SHORE MAGAZINE
fall 2010
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22 FEMININITY DEFINED
It’s time to embrace your best features, with gowns that flatter curves, highlight the shoulders and beautify the back. BY JULIA PERLA
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Find out why more and more couples are getting married in a non-church setting. Plus, get ideas for fun save-the-dates and local reception venues. BY MARK LINDEMER, NICHOLE ODIJK, JENNIFER PALLAY AND CARRIE STEINWEG
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See the new, delicious trends in wedding cakes, find your dream dress at a discount, and try a new type of veil. BY CAITLIN ELSAESSER, SARAH KLOSE AND CARRIE STEINWEG
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Have a girls’ night in for the bachelorette party, and learn how to use your wedding as a way to give back. BY CAITLIN ELSAESSER AND SETH HURD
IN EVERY ISSUE Inspire 8 List 30 Service Directory 31 Capture 32
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There’s no doubt that Hawaii is the number one honeymoon location. Four Hawaiian resorts help make it the top choice among couples. BY HEATHER AUGUSTYN
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See what experts say about changing your name, separate or joint bank accounts, and living together before marriage. BY DANIELLE BRAFF
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A Four-Season Destination YEAR-ROUND WEDDINGS IN ST. JOSEPH, MICHIGAN It’s pretty easy to get carried away when you’re planning your wedding. After all, what girl hasn’t dreamed of having a stunning sunset as the backdrop to the ceremony, crystal chandeliers light up your cocktail hour and locally grown food customized to your picky palate during your dinner? Of course, you’ll also want the venue to be within walking distance of hotels and every other amenity imaginable without spending a fortune.
Just when you think your requests are too many for any one place to handle, you’ll arrive at St. Joseph, Michigan, which finally offers it all. St. Joseph sports nearly a dozen hotels— in addition to gorgeous views of Lake Michigan and sunsets that are out of this world. “We have these beautiful hues of purples and pinks,” says Tyanna Weller, executive director of St. Joseph Today, the promotional arm for the city. Those sunsets are the perfect setting for a wedding at The Heritage Museum and Cultural Center, which will transport you to another era when elegance reigned and black tie events were standard fare. The upper level of the Cultural Center, which was designed to resemble the old church previously occupying the space, is the museum area, where guests are allowed to roam during cocktail hour. The main level boasts 20-foot ceilings with big white pillars, hardwood floor and crystal chandeliers. “The bride and groom have a beautiful facility, but it’s also filled with history,” says Joyce Bucholtz, director of events. If you’re interested in another unique historical venue, you could try The Veranda at The Whitcomb. The building was erected in 1928 and still maintains the historical elegance of the roaring ’20s, says Kristin Cornell, Veranda Ambassador. Large limestone columns,
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a terrazzo floor and wrought iron railings add a The Mendel Center at Lake Michigan special elegance that you won’t find elsewhere. College can be the perfect fit. The Grand UpThe best part: The Veranda is an open-air faton Hall can accommodate all of your family cility—open May 1 to October 31—so the warm, and friends comfortably without leaving anyfresh breezes off the lake will delight you and one off the list. The Mendel Center has an array your guests as you dine and dance. of options for customizing the event, from decIf you’re looking for an orations to room layout. “Each intimate, delicious affair, Mendel Center event takes on then The Boulevard Inn its own elegance,” says Tonya and Bistro is your venue. Martindale, Mendel Center Just when you think your They specialize in smaller wedding coordinator. “Whethrequests are too many weddings with less than 50 er the guest list is 100 or 500, for any town and any people, and every single one every wedding expresses the venue to handle, you’ll of those guests will be talkunique vision each couple has arrive at St. Joseph, ing about the food long after for their special day.” Beyond Michigan, which finally you’re home from your honthe surroundings, the culinary offers it all. St. Joseph eymoon. Chef Ryan Thornstaff has created a wonderfully sports nearly a dozen burg has never served the fresh and diverse menu that hotels—in addition to same menu at two weddings. utilizes locally grown produce beautiful views of Lake “I’ve been in this business throughout the year. Michigan and sunsets for almost 40 years and have For a truly stunning event, that are out of this world. never worked with such a the brand new Shadowland wonderful chef,” says Anne on Silver Beach is your venVonk, director of sales and ue. “There is no wedding vencatering. The Boulevard Inn ue in Southwest Michigan that is also the perfect place for your shower, reis closer to Lake Michigan than Shadowland hearsal dinner, morning-after brunch and on Silver Beach,” says Suz Schalon, president even as a spot for your guests to stay. of the Silver Beach Carousel Society. Just steps When it seems as if your guest list keeps away from the beach and historic lighthouse, growing and a modern feel is more your style, this brand new setting offers breathtaking
views of the lake and Whirlpool Compass Fountain. Dance on the wooden ballroom floor beneath an elegant coved ceiling personalized with your stencil designs, enjoy drinks on the Sunset Patio or ride the beautiful, hand-carved carousel. The best part about having a wedding in St. Joseph is the ease of it all. The Southwestern Michigan Tourist Council provides dozens of free services, including hotel room block bids, hotel romance packages and helpful packets for guests such as the Shoreline guide and area map. According to Millicent Huminsky, executive director, they can also refer you to photography, salon and florist vendors. –DANIELLE BRAFF
