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24 JD Guignard's journey of chasing stunts and dreams
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Ah, spring - the season of fresh starts and energy shifts as unpredictable as our weather. One day, we are dusting off the patio furniture, the next, we are scraping ice off the windshield. But hey, that’s Windsor-Essex for you.
As things thaw out, The DRIVE is here to keep you in the loop about everything that makes our region tick. This issue, we’re celebrating 150 years of the Windsor-Essex Regional Chamber of Commerce—an institution that has been championing local businesses since the days when networking involved actual telegrams. We are also taking you behind the scenes with a local stunt artist who laughs in the face of danger (so you don’t have to). And that’s just the beginning.
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Celebrating its 100th year, Tepperman’s started in 1925 when founder Nate Tepperman began selling rugs door-to-door in Windsor. The first store opened on Ottawa Street in March 1931. Surviving the Great Depression, the Second World War, a cyclical auto industry, pandemics, and more, Tepperman’s is now recognized as one of Canada’s largest family-owned home furnishing retailers. This milestone reflects Tepperman’s rich history and vision for the future. Now led by brothers Andrew and Noah Tepperman, the business thrives through a commitment to exceptional customer and employee relations, quality products, long-term vision, and community support. The celebration kicked off in March with an event attended by three generations of the Tepperman family, along with staff, suppliers, and partners. Currently running a giveaway with $100,000 in prizes, Tepperman’s has exciting experiences planned throughout the year to mark a century in business.
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Transform your weeknight dinners with this trio of time-saving recipes designed to complement each other perfectly. Start with flavourful Grilled Chicken, Roasted Vegetables, and Potatoes, a quick and easy dish that sets the stage for your following meals. Next day, enjoy a refreshing Roasted Vegetable and Chicken Salad, utilizing those delicious leftovers for a light and satisfying lunch or dinner. Finally, turn any remaining chicken and veggies into a mouth-watering Fire Roasted Tomato Pasta, bursting with flavour and ready in minutes. Minimize waste and embrace efficiency in the kitchen while savouring every bite.
GRILLED CHICKEN, POTATOES, AND VEGETABLES
INGREDIENTS
ROASTED POTATOES
11⁄2 lb bag fingerling potatoes
1⁄8 cup salted butter
1 tbsp avocado oil
1 tbsp Dijon mustard
1 tsp salt
1⁄2 tsp pepper
ROASTED VEGETABLES
10-12 Brussels sprouts, halved
1 tbsp honey
1 tbsp balsamic vinegar
10-12 French carrots
1 large egg plant
1 bundle asparagus
Salt and pepper to taste
GRILLED CHICKEN
4 skin-on chicken breasts
2 tsp avocado oil (for chicken)
1 tsp salt
½ tsp pepper
DIRECTIONS
1. Partially cook the potatoes in a pot of boiling water for 10 min.
2. While the potatoes are cooking, assemble the vegetables on baking sheets lined with parchment paper, ensuring they are not crowded. Drizzle with avocado or olive oil and sprinkle with salt and pepper. I placed the Brussels sprouts on a separate small baking sheet to make it easier to remove them separately.
3. Place in the oven for 45 min at 400 F, or until golden brown.
4. Remove the potatoes from the water. In a bowl, mix the par-boiled potatoes with salted butter, avocado oil, Dijon, salt, pepper, and 3 cloves minced garlic. Add to the oven.
5. After 45 minutes, remove everything from the oven except for the Brussels sprouts. Drizzle balsamic vinegar and honey on them and place them back into the oven for 5 additional minutes.
6. While the vegetables are in the oven, cook the chicken.
7. On a plate, season chicken with salt, pepper, and garlic.
8. Using a frying pan over medium heat, add avocado oil and the chicken skin side down. Cook until the skin is golden brown and crispy, then flip, cooking the remainder of the chicken until it has turned golden brown and reaches an internal temp. of 165 degrees.
6 garlic cloves, minced and divided in half
9. Remove the chicken from the pan and set aside on a plate.
10. Add 1⁄4 cup of cold water to the pan to deglaze all the browned bits at the bottom, add in the roasted potatoes and mix until they have absorbed the pan sauce.
11. Plate and enjoy.
CHICKEN AND ROASTED VEGETABLE SALAD
INGREDIENTS
1 bunch of arugula
leftover roasted vegetables, potatoes, and chicken
1 avocado
¼ cup crumbled feta cheese
DRESSING
1⁄4 cup extra virgin olive oil
3 tbsp lemon juice
3 tbsp red wine vinegar
2 tbsp mayo
2 tsp Dijon mustard
2 tsp honey
1 tsp kosher salt
1 tsp black pepper
DIRECTIONS
1. In a liquid measuring cup, combine the dressing ingredients, mix and set aside.
2. On a plate, layer your desired amount of arugula, leftover roasted vegetables and potatoes.
3. Add sliced avocado, leftover roasted chicken, and garnish with feta cheese before adding the dressing.
FIRE ROASTED TOMATO PASTA
INGREDIENTS
whole wheat spaghetti
1 tbsp olive oil
½ sweet onion, diced small
4 cloves garlic, thinly sliced
1 (796ml) can crushed fire roasted tomatoes
10 Kalamata olives, rough chopped (reserve a few for garnish)
4 large green olives, rough chopped
½ tsp pepper flakes
2 tsp salt
½ tsp pepper
1 tsp balsamic vinegar
1 bay leaf
1 tsp Dijon
1 tsp sriracha
1 tbsp honey
leftover roasted vegetables
GARNISH
feta cheese
basil
DIRECTIONS
1. Cook pasta in a pot of well salted, boiling water. Once finished, toss in a drizzle of oil and set aside.
2. In a pot over medium heat, add olive oil and diced sweet onion. Cook until golden.
4. Add the can of fire roasted tomatoes along with the remaining ingredients, except for the leftover roasted vegetables, and stir.
5. Let simmer on low heat for 10 minutes.
3. Once the onions are golden, add sliced garlic and continue to cook for 1-2 more minutes, consistently stirring to avoid burning the garlic.
6. Once the sauce is finished. Add the leftover roasted vegetables and continue to cook for 5 additional minutes, or until the vegetables have fully warmed up in the sauce.
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7. Add a portion of pasta to a plate and add your desired amount of sauce. Garnish with crumbled feta cheese and freshly chopped basil.
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TAKING CARE OF BUSINESS
The Windsor Essex Chamber of Commerce on the verge of history
Written by Jesse Ziter
Our local business advocacy body prepares to celebrate a century and a half of boosting, connecting, and educating area enterprises.
One hundred well-dressed men stand with their backs to Detroit, looking out at Windsor and into the future.
Ryan Donally, the newly minted president and CEO of the Windsor Essex Chamber of Commerce (WECC), is looking at a photo. Several historical images are laid out on a boardroom table in front of him, the Chamber’s archives open ahead of its landmark 150th anniversary. This image, the one that stood out to him, is a staged shot celebrating a riverfront gathering of influential businesspeople on the grounds of what is now the Canadian Club Brand Centre.
