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Local Artists at Local Galleries By Makayla Silva
Milford’s Founding Mothers By Cindy Papish Gerber
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Publisher’s Letter Readers’ Letters This Season What’s New Milford Green At Home Milford Spotlight Art and Artisans Family Time Milford Morsels Education Notebook Historical Perspective Congratulations Expressions Milford Attic Greetings from Milford Where is It?
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Hello Spring! We welcome you to the latest edition of Milford Living! We’ve seen quite a number of new faces around town this year, and to those who have recently joined our community, we send a heartfelt welcome. I’ve fallen in love with spending time outdoors, and I say this as I grit my teeth during these early spring days and step outside repeating the Norwegian mantra, “There’s no such thing as bad weather, just bad clothes.” For the first time in a long while, I see the parents of young ones wave an arm and recite those magical words: “Go out and play!” With the Covid crisis seeming to slowly release its grip, kids relish the chance to be fearless. Finding escape from technology in the outdoors is a welcome respite for both the young and old, and as the daylight hours grow longer, we shed our winter woolens to venture into our gardens, yards, neighborhood, and community. En masse we move forward into the fervent green landscape, celebrating spring, and ever mindful of each other and the caring community that keeps us connected. We hope you enjoy this issue of Milford Living and that you share it with those you love and those that love Milford. As we celebrate our 18th year of publication, we thank you for your continued support and offer a reminder to renew your subscription this season. For your convenience, a subscription card is enclosed. We enjoy hearing from you too, so drop us a line with your story suggestions and pictures you’d like us to share.
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this season
Native Garden Charmers
N
ative plant species provide nectar, pollen, seeds, and berries that feed our native butterflies, insects, birds, and other animals. By being adapted to the local climate and soil conditions where they occur, they require less care than grass lawns once they are established and on hilly areas you will also reduce erosion. Some native plants have very deep root systems and can significantly reduce water runoff and flooding. Yet another plus to growing native plants instead of grass is they remove carbon from the air, and they require no mowing! not too thickly or too close. Healthy soil
are creating a sustainable ecosystem where
contains a multitude
wildlife can thrive. If pollinators find their
of living creatures
favorite nectar, pollen, and host food for their
that facilitate
offspring in abundance, they will lay eggs and
plant roots
provide you with generations of life. Birds will
in taking up
find the habitat enticing if they feel safe to
nutrients with
eat, rest, and nest there, so provide numerous
the water.
seeded plants, grasses, shrubs, and trees. If you love birds, provide some areas in your
From top: Blue Wild Indigo,
By creating
Queen of the Prairie, White
a native plant
Culver’s Root, Golden Alexander
yard for leaf litter to accumulate, so that those
garden, each patch
birds who are not seed eaters can forage for
of habitat becomes
insects, spiders, and worms. Leaf litter is a food
part of a collective effort
source for invertebrates including earthworms
to nurture and sustain the
which help to break it down, and in the
living landscape for birds and other animals.
muticum) – Mountain mint is a pollinator
process, leave even more nutrients in the
Together, native plants and animals form
magnet bringing beneficial wasps, bees, and
form of “castings” near or just under the soil
a web of mutually beneficial interactions
specialized flies which keep other insect pests
surface. This also acts as a soil conditioner for
that is greater than the sum of its parts: an
under control.
spring ephemerals, and these patches can be
ecosystem.
Perennials that Pack a Pollinator Punch BIG LEAF MOUNTAIN MINT (Pycnanthemum
By adding even a few groupings of unusual
BLUE WILD INDIGO (Baptisia australis) – Wild
for the summer. In winter, they can be placed
native plants to sections of your yard, you will
bees and bumble bees are attracted to these
around the crowns of most native plants, but
create zones of unanticipated joy.
early flowers with their pea-flower blossoms.
positioned over those places where they rest
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PHOTOS COURTESY OF KRISTEN MIA, VERONICA BOSLEY
When replacing lawns with native plants that require no fertilizers and less water, you
QUEEN OF THE PRAIRIE (Filipendula rubra)
From top: Indiangrass,
– Early summer brings clouds of light pink
Little Bluestem
blooms on 6-foot stems to fill the air with
Grasses that Feed the Birds
sweet fragrance. WHITE CULVER’S ROOT (Veronicastrum
INDIANGRASS (Sorghas-
virginicum) – The 5-foot spires of
trum nutans) – Its flowers
PHOTOS COURTESY OF MATT LAVIN
tubular flowers are very attractive
attract butterflies and is a
to many native bees, soldier beetles,
host food for certain skippers,
and is a host plant for red admiral
small mammals, and birds come
butterflies.
for the ripened seeds and for nesting material.
GOLDEN ALEXANDER (Zizia aurea) – An nectar, Zizia is visited by short-tongue bees, wasps, and is a host food for Black Swallowtail butterflies.
Milford Yacht Club LITTLE BLUESTEM (Schizachyrium
excellent available source of pollen and
scoparium) – Small songbirds flock to eat
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this season Shrubs for Wildlife NINEBARK (Physocarpus opulifolius) –
From top: Ninebark,
Great spring nectar source for pollinators,
Fothergilla, Button Bush
and birds love the red berries. Doesn’t mind wet “feet,” and FOTHERGILLA (Fothergilla gardenia)
grows up to 10 feet.
attracted to the nectar-rich,
SUMMERSWEET
fragrant bottlebrush flowers
(Clethra alnifolia) –
which bloom before the leaves
Mid-to-late summer
emerge. Wonderful fall color.
blooms are very
BUTTON BUSH (Cepholanthus
butterflies, hum-
americanus) – Creamy-white
mingbirds, bumble-
fragrant and attract
round flower head are loved by pollinators and butterflies. When the fruit forms, birds enjoy the seeds.