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Studio 6.23 “We’re married . . . and honestly, it’s pretty much the best thing ever taking pictures of others getting married. Our bold style represents modern vintage with a hint of retro and urban flair. A dash of style and design mixed with a fabulous couple makes us super duper happy photographers!” -BEN AND MINDY PETERSON From the weddings of [clockwise from top]: Amrita and Ankush Goel in Chicago, Ill.; Rachel and Billy Shell in Grand Rapids, Mich.; Melody and Keith Hendren in Watervliet, Mich.; Kari and Mark Brown in Holland, Mich.; Michelle and Lance Brown in Grand Haven, Mich. STUDIO 6.23 616.570.3493 studio6-23.com
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Lady and the Lens “I’m a joke teller, expert dress bustler, photographer, crazy ninja ceremony shooter, I pick gum off your shoe, climb trees and yell, ‘OH YEAH!’ That’s me. I am inspired from the energy of my clients and I seek to show you something outside of the everyday photographer. For people who are in love and who shine with personality, I aim to make you laugh and strive to catch a glimpse of who you are!” -HOLLY RUSSELL From the weddings of [clockwise from right]: Elizabeth and Roman Macudzinski in Chicago, Ill.; Ashley and Ben Carson in LaPorte, Ind.; Kim and Ray Mark in South Bend, Ind. Lady and the Lens 219.210.1234 ladyandthelensphotography.com
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LVL Photography “There is nothing better than documenting the first happiest day of your life. The smiles, laughter, tears . . . capturing those moments will have you reliving your day as if it was yesterday. Getting to know my clients during the consult, then their engagement session, and the final planning up to their day allows me to come in as a friend instead of just a photographer.� -LEDA VANDER LAAN From the weddings of [clockwise from top]: Kaprice and Craig Schau in St. Joseph, Mich.; Joanna and Justin Mack in Benton Harbor, Mich.; Jessica and Matt Cross in St. Joseph, Mich.; Jamie and Ben Elgrably in Grand Rapids, Mich. LVL Photography 616.696.9877 lvlphotography.com
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first things first
Saving the Date Once the engagement ring is slipped on the finger, it’s not long before potential dates are being discussed. And after the date is set in stone, couples feel compelled not just to share the good news, but to inform everyone of the big day so that there is plenty of time to avoid scheduling conflicts. This act of informing has added another product to the wedding market: “Save the Date” announcements.
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racy Bultema, an invitation consultant at Dunhill Tuxedo in St. John, Indiana, says that sending “Save the Date” announcements a year in advance is a good idea so that people can plan ahead. When you get down to within six months, it’s getting closer to the time that invitations are mailed and is not as crucial, she adds. Bultema says it’s also advised for couples that will have a lot of out-of-town guests, so that they’ll have time to make travel arrangements. At Dunhill, a standard card or postcard can be ordered. There are also a number of magnets that can include either a photo of the couple or a calendar with the date highlighted. Candy bars with custom wrappers are a unique way to get the word out about the big day. The time of year and region you’re sending to, of course, should be taken into consideration, since a chocolate bar will likely not transport well through the postal service in the heat of summer. Visit customcandybarwrapper. com and candywrapperstore. com for design ideas. The Internet is a great free tool for sending information. Putting out the word through email, Facebook or Evite can notify the bulk of your guests without costing a penny. –CARRIE STEINWEG
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Going to the Chapel No More
ON-LOCATION CEREMONIES Just a few years ago, it was rare for a wedding ceremony to be held outside a house of worship. Even then, it was usually because a couple could not secure their church, requiring last-minute ceremony plans on the dance floor of their reception’s banquet center. LET’S E XPLORE THE TOP But suddenly during this FIVE FACTS AND MYTHS decade, a strong trend exploded ABOUT ON-LOCATION for “on-location” ceremonies CEREMONIES: outside a house of worship. Today, almost ten times as many THEY ARECHEA PER. Not couples as in the past prefer an necessarily. Fees are comparable and can on-location ceremony venue. even be more than a house of worship. Unprecedented demand has LOCATIONS ARE MORE fueled the construction of CONVENIENT. Yes, it’s great to walk elaborate gazebos at banquet directly from your ceremony into your centers, city parks and nature banquet center for the reception. But if it’s preserves everywhere. in a remote location, it’s not so convenient to rent and transport chairs, arches and Ultimately, choose a wedding supplies. ceremony location that speaks to your heart. You’ll know when I HAVE THE F REEDOM TO it feels right, just like the love of FIND AN OF FICIANT THAT your life standing next to you. WILL CONDUCT THE SERVICE
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Mark Lindemer is a wedding day music and activity consultant, specializing in helping couples plan ceremonies and receptions that reflect their personalities and celebration style. The founder of Trans Audio Mobile Music (trans-audio.com) in 1983 and Wedding Reception Perfection (wed-perfect.com) in 2008, Mark assists brides and grooms with maximizing the grandeur and fun of their wedding day entertainment, to assure incredible lifetime memories.
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ACCORDING TO MY WISHES. True, but to be sure, interview your officiant carefully first. I CAN HAVE ANY MUSIC I WANT. True, but not all houses of worship are restrictive, either. Generally, though, musical freedom is greater on location. I PROBABLY WON’T HAVE TO GO TO PRENUPTIAL COUNSELING SESSIONS. True, but attending counseling sessions may be more helpful than you imagine.
