Valdosta Magazine - Winter 2020

WINTER 2020

John A. Lastinger, AIF®

Senior Vice President/Investments

Robert A. Goddard III, AIF®, CFP® Vice President/Investments

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John D. Williams, CFP®

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Paula P. Hutchinson, AIF®, AAMS® Senior Vice President/Investments

Zachary G. Hageman

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LOVE & MARRIAGE ISSUE

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Richard S. Campbell, CIMA®

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For 130 years, the professionals at Stifel have predicated their success on the success of our clients and the communities in which we live and work. Simply, we believe that as individuals, businesses, and public entities come together, we can reach common goals.

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That’s Amore

Every Couple’s Love Story is Unique - so is Their Wedding

Stories of Love and Marriage

AROUND LOWNDES | ART & CULTURE | VALDOSTA “SEENS” | FOOD | PROFILES

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Elizabeth “Betsy” Whittinghill and Coleman Brice are one of the weddings featured in the special wedding section, “Here Comes the Bride.” Photo by Wes Sewell Photography

CONTENTS REGULAR FEATURES

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VCC 2020 Member-Member Weekend Valdosta Symphony Annual Gala

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FOOD – Jason Russell

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MLK 35th Annual Founders Banquet

Traditionally, buffets are an approach to feeding lots of people. But, remove the chafing dishes and big silver spoons, and you essentially have a grazing table. Also, Winter foods that help you stay warm while not compromising your health.

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Pinevale High School Reunion

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GO DOWNTOWN!

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AROUND LOWNDES

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Amazing Grazing & Southern Soul Warmers

Go Downtown to experience the Fun! Flair! & Flavor! that Downtown Valdosta has to offer. Featuring an advertising section and a listing of downtown events.

‘Around Lowndes’ highlights where to go, things to see, and what to do in Valdosta for every season!

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ARTS & CULTURE

Featuring the second in a series on Orchestral Leaders of the Valdosta Symphony Orchestra in celebration of the VSO’s 30th Anniversary.

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Just like a marriage, securing your retirement depends on what you create and a new law now enhances your opportunities.

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SELLING YOUR HOME – TOM CALL

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THAT’S AMORE!

A special bridal section featuring unique wedding stories with advice and tips for planning your perfect wedding!

Valdosta couples share their stories of love and advice for a joyful marriage.

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SWEET SIXTEEN

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A “Q & A” with Valdosta’s new mayor, best known for the talk radio show he hosts each morning on Talk 92.1.

A look back at the career of retiring Lowndes

High School Football Coach Randy McPherson.

Lowndes High School Junior Madison

Tomberlin was elected Speaker of the House

for the State YMCA of Georgia’s Youth Assembly.

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The Sweet Sixteen Hostesses held their annual dance in January at Valdosta Country Club, with the theme, “Under the Stars.”

Clyattville Elementary School’s beloved

custodian, JW Patterson, was paid tribute for

his 43 years of service as “one of CES’s finest employees.”

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FROM THE PUBLISHER

valdosta magazine Editors and Publishers : John F. Riddle & Connie K. Riddle Showcase Publications, Inc. Official Photographer & Cover Photography: Wes Sewell Photography Art Director: Stacey Nichols Content Coordinator: Candice McKinley Contributing Writers: Betsy Brice, Lindsay Lastinger Sterry, Taylor Stone Wildes, Susan Mullis, Jane Shelton, Lynn Vallotton, Robert Goddard III, Tom Call, Mattia Goddard, Jason Russell, John Riddle, Candice McKinley, Leslie Sherwood

Connie, Hux (24) Bowen (21), Ki (18) and John Riddle.

Everyone’s love story is unique and that is what makes the “Love and Marriage” issue special. We enjoy sharing stories of couples' most beautiful day in “Here Comes the Bride” and telling stories of life and marriage in “That’s Amore.”

We have always been interested in encouraging young couples as they start down the road of life together. We have taught newlywed classes and couple’s Sunday school classes and have always enjoyed sharing our “ups and downs” to, hopefully, help others. We certainly had good role models to show us the way. Namely, our parents.

Hopefully, these stories of love and marriage will encourage other young couples, and, even those who have been married a while like us, to make the most of every day.

Certainly, life changes through the years but we are as happy today as we were 30 years ago. We are by all measures VERY blessed as you can see from the photo of our family above. And, as we approach the “empty nest” phase of life (our youngest graduates this Spring) we look forward more fun times together. Though we don’t look the same as we did on our wedding day (see photo) we feel the same. And that’s what really matters!

We are certainly grateful for the couples who have shared the stories of their weddings and their lives together issue, as well as the businesses and professionals who are advertisers in the special section. They help make a bride and groom’s wedding day truly the most beautiful of their lives.

There are many other great stories about people that help show just what a vibrant and rich community Valdosta is. Stories we enjoy sharing.

Stories we know you’ll enjoy reading.

Many thanks to everyone who makes each issue of Valdosta Magazine possible. Advertisers, writers, photographers, contributors, and our subscribers and readers!

Sincerely,

John & Connie Riddle

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50TH ANNIVERSARY!

- Jeanna Ganas, author of Boo

“You do a wonderful job promoting our community through Valdosta Magazine. Thanks for all you do for our community.”

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(seated: granddaughters, Chandler & Sarah Kate Call, son, Will Coleman. standing: grandson, Coleman Call, daughter and son-in-law, Kelly & Tom Call. Buddy & Sharon Coleman)

“Buddy & I celebrated our 50th wedding anniversary in Highlands, NC, at the end of the summer with our children and grandchildren. This photo made by photographer, Colleen Kerrigan of Highlands, is aspecial memento. Wish I had remembered to take along a copy of Valdosta Magazine!

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very couple’s love story is unique and so is their wedding. In this section, brides tell their unique stories and describe how they incorporated much more than just “something borrowed, something blue, something old, something new,” into the most beautiful day of their lives.

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More Than Love Elizabeth “Betsy” Whittinghill & Coleman Brice STORY BY BETSY BRICE PHOTOGRAPHY BY WES SEWELL PHOTOGRAPHY

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Farm as a potential venue and it was the only place in Valdosta, or in Georgia for that matter, that we toured.

We instantly fell in love with the old pecan trees contrasting with the white buildings and the elegant simplicity of it all. We booked High Grove Farm within a week and began planning.

Unfortunately, I was not the type of bride that had her whole wedding planned out from a young age. When it came time to plan, we made sure we had a good team around us to help flush out our ideas and make them a reality. I knew our colors would be dusty blue with peach accents to complement our early March, Spring wedding. I also knew that I wanted to incorporate my collection of blue and white ginger jars for centerpieces. I took these ideas to our florist and she took control, taking my minimal instructions and creating beautiful arrangements and centerpieces.

Coleman’s mother, and my mother-in-law, is known for her delicious (and beautiful!) cakes. From the first time I ever tasted one of Mrs. Jan's cakes, I was hooked.

Despite it being her own son’s wedding, she graciously agreed to make our cake. We trusted her expertise and she delivered the perfect cake that was reduced completely to crumbs before the end of the night.

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My uncle, Roger Wilson, made the trip from Kentucky to marry us. We modified the wedding vows my parents took in 1981 to make them personal to us. These personal touches were what made our day unique.

oleman and I met while studying abroad during law school at University of Oxford in Oxford, England. Coleman graduated from The Florida State University College of Law in 2015 and I graduated in 2016. We are both practicing attorneys in Valdosta. We agreed early in our relationship that it was in our best interest to work separately to avoid the stereotypical attorney arguments.

However, at home, we are like-minded and great problem-solvers.

I wore a family heirloom necklace from my grandmother, to my mother, and ultimately to me.

This necklace doubled as my "something blue and something old." My veil was my "something borrowed," from my bridesmaid, Michelle Rigoni.

My dress was my “something new.” Coleman had his feather bow-tie custom made from a storefront on Etsy. We chose dusty blue for the bridesmaid’s dresses and allowed them to choose any style they wanted from an online retailer.

While engaged, we assumed we would be married in my hometown of Sarasota, Florida. We even made a few trips to narrow down venues in the area. In a passing conversation, a coworker mentioned High Grove

Despite the excitement and fun of planning a wedding, I found the process to be overwhelming at times. I admit that I have a Type A personality and

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wanted to make everyone involved happy. This made decision making very difficult because I was seeking everyone’s opinion, and they were all different. Looking back, I would listen to the advice and opinions given but not stress over making everyone happy. At the end of the day, everyone is going to be happy for you and your husband, regardless of the color of the linens.

“I firmly believe that having a great team of vendors and professionals made all the difference in our planning. Keep in mind that this is a day to celebrate the

two of you and no one will remember the small imperfections. Instead, they will

remember the laughter and love surrounding the day. I made myself "check out"

of the planning the Wednesday prior to the wedding and left the execution in the hands of our vendors. Best advice: make a list. Write it all down; your memory is never as good as you think it is!”

We had a wonderful wedding ceremony and reception. The weather could not have been more perfect and we still smile ear-to-ear thinking about the day. It was so full of love, in fact, that we got pregnant on our honeymoon in Jamaica!

Coleman purchased fertility dolls as a joke from a street vendor and in December we welcomed our son, Wilson Turner Brice, Wilson is my mother’s maiden name and Turner is Coleman’s father’s name.

