Mothers deserve to look their absolute best on this very important day. Here are a few guidelines for dress shopping for mothers: The mother of the bride no longer has to wear a gown that sweeps the ground. Now, more than ever before, the mother of the bride is free to try different lengths. Wide varieties of hemlines are definitely available! The key is to select a length that feels both appropriate and comfortable.

Traditionally, the mothers of the bride and groom coordinate their dress lengths. However, they are not required to copy the length selected by the bridesmaids.

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• Mothers should not be afraid to have fun with color! Style consultants at a full-service boutique are always happy to assist mothers in selecting just the right color to compliment her features. Mothers are not required to match the wedding party (they are not senior bridesmaids!) but they should wear flattering tones that compliment the overall look of the big day.

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selected that material. People often expect to see lace on the bride’s dress, but a huge trend (thanks in part to Kate Middleton) is for the mother of the bride to wear dresses with lace accents as well. A simple dress with a lace jacket or lace sleeves can be both stunning and appropriate. Other moms may choose to wear a flowy chiffon gown, or a short satin cocktail dress. It is all up to the mother!

• The mother of the bride can wear a strapless dress, a halter, or another type of neckline she chooses. Mothers should feel perfectly comfortable wearing the styles they love!

Jackets and wraps are options, but not required. The mother of the bride should be elegant and fashionable at her daughter’s wedding, and she should always express her true self!

Six-Nine Months Prior to the Wedding

It is time to get measured, as well as time to think about colors and designs. Talk with a style consultant at a local boutique to find out which type of dress will best fit your body type and flatter your skin tone.

Three-Five Months

Decide on a final dress and have it ordered if necessary.

One-Three Months

Have the final fitting of the dress and any alterations made if needed.

When shopping, mothers are often unaware of how long it can sometimes take to order a dress and have it expertly altered. Here is a quick timeline for the moms!

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Hair Trial

Wedding

ftentimes, something that gets overlooked while prepping for your wedding day is your hairstyle. While you may be combing Pinterest and finding cute ideas from our “Real Brides & Weddings” features on the blog, you may not be thinking about a wedding hair trial. Talk with your stylist ahead of time and plan out a trial appointment to try different looks. You may be surprised to find that the style you choose does not look like you expected!

On the day of your hair trial, bring anything you think will help your stylist understand the looks you love or the style of your wedding. Bring the veil or any hair accessories you plan to wear. Have a friend take a photo of you in your dress at a fitting. Bring a color swatch if you have it and even bring the style you are wanting your bridesmaids to have. All of these things can effect the overall look of your bridal beauty plan.

Your Hairstyle Should Complement Your Overall Look

Look for options that complement your neckline and bodice of your dress. Also, don’t forget to wear makeup unless your stylist will be doing that in the trial as well. Not only do you want to see your hair and makeup together, but you will be staring at yourself in the mirror for a couple of hours and will want to put your best face forward!

Bring Accessories

There are so many great hair accessories available now to add a gorgeous accent to your wedding hair. It will depend on the look you’re going for. For a more classical look, you might want to wear a Swarovski crystal brooch. Jeweled barettes can be great as well. Some trending items at the moment are floral crowns, headbands and pearl pins.

Try Multiple Styles or Something New

Your hair trial gives you the chance to live with a look and discover whether you feel comfortable with it. If your hair artist suggests looks that you hadn’t considered before, don’t feel pressured to follow their advice — but while you have their expertise at your fingertips, you may as well give it your consideration.

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Make Sure Your Bridesmaids Match

Tell your stylist the options you are planning for your bridesmaids if you are doing matching hairstyles. This will help determine the best look for your style. If you want all your wedding party to have the same look, you may want yours to be the opposite.

Document the Day

Be sure you have someone taking photos of the styles so you can reflect on them later. A lot of planning and decisions will happen in between your hair trial and the actual day of! You don’t want to forget your perfect hairstyle!

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Rescue TO THE

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o matter how organized you are and how much planning you’ve done before the wedding, you should always expect the unexpected. And an emergency kit for your wedding day is the best way to prepare.

If building your own kit, start at least two or three months before the wedding so you can gather the items over time. This allows you to consider the possible needs of your close friends and family. Designate someone to be responsible for the emergency kit, bringing it from location to location and keeping it readily available.

