Woman This Month - December 2012 by Red House Marketing

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December 2012 | Issue 118 | BD1 / SR10

Looking Good Deep Hues

Colour Coded Hidden Meanings

Listening Devices Hearing Messages

Pamper Yourself You Deserve It!

Winter Hair Days Beating The Cold

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People 14 Hamra Alam: Material matters

Shopping

08 Editor’s Choice: Colours of Christmas 10 Pick of the Month: Lacoste 12 Retail Therapy: What’s new on the retail scene!

Fashion 16 Fashion Forward: Sparkle and shine 18 Celebrities: What the stars are wearing 20 Get the Look: Build your own version 24 Feature: Belts for all occasions

Beauty

26 Beauty News: The latest products in stores 28 Fragrances: Lingering scents 30 Feature: Gothic and glam make-up

Home 40 Feature: Decorate your home for the season

Wellbeing

42 Feature: The big freeze 45 Column: The five fruits of Christmas

Online 47 Lime&Tonic: A zesty adventure

Parenting 48 Feature: Remembering to really listen 51 Column: Dealing with trauma

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Stay both warm and stylish with Massimo Dutti’s autumn/winter collection

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Looking Good Deep Hues

Colour Coded Hidden Meanings

Listening Devices Hearing Messages

Regulars 07 Letters: Tell us what you think of this issue 25 Campaign: Red is the colour 22 20 Tips: The finishing touches 31 10 Tips: Colours of the world 34 Where To: Pamper yourself 36 Social Butterfly: Who has been seen where? 52 Recipes: Sweet festivities 60 Horoscope: What this month holds for you 64 WoMentality: Dear Santa

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here can’t be a person in the Kingdom who doesn’t love December. The year’s final month is a favourite for men, women and children and offers people of all religions and nationalities a joyous reason to celebrate and unite. Of course there is Christmas, which brings with it Santa Claus, caroling, tree lighting and delicious (albeit slightly fattening) food. This is followed by New Year’s Eve — a huge celebratory night for people worldwide. Inspired by our new fashion and beauty editor, our 10 Tips article covers a Brazilian New Year tradition that suggests your fortune will be determined by the colour you wear on the last night of the year. Think of this issue as a Christmas cracke, fit to burst with inspiration for decorating your home, choosing appropriate attire and purchasing presents. We’ve gone all out in embracing the festive season and have included articles on how to dress for each event in Get the Look, eat well in our Five Fruits of Christmas article and even survive the winter chill in our Wellbeing piece — if you are venturing outside of Bahrain’s warm climate! If you are stuck for gift ideas, help the AIDS and HIV cause by purchasing (RED) goods which you will find in all manner of shops. We have covered where you can buy such items in the Campaign article to coincide with World Aids Day this month. Bahrainis will be rejoicing in two celebrations of their own; Bahrain Women’s Day which falls on December 1 and the Kingdom’s National Day on December 16. Look out for exhibitions, tournaments, firework displays, carnivals and other such events held in celebration of these important days. And if you really want to escape it all, check out the website that we have featured in our Online section to find out how to uncover some of the world’s most elite hot-spots. Whatever your plans for this month, the team at Woman This Month wish you a very merry festive season and a happy New Year. Remember to reflect on the past year, make time for your loved ones and don’t forget to make your resolutions. Happy holidays!

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Letters

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STAR LETTER The Parent Diaries

There is no book on the absolute dos and don’ts of parenting; as any parent will know, it is basically a lot of guess work combined with trial and error! However, from time to time it is great to get advice from professionals in this field, who can help provide guidance when mothers and fathers most need it. And that’s where Woman This Month’s Dr Clare Beckett-McInroy comes in. Persistent, prying, panic or pandemonium — how are you overdoing your role as a parent? Every month, I make sure I W don’t miss out on her insight as she explores various parenting dilemmas. The most recent article “Are You Overparenting?” was fantastic. I realised that I do in fact mollycoddle my kids a fair amount and should work to give them more space to grow (whether I want them to or not!). We are here to only steer and support our offspring and at some point they need to fly the nest and build lives for themselves. Just as Dr Clare advised, parents should help make their children’s dreams come true and in time let them show how far they really can go. Sasha, by email.

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Parenting

Are You Over-parenting?

By Dr Clare Beckett-McInroy

hile culturally and ethically there is an underlying and unwritten consensus about appropriate and inappropriate parenting, many are confused about what is the right amount and type required to ensure their children become confident, socialised, talented and productive for their future life. With this in mind, is over-parenting really a fair term or concept? Parental involvement has been studied for many years. Optimal parenting, referred to as a

Lose Yourself By Elma Bartholomew

Leave your watch at home, switch off your phone, tear up your itinerary and forget your bucket list. Surrender to the meandering spirit of exploration and just… get lost!

Varanasi, India

THE LOW-DOWN: Considered one of the holiest places on the sub-continent, Varanasi is where Hindu pilgrims come to wash a lifetime of sins in the Ganges, the river of salvation. It is named after the two rivers, Varuna and Asi, which meet here. Previously known as Benares and Kashi, this is the city of Lord Shiva, the most powerful god in Hinduism. Expiring here is thought to be the greatest blessing as it offers liberation from the cycle of birth and death. Believed to be the crossing ground between the physical and spiritual worlds, the city of light is home to intimate rituals conducted publicly on the ‘ghats’. Varanasi has an eerie yet bewitching aura which makes it an unforgettable experience because of the collective sense of rebirth and the sacred acts of cremation. X-FACTOR: Once you’re done taking in the magical side of this overwhelming city, walking along the intricate stairways and passages or taking a boat ride, you can take a trip back to the present day by visiting the markets. Varanasi is popular for its Banarasi saris made from silk, adorned with intricate designs and zari embellishments (threads of gold or silver). Shopaholics can find much more than brocaded fabrics here. Fetch the best of handmade brassware, jewellery, woodcraft, carpets, wall hangings, lampshades and masks of deities which make the perfect souvenirs. Foodies shouldn’t leave without trying out the langra mangoes and khoa, a dairy product. The daring epicurean can have a go at the Banarasi paan. BEST FOR: Culturologists will go crazy in the labyrinthine ‘Old City’. Varanasi boasts a unique culture of fine arts and literature. Watch an all-night open-air music concert and visit the various forts and museums within the area. Indulge in authentic ayurvedic treatments to relax muscles that have spent enthralling hours weaving through crowds of people. | November 2012

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children who do better academically, psychologically and socially, compared to those whose parents are permissive and less involved, or controlling and more involved. So, what makes this balancing act so successful and what can we learn from it? It is clear that these parents work on cultivating motivation. The term “authoritative parenting”, seen by many as the optimum mentoring style, is referred to as democratic, involving a childcentric approach in which parents hold high expectations for their children.

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Just like Alison said in her article on “Alternative Therapies”, acupuncture does seem a strange treatment to choose if you are after a dose of relaxation. But I do have many friends who regularly do this and so perhaps there is something in it after all. It seems to be much less invasive than I had thought and as an ancient form of medicine there must be some reason why it has been popular for hundreds of years. I think perhaps I will try it — I’ll let you know how I get on! Nadia, by email.

Let them grow up At a very practical level, this means that parents must not do things for children that they are capable or almost able of doing themselves. It should always be about the child’s needs. Some parents help their children or do tasks for them to satisfy their own needs, consciously or inadvertently. The main goal during ‘growing up’ is to develop a sense of self that is independent, confident and generally in accord with reality. If a baby is always carried even though it can actually walk, a carer diminishes their confidence and distorts reality. This is also the case when a child may, for example, be working on a creative project for their homework and a parent steps in to ‘help’ which involves re-writing or even re-designing the whole thing. Remember, it’s good to congratulate yourself when your child does something for themselves. You have done your job well. At times, the final result may not be quite what you wanted or expected. Yet, pointless intervention diminishes your child’s self-esteem and they can also feel angry at your prying. Finding the limit Isn’t it a parent’s job to help with those things that are just beyond your child’s reach? What defines over-parenting? In the early 1900s, following research and observation, Lev Vygotsky, an educational theorist, developed the concept of the zone of proximal development (ZPD) defined as the most www.womanthismonth.com

difficult task a child can do independently and the most difficult task the child can do with help. In short, interaction with a teacher, more able classmate, parent or helper can benefit a child on the edge of learning a new concept. They provide a standing ground in the same way that a scaffold enables a decorator to reach the highest parts of a room that would otherwise be out of reach. To help understand what a child needs help with, it’s important to observe them and to tap into how they are feeling. Are they confused, inquisitive or frustrated? Asking open-ended questions are useful here. The difficult part is

to know when you can step in with questions and ideas and when to leave your child to figure things out for themselves.

How to be an authoritative parent: l l l l l l l

Express warmth and nurturance Listen to your children Encourage independence Place limits, consequences and expectations on their behaviour Allow them to express opinions Administer fair and consistent discipline Encourage them to discuss options

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This month’s star letter will win a bag of goodies from Ford’s ‘Warriors in Pink’ collection. So, to get shopping send us your views and opinions on this month’s edition either by email to editor@ womanthismonth.com, by fax to 17 813-700 or by post to PO Box 20461.

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parent who is involved and responsive, who sets high expectations but respects their child’s autonomy, was a word used by Diana Baumrind, a clinical and developmental psychologist at the University of California in the ‘50s and ‘60s. What is important here is having boundaries while also listening to your child. As Madeline Levine, clinician, consultant and author asserted in the New York Times in August, such parents are seen to have a perfect balance of involvement and independence. Plus, they generally raise

Carol Dweck, a social and developmental psychologist at Stanford University, conducted a research that indicated that such parents raise more motivated, and in turn, more successful 40 | Novemb children. Her experiments involve, for example, er 2012 young children solving simple puzzles. Most did these tasks with little difficulty. The next part of the experiment involved Dr Dweck telling some of the children how clever, bright or capable they were. The result was that those children who were not told they’re smart were more motivated to tackle increasingly difficult puzzles. They also exhibited higher levels of confidence and showed greater overall progress in puzzle-solving. This may seem counterintuitive, but praising children’s talents and abilities seems to throw their confidence. Attempting more tricky puzzles carries the risk of losing their status as “amazing” and it deprives them from the thrill of choosing to work simply for its own sake, regardless of end result. The consequence is that reasonably supporting a child’s autonomy, and limiting interference, leads to better academic and emotional outcomes. In short, don’t over-praise.

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I have never been someone who desires to go travelling (the idea of roughing it and carrying a huge rucksack doesn’t really do it for me!), but I have to admit that your travel articles are very alluring. I particularly liked the November issue’s topic; the idea of losing myself in a far away place is definitely a good idea. I think every so often we all need to escape the routine of our daily lives and go somewhere completely different. I will definitely be encouraging my friends to go to Kyoto with me at some point — it looks absolutely beautiful! Dana, by email.

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Shopping

Editor's Choice

Salsa

Pasquale Bruni

It’s time to let Christmas into your home. Think cute little Santa Claus figurines, snowmen, reindeers, a towering Christmas tree and so many other objects; it will be all about reds, greens, browns, white and golden. Don’t forget to hang your stockings and send your wish-list to Santa — you still have time to get your most wanted fashion items.

Meadham Kirchhoff at Net-a-Porter

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Shopping

Pick of the Month Even classics need to be renewed every so often. Collaborations between brands and artists are a great way to reinterpret iconic and loved products.

