Woman This Month - October 2012

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October 2012 | Issue 116 | BD1 / SR10

AW12 Fashion 12 Key Themes

Breast Cancer Taking Action

Nurturing Minds Pauline Puri

Colour Change Time for the Paint Box

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People 10 Pauline Puri: Nurturing minds

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Fashion 12 Fashion Feature: AW12 trends and themes

Beauty 34 Beauty News: The latest products in stores 36 Fragrances: New Season Scents

Home 38 Feature: Playing with the paint box

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Expect to fall for this autumn's new collections, such as this nifty outfit from 'See by Chloe'.

AW12 Fashion 12 Key Themes

Breast Cancer

Wellbeing 49 Feature: Preventing and treating breast cancer 52 Think Pink: Happenings in October 53 Campaign: Ford charity drive for breast cancer 55 Fresh Start: The value of music

Parenting 49 Feature: Tuition; the good, bad and worrying.

Regulars 06 Editor’s Desk, Thoughts about this issue 08 Letters: Tell us what you think of this issue 40 20 Tips: Get dressed for Halloween 44 Social Butterfly: Who has been seen where?

46 Diary: Jewellery Arabia 2012 59 10 Tips: Public speaking hints 64 Travel: Festival month 66 Recipes: In celebration of harvests 68 Horoscope: What this month holds for you 70 Pink Pages: Guide to local stores and services 72 WoMentality: Apple Cider

Taking Action

Nurturing Minds Pauline Puri

Colour Change Time for the Paint Box HOME SUBSCRIBERS COPY

Tuition Dichotomy The Good, Bad and Worrying

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Welcome Announcing

Autumn’s Arrival

G U E S T E D I T O R ' s l etter

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t’s official; autumn is upon us. The weather has finally cooled enough for us to not melt when making the ‘hot’ journey from the car to the indoors, meaning that it must be October.

This month is filled to the brim with events, many in support of Breast Cancer Awareness Month. We have included a calendar of all the happenings that you can attend to encourage as much support as possible for the infinitely worthy cause.

In our Wellbeing article we have consulted experts in this field who offer advice on precautions, treatments and support systems related to breast cancer. And if that isn’t enough, we also look at how Ford Middle East is raising awareness and funds through its celeb-filled Warriors in Pink campaign.

Also up this month is our huge bi-annual fashion review, a feature that we are certain all fashionistas need in their lives. We’ve captured the 12 of the most prominent trends from the catwalk capitals and collated the most appropriate items to help you rock each look. We’ve also tried and tested the newest beauty and fragrance products that will enhance your autumnal look further.

Concluding this month is the scariest (and most sweet-filled) event of the year; Halloween. Our 20 Tips will help you shed your inhibitions and plan a night to remember.

And in our Food section you can gain some pointers on successfully cooking Halloween-appropriate dishes and meals to share with your friends and families in celebration of Thanksgiving.

It’s a big fashion issue, so I’ll stop talking and let you get reading!

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chairman & publisher George F Middleton

publishing director

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assistant editors ALISON COLDRIDGE Elma Bartholomew

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Letters

Write Here Write Now STAR LETTER Helping a Mother Thank you to the whole team of Woman This Month for giving us readers such a good magazine.

This September issue is really a good one with many helpful write-ups. I particularly liked ‘The Memory Game’ in Wellbeing, ‘Little Learners and Language’ in Parenting. The parenting section helps me a great deal as my daughter will turn three this December. I am sure all the mums would agree that it is a challenge bringing-up kids of this generation as compared to ours.

Until my daughter was 18 months old, I used to talk a lot with her, especially saying rhymes, various sounds, songs, etc. My daughter now talks so much that sometimes I wonder why I taught her to talk!

Jokes apart, kids at this age are filled with enormous curiosity and hence have infinite questions to ask. After reading ‘Little learners’, I feel proud that my daughter can grasp all words very easily and pronounce them correctly.

Similarly, ’The Memory Game’ helped me. After my daughter’s birth, my memory seems to face sudden challenges at times. So much so, that I keep things in important files, documents in one definite place so that I find them immediately when required; but I actually don’t remember it when needed. I have started my own exercises for this and I guess these tips for memory will help me overcome this difficulty. Shreya, by email.

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his article will enable you to understand generic tips on how to encourage your child to grasp language learning; it will also provide you with specific points to ‘play’ with in relation to the English language.

By the age of six, most schools have firm expectations in terms of speaking and listening, reading and writing milestones your child should have reached. In order to fully engage with a school curriculum, and indeed to even gain access to preferred schools in some cases, solid skills in these areas are key, not only for developing as a communicator, but for being able to fully access all areas of a school curriculum. It is also an essential part of play and can form the basis for lasting relationships between your child and their friends.

Getting to grips with the early knowledge and skills your child needs to grasp is not always the easiest journey for you or your child. This is partly due to the ‘melting pot’ nature of the English language, which has evolved to reflect

the many influences of those who arrived on British shores over the years. There are consequently many rules, or part-rules, in contemporary English to which there are various exceptions.

For children learning how to use the sound symbol (phonographic) system, they are faced with learning to make 44 sounds (lightly debated) in more than one thousand ways. For example, consider the ways we make the long vowel sound for the letter ‘a’: ai as in rain, ay as in play, a_e as in make and then of course exceptions such as ‘they’.

The aim of this article is to give you some insight and practical advice on how you can support your child’s learning in terms of early childhood developments. So, where to begin?

Speaking and Listening It has been claimed that a child’s ability to annunciate sounds is shaped by the sounds they hear in their first 18 months. Without a rich early experience of hearing sounds children may have difficulty using these in speech.

Children’s early experience of hearing and verbalising sounds will also have a significant impact on how they use sounds when attempting to decode letters for reading and, when using speech, to inform the letters we use when writing.

What can you do to help provide these crucial early experiences? Consider the following options: sing songs, say rhymes, listen to stories, talk about stories and pictures and experiences, and create stories together and tell and act them out to others.

It is never too early to start. Very young children understand a great deal more than they can verbalise. Their known vocabulary is growing all the time with words and meanings being ‘stored’ until they can physically be spoken. As you speak with your child, you are

providing a model for communication. Your child needs to be a skilled verbal communicator before they will be able to communicate in terms of our writing conventions. So get talking!

Reading and Writing As your child starts school, the major building block for reading (and writing) will be phonological awareness. This term refers to your child’s ability to know and use the sounds we use that our letter symbols represent.

At school your child will probably learn phonics in an order that allows them to quickly use sounds to read and build words. Many schools follow an approach termed ‘synthetic phonics’ which teaches letter sounds in groups that can easily be used.

This first group in this programme is s, a, t, n, i, p. There are many words that can be made from this small group of sounds such as sat, in and it, and so children can start developing the skill of blending sounds as they internalise the sound symbol relationships.

Starting to use these sounds as they are learned establishes their relevance and gives children early satisfaction with reading and creating words. There is, therefore, a positive emotional experience in which learning is more likely to be retained. A fantastic website for supporting the acquisition of phonic knowledge and skills is www.phonicsplay.co.uk.

Going back to an earlier point, speech is obviously important in using phonics to help your child spell words. If trying to spell ‘this’ when annunciating ‘th’ as ‘f’, could be tricky.

Issues such as these can result from a lack of early experiences in terms of hearing sounds but, very often this is not something to overly worry about at an early stage.

Being able to articulate sounds is a developmental process. There are sounds that children find more difficult to verbalise until certain ages and there are general statements we can make in terms of the differences between the ages boys and girls acquire the ability to clearly verbalise certain sounds. If concerned, ask your child’s school or another expert for details.

A love of learning and language is something that all parents want their children to obtain. However, many parents are not aware of the influence they have and the part they play in the development of their child’s language acquisition.

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Your memory is your brain The human brain is highly complex and features many different ‘compartments’ each that does something unique. One way to get your head around it (excuse the pun) is by visualising the brain as a library stocked full of memories, instead of books.

In this library, the librarian would be the hippocampus — the part of the brain most involved in memory.

The hippocampus has a lot of responsibility. It simultaneously juggles the new releases of the short-term memory whilst cataloging materials for the permanent long-term memory section. It’s not the only part at work, however, in storing these chapters of our lives.

Information overload Different kinds of memory are stored in different areas of the brain.

With such a large system, the brain needs a system of encoding and retrieving memories, something a bit more complex than the local library’s Dewey Decimal System.

The brain has to be able to instantly pull information when required; whether you need to remember a fact such as a phone number or a distant memory that’s been sitting in storage for years.

The Memory Game

By Alison Coldridge

It’s time to get working on your mind and memory. Just as we care for our body with exercise and the correct diet, we also need to care for our mind to ensure those precious moments aren’t forgotten.

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name. The fact of the matter is the brain is congested and sometimes needs help, particularly within the memory department.

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Help is at hand Whether you are eight or 80, there are many ways in which you can improve your memory. In fact, it is far easier than you would think. You can progress your memory just as easily as you can your language or maths skills, simply by repeating and practising.

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A Healthy Mind

I appreciate ‘The Memory Game’ in September’s edition of the magazine. As women — whether we are students, employees, business owners or housewives — we more often than not tend to overload our minds with mental notes of tasks to do.

We think about our responsibilities all the time and even worry about the problems of others. Your article reminds us of the importance of a healthy mind to complete our body and soul’s wellbeing too. Thank you!

Dunia, by email

Art as a Healer

People

Healing

‘Healing Through Art’ through T touched my heart. As an artist myself I believe that every soul has creativity in it. Art is the most spontaneous and true form of expression.

A simple dot takes you forward with a line and then a design; a dot of colour grows to be overwhelming emotion.

Ms Dalal is doing wonderful work by inviting children and adults into a beautiful world of colours. Colours are always healing that is why God made flowers, butterflies so colourful. They not only bring joy and happiness but tender and gentle feeling within our heart, which is gentle and warm offers us peace.

We need peace in the world and young Dalal has chosen to show us the way. Geeta, by email.

It’s with art that she learnt to solve her problems. Dalal Al Sindi talks of her therapeutic relationship with art.

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here’s an artist in all of us and everyone is capable of making a mark, says Dalal, when we catch up with her over coffee. Dalal should know.

As Bahrain’s only qualified art therapist, she practises alternative means of healing and therapy through visual expression and the creative process.

Given that each individual’s approach to art is quite personal, Dalal is able to get a deeper understanding of a client’s psyche through an analysis of their use of shapes, colours, symbols and creative inspiration.

Growing up in a family of artists, it was natural for her to dabble in art in her growing years. Art for her was a journey of self discovery, especially during the difficult phases in her life.

“With art, I learnt I could solve my problems creatively and the same applies to others as well,” she says.

Following her master’s degree in art therapy from UK, Dalal went on to pursue her most challenging assignment at the King Fahad Medical City in Riyadh. Here she worked to rehabilitate patients suffering from physical and psychological issues such as stroke, traumatic brain injury, cancer, multiple sclerosis, schizophrenia and depression.

“Alternative therapy results in the understanding and healing of a person’s mind through creative self-expression. I work with individuals and groups to help identify hidden issues and then develop a plan for healing and rehabilitation,” she says.

In her sessions with clients, her focus is on encouragement and positive reinforcement to build confidence and motivation, thus minimising negativity. Dalal now conducts art therapy sessions at the Namaste Healing Centre in Budaiya besides working with schools for special-needs children. She’s also worked with the Ministry of Social Development on a campaign to unite children in Bahrain through art.

She wants to continue her work with children with autism. “Specialneeds children never cease to amaze me with their potential. Working with them is the most rewarding experience,” she feels.

The 28-year old is constantly exploring channels in alternative healing.

She’s completed a course in the Japanese healing system of Reiki and also dabbles in Yoga.

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IMPERIALE COLLECTION

Interview

Nurturing Minds

For almost 35 years, Nadeen School has remained a cosy place for young children to start school. Pauline Puri and daughter Shanee Puri tell us why they intend to keep it that way.

