RA Mag. 2015 Summer Edition

#1 LGBT

MAGAZINE OUTLET ON THE PLANET

NEW RELEASES

BAAAAAAABBBY LET #RAMAG TELL YOU THE TEE!

SUMMER 2015 EDITION - ISSUE 7- WWW.RAYNBOWAFFAIRMAGAZINE.COM

THE HOT SPOT

MUCH MORE!!!!

CONTENTS

COVER STORY

SUMMER 2015

l i e N c M h a S e ra y 28.

4 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

www.raynbowaffairmgazine.com ISSUE#7 SUMMER 2015 ISSUE

FEATURES 20 THE LUXE MODE

For those out there who live for them a ole nasty heel

Menswear for women, butches, studs, bois and transmen.

52

HUSTLA APPAREL

47 HAUTE BUTCH

A hustla is someone skilled at turning a profit no matter what the enterprise.

56

RICHIE SKYE

Artist, DJ, Personality and Style Pusher Richie Sky is hitting the game and with no apologies

DANNELL BOOKER

60

EDITORIAL

09 HOUSE IN VIRGINIA

11 SOCIAL MEDIA SPOTLIGHT 16 FASHION W/MEANING 18 VIRTURAL RUNWAY HOTSPOT 23

24 DIME OF QTR.

26 WHAT YOU DRINKING

INDIE FILMS 64 THE WIDOWERS

66 OUT IN THE NIGHT

32

TA’RHONDA

38

DAVIEN HARLIS

42

TOKYO STYLEZ #RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 5

47 46

2015 R E M SUM N O I T I ED 12

56

20 52 42

LOG ON TODAY! www.raynbowaffairmagazine.com 6 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

EDITOR’S NOTE What’s going on my fellow #RAmaggers? I hope all is well with you and your families. Allow me to begin by expressing my gratitude towards you all for being a part of the Raynbow Affair Magazine journey. I know there are many other things on your plate and I want you to know that I truly and wholeheartedly Thank You ALL from the bottom of my heart for taking the time to Read, Digitally Download, Tweet, Email, Instagram and Facebook #RAmag. Your continued support, commentary engagement and feedback is significant with relation to what we do and I thank you for loving us enough to engage.

This issue is for my Fashion Heads, Social Media Experts, Indie Talent supporters and all individuals in between. This issue, that I have secretly entitled “Fashion, Film and Fun” will introduce to some new things as well as some familiar things but at a new angle. Enjoy as we take you Behind the Camera with Ta’Rhonda and Serayah from the Fox Network hit TV Series “Empire.” I get up close and personal with the Brown Skinned Beauty Davien Harlis as well as I get to go beyond the music with the legend in the making known as Richie Skye.

This issue is dedicated to those who refuse to follow the Trend and strive to SET the Trend. To the ones who can understand the value in the word “Hustla.” The ones who know that your future is NOT defined by your current situation and most of all, the ones who know what it is to command attention and keep it.

It was a pleasure creating this issue for you. You know I love what I do and enjoy every minute of it. This issue caused me to sip and spill so much Tea it was crazy. True Tea however, between me and you and you ain’t heard nothing from me, my favorite cup was shared with author Dannell Booker. The book alone was a full gallon, no ice and a splash of lemon.

However, the conversation, babeeeeeeeeeeee. That was a drum with 452 lemon slices and 126 raspberries. LoL. Welcome to the Q2 2015 release of Raynbow Affair Magazine.

Enjoy your read. -DiamondKesawn, Editor In Chief.

RAYNBOW AFFAIR

OUR TEAM PUBLISHERS

VON WATTS JAMEELAH WILKERSON

EDITOR-IN-CHIEF DIAMONDKESAWN

EDITORIAL TEAM

CAROLYN WYSINGER

THAD-E K. BENNETT-EADY

CREATIVE DIRECTOR VON WATTS

PHOTOGRAPHY CREDITS DIME OF QTR.-MIKE JUE

EDITORIAL AND ADVERTISING OFFICE Indiana Office Location 7399 North Shadeland Ave Suite 299 Indianapolis Indiana 46250 Georgia Office Location 722 Collins Hill Rd. Suite H-304 Lawrenceville, GA 30046 762-233-2477 contact@raynbowaffair.com www.raynbowaffair.com The Raynbow Affair is Published four times per year digital, and 4 times per. year print.

DIAMONDKESAWN Editor-in-Chief

VON WATTS JAMEELAH WILKERSON Publisher/Creative Director Founder/Publisher

Cover and contents may not be reproduced or reprinted in any form or medium without prior written and granted permission from the publishers. Raynbow Affair does not assume responsibility for unsolicited manuscripts, photos or artwork and will only return submitted materials accompanied by a stamped self-addressed envelope.

#RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 7

MEDIA BLAST

LOG ON TO WWW.RAYNBOWAFFAIRMAGAZINE.COM FOR MEDIA BLAST FULL STORY

“Afraid” by King Cavalli

me that night, didn’t expect that from her.

(Werkkkkkkk Britney)

RFRA FIX: INDIANA

Raynbow Affair First Look

Mariah Carey- I’m not too happy with what Mariah was wearing. I mean, it was nice but she showed more than I expected her to show. (She was showing BODY by M. LoL).

Republican leaders of the RFRA (Religious Freedom Restoration Act) have offered a solution to the bitter dispute that occurred in the wake of the Indiana legistlation being signed into law by Mike Pence on March 26th 2015.

Moody & Chaplin Consulting Firm and Germaine Moody present the World Premiere music video of “Afraid” by artist/ actor/model King Cavalli.

They’re excited about his new single “Afraid” as well as his new book “24 & Divorced”. King also modeled in New York Fashion Week earlier this year in February. As a Moody & Chaplin client, we here at #RAmag along with our #RAmaggers can look forward to watching his continued success in 2015 and beyond.

BILLBOARD MUSIC AWARDS RED CARPET REVIEW The Reader Takeover

Now you know, I must always allow for freedom of expression. We are all aware that the 2015 Billboard Music Awards aired Sunday Night and the Fashion that hit the Red Carpet was that in which it was… (Did you catch it?)

I did something out of the ordinary. Instead of me giving my breakdown, I allowed for some BBMA viewers to create the #RAmag Breakdown for me. 3 people teamed up, Crystal, Mariah, and Makala. These #RAmaggers created a review that All Truth and Nothing but their Truths.

Get ready as I sit back and let Crystal, Mariah, and Makala take you on a rundown of Red Carpet Looks.

“FEELIN MYSELF” BEYONCE AND NICKI MINAJ

It’s only right that I get the sneak peek to the”Feelin Myself’ video.

I mean, come on now, I am DiamondKesawn.

LoL! In all seriousness, let me say, this is a side of Beyonce that I have never seen and babeeeeeee, it is everything…

Marriage Equality

Among other issues, attention was drawn to the fact that Indiana did not have a statewide publicaccommodation law that covered sexual orientation.

In its original form, the legislation could have legally protected employers, landlords and business owners who discriminate against the LGBT community, based on their religious beliefs.

When you add the Bangyness of the New York native, Nicki Minaj with the Southern Swag of Queen Bey you get many reasons to be feelin yourself.

However, this video brings it all to the forefront.

Swagger. Bangyness. Boss Status. You name it they give it. Ooh, and when Nicki drop to the floor and rock tap on her Poom Poom. Oh yeah, she did that.

It has been proposed that a change will take place within the bill that will not allow such discrimination.

Brian Bosma, speaker of the state House, is quoted to have said: “we value you — gay, straight, black, white, religious, nonreligious. We value each and every Hoosier.”

The bill is aiming to reflect this.

Enjoy these stills until the FULL video is released.

Don’t say I never gave you anything, LoL

BARRY MANILOW

four decades. During that time, he has not denied being gay but he has not confirmed it or discussed it publicly at any time.

THE FREAKY BOIZ #Rock to!!!!

I was just introduced to the Freaky Boiz on Twitter via their new video entitled “None.”

Let me start by saying, the name of the group intrigued me so I had to click the link. The song title left me wondering so I was forced to hit play.

Now what happened after I hit play was something I never would have anticipated.

When that fine dark skinned specimen of a man hit my screen I had to catch my breath. Chile, Beyoncé said it best when she said “Make me Lose my Breath.” I think I missed his first 8 barz from being in awe.

After I came back to reality I realized he was spittin.

I mean he was lyrically going hard as a mugg.

Hmmm, fine and got barz.

Where can I sign up to win a date?

GETS MARRIED TO LONGTIME MANAGER

Barry Manilow is a married man.

BEYONCE AND NICKI MINAJ

These are their thoughts (with my commentary): Iggy Azalea- I’m sorry but what she wore I don’t even know what to say because she could have tried a lot better than that. it just wasn’t her. (Sounds like Iggy missed their mark) Britney Spears- She looked straight up stunning. She surprised

8 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

The 71-year-old singer, who had never publicly acknowledged being gay, wed his manager Garry Kief at a surprise ceremony at his Palm Springs home.

The couple had invited between 20-30 guests to a ‘lunch’ which turned out to be a surprise wedding,People.com reports.

‘He’s at a point now where he’s got his career and personal life in a great place and he really doesn’t care what people think,’ a source tells People. ‘He’s in love and happy.’

Manilow has been a music superstar for more than

Feels Like A Dream NEW MUSIC SPOTLIGHT

L’Marco is making waves as both a visual, and performing artist.

Internationally acclaimed for his electrifying stage presence, and unique and flexible sound, L’Marco’s exciting musical methods have the entire entertainment industry buzzing. Having worked alongside numerous notable entertainers, L’Marco is now making his own mark in the worlds of fashion and entertainment.

Queen Bey Janet for Halloween

It’s no secret that Kris Kelli is one of my favorite artist.

This Yard Style Rude Gal knows how to make a track and will not apologize for being great at what she does.

I know some people are mad at the First Lady of Block Ent for hitting the scene and causing a hurricane. However, the Queen is back with her New Release just in time for the Spring season entitled “Flexxin!”

WALE ON ‘THE ALBUM GAY RAPPERS & DEALING WITH HARSH ONLINE CRITICISM

Washington, D.C. native Wale spoke to Larry on the idea of a gay rapper in today’s society, “I think 2015 is another world as compared to ’95. I mean everything is different. I’m talking about— we have a black president. I would think there would be a gay rapper before a black president.” Wale affirmed that a gay rapper would be accepted, stating “It used to be taboo to be a part of the gay community, now it’s taboo to speak bad on the gay community.”

The rapper also opened up to Larry about the stress of making an album and the effect negative internet trolls have on him, “Nobody’s skin is as thick as they portray.

Some people are good at pretending it doesn’t bother them, but some time in the day it penetrates.” On which criticism gets to him, Wale said, “Sometimes it’s people from the media, a popular blogger, it feels like the general consensus.

Psychologically, it feels like the world is at your back.”

HOUSE IN VIRGINIA

LOG ON TO WWW.RAYNBOWAFFAIRMAGAZINE.COM FOR MEDIA BLAST FULL STORY

CHAPTER 2 OF HAPPY NEW YEAR

RA hot MUSIC this issue!

By: THAD-E

“I’d rather have a house in hell or at least send him there first.”

Thinking to myself, “I’d rather have a house in hell or at least send him there first.” Breaking out of my state of shock I hung up and Left the Conversation on the balcony, along with tonight’s once very high self worth. Slowly I entered back into the Party as if nothing happened. What better way of warming the body up than with the Ultimate party starter, shots. As the minutes passed, my friends began to pick up on the behavior change going from simple Carrie to Turned Up Samantha. In the middle of my mind beginning to wander, I get a tap on my shoulder. I turn around to find myself looking at a person that made my body even warmer.

“Are you good?”

“Yeah. Why wouldn’t I be?” I asked.

“You’re taking those shots back like water chile.” (like I asked him for his opinion) “Weeeeell” I say with an emphasis on the ‘e,’ ” I thought this was suppose to be a party” “All I’m saying is keep it cute.” (Is it shade on the floor?) “ A n d , i f I d o n ’ t w h o ’s c h e c k i n g M e ? ” (dramatically looks around) “Oh aight nobody.”

As I followed the statement with another shot and happened to catch the look of confusion and disgust on his face.

My silent cry for help grew deeper and I decided to fill it with more alcohol instead of tears. I felt like it was the end of a new beginning so why not live it up. My hunger for attention grew stronger as also did my hormones began to rage. There’s was no doubt about it sex was the only thing on my mind. Searching the room like a animal in heat before I knew it Mother Nature called first. Making my way through the crowd reaching the bathroom I felt a tug on my belt loop slowly looking from the shoe up i’m greeted by a smile and a lick of the lips. I meet this greeting with “Excuse me can I assist you?” “ Yeah.”

“Umm With what?” (pulling on my belt loop again along with a head nod) “Unless you want me pee in your cup I suggest you let go.”

“Damn like that tho?”

“Straight like that.”

Storming off, I finally reach the bathroom.

However, yet again I’m stopped by the over capacity of body heat and feins lined up to catch the next line.

Looking like rush hour traffic, I’m standing in this line full of raging hormones and alcohol that is screaming to get released, it’s to a point of mind over matter as I am so ready to catch the next open slot. Finally!!!! The stall door opens. I get in allow the alcohol to be released and now back to the party I go.

WALE - The album about nothing

Coasting The floor in search of my friends, aside from the fogged vision between sweat and alcohol my phone screen becomes a puzzle.

Once I gained a little bit more control of my senses I was slightly able to concentrate and comprehend the 4 missed calls and a 2 text messages saying “We’re Leaving” then leading to “We Left.”

Awkwardly Relieved but Devastated I searched the crowd one last time to find I myself back at the bar. Before I could get the bartenders attention again I feel another tug at my belt loop. I turn around to meet the same face of the unwanted bathroom doorman I Reply; “You just don’t stop do you?”

“Not when I see something I want.”

“Don’t let your wants get you hurt.”

“Trust me they won’t.”

I turned around facing him, I pull him closer and boldly cuff a handful of his manhood and leaned in closer to his ear to reply to him “and trust me when I say your not ready.” He met my statement with “trust me when I tell you I will have your body feeling corrupt” followed by a smooth rub on the rim of cheek causing me to say without thinking, “prove it.” He grabs my hands and ushers me to the exit door and to his car. Walking out I hear a comment from someone reading our picture, they yell “They Say Gin Makes You Sin” and my silent reply was “Well Sinners Have Souls Too.”