Why it was selected The iconic brand Lacoste has launched its annual Holiday Collector’s Series. This year, the Brazilian Campana Brothers were commissioned to create a signature for the luxury sport brand’s well-known polos. It is the second time the brand has worked with the Brazilian duo. The collection always plays with the beloved crocodiles, giving a twist to the classic single croc on the left side of the chest.

What we like The designers Fernando and Humberto Campana work with different and controversial materials and take their inspiration from furniture design. In 2003, while exploring new forms of upholstery, they created a technique of rolling together different sort of materials as fabrics, carpets, felt and rubber nets. Flat and three-dimensional elements formed colourful swirls to be applied in many pieces. With this celebration of the Japanese rice roll’s appearance in its arrangement of colour and texture, they shaped their ‘Sushi’ collection What else to look for which encompasses chairs, sofas, tables, puffs The ‘Sushi’ theme has been translated on to the Lacoste 2012 Holiday Collection with the buffets and objects. crocodile emblem arranged into a spiral becoming a playful interpretation of the designer’s trademark. The women’s edition features two swirls of colourful crocs on the left chest area, while the men’s edition has one larger swirl of black or white crocs.

Where to find it Shop for Lacoste at Bahrain City Centre. Call 17 179-530.

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Shopping

Retail Therapy Are you ready for the festive season? If you are planning your gift list, take a look in our selection and pick your favourite items.

Eternal Style

Carrera y Carrera has crafted a selection of jewels for the holiday season that any lady will love to receive. The precious pieces are a great investment; they are timeless and can be passed from generation to generation.

A Spell of Festivity

For the holiday season, L’Occitane has launched a special limited-edition range to keep us smelling good this Christmas. The Marvellous Flower and Magic Leaves collection includes body and hand cream, intense eau de toilette roll-on, eau de toilette shimmering oil, shower gel and perfumed soap. The scents were inspired by the flowers and leaves of the enchanted forests of Provence.

The Christmas Jumper

Charity Time

Knitted jumpers are a fantastic recurring autumn/ winter trend that remind us of comfortable sofas and hot chocolate. Stella McCartney has designed a Christmas-specific range for theoutnet.com complete with a super cute polar bear and festive feel.

Christmas is a time for celebration, but also a period to think about doing good. The Bahrain Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals will have their Christmas Fete on December 8 at the Dilmun Club with lots of goodies for sale, an opportunity to buy some gifts and help the organisation.

Stocking Fillers

Bright Wrist

Omega is joining in the festivities with a glittering star of its collection; the Omega Ladymatic wristwatch. It combines feminine grace and elegance with technological innovation. The timepiece is a combination of red gold and 894 diamonds to make any woman shine. 12

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The world-famous Swiss truffles and chocolate brand Sprüngli is sure to make us all gain weight with its beautifully-prepared special gift boxes for the festive season. The hand-made assortments are a delicious present for friends and family and will please even the pickiest relative. You can purchase it online and send it to your beloved ones.

A Festive Feast

If you don’t feel like cooking this Christmas you can give yourself a treat and enjoy your celebration at Trader Vic’s, the French Polynesian restaurant at the Ritz-Carlton Hotel. Using traditional ingredients, such as pumpkin, duck, turkey and pudding, the chef will prepare a comforting menu for the occasion. www.womanthismonth.com

People

Material Matters By Alison Coldridge

Woman This Month is always on the look-out for highachieving individuals. We have found one multitasking woman who designs her own fashion line in addition to helping others.

go-getting entrepreneur, Hamra Alam is fast becoming a well-known name in the Kingdom. The England-raised all-rounder has created a clothing collection in addition to hosting various charitable and businessminded events regularly. Her fashion label titled “Hamra Alam” is indicative of the type of woman that she is — forward-thinking, self-assured and distinctive. It was launched in Dubai in 2003 and bought by major shopping malls across the emirate. The label features an array of designs for today’s modern women and uses Arabian silhouettes fused with contemporary styles to create pieces that appeal to women of all cultures and ages. “I incorporate one of a kind cuts and rare styles,” explains Hamra. “My line is designed to be passed on from generation to generation and includes timeless collections with pieces

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such as capes, kaftans and cocktail dresses. Additionally, I design sophisticated clothing for men and fairytale dresses for little girls.” The themes evoked from her clothing are depicted in the fashion shows that Hamra holds. “They are known for their powerful mystery and raw energy, as well as the romantic, nature of the clothing,” she says. “Integral to the Hamra Alam designs is the juxtaposition between contrasting elements of femininity, strength and the traditional majesty. I believe that clothing is the extension of ones soul, a way to express yourself clearly to everyone through what you wear.” Hamra’s latest designs, the “Suit Yourself Collection 2012/13” is tailor-made for every customer and features brightly-coloured jazzy jacquard jackets. Currently, the collection is available at the Ritz-Carlton Bahrain “Le Monelle” and Hamra

has plans to open a concept store here in the Kingdom soon, plus hopes to make her pieces available in other GCC countries including Kuwait, Saudi Arabia and Qatar. Actively involved in the community When she isn’t busy creating clothing, Hamra teaches fashion and design, styles for others and is involved in many areas of business. Hamra strongly supports the disabled community and has organised numerous fundraisers through her venture “Lights, Camera, Fashion”. She brings together like-minded people by giving emerging young talents the opportunity to grow, build solid relationships with businesses and simultaneously gives back to society. Call 36 159-841 or visit www.hamraalam.com. www.womanthismonth.com

Fashion

Fashion Forward

Take advantage of the holiday season to sparkle like seasonal tree lights or New Year’s Eve fireworks. It’s time to celebrate the good things that happened and let any bad memories fade away. Let it shine!

Small But Precious

It’s well known big purses are a great help when fitting all your ‘can’t live without’ female important things, but parties demand small handbags or clutches. This Aldo golden piece is a perfect match for evening dresses where you, rather than your handbag, are the star.

Shining Spot

If you want to be discreet, but still shine, choose the classical gold plus diamond (or any brilliant piece) to put up your look. A black, red or cobalt dress with this flashy Carolina Herrera bracelet will deliver the right dose of elegancy. If you are a trend seeker, enjoy the opportunity to try opulent accessories with your holiday’s outfits.

To Be Remembered

Looking for a great entrance or trying to attract everyone’s attention all party long? Go for a total golden look. This Michael by Michael Kors dress will definitely get you noticed. Simple cuts and short lengths are the best options when choosing a sparkling outfit, leave the long shining gown to the Oscar. 16

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Fairytale Land

Who is the girl that never dreamed to be Cinderella for one night and wear her crystal shoes? With parties galore at this time of the year, you can turn your princess dreams in reality. This eye-catching Jimmy Choo shoe is just what you need.

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Black and Gold

‘Sophistication’ is the word that pops into your mind when you see these colours together. A Paco Rabanne golden top celebrates the female touch when worn with a black and classic suit. It is the right choice when going to your company’s Christmas celebrations. It shows the power and femininity of the modern woman.

Boyish Style

When male meets female in fashion, the results are often intriguing. These shoes from Esquivel, at theoutnet.com, offer a boyish touch for a bold girl. Skinny black or white trousers and a flowing top are a perfect combination for a casual, yet posh, look. It will speak volumes for your personality.

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Fashion

What the

Stars

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By Fernanda Langhammer

It would seem that our favourite red carpet actresses and supermodels are rocking statement accessories to be â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;on styleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;. Check out our top picks. Sharon Stone Fendi Eyewear was the pick from the unforgettable blonde actress to walk around protecting her blue eyes from the bright lights. Wearing sunglasses at night or within enclosed places is probably a strategy only for superstars!

Demi Moore When leaving the airport in Los Angeles, Demi Moore was spotted carrying a brown and taupe leather handbag from Salvatore Ferragamo. The relaxed style got transformed with the delicate heels and classic handbag.

Chanel Iman The actress chose one of the runway looks from Salvatore Ferragamo Resort 2013 collection to go to The Flawsome Ball in New York. The long halter neck dress with a python printed-motif offered both elegance and joviality. 18

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Maria Jose Suarez For a magazine event in Madrid, the model wore a Michael Kors mini-dress. She added a focal point when choosing red sandals and matching clutch; a perfect way to put some colour in your look. www.womanthismonth.com

Katie Holmes The ex-Mrs. Cruise went out for her daily routine with a Tod’s handbag, allowing her to maintain her traditional but elegant style. We give the thumbs up, though, for not matching exactly the tone of her brown shoes and handbag.

Naomi Watts The British actress left the airport carrying a Marc Jacobs handbag, crossing her shoulders. The accessory is certainly small for her belongings, but we women know that sometimes it is all about style. Kate Moss The model chose grey colours for her look when walking on the streets. To add a touch to her urban style, she picked a Carolina Herrera oversized bag from the brand’s Matryoshka collection.

Amy Adams Tod’s handbag is a must-have among celebrities. Amy Adams chose one to go with her flowing dress on this sunny day. A smaller option would probably have been a better fit! www.womanthismonth.com

Victoria Justice The young American actress/singer went to the premiere of her movie Fun Size wearing a yellow cocktail dress from Versace and black pointed-toe pumps. When putting black and yellow together, however, be careful to not end up resembling a bee! December 2012 |

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If you haven’t yet picked your outfits for the numerous festive events, be inspired by the two looks we’ve spoilt you with. Get ready for Christmas and prepare to party on New Year’s Eve. H&M

Santa Baby Rock the ultimate Christmas colour with a twist. Go for burgundy; a deep hue taken directly from the catwalk. You can wear it with dark green, beige shades, gold or even the companion for all times, black.

Paspaley New Look

Bourjois

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Miss Selfridge

Bright New Beginnings Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s the end of another year and time to think about all your achievements and to reflect on things you still want to conquer. Saying goodbye to 2012 in great style is a way to start the upcoming year with a good feeling. Opt for neutral colours with a pinch of sparkle. You are allowed to shine more than regular days; after all, it is firework time. December 2012 |

20 Tips Showcase

The

Finishing Touches

By Maryam Toorani

Accessories can transform a simple look into an outfit that will get everyone talking. Weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve rounded up 20 ways to help you pay more attention to detail this winter. 22

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The shoes

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Walk tall. Want to add a little drama to your outfit? Over-theknee boots are just what you need. Wear flat boots during the day and take things up a notch with high heels for a night out.

12. Old is gold. Vintage is in and can be seen on shoes, bags and jewellery everywhere. To pull this off, pair retro inspired peep toe heels with dark stockings.

13. Point in the right direction. Another hot shoe style is the pointy toe. Choose between pumps, flats and even boots to give your outfit a sophisticated woman in charge feel.

14. Channel the Chelsea look. Every girl needs a Chelsea

boot this winter. Casual with an edge, this shoe has been favoured by Alexa Chung, Jessica Alba and Kate Moss.

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The accessories

1. Be practical. Use big thick wool scarves to keep warm during the cold months while still being on trend. Go for rich colours or wide stripes to instantly transform a casual outfit.

2. Pack it up. This season, use your handbag to make a statement. Switch up your worn out tote for a cross-body bag or satchel with leather rims and metallic accents.

3. Don’t forget shades. Sunglasses aren’t just for the summer;

get a pair of retro ones to protect your eyes from the strong winter sun.

Clutch it. For a handbag that can brighten up a simple outfit, try a unique shaped clutch. Choose one with embellishments, studs, spikes or even fur for bonus fashion points!