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– Honey bees and butterflies are
From top: Fringe tree, Sourwood tree
Trees that Draw Attention FRINGE TREE (Chionanthus virginicus) – Songbirds and game
PHOTOS COURTESY OF DAVID J. STANG
birds eat the dark purple fruits. Bees are primary pollinators. SOURWOOD TREE (Oxydendrum arboretum) – Very attractive to butterflies, native bees, and honeybees. The seeds are eaten by birds. Fantastic fall color. —Cheryl Cappiali, UConn Extension Master Gardener, Milford Garden Club
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what’s new
Meet Milford’s Newest Poet Laureate
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stablished in 2016 to elevate poetry within the Milford community, the individual who serves as the Milford Poet Laureate is an advocate for poetry, literature, and the arts and contributes to the City’s literary legacy through public readings and participation
in civic events. Following in the footsteps of the city’s first Poet Laureate, Mick Theebs, Joan Kwan Glass was selected through a competitive process by a panel of literary experts, civic leaders, and educators. She will serve in this honorary position for four years. The mother of three and poetry editor at the West Trestle Review, Glass has been a public school educator for the past 20 years. She’s been published in various journals, and her poems have been nominated for the Pushcart Prize four times. Glass found herself drawn to writing at an early age. “I wrote my first poem when I was six years old: a rhyming poem about George Washington in my Hello Kitty notebook,” she COURTESY OF JOAN KWAN GLASS
remembers. “I quickly fell in love with the work of Shel Silverstein as a child and still have some of his poems memorized.” This love for poetry remained with Glass wherever she went. From growing up in a suburb of Detroit, to summers spent visiting her family in South Korea, poetry proved itself the perfect instrument with which to process her
Joan Kwan Glass is Milford’s second Poet Laureate,
emotions and understand her world. “I think
and hopes to draw on her experience as an educator
I’ve always been drawn to writing; as an
to bring the art of poetry to a wider audience.
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First Morning
The first school bus heaves itself around the corner, an immense groaning canary pitches its hips burdened, forward then flies. We are the first people and today is the first morning. Breathing in and out, trying to read each other’s eyes as there is no language yet. Maybe this ordinary courtyard of white stones and flowers is where we start again or this familiar brick pathway. Maybe it is every door opening in every schoolhouse, welcoming us in despite how screwed up the world can be. A teacher takes a child’s hand, and the child goes. Inside, maps wait to be opened. —Joan Kwan Glass
introvert and creative person, it allows me to externalize my deeply layered internal life.” When discussing how her poetry has
family, loss, healing, and recovery. In addition to writing and performing
poem First Morning was written when schools began reopening following the state
poems at city-wide events, Glass said she
shutdown. Commenting on its importance,
evolved over time, Glass explains that
aims to use poetry to help draw attention
both throughout history and today, she
“Poetry is like everything in life; it changes
to local businesses, as well as work with
notes, “Poetry has helped to sail ships, garner
as you change and as your world morphs.
schools and teachers. And she looks forward
romance, mourn our warriors, and welcome
I have gone through years during which I
to driving more interest in the arts. “I’d be
each other home. I believe in the power of
write mostly about love, and others when
interested in collaborating with various
poetry and think everyone should read at
everything I wrote revolved around being a
organizations like the Milford Historical
least one poem a day! I try to read every
new mother. In 2017 I lost two close family
Society, the Marine Institute, the Milford
single day and write as often as I can. It helps
members unexpectedly, so since then, most
Public Library, and the Milford Arts Council
to keep me connected to joy and gratitude
of my poetry is about those losses and the
in order to curate art exhibits that promote
and gives me perspective no matter what is
grieving and recovery process. I’ve also been
poetry and visual arts. And when we come
happening around me.”
deeply influenced as I read, so the more that
back together post-Covid, I would love to hold
I read, the more honed my craft becomes.”
live readings and generative workshops.”
Currently, Glass says that her poetry’s main themes include memory, grief, childhood,
Poetry provides a personal and empathetic perspective to everyday events. Glass’s
—Sophia Avitable Read more about the Milford Poet Laureate at JoanKwonGlass.com.
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Sold on Solar
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oncerns about the environmental impact and cost of fossil fuels have led many in our community to embrace renewable, clean energy. Drive around Milford and you will see more and more homes, businesses, and organizations installing and using solar panels to generate electricity. These panels contain photovoltaic cells that “convert light energy to electricity,” according to the website Gosolarct.com. When sunlight hits these cells, an electrical current is created and that electricity is used to power the house or building, and, in most cases, the excess electricity is transmitted back into the grid. One of the most recent
(Above) The Milford Bank solar arrays capture
large arrays to be installed
energy for their buildings; (Below) The Viscount Dr.
in the city is on the Milford
array is the largest ground-based array in Milford.
Bank property on Depot Street. Tyler Haskell, Milford
Demaio Drive property, and a ground-mounted
Bank security & facilities
array generating 95,000 kwh per year is located
manager, is enthusiastic
at 100 Viscount Drive. “The Viscount Drive
about the system, which he
array is the largest ground-based one in town,”
designed. The system went
stated Vasiliou. “We are one of the few housing
live in March 2020. “There
authorities with such large installations.”
are actually two arrays
The Demaio Drive and Viscount Drive arrays
there, one on the roof of
were designed and installed by MSL group,
the bank’s 9 Depot Street
led by Michael Likamele. MSL group builds
building and the carport
and manages renewable energy solutions in
in the parking lot between
Connecticut and continues to maintain the
Depot and High Streets,”
MRHP arrays. Likamele and Vasiliou explained
said Haskell. “We decided
that a large part of the cost-savings is that MRHP
to install them as a way to
has contracted with MSL group for a 20-year
save money—we get credit
electric rate stabilization, below market cost, for
for the electricity we produce—but also as way to
electric vehicle charging stations for Milford
go green and reduce our carbon footprint.”
Bank employees and visitors.
The attractive design of the carport solar
Milford Redevelopment and Housing
power to the properties’ common areas. A few years ago, Milford Public Schools (MPS) and the Board of Education embarked on a
array stands out in the downtown area. Located
Partnership (MRHP) executive director Anthony
“Reduce, Recycle, Reuse” initiative to reduce the
in a historic district, a great deal of creativity
Vasiliou shared that the MRHP also has a
school system’s carbon footprint, become greener,
went into the planning. According to Haskell,
commitment to reducing costs and its carbon
and save money for the city. A large part of this
“We worked closely with the city to develop
footprint and has installed photovoltaic panels on
program has been installing solar arrays on the
the appearance of the array to conform to the
two of its properties. A rooftop array generating
roofs of all the city’s schools to generate electricity.
required aesthetics.” The array also includes two
110,000 kwh per year is in operation on the 75
A 2019 YouTube video from MPS features
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A solar array generates electricity from the rooftop of the MHRP property at 75 Demaio Drive. superintendent Dr. Anna Cutaia on the rooftop
from. The State of Connecticut Department
of East Shore Middle School, showing that array,
of Consumer Protection has created an
which is low-profile and attractive.