EMPIRE- Seaon One Soundtrack

DRAKE - If You’re Reading This It’s Too Late

#RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 9

Photographer: Kayla Mills Designer: Thyy Vinci Photographer: Ariel Perry Designer: Shawn Keith 10 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

ANT’E KIRTRELL Now, let’s be clear, when I say Social Media Model i’m not talking about the person who poses in all their IG pictures and says “book me.”

By: DIAMOND KESAWN

“A model (from Middle French modelle), is a person with a role either to promote, display, or advertise commercial products (notably fashion clothing) or to serve as a visual aide for people who are creating works of art.”

When it comes to the world of Social Media there is one name common to many, Instagram. Pictures are worth 1000 words and my IG Profile has over 2000 images. With this being a fashion themed issue it’s only right that we talk about Social Media Models.

Now, let’s be clear, when I say Social Media Model i’m not talking about the person who poses in all their IG pictures and says “book me.” LoL! I’m talking about the aspiring model who is already booking shows and uses social media as a platform to grow their base and make their name known. Don’t get me wrong now, there’s nothing wrong with using your IG profile to get bookings (cough) but for this spotlight you must have a portfolio outside of you IG pics. No Shade.

Allow me to introduce you to Ant’e Kirtrell aka @Model_Ante on IG. Ant’e is a 26-year-old Model/Actor from Oxford, North Carolina. Though Oxford may be a small town, that doesn’t stop Ant’e from having big dreams. Ant’e started his career by modeling for students at the Art Institute as a test model for their print projects. Trained by Alva Page, Ant’e hit the runway for the first time in 2014 via the “Womens Empowerment” event.

With his emerging career Ant’e’ print work has been featured twice in Durham North Carolina’s Downtown Library. Ant’e has also been nominated for Best Male Model of the Region,

by Swank Fashion Magazine. Ant’e is is the definition of a model on the rise and we here at #RAmag truly applaud the dedication, drive and fashion forward thinking that he possesses.

Instagram: Model_Ante Facebook: Ant’e Kirtrel

#RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 11

SPLASH INTERNATIONAL COUTURE CLOTHING A blueprint on how your lifestyle should adapt to one’s culture.

Ready to take trendsetting to a new level, I turn to the team over at SICC for assistance. SICC is an acronym for Splash International Couture Clothing. Established in 2012, in Milwaukee, WI. This label caught my eye as they pride themselves on taking a different approach to stand out as a unique clothing line.

Understanding that SICC is not only a clothing line, however, it’s also a blueprint on how your lifestyle should adapt to one’s culture. Blending Urban Couture and Streetwear makes it easy for customers to express their greatness of style.

Creativity, Uniqueness, Originality and SelfExpressions are a few of the nouns that would describe a customer of SICC.

SICC is presented to the base via their website, blogs, social media, videos, pictures, and exclusive promotions which helps to keep customers and fans updated with the latest SICC styles. The slogan “Create Your-Own Splash” was created when SICC realized the movement of the company was based around the consumer. SICC specializes in different aspects of clothing producing men, women and children’s clothing, along with accessories.

SICC has engineered the movement and leaves it up to the consumer to engineer the execution.

In speaking with one of the owners, Brenton Prater, he advised that the company’s goal is to make Splash International Couture Clothing a brand the customer will utilize to build their own style of fashion. Make sure you link in and keep up with SICC as this is only the beginning.

12 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

#RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 13

FOLLOW THE MOVEMENT https://twitter.com/Sicc_Apparel https://instagram.com/sicc_apparel/

Here’s a new element for the #RAmag family! They say a picture is worth 1000 words. Take a look at the picture above and tell me what it says to you. What words come to mind as you evaluate the simple yet perplex image? Tell me the story that this image has inspired.

#AgainstAllOddsRealness:

The Significance behind “Fashion with Meaning & Purpose” By: Kimberly Bennett-Eady

A

fter a Twitter Valentine’s Day “love fest” between Raynbow Affair Magazine’s Editor-inChief, Mr. Diamond Kesawn and myself; he (in his humorous wit & insightful wisdom) gave me the compliment of, “... serving that #AgainstAllOddsRealness.” His flattering remark was in direct response to how, I refuse to allow my illnesses (Scleroderma & Pulmonary Fibrosis) the power to dominate, compromise & govern the integrity of my “slayage.” Being “chronically i l l ” i s a l l c o n s u m i n g ; i t ’s 365 days a year without any interruptions - 366 days, during a leap year. Literally, there are no days off. Furthermore, it’s rather unpredictable. On any given day you may be faced with a crisis (extreme pain/overwhelming fatigue). Having a “full-time affliction,” can engulf one’s entire spirit/being; which may result in the individual possibly suffering from low self-esteem. Moreover, some individuals may have physical limitations, i.e. loss or weakening of limbs, limited range of motion, possibly loss of hair, or compromised vision; or they just may not have any allotted time to pamper their personal beings.

In spite of having the aforementioned autoimmune diseases; I have an unwavering determination to hold on to some sense of ‘normalcy.’ I’ve always been a beauty & fashion enthusiast! I LIIVVEE for getting all dolled up into my persona of the “(Brokendown) Black Barbie.” Trust, I’m not a ‘Transformer’ or a ‘Deceptacon’ (these terms are urban colloquialisms used to describe a person who is considered unattractive; however through the wonder & skill of “makeup sorcery,” in addition to, “trickeration” (yes, this is a made up word)– the individual is now considered gorgeous, with the assistance of Instagram filters).

I’m attractive with our without makeup.

However, when you’re constantly confronted

with the physical reflection of your illness(s) every single time you look in the mirror; you begin to realize you’re literally wearing your disease. That can be taxing on even the most confident individual. With that said, I’d prefer to “stay beat & fashionably fierce.”

Even while I’m fighting that good fight – you know, the ultimate one, as in - - TO LIVE! It was because of the very deep Twitter exchange, Diamond Kesawn gave me the focus and motivation to delve in and explore this topic in depth – “Fashion with Meaning & Purpose.”

The Fashion Industry, is a multi-billion dollar a year global business.

The revenue gained from constructing, manufacturing, producing and selling mass quantities of garments and accessories is far cheaper to create than what it’s ultimately sold for; (in some cases inflated market fixed prices) within major department stores, retailers and online websites. On the other hand, when you look at Fashion in terms of being an actual Institution; it’s more like a way of life. Fashion is like oxygen, we cannot be deprived of it. It’s vital to providing adequate flow into our society by nourishing trends in clothing, accessories (shoes, jewelry, handbags, etc.), as well as, beauty (hair & makeup). In today’s 21st century society, Fashion is best defined as, “the individualistic sense of artistic expression.” It displays a part of one’s personality, mood, and their ability to be versatile. One must ALWAYS A.B.S.! (No, this is not in reference to the designer.) The acronym is a cardinal rule to any fashion lover, Always Be Slaying! It’s imperative to be fashionably on point for any and all occasions. Clothing is used to speak the language of fashion; coupled with the need to appropriately cover oneself due to our societal governs. Fashion, is constantly evolving. It’s cyclical and representative

I refuse to allow my illnesses the power to dominate, compromise & govern the integrity of my “slayage.”

16 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

of the current era/decade/year/day/minute/ second. Yes, it’s all encompassing. What’s more, what was once considered ‘old,’ will at some space within the time continuum be resurrected for a new generation. The pulse of fashion is equivalent to the second hand on a watch; it ticks every second, and within in a blink of the eye, it can change. For as long as clothing has been worn, there’s always something newer, bigger and better on the cusp of changing times. Fashion is inspiring, it holds history and beauty in its construction, and it tells the narration of our respective ancestries.

Fashion is also philanthropic and altruistic.

The industry would like to personify their once ‘cold corporate identity’ by shedding that negative persona, and adopting a new layer. A more humanistic skin/quality of, “Fashion Cares/Fashion with a Heart.” Big name designers and retailers are creating partnerships with non-profit organizations.

Their goal is to give back to not just the causes; but the actual people that are in need of resources and funding. There are several different organizations some help domestic and global education & workforce initiatives.

Others, build new medical buildings to help bring access of quality healthcare to regions.

This idea of Fashion taking a stance and assuming a responsibility to help give back, build up, restore & empower individuals and communities; is something we can all be proud of, and help contribute to. So next time you’re due for a ‘closet refresh’ in the form of a new wardrobe or just a little ‘seasonal shopping spree;’ please be sure to purge your closets first. A great rule of thumb, “if you haven’t worn it for over a year, you’re done with it.” By donating the gently used or unworn garments to charities (i.e. Salvation Army, Dress for Success, Bridge to Success), and/or purchasing from retailers or websites who give a portion of all sales to organizations (i.e. Nordstrom Cares or The Fashion Project); you’re in essence, “purchasing with a purpose” and helping to change the trajectory of the recipient’s life!

#RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 17

vir·tu·al adjective COMPUTING not physically existing as such but made by software to appear to do so. “a virtual computer” synonyms: simulated, artificial, imitation, makebelieve; More carried out, accessed, or stored by means of a computer, especially over a network. “a virtual library”

The ever emerging world of Fashion is going to a whole new level when it comes to the topic of Runway shows. Recently as I was at a local Starbucks in the Atlanta area I happened to meet a young lady by the name of Annie Easton. I didn’t know it at first but Annie Eaton was going to open my eyes to a world that I had no idea existed.

Annie is the Chief Executive Officer of ATLvr. It all started with a dream to spread the love of virtual reality with others. Peter, Chief Technical Officer, has been a fan of virtual reality ever since the early 1990’s. When the reality of this technology finally reached a level where it could be accessible to mere mortals, he couldn’t wait to share the news with others. This is where Annie, Chief Executive Officer, came in. Peter shared his endless enthusiasm of virtual reality technology and applications with Annie and she was instantly hooked! From that passion, the two formed ATLvr to fill the void of a virtual reality hub on the East Coast.

Taken aback by the design of this tool and the information provided, I realized that it was too good to keep to myself. Allow me to give you the insight from Annie herself of ATLvr.

The Virtual Ru The Product

The VRunway Backstory

The Ability

The VRunway Experience

The Product VRunway is a virtual reality experience integrating a digital environment with live, 3D models. The premiere of this product features designs by Atlanta designer Leon Parham, although this program can be applied to a variety of fashion and retail settings. Each user gets to attend their own personalized fashion show as a VIP. Virtual reality consists of programs presented on a head mounted display which tracks movement so that the user gains full immersion in the virtual environment presented to them. The user gains a feeling called “presence” and feels as though they are actually there, including the ability to look around in the program in real time.

unway The VRunway Backstory I had previous experience in fashion design, but ended up taking a different professional route. Upon the founding of ATLvr, I knew I wanted one of the products to involve fashion and my passion for the industry. Peter Stolmeier, our Chief Technical Officer, had the technical input and background to make it a possibility. We worked with a local organization, Easter Seals of North Georgia, to premiere our program at their annual fashion design competition, Fashion Uncorked.

The VRunway Experience VRunway is created to give people the feeling of attending an actual fashion show. I see this as a new standard of fashion interaction. For example, if a person cannot attend New York Fashion Week, they can still attend the fashion shows as if they were there. This can open up a new world of cultural sharing and immersion, creating a more connected and experienced fashion world. The more designers that feature their collections, the larger the network becomes.

The Ability This product can be applied to any retail, fashion or product environment. Based on the client’s desires, we can modify the program to showcase each product in a branded, custom setting. For fashion applications, models are recorded in 3D, with original designs imported into the program. It is also possible to digitally recreate the models and designs if that is the route the designer would like to take.

We see this as being the new medium for showcasing a designer’s collection. As a great sales and marketing tool for the designer, any of their potential clients can experience a first class fashion show without leaving the comfort of their home, office or store.

The

Luxe Mode

For those out there who live for them a ole nasty heel, a serving shoe game or even a heartbreak heel but wear a size 10 or above the options have always been limited. One of the things I always hear is that it is very hard to have a mean shoe game if you wear a 10, 11 or 12 in a heel. Babeeeeeeee, let me tell you what’s new on the scene. Say hello to The Luxe Mode. Born and raised in South Florida the CEO of “The Luxe Mode,” Shani Smith has always been drawn to fashion. During her work at Macy’s Department stores she felt that most of the heels offered were quite standard and unimpressive. Being inspired by a bold and edgy look, daring prints and unique colors seen in magazines; she developed her extraordinary sense of style and founded The Luxe Mode.

The Luxe Mode is a unique online shoe boutique that caters to those with a love for heels, style and extravagance. These heels have been hand-selected to reflect the boldest fashion expressions and the fierce-est of shoeism. The Luxe Mode’s heels will complete ones unique style with their distinct and edgy appearance. Created with individuality in mind, they are the perfect addition to any outfit: elegant, luxurious and bold. The Luxe Mode’s appealing pumps and platforms will add confidence and a femininity to any look.

Dare to be bold and different and dive into The Luxe Mode’s fashion world of brilliant textures, unique colors and drop-dead glamour and poise. The is definately not a shoe for the weak. This is built for the one with swagger on 100, shoe game on 1 million and stride on yes Gawd…….

Peep the collection, www.TheLuxeMode.com https://instagram.com/theluxemode/ https://www.facebook.com/theluxemode

20 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

#RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 21

LGBT MUSIC, FASHION, & ENTERTAINMENT

HOT SPOT

THE

ANCHOR BAR By: DiamondKesawn Question of the day, what does tattoos, an anchor, DJ Trouble ATL, The men of “Wassup-N-Atl,” and Magic all have in common??

Answer: The Anchor Bar in Atlanta, Ga. Located at 1878 Piedmont Ave NE, Atlanta, GA 30324 in the ever so lively Lindbergh area the Anchor Bar is the place to be. Blending Tattoos and Parties, The Anchor Bar gives a new look to a night out on the town.

With its non category specific exterior The Anchor bar will have you guessing until the moment you walk in the door.

Upon walking in, you are greeted by a stylish waiting area which houses the receptionist desk. After your business friendly greeting you can either go to the right or to the left. Depending on what mood you’re in will determine which door you choose. Now listen, you know I am DiamondKesawn so naturally I had to choose both doors for $200 Alex. LoL The left side takes you to the ultra clean, trend relating tattoo parlor.

Keeping cleanliness in mind this area is very bright as the light bounces off the ultra clean white floors. The tattoo artist on site are so fine, they make you want to sin. With a perfect blend of Tatts, Sexiness, Professionalism and Swager, these ladies and gentlemen can make the scared comfortable, the weak strong and the thirsty dehydrated. LoL. Now, between me

and you, there is this one tattoo artist who has a body sculpted to sheer perfection. The way he holds the tattoo gun makes you want to get your body covered, removed then covered again. The way his muscle slightly flexes as he takes his time to ensure each stroke is one of client satisfaction. (inhales deeply) Ooh chile, I forgot where I was at.

