Sacramento Parent November 2018

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CONNECTING FAMILIES FOR 26 YEARS

CELEBRATING BABIES, BUMPS & FAMILIES! Fall Crafts for Curious Kids

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Medically speaking, listening is more than what the ears can hear.

You are unique. At UC Davis Health, that serves as the foundation and beginning of every interaction we have with you. Words alone often fail to tell your whole story. Real listening then, truly understanding, becomes something we do together. The result is always a better relationship – and, our research shows, a far better outcome.

We want to partner with you in your care. When it’s time to choose your health insurance this fall, make sure your health plan gives you access to a UC Davis Health doctor.

To learn more or to find one of our 17 clinics in 10 area communities, visit ChooseHealth.ucdavis.edu.

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November 2018

I love working with adventurous families who are up for anything. This family in particular is always excited to try something new, which is how we ended up doing a newborn shoot outside. My first and only one. Lucky for us we had an easy baby on our hands and he slept the entire time. Not the norm but I’m so glad it worked out and so happy with the photos!

Photography by: Crystal Jones Photography www.CrystalJonesPhotography.com

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departments

features

around town

19 CRAFTY

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28 CALENDAR

Gratitude Tree

21 SAFETY 101

Avoid Charity Scams

33 BOOK NOOK

Books That Send A Message

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Family Dynamic When A Sibling Has Special Needs

Celebrating Babies & Bumps!

New Mom Learns the Unexpected

What I Thought I Knew About Adoption

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Fall STEM Projects for Kids Should Infants Learn to Swim?

Fall Into Fun

30 SHOWS Ready, Set, Action!

32 ON DISPLAY Exploration Awaits

online exclusives this month Hidden Dangers in Popular Video Games Does My Baby Have ADHD?

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Charleen McDaniel • Charleen@SleepHappyBaby.com •

www.SleepHappyBaby.com

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Saturday, November 10th 9am to 2pm

Join us at Greater Sacramento's premier event celebrating pregnancy, babies and families!

Win amazing prizes, talk with experts, mingle with fairies, pirates and royalty, shop, laugh, dance and play...plus, free entertainment on stage throughout the day!

And to celebrate our 10th year, we are offering free tickets to ride the Folsom Valley Railway train. *Limited quantity, first-come, first-served.

Back by popular demand, bring your child out to the

Cover Kid Search for a chance to be featured on the cover of a future issue of Sacramento Parent!

Sacramento Parent believes in giving back to the community. This year a portion of the Babies and Bumps proceeds will be donated to Saint John's Program for Real Change.

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Planning our Babies and Bumps event always takes me down memory lane, but this year I am flooded with memories as I look at my girls, who all of a sudden are becoming so grown up!

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When they were babies, I spent a lot of time just doing the best I could to get by, but lately I have become more aware of those subtle moments when I need to pause to snap a mental image as the world around us continues to speed ahead at a seemingly record-breaking pace!

Parents, by all definitions, are fortunate to have these little people to teach life lessons and provide constant reminders to pause and find joy and wonder in the things we might miss as we rush through our routines and schedules.

Once again, we will gather this month to celebrate expectant parents, babies and families at Babies and Bumps! We hope to see you on November 10th at the Folsom Community Center from 9am-2pm. I will be there all day helping Crystal Jones Photography (the talented photographer who shot the cover this month) with the Cover Kid Search. This special day will be loaded with FREE fun, goodies and resources for young families and we can’t wait to meet you!

Happy Thanksgiving, too!

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5 Reasons To Not Miss Sacramento Parent’s 10th Annual Celebration of Babies, Bumps and Families!

Well technically, we can probably come up with over twenty....but after you read these five, we’re sure you’ll be as excited as we are!

The FREE Entertainment. There’s something for everyone at Babies and Bumps, so be sure to bring the whole family and tell your friends, too! Here’s a quick look at some of the special guests that will be bringing the FUN to this year’s event!

9:15am - Get moving with FIT4Mom, the nation’s leading prenatal and postnatal fitness program, providing fitness classes and a network of moms to support every stage of motherhood and help make moms strong in body, mind, and spirit. https://FolsomLake.Fit4Mom.com

10:00am - Bubblemania will captivate guests of all ages with their demonstration on the science and fun of bubbles, come see bubbles that are so giant you can fit inside of them! www.Bubblemaniaandco.com

11:15am - Puppet Art Theater Co. presents Three Billy Goats Gruff, it starts with the classic race of the Tortoise and the Hare. Hare, super speedy; Tortoise, slow and steady. The conclusion of the race takes place on the “Troll Bridge” waking up the Grumpy Old Troll. Three Billy Goats must find a way to outwit the Troll and get across the bridge so they can enjoy the field of green, green grass. Little Billy, his older sister Brittany, and their father Bruno all try to trip-trap their way across the bridge. Will they make it? http://PuppetArts.com/

Have you heard that there are REAL Faeries living in Sacramento? Happily Ever Laughter will be sprinkling faerie dust and cheer at Babies & Bumps. These faeries are also the magical kind that help parents make throwing parties stress-free by showing up with activities that keep children busy (so you don’t have to!) They’ll also be showing off some of their magical talents on stage in the twelve o’clock hour. https://HappilyEverLaughter.com The kiddos will be enchanted by Royal Dreams Entertainment, who will be bringing some very popular princesses and a charming prince, too. They are sure to leave lasting memories with all the children as they sing, dance and read stories in the one o’clock hour. https://www.facebook.com/events/341115963313257/?active_tab=about Throughout the day you’ll also want to come play with Dilly Dally the Clown, her award winning balloon animal creations are amazing! She can make any animal imaginable, and really cute, whimsical balloon hats. Her balloon twisting is a show in itself - lots of fun for everyone, including the adults! www.DillyDallyTheClown.com

The Prizes. While supplies last, guests will receive a goodie bag (courtesy of the tote bag sponsor, UC Davis Children’s Hospital) to fill with information, resources and tchotchkes. As you are greeted by the Sacramento Parent team when you walk in, each adult will also receive two free raffle tickets to take over to the prize table and enter to win AMAZING prizes! The prizes are plentiful many are valued at over $200, like these:

Nuna’s PEPP™ next stroller is ultra-compact, folds easily and is the ultimate space saver opening up to a fully loaded, sophisticated ride. With a complete canopy system, all-season seat, and spring suspension technology to boot, it’s no wonder this nimble number rivals that of a premium full-fledged stroller. (From birth to 50lbs) www.Nuna.eu/pepp-next-usa

PonyCycle is the first simulation animal toy in the world, no power needed. It exercises your child’s balancing and coordination abilities, and allows them to use their imagination. All products are environmentally friendly and made with high-grade fabric and sewing finish, making the toys soft and comfortable to ride on or play with. (Ages 3 to 5) https://www.amazon.com/PonyCycle-Official-Battery-Electricity-Mechanical/dp/ B01MQGK06C?