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"For our wedding favors, my dad, Bruce Whittinghill, made his famous curry habanero hot sauce paired with a spicy jam. The peppers were

grown in his backyard in Sarasota, Florida, processed, and all 150 bottles and jars were sealed at home. It was a huge labor of love." - Betsy

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The most unique aspects of our wedding were, no doubt, influenced by where we met. We transported guests to and from the ceremony in a genuine London red double-decker bus, had traditional fish and chips for the rehearsal dinner, and had traditional British speeches from the father of the bride, the groom, and most hilariously, the best man.

When it came to selecting a wedding venue, nowhere seemed more appropriate than my parent’s home in Valdosta, the same location they had their wedding reception 30 years ago. Backed by the lake and azaleas, the setting was truly idyllic!

From the outset, we knew our rehearsal dinner was going to be a bit different from the norm. We’d had a lot of out of town guests, and for that, we needed a large venue. We needed something with a lot of charm, and character that was quintessentially American and British at the same time. The answer... fish and chips in a converted barn, obviously! It was a rehearsal dinner unlike any other.

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dward and I met in March, 2014, a long way from Valdosta, Georgia. Our love story, or in our case “Love Sterry,” started in the heart of London, England, after having both wandered into the same piano bar. While “Love at First Sight” is a bit of a cliche, it was quite real for us. That night in London is what eventually led to our wedding five years later on March 30th, 2019.

The hardest part of the wedding planning was certainly the logistics.

From preparing the venue to coordinating travel and accommodation for many out of town and approximately 150 overseas guests who made the trip to Valdosta from "across the pond!" And, ensuring the groomsmen all turned up in the correct attire - but it was all a lot of fun!

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Getting 250+ out of town and overseas guests in the same place at the same time sounded easy at first; but the reality was that it was not quite so easy! However, it was a good challenge to have and one which was well executed! The Hilton Garden Inn staff didn’t quite know what to think when we showed up with stacks of welcome packages and a forewarning that “half of the United Kingdom” was going to be showing up in their lobby!

As the bride, part of the fun is drawing inspiration from different vendors and other people who have been through the process of planning a wedding.

Therefore, I don't think you necessarily have to have it all in mind from the start. I spent a lot of time on Etsy in the months before the wedding which was a huge resource for incorporating unique details that made the day special. And finding wedding planners and others you can trust to carry out your vision is crucial.

First and foremost, Susanna Dover and Paula Martinez from Pink Bees Events in Valdosta

“My best advice would be that your wedding day, the day you've planned for months on end, is over in the blink of an eye.. Enjoy every minute! Despite extensive planning, there will inevitably be last-minute issues. Just roll with it. The most important thing is that all of

your most cherished family and friends have gathered in one place to celebrate your love story, and no amount of inclement weather, wardrobe malfunctions, or other miscues can take that away.�

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served as the best wedding planners for our day. They helped everything run smoothly by creating a detailed timeline, from pre-wedding photos to the moment we exited the reception.

We also had several exceptional vendors from Valdosta including Covington's, which catered the reception and rehearsal dinner and Perfect Settings, which helped us pick out a fabulous wedding registry and designed everything from wedding invitations to ceremony programs to welcome letters for each of our out of town guests.

The main thing about planning your wedding is to make sure and tell your story — your guests will remember the special details that remind them why they are there. Work to incorporate details that are unique to you and your husband-tobe. Something that really made our ceremony special was that our pastor, Justin Crenshaw, had us write letters to each other to be read during the ceremony. This was such a special touch and something we will remember forever.

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Lindsay and Edward invited guests to sign an actual globe since their wedding had

international guests from around the world.

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range from something old and new to a piece of blue, but no matter the custom, good skin is necessary. To have the most beneficial effect, a six month plan is advised for the fullest effect. To begin, an appointment for consultation should be scheduled in which a licensed esthetician or dermatologist will be able to decide what treatment will be best for your skin. It is likely that more than one treatment to prepare for your big day will be suggested.

The process of laser photo rejuvenation uses lasers, intense pulsed light, or photodynamic therapy to make controlled wounds on the skin causing new cells to heal themselves. Laser photo rejuvenation specifically helps with redness but can be effective for spots and textures as well.

Microneedling, also known as collagen induction therapy, uses small needles to repeatedly prick the skin. This causes more collagen to be created to tone and smooth your skin. It also makes your pores more susceptible to products, making the products applied to your skin more beneficial for days afterward. This treatment is most useful for scars, wrinkles, fine lines, large pores, and textures.

Although the concept of chemical peels sounds harsh, it is the opposite to your skin.

The chemical solution applied to the skin causes it to “blister” and then peel off revealing a younger layer that is more even. The areas that chemical peels can be done on are the face, neck, or hands. Chemical peels are the all around solvent for most all skin imperfections.

Dermaplaning has mostly the same effect of chemical peels, but it uses a scalpel to gently scrape the top layer of skin off.

The week of the wedding, hydra facial or silk peel will give your skin a last minute glow. They heavily exfoliate creating a look for you that is tighter and less splotchy.

The sixth, but certainly not final, solution is more of a finishing touch to your impeccable skin. Injectables are soft tissue filler that are interjected into the skin to shape and blend the appearance. Depending on your skin, you may need more than one injection. After a while, the body absorbs the fillers meaning touchups are necessary typically every four to five months. Specifically, Botox and Dysport can be used to soften fine lines and wrinkles around the forehead and eyes.

Other treatments help certain skin conditions, but this is a helpful timeline which you could base your visits to your skin care specialist. However, they know what is best for you to make your skin glow when you hear Canon in D while walking down the aisle.

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venue where I could clearly envision my ideas coming to life.

Finding the perfect venue was one of the most difficult parts of our wedding planning journey because, without it, we were completely stagnant, unable to even set a wedding date.

After being engaged for almost six months, I stumbled upon The Clay Theatre, a movie-theater-turned-event-space from the 1930's, as I continued my exhaustive search for our perfect venue. Not only did The Clay Theatre have the Art Deco look that I love but it also checked every other box on my list; I instantly knew that we had finally found our dream venue.

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ld Hollywood Glamour meets Art Deco design as Frank Sinatra's 'Fly Me To The Moon' wafts faintly through the air as guests arrive. Champagne flutes nestle against a greenery wall, bubbling with effervescent energy and filling the space with whimsical excitement— fitting for the evening ahead. Welcome to Taylor & Cole: One Night Only."

Planning your dream wedding begins in your imagination…consider it a rough draft where all of your dreams become reality. As Cole and I began planning our wedding, it was helpful to envision exactly what we wanted in a wedding venue: Vintage but Modern; Unique but Classic; Formal but Relaxed. Basically, the best of both worlds, but, if you’re going to dream, dream big, right?

For me, my dream wedding started with finding my dream dress. As vividly as I could picture details of our wedding, I was far less sure of what I was looking for in a wedding dress. To my surprise, I fell in love with a Martina Liana gown from White Weddings during my first ever try-on appointment! Finding my dress set the tone for the entire wedding: glamorous, romantic and timeless.

From the beginning, I had a specific vision of what I wanted our wedding to be like but I struggled to find a

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Once we booked our venue, we were finally able to start making decisions about the details of our wedding. I have a huge sweet tooth so one of my favorite experiences was dreaming up our wedding cake and Cole’s groom's cake with power couple Bailey and Nils from Crème de la Cocoa in St. Augustine, Florida. I knew that I didn't want our cake to taste or look like a traditional wedding cake and the final product did not disappoint. We were presented with the culinary confection of our dreams: glistening, gold, three-tiered cake flavored with lemon elderflower, lemon hazelnut and pecan praline.

If there were ever a groom's cake in existence that embodied the literal spirit of the groom, it was Cole's groom's cake. I wanted the cake to be special by representing some of his favorite things and what we ended up with was so far beyond anything I could have dreamed up. A perfect replica of our "getaway car," a white 1955 Cadillac Convertible—one of Cole's favorite vintage cars— flavored with Grand Marnier, his favorite nightcap!

After all of the larger tasks were taken care of, we were able to fine-tune with smaller details that, in my opinion, made all the difference. I commissioned a watercolor painting of The Clay Theatre from a sweet friend and talented artist, Mary Evelyn Tucker, that was used for our Save the Dates and to create bespoke stamps for our invitations.

Certain details like having a seating chart were non-negotiable to me and also allowed for some fun, creative details with personalized, gold-mirrored name cards to help each guest find his or her seat and movie-theatre-ticket-inspired escort card, subtly paying homage to The Clay Theatre's origins.

Reflecting on when we first started wedding planning, I realize how important it was to have clear ideas in mind ahead of time.

While I didn’t have it completely figured out by any means, I did have a vision of how I wanted our wedding to feel which served as inspiration for me throughout the entire process. When I started to think about our wedding day, right away I knew that I wanted glamour with vintage charm; I wanted romance, elegance, and timelessness. I wanted it to feel like we were stepping back into a different time period, possibly catching a glimpse of Ginger Rogers and Fred Astaire effortlessly twirling to the bright, smooth sounds of a jazz saxophone.

“Remember to enjoy this amazing, stressful, unforgettable time in your life. It can be easy to get so caught

up in making your wedding perfect that the real reason for getting married can get lost. As a very detailed, organized person, I would cringe after being told that things will go wrong and it’s okay but the truth is that things probably will go wrong—and it actually is okay!”

For me, it was easier to think of the big picture and the desired overall feeling of the wedding first, working backward to create all of the little details to make that vision a reality. Without a basic idea of what you want, it can be easy to get swept up in what everyone around you wants, making it difficult to sort through ideas to figure out what truly represents your style.

Surrounding myself with professionals in the industry was essential. My wedding planner—who also happens to be the "in-house" wedding planner for The Clay Theatre—Lauren Cowgill, was an amazing asset and helped me with everything from connecting us with the best vendors in the area to finding

sources to create custom pieces—like our clear acrylic escort cardholders—in addition to personally ensuring every detail of our wedding day went smoothly.