“That was the mode in which commerce was done at that time,” observes Donally as he considers the dozens of black-and-white besuited men. “Face-to-face community building and business-to-business sales. Commerce has changed since then, and we’re in the midst of a seismic shift in how business is done, but I think the Chamber of Commerce’s messaging has always been consistent: Whenever you’re doing business, if you shop locally and look within your business network fi rst—if you do business with your neighbour down the street and buy the loaf of bread from the corner store in your neighbourhood—you’re going to have a stronger business community.”
Photos by Syx Langemann
One of the three oldest chambers of commerce in Canada, the WECC has represented businesses in the municipalities that now comprise Windsor and Essex County since a quarter-century before the end of the reign of Queen Victoria. Established in 1876, the Chamber has survived both World Wars, the Great Depression, a global pandemic, 9/11, and any number of periods of acute economic challenges. (More on that topic shortly.)
Over the years, the Chamber has counted among its numbers past, present, and future captains of industry, mayors, federal government ministers, and senators, and those men and (eventually) women have played a meaningful hand—to give just a few examples—in delivering innovations in government relations, shaping North American auto strategy, advocating for single-game sports betting, and mediating the 2022 Ambassador Bridge blockade. Essentially, in building, maintaining, and protecting Windsor-Essex.
The names atop the WECC’s historical org charts are literally etched into the material reality of the city. “It’s fascinating looking back at a list of previous Chamber of Commerce chairs,” Donally confirms, identifying one or two on the photo in front of him. “Some of the names are synonymous with what Windsor is and was. 1910: Honourable W.C. Kennedy; 1923: Hiram H. Walker; 1932: D.M. Eagle; 1972: John H. McGivney; 1977: Gerald Freed; Charles J. Clark. These names are previous leaders of industry who have left an indelible mark on the entire community.”
Today, the WECC numbers 750 members, representing more than 40,000 employees in our community. It is currently chaired by Tal Czudner, CEO of the Windsor-Detroit Tunnel Corporation.
The Drive sat down with Donally—who you may recognize as a former Windsor Spitfires captain—Director of Operations Matthew Dumouchel, and Events Specialist Louanne Sylvestre, to learn more about where the Chamber has been and where it’s going. The WECC has just refreshed its visual brand identity, and planning for next year’s sesquicentennial celebrations is underway apace, leading up to March 2026.
We’re always looking to diversify or grow based on what we’re hearing from the community; we’re changing what we need to do to make our Chamber that much stronger.
Over the next 12 months, the WECC’s seven full-time employees and star-studded board of directors plan to host a series of spectacular events, including but by no means limited to: a showstopping floral display in Jackson Park, which takes bloom in May; a small business summit; and many other special celebratory moments. The campaign launches on April 24 at the Ontario Chamber of Commerce Annual General Meeting, held this year at Beach Grove Golf and Country Club.
“We’re fi nding opportunities to create partnerships across the wider community to celebrate the success of our region,” explains Dumouchel. “We intend for our outreach over the next 12 months to create long-lasting impacts.”
If you own a radio, television, or Wi-Fi router, you already know these celebrations are unfolding against a national backdrop of economic anxiety. We live in uncertain times.
To some extent, the WECC’s work has always foregrounded Windsor’s proximity to the United States, never denying the degree to which the relationship between Windsor-Essex and Southeastern Michigan touches all elements of both societies. It’s hard to ignore the centrality of Detroit in the Chamber’s archival marketing materials, and since 2007, the WECC’s International Business Builder program has offered members access Detroit Regional Chamber membership for a discounted rate.
“A strong American economy is good for our region and good for our long-term growth,” says Donally, speaking to the current geopolitical moment. “Decisions made now can’t be shortsighted, because— good, bad, or indiff erent—Windsor-Essex can’t change its address. The relationships we have today, both within Canada and with our neighbours to the south, are going to be very important in the long run. Any type of knee-jerk reaction that would affect the relationship of our two countries disproportionately aff ects Windsor-Essex, so we must be cautious about what’s happening today while also keeping an eye on 10, 20, 50 years down the road.”
That said, Donally acknowledges the Chamber’s important role in mediating
the current uncertainty. “We will make sure we are collecting the voices of the business community and our membership, coalescing that feedback into actionable items, and sharing that information through either policy resolutions or asks to various levels of government,” he promises. “At the same time, we are taking information from government and boiling it down to an understandable level for our business community.”
The Chamber of Commerce is going to continue to be a leader in
our community, so it’s vital our value proposition is well understood and evolves such that the Chamber
continues to be relevant for another 150 years.
This type of advocacy and communications outreach is one of three foundational pillars of the WECC’s work. “The chamber facilitates interactions between all three levels of government and the business
community,” outlines Donally. “We are a non-political organization, but we do ensure the voices of business are amplified to the political community.”
What else does the WECC actually do? According to Donally, at the base level, the Chamber promises its members access to significant cost savings through various group partnerships and reciprocal relationships. Next, the Chamber facilitates diverse business-to-business networking opportunities, including a robust series of formal in-person events.
You may be surprised to learn the WECC is a private not-for-profit corporation not funded by any level of government. As Donally explains, this identity affords the Chamber a degree of flexibility public enterprises often struggle to achieve. “Because our funding model is membership and sponsorship based,” he explains, “we can model our own behaviour after the voice of our members in the business community. We’re always looking to diversify or grow based on what we’re hearing from the community; we’re changing what we need to do to make our Chamber that much stronger.”
What we now know as the WECC was originally founded as the Windsor Board of Trade by a group of 34 local businessmen— and they were all men. Fortunately, gender relations within the chamber have improved somewhat since then. The WECC appointed
its first female chief executive 40 years ago, and its fi rst female chair fi ve years later. Since 1996, the Chamber has partnered with ATHENA International to recognize accomplished local leaders who actively help women achieve professional excellence. (The Drive covered this initiative in depth in our last issue.)
The ATHENA Leadership Award is doled out each year at annual Business Excellence Awards (BEAs), which have become the WECC’s signature celebration. The largest event in the Chamber’s portfolio, the gala attracts over 600 guests annually and is, in Sylvestre’s words, “the premier business event of the year” in our region. This spring’s edition is the 37th.
“The BEAs are a great opportunity for us to celebrate outstanding businesses and business leaders in the community who deserve to be celebrated more regularly,” says Donally, who also notes the WECC stages the longest-running corporate golf tournament in the region. “Generally, Windsor-Essex doesn’t do a great job of telling the world how great we are, and this is one of the nights of the year when we do. The Chamber relishes the opportunity to celebrate those who have given so much to make our community a better place to live, play, work, and invest.”
The WECC is open to virtually anybody who might like to join. “We have members
who are sole proprietors up to the largest employers in our community, and literally anything in between,” says Donally. “We can connect down to the single sole proprietor all the way up to the larger business that employs a couple thousand people in the community. Representing both voices and empowering them to be heard at different times and at different levels is extremely important.”