5. Up-size. Statement necklaces were big in the summer and to our

delight they have made their way into this season’s must-have list. Wear a bold piece with a neutral jumper and high bun.

6. Reach for the glitter. Shine is all the rage this season, so why

not extend this trend to your waist? A thin jewelled belt over a structured jacket gives you the perfect hourglass silhouette.

7. Hold your head high. Another favourite is the choker

necklace. This item is a great way to dramatise and show off your collar bone.

Update a classic. Looking to take a little fashion risk? Wedged high top sneakers can give your wardrobe just the right amount of attitude. Pair with super skinny jeans if you want to show some personality!

The head gear

16. Rock a turban. Head pieces were huge on the autumn/winter runways. Daring fashionistas can turn floral print or jewel-toned scarves to wear as a turban.

17. Light it up. Hair streaks are back, and no, not the platinum

blonde ones we sported in the 90s. Add a neon coloured extension in your loose bun like Oscar de la Renta’s models for a chic and sophisticated look.

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Ditch what’s old. Say goodbye to your simple black elastic headband and say hello to a whole new range of hair accessories. Go for pieces with studs, spikes or the season’s ‘it’ colour, cobalt blue, to complement your up-do.

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Top it off. Hats are always popular. For a subtle and feminine appearance, get yourself a cloche style. The 1920s inspired hat goes well with flirty dresses, skirt suits and trench coats.

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Work the bridal look. Wedding inspired pieces have been seen all over the catwalks and red carpet events and it is slowly translating into the streets. Take a hint from The Great Gatsby ladies and try a crystal embellished headband.

Bloom and blossom. Floral is still in, from brooches, hair pins, necklaces and bracelets. Pump up your feminine style with a bold floral cocktail ring.

9. Try a touch of boho. The feather trend first started in 2011 and it seems to be getting bigger every season. Sport an elaborate feather earring or a long colourful necklace for a dressy but laid-back vibe.

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Modernise yourself. The futuristic look has seeped its way into our accessories cabinet. Opt for earrings, rings, necklaces and watches with modern shapes made of metals, plastic or stones. www.womanthismonth.com

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Fashion

Silhouette

Wrapper Salsa

New Look

Gap Mango

Custo Barcelona

Stradivarius

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River Island

Karen Millen

Salvatore Ferragamo

By Malene Birger

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Fashion tip:

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Campaign

Red is the Colour By Alison Coldridge

While there is no harm in enjoying every moment of this festive month, take the time to consider those less fortunate as one particular World Day returns with some hardhitting statistics.

orld AIDS Day is observed on December 1 every year and has become one of the most recognised international health days. It is dedicated to raising awareness of the AIDS pandemic caused by the spread of HIV infection. However, this recognition shouldn’t be refined to 24-hours, an aim that campaigns such as (RED) are trying to counteract. This initiative’s manifesto wants to deliver an AIDS free generation, an achievement that statistics show is possible. In 2010, 1,000 babies were born every day with HIV and by this year that number was reduced to 900. By 2015 this figure can be near zero if help is given to stop the transmission of the disease from mothers to their babies. How you can help Items associated with the campaign are available to buy in all manner of places worldwide. The price between a non-(RED) item and a (RED) one is no different and so you won’t find yourself any poorer after your purchase. Upon your purchase, 100 per cent of the money you spend goes directly to the Global Fund, an initiative that finances HIV and AIDS programmes in Africa. www.womanthismonth.com

The (RED) partners As previously mentioned, the choice of products supporting the campaign is vast. Companies from Coca Cola, to Starbucks, to Apple, to Belvedere Vodka are involved, each selling (RED)-specific items to fund the cause. If you can’t find the items in stores in the Kingdom, you can shop online. Results so far To date, US$195m has been contributed to the Global Fund to fight the infection. This money has helped 14 million people and significantly lessened the statistics of those affected by this terminal disease. An HIV positive pregnant woman can give birth to an HIV free baby as 98 per cent of mother-to-child HIV transmission incidents are preventable with the correct medicine. Heartbreakingly, half of the children born with the disease will die before their second birthday if they don’t receive treatment. To reach an AIDS-free generation, it will take 1.4 million HIV positive women on medication that costs just 40 cents a day. Visit www.joinred.com or www.worldaidsday.org. December 2012 |

Beauty News

Beauty

Beautiful hair, skin and make-up are the key to achieving any desired look. Check out the new products we’ve spotted to ensure you spend the last days of the year looking fabulous.

Love Your Body

Festive Goddess

Just as you treat your face, your body should get the same attention. Soothe dry skin with the Love, Love, Love Body Lotion from Bath & Body Works. The range is fortified with shea butter, jojoba oil and vitamin E to hydrate with moisture that lasts all day. The non-greasy formula absorbs quickly leaving a floral scent. Available at Bath & Body Works.

Clarins has created a festive make-up collection called Odyssey, inspired by the Greek goddess. With sumptuous matte and metallic tones, the range includes jewel-like powders to leave you shining and shimmering. And best of all, the timeless shades are ideal for enhancing your pale complexion all year long. Available at all leading retailers.

Colour Your Lips

Bourjois’ new lipstick collection Rouge Edition includes 18 eye-catching shades for all styles and taste. Picking your lipstick will be like choosing your outfit. Perfect for winter, an orchid blossom product has a smooth texture and prompts softness to protect from harsh winds. Available at all leading retailers.

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Long Lashes

Forget about false lashes with Too Faced Better Than False Lashes innovation. The lash extension system boasts nylon fibers in a do-it-yourself system that follows three steps. First a mascara layer to create a base, next apply the fibers and finally seal with mascara again. Try it for a dramatic look. Available at all leading retailers.

Spot On

Too busy or lazy to go for a manicure? With Sephora’s nail patch manicure art, you have no excuse; your fingertips are going to look gorgeous. These easy-to-use stick-on polish patches are applied directly to the nail. The practical system guarantees a flawless application and is available in fuchsia and purple. Available at Sephora. www.womanthismonth.com

All in One

Be Your Best cream from Philosophy is a multitasking blemish balm cream that works quickly to deliver flawless looking skin. It comes in two shades to create a nude skin effect, while offering an intense burst of hydration. Available at all leading retailers.

Sweet Protection Sometimes you donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t want to put on perfume because your deodorant has a strong fragrance. If you are big fan of Mauboussin Pour Elle perfume you must try the sensual deodorant, perfumed with the same scent. It offers effective protection throughout the day and gives you double aroma when combining the two products. Available at all leading retailers.

Perfect Complexion

Get closer with Revlon PhotoReady Airbrush Mousse Makeup without fearing your facial flaws. The air-infused product provides a smooth and poreless complexion. It contains photochromatic pigments that blend and reflect light to minimise the imperfections and the soft texture is perfect for everyday use. Available at all leading retailers.

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Beauty

Scents Lingering

A long-lasting perfume has always been a wonderful gift to give to a loved one. Take heed from our five top choices to ensure you don’t go wrong!

A Dazzling Trail

The eau de toilette, Elie Saab Le Parfum, features a fleeting orange blossom scent mingled with subtle rose honey notes to create a similar essence to the eau de parfum. It oozes the freshness of the mandarin tree blossom, the sensuality of gardenia and the vibrancy of vibrancy. Available at leading retailers.

Angel’s Scent

A radiant and tantalising blend of pink pepper, lush peony and cashmere create the new Victoria’s Secret perfume, Dream Angels Glow. If you want to change your fragrance for the season, this cool scent will give you a lift and will linger on your skin all day and night. Available at Victoria’s Secret.

Floral Potion

DSquared2 has launched its new fragrance as an expression of tradition, femininity and timeless quality. Combining blackcurrant, vanilla, patchouli and a selection of floral notes with rose, lily, jasmine and violet, this scent comes alive in a contemporary glass bottle inspired by ancient alchemists. Available at leading retailers.

Modern Femininity

The new fragrance from Juicy Couture, Viva la Juicy La Fleur, explores a new facet of the original scent. Featuring a sparkling floral bouquet it is soft and sheer and leaves a fresh and feminine essence perfect for the modern woman. Available at Juicy Couture.

Oriental Express

Zahee by Ajmal combines western and oriental ingredients with a blend of musky woody and floral notes. This concentrated perfume radiates the aromatic essence of galbanum and bergamot with base notes of jasmine, rose and patchouli. Available at Ajmal.

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GRIMAS

Transform Yourself

Forget the days when letting your child have a face paint brought them out in a rash. An innovative theatrical cosmetic brand offers an extensive collection of products, all which are safe and gentle to use.

e’ve unearthed the talents of Grimas; a company that deals in professional make-up and will have you seamlessly transformed in no time at all. The product range is ideal for make-up artists’ use and includes everyday-wear and theatrical use products. There are water-based items for face painting, cream make-up for cosmetics and theatre, pressed products, accessories, applicators, film blood, tooth enamel, skin glue and malleable materials for making skin disfiguration effects. Remove each product with no irritation with Grimas’ choice of cleansing products. By maintaining close working relationships with industry professionals, the brand is always at the forefront of cosmetic developments. Currently, the company is introducing fluorescent products to the market, making a distinction between colours that light up under ‘black light’ and products with bright daylight shades. With a mission to never compromise on safety, the products are all preservative-free and untested on animals. Plus, the use of anything but the very gentlest colourants that have been developed for cosmetic products is not open to discussion. Safety for the skin, transparency of information and products that do exactly what they promise to do are the foundations that Grimas is built on. Call 17 004-656 or 77 005-981.

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Beauty

Goth and Glam Make-up It’s Christmas! The time has come for festive celebrations and your everyday make-up shouldn’t be your choice for these special moments. What about trying something different? Follow the international trends and opt for a gothic-chic look.

ucci, Balenciaga, Nina Ricci and numerous other brands presented the gothic trend in their autumn/winter collections. And like usual, all the runway ideas are translated straight to the high street and cosmetic collections.

Gucci

The concept of gothic can seem daunting but instead of transforming yourself into a dark lady, add a few shady highlights to give some sultry appeal to your look. For a while this look was banished from fashion and was linked to grunge and

Versace

Face preparation First of all, wash and dry your face a few minutes before applying the make-up — oily skin will make you look greasy and plastic, as well as clog your pores and create pimples. Next, apply a primer to improve the amount of time the cosmetic lasts on your face. For a pale complexion, apply a foundation that is just a few shades lighter than your natural skin colour and make sure to blend thoroughly to avoid any streak marks. Cover the area around the eyes well; they are usually darker than the rest of the skin. Once your foundation application is complete, end with a finishing powder. Apply just a little bit of blush right under the cheekbone, starting at the middle of the cheek and swiping towards the ear.

rebellious style. However, now with an ounce of elegance the theme has new perspective and even the top celebrities are sporting the vamp look. All it comes down to is three simple steps…

Katy Perry

Juicy lips To create irresistible lips, start by dusting your mouth with a little loose powder. It will help to eliminate any moisture and avoid any smudging on the outer corners. Next, grab a dark red, burgundy or deep purple lipstick; apply it to the center of your lips spreading carefully to the corners. A helpful tip is to use a lip brush when dealing with deep hues; it allows you to have more control over the application. Red lipstick tends to bleed easily and might be hard to clean. Finally, add some volume applying a lip gloss with the tip of your fingers. Now you are ready to party with an outstanding makeup!

