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18. Summer Camp: Building Blocks for Successful Adults

Summer camp is a timeless tradition. Whether it’s bunk beds and campfires in the forest, or daylong sports-centric activities, summer camp is the best answer to that nagging question inside, how am I going to entertain the children all summer long?

6. Mile-Long Mud Bath

This year’s Lil Mud Runner, held at Eagal Lakes Resort in Tracy, promises a weekend filled with fun for the whole family, May 13th – 14th.

6. Art from the Heart

Mary Graham Children’s Foundation’s 9th annual Kids Art Auction is ready to showcase our region’s budding artists of all ages on May 10th.

8. Family Adventure: Murphy’s, Calif.

Located in Calaveras County, Murphy’s is a manageable summer getaway destination for San Joaquin families. Find out where to stay, eat, and play.

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10. Pacific Ballet Pacific Ballet offers classes for all ages and skill levels, with a focus on classical ballet. Instill selfdiscipline, passion, and other valuable life lessons in a fun and tight-knit environment.

12. Yogi Bear’s Jellystone Park™ Tower Park Hold onto your picnic baskets! Yogi Bear’s Jellystone Park is open for summer reservations and all your beary best buddies are ready to greet you!

14. How Does Your Garden Grow?

Looking for a springtime activity to enjoy with your kids?

Now that the weather is warmer it’s time to break out the shovel and break ground on a backyard garden.

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ART from the HEART MAY 10TH, 2017  BY COPPER WILLIAMS

Mile-Long Mud Bath MAY 13TH – 14TH, 2017  BY COPPER WILLIAMS

Don’t be a stick in the mud, mom and dad! This year’s Lil Mud Runner, held at Eagal Lakes Resort in Tracy, promises a weekend filled with fun for the whole family! Now in its fifth year, parents can get in on all the action alongside little ones in a mile-long obstacle course constructed to test the tenacity of your tiny tots—and you as well! After, families are encouraged to take a tour of the Kid’s Carnival, enjoy a few bites from on-site food vendors, and maybe kick back a beer or two in the garden while the kids are enjoying themselves in one of the children-friendly zones.

Lil Mud Runner is set in agespecific wave times that ensure everyone gets to enjoy the course

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without being crowded out. Family waves are also available, so that mom, dad, and the kids can tackle the obstacles together! Once the game begins, your little ones can expend all that extra energy through a variety of difficult challenges.

Karen Eagal, owner of Eagal Lakes, reminds parents to pack a change of clothes for themselves, and their little runners, as well as towels, spare shoes, and a plastic bag for the ride home. And, for those not too keen on bringing home muddy shoes, soggy sets can be donated on site for the Tracy Animal Rescue.

TAKE A PLUNGE WITH: EAGAL LAKES 12 W. Lorenzen Rd., Tracy (209) 640-4252, EagalLakes.com

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Soak in the view along the Delta channel at Stockton Golf & Country Club alongside oneof-a-kind works of art for a fun-filled evening of wine tasting, hor d’oeuvres, and bidding wars.

Mary Graham Children’s Foundation’s 9th annual Kids Art Auction is ready to showcase our region’s budding artists of all ages! Best of all, these pieces are ready to find a good home with those prepared to outbid their buddies along the table.

This fundraising opportunity directly supports MGCF’s trade and scholarship programs, allowing students the chance to continue their educational goals beyond high school. Residents benefit from much needed therapy sessions, and find their own therapeutic outlets during their time with the shelter.

Party-goers are launched into a friendly out-bidding competition throughout the night, selecting from a wide range of artistic pieces that are showcased on the floor before the bidding begins. Live auctions not your thing?

Sip away and peruse a variety of unique works during the silent auction—if you prefer a little covert bidding. Dine on dessert while winners are selected from the evening’s raffle!

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FAMILY ADVENTURE:

Murphy’s, Calif.

 BY NORA HESTON TARTE

Murphy’s, Calif. is a Gold Rush town set in the Sierra Foothills, known for its serene forest setting, variety of dining options, and recreational activities. Located in Calaveras County, it’s a manageable summer getaway destination for San Joaquin families.

