In this issue... Real Weddings
Budget Calculator
DIY Ideas Explained Planning Timelines
...and more!
magazine Free - Spring 2013
the team
Editor in Chief
Jody Cox
Graphic Designer,
Katie Salvacion
Assistant to Editor & Trend Researcher,
Molly Heffernan
Produced by,
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A note from the staff...
Welcome to Spring Issue of She Said Yes!, the perfect pursesize magazine designed for the bride who wants style and substance in a quick and easy-to-digest format. Every season, She Said Yes! will deliver ice, steal-worthy ideas, expert adv ds nee e brid ry eve tips and insider when planning her dream wedding. Want more? Log on to shesaidyesmagazine.com for more valuable content, a list of where you can pick up your free dcopy, a place to submit your fee for back, ideas for articles or work publication consideration. We hope you enjoy this issue of She Said Yes! and have a blast planning your big day!
on the covers:
mr.&mrs. neisslie
inside
Guide to Guy’s Fashion
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Budget Calculator
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The Reception Lounge
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Real Weddings
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Distinct Décor
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Lovely Locks
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Countdown to...I do!
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Real Weddings
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Something Borrowed
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Weddings 2.0
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DIY Ideas Explained
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Sweet Secrets
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Quick Fixes
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Seasonal Trends
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Pearls of Wisdom
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Front: Sara and Jeff’s engagement session in downtown Decatur. Back: Sara and Jeff on their wedding day in South Shores near Maranatha Assembly of God where the couple tied the knot. Photos: courtesy of the talented gals at H&H Photography.
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Genesis Fitted Tuxedo For the groom who wants a tailored fit that’s not only timeless but fashion forward, the Genesis is the perfect choice. One button, single breasted styling and featuring a satin notch lapel, this tux is the epitome of modern style. Savoy Tuxedo Keep your groom on trend with a soft grey tux and coordinating fullback vest. This tux has two button, single breasted styling and is tailored in a soft, luxurious Super 100’s wool. This look is perfect for spring and summer weddings.
Radnor Tuxedo If you’re looking for a classic look, the Radnor tux is perfect for your guy. With two button, single breasted styling and tailored in a soft, luxurious Super 100’s wool, your groom and groomsmen will walk down the aisle in style.
guide to guy’s fashion
from the fashion experts and co-owners of The Brass Horn, George Streckfuss and Ryan Spurlock
There is no doubt that it’s your day to shine. From the dress to the hair and makeup, you will be breathtaking. Your groom should look equally as striking by your side. That’s where we come in. The Brass Horn excels in style, selection and service. Stop in today and let us assist you with selecting the perfect tuxes for your bridal party. From the first consultation to the day you say “I Do”, you can count on our professional and experienced staff to make sure your groom and wedding party are picture perfect. Questions? Ask the experts at The Brass Horn.
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Steel Grey Tuxedo Looking for a modern look for your groom? This steel grey tux tailored in a soft, super fine wool with satin notch lapels is the perfect choice. Pair your groom & groomsmen with a coordinating vest that matches with your theme or colors.