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s a child-centred educator for over 40 years, it is hard to rival Pauline Puri’s passion for children and their learning.

Seldom in course of her nearly three decade career at Nadeen School has she lost sight of her priorities.

“For me, it’s always been about the children,” she says with trademark candour. “The children come first and we look at them as individuals, focusing on all aspects of their

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development, rather than just the academic.”

It’s easy to see how young children warm up to Pauline instinctively. Her sunny demeanour coupled with a boundless enthusiasm for life and learning is infectious.

A qualified teacher from Tasmania, Pauline had taught in Australia and Singapore before she arrived in Bahrain with her family in 1982.

Nadeen School was an establishment for infants with around 120 children when she took over as

principal in early 1984. A natural progression since then has seen the institution develop into a primary school with four buildings. Despite the constant pressure to expand, Pauline’s dedication has ensured that the school remains small and intimate, without losing its warm, caring and nurturing atmosphere.

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Learning differently A strong advocate of a learning-based approach, Pauline believes there exists a disconnect between ‘teaching’ and ‘learning’ and that it’s not acceptable for educators any longer to just ‘teach’ children.

“The question we should be asking ourselves is: ‘have the children really learned something new’ and ‘are we really moving them on’?” she says. “Learning is a lifelong process. We need to develop their skills to solve problems, think critically and creatively, and be independent thinkers. We’d like them to take control of their own learning, reflect on what they’ve learned and how to apply it.”

At the core of Pauline’s ethos lies the belief that every child has the right to education, even as every learner learns differently. The school’s Learning Support department is equipped with two full-time teachers in addition to support staff. Small classes are run to assist children with learning gaps, who require additional support in English, maths and reading. Pauline notes with satisfaction that almost all children are placed at their correct age group within a year of attending their Learning Support classes.

“A Japanese student joined us in Year 6 with very limited English. Within a year of attending the English as a Second Language (ESL) programme, she was fluent in English and gained instant entry into Year 7 the next year,” she recalls.

Another South African boy who was rejected from other Year 6 classes in Bahrain, due to moderate learning difficulties in addition to dyslexia, joined Nadeem School for a year at Year 2 level and gained entry into Year 7 at another school at the end of the year.

“Our goal as educators is to enable all children to reach their full potential, no matter what their previous schooling or abilities. We focus on individual needs and making learning as interesting, fun and exciting as possible, to build confidence and love for learning in our students,” she says.

students as well as the parents.

“Learning Arabic is much more relevant for the children since it’s something they can use and practise every day in Bahrain. The children are building their vocabulary, conversation skills and most importantly, their confidence and ability to communicate in Arabic,” says Shanee.

Additionally, field trips to places of interest such as the National Museum, the Tree of Life, the camel farm and the weaver’s village are organised during the cooler months of the year.

A cultural coordinator is at the helm of activities, such as organising local visits, arranging Bahrain National Day celebrations as well as liaison with the community.

Technology wise As keen watchers of international trends in primary education, Pauline and Shanee are constantly on the lookout for new teaching resources and training that might be relevant to Bahrain, as well as their ethos as educators.

“I believe that if children are literate and numerate enough and have a love of reading, exploration and investigation, then their journey through school will be rewarding,” says Pauline.

Technology is incorporated into the curriculum during IT lessons and children are encouraged to do their research online as well as through books. Pauline is, however, wary of over-reliance on technology as a learning tool and she has her reasons.

“What troubles me is that children’s listening skills and communication skills these days are not what they should be. They seem to lack

concentration and appear to have very little imagination and self sufficiency. We’d like them to work collaboratively with each other, develop interpersonal skills and be team players,” she says.

Finding the right balance between technology and face-to-face interaction in the classroom is something most schools need to work out for themselves, Shanee opines. However, it’s crucial that children use technology and especially the internet, in a safe and responsible manner under adult supervision, she adds.

Nadeen School has use of the British Club premises nearby for physical education activities. Curiously enough, the latest trends in extra-curricular pastimes veer towards the good old days before the technology boom, when boys played board games and girls dabbled in knitting.

“It’s interesting to see children who have iPhones and play stations asking for board games, because they want to learn the games which their parents played. We’ve seen great enthusiasm among seven- to 11 year-olds in joining the school’s newly formed knitting club,” notes Shanee. Regardless of what the future brings, Pauline hopes Nadeen School will retain its unique atmosphere.

“As people come and go, as technologies change, as the world moves on, we must remember that children will always be children. They’ll always need a safe, caring and nurturing school for the start of their school journey. I hope we’re always able to provide that for them,” Pauline surmises.

Connecting locally Catering to over 300 children hailing from over 50 nationalities, the school has made consistent efforts towards promoting an understanding of Bahrain’s heritage and culture among young pupils. All classes cover most aspects of Bahrain at some point including the history, culture, environmental, social studies and geography.

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Autumn

Winter

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The new season's trends are fierce, fabulous and fresh; just what we need to spruce up the colder and darker months. Whether you like to glam your look up with glitter and gold or dress for the office in tailored attire, we've covered the 12 most dominant trends to ensure there is an of-the-moment style for everyone.

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Opulence Equestrian Colour: Deep Hues Colour: Black & White Contrast Leather Urban Metallics Modern Military Trouser Suits Power Prints Pencil Skirts Accessories: Nudes Accessories: Statement Pieces

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Opulence

All That Glitters

Antik Batik

Philosophy di Alberta Ferretti

Not many fabrics were left unadorned on the AW12 catwalk embellishments of all kinds taking centre stage and creating the opulence trend.

Dune

Zac Posen

Juicy Couture

Our inner-magpies were insatiably satisfied by the copious amounts of glitter covering the catwalks. From designer to high-street, you can take your pick of the bunch to inject some serious jazz into your wardrobe.

River Island

Brocade Dolce and Gabbana

The brocade detailing is back this year. The elegant and vintage print is seen on separates, dresses, coats and accessories providing you with the most lavish look possible.

Accessorize

Jimmy Choo

Bina Goenka

Outfit Enhancers

You can always translate the opulence trend to accessories if you aren’t one for completely over-doing it. A bling-tastic choker or heavy-duty cuffs are ideal pieces to add to a simple outfit.

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Equestrian

The country-cool trend is back, and we couldn’t be happier. Muted woodland tones are mixed with heavy tweed jackets, jodhpurs, riding boots and ruffled blouses.

Tory Burch

Helmut Lang

Alice + Olivia

The Outerwear

J Brand at Net-a-Porter

Of course the equestrian trend is all about the great outdoors so you will be in dire need of some warm and waterproof essentials. A quilted jacket and a tweed cape should absolutely be in your wardrobe.

Reiss

The Separates

Aubin & Wills

Etro

Ralph Lauren

It’s all about layering, here. Piece together numerous different separates to achieve that ‘lady of the manor’ look. Straight-legged trousers and an animal-motif knit are absolute musts.

Hunter

Pull & Bear

Alaia

Christian Louboutin

Country-Cool Accessories

Anyone who knows anything about prancing around the countryside knows that Hunter wellies must be worn and a brand new gleaming green pair is exactly right.

Brown leather belts, bags and boots are additional essentials.

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Colour

Deep Hues

The colour palette changes for the autumn/winter season to reflect the changes seen in nature. Summery hues are stored away leaving room for darker, deeper and more luxe shades.

Alexander Wang

Gap

Haider Ackermann

The Burgundys

Remember when burgundy used to be an absolute no-go? Well now it is possibly the hottest hue of the moment and was seen on all manner of fabrics and designs on the AW12 catwalks.

Rochas

Marc by Marc Jacobs

Chloe

The Two-Tones

Victoria Beckham

Victoria Beckham, Marc by Marc Jacobs and Celine designed pieces with two deep colours together; a trend with a hint of a sporty influence. Wearing a dress of this style leaves you looking streamlined and svelte.

Piazza Italia

Gucci

Bottega Veneta

The Blues

The second dominant shade of the season is deep blues — think sapphire, midnight blue and navy. This colour works beautifully when offset with pale, gold or silver accessories.

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Colour

Black/White Contrast

Fashion pieces should compliment each other, and what better way to do this than by placing the two most contrasting colours together to entirely bring out each hue.

Alice by Temperley

Massimo Dutti

Mango

Cover-Up

Capes, jackets, knits and cardigans are just some of the ways you can keep warm and wear the black and white trend. Go for a more detailed piece as evening attire or throw on a simple jumper for daywear.

Lipsy

The Accessories

Jane Norman

Celine

BCBGMaxazria

We love the new-season Celine boots which are incredibly striking in pure white and black leather.

These come in ankle length too, and with the colours reversed. The stores will additionally be full of bags, scarves and other accessories in these monochrome shades.

Moschino

Karen Millen

Juicy Couture

Herve Leger

Dress Up

Our selection of diverse dresses proves that you can rock black and white mix items at all manner of events. Slip into a figure-hugging Herve Leger for a night out on the town or this flippy 50s style Karen Millen number is ideal for girls’ lunches and even wearing to the office.

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Fashion

Leather

Leather upon leather is what it’s all about currently. Think clean, pared-back structure in separates, coats and dresses and team it with a rock ‘n’ roll attitude.

3.1 Philip Lim

Forever 21

Balmain

The Wardrobe

Embrace a grown up palette of blacks, inky blues, burgundys and moss greens. You can take the bold path and dress head-to-toe in leather or simply choose one piece such as a skinny pair of trousers tucked into boots.

Paul Smith

Pierre Hardy

Nine West

Angel Schlesser

The Boots

When you think leather, you think boots. And you won’t be disappointed with the extraordinary amount of options available. In every shade imaginable, leather boots come knee-high styles, in a platform, a wedge, a heel, ankle length, covered in zips, adorned with buckles…you name it.

MQ Alexander McQueen

Bimba and Lola

The Accessories

Marc Jacobs

Leather bags are nothing new, however how about adding a leather collar or a pair of gloves? It’s all lusciously daring and adds to that street-savvy style placing you at the height of fashion.

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Fashion

Urban Metallics The AW12 catwalks were overrun with metallics; a testament to how playful fashion worldwide has become. Have fun ‘futurising’ your look by opting for obvious shimmery tones.

Karen Millen

Vivienne Westwood Anglomania

Karl

The Clothing

Oddly textured, metallic pieces have the appearance of being heavy, which makes the fabric fall in alluring ways. Never go overboard; choose one essential item per look.

Michael Kors

Paco Rabanne

The Shoes

Bershka

Jill Sander

You think metallic and your mind conjures up an image of silver. However, as the range of shoes will show, you can also rock shades of bronze, gold and pink. Wear the season’s hottest footwear styles with a metallic twist.

Mango

Monsoon

Jimmy Choo

The Accessories

A metallic bag should be slouchy and spacious to really add to the urban feel of the trend. Choose a large tote or a sling a messenger bag over your shoulder and complete the look with a large, unfussy metal necklace.

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Modern Military The military look is back with a modern twist. Whether you go classic or eclectic, a tailored jacket, coat or blazer is an absolute yes.

Levi's Made and Crafted

Topshop

Oasis

The Shirt

Silk, cotton and even indigo denim are the ideal fabrics for your utilitarian shirt. Choose one with a bit of flair, such as an embroidered collar, or a style enhanced with insignia patches.

Lacoste

The Coat

Carolina Herrera

Burberry London

Burberry

Keep it simple with statement coats. Almost every designer has included a military coat in their collection this season, so you can opt for almost any style/colour that takes your fancy.

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Additional Gear

Hogan

Furla

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Trouser Suits It’s time to suit up: matchy-matchy is back with a bang, sprucing up workwear attire with a smack of attitude.

The Row

Acne

Black Tie

A tailored jacket and matching trouser is possibly the smartest trend available this season.

For the smartest look possible, suit up in a simple palette of black. Silk lapels and single button-detailing are elegant and womanly additions to the classic jacket.

Miu Miu

H&M

The Eccentrics

Paul Smith

We’ve seen prints on separates and now here they are again on suits. This is the way to remain smart but with a large injection of creativity. Add a white shirt or chunky loafers to make the look really pop.