Back to the venue, across from the tattoo chairs which sit on the left side of the polar you have an all glass area that runs the length of the room. There is no secret glass, it is clear as clear can be and allows each room to watch the other.

Walking through the right side door takes you into the Bar area.

The room has a boat theme which answers the question of why they call it “The Anchor Bar.” With a fully stocked bar, 3 VIP sections and a back patio of a perfect size

this is the place to be on a Friday or Saturday night.

Though The Anchor Bar is a primarily heterosexual venue, Friday and Saturday nights belong to the LGBT crowd. Magic Mario and the sexxxy men of Wassup-N-Atl throw a party fit for the fun, trendy, fun going, mature audience. This is the kind of party you plan for all week and you know it will give you exactly what you want. The men walking around the room make you remember that art does come in human form.

With DJ Trouble Atl on the 1s and 2s these events have a soundtrack pleasing to any ear. Did I mention DJ Trouble is FINEEEEEEE?????

Oh, I’m sorry, I mean DJ Trouble is very skilled at mixing, blending, crowd pleasing and making a party jump.

Do me a favor my RAmaggers, when in Atl make sure you check out The Anchor Bar. Stop by for a tatt and stay for the party. You never know who you may run into. #RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 23

#RAMag January 2015 PAGE 23

LEAH MARIE

DIME

RA

OF

QUARTER

THE

PHOTOGRAPHY BY: MIKE JUE INSTAGRAM @MIKE_JUE

Hobbies: Clothing Design, Cooking Occupation: Model/Singer/Brand Ambassador Favorite Movie: Head Of State with Chris Rock, i LOVE comedies Favorite Song out right now: I cant pick one paticular song, but i love Wale’s new album Favorite Attribute and Why: Being genuine. These days you dont meet genuine people very often, its rare & beautiful.

Social Media Info: Instagram: @ IAmLeahMariee Aspirations In Life: I want to inspire others. I want to be happy. So happy that it refects on to others. I believe we all want true happiness & true love.

#RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 25

WHAT YOU

DRINKING ON? By: DiamondKesawn

In the world of bartending we all know looks do matter.

This issue I get to talk to a lady who is never pressed about her looks. The Marie Effect is one of those people who wins you over with her bubbly personality and ability to make anyone feel comfortable. Her breathtaking beauty is something that is not seen everyday, and the fact that she makes a mean drink just makes it even better.

26 PAGE #RAMag January 2015

THE MARIE EFFECT Get ready to get Affected as I introduce you to “The Marie Effect” DiamondKesawn: Heeeeeeeeeeey The Marie Effect.

The Marie Effect: Haaaaaaaay, DiamondKesawn Darling.

As we both chuckle at our fun banter she sits in an ever so striking legs crossed position that just elongates her already long and lean legs. Babeeee, this girl is the one.

DiamondKesawn: Do me a favor, Tell the RAmaggers who The Marie Effect is.

The Marie Effect: I am the one. The one who models. The one who acts. The one who sings. She definitely is a master of her crafts. I also happen to bartend for fun. Truth be told, she’s the one spending the most coins! (slight chuckle) DiamondKesawn: Werkkkkkkk, Ms. Marie Effect. Come thru spending that cointage. Tell me this, in doing it all within the industry, when did you start bartending?

The Marie Effect: I started about 4 years ago. I was at a party being Marie and I made a few drinks for my friends. By the end of the night I was the drink making queen and it took off from there.

DiamondKesawn: 4 years strong and doing your thing, I have to ask. In your opinion, who make more tips, male or female bartenders?

The Marie Effect: It depends on the environment and looks. Truth be told, sometimes you make enough in a night to pay rent and other times you make enough to dream of paying rent. (Laughs out loud) The looks do matter however. The better looking the better the tips.

DiamondKesawn: Yasssssssss. Ms. Marie, if you don’t serve me my whole life in this room.

We both break out in laughter as she ever so softly moved one of her beautiful natural red curls out of her eye. Babeeee, when I tell you she is slaying my spirit in this room. She is!

DiamondKesawn: How do you juggle all that you do and still find time to bartend?

The Marie Effect: I use bartending as a networking experience and a way to have fun. I have a mobile bar so when I get booked for private events I use it as work and play. This way I never miss a beat and always keep a fresh pipeline of contacts and projects.

When you combine The Marie Effect, a Mobile Bar and a Private Party, you get the purrrrrrrrrrrrrfect experience.

DiamondKesawn: Ohhhh, that’s how you feel?

The Marie Effect: It is what it is.

DiamondKesawn: Do me this favor. The Marie Effect. In the world of all things Marie Effect, tell me this… What you drinkin on?

The Marie Effect: You sure you ready for that answer Diamond?

DiamondKesawn: Yes gawd hunni. He is ready.

A moment of silence fills the room. She sits back in her seat, give off a devilish grin and says…

The Marie Effect: I’m drinking on “The Pussy Effect.”

Babeeeeeee, when I tell you I rolled on the floor 3 times. Did 2 back flips, got my whole life then came back to the seat and said, DiamondKesawn: Do tell.

DiamondKesawn: In that case I can assume you get paid bootz, right?

The Marie Effect: I’ll let you do the math Diamond.

The Marie Effect:

2oz Jack Honey 1 part Pineapple Juice 1 Part Cranberry Juice 1 Part Orange Juice 1 Splash of Ginger Ale Put it all together and the end is gonna be what you make it…

#RAMag January 2015 PAGE 27

28 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

COVER STORY

Serayah McNeil The Triple Threat

T

hough the show airs on the FOX Network, it doesn’t matter what channel you turn to you are liable to see her face. Every Thursday our Social Media timelines are filled up as we are still in a frenzy about what happened Wednesday night on the latest episode of Empire.

You may call her Tiana, but I call her Serayah. Let me introduce you to the face behind the character. #RAmaggers, say Haaaaaaaaaaay Serayah………

“she is more than just the girl next door...”

BEHIND THE CHARACTER: Serayah McNeil

Diamond: Who is Serayah McNeil the Artist, the Dancer, the Singer, the all-around triple threat?

Serayah: I am definitely determined, very focused, innovative and creative in everything. I pull from everything. I sing and I act and I dance. I do everything artsy. That’s pretty much Serayah.

Diamond: Being the triple threat, is there a primary to what you love to do or is it just across the board hands down I am that Chick…Google me?

Serayah: Music is my first, my passion, my first love, that’s what I have been doing since I was really really young so I would say music, but I fell in love with acting.

Diamond: I heard you were a model back in the day, you have done a little print work. A birdie told me you have resume on the modeling side, Is that true?

Serayah: Yes, yes, I did a lot of modeling and print work. That’s defiantly where I started off in the entertainment business perse.

Diamond: How did it feel to be a young, beautiful, female doing her thing in the modeling world, then you get the chance to hit the Radio Disney stage?

Serayah: It was really fun and it was the first for me it was kind of a big thing. As far as performing wise it was a lot of people at the time that was in my age range that was there. It was Disney so there were a lot of kids and other groups as well but I had so much fun and it brought me into the spotlight with reference to performing and I realized how much I loved it.

Diamond: If you could re-make one of your ultimate favorite songs, which song would it be?

Serayah: That’s a hard one…. I would do a rendition of “Sitting up in my room” by Brandy.

Diamond: Since you can dance, are you a more a ballet girl, a hip hop girl, can you crunk? Tell me how you get down.

Serayah: Yeah, I’m a hip hop girl choreography type. I did study all forms of dance but I love hip hop and jazz.

Diamond: Don’t tell your mother I asked you but you know I have to ask you . Can you pop, lock and drop it?

30 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

Serayah: Yes Diamond: With Empire, how did it feel to get that phone call and hear that you were casted for this particular series?

Serayah: I mean it was surreal and sometimes it’s still surreal. In that moment I didn’t know what to think, I didn’t know how big it would be, I didn’t know to what extent it was. I was just really excited to audition for something that was on Fox. I later found out who was in it and I was like ok now I’m really nervous and then I auditioned a few times for Fox studios, Lee Daniels and the casting director and when I got the call and I was like No, me? Are you serious? I was so excited. I didn’t know what to do, what to think, who to call type of thing. It was just amazing.

Diamond: As we get to know you the person, I must make sure we make this clear. Please for me, set the record straight.

Serayah McNeil you did have a career before Empire? You did not just pop up on the map out of nowhere?

Serayah: Right Diamond: What percentage of Tiana is also Serayah?

Serayah: I would say about 50%. I am like her as it relates to the music, ambition and being a go-getter and I want to be a Pop Star, but she is a little more bold and blunt than me and she has done some things that I haven’t and will not do.

Serayah: There will be. We are hoping to have something released soon but were not sure as to exactly when as of yet.

Diamond: When it comes to Serayah McNeil what kind of a sound or what would we expect to hear from this album?

Serayah: It’s going to be something very different than the show.

I have so many different elements and genres that I love so it’s all going to be tied in, but still fun and upbeat and something you can rock to. That’s what we’re striving for.

Diamond: As we come to a close and have introduced the #RAmag base to the young lady behind the character, tell everyone how they can find you in social media?

Serayah: My Instragram is Serayah, my Twitter is SerayahLove.

Finally, we get to know the person behind the character. Whether you call her Tiana or Serayah the one thing I know you must call her is talented. Serayah is a true example of what it looks like when you combine beauty, brains, fashion, acting and music. She is Serayah McNeil.

Diamond: After becoming Tiana on Empire, did your friendship circle change or was everyone used to you being the talented girl you are so everyone just kept it as normal?

Serayah: I can definitely say my circle was small to begin with and everyone kind of knew my passion and I talked to all of my friends about what I wanted to do, what auditions I was going on so I think they are used to it but definitely they see what has changed when they come out with me and people are like Tiana, Tiana and they are like, oh my God. They are adjusting to it themselves but they have dealt with it so well and I am grateful they haven’t changed.

Diamond: What are the words of advice you have for that young girl who wants to aspire to be like you for them to stay on the path and not get caught up in the industry woes that come so easy?

Serayah: I would definitely say know your worth and realize you don’t have to take certain roles to get to where you want to be because there are too many successful woman and powerful women that have done it themselves and have taken that straight path, so just keeping that in mind you won’t get caught up in “the easy route.” Always have confidence and even on the days you don’t have the highest confidence, being able to press on and push pass certain things and not being hard on yourself, I think that is most important.

Diamond: Will there be some Serayah McNeil music outside of the Empire show? #RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 31

COVER FEATURE

TA’RHONDA “If she ain’t down than she aint brown” Im you, Im him, Im her, just call me Ms. Jones

It’s very rare that I get the chance to have a kick back session with someone I have grown to love via television. To the world she became a fan favorite via the Fox Network hit series Empire. Working alongside the don diva of all Trap Queens, Ms. Cookie Lyon she was sure to give us what we wanted.

She was introduced to us as Porsha. The gun popping, bangy acting, don’t mess with Cookie hood having, phone checking young lady who had Cookies back to the end.

With such a unique look and added flare it was only right that I took the time to catch up with the lady behind the character. Get ready as I bring you up close and personal with Ta’Rhonda Jones and we find out just how much of Ta’Rhonda is in Porscha. Oh yeah, just so you know, I’m special so I get to call her Ta’. Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay Ta’!

32 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

#RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 33

DiamondKesawn: Do me this favor, in your own words, if you could please, give the Raynbow Affair audience the formal introduction to whom Ta’Rhonda Jones the person is.

Ta’Rhonda: I’m just a regular, down-to-earth, live-by-the-day kinda gal. If she ain’t down, then she ain’t brown. I’m just kidding. No, I’m just me living day-by-day. I’m you, I’m him, I’m her, I’m everybody, you know. I just wanna be an inspiration to everybody.

DiamondKesawn: So just take me through the timeline, how did you even get into acting overall?

Ta’Rhonda: Honestly, I always wanted to act, but I never thought that it actually happened, you know. You always say, “I want this—I wanna be this, I wanna be famous.” But you never think that it would actually happen. And with my situation, it kind of just fell in my lap, you know. It found me. I wasn’t even looking for it, but it found me. My brother called me in the middle of the night, told me that Joe, (which is our engineer—because I rap—and we go to his studio,) Joe, got a number that he would pass along to him, and he gave it to my brother and my brother called me, he said, “you need to call it.” I needed to call ASAP because Terrence Howard is looking for female rappers below age 40. Now, I said, “Terrence Howard? what is he up to? What is he trying to do, you know, with some female rappers?” I’m like, I was gonna be on, I began to think, This is it! This is it! This is my time! So I called the number the next day and I talked to the casting director here in Chicago and then was given assignments. I talked to her, she said, “We are looking for a beautiful, talented female.” I’m like, “Yeah, that’s me, girl. That’s me. I’d be there today.” And she started laughing and we vibed instantly—just over the phone, we vibed.

34 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

And she said, “Well, can you call me tomorrow at this time?” I said, “Sure.” She said, “Okay, I’m going to e-mail two things. I need you to read it, go over it, and be prepared when you come in.”

I said, “Okay.” Now, I saw the line and the role that I originally tried out for was Tiana’s role, the young lady who’s Hakeem’s love interest. So I went in prepared as Tiana. Now, I never knew what I was auditioning for. I didn’t know Terrence Howard was looking for female actresses currently. So I auditioned for Tiana, and Claire finally gave me this blank stare and she just said, “You know what, I’ll list your name, number and I’ll e-mail you. I have something else in mind for you.” So at that time, I thought that was probably a way of just kicking me out the door, like, “Hey, we don’t want you, moving on.” But I gave them my information, I walked out like, the hell, whatever. That very same day, Claire e-mailed me the Porsha role, told me to come in the next day. When I saw the rundown of Porsha’s character, I died, because I’m like, this is me. I’m gonna do this. I don’t even know what’s going on, but I’m going to do this. I went in, recited Porsha’s lines, and she’s was just sitting there. All I remember is they were in tears from laughter, and I’m just like, “Oh, this lady really likes me.” I didn’t even do nothing, I’m just reciting the lines. So she said, “Can you come in on Monday.” Because at that time I auditioned, ThursdayFriday, and she said, “Can you come in Monday?” I said, “Look, lady. I got a job. I can’t keep leaving work.” And she said, “Well, it’s up to you. You know, you don’t have to if you don’t want to.

But, you know, I’ll just give you the information and I want you to come Monday.” I said, “You know what, forget it. I’ll come in.” I went in Monday, and that was the day that Lee Daniels was there.

