In this issue... to diy or not to diy
Countdown to “I DO!”
Mile High Style Shoot
Seasonal Trends
...and more!
magazine Free - Summer 2013
Valerie Cook Photography
Across the Miles Photography
H&H Photography
the team
Editor in Chief
Jody Cox
Graphic Designer,
Katie Salvacion
Assistant to Editor & Trend Researcher,
Cami Kern
Produced by,
Wood Printing
A note from the staff... Welcome to Summer Issue of She Said Yes!, the perfect pursesize magazine designed for the bride who wants style and substance in a quick and easy-to-digest format. Every season, She Said Yes! will deliver ice, steal-worthy ideas, expert adv ds nee e brid ry and insider tips eve am dre her ning plan when wedding. Want more? Log on to shesaidyesmagazine.com for more valuable content, a list of where you can pick up your free dcopy, a place to submit your fee for k wor or les artic for s back, idea publication consideration. We hope you enjoy this issue of She Said Yes! and have a blast planning your big day!
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Guy’s Fashion
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Budget Calculator
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Real Weddings
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Etiquette FAQs
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Pearls of Wisdom
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Countdown to.... I do!
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Color Palettes
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Must Have Pics
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West Coast Inspiration
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Something Borrowed
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To DIY or Not to DIY
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Mile High Style Shoot
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Wedding Day Emergency Kit 31 Seasonal Trends
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On the Front: This engagement photo of bride and groom, Stephanie Althoff and Michael Onyun , was shot in Downtown Decatur around Goods Warehouse. We love the contrast of the couple’s summery clothes against the grunge whitewashed building.
On the Back:
The newly married couple shared a kiss in Fairview Park while their bridal party took watch on the bridge.
Photos courtesy of the very talented Sarah Jane Shorthose of Sarah Jane Photography.
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108 E. Prairie St. Downtown Decatur | 217-422-9112 | www.brasshorn.com
Genesis Fitted Tuxedo For the groom who wants a tailored fit that’s not only timeless but fashion forward, the Genesis is the perfect choice. One button, single breasted styling and featuring a satin notch lapel, this tux is the epitome of modern style.
Savoy Tuxedo Keep your groom on trend with a soft grey tux and coordinating fullback vest. This tux has two button, single breasted styling and is tailored in a soft, luxurious Super 100’s wool. This look is perfect for spring and summer weddings.
Radnor Tuxedo If you’re looking for a classic look, the Radnor tux is perfect for your guy. With two button, single breasted styling and tailored in a soft, luxurious Super 100’s wool, your groom and groomsmen will walk down the aisle in style.
guy’s
Fashion from the fashion experts and co-owners of The Brass Horn, George Streckfuss and Ryan Spurlock
There is no doubt that it’s your day to shine. From the dress to the hair and makeup, you will be breathtaking. Your groom should look equally as striking by your side. That’s where we come in. The Brass Horn excels in style, selection and service. Stop in today and let us assist you with selecting the perfect tuxes for your bridal party. From the first consultation to the day you say “I Do”, you can count on our professional and experienced staff to make sure your groom and wedding party are picture perfect. Questions? Ask the experts at The Brass Horn.
Great Groomsmen Gifts Available at the Brass Horn
Steel Grey Tuxedo Looking for a modern look for your groom? This steel grey tux tailored in a soft, super fine wool with satin notch lapels is the perfect choice. Pair your groom & groomsmen with a coordinating vest that matches with your theme or colors.