Eye shadow Stormy colours such as charcoal grey, cloudy silver, intense navy and deep plum are ideal to achieve the gothic-glam look. Use a thin eyeliner brush and black gel eyeliner to line the top and bottom lash line of each eye from inner corner to outer corner. You can also apply a black pencil in your eye waterline to add a deeper look. Colour your lid with matte shades and blend it into the skin so that the outside edges are ‘smokey’. If you are not looking to make a strong statement, focus only in a black, thick and long lash. 30

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Colours

of the

By Maryam Toorani

World

A fresh start is right around the corner and it is important to begin the New Year on the right foot. So wear the colour that shows how you mean to go on.

10 Tips

Colour symbolism plays a major role in many cultures. Many people believe that if you wear a certain hue on New Yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Eve, you can usher in good fortune.

1. White

White is known to represent peace around the world. Wear an ensemble in this colour if you are hoping to usher in January in a harmonious way.

2. Red

Red is for the fierce and those looking for a big change next year. Passion, will-power and energy are all characteristics that this colour will help you gain.

3. Purple

This shade promotes spirituality. It is suggested to be worn if you are looking for inspiration and positive energies, and also for people looking for new paths.

4. Green

Hope and faith is what many people believe you can get from this earthy tone. Adding a little green to your outfit will also bring good health and strength.

5. Orange

This gives you energy and is a good colour if you want to focus on your studies. Additionally, orange is also believed to influence partnerships and relationships.

6. Pink

One for the lovers! Who knows, maybe all you need is a little pink dress to find that perfect someone. Of course it is not just about the romantics; this colour will help you love others and yourself.

7. Blue

Have you had a hectic year? Blue brings you tranquility. Start off with calm days by donning the colour of the sea. It is also said to bring kindness.

8. Yellow

A good mood, wisdom and self esteem are represented by yellow. It can also strengthen your finances, so if you have been eyeing a promotion, make sure you are seen in this sunny shade.

9. Gold

Gold naturally brings prosperity and success. Be it a degree, pay rise, shift in your career or even emotionally â&#x20AC;&#x201D; riches will follow.

10. Silver

This midnight tone is the colour of balance. Also, if you are looking for new challenges to change things up in your life, slip on something metallic and gear up for exciting times to come. www.womanthismonth.com

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Showcase TONI&GUY

The Best Possible Hair Care Trust only the best to look after your locks. Book an appointment with the London-trained stylists at this famous salon to maintain strong and healthy hair that looks great.

s one of the most powerful hairdressing brands in the world, Toni&Guy is constantly evolving artistically and commercially. Extensive education for both staff members and customers is offered, in addition to boasting fabulous product ranges and a dynamic modern image. Celebration Toni&Guy will be having its own fashion show in Seef Mall in January to celebrate the start of the New Year. The event will present the skill and talent of the Toni&Guy stylists; all of whom are UK trained from the Toni&Guy Academy in London. The company’s methodology is to have specialists in every field, which is why specialised colour technicians are separate from hair stylists and hair designers. The art director and stylists spend time to help you make the right decision about your hair — providing advice and inspiration in a free consultation session. In the salon you can purchase essentials to help you style your hair from home, including the famous Balmain Hair Extensions, non-formaldehyde KeraStraight Keratin and Protein hair revitalising treatments. Furthermore, Toni&Guy is the only place in the Kingdom to stock the prestigious label.m hair care products. Call 17 001-700 or visit www.toniandguybahrain.com.

GULF PHARMACY

Turn Back the Clock L Long gone are the days when a thin head of hair was a major beauty dilemma. With today’s modern technologies, thick luscious locks are only a product away.

iving in the Gulf region, we are exposed to harsh climates that affect our skin and health. Now experts say that the humid weather can also result in unhealthy hair and scalp. Statistics even show that 40 to 50 per cent of men and women around the world will suffer from thinning hair by the time they reach 60. Kaminomoto Hair Growth products from Japan have been in the market for nearly 100 years, with an exceptional track record of having being used as a means to keep locks thick and healthy. The Japanese products are an effective and proven way to combat thinning tresses and also treat dandruff. A unique Kaminomoto product called ‘Trigger’ has shown to remarkably reverse the balding process. The product is a tonic that accelerates hair growth by directly targeting the root and simultaneously promoting growth. It increases the network of the capillary vessels in the scalp, which results in supplying abundant nutrition to the roots of the hair, producing thick strong strands. The experts at Kaminomoto combine modern research technology with the power of natural medicinal plants grown in Japan. The science behind the success of the brand is all down to the ingredients that stimulate blood circulation. So, if you have recently been noticing your hair thinning, head down to any Gulf Pharmacy branch and get your hair-loss remedy. Call 17 239-383 or visit www.gctbahrain.com.

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Award-winning Salon DESSANGE

If you are a spa, salon or fitness fanatic, at least indulge in the best possible service, care and outcome at Bahrain’s award-winning ladies centre.

omprising of a tranquil spa, a prestigious hair and beauty salon and an energetic fitness centre, Dessange is the ideal place to make yourself over for the New Year. The ladies-only centre is always buzzing with activity and offers some of the most innovative treatments on the island. Whether you want to spend your Christmas bonus on a new hair do, a day of pampering at the spa or a course of personal training sessions, Dessange has it all. And it has the awards to prove it. Recently, the centre has won two esteemed beauty awards. The Award for Excellence was given to recognise the Bahrain outlet as the best Dessange salon in the world, outside of France. The award was presented to the salon manager, Badia Dhrari, for the best expression of the brand, for adhering to the brand’s code and quality control and for attention to detail. Additionally, the centre was noticed for its notable customer service, understanding its client’s needs and going the extra mile. The second award was for being the Best Dermalogica Skin Centre in the Middle East, as www.womanthismonth.com

voted by Dermalogica at this year’s Middle East Congress & Awards. The prestigious honour was received by the spa manager Suphavidree Nascomchai (Eit) and recognises Dessange’s therapists as some of the best in the region. Ready for 2013 The salon boasts the very latest services and products of hair styling, beauty, exercise, nutrition and spa rituals. From the moment you step inside the chic venue, you will begin to relax, unwind and leave your troubles behind. Dessange offers state-of-the-art treatments and services in a luxurious setting, providing a location to placate all your woes. You can purchase renowned products from the spa and salon to achieve everyday beauty at home, including Dessange’s very own season-specific make-up range. Hygiene and cleanliness are the company’s principles and help to ensure that every woman leaves feeling beautiful — just in time for 2013! Call 17 713-999. December 2012 |

Spoil Me Silly

Pamper yourself

By Maryam Toorani

As women of the 21st century, we work, support our spouses, care for our families, maintain a social life and find the time to strive for our dreams. We donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t, however, have the time to wait around until somebody decides to spoil us â&#x20AC;&#x201D; especially since we can just do it ourselves. This month, as the New Year approaches make time for you. 34

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Relax your senses One of the best ways to pamper yourself is a day out at the spa. If your job involves sitting at a desk all day working on a computer, then you are bound to have some tight knots around your neck and shoulders. Nothing a good back massage can’t fix though, and why not add a nice foot rub while you’re at it. If you want to try something you never had before, go for a Moroccan bath. You may think that sitting in a tub while someone scrubs you down is unusual but that resulting squeaky clean skin is well worth it. A new you When you look good, you feel good. A great way to change your mood and get excited for the New Year is to get a makeover. Nothing drastic of course, a simple hair cut or colour change can do you wonders. Pair this with your spa treatment in the same day and you will feel recharged, appreciated and ready to take on the world in no time. Work it out Have you always wanted to get back into shape but can’t seem to find the time? Treat yourself to a year’s worth of gym membership so you won’t make any excuses and come summertime, you will be leaner than ever. Exercise not only keeps you fit but also stimulates your brain and is a great mood booster. The gym is also a great way to meet new people and socialise with other women who share your interests.

Go big or go home You’ve been working hard all year to bag that promotion, and what better way to pat your own back than to treat yourself to a bigmoney purchase; you know you deserve it. This year could be the time to invest in the car of your dreams, just make sure you check out all your options and go with the choice that is right for you. Show me your jewels Diamonds are a girl’s best friend. It’s true, but gold and pearls can be her good pals too. Whatever your preference, there is nothing wrong with spoiling yourself with a little bling. Get classic, simple pieces that won’t go out of trend. All about aroma Many believe that fragrances can help you create your own identity. Since smell is one of the most powerful senses, we agree. Head down to your favourite mall and spritz away until you find a perfume that best lifts your mood. Shop until you drop Let’s admit it. If we women had to choose our favourite pastime without the worry of being judged, we would all go with shopping. There is probably no better way to treat yourself than by going all out on a shopping spree, and what better time to do so than when the season is changing. Just think about it — boots, scarves and sweaters. Take a friend with you to keep your credit card in check.

Get away Who says you need a partner or spouse for an exotic getaway? Grab your girlfriends and plan an exciting fun-filled weekend escape. Treat yourself to a short break from your daily routine. Trust us, you will come back energised and with a new perspective. How about a nice relaxing resort in Dubai or a ski trip to snowy Jordan? A new crib Do you constantly look through interior design blogs and dream of imitating their looks? Well, why not? It’s time to recreate that celebrity closet you’ve been drooling over. If you have a limited budget, then simple tricks like colourful throw pillows or a new rug can also do the trick. Whatever your decorating ideas may be, changing up the environment around you is a great way to embrace a new year. A night out Are you slaving away with a new diet? Giving yourself a break once in a while not only satisfies the foodie in you, but it can also accelerate your weight loss efforts. This month, use your ‘cheat’ day as an excuse to indulge into a fine dining experience instead of getting a takeout from a fast-food venue. Go to your favourite restaurant and don’t forget to dress to the nines.

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Social Butterfly

Think Pink Charity Event At World Beat Fitness Center The World Beat Fitness Center in Janabiya held an open day to raise funds for the Think Pink Charity

Participants at the event

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Klara, Cristine & Jane

Kaoru & Antoinette

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Kids with their giveaways

Gymboree Kids Activity Event

Gymboree held a Kids Activity event at Kids Ville, Bahrain City Centre. The children enjoyed storytelling, followed by quiz competition related to the story and giveaways A storytelling session in progress

A child with Gymboree staff

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Staff member with a kid

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Social Butterfly

American Mission Hospital Costume Parade For Charity

The American Mission Hospital (AMH) organised an international costume parade entitled ‘It’s a Small World’ at the Diplomat Radisson Blu Hotel, Residence & Spa to raise funds to support free breast cancer screenings Some of the participants at the event

Bahnaz Abbas, Senior Manager Fundraising Community and Marketing AMH, Julia Tovey, Chief Operating Officer, AMH & HE Khalid Ishaq, Asst. Undersecretary of Ministry of Social Development

Anne Al Zayani

Ronel, Ali, Beverley & Zelda

Saliha & Hani

Franca & Francesco

Razan & Aalla

Mercy, Esey, Esky & Goytom

Liz, Rosie & Mary

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Amira & Julia

Batool, Laila, Bedour, Amal, Ghada & Behnaz

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Alanood

Anna Dello Russo Accessories

A launch was held for Anna Dello Russo accessories at the H&M outlet at Bahrain City Centre Tom, Alina & Yasser

Kawal

Noor & Yara

Eman, Mariam & Alia

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Deck the Halls

Home

By Alison Coldridge

Everyoneâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s favourite time of year is finally here! The best part about the festive season is draping garlands, hanging baubles, stringing up lights and dusting off your nativity set.