Suggested emergency kit items:

• Band-Aids • Blotting papers • Bobby pins • Bottle of water • Clear nail polish • Deodorant • Nail file • Feminine products • Hairspray • Hand lotion

• Hand sanitizer • Lipstick or lip gloss • Mints • Pain reliever • Q-tips • Safety pins • Small lint brush • Super glue • Tissues

• Tums/Rolaids • Sewing Kit with scissors • Granola bars or other easy-to-carry snacks • Straws (you don’t want to mess up your lipstick) • Chalk, tied for easy packing, hides scuffs and marks on white leather and fabrics.

You will also want to make a list of items to carry in your purse.

• Cell phone • Mirror • Handkerchief or tissues • Nail file • Lip gloss or lipstick to match makeup • Perfume One of the great advantages to hiring a day-of coordinator is the extensive emergency kit this professional brings to every wedding. Your coordinator will carry glue and staple guns, floral wire, hundreds of safety pins, fasteners, packing tape, lighters, scissors and more – there is nothing the kit can’t handle!

So remember, either put your emergency kit in the hands of a professional or start putting yours together early and you’ll be prepared for anything!

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YOUR BEAUTY TIMELINE T o help you plan for hair and makeup, here’s a timeline for looking, booking and getting ready for your big day:

6-12 MONTHS: Read reviews of local hair stylists and makeup artists. Be sure to ask your wedding vendors for recommendations — bridal salon staff and your photographer are great resources. Bridal shows are also a good way to find beauty professionals and often provide an opportunity to see their work. Book your hair stylist and makeup artist as soon as possible – especially if you are getting married during a popular month like May or October.

Early booking will mean less stress later!

3-6 MONTHS: This is the time to book hair styling and makeup trials. Go over your vision for your hair and makeup with your professionals. Try all your options and take pictures. If possible, book your appointments on a day when you can try on your gown, so you can see your complete look. To help things run smoothly the day of your wedding, keep these timeframes in mind: Bride’s hair and makeup: Allow 1-1/2 hours for your styling. This gives enough time to get it right and to make any tweaks from the trial run. The bride’s makeup should be applied while her hair is being set or after her hair is finished.

Bridesmaids’ hair and makeup: Each bridesmaid should allow 35-40 minutes for her hair styling and the same amount of time for her makeup. Hairstyling can range from just a few minutes for a simple primping to an hour or more for an intricate up-do.

It is better to overestimate how much time is needed. This allows for different styling choices and last minute add-ons.

YOU’RE BEAUTIFUL,

embrace it!

Makeup Artistry available for you and your party.

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WEDDING FLOWER REALNESS

Photo by Mat and Ash Photography

Photo by Mat and Ash Photography

Enjoy this collection of beautiful wedding flowers. Recently featured on our blog, these bouquets and blooms all came from recent, real weddings. Visit our website to see more real weddings and get inspiration for your day.

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Photo by Perfectly Paired Photography

Photo by Jamie Marie Photography

Photo by Perfectly Paired Photography

Floral CHECKLIST

To keep you on track with your floral needs, here is a brief checklist: r Bride’s Bouquet r Maid/Matron of Honor Bouquet r Bridesmaids’ Bouquets r Flower Girl’s Bouquet or Basket r Floral Headpieces r Hostesses’ Flowers r Mothers’ & Grandmothers’ Corsages r Fathers’ & Grandfathers’ Boutonnieres r Groom’s Boutonniere 104 |

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Best Man’s Boutonniere Ushers’ Boutonnieres Ring Bearer’s Pillow Ring Bearer’s Boutonniere Altar or Chuppah Flowers Aisle or Pew Decorations Reception Room Flowers Head Table Centerpiece Guest Table Centerpieces Cake/Buffet Table Decorations Toss Bouquet

MULTI-CULTURAL

MARRIAGES ere in ethnically diverse Northern Virginia, H multi-cultural marriages embody the best of customs and traditions. Here are just a few:

CHINESE

The color red is considered a symbol of happiness and luck. It is often used on invitations.

GREEK

The bride carries a lump of sugar to ensure a sweet life. Ivy in her bouquet represents endless love.

HINDU

Prior to the wedding day, the bride is tattooed with henna on her hands and feet, known as Mehndi. She wears a red sari embroidered in gold to symbolize abundance and fertility.