Preen

The New Cuts

Day Birger et Mikkelsen

Wear your jacket hanging open or go for a wider-leg trouser style to achieve a more modern look to your suit. Less sharp tailoring can often be more effective and will create a more casual everyday outfit.

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Power Prints Dress to impress in all manner of prints. Embrace bold florals, digital designs, fearsome animal inspirations and oversized Jacquard motifs.

Desigual

M Missoni

Roberto Cavalli

Issa

The Show-Stoppers

Diane Von Furstenberg

Marni at Net-a-Porter

The Trouser

DKNY

Statement separates, such as trousers, are ideal if you crave a touch of printed style but envisage teaming it with something more muted. Choose a neutral top that won’t steal the limelight from your print of choice.

Kenzo

Nicholas Kirkwood at Net-a-Porter

Osman at Net-a-Porter

One attention-grabbing piece can be all you need. Channel this impacting trend through one-piece items that will show how style savvy you are and that you aren’t afraid to show it!

Mulberry

The Accessories

Here is where you can really have some fun. You can go all-out and pair a patterned shoe with an equally-patterned outfit, or add just a smidgen of exuberance to a single-tone or muted look. www.womanthismonth.com

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Pencil Skirts Whether you are dressing for the office, a dinner, a glamorous event or a casual stroll in the park, a pencil skirt will suffice. Oozing femininity and modesty, this style flatters all.

Coast

Donna Karan

Bold Blocks of Colour

Matthew Williamson

If you are bored of the more muted shades of the season, spice things up with a brightly coloured skirt — hot pink, royal blue and even pure gold are just some of the hues available.

Paul and Joe

Jonathan Saunders

Erdem

Garden of Eden DSquared2

Floral detailing will never completely vanish and here the trend appears on pencil skirts.

Spruce up a mundane work shirt and jacket by wearing a beautiful floral skirt.

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J. Crew

Miss Selfridge

Prints and Patterns

For a more fun and playful look some designers have used edgy eclectic designs on their pencil skirts. Think stripes, leopard prints, geometric patterns and much more.

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Valentin o

Blush Pink

Complement a softer outfit with accessories in this shade of nude.

Dior and Valentino in particular embraced shades of pink with chunky suede shoes and silk gloves creating very tactile collections designed to make the average woman look like royalty.

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Accessories: Nudes Neutral shades seem to be a corner stone of every season’s collection as here they are again. The catwalks were filled with models strutting in nude-coloured shoes, bags and jewellery.

Classic Ivory

Jane Norman

Ashley Pittman

Charlotte Olympia

The pure nakedness of this hue works well against busy outfits that need an injection of calm. Next to darker clothing colours, ivory accessories are made very visible and subsequently have a very luxe look.

Pure Beige

Lanvin

Givenchy

Beige is often misconstrued as bland, but that couldn’t be further from the truth with the accessories available in this colour this season.

From flat ballet-esque shoes to ladylike courts or a chunky textured bag, beige is making its stand and proving its worth.

Folli Follie

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Fashion Pasquale Bruni

The Chunky Necklace

Adorn your fingers with dazzling rings that will draw all the attention away from your outfit.

Stack them up to make a real statement or simply opt for one obvious style like this fearsome piece from Roberto Coin.

Roberto Coin

Lulu Frost Next

Accessories: Statement Pieces Show-Stopping Bags

Prada dared critics to comment as style after style of attention-seeking bags were carried down the catwalks. Similarly, retailer Zara has created a more affordable range of useful and spacious arm candy.

Dior

Zara

Farfalla

Rings and Bling

Whether on top of a weighty knit, a heavy coat or a basic top, a chunky necklace will make its mark. Go for a style with plenty of colour and panache; ‘the bigger, the better’ is most definitely the case here!

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Sofia AlAsfoor at Saks

Assad Mounser

Prada

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FARFALLA

Unique Style

Tired of turning up at events wearing the same as someone else? Then shop in a place where you can pick up one-off designs that will make everyone envious.

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f you are looking for some serious style direction then you must pay a visit to Seef Mall’s newest fashion destination. Located on the ground floor in the new extension, Farfalla is an attention-grabbing ladies fashion boutique that is filled to the brim with inspiring designs ideas. Having been open for just a few months, the young store has garnered a considerable amount of attention due to its unique pieces and the minimum quantity of each item — so you can be sure that whatever you buy won’t be seen on someone else!

With new arrivals every two weeks, it’s the perfect place to grab something entirely individual and undeniably chic and if you are struggling you can opt for a styling consult from the owner herself.

Here you can shop for Eastern and Western designs in almost every colour, cut and style imaginable. Plus, there are outfit options for both smart and casual wear; you can find the perfect mini party dress or a casual maxi to keep you cool and comfortable all day.

Browse everything from dresses, mini jalabiyas, tops, cardigans and trousers all ranging from extremely affordable prices upwards.

If you are a closet bag lady, you will leave with plenty of new additions to your collection; browse large leather totes, fun and quirky printed clutches and glittery evening bags. Plus, there is an excellent range of accessories, including one-off statement jewellery items, beautifully-patterned scarves and flat and heeled shoes in all manner of designs. Call 17 005-010.

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Showcase

Falling For Fashion BAHRAIN CITY CENTRE

Fashionistas will not want to miss the current month-long campaign ongoing at Bahrain’s biggest shopping mall as the season’s hottest shoe and handbag trends are unveiled.

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ahrain City Centre invites shoppers to step fashionably into the new season with a month-long campaign titled ‘Fall for Fashion’, which began on September 19 and runs will run until October 20. This year’s event will focus solely on handbags and shoes, with a large display depicting the theme taking pride of place in the Central Galleria. This exhibition features numerous styles available in the shopping centre, with quotes from celebrities outlining their favourites.

At the centerpiece will be a larger-than-life shoe installation — a giant red shoe. Shoppers will additionally have the chance to win a daily prize of BD300 in gift cards, simply by spending BD30 in the mall. Furthermore, those who spend this minimum amount at any fashion store can double their chance to win and be entered into a draw to win a grand shopping spree worth BD3,000. To enter, simply complete a fun trivia card with clues found at the shoe and bag display. The centre is inviting people of

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all ages and interest to get involved. Anyone can take part in the ‘Does the Shoe Fit campaign’ weekends on September 20-22 and 27-29. You can try on the shoes and if they fit you have a chance of winning a BD100 shopping spree.

School children from Bahrain Bayan School will be given the chance to show off their artistic talents by participating in a ‘Most Creative Shoe Box’ competition, on display from October 7-20. Social media fans can partake in ‘Do You Love Your Shoes/Bag?” by uploading photos of themselves modelling their favourite accessory. Each week, the most stylish fan will be rewarded with a BD50 gift card to splurge at the mall. And if that’s not enough, everyone who spends BD50 or more at the mall during the ‘Fall for Fashion’ campaign will receive a reusable and eco-friendly Bahrain City Centre branded bag, in an effort to prompt a greener environment. Call 17 177-771 or visit www.bahraincitycentre.com.

Supporting breast cancer awareness month In recognition of October’s aim to raise awareness of breast cancer, Bahrain City Centre will once again be hosting the successful ‘Kick up Your Heels’ walkathon in support Think Pink Bahrain — a local organisation dedicating to raising funds for the disease.

Now in its second edition, the 3km walk will take place on October 13 and will involve exciting prizes including a weekend getaway at the Kempinski Grand & Ixir Hotel Bahrain City Centre for the highest fundraiser, and a brunch for two at the hotel for the most creative costumes.

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Diamond Necklace

Amethyst Long Necklace

Tanzanite Diamond Amethyst Necklace

Tanzanite Diamond Amethyst Ring Pink Papphire Amethyst Earrings

Aquamarine Ring Tanzanite Diamond Amethyst Earrings

Red Carpet Creations CHOPARD

If you love jewels, drape yourself in opulence with a special and overtly luxe collection from one of France’s most coveted jewellery houses.

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his year, Chopard unveiled its first ever entirely unique and glamorous Red Carpet Collection. Made up of 65 individual pieces, the range was created for the 65th edition of the Cannes International Film Festival, which the jewellery house has partnered with for 15 years.

At the event, Chopard previewed several of the pieces from the collection, all of which were beautifully designed by the brand’s co-president and artistic director Caroline Scheufele.

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designer, it is indeed the shimmering tones of precious stones that nurture my imagination,” explains Caroline. “A diamond is my favourite stone and an indispensable ally for women on the red carpet.”

For this collection, she has chosen stones such as rubies, emeralds, sapphires, amethysts and tourmalines — without forgetting diamonds.

An apple-shaped ring is an original, unexpected and delightful model with a tinge of humour. Comprising of approximately 800 tsavorites and more than 200 brown diamonds totaling 57.2 carats adorn this truly spectacular piece.

Striking a more romantic note, a majestic floral-inspired necklace is bound to draw the eye. Set with over 1,100 diamonds, pink sapphires and rubies the piece totals 38.8 carats. Also interpreting the floral theme, a delicate springtime necklace is adorned with tourmaline beads, a bed of white of white gold flowers and highlighted by an 18-carat pearcut green tourmaline.

This precious item also features a white gold necklace dotted with tiny bells like miniature light-filled cathedrals and set with pear-cut sapphires, oval amethysts tourmalines and diamonds. Call 16 520-088.

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Beauty News

Beauty

The new season make up collections have been pouring in, presenting autumnal hues, boldly seductive lips and a perfect complexion as the look to achieve.

Parisian Chic

For autumn 2012, Bourjois invites you to experience adventure and escapism, with its new Parisian lodge collection. Inspired by all things nature; earthy browns and vibrant greens combine with mustard and burgundy, for a touch of tribal beauty.

Available at all leading retailers.

Desert Twilight

Bobbi Brown’s new Desert Twilight Collection combines soft hues with bright colour. Offering a pop of Southwestern inspired turquoise against a backdrop of un-swept rose, plum and bronze shades; the collection is playful yet wearable.

Available at Bobbi Brown.

Wrinkles Be Gone!

If you are aware of wrinkles forming, treat your skin to L’Occitane’s new Precious Immortelle Formula. Created with 1001 flowers, the gently scented and organic product fights deep wrinkles to reveal younger-looking and rejuvenated skin.

Available at L’Occitane.

Eyes Lit Up

Clarins has launched the Ombre Minérale range, a collection of mineral power eye colours that come in an array of beautiful colours. Eyes will be intensely enhanced for a feminine and alluring look with absolutely no irritation.

Available at all leading retailers.

Glam Rock

Estée Lauder’s Pure Colour Violet Underground collection is inspired by multiple cultures, styles and textures; it is the ultimate fusion of high style and street chic. The makeup in the range takes glam rock to a new dimension with a fantastical aesthetic revolution of deep, vibrant violet and fuschia tones.

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Salon-Styled Hair

Molton Brown has captured the hottest new advances in plantbased science, with the arrival of a brand new haircare collection.

The 11-piece range has been created to answer all common hair issues; each formula helps to make bad hair days a thing of the past. Available at all leading retailers.

Seductive Shades

Inspired by tango dancers known for their artistic elegance, Make Up Forever launches the Black Tango collection.

Inclusive of incredibly long-lasting products in ultra-chic shades the range has four Aqua Creams in a stylish palette, three matching sensual nail polishes and a waterproof lipstick with an incredible and glamorous shine.

Available at Make Up Forever.

The Softest Skin

Mauboussin’s new Rose Pour Elle Sorbet Cream soothes and melts leaving skin undeniably smooth. Both fresh and soft, the cream is enriched with the classic scent of rose and injected with blackcurrant buds, tangerine, bergamot and orange.

Available at all leading retailers.

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Beauty

Scents New Season

Just as your wardrobe needs updating in response of the new season, so does your bathroom cabinet. Start by indulging in a new fragrance that will give you the rejuvenation you need.