As incredibly rewarding as it is to see your dream wedding come to life, it's also important to remember what your wedding day is truly about. At the end of the night, you will have made a much more important decision than deciding which type of greenery to use or choosing between serving chicken or steak for dinner. In the end, you have found your lobster and committed to a lifetime together in front of God, family, and friends and there's no amount of glistening, gold fondant that can top that.

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"One of my favorite features was

our champagne wall‌it was such a

statement piece as guests entered into the lobby of The Clay Theatre. I always like to remind myself that things don’t

have to be expensive to look and feel expensive and our champagne wall

is the perfect example. My dad built it for me two days before the wedding

and we attached boxwood panels that I ordered from Amazon and it turned out amazing! Never underestimate

the impact of a great DIY project while planning your wedding." - Taylor

The Groom's Cake was a replica

of their "getaway car," a white 1955 Cadillac Convertible.

Movie-theatre-ticket-inspired escort cards subtly paid homage to The Clay Theatre's origins.

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Your Wedding – Your Vision

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he Flower Gallery has been able to create exceptional designs and excellent working relationships with our brides for over 20 years. We gather extraordinary components and lovingly style them to capture the vision, aura, and essence of every bride's dream day ensuring each one has a truly unique experience.

Tips for Helping Your Florist Interpret Your Vision

BY SUSAN MULLIS, OWNER, THE FLOWER GALLERY

No matter which florist you choose, it takes time to interpret and create the florals you will always remember. So, scheduling a wedding consultation as soon as possible is very important to ensure you have a reputable florist reserved. Here are the main questions any florist will ask to help them interpret your vision for your wedding.

When are you getting married?

It is essential to find a florist who is available on your wedding date! And to find out which flowers are in season during that time of year.

well as the number of tables you’ll need.

Remember, too, that there will be other tables and areas that will need decorating, including (but not limited to) the buffet tables, guest book table, mantles, etc.

Where are you getting married?

Your venue can be a significant source of inspiration for your florist in helping brides choose flowers. When selecting your venue, keep that in mind.

How many people are in your wedding party?

For your florist to figure out how many centerpieces, bouquets, corsages, and boutonnieres you'll need, he or she will need a guest count as well as the number of people in your wedding party, parents, and other VIPs.

What colors are you using?

2020's color of the year is Classic Blue. Not only will you see clothes, shoes, jewelry, furniture with all shades of blue, but you will also be seeing brides using shades of blue this year. Some couples will provide the florist with a particular color scheme, using paint chips, dress swatches or photos to describe their dream palette. Others prefer to give their florist a bit more leeway, providing a more general description of colors they like ("pinks & neutrals” or “greens & blues”) and allowing the florist to use her creativity to interpret their vision.

What is your seating plan?

A big part of a florist’s job is creating centerpieces for your reception tables.

You’ll want to discuss the types you’re considering (round, long, square, etc..) as

What is your wedding style?

What are the three or four words that would describe your wedding day? Glamorous and modern? Rustic & relaxed? Using descriptive words and providing photo

examples, like a Pinterest board, helps your florist pinpoint your vision for your wedding day.

What will the wedding party be wearing?

Knowing what your wedding party will be wearing will also be helpful in choosing flowers and the design for boutonnieres and corsages.

What are your favorite flowers?

Let your florist know which flowers are your favorite. This will help with the vision of your wedding. Also, if there are flowers or colors that you dislike, share that with your florist as well.

What is your budget?

Having a budget can also help you choose which flowers to use and what size each floral design should be.

Having the answers to these questions will enable your florist to make your day as beautiful as you imagine.

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hen it comes to honeymoon destinations, there are many wonderful choices, and there are several considerations

for finding your favorite destination.

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hen considering a destination or resort, consider what you like to do on vacation. While one of your friends may recommend a destination, they might like to do different things on their vacation, and so the property they chose may not be a good fit for you.

Here are some things to consider: • Do you like a tropical breeze or a mountain breeze?

• Do you like to be active on your vacation or prefer to relax?

• Do you like new adventures or prefer to stick with what you know?

• How long do you plan to spend on your honeymoon, and what is your budget?

Are these realistic?

• Do you like to maintain health and diet on your vacation or do you prefer to not worry about these things until you return home?

• Do you prefer to get married at or near home, or at your honeymoon destination?

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hese are just a few of the questions that we want to know in order to be sure the couple we are assisting is

comfortable with their choice so they have one less thing to worry about while they are planning their wedding.

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mong the romantic destinations that we have booked for our couples are:

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ifferent seasons or holidays may determine which location is best for your travel.

he key to a wonderful honeymoon is to know what you want to experience and your budget. You don’t have to break the bank to have a romantic honeymoon, although, this may be the time for you to splurge. Ask your travel advisor if they can register your honeymoon so that friends and family can pay on your honeymoon rather than pots and pans you don’t need.

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emember, a travel advisor can assist you with the best options, provide you with pointers you may not have considered to save you money, and look at all the options to make sure you are getting the best value for your dream destination!

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Bride’s Best Friend Alden Purdy & Kameron Walker STORY BY ALDEN WALKER PHOTOGRAPHY BY MADISON CARTER PHOTOGRAPHY

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SHOULD I HAVE A HOUND OF HONOR? If you’re thinking of including your dog in any aspect of your wedding be sure to think ahead about a strategy to help ensure everything goes smoothly. Renowned dog trainer, Victoria Stilwell, offers a few tips for including your dog in your wedding. Stilwell is best known for her role as the star of Animal Planet’s hit TV series It’s Me or the Dog. She is CEO of Victoria Stilwell Positively Dog Training and is a best-selling book author. Her most recent, Train Your Dog Positively, is available at stores nationwide and online at amazon.com.

1. Ask if your dog has what it takes. Weddings can be stressful and overwhelming for a dog that does not adapt well to new environments or is uncomfortable around strangers. Sociable dogs that are outgoing and friendly often cope better with the extra attention they are likely to receive. If your dog is shy and uncomfortable around people, leave him at home where he is safe and secure.

2. Decide what part of the ceremony you would like your dog(s) to attend. Involve your dog in the ceremony but not the reception, as receptions tend to be overwhelming — especially those with an extensive guest list and loud music.

3. Check first to make sure that the venues you choose for your wedding allow dogs. Many have a strict no pet policy.

4. Make sure that you tell your bridesmaids or groomsmen of your intentions before the day. Many people are allergic to dogs, so giving them ample warning will help them prepare if they suffer from allergies.

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ndoubtably, there had to have been details Alden Purdy and Kameron Walker disagreed on while they were planning their wedding. But, one thing was not debatable – they both wanted their dog, Harper, to be a part of the wedding. Or, at least the wedding photos.

“Harper is a special part of our family,” Purdy explained. So, like other members of the family Harper was front and center for the wedding photographs. “I had a close friend bring Harper for pictures and then take her back home,” Purdy emphasized. “My main tip is that if you want your dog as part of your wedding have someone help you with your dog to be responsible for her the day of the wedding.”

5. What role is your dog going to play at your wedding? Whether she is the ring bearer or the hound of honor, start preparing early for the tasks she is going to do during the ceremony.

6. Designate a handler that will be with your dog at all times throughout the ceremony. This will relieve any pressure you might feel to make sure that your dog behaves properly.

7. Rehearse as much as you can with your dog before the big day and leave ample time to practice during the actual rehearsal so that your dog (and his or her handler) knows exactly what to do and when to do it.

8. Take a trip to the grooming parlor or wash and groom your dog at home so that he looks and smells good on the big day.

9. Ensure that your dog is well-controlled around your guests.

A jumping dog will not be appreciated. If your dog has a tendency to jump up, take time well before the day to teach him an alternative behavior, such as greeting a person by sitting and giving his paw rather than jumping up. If his excitement level is too high, he might find it hard to control his impulses — in which case, keep him leashed and controlled at all times.

10. Do not forget to include your dog in some wedding pictures!

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SECURE What Matters The 2020 SECURE Act It’s been said that “a great marriage isn’t something that just happens; it’s something that must be created.” Just like a marriage, securing your retirement depends on what you create, and a new law now enhances your opportunities.

The Setting Every Community Up for Retirement Enhancements (SECURE) Act increases saving opportunities for Americans with many of the provisions that became effective January 1, 2020.

What is the SECURE ACT? The SECURE Act contains 29 separate provisions, and while many of the opportunities are specific to certain individuals and businesses, some directly impact everyone.

Some of the more impactful provisions are: • New IRA contribution rules • Increased required distribution age • Changes to inherited IRA distributions • Additional penalty-free withdrawals • Part-time employee 401(k) eligibility Repeal of the maximum age for traditional IRA contributions.

Before 2020, taxpayers with earned income could make contributions to traditional IRAs only up until age 70½. The new law repeals the maximum age, allowing contributions at any age.

Delays RMDs. Required Minimum Distributions (RMDs) are required withdrawals from retirement accounts. The minimum amount is calculated by dividing the prior December 31 balance of a retirement account by a life expectancy factor published by the IRS. The new RMD age increases from 70½ to age 72. If you are currently taking RMDs from an IRA or other retirement plans, these accounts are “grandfathered,” meaning that current RMD payout schedules will not be altered.

