San Joaquin PARENTS Magazine March/April 2017

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The Annual Stockton Earth Day Festival is Back!

AT VICTORY PARK ON APRIL 23

6. This For That: Snack Swaps for Kids

Trying to pack a healthy lunchbox for your kids? Make these easy snack swaps to go from sugar high to high in nutrients.

7. Preschool Prep

Is preschool in your tot’s future? Don’t get caught off guard.

Here are 5 Things to know before signing on the dotted line.

25. Picture Perfect

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8. It’s Raining, it’s Pouring

Looking for a way to entertain kids on a rainy day?

Whether you want to stay home, or get out without getting wet, this list of 25 rainy day activities to keep kids busy has everything you need to survive a day (or week!) of bad weather.

12. 5-Minute Face (or less!)

about screen time.

From iPads and smart phones to video games and television shows, it seems like a never-ending parade of easy entertainment…

18. Mommy & Me Yoga

We’ve compiled a few poses that are perfect for your little one to enjoy with you!

Whether you’re too tired to care or too busy to find time, as mothers, our beauty routines sometimes fall by the wayside.

But have no fear, the five-minute face is here!

26. 209 Agenda

15. Let’s Get Digital

Education Profiles

As parents of 21st century kids, we’re constantly worried

March and April family-friendly events!

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HIGHLIGHTS

THIS for

THAT Snack Swaps for Kids  BY NORA HESTON TARTE

Trying to pack a healthy lunchbox for your kids? Make these easy snack swaps to go from a sugar high to high in nutrients.

BEVERAGES

A box stamped with “100 percent juice” doesn’t necessarily mean anything. Ditch the juice and instead choose water you flavor at home—think berries and citrus.

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Put down the bag of chips and go for popcorn instead. Air-popped popcorn is low in calories and better for kids than potato chips.

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The Annual

Stockton Earth Day Festival is Back!

At Victory Park on April 23  BY NORA HESTON TARTE

On April 22, 1970, American Senator Gaylord Nelson created Earth Day to remind Americans how important it is to take care of the environment. On that day, people made promises to make positive changes in their community that would better the Earth, and every year since we continue to do the same.

On April 23, Stockton residents will have their chance to celebrate at the 29th annual Earth Day Festival, an annual event held at Victory Park. The full day of family activities and entertainment have one central theme—increasing awareness and encouraging people

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to adopt (or continue) sustainable lifestyles.

This year’s event will include a family fun bike ride, yoga sessions, live musical performances given by area musicians and healthy dishes made with organic and locally sourced ingredients. Festivities begin at 10 AM! Want to make a bigger difference?

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Whether it’s string cheese or chocolate milk, there’s value in going organic. The trick is to make sure sugar content isn’t over the top and to avoid high fructose corn syrup. Another option? Plain Greek yogurt over flavored sugary varieties.

SWEET TOOTH

Instead of plopping even the smallest candy bar into your child’s lunch, choose a helping of dried fruit or dark-chocolate covered raisins or blueberries. There’s still some sugar but in comparison, it’s a small amount, and there are more healthy components, too!

EASY TO PACK

A fast option for pre-prepared snacks doesn’t have to mean cookies and crackers. There’s plenty in the way of prepackaged snack options these days that offer more nutrients.

Reach for a bag of dried, roasted veggies (try Crunchies) or organic applesauce (like GoGo squeeZ).

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Preschool

PREP

5 things parents should know before enrolling kids in preschool  BY NORA HESTON TARTE

Is preschool in your tot’s future? Don’t get caught off guard.

Here are 5 Things to know before signing on the dotted line.

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It’s important to start your search early. For many preschools, registration is already open or is opening soon. If you want first pick, get the ball rolling now. There is plenty of prep work to do before signing up and those who sign-up early have more flexibility in choosing their schedules.

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You have options. There’s no shortage of preschools in San Joaquin County, and they offer a lot of variety, including those affiliated with a church or held in someone’s home. Consider your personal educational philosophies and family needs before choosing. For example, many institutions boast academic rigor, while others praise play-based learning.

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Touring is your best tool. The first item on your to-do list after narrowing down potential preschools to a manageable pool should be taking a tour. A tour will allow parents to see how a preschool runs, meet teachers, and get a feel for the facilities. Bring your kid. They may have a say in where they feel most comfortable, or at the very least be able to tell you some of their likes and dislikes.

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Know what your child needs to start.

Before beginning preschool, there’s likely a small list of items that should be completed to ensure both you and your child are ready for this new adventure. Many preschools require kids to be potty trained, others have financial requirements, and most have rules about immunizations. There might also be items needed on the first day, such as a change of clothes or lunchbox.

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FAMILY FUN

It’s Raining, it’s Pouring 25 rainy day activities to keep kids busy  BY NORA HESTON TARTE

Looking for a way to entertain kids on a rainy day? Whether you want to stay home, or get out without getting wet, this list has everything you need to survive a day (or week!) of bad weather.

6. STAY IN.

Too drizzly to venture out? Moana is available to stream digitally on iTunes and other platforms.

7. PASS THE TIME AT AN ARCADE.

San Joaquin County is home to a few gems.

Try Zaps Zone in Stockton or Tilt Arcade in Tracy.