Where the Party’s At Whether you’re looking for a banquet hall on the beach or a traditional setting inland, these reception venues have the taste and variety you may be seeking. –Nichole Odijk and Jennifer Pallay CENTENNIAL PARK GOLF COURSE AND BANQUET FACILITY 9701 Calumet Ave, Munster, Ind. 219.836.6930. munster.org This full-service facility has seating for 250 guests, an outdoor amphitheater and garden pergolas for ceremonies, optimal spots for photos, a golf course and a restaurant. GLENWOOD OAKS 106 N Main St, Glenwood, Ill. 708.758.4400. glenwoodoaks.com The private dining rooms at Glenwood Oaks can accommodate 20 to 250 guests. Valet parking, complimentary wedding cake and free limousine services are available. MARQUETTE PARK PAVILION 1 N Grand Blvd, Gary, Ind. 219.938.7362 With sites for both reception and ceremony, this beachfront location is becoming popular for weddings. The historic pavilion, built in 1924 as a recreation facility, underwent a renovation in 2008. Its ballroom features chandeliers, classic columns and windows throughout that provide guests with views of the lagoon, park and the lakeshore’s beautiful sunsets. THE RED BARN EXPERIENCE 4555 W Johnson Rd, LaPorte, Ind. 219.363.6921 This brand-new venue—situated among rolling farmland in northern LaPorte—features a variety of picturesque spots for guests to enjoy during the wedding: a rustic arbor for the ceremony, a pond-side patio for cocktails and— of course—a red barn with attached pavilion for dinner and dancing. SHADOWLAND ON SILVER BEACH 333 Broad St, St. Joseph, Mich. 888.404.7587 shadowlandonsilverbeach.com At the newly opened Shadowland on Silver Beach, wedding guests can take in the lakefront views and go for a carousel ride on the venue’s Silver Beach Carousel. Plenty of additional amenities at this facility make the wedding day truly unique.
THE VERANDA AT THE WHITCOMB 509 Ship St, St. Joseph, Mich. 888.785.6377. stjoebanquets.com With spectacular views of Lake Michigan and a central spot in the heart of downtown St. Joseph, the Veranda at the Whitcomb boasts a great location in a covered open-air facility. The venue has a Mediterranean feel, having been built in 1928 as a hotel for Chicago’s rich and famous. Guests included Al Capone and Eleanor Roosevelt.
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WEDDING CONFECTIONS AS WORKS OF ART
o you take this cake? Brides are saying “I do!” to one-of-a-kind wedding cakes. Sweet on television shows like Ace of Cakes, brides want couture bakers to create artistic masterpieces. “What’s happening now is a big change from five years ago when tradition was much more the norm,” says Alexis Sideris Davis, owner of Cakewalk in Plymouth, Indiana. For cake decorations, Davis has created sea coral, stained glass, ruffles, sashes and Las Vegas landmarks. Her tulleAMY BECK inspired flowers are as fragile CAKE DESIGN as water sprites, yet look real Chicago, Ill. 312.545.3655. enough to tuck behind a amybeckcakedesign.com bride’s ear. She can turn any vision into a frosting-and-filling CAKEWALK reality. Plymouth, Ind. “Apples was one theme, and 574.936.3801 the bride knew exactly what she eatbettercake.com wanted,” Davis says. “We shaped life-size apples from marzipan CAKE AFFECTION and painted them in edible Portage, Mich. 913.593.1023 food coloring.” The apples cakeaffection.com looked so real the serpent could have offered one to Eve. At Chicago’s Amy Beck Cake Design, it was a piece of cake to create a topsy-turvy confection. Silky pastel roses and lustrous ivory bows were topped off by a climbing groom sculpture. “I hope it’s not a trend,” Beck
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laughs. “You have to make the sculpture ahead of time and hope that it fits.” Beck’s prices begin at $5.50 per slice, $3.50 per cupcake. Her custom wedding cakes average $1,000. Beck has fashioned fondant Tiffany cupcakes at $8 apiece, “definitely more expensive than your typical cupcake tray.” Fancy cake toppers, intricate piping and sugar designs raise wedding cake prices. A bride can prevent a sugar rush of expense by choosing single-tier cakes. Buttercream icing is more affordable than fondant. Tiffany Blue, white and brown are favorite icing colors. The trend is towards almond, lemon and chocolate cakes. Food writer Amy Alessio says red velvet and coffee are also popular. Brides can have their fill of fillings. At Cake Affection in Portage, Michigan, Ivy Lippard has adorned an all-chocolate ganache wedding cake with hand-painted leaves. An Indian sari inspired one of Lippard’s creations. Gold accents and dark henna designs embellished it. Such cakes are tiers of joy. Lippard’s cakes start at $4 a slice, “including dots and little pearls, but not sugar flower work.” Cakewalk’s Davis prices from $3 per serving, more for sugar art and deluxe fillings. So brides, let them eat cake. Most couture bakeries will deliver along the shoreline or within one to two hours of their shops. The personal attention can’t be beat—not even with a wire whisk. –Sarah Klose