PERSIAN

During the ceremony, married women place a white satin cloth above the couple’s heads. Two cones of sugar are placed in the cloth and rubbed together to represent snowflakes of sweetness and joy.

LATIN-AMERICAN

A cord called “el lazo” is placed around the couple during the ceremony, signifying they are bound for life.

ITALIAN

On her wedding day, the bride does not wear any gold as it is thought to bring bad luck.

JEWISH

At the end of the wedding ceremony, the groom breaks a napkin-wrapped wine glass under his foot as remembrance of the destruction of the Holy Temple in Jerusalem.

AFRICAN-AMERICAN

To pay homage to ancestors from days of slavery, couples “jump the broom” to sweep away the old and embrace the new. bridesandweddings.com |

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To First Look or not

To First Look

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o first look or not to first look, THAT is the question.

“First look” is a term that has developed in the modern age of wedding photography to describe the moment when a bride and groom see each other on their wedding day before their ceremony. Whether or not to have a first look is a decision that many couples struggle with.

In the past, the groom waited to see his bride on the wedding day until she walked down the aisle. This tradition originated with arranged marriages. When a couple was chosen for one another they were not allowed to see each other until the ceremony so that they wouldn’t have the chance to back out once they saw what each other looked like. Eek! Not the most romantic origin! Even though couples marry for love today, some still like to uphold this tradition. But more and more couples are deciding to spend more time together on their wedding day … which means seeing each other before the ceremony.

Here are a few reasons a first look may be a great choice for you and your partner: 1. You get a chance to connect with one another before the craziness of the day takes over.

2. Your stress and anxiety are dissolved before the ceremony.

3. Portraits will be as quick and painless as possible.

If you see each other before your ceremony, you can get all of your formal portraits out

of the way so that you are free to do what you and all your guests really want to do after the ceremony —celebrate and enjoy your cocktail hour/reception! Consider these two options.

Portrait schedule if you see each other before your ceremony: • 2.5 hours before ceremony: First look and Bride & Groom portraits alone together • 1.5 hours before ceremony: Portraits with bridal party • 1 hour before ceremony: Portraits with families • 1/2 hour before ceremony: Completely done with portraits as your guests begin to arrive—giving you time to go inside & freshen up.

Portrait schedule if you don’t see each other before your ceremony: • 1.5 hours before ceremony: Portraits of Bride with bridesmaids • 1 hour before ceremony: Portraits of Groom with groomsmen • 1/2 hour before ceremony: Temporarily done with portraits as your guests begin to arrive—giving you time to go inside & freshen up.

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WEDDING GALLERY

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WEDDING GALLERY

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CAPTURING YOUR STORY

By Marianne Weaver

“I am there to capture their story,” he said. “There isn’t one moment that I’m looking for. There are the obvious shots, but I also want to find something unique to the couple. My favorite moments are the emotion-filled shots, like when the father sees his daughter for the first time, or when the groom and bride lock eyes as she comes down the aisle.”

Jinks, based in Dumfries, Virginia, started shooting weddings in 2012. But, he said, his love of photography dates back much earlier.

“I grew up enjoying cameras and shooting with my dad,” he said, noting that he got his first DSL when he was 16. Although he knew he wanted to do “something” with photography, he went to Geneva College in Beaver Falls, Pennsylvania, and majored in music and business. While there, he took a photography internship with the school’s public relations department.

“I learned from their photographer,” he said. “I took any assignment I could get: football games, band concerts. And then a friend asked me to do their wedding.”

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CAPTURING YOUR STORY From there, he was hooked.

“I do events and portraits, but weddings are 90 percent of my business,” he said. “I love the creative freedom. The stories are always different.”

Sometimes he’s inspired by a beautiful venue, such as the Mill at Fine Creek in Richmond that was built circa 1730.

“I love mountains,” adding that he has returned to shoot many weddings in the Shenandoah Mountains, where as a child he hiked with his father and first fell in love with photography. “There are some amazing vistas.”

But, he added, no matter how amazing the location, his goal is to capture the couple’s story.

“The reason I love wedding photography is the because of the people,” he said. “Every couple, every story is unique. It is literally history in the making.”