“We currently offer five tiers of membership, each delivering our members different value propositions,” says Dumouchel. “The tiers are designed around the value a company chooses to invest in its membership, rather than its size.”
In Donally’s words, WECC membership is analogous to joining a fitness club. “A really effective gym membership does require putting a bit of work in,” he explains, “but when you invest that effort, the results come back twofold.”
Ultimately, even as dark clouds begin to gather over our border-city economy, the mood inside the WECC, on the verge of its momentous anniversary, does seem to carry the optimism of a fitness class in early
January. “There is an excitement around our office, and I hope there’s a corresponding excitement in the community,” Donally stresses. “The Chamber of Commerce is going to continue to be a leader in our community, so it’s vital our value proposition is well understood and evolves such that the Chamber continues to be relevant for another 150 years.”
That calls for serious work, but if Donally is intimidated by it, his face doesn’t show it.
Sylvestre smiles, too: “We do have fun around here.”
For more information, including exclusive member benefits and resources, see windsoressexchamber.org
A PASSION ABLAZE
Local Stunt Artist JD Guignard making a splash on the big screen
By Devan Mighton
For 11 years, Windsor’s JD Guignard has been chasing a dream. As a stunt artist, Guignard’s life is one of excitement, but also precision. Risk that is tempered by training and experience. It’s a calling that he lives and breathes and is fuelled by his passion to succeed.
Like many people from Windsor, he was raised in a family whose lives revolved around the auto industry—something that he says informed his appreciation for the automobile. Foretelling his story, as a student at Holy Names Catholic High School, Guignard excelled in drama, physical education, media, and auto shop. In hindsight, these disciplines were the building blocks of his coming career choice.
Years later, taking bumps for big time actors, in big time productions, meeting heroes of the TV and film industry like Arnold Schwarzenegger, Adam Sandler, and Nick Offerman, Guignard had a mountain to climb.
How did he get from Point A to Point B? Where did he find the drive to do it?
“Living a life that aligns with my passions,” he explains. “I wanted to figure out a way to incorporate what I was good at and passionate about to make a living.”
It took a series of steps to learn his trade
and break into the industry. Guignard picked up a co-op gig with Cogeco Windsor, working as a studio cameraman, growing his interest in media production, television, and film. In his final semester of high school, he recorded and submitted his first audition tape for the freeride mountain bike adventure/lifestyle series Drop In, filmed in British Columbia. Although he didn’t make the show, his audition tape, filmed at the Forest Glade Skatepark and around Windsor, was widely shared on the internet and led to sponsorship opportunities for
him from a company in California. That brand supplied him bicycles, parts, and paid travel to events in New York, California, Atlanta, Cleveland, and Toronto.
“At this point, I knew I was onto something, but I was unsure of how to apply my skills,” he explains. “In the meantime, I worked for the City of Windsor as a swimming instructor, drove a forklift at the Chrysler minivan plant, and fixed bicycles.”
It’s been 11 years since I started this journey and just over six years that I’ve been doing it professionally; it seems like it’s just getting started
On the precipice of something great, something palpable, Guignard was at the door of the industry, but wasn’t quite sure how to get in.
“I didn’t know where to start, but I started,” he says. He proceeded to create his own short films with his buddies, recording any special skill he thought would be useful on set. “Once I had a reel together, I flew to British Columbia to Stunts Canada’s
office and got through security to insist the secretary watch my video. Needless to say, I did not land a stunt gig that day. While in Vancouver, I tracked down a couple film sets and handed out my headshot and contact info out to anyone who would take it.”
After years of keeping his nose to the grindstone, his persistence paid off. After getting his first union acting credit through an Apple commercial, he was granted apprentice membership status with the Alliance of Canadian Cinema, Television and Radio Artists (ACTRA). In time, he was hired by stunt coordinator Randy Butcher and handed his first official gig— performing a bicycle stunt in a European Coca-Cola commercial.
“I don’t think I could have been more nervous walking onto set that day,” admits Guignard. “There was a lot going on. The scene opened with a traffic jam caused by a truck flipped on its side, people honking, and it was my job to ride a bicycle between two tight rows of cars when one of the drivers opened their car door in my path.”
His first four credits were for commercials, his fourth seeing him dressed like Super Dave Osborne, sliding a 1967 Triumph Bonneville sideways up a red carpet for an OLG commercial. His next gig earned him his validation with ACTRA, making him a “professional performer” and increasing his visibility in the industry. Shot over four days at the Kingston Peniten-
tiary, Guignard played an inmate in a riot scene on the TV show Mayor of Kingstown starring Jeremy Renner. Many of his early gigs were nondescript characters, but eventually he worked his way into doubling recurring and main characters in various shows and movies.
“It’s usually pretty exciting because you rarely know who you are working with until the night before when you receive the Call
Sheet,” he explains. One shoot, he might be doing high falls or driving a fun car, next shoot, he’s getting shot in the head by Nick Offerman and bouncing off the hood of a car in The Umbrella Academy. Guignard is taking it all in, while he adapts and develops his trade. “The set was underground in a parking garage, so the green room was in the corner of the garage,” he says. “I had the chance to converse with Nick and talk about woodworking and just being a human. He is a real one.”
I wanted to figure out a way to incorporate what I was good at and passionate about to make a living.
Guignard is continually working on his craft and preparing for his next scene. “Creating a previsualization during rehearsal is like putting together a moving puzzle,” he says.
“Some days you jump off a roof, get into a riot, get shot, take a hit, other days you slide a vehicle or crash a bike into a river; it’s always interesting.”
Guignard is keeping busy and meeting some big names in the industry—being on set with Adam Sandler and Arnold Schwarzenegger, working on an episode of Jared Keeso’s Canadian hockey-comedy Shoresy, and doubling a character for a Netflix show that will likely see light in 2026.
“It’s been 11 years since I started this journey and just over six years that I’ve been doing it professionally; it seems like it’s just getting started,” states Guignard. “There is always room to progress and hone in on different skill sets; that’s what keeps me motivated. Trusting this process has taught me a lot about patience, accepting rejection, and staying the course.”
ON SOLID NEW GROUND
Rocksolid Windows & Doors Ltd. welcomes Windsor-Essex to its brandnew showroom to get up close and personal with several world-class window and door products not commonly seen in the region
By Jesse Ziter
For design-conscious homebuilders, buyers, and renovators, it’s never been easier to find a window to the world right here in Windsor.
Since 2007, Steve and Meg Rock’s familyowned outfit has promised skilled installations of new-construction and replacement windows and doors with a refreshingly respectful approach to sales.
Today, after nearly two decades of organic growth, Rocksolid is proud to offer local contractors and homeowners the types of aspirational I-didn’t-know-they-could-do-that products that might feel more at home in Architectural Digest or your Instagram Reels than Essex County.