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The Resources. Over 50 local vendors that specifically cater to expectant parents and families will be there to answer questions. You can also shop the unique and local handmade goods and get a jump on your holiday list. See who’s coming at www.babiesandbumps.net/participating-vendors.html.

The Train Rides. You’ll want to arrive early because we will also be giving out train tickets for the Folsom Valley Railway steam train located right next to the Folsom Community Center. It is the only 12 inch gauge railroad remaining in the United States, and only one of seven miniature scale replica steam-powered railroads in public operation. The open car round trip ride lasts approximately 10 minutes, take a ride courtesy of Kaiser Permanente. (While supplies last).

The Sacramento Parent Cover Kid Search. It’s free to enter, simply join us at the Annual Cover Kid Search happening during Babies & Bumps. Check in at the Cover Kid Search booth with your child (ages 1 to 5) to receive a time slot with the talented Crystal Jones Photography, then feel free to enjoy the event while you wait for your chance to get in front of the camera and be discovered! Time slots are limited, arrive early. www.CrystalJonesPhotography.com

It’s all happening on November 10th from 9am to 2pm at the Folsom Community Center, rain or shine!

We can’t wait to see you there!

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A special shout out to the

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10th Annual Babies and Bumps sponsors.

Pop in on November 10th to say hello and thank them for their support in helping us make this a very special free and fun day for all!

Come celebrate with the team at Sacramento Parent and all of the wonderful businesses, entertainers and volunteers that are excited to be a part of this special event that will be giving back to Saint John's Program for Real Change.

Kaiser Permanente is proud to partner with Babies and Bumps to celebrate parenthood, pregnancy, and babies. Together, we are working to ensure that everyone has a healthy future.

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3 Things I Didn’t Expect as a New Mom

By Jennifer A. Rodgers

When you become a new mom that first year is filled with hard and fast lessons of how to care for your baby, how you respond in times of stress, and how incredible and amazing your little one is! Many of us are simply unaware of how different life is with a baby because it's often not how we expected it to be. Commercials and pictures with beautiful sleeping babies lead us to believe that it will be that peaceful and easy. The reality of our hungry, upset, or un-sleeping babies tell us differently!

Here are three things that I didn't expect with my first baby, and that I wish I knew.

Hopefully, these insights will help all of those new moms out there who are feeling a little shocked by this new and wonderful life change.

1) A new level of exhaustion - Many of us have experienced nights with a few hours sleep due to school or work or just having too much fun, and it was a bit painful, but we made it up and recovered. That is nothing compared to night after night of little sleep and constant exhaustion. You just do not feel like yourself when your body and your brain is lacking the necessary recovery time it needs from sleep; and not just one hour of sleep, I mean the uninterrupted time of continuous sleep when your brain actually goes through all sleep stages multiple times and you feel truly rested.

These feelings caused by sleep deprivation can be excruciating and like nothing you experienced before. I was certainly not ready for this new reality and it was difficult to accept. There is not much that we can do to prepare for how much or how little our babies will sleep, but knowing that it is hard and temporary (your baby will sleep more as he grows) can be reassuring. We all get through this exhausting time of infancy.

2) That my marriage would change Another aspect of motherhood that I did not want to face initially was that having babies will change a marriage. I liked my marriage and my spouse as they were; I did not want anything to change that.

We were happy and we wanted to stay that way. But, the reality is that any big and permanent change in a relationship will affect it, at least in the beginning, until those ripples of change can settle and the people in the relationship adapt.

(Change, good or bad, creates stress; and stress affects any relationship.) In this case, you and your partner created a life, literally, a living human being. Without the two of you, that new little human would not exist. You are both responsible for that, which is somewhat scary, but amazing too. After working out the kinks and discussing our ideas and values of parenting, our marriage got and continues to be stronger, but the first year was hard. Our beautiful baby caused a disruption in our lives and we had to work together to realize that we were in this together, for our baby and for us.

3) That I would need support - We've all heard the saying that it takes a village to raise a child, and as our kids grow we can see how true that is. Unfortunately, here in the U.S. we often are on our own raising our babies unless we have legions of family members nearby, and many of us don't. I discovered the hard way that doing it all on my own was hard on me, my baby, and my spouse. Accepting that I needed help and seeing those benefits was a hard and valuable lesson. A new moms' support group was my biggest outlet. Initially, when I saw the flyer in the packet from the hospital I thought, “Well, that’s nice for some new moms, but I think I’ll be fine.” Boy, was I wrong!

After battling exhaustion, postpartum hormones, depression and anxiety, as well as doubting myself and my abilities to be a mother, all the while wondering if our lives would ever be “normal” again, a weekly support group was a tremendous help to me. Connecting with others helps to relieve the overwhelming weight New Mom continued on page 13

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of these new responsibilities and why support is so important; however, it does not have to come solely from a support group. Local family or friends can be helpful; neighbors, coworkers, or people in your church (if you attend one) can also be a source of support. Don't be afraid to ask. Most people want to help, but don't want to be intrusive. And almost everyone loves holding a new baby, even if it's for a half hour while you run to the store (baby-free!).

Being a new mom is a very hard job!

However, it's also so commonplace in our

society that people don't often recognize how difficult it truly is. Give yourself a break, let go of all of those expectations, reconnect with your partner, and ask someone for help; you'll be surprised how these little things add up to making this transition with your baby easy and more enjoyable. It's hard to believe that they will be walking, talking, little people with their own minds and opinions, but it happens faster than any of us expect.

Give your baby a hug and yourself a rest, you both deserve it!