8. BUILD.

Whether it’s LEGOs, tinker toys, or wooden blocks, get creative with your little ones and build an architectural masterpiece… or, you know, just a really tall tower.

9. MAKE CLOUD DOUGH. 1. GET WET.

If it’s not coming down cats and dogs, venture outside for puddle jumping. Expert Tip: cute rain boots necessary.

2. VIEW ART.

Until April 2, student art is on display at Haggin Museum in Stockton as part of the 86th Annual McKee Student Art Contest & Exhibition. When you’re done…

5. SEE A DOUBLE FEATURE.

March sees many releases of familyfriendly films. Choose from Beauty & the Beast (March 17), Power Rangers (March 24), and The Boss Baby (March 31). On March 26, The Wizard of Oz will play at Bob Hope Theatre.

3. CREATE YOUR OWN.

Empty the art cabinet and make a day of it. EXPERT TIP: The Haggin Museum store stocks art supplies and coloring books.

4. READ A BOOK.

What better way to pass the day than snuggled on the couch, reading stories? Check out Dalmatian in a Digger, a story about a dog curious about the construction going on nearby.

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10. PLAY BOARD GAMES.

Make it a tournament! Expert TIP: Winner gets to pick what’s for dinner!

11. CREATE FLASH CARDS.

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FAMILY FUN 17. EMBRACE FORT LIFE.

Whether it’s blankets and the kitchen table or a tent in the living room, camping out indoors can take rainy days from humdrum to tons of fun. Expert Tip: Fill your fort with games, snacks and other items.

18. DRAW A BATH.

Bath time may not sound like your kids’ favorite pastime, but add in some flashing lights, bubbles and bath crayons to pass the time without whining. When the kids go to bed, it’s your turn! Pick up some mom-only luxuries from French at Heart.

19. GET BAKING.

Serve up chocolate chip cookies, or carrot cake a la mode.

20. FIND THE HEAT!

The Stockton Heat, that is. Grab a hotdog and cheer for the home team!

The last game is April 15.

21. EXPERIMENT!

Head to the WoW Museum in Lodi to get your science on. On the last Friday of every month, bring a friend for free.

22. DO SCIENCE AT HOME.

Mentos and coke anyone? The Everything Kids’ Science Experiments Book is full of ideas if you’re running low.

23. POP SOME CORN! 12. DIY JEWELRY.

Bead Dreams and Beads Plus in Stockton both stock shelves with colorful jewelry making must-haves (and other art and craft supplies).

13. VISIT THE LIBRARY.

If you’re lucky, your local branch may be hosting a story time that day.

14. HEAD TO LINCOLN CENTER. The close proximity of stores makes it easier to bounce from Sassy Pants Children’s Boutique to Nothing Bundt Cakes without getting (too) wet.

15. DIY TREASURE HUNT.

Put together a treasure hunt complete with clues (and don’t forget to pick out a worthy “treasure”). Make it a competition, or encourage kids to work together.

16. EXPERIMENT WITH SHADOW PUPPETS.

The youngest kids will be content to contort their hands and make silly noises, while grade-schoolers can create a more elaborate production. Put together a small skit using nothing but your hands and a flashlight.

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All these cozy activities call for yummy snacks. Take microwave popcorn to the next level with a unique flavor. Try mustard-pretzel (four tablespoons melted butter, two tablespoons Dijon mustard, one teaspoon sugar, and one halfteaspoon kosher salt drizzled over 12 cups of hot popcorn and four cups of mini pretzels) or cookies and cream (heat one-fourth cup sweetened condensed milk in a saucepan over medium heat, drizzle over 12 cups hot popcorn, and toss with four cups crushed Oreos).

24. PLAN A (hypothetical?) VACATION.

Grab a map and let each kid choose a destination they’d like to visit (or have them work together on one).

Give them tools to research where to stay, what to do, how to get there, etc. The tricky part is, they have to stick to a budget! Who knows… maybe you’ll find your next vacation destination.

25. GET OUT OF DODGE!

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HEALTH & BEAUTY

MINUTE FACE (or less!)  BY NORA HESTON TARTE

Whether you’re too tired to care or too busy to find time, as mothers, our beauty routines sometimes fall by the wayside. But have no fear, the five-minute face is here!

It all starts with your skin, take care of that and the rest gets easier. Not only will you look younger naturally, but you’ll have less need for beauty products to cover blemishes and discoloration, and as an added bonus, makeup will go on smoother.

Central Valley Dermatology Esthetician Dominique Bobian suggests cleansing, exfoliating and applying sunblock as the simplest first steps to a fresh face beauty routine. For makeup, keep it minimal. BB cream is a good alternative to foundation.

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Cleanser removes makeup, dead skin cells, oil, dirt, and other unwanted elements from the skin. The Epionce Gentle Foaming Cleanser works well with normal to combination skin.

(CVDerm.com) Exfoliation removes dry skin cells to reveal smoother, younger-looking skin.

Dermalogica Daily Superfoliant uses a highly active resurfacer to fight the appearance of aging while simultaneously smoothing skin.