Now, I’m very familiar with Lee Daniels’ work and his name, but I never knew what he looked like. So I walked in the room, read my lines and he was just standing on his feet and was just, “yeah,” and

I love when they go back and say nice things about me like, “She’s so cool.” “She’s so nice” and I get the chance to talk with somebody, I always say, “have a good day on purpose”. then snapping his fingers yelling and hollering. And I’m like, “Yes, I like this man already. This is what I’m talking about.” When he was hollering, because I was like—you know, I was doing all the auditions with all the other folks, and the reaction they were giving me, it was just so dry. It was so dry. So when I walked in the room with Lee, it was just—it was like a Tee-Tee on the block . So, he sat me down and I was reciting the lines to him. He stopped me a few times and kept telling me, “You know, it’s a little to actressy. I need you to dumb it down.” And he said, “You know what, be you.

Just be you. Do you know how to be you?” I said, “Yeah, who’s better at being me than me? I know how to be me.” He said, “Well, be you then.” So I just I recited the lines and he stopped me again.

And I caught a little attitude because I was thinking to myself how many times will this man gonna stop me? And that’s when he said, “You’re effing brilliant. You’re brilliant.” And I said, “Okay.” And that’s when Claire jumped up and said, “Well, she raps too.” So I’m like, “Yeah, that’s what I came here for, because mind you, I still don’t know what the heck I was there for. I still didn’t know what was going on. So at that time, I got an email that same day saying “you’re on hold”, I didn’t know what that meant, so I called them the next morning, and I said, “Hey, you know, I got an e-mail and what does that mean? Does that mean I got the role?” The girl said, “No, it just means we have you in mind, so you know, don’t do anything. You know, just wait on our call.” So I said, “That means I got the role then?” She kept saying, “No.” So we were going back and forth for a good 8 minutes, because I was wanting the role, and she didn’t wanna tell me if it was a yes or no. That’s when she put a young lady by the name of Amy on the phone, and she said, “You know what, Ta’, from the interview, Lee loves you.” So I said, “Lee, okay, that was the only man in the room, so I guess that’s him.” So I just said, “You know what, let me do a little research.

Let me figure out what the heck I’m getting myself into because I didn’t know what ‘Empire’ was.” And that’s when I looked at the trailer of ‘Empire’, and saw all these phenomenal names: Taraji, Terrence, Danny Strong, Lee Daniels, and that’s when it clicked in my mind. I’m going to work with Lee Daniels, Lee loves me— what? Wait! Somebody told me that Lee loves you. So I said, “You know what, let me Google his face, let me look at this man’s face.”

And sure enough, it was him. And then that next day, the day they called me and said, “Are you sitting down?” “Do I need to be sitting down?” I asked, she said, “You might wanna sit down.” So I caught a little attitude, so I said, “Look, if I ain’t got the role just tell me” So she said, “I mean, you’re good, but you know.” So she kept messing with me and finally she just yelled through the phone, “You got the role, girl!” The rest was history.

DiamondKesawn: How much Ta’ comes out in Porsha?

Ta’Rhonda: Minus the gum, everything, it’s all me, from the clothes, to the hair, that’s all me. I came in looking like that during the audition, and that’s what I love about this show, because I didn’t have to change a thing. And it’s really hard, as far as the research that I’ve done, you know, looking up stuff such as, coming in as an actor or actress, that has to have a certain image, bringing in a certain crowd, and that goes weight-wise—you know, stuff like that. You gotta look like a supermodel, you have to have a beautiful smile, you have to have flawless skin. You have to have all of that, those are the things about the show that I love. I didn’t have to change a thing, from my hair to my makeup, to my clothes, to just me, period. I didn’t have to change a thing. When I say—Lee

said, “Don’t touch a hair, leave it the way it is. Let her do her own hair, let her do her own makeup, let her do everything on her own.

We love this.” And I just thought it was all so freaking dope. It was just dope, I mean, not changing a thing, and it made me more comfortable...

DiamondKesawn: So you are a true real-life testament that dreams do come true?

Ta’Rhonda: Absolutely. I was kinda skeptical about doing the whole thing, you know, because before ‘Empire’, I had a career. I was an Assistant Director of Nutritional Service at a nursing home.

(Yes Gawd for the good career. #Okray) I had a career. I couldn’t plan on making the wrong move, this isn’t me, I’m just trying, you know, I don’t wanna leave my job and then regret it. I don’t wanna regret it. And that’s when—because a lot of you don’t know that my cousin—I call him my brother, because you know, we grew up together. He used to be pretty much raised in the same household with me. Last year, around this time, April, it’s coming around this time, my brother was killed, and I kept his watch. And I said, “Lord, I need a sign, you know, if this role was for me. Give me a sign. I need it now.” And the watch that I had went off. The alarm went off, from that watch. It went off.

DiamondKesawn: And that was your sign?

Ta’Rhonda: That was my sign. And like everything was happening so fast, and it’s unfolded right before my eyes, I just got a call from Timbaland. Mind you, I’ve never been formally introduced to Timbaland. I just got a call from him a couple of days ago, you know, he said, “Hey, I need you to email me. I need to ask you a question” What did he wanna ask me? So I’m like, “Okay, he’s heard my music.” This is it, you know. He’ll be my fan in the show and rap a little or something, you know. And he didn’t even know I rapped. He wanted to call me and tell me how amazing he thought I was, which is so dope. Who takes the time out of their day to tell you that, you know, he just wanted to tell me how amazing I was and that he thinks I’m the new, the next it girl. He thinks I’m the next it girl. And when I told him, I started talking about this audition thing, and I was gonna rap, and he was like, “Wait, you rap?” I’m like, “Yeah.” He said, “Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. And nobody told me that?” And I’m like, what’s he calling me for then?

You know, I got a little confused with the phone call, but he called me to congratulate me and to tell me how amazing he thought I was, not because he’s interested in my music. But now, he’s interested in my music. So it’s just—I mean, sometimes, the Lord might put you on the right path to take you exactly where you need to go. He’s gonna take you through a few tunnels and then comes the light, because, honey, I see the light. I see the light.

DiamondKesawn: How does it feel to be beautiful, brown, young, educated, just your everyday girl and be a staple amongst the young generation for what they can aspire to be?

Ta’Rhonda: It’s for real. I get little butterflies every time I talk about this subject, because I grew up proving a lot, you know, trying to be something I’m not just to be accepted, you know what I’m saying? And because people couldn’t accept my creativity of just me being me. You know, a lot of people thought I was weird, strange, crazy, silly, goofy, whatever term it may be. But for the very first time, I felt at home because I was accepted for being me #RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 35

for once in my life. I didn’t have to put on a persona. I didn’t have to put on a facade. I was accepted for being me. I get a lot of young girls who walk up to me saying, “I love you.” “Oh my god, you inspire me.” And it really touches me. They always say, “Do you have any advice?” And I leave them two words and two words only: “Be you.” “Be-you-tiful.”

DiamondKesawn: What was your favorite episode overall, or like your favorite scene for Porsha? Because mine was when Cookie ever said, “Phone check, Porsha! Phone check!”

And Porsha grabbed that phone, and she said “Thank You.” Yaaaaasssssssss, that was my scene.

Ta’Rhonda: That’s one of my favorite scenes too. That scene was amazing because everybody thought that Porsha was gonna turn on Cookie, and everybody felt Porsha was just in it for the money. No, not really, because at the end of the day, Porsha, despite of how Cookie talks to me, Cookie took care of me, okay? I can never turn my back on somebody who took care of me, who took me for that work, took me under their wings. She took care of me.

DiamondKesawn: Is it easy for an actor/actress to get caught up in character and start not liking the person in real life because of the role that they play? Because babeeeeeeeeeeeee. I don’t like Anika. LoL Ta’Rhonda: Yeah, absolutely. That means they’re doing their job, when you feel that way though, then that actor or actress is really doing their job. However, when you meet them in real life, you’re just like, “Oh man, she’s pretty cool.” Or “He’s pretty dope.” You know?

DiamondKesawn: So, we got ‘Empire’, the world knows your name, the world knows your face. You are more than just Porsha, you are Ta’, you are our sister, our best friend, our inspiration to be who we are, what can we expect from you coming up in 2015, throughout the whole year? What can we, as the fanbase, expect to see coming from Ta’, the person?

Ta’Rhonda: First of all, I’m dropping one of my new singles soon.

You know, I’m gonna put it on social media, SoundCloud, and whatever else, because I’m new to all that stuff and iTunes, I’m new to that. So—but I’ll be putting one of my singles out there. So I’m gonna be pushing, it’s called the “Juice,” wait on it. The “Juice.” I’ll be appearing in Chicago P.D. Also, I’m negotiating my contract with Empire for season 2, and—so I’m just waiting on it. All I can say is wait on it. Wait on it.

DiamondKesawn: Now, I wanna know on the personal side, you know, I always tell upcoming talent and new talent, and even old talent, when walk into the Industry, we sometimes walk into the devil’s playground. So for you, the person, has life for you changed amongst, like your friendship-circle-kind-of-a-thing?

Ta’Rhonda: Absolutely, but that is not a big issue, because I didn’t have many friends from the beginning. I think I’m a pretty smart girl. Well, I choose not to hang with the big crowd, because they mean you no good. Some of them mean you no good. So I didn’t have time to really, you know, get acquainted with a lot of people, but do I have a few friends who are genuinely there for me, who, you know, who’s on my side. But I don’t really need friends, like I

have 8 brothers and sisters. I mean, what? But as far as going out, yeah, it gets a little chaotic. It gets a little crazy. But I just leave the house with a clear head. I leave the house with a positive energy, or whatever the case may be. I know that I can make somebody’s day with just a hug, a smile, or whatever it may be. So the people see me—I love when they go back and say nice things about me like, “She’s so cool.” “She’s so nice” and I get the chance to talk with somebody, I always say, “have a good day on purpose”. That’s my quote. Every time I talk to anybody. I always say, “Okay, have a good day on purpose.” Because I know talking to just one lost soul can go a long way. I’m just there—I’m always positive. I try not to be negative because it takes too much energy. I don’t wanna be sad early, it takes too much energy to be negative.

DiamondKesawn: So tell me, what is Juice the track about— what can I expect when I finally get to hit play?

Ta’Rhonda: You get to see the creative side of me, like if you follow my Instagram or Twitter, you know that I’m creativecreative as far as with the fashion and all the other stuff, but as far as words coming out of my mouth, you get to see the creative side, metaphorically speaking, You could see the hardcore side. You get to see “Lady Herion”.

DiamondKesawn: Lady who?

Ta’Rhonda: “Lady Herion”, because I don’t spit that crap.

DiamondKesawn: So you’ve taught them to be them, you’ve taught them to have a good day on purpose, but that person who’s gonna hear this, and be inspired by your story of it happening by accident, and having that faith, to really step out on faith, and trust in God enough to know that sign and what it meant, what do you say to that person who has that question inside of the that they don’t know the answer to yet?

Ta’Rhonda: Another quote of mine is “Why not?” Besides you’re already that, why not just do it, like Nike, just do it. Why not? And if you’re not sure, and if something is telling you, “don’t do it,” don’t do it, but I say if I’m not—go for it. Why not? And if you don’t lose, you don’t win. If you’re gonna lose, you’re gonna win.

But what doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger. Yeah, why not?

DiamondKesawn: Now for those who are ready to follow you in all your goodness, all your “creativitiness-nesses”, all of that side, please give them that social media website to know where they can find the one and the only, and the extraordinary, Ta’?

Ta’Rhonda: You can find me on Instagram, @flygirl1988. “flygirl1988”, pronounced the way it’s spelled. Twitter, I go by the name “TaRhondaJay”, that’s “T-A-R-H-O-N-D-A-J-A-Y” on Twitter. And why not follow me?

Actress. Rapper. Friend. Sister. Creative. Amazing. Positiove. All of the Above. She is Ta’Rhonda. This is Behind the Character.

I am your Editor In Chief, DiamondKesawn. Consider yourself introduced.

#RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 37

COVER FEATURE

Davien Harlis Kelian Scott, photographer and Chris 38 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015 McKinley, makeup

DAVIEN HARLIS the man behind the camera

Picture it. Atlanta, Quarter 1 2015. I walk into the office to meet with Lyrik London.

He is in production for his upcoming project entitled “Q.U.E.E.N” and he is about to begin shooting. The main character walks on set and there is a calm that comes across the room. His name is Davien Harlis and he is undeniably gorgeous. His peanut butter complected skin is flawless on top of his superb bone structure. His nose is sculpted to perfection and teeth are shining bright like a diamond. As he begins to talk with his cast mates you can see the level of respect that they have for him. His sense of fashion draws me in as he wears the leather pants so perfectly with the nasty black sweater form fitting at every curve.

He has my attention and now I want to know. Who is the man behind the Camera?

You know in the world of #RAmag and the life of DiamondKesawn I get what I want.

I had a chance to catch up with the man I call Brown Beauty and get to know the person. Truth be told, I walked into this not knowing what to expect. Would he be a snob? Would he be nice? Would he be aggagant? I had to find out.

Join me as I get to know Davien Harlis, the Man, the Model, the Fashion, the Face. Oh yeah, you know I was calling him the wrong name in the beginning, right? LoL! Davien: It’s not Davion, It’s Davien.

DiamondKesawn: Give me the formal introduction to Mr. Davien, who is Davien?

Davien: Who is Davien? Davien is originally from Fort Lauderdale, Florida. I moved to Atlanta in 2003. So since 2003, I’ve been here probably like almost-it’ll be 12 years next month. Came here just because I wanted to relocate. I was tired of Florida, and I just wanted a different change of scenery. So I came here, and no real plan, like I didn’t come here to act. I didn’t

come here to model. I didn’t come here for anything. I just wanted to relocate. One day, leaving church, a lady came up to me and was just like, “Hey, you look like one of the actors that I want to star in my production.”

And I was like, “Wow! Really?” So I didn’t audition, and just got the leading role based off of how I looked, and went on, and the character actually fit me. The character and I had a lot in common. From that moment, I just decided that I wanted to take acting serious. Before that, I took modeling classes growing up. I went to John Casablanca’s School of Modeling, which they say is for men, but it’s really for women. I took that course with expectations of graduating and becoming this, you know, very popular, immediate, attention-getting model, and that did not happen, so here I am today.

DiamondKesawn: So after getting started in the industry, what made you stick to it since it wasn’t your original plan at all?