For more tips and stories for new parents, check out Jennifer Rodgers' book, "You Made it to Motherhood: A Guide for New Moms". Find it on Amazon or at http://jenniferarodgers.com/.

Jennifer Rodgers is a full-time mom and part-time writer who lives in the Sierra foothills with her husband, two children, and too many animals to count. In her spare time she can be found reading, knitting, or hiking with the dogs.

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What I Thought vs. What I Know about Raising Adopted Kids

By Judy M. Miller I love all of my kids (born to me and adopted by me) the same, with consistent limitlessness. Then again, if I'm honest that's not totally true. I love my adopted kids "more," because more is required.

My adopted kids arrived with invisible overflowing suitcases of tough stuff, issues inherent to adoption, spilling over into their and our daily lives. These issues stemmed from the losses of family, family history, and culture of origin.

I was confident in my ability to parent my kids, and I believed I had the basics down. But, I discovered that a number of my thoughts about parenting adopted kids would eventually be proven partially or altogether untrue, such as: 1. I never thought I would need to hold my child for hours while she sobbed her way into and around her birthdays, missing her birth mother. My experience was that birthdays were celebratory; she showed me they could be laced with pain.

What I know is love alone cannot negate any trauma my kids have experienced. However, honest dialogue, unending patience, and the gifts of time and perspective help immensely.

2. I thought loving my kids would be enough to get them through the rough patches of sibling squabbles, being bullied, mean girls, identity development, personal compass navigation, and adoption loss and grief.

What I know is loving my kids is the easy part. Staying ahead of them in their psychosocial stages is the challenging job.

3. I thought I would parent, more or less, independently or collaboratively with my husband, with occasional advice from more experienced parents.

What I know is I needed to compile a team of therapists and support people who would help me hone my emotion coaching and parenting skills. These professionals and support people would educate me about how to better address the traumas my children experienced from not having their most basic needs met.

What I also know is that I have come to appreciate the wise advice of my kids, at first wholly unsolicited but genuine, and later upon request. Their insights have been profound and honest, a good check to gauge my effectiveness.

4. I thought differences would not matter. I was oh-so-wrong. I was colorblind, entrenched in my white privilege.

What I know is differences matter greatly. We perceive our lives through these lenses of difference. To disregard our differences would be the same as turning our backs on who each of us is, who we are as a family unit, and how each of us contributes to and supports each other and our remarkable family.

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5. I thought I would be able to weave my adopted kids into my family history and stories. I was partially correct here.

What I know is that as my kids have become older, they have put the brakes on being integrated too deeply into the family. They accept those they know or have known personally as their bonafide family.

When I share with my daughter, "You are named for your great, great grandmother."

She responds, "Dad's great grandmother?"

I nod and think, "That would be a 'yes,' my child. Thank you for correcting me; we do not know the name of your great, great Chinese grandmother. I realize I have misstepped. I have muddled your identity formation."

6. I thought I could sit back and watch each child emerge. I found out otherwise when I said, "You're just like..." or "You remind me of ..." when speaking to my birthed son.

What I know is that comparisons of this nature do not belong in a family such as ours; comparisons of this nature are reminders of my kids' adoptive statuses.

7. I thought I would teach my children. And I do. Things like stranger-danger; wrong, right, and shades of gray; peer-predatory behavior; how to be a good friend; and think before you speak or act.

What I know is my kids have taught me far more-how to appreciate the small things, the soothing balm of a good belly laugh or a long puppy-hug, the importance of being in the moment, the beauty of grace, how to soften the messages a parent must impart with the purpose of safety, and the significance of our blended family.

I thought I knew a lot about parenting, but what I have realized is that I am challenged every day to grow, to examine how I raise my kids and who I am as their parent. Although I know more with each passing day, and definitely book-loads-and-countless-conversations more than 22 years ago, I am still a novice.

Judy M. Miller works with pre- and adoptive parents, equipping them with new techniques and information, and encouraging and empowering adoptive families through difficult times. She is the author of the internationally know parent guide, “What To Expect From Your Adopted Tween�.

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It’s All About the Kids

Storytime Theatre of Sacramento City College Proudly Presents

All proceeds will benefit local children foundations:

CHOU CHOU THE TALKING CAT Adapted and Directed by Doug Lawson

Saturdays & Sundays 12pm through November 18th Admission is $5 for all ages

cash & check only (at the door) Tickets may also be purchased online at CityTheatre.net (Children 2 and under FREE!) Group Rate for Parties of 15 or More, 20% Off! Please call 916.558.2174 to make arrangements.

(The group rate is not valid on opening day) Performances are located in the little theatre, room 106, of The Performing Arts Center (The corner of 12th Avenue & Freeport Blvd/ northwest corner of the Sac City College Campus) Sac City College now charges $2 for on-campus parking 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.Parking also available on 12th Avenue.

The performance on Saturday, November 3rd will be interpreted in American Sign Language.

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Gratitude Tree

By Lady DIY

With Thanksgiving approaching, gratitude is often on our minds.

While gratitude can be a tricky concept to teach youngsters, it’s also one of the most important. Being grateful shifts our focus from what is lacking or not ideal to what is already present and good in our lives.

Supplies Needed: White Construction Paper (4 pieces) Brown Construction Paper (1 piece) Watercolors in yellow, orange and brown Paintbrush Pencil Scissors Glue stick

Directions: Step 1: Using watercolors, paint one piece of white construction paper yellow, paint one piece orange, and paint one piece brown. Don’t worry about completely covering the paper-your leaves will look more interesting with some streaks. Allow the paint to dry completely.

Step 2: Cut out a tree trunk and simple branches from brown construction paper. Glue the tree trunk to the last piece of white construction paper.

Step 3: Using a leftover scrap of brown construction paper, create a leaf template that’s about one inch long.

Step 4: Trace the leaf template several times onto each of the watercolor-painted papers. To avoid visible pencil lines, trace onto the unpainted side of the paper. Cut out leaves.

Variation 1: For each day of November, ask your child to come up with one thing for which he or she is thankful and write it on a leaf. At the end of the month, you’ll have thirty leaves to glue to the tree.

Variation 2: If you’ll be seeing extended family or friends for the holiday, ask each person to write down one or two things for which he or she is thankful. Each leaf is then glued to the tree.