The Drive recently toured Rocksolid’s impressive new facility in Oldcastle, just south of North Talbot on Brendan Lane, a short hop from the Ciociaro Club. The tastefully appointed, modern space features high, matte-black ceilings, exposed brick accent walls, stylish architectural LED lighting, and several fully functional display units showing off highlights from its wide range of offerings. Behind the scenes is a bright, clean, and surprisingly expansive warehouse space well-populated with doors, windows, and trim pieces in various stages of readiness for their future homes.
Window shoppers (!) are always welcome to drop in during normal business hours, but motivated customers are encouraged to
Photos by Trevor Booth
book a showroom appointment for the best possible experience.
At a time when “buy Canadian” has more weight behind it than ever in living memory, we should mention virtually everything you’ll find in store is made in the country. Like most customer-facing window and door companies, Rocksolid sources its products from outside manufacturers. Unlike some of its competitors, Rocksolid deals exclusively with other Canadian companies, aside from one specialty supplier. “We hear a lot about the importance of sourcing Canadian products these days,” explains Steve Rock, who started the company in his garage, “but I’ve always been interested in and motivated to use Canadian products. We have very good, long-standing working relationships with all the companies we deal with, and many of them are also family owned.”
Economic and nationalistic reasoning aside, as Rock explains, when you choose a Canadian manufacturer, you know the product you’re buying has been designed and tested to stand up to the Canadian climate. (Spring is finally in the air, but Essex County is still not quite California.)
The bulk of Rocksolid’s day-to-day work involves vinyl windows from Kitchener’s Strassburger Windows and Doors, another family-owned business. “Their vinyl window product line reflects a higher engineering
standard than most out there,” says Rock. “And our customers have a lot of options with them. We value the versatility they bring to the vinyl window industry.”
More discerning customers might be interested in high-end wood windows and ultra-wide lift-and-slide glass doors from the Quebec manufacturer LePage, NanaWall’s “moving glass wall systems,” or towering fibreglass pivot doors from Artema.
According to Rock, while some companies might see hard-to-find, executive-class products like these as risky gambits, they represent sparks of inspiration for Rocksolid. “I’m driven by things that are interesting and different,” he explains. “I enjoy the challenge.”
“All the products we’ve chosen over the years, we’ve selected because of the manufacturing processes and engineering involved. I really value the work and thought that goes into the structure of a quality product—not just its look or its price.”
Whatever a customer needs, Rocksolid promises a customer experience free from pushy, deceptive, or otherwise indecorous sales tactics. “I like to sell how I like to shop,” says Rock. “I see us not as a sales-oriented operation, but more of a constructionand project-oriented company. I’ve always had this motto: if I’m selling to you and the guy down the street, both prices should be
the same. It’s just how we do business, and I think that’s been a part of our success."
“We’re not the cheapest in town,” Rock admits. “We know that. But we’re not artificially the most expensive, either. Ultimately, we’re a small family-owned company selling really good products, doing a really good install, and growing mostly by word of mouth.”
Every window installation is registered with the Siding and Window Dealers Association of Canada (SAWDAC), where Rock sits on the board. Rocksolid’s quality is assured— and its warranties are guaranteed—through the Association’s Window Wise program.
“For me,” Rock concludes, “the nice thing about what we do is every job is different: whether it involves a $3,000 door or a $30,000 door, every job is unique. I always love the challenge of getting myself into the customer’s head, understanding their real vision and desire, and then creating that for them.”
He smiles: “It keeps me invested. And when we can incorporate some of these new, high-profi le products, it really makes the whole team feel proud.”
Rocksolid Windows & Doors Ltd. is now located at 5327 Brendan Lane in Oldcastle. For more information, stop by the showroom, visit rocksolidwindows.ca, email sales@rocksolidwindows.ca, or call (519) 962-1000.
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The Great Canadian Flag at Riverfront Plaza
FLY WITH RYE
Photos by Ryan Ouellette
Ryan Ouellette, better known as Fly with Rye, brings photography and videography to new heights by capturing unique shots, offering perspectives unlike any other. Driven by the desire to “create the uncreated,” he explores the endless possibilities of drone photography to create breathtaking, one-of-a-kind visuals. His passion lies in taking something familiar and making it feel new, transforming everyday scenes into fresh, inspiring images.
“The magic of photography lies in the ability to capture new moments, new stories, and new visions of the world around us. Drones offer the freedom to capture angles that were previously out of reach,” Ryan explains.
The Great Canadian Flag at Riverfront Plaza
AS BEAUTIFUL AS YOU MAKE IT
Sunsplash Car Show Belle River
Yacht Club Sailing by Peche Island
Windsor's Riverfront Festival Riverside Windsor
THE SKY IS THE LIMIT
Whether it’s for locals, newcomers, or those who can’t be here physically, he strives to showcase the hidden gems of Windsor-Essex. Ryan believes, “the area is as beautiful as you make it,” and is passionate about revealing its unseen wonders through his lens.
The inspiration behind his work is a blend of curiosity and being in the right place at the right time. Always ready with a camera, he’s able to seize rare moments and spontaneous ideas, capturing fleeting glimpses of beauty that others might miss.
“A photograph is a secret about a secret. The more it tells you, the less you know,” his sentiment perfectly refl ects the mystery and magic behind every shot he takes.
Jackson Park Windsor
Point Peele Leamington
Peche Island (Windsor)
Congratulations to Jamie Mingay on his 2025 Professional of the Year nomination and his leadership in an exciting project that will bring Insurance Store and Ives Insurance together to create Navacord Ives this fall. Together with Navacord, they are building the Great Canadian Brokerage and raising the bar for customers in our community.
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WINDSOR-ESSEX REGIONAL CHAMBER OF COMMERCE
Happy 150th Anniversary to the Windsor Essex Chamber of Commerce. On behalf of City Council, and the City of Windsor – thank you for your commitment to Building Windsor’s Future by being a champion of a thriving business community built on innovation and partnerships. As a vital connector and advocate for the long-term business success of its members, the Chamber has helped position Windsor-Essex as one of the most important communities to watch in Ontario and Canada. Together, we’re supporting local businesses, ensuring our region is ready to seize opportunities and navigate challenges that come with unprecedented growth and development.
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SETTING A NEW STANDARD
NextGen Mold Technologies is raising the bar
By Devan Mighton
by Trevor Booth
Setting a new standard isn't easy—for most—but for NextGen Mold Technologies, setting a new tone for the mold making industry has become second nature. In only three years, the team behind NextGen has gone from acquiring a small and struggling mold business, rebranding it and giving it new life, to turning it into a powerhouse, working with some of the biggest names in manufacturing.
Their journey began a mere three years ago when they acquired Enterprise Mold in Windsor. A small shop, having been in the industry for over three decades, Enterprise was struggling with challenges due to under-investment and declining sales.
"Upon taking over in 2021, we invested in the machinery, both upgrading and replacing key components, which helped us quickly attract new customers," explains NextGen president Dennis Goggin. "Within three months, we expanded into our current 25,000 sq. ft. facility, continuing our commitment to growth."