SHOP: In addition to the charming home stores and cute boutiques that dot Main Street and its adjacent roadways, there is a local toy store filled with treasures little ones will love dubbed Murphy’s Village Toy Store (402 Main St., Ste. D).

INDULGE: Cap off the evening with a treat from JoMa’s Artisan Ice Cream (386 Main St). The menu boasts 20 handcrafted, locally made ice cream and sorbets. Grab a bowl of Isaac Newton (apple pie flavor), fill a cone with Island Paradise (coconut ice cream), or sample any of the other 18 flavors.

STAY: The Murphy’s Hotel (457 Main St.), located amidst the hustle and bustle of the quaint town, is bursting with charm.

Operated since 1856, the hotel is a historic landmark that counts Ulysses S. Grant, Mark Twain, Susan B. Anthony, and John Wayne amongst its most notable guests. With 29 guest rooms— nine in the original historic stone building—an on-site restaurant, and its central location, Murphy’s Inn is the ideal home base for a weekend away.

PLAY: Steps from Murphy’s Hotel sits a small, historic jail.

Originally used to lock up locals who broke the law, today a skeleton sits inside the cell on a small cot. It’s a tourist attraction kids will love.

Walk downhill from the jail and you’ll spot a riverside playground— another children’s favorite.

EAT: Kids will love Firewood (420 Main St.) Designed to resemble a firehouse, the restaurant that specializes in burgers, pizza, and fish tacos (along with other Mexican dishes) boasts a large open door that grants visitors an indoor-outdoor dining experience.

Small touches, including door handles that look like axes, add to the firehouse decor. Owner River Klass calls the menu food he likes to eat, and the easy options are perfect for kid’s appetites, too.

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EXPLORE: Mercer Caverns (1665 Sheep Ranch Rd.) is a show cave located just one mile north of Murphy’s. Guests can take a 45-minute guided tour of the caverns discovered by Walter J. Mercer during the gold rush era. Designated a place of historical interest, the caverns first gained notoriety in the 1800s after remains of 1600s people were found inside. It has since been used as a tourist attraction.

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PACIFIC BA  BY FAITH LEWIS

There is something heartwarming about the look of determination that crosses a child’s face when they set their mind on a goal—the way their eyes light up when they finally reach it, like a burst of independence and confidence. For Suzanne Lundberg, owner of Pacific Ballet in Stockton, this is the reason she became a ballet teacher in the first place.

“When I see children gain self-confidence as their ability to master a subject and become skilled in it develops, it is huge for me,” Suzanne says. “They can take it and become stronger individuals, as well as dancers.”

Nearly two years after opening, Pacific Ballet offers classes for all ages and skill levels. Entry level classes include PreBallet for ages 4 to 6-year-olds and Beginners’ Ballet for preteens, teens, and adults. For the ballerina whose slippers are already broken in, Suzanne also offers intermediate level classes for all ages.

At Pacific Ballet, Suzanne focuses on teaching classical ballet, something she saw was hard to come by in San Joaquin County, and especially in Stockton where she chose to open her studio. She sees classical ballet as the best opportunity for serious students to earn scholarships to college and move forward as professional dancers. But she also sees it as a good way of teaching self-discipline and other valuable life lessons in a fun and tight-knit environment.

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“[My students] are my family,” Suzanne says as she speaks about the sacrifices she has made over the past thirty years in honor of her students’ success. “I try to show them what’s right and what’s wrong and give them a bunch of different life skills.

I’ve taught some of them to drive. I’ve even been a chauffeur to Prom.”

While stigma surrounding the idea of male ballerinas still lingers in some circles, Suzanne’s studio doors are wide open to everyone interested in learning ballet—and they always have been.

Anyone considering ballet is welcome to join Suzanne for a free trial class. But if classical ballet isn’t quite your tempo, Pacific Ballet also offers a contemporary dance class and a stretch and strengthening fitness class once a week.

Suzanne’s advice to parents looking to get their children involved? “Have them try the class. Sit back and enjoy as you observe, then go have some time to yourself and allow your child to have their time too.”

FOR MORE INFORMATION: PACIFIC BALLET 2218 Pacific Ave., Stockton (209) 390-4543, PacificBallet.net

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throughout the season, including tie-dying, Candy Bar Bingo, face painting, dance parties, and more!