(Dermalogica.com) A tinted moisturizer gives coverage while also keeping dry skin at bay, and Revision Intellishade SPF 45 combines the need for light coverage with a high-SPF skin-protecting formula. As both a sunblock and a BB cream, it reduces the number of products needed in your morning routine. (CVDerm.com)

LAST STEP: APPLY BRONZER.

This final product gives your skin color and dimension. In addition to highlighting cheekbones, spread it over your forehead, nose, and chin.

“Its actually faster than 5 minutes!”

Dominique says of the whole routine.

With your remaining minutes, you can up the look with a few extras. Consider white eyeliner on your bottom, inner lash line (a good trick for looking more awake than you really are) and mascara on top lashes to make your eyes pop.

Blush is another option for adding color, and it works well with bronzer. Just make sure you apply blush to the apples of your cheeks first.

And if you don’t need anything more than the simple routine Dominique suggests, spend your last couple of minutes doing something just for you, whether that’s drinking a cup of coffee, or taking a few deep breaths.

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 BY NORA HESTON TARTE

e constantly worried about As parents of 21st century kids, we’r rt phones to video games screen time. From iPads and sma r-ending parade of easy neve a like and television shows, it seems electronics don’t deserve the bad entertainment. But it’s possible that a TV screen, doing little more than rap. Sure, spending hours in front of pass time—kids need exercise and to way clicking a button isn’t a healthy time spent outdoors, relationships interaction—but when combined with be one part of a healthy, balanced can with peers, and imaginative play, it childhood.

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“Kids need to be successful in the 21st Century,” says Maryanne Friend, program manager for Teachers College of San Joaquin. “By not offering technology use, we are limiting essential skills that kids will need to be college and career ready.”

Stephen Callahan, a science teacher at West High in Tracy and SJCOE STEM expert, echoes that idea. “Giving kids access to learning how to navigate and use technology gives them the skills they will need later in life. Technology, electronics included, is a part of STEM—a field with lots of good paying jobs.”

So, consider time spent with electronics as time spent learning necessary skills for the future, when the ability to use and manipulate technology will be imperative for the next generation.

Social media, coding, technological interfaces, and more are all part of the changing workplace. Students need to know not only how to use current media but how to learn new platforms as they come.

“In 21st century schools, students often carry more technology in their pockets than their teacher has in the entire classroom,” says Tammy Brecht Dunbar, M.Ed, a fifth-grade teacher at Manteca Unified. “Students are used to using technology every day; if it is not used in the classroom, then their schools seem backward or dysfunctional.”

My ‘aha moment’ was that there must be even Some parents more ways that technology could help students criticize the overcome obstacles and find success. growing number –Tammy Brecht Dunbar, Manteca Unified of Chromebooks and other digital tools that are becoming a mainstay THE TRICK IS FINDING BALANCE. in classrooms, but part of this DUNBAR PUTS IT SIMPLY: introduction to technology belongs in schools. “Even though we are mostly digital immigrants, we should “Don’t hand off your parenting duties to be modeling our positive uncertainty electronic devices,” she says. “Be attentive. Be about learning and using technology active. Be nosy. Regardless of age, kids need so that our students are unafraid parents who care enough about them to interact of what they’re going to see in five, with them and talk to them and really listen to ten, or even twenty years,” Dunbar what they have to say.” explains. “Our students need to see This can be achieved through routines that that we are comfortable learning a bring the family together such as family dinners, new piece of software, manipulating story time, or family date nights. Anything that digital tools, or Bing-ing an answer.” calls families to set aside scheduled time to “Proper use of technology in the spend together, be present, and not be consumed classroom can be an effective way by electronics. to engage students in learning. Using It’s also important that kids spend time technology as a tool to reinforce in other activities. Whether that is playing a content through integration of core sport, reading, joining a club or group, or just subjects, brings the learning to life and doing normal kid things with their friends, [supports] a better understanding of peer interaction and traditional, non-electronic the subject matter,” Friend says learning are part of the equation.

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PARENTING in the

DIGITAL

Stephen Callahan, like many parents, is new to parenting with electronics and regulating use at home.

“My daughter just received a tablet for Christmas,” he shares.

“There are basic controls that I set up to begin, like limiting apps that she has access to. There are rules for behavior like not taking photos of people without their permission. Then there are changes that occur as we find new apps and she learns more.”

Because navigating the world of electronics is new to both Callahan and his daughter, rules and limits that surround her technology use constantly evolve, but communication and supervision remain among the most important concepts so that Callahan can ensure his daughter stays safe with technology and develops good judgment for the future.

“Parents have a unique dilemma with technology,” he says. “Most things that we teach to our children we know from our own childhood…

When I was my daughter’s age my experience with computers consisted of Cookie Monster Munch on a RadioShack TSR-80 and Oregon Trail on an Apple computer with a black and green screen. It’s a learning experience for me.”

As he learns, so do his kids.

“I think I tend to try to push for caution and safety for my kids.

I want that to be on their mind as they grow up and gain more freedom and responsibility.”

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TEACHING in the

DIGITAL

Tammy Brecht Dunbar experienced firsthand how technology could change learning for students.

“Carlos had a bright, engaging smile, loved to read, and was very well spoken. However, when it came to writing assignments, he froze,” she said.

“Carlos just could not get words down on paper.”