easy-to-use guide that includes questions to ask prior to choosing a company. They encourage homeowners to get multiple quotes
home, there can also be other uses. According
from different contractors, speak with a tax
to Jennifer Paradis, executive director of the
professional about potential tax credits to help
Beth-El Center, “the solar panels were installed
defray the cost, and verify licensing once a
on the roof of the center approximately eight or
contractor is chosen. Search for the Solar Panel
nine years ago to heat water. The system works
Buyer’s Guide on the CT.gov site.
very well, and we never run out of hot water,
A commitment to renewable energy and
even with six showers potentially being used
reducing the carbon footprint, along with
at the same time. There has been a huge cost
the potential cost-savings in electricity, has
savings, and since it is also green energy it is a
made using solar power very attractive and its
win-win.”
popularity is growing. It is a great way to help to
For homeowners interested in installing a solar array, there are many companies to choose
“go green!” — Shaileen Kelly Landsberg
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at home
uring this past, most unusual year, we found ourselves tied closer to home with more time on our hands. Looking to fill the idle hours, some Milfordites looked back in time for inspiration. By reviving pastimes that harkened back to a simpler time, before technology garnered more and more of our attention, we discovered the benefits of some good old-fashioned living.
NADYA SPETNITSKAYA
Back to Basics D
the dough to rise take time. As yeast became scarce at the beginning of the pandemic,
The Chicken and the Egg
In the early 1900s the average household kept a
alternatives were created. Homemade baking
small flock of hens to produce eggs and poultry for
powder and sourdough starters were passed
families. Chickens are surprisingly easy to care for
Many may remember the heavenly aroma of
along to family, friends, and neighbors. The
and inexpensive to maintain. Fresh eggs taste far
grandma’s warm, homemade bread, slathered
delicious rewards of their efforts have created
better than those from a store and contain more
with butter or jam. Grannny made it seem
new traditions, with ardent bakers sharing and
nutrients. Chickens that spend time free ranging
simple, but today’s rookie bakers soon realized
discovering new recipes. As renowned chef
provide yards with chemical free bug control, plus
its challenges. Patience is a virtue when
James Beard once said. “Good bread is the most
they prefer to eat weeds rather than grass. Chicken
creating bread; kneading and checking for
fundamentally satisfying of all foods; and good
manure is thought to be one of the best fertilizers
Loafing Around
bread with fresh butter, the greatest of feasts.”
And Sew it Begins
The sudden need for masks started many of us sewing. Patterns were made available online, and long dormant sewing machines were dusted off and put to work. Machines whirred and those new to the art learned Sewing 101 secrets like how to thread a needle and set a bobbin. Cheater eyeglasses were on standby—ready to be deployed—awaiting the dread of the inevitable snapped thread. Local
TATA TOTO
kept plenty busy. Sales of fabric, machines,
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patterns, and sundries increased…and continue to climb. The satisfaction of engaging in this time-honored skill has many of us hooked.
ZACHARIAH SMITH
fabric stores offered pickup service and were
for gardens—full of great nutrients for vegetables and flowers. Most breeds are friendly and have a great deal of personality. Children can pitch in and feel gratified by their efforts. You can even rent a coop! It’s no wonder suburban egg stands are popping up all over.
Gardens are not uncommon, but last summer, and heading into this next season, more of us are beginning or expanding our gardens. Seeds have been started on windowsills, and soil
MARKUS SPISKE
Reap What You Sow
is being prepared to host this year’s harvest.
water, and everyone harvests. There is nothing
These not-so-old yet new again pursuits are
Whether a vast vegetable garden, a raised bed, or
like enjoying a fresh-picked tomato, snapping
back in vogue (check out the Cottage Core trend)
containers on your porch, more of us are getting
green beans, or tossing a salad with mixed
and, possibly, here to stay. Bringing people
into growing fresh provisions. Gardening knows
greens and cucumbers from your own garden.
together as they discover new talents, share
no age—the young and the young at heart can
Squash recipes are as plentiful as the varieties
insights, and tips will have us making lemonade
grow fresh, healthy, and delicious foods. Kids can
there are to pick. The bounty is boundless and
out of lemons…with a sprig of fresh mint!
sow seeds, parents can weed, grandparents can
oh, so good.
—Susan Carroll Dwyer
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Milford Pride
W
hen Sarah O’Brien came home to Milford after her freshman year at Clark University, she felt empowered by the inclusive and welcoming environment LGTBQ+ students had found on campus. That positivity and excitement
contrasted with what she perceived as a general lack of engagement with LGBTQ+ issues she experienced while attending Milford schools. As O’Brien puts it, “By the time I was in high
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school, same sex marriage in Connecticut had already been legal for almost 10 years, but it
The Rainbow Pride flag is raised on the Milford City
was never mentioned. There was nothing about the gay rights movement. Even the prom,
Hall flagpole in celebration of Pride Weekend 2019.
it seemed, wasn’t really open to everyone.” O’Brien looked at the two disparate approaches toward inclusion and saw an opening to bring people together, raise awareness, increase
LGTBQ+ teens noted high levels of anxiety,
visibility, and bring attention to the issues important to Milford’s LGBTQ+ community.
feelings of rejection, and fears for their safety. Add COVID-19-related social distancing, lockdowns,
In the summer of 2018, shortly after turning
encourage the LGBTQ+ community in Milford to
distance learning, and economic anxiety to these
18, Sarah placed an ad in the Milford Patch
come together, make connections, and make new
already problematic issues, and organizations
looking for residents interested in forming a
friends. When the group was in its early days,
like Milford Pride begin to hold an even more
LGBTQ+ organization. It garnered eight phone
O’Brien noted that some people were surprised
important place within the community. As
calls. Her next step was a visit to the Milford
to find that there were other LGBTQ+ people
O’Brien says, “Imagine being a teenager locked
Oyster Festival with a bunch of pride flags,
living in greater Milford. This, unfortunately, is
down during a pandemic in a house with parents
pamphlets, and a signup sheet. By the end of
not uncommon; there is often a greater sense
who are openly hostile to your identity, to your
the day, 175 people had joined the group and
of isolation and ostracization for gay and trans
true self. It would be comforting to know that
Milford Pride was born.
people, feelings often felt more acutely by teens
there are people out there who understand what
and senior citizens. A 2018 survey of 2,000
you are going through.”