Curtails “stretch” IRA payout to certain beneficiaries. “Stretch” IRAs allow certain beneficiaries to inherit a retirement account at the owner’s death and stretch the tax-deferred status and withdrawals over their lifetime within certain guidelines. Now, a non-spouse beneficiary will be required to take distributions more rapidly – no more than 10 years. The provision applies to beneficiaries of IRAs and employer-sponsored plans (including 401(k), 403(b) and 457b plans).

rule begins), disabled, chronically ill, or not more than 10 years younger than the deceased IRA owner.

If you are currently taking RMDs from an inherited IRA and taking RMDs over your life expectancy, these accounts are “grandfathered,” and the current RMD payout schedules will not be altered as long as the IRA owner passed away prior to January 1, 2020.

Penalty-free withdrawals for childbirth or adoption expenses. IRAs and some employment retirement plans will now allow up to $5,000 to be withdrawn penalty free for certain childbirth or adoption expenses.

Student loan payments. Tax-free and penalty-free distributions from 529 plans will be allowed for qualified student loan repayments up to $10,000.

Allow long-term part-time workers to participate in 401(k) plans.

Part-time employees who have worked at least 500 hours per year for at least three consecutive years will be eligible to participate in their employer’s 401(k) plan.

Most of the new provisions became effective on January 1 of this year, while others will require additional guidance from the IRS and the Department of Labor before financial institutions can effectively implement some of the new rules. Employer retirement plans will require amendments to address some changes that will not be effective until 2022.

Like a great marriage that doesn’t just happen and must be created, the opportunity to secure your retirement is created by understanding the new SECURE Act, working with your tax advisor, and having a close relationship with a qualified and experienced financial advisor who can provide you with options that are specifically tailored for you and are in your best interest.

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FLORAL DESIGN, WEDDING CONSULTING, & EVENT PLANNING

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What is your Wedding Style?

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BY LYNN VALLOTTON, FLORAL DESIGN – WEDDING CONSULTING – EVENT PLANNING

lowers are an essential part of the wedding. They're not only pretty and a wedding tradition, but they also allow you to express your personal style and creativity. In general, your wedding flowers should reflect the overall style of your wedding. So, what to consider in choosing a wedding style?

Where is your event to be held? What season and time of day will your event be? Are you going for a formal or more relaxed atmosphere? Which style most describes your dream wedding?

Here are a few of the most popular wedding styles.

Classic / Traditional

Vintage / Romantic

Traditional and elegant, your wedding is a formal black-tie affair set in a church or grand ballroom. You’ll feel beautiful with a formal cascade bouquet, and a string of pearls. Floral centerpieces full of roses and peonies is the way to go, and a monogrammed dance floor will complete your vision of the perfect wedding. Favorite flowers: peonies, garden roses, ranunculus, stock, dendrobium orchids, stephanotis, hydrangea.

The great romances of the past continue to capture your imagination. When it comes to your wedding, you look to create an atmosphere with antique and vintage finds such as mercury glass and soft lace. Your bridal style includes a vintage headpiece, a lace handkerchief, and a bouquet of an open bloom cluster of soft colors. Favorite flowers: Tea roses, ranunculus, hydrangea, peonies, Queen Anne’s lace.

Modern /Chic

Boho / Indi

Chic and sophisticated are words used to describe your style. When it comes to your wedding, you envision an urban loft or art gallery transformed artfully into a warm space with mixed metallic accents. Your perfect bouquet has clean lines and architectural details.

You're an effortlessly stylish modern bride. Favorite flowers: calla lilies, ginger, antherium, succulents, tropical greenery.

Rustic / Garden You love the idea of a romantic wedding outdoors- whether dancing under a big white tent or right beneath the stars- and you look for ways to incorporate natural elements into your big day. Picture a converted barn, and you with a gathering of garden flowers. Twinkling lights, wood accents, and Mason jar centerpieces complete the vision for your rustic wedding.

Favorite flowers: hydrangea, tulips, lilies, daisies, dusty miller.

Dream catchers, feathers, and lots of fresh blooms come together to make your boho wedding dreams come true. Whether you swoon for a palette of jewel tones or soft watercolors, bring your vision to life with a hand-tied bouquet of colorful flowers and playful textures. Pair your flowy wedding dress with a blooming floral crown. Favorite flowers: Anemone, mini calla, alstromeria, thistle, lizianthus, waxflower, eucalyptus, berries.

Glam / Luxurious With a love for glitter, sparkle, and all things extravagant, you’ve never had a hard time setting yourself apart from the rest. For your wedding, you opt for dramatic arrangements of your favorite blooms, dangling chandeliers, and a large bouquet shades of white with a mix of bling and shimmer.

Favorite flowers: Orchids, Casablanca lilies, hydrangea, roses.

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“In Napoli, where love is king, when boy meets girl, here’s what they say…”

That’s Amore STORIES BY MATTIA GODDARD

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or our “Love & Marriage” issue, we highlight couples who are at various phases of marriage and life together. We profile three couples who have 88 years of marriage between them: Buddy and Sharon Coleman – 50 years; Hernan and Lisa Posas – 28 years; and Daniel and Drew Bennett – 10 years. Our fourth couple, Bonnie Ard and Greg Guilliams, recently married after finding love a second time when both lost their spouses to illness at an early age.

These couples have said “I Do” and “still are” living life together, watching the leaves fall and change as they become more beautiful with each passing day.

“Marriage is like watching the color of leaves in the fall; ever changing and more stunningly beautiful with each passing day.” – Fawn Weaver Winter 2020

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A Second Chance at Love Bonnie Ard and Greg Guilliams

PHOTOS BY WES SEWELL PHOTOGRAPHY

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onnie Ard lost her husband of 29 years, Johnny Ard, in May of 2018. After battling kidney failure and dialysis for three years, he lost his fight.

Greg Guilliams lost his wife of more than 19 years, Ami, in April of 2017. Ami fought breast cancer twice, when it returned a third time, she lost her battle.

Johnny was 50 and Ami was 43. He was a former professional baseball player and worked for Southern Company. She was an aeronautical scientist who had worked in NASA’s public affairs department. They left behind bereft spouses and devastated children.

Two months after Johnny's passing, Greg, the Head Coach of Valdosta State University Baseball, called Bonnie to talk to her about her two sons, Luke and Jude. Both boys are baseball players and Greg wanted to recruit them.

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Community College with Jude, a high school senior, getting the same offer. Once they settled their baseball discussion, Greg asked Bonnie how she was doing.

They had known of each other for years from the ball field and Greg's son, Elijah, and Bonnie's son, Jude, had played Varsity Baseball together for Valdosta High School.

Bonnie knew that as a fellow widower, Greg would understand her, and she could be honest with him.

Having been in the same spot as Bonnie, Greg knew that constant feeling of “faking it” for the people around him.

She was not ok. Bonnie was struggling terribly with the loss of her husband and found herself alone in guiding her children in the sport their father played professionally.

So, when Greg asked her how she was doing, she cried.

She let all those pent-up emotions out, and Greg quietly and gently consoled her. From that conversation on, Greg checked on her every week, a phone call, a text--some form

of communication. They were able to talk openly and honestly about their pain.

That August, Bonnie's son played in VSU's Fall academy game.

Greg gave Bonnie a devotional. She remembered thinking, "This isn't going to help me." It was Jesus Calling by Sarah Young.

"My friend Hal McGregor gave [the book] to me when Ami was nearing the end," Greg explained. "There is a sick feeling in your gut all the time. The only place I found peace was when I was praying or in God's Word. I knew what Bonnie was going through and I wanted to help."

Bonnie distinctly recalls the devotional on the third day--it was a Friday. "It said, 'He bears our burdens.' From there, it all started to click," she said.

Greg and Bonnie's friendship accelerated. Her lawnmower broke and he went to Home Depot with her to pick out a new one. Then coffee at Chick-fil-a and the next week, dinner. They would laugh and cry and talk for hours, a widow and a widower, understanding each other in a way that no one else could.

Then, approximately one year ago in December, during a movie at the house, Bonnie asked Greg for a hug and to be told everything would be okay. The sparks flew from there. Together, they've learned to forge a new life with new experiences.

They've fallen into an easy routine, including working out together and

“I found myself wishing for just five more minutes with my husband to tell him how much he meant to me and how deeply I loved him. Have no regrets, let your spouse know how you feel about them.” - Bonnie

long-distance cyling. After cycling their first 32-mile trail, they were hooked. Among their favorite locations, was the Four Freedoms Trail in Florida, from Pinetta to Madison. In the offseason from baseball, they continued to cycle this trail on weekends, enjoying breakfast afterward and a bit of shopping in the quaint shops in Madison.

Last November, Bonnie found a Frosty the Snowman hat that opened like a box. Because it was close to Christmas, she did not buy it for herself. Greg noticed, and discreetly bought the hat. A few weeks later, in December, while biking the Four Freedom Trail, they took a small offshoot from the trail, which has a picturesque tree canopy. It is, to both of them, a beautiful and tranquil spot. Greg had placed the hat on a fence post along the secluded trail. Bonnie was shocked when she saw it, and said, "It's my hat!" Inside the hat, Greg had written her a love note telling her how he felt about her, and when she looked up, he was on one knee. Bonnie joyfully and tearfully accepted his proposal.

According to Greg and Bonnie, getting a second chance at love is nothing short of a gift from God. Their wedding was quite different from both of their first marriage celebrations. They were married at the VSU baseball home plate, before the TCC game. The TCC head coach, Mike McLeod, coached Bonnie's late husband in the Minnesota Twins organization. Greg's late wife also became friends with Coach McLeod when his son played for Greg at his prior coaching job at Embry Riddle. He was there alongside their boys, their dear friend and pastor, Brian Gay, who officiated, and scores of friends from baseball and all walks of life, who were there to witness this next chapter for Bonnie and Greg.