A Floral Ensemble

Sensual and luminous, the new fragrance from Nina Ricci is one we all want.

Fusing pink pepper, rose centifolia and pink laurel set against musk and whitewood, it is a soft feminine scent that will linger on the skin all day long.

Latino Seduction

JLo is another celebrity marking her territory with a new scent. ‘Glowing

by JLo’ is a floral and woody perfume designed to embody Jennifer’s sexy appeal. Inspired by her favourite candle, the fragrance contains a blend of florals and citrus fruits, deep musk, vanilla and sandalwood.

The Scent of Leather

Thierry Mugler is celebrating 20 years of success this year with the launch of The Fragrances of Leather. Inspired by the ancient art of perfumers and glove makers, Thierry Mugler experiments with an original creative process to revisit four iconic fragrances and unveil the leather collection.

The Sweetest Thing

On the first birthday of Prada Candy, Prada presents a limited edition of the eau de parfum. Exceptionally highquality ingredients are combined in excessive proportions: white musk and noble benzoin fuse with caramel accord to create a truly signature scent.

Masculine Notes

The success of David Beckham is unyielding. His most recent product is ‘The Essence by David Beckham’, an Eau de Toilette for men that oozes masculinity. A vibrantly sexy scent, the fragrance emits a zesty brightness of grapefruit blended with luminous violet leaves and sparkling lavender to create an invigorating rush of freshness.

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Playing

Paintbox

By Alison Coldridge

Home

with the

It’s time to brighten up. Think “out with the old; in with the fun and colourful,” and you’ll have a home that emits positivity and optimism.

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he autumn/winter season is in full swing.

The shops are full to the brim with new collections to entice us to give our homes a makeover, even if they don’t particularly need one! However, it’s always refreshing to spruce up old looks with some strong hues and playful prints.

Luckily, colour is in abundance currently, bringing some bright tones into homes to lighten up the dark evenings. If you tend to play it safe and are not a fan of bold tones, there is no need to go all out; instead add touches here and there.

Just remember not to go too mad. If you opt for vibrant furniture pieces and accessories, then team this with muted walls and flooring.

All the colours of the rainbow Always ahead of the game, Roche Bobois’ new collection is filled with futuristic concepts and forward-thinking designs. Ever-so-daringly, colours used on furnishing essentials such as seating, rugs and lighting are incredibly bright, almost fluorescent. The end result is a collection that is fun, attention-drawing and undeniably stylish.

BoConcept has intercepted bursts of colour into its urban-minded range, giving a flash of playfulness with items such as a cushion with a painted effect, a multi-coloured clock and fluorescent Perspex storage boxes.

And don’t forget to pay a visit to Australian brand Freedom, an always-reliable home shopping go-to. Browse additional colourful accessories, wall art and utensils.

Patterns and prints Single-shade items can become dull, something that can be overcome with retro prints and designs. Marks & Spencer has transferred this trend onto cushions galore. Whether you are partial to spots, stripes or digital prints you will find just the style you are looking for.

Similarly, Debenhams boasts many bedding sets coated with fashionable designs, such as this fun printed bedding set depicting a row of townhouses with an isolated door picked out in yellow.

Q Home Decor Probably the easiest way to lighten up your home is with a colourful lamp. The light emitted from the bulb will enhance the colour of the lamp itself for an additional boost.

Well-lit rooms will make all of the shades you have selected more visible. We love this tangerine-orange table lamp from Q Home. Perched on a Perspex base, the vibrant design is ideal for brightening up a dull office desk.

BoConcept

Freedom

Roche Bobois

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20 Tips

A Festive

Halloween

By Keerthana Louis

The one night of the year where you can dress up and get a little wild! Leave your inhibitions aside this Halloween and prepare a fabulous party for all your friends.

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Invitations. Halloween party invites should really set the tone for the whole event. Remember that a little bit of effort goes a long way, use gothic font, cardstock and a wax seal for something really unique.

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Theme night. Let your inner child take control when deciding on a theme for your party. Haunted house? Wizard’s castle? Vampires in coffins? It’s all up to you, but costumes are definitely a must.

3. Get out the carving knife. Carving pumpkins is always a fun idea, although it can be a bit tricky with younger guests. For a more mature guest list, this can easily become a friendly competition and a welcome ice breaker.

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Decorate. From your front door to your kitchen, Halloween should reign supreme. Think orange and black, cotton wool cobwebs, dim lighting and loads of creepy things in jars.

A Children’s Party

5. Time for games. A few fun games are bound to get people in

Set a date and time. The party doesn’t have to be held in the evening or even on the last day of October. Choose a date and a time that works for you and your young guests.

the party spirit. Be warned, scheduling every minute of the party might be a bit overwhelming for you and your guests.

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Pick a number. An easy way to decide how many people to 6. Set the table. Before ladening your table with all your delicious 11. invite is to consider the age of your child. Running after seven seven dishes, cover it with a tatty white lace tablecloth and tons of silver or gold hued chalices and candlesticks. A couple of fake spiders and mice will finish off the look perfectly.

year olds or five five-year olds, is far less daunting than chasing fifteen toddlers.

for a sit down dinner, unless of course you’re looking for a more intimate gathering. Finger foods like veggies and dips, deviled eggs, and tiny sandwiches will hit the right spot for a larger crowd.

should be picked up.

Be specific. Remember to tell your guests and their parents 7. Serve finger foods. Halloween parties are really not the time 12. how long the party will last, where it will be held and what time kids

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Keep it kid friendly. It’s definitely not the time to break out your wedding china or your grandmother’s silver. Disposable plates, cups and utensils in Halloween themes, colours or patterns are your best bet.

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Crafts and games. Plan something for your young visitors to do — make Halloween decorations, go on a scavenger hunt or bob for apples in a big black cauldron.

Get creative. Take the time to create elaborate names for what you serve. It just sounds better if your guests can say they’re drinking “Nuclear Waste” and not just plain old orange juice.

Put on a soundtrack. There’s nothing worse than an audible silence during a party. Play classics like “Monster Mash” to get your guests in the mood for fun.

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Put on a movie. Older kids will appreciate a good scary movie. Set the mood with dim lighting and treats but make sure you don’t pick anything too terrifying.

16. Add fruits and veggies. Offer more than just sugared doughnuts at your party. Try fruit and cheese skewers with rubber spiders at the end to get the kids interested.

17. Make it a competition. Get into the party spirit by asking

your guests to dress up and hold a costume parade. Prizes can be given to all participants with something extra special for the one with the best costume of the night.

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Limit the damage. Close doors to rooms and spaces that you want to keep off limits. Putting up “BEWARE” signs or caution tape will still allow you to maintain your theme.

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Goody bags. Send your guests home with glowing goody bags full of little treats. Think small pieces of candy and gag gifts.

20. Stay Calm. You might be faced with several children on a

sugar high, but remember to keep in mind the whole point of it all — to have a good time.

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Online

Learning Online

We’re not talking about an online blog, university or college course; there’s a new way of learning in town and it’s all about interacting with one another and picking up tricks and tips from people in the trade.

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hen YouTube first started back in 2005, it was a simple to use video sharing programme. Take a video of you and your friends goofing off, upload it and wait and see if it attracts any attention. You might think it hasn’t changed much since then, but avid YouTubers will notice a very big difference.

No longer do you have to visit a school or head to the Himalayas in search of a guru, YouTube brings them straight to your home and onto your computer screen. Anything from exercise videos, make up tips, fashion experts and even guitar lessons can be found online. A new age has definitely dawned in the YouTube world, and YouTube gurus are heading it up with style. Aimed at everyone from tweens trying out their first lip liner to make up professionals seeking some inspiration, people

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of all ages can become addicted to learning in a whole new way.

Channels to watch?

Of course it all depends on where your interests lie, but we’ve found that a few channels pop up more than others on our Internet search. The ‘Pixiwoo’ sisters have made a name for themselves in the international circuit with their informative and relatively straightforward make up tutorials, while ‘Lilithedarkmoon’ is a fan favourite for hair tips.

Is it user-friendly?

Yes. Navigating through YouTube is as easy as can be with the helpful search icon. You can look up the name of a channel or the title of a video you’ve been aching to see. If you have

your own YouTube account then you’ll find personalised recommendations set out for you, based on videos you’ve already seen.

Accessible via mobile phones, iPads and of course laptops, it goes everywhere you do.

What’s the YouTube Partner Programme?

If you have or are thinking of starting a YouTube channel then check out their page on partnering. It provides content creators with tools and programmes to improve their skills, build their audiences and monetise their videos, which means you can earn money via the videos you upload. The amount you earn will correspond to the number of subscribers you have and the number of views on your videos, but it’s a great way to do what you love and get paid for it. www.womanthismonth.com

Social Butterfly

AWA 38th Anniversary

The American Women's Association (AWA) held a celebration to mark the organisation's 38th celebrations anniversary. The event was held at the Riffa Views Royal Golf Club

Leanne, Chris, Tracey, Andrea & Margaret Mary, Karla, Beverley, Sylvie & Leylan

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Kim & Tosin

Aian Lisa, Susanne, Zane & Clauss

HE Thomas Krajeski, US Ambassador & Tosin

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Women's World Expo 2012

The Women's World Expo 2012 was held at the Movenpick Hotel last month Khulood

Hanan, Azhar & Mariam

Samah, Sabeena & Sidiqa

Shaikha & Dana

Manar & Anfal

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Diary

An Opulent Showcase

This month the glitziest affair on the country’s calendar returns; Jewellery Arabia is back with even more enticing pieces to catch your eye.

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rom October 16-20, the Bahrain International Exhibition and Conference Centre will be filled with every jewel and gem imaginable. As the Middle East’s largest jewellery exhibition, you can imagine the magnitude of the event and the prestige of the brand’s eager to be involved.

Think Harry Winston, De Beers, Chanel, Chopard, Patek Philippe, Piaget, Van Cleef & Arpels and Omega [DASH] these are the famed jewellery houses which you can expect to be greeted by as you walk through the exhibition’s doors.

Many of these high-profile and international brands will use the exhibition as a platform to introduce their latest launches and innovations to the Middle East collector’s market.

Additionally, visitors will be given an exclusive first-look at new and upcoming brands.

Many of the exhibiting companies have an exclusive presence in the Middle East, providing visitors with a unique view of the

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global market. Country pavilions from Brazil, Hong Kong, India and Malaysia complement this line up. Collectively these groups of companies reflect the very best manufacturing capabilities and design expertise that their respective countries have to offer.

Joining these high profile brands and national groups are some of the Middle East’s finest retailers and manufacturers, led by a selection of Bahrain’s leading jewellers. They include Bahrain Jewellery Centre, Asia Jewellers, Al Mahmood Pearls, Al Zain and Devji among others.

Whether you love emeralds, rubies, sapphires, gold, silver or diamonds, you can browse, try-on and purchase jewellery and timepieces of all varieties during the five-day event as the exhibitors unveil their most exquisite products. So, get ready to empty your wallets!

Running alongside Jewellery Arabic 2012 will be a special awards ceremony to be held at the

Ritz Carlton Bahrain. The Eighth Middle East Watches, Jewellery and Pen Awards will take place on October 16 and will reward the efforts of successful and long-stranding brands.

Drawing in the masses Since its conception in 1992, each year’s event has lured in thousands of visitors who come along to see the crème de la crème of the fine-jewellery industry including the most esteemed jewellery houses and iconic watch manufacturers.

Proudly boasting even more brands, exhibitors and jewels than previous years, Jewellery Arabia 2012 is cited as an event not to be missed. Over 550 exhibitors from 30 countries will be in attendance, transforming the space into a gem-filled fantasy world. The venues four halls will be completely filled with exhibitors, each equipped with either a stand or an area in which the brand’s items will be displayed.