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Why a DJ?

n today’s world of MP3 players, smart phones, Bluetooth speakers and streaming services, why hire a DJ? It’s a common question that’s being asked more and more.

Here are a few reasons why a DJ still has an important place at your event: • A DJ will interact with you and your guests and adjust the playlist accordingly to get folks dancing.

• A DJ is the master of ceremonies who makes those important announcements and, along with the event planner and venue staff, keeps the reception moving.

• Choosing a DJ is less expensive than renting a professional PA system.

• DJs come with backup equipment – does your rental?

• Professional DJs carry liability insurance.

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The equipment is managed by a professional so you don’t have to ask a friend to be a part of your reception by manning the music.

Do your research to get an idea of what a DJ costs and then plan it into your budget. Meet with potential DJs in person. There are different personalities that do not come out over a phone and you want to make sure that you fit together.

Have everything in writing and a contract to protect both parties. And be sure to ask your other vendors for recommendations. They see – and hear – a lot of DJs. Joe Peralis is the owner of Firedog Entertainment, a full service company offering DJ services, custom lighting and photo booths. To learn more visit www.firedogdjs.com.

DJ & Master of Ceremony Lighting Design Photo Booth Video Montage Photography by Marirosa

Image: Butterfly Photography

Because YOU’RE that important.

571.248.1126

WWW.FIREDOGDJS.COM

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Paradise Found

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omance, romance, romance – whether it’s found in an exotic port of call like Costa Rica or Fiji, a history rich experience in Paris or Greece, or our own tropical delight of Hawaii, you’ll find paradise in one of these locales for your honeymoon or destination wedding. Let one of these travel professionals help you plan that trip of a lifetime! Images provided by Power Trips Travel and Divine Destination Weddings & Honeymoons.

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Maldives

A chain of 26 atolls and over 1,000 islands in the Indian Ocean, the Republic of Maldives is one of the most sought-after tropical destinations in the world. With world-renowned diving sites and resorts that are the definition of luxury, the country offers the perfect combination of relaxation and adventure. Add to that a true left-the-real-world-behind feeling, and you have yourself the vacation dreams are made of.

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Iceland

Jamaica Ever popular, Jamaica still takes the top Carribean destination as the number of visitors rise each year. Enjoy your pick of all inclusive resorts and a host of outdoor activities with breathtaking views.

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Be it smart marketing or its otherworldly appearances on Game of Thrones, Iceland is having a moment.

Nicknamed Europe’s prom queen, the country has only 334,000 residents but 1.76 million annual visitors. If you’re curious to see what all the hype is about, splurge on a pair of winter coats and turn up the heat.

Rome

Belize

Rome’s visitor numbers hit record highs in summer 2017, and the momentum shows no signs of slowing thanks to new flights and high-profile hotel renovations. Don’t miss the famous Colosseum, whose newly restored fourth and fifth levels were opened to the public for the first time in November 2017.

English-speaking Belize beckons a visit with jungles, coral reefs and low-key beaches. Don’t miss a few days in the rainforest, where adventures include tubing, hiking, caving, zip-lining and river canoeing.

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5 REASONS TO USE A

HONEYMOON TRAVEL SPECIAL IST D

ALL IN THE DETAILS: Travel is no longer simple. There are so many details that go into every trip. Your honeymoon specialist will guide you throughout the entire travel process: provide packing tips and transfer options, advise on the best excursions, tell you how to find that secluded spot at the resort, give restaurant recommendations — and even explain the rules to shuffleboard!

You Are

id you know that the services of a professional travel agent come at no cost to you? Why stress over planning the most special trip of your life? Read on and learn from Travel Consultant Sandy Pullen of Divine Destination Weddings & Honeymoons five reasons to use a professional agent:

CUSTOMIZED SERVICES: Whether you are looking for breathtaking REST ASSURED: You are your Your Travel beaches, amazing mountains travel consultant’s top priority. If or a Greek adventure, travel Consultant’s Top anything should go wrong during consultants who specialize in Priority your trip, such as a flight being honeymoons and destination changed, your professional travel weddings understand that agent is there for you! each traveler is unique. An agent’s first step will be to talk with you and SEEK A SPECIALIST: Many consultants understand your specific travel needs, interests who specialize in destination weddings and and desires, then translate them into your own honeymoons are also certified specialists for personalized travel adventure. many locations, hotels and resorts. They travel to — and around — popular spots, stay in BEST VALUE: A professional travel the rooms, eat the food and meet the staff. consultant will use industry relationships to Experience, education and continued training offer you exclusive vacation packages, amenities allow consultants to use their expertise to make and travel specials that you won’t find sure your trip turns out above and beyond what anywhere else, as well as help you get the most you dreamed it would be. value for your travel budget.

