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6. Mamarama on the Mile

Michelle Cox

24. Splish-Splash

6. Where to Watch the Fireworks 8. The Montessori Way The Montessori method is alive and well in Stockton! Stockton Montessori School offers preschool and kindergarten classes that encouraging children to explore subjects that interest them most to ensure an excitement for learning.

10. Common Eating Struggles

We asked Natalie Rold, Registered Dietician and Clinical Nutrition Manager for St. Joseph's Medical Center in Stockton, how parents can manage healthy eating habits.

12. Calling All Technology Buffs!

Galt High School’s new IT Pathway program, Career and Technical Education

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(CTE), aims at giving kids the skills they need to thrive in technical careers—and beyond—after high school. Learn more about the program, it’s benefits, and how to enroll.

14. Summer Reading List

Foster imagination and creativity through classics and trending best-sellers on our Summer Reading List.

16. The Importance of a Well-Balanced Breakfast & How to Make One

Preparing breakfast during the average family’s hectic morning sounds daunting. But a nutritious meal doesn’t have to be overly involved. Check out our tips for making the most of breakfast with a growing brood, without sacrificing sanity.

20. Class & Culture

You’ve heard it before—the world is getting smaller.

From international politics and business to everyday life, an understanding of other cultures is becoming more important than ever. As the world settles into the global era, college study abroad programs are offering students a competitive edge.

24. The Gift of Speech

Learn more about clinical speech and language services offered for both children and adults in Stockton, and the women who work to ensure an essential part of life— communication.

26. Agenda 30. Last Word: Momin’ Aint Easy

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Mama Rama ON THE MILE JULY 22ND, 10 AM - 3PM  BY COPPER WILLIAMS

Our favorite roadside strip of incredible shops in Stockton is hosting another fantastic festival fit for the whole family! Come on down to the Miracle Mile on July 22nd to experience a wide variety of food, music, and fun at this year’s Mama Rama. Unique vendors from around the region take to the sidewalks to showcase their crafts and skills, while local participating merchants offer a unique perspective on their businesses! Drop in and listen to our area’s talented kids and teens as they sing their hearts out on the mic. Peruse

local shops and learn of the many sensational activities available for the whole family to enjoy! There will be raffles and prizes aplenty specially prepared with choice goodies from around the Mile. After you’ve toured the strip, drop into your favorite restaurant for an epic dining experience. From games and activities, special steals, and bites galore, it’s all ready and awaiting on the Miracle Mile. GET GOING TO: MAMA RAMA ON THE MIRACLE MILE Multiple Locations of the Mile (209) 948-6453 StocktonMiracleMile.com

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RED GLARE Enjoy this year’s fireworks from four fab locations!  BY COPPER WILLIAMS

There’s nothing better than fireworks on the 4th of July, except for, maybe, the ultimate view of them cascading overhead! If you’re visiting Stockton on Independence Day, drive to University Plaza Waterfront Hotel for a BBQ buffet, live music, and the perfect view of the fireworks being shot off at Weber Point! Another excellent hotspot for fireworks is up at Lodi Lake, where admission is free! Enjoy all the fun activities to be had around the water before picking that perfect spot next to settle into. Don’t fret if you’re down in the southern parts of San Joaquin! Manteca has got a spectacular showcasing of fireworks that will be set off at Big League Dreams Sports Complex! Pick one of many various local parks like Bella Vista, and Dutra Estates in the area for a superb view. And last, but certainly not least, are the fireworks taking place at the Tracy High School Football Field. Head on over during the day to enjoy the pancake breakfast, hot air balloon lift-off, and carnival rides across the street at Lincoln Park.

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In an age where structure and conformity are forced upon children from a young age, Stockton Montessori School is breaking from the mold to teach preschoolers independence and confidence. “Our approach to education is based on our students’ needs and desires,” says Kristine Baker, who has been passionate about Montessori education for over 35 years, and is now the Director at Stockton Montessori School. “I was very fortunate early in my career to meet and spend time with an elderly teacher who was actually trained by Maria Montessori herself,” Kristine shares. “The stories she told me about her experiences with Dr. Montessori are a continuing inspiration to me.” And today, the dedicated team of teachers she oversees is educated in Montessori philosophy and exceed education-based state requirements. Rather than a traditional preschool where students are given a specific task, the Montessori method encourages children to explore subjects that interest them most. This both ensures and nurtures an excitement for learning and a hunger for knowledge. “It allows and supports children to explore their interests,” Kristine explains of the approach taken at this traditional Montessori school. “Which develops their confidence in learning.” And as one of Kristine’s favorite quotes note, “Childhood constitutes the most important element in an adults’s life, for it is in his early years that man is mad.” This method also fosters independence, while teaching the importance of expressing yourself and cooperating with peers. For example, students are encouraged to resolve issues among themselves with little or no intervention from teachers. The school provides education from preschool through kindergarten—with a toddler program for two and three-year-olds, and a primary program for students ages three to six. The multiage classes allow older students to help younger students, developing leadership qualities. Because students are at different developmental points, group lessons focus on subjects that all can draw from. These lessons involve science,