Davien: I found something that I was good at. I was under the impression that modeling would have been, I guess my breakout moment, because people were always like, “Oh, you’re so attractive. You’re so handsome.” And they think that that’s all it takes to make it, and it’s so much more than that. But I was rejected over and over with modeling. When it came to acting, I found that I was good at it and I got more yeses— is that a word?

DiamondKesawn: Yes. Davien: I got more ‘yes’ for acting than I did for modeling, and it just works, like I couldn’t imagine doing anything else other than pursuing the dream of being an actor.

DiamondKesawn: Okay. So let’s fastforward 12 years, what’s the life like for you in the industry now?

Davien: Now—now, things are a lot different, things are a lot better for me

because I’ve learned to like it. I’ve made a lot of relationships. I’ve worked with a lot of people. I’ve done things that I would have never thought I would have been able to do, or I found myself in environments that I would have never thought I would have been in. So 12 years later, I’ve learned a lot, and I think I’m a whole lot better at my craft.

DiamondKesawn: Okay. So what does it feel like to be one of the sex symbols of social media?

Davien: I do not think I’m nobody’s sex symbol.

DiamondKesawn: You can’t say that. How bout them Thirst Trap pics though?

Davien: Okay, so let’s talk about the thirst strap pictures. So with that whole thing, I feel like you can’t just be one-sided as an actor, and people find me more attractive than I sometimes find myself.

DiamondKesawn: Really?

Davien: Absolutely. I feel like you have to take advantage of both sides of the field, so with the whole thirst strap pictures, I did a artistic nude shoot.

DiamondKesawn: Okay.

Davien: And I was very uncomfortable, I was very scared, I was very nervous, because I just wasn’t comfortable with my body like that. But I said, “let’s do it”, to step out of the box, because you never know, hell, Calvin Klein may call one day, and he may want me semi-nude or however he wants it. I wanted to be comfortable when he calls. So I pushed myself. I did the shoot and the response was great. The response was a whole lot better than what I expected it to, because I was scared as hell.

DiamondKesawn: So, that was one shoot though, but the thirst strap pictures continue? #RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 39

Davien: Okay, so there’s been two; one-the first one was an artistic nude, the second shoot was supposed to be, it was this guy, he was doing a—what do they call it?

The coffee table—he was doing a coffee table book, and I agreed to do that. But throughout the process, what I originally signed up for and what it turned out to be was totally different. Some of those pictures I’m just now seeing. I never got official pictures. Some of the pictures I find on Tumblr, and that’s how I saw then. I’m being so serious. I never saw them. I mean, it’s already out there.

At this point I am in tears. The person who I didn’t know at all is now someone I am having a blast with. His personality is upbeat and warm. He is so open with his conversation and carries it with such a pleasant tone. About these thirst trap pictures though. This is a perfect example of how some people still do shady business to this day.

DiamondKesawn: So what is it like to post a picture on social media as a model and as an actor and people really know you. They recognize you from a project that you just did?

Davien: That happened to me for the first time two weeks ago. Now, I’m being so serious. Listen to me, I was at the Jazmine Sullivan concert. I was in the bathroom, and somebody was like, “Oh wow, weren’t you just in a short film?” I was like, “Oh yeah. That was me.” It’s weird though.

It’s—I don’t know, it’s weird, because it’s not—because it’s not common for me. That doesn’t happen to me all the time.

DiamondKesawn: So you know, I’ve seen you in public. You know, many times, I knew of you before I knew who you were you. And the people who were around me would always begin to talk when you walked in the room.

Davien: But where did you know me from?

What did they say?

DiamondKesawn: Well, t you actually starred in one of the web series I coproduce entitled “TRADE it All.” That was when I first found out about you. I think it was actually on set, the one on the day you shot. And I was like, “Wow, he’s beautiful.”

Davien: Thank you.

DiamondKesawn: And about a month

or so later, while out amongst the city I realized, people know of you. So when I see you places, you would be the talk of conversation, they would say, “Here comes porcelain doll.”

Davien: Really?

DiamondKesawn: So you would walk by, face BEAT for the gods, and everybody would be in awe and be scared to say hi.

I’m like. really? Could he be that bad?

Davien: But let me tell you something about that. I go through that a lot when I first meet people. One of the biggest misconceptions about me is that I’m mean.

People think I’m mean before they even know me..

DiamondKesawn: So what is it like to have that stigma attached to you that’s not who you are?

Davien: Now, I think sometimes I make it a point to show people that that’s not me. You know what I’m saying? Whereas before, I guess when I was younger or a little less mature, I didn’t care, but I feel like to a degree, you have to care because you are your brand. You are what you present to people. And I never wanted to be the one everyone thinks is mean. Say for instance, just this opportunity, I never want to leave a bad feeling after an interaction especially if we were in the same room. I would have never thought we would see each other in this setting, you know? So it’s—to me, it’s very important to present yourself the right way. So now, I make it an effort to prove people wrong and show them that, you know, first of all, you can’t just judge people like that or create a misconception from somebody that you never really spoke to. Like you said, I just walked by. I didn’t say anything. But I didn’t say anything ‘cause nobody said anything to me. You know? There’s not—in some settings, it’s really not a reason to speak, you know?

And some people will take that as you being mean or you, being rude. But it was just like, no, it was really just nothing for me to say, that’s why I didn’t say anything.

DiamondKesawn: Let’s take it back to childhood, did you grow up beautiful or were you who who didn’t get cute until after high school, as if you just got fine all of a sudden?

Davien: I was one of those kids who everybody else thought I was attractive. I never saw what everybody else saw. I think

I still deal with that to this day. I don’t always see what people see, and a portion of that come from the fact, the hell, I look at myself every day. So to me, this is just me. But growing up, people would say, “Oh, he’s handsome” or he’s that. But I was always skinny and I always thought my ears were extremely big. I always thought my head was big. See? People call me “big head” without even knowing me, but it was just growing up, I didn’t always see or feel how other people say it.

DiamondKesawn: Okay, so now that you’re in Atlanta, thirst trap syndrome, and you look like you look, and you dress how you dress, because you are one of the fashionistas of the city, kudos to you. What is it like being gay, black and beautiful? Put the industry to the side, you’re grocery shopping, picking up some apples and oranges, just minding your business, and you’re black, and you’re a gay male, and you’re beautiful. What is life like?

Davien: Gay, black and beautiful. You know what, it’s a catch-22 because sometimes I feel like when I walk out of the house, I got to be on. Like, I feel like, you know, if they see you, it was just like, “oh, you say you’re an actor, or you say you’re working on this, or you’re working on that.” So I sometimes feel like I have to present myself like that.

And then there are times when it’s just like, no, I wanna walk out of the house looking as raggedy as possible, because I don’t want you to say anything to me, and I don’t want you to look at me and I don’t want you to try and talk to me. Like, I just wanna be raggedy. I just wanna go buy these apples and these banana and pay for my stuff and go home. I don’t want you to say anything to me. So, it’s a catch-22, like sometimes it can be overwhelming because Atlanta’s a very vain city. Here, everybody’s working on something. Everybody’s successful.

Everybody’s a star here. So sometimes, I feel like I don’t live up to the standard of what people think you should look like or what you should wear, or how you look and stuff like that. And so, like it’s a lot.

DiamondKesawn: So, being an actor, and being a master of your craft, do you find that you tend to get offered to all those pretty roles only and no one just comes at you with that gritty, grimy role?

Davien: Yeah, absolutely. One of the challenges I face is two: one, they’d always want me to be the gay character, or I’m always the—I guess, the less masculine guy

out of the group. Like, I’m never offered the role of “the man”, but it’s like, I feel like if you take me in my craft serious, it’s acting. But then again, you don’t know me, so you really don’t know how masculine or feminine I am. So it’s just like give me a chance. But there are times when I just don’t get the chance based off of how I look. But at the same time, I get a lot of opportunities based on how I look, so it’s just that.

DiamondKesawn: So let’s talk about it, can you play the straight home boy who sells drugs on the corner?

Davien: Absolutely. This is the thing, I did it once. I had one role where I played that type of a character. Another thing I want people to know, as an actor, just because you don’t see everything that I do, that doesn’t mean that I didn’t make a check. Or that doesn’t mean that I haven’t been working. You don’t always get to see everything. You can work on a pilot, and that pilot will never, ever see the light of day, but that doesn’t mean that you didn’t do your good acting, and that you didn’t get a good check behind the scene, so let me tell you that. But, I did, I played the gangster role. And for me, it was fun because I’m not—I don’t look hard, but I don’t play what you looked at, so I was like, you know, I could do it.

That was awesome. Such words of wisdom, compassion and realism. It’s funny, I did this interview because the readers wanted to get to know Davien Harlis. I never would have thought that this interview would be the one to refuel my passion. In this industry we all can need a refill at times.

You just have to be willing to accept it when it is sent to you. Thank you to Davien Harlis for allowing #RAmag to get to know the Man behind the Camera.

Read More on Davien Harlis at www.raynbowaffairmagazine.com

COVER FEATURE

42 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

INSTAFAME AND TRUE TO THE GAME…. i·con “a person or thing regarded as a representative symbol of something.”

We all know that Social Media rules the lives of many and some get more caught up in what’s going on in Social Media than what’s going on in life. Some people earn their INSTAfame with funny videos, great music, great fashion or even great inspiration. Others choose to be lazy and buy followers, buy likes and most of all INSTAflex.

It’s very rare that you get a person whose life on Instagram matches their real life. Lately, a lot of talk has been surrounding the Hair, Make-Up, Fashion BEAST “Tokyo Stylez.” Babeeeee, when I tell you Tokyo is the one that you want to write home about, trust me, he is that one.

Let me give you a brief rundown. Originally from Omaha Nebraska, mind you I lived in Lincoln so the fact that he is from Omaha has me in awe, Tokyo knew from a very young age that hair was his calling. At age 11 he started doing his little sisters hair and never turned back. Evolving his talents and building quite a clientele base, Tokyo made his Dreams a Reality and his Reality became the Dreams of others.

Currently, Tokyo is one of the most sought after stylist in the country. With a celebrity clientele such as Naomi Campbell, Gabrielle Union, Rhianna, K. Michelle, Tamar Braxton, Tiny Harris, Lil Kim, Porsha Williams, Toni Braxton, and Teyana Taylor just to name a few. Did you catch it? Just to name a few which means the list goes on. Okray!

His work has been featured on television and award shows including Good Morning America,

The Real, CFDA, BAFTA, BET Awards, The Soul Train Awards, Real Housewives of Atlanta, The entire Love and Hip Hop franchise, Wendy Williams, The Soul Man, K. Michelle My Life, Fuse channel, and More. This is that point when you be like, “Dear: Tokyo, You did that in the Nameeeeee.”

Tokyo is known for being able to do virtually anything when it comes to hair but has gained a reputation for his hair extensions and masterful wig creations. Currently residing in Washington D.C.and splitting his time between New York and Los Angeles.

He continues to educate himself learning new styles and techniques to stay ahead of the highly competitive world of hair and prides himself in his own unique techniques that are second to none.

Tokyo has carved a lane for himself as he strives to always be himself and continually competes against himself. When you are great at what you do you learn that you are your own competition. The instagram name “TokyoStylez” has 444k followers and it growing daily. The tone of the pictures serves you nothing but skill. From the hair, to the face, to the fashion Tokyo is one of few who remains humble and it shows in all that he does.

Please don’t get it twisted because Tokyo will serve you real part no edge glue realness in 2.7 seconds. I promise you my girlfriends call me and say “Diamond, can you get me an appointment with Tokyo? He’s booked for the next 3 months.” I bust out laughing and be like, he is the one.

Tokyo Styles is InstaFame who is True To His Game and I #Salute the movement.

Social Medias: Instagram: @tokyostylez Twiter: @tokyostylez Website: www.touchedbytokyo.com

#RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 43

44 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

#RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 45

FIRST EVER QUEER

FASHION WEEK COMES TO OAKLAND! By: Carolyn Wysinger Queer style and fashion has always had a place in the fashion world and on the runway. Over the years designers have taken the liberty of experimenting with gender by showcasing androgynous or gender non-conforming models. However there have been no major events showcasing clothing lines created by queer designers and models. This year all of that will change.

This year the first Queer Fashion Week will be coming to Oakland.

Much like more established fashion week events in New York and Paris, Queer Fashion week is not just about showing of clothing. It is about creating buzz around the culture and lifestyle of queer trendsetters through music, art, and amazing runway shows that feature the top designers in the LGBT community. These are designers that are not simply challenging gender in the models that the use but in the type of clothing they create and the type of images they invoke.

The events for the weekend include a Friday night Celebrity RED community art, music and fashion show hosted by America’s Next Top Model contestant Cory Wade and featuring model Rain Dove just off a head turning outing at New York’s Fashion Week. The desgners will be showcasing their hottest red inspired designs to benefit RED.org. The main event, GENESIS, will be Saturday at the amazing American Steel Studios in Oakland. The theme is “the origin of diversified greatness” and it will be an all day event that starts with a “vendor village” where fashionistas can visit with the designers and runway models. The runway shows will start at 4pm and run until 9pm. Finally there will be a Sunday Designer Trunk Show to close out the weekend giving the public one last opportunity to support these amazing designers by purchasing new items for their collections. In true Oakland fashion every evening will close out with hot parties with queer DJ’s from across the nation hosted by fiveTEN Productions and the What Is Butch Movement.

Queer Fashion Week was idea of legendary Bay Area event producer Miz Chris through her company fiveTen Oakland Events in conjunction with the What is Butch Movement. Their goal is to “showcase designers, hairstylists, and makeup artists who are creating fashion for all types of bodies and genders.” Some of the designers that will be featured are: Crookid Minds, Electrobaroque, Haute Butch, Lady Lovers, Igigi, Outplay, note2self, Qwear Fashion, Immigreat Designs, Playout Underwear, Shades Company, Medium Reality, Saannti, Sambi Fashions, Sharpe Suiting, Show & Tell, Size Queen, Stuzo Clothing, Sunsun, THUY Custom Clothier, Topher Adam, True Life Clothing, The Lady Ms Vagina Jenkins.

It is guaranteed to be a blazing hot weekend and we cannot wait to bring you more images and information from this groundbreaking event!! crwysinger@hotmail.com Twitter: @knockturnalpro IG: @theknockturnalproject

FASHION FEATURE

HAUTE BUTCH

Menswear for women, butches, studs, bois and transmen When it comes to the world of Fashion and Designer clothing, there are many names that come to mind. Allow me to introduce you to the new statement amongst designer fashion, Haute Butch.