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lthough the Kingdom doesn’t go all out for Christmas, you will find a fair share of festive adornments filling the home stores this month. If you aren’t sure where to begin with your decoration extravaganza, perhaps first select a colour scheme red, green, gold and silver are generally the most popular seasonal shades. Next decide how mad you would like to go; you can go all out and create a replica of Santa’s grotto or just add a few simple touches for a more subtle approach. Your winter wonderland Shops such as The Home Store, Artikel and Home Centre are overflowing with choices, including everything from trees, to gift wrap to crockery. Set the perfect table by purchasing napkins, rings, candelabras, placemats and a festive runner, and finish it off with a spray of holly or mistletoe. Add block lettering as the centrepiece, like this ‘Merry Christmas’ set from Marks & Spencer. Finally, add the food! Decorate your living room with festivecoloured furnishings. Replace your regular cushions with red, gold and green alternatives for a rich and warming ambiance. Laura Ashley has a wide range of choices, including a tartan wool style that will double up as a comfortable pillow if you fancy a post-Christmas lunch nap. Steer away from blow-up monstrosities that often find themselves flapping around in the wind outside houses and instead opt for the more traditional approach. A wreath hanging on your front door or a string of twinkling lights are ideal. Debenhams has a great range of options, including a silver reindeer with in-built lights. You can really transform your house with the help of the Christmas scent. We’ve selected this Amber Oud candle from Diptique Paris which is inspired by Arabia and infused with rare spices, warming resins and balsams.

Zara Home

Monsoon

Debenhams

THE One

Laura Ashley

The White Company

Diptique

Marks & Spencer

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Tree decorations Hanging the baubles on the Christmas tree is a lovely activity for a family to do together. Why not let your little ones choose a few decorations each; with your tasteful guidance of course! Shops that you wouldn’t necessarily think of stock decorations of all varieties. Pay a visit to Zara Home, Monsoon, Next, The White Company and THE One to find the styles that you like best The collections are vast, providing choices for those who like traditional designs such as biblical images and those who prefer contemporary glittery options. December 2012 |

Freeze

The Big

Wellbeing

By Alison Coldridge

Wherever you are planning to spend your winter this year, you will be exposed to cooler temperatures that will affect your skin and hairâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s condition causing dryness and itchiness

ahrain may not suffer from freezing conditions as many countries do, but nonetheless you will have noticed the warmth slipping away. The winter months come hand in hand with harsh winds and cold air that cause our bodies to react visibly. Most noticeably our hair and skin will protest, with frizz affecting the

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former and dryness evident on the latter. We have a tendency to react with what we consider to be instant solutions; no one wants to turn up at their office Christmas party with their foundation flaking and static hair. So, we slap on the moisturiser and conditioner and hope for the best!

However, as our experts have verified, this can worsen the condition of the hair and skin leaving both in worse shape than before. Theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve outlined the three areas that we should concentrate on this winter to ensure we remain looking healthy and flake-free and ready to take on the New Year. www.womanthismonth.com

“All year round a conditioner should be used on the hair to replenish the moisture lost from everyday wear and tear,” says Trisha. “In a country like Bahrain, the temperature will drop during the winter months but the sun will continue to shine strongly. The key ingredient to look out for in any hair care products is SPF factors and UVA filters.”

Your skin

Our expert: Dr Bhartendu Mehta, dermatologist at American Mission Hospital. The skincare products you use in the winter should be different to your summer ones. You need to take the time to find products that suit your skin’s condition. In moments of dire depression, we have been known to purchase the most ludicrously priced products to save our skin, a move that Dr Bhartendu doesn’t recommend. “Expensive products are not necessarily better,” he says. “Most of the time, the extra cost is due to packaging and marketing. Instead you should consult your dermatologist for the best product for your own skin type.” Lips will also become dry and chapped in the cold so ensure you use a balm regularly throughout the day to soothe soreness.

The secret defender “Daily sun protection is crucial,” states the doctor. “It is not just for the summer as the sun in the winter is just as powerful.” A large amount of affordable daily moisturisers are formulated with an SPF factor. “You should select one that has a minimum SPF factor of 15 to shield your skin’s surface from the sun’s harmful rays,” he explains.

Your hair

Our expert: Trisha Smith, style director and senior colour technician at Toni&Guy, Seef Mall. Your locks must be cared for just as much as your skin — after all, they won’t magically stay strong and healthy!

Saving damaged hair Make sure that you can identify when your hair is having a crisis and know how to help it. Particularly during this time of the year, hair can become uncontrollable, rough and break easily. “Help your hair by limiting your use of styling tongs and straighteners. Another good tip is to wash hair with sweet water. This saves it from becoming dehydrated from chemically cleaned water,” Trisha suggests. “Also, use cool water as a final rinse on the hair close to the cuticle and that you change the products you use every three months, as hair will become used to the products and they won’t work as well. For best results, find two or three products that you like and alternate.” The winter saviour If your hair is really feeling sorry for itself, invest in a concentrated product that will restore its health. “label.m’s Intensive Repair Mask is fantastic as it contains shea butter to smooth and hydrate,” adds the stylist. “Use it once a week after shampooing and apply directly to towel-dried hair for 15 minutes. It will heal the hair and lock in moisture, leaving your locks looking luscious and strong.”

Preventing dryness As expected, Dr Bhartendu immediately hailed moisturisers as the product we should all be using to protect from the cold climate. However, not just any moisturiser will do the trick. “You should try to use oil-based products which are much better than water-based ones,” the doctor recommends. “The oil forms a protective layer on the skin and retains water loss, thereby preventing dryness. Oils like avocado, primrose, mineral and almond oil are preferable as they are ‘non-clogging’ agents.” Dr Bhartendu suggests that we look for products containing alcohol and sorbitol. “These help prevent hydration loss as they attract moisture to the skin,” he adds. www.womanthismonth.com

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Wellbeing

Your diet

Our expert: Remy Sleiman, head dietician at Carlton Nutrition Center. Just as the products we use externally aid us, so does what we intake internally. “Your diet is key in determining the quality of your skin and hair,” Remy explains. “It has to be healthy, covering all nutrients that your body needs. A non-healthy diet causes deficiencies in vitamins and minerals that will harm the skin and hair, causing all varieties of problems.” Winter diet adjustments There is not one food that you can consume to improve your appearance. “Instead, you need to incorporate a complex of healthy food choices into your daily eating habits,” the dietician explains. Make sure to eat plenty of fish, raw nuts and seeds. “These are rich in Omega 3 and will help repair any damage to the skin,” Remy continues. “Egg, ginger and oats are rich in zinc — another component in maintaining healthy skin.” Other foods the dietician recommends include sweet potato, citrus fruits, berries, green leafy vegetables, garlic, onions and coloured vegetables. “The mentioned items contain antioxidants, vitamins (A, C and E) and minerals (zinc, silica and selenium) to maintain the vitality of your skin,” adds Remy. Constant hydration Water should be the most crucial element of your diet. “There are many underlying causes to dry skin, usually resulting in lack of water in your system. You must drink at least six to eight glasses of water a day to ensure that there is enough to hydrate your hair and skin,” she explains. “It remains the best beverage ever.”

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The Five Fruits of Christmas

With all the gravy, bread and sweets, the festive season has been given quite a bad rep when it comes to the health and fitness front.

e have all been through it; by the time the New Year rolls in, that extra bulge is noticeable. But festive eating is not all bad. In fact, some of the most popular Christmas foods are actually good for you. All you have to do is put down the cake and take on the fruits! We look into the five foods that you will want to indulge in during your parties and dinners this festive season. Figs This succulent sweet fruit is naturally rich in benefiting phytonutrients, antioxidants and vitamins. What we love most is that every 100 grams of fruit is only 74 calories. Although the dried version boasts almost triple the calorie intake, it provides a more concentrated source of energy and minerals. Cherries Having you been waiting to sink your teeth into some cherry pie? This year, opt for a cup of the fresh version of the fruit instead. The cherry has gained fame as natureâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s most powerful anti-inflammatory. According to www.womanthismonth.com

studies, drinking tart cherry juice mixed with water three times a day can be beneficial to those who suffer from arthritis. It has also been proven to be a memory booster, cancer fighter and helps regulate the bodyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s sleep cycle. Oranges Put the wine down and have yourself a tall glass of orange juice. These citrus beauties are rich in Vitamin C, flavonoids, antioxidants, calcium, magnesium, potassium and dietary fibre. Oranges are widely used to relieve constipation and regulates high blood pressure. A compound present in oranges, liminoid, has also shown to prevent cancers including oral, skin and lung. Raisins Want a healthy alternative to sweets and chocolate? Ask any health and fitness guru and they will tell you that your go-to snack should always be a handful of raisins. The dried grape can increase your supply of energy, aid digestion and reduce body acidity.

Cranberries Although cranberries are mostly consumed during Thanksgiving and Christmas, our research proves to us that we need to fit these into our diet regularly. The fruit is a rich source of a flavonoid that can inhibit the development of both breast and colon cancer. A bacteria fighter by nature, watch out for cranberry products that have too much added sugar; this drastically reduces its health benefits. December 2012 |

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The Fight for Sight BAHRAIN SPECIALIST HOSPITAL

Dr Ali Anwar Abro

Woman This Month sits down with an optical expert to learn more about a disease that is responsible for causing blindness.

ften referred to as the “sneak thief of sight”, glaucoma is a disorder that arises due to high pressure in the eye. The disease has no symptoms and causes the eye’s fluid pressure to rise. If left untreated, vision can be permanently lost. “Up to 40 per cent of a person’s vision can be lost without their knowing. It is the second most common reason for blindness and is the major cause of irreversible visual loss,” says Dr Ali Anwar Abro, ophthalmologist at Bahrain Specialist Hospital (BSH). More than 67 million people in the world are affected and by the year 2020 it is estimated that there will be almost 80 million people with either open-angle or angle-closure glaucoma. While both forms can take a long period of time to develop, closed angle can occur suddenly and without warning. The disorder typically affects

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both eyes, but it can progress rapidly in one eye more than the other depending on the circumstance. Studies in the United States show as many as half of the individuals who suffer from the condition are unaware of it. According to the Glaucoma Research Foundation (GRF), the condition can develop in anyone but certain groups are at a higher risk than others. For instance, a person is six times more likely to get affected if they are over 60 years old. Other associated factors are hypertension, diabetes, cigarette smoking and excessive alcohol intake. “Most types of glaucoma normally develop gradually, with no real symptoms to warn of their presence, a first noticeable sign of optic nerve damage is usually the loss of side (peripheral) vision,” says Dr Ali. There are two other major signs that can

alert an eye doctor that a patient needs further assessment: elevated intraocular pressure and visual field loss. “Eyes should be tested regularly; every one to two years especially if a family member suffers from the same ailment, if you are of African heritage and you have had an eye injury in the past,” continues the doctor. Far sighted individuals are also advised to get regular screenings. The top of the line treatments offered at BSH range from medication, laser and surgery. Although nerve damage and visual loss from the disease cannot usually be reversed, it can generally be controlled. That is, treatment can make the eye pressure normal and therefore, prevent further nerve damage and visual loss. Call 17 812-000. www.womanthismonth.com

A Zesty Adventure

Online

By Alison Coldridge

If you are looking for the best place to welcome in the New Year or want to escape the madness of Christmas, seek expert guidance from the team that knows the hottest spots in the world.

ave you ever found yourself bored in a foreign city? Although the streets may be bustling, it’s tricky to know where to unearth truly exciting experiences. Enter Lime & Tonic. The social travel site provides access to exclusive experiences in the world’s most fabulous cities by carefully selecting the best, and most memorable, pastimes that each destination has to offer. The global organisation has teams in some of the world’s most dynamic cities. Currently, the teams are active in London, Prague, Slovenia, Dubai, Sydney and Rio de Janeiro as well as blogging for other large cities all over the world. Why is it different? The site offers the perfect mix of life-saving tonic and zesty fresh inspiration. You can find out about all types of adventures across the globe, with choices ranging from private events to culinary experiences, relaxing weekend www.womanthismonth.com

getaways to heart-racing adventures. The concept helps freshen up what can be a boring experience and gives you a hand-picked selection of the best ways to spend your time whilst in these cities. Forget the run-of-the-mill ‘what to see’ suggestions. Lime & Tonic thinks outside the box and lets you into an elite variety of events.

limited period of time — normally one hour. You can also choose to host events and experiences yourself through the website. It’s the perfect way to network and make friends if you are new to a city. Additionally, you can recommend bars, clubs, spas, hotels, etc. Anything that is hip or new the Lime&Tonic crew wants to hear about it.