Halfway through the year, Carlos struggled with a writing assignment about a book he enjoyed. So, Dunbar made him stay in at recess to work on it with her. That’s when she reached for her iPad. “(I) asked him just to talk about his favorite part of the book,” she said. “He began to discuss what he most enjoyed about the book. When he was done talking, I tapped my screen a couple of times, and then asked him to read what was on it. He started reading aloud, then said, ‘That’s what I just said!’”

With the help of technology, Dunbar was able to show Carlos her expectations for the assignment: to write like he talks. “That’s when I saw the look of understanding on his face; he was making the connection between what he had said and what was showing on the screen. My ‘aha moment’ was that there must be even more ways that technology could help students overcome obstacles and find success.

The smile on his face made me determined to find them.”

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By not offering technology use, we are limiting essential skills that kids will need to be college and career ready.

–Maryanne Friend, Teachers College of San Joaquin

“When kids are allowed extensive use of technology, there becomes a dependency on devices and an obsession with social media sites. Kids that are allowed to spend countless hours using electronics can show signs of sleep deprivation and a lack of social interaction with friends and family,” Friend warns.

Don’t let electronics be isolating.

Watch together or put the computer in a communal area where you can keep an eye on how your child spends time online. This helps create a safe environment for your child to explore technology, gives you a front row seat to the programs they are watching (so you can ensure they are age appropriate), and circles back to Dunbar’s advice: BE a parent.

“It’s all about communication,” says Friend. “Parents need to talk to their kids about potential problems that can arise when personal information is divulged through the Internet. Teaching kids about their ‘digital footprint’ (the information about a particular person that exists on the Internet as a result of their online activity) and the negative impact it can have on their future is essential.”

According to Friend, a key distinction between smart electronic use and overuse is to develop students that are users of technology and not just consumers of technology.

Common Core Standards added a technology component to classrooms as

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early as Kindergarten to ensure students are learning what they should about technology.

Simple tools like keyboards and computer mice are mastered through a gradual succession of difficulty like any other subject in school.

“Students need to be able to use a keyboard, identify keys and master the use of a mouse to publish and produce writing with the help of an adult,” says Friend. “By third grade, students must be somewhat proficient in keyboarding.”

WEBSITES/ APPS TO TRY CommonSenseMedia.org, a resource for parents and kids on media usage ABCya.com, a learning app for kids K-5 Code.org, interactive web apps that teach kids how to code Curious World, an online app for reading, watching, and games geared toward kids ages 2-7 Cookie Monster’s Challenge, nine levels of mini games teach self-control, focus, and how to follow directions for kids ages 3+

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CHALLENGE

MOMMY &

me YOGA  BY COPPER WILLIAMS

As a mother, it’s likely you aren’t getting out to the gym quite as often as you’d like. After all, chores and chasing after rogue toddlers can take up quite a bit of time! But your well-being is important, and that’s why, whenever there’s a moment to spare, you should be taking a good, long stretch! But why keep good habits all to yourself? We’ve compiled a few poses that are perfect for your little one to enjoy with you!

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Sitting across from your little one, set your feet against theirs and stetch out your legs as far as they normally can.

Then, reach out your arms as they reach out to yours, holding onto theirs if you can. This stretch helps the legs, arms, and back.

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Have your child crawl up onto your back as you lay, stomach down, against the floor. Bend your knees back so that your feet are aimed towards your head.

Reach out with both arms and with your right arm grab your right leg, with your left arm grab your left leg. Your child will follow the same motion, allowing you both to stretch out your legs, arms, and torso.

Sitting on the floor, bend your knees toward your chest and set your little one, chest first, against them. Roll onto your back, knees still bent, and as you roll your child will remain atop your knees. Sway your legs gently from side to side, holding their arms to make sure they don’t roll off! Bring your head

forward in a crunch to give them a little peck on the forehead!

LEGS UP MOMMY

Lying on your back, raising your feet into the air in a 90-degree angle. Have your little one scooch up against your legs, performing the same 90-degree angle with your legs as a support. Bonus if you both extend your arms up and over your heads for a big stretch!

STACKED CHILD

Place your knees on the floor and rest your bottom on the top of your feet.

Lean forward, with your arms resting limp at your sides, and rest your head against the floor. Have your little one climb aboard and mimic this same posture!

EDUCATION

PROFILES OUR AREA'S FINEST SCHOOLS & EDUCATION PROGRAMS There are many local San Joaquin County schools that offer dynamic education programs that lead to graduation and adult success. Check out the incredible opportunities that are available to students locally, ranging from scholarships to enrich programs in the arts.

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PROFILES CATHEDRAL OF THE ANNUNCIATION SCHOOL Cathedral of the Annunciation School, located in central Stockton, has served the community as a dynamic K-8 Catholic grammar school since 1956. Annunciation School is part of the Roman Catholic Diocese of Stockton and is fully accredited by WASC and WCEA. Our school wide learning expectations emphasize quality academics, faith formation, problem solving, and effective communication skills.

Inspired by the message and teaching of Jesus Christ, the faculty and staff at Annunciation School is dedicated to educating the “whole” student. The students are guided to achieve a healthy balance - spiritually, physically, intellectually, socially, and emotionally. We strive to produce ambitious students who use their faith-based values to reach their full potential while never losing sight of the call to serve others.