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$25,000 5 5 200
Reception Reception Venue & Rentals Food & Service Beverages & Bartenders Cake(s) & Cutting Fee Total Reception (includes taxes)
% of Budget 4.00% 34.00% 8.00% 2.00% 48.00%
Budget $1,000.00 $8,500.00 $2,000.00 $500.00 $12,000.00
Attire & Beauty The Gown & Alterations Headpiece/Veil & Bridal Accessories Hair, Makeup & Pre-wedding Pampering Groom’s Tux or Suit Groom’s Accessories Total Attire & Beauty
% of Budget 6.00% 1.50% 0.50% 0.50% 0.25% 8.75%
Budget $1,500.00 $375.00 $125.00 $125.00 $62.50 $2,187.50
Ceremony Ceremony Location Fee Officiant Fee/Donation Ceremony Accessories Total Ceremony
% of Budget 1.00% 0.75% 0.60% 2.35%
Budget $250.00 $187.50 $150.00 $587.50
Flowers & Décor Bride’s Bouquet Bridesmaid Bouquets Groom & Groomsmen Boutonnieres Flower Girl Flowers Additional Boutonnieres & Corsages Reception Decorations & Centerpieces Ceremony Decorations Total Flowers & Décor
% of Budget 0.75% 1.25% 0.20% 0.15% 0.50% 5.75% 1.40% 10.00%
Budget $187.50 $312.50 $50.00 $37.50 $125.00 $1,437.50 $350.00 $2,500.00
Music Ceremony Musicians Cocktail Hour Musicians Reception Music Total Music
% of Budget 1.00% 1.00% 4.00% 6.00%
Budget $250.00 $250.00 $1,000.00 $1,500.00
Photography/Videography Photographer Videographer Total Photography/Videography
% of Budget 7.00% 5.00% 12.00%
Budget $1,750.00 $1,250.00 $3,000.00
Stationary Invitations & Reply Cards Other Stationary (Thank You Cards, Placecards, Programs) Total Stationary
% of Budget 2.40% 0.50%
Budget $600.00 $125.00
2.90%
$725.00
$ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ Wedding Rings His Ring Her Ring Total Wedding Rings
% of Budget 1.00% 2.00% 3.00%
Budget $250.00 $500.00 $750.00
Transportation & Lodging Bride/Groom Hotel Room(s) Guest Shuttle or Parking Limo(s) or Car Rentals Total Transportation & Lodging
% of Budget 0.50% 1.00% 3.00% 4.50%
Budget $125.00 $250.00 $750.00 $1,125.00
Gifts Attendant Gifts Favors Parent Gifts Total Gifts
% of Budget 1.00% 1.00% 0.50% 2.50%
Budget $250.00 $250.00 $125.00 $625.00
Miscellaneous Wedding Coordinator Total Miscellaneous
% of Budget 0.00% 0.00%
Budget $0.00 $0.00
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$25,000
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Tips to Maximize Your Budget!
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the
reception
lounge
We saw the introduction of the “reception lounge”, a groom favorite, last year. In 2013, we’ll see it continue to develop into a reception staple. Guys love the reception lounge and guests do too. It’s a great area for guests to mix, mingle, and kick-back during the reception. Enhance your lounge scene with a signature cocktail, microbrew or cigars for guests to enjoy. If you’re having a photo booth, yard games or finger foods, the lounge area is the perfect place to do it. Photos via artofweddingspdx.com
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real
weddings
Jessica Grader & Caleb Long
Jessica dreamt of a wedding inspired by
Water for Elephants!
to achieve the vintage circus themed affair she worked with An Affair To Remember
Sarah Jane took the wedding party to Scovill Zoo to capture these circus inspired shots.
Jessica held a bouquet of baby’s breath that enhanced the romance of her Vera Wang gown.
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July 28, 2012
Their circus themed reception was held at the Decatur Conference Center and Hotel where Duo Rose Trapeze from Chicago performed aerial acrobatics directly above their guests.
Designed by Kari Killen
Jessica’s centerpieces were designed with vintage suitcases and hatboxes accented with lace doilies, umbrellas, and florals of hydrangea, garden roses, crespedia, dahlias, lamb’s ear and hanging amaranthus. Kari Killen designed circus style table numbers and placecards that enhanced the overall theme.
As a wedd ing photog rapher I lo the ways th ve to see at couple s infuse the personalit ir ies into eve ry detail o f their big d ay. The Grade r- Long We unforgetta dding was ble! Not o nly was th fun and a is wedding bsolutely b eautiful, b provided th ut the cou eir guests ple with a spe experienc ctacular e. I’m so h a ppy to hav part of ca e been a pturing the essence o it’s certain f the day ly one the y’ll remem ber!
A Wor d from Sa r a h Ja ne Photog r a
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From cakes to linens and accent pieces, chevron is hot in 2013! Mix with the colors of the season to bring a fresh and unique flair to your wedding.
distinct
dĂŠcor Photos by societybride.com
Photo left via 100layercake.com Photo below via Pinterest -original source undefined
lovely locks
Up-do’s of all kinds will never go out of style, but brides in 2013 won’t be afraid to think outside the bun and let their hair down! Here are some of the hottest styles we’ll see this year. Try a few with your stylist before you decide!