What does the site offer? For each live city, you can select the “Top 10 Guide”. Here you will see what the team in the particular city that you are visiting suggests. Each event is available at a discounted price and shows how many people can attend in addition to providing reviews. Simply find the experience you like and book it immediately through the site. The “Events” tab makes you privy to confidential dinners and activities. Beware though. These are only available to book for a

Is it user-friendly? To take advantage of the site’s offerings, you simply need to sign up — which is free — and every time a new event is organised you will be notified. You only need to pay as you go, with no upfront membership fees, and similar to airline frequent flyer programmes, points are earned as credits. Best of all, Lime & Tonic donates a portion of each experience to the Dubai Autism Centre and SNF Children Development Centre. Visit www.limeandtonic.com. December 2012 |

Parenting

Remembering to

Really Listen By Dr Clare Beckett-McInroy

Good parenting needs effective listening strategies. In fact, effective listening is a speedy way to improve your effectiveness in all areas of your life.

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f there was one area that parent after parent feels they could do better at, if coaches were limited to advising just one thing about their services, just one area that clients can work at and to improve, it would be listening. Becoming a better listener can also make you a better parent. It’s not that, as a parent, you don’t listen. Of course you do. One of the problems is that children want you to listen straight away when it counts, when it’s relevant. This is ideal of course and if you don’t, the moment can pass. The problem is that you have phone calls to make, shopping to do, meetings to attend, and children’s activities and play dates to organise! And so there are times that you don’t listen well. You are human and not alone. What this means is that you don’t listen in a way that will improve your relationships, results, family life, effectiveness and yourself. Quite often you may listen to get by in survival mode. It’s no surprise as you are bombarded by constant sounds, needs and interruptions all day, every day. The main thing to remember is that you don’t need to beat yourself up about it. Read on, to pick up some tips about becoming a better listener for your children, as well as gaining a deeper understanding of listening as well. So, you are bombarded with sounds constantly. Many of these sounds are selfinflicted. You may sleep with your phone next to your bed (many people do), awaken to a clock radio, have TVs on as background noise, air-conditioning and the noise of the fish tank. You listen to the news as you drive, and set your phones to notify you whenever someone sends you a message. On the other side, with so many teenagers and children even younger having their own mobile phones and other devices, messages are constantly beeping for them as well. Receiving a message every 30 seconds throughout the day is not an exaggeration. People expect instant answers, too! Ever felt compelled to reply to messages that are not important or urgent instead of listening to your child? Amidst all this disharmony, you have developed coping strategies, skills as well as some survival methods such as selective listening. However, the problems arise if you fail to ‘turn off’ selective listening when it really matters to your child. You have a choice in how deeply you listen. Below is a very useful and straightforward overview of one model that explains the different levels of listening. It is inspired by the authors of Co-Active Coaching. www.womanthismonth.com

Surface listening Recall a time spent inside an airport terminal, waiting for a train or in a long supermarket queue. How do you listen to the repeated message on the speaker system that tells you that baggage left unattended will be confiscated and cars left unattended will be towed away? Most likely, you barely even hear it. You may have zoned out because you are waiting to find out which gate or platform you need to move towards or you may be searching for a toilet or a snack counter. This type of listening is about you. You may be multi-tasking, sending messages or reading at the same time. You hear the message on the loudspeaker but it doesn’t gain much of your attention. Nor should it! You have many other things that require a deeper focus. It’s the same in a meeting when someone is talking for too long. Surface listening is about you,your needs and your thoughts. You may run into trouble when you listen to your children in this manner. You hear but you don’t grasp the full meaning. Nuance is lost. And what is it like to be on the receiving end of this? How do you feel when someone listens to you at this level? Unfortunately, the people closest to you are likely to encounter you in this level at some stage of the day.

Spiked attention listening Think about that same loudspeaker in the airport. What if you hear your name called or you hear your flight has a gate change? We listen at a surface level until something provokes our interest. When listening to your children at this level, you hear things from their perspective; it’s more about them than you. We hear more than we do at level one, but we still don’t grasp all meaning.

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Curious listening Back to the airport loudspeaker; how do you listen to announcements about your flight when you are late and the voice has a strong accent or the noise is fuzzy? You anticipate, focus and listen hard. You clear your mind of distracting thoughts, almost like waking up a little, and you listen attentively. When you listen in this way to others, you strive to understand and get what you need. You may also pay attention to subtle cues. While this is a deep listening, it’s often still selffocused. We listen for what it means to us. “How does what you’re saying reflect on me?” “How does it impact me?” “How does it prove what I already believe to be true?” You may drift into the different stages of listening so just be aware of how you are listening and the impact it has on your child. Intuitive listening At this level, we employ senses beyond auditory. You listen for nuance, for meaning, for discovery. You have no agenda, nothing to prove. You are open to learning and understanding. You notice what’s not said. You detect emotion. At this level, you call on your intuition and take cues from non-verbal sounds and movement.

For example, you sense the energy in the room, the emotions the other person is feeling and how important the issue is to your child. You are aware of what is going on around you, the way a noise can change the mood or the way an interruption can change the mood to laughter, annoyance or even upset. Most of us are not practiced at this type of listening. At best, we operate at this level a few times a day. In some cultures this is more natural than others. As you know, messages are not just given verbally; body language plays a great part in the giving and receiving of a message. So, become attuned to unspoken messages. Listening more deeply like this does take more energy if you are not used to doing; but then it becomes more natural, internalised. You don’t have to listen deeply all the time of course; in fact, you can’t! The idea is to listen deeply when in conversation with others who would benefit from your focused attention — with your colleagues, friends, partner and, of course, your child. If you want to understand others more fully, then try to practise deeper listening. With the holiday season approaching and more time with your children, it will be well worth the effort.

Effective Listening Experiences: l Greater knowledge and understanding of all aspects of projects, events, people, plans l Improved relationships l Greater efficiency through fewer miscommunications l More engaged and motivated friends, family and colleagues l Greater ability to communicate effectively l Increased trust from others

Reference: Co-Active Coaching, 2nd Edition: New Skills for Coaching People Toward Success in Work and Life. Laura Whitworth, Karen Kimsey-House, Henry Kimsey-House, Phillip Sandahl 50

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Dealing with Trauma

Children are exceedingly resilient, even though they may have been profoundly affected by trauma or loss of a loved one.

s we deal with our own reactions and sorrow, we must remember that children are particularly at risk to experiencing trepidation and apprehension as reactions to these events. For a child, following a disaster such as war on the news for example, their outlook of the world as a harmless and predictable place is provisionally lost. In retort to dreadful events, children sometimes conclude, “The world is a scary place” or “People are evil and can’t be trusted.” These thoughts are classic, and the majority of children resolve them over time. However, parents can do much to ensure that the corrosive effects of personal tragedy don’t linger. Teaching children how to lean on their faith to deal with personal tragedies often raises questions about their own existence. What happens to us after we die? Why do bad things happen to good people? Why are we here? Gifted children, given their cognitive maturity, sensitivity, and heightened awareness of spiritual or moral issues, may verbalise these questions at younger ages than other children. Parents don’t have to pretend to have all the answers, but they should validate their children’s inquisitiveness and admit that these are important questions to ask. Making the most of social support networks, such as friendships and families, are extremely important at these times. Do what you can to

strengthen your child’s relationships with others. They should spend more time, not less, with their support network during the months following a personal tragedy. Don’t share your most intense misery, fury, or apprehensive reactions with your children. Limiting their exposure to your intense emotional reactions is beneficial. Trying to return to daily routines as swiftly as possible also helps to reinstate a sense of security and trust. Moreover, don’t let thorny conditions become an excuse for ignoring bedtime and meal routines or for neglecting rules about behaviour. Get professional help for children who persist in believing that the world is dangerous and that people can’t be trusted. In these cases it may require more than just assurance from family and friends. Parents with children that have ongoing difficulties with relationships and with moving out into the world, or continue to be withdrawn, agitated, or aggressive long after tragic events, should seek professional counselling. Personal tragedy does not necessarily do everlasting damage to children. On the contrary, mastery of taxing situations can serve as a sort of inoculation against ordeal. The experience of surviving what once seemed excruciating can grant a safeguard of confidence and selfesteem that protects against stressors in life, building a child’s buoyancy about the future.

Warning Signs If the following changes continue for longer than three months following the trauma, it is time to seek professional help: • Behaviour or academic problems at school • Angry outbursts • Withdrawal from usual social activities or play with other children • Frequent nightmares or other sleep disturbances • Physical problems such as nausea, headaches, weight gain or loss • Intense anxiety or avoidance behaviour that is triggered by reminders of the event • Depression or a sense of hopelessness about life or the future • Dangerous risk taking behaviour • Continually worrying about the event as a primary focus in life Parents who are concerned about their children should ask their paediatrician or family physician to refer them to a counsellor or mental health professional that can help.

For feedback, comments or questions contact Dr Jinan Darwish via email at: editor@womanthismonth.com www.womanthismonth.com

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Food

By James Claire

Festivities

With the exception of Thanksgiving and Easter, there are few celebrations in the yearly calendar that are so well defined by the food served around them. Christmas, though, is the most glamorous from a dining perspective.

here are few occasions in life that are filled with as many memories, expressions of hope and love, and great food as the festive season. In addition to a roast turkey, it is perhaps better known for the sweet delicacies which come from around the world for this season of joy. As a chef I adore seeking out new ideas and seeing what other people, in lands far removed from mine, are preparing around a singular event. Christmas for me has always been a delicious event, and much more than an occasion for gift-giving. My first trip abroad in the late 1980s took me to

Panforte di Siena

180g Acacia honey 120g golden syrup 210g brown sugar 60g cocoa powder 60g plain (all-purpose) flour 2 tspns cinnamon powder 1 tspn garam masala powder 120g dried apricots, chopped finely 90g candied orange zest 90g candied (glace) pineapple 180g hazelnuts, roasted and finely chopped 150g almonds, whole, skinless, roasted and loosely chopped 90g macadamia nuts, roasted and loosely chopped 2 lemons zested, finely 1 orange zested, finely 1 tbs orange marmalade

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Switzerland; at Christmas I literally bathed in a world of sweet delicacies I had never known. From that time, I have always been intrigued by how others celebrate the festive season from a culinary perspective. This month I have included recipes for panettone and panforte di Siena, both delicious gifts as well as edible treats with Italian heritage. Lebkuchen cookies are from Germany and my â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;Whiteâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; Christmas is more of an antipodean treat. All are great snacks to have around when the morning gift-opening and celebrations become an extended exercise.