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Dress at a Discount One of the biggest expenses in wedding planning is the dress. Brides are often willing to shell out big bucks for that picture-perfect gown. However, buying a dress at a consignment shop allows shoppers to find designer gowns at a fraction of the full retail price. It’s a good way to still look your best, but save a few dollars in the process. Nearly New Consignment in Merrillville, Indiana, has been around for a year and a half and, while prom is the biggest time for them, you can shop year-round for discounted wedding dresses, both new and gently used. Owner Susie Hovanec says that the store doesn’t focus solely on wedding apparel but they do have a good selection of bridal gowns, bridesmaid dresses, shoes, veils and accessories at heavily discounted prices. Wedding gowns range from $150 to about $800. In Chicago’s River North area, White Chicago debuted nearly five years ago, allowing brides to find designer samples and “once-wed” designer gowns at 30 to 70 percent off the retail price. If you have your heart set on a Vera Wang, Monique Lhuillier, Melissa Sweet or Christos, you’ll want to pay White Chicago a visit. Some recent sales include a Carolina Herrera mermaid gown (retail $5,290) for $3,560 and a Pronovias A-line gown (retail $2,145) for $1,500. Co-owner Stacy Senechalle notes another advantage besides cost in purchasing a consignment gown. “If you have a short engagement, consignment offers a faster turnaround time, because it is off the rack. There’s no need to wait for ordering.” Consignment shops aren’t the only option for finding a discounted dress. Online outlets offer a large selection that you can peruse at your convenience. However, shipping charges must be considered and sellers should be investigated to learn their return policies and their satisfaction history with past clients. Senechalle suggests asking the seller for specifics on how measurements are taken and reminds brides to figure alteration costs into the budget. White Chicago’s online store, whitexchange.com, also allows you to make a “wish list” of dresses, so that you can be notified if they acquire the dress you’re seeking. Discounted gowns can be found on traditional online shopping sites such as ebay.com and craigslist.org as well as bridal-specific sites, including sheshopping.com and thebridesproject.com. –Carrie Steinweg
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The New (Old) Bridal Veil FOR YEARS, THE L ONG VEIL WAS KEY TO THE BRIDAL UNIFORM, PART OF THE VISION OF PURITY. NOT ANYMORE. INCREASINGLY, BRIDES ARE OPT ING TO R EDEFINE THE VEIL—OR LOSE IT ALTOGETHER. “The majority of our brides think they don’t want a veil at all,” says Adrienne Wissner, owner of Kalamazoo-based Memories Bridal and Evening Wear. In fact, many brides are opting out of the traditional two-tiered veil and tiara. But once a bride tries on the dress, many get excited about what Wissner calls the “whole bride experience”— they want a piece of the Hollywood glamour, but with a modern twist. As a result, Wissner has seen a huge upsurge in the birdcage veil. Less formal and lighter than the traditional look, a birdcage veil is usually made of French netting that can be worn at chin length. Depending on the style, these veils can be accented with a rhinestone clip, a flapper-style feather barrette, or a flower. The veil can be worn straight, or at a sassy angle, allowing one eye to peak through the lace. They can be pinned back on one side or on both. With all these variations, many brides who chose the veil now use it to express individuality, and add drama and fashion to an ensemble. –Caitlin Elsaesser
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Girls’ Night In A New Kind of Bachelorette Party The traditional bachelorette party: a group of tipsy women taking the bar scene by storm, the bride-to-be donning the requisite embarrassing veil and taking innumerable shots. These gatherings afford a great opportunity for letting loose. But more women are opting for a girls’ night in instead. A girls’ night in—for the whole night or simply as a prelude for what is to come—offers a range of possibilities to cater to the brideto-be’s interests, all while staying in the comfort of one’s home. For something a little more risqué, try a Pure Romance party, a company that sells lubricants, heighteners, and bedroom accessories. A consultant—trained by sex health experts—brings her inventory and sets up a demo table to walk ladies through a demonstration table of bedroom accessories. –Caitlin Elsaesser
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HERE ARE JUST A FEW OF THE POSSIBILITIES TO GET THE PARTY WHEELS MOVING: Bust a move. For a bride who loves dancing, an at-home dance class is a great way to learn something new—and to let the ladies express themselves. Many dance studios are willing to do at-home private lessons—so do some research and pick the style that best fits the lady of honor. Aurora-based Cupcakes n Cleavage offers striptease and pole dancing classes in private residences. “There is something about pole dancing that unleashes an inner confidence,” says owner Carolyn Trisilla. Pole dancing isn’t just for strippers, she says, but for women who want to have fun expressing themselves in a new way. Add a little liquid class. If the bride loves wine, find a wine bar that would be willing to do a private tasting for the ladies. “Wine tasting is classy, and it is something many women share an interest in,” says Erica Witte, owner and wine educator at the Poison Cup in Chicago. Witte says she has done home tastings for many bachelorette parties—sometimes as the main event of a calm evening, and for others as a precursor to a wilder night on the streets. Retail therapy—coming to you. There are several creative options to bring shopping to a home bachelorette party—and most come with a discount for the hostess. For the bride who loves accessories, 1154 LILL Studio in Chicago is a handbag company servicing a wide geographic area. Their home parties provide an opportunity for guests to get to know each other as they choose fabrics and styles to design their own bag— in a G-rated environment appropriate even for mom.
KISS AND TELL You’re going to be doing a lot of smooching on your big day. Keep your lips looking fabulous and your lipstick bleedfree by using the Enhancements Lip MicroDermabrasion exfoliation stick. Created by the same duo of doctors that developed the Proactiv acne system, the Enhancements stick removes dead skin cells and gets your lips prepped for puckering up. Find it at rodanandfields.com for $16.