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Social Butterfly

Farfalla Boutique Opening

Manal & Fatima

An opening ceremony was held to mark the launch of the Farfalla Boutique in Seef Mall's new extension Manal, Fatima & Aysha

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Wellbeing

The Fight of a Lifetime:

Conquering

Breast Cancer No woman wants to receive a breast cancer diagnosis, but hearing the words “breast cancer” doesn’t always mean an end. It can be the beginning of learning how to fight, getting the facts and finding hope.

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uring the month of October, the world is encouraged to consider the life-altering consequences of breast cancer, which affects a scary statistic of one in eight women. It’s a terrifying illness that unfortunately many women fall prey to through no fault of their own, taking mothers, daughters, wives and friends.

However, all is not lost. By annually dedicating a month of the year to this type of cancer, women worldwide are made more aware of how they can check for symptoms, receive the correct treatment course and seek the help needed.

There are many ways in which doctors claim women can reduce the likelihood of developing breast cancer, just as there are constantly further developments in fighting the disease. And of course the vast support available has shown to be incredibly beneficial to sufferers.

In support of these ventures, we have consulted three experts to find out how women can prevent, treat and receive the proper support needed if breast cancer develops. www.womanthismonth.com

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Wellbeing Pregnancy benefits The processes of pregnancy and breastfeeding have been proven to reduce the overall number of menstrual cycles in a woman’s lifetime, and this appears to reduce future breast cancer risk.

“Birth control pills appear to slightly increase a woman’s risk for breast cancer, but only for a limited period of time. Women who stopped using oral contraceptives more than ten years ago do not appear to have any increased breast cancer risk,” Dr Sanjay states.

Step 1: Prevention Our expert: Dr Sanjay Gupta, head of the breast clinic at American Mission Hospital.

Every woman wants to know what she can do to lower her risk of breast cancer. Some of the factors associated with breast cancer can’t be changed, however other factors are your choice. “By choosing the healthiest lifestyle options possible, you can empower yourself and make sure your breast cancer risk is as low as possible,” explains Dr Sanjay.

“Your doctor should accurately assess your level of breast cancer risk to help you come up with a plan to lower your risk. This can also influence recommendations about breast cancer screening — what tests to have and when to start having them.”

The importance of self-examination Probably the best way to fight breast cancer is by immediately consulting a doctor should you notice a lump in one of your breasts. By doing this, you can immediately start the course of treatment required and begin a recovery plan.

“It is important that every woman checks her breast for abnormal lumps regularly — at least once a month. We advise that women become familiar with the normal consistency of their breasts and underlying tissue, so that any new changes that arise will be noticeable,” suggests Dr Sanjay.

Step 2: Treatment Our expert: Dr Stephen Angamuthu, consultant general and laparoscopic surgeon at the Royal Bahrain Hospital.

If it is clarified that a woman does in fact have breast cancer, it is highly advisable to have an idea of the type of treatment courses available.

There are many different types, each suitable for the unique patient and their cancer’s progression rate.

This can all be incredibly overwhelming, which is why a woman with cancer will be advised by her doctor on the correct treatment path to follow. However, the ultimate choice of which type to opt for will be the patients own.

Surgery, chemotherapy, radiotherapy or hormonal manipulation are the most common treatment methods, depending on the type and stage of the cancer.

When surgery is an option Early detection of breast cancer can save lives. “With patients that have small tumors or are in the early stages of breast cancer, surgery is the most viable option,” says Dr Stephen. “Often surgery at this stage can result in completely ridding the breasts of the cancerous lump(s) and sometimes no chemotherapy is even required.”

The most common types of surgery are a mastectomy, which is the removal of all of the breast tissue, or a lumpectomy, which is the removal of only the tumor and a small amount of the surrounding tissue.

Undergoing chemotherapy If chemotherapy is required, the course you embark on will be meticulously considered to suit your body type and the stage your cancer is in. It works by using medicine to weaken and destroy cancer cells in the body, including cells at the original site and any cells that may have spread throughout the body.

“Chemotherapy is commonly used to treat advanced-stage breast cancer,” explains Dr Stephen. “Most standard chemotherapy regimens include a combination of two or more medicines from anthracyclines and taxanes.

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Maintain a healthy lifestyle Being overweight can increase the risks of breast cancer, especially for women after menopause. “Fat tissue is the body’s main source of estrogen after menopause, when the ovaries stop producing the hormone. More fat tissue means higher estrogen levels, which can increase breast cancer risk,” he says.

A controlled diet is key; an eating plan rich in fruits and vegetables is generally recommended.

Additionally, evidence is growing that exercise can reduce the risk. The American Cancer Society recommends 45-60 minutes of physical exercise five or more days a week.

Limiting alcohol consumption will also help as this limits your liver’s ability to control blood levels of the hormone estrogen, which can, in turn, increase risk.

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cancer, a targeted therapy medicine, such as herceptin, may be used in combination with some chemotherapy regimens.”

Choosing targeted therapies Target therapy medicines can be an option for women. Specific characteristics of cancer cells are targeted, such as a protein that allows the cancer cells to grow in a rapid or abnormal way.

“Some breast cancers have protein (receptors) called HER2. Drugs like Herceptin get attached to this receptor containing cells and kill the cells. These drugs are used in combination with other chemotherapy drugs and are more effective on tumors,” says Dr Stephen. “Pregnant women should not undergo targeted therapies, as research has shown that such treatment is not safe for both mother and child.”

Step 3: Support Network Our expert: National Breast Cancer Foundation, www.nationalbreastcancer.org.

The lengthy process of fighting breast cancer is intense, draining and exhausting. Anybody

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who believes in ‘mind over matter’ will realise the extreme importance of having a support system when going through this journey. Most importantly, sufferers need to know that they are not alone.

All over the world, there are thousands of programmes and services to provide coping mechanisms in every way possible. There are professionals and volunteers on hand 24/7 both virtually and in reality to offer words of wisdom, comfort and strength.

Receiving support virtually If a woman with breast cancer isn’t yet ready to discuss her battle with friends, family or support groups, another option is accessing online blogs and forums. Doctors advise cancer patients to reach out to anyone, and following someone else’s story from a distance could be the right approach for some women.

On the ‘community’ section of the National Breast Cancer Foundation (NBCF) site there are all manner of ways you can get in touch with other people who have gone through breast cancer, including blogs, videos, live chats and forums. The site also offers a resource library, where professional treatment advice is given.

Joining a support group Some women feel more comfortable seeking support from someone who has gone through a similar experience, which is where a support group is an ideal source of support. Studies have shown that breast cancer patients enrolled in a support group have better quality of life, including improvements in mood, ability to cope and reduced levels of stress.

The significance of leaning on friends and family It is our friends and family that have always and will always be there for us, making them probably the best people a breast cancer sufferer can turn to. Although a family member or friend may not have been through cancer, they know the sufferer better than any doctor and can provide both emotional and practical support in day-to-day life.

By educating and counselling family and friends, the sufferer will be able to receive all of the support needed and the overall quality of life will be increased.

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Do Your Part Raise as much money as you possibly can for Breast Cancer Awareness by attending as many of the Kingdom’s fun-filled fundraising events.

Calendar of Events When? October 3, 4, 5 Event? Fitness classes Where? Bodyline Contact? 17 793-932.

When? October 5 Event? Harley Davidson Owner’s Group awareness ride Where? Throughout the Kingdom Contact? www.harley-davidson-bahrain.com.

When? October 7 Event? Golf men’s night out Where? Royal Golf Club Contact? 17 750-777.

When? October 10 Event? Golf ladies night out Where? Royal Golf Club Contact? 17 750-777.

When? October 11 Event? Open day Where? World Beat Fitness Centre Contact? 17 612-576.

When? October 13 Event? Fundraising walk Where? Bahrain City Centre Contact? www.bahraincitycentre.com.

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his month is all about uniting people for a common cause, the cause being breast cancer awareness month. Many of the Kingdom’s companies and organisations have offered their premises, services and employees with one goal in mind: to raise as much money as possible to find a cure for and to help those with breast cancer.

Events of all varieties are being held throughout the month with the hope of having at least one fundraiser that each person will be able to take part in. The month’s calendar has been put together by Bahrain’s number one breast cancer society; Think Pink Bahrain. The month kicks off with three days of fitness classes at Bodyline, encouraging women to get fit and healthy in aid of the cause. Next up includes a range of hobby-specific events including a Harley Davidson Owner’s Group (HOG) awareness ride, followed by two men’s and women’s separate events at the Royal Golf Club. Next, the World Beat Fitness Centre will be holding its seventh annual open day from 9am until 1pm. The centre’s teachers are all volunteering their time and expertise to teach

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members of the public various classes, including pilates, belly dancing, yoga and zumba. Simply pay a nominal fee to attend with all proceeds going towards the cause.

You can continue the fitness streak at Bahrain City Centre’s annual Think Pink walkathon or stretch your vocal cords and cause yourself some probable embarrassment at JJ’s fundraising karaoke. On October 20 Dessange will have a ‘Party in Pink’, including a three hour zumba and spinning marathon from 10am-1pm, providing a great opportunity to garner lots of sponsorship.

Or you can take the little ones and get creative at both Studio Ceramics and Café Ceramique, which will both be having events.

October’s activities will end on a high at the beginning of next month with the annual Pink Walkathon in support of the American Mission Hospital. So, as you can see, there are plenty of opportunities to donate some funds by attending an event, sponsor a friend, colleague or family member and generally have fun all in aid of a desperate cause.

When? October 15 Event? Karaoke Where? JJ’s Irish Pub and Restaurant Contact? 39 329-083.

When? October 20 Event? Party in pink Where? Dessange Contact? 17 713-999.

When? October 21 Event? Open day Where? Café Ceramique Contact? 17 583-500.

When? October 27 Event? Pick a heart Where? Studio Ceramics Contact? 17 599-026.

When? November 3 Event? Pink walkathon Where? Dohard Arad Contact? 39 688-619.

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Warriors in Pink

Campaign

Women all over the world are encouraged to unite through one goal this month; to spread awareness, and ultimately help cure, breast cancer.

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n support of breast cancer awareness month, Ford has created a fashionable line of clothing and accessories for men, women and children. The ‘Warriors in Pink’ collection items highlight symbols of hope, strength and unity in the fight against breast cancer.

All Ford’s Warriors in Pink apparel is available for purchase online and 100 per cent of the profits are gifted to Susan G. Komen for the Cure, Dr Susan Love Research Foundation (DSLRF), The Pink Fund and the Young Survival Coalition (YSC).

One of the collection’s most desirable items is a previously sold-out t-shirt designed by our favourite Hollywood starlet Jennifer Aniston.

Her design, which features a drawing of the moon, is a message of positivity, encouraging people to believe in a cure, inspired by the reasoning that ‘if we can put a man on the moon, we can find a cure for breast cancer’. www.womanthismonth.com

A story of five survivors One of the activities that Ford Middle East will bring to the region this year is the screening of “Five” — five short films that explore the impact of breast cancer on five very different women.

Through an interconnected story, the films focus on these women and their lives at different stages of their diagnoses. The stories look at the effect the disease has on relationships and the way the women perceive themselves while searching for strength, comfort, medical breakthroughs and ultimately a cure. The film’s directors included Alicia Keys, Demi Moore, Patty Jenkins, Penelope Spheeris and Jennifer Aniston.

“My T-shirt stands for a future in which we no longer have to live in fear of cancer,” Jennifer says. “I’ve had an amazing journey working on ‘Five,’ and it was only fitting I was able to bring that energy into the design of this Ford Warriors in Pink T-shirt. I encourage all of

you to take a stand against breast cancer and join the brave men and women who are battling the disease as we speak.”

Ford Warriors in Pink symbols Additionally, Ford Middle East commissioned a video of the Warriors in Pink henna art initiative.

The video is available on the company’s Facebook and YouTube sites, to show ladies how to become a ‘Warrior in Pink’ and mark their support of breast cancer awareness using henna.

Women across the Gulf and Levant are encouraged to paint the Warriors in Pink symbol that best represents them. The symbols are versatile, some are worn to honour those who have passed away as a result of the disease and others show a sense of solidarity and standing strong with breast cancer survivors, others to mark a commitment to life and survival in the face of the disease. Visit www.warriorsinpink.ford.com.