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% of Budget 4.00% 34.00% 8.00% 2.00% 48.00%
Budget $1,000.00 $8,500.00 $2,000.00 $500.00 $12,000.00
Attire & Beauty The Gown & Alterations Headpiece/Veil & Bridal Accessories Hair, Makeup & Pre-wedding Pampering Groom’s Tux or Suit Groom’s Accessories Total Attire & Beauty
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Ceremony Ceremony Location Fee Officiant Fee/Donation Ceremony Accessories Total Ceremony
% of Budget 1.00% 0.75% 0.60% 2.35%
Budget $250.00 $187.50 $150.00 $587.50
Flowers & Décor Bride’s Bouquet Bridesmaid Bouquets Groom & Groomsmen Boutonnieres Flower Girl Flowers Additional Boutonnieres & Corsages Reception Decorations & Centerpieces Ceremony Decorations Total Flowers & Décor
% of Budget 0.75% 1.25% 0.20% 0.15% 0.50% 5.75% 1.40% 10.00%
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Music Ceremony Musicians Cocktail Hour Musicians Reception Music Total Music
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Photography/Videography Photographer Videographer Total Photography/Videography
% of Budget 7.00% 5.00% 12.00%
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Gifts Attendant Gifts Favors Parent Gifts Total Gifts
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Real Weddings:
ip h s n e k n a l B Sam and Kyle Jda, 2n0v13r in March 23rntion Center Mt. Zion Conve
Sam and Kyle wanted a ceremony and reception that married Kyle’s love of everything modern and Sam’s dream of a vintage style wedding
Sam’s Allure Bridal gown and jewelry were all about vintage fIair... (gown from Michelle’s Bridal and Tuxedo)... while Kyle opted for a more modern and casual look of a grey suit sans the jacket. (Suits from Seno’s Formal Wear)
With a gorgeous spring day, Sam’s chiffon coral gowns were the perfect choice for the bridesmaids
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Starting out with a foundation of white overlays and grey and white damask runners on a linen fabric gave a fIirty, vintage fIair that was casual while the ultramodern, oversized square charger plates and coral napkins kept it looking fresh. Modern glassware was used for a variety of blooms in peaches, corals and ivories for a minimalist vibe. An Affair To Remember assisted Sam and Kyle with their fIowers and décor.
Sam wanted a bouquet with shades of coral and white with a little looseness and whimsy in the shape. An Affair To Remember designed her bouquet with ranunculus, garden roses and peony tulips for lots of texture and color.
The couple made their getaway in the family’s Model T, which is a Janvrin family tradition. Transportation truly doesn’t get more vintage!
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Macon Community Center Ammenities:
-Fully equipped kitchen -Seating for 416 guests -Main Hall, 4,800 square feet -Great venue for wedding receptions, company picnics, corporate meetings, m mor ! holiday parties, family reunions and more!
1039 South Woodcock | Macon, IL Ju unction of Route 51 and Woodcock Junction Conta Pam Windell at 217.764.3643 Contact
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Pearls of Wisdom
Words of advice if local brides could do it all over again...
Nicole
Don’t procrastinate. Do things as far in advance as possible to keep the weeks closest to the big day as stress free as possible.
Photos courtesy of Valerie Cook Photography
Katelyn
Remember this day, always. Never forget the reason for a wedding. It’s about the marriage. Brides are worried about the perfect dress, the correct wording and design on the invitations, flowers, decorations, music, and the most delicious cake. There are only 2 things that matter that day - the bride and groom. No matter what, the wedding will be perfect because you are marrying your best friend. Relax and take it all in because the day goes by fast!
Photos by Kelly Manno Photography
Ashley
For a stress free wedding experience, give yourself enough time to plan and find out exactly what you want and how to make that fit into your budget. No matter what, your day is going to be absolutely amazing! If things do get stressful take a step back, figure out what your priorities are, make sure to keep an open mind about alternatives, and breathe. Also, more than half of the things that you need to do can be handled by someone else i.e. a professional wedding planner!
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Photos courtesy of Across the Miles Photography
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countdown to Plan the perfect day with our comprehensive planning timeline that takes you from the moment you say “YES” to the moment you say “I DO”!