Bonus: Gratitude isn’t just for the month of November! At dinnertime each day, ask each family member to share “What are you most thankful for today?” This is great way to teach your kids (and to remind us adults!) to practice gratitude throughout the year.

Lady DIY lives in Rocklin and stays at home with her three boys. When she’s not too busy with DIY projects around the house, she enjoys gardening, fitness and living the glamorous life of a baseball/soccer/football mom.

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safety 101

GIVING THANKS: AVOID CHARITY DONATION SCAMS

By Rob Baquera, Public Information Officer Roseville Police Department

It’s November, a time for giving and sharing. Many of you may consider making a donation to a charitable organization. There are so many charities around that it can be difficult to choose which to sponsor. Before you open up your checkbook or pull out your credit card, you may want to do a little research. Some “charities” may actually be scams or may not be upfront about who is actually benefiting from your donations.

For example, you may have heard the Kars4Kids advertisement on the radio and may even have their jingle stuck in your head. But do you know how many kids benefit, exactly which kids will benefit, and how they are helped? Our research showed 90% of the monies donated go to a New Jersey based organization/charity, which operates Jewish youth summer camps in New York. We’re not suggesting this is a good or bad charity, just that it has a very specific population that benefits from a donation.

According to scamwatch.gov, some warning signs of a charity scammer include: • You’ve never heard of the charity before, or it is well-known but you suspect the website, email or letter may be fake. A fake website may look almost identical to a legitimate charity site, changing only the details of where to send donations.

• The person collecting donations on behalf of the charity does not have any identification. Remember, even if they do have identification, it could be forged or meaningless.

• You are put under pressure to act, in some cases you’re made to feel guilty or selfish if you don’t want to donate.

• You are asked to provide a cash donation as they don’t accept checks. Or, they want the check to be made out to them rather than to the charity.

• You are not given a receipt. Or, they give you a receipt that does not have the charity’s details on it.

Be very careful about donating to a charity based solely on their name. Some “pop-up” charities will appear, rake in a few thousand dollars from unsuspecting individuals, and disappear. Then there are the professional long term operations such as “Kids Wish Network,” “Children’s Wish Foundation International,” and “Children’s Cancer Fund of America.” According to the website smartasset.com, these charities are among the top 10 worst offenders and account for more than 1.35 billion dollars in donations, of which 970 million dollars went to the administration who collected the money not to victims.

It might be helpful to research a charity you’re interested in sponsoring by looking them up on an independent charity watchdog website such as Charity Watch. Charity Watch performs in-depth evaluations on complex charity financial reporting and gives each charity a letter grade efficiency rating ranging from A+ to F. Many charities receive great benefit from generous donors; take a little extra time to ensure your dollars end up in the right hands. sacramentoparent.com NOVEMBER 2018 21

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Fall STEM Projects for Curious Kids

By Pam Molnar

Hey Mom and Dad! You know the fun doesn’t end just because summer has ended and Halloween is behind us. If your kids are curious, like to get dirty and enjoy the magic of science, we have ten great seasonal science experiments for you to try with your kids.

1. Where does the Water Go? Before the leaves change colors and start to fall, grab a few green leaves directly off the tree. Place the stems of the leaves in a mixture of water and red food coloring.

You can see how the leaf absorbs the water as the color moves through the leaf.

Photograph and document the progress over the next 24 hours.

2. Candy Corn Lava Lamp Pour 1 cup of water into a large mason jar. Add orange food coloring and mix together. Slowly pour in three cups of vegetable oil and let the mixture settle for 20 minutes. Then add an effervescent tablet into mixture and watch the colored bubbles move around like a lava lamp.

3. Apple Volcanos If you are looking for ways to use up the bad apples this fall, why not make a volcano? Cut out the center of a whole apple and fill with 1 ½ tablespoons of baking soda and a few drops of red food coloring. Place the apple in a bowl to catch the “lava”. Slowly pour vinegar into the center of the apple and watch it erupt.

4. Seed Bombs Gather newsprint, tear into small pieces and cover with water. After they have soaked for 30 minutes, add mixture to a blender to create a pulp. Mix with seeds you harvested from your summer flower garden and squeeze out excess water.

Form into small balls and let dry completely. In the spring, drop seed bombs in areas that need a little color and they will plant themselves. They also make great gifts!

5. Pumpkin Science Compare two or more similar sized pumpkins by weighing, measuring the circumference, comparing the color, the thickness of the shell and the number and size of the seeds. Before cutting them open, you can also see if they will sink or float by placing them in a bucket of water. Let the kids make predictions before each comparison.

6. Candy Corn Buildings Use leftover candy corn (they usually go on sale right after Halloween) and toothpicks to create buildings, towers, bridges or whatever your engineer desires. You can even “bling up” your creations by adding beads to the toothpicks before adding the candy corn to contain them.

7. No one likes Brown Apples There are so many methods for preventing sliced apples from turning brown, but which one works the best? Place a cut apple in each of these solutions: ginger ale, salted water (1/2 teaspoon salt to a cup of water), vitamin C crystals or chewable C vitamin, apple juice, lemon juice, honey water (1 tablespoon honey to a cup of water) and plain water. Compare the results.

9. Oozing Jack-o’-Lantern Have a few freshly carved pumpkins leftover from Halloween? Carve a face into a pumpkin (if you haven’t already), removing the pieces from its eyes, nose and mouth. Next, cut a hole in the bottom of the pumpkin, large enough to fit the pumpkin over a disposable cup. Fill the cup with 1 cup of water, a squirt of dish soap and 3 tablespoons of baking soda.

Place the pumpkin over the cup. When you are ready, quickly pour ¼ cup of vinegar into the cup, replace the top of the pumpkin and stand back. The solution will ooze from the pumpkin face. This is definitely an outdoor project!

10. Fire Pit Color Soak 2 pinecones in a mixture of water and 1 pound of salt. At the same time, soak 2 pinecones in water and 1 pound of Borax. Take them out after 30 minutes and let dry completely. When they are dry, place the pinecones into a fire pit and watch the color differences. (Salt burns yellow and Borax burns green.)