With so much to see and do, not to mention the jumping pillow, pools, and volley ball court, it’s hard to remember the Delta is also at your doorstep! Campers can take advantage of the fullservice marina during their stay, which, as Tessa explains, offers “a number of rentals, including boats, paddle boards, pedal boats, and kayaks.”

So now that you’ve got your days all planned out, where do you want to set up camp? Yogi Bear’s Jellystone Park offers its guests several

Hold onto your picnic baskets!

Yogi Bear’s Jellystone Park is open for summer reservations and all your beary best buddies are ready to greet you! Visit Boo Boo, Cindy Bear, and Yogi Bear himself along the Delta waterways at Tower Park Marina Resort. With a wide range of exciting new events, upgrades, and activities, parents and their cubs are in for a treat!

“When a guest stays with us— whether in a cabin or campsite— they receive access to all our activities and amenities at the park,” explains Tessa Wiles, Marketing Manager of Yogi Bear’s Jellystone Park™ Tower Park.

“We’re so excited about all the improvements we’ve made to the

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We hope our guests love our park as much as we do.”

Campers can get into the swing of things on the new playground, enjoy the Gaga ball pits, and shoot some hoops at the basketball court. Adventure-seekers can go gem mining in the parks very own water sluice boxes! “We’re excited to introduce our themed weeks/ weekends, and events, which add an extra element of fun to the camping experience!” Tessa adds.

Guests can reserve their spot for events such as Luau Week, Christmas in July Week, and Pirates and Mermaids Week. Activities available at the park are tailored to match that week’s theme. But fear not! Camper favorites will continue

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 BY NORA HESTON TARTE

Looking for a springtime activity to enjoy with your kids? Now that the weather is warmer it’s time to break out the shovel and break ground on a backyard garden.

“Everything is a teaching opportunity—the planting, the weeds, the water, the soil, the bugs, the harvest,” says Julie Morehouse of In Season Market & Nursery in Stockton.

Whether you have a windowsill garden primed for herbs, or garden boxes to fill with your favorite foods, there’s plenty of room to grow together, and the formula is easy—water, sun, and good soil = good plants.

GET KIDS INTERESTED The promise of spending hours

outdoors, using a watering can, and digging up the backyard may be enough to encourage kids to get out and get their hands dirty. Another way to keep them interested is to plant foods they like to eat. They’ll love being able to pick fruits and vegetables from their (pesticidefree) backyard garden to eat.

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grow be eaten right out of the garden,” Julie says. The promise of getting dirty doesn’t hurt either!

TAKE ADVANTAGE OF LEARNING EXPERIENCES Creating a garden is a good opportunity

to teach kids about many aspects of life, such as the food chain and sustainability.

You can even take your garden a step further and incorporate a compost pile to make your own soil from. Some of the lessons are simpler than that. Children will love learning about bugs and how beneficial they are to the environment.

Letting children touch and handle (safe) bugs that don’t sting or bite gives them an opportunity to interact with the world around them. Educate yourself on the different functions of each, such as which ones pollinate and which ones eat bad bugs that could harm the garden.

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WHAT TO plant IN

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From Marcy Sousa, San Joaquin UC Master Gardener Program Coordinator

• Bush or pole beans are good for little hands to handle because they are larger.

• Plant pumpkins in June so they are ready by October.

• Corn, cucumbers, and melons can all be planted in June.

• Radishes grow fast, a positive for impatient kids.

• Plant tomato and pepper transplants in early May. • Cherry or grape tomatoes are great because they are fast growing, sweet, and the kids can eat them in one bite!

• Colorful annuals like zinnias, nasturtiums (edible), marigolds, and snapdragons (these are fun to pinch open and closed like a dragons mouth) are available in six packs or four-inch pots.

• Sunflowers can grow up to 15 feet high.

• Lambs ear and Jerusalem Sage have a soft, fuzzy texture that kids like.

• Purple coneflowers are stiff and pokey, but not too sharp to touch.

• Showy or Narrow-leaved milkweeds are great for encouraging Monarch caterpillars.