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Common Eating Struggles for Kids  BY NORA HESTON TARTE

WHAT TO DO WHEN… YOUR CHILD WON’T EAT VEGETABLE Kids who grow up on vegetables are more likely to eat them later in life. “It’s much easier to get kids to eat vegetables if you start by establishing good eating habits when they are young,” Rold explains. “If you have an extremely picky eater, try offering them a wide variety of vegetables, Are you having trouble getting your child to eat their vegetables, or really anything at all? You’re not alone. Kids are naturally picky eaters, and sometimes it doesn’t feel worth the fight to push a nutritious meal in front of them. A whopping 60 percent of children do not meet the daily recommended requirements for fruits, while 93 percent lack the right servings of veggies. But there are creative ways to get kids to eat (check out our breakfast feature). We asked Natalie Rold, Registered Dietician and Clinical Nutrition Manager for St. Joseph’s Medical Center in Stockton, how parents can manage these tricky situations.

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prepared different ways. You’re bound to stumble upon something that they like.” YOUR CHILD STRUGGLES WITH FOOD TEXTURES “Kids, just like adults have preferences. If your child just prefers certain textures over others, that’s ok, as long as they’re receiving proper nutrition. If your child has trouble with chewing or any other problems with the actual mechanics of eating certain textures, it’s a good idea to talk to your child’s pediatrician about it just to be safe,” Rold says. YOUR CHILD HAS A SWEET TOOTH You’re not alone. “It’s hard to find a child who doesn’t have a sweet tooth,” Rold says. “One of the many wonderful things about fruit is that many of them are sweet! When your child is asking for the sweet stuff offer up fresh fruit.” YOUR CHILD DOESN’T EAT MUCH AT ALL It can be completely normal. “There are many reasons why your child may not want to eat much from time to time,” Rold says. “Sometimes it can be as simple as your child being constipated. If you feel this might be the case, keep an eye on their fiber intake and see if by increasing it, your child feels better.” Sometimes young appetites simply fluctuate.

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Galt High School has welcomed a new program to its school in an effort to better prepare students for high wage jobs after graduation. Students as young as freshman are eligible to join the IT Pathway program, a Career and Technical Education (CTE) program aimed at giving kids the skills they need to thrive in technical careers—and beyond—after high school. Not only does a program like this prepare students to fill a noticeable gap in the workforce, CTE courses have been linked to higher graduation rates as well as a higher percentage of students pursuing post secondary education after high school (AboutCTE.org) Galt’s pathway program focuses on and teaches students about real-world experience such as goal setting, communication, customer service, team collaboration, technical skills, management skills, and career exploration. These skills serve them in the tech industry and other industries. Students who enroll and are accepted into the pathway will have the opportunity to earn certification under the Cisco Networking Academy in the areas of IT Essentials A+, Networking- CCNA, and Security +Certification. That means they are not

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only gaining the skills necessary to thrive in a tech career, students are graduating with certifications that will make them competitive candidates in the industry and streamline their school to workforce track. Once a student is accepted to the program, which includes registration, a student application, resume, and interview, they will complete a sequence of courses related to computer science, information technologies, and communication. Students who choose to complete the capstone course will train and work in technology, web, or inventory and supplies. Some students may

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By Martin Jenkins, Illustrated by Tim Hopgood There are more than 5,000 species of frogs in the world, and many are explored throughout this vivid, mixedmedia book. Colorful illustrations accompany specie identification and fun facts. Sit down with your child and learn why some amphibians burry their head in the sand, who’s hairy, and who can fly. Rick Rocotta’s Mighty Robot vs. the Stupid Stinkbugs from Saturn, The Pigeon Needs a Bath, Flora and the Flamingo, Max the Brave OTHER SUGGESTIONS:

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THE VERY HUNGRY CATERPILLAR

By Eric Carle Since 1969 this classic book has engaged children at an early age, with its interactive mixed-media collages, and short and sweet message. Follow a newborn caterpillar as it munches on a magnitude of snacks like ice-cream, pickles, a lollipop and much more—in just one day! But that’s not all this little guy has planned, a transformation is in the works, and a butterfly filled finale ends the story. The Very Fluffy Kitty, The Day the Crayons Quit, Goodnight Moon, Giraffes Can’t Dance, First 100 Animals OTHER SUGGESTIONS:

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HOW I BECAME A PIRATE

By Melinda Long, Illustrated by David ShannonHow Filled with “Aaarrgh-venture”, this book follows little Jeremy’s time with the Braid Beard Pirate Crew. Learn the life of a pirate along with Jeremy as he experiences sea chanteys, searches for buried treasure, and picks up some pirate lingo. Sure, it’s fun to stay up late and skip your veggies—but there’s a little something missing.

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THE WAR THAT SAVED MY LIFE

By Kimberly Brubaker Bradley A New York Times Bestseller, Newberry Honor Book, and winner of various “Best Children’s Books” awards—this moving work of historical fiction is set during World War II and shares the story of Ada, a 10-year-old girl with a twisted foot. Because of her mother’s humiliation, she’s never left her family’s oneroom apartment. That is, until she sneaks away with her brother who is fleeing the war. OTHER SUGGESTIONS: The Invention of Hugo Cabret, Walk Two Moons, Savvy, Shadow Children Series

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The importance of a wellbalanced breakfast for kids, and how to make one everyday. Squeezing a nutritious, well-balanced meal into a manic early morning may sound like one of those “pick your battles” moments where sliding a bowl of cold cereal across the kitchen counter is about as close as you’re going to get to on any given morning. Breakfast can be daunting. Most families are facing a time crunch in the morning, getting kids out of bed and ready for school, daycare, or other activities with clean clothes and teeth. But a nutritious meal doesn’t have to be overly involved. Check out our tips for making the most of breakfast with a growing brood, without sacrificing sanity.

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TIP 1: KEEP IT SIMPLE.

The first mistake parents make is assuming that a nutritious meal is a time consuming one. Embracing basics like scrambled eggs, bacon, French toast, oatmeal, etc. are simple ways to whip up breakfast in no time.

TIP 2: MEAL PREP

Meal prepping isn’t preserved for dinner. Stuff your crockpot with ooey-gooey breakfast bars or savory morning scrambles the night before. By pre-preparing breakfast, you’re removing the time component altogether. Extra points if you employ the dump bag technique (slice and dice everything you need for Wednesday morning breakfast on Sunday and put it in a Ziploc bag. Come Tuesday night all you’ll have to do is dump the ingredients into the crock pot, set the timer, and voila!)

TIP 3:

ON THE GO

There are going to be mornings where your kids eat their breakfast en route to school because, well, life. But again, that doesn’t mean you have to resort to breakfast bars and other processed foods. Make zucchini bread or bran muffins the day (or several days) before. When someone sleeps in, or the clock seems to be ticking faster than you can comprehend, get everyone dressed, into the car, and then dole out the morning goodies.

are high in fiber and low in sugar show increased cognitive benefits.

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MAKE IT FUN

When kids are reluctant to try something new, adding a fun factor can make all the difference. On warm days, serve breakfast outdoors (the sunshine and fresh air may help night owls perk up before school), or put a fun smiley face made out of fruit on that pile of scrambled eggs.

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FIB A LITTLE

Maybe don’t tout that breakfast muffin as a healthy, flax seedfilled meal. Instead, let kids think they’re getting away with something by having a muffin for breakfast. It won’t hurt, and it may be the difference between a parenting win and a fight that morning.

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SNEAK IN SOMETHING EXTRA

Is it hard to convince your child that vegetables are good for them? Do they lack supplements but won’t take vitamins? Does that spoonful of local honey get spit out on the floor? Mix whatever your child won’t eat into breakfast. Shaved zucchini and carrots mix well in banana bread, raisins hidden amongst dark cocoa chips are great for a muffin, and a little garlic will go a long way sprinkled into those scrambled eggs. Whatever your child needs to get into their body, add it at the beginning of the day.