A CHANCE TO GIVE
Yes, it is your day. The day that, by design, is all about you. But it’s also a day that can benefit others with just a few easy choices. More and more brides and grooms are using their wedding as an opportunity to give back to the community or to those in need. While the options are endless, here are some easy ways to make an impact.
The Shoes.
For every pair of TOMS shoes sold in the U.S., the company gives away a pair in a developing nation, where children often pick up parasites and infections through their feet. TOMS offers shoes for the entire bridal party, and there’s a growing trend to skip throwing the bouquet and to instead “toss the TOMS.”
The Jewelry.
In 2003, top designer Joan Hornig launched a line of bridal-themed jewelry. Prices range from $55 to $5,000. All profits from the pieces go to charity; the buyers choose the recipients from more than 500 nonprofits.
The Gifts.
Register with idofoundation. org and when your guests purchase gifts at partner stores (including Target, Macy’s and Amazon.com), 10 percent of the purchase price goes to the charity or charities of your choice. Just be sure to choose a charity that’s not overly political, so you don’t offend your guests. –Seth “tower” Hurd
Fake It, Naturally
If false eyelashes aren’t your thing, but you still want a glamorous look for your wedding day, give L’Oréal Paris Extra-Volume Collagen Mascara a try. For about $8 at your local drug store, your lashes will get a lovely plumping. And while it comes in a waterproof formula, you should still give it a prewedding test run with a good laugh-’til-you-cry movie to be sure it’s going to withstand any waterworks.
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Women come with fabulous curves, shoulders and backs, and we’re meant to show them off. This year’s gowns are allowing us to do just that, with a few distinctive patterns that showcase the bride’s best, most ravishing features.
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Powerful Pleating The delicate art of ruching is prevalent this year, with intricate folds that glide seamlessly across the bodice, creating a slimming effect and enhancing the bride’s curves in a subtle way.
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Shoulders and Shawls Designers are calling attention to the shoulders and neckline, with single, asymmetrical straps and sheer shawls, all with some added frills that make the upper half stand out.
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Beautiful Backs Now that long veils are less common, many dresses are highlighting the back in innovative ways. The gorgeous back lines in these gowns make a dramatic statement on the bride’s walk down the aisle.
Powerful Pleating The delicate art of ruching is prevalent this year, with intricate folds that glide seamlessly across the bodice, creating a slimming effect and enhancing the bride’s curves in a subtle way. JULY 2010
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the honeymoon
compiled by HEATHER AUGUSTYN
FOUR SEASONS MAUI AT WAILEA Wailea, Maui 808.874.8000 fourseasons.com/maui Think honeymoon and think Maui, and that’s not without reason. Maui is a paradise, and the Four Seasons Maui at Wailea is the zenith of that paradise. Virtually all of the resort’s 380 rooms have ocean views, thanks to the building’s design. There is an adult-only pool with panoramic views of the ocean and landscape and rentable private 160-squarefoot cabanas with HD television, Internet access, couches, ceiling fans and stocked mini refrigerators. Plenty of recreational activities are available, such as tennis, boating and the spectacular Wailea Blue Golf Course, which is located at the foot of Mt. Haleakala, the island’s volcano that produced incredible flora.
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Hawaiian honeymoon
heaven
When it comes to honeymoons, what destination tops such world-class locations as Italy, Tahiti and Jamaica? None other than Hawaii, part of the proud United States. Hawaii is the number one honeymoon spot, perhaps because of its unique combination of romance and relaxation, as well as activity and adventure. For couples who love to hike, kayak, golf, bike and snorkel, Hawaii is perfect. For couples who enjoy massages, piña coladas on the beach, breathtaking sunsets and lounging poolside, Hawaii is perfect. Perhaps this is why many people refer to Hawaii as paradise: it offers so much to spark the human spirit, and to start off every marriage in bliss. At almost every winding turn of the road, Hawaii offers an abundance of fantastic resorts and hotels. The following are a few exceptional resorts that are ideal honeymoon choices.
THE FAIRMONT ORCHID Kohala Coast, Hawaii 866.540.4474 fairmont.com/orchid
GRAND HYATT KAUAI RESORT AND SPA Koloa, Kauai 808.742.1234 grandhyattkauai.com A private cabana on the beach where a butler serves up a four-course dinner; a hike hand-inhand along sea cliffs to see monk seals and whales on the white sandy beach; or lounging on the lanai overlooking an ocean sunset . . . The Grand Hyatt Kauai Resort and Spa brings all of the seclusion and magnificence of the island of Kauai, combined with an extraordinary spa that boasts traditional healing techniques of the Hawaiian culture. The spa has been newly remodeled and features 45,000 square feet of space with outdoor treatment areas in the garden, outdoor lava rock shower gardens, soaking tubs, men’s and women’s steam grottos, relaxation courtyards, a garden Vichy shower, and a 25-yard lap pool.
For 20 years, the Fairmont Orchid on the Big Island of Hawaii has been bringing newlywed couples exquisite, lush and gorgeous honeymoons. The Big Island combines the best of all worlds in Hawaii. Honeymooners can enjoy the tranquility of the shoreline with warm Pacific waves lapping the coast while relaxing in a lounge chair. Native sea turtles frequent the shores each afternoon, and even more nature is found on the other side of the Big Island, where molten lava flows into steaming, quenching ocean water from Kilauea. And in between the Kohala coast and the volcanic coast lie miles and miles of thriving rainforest, perfect for adventure and hiking. Relax in award-winning indoor or outdoor spa accommodations such as waterfall huts, enjoy sushi oceanside during sunset, or stay in with floating bathtub candles and orchid petals draped throughout the suite.