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Dr Tarek El-Gohary

BAHRAIN SPECIALIST HOSPITAL

The Importance of Being Informed As high as the risks are for contracting breast cancer, there are some risk factors that you can control to lower your likelihood of falling ill.

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reast cancer is a scary concept that unfortunately many women face.

Understandably, there is an eagerness to learn as much as possible about the illness and what measures can be taken to reduce the risks of contracting it. Doctors advise that a woman leads the healthiest lifestyle possible by carefully controlling everyday elements, such as diet and fitness. By following these guidelines, a woman can ensure her breast cancer risk remains as low as possible.

Risk factors that can be controlled One of the first steps a woman can take to reduce her risk is to maintain a consistent and healthy weight, appropriate to her body.

“If a woman is overweight, she greatly increases the risks of breast cancer, particularly if she has already gone through menopause,” explains Dr Tarek El-Gohary, consultant medical oncologist at Bahrain Specialist Hospital. “After menopause, fat

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tissue is the body’s key source of estrogen and if the level of fat tissue is increased it can enlarge the chance of breast cancer.”

Dr Tarek advises that women control their diets by consuming plenty of fruits and vegetables and by steering away from high-fat foods.

“Doctors would recommend that alcohol is not consumed often at all,” says Dr Tarek. “Alcohol will stop the liver being able to control the blood levels of the hormone estrogen.”

Regular exercise has also been shown to reduce the risk of breast cancer. The doctor suggests that one hour of exercise five days a week is a substantial amount to keep the body fit and healthy and in better shape to fight off breast cancer, should a woman develop it.

And there is one other natural method which Dr Tarek indicates as a successful form of staving off the cancer. Both pregnancy and breastfeeding reduce the amount of menstrual cycles in a woman’s life, and this appears to reduce future breast cancer risk.

Risk factors that can’t be controlled Unfortunately, there are many risk factors that can’t be controlled.

“Simply growing older is the second biggest risk factor for breast cancer (second to being a woman). From age 30 to 39, the risk is one in 233, or 43 per cent. That jumps to one in 27, or almost four per cent by the time a woman is in her 60s,” explains Dr Tarek.

If a woman has a first-degree relative (mother, daughter, sister) who has had breast cancer, or you have multiple relatives affected by breast or ovarian cancer (especially before they turned age 50), she could be at a higher risk of getting breast cancer.

Furthermore, if a woman has already been diagnosed with breast cancer, her risk of developing it again, either in the same breast or in the other, is higher than if she never had the disease.

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Wellbeing

The Power of Music

I simply refuse to believe that there are people in the world who don’t like music. It’s an eacape, a form of entertainment, something that unites people and can serve as an emotional escape.

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here has been much discussion about the health benefits of music. Mothers are instructed to play music to their unborn children, in the hope that it will promote proper brain development and it is frequently used as a form of therapy for all manner of individuals.

An emotional instigator Music has an uncanny knack of swaying a person’s emotion. Just as a musician composes a piece to reflect his or her mood, a person selects a song depending on how they want to feel or what they wish to hear.

By playing an upbeat, and albeit cheesy, tune, you will find your whole body will relax making you feel more at ease and subsequently lighthearted. Similarly, a piece of classical music has a lilting quality that calms nerves and acts as a soother.

Song suggestion: “Hey Ya” by Outkast.

A personal motivator If you are a regular exerciser, then you will know that music is the perfect accompaniment on your morning run or during your aerobics class. Exercising to a piece of music is extremely beneficial as a song is great for structuring a regime and distracting you from the somewhat mundane nature of your workout. And it will boost your

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endurance… “I just need to keep going until the end of the next song”…

Song suggestion: “Waka Waka” by Shakira.

An intelligence booster While music lessons are being deemed as less important than other subjects at school, they are nonetheless still vital to a child’s learning. Researchers have found that people who play music have a more developed connection between both sides of their brain.

Studies have shown that by listening to a piece of classical music will increase your IQ by almost ten points, which, let’s face it, is pretty impressive!

Song suggestion: “Fifth Symphony” by Beethoven.

A therapeutic agent It has been said that certain classical compositions have succeeded in helping patients with epilepsy and other forms of seizures. Mozart again resurfaces here as it was one of his pieces that was used to determine this benefit, leading to the now common term the ‘Mozart effect’.

Doctors believe that the structure, melodic and harmonic predictability of similar works calm the mind and body. Song suggestion: “Sonata K.448” by Mozart.

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Tuition: The good, Bad and Worrying.

Dr Clare Beckett-McInroy and Simon McInroy

Tuition, like most things related to your child’s education, is something that should be considered carefully before you sign up. Considering the myriad of options available, this article will help you delve deeper into what you want and need for your child, the difference between the two, and how to ensure you get it.

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any parents question why tuition is necessary at all. It’s a common misconception that tuition is usually suggested just for children who are having difficulty in school. However, there are a number of other extremely beneficial reasons for getting your child a tutor. [See side bar on page 57.]

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much as possible or that they are doing enough work already. Of course play and other extra-curricular activities are important; yet, the world is becoming more competitive.

There also becomes a time when your child may be aware that they are struggling compared to their peers. This is significant because long-term, self-esteem can be adversely affected.

Not everyone wishes to choose tuition. If you are, however, ensure you know what your child needs and what you want them to get out of it. It may be that they need a term to ‘catch up’ or revisit things they have found ‘tricky’, or it may be that they need ongoing support and nurturing one-to-one or in a small group. Understanding their unique needs is the key here. www.womanthismonth.com

10,000 hours!

There’s an old saying — practise makes perfect.

Consider the thesis of Malcolm Gladwell, writer of the book Outliers: The Story of Success (2008). He asserts that to ‘master’ something you need to follow the “10,000-Hour Rule”.

Based on a study by Anders Ericsson, Gladwell claims that the key to success in any field is, to a large extent, a matter of practising a specific task for a total of around 10,000 hours.

But it’s not just practise that’s needed. It’s about doing the right thing as well and this is where experienced and talented tutors come in as they work on your child’s strengths whilst developing the areas your child finds difficult.

Consider economies around the world and countries that have outstanding research and development records, tuition is the norm such as that in Japan, for example, children are often given 2 hours extra lessons after school each night! Think of sportspeople. Olympians dedicate considerable time to ensure they are the best – the theory seems to work!

The job market is tough at the moment, especially for school/college leavers, and it is unclear if this will improve dramatically in the near future. It is, therefore, more important than ever for a child to reach their potential and to achieve the best grades possible.

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Having a distinction when applying for further/higher study and job applications, is a must. Furthermore, competition for university places has been intense in recent years. The increases in university tuition fees around the world may reduce the competition in future, but there's no guarantee of this. Applicants need to maximise their grades to increase their chances of an offer at their first or second choice. It may seem a long way off, but each school year seems to fly by.

So you’ve decided to consider tuition for your child, what next? Ask around among your circle of friends as recommendations are a really good place to start looking for a tutor.

Next, consider what type of tutor you want.

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Many established tutors advertise in local newspapers/magazines or on local notice boards. Many do not need to advertise! Also, think about what’s important to you, for example, does an English tutor need to have English as their first language?

Is a more streamlined approach that can often happen at international tutoring centres or franchises what you are looking for? Are provisions child-centred? How often do you want your child tutored? Once a week? Three times a week? One specific

subject or a variety of subjects?

One-to-one for some children can be a little intimidating, where as small group classes can ensure that the sessions are not only fun and enjoyable, but that cross-curricular elements such as communication and team work can be part of the programme.

Tuition benefits Consider the following benefits: l To meet your child’s individual needs l To enable your child to ‘catch up’ with their peers (children the same age/year group/grade) l To get your child into your school of choice (when entrance tests are required) l To complement and enhance their existing curriculum l To ensure they are competent with ‘new’ curricular content when moving countries/schools (US mathematics curriculum is different than the UK curriculum) l To pass examinations (SATS, IELTS, University entrance examinations) l To accelerate your child’s learning l To increase your child’s breadth and/or depth of knowledge and understanding.

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Parenting How does tuition complement school?

Most schools are structured in a way that means children are told what to learn, when they will learn it. In some cases, children may be beyond the planned learning for their year group in certain elements and they may become bored if not challenged. In other cases, it may be true that children do not yet have the pre-requisite skills in order to fully access the planned learning for their class.

In contrast, tuition can continue to work on your child’s needs be they generic, such as writing or specific such as long division.

Schools tend to be curricular led and structured in a way that there is an end point to topics/projects and modules.

Tutors can be more selective in what they teach in an attempt to develop targeted areas of need. Schools also provide necessary belonging, understanding of responsibilities and structure under the umbrella of ‘life skills’ for social and emotional development as part of their ethos, which is one argument against full-time home tuition. In short, it is important to see tuition as complementing school.

What resources will the tutor provide?

A ‘good’ tutor will always welcome questions from parents, so by asking about the resources they use, you will know if they are up-to-date with the relevant curricular and other needs of your child. Check that the tutor will be able to cater for the specific learning needs of your child — a wide range of resources should be available including professionally designed worksheets (including differentiated and sometimes more effective individually

developed ones), modern textbooks and other learning aids. If you are having your child tutored for a test, ask about the types of past papers or sample questions being used and other materials to reinforce this.

What about ‘me’ tutoring my own child?

Some parents are extremely knowledgeable, patient and gifted tutors of their own children whilst others find it a challenge. A child may conform in school, yet, sat at a desk or table at home seems to be a whole new ball game!

It can be hard being a parent trying to help your child, especially when the way you were taught to calculate, for example, is very different than how your child is taught.

Sometimes, parents and unqualified tutors are unaware of curricular content and approaches,

which can actually hinder progress or confuse a child by introducing new concepts at an inappropriate stage.

Try not to compare your child to their peers; they are all unique with regards to the age that they grasp reading, for example. Effective and ongoing communication with your child’s teacher/tutor is essential.

In short, tutoring can raise levels of school performance, help a child to increase their confidence, enjoyment and motivation in a subject and develop study skills and discipline that can be applied across a number of subjects. So, you want your child to have some tuition? Make sure you select a tutor that is a qualified and experienced facilitator who can guarantee they are being provided with the right content and delivery for their needs!

Tutor Checklist Consider these points when selecting a tutor for your child: l What qualifications and experience does the tutor have (years teaching/ tutoring as well as a teaching qualification and relevant degree)? l Have they been recommended by a friend/relative/teacher/school? l How will you know what impact the tuition is having on your child? l Is feedback provided? l Are sessions one-to-one, or within small groups of children? l Are groupings age or ability or both? l Can a child be changed between groups as they progress? l What approach to learning does the tuition take? l Has the tutor been screened (CBR or equivalent)?

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10 Tips

Good Public Speaking Tricks

By Elma Bartholomew

Sure, you can all blabber to no end with a bunch of friends, but put a microphone and a few hundred people in front of you and even the person in the back row can hear your knees knock. Here are a few tried and tested methods to overcoming stage fright.

Stage one: Getting ready 1. Breathe a word

There is only one real key to successful public speaking — know it is all right to breathe. All that nervous energy can be transformed into enthusiasm. Count to three before you begin.

Don’t forget to pause and smile.

2. Map it out

Create an outline of your speech to jerk your memory when you go blank, or to bring back your focus if you lose your train of thought.

Print them out in a larger font size so you can catch them at a glance.

3. Own what you know

Even if you aren’t confident, act it. Your audience can never tell the difference. Always know more than what’s in your speech. Use personal stories, conversational language and humour so you won’t easily forget what to say.

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eye. This invites their attention and gives you a positive energy. It would be a good touch to greet some of the audience just to keep it interactive. A friendly presence simplifies the question session.

5. Practise, practise, practise If you’re of the nervous kind, don’t assume you’ll rock the show by just showing up and babbling. Rehearse your speech with your partners, kids or pets. A great idea to catch verbal mannerisms is to tape it and hear it yourself.