Waterfall Braids Braids will be big in 2013. It’s a perfect style for girls with long locks who want a soft, romantic look. Long braids falling to the side with loose ends to frame your face is perfect for destination weddings or brides who want a vintage look. Photo via prettychicblog.dk
Waves The look of loose wavy beach hair doesn’t look to be going out of style anytime soon. Glam it up with a gorgeous tiara or hair piece. Photo by Bela Alder & Salvador Fresnada
Gettin’ it Straight Whether it’s a super straight look or tucked behind an ear with a little volume and curl, brides won’t be afraid to take their natural every day styles and kick it up a notch. If possible, have your stylist on hand to change it into an up-do during the reception so you can dance the night away without worry. Top Photo by Lora Grady Photography Bottom Photo via Glendalough Manor Bride
French Twist A classic style is making its way back! For classic elegance, choose a tighter twist or have your stylist create a messier version to soften it for a more natural appearance.
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Ballerina Bun Ballerina buns are stylish and classic up-dos for brides. This style is perfect for brides donning large ball gowns, tiaras, or fitted gowns where your silhouette is the star of the show. They come in all shapes and sizes from sleek donuts to messy knots. Photo via bridalmusings.com
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countdown to...
I DO!
12-16 Months • Introduce both families and officially announce engagement • Begin planning engagement party (if applicable) • Discuss who will want to contribute financially to the wedding • Decide on an overall budget • Discuss with groom the type of wedding you want: style, size, location, etc... • Start a wedding file • Draft preliminary guest list (discuss with both sides of family and groom) • Interview and hire wedding planner • Compare calendars and select a date(s) • Scout, interview, review contract details, and check available dates for ceremony location • Scout, interview, review contract details and check available dates for reception location • Research gown styles, colors, and shapes
10-12 Months
• Create a wedding website to share your wedding details o Check out : www.wedbuddy.com o Under settings, enter WB41 in the “referred by” field • Decide upon ceremony and reception locations and book your date • Begin detailed excel sheet for guest list with names and addresses • Begin shopping for your wedding gown o Don’t forget to bring heels, strapless bras and hair clips • Begin designing save-the-dates • Settle on color scheme and/or theme • Research marriage license and residency requirements if you’re getting married abroad • Select wedding party members • Reserve rooms for out of town guests • Gather vendor recommendations from friends, family and/or planner • Set appointments with vendors (decorators, DJs, florists, videographers, transportation, photographers, caterers, ceremony/reception musicians, equipment rentals,etc.)
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Plan the perfect day with our comprehensive planning timeline that takes you from the moment you say “yes” to the day you say “i do”!
6-9 Months • Interview officiants (if applicable) • Order and mail save-the dates • Order/update passports for weddings or honeymoons abroad • Interview and book vendors: decorators, DJs, florists, videographers, transportation, photographers, caterers, ceremony/re ception musicians, equipment rentals, etc. • Research honeymoon locations and prices • Research invitation designs and book a designer • Order gown and bridal accessories • Research tailors and schedule fitting when gown is scheduled to arrive (2-3 months out) • Shop and select bridesmaids and flower girl dresses and tuxes • Begin shopping for bridal party and parent gifts • Finalize wedding theme and color scheme with your decorator • Book baker and schedule a tasting to finalize cake flavor, design and style o Discuss groom’s cake (if applicable) • Finalize any remaining contracts • Start registering for wedding gifts (choose items in various price ranges) • Finalize guest list and mailing addresses • Schedule a meeting with your officiant to begin counseling and/or to discuss ceremony details
4-5 Months • Finalize invitation design and order invitations (get extra envelopes for errors!) o Test drive directions before sending directional cards • Confirm bridesmaids have ordered dresses select accessories • Provide bridal shower guest list to maid-ofhonor or shower’s host • Update registry lists before bridal shower invitations are mailed o Update wedding website with info • Book honeymoon • Work with officiant to finalize ceremony details. Finalize songs, readings, etc. Be sure to give ceremony musician requested songs and ceremony outline • Develop reception timeline including specific songs and playlists • Select and order wedding rings • Reserve tuxes and give instructions to groomsmen on reservations • Draft ceremony timeline and program