Integral to learning at Annunciation School are the numerous opportunities for cooperative learning: hands-on activities, public speaking, field trips, and exposure to theater and music. Additionally, Annunciation School has a fully equipped computer lab and 1:1 Chromebooks and iPads for most classrooms. Our dynamic curriculum challenges the students to achieve their personal best and develop a strong foundation for success at the high school and college levels.

CATHEDRAL OF THE ANNUNCIATION SCHOOL 1110 N.Lincoln St., Stockton, (209) 444-4000, Annunciation-School.org

COMMUNITY CENTER FOR THE BLIND Educating, inspiring, and rehabilitating, Community Center for the Blind has been meeting the needs of people in San Joaquin County who are blind or visually impaired since 1949.

Support from the community has allowed the agency to provide the information, tools and resources that empower and inspire people who are blind or visually impaired to achieve their full potential. An adult confronted with vision loss often feels limited and frustrated in performing a variety of daily activities and requires new techniques and tools to accomplish those activities. Young people who are blind or visually impaired must learn life skills beyond those of a classroom.

CCBVI blends educational, social and recreational activities, adaptive techniques and assistive technology, and a nurturing environment with peers to facilitate integration with the sighted world. CCBVI offers services for people of all ages to help them, and their families and friends, cope with vision loss, improve their quality of life, and become or remain independent, participating members of society: • Information/Referral • Braille • Assistive Technology • Orientation & Mobility • Daily Living Skills • Summer Youth Camp • Second Saturdays • Adjustment to Vision Loss • Vision Loss: A Family Affair • Leisure Skills • Transportation • Support Groups • Education and Pre-Employment Transition Services • Serving teens through seniors COMMUNITY CENTER FOR THE BLIND 2453 Grand Canal Blvd., Ste. #5, Stockton CommunityCenterfortheBlind.org

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BRIGHT FUTURES GROW IN GALT

Preparing “Future Ready” Graduates Welcome to Galt Joint Union High School District. Our two high schools, Galt High School and Liberty Ranch High School, attract families from San Joaquin and southern Sacramento counties who seek a small, personalized high school setting.

Dedicated teachers take pride in preparing “Future Ready Graduates” to succeed in college, career and life.

Realizing that 65% of today’s schoolchildren will eventually be employed in jobs that have yet to be created*, we recently introduced the Career Learning Internship and Mentorship (CLIMB) Program. CLIMB enables career pathways by providing relevant work experience, internship and mentorship for learners targeting a career in Information Technology.

STUDENTS ENJOY:

Mentorships with top technology companies; Classroom instruction on fundamental IT concepts; Hands-on labs putting theory into practice with real equipment; and On-the-job shadowing in fields of interest.

Later this year, the District will introduce comprehensive Communication and Information Technology Pathways options. These begin with a foundation in exploring computer science and continue with specialty coursework through Advanced Communication and

“All students succeed in college, career andcivic life.”

Information Technology. We invite you to visit our district and experience the differences in the quality education we provide each student. Source: U.S. Department of Labor GALT JOINT UNION HIGH SCHOOL DISTRICT 12945 Marengo Rd. Galt, (209) 745-0249 Ghsd.k12.ca.us, Ghsd.us

We value each and every student. We offer a well-rounded program and an active spiritual environment that includes many outreach opportunities and community service projects. The Fine Arts program at Lodi Academy is thriving with more than 80% of our students involved in the musical programs, art, band, choir and drama. A variety of varsity sports are offered and compete regularly in the CIF League. Our athletes are high achieving students with the majority of our athletes on honor roll maintaining a GPA of 3.5 or better. Off-site learning experiences and incredible trips are offered throughout the year.

Lodi Academy is WASC accredited and is recognized by the University of California as an approved college preparatory secondary school. We invite you to tour our campus, talk to our staff, visit our website and learn more about how we can partner with you in the education of your children!

LODI ACADEMY Lodi Academy is a Christian, college-prep high school focused on providing the best possible high school experience to our students. We offer a complete program centered on academic achievement, spiritual development, and co-curricular opportunities. Since 1908, Lodi Academy has helped thousands of students prepare for their future with the skills necessary to pursue their postsecondary educational and career goals. Located on a beautiful 40-acre campus, we keep our class sizes small. Our teachers are credentialed in their subject areas, and many hold Masters or Doctorate degrees.

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preschool program offers children ages 2- entry into first grade the opportunity to learn and be academically challenged within a safe and loving environment.

Focusing on community-based early childhood education, the staff and teachers at Loving Kids Academy are hand-picked and specially chosen for their education, experience, and total dedication to children’s needs. As Stockton’s only non-profit STEAM-based preschool, our center aims to foster optimal growth in each of our valued children, focusing on their social and educational progress in a holistic manner.

In our center children enjoy personalized attention from their teachers through individualized instruction.

Loving Kids Academy is committed to five fundamental purposes for all children: 1. Kindergarten Readiness Skills 2. Early literacy and Family Literacy 3. Socio-Emotional Development 4. Character Development and 5. Health and Safety Join us to learn more about our preschool program at one of our open house events and you will quickly discover why more families everyday are choosing Loving Kids Academy!