One of the main missions of Milford Pride is to
Another aspect of Milford Pride is the great love its members have for the town. While some members have lived in Milford their whole lives, others have chosen to make Milford their home and found its beauty, charm, and sense of community the perfect place to settle down and raise children. Since the group’s founding, the local government, Mayor Ben Blake, town officals, and churches have been supportive of Milford Pride’s goals. O’Brien praises the town for its role in helping bring about greater visibility and acceptance of the LGBTQ+
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community and to educate people about its
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issues. “One of the greatest days was in 2019 when City Hall raised the Pride flag,” she says. “The Mayor has been great; the library hosted Milford Pride reaches out to the community at local events like the Milford Oyster Festival.
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events for Pride weekend and the churches have played a major role in supporting us.” In fact, in 2019, five local churches held a group fundraiser for Milford Pride that culminated in a concert at the First United Church of Christ by singersongwriter Bobby Jo Valentine. Since the outbreak of COVID-19, public events have been replaced by Zoom chats. Last
and that people went to jail for no other reason than their sexuality.” O’Brien says she wants “a middle age person to be able to tell a teen that it’s going to get better; that I was once like you but now I have a home, I have a family...” For O’Brien, communication is the key to
The First United Church of Christ hosted a
promoting understanding and acceptance. As
fundraiser for Milford Pride.
the founder and president of Milford Pride she
year, Pride month activities were postponed
has helped open a dialogue that will continue
indefinitely and there was no Oyster Festival
project she’s been hoping to start. The idea is for
to be heard. “I want people to come over to our
booth to set up. But it’s not all doom and
members to write down their life stories and
booth and ask questions, I want them to know
gloom! Beginning in March, Milford Pride and
explain what it was like for them growing up and
that we are their neighbors and even the people
Hawkwood Games began hosting an LGBTQ+
coming out. “I want teenagers to see that they’re
next to them at church. We’re all just people.”
trivia night via Zoom with prizes for the
not alone, but to also see how it was for the older
winners. Hope springs eternal.
generations that grew up in much less accepting
When asked what the coming months had in store for Milford Pride, O’Brien speaks of a history
—Gerry McGuire
times,” she explains. “How they had to hide their
For more information or to find answers to
lifestyle. How there was no same sex marriage,
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or many of us, selecting our daily ornamentation is a morning ritual: earrings, necklace, pins, watches, or rings. Some are gifts—cherished symbols of love. Others are just plain fun. Jewelry has been part of human history for millennia. The oldest known jewelry, found in a cave in South Africa, is a simple string of beads created by drilling holes into snail shells. Dating back 75,000 years, it was the beginning of the human romance with wearable charms, symbols, and trinkets.
Artist and gallery owner Rosemary Celon-Gordon uses unique “bits” to create her jewelry. And the artistry of this family business continues with the next generation. Mark Valentine Junior is now working with his mom and dad and their sweet dog Sammy, a furry favorite
Technologies, both ancient and
of friends who come to shop.
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Valentine’s has become a
Milford businesses in the making
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of romance, family, and
Jewelers (350 Boston Post Road), his
friendship.
fascination with the jewelers’ craft
Rosemary Celon-Gordon,
began around the age of 21, after
co-owner of the Gilded Lily
witnessing an artisan at work. “I
Gallery (101 River Street),
saw someone fixing jewelry at a
views her take on the craft
work bench—sizing rings and doing me,” he recalls. “After mentioning it to my
continued to grow, and the Milford
mother, the next day she found a school in
community has been very supportive. Long
Manhattan and enrolled me. I took a bus to
time clients have become friends.”
the train and the train to Manhattan every day.” Valentine had discovered his vocation. At the time, his parents owned several
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From the beginning, Valentine’s has specialized in crafting custom pieces. Whether creating a perfect setting for a
small businesses. “I proposed the idea of
brilliant stone, engraving an affectionate
a jewelry store and they thought it was a
note, or helping mark the time with a
great idea. We set up shop in Milford on
distinctive watch, Valentines has been a
Valentine’s offers many treasures from vintage
Bridgeport Avenue in 1980. The business
go-to for four decades.
Rolex watches to dazzling diamond rings.
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kind of started me on the path.” A few classes in college fostered Celon-Gordon’s exploration of the arts, and today she shares her avant-garde and fanciful wares at the Gilded Lily. Semi-precious stones, glitzy MARYALICE MANNING(2)
costume jewels, and cameos make their way into her creations. “I The Valentine Family includes Sammy,
have gone to New York and enjoy
who playfully minds the shop where dia-
exploring the costume jewelry
monds sparkle in their display cases.
supply house. It is packed with boxes and boxes of curious bits. A
differently. “I don’t consider myself a
at Milford High. Mr. Cormier offered a place
treasure trove that you need to dig through…
jeweler, but more of an artist that makes
to hang out during study hall. I would go
nothing is labeled,” she laughs. “It inspires
jewelry,” she says. “I started making pieces
there to chill out and make jewelry, so he
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Rosemary’s eclectic style shines through in her
formed before it dries. The item is then fired and stays in the kiln to cool down. Once the binder cooks away the silver or other choice metals remain. The piece can then be shaped, polished, or patinaed.” Celon-Gordon’s rings, earrings, and necklaces are distinctive conversation
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metals, mostly sterling silver and a bit
famous jewelry collectors, Elizabeth Taylor,
of bronze,” she explains. She also uses
once said, “Jewelry has the power to be
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Playing in the Rain F or adults, the rain typically has us running for cover, dashing from here to there, praying we don’t ruin our shoes—or worse—our phones. At home, rainy days are often synonymous with board games and movie marathons, puzzles, and baking. And we do really love everything on that list. Except…
the way children do? You see, to children, rain means puddles.
myself seeking coverage from the rain and avoiding puddles
encing nature in all seasons and
when we were outside,” LeClair
all weather. “Playing in the rain,
says. Finding a pair of adult rain
or popping in puddles, as my
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ties throughout the year,” she
business of playing in the rain!”