“I had a wonderful first marriage, but no marriage is perfect. Regrets are understandable. I wish I had done it better, said I loved her more, showed her more, served her more. Love has been good to me.

God has given me another amazing woman.” - Greg Winter 2020

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A Decade of Marriage

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a Lifetime Together Drew and Daniel Bennett

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eet Daniel and Drew Bennett, two of Valdosta's young professionals. They grew up in Adel, and as adults, specifically chose Valdosta to raise their children and continue their careers.

Although neither of them remembers it much, they first met at the tender age of four while playing on the same t-ball team and attending Mrs. Wanda's Preschool in Adel. In their high school honors World History class their official relationship began, after years of friendship. The young couple dated for a few months.

Then, as it so often goes in the lives of teenagers, they broke up, only to get back together at the start of their junior year, and they've been together ever since.

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They both attended the University of Georgia in the fall of 2005, dating throughout college, and both graduated in the Spring of 2009, Daniel with a biomedical engineering degree and Drew with a degree in finance. Shortly after graduation, the couple married at Pebblehill Plantation in Thomasville.

Afterward, they moved to Florida and began the arduous commitment to law and medical school. Going through school at the same time worked well for them. They both understood what the other was going through and were able to study together quite a bit. There was plenty of fun as well, and they managed to squeeze in travel and the "Bulldawgs" around their school obligations.

From there the couple transitioned again, this time for Daniel's residency in Rome, Georgia. Their first child, Reese, was born during this time and with parenthood came more change.

Having a child made them think about their future and where they wanted to end up. After much thought and prayer, the couple decided they wanted to move back to South Georgia to raise their children. They revisited many places to determine which would be the best fit for them, while remaining close to their families in Adel. They ultimately chose Valdosta for its geographic location, family feel, and the friendly people they encountered during their visits.

They have been pleased with their decision to move to Valdosta.

Daniel enjoys his work at Valdosta Family Medicine and Drew loves her work at Langdale Vallotton. The couple has three children, Reese, age 6; Jack, age 3; and Kate, age 3 months. The children are thriving in their schools and happily involved with many extracurricular activities.

When not running the kids to their various sporting and dance practices and games, the family enjoys much of what Valdosta has to offer. They like to frequent locally-owned restaurants like Mom and Dad's, Jack's Steakhouse, and Friends.

They love to go to Wild Adventures and the outdoor movies shown all around town. "Valdosta is great because it has a semi small-town feel, "said Drew, "which is exactly what we wanted for our family, along with plenty of family-friendly things to do."

As an animal lover, Drew would have hundreds of cats and dogs if she could, but she and Daniel compromised at four. They have two dogs, Lula, a ten-year-old Westie, and Maple, a one and a half-year-old Aussie Doodle. They also have two cats, Toulouse and Belle, both three years old, who Drew rescued about a month after they moved to South Georgia. She noticed two small kittens by the side of the road, she took them home and she and Daniel spent hours bathing them and ridding them of fleas. Today they are well-fed, happy members of the Bennett Clan.

As a family, they love walking their dogs around their neighborhood and cuddling with their kitties at home. When they can get out of town, they head up to Athens to support their alma mater, the Georgia Bulldogs. They travel to as many games as they can and bring their kids to at least one or two games a season. They enjoy the outdoors, hiking trails, and fishing.

However, with a new baby, they don't travel as much as they used to. Instead, they work in the yard, and roast s' mores in their fire pit.

Drew and Daniel's first 10 years of marriage have brought change and growth for the couple, and in retrospect, it has been a wonderful process for them as they create their life together.

Their relocation to Valdosta, where they are raising their family and putting down roots after years of moving, assures them that the best is yet to come for this young family.

Although neither of them remembers it much, they first met at the tender age of four while playing on the same t-ball team and attending Mrs. Wanda's Preschool in Adel.

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50 Years Together in Lowndes County

Sharon and Buddy Coleman

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haron and Buddy Coleman have spent the last five decades together making Valdosta richer with their commitment to each other and their community. Buddy was born and raised in Valdosta and Sharon moved here with her family when she was eight years old.

Both graduates of Valdosta High School, Buddy in 1960 and Sharon in 1966, they each left home briefly. Buddy went to Abraham Baldwin Agricultural College and the University of Georgia. Afterward, he spent more than three years in the US Navy as a Junior Officer, including a tour of duty in Vietnam.

Sharon left her freshman year to attend college at Mercer University, then returned home and finished at Valdosta State College.

The couple met while she was a junior at VSC. Buddy and Sharon's first date was a double-date arranged by Buddy's

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cousin, Stephen Coleman. Stephen was a classmate and friend of Sharon's and wanted the two of them to meet. In fact, Sharon says he "nagged" her about it until she finally agreed.

"Our first date was on March 9," said Sharon, "and the four of us, Buddy and I, and Stephen Coleman and his date, went out to eat and then attended a spring tradition at Cleveland Field- -The VHS 'Has Been, Will Be' football game, where the graduating players played the team for next year's season.

Buddy and I never dated anyone else after that night and became engaged May 10, six weeks after our first date.�

After serving his country, Buddy returned to Valdosta where he joined his dad in the timber business as a consulting forester.

"The evening that Buddy asked my daddy for my hand in marriage is a fun memory," said Sharon. "After I told my

mother of our plans to become engaged, she explained to my daddy and they invited Buddy over for dinner a few days later. Every time Buddy began to ask for my hand, Daddy would ask him if he would like to hear a war story, to which a squirming Buddy would answer, 'yes sir.' This went on, with several attempts to speak by poor Buddy and several stories from Daddy before Daddy gave in- -with a twinkle in his eye- -and let Buddy ask him the big question."

Buddy and Sharon find it hard to believe that fifty years have passed since their wedding in Park Avenue Methodist Church on that August Saturday in 1969. Twenty-four years ago they built a home on Buddy's family farm and moved from Wood Valley to their land, 15 miles northeast in Lowndes County. Living on their farm has been something they both truly enjoy.

The couple celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary last August 30, along with their family in Highlands, North Carolina, where they had also spent several days on their wedding trip all those years ago. While in Highlands, they enjoyed a visit with former "Valdostan" Lyle Nichols, who had been Buddy's best man at their wedding.

Buddy’s trick to maintaining a happy marriage is also his advice to a groom-to-be: “When she asks you to do something, the answer is “yes ma’am.”

Sharon and Buddy have two wonderful children, Kelly Coleman Call of Valdosta, and Will Coleman of Honolulu, Hawaii. And they have three wonderful grandchildren, Chandler, Sarah Kate, and Coleman Call.

When not spending time with their grandchildren, Buddy farms blueberries, continues his part-time consulting forester career, and enjoys hunting. Right now, he is especially enjoying wild quail hunting. After years of volunteering on the CAG Board, Sharon now enjoys donating her time and skill to the Annette Howell Turner Center for the Arts by putting together some of their floral centerpieces. She donates her floral arrangements to her church and friends as well, as a hobby. She also enjoys nature photography and will sometimes enter her work into the annual Spring Into Art event at the Turner Center.

Both Buddy and Sharon love the life they have built in Valdosta. "Life is very good and we thank God every day," Sharon said.

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he marriage of Lisa and Hernan Posas is an international love story, spanning several continents and close to three decades, culminating in a life well lived, right here in Valdosta.

After completing his residency in pediatrics and adult/child neurology in New Orleans, at LSU, Hernan arrived at the Medical College of Georgia to begin his Fellowship in Neuromuscular Disorders. It was June of 1989, and on his first day he met Lisa Dennis, a neurodiagnostic technology student, and the thought went through his head, “I want to marry this woman.”

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spent the evening swing dancing to old school music, and from then on they were inseparable. To this day, the couple loves to dance.

Hernan proposed after mass one Sunday at St. Mary’s on the Hill, the church they attended in Augusta. Lisa graduated shortly thereafter from The Medical College of Georgia in May of 1990.

Lisa was appointed Clinical Instructor at MCG while Hernan completed his fellowship, and his board certification in three fields: pediatrics, adult and child neurology, and neuromuscular diseases.

What sounds like love at first sight would in fact take another two years to come to fruition. Lisa was convinced he was too old for her and kept coming up with excuses to not go on dates with him. Lisa’s repeated rejections came at a time when he passed his Neurology Boards and he wanted to celebrate.

The couple celebrated their nuptials twice. First, they were married in a civil ceremony in December of 1991 at The Partridge Inn in Augusta. They left immediately following the ceremony for Hernan’s post in Saudi Arabia, teaching neuromuscular disorders and pediatric neurology, at the King Fisal Specialist Hospital in Riyahd. While Hernan taught, Lisa worked as an EEG & EMG technologist, doing brain, nerve and muscle testing.

Fast forward to the next year, in early 1990, Hernan convinced her to go dancing at a popular spot in Augusta called the Post Office. They

They returned to the US eight months later for a reaffirmation marital ceremony with family and friends at Park Avenue United

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Methodist Church. It was a whirlwind visit and upon their return to Saudi Arabia, they traveled throughout the region. The couple stayed overseas until the end of 1993, enjoying their exposure to the Middle East and Europe.

Together they had gotten scuba certified and dove several times in the Red Sea and the Persian Gulf. Living in Saudi Arabia they enjoyed life in a compound with the other ex-pat medical professionals from around the world. Lisa loved the gold markets and extensive shopping markets throughout Riyahd. They both gained an appreciation for Middle Eastern cuisine during their travels. It was a different world over there, and Lisa recounts having to travel with her husband, covering her hair and being forbidden from driving. Hernan tells the story of a wonderful trip, travelling close to Mecca and Medina, but as he was “a person of the book”, Saudi Arabia’s term for Christians, he was not permitted to enter their holy cities.