Connect with Divine Destination Weddings & Honeymoons via their website (www.divinedw. com) or call 703.282.8178.

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HONEYMOON

Checklist

AIRFARE $ GROUND TRANSPORTATION

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FOOD & BEVERAGE

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TIPS & GRATUITIES

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SIGHTSEEING $ SHOPPING $ TOTAL $

TRAVEL AGENCY PHONE DESTINATION

AIRLINE FLIGHT NO. DEPARTURE/ARRIVAL

CRUISE LINE/SHIP CABIN NO. DEPARTURE/ARRIVAL

Whether it’s celebrating your vows on a private beach, honeymooning in an exotic locale or simply enjoying a romantic escape, we’ll make your journey a flawless experience.

RESORT/HOTEL PHONE RESERVATIONS

Pack these essentials: r Airline tickets r Passports/Visas r Batteries/Charging unit r Sewing kit r Medicines/Prescriptions r Extra contact lenses or glasses r Credit cards r Toiletries r Electrical plug adapters r Travel iron r Clock radio, travel size r Travelers checks r Hair dryer

Your concierge travel experts

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Directory ALTERATIONS Tang’s Alterations (703) 393-8458 www.tangsalterations.com

(See pg. 97)

BANQUET VENUES

COUNTRY CLUBS Chantilly National (703) 631-9560 www.chantilly-national.com

(See pg. 3)

Laurel Hill Golf Club (703) 493-8849 ext. 2221 (See pg. 27) fairfaxcounty.gov/parks/golf/events Piedmont Club (703) 753-5922 ext. 225 www.piedmontclub.com

(See pg. 3)

River Creek (703) 779-2022 www.rivercreekclub.com Stonewall Golf (703) 753-6156 www.stonewallgolfclub.com

(See pg. 2)

(See pg. 21)

Twin Lakes Golf Course (703) 324-9701 (See pg. 27) fairfaxcounty.gov/parks/golf/events

RESTAURANTS 2941 Restaurant (703) 270-1601 www.2941.com

Brass Cannon (703) 753-6140 www.stonewallgolfclub.com

(See pg. 22)

(See pg. 21)

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The Conche (703) 779-1800 www.the-conche.com

(See pg. 37)

HOTELS

Hilton Garden Inn Woodbridge (703) 590-2800

(See pg. 33) www.woodbridge.hgi.com Holiday Inn Washington Dulles (703) 480-7422

(See pg. 29) www.hidullesairport.com (The) Hotel at University of Maryland (301) 918-5676

(See pg. 29) www.hotelumd.com

UNIQUE PLACES

B&B’S / INNS / BARNS

Briar Patch Bed & Breakfast (703) 327-5911

(See pg. 31) www.briarpatchbandb.com

Waverly Mansion (301) 572-7744

(See Back Cover) www.historicwaverlymansion.com

CLUBS & COMMUNITY CENTERS Manassas Park Community Center (703) 335-8872 (See pg. 51) manassasparkcommunitycenter.com

MUSEUMS, GALLERIES, ART CENTERS

Hylton Performing Arts Center (703) 993-9344

(See pg. 1) www.hyltoncenter.org/rentals

WATERFRONT Anchor Inn (301) 572-7744

www.anchorinnmd.com

(See Back Cover)

Farm Brew Live (540) 364-2627

www.farmbrewlive.com

(See pg. 25)

Poplar Springs Inn & Spa (540) 227-7028 www.poplarspringsinn.com

Celebrations at the Bay (301) 572-7744

(See Back Cover) www.celebrationsatthebay.com

(See pg. 15)

Harbour View (703) 910-4273

www.harbourviewevents.com

HISTORIC PROPERTIES

“ACROSS THE POTOMAC”

Oatlands Plantation (703) 777-3174

www.oatlands.org

(See pg. 18)

Morven Park (703) 777-2414 www.morvenpark.org

(See pg. 23)