WELCOME TO LOVING KIDS ACADEMY WHERE LOVE MEETS LEARNING! At Loving Kids Academy children establish the foundation needed to succeed in kindergarten and beyond. Our

Friday, April, 14th at 6pm Friday, June, 2nd at 6pm LOVING KIDS ACADEMY 1004 N. Grant St., Stockton (209) 425-1543, LovingKidsAcademy.com

success. We provide choice and support to our families with full access to curriculum, technology, generous discretionary funds, onsite workshops and classes, as well as our UCCI integrated arts program. We would be honored to assist you in charting your child’s unique path to success. Thank you. -Dr. Marcie Grill RIO VALLEY CHARTER SCHOOL 1110 W. Kettleman Ln. #10, Lodi (209) 368-4934, RioValley.org

RIO VALLEY CHARTER SCHOOL As the Principal of Rio Valley Charter School, and as a homeschooling parent, I know that creativity and academic achievement can coexist through individualized education. Our dedicated staff is committed to our students’

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SAN JOAQUIN COUNTY OFFICE OF EDUCATION A new text-messaging service available in San Joaquin County is helping parents teach young children skills to succeed in kindergarten and beyond.

Ready4K is a free, evidence-based program that sends out text messages with facts and tips that can turn everyday activities – like a trip to the grocery store – into a time to teach and learn.

SNELL’S PRE-KINDERGARTEN SCHOOL This year Snell’s Pre-Kindergarten School is celebrating our 110th year of educating area children! We are the oldest privately owned pre-school in California and have been a family tradition for many and a must for those who have wanted educational excellence

“It helps parents know how to take advantage of teachable moments they might not have recognized,” said Brandi Harrold, early childhood education director at the San Joaquin County Office of Education (SJCOE). “It is tied into something families are doing anyway.”

Ready4K delivers three text messages a week. The three text messages build on one another. For example, one week of texts focuses on making bath time into a teachable moment. During that week, parents receive a tip to ask their child to identify letters on a shampoo bottle.

Developed at Stanford University and administered by the ParentPowered Technologies Public Benefit Corporation, Ready4K is offered to families throughout San Joaquin County through the SJCOE. Families can sign up through Head Start San Joaquin, school districts, and other organizations in the county.

It is free and open to all.

To sign up your 3-year-old, text “R4K SJ3” to 70138. Text “R4K SJ4” to the same number for 4-year-olds. For kindergarteners, text “R4K SJ5”.

FOR MORE INFORMATION ON READY4K, PRESCHOOL, AND OTHER SERVICES: (209) 468-9031.

and a joyous pre-school learning experience for their children. Our teaching philosophy combines old-fashioned values, new ideas, and skills for the challenges children and parents face in the 21st Century.

Our dedicated staff works with the individual youngster to facilitate and expand his/her learning capabilities. Keeping with the tradition established by Miss Snell in 1906, we continue developing innovative, specialized programs and keep abreast of the necessary academic standards and skills needed upon entering Kindergarten, all-the-while maintaining our priority for each child to understand and learn the life skills needed to become a good and happy productive citizen.

We offer half-day Pre-Kindergarten for 4 and 5 year olds on Monday, Wednesday and Friday. This year we introduced a 5 day program for parents who want more class time for their children. Using a definite yet flexible program and our century old music and movement curriculum, we help each child to learn in accordance with his/her needs and interests. We strive to make each child feel secure in school; to be responsible; to be independent; to use and to expand his/ her knowledge and vocabulary; to be happy in learning and being with other four and five year olds.

Our objectives for our Tuesday, Thursday 3 Year Old Classes are to have a happy learning atmosphere in which each child’s individual capabilities and interests can be developed; to help each child learn to listen and follow directions; to see each child work and play cooperatively with others; and to see each child gain a respect for himself/herself and others.

In addition to our traditional Pre-Kindergarten half day programs we also offer a before-and-after-school extended Educare program for working parents needing full and part-time care for their child.

Helping today’s child become tomorrow’s responsible citizen!

SNELLS PRE-KINDERGARTEN SCHOOL 9371 Lower Sacramento Rd., Stockton, (209) 478-6161, SnellsPrek.com

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PROFILES YMCA OF SAN JOAQUIN COUNTY Honesty, Caring, Respect and Responsibility are the core values of the YMCA of San Joaquin County and the very essence of our programs. Our goal, our passion and what we strive for is to teach these values to all youth. We instill these values during field trips, on the court, in the pool, on the field and everywhere else.

The Y is a positive force in this community.

Every day, the Y strengthens our community through programs and services focused on youth development, healthy living, and social responsibility. Together, we take on the challenges that shape San Joaquin County’s future. From tackling the achievement gap to teaching healthy habits for a lifetime to giving people the chance to strengthen our community through volunteering, everything the Y does is in service of building a stronger us.

PROGRAMS WE OFFER:

• Preschool • Summer Swim Lessons • Teen Leadership Camps

• Day Camps (Grades: K-8th) • Youth Sports (Ages: 3-17) • Child Care

YMCA OF SAN JOAQUIN COUNTY 2105 W. March LN., Ste. 1, Stockton, (209)472-9622, YmcaSjc.org

Thank you for voting us Best Children’s Dance Studio & Best Children’s Ballet!