He loved his work in Saudi Arabia, fascinated by the cases he encountered.

However, home beckoned, and the couple returned to South Georgia. Lisa’s family has lived in Lowndes County for six generations and they’ve been in Georgia for over 200 years. The opportunity arose in Valdosta that another neurologist was needed; so for them to come back to Lisa’s hometown, where her family was, it ended up being a simple decision.

Hernan joined his current neurology group, the Neurological Institute of Valdosta, and Lisa continued her education earning her Bachelor’s Degree in Sociology with an emphasis on Medical Social Work at VSU while working at The Neurological Institute as well.

After five years of marriage, they welcomed their first child, David, who just graduated from Mercer. Shortly thereafter, they added to their family with Emily and then Eric, a junior and sophomore, respectively, currently at the University of Georgia. Lisa worked at Hernan’s office until David was born then stayed home to raise the children.

Both of their boys played baseball all the way through high school and then David played baseball for four years with the Mercer Bears. Lisa was team mom on their little league teams and then served as president of the Dugout Clubs while the boys played at Valdosta Middle and Valdosta High Schools. She jokingly says that she has spent the last 20 years as the Posas family athletics and events coordinator. She spent many hours volunteering at St. John School and Church, as well as with the Valdosta Junior Service League and the Valdosta City Schools Foundation.

From Hernan’s first marriage, he has two sons, Jose, a neurologist in New Orleans and Carl, a lawyer turned actor in Salt Lake City.

The Posas extended family spans the globe, from his father and brothers in Peru, Ecuador and the Philippines, to his sons across the country, and his precious granddaughters in New Orleans. With family all over, Lisa and Hernan take every opportunity to attend graduations in New York and weddings in Honduras, and every family gathering in between.

Now that their youngest is in college, the couple is trying to adjust to the quiet of their empty nest. Lisa and Hernan are making an effort to enjoy their newfound freedom by travelling again.

Reflecting upon their adventurous courtship and marriage, Lisa and Hernan have loved every colorful minute of their 28 years together. The next 28 years they think will be perhaps less adventuresome, but no less fun, so long as they’re together.

ADVICE FOR LONGEVITY IN MARRIAGE: “Learn to respect each other’s likes and dislikes. You’re two different people, you will not agree on everything.” - Hernan “Keep fun in your marriage. I recommend lots of dancing and lots of laughter.” - Lisa

“The day I met Lisa I thought, ‘I want to marry this woman.’”

- Hernan

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Amazing Grazing

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ometimes buffets get a bad rap. Traditionally, buffets are a catchall approach to feeding lots of people lots of food.

But, remove the chafing dishes and big silver spoons, and you essentially have a grazing table. It’s the same concept but with a modern and fun approach to serving snacks, appetizers, meals, and desserts. The idea is as old as food itself and can be seen in many different forms throughout history, from the grand buffet displays at weddings to your high school cafeteria. The aim is to encourage a communal experience and offer food that’s easily and equally available to all guests, without making them stand in line!

Grazing table options are endless and versatile when it comes to presenting food to share. If you’ve been to any sort of celebration recently and enjoyed a donut from the donut wall, cheese from the charcuterie board or even a finger sandwich from an assorted tray you have experienced a form of a grazing table.

Its gain in popularity is from its ease of assembly, “wow” factor in presentation, and ability to feed your crowd without having to stress over food temperature. These five tips will help you prepare, design and execute your very own amazing grazing table.

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#1 Choose Your Vessel Wisely

This decision sets the tone of the display. After you have decided how many people you are looking to serve and what food you want to provide, choose a hard surface with character, space, and presentation power. If making a classic cheese display to take to a dinner party, find a large board that is impressive even without the food on it. If you’re providing a selection of items for a luncheon, pick a small table that can be dressed up and used as the platter.

#2 Location, Location, Location

Since guests typically gather near the food table your display will be a focal point in the room, so make sure to choose a space that is open for people to freely move around. You will want your guests to have easy access to all offerings—you can do this by positioning the “grazings” so that they can be enjoyed from all directions. Lazy Susans can help with this!

#3 Pile It On

When choosing the items to put on your table, think through the textures, colors, and varieties. This will help you easily present your food without having to worry about fancy fruit carvings or edible/nonviable food garnishes. Don't try to have back items to rebuild the offerings—use all you can on the display and pile it on—aim to have no white space. I also like to use a mix of utensils, bowls, and cutlery, adding depth to the presentation.

#4 Small But Mighty

The grazing table option is intended to satisfy a crowd. Try to offer a wide variety of options that fit within your theme so that even the pickiest of eaters will be pleased. The offerings should be bite-sized but plentiful, (remember, no white space!). The selections should be a mix of savory and sweet items or foods that complement each other. Try to include items that limit your preparation time but add that “wow” factor. Jazz up a store-bought hummus or other spread, to offer some variety but which takes little prep time.

#5 Where’s Waldo

Think of it as a game, like “Where’s Waldo?” The more you look, the more you find. The more options you have—colors, textures, elevations, refined and rustic themes—the more you keep your guests interested. They will explore the table to find the things they like and their eyes will stay glued to the presentation. Have fun with the options and happy grazing!

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Southern Soul Warmers

Food plays an important part in our daily decisions, moods, and feelings. Winter foods can help you stay warm while not compromising your health, keeping you in good spirits—you just need to establish a few parameters for the season. Besides, at what other time can you enjoy rich braised meats, soul-warming winter squash soups, and hearty baked legumes and vegetables? Winter, unlike many other seasons, has its own style and cuisine and deserves a moment of celebration for its bounty. The following quick tips are some of my favorites for a hearty and healthy winter meal that helps fight the chill and keep you in good standing with your doctor.

EAT MORE CARBS Eating carbohydrates such as fruit, yogurt, starches, and natural sugars, releases serotonin, which enhances calmness, improves mood, and lessens depression.

Local produce can be hard to find when cold weather inhibits crop growth. But root vegetables like beets, carrots, and turnips can withstand the cold and you can reap the benefits. But, all things in moderation or it can have the opposite effect!

tiredness and fatigue, is fish like Salmon and Cod, which are high in vitamin B12, which can also be found in dairy products.

PUMPING IRON Foods rich in iron, like spinach, lentils, and beef also assist in immune health, as well as keeping your body temperature regulated.

Iron performs many vital roles for the body, but like anything, it can be harmful if too much is consumed.

LEAFY GREENS

SOUPS ON

Dark leafy greens are always a good choice and they thrive in the chill of winter. Rich in vitamins A, C, and K, they are important for your immune system and energy levels, especially if you are active or regularly working out.

Soup is the perfect winter food. It is a great way to create a good mix of fibers and vegetable proteins all in one. As long as you hold the cream, you can enjoy a hearty meal without packing on the pounds.

And soups provide endless options, from a garlicky minestrone with shrimp to silky butternut squash.

THE FISH DISH Another great food that helps boost the immune system, and helps alleviate

Now I must admit, the winters down South are mild, and some lighter versions of coldweather dishes could pertain to us more. This is why I have decided to add some of my favorites, which keep to the season, and also pair with the varying temperatures outside.

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Shrimp and Grits Style Risotto INGREDIENTS • 16 large shrimp (21/25 count) • 6 tablespoons olive oil, divided • 1/2 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes • 4 strips thick-cut bacon, rough chopped • 2 cloves garlic, chopped • 1 bunch chopped flat-leaf parsley leaves • 1 cup dry white wine • 2 cups chicken stock (or a seafood stock if possible) • 1 small onion, finely chopped • 3 chopped plum tomatoes • 3 sprigs fresh thyme • 1/2 cup half and half, warmed • 1 1/2 cups sliced mushrooms • 1 cup long-grain arborio rice • Dash Crystals hot sauce, or preferred brand • 2 lemons • 4 scallions, sliced

DIRECTIONS

• Place shrimp in a bowl with 1 squeezed lemon (juice and lemon), thyme, 3 tablespoons of olive oil, crushed red pepper flakes, and toss to coat. Let marinate for at least 30 minutes.

• In a medium skillet, cook bacon over medium-low heat to render fat; remove with a slotted spoon once the bacon has cooked to golden, but not crisped, and drain on a paper towel-lined plate.

• Add remaining olive oil to bacon fat in pan; cook garlic and parsley together until very fragrant. Add tomatoes to the pan and cook 2 to 3 minutes over medium heat. Add shrimp (with its marinade, lemon removed) and cook one minute per side.

• Add wine, bring to a simmer, removing shrimp after 1 minute. Set aside in a covered bowl.

Add stock to the remaining liquid and keep at a low simmer.

• In a dutch oven, heat butter and sauté onion until golden, over medium-high heat. Add mushrooms, and cook until golden.

• Stir in rice and cook until translucent. For 20 minutes, add stock mixture, a 1/2 cup or so at a time, stirring until all the liquid is ab-sorbed with each addition.

• When all but half a cup or so of liquid remains to be added, and the rice is al dente, stir in bacon and shrimp, and a few dashes of hot sauce.

•Finish the dish with the warm half and half and a squeeze of lemon. Put the lid on the dutch oven and let the risotto rest for 5 minutes before serving topped with scallions and more hot sauce at the table if desired.