THE KAHALA HOTEL & RESORT Honolulu, Oahu | 800.367.2525 | kahalaresort.com All of the action of Honolulu, including great surfing, shopping and sightseeing, plus all of the privacy and quiet that this exceptional five-star resort offers, means a honeymoon that will be both romantic and lively. The luxurious resort offers private balconies off of private suites that overlook private ivory beaches. Unique to the Kahala is a 26,000-squarefoot natural lagoon that is home to Atlantic Bottlenose dolphins and is known as Dolphin Quest. This area of the resort offers visitors an in-water swim with the dolphins while learning about the mammals up-close. For those who prefer more pampering, the Kahala Spa, which features private rooms and an outdoor relaxation area post-treatment, has been named one of the top 25 most romantic getaways in the world by Travel & Leisure magazine for its tropical couples treatments.
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A STEP-BY-STEP GUIDE TO
Changing Your Name My Two Last Names
I knew I wanted to change my last name to my husband’s name—Karpinos is so much more exotic than Braff. But changing it professionally would take a lot of work, and could make it harder for me to get work, since I’m a freelance writer and all of my stories over the past decade have been in my maiden name. Plus, I really didn’t want to find a new website when daniellebraff.com has worked so well. So I kept my last name professionally and changed my maiden name legally. While it kept my career chugging along, I’ve still had a few hiccups. My professional checks are made out to Danielle Braff, but my bank account is under Danielle Karpinos. Thank goodness they haven’t noticed the different names. And my email is still under my maiden name, so all of the friends I’ve made since getting married just assume it’s my married name. But at the end of the day, I’m happy I kept my maiden name alive. It’s like I get to be the pre-married Danielle during the day, but the married Danielle after hours. —DB 28
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hat name that you’ve been doodling for months and maybe even years finally gets to be yours now. Sorta. If you’ve decided to change your last name, you’ll have to go through a few steps to make it official. “Oh, boy,” says Jessica Markusic, owner of Events Your Way in Lowell, Indiana. “It’s a lot of hassle. Make a list so you don’t get too overwhelmed.” We’ve gone one step further and actually made your list for you. Follow these simple steps to changing your name. –Danielle Braff
STep one: As soon as you get back from your honeymoon, order some extra certified copies of your marriage certificate. You’ll need them because some agencies, such as the department of motor vehicles, request originals for proof of marriage. STep TWo: You’ll need a new social security card with your new name. Get forms from the Social Security Administration at 800.722.1213. STep THree: You’ll need a whole new passport. To do this, you’ll be required to mail your old passport and a certified documentation of your name change—this is where the copy of your marriage certificate becomes useful—at a post office that accepts passport documents. They should have the forms for you to fill out to accompany your old passport. STep FoUr: Head to the DMV to get a new driver’s license. Bring another certified copy of your marriage certificate, and for $10, they’ll give you a new license. Remember to bring your old driver’s license with you—they’ll require you to turn in the old one before you get a new one. STep FiVe: Contact your bank and your credit card issuer. They will probably request proof of the name change—so do this after you get it formally changed through the Social Security Administration. STep SiX: Let your employer or school know so that it’ll be changed in their records. STep SeVen: Contact your insurance agency, your mortgage company, your car registration, utility company and any frequent flier programs. Each will require you to do something different to change the name—from mailing your marriage certificate to simply verifying the name change. STep eiGHT: Change your email address and your Facebook name.
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Finance Tip From a pro:
Separate or Joint Bank Accounts? There are pros and cons to everything. This includes the titling of bank and investment accounts. Many couples choose to title their accounts as Joint Tenancy with the right of survivorship for several reasons. First, this will allow either party to make transactions on the account independently of the other. Establishing the account does require both signatures. Also, the joint account will pass to the survivor regardless of any will or trust. • Depending upon the relationship and responsibilities divided between couples, many prefer to keep accounts separate. Jointly held accounts may be subject to claims made by creditors, lawsuits and divorce settlements. – Karen Vogelsang, senior financial advisor with Vogelsang Asset Management LLC in Valparaiso
Roomies for Life
Over the years countless studies have been conducted questioning whether or not living together before marriage inhibits or improves a relationship. But if this bride-to-be can go out on a limb, I feel it has to be a personal decision made by an individual couple. What’s good for the goose is not always good for the gander. While my fiancé and I purchased our first home together a few short months ago, we’ve decided to take the time before the wedding to set up house, moving in slowly and decorating. We’re fortunate to have the privilege to stay with our parents until the big day. While there are days when I think it would be easier to pack up and settle into our new home, I know deep down it’s worth the wait for us. Pre-wedding living arrangements can become a point of contention for families and couples alike. Be it financial, economic, personal, religious or any reason in between, it seems almost everyone has their own view on the decision. Kaitlyn and Ryan Perisin of Chicago married in May 2010. They had dated for more than six years. When Kaitlyn’s college roommate bailed on her during her junior year of college, the couple made the decision to move in together. “The only way you can truly know someone is by living with them,” Kaitlyn says. “When you come home from work at the end of the day, nothing is better than having the one person you love more than anyone else in the world waiting for you.” As the National Survey of Family Growth recently reported, we’re living in an era when nearly two-