WHY YOU SHOULD DO IT:

It may sound like a losing battle. Sure, it’ll be easier to get those nutrients into their growing bodies come dinner, when you aren’t rushing against the clock, or their energy has hopefully waned, but a well-balanced meal at the beginning of the day sets children up for success. The USDA states that kids who eat breakfast perform better in school. They are also more likely to be in good spirits and get along with their peers. Memory skills are heightened after a good breakfast, and a kid is able to pay attention for longer periods of time because their mind is sharp. Not to mention, kids who eat breakfast, are actually less likely to be tardy (imagine that!) Eating breakfast now prepares kids to make healthy choices later in life, and they are less likely to overeat later in the day or become overweight. Beyond the importance of breakfast in general, those that

In order to make time for breakfast each morning, streamline the rest of your routine. Find time through organization and preparedness. The rule of thumb is complete all tasks that do not have to be completed in the morning, the night before. This includes organizing. Pack lunches and school bags, complete homework, and lay out outfits before going to bed. The time you save arguing about what shirt to wear and looking for a missing binder will leave plenty of time to sit down to breakfast. Parents can play their part, too. Sometimes kids struggle in the morning after spending 12 hours away from mom and dad. Sneak in a few cuddles at the very beginning of the morning to head off neediness while you’re trying to get out the door.

TIP 7:

GET KIDS INVOLVED

Asking your toddler to help make breakfast may not sound like a time saver—and it’s probably not. But if there’s one lesson I’ve learned from experience, it’s that young kids like to help. Mix up a smoothie (this is sometimes the best way to sneak extra ingredients into a meal) but let your brood man the blender. Ask older kids to drop toast in the toaster, or give any kid a few buttons to push on the microwave, oven, or even the coffee maker, and you might be surprised when their help becomes, well, helpful.

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streamlined the trajectory of her career. She always knew she wanted to work in high education, but it was her time abroad that showed her she wanted to focus on international education. Aside from personal growth, Lauren believes one of the best things about studying abroad is that the experience can be leveraged in the workplace. “That’s something we’re working on, trying to get [students] to make the connection between career preparation and studying abroad,” she says. “All of these skills that they’re gaining while studying abroad are things that employers and graduate schools are looking for. They want them to be able to communicate across cultures and to be flexible and adaptable.” Lauren believes there are several factors that keep students from traveling overseas, including finances and fear of delaying graduation—but she insists that these are not insurmountable. Most study abroad programs,

including UOP’s, allow you to pay your home university tuition and use any scholarships or financial aid as if you were attending classes on campus. In addition, Lauren suggests applying for scholarships that are geared toward helping students finance their time abroad. And contrary to popular belief, studying abroad doesn’t usually delay graduation. As long as the courses taken abroad match up to ones that are offered at the home university, they are counted for equal credit. “The world is getting smaller and it will continue to,” says Lauren. “Going abroad gives students the opportunity to see things from a different perspective and they come back more sure of themselves and their path.” LEARN MORE: NOT CORRECT INFO 12945 Marengo Rd., Galt, (209) 745-0249, Ghsdk12.ca.us

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SPLISH-Splash Water Safety

 BY NORA HESTON TARTE

Rule No. 1 when it comes to water is safety first! Whether you’re boating the Delta or attending a pool party at the neighbor’s house; these simple steps will help kids stay safe.

DON’T OVERESTIMATE A CHILD’S ABILITIES.

It’s important to know a child’s skill level when it comes to swimming. Watch your own child in the water to evaluate what they can, and can’t, handle on their own. If you’re hosting an outing in your backyard pool, make sure you ask parents where their child is skill-wise, and plan accordingly. Weak swimmers should stay in the shallow end, or wear protective gear in the pool.

A WATCHFUL EYE IS MOST IMPORTANT.

There should be a designated watcher at all times during pool parties and lake outings. Don’t just expect a gaggle of adults to handle the situation; take shifts so at every moment of the day, an adult is keeping a close eye on kids in the water. Switch out every 15-30 minutes to make the shifts bearable and keep eyes sharp. The designated watcher should not be inebriated. If it’s a large affair, consider hiring a professional lifeguard.

A child who is comfortable in the water is a safe child. The best way to get your kid, and you, comfortable with swimming and water safety is to take them to swim lessons. Even if they are too young to learn to swim, in-pool lessons help get kids acclimated to the water, and often teach life-saving safety measures such as floating and exiting a pool first.

GET IN THE WATER.

For kids that don’t have strong swimming skills, they really shouldn’t be in the water alone. Get in the water with your kids! Not only will it keep you at arm’s reach, which could make a difference in a dangerous situation, swimming together is also a great bonding experience! Also beware of those cute little infant floaties. Inflatables are not super sturdy, and could flip over. Infants could also lose their balance and go face down. If you’re going to use one, make sure you are right there with them.