o Ask those who you wish to participate in the ceremony: readers, singers, guest book attendants, etc • Schedule ceremony rehearsal with officiant and wedding party • Schedule make-up and hair trials (take photos!) • Discuss menu options and ideas with caterer • Select and order favors and wedding accessories (unity candles, garters, guest book, ring bearer pillows, toasting glasses, etc) • Confirm dates and plans for bachelor/ bachelorette parties
2-3 Months • Attend first dress fitting • Plan rehearsal dinner: book space and order invitations • Research signature drink options • Attend pre-marriage counseling or classes • Begin dance lessons, if desired • Request time off from work for honeymoon • Order wedding programs • Finalize hair and make-up choices with stylist (remember to take photos!) • Mail wedding invitations (some choose to number the back of the RSVPs cards in case someone mails it back without a name. You can cross check it with your excel sheet to find out who it was) • Keep a record of RSVP cards you receive (use master excel sheet you used to gather and organize mailing addresses) • Order gifts for attendants and parents • Attend bridal shower • Write and mail shower thank-you notes • Start drafting your wedding vows, if writing your own • Schedule a tasting with your caterer and finalize reception menu • Send wedding announcement to local newspaper, if desired • Confirm tuxes have been reserved and ordered • Prep for your honeymoon • Take care of business: look into joint bank accounts, insurance, and merging your money. • Finalize your music for the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception, and review with musicians, singer, DJs. • Check that there are enough options left on your registry and update your wedding website. • Finalize rehearsal dinner plans and order rehearsal invitations, menus, table numbers, escort cards, and any other stationery accessories.
1-2 Months • Schedule pre-wedding pampering spa appointments, if desired • Finalize ceremony readings and songs, and review with performers • Order liquor/beverages if not handled by caterer • Meet with your officiant to finalize the ceremony • Begin writing thank you notes for early wedding gifts • Apply for marriage license • Prepare a photo and video shot list, naming important family guests and send to your photographer/ videographer • Schedule the bridesmaids’ luncheon and buy attendant gifts if you haven’t already. • Draft seating chart for reception • Confirm that each bridesmaid has received her dress • Distribute copies of selected readings to ceremony participants • Write wedding speech/toast • Prepare bride and groom emergency kits • Assemble guest room gifts for out-of-town guests • Start breaking in your wedding day shoes • Schedule a haircut for the groom for the week or two before the wedding • Find something old, new, borrowed & blue • Attend final dress fitting • Pick up wedding rings • Send seating and place cards to planner, calligrapher or printer • Mail rehearsal dinner invitations
3-4 Weeks • Finalize reception timeline and music choices with DJ including “must play” and “do not play” lists • Practice first dance with bridal shoes • Design and order wedding programs, if you haven’t already • Confirm honeymoon and travel arrangements; give loved ones your itinerary in case of emergency • Call guests who have not RSVP’d • Pick up wedding rings • Get marriage license • Research how to change your name • Purchase candles, candies, etc for the powder rooms at your reception • Work with planner on the creation of your day-of timeline for vendors and bridal party to ensure everything is accounted for and flows smoothly • Call vendors to confirm all deliveries and contract details
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1-2 Weeks • Finalize wedding-day schedule and share with attendants, parents and all vendors. • Confirm beauty and spa appointments. • Confirm pick-up times, schedules, and addresses with wedding day transportation. • Pick up wedding dress and make sure all accessories are together • Pick up the groom’s tux, make sure it fits, and gather accessories together. • Finalize vows for the ceremony • Get hair colored and trimmed • Confirm final head count • Give final attendance numbers to vendors and confirm final date/time for deliveries and pick-ups after wedding • Finalize your seating arrangements (making sure you involve both sets of parents) and submit to appropriate vendors • Pack for wedding night and honeymoon. • Create a “ceremony box” to gather accessories (marriage license, candles, ring pillow, basket, guest book) and assign someone to transport to ceremony • Prepare a “reception box” for accessories (guest books, cameras, toasting goblets, cake toppers, etc.) and assign someone to transport • Prepare all of your wedding favors and place cards for transportation to reception venue and assign someone to set them out • Confirm dates/times/locations for all photo and video sessions for the day of the wedding. • Confirm dates/times/locations with all vendors • Assign any day-of responsibility to attendants, family or friends • Arrange for someone to send wedding gown to a preservationist and return groom’s tuxedo