thirds of couples who marry live together first. Prior to marriage, newlyweds Andrew and Nina Koehler stayed together frequently, but kept their living arrangements separate. “If financially, a couple can continue to have separate places until marriage, I would say it’s a good idea,” says Nina, a native of Ionia, Michigan, and new Fayetteville, Arkansas, transplant. Just remember, your new roommate may have a few quirks to adjust to. “[Andrew] leaves the lights on a lot and that drives me crazy . . . I’ll just give him the electric bills,” Nina jokes. Muncie, Indiana, residents Ben and Leitia McCugh married in May 2009. Ben had always said he had no intentions of ever living with his future wife prior to exchanging vows. When Ben met Leitia he stayed true to his word. Their reasons “ranged from practical to moral; we went to different colleges . . . but we also wanted to wait until our wedding night to have sex, and living together beforehand would have definitely put that at risk.” Each couple brings a different story and reasons to the table. But one common token of advice between all: follow your heart and do what you as a couple feel is best. –Nichole Odijk
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making your list and checking it twice Newly engaged and don’t know where to start? We’ve listed some of the area’s best in the categories of apparel, beauty, receptions, photography and more. Highlight, circle and start shopping! design KRISTINA LYNN FLORAL 1642 Britton Dr, schererville, ind. 219.865.8663. Kristina Lynn, who offers delivery, will meet every floral need for the wedding— from the boutonnieres to the corsages—including the engagement party, bridal shower, church and reception. eat GREAT LAKES CATERING 701 Washington st, Michigan City, ind. 219.898.1501. greatlakescatering.com. With a combined 75 years of experience, father and son Matt and Ed Kis are some of the area’s leading caterers. Services include catered food and beverages, hall rental assistance, flowers, DJs, bands, tents, tables and more. H&R CATERING, INC. 528 W 77th Ave, schererville, ind. 219.864.1458. banquetsatstgeorge. com. H&R Catering strives for culinary expertise in its freshly prepared food, extensive menu options and ability to fulfill special requests, while offering free tastings throughout the process to help with tough decisions. go ALL ABOUT TRAVEL 8671 Wicker Ave, ste B, st. John, ind. 219.365.3500. 10724 Broadway, Crown Point, ind. 219.661.8500. allabouttravel1.com. For more than 15 years, Denise Zencka’s travel agency has been “the Premier Agency in Lake and Porter Counties,” offering travel packages that include resort and destination information. pamper COSMETIC DENTISTRY OF LAKE COUNTY 8840 Calumet Ave, ste 104, Munster, ind. 219.836.7684. cosmeticdentistryoflakecounty.com.
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Dr. Kenneth B. Rundle specializes in cosmetic repairs in the teeth and mouth. The clinic is popular among brides for its variety of whitening services, including the Zoom! procedure. party THE ALLURE 301 B st, laPorte, ind. 219.477.9666. allureone.com. Recently renovated, this 1920s building now houses the area’s newest banquet hall. This unique venue combines modern design with classic ambience and features balconies, lofts, lounges and a gorgeous cascading staircase that descends into a grand ballroom. AVALON MANOR 3550 E Us 30, Merrillville, ind. 219.945.0888. theavalonmanor.com. The largest freestanding banquet facility in Northwest Indiana, Avalon Manor has exquisite outdoor gardens, a new ballroom and seating available for up to 1,200 guests. BLUE CHIP CASINO 2 Easy st, Michigan City, ind. 219.851.4852. bluechipcasino.com. Blue Chip’s brand-new Stardust Event Center offers 20,000 square feet of space, to accommodate a wedding of any size. Pre-wedding pampering is offered at Spa Blu, and guests can stay at the new, luxurious hotel. THE BOULEVARD INN AND BISTRO 521 lake Blvd, st. Joseph, Mich. 269.983.6600. theboulevardinn. com. St. Joseph’s famous hotel is available for small, intimate wedding receptions, as well as for bridal showers, rehearsal dinners, and morning-after brunch. The inn can also be a place for guests to stay, no matter where the wedding takes place.
CASA DEL ROMA 712 Calumet Ave, Valparaiso, ind. 219.465.0478. casadelroma.com. This full-service banquet facility offers a wedding chapel, catering services for up to 700 people, and a quaint Italian ambience.There are five banquet rooms to choose from, to accommodate any size and style of wedding. THE CENTER FOR VISUAL AND PERFORMING ARTS 1040 Ridge Rd, Munster, ind. 219.836.1950. cvpa.org. Up to 400 guests can share in your joy at the Center for Visual and Performing Arts, where “happily ever after begins.” CIAO BELLA 1514 Us 41, schererville, ind. 219.322.6800. ciaobellaonline.com. This beautiful new Italian restaurant offers a private banquet room available for bridal showers or rehearsal dinners. The cuisines of three different regions of Italy are featured here. DUNELAND BEACH INN 3311 Pottawattamie tr, Michigan City. 800.423.7729. dunelandbeachinn.com. Nestled in a quiet residential neighborhood just outside of New Buffalo, this newly remodeled, circa-1924 inn offers space for private parties as well as catering for weddings. THE FELT MANSION 6597 138th Ave, Holland, Mich. 616.335.3050. feltmansion.org. The Felt Mansion offers an open parlor, covered terrace, fine dining rooms and a third-floor grand ballroom. The surrounding gardens offer the bride and groom a magnificent backdrop for their special day. The historical mansion holds up to 90 guests in the grand ballroom.