Pam Molnar is a writer and mother of three curious kids. Follow her creativity on Etsy at Pam’s Party Printables.

8. Make Pumpkin Gut Slime Create a simple sensory toy with the pumpkin guts and seeds, two bottles of clear Elmer’s Glue, 1 1/2 teaspoon of baking soda and 2 tablespoons of contact solution. Knead it together until it is no longer sticky. Refrigerate when not using and don’t keep for more than a few days.

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How Having a Sibling With Special Needs Affects Other Kids in the Family

By Christy C.

All children require a certain amount of care and nurturing, but that amount can be double or even triple for a child with special needs. One of the biggest worries for many parents is how one child’s disability will affect other kids in the family. Siblings may feel deep love for their brother or sister with a disability and take pride in their role as protector, helper, and advocate. But when it comes down to it, they’re still just kids. Kids get mad, throw tantrums and need a great deal of patience, affection (and attention) to thrive. It can be hard for a small child to understand that parents simply cannot provide all of the attention that they want because they’re busy caring for the child with special needs.

In our experiences, siblings of kids with special needs become exceptionally compassionate, responsible, and loving people as they grow. But that’s not to say there aren’t challenges.

WONDER-FILLED YOUTH Children are well known for their sense of wonder, of delight and interest in things that adults simply accept as an everyday part of life.

Siblings of a special needs child are often able to keep this childlike feeling for much longer than other children, due to their proximity to an individual who experiences these feelings every day.

Developmental milestones are always something to be celebrated, and when brothers or sisters are able to participate in helping their sibling achieve they see the true joy of helping and uplifting others. The

positive effect throughout their childhood and youth is difficult to put into words, but simply watching these families together shows the deep and enduring bond that is created between siblings.

GROWING IN COMPASSION Compassion for others is not something that everyone is born with; it must be nurtured throughout childhood and reinforced throughout our lives. Parents of multiple children find that all of their children exhibit grace, compassion, and patience in greater measures than other children. The ability to see their special needs sibling as

someone deserving of love, care and acceptance provide siblings with a compassionate nature that only expands as they grow older to include others with different abilities. The sense of tolerance extends beyond family boundaries to helping others with special needs children, even if it’s only with a smile and a kind word when you see someone who is struggling.

A SENSE OF INDEPENDENCE Children naturally wish to become more independent as they age, but siblings of children with special needs will find a special appreciation for their ability to become

independent and place more value on the trait. Their siblings with severe intellectual disabilities, speech or other developmental delays may never know what it means to completely care for themselves and will always be dependent upon others for their care. Siblings that grow up and move away from home will truly realize the freedom that they have is a gift, and one that shouldn’t be taken for granted. That sense of independence becomes even stronger when they see that their special needs family members may never have an Dandelion continued on page 27 sacramentoparent.com NOVEMBER 2018 25

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to get some more attention and time with parents and other authority figures.

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opportunity to fall in love, go to college, have a career or travel the world.

A LESSENED SENSE OF SELF When you are focused on meeting the needs of a special sibling, it can be difficult if not impossible to spend time with your other family members. This can cause loneliness, withdrawal and even cause siblings to feel that their problems or concerns are being marginalized. While this is unlikely to be the case, that still doesn’t change the way it feels to a child. Some children are simply unable

to attend special events such as birthday parties or special recitals, causing one parent to stay home while the other attends an event with siblings.

Siblings may feel that their small problem, such as a bad

day or a bullying incident at school, isn’t important enough to share since their special needs brother or sister requires constant and intensive care. Conversely, siblings may begin to act out in order

Overall, there are additional challenges with being the sibling of a special needs child, but there are significant benefits as well. What you must always remember is that a sibling is still a sibling, regardless of their abilities. Your children will let you know when they need additional attention, but it can be helpful to set aside even 10-15 minutes per day to spend with each child. This special time helps them through all the other times that may include some difficulties.

Christy C. is a stay-at-home mom who gives music lessons part-time. She and her husband have two kids, a 12-year-old daughter who is academically gifted and a 6-year-old son who has Down Syndrome and autism. Christy volunteers with her local Down Syndrome organization and leads a music therapy playgroup once a month. She is also a co-creator of Wonder Moms, a project by three moms to share real talk, helpful information, and practical advice with parents of kids who have intellectual disabilities, Down syndrome, autism, language and speech delays, deafness, chronic illness, and traumatic brain injury, http://wondermoms.org.

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Fall Carnival

Challenger Community Mission

Punkin Chunkin

4pm at Sunrise Mall

6pm at Powerhouse Science Center

10am at World of Wonders Science Museum

Sometimes plans change, don’t forget to check the event’s website before you go!

Families of all ages can enjoy Midway of Fun carnival rides and games.

(Through Nov. 4, times vary daily.) http://SunriseMallOnline.com

Bring a pumpkin to the museum and turn them into projectiles. http://WowScienceMuseum.org

There’s a lot to be thankful for this time of year. Here’s a roundup of the region’s top fall outings to help you celebrate the blessings of family and friendship.

Garden Lab for Kids

Launch into space and discover what it’s like to work for NASA. Simulated space missions are for ages 9+.

Pre-registration required. https://PowerhouseSC.org

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10am at Sierra College’s Natural History Museum

4pm at Rancho Cordova Library

Children are invited to hang out in the library’s garden after school and learn how to grow food, battle bugs and build planters. www.SacLibrary.org

8 Food Truck Mania 5pm at Vernon Street Town Square

Head to Downtown Roseville for an easy dinner and live music. www.Roseville.Ca.Us

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Mountain Mandarin Festival 11am at Gold Country Fairgrounds

Featuring over 200 vendors, live entertainment, mandarin foods, pony rides, a petting zoo and more. www.PlacerGrown.org

10th Annual Babies & Bumps 9am at the Folsom Community Center

Kids Night Out with Mickey

9:30am at Sacramento Zoo

6pm at Color Me Mine, Rocklin

Learn about Africa and its animals at the Zoo. (Ages 3-5) http://SacZoo.org

Kids will watch a movie, paint, eat treats and play games to celebrate Disney’s Mickey Mouse. https://Rocklin.ColorMeMine.com