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CARE FOR YOUR GARDEN Creating daily or weekly chores

for your child to manage in the garden will teach them responsibility, and if they forget they’ll see the negative effects it will have on their harvest.

In addition to watering plants regularly (different plants have different requirements so read up on what you plant), it’s important to keep the garden area clean and neat to reduce the likelihood of pest and disease problems. However, you should also avoid using pesticides. “We do not want to eat poison nor work around it,” Julie shared. “Let the good bugs do the work of keeping bad bugs under control. If we spray for the bad bugs, it kills the good bugs, as well.” Mostly, make sure someone is monitoring your garden and its growth daily.

Always check for water needs and bad bugs. A watchful eye will catch problems before it’s too late.

INVOLVE KIDS AT THE VERY BEGINNING You’ll have to steer them in the right direction

to ensure the plants they choose will thrive in the environment you have and fit in the space available, but letting kids make choices about what to plant and how to decorate or maintain the garden will help them become engaged in the project. Take them to the store with you to pick out the seeds, let them be involved from step one all the way to the day you pick the food. If you have to build a box for the garden, let them be part of that, too! The more involved children are, the more they will learn from the experience, and the more likely they will be to care about it in the coming months.

MAKE IT FUN Pick up a brightly colored watering can

and let children have their own set of ageappropriate tools. A shovel, gloves, hoe, rake, and any other tools you need to maintain your garden. Having tools that are the right size for them, and safe to use, will encourage kids to be a part of the garden growing experience. Even toddlers can do much of the work associated with planting.

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Summer camp is a timeless tradition. Whether it’s bunk beds and campfires in the forest, or daylong sports-centric activities, summer camp is the best answer to that nagging question inside, how am I going to entertain the children all summer long? Once school has ended, those three (long) months of freedom and relaxed schedules that stretch in front of you may feel overwhelming. But instead of looking at summer as an endless string of “I’m bored,” exclamations, take the opportunity to enrich your child’s life with activities they enjoy. Instead of the have-to’s of school, summer camp offers want-to’s that children can look forward to. And because San Joaquin County is brimming with camps of all shapes and sizes, there’s sure to be a fit for every child that plays to their interests.  BY NORA HESTON TARTE

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BENEFITS OF SUMMER CAMP RESPONSIBILITY:

At home, children typically have their parents, or another person, there to care for them. At camp, much like school or extracurricular activities, children are forced to rely on themselves or other adults that are not their typical support system. Especially at a sleep away camp, children learn how to address their own needs and develop skills that aid them in becoming self-sufficient adults.

There isn’t someone nagging them to brush their teeth before bed or finish a meal, they have to make those decisions on their own.

By taking care of themselves, they are learning responsibility, a key building block for becoming a successful, independent adult. Without the ever-watchful eye of a parent nearby, children will learn to solve conflict on their own, lean on others for support, and engage freely with their peers.

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BUILDING RELATIONSHIPS: Just like children have a family at home and friends at school, summer camp is an opportunity to create a new community. At camp, kids learn and play with other kids. This gives children a sense of belonging that will serve them well into adulthood. There are counselors available for support, but in a lot of ways, camp is an experience for children to bond with other children and create new communities outside of their everyday life.

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Camp friendships have the ability to become life long.

This can be especially important for kids who do not excel socially in traditional settings such as school.

At camp, children are encouraged to be inclusive as well as open up to each other; and when they live in close quarters, they get to know each other on a deeper level, in a smaller group not influenced by outside sources. For children who have fewer friendships outside of camp, the friends they meet at camp can become fundamental to their development.

NEW EXPERIENCES:

It’s important to give your child the opportunity to have many unique experiences, and there are always more ways to do this. At camp, children are exposed to new activities, engage with new people, and develop new ideas outside of the home.

Exposure to new surroundings and things to do helps children decide what their strengths are and what paths and hobbies they would like to pursue in life. They get so much of who they are from home, their neighborhood, and their school; it’s nice to have other, distinct influences that will positively shape the person your child will become as they find their own identity.

QUESTIONS TO ASK BEFORE CHOOSING A CAMP: Before setting your mind on a specific camp, ask yourself (and your child!)

these questions. Involving children in the decision-making process can boost their self-confidence and create excitement about going to camp.