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As Kara Ulricksen watches the bubbly three-year-old girl who sits with her mother, she begins to hum and point. By every measure, she is healthy and happy – except she never started talking. Speaking requires you to coordinate the movements of your throat, jaw, tongue, and lips. For most children this is a skill they begin to pick up well before their first birthday, leading to babbling and baby talk. Many factors can impact learning to speak, including autism and other disabilities, but in this case it was simply a developmental delay. As a speech pathologist at The Gift of Speech in Stockton, Kara has worked with many children who have delayed speech or another speech impediment, but almost five years later this story stands out to her. “When she left [The Gift of Speech] she was completely verbal,” says Kara who spent a year teaching the young girl how to move her jaw and tongue to produce the correct sounds. “It was just incredible to see the growth and the change.”

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Most patients seen by Kara and her partner Tracey McDonnell at The Gift of Speech are toddlers or young school age children whose parents or teachers have concerns about their ability to communicate at the same level as their peers. Pediatricians are also able to identify early signs of a developmental speech impediment, but Tracey warns that parents shouldn’t wait for someone else to diagnose a problem if they have concerns. “A parent often is the first evaluator of their child,” she says. “They know their child better than the professional that will get a snapshot of the child in an unfamiliar place with unfamiliar people.” Typically by 18 months or two years old, a child should be using at least 15 meaningful words and making two word phrases. If by three the child is gesturing more than they are speaking, it may be a sign of concern. The Gift of Speech offers several group programs for children who are showing signs of developmental delays in their speech. P.L.A.Y. (Pragmatic Language and Articulation for Young Minds) caters to children ages three to five, focusing on self-expression and vocabulary development. Flex Club is a small group program that teaches children ages 5 to 8 and 11 to 13 about interpretation, inferences, and nonverbal communication. While the outcome of speech therapy is dependent upon the individual and the support of their family, many patients respond well and see clear improvement. “Communication is an essential part of life,” says Tracey. “To impact lives and success of clients is empowering.” 3031 W. March Ln., #117 Stockton, (209) 952-2588 GiftofSpeechInc.com

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When the heat is getting you down, it’s time to take a trip out to your favorite grove for a day of food and fun! SactoMoFo proudly presents a scrumptious surplus of fine cuisine, hailing from our own backwoods and the big city up north! Grab a blanket, or choose a picnic table and enjoy sweets, and savory bites before taking a trip in to visit with your best buddies at Micke Grove Zoo! Micke Grove Park, 11793 N. Micke Grove Rd., Lodi SactoMoFo.com

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CRITTER CORRAL AT SAN JOAQUIN COUNTY HISTORICAL MUSEUM

JUL 8 – AUG 27

Our favorite animal friends are back at Micke Grove Regional Park! After a walk through the enriching San Joaquin County Historical Museum, take the little ones to meet and greet a variety of barnyard buddies, including ponies, sheep and more! This interactive exhibit showcases every Saturday and Sunday, from 11:00 AM to 3:00 PM. Micke Grove Park, 11793 N. Micke Grove Rd., Lodi SanJoaquinHistory.org

MOVIES AT THE POINT: SING

JUL 14

Why stay cooped up in the house when it’s a beautiful, sunny evening along the waterfront? Join up with San Joaquin’s families to enjoy a movie at Weber Point. This month’s showing? Sing! The hilarious adventure involving a cast of talented animal performers, all pining to win the million dollar prize in a wacky competition ran by the theater’s owner in a last ditch effort to save his business! The showing begins at dusk, but gates will open at 6:30 PM! Weber Point, 221 N. Center St., Stockton (209) 937-8206 VisitStockton. com

XANADU JR AT STOCKTON CIVIC THEATRE

JUL 20 – 23

San Joaquin’s young showstoppers take the stage in Stockton Civic Theatre’s summer youth program. Enjoy their full-scale musical performance of Xanadu, the story of a young man who finds his muse in a girl who, strangely enough, ends up being an actual muse and daughter of Zeus himself! Follow along in this hilarious story of dreams, ambition and romance. Stockton Civic Theatre, 2312 Rosemarie Lane., Stockton (209) 473-2400 SCTLiveTheatre.com