Fall Colors

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Kick-off Thanksgiving Day with a 5K or 10K race. Costumes and canned food donations encouraged. www.Roseville.Ca.Us 1st Annual Turkey Trot 8am at Home Depot in Lincoln

Join the City of Lincoln for their first annual Turkey Trot. Participate in the 10K, 5K or Fun Run for kids. www.Facebook.com/ events/1713137598797362/

29 Christmas Tree Lighting 6pm at Vernon Street Town Square

Decorate cookies, visit with Santa, play in the activity zone, hear live music and eat yummy food. It’s even forecasted to snow! Stay for the tree lighting. www.Roseville.Ca.Us CTE Expo 5pm at La Sierra Community College in Carmichael Jurassic Quest, Nov 30-Dec 2

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Little Peeps: Pre-K

Roseville Turkey Trot

Kids Night Out: Spirit, November 16th

Open through the holidays, this ice skating rink offers old fashioned fun. http://HistoricFolsom.org

Discover the heritage of the Maidu, then, hike to find acorns and indigenous foods and study prehistoric grinding stones. (Ages 6+). http://SierraCollege.edu

10am at Sutter Street Parking Garage

The premier event celebrating pregnancy, babies, and families. Win amazing prizes, see live performances, shop, laugh, dance and play! http://www.BabiesAndBumps.net/

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Historic Folsom Ice Rink Opening

Free First Saturdays at the Museum: Native Maidu

Join San Juan Unified’s Career Technical Education Expo to learn about their tuition-free career training for students, including pathways into media production, public safety, medical technology, engineering and more. www.SanJuan.edu

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10:30am at Effie Yeaw Nature Center

2018 Sacramento Harvest Festival

Create colorful fall art by making leaf rubbings. Learn how leaf shape and size help to identify trees. www.SacNatureCenter.net

10am at Cal Expo

Special Needs Movie Screening

Shop for holiday gifts, including handmade art & crafts featuring photography, fine jewelry, specialty food, wood art and more! Nov 16-18. http://www.HarvestFestival.com/

23 ThankZoo 10am at Sacramento Zoo

All ages receive a child-priced admission of $9.95 on the day after Thanksgiving. Enjoy unscheduled enrichments and watch the zoo’s residents eat and play with pumpkins. http://SacZoo.org

30 Jurassic Quest 3pm at Cal Expo

This unforgettable event features an extensive dinosaur exhibit with trueto-life dino models, science and craft stations, a dino cinema, rides and tours. November 30-December 2. www.JurassicQuest.com Folsom Christmas Tree Lighting 6pm at Historic Folsom’s Plaza

Enjoy singing, dancing and other fun activities throughout the evening. The tree lighting is at 7:30pm in the center of the ice rink. http://HistoricFolsom.org

11am at Studio Movie Grill, Rocklin

A special movie time with dim lights on and lower volume. Kids are free to move around and dance. http://StudioMovieGrill.com

17 Old Fashioned Christmas Craft Fair 10am at Cameron Park Community Center

Get a jump start on holiday shopping where you’ll find handmade crafts. www.CameronPark.org Family Nature Hike 10:30am at Placer Nature Center

Learn about turkeys and the role they play in our environment. $8 per family. http://PlacerNatureCenter.org Art on the Spectrum 9am at Crocker Art Museum

Children on the autism spectrum will have an opportunity to participate in art activities, gallery experiences and music therapy. Advanced registration is required. (Ages 3-12) http://CrockerArt.org

24 Great Gobblers!

10:30am at Effie Yeaw Nature Center

Take a walk with a nature docent to learn about wild turkeys. www.SacNatureCenter.net

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4 Piggies and Pumpkins and Pie, Oh My! 10am at Blackberry Creek Farm Animal Sanctuary

Bring pumpkins to feed to pigs, take a sanctuary tour, eat pie and enjoy a magical day. See the website for more details. www.Facebook.com/ events/1373790789420013/

11 Veterans Day Parade 10:45am at Downtown Auburn

This fantastic parade includes a patriotic ceremony, a fly-over (weather permitting) and a rifle salute, followed

by TAPS. See the website for parade route details. www.VisitPlacer.com Veterans Day 10am at Fairytale Town

Active duty military, veterans and their families receive half-price admission. http://FairytaleTown.org Military Family Day 10am at Sacramento Zoo

Military personnel, veterans and their families receive a 50% discount on admission with a valid military identification card. http://SacZoo.org

18 Oh Deer!

1:30pm at Effie Yeaw Nature Center

Take a docent-led walk to spot deer and learn more about their world. www.SacNatureCenter.net

25 Rancho Cordova Community Christmas Tree Lighting 4pm at Village Green Park

Free hay, train and amusement rides, live music, a visit with Santa, snow and more. www.CordovaCouncil.org Palladio Tree Lighting 5pm at Palladio Folsom

Hosted by KOVR’s Christina Janes, this tree lighting ceremony includes free refreshments, live performances and a visit with Santa. http://GoPalladio.com

5 Santa Photos All day at Sunrise Mall

Kids can get their photo taken with Santa at the mall through December 24. http://SunriseMallOnline.com

Luv2Play $5 Preschool Play Hours 9am to noon at Luv2Play Mondays and Tuesdays from 9am to noon and after 5pm to close, kiddos 5 and under can play for just $5. Steal of a deal. Happening every week! https://Luv2Play.com/folsom/

12 Cosmic Glow-in-the-Dark Bounce 4:30pm at BounceU of Roseville

Enjoy 30 minutes in the 1st bounce room with regular lighting and 30 minutes in the second room with cosmic lighting. Glow necklaces provided. Reservations recommended. www.Bounceu.com Little Friends Open Gym 10am to noon at Folsom Sports Complex

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All Day at BusyKidz Folsom

Just walk in and have some discounted fun (ideal for kids under 10 years old). www.Facebook.com/pg/ BusyKidzFolsom/

Luv2Play $5 Preschool Play Hours 9am to noon at Luv2Play

Self-guided Museum Tour

Mondays and Tuesdays from 9am to noon and after 5pm to close, kiddos 5 and under can play for just $5. Steal of a deal. Happening every week! https://Luv2Play.com/folsom/

10am at Aerospace Museum of California

13 $2 OffTuesdays at Sacramento Children’s Museum 9am at Sacramento Children’s Museum