6. Ironing out the wrinkles

There’s just nothing good that comes from taking questions during the presentation. You’ll run out of time or get derailed. Feel free to tell them that their query will be answered by material you are yet to talk about or at the end.

Stage three: Avoiding bumps in the road 7. Time will wait

Most people tend to run with their words to avoid spilling over the time limit. Always set a

specific time to wind things up well before the mark. Keep your watch where you can see it or spot a clock you can see while you speak.

8. Kick the habit

The idea is to keep the audience focused on your material and not you. Whatever nervous habit you possess like twirling your hair, touching your face or playing with your accessories, drop it immediately. Don’t wear anything that rattles or jangles.

9. Shut up

That’s right. Shutting up is a great filler as compared to the annoying ‘um’s and ‘uh’s. Not saying anything sounds more professional than thinking aloud. Also, contrary to what’s popular, don’t apologise. People don’t notice errors unless you draw attention to it.

10. Head above water

The demons of public speaking are dry mouths, sneezes and not being able to help yourself. Your shield is quite basic. Carry a small bottle of water and have tissues in your pocket. Take quick, small sips to avoid the risk of coughs or hiccups.

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Shopping Made Easy MEGAMART

All in one supermarket you can complete your weekly food shop followed by a little retail therapy indulgence, shopping for fashion, beauty, toys and much more.

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true one-stop shop, Megamart takes great pride in offering only the best items in each of its departments. The retailer is filled daily with the freshest grocery items, but it is also known for having a trendy fashion, beauty and clothing section with variety to suit everyone in the family.

Shipping in garments from all over the Far East including Bangkok, China, Hong Kong and Philippines, the store offers options for every taste. Fashionistas can ring in the new season with new-trend jackets and sweaters from a variety of brands.

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make-up and perfume department is on hand with international cosmetic brands. Snatch up one of the many perfume and lotion packages for a thoughtful gift to a beauty lover.

The men’s section is always stacked with chic new items and right now the store has more than 400 types of T-shirts on offer. Guys will also find a large array of trousers, shirts and ties perfect for work. Parents with little ones won’t need to fuss as the store features a dedicated section for kids of all ages.

Fresh food every day Known for its range of fresh fruits, vegetables and oven-fresh bakery items, Megamart offers you everything you need for a great homecooked meal. The supermarket has a wide variety of fresh meats and poultry, offering only premium cuts of beef, lamb and turkey.

For those with a sweet tooth, make a delicious cup of coffee from the premium brands offered and dive into the desserts from the supermarket’s bakery section. Choose from mouth-watering cakes, chocolates, cookies or pastries.

Also, if you have been putting off your back to school shopping, don’t fret as the stationery department has you covered. Stock up on note books, pens, arts and crafts and folders to ensure your kids have an organised school year.

“It is essential to us to bring only the best products of supreme value to our customers,” explains RV Waghnani, general manager of Megamart. With a ‘value for your money’ motto, the supermarket is the place to be if you are looking to stock up your fridge without breaking the bank.

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A Spa Like No Other THE DIPLOMAT RADISSON BLU HOTEL & SPA

With the stresses and toils of everyday life, sometimes we all need to be pampered.

There’s one spa in town where you can accomplish all this, and more.

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s soon as you push through the heavy wooden doors of The Diplomat Radisson Blu Hotel Spa you will realise you have entered tranquility at its finest. The soothing scents of essential oils will greet you as attentive therapists help you get settled in whichever area of the spacious spa you wish to begin your relaxation.

Inclusive of all the expected spa amenities (Jacuzzi, sauna and steam room) the spa additionally boasts a utopian indoor pool complete with wooden bridge, candles and a flowing waterfall. There are numerous enclosed treatment rooms, spread over two floors, where one can experience all manner of treatments from the spa’s brand new menu.

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ultimately leaving you rejuvenated and healthy.

Whatever your skincare issues, you can target your ailments with one of the facial and body treatments listed. Whether you crave younger-looking skin, radiant eyes, a sculpted figure, or a brighter complexion, the expertlytrained therapists promise to soothe both your skin and your mind.

Impressively, there are over eight types of massages available, from Swedish to Thai to a marine-based treatment. For busy professionals, an express back and shoulders massage will provide a quick fix. If your feet need tending to, book a foot and leg massage, a session of reflexology or an express foot treatment. Finish up with a manicure or pedicure to ensure you leave looking perfectly pruned.

We recommend you select a spa package, which will fill a morning or afternoon with nothing but solace and calm. If you want to try

a few different treatments select the ‘Mix n Match’, or if you have plenty of time and want to be entirely indulged then go for the ‘Spa Day’ package. If you don’t have much time, the ‘Quick Fix’ package will leave you rejuvenated after a quick facial and massage; alternatively, if your body is the area that needs the work then opt for the ‘Body Care.’

And don’t forget the man in your life! There is a whole separate spa across the poolside for gents to unwind in, with specific maleorientated treatments on offer using Phytomer’s ‘Homme’ line.

Regardless, be sure to make a day of it if you can and revel in the spa’s complimentary facilities before or after your treatments. If you feel energetic, the hotel additionally features two extremely well equipped health clubs (for men and women) of which membership includes 20 per cent off spa treatments. Plus cool down in the hotel’s. Call 17 525-237.

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Smooth Soles

Correct foot care is often brushed aside; keep your feet looking and feeling youthful and healthy by tending to them regularly with medicallyapproved products.

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ow available at Gulf Pharmacy is the Flexitol range. The therapeutic products soothe dry skin with unique formulas that are non-irritating and medically proven.

The Heel Balm is one of the range’s most widely-recognised products and is ideal for anyone who suffers from cracked heels and generally dry feet — a common occurrence in this part of the world due to the heat.

The market leader contains 25 per cent urea in a highly concentrated, moisturising and non-greasy emollient base to soften feet. The combination of the ingredients actively replenishes moisture deep below the surface of the skin, prompting a visibly healthier skin in just three days of application leaving you with soft and smooth feet. Free of SLS and Parabens, the formula is enriched with pro-Vitamin B5 and L-Arginine, and enhanced with exfoliating properties.

Many healthcare professionals use the balm to treat various skincare ailments. The product is widely used and recommended by diabetes specialists, podiatrists and practice nurses. Podiatrists use the balm to encourage careful foot care in diabetics, as studies have shown that 50 per cent of all amputations occur in people with diabetes, many of which could have been prevented by better circulation in the feet. The Flexitol range is available in all major pharmacies. Call 17 877-107.

JOZ SALON & SPA

A Quick Fix

If you don’t always have the time to sit in a salon for hours, there are plenty of speedy solutions to maintaining a groomed and glam appearance without breaking the bank.

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hen busy, pampering is usually the first thing that ladies sacrifice. For such women, beauty routines have to be streamlined and simple, which is why Joz Salon & Spa offers a comprehensive list of treatments which are both speedy and affordable.

Special 30-minute spa treatments, such as massages and facials are readily available, plus there are plenty of other choices.

“When busy ladies do make it to the spa, we can advise the best spa treatments to spend your hard-earned money on,” states spa owner Nawal Joz. “Shellac manicures and pedicures are great as the varnish stays on for two weeks regardless of the chores you need to complete,” explains Nawal.

Another ideal treatment to indulge in is reflexology and a foot massage. “Running around after kids can be traumatic on the hands, feet and back, so these treatments are perfect for relieving tension and providing a quick sense of rejuvenation,” Nawal advises.

If your hair needs a bit of TLC, try the Kerastraight hair treatment which will make you look like you are salonfresh everyday and will last up to four months.

Also available are eyelash and eyebrow tinting; “These will achieve the look of wearing mascara without having to apply makeup daily,” confirms Nawal. “Or, for a more glamorous look, try permanent eyelash curling or semipermanent eyelash extensions,” she adds.

Call 16 031-120 (Amwaj Dragon Hotel) and 17 369-133 (Juffair American Alley).

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pieces for both the modern and classic woman.

Rings, necklaces and bracelets are in abundance in a variety of styles, colours and price ranges. The diamond choices are suitable for occasional, regular or formal wear and complement any chosen outfit.

As well as looking good, the jewellers is also doing good; Bansri is currently donating ten per cent of its profits from diamonds to the Migrant Workers Protection here in Bahrain, which helps protect and educate this group of people. Call 17 229-457.

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Time to

Celebrate

By Keerthana Louis

October is full of excitement as various festivals are held across the globe. Join in on the fun by heading to any of these three happening locations.

Munich, Germany

The low-down: The 179 Oktoberfest will run from Saturday September 22 to October 07. An annual festival held in Munich, Oktoberfest is the world’s largest fair with more than five million visitors each year. Since its inception in 1810, the festival has gone through many changes but it always promises a good time. Starting with the tapping of the first barrel by the Munich mayor, it is chock full of things to see. Line up to watch a traditional costume parade through Munich, listen to brass bands play and check out the gun salute on the steps of the Bavaria monument.

X-factor: 2012 will be a year of novelties at Oktoberfest. First off is the Oktoberfest School, which will offer services and information for families and children. Young visitors will also be able to take part in a science game, meant to give children the opportunity to learn more about the time honoured traditions they’re taking part in. For those who want to blend a little bit of Halloween with Oktoberfest, you’ll enjoy Edmund Heckl’s Shocker. There will be seven new scary rooms to visit while you’re in the area, if you’re brave enough to do so.

Best for: Friends looking for a quick break. Families with young children will find many things to do and see during the festival, and will especially enjoy ‘Family Days’ every Tuesday from 12-6pm. However, it is the carefree and unencumbered tourist who will experience Oktoberfest in all its glory. From the colourful parades to the massive tents set up by the breweries, it’s all about eating, drinking and soaking in Bavarian culture.

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Texas, USA The low-down: The Texas Renaissance Festival offers its patrons the opportunity to step back into times of old. The largest Renaissance theme park in the United States, it transports guests back to the sixteenth century to experience world-renowned entertainment. Comics, dancers, sword fight classes and even a joust will entrance you. You’ll also be able to camp at the Fields of New Market Campground featuring a communal bonfire, fire performers and clan encampments.

X-factor: The celebrations open in style with a journey to Bavaria and the Black Forest on October 6 and 7. You’ll be able to feast on bratwurst and sauerkraut while taking part in the alpine yodelling contest or the polka contest. If you’d rather immerse yourself in a fantasy world, then head to Texas on October 13 and 14. Participate in the fantasy scavenger hunt or show off at the costume contest. End the month in style on October 20 and 21 with a swashbuckling pirate adventure. Visit the Pirates’ Cove, sing songs of the sea at the Sea Devil Tavern and try your luck by entering the ‘Talk Like a Pirate’ contest.

Best for: Families. Children will revel in the wide assortment of challenges and adventures this festival has to offer. The Sherwood Forest Area alone hosts a petting zoo, as well as elephant and camel rides to thrill younger guests.

Melbourne, Australia

The low-down: Opening on Thursday October 11, this year’s festival presents 18 world premieres and 33 Australian premieres in a programme of 74 shows, events and projects. Many of Melbourne’s most prestigious galleries and art spaces will present exhibitions and events showcasing the world’s most significant, contemporary artists.

Experience a different side of Australia, from its great hospitality to its legendary talent, over the course of 17 days.

X-factor: What’s great about this festival is that visitors will be able to witness some of the biggest names in the arts field display their talents. Tim Fain, of Black Swan fame, will make his Australian debut with Portals alongside another classical performer. Sonic Youth frontman Thurston Moore and fellow bandmate Lee Ranaldo will also perform a live show. You will definitely not want to miss out on the premiere of Fault Lines. A remarkable international collaboration between China, Australia and New Zealand, it explores the intimate human stores left in the wake of tragedy through the medium of dance.

Best for: Culture buffs. The programme will feature works from some of the finest Australian and international artists. With music, film, theatre, dance, and visual art taking Melbourne by storm, it’s a great place to soak up some culture.