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12-16 Months
hours
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Introduce both families and officially announce engagement Begin planning engagement party (if applicable) Discuss who will want to contribute financially to the wedding Decide on an overall budget Discuss with groom the type of wedding you want: style, size, location, etc... Start a wedding file Draft preliminary guest list (discuss with both sides of family and groom) Interview and hire wedding planner Compare calendars and select a date(s) Scout, interview, review contract details, and check available dates for ceremony location Scout, interview, review contract details and check available dates for reception location Research gown styles, colors, and shapes
10-12 Months Create a wedding website to share your wedding details o Check out : www.wedbuddy.com o Under settings, enter WB41 in the “referred by” field Decide upon ceremony and reception locations and book your date Begin detailed excel sheet for guest list with names and addresses Begin shopping for your wedding gown o Don’t forget to bring heels, strapless bras and hair clips Begin designing save-the-dates Settle on color scheme and/or theme Research marriage license and residency requirements if you’re getting married abroad
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days
Select wedding party members Reserve rooms for out of town guests Gather vendor recommendations from friends, family and/or planner Set appointments with vendors (decorators, DJs, florists, videographers, transportation, photographers, caterers, ceremony/reception musicians, equipment rentals, etc.)
6-9 Months Interview officiants (if applicable) Order and mail save-the dates Order/update passports for weddings or honeymoons abroad Interview and book vendors: decorators, DJs, florists, videographers, transportation, photographers, caterers, ceremony/reception musicians, equipment rentals, etc. Research honeymoon locations and prices Research invitation designs and book a designer Order gown and bridal accessories Research tailors and schedule fitting when gown is scheduled to arrive (2-3 months out) Shop and select bridesmaids and flower girl dresses and tuxes Begin shopping for bridal party and parent gifts Finalize wedding theme and color scheme with your decorator Book baker and schedule a tasting to finalize cake flavor, design and style o Discuss groom’s cake (if applicable) Finalize any remaining contracts Start registering for wedding gifts (choose items in various price ranges) Finalize guest list and mailing addresses Schedule a meeting with your officiant to begin counseling and/or to discuss ceremony details
4-5 Months Finalize invitation design and order invitations (get extra envelopes for errors!) o Test drive directions before sending directional cards Confirm bridesmaids have ordered dresses and select accessories Provide bridal shower guest list to maid-ofhonor or shower’s host Update registry lists before bridal shower invitations are mailed o Update wedding website with info Book honeymoon Work with officiant to finalize ceremony details - finalize songs, readings, etc. Be sure to give ceremony musician requested songs and ceremony outline Develop reception timeline including specific songs and playlists Select and order wedding rings Reserve tuxes and give instructions to groomsmen on reservations Draft ceremony timeline and program o Ask those you want to participate in the ceremony: readers, singers, guest book attendants, etc Schedule ceremony rehearsal with officiant and wedding party Schedule make-up and hair trials (take photos!) Discuss menu options and ideas with caterer Select and order favors and wedding accessories (unity candles, garters, guest book, ring bearer pillows, toasting glasses, etc) Confirm dates and plans for bachelor/ bachelorette parties
2-3 Months Attend first dress fitting Plan rehearsal dinner: book space and order invitations Research signature drink options Attend pre-marriage counseling or classes Begin dance lessons, if desired Request time off work for honeymoon Order wedding programs Finalize hair and make-up choices with stylist (remember to take photos!) Mail wedding invitations (some choose to number the back of the RSVPs cards incase someone mails it back without a name. You can cross check it with your excel sheet to find out who it was) Keep a record of RSVP cards you receive (use master excel sheet you used to gather and organize mailing addresses)
Order gifts for attendants and parents Attend bridal shower Write and mail shower thank-you notes Start drafting your wedding vows, if writing your own Schedule a tasting with your caterer and finalize reception menu Send wedding announcement to local newspaper, if desired Confirm tuxes have been reserved and ordered Prep for your honeymoon Take care of business: look into joint bank accounts, insurance, and merging your money Finalize your music for the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception, and review with musicians, singer, DJs Check that there are enough options left on your registry and update your wedding website Finalize rehearsal dinner plans and order rehearsal invitations, menus, table numbers, escort cards, and any other stationery accessories