Explore, create and learn with handson activities, art, experiments and imaginative centers. www.SacKids.org $5 Tuesdays 10am at Studio Movie Grill

Story Time at Face In A Book

What’s better than stories, songs, and jammies? (All ages) www.ElDoradoLibrary.org

19 All Aboard for Story Time 11am at California State Railroad Museum

Join this world-class museum each Monday for story time. Free with paid museum admission. (Ages 2 to 5) www.CaliforniaRailroad.museum

26 Open Play 9am at Tiny Tumblers

Your tot will love exploring this center’s gym and playroom so much that she may never want to leave. (Ages 4 and under) http://TinyTumblersOnline.com

20 Pajama Storytime 6pm at El Dorado Hills Library

Chess Tournament 12pm at South Natomas Library

All skill levels are welcome to play at this chess tournament. Prizes will be awarded. www.SacLibrary.org

27 Family Night 5:30pm at Cool River Pizza

On the 4th Tuesday of every month, a special guest walks around to the tables, then gathers the kids for stories, songs, dance and/or hero training. https://www.facebook.com/ events/213478482747985/

Meet some of the animal residents at the Nature Center and learn about their unique journeys. www.SacNatureCenter.net

With over 50 historic airplanes on display, many of which your kids can climb aboard, this self-guided tour is worth the drive. http://AerospaceCA.org

14 Ice Rink Story Time 11am at the Downtown Sacramento Ice Rink

Join Mr. Nate for songs, stories and play designed to build early literacy skills. Children 3+ are welcome to stay for story time free of charge, followed by private ice skating (at a cost). www.SacLibrary.org

21 Tween Book Club 4pm at Rancho Cordova Library

Listen to an audiobook while working quietly on crafts and puzzles. Snacks provided. www.SacLibrary.org

28 Opening Night of the Tree Grove 6pm at Vernon Street Town Square

Come see the opening night of the Tree Grove, where businesses, organizations and clubs have decorated trees in the town square. Stay for story time, Christmas crafts, live music, food and a visit with Santa. www.Roseville.Ca.Us Open Art Studio 3:30pm at Sylvan Oaks Library

Create art freely! Paints, beads, threads and other art supplies provided. www.SacLibrary.org Sacramento Children’s Museum Yoga Play 3:30-4pm at Sacramento Children’s Museum

Creature Feature 1:30pm at Effie Yeaw Nature Center

BusyKidz - $7 Day

Explore the art studio during open play hours for $8. Dress for a mess. (18 months to 8 years old) http://ArtBoxFairOaks.com

Going to the movies mid-week is an excellent idea, especially with $5 specials all day long! www.StudioMovieGrill.com

Enjoy stories, songs, and fun for kids of all ages (and their big people)! www.GetYourFaceInABook.com/

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9am at The Art Box

Your preschooler will have all kinds of fun with bounce houses, tricycles, hula-hoops, and other play equipment.

(Children must be accompanied by an adult/guardian age 18+.) http://www.Folsom.ca.us/ city_hall/depts/parks/events/programs/preschool/gym.asp 10am at Face In A Book

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This class on Wednesday afternoons uses games, stories, and play to explore posture, balance, and breath. https://SacKids.org/ programs-events/ ongoing-programs

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It’s always a good idea to check the website before you head out!

Broadway Sacramento presents On Your Feet!

Through November 4, presented by Broadway on Tour at Community Center Theater A musical about Emilio and Gloria Estefan, who came to America from Cuba and broke through all adversarial barriers to become some of the most popular musicians in history. www.SacramentoCommunityCenterTheater.com

Disney on Ice: Celebrating 100 Years of Magic

November 1-4 at Golden 1 Center This magical event features over 50 of our favorite Disney characters, skillfully and joyfully skating and singing to our favorite songs. http://DisneyOnIce.com

Annabelle Broom, The Unhappy Witch

Through November 4 at The Woodland Opera House Annabelle Broom is an unusual witch who would rather help than harm. Her rivals, tricky witches who oppose her helpful desires, nearly cause Annabelle to lose her “haunting card” after she decides to help two lost children. But, good triumphs over evil and all ends well. http://WoodlandOperaHouse.org

Little Women

November 3-December 2 at Sutter Street Theatre This play, which is based on the book by Louisa May Alcott, closely follows the lives of four sisters—Meg, Jo, Beth and Amy—and their next door neighbor, Laurie, as they grow up and discover love, loss and all things in between. http://SutterStreetTheatre.com

Akram Khan Company

November 4 at Mondavi Center, Davis Choreographer Akram Khan mixes dance, visuals, sounds and text to tell a family-friendly, cross-cultural story of a young man’s dreams and his life, from Britain to Bangladesh. www.MondaviArts.org

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Footloose, the Musical

November 2-10 at Valley Springs Church Ren McCormack, a teenager from a big city, moves to a small town in the Midwest with his family, where rock music and dancing have been banned.

His rebellious nature and love for dance stirs up conflict in this small town, but he eventually gets his way and is able to loosen up the uptight townspeople. Recommended for teens, ages 13-19 years old. www.CYTSacramento.org

Miracle on 34th Street

November 16-December 9, presented by City Theatre at Sacramento City College Adapted by Mountain Community Theatre from the novel by Valentine Davies, this play tells the magical tale of Kris Kringle, an old man who gets a job as Santa in a Macy’s store. He finds himself in court after Macy’s wants to fire him for directing customers to other stores to find the perfect toy for each child. He ends up being declared the true Santa by the court, helping many children to continue to believe in the magic of Santa. http://CityTheatre.net

Three Billy Goats Gruff

November 10 at Folsom Community Center Puppet Art Theater will be at Sacramento Parent’s Babies and Bumps Event, taking the stage at 11:15am. This free production starts with the classic race of the Tortoise and the Hare. Hare, super speedy; Tortoise, slow and steady. Who will win? The conclusion of the race takes place on the “Troll Bridge” waking up the Grumpy Old Troll.