1. What interests would your child like to explore on a deeper level this summer?

2. Is there a specific skill that needs work?

3. Is there something new that your child wants to try?

4. Is your child ready to spend several nights away from home?

If they are, how many?

5. Can you think of a specific location or setting your child might like to visit?

CONFIDENCE:

Caring parents involve themselves in their children’s lives in order to ensure they are growing up healthy and safe. This often translates to making decisions about their schedules and activities for them, or mediating conflicts with their peers.

At camp, parents aren’t there to watch over their children’s every move, which allows children to make decisions about themselves in a new way. When children don’t have their parents telling them what to do, they learn to handle situations on their own, and make decisions about how they will spend their day.

They get to be their own person, and that in turn builds self-esteem and confidence. In some ways, the very act of sending your child to camp instills confidence in them because they feel they are trusted to make their own decisions. If you believe they can thrive on their own, they will believe it, too.

STRENGTHENING THE MIND, BODY & SPIRIT:

In one way or another, camps work on personal improvement. This applies to specific goals—becoming a better baseball player, learning to play the trumpet, honing computer coding skills, etc.—or a broader lesson, such as challenging children physically, teaching them creative problem solving, and allowing for both mental and spiritual opportunities.

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CHALLENGE

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SHOULD YOU GET? If you’re looking for a social animal to become part of the family and you have plenty of time to dedicate to care, consider a dog.

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Getting a family pet is a big decision. Whether it’s a goldfish or a dog, pets come with responsibility and they can really alter a family’s dynamic. While you’re weighing the pros and cons of pet ownership, consider these positives.

RESPONSIBILITY

The added duties associated with pet ownership have likely landed on your con list, however, it is important to consider the positive impact added responsibility can have on your brood. If kids are clamoring for a new pet, consider their role. Even a toddler can fill a food bowl twice a day, while older children can be held responsible for walks, baths, cage cleaning, and other duties.

GOOD HEALTH

Many pets encourage a more active lifestyle.

A dog that needs walking gets its owner up and out, while other animals like horses can encourage exercise and more time outdoors.

A dog especially can easily integrate into family activities, including swimming, hiking, biking, and running. Many studies have also linked children who grow up with pets— namely cats and dogs—to less illnesses and allergies throughout their life.

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A quiet home life is more suitable for a rabbit.

Rabbits do not do well in loud, hectic environments.

If you’re looking for a caged animal, a bird may be a good fit. However, you will need space for a large cage.

MOOD BOOST

Interaction with animals raises both serotonin and dopamine levels, which make people happy. Animals are great companions for children, and have been linked to reducing stress for people of all ages. This is especially true for pets that can be pet and held, including dogs, cats, horses, rabbits, and more.

LIFE LESSONS

Parents may consider how the loss of a pet will affect a child, but before you place that experience in the con column, consider the positive side. A pet is often the first big loss a child experiences, and with that they learn a lot about life cycles. The loss of a pet in childhood can emotionally and psychologically prepare a child for loss later in life.

If you have the time and money, a horse can make a wonderful companion for children and adults.

Horses have been linked to providing therapeutic benefits to those with disabilities.

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In addition, enrollment applications are now available for the 2017-18 school year.

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THINGS Mother’s Day Gift Guide Looking for a present that will wow mom this year?

Stockton-Lodi is brimming with original gifts perfect for Mother’s Day. Check out these suggestions for gorgeous finds mom will love that also support local business.

Let the cubs spoil mom this year with a special gift from Loved

By Hannah & Eli, a Lodi-based, mama-owned shop that sells clothes, accessories, and more.

This super soft Eco-Black Mama Bear v-neck features pink, glitter lettering, blind hem stitching detail, and a ribbed neckband.

The item runs true to size as a women’s relaxed-fit tee. See more styles and colors online, LovedByHannahAndEli.com.