CHRISTMAS IN JULY AT PIXIE WOODS

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Tower Park Resort & Marina is bringing the Wild West back, with Yogi Bear kicking off the gold rush in this funfilled weekend! Enjoy all the attractions, including the chance to make for the little ones to make their own bolo tie! Let them wear it proudly on the Saturday night hoedown alongside friends! Tower Park Resort & Marina, 14900 W. Hwy 12, Lodi TowerparkResort.com

Even Santa needs a few hours in the sun! Join him at Pixie Woods for a day of holiday-fun! Enjoy arts and crafts, special activities, and visit the holly, jolly man himself before he makes his trip back up to the North Pole! During your visit, make sure to take the little ones on their own trip through Pirate Lagoon on the Pixie Queen paddle boat, and other exciting rides! Pixie Woods at Louis Park, 3121 Monte Diablo Ave., Stockton (209) 937-8206

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Pack up the family and head on down to the Stockton Buddhist Temple to experience a day infused in Japanese culture! Food vendors and game booths line the walkways and corridors with authentic cuisine and entertainment, while taiko drum, Japanese dance, and martial arts demonstrations are showcased along the stage. Enjoy bonsai exhibits and a traditional Japanese tea ceremony. Buddhist

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INTERNATIONAL BANANA FESTIVAL

AUG 18 - 20

Enjoy three fun, banana-filled days at the San Joaquin Fairgrounds, celebrating the international reach o the delectable banana! Hosted by the National Academic Youth Corps, you and your little one can learn all about the nutritional impact, preparation, and the many cultures impacted by this delectable fruit. Enjoy live music, cooking demonstrations, activities, and more! San Joaquin County Fairgrounds, 1658 S. Airport Way., Stockton SacBananaFestival.com

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STOCKTONCON

AUG 19 - 20

Don’t miss your favorite superheroes, heroines, and dynamic crime fighters at this year’s gathering of the comic greats! Enjoy a variety of activities, and the chance to pose with costumed crusaders! Don your own attire and hit the arena with the kids, perusing games, original artwork and so much more! Doors open at 10:00 AM! Stockton Arena, 248 W. Fremont St., Stockton StocktonCon.com

ZOOVIES AT MICKE GROVE ZOO: ZOOTOPIA

AUG 19

What better place to take the kids for a few hours of movie fun, than the Micke Grove Zoo, where this month’s “zoovie” just so happens to be “Zootopia”! Let your little ones forge new friendships as they watch one of their favorite blockbuster hits! Bring a blanket or lawn chair and settle in. Zoo opens at 7:30 PM, while movie begins at 8:45 PM. Micke Grove Park, 11793 N. Micke Grove Rd., Lodi MGZoo.com

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Mommin’

AIN’T EASY  BY NORA HESTON TARTE

Some days are hard. Correction: most days are hard. I feel constantly overwhelmed by taking care of both myself and a second human on a daily basis, making sure all of his needs are met, keeping him happy, entertained, and enriched; building a human being that will become someone I’d like to know as an adult. It’s a lor. I try to remind myself “everyone does this.” It seems crazy; somewhere out there there is a 16-year-old mom with the same duties as me, crushing it. I should feel comforted by that fact, but it doesn’t make the day-today any easier. And then there are those other days, these rare glimpses into what the future (hopefully) looks like, where my son is courteous, behaved, and loving. Where he says please and thank you all the time, asks politely for food at a restaurant that he then sits down and eats without complaint. Days where we go out for a meal and he stays in the booth the entire time, fidgeting only slightly but not bounding out of his seat to run away. I can never figure these days out; they honestly almost don’t even feel real because they are so different from our average day, the ones where I feel that I struggle to keep my temper in check while my son constantly pushes my buttons, testing his boundaries. I’m not sure if he’s too tired to be the psycho he normally is, if I’m in a particularly good mood that seems to be clouding his behavior in some magical way, or if this is a glimpse into my future; into what it looks like to have a child and not a toddler anymore. The days when all of that reasoning and disciplining you’ve been doing finally feels like it will pay off—after months of being fairly certain timeouts were all completed in vain. I know there will be future struggles, ones much more mentally trying than those of today, where I have to worry about bad influences and peer pressure and a world so much scarier than that of 3-yearolds. But today, I’m taking the win. I’m cherishing this good day to as a memory to call upon during all the hard times that lay ahead. To the moments this threeyear-old starts acting like a three year old again. We have to take these wins when we can, moms. And today, I’m taking mine, and giving myself a little credit, too—in the form of a bowl of ice cream touted as a “good behavior” gift for my son.

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