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Food

USA

In a short few days that contain two iconic American celebrations, Halloween and Thanksgiving, it seems fitting to talk about the heritage of the USA on the world’s food scene.

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By James Claire

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hile we describe food and gastronomy as being, for the most part, all things French; American pop culture, history and its chefs have definitely left us with dishes we simply cannot do without.

No matter what country you live in or how far removed from modernity you are, there seems to be a little part of Americana cooking or influence everywhere. Our

supermarkets’ shelves, aisles and freezer compartments are packed with it, from brand names to iconic products.

We can all think of something that derives from the USA like Twinkies, hot dogs and hamburgers. Even the famed American steakhouse has given us some truly delicious dishes, sauces and condiments, as do the American road-side diners.

While French cuisine may be the epitome of gastronomy, it truly does seem that much of our old time favourites are inspired from the good old US of A. Perhaps it’s the ease of it all, the comfort food feeling of much of it, or the fact it is just plain delicious.

To narrow down the selection of such a vast offering to just a few recipes is not easy, but here anyway are my personal all-time favourites.

Southern Crunchy Fried Chicken

500mls laban 20g Dijon mustard Pinch salt 1/4 tsp black pepper 1/4 tsp garlic powder 1 1/2 kg chicken pieces (trimmed and cut) 250g plain (all-purpose) flour 10g baking powder 1/4 tsp cracked black pepper 1/4 tsp garlic powder Pinch salt Frying oil

plastic zip-lock bag and allow to marinate overnight. l Heat the oil for frying. l Sieve together the flour and baking powder.

Mix into this garlic powder, the cracked black pepper and salt. l Remove the chicken pieces from the marinade and allow to drip dry on a cooling rack for a few minutes. l Roll each piece of chicken in the flour mixing.

Roll again before removing and shaking off the excess flour. l Carefully dip each piece of chicken one piece at a time into the frying oil and cook for 12-14 minutes. Bigger pieces require longer than say a drumstick would. l Remove the chicken when cooked and allow to rest on a cooling wire for a few minutes. l Keep the pieces warm in the oven until ready to serve with salad or chips and gravy.

Into a large bowl whisk together the laban, Dijon mustard, salt, black pepper and garlic powder. l Add the trimmed and cut chicken pieces to the laban mixture and stir to coat each piece completely. l Wrap the bowl and refrigerate overnight; alternatively, put everything into a large l

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Preheat the oven to 200 degrees Celsius Lightly grease a pie dish with oil or rub with butter l To make the pastry, crumb the cold butter into the icing sugar and flour until it resembles bread crumbs. l Add the egg and water and mix to a dough. l Place the dough between plastic film and refrigerate until firm (2-3 hours) l Roll half the dough on a lightly floured board to cover the base of the pie dish. l Place a sheet of parchment paper on top and cover this with rice. l Bake the pastry in the pie dish for 15-20 minutes. l When cool, remove the rice and paper. l Roll the second half of the dough to a size just larger than the base, which will cover the top of the pie when it is filled. l Combine in a mixing bowl the apple, brown sugar, caster sugar, flour, lemon juice and lemon zest and the cinnamon powder. l Toss them all together. l Press the filling into the pre-baked pie shell and cover with a second layer of pastry. l Press the edges together and cut away excess pastry from the sides. l Brush a beaten egg over the top of the pastry and sprinkle with a little caster sugar. Make a small cut into the top of the pastry to allow steam to escape the pie. l Bake until the pie crust is golden brown on top. l Allow to cool slightly before serving with whipped cream or ice-cream. l l

Apple Pie Pastry 265g 225g 1tbsp 2 450g

butter icing sugar water eggs plain (all-purpose) flour

Pie Filling 8 green apples (peeled, cored and cut

into even sized chunks) 100g brown sugar (muscovado sugar) 25g plain (all-purpose) flour 1 lemon (juiced and zested) 1/4 tsp cinnamon

Pumpkin Pie 250mls 4 500g 200g 1/2 tsp 1/4 tsp 1/4 tsp 1

cream eggs pumpkin puree (fresh or tinned) brown sugar cinnamon ginger nutmeg pre-baked pie shell (see apple pie)

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Place all ingredients into a food processor and blend together until completely combined. l Pour into a pre-baked pie shell (18cm-20cm) l Bake for about 35-45 minutes at 180 degrees Celsius or until firm in the centre when touched. l Cool completely or better still, refrigerate overnight and serve with sweetened whipped cream. l

Macaroni and Cheese 240g macaroni shells, cooked 80g butter 50g flour 10g mustard powder 250mls milk 250mls cream 400g shredded cheddar cheese 100g fresh bread crumbs 60g unsalted butter Salt and pepper to taste

Drain the cooked pasta shells.

Lightly butter a medium sized casserole dish (approximately 10cm deep). l Preheat the oven to 175 degrees Celsius. l In a small saucepan place the first amount of butter and melt it. Using a long handled spoon, stir in the flour and cook out the roux stirring and cooking for at least a minute. l Add the mustard, salt and pepper and slowly start to add the milk a little at a time so as to incorporate it and make a smooth paste. Adding too fast will allow the mixture to become lumpy. l Finally, add the cream a little at a time and do the same. Cook until the mixture is smooth and thickened. l Add the grated cheese and cook until the cheese is melted. l In a large bowl, combine the cheese sauce and the cooked macaroni pasta shells to ensure all the pasta is coated. l Pour this into the buttered or oiled casserole dish. l In a shallow fry pan, heat the second amount of butter until almost browned and then toss in the fresh bread crumbs. Toss them lightly and coat them with the butter. l Remove and sprinkle the buttered bread crumbs on top of the pasta before placing the casserole dish in the oven and baking for 30-35 minutes. l Remove and serve immediately. l l

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Horoscopes

Star

Gazing Raphael

Find out what October has in store for you….

Libra September 24 - October 23

Keep your head clear as you will be called upon to both give advice and also make a few choices that impact on family members you are particularly close to. You may not emerge popular with everyone, but that is something you have to accept. 2 is your magic number and purple a positive shade to be associated with.

Scorpio October 24 - November 22

Water signs are often deep and very hard to fathom and Scorpio can be the most difficult of all to penetrate when they want it that way. But if you want to take a relationship to the next level then you really need to open up and show your feelings. Black is back for you and the number 6 is another good companion.

Sagittarius November 23 - December 21 You love to be the centre of attention and have an uncanny knack for getting yourself in the right place at the right time. However, where a new purchase is concerned complacency might find you missing out. If you want to be certain of success take a risk. 17 brings you good fortune as does the colour orange.

Capricorn December 22 - January 20

As an earth sign you don’t tend to take many risks and would rather exercise caution. The next few weeks are going to see that philosophy tested by a love interest. If you want to win that person’s heart then you are going to have to upset a few rivals. 5 is good for your soul but stay clear of anything in grey.

Aquarius January 21 - February 19

If you have been thinking of treating yourself then why not push the boat out and go all the way. You’ve had some difficult times of late and rightly feel you are due a little self-indulgence. 21 holds the key to financial benefits if you look carefully whilst silver is the colour that can inspire you to creative achievements.

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Pisces February 20 - March 20

Tough times in the work place have left your confidence brittle. A chance meeting at a social event is going to change that as you meet a person who promises to change your outlook in business for good. They say that 3 is a crowd, but you need to be more cautious about 4 and anything draped in white.

Aries March 21 - April 20

Your pioneering spirit comes to the fore as a major project is placed in your hands to develop. This is your opportunity to elevate your status in the eyes of those with influence so be sure not to lose focus. Lucky number to guide you is 7 and the colour red helps drive your purpose.

Taurus April 21 - May 21

Matters material are top of the agenda Taurus, so if you’re in the business to boost your income there is no better time than now to go for it. Your sign has a knack for making money but even you may not be prepared for what is to come! Keep your eye on the number 9 and go with anything green.

Gemini May 22 - June 21

Ever the dreamer, even you have to come down to earth sometimes and for many of you, that time is now. Use your common sense to get yourself back on track. If you look to the number 3 for inspiration and a woman in a blue dress you might just emerge with the main components of your life still intact.

Cancer June 22 - July 23

The crab lets very little out and most of those falling under your sign do not reveal their secrets without good reason. However, you need to make a big judgment call on this occasion, as there may be something you are holding back on that could help a wrong be corrected.

Brown and 13 provide you with a clue.

Leo July 24 - August 23

Lions are proud beasts, sometimes too proud and this could be a problem for you in the short-term future if you plan on going head to head with a rival in the romance stakes. You need to remember that love is about honesty and showing how you feel not hiding behind pretensions; gold and 19 holds an interesting key.

Virgo August 24 - September 23

Some of you may be on the move this month and much of that has to do with a recent sale that has seen you turn a profit but also left you with a dilemma. Think carefully about your next move and if you are unsure then take advice. The number 1 is a good sign of hope as is the colour pink. www.womanthismonth.com

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By Hard-headed Woman

“Being the richest man in the cemetery doesn’t matter to me…Going to bed at night saying we’ve done something wonderful… that’s what matters to me.” (Steve Jobs, The Wall Street Journal, May 25, 1993)

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n a heartbeat, or the stopping of one, October 2011 was relegated to a lengthening list of times in my life that I will never forget, because of the person who passed away within it.

It joins a bitter chronology that starts before my birth. I’m told, by my therapist no less, that we all have these chronologies and each one personalised for us all. What makes you remember a certain time and date can depend on the manner in which you hear, see or learn of the tragedy or even how it affects those around you.

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Mine reads as follows: 1956 The Willwatch disaster (a personal one of my mother’s, but which we as a family grew up remembering), 1963 Kennedy assassination, 1968 Martin Luther King assassination, 1972 John Lennon, 1986 Challenger Disaster, 1997 Lady Diana Spencer, 2001 September 11, 2011 Steve Jobs.

Everyone’s list is different. An event that you may think changed the world barely rates a mention to me, for at the moment it happened I was doing something to distract my attention.

As for last year’s loss of Jobs, I guess we all

could have seen the illness creeping up on him and ourselves, yet his loss was still a shock. I guess somewhere in the recesses of our mind we all hoped that this billionaire could have found a way to use his brilliant mind, technologies and billions of dollars to circumvent the inevitable. Sadly, despite the money and the genius, the circle of life could not be halted.

The loss of Jobs is not the only reason that I will remember that day though, for it was a double whammy for me.

At first, despite the pain of my other loss, I actually thought that this could have been Job’s final act of brilliance. You see, the same day Steve Jobs passed away so too did my Apple MacBook Air. It just stopped.

Those who know me well will realise how lost this made me. For those who don’t, trust me, it felt like I had lost a very close friend who I ate with, travelled with and even slept with. My MacBook Air and I were inseparable and so October 5 will remain with me for a long time. I have rarely been at such a loss. It truly was the day that my apple turned to cider.

I wondered for a while if every Apple device on the planet had simply stopped working out of sympathy, or if Jobs had truly been from outer space as someone once theorised and with him gone so too had the power of the Apple. In the end I came to realise it had just been a sad coincidence - sad and bad! I was a late starter as far as computers and technology are concerned, and an even later starter with respect to all things Mac and Apple. But I am a solid believer now.

Not only did Jobs advance my personal wealth through the increase in the Apple share price, but one of the most valuable tools I had in life was my MacBook Air. As a writer, my little Apple earned big dollars and became my tool of choice for tapping out books, blogs, magazine articles and more.

Jobs had given me a companion with whom I had the most intimate relationship. The loss cut me deep.

Losing Jobs was a massive loss to the planet and I truly mean that. No one human being pushed technology further, faster than he. But losing my MacBook Air hurt me personally and took a chunk of change with it. Trapped within its frazzled, burned out hard drive were a fiction novel, a television script and several dozen magazine articles. I am not new to loss, much of my life has been defined by it, but this one took me to a new level.

The loss of both Jobs and my own beloved MacBook Air has taught me this; no one has the power or the money to prevent the inevitable.

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