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209.479.5384 www.UniqueVisionsDanceCompany.com Our studio offers classes in Ballet, Pointe, Jazz, Tap, Acrobatic Dance and Lyrical/Modern. It is our goal to teach our students the art of dance in a structured yet positive environment. Our studio is about striving for excellence in dance, community, school, family and life. We take pride in the fact that all students learn theatre and studio etiquette as well as the terminology, history, and proper execution of dance steps in an environment that builds respect, poise and self-confidence. We are convinced the benefits of their experience will be applied and utilized throughout their life.

Certified by Examination (Level I,II, & III) in the Dance Educators of America Teacher Training and Certification Programs and Acrobatic Arts Module One Certified.

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LOCAL RESOURCE

PICTUREperfect With Golden Gate Photo Booths  BY COPPER WILLIAMS

If a picture is worth a thousand words, Golden Gate Photo Booths is there to keep your guests talking long after the party hour is complete! Serving both the San Francisco Bay Area and our beautiful Central Valley, Golden Gate Photo Booths first took shape in 2016 by Alecia and Stephen Johnson. Their inspiration for entering such a unique enterprise?

Our guess is to see those smiles on every party goer’s face last a lifetime!

Whether considering a photo booth for your wedding, Bar/Bat Mitzvah, Quinceañera, birthday party or fundraiser, Golden Gate Photo Booths ups the ante compared to other photo booth options. They offer clients the latest and greatest in picture taking possibilities by taking the booth out of their photo booths! No, that’s not a typo. Removing those confining walls

allows more guests to pile in for a fun session behind the camera and allows for customized backdrops which meet your event theme and colors. Parties of eight can pose with ease, without pinched elbows or best friends backed into corners of tiny cubicles. The best part? Every booth is manned by a helpful, professional attendant who’s there to ensure guests have a fun photo booth experience.

With Golden Gate Photo Booths, sessions can be rented from a two-hour minimum, to a four-hour extravaganza.

Set up and break down is all a part of this package, with unlimited photo sessions for guests to use! Special occasions that deserve a little extra love have the option of using custom graphics or logos and custom backdrops to match the occasion’s theme. Best of all, each guest can choose from a plethora of fun photo

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props to make the experience even more unique!

If you’re looking to give a little more love to your friends and family, premium backdrops, 4x6 print upgrades, and lifesize cutouts can bring further fun to any occasion! An online gallery is also available for guests to find their social media ready memories, while a USB drive of the images comes standard for the party’s host. Whether you want to mark the occasion for your little one’s fifth birthday, catch a school function on camera, or bring a whole new level of interaction to your family reunion, Golden Gate Photo Booths is there to capture it all!

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ANNUAL STOCKTON CHINESE NEW YEAR PARADE & CELEBRATION

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Bring in the Chinese New Year by flaunting your feathers and joining the ranks in a free celebration at the Stockton Civic Auditorium!

Enjoy a parade, exceptional delicacies, and more!

525 N. Center St., Stockton, StocktonNYC.org

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FAMILY MOVIE NIGHT @ HUTCHINS STREET SQUARE

HAGGIN 2ND SATURDAYS FOR FAMILIES: MIXED MEDIA & DRAWING

For only a dollar per person, bring the family out for movie night! Food and beverages are available for purchase and this month’s feature move is Walt Disney’s Hercules.

Tattoo artist and member of the 1850 Collective Ernest Tomasi leads the exploration in a guided multi-media drawing project. On the 2nd Saturday

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of each month, we hold a hands-on event for families with children ages 5-12.

Reservations are not required, but seating is available on a first come, first served basis. The Museum supplies all materials and activities are included with regular Museum admission. Haggin Museum, (209) 940-6315, education@hagginmuseum.org

NORCAL SCIENCE AND TECHNOLOGY FESTIVAL

MAR. 11

The NorCal Science & Technology Festival is a free one-day celebration of science featuring lectures, presentations, hands-on activities, and special exhibitions for NorCal residents of all ages. Admission is free and there will be hands on science activities for people of all ages. Tokay High School, NorCalScienceFestival.org

PACIFIC FAMILY HEALTH FAIR

MAR. 9 – 12

Learn more about how to maintain proper health, mentally and physically during this free event! Take advantage of health services, win raffle prizes, and scoop up all the free goodies from vendors! St. Luke’s Catholic Church, 3847 N. Sutter St., Stockton,(209) 965-7343

EVENING IN THE ARCHIVES

MAR. 16

Follow along with six artisans from our region and discover the tricks of their trade as they take you on a journey through how their craft has evolved throughout the years. This highly anticipated event features a variety of demonstrations in the illustrious Haggin Museum, the perfect venue for a trip back in time. The Haggin Museum, 1201 N. Pershing Ave., Stockton,(209) 940-6315, HagginMuseum.org

NCAA 2017 WOMEN’S BASKETBALL REGIONALS

MAR. 25, 27

Sweep yourself away in the crowd and cheer for our Division 1 schools in an all-out battle of the teams that will decide who moves on to the NCAA Championship. Stockton Arena, 248 W. Fremont St., Stockton, NCAA.com

FRIENDS OF THE FOX PRESENT: WIZARD OF OZ

MAR. 26

Dorothy certainly isn’t in Kansas anymore!