NextGen specializes in plastic injection molds, primarily serving the automotive industry, consumer goods, as well as the aerospace industry.
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"For a three-year-old company, it still takes me back to look at the growth and the customer base that we have," says Goggin. "I never would have thought that we would be building direct for some of the coolest companies in the world like Tesla, Rivian, and SpaceX. Even our growth with the traditional OEM’s is astounding. We have had the opportunity to work on some really challenging and exciting projects and continue to be engaged in more."
For NextGen, the future is now. As a company, they offer their partners quick and effective turnarounds on all levels of service, including feasibility, design, mold manufacturing, repairs, and new tooling. The uniquely skilled team at NextGen is driven to push their equipment and tooling to new heights in their obsession to make better, faster, and more accurate ways to deliver their product to you, their customer.
“What truly sets NextGen apart is our team, the heart and soul of our operation,” explains Goggin. “I am confident in saying that we have some of the highest-skilled people in the industry, and our ongoing growth and consistent high-quality back this up. Another key aspect of our culture is the remarkable teamwork. We have a dedicated group of 70 individuals who arrive each day with a can-do attitude, fully aware of their daily goals and committed to achieving them. When challenges arise, our team members rally around those in need, providing support to ensure everyone can perform at their best. While we all work to earn a living and support our families, we believe that the time spent at work should also be engaging and enjoyable, making each day rewarding.”
NextGen’s well crafted team, combined with their obsession with customer satisfaction separate NextGen from their competition. According to Goggin, their team takes immense pride in their company’s growth, the reputation they’ve established, and the momentum they continue to build for the company.
With growth comes expansion, and NextGen remains committed to reinvesting in their facilities and their equipment to better serve their customers. Their main site,
located at 3293 St. Etienne Blvd. in Windsor, now boasts 25,000 sq. ft. of workspace, housing the companies’ design and mold manufacturing core. However, over the past year, NextGen has invested over $2 million in new equipment to enhance their capabilities and prepare themselves for larger and more complex projects in the future. NextGen’s growth and preparedness has already started to pay dividends, securing new projects, new customers, and unprecedented growth for the company. In addition, NextGen has added a third 6,000 sq. ft. building, dedicated solely to managing Low-Cost Country (LCC) programs, sequencing, and providing additional storage space for the company.
“This expansion not only increases our operational capacity but also supports our strategic objectives for future growth,” states Goggin.
What sets NextGen apart from the competition? Simply put, their team. “Our team doesn’t just build excellent molds, they are deeply committed to ensuring the success of our customers,” adds Goggin. “Their dedication to quality and customer satisfaction is the foundation of our company's success and continues to drive our forward momentum.”
Since coming on the scene in 2021, NextGen has quickly become a leader in the mold making industry through their commitment to quality, adaptability, and exceptional customer service. These commitments have rapidly shot the Windsor-based company to the forefront of the North American market in their discipline. Their exceptional capabilities in feasibility analysis, design development, and manufacturing–whether it be for engineering changes, repairs, prototypes, or production injection molds–have made them the envy of their industry. Importantly, their obsession with the needs of their clients, make them a one-stop shop for mold making.
“Our guarantee is our quality,” states Goggin. “Until our customer is successfully running at their facility and meeting their objectives, our job isn’t done.”
For more information on NextGen Mold Technologies, please visit their website at NextGenMold.com.
Confidence and the actions that encompass it are at the core of everything I teach. My mission is to help teens nurture that confidence within themselves because I’ve realized is that confidence is deeply rooted in us all—we’ve just forgotten how to access it.
GROWING PAINS
Local youth mentor gives teens the tools they need to live their most confident lives
By Layan Barakat
Be Brave. Trust Yourself. Take Action. Six words that built the foundation for one big movement.
“That affirmation came to me when I started my own journey, and I just knew there was something within me that needed to change,” explains Kristi Simons, a spiritual mentor for teens. “I was definitely searching for more, but I didn’t have that belief in myself yet.”
As a former teacher turned teen life coach, Kristi finds deep fulfillment in teaching teenagers the lessons she wishes she had known at their age. “It comes down to equipping them with the tools and life skills I needed so desperately in my youth. Confidence and the actions that encompass it are at the core of everything I teach. My mission is to help teens nurture that confidence within themselves because I’ve realized that confidence is deeply rooted in us all—we’ve just forgotten how to access it.”
Her approach to confidence-building is centred around four key areas: mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual (or self) energy. “When teens tap into these four key areas—being brave, trusting themselves, and taking action—I’ve seen incredible transformations. They are reconnecting with themselves and developing a strong foundation for the future.”
Simons acknowledges that confidence is a major struggle for many teenagers today, especially with the pressures of social media and the constant comparison it fosters. “Growing up as a teen today is vastly different from when I was their age, and I hear this so often from my clients. The external noise from social media keeps them stuck in a worry cycle where they can’t hear the actual truth of what they truly want for themselves. It all comes back to comparison and judgment, which consume their thoughts.”
One of her favourite concepts to teach teens is mindfulness and self-connection. “In my personal development and healing journey, the greatest shift happened when I started looking within and asking myself important questions. Even scheduling an hour per week for self-reflection can create incredible results. That’s where the magic happens.”
She emphasizes the importance of awareness, especially when it comes to thought patterns. “We talk a lot about how our beliefs create our thoughts, which in turn create our feelings, leading to the actions—or inactions—we take. As a teenager, I thought every thought I had was the truth. I didn’t have the awareness to recognize that many of those thoughts weren’t mine but were things I had absorbed from the world around me.”
This realization is key to the work Simons does with her clients. “Our brains are wired to keep us safe and understanding, that can help us navigate challenges with self-compassion. It’s not about having all the answers right now but about learning to navigate emotions and thoughts without letting them define us.”
Kristi believes open conversations between parents and teens can create deeper connections. “When parents acknowledge that they, too, struggled as teenagers, it allows for vulnerability and a more connected relationship. If parents don’t know how to start these conversations, I encourage them to introduce the concept of mental, physical, emotional, and self-energy.”
BE BRAVE TRUST YOURSELF TAKE ACTION
She breaks it down simply:
MENTAL ENERGY
The stories we tell ourselves and the language we use about ourselves. Shifting to self-love and confidence-based language can have a powerful impact.
PHYSICAL ENERGY
Our environment, movement, and how we fuel our bodies. Small, consistent actions in these areas help us feel better.
EMOTIONAL ENERGY
Understanding our emotions and why they arise. “Emotions are like the warning lights on a car dashboard; they’re signals trying to tell us something. Learning to recognize and honour these signals is key.”
SPIRITUAL (SELF) ENERGY
What we value, what excites us, and what we want to create. “I work with teens on a ‘Wouldn’t It Be Cool’ list—writing down things they dream about doing and then finding ways to integrate those feelings into their current lives.”