Three Billy Goats must find a way to outwit the Troll and get across the bridge so they can enjoy the field of green, green grass. Will they make it? www.BabiesandBumps.net

Chou Chou the Talking Cat

Through November 18 at The Performing Arts Center, Sac City College Adapted and directed by Doug Lawson, this production is for all ages. http://CityTheatre.net

Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer: The Musical

November 19-23, presented by Harris Center Kids of all ages will love the classic tale of Rudolph, a red-nosed reindeer who overcomes bullying by the other reindeer because of his unique nose and rises to stardom as Santa’s favored and most important reindeer. http://HarrisCenter.net

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A Christmas Carol

November 28-Dec 23 at Sacramento Theatre Company Ebenezer Scrooge, the greediest of men, learns to change his ways after he is visited by the Ghost of Christmas Past, Ghost of Christmas Present and Ghost of Christmas Future. www.SacTheatre.org

A Midsummer Night’s Dream

November 9-11 at Roseville Theatre Arts Academy Based on William Shakespeare’s popular play, this performance depicts the comedic tale of the marriage of Theseus, the Duke of Athens, and his wife, Hippolyta, a past queen of the Amazons.

The plot also includes the quirky adventures of Athenian lovers, amateur actors and forest fairies who manipulate the actors. (Ages 10+) www.RosevilleTheatreArtsAcademy.com

Alan Menken's “A Christmas Carol”

November 2-December 10 at Davis Musical Theatre Company Presented by Young Performers’ Theatre, this adaptation of Charles Dickens’ beloved story captures hearts and imaginations as the audience watches the life of Ebenezer Scrooge come under question by the ghosts of Christmas Past, Present and Future. Their insight changes Scrooge’s outlook on life and helps him to become a generous, loving person. https://DMTC.org

Annie

November 30-December 16 at Rocklin Community Theatre The audience will love watching the story of Annie unfold as she overcomes hardships and inspires the hearts of those around her. (Ages 8+) http://RocklinTheatre.org

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Our Solar System: An Interactive Journey Through January 9 at Aerospace Museum of California

This interactive, hands-on exhibit teaches kids of all ages about the science and wonder of our solar system. The exhibit features hands-on STEM stations such as a solar system touch wall and planet information station, as well as entertaining visuals and interactive technology. https://AerospaceCA.org Forces: Earth & Space

“Celebración de Almas: Día de Los Muertos 2018” Through December 9 at California Museum

This new exhibit, featuring art and installations by local California artists, depicts the Mexican tradition of Día de Los Muertos, a celebration that honors loved ones who have passed away. The exhibits showcases colorful sugar skulls, altars of the dead and traditional offerings. www.CaliforniaMuseum.org

Now open at Powerhouse Science Center

American Beauty and Bounty

Discover the forces of the universe—gravity, matter and energy—as you explore interactive exhibits that demonstrate the awesomeness of outer space with your child. https://PowerhouseSC.org

Through January 27, 2019 at Crocker Art Museum

A collection of 19th-century American paintings that includes landscape and still-life paintings, as well as scenes of daily life in America from that time period. www.CrockerArt.org “Esther” by John S. Huerta. Courtesy of the artist.

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Books That Send A Message

By Shannon Smith

Well Said, Kids.

Can You Hear Us Now?

Just Be You. Figley vs. the Mookling Hat

JoAnne Jeffers Veeck sent in a review copy of this unique book that was written and illustrated by children and I wanted to share it this month as we give thanks, reflect on the events over the course of the past year and start mapping out our hopes and wishes for the year ahead.

One of my all-time favorite covers of Sacramento Parent came from local artist, Ryan McCulloch, chief artist, designer and co-writer for Mutasia® Children’s Entertainment. I am excited to share Mutasia’s new release, “Figley vs. the Mookling Hat”. I love the message and the fun characters:

“Can You Hear Us Now?” shares “valuable messages to help wipe out bullying, become your best self, and find happiness that lasts forever,” from the perspective of our youth. Read it to be reminded of a child’s perspective—it’s candid, refreshing and heartfelt.

On the island of Mutasia, where everyone is a mixed-up mix of two or more different animals, being one-of-a-kind is just a way of life. But a funky, new fashion craze is sweeping the island, and everyone looks the same. All the Mutasians are wearing mooklings (moose-ducks) on their heads and calling them “Mookling Hats.” Figley is the only kid without one, and doesn’t feel like he fits in anymore. He tries as hard as he can to look like everybody else, but when he meets a little squonk (donkey-squid), everything changes. Maybe instead of blending in, he could . . . STAND OUT! https://www.Mutasia.com/

A few of the contributors are Roseville students, Sofia and Jack Shaughnessy. Sofia shares, “Everyone should like playing alone sometimes, because you can do thing that make you happy.

If nobody is around to play with, you don’t have to be sad because you have yourself.” While Jack (who is seven, but building LEGO sets for “16 and up”) reminds us, “Whatever you do at school or at home, if you want to have fun and have a good day, use your mind and think how to do it right and do your best!” https://www.amazon.com/Can-You-Hear-Now-happiness/ dp/0692987231

Ryan and co-writer, Suzanne Cotsakos will be doing readings this month, too! Mark your calendar for the location nearest you!

11/2 - Vacaville’s Imagine That!

5-7pm at 848-B Alamo Drive, Vacaville 11/3 - Barnes & Noble Arden Fair 11am at 1725 Arden Way, Sacramento 11/4 - Bubble Belly 1:30pm at 340 G Street, Davis

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Swimming lessons are something most people think of for older kids, but in fact they are extremely beneficial for babies as well. Infant swim lessons can teach kids that water is fun and safe, and develop skills such as rolling over and floating.

Eventually, your little one will be moving independently in the water, and all before they are even a year old!

If your baby has had swimming lessons, they will be able to keep themselves from drowning if they fall in the pool. This is a huge load off of parents’ minds, since they know that even if all their protective measures and vigilance fails, their child will still be safe.

Baby swimming lessons also set your child up for swimming success later. Olympic athletes usually start their chosen sports at very early ages. Why not start your baby swimming as an infant? When other five year olds are working on blowing bubbles, your child could already be swimming laps around the pool.

Will baby swimming lessons guarantee your child a place in the Olympics? No, obviously. But giving your baby a head start can’t hurt, either.

Steve Wallen Swim School has locations in El Dorado Hills and Roseville! For more information about Steve Wallen Swim School or to inquire about swimming lessons visit, https://www.wallenswim.com/.

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