Dr. Diana Lopusny, M.D., F.A.A.P., owner of Preferred Pediatrics, says spending time in nature,
adults to think about heading
in any weather, is crucial. “There
out in the rain for pleasure. But,
is no such thing as inappropriate
if you let yourself think like a
weather, just inappropriate
kid again, you just might find
clothing,” she says. “Nature has a
yourself having a bit of fun.
calming effect on all children and boosts the immune system—in
family brings so many wonderful
any and all weather. Playing
sensory experiences which, when
outside in the rain connects a
you slow down to take them in,
child to the earth, splashing and
are completely inspiring and
letting all their cares run free.” Leslie LeClair, a Milford
Playing in the rain with your
mother of three, says her family
children is just one of those
has learned the value of experi-
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and rain boots, but I still found
for yourself.
means mudpies. It’s not easy for
enriching for everyone involved.
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and make your clean-up a little bit
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easier.
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PACK A WARM TREAT – Consider
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packing a thermos of hot chocolate or tea to enjoy during or after play.
covered in mud, rain gear can simply
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the puddles. Collect rainwater in
or mudroom to dry. It’s much easier
a container and then dip sidewalk
brushing off dirt once dry. No need
chalk into the bucket and draw.
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BY MAKAYLA SILVA
In the digital age of ecommerce and social selling, where
you can purchase pretty much anything you want from the comfort of your couch, some might argue that traditional
brick-and-mortar stores are soon to be a thing of the past. But the opposite argument could also be made.
Have you walked through the screen door at The Blue
Heron to be greeted by Maureen Lewis’ warm smiling
face? Or popped into Artfish42 after the winter refresh, inhaled that fresh salt air, and checked out the new waterscapes?
Local galleries lend themselves to artists and artisans as
spaces not only to showcase their work but also to make
connections and share their stories. Artfish42 founder Meg Giannotti hits the nail on the head: “When you support
local art, you are supporting your neighbors, your family, your friends, and you’re keeping your community thriving. It’s not about the things, it’s about the people.”
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N The Blue Heron
on Fridays and Saturdays
Nestled in the seaside
12–5pm during the warmer
Heron is the kind of place where
truly never know what you are
Silver Sands community on
months.
you must look up, down, and
going to find. With incredible
In its 19th year, The Blue
underneath everything. You
Broadway, The Blue Heron is
collections of 1940s restaurant
a treasure trove of vintage,
ware, Clarisse Cliff China, and
antique and new furnishings.
opalescent Victorian vases,
Collectors, beachgoers, and
The Blue Heron lends itself to
locals seemingly can’t help but
local artists and artisans as a
be drawn to the mysterious
consignment store, accepting
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little hidden gem—open only
unique crafts and creations.
Gilded Lily Gallery
For 20 years, The Gilded
Lily has flourished on River Street. A local landmark in
the arts community, Gilded Lily Gallery has drawn art
enthusiasts from all around the world, showcasing its unique collection by both local and international
artists. The glittering gallery is lined floor-to-ceiling with handmade jewelry and
steampunk mosaics, colorful blown glass, and intricate sculptures. Barry Gordon and Rosemary Celon-Gordon opened their downtown gallery to local and regional artists more than 20 years ago. “We
like to have a variety of artists who work in all different mediums. We have a watercolor artist, an artist who paints in oils, a photographer—each artist here has a different medium. We work with about 20 artists locally, about a (Left & Top) Beach-inspired art and eclectic treasures await discovery at
half-dozen are from Milford,”
the Blue Heron; (Above) The Gilded Lily Gallery on River Street has been
says Celon-Gordon.
a landmark in the city’s art scene for more than two decades.
With an established
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is a local consignment shop offering both online and instores shopping. Owned and operated by Patricia Ospina, the small shop on New Haven Avenue lends itself to local artists and artisans to showcase their work on consignment. “Our local artists aren’t just painters. They create everything from sneakers and dresses to sculptures and paintings,” Ospina says. She says offering her eight artists a physical location provides them with much-needed Lined floor-to-ceiling with all kinds of art, Gilded Lily Gallery showcases collections by local and international artists.
network of art collectors and enthusiasts, Gilded Lily offers individual artists plenty of hands-on attention, with loyal and steady patronage. “When you work with the gallery, it’s not just come in, hang your work on the wall and hope someone buys your painting. We promote our artists’ work through social media and through our website—we get more exposure for these individuals than if they were to do an art show or hang their work in a café or library.”
La Unique Boutique
One of Milford’s newest boutiques, La Unique Boutique
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T Miss Dallas’
happen upon Miss Dallas’
Tucked away in an industrial
Shop. Which is why owner
enclave off Old Gate Lane at
Lynda Kilgore say Miss
16 Higgins Drive, Miss Dallas’
Dallas’ is “Milford’s Best
Shop is a five-room treasure
Kept Secret.”
trove of eclectic tchotchkes and trinkets.
exposure to grow their
and I want to help
business.
other people by
“Galleries are so expensive
The shop’s extensive customer base draws folks
supporting them
and there’s not much oppor-
from the beginning.
tunity for an artist starting
In a way, my own
out,” she says. “I know how
love of art has made
hard it is to grow a business
me more appreciative
that you’re passionate about,
and excited about supporting and helping others.” Ospina says that as a business owner, working with artists on consignment
Miss Dallas’ is a treasure trove of new, used, and vintage finds with an
is mutually beneficial. “We
impressive collection of works on consignment by artists and artisans.
get foot traffic in the store from people looking at the
Hidden on a street that
traveling from as far as
art who might come to see
doesn’t see a ton of foot
Stamford in search of their
the artwork and end up
traffic, you wouldn’t just
next great find. Kilgore says
buying more,” she says. “For the artist, they are able to have their artwork seen. We take pictures, promote them, market the artwork, and give them exposure. It’s also about time; they don’t have the time to market themselves and create their art. We give them the opportunity to focus on the creating while we work on selling.”