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Chorizo Mac & Cheese INGREDIENTS

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DIRECTIONS

• Cook pasta with a little bite left in it, “al dente” • In a large skillet, brown chorizo over medium-high heat and break it up into pieces with a wooden spoon or spatula. Add green bell pepper and cook until softened.

Throw in fresh pico de gallo and stir till warmed through. Place chorizo mix into a large bowl and set aside.

• Return skillet to medium-high heat and melt butter. Whisk in the flour and cook it for about 30 seconds, to cook off the raw flour taste. Add the milk and let thicken, about 3-4 minutes. Add the cheese and salt and stir until all the cheese has melted.

Remove from heat.

• Carefully add the pasta into the cheese sauce mixture and stir to incorporate everything evenly.

• Divide into bowls and top with Chorizo mix, sliced scallions and a fresh squeeze of lime.

Food Section Warm Salmon & Lentil Salad with Everything Bagel Spice DIRECTIONS

• Make the yogurt dressing: In a small bowl or jar, combine the shallots, lemon zest, lemon juice, Everything bagel seasoning, and a pinch of salt and pepper.

• Let the shallots sit in the lemon acid for about 5 minutes to relax their pungency. Add the Dijon, yogurt, and extra-virgin olive oil, and whisk to combine (or put a lid on a jar and shake). Adjust seasoning and acidity to taste.

• The dressing can be made in advance and keeps well (tightly covered in the fridge) for one week.

• Heat oven to 275F. • Make the Salmon rub: In a small bowl, stir together the olive oil, Dijon, and everything bagel seasoning (listed under the salad ingredients) until well combined.

INGREDIENTS

For the yogurt dressing • 2 tablespoons minced shallots • Zest of 1 lemon • 3 tablespoons lemon juice, from 1 to 2 lemons • 1/2 teaspoon of everything bagel seasoning • Freshly ground black pepper, to taste • 1 teaspoon Dijon mustard • 1/2 cup plain yogurt (full-fat recommended) • 1/4 cup extra-virgin olive oil

• Brush a baking dish generously with olive oil. Arrange the salmon skin-side-down in the dish. Sprinkle a few grinds of black pepper evenly over the flesh. Using the back of a spoon or your hands, evenly apply the rub.

• Roast for 20 to 35 minutes (cook time will depend on the salmon’s thickness), or until the fish is just beginning to flake and the tip of a knife slides through the flesh easily.

(An instant-read thermometer should read 120F in the thickest part for medium-rare.)

Once cool, break the salmon into irregular pieces.

For the salad • 1 tablespoon olive oil • 2 teaspoons Dijon mustard • 1 1/2 pounds salmon fillet, preferably center-cut • 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt, or to taste • Freshly ground black pepper • 1 cup uncooked green lentils, rinsed • 1 bay leaf • 1 tablespoon lemon juice, plus more to taste • 1/3 cup pine nuts or chopped walnuts, toasted • 2-3 cups greens (baby arugula, spinach, mache, or a mix)

• Meanwhile, make the lentils: Place lentils and bay leaf in a saucepan and cover by at least 1 inch of water. Bring to a boil, then turn down the heat and simmer until the lentils are tender, about 20 to 30 minutes (or according to package directions). Add additional water, if needed, to keep the lentils covered.

•Drain well in a colander, discarding the bay leaf. Return the lentils to the pan.

Immediately fold in 2 tablespoons of the yogurt dressing, 1 tablespoon lemon juice, and half the pine nuts. Season to taste with salt and pepper.

• Let the lentils cool for about 5 minutes, then transfer to a large serving platter or bowl.

Add the greens and about 1 tablespoon dressing, tossing well. Taste again, adding more salt, pepper, lemon juice, or dressing as needed, tasting and tinkering until you get the balance right.

• Top lentils with salmon and remaining pine nuts. Drizzle more dressing over the salad. Serve warm.

White Bean & Collard Green Soup INGREDIENTS

• 3 slices thick-cut bacon, chopped • 1 medium sweet or yellow onion, chopped • 1 1/2 cups chopped ham • 2 quarts chicken broth • 1/2 teaspoon pepper • 1/4 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes • 1 tablespoon tomato paste • 1 teaspoon apple cider vinegar • 1 lb. (dry) great northern beans, soaked (or 3 cans drained) • 4 cups thinly chopped collard greens • hot sauce

INSTRUCTIONS

• Cook bacon in a large pot until crispy. Remove bacon with a slotted spoon and set aside.

• Add onion to the bacon grease and cook 5 minutes to soften.

• Add ham and cook 2 more minutes.

• Add chicken broth, pepper, and red pepper flakes.

• Add tomato paste and apple cider vinegar and beans if using rehydrated dried (if using canned, add for last 30 mins. Bring to a boil.

• Simmer 30 minutes, stirring occasionally.

• Stir in the collard greens and cook another 10 minutes. Serve with hot sauce.

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Selling Your Home: 5 Bathroom Renovations That Will Pay Off

WRITTEN BY

TOM CALL

On the journey to selling your home, it can be all too easy to focus solely on finding your new dream property and forget to ensure the home you leave behind is a dream property for its next inhabitants. The good news is giving your home some targeted TLC before selling can increase its value at a time when that matters most.

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n the journey to selling your home, it can be all too easy to focus solely on finding your new dream property and forget to ensure the home you leave behind is a dream property for its next inhabitants. Creating a beautiful living space that you’ll soon be leaving may seem counterproductive, but the good news is giving your home some targeted TLC before selling can increase its value at a time when that matters most.

in a sumptuous statement bath that immediately catches the eye.

To help you make your property that little bit more irresistible, our friends at Jaquar are honing in on the bathroom – a space full of renovation potential. From full-scale makeover ideas to the finer details, you’ll find ideas galore for redecorating your way to a hefty new home fund.

The right lighting is the key to the right ambience, and ambience isn’t something that can be neglected in a relaxation station like the bathroom. In keeping with your understated yet elegant aesthetic, you can increase your bathroom’s appeal further still by illuminating the space with gently glowing sconces, under-cabinet or overshelf lighting, an industrial-look pendant lamp or a combination of the lot if you’re open to something a little more eclectic.

A blank canvas color palette

Pale, muted and earthy shades are widely acknowledged as appealing to potential buyers due to being stripped-back and, as a result, boundless in potential. Without a bold, imposing color scheme limiting their imagination, prospective buyers will be able to effortlessly picture themselves living in the space.

A neutral color palette is particularly at home in the bathroom, which should be designated as a space for peaceful, uninterrupted relaxation. Calming shades such as white, cream and beige are ideal for creating that all-important atmosphere of zen – and with any luck, potential buyers will feel their worries melt away the moment they first set foot in your blank canvas bathroom.

Vertical storage space maximized

In smaller homes, storage space is at a premium – and even if your property is a reasonable size, there’s no denying the appeal of extra storage options that don’t impose on the living space itself.

In the bathroom, your best bet is to unlock the potential of your available vertical space – introducing new hanging storage baskets, wall-mounted hooks and rails, and floating shelves, all of which are as affordable as they are effective. With these simple storage additions, you can create an utterly clutter-free space where everything has its right place – guaranteed to go down a storm with prospective buyers.

Free-standing bathtubs in particular add instant opulence to any bathroom, conjuring images of tranquil living in the lap of luxury.

If your property can make a promise as powerful as that, finding a buyer shouldn’t be a problem.

Radiant lighting fixtures

Of course, the ultimate bathroom lighting solution is to introduce a skylight, bathing the entire space in rejuvenating natural light. This will mean a far greater financial investment on your part, but is likely to pay dividends when the time comes to sell your home.

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With your neutral color palette, vertical storage options, statement bathtub and luxurious light fixtures firmly in place, all that’s left is to ice the cake – by which we mean put the finishing touches on your irresistible bathroom.

From elegant wall mirrors and dainty cabinets to a fashionable and functional backsplash behind the basin or in the shower, the options are practically endless when it comes to accessorizing your way to a bathroom any prospective buyer will be happy to pay more for the luxury of living in.

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Mr. Mayor A Q & A with Mayor Scott James Matheson

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cott James Matheson was named Mayor of Valdosta after a December 3 runoff with J.D. Rice. The razor-thin margin was just 96 votes, with only 16% of the eligible voters participating in the December runoff election.

Scott James, best known for the talk radio show he hosts each morning on Talk 92.1, the radio station he owns and operates, has been involved in the community for years. Recently, he co-chaired the One-Lowndes Valdosta initiative, served on the SPLOST steering committee, and is president of the Leadership Lowndes board. He also served six years as a city councilman and two years as Mayor Pro-Tem in Remerton.

As he began his first term in January, he answered some questions for Valdosta Magazine’s readers on becoming Mayor, some of his initial plans, and what he’d like to accomplish in his first term.

Q: Why did you decide to run for Mayor?

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perspective and the perch that I've enjoyed for the last 30 years. To sit and discuss the town that you live in for 3 hours each morning, to welcome in its people, interview local leaders, civic groups, politicians at all levels is truly unique. To also be invited to every celebration and involved in every disaster (man-made or mother nature) for so many years has been a rare privilege. Most people get their education on the job, mine has been continuous and daily over the last few decades.

Q: It was a close race. What do you attribute your success to? How will you reach out to the voters who supported a different candidate?

A: It was a close race and by no means a mandate. I wondered how I might reach out to the large group of constituents that supported my runoff opponent, J.D. Rice. But, as I went immediately to work, it began to happen with every meeting and every event I attended.

Everyone has a reason to support the candidate of their choice but I have been thrilled to find out that hometown politics doesn't mirror national politics after all is said and done. People have been very receptive and willing to work with me at every turn.