Haute Butch is a collection that caters to the niche market of what I like to call TomBoi Swag. Providing garments fit for 9-5 as well as the urban chic attire fit for a night of poppin bottles with models. LoL! Haute Butch is truly a statement in an untapped market. Take a seat and get ready as #RAmag gets to get it from the one who made it all possible, Karen, Owner of HauteButch.

DiamondKesawn: Karen, I am so excited to get to catch up with you. Thank you for taking the time to bring #RAmag into your world for a moment. So let’s talk about it. We have this Men’s wear for women which excites boys and transmen. Please tell us where the idea to even start this amazing line came from?

say; “your form, fit and style.” I love that it starts with “your” which it something geared to your consumer base and not for your personal liking and just anything you say goes but you really know who is buying your products, their form, their fit and their style.

Karen: The inspiration came from myself not having the clothes that expressed who I was and how I wanted to express myself externally. So it was born out of my own need and then you know friends of mine and peers of mine their needs as well. Nobody quite knew anywhere other than the men’s department where to go for any clothes. And most from the men’s department didn’t fit.

Karen: Exactly, that is important to us.

DiamondKesawn: Okay. So from there, from your own need we now have an entire collection to meet the fashion needs of not only yourself but others?

DiamondKesawn: So how have you grown? What has the lifespan of Haute been like so far? How has it been for you? Take me from just a thought to the need of your own to the full brand that it is currently.

Karen: I’ll tell you Diamond it has been a world wind. Next month will be three years. In part I don’t know where the time has gone and in other ways it’s like wow! A lot has happened in three years and we are just still a baby.

Karen: Exactly.

DiamondKesawn: Right.

DiamondKesawn: I love it. I love it.

Karen: That is what inspired us to do it anyway, to design for a spectrum and not only for myself.

Karen: And you know startups and stuff like that can be hard to jumpstart, but we have really been grinding to bring it to market and to bring our community what they are looking for in fashion or at least be a part of that and be able to throw our hats in the game.

DiamondKesawn:Now what I love in overall which really drew me in is the clean lines, high quality execution and great sense of masculine vs. feminine. To take a quote from hautebutch.com and these words are very simple, very straight forward, they

DiamondKesawn: I love it, I love it. So now I have to ask you in order to put you on the spot. Now I am going to make you think, In this last three years, these three glorious years from beginner to prosperity and happiness. Of summer 2013, summer

48 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

what they are gonna order. When It has been sitting here for a while that means I’ll get to keep it but that hasn’t been the case. Time and time again somebody has ordered my size in that style and it has been the last one and I have gone ahead and sent it out.

DiamondKesawn: No,no that’s not right.

Karen: It’s not about me. It’s not really about me.

DiamondKesawn Look at you all about giving. If it was me honey it’ll be sold out. “Ain’t no more! sorry.”

Karen: (Laughs) Doing it that way keeps me humble and keeps me leading with who is the most important here, the consumer.

DiamondKesawn: I do this whole round table kinda thing where I show my team what is coming out on our next issue and who we are gonna talk to, that kinda thing. One of my transmen asked me; they were like who is the “your”. And I said “your” is whoever the customer is. He said “no, when you do something like this you should have someone in mind.” I was like you know what, lets timeout. So in your words Karen; when it came to really making the full collection, when you went from it just being about your need and you chose to cater to the entire niche market out there. What did “your” turn to? What does that question look like? What are they doing right now? Who is wearing Hautebutch?

2014 or currently 2015. Which collection has been your personal favorite so far and why?

Karen: That is hard one!

DiamondKesawn: (Laughs) Karen: Because the first one was my baby, really my baby and it cost me everything. In hard knock learning, mistakes, you know the whole nine. Like it was blood, sweat and tears that first one. But then when I look at this one right now I like what I see in terms of my growth and the whole team’s growth and what we can bring forward and I am excited about how much faster we can bring it to market how much better we are able to describe. You know the growth. I think probably I would have to say for different reasons the first collection and this one are my favorite.

DiamondKesawn: Every time a collection comes out do you find yourself kind of going through it and picking up that item, that one outfit that is really your favorite of that line or do you kind of just say “you know what I love it all equally,” true tea?

Karen: No, no, no. I have my favorite for sure. When I started this line, you know it was born out of my own need, yes. I owned a few t shirts and only one button down shirt. So often I am not wearing haute butch unless it’s a t shirt because we do small runs and when I do find that special piece I like that I wanna keep. I will set it aside and I’ll hold it back until I know everybody else has ordered

Karen: Wow! Well, first of all, great question. I think initially it definitely started out with just my personal needs in mind. But then other people started claiming HauteButch for their style choice. I saw that it started speaking to a lot of straight women who just had a difference in how they wanted to express themselves and were much more assertive and didn’t want the frills and same stuff. They wanted to have a few fierce looking pieces in their closet. I had to keep them in mind as well. Looking at the transmen and keeping that in mind. So HauteButch has evolved for sure from what the initial focus was on and it is still evolving. I am sure it will continue to evolve as we move in to gender fluidity global.

DiamondKesawn: Right Karen: I think that down the middle of that spectrum it’s probably a butch woman somewhere between 28 and 40. Our largest customer base is the UK followed by Canada and then Atlanta.

DiamondKesawn: Wow, hey, shop ATL.!

Karen: We love the ATL. We’ll do anything for the ATL . They really support us and hold us down and I mean wholeheartedly.

Often times when we think about who that person is, it’s between 28 and 40 year old. They like to kick it on the weekends; they wanna look fly almost all of the time. They want pieces that they can go to work in and then change up with a blazer or jeans or whatever, just prepare to go out for the night. We try to keep those things in mind, you know like the tuxedo shirts. You can wear a tuxedo shirt dressed up or dressed down with a pair of faded jeans and some cool looking shoes.

DiamondKesawn: Come on through Karen with this photo shoot outline you’re giving me life in the name.

Karen: We are coming to Atlanta and we’re gonna show you when we come. #RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 49

50 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

DiamondKesawn: Now you know I ain’t wanna talk about nobody right, cuz am saved, hallelujah. But you know I keep it real. Right Karen?

Karen: Alright, yes.

DiamondKesawn: Between me and you and you haven’t heard nothing from me because I don’t talk about nobody, you kinda hurt my feelings on my good day, you know caise I have my bad days, on my good day. I was minding my business shopping like always and I am like Haute Butch got something I need to see what is going on and I came across this nasty, disrespectful sexy, bold dark sweat suit. When I tell you, babeeeeeee it was Christmas, new years and thanksgiving at the same time. Okay?

Karen: What did you see?

DiamondKesawn: The sweat suit, the one that comes in in white and black.

Karen: Oh the jogger set.

DiamondKesawn: Then you know…

Karen: I already know what is coming but bring it.

DiamondKesawn: At that moment I couldn’t go on as I was in shock as I realized it only came in skinty sizes. I almost shed a tear.

Karen: I know. I don’t own a pair for the same reason. It hurt my heart to look too. We took the factory to task on that one. Fighting with them over the sizing issues because they were not supposed to be sized down as they are. That was never supposed to happen. Never was supposed to happen. In fact one of our models who we just sent her a pair of joggers and she normally wears a large she had to have a 2x in those joggers.

customer type. Where do we see haute butch for 2015. You’re only in quarter one. What can we expect from you?

Karen: We are travelling this year so that is the big deal. In that we are going to be doing pop up tours and hitting different cities that we know really support us as well as areas that don’t know anything about us, so we can introduce ourselves and say hello and meet and greet everybody. That is gonna be the main focus this year. As well as I am hoping , really hoping that in between a lot of the travel that I’ll be able to make some pattern for vests and dress pants.I’m looking forward to doing some dress pants.

DiamondKesawn :Now,2015 you’re travelling you’re hitting the cities with the pop up shops and more.To the Haute Butch audience and buyers from Karen the person, the owner, the brand, what is the one thing you want them to hold onto as they purchase this items and put them on in their city for work or wherever they may be going?

Karen: I think what I would like for them to hold in mind is that; we really care about them, we care about their dollar and that they choose us. This is a huge field there is designers and clothing lines and more. We know people can choose whomever they like. And we welcome and invite them to check out our quality and our designs.

We really are passionate about it, we are inspired every day because of them to create the best. The best pieces we can create and also knowing that as we grow and as we have their support we will do better and better in each collection. And each collection will become more and more affordable and attainable. Keep that in mind that we really care about them and we really work hard to give great customer service which is first and foremost in our minds. We have a great reputation for that because we care. And to just be patient with us we are still a baby and we are still growing but we have every intention with our work ethics to get there.

With an interview like this there is no closing needed. Karens words are words that should hit home for all of us. Remember to shop HauteButch.com and follow their growth on social media.

DiamondKesawn: Wow. Karen: And it has been quite an experience and let me tell you we took the factory to task on over it.

We raised all kinds of hell, all hell over that. We knew how it was going to affect our customers and it’s not okay, it’s not acceptable. Unfortunately this was the first time we dealt with them. With this particular group and we’ll never work with them again.

DiamondKesawn: It’s okay. We understand and chalk it up to growing pains.

DiamondKesawn: Tell me, we have three years under your belt. We have three collections.

You’re on hautebutch.com. Every collection you can see the growth, you see a new customer. It’s funny because in every collection I see a new #RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 51

FASHION FEATURE

HUSTLA APPAREL Hustla: “A hustla is someone skilled at turning a profit no matter what the enterprise.” (source: The Urban Dictionary)

Let me tell you a story. Recently I was looking into upcoming collections and trying to see what was out there for street trends.

I was introduced to a rapper named Influence from the Chicago area. Influence, or as they call him in the social media world “ChiInfluence” introduced me to the brand “Hustla Apparel.”

DiamondKesawn “What does Histla mean to you personally?”

Naturally I was drawn to the brand as I am a natural born hustla.

However, this time there was a spin on it. According to the back story, “Hustla Apparel,” Established in October 2014 in the Atlanta, area was inspired by two young adults trying to make a lane for themselves in the Fashion world full of intense competition.

DiamondKesawn “When you started Hustla Apparel, what was the vision?”

The word “Hustla” reflects every aspect of their lifestyle as Entertainers, Musicians, Daily life activities and overall Goal Driven individuals in life. Hustling paycheck to paycheck and working side jobs to maintain in today’s economy motivated them to create their own concept. By realizing that life may be difficult at times and having to provide for family, this was an outlet to implement their “Passion for Fashion” into a source of livelihood.

Influence “For me it’s a reminder of my daily life. I hustle to provide for my family, myself and excuses are never an option. I do a 9-5 followed by a 5-9. This is 24/7, 365 for me.”

Influence “I think our motto says it best Meet the Hustla. I wanted to create a brand that let anyone looking at me know I was about my business. If you come at me it’s business or it’s nothing. As the saying goes, “Only Hustlas can relate.” Hustla is a brand that provides a reward within a reward. You reward yourself by shopping the collection and the collection rewards you by letting everyone know you are about your Hustle.”

DiamondKesawn “What has the feedback been from the consumers?”

They Defined “Hustla” by relating it to the general approach of working in all aspects. Anything that you take on that earns you income or beneficial resources defines you as a “Hustla.” The significance of the Hustla Apparel brand is that it fits all ages from teens to adults. Kids who provide lawn care or those working a paper route are considered a young “Hustla.” The brand is designed to give you comfort and style along with a high quality feel of material that covers your skin.

Influence “Those who understand it love it and those who don’t understand it love the concept of it. It is a brand that fits anyone and the quality is top notch. All the feedback has been positive. Just wait until I begin to expand the brand.”

DiamondKesawn “Let the readers know how to find you.”

Hustla is High Fashion and Urban Street wear wrapped all into one.

You can switch from a sweat suit to a fitted polo or tee giving you that urban chic or street fashion look you desire.

DiamondKesawn “You can’t forget about the CEO. Lemme find out you being mean.”

I had a chance to briefly catch up with ChiInfluence and he was very insightful.

52 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

Influence “It’s easy, find us on instagram at @_HustlaApparel and online at HustlaApparel.com.”

Influence “You funny DK. Nah, hit me at ChiInfluence on everything and ChiInfluence.com is your connection to all things me.”

#RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 53

54 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

Boston Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Adolescent Social Services

DROP-IN CENTER Games, Movies, Events

The mission of Boston GLASS (Gay & Lesbian Adolescent Social Services) is to improve the well-being of LGBTQQ youth of color and their allies by providing a continuum of services that addresses their immediate needs, equips them with tools to make healthy decisions and live fulfilling lives, and helps create communities in which they can thrive. GLASS serves young people ages 13-25 from Boston and the surrounding metro areas.

Youth Advisory Board (YAB): Volunteer Peer-Leadership Program

DROP-IN CENTER GLASS hosts a drop-in space with hours Monday through Friday where young people can hang out, meet up, have a snack, use the internet, engage with staff, and participate in programming. At Boston GLASS: Be here, be you!

Vogue... or nah?: Learn how to dance!

BEHAVIORAL HEALTH SERVICES Services include mental health support and clinical case management, often focused on navigating the coming out process, gender identity transitions, developing healthy coping strategies, and further support for family, work, and school issues. Clinicians also identify and provide any referrals needed.

MENTORSHIP PROGRAM The mission of the GLASS Mentorship Program is to empower LGBTQQidentified youth of color to reach their fullest potential through fostering longterm, goal-oriented mentoring relationships with adults in their communities.

PEER LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT Shades of Color is a youth empowerment program that conducts in-house peer services. Made of a diverse team of 14-19 year olds, they learn about many issues affecting LGBTQQ youth. They design and deliver peer-to-peer workshops on these topics then present them at GLASS. HIV, STI AND HEPATITIS TESTING AND PREVENTION SERVICES GLASS offers free and confidential prevention and testing services for HIV, Hepatitis C, and sexually transmitted Infections (STIs) such as Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, and Syphilis. No appointment necessary during drop-in hours.

HOUSING STABILIZATION & CASE MANAGEMENT GLASS offers case management services to connect young people with housing programs, shelters, and benefit enrollment throughout the Metro area. Staff support youth in accessing primary medical care, preparing and applying for jobs, and are able to accompany youth to appointments as desired.

COMMUNITY EDUCATION & OUTREACH This team engages youth, provides safer sex materials, and offers workshops on challenging stereotypes, raising awareness around bullying and violence, sexual health, and gender identity to allied providers and agencies across the greater Boston area.

ActOUT: Improv and theater games

#Waddup!: Community meeting for youth

SUPPORT GROUPS Find your community Our groups reflect the varied needs of our community and are scheduled on a monthly basis.