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Nestled in the Walnut Beach Arts & Business District, Artfish42 is an artists collective, showcasing the talents of more than a dozen local painters, illustrators, and artisans of every kind.
ing local artists by offering a
home to 13 local artists each
permanent brick and mortar
invested through a monthly
establishment to showcase
fee and shared hours. “We
their work.
have stayed with the same
Run by professional
model, because it works.
her business has been built
an impressive collection
local artists who sell, show,
And if anything, we’ve just
entirely on word of mouth,
of works on consignment
and work regionally and
grown,” Giannotti says.
pointing to the Miss Dallas’
by artists and artisans of
nationally, Artfish42 is not
all ages—truly a browser’s
a gallery, but a co-op,
motto “You will walk in as a stranger, leave as our friend.” With five rooms spanning 4,000 square feet of vintage jewelry and artwork, painted furniture and collector’s items, Miss Dallas’ is a trove for treasure hunters. The shop’s extensive inventory ranges in price from $5 to more than $500. Owner Lynda Kilgore sold an original Mickey Myers lithograph for $450 in recent years. Meander through the labyrinth of new, used, and vintage finds, to discover
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Milford’s Founding Mothers
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BY CINDY PAPISH GERBER
Sarah Camp, Sarah Nisbett, Mary Baldwin, Jane Treat, Mary Gibb, Mehetabel Tibbals, Mary Fowler, Margaret DeWitt, Elizabeth Botsford. Jennifer Lugus, president of the Friends of the Milford Cemetery, has “deep respect” for these women’s names which are engraved on headstones dotted amongst those belonging to venerated male founders and soldiers. “The grave markers of these 17th and 18th century women contain valuable clues,” she says. “Some had interesting verse and unique carving on their stones, which can be telling of their life or personality. Every stone tells a story.” Who were these women? Other than the fact
your family and a few belongings to travel 3,000
that they lived during Milford’s earliest days,
miles on a crowded ship to settle in a wilderness.
what else can we learn?
The voyage took months. Children were brought
Several were born in England at the tail end of the Elizabethan era, growing up during a time of
up not to question adults, so they couldn’t even ask, ‘Are we there yet?’”
great political, intellectual, and religious unrest.
Platt paints a picture of their daily routines.
“Our ancestors thought of themselves as English
“Every waking moment would be occupied with
subjects, even after immigrating to America,” describes Jane Platt in a presentation she gave to the
(Left) Colonial era girls began their training at a
Milford Genealogy Group. “Imagine packing up
young age; (Right) a period gown
2021 • Milford Living 41
COURTESY OF JANE PLATT
chores. Taking care of necessities took hard
ary brother John Eliot, are believed to have
(Left) Milford’s Jane Platt during a genealogy
work. They had to keep the fire from going out.
come to Boston from the Nazening area
presentation. (Above) Founding mothers
They cooked from scratch, made candles and
of England on the ship Lyon in 1631. Sarah
would be familiar with the contents of the
soap, raised and tended animals and crops...
was the first adult to die in Milford. Church
Milford Historical Society Herb Garden.
spun, wove, and sewed or knitted clothing
records say: “She had twins on the 2nd of
and bed linens.” While their husbands were
September 1645 and was doing well till the
farmers or tradesmen and assumed leadership
night of the 4th, when she was taken very
roles, “the women had a child about every two
ill with cold and died on the 6th.” She was
years—which only added to their work load.”
buried in the garden of Rev. Peter Prudden.
Later, during the Revolutionary War, when
His garden (including Prudden’s own
many Milford men fought for independence,
unmarked grave) comprises a section of
Milford’s women did more than tend to hearth
Milford’s Cemetery.
and home. They took over their husband’s farms and businesses, taught lessons, made
ELIZABETH BOTSFORD (1614 - 1692)
and prepared supplies, cleaned camps, and
Born Elizabeth Woolhead in Bedfordshire,
nursed wounded soldiers.
England, she was the widow of Henry
It was anything but an easy life for these
Botsford, who was the first in his family
founding mothers who deserve to be recog-
to emigrate here. In 1639, he became one
nized alongside their husbands for the role
of Milford’s free planters. An interest-
they played in building Milford.
ing note: in 1640, whether by choice or circumstances, Elizabeth was admitted to
SARAH CAMP (1599-1645)
the Church of Milford four years before her
Sarah and her husband Nicholas (one of the
husband. They had eight children. She died
first free planters), along with her mission-
at the age of 78.
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JANE TREAT (1628 - 1703)
The widow of Samuel Fitch, Sarah later married
Born in Hertfordshire, England to
Mungo Nisbett, who was “given liberty to pros-
Jane Hirz Tapp and Assistant Governor
ecute free trade and commerce,” and credited
Edmund Tapp, one the seven pillars of
with opening traffic to New York. Sarah died
the Milford church, she married Gover-
childless at 41. Lugus considers her gravestone,
nor Robert Treat, founder of Milford and
which is carved with an ornamental design of
Newark, NJ on Christmas Day, 1647. Together
angels and fruit, a rare carving. “Rather than
they had seven children. An eyebrow raising
the typical death head with wings, it is unique
story of their courtship is described in History of
in that it has a pair of the Greek God Eros carved
Newark, NJ, by Joseph Atkinson. “Treat appears
on the headboard, or lunette.”
to have been exceedingly timid and backward
COURTESY OF JANE PLATT
SARAH NISBETT (1657 - 1698)
(Above) A handsewn bodice and pattern along with women’s tools; (Left) A young woman enters the Milford settlement stockade. in the presence of the fair sex and…in coming to the main point - a proposal of marriage. There is good authority for saying that once, while familiarly dancing his future wife on his knee, as was permissible by their disparity of age and long intimacy, the damsel brought her lover to a prompt decision by the suggestive expostulation: “Robert, I would rather be treated than trotted.” He took the hint and proposed, which says a lot about her feisty nature! Jane died in 1703 at the age of 75.
MARY BALDWIN (1658 - 1703) Born in Milford to John Beard and Hannah Hawley, Mary Baldwin married Timothy Baldwin II, a farmer and sergeant, who was
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one of Milford’s original settlers. Together they had four children: Mary, Hannah, Billing, and Timothy.
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Samuel in 1769. They were both age 17 and she passed away at the young age of 22. Samuel went on to marry three more times.”
MARY FOWLER (1767-1792) Mary was 24 and unmarried at the time of her death. A daughter of William and Eunice Fowler, her headstone’s epitaph is notorious among cemetery buffs. Known as The Molly
MARY HEGARTY NESCHKE
Stone, the unusual inscription reads: “Molly tho
“Mistress Merwin” portrayed during a recreation of her historic ride to warn of a British invasion.
pleasant in her day/ Was suddenly seiz’d and sent away /How soon she’s ripe how soon she’s rott’n /Sent to her grave and soon forgott’n.” In another bizarre turn, her headstone was reported missing in 2017 by former Milford Historian Richard Platt. Thankfully, it was recovered approximately 100 feet away from its original spot and replaced undamaged.