Kristi’s journey from teaching in the traditional school system to becoming a teen life coach was inspired by her own transformation. “After I had my son and hired my own coach, Heather Chauvin, it was the biggest gift I ever gave myself. Investing in coaching opened my eyes to things that weren’t being taught in schools. Teachers do an incredible job, but you can only teach what you know. I knew I needed to step away from the classroom to help teens in a different way.”
Kristi offers resources through her podcast, Confident Teen, and other free
materials for parents who may not be able to invest in coaching for their teens. “There are so many insights, wisdom, and knowledge available - teens don’t have to navigate this journey alone.”
Her core message remains simple yet powerful: “Be brave. Trust yourself. Take action.”
“Being brave starts with having the courage to write down what you truly want. Trusting yourself means leaning into discomfort and emotions. Taking action is about making small, intentional steps toward your desired life. It’s about reconnecting with yourself and embracing the confidence that has been within you all along.”
RIVER HONEY
IS SWEET ON WINDSOR’S GRITTY STYLE
The band celebrates their hometown in their debut album, Ultraviolet
By Gary May
Photos by Maximus Reid
Once upon a time, in an industrial city called Windsor, Ontario, four twenty-something musicians came together to start a band. They brought a mix of styles, but they agreed on one thing: their music must reflect the community’s gritty working-class character. And so was born River Honey.
This past winter they released their premier album, the self-produced Ultraviolet, and are in the initial stages of writing the music for another. You see, while many performers make their mark as cover bands, River Honey is determined to establish their own sound and their own songs. That’s why you won’t see them at a lot of venues just yet: they want to add to their catalogue before venturing out regularly.
You might say the band’s roots were planted a decade ago when two high school friends, Nico DiGiorgio and Nick Bondar, decided it would be cool to have a band. Problem was, “we didn’t know how to play any instruments,” says Nick. “Somehow I got stuck with drums and I taught myself to play.” Nico found himself at a Billy Talent concert and within days he picked up his first guitar.
The pair began hanging around with guitarist Dane Roberts, but as often happens with high school musicians, life’s realities intervened: they needed to earn a living. Nico went into heating and cooling, Nick became an integrity welder, and Dane opted for environmental research.
Somewhere along the way, Dane met a young woman named Madeline Doornaert, whose musical interests had taken her first into opera and then folk and jazz. Seven years ago, Dane and Madeline started writing and playing music, each appreciating what the other had taught them. Dane favoured the New Wave sounds of U2, while Madeline introduced Dane to Simon and Garfunkel. They started getting airtime on local radio.
Fast-forward to early 2024 when Dane started wondering what it would be like to get Madeline, a substitute high school teacher, together with the guys who first “ignited the musical flame” back in high school. Enter Nick and Nico. “Immediately we knew we could bring together friendship and music,” says Madeline.
In April they recorded the single, “Billy the Bronco.” Dane realized how his songwriting had progressed from the beginning and says, “having more ‘lived’ experiences, I guess I had more to say.” By last fall, they had enough original music for the album.
By the time Ultraviolet was released this past winter at Meteor lounge, the band already enjoyed a following, having been played on underground radio stations across the country. “Mainstream stations won’t even read your e-mails,” says Dane, “but thanks to the underground, we’re getting noticed by a lot of people.”
Mix 96.7’s Jay Marchillo noticed and introduced River Honey to his morning audience. Listeners noticed too. “But then they’re part of the local music scene,” he says, “and I don’t think it’s ever been stronger.”
The exposure seems to have worked. When they played Meteor, Nico says they were gratified to hear audience members singing along to their lyrics.
Ultraviolet is as varied as River Honey’s members themselves. With Dane’s lead
v ocals, Madeline’s support and a little backup from Nick and Nico, the album ranges from the hard driving “Tarantula,” through Dane’s autobiographical “Billy the Bronco,” and on to the softer, nostalgic sadness of “Constellations.” It reflects not only the harder rock and punk preferences of Nico and Nick, but Madeline’s Americana roots and acoustic guitar, plus the loving respect Dane holds for Gord Downie’s “perfect, intentional lyrics.”
Through it all runs the Windsor/ LaSalle band’s signature. “The idea we had with River Honey is if you listen closely, each song is filled with these grittier tones, more industrial sounding,” explains Dane. “Parts are rough around the edges, but there’s always this central unifying theme of warmth. You try to encourage optimism and resilience. We’re trying to be uplifting.”
So how did the band’s moniker come about? What does River Honey really mean? “Life is like a river,” Dane explains in a video they produced. “It twists, it turns, it can be messy. But when you’ve got the right people with you it can be sweet. Sweet like honey.”
Local Employee Benefits Expert Earns National Recognition
Jason Whiston has been recognized as one of the top 100 Chambers Plan representatives across Canada. This select group have met stringent qualifying criteria and will be honoured at Chambers Plan’s national conference in Halifax, NS, in September.
In the financial services industry for over 30 years, Jason is the exclusive Chambers Plan advisor for Windsor-Essex, Belle River, Harrow, Amherstburg and nearby communities. J.L. Whiston Financial Services Ltd. specializes in group benefits and financial services.
To speak with Jason Whiston, please call (519) 798-0550 or email jlwltd75@gmail.com
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WHERE DREAMS MEET PRECISION
By Jesse Ziter
LOCAL GAME MAKERS GAIN STEAM
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Windsor-Based developer prepares to debut on the world’s largest PC Gaming Platform
There’s more to Windsor’s “gaming” sector than Caesars.
An independent, self-sustaining computer game studio, iDream Interactive develops original software enjoyed by millions of users around the world. While iDream established itself as a social and mobile game developer, its newest product represents an exciting debut into traditional PC gaming.
The Drive spoke with Chief Executive Officer Jacob Duhaime and Chief Operating Officer John Charette to catch up on the exciting local developer.
Surprisingly, Duhaime and Charette both hail from North Bay, Ontario. While the two were high school acquaintances, their working relationship sparked in Essex County after—remarkably—both enrolled in St. Clair College’s awkwardly named “Tradigital” animation program. Duhaime and Charette struck up a quick friendship and “toyed with the idea of starting a company,” according to the former, but ultimately went their separate ways after graduation before reuniting years later.
Founded in June 2006, iDream Interactive’s fi rst client was the Ontario Ministry of Education. Duhaime, who studied Computer Science and Visual Arts at the University of Windsor after leaving St. Clair, used Adobe Flash—a now-defunct, web animation standard—to develop hundreds of differentiated learning modules and mini games for K-12 students.
Duhaime transitioned to publishing entertainment products for social media around 2010. Remember Farmville? A wildly popular free-to-play timewaster that lived within Facebook, it debuted in 2009. iDream’s Monster Farm, also published to Facebook, was a thematically distinct take on that familiar concept.
“It was a huge failure,” says a deadpan Duhaime. “We put $125,000 into it, but it quickly fi zzled out. However, one of the big bonuses of the experiences is it got us noticed by industry veterans.”