1-2 Months Schedule pre-wedding pampering spa appointments, if desired Finalize ceremony readings and songs, and review with performers Order liquor/beverages if not handled by caterer Meet with your officiant to finalize the ceremony Begin writing thank you notes for early wedding gifts Apply for marriage license Prepare a photo and video shot list, naming important family guests and send to your photographer/ videographer Schedule the bridesmaids’ luncheon and buy attendant gifts Draft seating chart for reception Confirm that each bridesmaid has received her dress Distribute copies of selected readings to ceremony participants Write wedding speech/toast Prepare bride and groom emergency kits Assemble guest room gifts for out-oftown guests Start breaking in your wedding day shoes Schedule a haircut for the groom for the week or two before the wedding Find something old, new, borrowed & blue Attend final dress fitting Pick up wedding rings Send seating and place cards to planner, calligrapher or printer Mail rehearsal dinner invitations
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3-4 Weeks Finalize reception timeline and music choices with DJ including “must play” and “do not play” lists Practice first dance with bridal shoes Design and order wedding programs Confirm honeymoon and travel arrangements; give loved ones your itinerary in case of emergency Call guests who have not RSVP’d Pick up wedding rings Get marriage license Research how to change your name Purchase candles, candies, etc for the powder rooms at your reception Work with planner on the creation of your day-of timeline for vendors and bridal party to ensure everything is accounted for and flows smoothly Call vendors to confirm all deliveries and contract details
1-2 Weeks Finalize wedding-day schedule and share with attendants, parents and all vendors Confirm beauty and spa appointments Confirm pick-up times, schedules, and addresses with transportation Pick up wedding dress and make sure all accessories are together Pick up the groom’s tux, make sure it fits, and gather accessories together Finalize vows for the ceremony Get hair colored and trimmed Confirm final head count Give final attendance numbers to vendors and confirm final date/time for deliveries and pick-ups after wedding Finalize your seating arrangements (making sure you involve both sets of parents) and submit to vendors Pack for wedding night & honeymoon Create a “ceremony box” to gather accessories (marriage license, candles, ring pillow, basket, guest book) and assign someone to transport to ceremony Prepare a “reception box” for accessories (guest books, cameras, toasting goblets, cake toppers, etc.) and assign someone to transport Prepare all of your wedding favors and place cards for transportation to reception venue and assign someone to set them out Confirm dates/times/locations for all photo and video sessions for the day of the wedding
Confirm dates/times/locations with all vendors Assign any day-of responsibility to attendants, family or friends Arrange for someone to send wedding gown to a preservationist and return groom’s tuxedo
Day Before Prepare a list of payment envelopes, including tips, earmarking who is responsible for distributing to vendors Hand out assignment lists and checklists to ensure everyone knows their tasks, including persons responsible for transporting gifts Give ceremony box and reception boxes to appropriate person Hand out favor box and place cards to appropriate person Gather together your wedding dress, accessories, and bridal emergency kit Get a manicure, pedicure, and massage Rehearse ceremony with officiant and wedding party Attend rehearsal dinner and distribute bridal party gifts
Wedding Day! Your day has arrived! You may be nervous, but try to eat breakfast and drink plenty of fluids. Be sure to wear a button-down shirt for hair and makeup appointments. Don’t sweat the small stuff – soak up every moment of this day! o At some point during the day, take yourself out of the moment and reflect on what’s really happening
After the Wedding Get wedding dress cleaned & preserved Preserve your bouquet Write and mail thank-you notes (these should be done within four weeks after your honeymoon) Complete your name-change kit Meet with photographer and videographer to finalize albums/video
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Color Palettes
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Navy and Hot Pink
Shades of Blue
Margarita and Lime
Gold and Ivory
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Inspiration
West Coast Photos by Kirsten Ellis of Beaux Arts Photography
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s’mores bar
something
borrowed
A sweet addition to your reception! Just sternos in pebbles; ask your caterer today!
We’ve gathered a plethora of “steal-worthy ideas” to inspire your creativity while designing your perfect day!
Heels Above “Heels Above” are a must for outside weddings or pictures! Available at heelsabove.com
Flower Box Turned Cooler
Interactive Table Numbers
Idea via rocknrollbride.com Photography Credit: Shell de Mar Photography
Bachelorette Party Ideas The number on the back represents how long each bridesmaids has known the bride.