MARY GIBB (1731 - 1769)
the family record.” They are all buried in
Mary was married to Capt. John Gibb, one
the same cemetery row.
of Peter Pond’s principal creditors. It’s
MARGARET DEWITT (1739 -1794) Margaret married Garritt Van Horne DeWitt
MEHETABEL TIBBALS (1752-1774)
that Mary was John’s first wife and Eunice
Some genealogy sources list her name as
[Gibbs] his second,” says Lugus. “In the
“Mehetibel.” Regardless, “her maiden name
(Bottom Left): Woodcut print from a 1779
church records they have GIBBS/GIBB for
was Lambert,” says Lugus. “She married
publication; (Right) Depiction of a colonial kitchen.
LEFT ????? RIGHT
possible that Gibb should be GIBBS, and
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in 1759, after the death of her father Abra-
ham, a successful NY merchant. She
housekeeper, Flora. She wrote, ‘Being
is named in his will as Margaret Van
sick in Body, but of sound mind and
Horne and further evidence indicates
memory’. Her husband died the previ-
she benefitted from her inheritance.
ous year (1793), almost a year to the day
She commissioned artist Benjamin
she died. Perhaps she had been ill for
West to paint her portrait (circa 1760)
some time and never recovered from
which is catalogued in the National
his death, as his gravestone depicts a
Portrait Gallery at the Smithsonian.
loving and happy family life.” While their headstones shall remain
ticulous will was dated 10 days before
in Milford for perpetuity, these women’s
her death on February 1, 1794. “She
contributions toward shaping Colonial
gave particular items to each child:
America should not be overlooked. “They
Catherine, Garritt (sic), William, John, and Abraham…and of the rest of her possessions told them to divide equally.
MARK MARTINS
Lugus points out that Margaret’s me-
saw themselves not so much as individuals, but as members of a community,” notes Jane Platt. “And that community
‘Share and Share alike.’ There was quite
Oil lamps with glass chimneys were common household
would likely not have survived unless its
a list; she even gave ‘10 in cash’ to her
items women were charged with cleaning and filling.
members worked together.”
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education notebook qualify for free or reduced meals. With districts using virtual or hybrid learning models, the loss of access to school meals increases the risk of food insecurity, a situation exacerbated by the pandemic. The operational challenges Faustich faced to implement COVID-related protocols further strained the viability of the program, like staff needing to maintain 6-feet of distance. The program had to absorb the cost of additional personal protective equipment and increased use of packaging and paper to accommodate grab-and-go options. Rental of a freezer truck was necessary to accommodate the increased volume
School Food Services in a Pandemic
W
hen the coronavirus pandemic abruptly closed schools last spring, the Milford Public Schools Food Services department was left with pantries, refrigerators, and freezers full of product intended to feed the district’s students. As the closure stretched into weeks, it became apparent to Food Services director Eileen Faustich that alternative measures would be needed to provide the food to its intended consumer—the children. Federal regulations for the school lunch program typically prohibit its operation outside of school. However, the U.S. Department of Agriculture quickly stepped in and began issuing waivers to relax the rules and allow curbside versus cafeteria delivery of meals, with parents and guardians picking up food that normally could only be handed to students. Milford is among the many school districts
program is a $2 million enterprise that
where food service departments are designed
serves about half a million meals—breakfast
to be self-sustaining. They operate on tight
and lunch—in a typical school year. These
budgets using only revenue from federal
programs are considered a critical safety net
Olive Paulsson used Granny Smith apples provided
reimbursements and the sale of ala carte and
for families who struggle to feed their children;
in the meal packs to make her great-grandmother’s
healthy snack items and beverages. Milford’s
approximately 25 percent of Milford’s students
apple pie recipe.
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of food. Food orders were often incomplete,
number just continued to grow every week,”
causing staff to shift gears and improvise.
says Faustich. The last week of school in June,
Furthermore, the supply chain was especially
the equivalent of 16,000 meals were served.
concerning early in the pandemic, as other
In twice weekly pick-ups, families received
programs and restaurants were competing for
breakfast and lunch (14 meals per week) for
the same scarce supplies.
each child who signed up to receive food. It
But with federal waivers in place allowing
was an uncharted and ambitious undertaking
programs to operate year-round under
that involved an elaborate, contactless,
regulations that typically apply only to
all-hands-on-deck approach, including a
summertime meals, Milford has been able
multi-page Google Doc to keep it all straight.
to feed all youth under the age of 18 free of
As time went on, Faustich and her team
charge.
creatively refined the process. Staff moved
During the first week of the grab-and-go
away from individual servings towards bulk
operation in March 2020, 4,326 meals were
Cayden Rodriques gives a thumbs up to his ready-to-eat
distributed. “The need was very real, and the
snack, provided in a meal pack.
portions by giving families more “make your own” meals like containers of taco
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education notebook fixings with a package of shells, a head
which 77,000 meals were handed out. School
of lettuce, cucumbers, and a container of
district van drivers delivered meals to families
tomatoes, or half gallons of milk instead
who had no transportation and have continued
of individual 8-ounce cartons. To complete
to do so throughout this school year. And the
the meal packs, the group separates dry,
local non-profit, Milford Food 2 Kids, worked
frozen, and refrigerated food the day prior
alongside school staff on distribution days and
to pick-up. Paper grocery bags are filled,
supplemented meals with grocery gift cards.
put on carts, and wheeled to a designated
The agency continues its weekend program
outside area. Custodial staff and security
for children in need by providing packs of food
guards help with traffic control. Local
discreetly sent home on Fridays.
grocery and pharmacy chains donated
The food services department now operates
bags when they could not be obtained by
under its own blended system as schools
the food service department. The City of
move between a hybrid in-person and virtual
Milford contributed funds to supplement
Four days-worth of fresh vegetables—over 500 pounds—
learning. Some students continue to be full
a summer distribution program during
ready to be provided to more than 1,000 students.
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March and December 2020, both curbside and in-school. For an operation that is usually behind the scenes, Faustich says the thank you notes and photos they have received have been gratifying. She calls the process a “well-orchestrated endeavor,” adding that her staff has been up to the challenge. “They have a good attitude and did what needed to be done. They are troopers.”
Becky Tremblay and para educator Terry Powers load meals into school vans for delivery.
—Susan Glennon families were provided with enough food to last
year, whether he or she attends Milford Public
for two weeks—the equivalent of 25 pounds
Schools, a magnet, parochial, or private school, or
If you have children under the age of 18 and
of food and beverage for each child served.
are formally being home-schooled.
would like additional information on obtaining meals from Milford Public Schools, contact
Currently, any Milford child under the age of 18
In all, close to 500,000 meals were
can sign up to receive food through June of this
distributed to Milford children between
Eileen Faustich at efaustich@milforded.org.