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(See pg. 41)

(The) Villa (301) 572-7744 (See Back Cover) www.thevillaweddingvenue.com

BRIDAL ATTIRE & ACCESSORIES

Amy’s Bridal Boutique (703) 490-2697

(See pg. 120) www.amysbridalboutique.com

Labella Bridal & Ladies Apparel Boutique (703) 494-2929 (See pg. 79) www.labellabridalboutique.com Labella Too! (703) 494-2929 (See pg. 79) www.labellabridalboutique.com Tang’s Alterations (703) 393-8458 www.tangsalterations.com

(See pg. 97)

BRIDAL SHOWS

Helga’s Caterers (703) 556-0780

www.helgascatering.com

(See pg. 43)

CONSULTANTS/ COORDINATORS

Amy’s Bridal Boutique (703) 490-2697 (See pg. 120) www.amysbridalboutique.com Dance for Joy Events (703) 626-7016 (See pgs. 23) www.danceforjoyevents.com

Brides & Grooms Expo Bridal Show

(See pg. 112) www.bridesandgroomsexpo.com

Double Platinum Events (703) 314-2209 (See pg. 69) www.doubleplatinumevents.com

TRose International Bridal Show

www.trosebridalshows.com

Engagements by Ballestracci (540) 842-6040 (See pg. 69) www.engagementsbyballestracci.com

(See pg. 23)

Washington Wedding Experience (301) WEDDING

(See pgs. 6 & 7) www.weddingexperience.com Wedding Salon www.weddingsalon.com

(See pg. 67)

CAKES

Cakes by Happy Eatery (703) 530-8898

(See pg. 63) www.cakesbyhappyeatery.com Simply Desserts (703) 754-2257

(See pg. 37) www.simplydessertsonline.com

CATERING

Cakes by Happy Eatery (703) 530-8898

(See pg. 63) www.cakesbyhappyeatery.com Catering by Uptown (301) 572-7744

(See Back Cover) www.cateringbyuptown.com

DANCE LESSONS Dance for Joy Events (703) 626-7016 www.danceforjoyevents.com

(See pg. 51)

BEAUTY

Embrace Makeup Artistry (571) 762-0621 (See pg. 101) www.embracemakeup.com Lux Studio (703) 590-7447 (See pg. 101) www.facebook.com/luxstudio

ENTERTAINMENT

Dominion Wedding Entertainment (703) 989-1874 (See pg. 37) www.dominionweddingentertainment.com Firedog Entertainment (703) 623-7786 www.firedogdjs.com

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FAVORS

Cakes by Happy Eatery (703) 530-8898 (See pg. 63) www.cakesbyhappyeatery.com Classy Tacks classytacks.com (See pg. 37)

FITNESS

Competitive Edge Athletic Performance Center (571)398-2813 www.competitiveedgeva.com

(See pg. 23)

GUEST

PHOTO BOOTHS Dominion Wedding Entertainment (703) 989-1874 (See pg. 37) www.dominionweddingentertainment.com Firedog Entertainment (703) 623-7786 www.firedogdjs.com

(See pg. 113)

PHOTOGRAPHERS Rob Jinks Photography (703) 401-7695 (See pg. 110) www.robertjinksphotography.com

ACCOMMODATIONS

REALTORS

Briar Patch Bed & Breakfast (703) 327-5911 (See pg. 31) www.briarpatchbandb.com

Virginia Realty Partners (703) 819-8388 (See pg. 25) www.virginiarealtypartners.com

Hilton Garden Inn Woodbridge (703) 590-2800 (See pg. 33) www.woodbridge.hgi.com

TRAVEL AGENTS

Holiday Inn Washington Dulles (703) 480-7422 (See pg. 29) www.hidullesairport.com (The) Hotel at University of Maryland (301) 918-5676 (See pg. 29) www.hotelumd.com

LIGHTING & SPECIAL EFFECTS Dominion Wedding Entertainment (703) 989-1874 (See pg. 37) www.dominionweddingentertainment.com Firedog Entertainment (703) 623-7786 www.firedogdjs.com

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Divine Destination Weddings & Honeymoons (703) 282-8178 (See pg. 119) www.divinedestinationweddings.com Power Trips (703) 754-7509 www.powertripstravel.com

(See pg. 119)

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