Your Man and His Bros
You’ve finally met your match. Here’s someone you actually love to be with, but sometimes, you luck out with his friends. He spends so much time with his buds and you start to feel as if you also have to squeeze in some ‘us’ time whenever you’re with him. Getting an apology from him in one of your arguments is difficult enough, but when it comes to spending some time with his friends, don’t expect him to say sorry because he’ll always feel that he has the right to do his own thing every so often. Don’t expect him to turn anybody down when it comes to a night out with all the boys. Besides, this doesn’t mean that he’s going to cheat on you. Boys will always be boys, and that means that you sometimes have to let things be.
Allow him to bond with his friends, and when you happen to be around, getting along with them will be a big plus on your relationship. When you openly show your man that you don’t like someone from his group, he’s going to end up feeling torn. His solution would always to leave you out because he doesn’t like hearing you complain. So, try to indulge him a bit because this is when he can also let loose and talk about guy stuff when he’s with his friends. It’s not that he’s keeping things from you, but sometimes, you have to allow him to be with the people he’s known even before he met you. Don’t be the evil girlfriend. You’ll see…you’ll win their approval more this way. Plus, you wouldn’t want him to be teased when you constantly try to put your foot down. His friends will never allow him to live it down and with a reputation as a coward, you’re only driving your man further away.
Spending some time with your own friends encourages independence, which is actually healthy for every relationship. Hanging out with people you love reminds you that you need more from life than just the partnership. Plus, it’s a good way to de-stress when you’ve been too busy with work. Guys just need to periodically check in on their buds to break the monotony. While you’ll be there, you also can share some alone time with your girlfriends. There is a big difference and when you do get together, it also means something else, something more. Nonetheless, as much as you do adore each other’s company, just know that you need a separate life as well.
So, relax and allow him to get together with his pack of wolves. As long as he does make time for you, there’s nothing to worry about. Guys do things that you’ll never understand, and this is the same thing for him as well when he sees you with your girlfriends. It’s all about harmless fun. You just can’t be all too clingy and then expect him to take it well. Even the healthiest
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relationships need time apart.
Your Man and His Bros
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