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historical perspective The Taylor
Richardson’s Crane
Library building,
Memorial Library
a cornerstone in
in Quincy, MA and
downtown Milford
Northup’s Taylor Library
since 1895.
in Milford. These same experts
also identify distinctive differences between these two libraries. Northrup deviated from Richardsonian conventions throughout the Taylor Library by
A Taylor-Made Library
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T
he Taylor Memorial Library holds great significance for Milford Mayor Ben Blake. “It represents Milford’s past, present, and future,” he says. “It’s so important that this building really does frame our downtown…not just from an historical perceptive, but as an iconic fixture of our community.” Occupying its original plot of land on the Milford Green, the Taylor Memorial Library,
officially turning it over to the city. In 1979, the Taylor Memorial Library was
or “Old Library,” was completed at a cost of
added to the National Register of Historic
$25,000 in 1895. It was gifted to Milford by
Places. Designed by Bridgeport architect
Henry Augustus Taylor, whose previous two
Joseph W. Northup, it is recognized as
purchases, Lauralton Hall (the former estate
the city’s best example of Richardsonian
of businessman Charles Hobby Pond) and the
Romanesque architecture, a style pioneered
Mary Taylor Methodist Church, were named
by architect Henry Hobson (H.H) Richardson.
to honor his daughter and mother.
Architectural historians credit Richardson
Taylor offered to build a memorial library if
with masterfully incorporating features found in European medieval fortresses and
appropriate the annual maintenance. Records
churches (rough cut stone, heavy arches,
identify the land cost $3,400, but Library
stained glass) into “modern” American
Board minutes from 1893-95 omit design
edifices. While his most famous work is
or construction notes. This would indicate
Boston’s Trinity Church (1877), scholars
The Hepburn window by Tiffany Studios was
that Taylor completed the building before
have noted a close resemblance between
commissioned by Mary Hepburn Smith.
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MAURA DOLAN
the town would furnish the land and agree to
entryway under a large central
by Tiffany Studios) commemorate
gable lit by a triplet of round-arched
Milford families who funded seven
windows, framed by Romanesque-
large alcoves. These are grouped
inspired pilasters. The stack area…is
around a Colonial Alcove, founded
expressed by a row of tall windows
by the late Nathan Gillette Pond to
divided by stone mullions.”
memorialize the town’s first settlers. Paula Jepson Gudell is a proud
hallway is an open-well staircase
owner of an original Taylor Library
with ornately embellished columns.
oak window frame. “It’s hanging
The main reading room has a large
in my Massachusetts home,” she
hearth; in a niche above the fireplace is a plaque containing a poem honoring Henry Taylor’s mother. In the stack room, four stained
PAULA JEPSON GUDELL
Inside the first floor’s central
shares. “My parents Betty and Alan Jepson (Mayor of Milford, 1963 -1969) gave it to me as a Christmas gift in 1995.” Her father came upon the
glass windows (one, the Hepburn
One of the original Taylor oak window frames, now a picture frame
window frame when the library was
Memorial Window, was created
hanging in the home of Paula Jepson Gudell.
being renovated in the mid-1970s.
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historical perspective “Inside the frame he inserted a painting of the summer cottage by the Housatonic where Katherine Hepburn stayed while performing at Milford residents have fond memories of “spending hours doing homework” in the Taylor. Members of the Milford CT. History & Vintage Images Facebook Page describe “the ivy-covered entrance,” “old world charm and character,” “creaky floors,” “wood Dewey
COURTESY OF THE MILFORD PUBLIC LIBRARY
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Decimal cabinets,” and “beautiful atmosphere…filled with the smell of
Old snapshots depict the fireplace located in what was once the main reading room and a view from the stacks
old books.”
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Platt was the head librarian during the 1940s,” recalls former city historian Richard Platt. “The bookshelves were
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“My aunt Caroline
so close together that if
(Above) The once-ivy covered library as seen in
someone else needed to get
1913; (Right) A photo of the Taylor Library staff
to the same shelf, you had to
from 1954.
step out and let that person back in!” In 1976, shortly after the new Milford
growth in membership” precipitated a
Mayor Blake asserts that its role as a Milford
change. Milford’s Regional Chamber of
mainstay is secure. “It will remain mixed-
Public Library opened on Shipyard Lane, the
Commerce relocated headquarters to The
use city owned space,” he states. “There is
Taylor became home to Milford’s Chamber
Connecticut Post Mall.
no interest in selling it, for it is part of our
of Commerce. This lasted until November 2020, when “two years of phenomenal
While the future use of the Taylor
downtown hub in perpetuity.”
Memorial Library has yet to be determined,
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he Children’s department at the Milford Public Library was the recipient of a
construction grant from the CT State Library to make some much needed updates. With matching funds from the City of Milford and support Milford departments, the Children’s department was expanded with room for books and reading areas. Two small meeting spaces on the adult floor were added as well. The Children’s library has now reopened and is ready for all young readers.
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Broad Street in Bloom he scent of spring brings fond memories of sidewalk strolls. The sound of cars pass, lending a windswept whirl to the ear. The early afternoon sun shines, warming the faces of friends and strangers. Together we step forward, smiling with grateful hearts for new beginnings. TEXT: Suzanne Cahill PHOTO: Sherry Johnson
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MUSICAL NOTES Hymn singing at the Plymouth Church changed so much for the congregation when its first melodeon organ was played there in 1849. This melodeon was originally purchased by James Shipman Tibbals (marked December 28, 1846) and is believed to have been the first in Milford. Later, it came into the hands of a Mrs. Mary Durand, who donated it to the Plymouth Church in June 1849. The melodeon’s last owner, Dr. Harvey Russell, donated it to the Milford Historical Society. The top and front of the piano-like case is embellished
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with mother-of-pearl inlay. In front of the sheet music is a Peeler Metal Fife, a musical instrument with a simple design and a long history. The tallest instrument standing on top of the melodeon is a M1892 field trumpet (bugle) on which all modern bugles are based. This horn is marked U.S. Regulation and was the standard in use in drum and bugle corps in World War I. —Marilyn May Photographer: Susan Carroll Dwyer
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Under the Umbrella he Umbrella tree at Anchor Beach has always been
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