GET TESTED! Know your status Sexual health screening and counseling is available every day during drop-in hours - No appointment necessary!

Questions? health@jri.org CONTACT INFORMATION

Boston GLASS 75 Amory Street Boston, MA 02119 Phone: 617-266-3349 Fax: 617-266-1439 www.jri.org/glass

outreach@jri.org

@Boston_GLASS

#RAMag January 2015 PAGE 55

FASHION FEATURE

56 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

RICHIE SKY Artist, DJ, Personality and Style Pusher Richie Sky is hitting the game and with no apologies. Entering the game and becoming an established DJ, having traveled internationally, toured the US, hosted the popular “Morning Wood Show,� Richie Skye has a new initiative to conquer the worlds of music production, songwriting and spinning at some of the hottest parties in the world. Mixing the currency of party anthems, ratchet hood jams, dancehall and house music along with his own infectious and harmonious productions, Richie Skye is covering all his bases in his quest for global music domination.

Let me introduce you to Rickie Skye, the Man. The DJ. The Artist.

The Fashionisto.

#RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 57

DiamondKesawn: In your own words, who is Richie Skye?

Richie Skye: Richie Skye lives, sleeps, eats, breathes music every moment of the day. That is the core of everything that I do. I started DJing because I wanted to play my own music.I started as an on air personality because I wanted to promote my own music. Everything that I do is based around music and that’s the most important thing for me right now.

DiamondKesawn: Based on what I heard, am I to interpret that you’re selfish?

Richie Skye: No not at all. However, I do think it’s okay to be selfish. It’s so important for you as a person and whatever you want to do in life, you gotta take time to nurture the things you are talented in and that you are doing and that’s what i’m doing.

DiamondKesawn: Before you became Richie Skye, what was life like? I can picture you as Mr. Popular. I can see you as Mr. Fashion. Shout out to your mother and father because you is fine in the name, okay. But, what was life like before the industry?

Richie Skye: (After he finishes laughing at me) I love your question. Before this I went to school at Michigan State and Virginia Tech. I studied Communications. Obtained a Masters Degree in Advertising, after that I always said that I would own my own Advertising or Public Relations Firm. I was also in corporate America.

DiamondKesawn: Did you get that something in the pit of your stomach that made you say to yourself “I can’t do this no more, Father take the wheel.?”

Richie Skye: You know what though? I actually did. You know how you hear that little voice inside your head that tells you that you need to do something different? A lot of us are afraid to jump into it, but everytime I have been afraid to jump into it I feel like I have been pushed into it. I was living in Virginia before I moved to D.C. I was in a band and we were on tour but it was nothing to the magnitude of what I do now. I really had to step out on faith and just say to myself I really don’t care what anyone thinks of me, i’m just going to go for what I wanna do. That was a turning point for me.

DiamondKesawn: As an Artist starting out in your artistry, who did you look up to?

Richie Skye: I grew up listening to LL Cool J, Big Daddy Kane, old skool music. I started rapping when I was 13 and like most my parents encouraged me to go to college. At that time, I didn’t really know I could do this as a career. More specific to the question, it was Timbaland and his work on Aaliyah’s album that really made me want to go into the studio and learn how to do what he did. I called a few studios as I wanted to just get in there and learn from them but nobody was calling me back. Finally, I said just let me go get this software and do this.

DiamondKesawn: I have to ask, how do you classify your music?

With every song I played I heard a new element. It’s hard to explain real artistry so, please break it down for me.

Richie Skye: I am inspired by artist like Drake and Kanye.

58 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

Especially Kanye, he never puts himself in a box he just goes with his emotions. As an artist that’s what I do. I go with how I feel.

If we were to talk about right this moment, I would say “Urban.”

I would have to say urban because that’s where my mind is right now. I always think in terms of an album and relate it to a season so I will be in this mood for a while.

DiamondKesawn: Being that we are in the Fashion issue, how do we define the Richie Skye Fashion? Mind you cuz everytime I see you all I see is Chest and Perfect Face. I like your fashion however, as from what I see you like to play with fashion and blend elements. How do you define your style? Or, rather, where do you pull your inspiration for your fashion?

Richie Skye: Again, I have to reference one of my favorite people, Kanye. Not so much that I am trying to emulate him but I really like feeling comfortable and for my body size, i’m 6’ 3’ 218 lbs and sometimes it’s difficult to find really really stylish clothes that fit and feel comfortable. Like something that’s fitted but fitted in a grown man sexy kind of way but i’m still a kid at heart so there will always be a youthful, playful vibe to what I do.

DiamondKesawn: Well you know it does look good on you cuz you can do no wrong in my book. Haaaaaay Richie Skye…….

Doing your thing Artist, DJ, Personality, Sex Icon. Let’s get personal. You know I must keep it real. How long have you been LGBT? Richie Skye: Honestly, for me it’s been an all my life thing. Like most you kind of grow up and start to have these feelings but you suppress them as you don’t know what to do with them. You hear people say a lot of negative things so you suppress it and you say to yourself I have to date girls and it’s almost like a learned behavior. It wasn’t until much later that I realized that iI was just doing what I thought I should be doing. Growing up, I had instances where guys a few years older than me would like try and make moves and I actually liked it. But, I didn’t start to engage til around high school. It wasn’t until much later however,even after I started engaging with guys it wasn’t until much later that I became okay with it myself.

DiamondKesawn: What was life like growing up fine? Or where you a late bloomer when it came to your looks?

Richie Skye: First off, thank you. Honestly, I was a really really skinny guy growing up and I use to get picked on for being skinny.

Even growing up, I felt like I looked like an alien. I think I look okay now, but I really grew into how I look. If I got any attention growing up from how I looked I wasn’t aware of it. I think I was too insecure to see it, if that makes any sense.

DiamondKesawn: Being that you’re a man after your own dreams and you have made your dreams a reality. What can we expect from you in 2015?

Richie Skye: Well, 2015 is going to be pretty incredible. I have a lot of dates lined up for DJ gigs. I’m doing something really cool with a group called identity east and I will be in Mexico with them. Also, my album will be dropping this year. I am really really excited about that. A lot of people don’t know, I had a album out before but I took it down because I didn’t feel like I

put forward my best work. I wanted to come back harder so I Have worked really really hard for the past year and a half and it will be something that they would be able to hear with the greats.The album should be out by the summer.I really put a lot of effort into this album to make it sexy but fun.

DiamondKesawn: For that younger generation out there who is inspired by your movement, creativity and drive, what are those words of advice you have for them?

Richie Skye: I will tell them what I wish someone had told me. I actually heard this today from T. D. Jakes “Instinct will probable take you further than intellect.” If you have an idea and it’s in your heart to do, listen to your instinct. Don’t listen to what other people tell you you can’t do. Don’t even listen to your friends if you know it is truly what you want. If you have a dream that you can’t let go and it is keeping you up at night, don’t let anyone stop you from going after it.

True words to live by. Richie Skye is one of those few people that while talking to him you get inspired by the general intellect that he passes on by accident. Make sure you tune in to “Richie on the Rocks,” hit his website RichieSkye.com and most off all get the albim “Love, Sex and Champagne Dreams” when it releases.

#RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 59

MOMENT OF TRUTH WITH DANNELL BOOKER:

“TAKING ALL OUR GOOD BLACK MEN”

60 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

What was once considered a ‘Down Low’ brother doesn’t appear to be Down LOW anymore. I think it is fair to say that the past decade or so has brought upon a change. Down low is no longer low. Undercover brother has pulled back the covers. Secrets became books, and hiding in hip hop became duck duck goose. Did you catch it?

When it’s all said and done, what was done in the dark has come to the light in some way, shape or form. The world is still talking about Frank Ocean and former BET music director Buttahman has become the poster child for being gay and proud in the industry. After coming out during one of his comedy sets, Buttahman went from a man to THE man.

One of the questions I hear a lot from my girlfriends is “where have all the good men gone?” And as always, I bust out laughing and roll my eyes. That was until now. Leave it to the noted author Dannell Booker, with his fine self mind you, to start to answer the question of where the good black men have gone.

Take a moment and brace yourself because Dannell gives a take on who or what is “Taking All Our Good Black Men.”

#RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 61

DiamondKesawn: If you could for me, for the RA Maggers out there, please introduce them to exactly who you are.

Dannell: Dannell Booker as you said. Author, the poet, the prose extraordinaire, the voice of your literary generation, and the new face of your literary generation. The first book off of the series, Love Is Painful Sometimes, L.I.P.S. Books, is “Taking All Our Good Black Men,” and I longed to write that.

DiamondKesawn: Taking All Our Good Black Men, let’s talk about this. So this book is one that you picked up in can’t put down, right?

Dannell: It is.

DiamondKesawn: So take me to before the book. Where does its concept come from?

Dannell: Before the book, the reason behind writing the book was from personal text, personal play, personal prose, and poetry back and forth to people I would be dealing with, and they would be inspired and be like, “Yo’, why don’t you write something for the people because your literary prowess is insane when it comes to this romance sh*t.” It wasn’t something I was interested in because for me, it was really kind of simple. I have a few different books that I haven’t put out yet. When the due get releases they will be a dynamic read, they will become social markets and will become pieces of work that students, universities will require students to read. So for me to write in the romance lane was just like it was something that I did not really want to do, but I was having a meeting with publishers, and they were all saying, “Yeah, your stuff is crazy; no one knows who you are.” And my thing was like, “Whoa, you know, if you guys are saying you guys are putting me out there, let me get out there and my work will let people know who I am.” But the people, they didn’t see it how I saw it, so I said, “Okay, they wanted me to write some pieces for them.” I wasn’t going to write the pieces that they wanted, so I said, “Let me go ahead. I’ll step into this romance lane, but I’m going to have to do it my way. So I’m going to write my pieces.” That’s where the concept came in. I sat on the idea of going ahead and writing in the romance lane, but I had to wait until I had a concept that was meaningful. A concept that could stand on its own two legs regardless of how insane my sexual prowess innuendo, metaphors are. I needed a story line, as you know, if you put it out all the sexual tension and accents and verbiage at the story, it stands on its own. It’s a story, it’s a concept, and Taking All Our Good Black Men, that was the concept. Like you said, it’s difficult to start speaking on it without going and sneaking things in the story, but I have a few gay friends who are going to see this and man, I’m saying too much now already—a few of my friends would give me some of their gay stories and I took some ideas and put a story together.

DiamondKesawn: You’re snitching on friends?

Dannell: Well, yeah. (bust out laughing) DiamondKesawn: Oop! The shade is real.

Dannell: Yeah. So like I said, they gave me the game. I took that. I ran with it. I created the concept, Taking All Our Good Black Men, something that black women who are strong and beautiful enough, something that white women have a strong viewpoint of—and I 62 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

slapped them on the face with it. I spun them on their heads with it. I gave them the real—who’s really out there taking all the good black men.

DiamondKesawn: What has the feedback been from the fanbase?

Dannell: Oh man, everyone loves it. Everyone loves the book. The thing is this: I believe that right now, people are willing to listen.

I think the writing in sexual browsing, and the way I develop my sexual tales and tales of sexual tales, is overriding the underlying story that’s there, the strong story, the strong concept that’s there.

I’m not worried about that, because it’s going to come out because of magazines like yours, and people like you who speak on this, and who really bring that story to life. I’m going to bring out the strong concept, and then people are going to be able to... see the book for what it is. It’s not just this amazing prose and street poetry, which there is a tale to be told of society, a street tale to be told. It’s something important to be said.

DiamondKesawn: Do you feel like you told too much? Now, with your friends, who were the same friends that were telling you their stories, did they get mad or did they feel any kind in the way that you told them?

Dannell: Actually, they don’t know about the book yet. The thing is this book has been sitting on my shelf for a while. Everybody has been like, “Yo’, when are you going to put the book out?” I’ve been doing other things. I didn’t have time. I didn’t have the energy and head space to put my energy into the book project. It wasn’t until now—welcome to this sh*t, I said, “Yo’, this is what I’m going to do, and I’m going to go full force and full-fledged into this.”

I didn’t tell anyone that it was out. It’s going to circulate and hit everybody in their face. But when you say, “Do you think you told too much?” That’s a question you would ask yourself, “Do you think I told too much?”

DiamondKesawn: I know the answer.

Dannell: Yes, exactly. I’m going to tell you this: I’ll say that when guys write a book and they tell, they say things or give up game to women. That, I say, “Yo’, why are they doing that?” You’re literally creating the hurdle for us to jump over, by giving them this knowledge. I say that, yes, I put it out there. On the flip, we always said, we know that knowledge just makes you stronger, that knowledge just makes you feel sharp as steel. It’s going to make you all have to step your game up.

DiamondKesawn: Really? So you’re going to take what they taught me in elementary and use it against me, that knowledge is power? Knowledge is power when you put it into the right hands.

Dannell: How did you feel reading that and hearing it come off the page knowing that that’s the real sh*t right there?

DiamondKesawn: I don’t think you want me to answer that question. We’re not going to talk about that right now. Now this, I wanna ask you. Being a young, educated, black male and for both the young and educated individuals out there, what are those words of encouragement you have for those people who are wanting to follow their dreams, when they may be scared to get it started? They may be very similar to you and hear that

whole oh-people-don’t-know-you or oh-maybe-you-shoulddo-this-versus-do-that, as a person who stuck to who they are and didn’t budge to the point of knowing, and identifying your true core. What are those words of encouragement that you have for those who are willing to go against the grain and make it happen?

Dannell: Invest in yourself. That’s the most simplest way I could say it and the most humblest way I could say it. Opposed to someone else saying, “You can do anything,” or “you could be who you want to be,” or “no one could tell you you’re that.” No, just invest in yourself. There is nothing wrong with investing in yourself. It’s your money. It’s your time. It’s your energy. Invest that money, that positive energy into yourself. You’re going to get what you deserve now. You’re going to get a return on your investment. You’re going to get a lot, so invest in yourself. When you do that, you don’t have to worry about someone giving up.

You don’t have to worry about someone not believing. You don’t have to worry about someone shutting the door on you, because when you invest in yourself, you open your own doors, because anything you want to do, you can do if you... are the one that’s calling the shots.

DiamondKesawn: Very true.