Preheat the oven to 160 degrees Celsius. Lightly grease and line a 20cm cake ring with baking parchment. l Place the honey, golden syrup and brown sugar into a saucepan and bring slowly to the boil, stirring to avoid the sugar catching on the base. l When it boils, reduce heat and allow it to simmer for three minutes. l In a separate mixing bowl, sift together the flour and the cocoa powder with the cinnamon and garam masala. l Add the dried apricots, candied orange zest, candied pineapple, hazelnuts, almonds, macadamia nuts, lemon and orange zests and marmalade. l Pour the boiled sugar mixture over all the ingredients and stir all to combine. l Spread the mixture into the base of the lined baking tray and press flat, using the back of the mixing spoon. l Bake in the preheated oven for 25 minutes. l Remove and dust heavily with icing sugar. Allow to cool and then dust again with icing sugar before cutting small thin slices to enjoy with coffee or as a snack. l l

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Into the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with a paddle attachment, place the sifted flour, cinnamon, ginger and bicarbonate soda. Add the caster sugar. l Chop room-temperature butter into small pieces and add to the dry ingredients, and mix until the butter has been worked into the dry ingredients completely. l When the mix resembles fine breadcrumbs, add the egg, cream and golden syrup and mould the mixture into dough. Ensure the dough is completely worked and there are no dry ingredients remaining at the base. l Remove the dough and rest overnight, covered in plastic and place in the refrigerator. l Heat the oven to 175 degrees Celsius. Roll the chilled dough onto a floured bench surface to approximately 1cm in thickness. Use a 6cm diameter round cutter to cut out the cookie dough and place them onto a parchment lined tray. l Allow space for expansion upon baking. l Bake the cookies for 14 minutes. l Remove when baked and allow them to cool on the tray. When cool, spread the bases with the melted chocolate and set back on the parchment paper to set. l Serve when the chocolate has hardened. l

Lebkuchen Cookies 300g 8g 8g 8g 120g 40g 30g 1 500g

plain (all-purpose)flour cinnamon, powder ginger, powder bicarbonate (baking) soda caster sugar cream golden syrup egg dark chocolate, melted

White Christmas 60g 30g 45g 60g 45g 20g 20g 30g 150g

rice bubbles (rice crispies cereal) dessicated (powdered) coconut slivered almonds icing (powdered) sugar currants candied orange peel candied glace cherries, chopped dried apricots, chopped finely copha (white coconut shortening) or hard coconut oil

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Line a baking tray with parchment paper. Place all the ingredients except the Copha or coconut oil into a mixing bowl and combine together. Place the Copha or coconut oil into a saucepan and warm until melted and clear. l Pour the Copha or coconut oil over the ingredients in the mixing bowl and use a spoon to combine all the ingredients well. l Press the finished mixture onto the baking sheet allowing it to be 3cm in thickness. Press it into shape and flatten the top surface. l Cool in the refrigerator for two hours. l Remove and cut into thin slices and serve as a snack or with coffee. l l

Panettone

180mls milk 1 1/2 tbs dried yeast 200g caster sugar 240g unsalted butter 1 tspn salt 3 whole eggs 4 egg yolks 1 lemon finely zested 1 orange juiced and finely zested 1 tbs vanilla 600g plain (all purpose) flour 30g kismis (white) raisins 30g currants 30g candied orange peel 30g sliced almonds toasted Icing sugar for dusting Preheat the oven to 350 degrees Celsius. Heat the milk in the microwave so that it is warm but not hot. Stir in yeast and a pinch of the sugar. Stir well and set aside, covered, for 15-20 minutes in a warm area. l In a food processor add together the sugar, salt, eggs, egg yolks, vanilla, lemon zest, orange zest, orange juice and butter. Add the yeast mix to the food processor and pulse again briefly. Add the flour little by little until a dough starts to form. l Pour the wet sticky dough onto a well floured board and sprinkle the raisins, currants, candied orange peel and nuts over it. Use a scraper to fold and knead the dough, adding a little extra flour to bring the dough together. l Shape the dough by hand into a ball and place it inside of a well greased 20cm diameter panettone mould or the deepest sided container that you have. l Place in a warm area to rise for three hours or until the dough has doubled in size. l Bake the panettone in the preheated oven on the lowest shelf of the oven with all other shelves removed. Bake for approximately 40-50 minutes. l Remove and allow it to cool for five minutes before removing from its container, and allow it to cool on a cooling wire. l Dust with icing sugar and serve slices when cool. l l

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Timeless Style AMBASSADOR STORES

Now is the time to purchase a new and quintessential timepiece; a household luxury timepiece brand has added a beautiful new collection to an already well-received range.

he Lord collection from the Seiko Watch Corporation has become an increasingly popular choice among young buyers around the world. With the launch of a new range featuring bold designs that set new trends, this brand is at the cutting edge of watch-making style. Twenty five new pieces for men and women have been released, showing that the brand’s design is as innovative as its technology. It demonstrates once again that Seiko’s dedication to perfection in both style and substance leads to a unique blend of craftsmanship and technology. The 2012 collection offers a wide variety of features. Alongside chronographs with 1/20 second measurement are several multi-hand models with a retrograde day indicator. Also new is the range of five automatic mechanical models whose exquisite movements can be seen through the window on the dial.

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The women’s models are just as bold as the mens, with large case openings that feature Swarovski crystals. High function and high style are combined; both the men’s and women’s watches have 24 hour, date and second hands and are also water resistant to 100 meters. Reigning champions Arguably the most successful club in the modern football world, FC Barcelona displays strong ties with the Seiko brand. In addition to its many victories over the years, the club is respected for its independence and social responsibility, as is the watch brand. Both power houses strive for perfection in everything they do. The shared values of both the renowned brand leaders go even deeper; both were founded in the late 19th century. The watchmakers develop designs and produce all the key parts in a timepiece, from balance

springs to quartz crystals and Barcelona also chooses to develop its talent in-house. Most ‘big clubs’ tend to purchase established players for the immediate improvement of their performance. Barca however, takes a longer term approach and, through its famous Masia academy, nurtures young talented players until they become the stars of the next generation. One might say that FC Barcelona is a manufacturer of football talent just as Seiko are manufacturers of watches. The club’s fans will be pleased to know that the new Lord collection offers a FC Barcelona chronograph model with the team crest carried proudly on the dial. The Lord FC Barcelona chronograph expresses the dedication to perfection that Seiko shares with the most successful club in world football. Call 17 225-513. www.womanthismonth.com

KEMPINSKI GRAND HOTEL

A Sweet

Deal There is more to unwrap this festive season than just the gifts under the decorated natural Scandinavian fir tree at the luxury hotel in Bahrain City Centre.

reats small and large can be found in all food outlets at the Kempinski Grand Hotel, including complete festive dinners, but it is the Santa-like efforts of pastry chef Clement Raybaud that is sure to tickle the taste buds of most. A pastry chef, confectioner and producer of ice creams and chocolates who has worked in several Michelin-starred restaurants, he states that it is his desire to just make guests happy that makes him seem even more like Father Christmas. The planning for festive delicacies began in September, while trials were conducted in October and production kicked off by the end of November. This season is certainly one of the busiest for the chef pâtissier, who has worked for some of the top names in the culinary industry including Jean-Paul Hévin, Alain Ducasse and Ladurée of Paris. Find his dessert temptations at the Friday brunches in Saveur restaurant on December 7, 14 and 21 where elaborate holiday-themed buffets tempt you in the midst of festive music and live entertainment at BD19++. On the table Located in the main lobby of Kempinski Grand Hotel, the winter gingerbread village is a treat for the eyes and it doubles as a chance to win grand prizes from December 1-25. The aroma of the cake lures you in to T-Spoon — the true home of Chef Raybaud’s delectations. Crafted especially for the season, handmade cakes, sweets, chocolates and cookies are in plenty in the surrounds of this premier café. Chestnut mont blanc, pumpkin cupcakes, www.womanthismonth.com

caramel pear mille-feuille, festive logs, gingerbread and seasonal temptations are available daily or can be pre-ordered for takeout and home parties. If time permits, stay and linger among the scents and decorative ambience for a festive afternoon tea with friends or treat yourself to a well deserved private edible pampering. Eat up! The five-star hotel offers more than just sweet delicacies for our festive pleasure. All its food outlets cater for the party of your dreams this season. Pre-order turkey boxes from December 1 for pick up on Christmas Day or Christmas Eve. The entire dinner includes a fresh roast turkey with all the trimmings, sauces, stuffing and vegetables. The incredible prices allow you to leave the cooking to better qualified chefs. Of course, ending the dream festive dinner is dessert and thankfully we can count on a master of the pastry arts. Chef Raybaud says, “Christmas is about a big table, family and

friends — a dinner which never seems to end, needing a three-day diet to recover.” In saying that, it would seem that both he and the Kempinski Grand Hotel understand well what we all desire at this time of year. Call 17 171-000 or visit www.kempinski.com/bahrain. December 2012 |

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A Charming Collection BANSRI JEWELLERY

Present your nearest and dearests with beautiful pieces of jewellery that will be cherished for ever.

s the years go by and those close to you change and grow, it’s hard to keep track of what everybody’s likes and dislikes are — which can make present buying difficult! Opt for the safe option this festive season and choose to gift your loved ones with jewelled goods that stand the test of time. Bansri Jewellery boasts a huge collection of jewellery that every woman — no matter her 56

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age or taste — will love to receive. Shop for cute charms for children and teenagers; select the styles that are meaningful to the receiver and let them build up a personal bracelet that will hold memories for years to come. A Hello Kitty charm is a popular choice and there are many others to select from. For the more mature lady, browse the range

of modern and traditional pieces. Select from gold and diamonds and choose a single statement piece. Or spoil someone completely with a luxe three-piece set, inclusive of a necklace, ring and matching earrings. Bansri additionally stocks rings, earrings, pendants and other accessories, which will serve as that perfect sentiment for whomever you are buying for. Call 17 229-457. www.womanthismonth.com

BAHRAIN CITY CENTRE

Welcome to a Winter Wonderland

If you have never experienced a snowy winter, now is your chance. The Kingdom’s largest shopping centre has erected a winter village that you won’t want to miss.

ll are invited to feel the festive warmth at Bahrain City Centre this month. The shopping, dining and entertainment hot-spot has come alive this winter season with fun and interactive displays that will be in action until the last day of the year. Winter Wonderland features something for everyone, including the chance for all shoppers to win BD5,000 worth of sparkling diamonds. The Central Galleria has been transformed into a magical snow-covered village, giving all the chance to experience an authentic winter. Look out for the life-sized igloo, snow-capped trees and spot a host of fuzzy winter characters including a giant snowman, penguins and seals. Plus, during each weekend of the Winter www.womanthismonth.com

Wonderland there will be roaming mascots for children to interact with. In front of T Spoon Café there is a giant gingerbread house bursting with children’s cookie-decorating workshops, which will be held every Friday in December from 3-6pm, for a nominal BD2 entry fee. All funds raised in this initiative will be donated towards the Palm Association, a local charity aimed at supporting Bahraini families in need. Incredible prizes Upon spending BD30 or more at any store during the Winter Wonderland campaign and redeeming your receipts at Customer Service, you will have the chance to win one of four diamond sets, worth BD5,000 in total.