Specifically, Monster Farm garnered iDream a visit to Zynga, the creator of Farmville, in San Francisco. Duhaime returned home with an acquisition off er but ultimately turned it down to double down on his company’s independent ambitions.
Eventually, iDream hit the jackpot with a game called Slot Universe, which eventually attracted 100,000 players a day and over 4 million total users. On the back of that game, iDream “went from the basement of my home into becoming an actual development company,” says Duhaime.
To date, the 12-person outfit has published 15 titles, notably including 2015’s Recipe Rescue. The company has also developed projects with corporate clients like the online gambling giant PokerStars (beginning in 2018) and Churchill Downs, the Louisiana horseracing complex that famously hosts the Kentucky Derby.
Charette reconnected with Duhaime in 2020 and he joined iDream, “once the company started to blow up,” recalls Duhaime.
“Jacob has a much stronger artistic background than I do, but I have a computer background,” says Charette now. “We did and still do have this blended vibe. We work very well together.”
The studio is currently promoting the, “roguelike deck-building game” (ask a gamer in your life) Runeborn, its fi rst wholly original product in years.
The game is best understood through watching YouTube playthroughs, but, in short, it involves spinning slot-like columns to generate magical “runes,” then matching them strategically to cast spells that damage to opponents. Every “run” or play session is randomized, promising a unique gaming experience.
iDream was inspired by the runaway success of Balatro, a poker-based strategy game. “When that came out in February of last year, Jacob soon realized we could do something similar,” recalls Charette.
“Instead of using poker, we could use our experience to do something with a slot-machine mechanic.”
Importantly, iDream decided to move away from a casino aesthetic (“there’s a bit of ickiness around it,” in Charette’s words) in the direction of an attractive “dark fantasy” theme.
Currently available as a playable demo on Steam, the world’s premier online store and distribution platform for computer games, Runeborn will drop as a reduced-price “Early Access” product early this summer. The eventual full version will cost about $20 USD as a single, up-front purchase.
“It’s similar to Balatro, but it has its own vibe, its own feel,” says Charette. “People are digging it. We’ve seen a surge and we’re receiving a lot of great feedback we’re planning on integrating over the next three months.”
Importantly for our purposes, all that integration will happen right here in Windsor.
As you might expect, developing gaming products for a competitive global marketplace from Essex County has both challenges and benefits. “Our business is unique; there’s not a lot of community here to support each other,” notes Duhaime, who’s been slowly trying to do his part through initiatives like the WEtech ScaleUP program. “But it’s possible to grow a gaming company. It’s beneficial in the sense you get recognized easier when you’re the only one.”
forgive?SHOULD I
Forgiveness, often misunderstood, is neither a weakness nor an absolution of wrongdoing. It is a conscious decision to release resentment, anger, and the desire for revenge towards someone who has caused you pain. This reclamation of personal power is a dynamic process, unique to each individual. This article aims to illuminate a path towards forgiveness that resonates with you.
For starters, forgiveness cannot be forced. It is a common misconception that you can simply choose or decide to forgive. True forgiveness is not a switch you can turn on. It’s an organic process that takes time and effort by working through the pain, not by simply declaring it. False forgiveness, or going through the motions without internal change, is merely lip service. This prevents genuine resolution and disconnects people from their true feelings.
Forgiveness can be a difficult concept, especially for those who have suffered abuse or betrayal. I must emphasize that forgiveness does not mean overlooking or
condoning the actions of another person. Instead, forgiveness is a conscious decision to give up struggling against the past and wishing or wanting things to be different than what they are. It’s a mature and healthy decision to no longer let the past actions of another continue to control, wound or drain you of your vital energy.
Harbouring unforgiveness can stem from a desire to control the off ender’s future, as if by not forgiving, you can prevent them from living a good life. Ironically, the offender is likely unaware of your resentment and has already moved on. Unforgiveness harms you, not them; it’s like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. Forgiveness takes courage, as it involves dismantling the walls we’ve built for protection, but it can also be the key to freeing yourself from suffering.
My teacher and author the late Debbie Ford wrote in her book, Spiritual Divorce, "Forgiveness is the hallway between our past and our future. If you choose to hold onto your anger and resentments, you will
continue living a life from your past. What you can always expect when you live a life from your past is more of the same. But if you dare to walk through the door of forgiveness, you will step into a new room and new reality.” The unforgiving mind, full of fear and doubt, fi nds it difficult to allow love in. This creates a space where sadness and hopelessness thrive, leaving no room for reprieve. Consumed by anger and confusion, it is weakened by the constant search for danger. Trapped and afraid to move forward or stay, the unforgiving mind suff ers in the background. Holding onto this pain takes immense energy, yet releasing it can be incredibly challenging.
Forgiveness, an act of self-love, halts the cycle of negativity and brings peace and harmony. It is unconditional, asking nothing in return, and surrounds you and others in love. When forgiveness is complete, the past is forgotten, and there is no reference point from which to judge the present. With complete forgiveness comes total gratitude!
A wise young client of mine was struggling to forgive his mother, who had subjected him to significant emotional abuse without taking responsibility for her actions. I asked him what ‘forgiveness’ meant to him. This is what he had to say: “Genuine forgiveness is an exchange between two people. Forgiveness can occur when an off ender acknowledges their wrongdoing and shows remorse, and a victim is open to reconciliation.
"Both people can evolve and grow from the experience; it’s almost as if the victim grants the offender ‘permission’ to change.” I asked, ‘how do we know if the offender is genuinely remorseful?’ He responded, ‘I guess we don’t really know, both people have to take a risk at that point.’ I asked about the benefits of letting go of resentment. He explained that by coming to terms with what has happened, you can decide to let go of the pain, fi nd solace, and begin to grow and forgive yourself. I questioned, ‘forgive yourself?’ He responded that I should forgive myself for my weakness and lack of courage in establishing stronger boundaries. He also said that, to some extent, I believed her lies about me. He went on to say, there are two types of forgiveness: He explained that forgiveness can be both external, directed towards another person, and internal, encompassing feelings toward oneself and the person who caused harm. The teenager’s insightful grasp of forgiveness’s complexity impressed me.
His statement brought to mind an important consideration when contemplating forgiveness: I wouldn’t encourage forgiving someone for their wrongdoings without repentance. When someone takes full responsibility for their actions and offers a genuine apology, it is a sign of true repentance. This act of repentance is for their own benefit, not for yours. While receiving an apology can bring a sense of closure, accepting it does not obligate you to maintain a relationship with them. Choosing to keep them in your life without genuine repentance could lead to repeated offenses and further harm. Remember, true repentance is followed by a change in behaviour, not just empty words.
But must you forgive? Can it be healthier not to forgive?
Can you refuse to absolve your lover, spouse, parent, sibling or friend and still be emotionally healthy?