Before and after mug shots of each member of the bridal party for a lasting souvenir of the night!.
“Blossom Place Card Holders” that double as your favor. Available at An Affair To Remember!
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to diy or not to diy Here are some easy Do-It-Yourself projects to make personal, inexpensive decorations for your special day!
sprayed
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mason jars
Wh at You Ne e d: Tape Scissors Mason Jar Spray Paint
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lace and 1. Cut out your strip of ting a ea cr secure it with tape band around the jar.*
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Frame – we fou nd ours at IKEA Spray paint, in c olor of your cho ice Costume Jewe lry (we used bro oches/earrings) Glue Gun Needle nosed p liers Scrapbook pap er in color/patt ern of your cho ice
What To Do:
1. Take your picture frame and coat it with your selected spray paint. We used gold to stay within the theme. 2. While your frame is drying, use your needle nosed pliers to remove any pins or earring backs from your costume jewelry. This gives the jewelry a flat surface to better adhere to the frame. 3. Design time! Lay out all of your jewelry and begin grouping together by style, color and texture. This helps organize what pieces you want to use for each frame to maximize the overall look. 4. Hot glue several pieces of costume jewelry onto your frame. We designed some with both corners or one heavily designed corner. Get creative and pair pieces that look good together until you get a look you like! 5. After your frames are sparkling to your liking use your scrapbook paper to print your table numbers; choose a font that convey the style of your wedding. 6. Slide your decorative table numbers into your frames and you will find your once plan picture frame to be a dazzling addition to your table dĂŠcor!
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Photography by Kellie Penn of Across the Miles Designed by An Affair To Remember It was all about Vintage luxe for this shoot! Gaitros Aviation was a perfect location as the backdrop for our “Mile High” Style Shoot. We chose a champagne satin linen to off set the stunning antique ivory rosette overlay. We added elements in champagne, ivory, silver and gold for an eclectic look. Pairing mercury glass vases and votives with our gold candelabras and candle holders, gave this tablescape a sophisticated look that was all about vintage glam.
Kellie Penn from Across the Miles Photography
“I love when brides think outside the box and choose unique spots for photos on their wedding day! It truly makes their images unique and stand out from the crowd!” 27
Cami was stunning in a gorgeous Allure champagne colored gown from Michelle’s Bridal & Tuxedo. Detailed backs are all the rage this season. The delicate lace cut out on this gown is a showstopper. A custom rhinestone and pearl comb perfectly enhanced her updo styled by Megan Bolerjack from Headlines Salon and Spa.
With this extensive centerpiece the florals shouldn’t be overdone. We chose simple white hydrangea to help pull in ivory napkins and candles while the delicate pearl and silver garland draped about pulled in the silver of the mercury glass and completed the look.
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Kari Kileen Custom Invitations “Custom stationary completes your vision from the save-thedates and the invitations to the programs and place cards.”
Cami’s makeup, done by expert make-up artist Katie Fucinari of Salon 402, was the perfect combination of sultry and sweet.
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Bottled Water Tweezers Iron/Hand Stea mer Contact lens so lution Baby power (to absorb oil st ains) Perfume Hairspray Breathmints Eyelash glue Makeup bag Mirror Female toiletr ie s Oil absorbing sheets Extra nail polish
Don’t let one little thing ruin your big day! Avoid Wedding Day Catastrophes by planning ahead!
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Mix and Match – Don’t be afraid to mix it up this year! Tabletop designs will involve lots of layering with props, patterns and textures. Metallics will be all the rage this year so bring in the glitz and the glam with rich golds, pewters and silvers!
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Vintage Glam and Traditional Elegance – Last year we saw brides roll up their sleeves for truly DIY décor. While that trend isn’t going away, 2013 brides will draw inspiration from old world glamour with influences like “The Great Gatsby” and “Downton Abbey” and turn to professionals to achieve an upscale application. With more decadent fabrics, ornate lace details, metallics and costume jewelry, receptions will begin to become more formal again.
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