The Day Before • Prepare a list of payment envelopes, including tips, earmarking who is responsible for distributing to vendors • Hand out assignment lists and checklists to ensure everyone knows their tasks, including persons responsible for transporting gifts • Give ceremony box and reception boxes to appropriate person • Hand out favor box and place cards to appropriate person • Gather together your wedding dress, accessories, and bridal emergency kit • Get a manicure, pedicure, and massage • Rehearse ceremony with officiant and wedding party • Attend rehearsal dinner and distribute bridal party gifts
The Wedding Day • Your day has arrived! You may be nervous, but try to eat breakfast and drink plenty of fluids. • Be sure to wear a button-down shirt for hair and makeup appointments. • Don’t sweat the small stuff – soak up every moment of this day! o At some point during the day, take yourself out of the moment and reflect on what’s really happening
After the Wedding • Get wedding dress cleaned and preserved • Preserve your bouquet • Write and mail thank-you notes (these should be done within four weeks after your honeymoon) • Complete your name-change kit • Meet with photographer and videographer to finalize albums/video
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Jey Smith & Greg Owens
real
weddings
November 24, 2012
Photos by Apt Foto Jey is a girly girl who loves sparkle, lace and Parisian culture. Her groom is fresh with a mordern edge. The couple settled on a color scheme of black and white with pops of Tiffany blue (for him) and blush (for her). The couple worked with An Affair To Remember to achieve a design that married both styles.
Jey and Greg tied the knot at the Decatur Club. The couple was married in the ballroom where the backdrop was used for both the altar and head table.
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A custom black and white damask runner added interest to the aisle. The ceremony was lit in blush pink and was switched over to teal for the reception.
While the guests had cocktails on the Mezzanine, An Affair To Remember flipped the room for the reception.
Black and white striped runners were chosen to evoke both a modern and Parisian look. A pop of Tiffany blue came from the ornate picture frame table numbers, that spoke to both Greg and Jey’s styles. Greg wanted a modern centerpiece. Tall glass cylinder vases, accented with black lace, held bouquets of hydrangea and carnations tilted to the side. The candles in the alternating vases gave Jey the romance she was looking for.
Photos by Travis Lickey of Apt Foto
Knights of Columbus Banquet Facility Photos by Alida Duff Sullivan Photography Décor by An Affair To Remember
Photos by Apt Foto Décor by An Affair To Remember
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borrowed
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We’ve gathered a plethora of “steal-worthy ideas” to inspire your creativity while designing your perfect day!
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Tr y this envelo pe guest book wal l. So unique!
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Collect rocks/she lls from your honeym oon and display in a shadow box!
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weddings 2.0
This website organizes everything you and your guests will need for your wedding. Guests can easily locate and purchase items from your registries, view their invitation, browse your engagement photos, and more...all in one place! Create your custom wedding website at www.wedbuddy.com. Under “settings”, be sure to enter wb41 in the “referred by” field.
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DIY explained Ideas Idea by Style Me Pretty Photography by Kari Herer
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option 1 What You Need:
• Clear glass vase • Sequins in your color of choice • Mod Podge Glue • Paint brush
What To Do:
1. Dip your paint brush into the Mod Podge and dab some on the bottom, sides and top of the vase (get crafty) 2. Add sequins inside the vase and shake so that the sequins stick where you placed the glue 3. Presto! An once average vase now ready for a glam inspired wedding!
Idea by www.twiggstudio.com
option 2 What You Need:
• Clear glass vase • Sequins in your color of choice • Water
What To Do:
1. Empty a bag of sequins in the color of your choice into an empty vase 2. Fill vase with water 3. Some sequins will float and some will sink 4. Pop in your favorite flowers and BAM! A glam centerpiece in seconds!