Give mom the gift of relaxation with a gift card to Wine & Roses’ luxurious spa. From massages to facials, skin treatments to salon services, the Spa at Wine & Roses features high-end organic products administered by spa professionals in a natural setting. Guests who spend $100 or more get access to the hotel pool, as well. Gift cards can be purchased online at WineRose.com/Gift-Cards, or at the hotel, 2505 W. Turner Rd., Lodi Get creative with hand-made art. Moms love trinkets made by their little ones. Whether it’s handprint art, painted masterpieces, or a homemade card, mom is sure to love anything made by her kids. Want to step it up a notch? Head to the Mud Mill in Lodi for paint-your-own ceramics. 115 S. School St., Ste. #1, Lodi (209) 365-9900, TheMudMill.com

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For the mom with a sweet tooth, gift something saccharine, like a box of delectable goodies from Nothing Bundt Cakes in Stockton.

Give her a choice of several flavors with a dozen mini bundtinis, or stack them high with a threetier bundtlet dessert. Shop staff will add an extra special Mother’s Day decoration to commemorate the occasion. 128 Lincoln Cntr., Stockton, (209) 957-2253, NothingBundtCakes.com If mom is a foodie, Say it With a Box is the handcrafted gift box perfect for her. The Stockton shop is packed with gourmet goodies in every flavor. Patrons pick from items in the store—almost everything available is made local—and create their own gift boxes to give. In addition to Bozzano’s flavored olive oils and Trail Coffee Roasters beans, there are personal care items such as soaps and spritzers. 2301 Alpine Ave., Ste. B, Stockton, (209) 4234791, SayItWithABox.com

PODESTO TEEN IMPACT CENTER Free All-Ages Art Classes Professional Art Instructor Tue-Wed-Fri 4:00-6:30pm

SPRING CLASSES:

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Each day, Chiminike’s Childcare will provide a balanced approach to learning, giving you the ease that your child will have fun as they develop:

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PIXIE WOODS OPENING DAY 2017

2017 CCAA SOFTBALL CHAMPIONSHIP

ANNUAL MOTHER’S DAY STRAWBERRY BREAKFAST

Our very favorite fairytale land is opening for the season this May! Pixie Woods is ready to help you and your little ones plunge into a realm of fantasy. Ride the Pixie Express Train and take a trip on the Pixie Queen paddle wheel boat. Enjoy a trip through Frontier Town and so much more! Pixie Woods at

Enjoy a four-team tournament in its ninth consecutive year in Stockton as players swing, hurl, and race their way to victory. This three-day event promises fun for the whole family. Head out to the park and cheer for your favorites!

Remind mom of just how great she is by taking her out to UOP this Sunday and treating her to a strawberry-infused breakfast like no other! With proceeds supporting tutoring scholarships for

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Arnaiz Softball Complex, 3293 Morada Lane., Stockton (209) 938-1555, GoCCAA.org

MAY 7

Stockton’s youth, Mothers and their doting families can enjoy scones, eggs, coffee and tea, along with freshly ripened strawberries! Regents Dining Room at University of the Pacific, 3601 Pacific Ave., Stockton (209) 946-2444, Pacific.edu

EAGAL LAKES LITTLE MUD RUNNER

MAY 13-14

Bring a spare change of clothes! This year’s mud runner promises to be the best yet for the whole family! Pop on those old sneakers and sink into kneehigh puddles of murky water as you and your little ones trek through obstacles of all shapes and sizes! Enjoy a kid’s carnival and a beer garden for the adults!

From popcorn and ice cream, to live music and more, it’s a day fit for getting more than a little muddy! Eagal Lakes Resort, 12 West Lorenzen Rd., Tracy (209) 640-4252, EagalLakes.com

DUCKY DERBY & PUBLIC SAFETY DAY

MAY 13

The race is on! This year’s Ducky Derby and Public Safety Day hosts another fun year with food trucks, educational booths, and opportunities to meet with the men and women who keep our streets safe! Enjoy demonstrations, tours, and

our very favorite rubber duck race, where the community can purchase a duck for a chance to win prizes in a watercourse race to the finish line! Weber Point, 221 N. Center St., Stockton, CAPCDucks.com

WALK FOR THE HEALTH OF IT

MAY 13

From a 5K walk or run, to a 5K Poker walk, the mile-long Kid’s Fun Run, and Walk and Roll for wheelchairs and strollers, there’s a special place for everyone at Lodi Memorial Hospital’s Annual Walk for the Health of It! Enjoy the health fair, complete with a teddy bear clinic, photo booth, snacks and music after you’ve made it through the finish line!