Presenting this movie classic, Friends of the Fox invites you to follow the yellow brick road to experience all your favorite songs. Arrive an hour early to enjoy art, wine, and a variety of appetizers in a pre-movie celebration! Bob Hope Theatre, 242 E. Main St., Stockton, (209) 373-1400, StocktonLive.com

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THE GRAND FOUNDATION FILM FESTIVAL

APR. 8

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The Grand Foundation presents a special event reminiscent of days past! ETK Theatre will transform into a movie house to showcase the progressive works of student filmmakers from colleges, film/art schools and high schools within California, Arizona, Nevada and Oregon.

The Student Film Festival provides a platform for young filmmakers to have their film work live-screened by the public, to be judged and monetarily awarded. The festival will include two film industry professional Film-Talk speakers from Los Angeles, a Jury Panel Discussion, a Filmmakers Awards Reception giving First, Second and Third Place awards in both the college and high school divisions. Lunches are available for pre-purchase at box office. Tracy Grand Theatre Center for the Arts, GrandFoundation.org

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SAN JOAQUIN ASPARAGUS FESTIVAL

APR. 21-23

The San Joaquin Asparagus Festival offers everything from food to fun. Bring your family and friends and enjoy Asparagus Alley, Health & Wellness Fair, the San Joaquin Asparagus Festival Parade, Car Show, Craft Beer and Wine Pavilion, Kids Zone with carnival rides and games, Petting Zoo and so much more! SJC Fairgrounds, 1658 S. Airport Way, Stockton, (916) 370-3647

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TRIBE  BY NORA HESTON TARTE

It’s that knowing glance, the one from the mother across the aisle who sees you desperately trying to keep your cool as the toddler in your cart melts down in the middle of Target, yelling mean words, kicking and screaming. Just when you feel like everyone is judging you, you get that look, the one that says, “Man, have I been there before.”

It’s the stranger who holds the door as you head into the post office, pushing a stroller with one hand, package looped under your other arm. In your hardest moments, when you’re just trying to figure out how to accomplish everything on the to-do list with children in tow, those small gestures from strangers can be the difference between accomplishment and failure.

The fact of the matter is we can’t do this alone.

We may feel like we’re going at it solo, but mothers are part of a tribe, The Mom Tribe. Whether it’s the best friend you can joke about running away with or the checker at the grocery store who calms your children with stickers while you fumble for your credit card, you’re anything but alone.

Most of the time a favorite toy or a well-timed snack helps my son, and I make it through the day’s errands. Sometimes, though, it’s not enough.

My son is in a mood, and he loses his cool at the mall, and I’m positive the people around me are contemplating calling CPS because I’m clearly doing something wrong here. But it’s those little moments where nearby moms say a gentle word, often in passing, that I remember, I’m not alone.

We’re all going through this together. We distract each other’s crying babies, we pick up fallen toddlers, and we offer a kind “I’ve been there” as we walk by the overtired preschooler and his frazzled mother.

These interactions, these moments, they’re important. Feeling like you’re not screwing this all up is sometimes the only reminder needed to make it through hard days. And whether she knows it or not, the grandmother who gushes over my tiny human while I try to select the right cereal at Safeway, is my savior.

We may never exchange numbers or even names, but we’ve got each other’s backs. The kindness of fellow mothers reminds me not only to appreciate the women who save my day without knowing it but also to do the same for the ones I see in need. In those overwhelming moments, my tribe lets me know, we’ve got this, often without saying a word.

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Wine & Roses presents an exciting line up Cooking Classes for avid home cooks and food enthusiasts of all culinary levels, from beginners to advanced. Classes include demonstrations focusing on technique, and emphasis on seasonally appropriate ingredients.

April 7, Spring Fresh! Wine and Food Tasting and Pairing Join sommelier, Randy Caparoso as we explore some lovely lighter wines for the spring and summer months. He will be featuring a sparkling wine, some dry whites and a light dessert wine. All the wines will be paired with some delicious tastes prepared by Executive Chef, John Hitchcock. Grab a date or a group of friends and enjoy a fun class that will surely be pleasing to the palate. W&R Cellar Room, 6:30pm, $108.

May 4, Hawaiian Culinary Treasures Our Executive Chef, John Hitchcock, began his culinary journey while a college student in Hawaii. Many of his dishes often reflect his love of the islands and the unique ingredients used in Hawaiian cooking. This demonstration class will feature some very basic "local" food and some delectable dishes that say "Aloha". W&R Cellar Room, 6:30pm, $69.

June 15, Steakhouse Sides In this class, Chef John Hitchcock will prepare and present some classic side dishes found in famous steakhouses around the country. Some of the menu items include crab cakes, calamari, classic macaroni and cheese, and creamed spinach. W&R Cellar Room, 6:30pm, $82.

September 14, Easy Pan Sauces Turn boring weeknight meals into meals your family will crave with easy pan sauces. Instructor Lorraine Hitchcock will teach the proper technique for deglazing and adding layers of flavors with herbs, condiments, stocks, and fruits. Class participants will be tasting chicken, pork, and beef with accompanying sauces. W&R Cellar Room, 6:30pm, $65.

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