GLENWOOD OAKS 106 N Main st, Glenwood, ill. 708.758.4400. glenwoodoaks.com. The private dining rooms at Glenwood Oaks can accommodate 20 to 250 guests. Valet parking, complimentary wedding cake and free limousine services are available. THE HERITAGE MUSEUM AND CULTURAL CENTER 601 Main st, st. Joseph, Mich. 269.983.1191. theheritagemcc.org. This historical venue—which features 20-foot ceilings with white pillars, hardwood floors and crystal chandeliers—is ideal for formal weddings. Guests can also roam the museum space during cocktail hour. INNSBROOK COUNTRY CLUB 6701 taft st, Merrillville, ind. 219.980.9060. innsbrookcc.com. Innsbrook Country Club’s newly remodeled banquet hall can accommodate up to 350 guests, and the floor-to-ceiling windows offer a beautiful backdrop to any photo. Innsbrook’s staff will work with any specialty themes, decorations, flowers or entertainment you would like to have at your reception. THE LIGHTHOUSE 7501 Constitution Ave, Cedar lake, ind. 219.374.9283. cedarlakelighthouse.com. The Lighthouse’s banquet facility, located on the second floor, features it all—atmosphere, good food and great service. A wooden dance floor surrounded by windows offers picturesque lakeside views. LUBEZNIK CENTER FOR THE ARTS 101 W 2nd st, Michigan City, ind. 219.874.4900. lubeznikcenter.org. With more than 5,000 total square feet, the Lubeznik Center is a unique and ideal setting
for brides and grooms who love art. Large and small galleries can be rented for both wedding receptions and bridal showers. THE MENDEL CENTER AT LAKE MICHIGAN COLLEGE 2755 E Napier Ave, Benton Harbor, Mich. 269.927.8100. themendelcenter.com. The Mendel Center offers a variety of options for any size wedding, even those with 500 or more guests. The staff helps customize the event, and the menu features fresh and locally grown foods. SERBIAN SOCIAL CENTER 18550 stony island Ave, lansing, ill. 708.895.8998. serbiansocialcenter. com. The servers at the Serbian Social Center guarantee outstanding service for the bridal party and guests. The ballrooms can comfortably accommodate up to 700 guests underneath the magnificence of the crystal chandeliers. SHADOWLAND ON SILVER BEACH 333 Broad st, st. Joseph, Mich. 888.404.7587. shadowlandonsilverbeach.com. This new venue is available for a variety of wedding needs, from the shower to the reception to the post-wedding brunch. Shadowland offers views of the lake and Whirlpool Compass Fountain, and guests can ride the beautiful, handcarved carousel. THE VERANDA AT THE WHITCOMB 509 ship st, st. Joseph, Mich. 888.785.6377. stjoebanquets.com. With spectacular views of Lake Michigan, the Veranda boasts a great location in a covered open-air facility. Catering service is provided by CK Catering and menus can be customized to the bride and groom’s preferences. VILLA CESARE 900 Eagle Ridge Dr, schererville, ind. 219.322.3011. villacesare.com. With two large banquet halls available to accommodate up to 900 people, Villa Cesare has an inviting atmosphere with impeccable service. WHITE HAWK COUNTRY CLUB 1001 White Hawk Dr, Crown Point, ind. 219.661.2322. whitehawkcountryclub.com.
The elegant banquet rooms at White Hawk collectively seat 230 people. All couples will be provided with a wedding coordinator for planning purposes. Additionally, an outdoor gazebo overlooking the 36-hole golf course is available for wedding ceremonies. plan SOUTHWEST MICHIGAN TOURIST COUNCIL 2300 Pipestone Rd, Benton Harbor, Mich. 269.925.6301. swmichigan.org. Brides and grooms can contact this organization to help make hotel room block bids, find hotel romance packages and provide helpful packets for wedding guests. ST. JOSEPH TODAY 120 state st, st. Joseph, Mich. 269.985.1111. sjtoday.org. Out-oftown wedding guests will find a variety of helpful information— on shopping, dining and events—at this welcome center, which can also help couples find the resources they need for their wedding. wear ALBERT’S DIAMOND JEWELERS 711 Main st, schererville, ind. 219.322.2700. albertsjewelers.com. Family-owned and -operated, Albert’s offers an entire wall of bridal jewelry and accessories at the back of the store, featuring names such as Scott Kay, Bez Ambar and Tacori. DUNHILL TUXEDOS Various locations in Northwest indiana and southwest Michigan. 800.445.1889. dunhilltuxedos.com. Names such as After Six, Oscar de la Renta and Perry Ellis fill the six different locations of Dunhill Tuxedos, with special wedding deals including free groom’s tuxedos and invitations. ELEGANCE WEDDING & EVENING WEAR 2820 Highway Ave, Highland, ind. 219.923.0977. elegancewedding. net. With a dedication to its customers and commitment to excellence, Elegance Wedding & Evening Wear is a one-stop shop for all bridal needs, including gowns, jewelry and invitations.
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photograph by PETE STENBERG PHOTOGRAPHY
January 17, 2009
Bridget and Tom Reeb Living Word Church Lansing, Illinois
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