Diamonds will be displayed at Al Zain Jewellery, Level 1. The winner will be determined on January 2. Plus all shoppers who spend over BD50 or more will be gifted with a limited edition snow globe, providing a cute reminder of the snow-filled experience. Make sure you don’t miss the final chance to win; two trivia questions will be posted online each week with clues to be found at the Winter Wonderland display in the Central Galleria. Those who post the correct answers on the centre’s Facebook page will have the chance of winning Bahrain City Centre Gift Cards worth BD50 to spend on a shopping spree at the mall. Visit www.facebook.com/BahrainCityCentre or Twitter @BahrainCityCtr. December 2012 |

Showcase AMERICAN MISSION HOSPITAL

Helping You Up

Rehabilitation, be it physical or mental, plays a key role in bringing a person back to full fitness after a traumatising experience or painful illness.

he American Mission Hospital (AMH) Rehabilitation Clinic has a dedicated team of experienced specialists to support patients through their healing process. With treatment services for temporary and short- term conditions like sports or work- related injuries to more serious or chronic disorders such as stroke, cancer or spinal injuries. “The AMH Rehabilitation Clinic also provides comprehensive rehabilitation services for patients who require long-term management due to such conditions like back and neck pain, arthritis, birth defects and even spine disorders,” adds Dr. Edwin M. Orayle, a physiatrist at AMH. Additionally, those who suffer from fibromyalgia, repetitive stress injuries, osteoporosis and musculoskeletal disorders can seek help from the experts at the hospital. The clinic includes other physical medicine professionals such as the physiotherapists and speech pathologists who provide individualized treatment plans to suit each patient’s needs. The rehab clinic has so far been successful in restoring optimal function of many of their patients who had suffered from illness or injury. “ We are committed to providing a complete and detailed rehabilitation programme that both relieves pain and restores optimal function of our patients; helping them achieve a better quality of life,” the doctor explains. A board certified physician, the MD specializes in Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation. Dr. Edwin provides integrated care in the treatment of conditions spanning from traumatic brain injury and stroke to low back pain. Call 17 248-110.

YAQUBY STORES

The Golden Years

To celebrate 63 years in the business of consumer electronics, Yaquby Stores is gifting its valuable customers with incredible discounts across the whole brand portfolio.

s the distributor of over 20 global brands, Yaquby is one of the pioneers in the industry of consumer electronics in Bahrain and the first distributor for Braun in the GCC. In the flagship store in Bab Al Bahrain and the second retail outlet in Seef Mall, the company stocks brands such as Leica, Victrinox and Jiffy. Currently, you can grab phenomenal discounts on products from these international names as Yaquby celebrates 63 years in business by offering customers discounts of up to the same figure — just in time for Christmas present-buying. If you are in dire need of a new electronic toothbrush or hair styling utensil, browse the innovative and safe-to-use designs from Braun. The brand’s products are renowned fro their reliability, longevity and sustainability. For those of you who have a penchant for photography, try out a lens from Leica, a German manufacturer that offers outstanding optical performance. Also available from this brand are cameras, projects and a superb range of sport optics including binoculars and sporting scopes. Get all of the kitchen knives you need for your festive feasts from Victorinox, the Swiss brand that is known for its pocket knives and ensure your Christmas day outfit is creasefree with help from a Jiffy Steamer. Call 17 210-959. 58

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Get the Party Started MEGAMART

It’s that time of year to start gearing up for parties, feasts and an all together festive season.

tocking clothing, groceries, electronics, toys and delicious holiday delicacies, Megamart has all the essentials you will need this Christmas and New Year. “We have an exciting array of festive goodies on offer this month with special promotions on baked items, tree decorations, ornaments and even an exclusive range of clothing and beauty products,” says R V Waghnani, general manager of the popular departmental store. This season the Megamart pastry chefs will whip up a selection of heavenly savouries to sink your teeth into. Their bakery delights shall include moist cakes, chocolates, puddings, cookies and pastries that will leave you craving for more. www.womanthismonth.com

Renowned for its fresh selection of bread and other bakery products, the store will also bring in premium cuts of beef, lamb, turkey and fresh fruits and vegetables — so get ready to prepare a scrumptious feast. As Christmas is all about the environment you will be celebrating in, shoppers can choose from a variety of home decor items to spruce up the home. Make it a special experience by bringing out the entire family to buy decorations. “We have competitive prices and take great pride in bringing only the best products of supreme value to our customers,” adds Waghnani. As December is the season of giving, don’t forget to pick up a few gifts for your loved ones to open on Christmas day. Call 17 341-070, 17 250-334 or 17 343-266. December 2012 |

Horoscopes

Gazing Star Raphael

Find out what December has in store for you…

Sagittarius November 23 - December 21

Your thoughts are still with an old flame that you cannot seem to get out of your head and this is having a negative impact on your life since it is obstructing any progress you might hope to make with a new partner. Admittedly, your current situation is not all you might have hoped it would be but you need to give things time to grow. Capricorn December 22 - January 20

Your loyalty to a close friend will be supremely tested this month as you discover a secret that may compromise your long term relationship with the person concerned. You have a difficult decision to make: do you confront your friend and risk everything, or do you keep quiet and hope it all goes away. Sooner or later you’ll have to choose.

Aquarius January 21 - February 19

Your bullish, sometimes brash behaviour is set to get you in hot water again this month as you upset a family member and set the ball rolling in something that could develop into quite an argument. You never seem to learn that sometimes it is best to keep your opinion to yourself — especially in more delicate matters — and until you do, you’re going to suffer a lot more situations like this.

Pisces February 20 - March 20

The time has come for you to face up to a long-standing dispute and try to resolve it because things have gone on far too long as they are, without benefit to either yourself or the other party concerned. Sometimes it is the better person who can swallow their pride and make the first move so stop being so stubborn and take matters into your own hands.

Aries March 21 - April 20

Things have progressed since November for your sign and it looks as if those of you who took a chance last month in chasing a dream or long-standing ambition will actually have made some progress. However, there is still plenty of hard work ahead and although you are not afraid to pull your weight for something you desire, just make sure you don’t overdo it. 60

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Taurus April 21 - May 21

Things have been improving all the time on the relationship front since you suffered a slight dip a few months back and it seems that any problems you and a loved one did encounter have now been completely ironed out. This offers the promise of better days ahead and as we move towards the festive season you can feel confident that your partner is as committed to the union as you are.

Gemini May 22 - June 21

You have been struggling with unsavoury elements in the work place recently; people who seem intent on making your life difficult. This has left you with a testing predicament on your hands: do you stay and fight your corner or do you look for an alternative job and the promise of a more balanced life.

Cancer June 22 - July 23

You can’t always get what you want and no matter how much it may annoy or frustrate you that fact is something you need to come to terms with. With the fingers of desire beginning to wane on a current love affair, you need to question whether the person you have been drawn towards actually wants you as much as you want him.

Leo July 24 - August 23

If only you could listen to your heart a little more rather than always follow the logical route then you might be surprised by what you discover, for it seems that someone close by has amorous intentions towards you and yet their efforts thus far have passed by unnoticed.

Virgo August 24 - September 23

You are sometimes accused of not seeing things you start through to the end. However, in the coming weeks you will prove to many of the doubters around you that — when the occasion calls for it —you can take a task past the finish line if it inspires you enough. And there is no shadow of a doubt that in the case of one particular goal or ambition, you will not be swayed from your course.

Libra September 24 - October 23

This month you will receive some excellent news concerning your current role within the workplace and promotion — together with a pay rise — looks set to give you good reason to celebrate. However, your gain is inevitably someone else’s loss and you should prepare to face some flack from a rather ingenuous and jealous colleague who feels that perhaps they were more deserving of the success than you.

Scorpio October 24 - November 22

You have been stretching yourself financially for sometime now and it seems that you have finally arrived at breaking point this month as you cannot put off the inevitable any longer. What you really need is some serious advice and you shouldn’t be afraid to speak to someone about it. There is no sense in bearing this burden alone and trying to sweep the problem under the carpet is not going to solve anything. www.womanthismonth.com

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Santa

Dear

By Hard-headed Woman

They say you’re only as old as you feel, and writing to Santa every December I feel somewhere in my teens — that’s got to be good!! Hey big guy,

have done well this year don’t you think? I’ve written about the trials and tribulations of being an Alpha Female and assisted my sisters to better paths. I’ve spoken of chivalry and love and informed a few guys how better they can treat us, their princesses! Surely that puts me on top of the ‘nice’ list?

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FYI, I found a website that allows you to download ‘naughty or nice certificates’. I printed off a few for all my BFFs; I hope you don’t mind, but we are all goddesses, and you know that! There are times I may not have been as good as you wanted; but, seriously, it could have been worse, right! I know you are a man, and I forgive you for that, so you should forgive me a few little girlie shortcomings, too! I mean, we aren’t supposed to lie are we Santa? But it’s the new millennium and you still want us to believe in toy tinkering elves, flying reindeer and all the Hallmark kitsch that surrounds your name. Who’s lying to who big guy? As for what you should give me this year. I’m all yours big fella - surprise me! But make it designer or haute couture and, if not, make it diamonds. I am a realist; what can I say, the resale value on those little babies is better than anything else you could afford. I live in an amazing apartment so you’ll either have to be buzzed up with intercom or sneak in through the window. I don’t recommend the window though; there are still a lot of guards downstairs who may think you’re being a little suspicious. As for flying those reindeer in, I’m sorry you’ll still need to leave your CPR with the checkpoint up the road. No one is above suspicion in my neighbourhood! I know that there are many women who deserve your attention more than I, but come on Santa, I’m in my late thirties, single and I still believe that’s worth a special merit. I don’t even mind if I’m the last on your list; I’ll stay up till dawn and if you have to drop the gifts and run so be it. Otherwise we can have a cookie together and a few shots of what ever is in the cupboard! I’ve met a lot of men who are fakes in my life, faker than you even! Don’t take that negatively though, please. At least through my lifetime you have stayed true to the cause. You maybe a little ‘nuts’ dressing the way you do; but, most men don’t even attempt to co-ordinate their outfit, so well done there! You don’t wear a baseball cap backwards or your pants almost to your knees showing your boxers or tennis shoes with a sports jacket. Your outfit is the same now as it was when I was young and for that I give you a fashion credit. Size doesn’t matter Santa, either; to me it’s the size of your heart that counts. I’ve met guys who have fabulous bodies but small brains; you seem well-rounded if you get my drift. Size, though, does matter in the gift department. So, don’t go letting me down like last year! Many people have come and gone in my lifetime but every December you’re always there for me. And I’m always here waiting for that special something. We both respect each other’s boundaries and we don’t need to make promises we can’t keep. Actually, if you’d stop wearing red, I think I’d ask you on a date. So, just so that you’re clear — I’m waiting! Make it big! Make it sparkle and make me happy! And we will continue this little relationship for years to come. Always yours, Hard Headed Woman xx www.womanthismonth.com

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