Initially, I intended to write this article promoting universal forgiveness as the morally correct and healthy option, and portraying unforgiveness as self-victimization. But, after researching and recalling a client who couldn’t forgive her stepfather for the countless nights he snuck into her bed and abused her, it was evident, some people need permission not to forgive. “Why do you think you have to forgive him, I asked gently?” She paused for a moment looking kind of perplexed and said, “I didn’t think I had a choice.” Forgiveness is often seen as necessary for a positive self-concept and ‘holiness,’ while unforgiveness is seen as unhealthy. True forgiveness should be based on a sincere desire to change. In my client’s case, not granting forgiveness to her abuser (who had no remorse), expresses her right to her own feelings. It was a hard-won freedom for her to recognize that she was under no obligation to off er forgiveness she didn’t feel. Forgiveness is a personal choice, not a requirement, and can be empowering for survivors.
Although forgiveness is frequently seen as the optimal approach to healing from past trauma, true forgiveness requires authenticity. It can be transformative and facilitate personal growth, while bypassing or ignoring painful feelings, unresolved wounds and unmet needs rarely leads to genuine resolution.
Forgiveness cannot be forced because an inability to forgive is directly tied to negative emotions which are a direct reflection of your perception and thus, never lie. They cannot simply be turned off. In order to change how you feel, you need to have a complete shift in your perspective. Once this organic shift occurs, forgiveness becomes the natural byproduct. Forgiveness intrinsically changes something in you, and you see the experience through a new lens. It is quite common for people to find themselves
feeling compassion for the person who betrayed them.
Forgiveness, which takes place internally, is similar to the grieving process. It is triggered by our willingness to experience our emotions without self-judgment. Anger, even rage, is a natural part of this process. It is crucial to express these intense emotions in a healthy way, such as through writing, dialogue, or physical activity. Giving a voice to our anger fosters self-empathy. True forgiveness does not involve suppressing anger but rather, it involves acknowledging and expressing our emotions.
To fi nd forgiveness, start by setting an intention. Visualize the relief you’ll experience once the weight of unforgiveness is lifted. Smile and feel gratitude for the liberation you’re about to experience. To help uncover your relationship story with the person you’re forgiving, and the emotions attached to it, ask yourself these questions and explore the answers:
What were the consequences of this relationship?
What am I angry about? What has me upset, frustrated and mad?
What is my sadness? What do I feel most sad about?
What do I feel ashamed about?
What shame am I still carrying?
What am I afraid of? What scares me most about the circumstances of this relationship?
What am I concealing from others?
What do I do to try to make myself feel better?
How do I protect myself?
What is my guilt? What do I feel guilty about?
Express your experience in vivid detail, using language that captures the intensity of your emotions. Re-examine your story and find a more empowering interpretation to help shift you from pain to power. If you’re struggling, consider seeking guidance from a mental health professional.
I’m Teri Gyemi, a passionate life coach with a strong love for human behaviour. My own flawed past and my will to understand the hidden impulses that led me there, as well as my unrelenting desire to serve others, is what inspired me to become a life coach. Equipped with my certifications from the late Debbie Ford of The Ford Institute for Integrative Coaches, 2 decades experience as a life coach, practice as a workshop leader and educator, I have successfully supported clients through a holistic approach in realizing and executing their goals, healing emotionally, reviving their relationships or uncouple from unhealthy ones. My hope is that something I write will encourage those in need to take a step toward positive personal growth. terigyemi.com | psychologytoday.com
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MAY 6 | Loose Goose Trivia Night | 7pm-10pm The Loose Goose (Walkerville)
MAY 7 | Mini Putt with Friends | 11am-12pm Colasantis Tropical Gardens
MAY 8 | Sports & Pop-Culture Trivia Night 7pm-9:30pm Factory House
MAY 9 | Mother's Day Stroll the Street 6pm-8:30pm Notre Dame St
MAY 10 | Mother's Day Market | 11am-5pm Fogolar Furlan Club of Windsor
MAY 11 | HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY
MAY 11 | Mother's Day Brunch Cruise | 12pm Windsor Premier Cruises
MAY 12 | Creative Cards - Butterfly Design 6pm-7pm W. F. Chisholm Public Library
MAY 13 | Mack Flash Trivia | 7pm-10pm Parks & Rec Gastropub and Sports Bar
CALENDAR
MAY 14 | WSO Guild: Fashion Show 11am-2pm Beach Grove Golf & Country Club
MAY 15 | Brews and Board Games | 5pm-9pm Walkerville Brewery
MAY 16 | 80's Dance Cruise | 6pm Windsor Premier Cruises
MAY 17 | 519 Day Party | 2pm-11pm WindsorEats
MAY 18 | Heritage Village Season Opening 10am-4pm The Canadian Transportation Museum & Heritage Village
MAY 21 | The New Yorker Roundtable 12:30pm-1:30pm Windsor Public Library Riverside Branch
MAY 22 | The Leamington Fair | 11am Leamington Fairgrounds
MAY 23 Windsor Rib And Craft Beer Festival 4pm-11pm Riverfront Festival Plaza
MAY 24 | FREE Family Fun Day | 10am-2pm Farrow Riverside Miracle Park
MAY 25 | Jazz Night | 6pm-9pm Walkerville Brewery
MAY 27 | 2025 Ontario Bike Summit Begins Caesars Windsor
MAY 28 | Live Poet's Society | 6pm-7pm Windsor Public Library Budimir Branch
MAY 29 | Trivia Night | 7pm-9pm The Manchester
MAY 30 | Amherstburg Open Air Weekends 3pm Downtown Amherstburg
MAY 31 | Woofa-Roo Pet Fest | 9:30am-5:30pm The Libro Sports Complex
JUN 1 | Board Game Sunday | 2pm-5pm North 42 Degrees
JUN 2 | Rainbow Scavenger Hunt | 12pm-8pm Windsor Public Library W.F. Chisholm Branch
LIVE
APR 25 | Live Music Friday with Allesandro 6pm-9pm Walkerville Brewery
APR 25 | DJ Chris James | 9pm-1am Cosmos Lounge, Caesars Windsor
APR 26 | Live Music - Rob & Kelly Sef 9pm-1am Colchester Ridge Estate Winery
APR 26 | Coming of Age | 9pm-1am Cosmos Lounge, Caesars Windsor
APR 27 | Live Music - Fresh Breath | 2pm-5pm Colchester Ridge Estate Winery
APR 30 | SUUNS with Bog Moss | 8pm Meteor
MAY 1 | Josh Johnson & The Joyful Noise Band @ Multicultural Gala | 6pm-9pm St. Clair College Centre for the Arts
MAY 2 | SHEBAD with MZTF | 8:30pm Meteor
MAY 21 | Acoustic Open Mic Night | 7pm-10pm North 42 Degrees
MAY 23 | Wicked Truth at Windsor Ribfest 7:30pm-10:30pm Riverfront Festival Plaza
MAY 25 | Bitters & Lost Charm | 8pm Meteor
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*Event details are subject to change. We recommend verifying dates, times and availability with the event organizers before attending. The Drive Magazine is not responsible for any changes, cancellations or inaccuracies.