Event proceeds benefit the Level II Nursery Unit. Lodi Memorial Hospital, 975 S. Fairmont Ave., Lodi, LMHFoundation.org

LINDEN CHERRY FESTIVAL

MAY 20

Savor every bite of your favorite little fruit at a festival in honor of the cherry! Take a seat at the parade, enjoy live music, car classic showcasing, and a carnival like no other!

Think you have what it takes to master the pie eating contest? Or maybe the cherry bake-off?

Then get yourself down to the Linden Cherry Festival for an admission free day of fun!

Linden Elementary School Grounds, 18100 E. Front St., Linden (209) 547-3046

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AVENUE OF THE VINES MARATHON

CONCERTS IN THE PARK

Take a jaunt through scenic grape country on a 5K or 10K marathon from Woodbridge Winery and back again, raising funds for the Stockton Emergency Food Bank. Packet pickup begins at 6:00 AM. Woodbridge Winery, 5950 E. Woodbridge Rd.,

Kick off summer with the first Concerts in the Park event of the season! Celebrating 64 years, the free admission, 12-concert series will run from June through August 9th at Victory Park. Victory Park,

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STOCKTON FOOD TRUCK MANIA

JUNE 1

Get your food truck grub on and enjoy live music, family friendly entertainment, and an evening of fun at Oak Grove Regional Park—the first Thursday of every month through October. Enjoy a delectable selection of the best gourmet food trucks from all around Northern California, as well as music and family friendly entertainment throughout the event! Parking is $5 per vehicle, cash only. Oak Grove Regional Park, 4520 W. 8 Mile Rd., Stockton, Sactomofo.com

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SJ COUNTY FAIR

JUNE 14-18

Back by popular demand, the SJ County Fair runs from June 14-18th and features rides, food, live music, games and more from 10AM-11PM. Until May 31st get an unlimited rider wristband for only $20 and 40 % off tickets! SJ Fair Grounds, 1658 S. Airport Way, Stockton, (209) 466-5041, SanJoaquinFairgrounds.com

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LAST word

Energy

EFFICIENT  BY NORA HESTON TARTE

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At 6 AM I watched my son, diagnosed with a double ear infection and eye infection, bounce from couch cushion to couch cushion in nothing but his underwear exclaiming, ‘”I’m not sick!” over and over again. I’ve long known that toddlers possess some sort of magical, crazy force that we all wish we could bottle and save, but the boundless energy despite the infection in his body felt both impressive, and draining.

I was ear- and eye-infection free (thank goodness!) but my body was also fighting off cold number five or six—I’d lost count—since preschool started back in September. It seemed every time my son got sick that I got sick, too, which I guess is pretty normal. I was honestly thinking it was convenient, that if I had to care for and entertain a tiny human for ten hours a day on my own while sick at least I could squeeze some extra reading, cuddles, and television time into the mix. That, however, is not the case. And I don’t know if it’s the illness talking but I find myself uttering phrases I never thought I would, like, “Can we please turn on the TV and watch a movie?”

I know my son is sick when he has a bellowing cough, mucus draining from his nose and congestion that seems worst in the mornings and at night, but no matter what cold he is fighting— likely the same one that has me couch ridden and popping antihistamines as frequently as possible—his energy levels rarely decline. I don’t know what kind of voo-doo toddler crap this is, but it’s not fair.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m glad he feels good in the face of illness; if anything, I’m jealous that I don’t possess the same ability to overcome the common cold. Once or twice, likely mid 3 a.m. coughing fit, I’ve even questioned my decision to start preschool this year.

The fact that my three-year-old can power through actually alleviates some of the guilt I feel that he’s nearconstantly sick, but it’s not doing me any favors.

I’ve started to question the integrity of my immune system but every time I mention a new cold followed by the fact that my son just started preschool, moms and doctors alike smile and nod. Yup. It’s a thing. I’m not weird…

I’m the norm. The weird one is the toddler asking to play baseball with a low-grade fever.

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