Dannell: Up to the moment I published this book, as a matter of fact, even after I published the book, people were saying, “Oh, well, why don’t you go to this publisher or why don’t you wait on this person or wait on that person?” So I said, “Look at this sh*t that they’re putting out.” That’s not the sh*t that I do. I do what they can’t do. I speak what they can’t speak. I’m not going to wait for them, because there is a large demographic of people, and they’re young, they’re old; they’re black, they’re white; they’re male, they’re female; they’re gay, they’re straight; they’re transgendered, they’re lesbians; and they want to hear about this. They want to hear it the way I have to say it. There’s many times you’ve been to a movie or read a book, or watched a television show and said, “What is this garbage? How did this get put on air? How did this get put out?” Yet, because of who that person knew or who they were friends with, or how they had the money to invest in themselves, they were able to make that happen. So why is it that we allow someone else to say that you can’t do something, when you know you can do better than what they’re already putting out anyway? Every single season they spend millions on putting out sitcoms, and they drop them after the pilot aired and didn’t get enough views, or after the first and second episode. They just spent millions on that, and we’re sitting here with brilliant ideas and brilliant concepts that haven’t been spoken of, and that people want to hear, and stuff that’s new, and waiting on the people who or should I say the gatekeepers to say “yes”, when they’re saying “no” to everything that’s new, and “yes” to everything that’s already been done and regurgitated.

Dannell: Yes, it’s going. It’s a lifetime series for sure.

DiamondKesawn: Tell me this: author, poet, model, man, itfactor, icon, greatness, all of the above. What can we expect to see from you in the upcoming months of 2015?

Dannell: I’m trying to stay focused on the next book series I’m going to put out. I started writing the second book, Big Girls Need Love Too, that and the third book, Dog Them and They’ll Love You Forever, I aim to put out all this year. I really want to press this issue, Taking All The Good Black Men. It really needs to be out there in the public. It really needs to be discussed. It really needs to be looked at. I really do need to duck those people bothering me, and I’m working on an explosive television pilot right now. I can’t even give the name of it, but it is based on a Jewish family, an LA-based Jewish family. It’s going to slap everyone in the face.

And then, I have a football script which is like the 2015 Any Given Sunday. We’re looking to attach either a Channing Tatum and The Rock, or Channing Tatum in The Game on it. I’m putting it out in the universe, and so we’re working on that. But mostly, my main thing is to push Taking All Our Good Black Man by this time next year. When you call my phone, Kesawn, don’t expect me to pick up, I’m going to be sending you straight to voice mail, voice mail of my manager, voice mail of my PR, and just expect that kind of attitude from me. I’m going for that big head, alright, that sh*t right there, you know what I’m saying?

DiamondKesawn: The Lies you tell. Try it and find out just how Diamonds cut glass. LoL! But in all seriousness, you will continue in your greatness?

Dannell: Absolutely, as you will you.

RAmaggers, this book is one that forces you to look within yourself and find the role that you play. The character line-up is one that reminds you of your whole team. The situations that are explored are going to have you gasping for air while the sex scenes make you want to exhale. When I tell you Dannell Booker wrote this book in the name of Slayage. Oh yes, he did that.

DiamondKesawn: So now that it’s out there, it’s about to be national, it is national. It’s about to be international. It’s going to be the it-factor of the summer. Are you ready to hear what your friends are going to say, because they’re going to find out?

Dannell: I know what they’re going to say. They’re going to want to beat my a** over this.

DiamondKesawn: So are we going to try and see something like a mini-movie? I’m down. #RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 63

INDIE FILM

FROM THE VIEW OF THE CREATOR

THE WIDOWERS

Diamond Kesawn: Right. I love it! I love it!

Diamond Kesawn: Now, for me, it’s one of those films where you kinda find yourself saying, “hmm…” “Is this character me? ” “Is that character me ? ” “do I, do I? ” “wait, is this person more” You know?

You kinda start to diagnose your own self based on what is going on in the film?

Now, that it has been out for awhile and there has been lot of feedback and media feedback. What has the response has been so far other than just a great project overall.

Scott: People tend to be pretty engaged by it and, I found that people who have gone through some sort of really significant lost respond to the movie in a different way from those who haven’t.

Diamond Kesawn: So, can you first talk about the film on where the idea for this particular project came from?

Scott: Ah, my collaborator Richard Lovejoy, who is the star of the film, also wrote the scripts. He’s been working on this project for almost ten years. It was an idea that came to him a long time ago. He wrote a few versions and only a couple of years ago he really dug in and started to work on the script with us. The idea was to have a serious think, about how we process grief and what the grieving process is. Americans now, aren’t particularly good at grieving and it’s not really a healthy attitude we have about it. It’s not very productive. So we wanted it to really examine those themes that are serious but do it through a comedic glance with corky characters and the character Pam, you’ve mentioned who was just deeply misguided. Incredibly chipper, probably, somewhat a disturbed person.

Who was supposed to be trying to help these these widowers who have lost their spouses through grieving, but she’s always doing all the wrong ways. If she does help any of them it’s usually despite herself. Not because of something she was specifically trying to do. Grief really can be funny.

64 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

Rich, myself and several people involved in the film have gone through a tragic lost and.. you know, it’s funny because, when you go through a tragic lost, you feel so different from everyone else around you.

You feel so dramatically removed from everyday life and yet, everyday life is continuing all around you. And there’s an expectation or a requirement that you still kinda have to keep on participating. At least, at some point after, the initial period when you’re allowed to be in your crazy person potentially whining around just not functioning normally. But, you know, the pain of grief last a lot longer than that time period. When you’re allowed to kind of of behave like nuts. Comedic situations arise from that because, its people trying to play by the rules when they’re not really capable of it and.. Its people who… whether they’re genuinely.. You know? Sensitive to your grief and they’re trying to help you but they’re just not really capable, and not really good at doing so? I mean that could be really funny. Or whether there are people who just really don’t have time for it can reveal it. That can also be funny. The camera was born out of awkwardness of those interactions.

Diamond Kesawn: Ok. Scott: And both responses are totally valid.

People who have lost their spouse, child or something just.. just really tragic and troubling like that, they tend to relate to the drama side of it more and they tend to really see themselves in the character of Jake, who has lost his wife, who’s the one really struggling the most and is the center of the film and for those people who haven’t had that precise experience they tend to respond a lot more to the comedy. They tend to respond a lot to Pam, and they tend to respond a lot more to the overall humor of the earlier scenes in the movie. Where you know? We go pretty far, we have some pretty irreverent, pretty ridiculous jokes and premises. Namely around the spectacular, misguided, therapy games that Pam, the counselor, puts the group through from the time of the healing.

Diamond Kesawn: Ehehhehe (laughed) Scott: And I do think she means well. Pam is so… hilarious and also terrifying but then, she’s a person who has gone through her own lost and is supposed to really be

dealing with her own stuff, she very quickly decides to take control of it by helping others. Which is a good intention but, if you haven’t dealt with your own stuff, and you just dive in to something that’s a bit more than you can really handle and you haven’t dealt with all of your unexamined grief yourself, and it leads to the kind of hilariously, terrible therapy that Pam, puts the widowers through the film.

Diamond Kesawn: I love it! I love it!

Diamond Kesawn: Now, one of the things that really drew me to this film was the short synopsis; there was a part that says “ A truly independent project, the passion and energy of a group of first time filmmakers; shines through this unique film. That explores the comedy in grief” Now in this excerpt, When we get into this energy of the group and the first time filmmakers piece of it. What was like going into it? Was there a lot of fear walking into it and just really bringing this project to life? Or, did you say, “You know what? I got this, I’m ready.”?

Diamond Kesawn: I like it! Listen! RA managers he told you himself. You’ll laugh, you’ll cry, the film is unlike any others. You have to check it out! Scott, where can we find the film exactly? What are the platforms that they can get in touch with the brand?

Scott: There are a lot of them. It’s all over the place. It’s on the internet. There are lots of different choices. You can rent it, or you can download it, stream it. It’s on iTunes, that’s what a lot of people use. It’s on amazon instant video, it’s on vimeo, also, if you’re a gamer, it’s on Xbox and Playstation in the movie section of those consoles.

You can access all of it very easily. Just go to TheWidowers.com and you can choose where you want to watch it, where you want to download it, HD or HDR. Just go to thewidowers.com. The very first thing that you see on page is the trailer and all the buttons to click for various platforms where you can watch the movie on.

Scott: I’d have to say a mixture of both of those things. I mean… I was certainly terrified with a lot of things. But, we also really believed in the story that we wanted to tell and we were just committed to making it happen one way or another. It’s our first, this is my first film as a director.

It’s my first feature SAG film anyway, and a lot of people who worked for the film it was most of their first times doing a film at this level. For example, while the actresses have played small roles in tons of films and on TV, but this is the first time they will be playing a lead role in a feature film.

DiamondKesawn: Ok. Scott: So, that can be the same with all level of the cast and crew. So, we were really excited to get that opportunity and that was a sort of like, you know? It was our shot and we were committed to… to completing it. Now, without being said, it was like, the hardest thing I have ever done.

It was incredibly difficult, expensive and taxing. But, at the end of the day, it was more than worth it; because of the sense of accomplishment in being able to finish a feature film that is huge, but especially when you can tell a story that we think is unique. A unique story with a unique tone, and point of view, and we were able to make it in our own terms. We made exactly the movie the way we want it to. #RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 65

INDIE FILM

BEHIND THE LENS

“OUT IN THE NIGHT” This is a piece that forces you to realize that equality is still a dream that is still being fought for on a daily basis. To be labeled “The New Jersey 4” takes what is a hate crime against these ladies and turns these ladies into a ‘labeled’ threat.

We all know once a title is given it’s hard to have it removed.

Every now and then you find that film that forces you to snap out of the zone you call ‘Reality’ and break into the reality of others. For me this film is “Out in the Night.”

Out in the Night is a new documentary by Blair Dorosh-Walther that examines the 2006 case of The New Jersey 4. Through the lives of four young women, “Out in the Night” reveals how their race, gender identity and sexuality became criminalized in the mainstream news media and criminal legal system.

“Out in the Night” is a documentary that tells the story of a group of young African American lesbians who are out one hot August night in 2006, in a gay friendly neighborhood in New York City. They are all in their late teens and early twenties and come from a lowincome neighborhood in Newark, New Jersey. Two of the women are the focus – gender non-conforming Renata Hill, a single mother with a soft heart and keen sense of humor, and petite femme Patreese Johnson, a shy and tender poet.

As the group of friends walk under the hot neon lights of “Tattoo Parlors” in 66 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

the West Village, an older man sexually and violently confronts them. He says to Patreese “let me get some of that” as he points below her waist. When she says that they are gay, the man becomes violent and threatens to “f**k them straight”. He spits and throws a lit cigarette. Renata and Venice defend the group and a fight begins and is captured by security cameras nearby.

The man yanks out hair from Venice’s head and chokes Renata. Then, Patreese pulls a knife from her purse and swings at him. Strangers jump in to defend the women and the fight escalates. As the fight comes to an end, all get up and walk away. But 911 has been called and the man involved has been stabbed. Police swarm to the scene as their radios blast out warning of a gang attack. The women are rounded up and charged with gang assault, assault and attempted murder.

Three of the women plead guilty. But Renata, Patreese, Venice and friend Terrain claim their innocence. They are called a “Gang of Killer Lesbians” by the media. In activist circles they become known as “The New Jersey 4.”

Shedding light on such a controversial story takes true passion and fearlessness.

Director and Producer, Blair DoroshWalther identifies as gender nonconforming and uses both male and female pronouns. Blair is a social issue documentary director, experienced production designer, and artist with a passion for inspiring action for social justice through media. Blair graduated with a BFA in Film from NYU and was awarded the Adam Balsano Award for social significance in documentary filmmaking for her short documentary Metsi on water privatization’s impact on women in a South African township. The short documentary “Cry Don’t Cry” on bereavement experienced through the eyes of a diverse group of teenagers is distributed worldwide through Aquarius Videos and won the National Health Information Awards’ Silver Award in 2005. For Out in the Night, Blair, was awarded the Joyce Warshow Fund from Astraea Lesbian Foundation for Justice, a Special Jury Prize for Courage in Storytelling and Best Documentary – Audience Award from ImageOut Rochester, the Jury Award and Audience Award at the Seattle Lesbian and Gay Film Festival, Favorite Documentary at ReelQ Pittsburgh International LGBT Film Festival as well as a Film Independent Fast Track fellow in 2013, and was selected as a participant at the Sundance Producer’s Summit in 2012.

Out in the Night is her first feature documentary.

Words can’t fully express the depth of this documentary. Make sure you check it out at www.OutInTheNight.com. Also,

tune in to PBS as this documentary kicks off the 28th season of the POV (Point of View) documentary series on PBS. This documentary will air on Monday, June 22nd at 10 p.m. EST (check your local listings).

#RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 67

LOG ON AND SUBSCRIBE TODAY WWW.RAYBNOWAFFAIRMAGAZINE.COM

#RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 69

EDITORS TOP SIX! DiamondKesawn #RAmag

Quarter 2, 2015

TV SHOWS SCANDAL

EMPIRE

SCORPION

ELEMENTARY

MOM

BLACK-ISH

SINGLES EVERY MOMENT

THOUGHT I WAS A THOT

NO FLEX ZONE

TWERKIN 4 BIRKIN

WODIE

DRIP DROP

MOVIES OUT ALL NIGHT

70 PAGE #RAMag Spring 2015

THE WIDOWERS

FAST & FURIOUS 7

RUN ALL NIGHT

FOCUS

BLACKBIRD

Ballroom Celebs

Web Series

Tweets

Shanice

Latisha Revlon

Tarik St. Clair

Dawn Ebony

Jacen #JacenToldMe

Trade it All

Triangle

Q.U.E.E.N by Lyrik London

Edens Garden

Remix: The Web Series

StudvilleTV

Mya Finch

The Hairprincess ‫@‏‬hair_ princessd “ Sometimes God removes things from our lives for our own protection. Trust in Him.”

Jussie Smollett @JussieSmollett · Mar 18 I hope Yall enjoyed the season finale of @EmpireFOX this has been such an incredible ride and I couldn’t possibly thank Yall enough. #empire

Motivational Quotes @ DavidRoads · To be a great champion you must believe you are the best.

If you’re not, pretend you are.

-Muhammad Ali

#TeamDjTeddi @ TeamDjTeddi1 · creative CEO @DiamondKesawn does like no one else !!!

DiamondKesawn @ DiamondKesawn · Just hung up with the #Beautiful & #Talented @SerayahLove and she is such a Pleasure.

Wait til you sip the we brewed.

The Prosperity Guru @ reginaldcuffee · If you are playing the victim in your life story. CUT! Now rewrite that part so you are strong, amazing, and prosperous on all levels.

#RAMag Spring 2015 PAGE 71