Idea by hostingessence.com
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sweet secrets
top 5 T IPS
from Carly Larson, expert baker and owner of Carly’s Cakery
1. Size Does Matter - Many inspiration pictures are of cakes that could feed an army. Most brides don’t need all that cake. It’s important for you to know if you’re more interested in a cake that makes a statement with size or style. Your inspiration cake can be designed for your appropriate guest count, budget and style if you’re willing to be open and creative. 2. You’re No Dummy – A growing trend is the “dummy cake”. In reference to Tip #1, if you have a large guest count and want an intricately designed cake, a dummy cake allows you to get what you want without breaking the bank. On the flip side, if you have a small guest count, dummy cakes give you the ability to have a large statement cake without all the cake that will undoubtedly be left over. 3. It’s Not Always Peachy Certain flavors may be your favorite, but do they blend well and will your guests also enjoy them? If you and your groom like a particular flavor that may not be popular, have your baker design your cake topper in that flavor. That way you can have your cake and eat it too! 4. Fondant vs .Buttercream Translation: Style vs. Taste. Fondant looks great, but doesn’t taste the greatest. If you’re not doing a dummy cake, talk to your baker about what she can do to give the appearance of fondant without using the ingredient. You’ll have happier guests. 5. Be Prepared - Bring inspiration pictures (and even color or fabric swatches) to your appointment. Be prepared to explain what you like and don’t like about your inspiration pictures. This will help your baker understand your style and vision.
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2013 seasonal
Check out these Seasonal Trends for food, florals, décor, and fashion!
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Poppy Red Patterns will be hot this year. From chevron to stripes and even paisley and polka dots, adding pattern to your linens, invitations or bridal party attire will take your décor to the next level!
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Mix and Match – Don’t be afraid to mix it up this year! Tabletop designs will involve lots of layering with props, patterns and textures. Metallics will be all the rage this year so bring in the glitz and the glam with rich golds, pewters and silvers! Photo via glen
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daloughmanor.com Vintage Glam and Traditional Elegance – Last year we saw brides roll up their sleeves for truly DIY décor. While that trend isn’t going away, 2013 brides will draw inspiration from old world glamour with influences like “The Great Gatsby” and “Anna Karenina” and turn to professionals to achieve an upscale application. With more decadent fabrics, ornate lace details, metallics and costume jewelry, receptions will begin to become more formal again.
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Zips Flowers by the Gates
Family owned and operated, Zips proudly serves the Decatur area and is committed to offering only the finest floral arrangements and gifts. With 30 years of experience, our professional staff is dedicated to making your experience a pleasant one. We can help you with all the details from beginning to end whether you’re having a quiet, intimate gathering or a lavish affair. We have items to rent and a large selection of fresh and silk flowers. We are a traditional florist with progressive ideas to fit your budget and style. Stop by or call for your personalized consultation.
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Pearls of Wisdom Words of advice if local brides could do it all over again...
Photo by:
Studio 21 Photography
Ashley Birkey “Begin with the end in mind! Prioritize what is most important to you on your day and splurge on those areas. Also, I highly recommend creating a binder with individual pages and dividers to organize all the details of your wedding. I scrapbooked the outside with pictures of my husband and me and my new last name. Now, after the wedding, it serves as a memento from all the fun and memories that were made during the planning process.”
Photo by:
Sarah Jane Photography
Maggie Stewart “When discussing plans with your caterer or reception hall, make sure to ask them to pack up to-go boxes for you and your new spouse. You will be so busy enjoying the wedding, you won’t have much time to eat. At the end of the night, you may realize you’re starving. The to-go boxes are the perfect late night fix!”
Photo by:
Alida Duff Sullivan Photography
Shannon Richards
“At some point in the day take yourself out of the moment to reflect on what is really happening. I did this while we were getting ready and at our reception. It is the best feeling to see all your friends and family who are there to celebrate with and for you. It allows you to really appreciate all of the hard work that went into putting this day together.”
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