Q: What changes do you anticipate in your daily routine? Will you continue your daily radio broadcasts?

A: If I am going to do my job as Mayor correctly, then I will have to take on additional sales help at my radio group. I can still run, grow, promote, and even do my radio show in the morning because of the time frame (6 am -9 am), but if the sales effort suffers, then the business would be adversely affected.

Q: What are your primary goals in the first year as Mayor?

A: Some of my goals for year one are some form of public transportation, some cost savings measures for us all, and to stay on top of our continued water and sewer issues.

The water-sewer issue will never leave “tierone” for me during all four years.

Q: Do you have any specific ideas for the continued development of downtown Valdosta?

A: I will get to be the Mayor that leads the celebration when we finally get the large trucks out of our Downtown, but it has been the efforts of others over the last decade that actually got it done. That was key to the

walkability and for events in our Downtown and even the growth and prosperity. A truck route that had 250 trucks a day rattling through the heart of Downtown made it tough to sell that "next step" of development down there. Look for more green space, more growth, more events, and some very significant big picture developments that are in the works.

Q: How will you be able to “move the town forward” in the next four years?

A: We are in a very fortunate position right now, having laid some excellent groundwork over the last decade or so, plus many of our former friends and neighbors hold some very key posts and positions throughout the State.

Those relationships will, at the very least, keep us in the discussion long enough for us to present our case.

Q: In four years, what are you hoping that the residents of Valdosta will be able to say about your first term as Mayor?

A: No major sewer spills in our waterways, a successful, cost-effective transportation plan that fits today's modern lifestyle, and a Mayor that would champion a cause for every citizen, rich or poor, black or white, young or old.

Some of my goals for year one are some form of public transportation, some cost savings measures for us all, and to stay on top of our continued water and sewer issues. The water-sewer issue will never leave “tier- one” for me during all four years.

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uring a team meeting on December 17, 2019, Coach Randy McPherson announced to his team and staff that he was retiring from coaching after 37 years with a simple statement, "I would like to thank the Lowndes community for having me as their coach for the past 18 seasons. I made the decision (to retire) before the season began, but I did not want it to be a distraction. I will always be a Viking. I plan to give some time back to my wife that I owe her. God Bless."

off the field. The importance of teamwork, ignoring the noise, and focusing on the goal and the team. And, most importantly, academics for our student-athletes is the most important thing."

McPherson and his wife of 35 years, Deonne, are both educators who began teaching the same year. Their two sons, Will and Mitch, are also educators, and Will is a coach in Lee County.

Lowndes County School Superintendent Wes Taylor is impressed with McPherson's record on the football field but is equally impressed with his character and commitment to the studentathletes. "Coach McPherson has enjoyed incredible success as a head coach. Even more impressive than his remarkable winning record is the positive difference he has made in the lives of countless young men during his stellar career."

During his 24 seasons as a head football coach, he amassed 252 wins with only 55 losses. He has learned a lot about what it takes to be successful on and off the field.

"My most successful teams have not always been the most talented teams. What makes a less talented team successful is chemistry," McPherson says. "By chemistry, I mean, teammates who exhibit character; who have a love for one another; who get along well; who don't want to let each other down; and how are not selfish."

But the critical ingredient for a successful team boils down to hard work, according to McPherson. "It requires a yearlong commitment, from weight training to grueling summer workout. It is very demanding."

Through his career in coaching, he has learned some valuable lessons. "I have learned how to deal with student-athletes, on and

The lessons McPherson has learned, and the lessons he taught are useful both for football and for life. He sums it ups this way, "To have a successful life, always do your best, believe in yourself, and don't listen to the naysayers."

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Madison Tomberlin participated as a delegate at the 75th Georgia Youth Assembly.

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owndes High School junior, Madison Tomberlin, was elected during the 75th Georgia Youth Assembly (YA) to be Speaker of the House for the 76th Georgia Youth Assembly, to be held in November 2020. Lowndes High Y Club, under the supervision of sponsor Donna Tomlinson and chaperone Rena Nelson, represented LHS at Georgia Youth Assembly held at the state's capitol in November.

The group included 39 students who had the opportunity to write bills and argue them in the Georgia State Capitol. Madison has been a member of Y Club for the past three years. She attended GUNA (Georgia United Nations Assembly) with Y Club last March, and this was her first time attending Youth Assembly.

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people’s opinions have always fascinated me.”

During Youth Assembly, students have an opportunity to discuss current state issues with state administrators, elected officials, and students from high schools throughout Georgia. Each conference is led by teens elected to office by their fellow delegates. Students participate in mock committee meetings, learn governmental procedures, and then debate and vote on the bills that their fellow delegates have written and presented. Bills that pass in Committee are then taken to the floor of the House or Senate for full debate and vote.

“I was able to meet new people from around the state who share the same passion for politics and civic education that I do,” said Madison. “Through debating bills that pertained to real life issues, I was able to become more open-minded and understanding about other people’s opinions that differ from my own. Georgia youth are

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the future of this state, and Youth Assembly is one of the best ways to further educate our youth politically, and to build connections. I am excited for the upcoming year which will be full of leadership opportunities, such as visiting Washington, D.C., participating in the IMPACT Leadership Conference, attending either the Republican or Democratic National Conventions for the 2020 election year, and serving as the Speaker of the House at the 76th Georgia Youth Assembly!”

Youth hold the offices of Governor, Lieutenant Governor, and Speaker of the House. Participants also engage in campaigns and elections for officers who will serve during the following year. Madison's interest in these leadership roles piqued when she found out that no one else from Lowndes planned to run for office. She decided to step up for the challenge, and her diligence was rewarded.

Student Representatives voting on a bill in the House Chambers.

75th Georgia Youth Speaker of the House, Nicholas Byrd, handing the gavel over to Madison Tomberlin.

“Madison is a joy to work with,” said Lowndes High School teacher and Y Club sponsor, Donna Tomlinson.

“She is intelligent, focused, ambitious, and willing to work to succeed. Her teachers love her enthusiasm and integrity, and I knew once she decided to run for Speaker of the House nobody would match her capabilities. She has a sweet spirit and will do an amazing job as Speaker.

This year, at LHS, Y Club has more than 60 members.

The students love the challenge of debating and meeting other students from across the state who are interested in politics and evoking change. They inspire me every year with their confidence and knowledge of current events.”

Madison is the daughter of Jonathan and Kimberly Tomberlin. She has two siblings, Hunter, 14, and Rylee, 9. “My parents have always instilled in me the importance of my education, hard work, and determination,” she said.

Student Representatives Madison Tomberlin and Emma Davis.

Madison plans to pursue an undergraduate degree in Political Science and graduate from law school from the University of Georgia or Mercer University. She is a varsity football cheerleader and involved in Anchor Club, Beta Club, Class Cabinet, Y-Club, Civics Club, Spanish Honors Society and Key Club. Madison looks forward to fulfilling her duties as Speaker of the House at the Georgia YA next year.

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he Sweet Sixteen hostesses held their annual dance on January 4th at the Valdosta Country Club. This year’s theme was “Under the Stars”. The Club was decorated with white hydrangea centerpieces with floating candles, stars and candlelit votives. There was also a light installation in the grand ballroom and the entrance to the Club. This annual event began over two decades ago as an opportunity for young women attending Valdosta and Lowndes High Schools, Valwood, and area home school students to celebrate the milestone of turning sixteen. A total of 68 hostesses made up the 2020 group and each of them could invite up to five additional guests. The 2020 Hostesses were Reese Adams, Anna Alvarado, Hannah Audain, Landen Best, Sarah Bishop, Hannah Bonner, Karsyn Boyd, Marleigh Broomberg, Brittin

Brown, Marleigh Carson, Elizabeth Christie, Chloe Lynn Collins, Kylie Cook, Rebekah Cooper, Jenna Daniels, Easton Dean, Kendall Folsom, Lauren Folsom, Ellie Griner, Mary Claire Griner, Cadence Hatfield, Lauren Hendley, Hollee Hennly, Avery Holder, Anna Holmes, Kimble Hunt, Bailee Inman, Abigail King, Shiloh King, Katherine Krispin, Emma Lavender, Susanna Lawrence, Ashley Lindsey, Madison McGhin, Noralee McSwain, Lauren McTier, Morgan Mackey, Mia Meli, Rebecca Moody, Alaina Moon, Summer Mulgrew, Bailee Musgrove, Hailey Neloms, Katie Ortmeyer, Ruby Parrish, Anna Paulk, Maggie Purvis, Laura-Paige Rambo, Lillian Respess, Zayne Ridge, Adair Rodemaker, Mattie Ryan, Lauren Scarborough, Caroline Scarpate, Susanna Shaw, Julia Sherwood, Addyson Smith, Kathryn Smith, Ebby Somers, Courtney Grace Stalvey, Carlie Stein, Jaclyn Taylor, Niara Walker-Potts, Allie Rae Ward, Lilia Ward, Kelsee Warren, Chesley Wetherington, and Maryelyse Wilson.

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J.W. Patterson is the beloved custodian that faithfully served the students, faculty, and administration at Clyattville Elementary School for 43 years.

J.W. Patterson: Clyattville Elementary School’s Beloved Custodian for 43 Years

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ormer students, past principals, and community leaders converged on the Clyattville Elementary School (CES) campus to pay tribute to one of its finest employees, Mr. J.W. Patterson. He is the beloved custodian who faithfully served the students, faculty, and administration for 43 years.

Current CES Principal, Dr. Tenry Berry, proclaimed, "From this day forward, every November 21 will forever be recognized as ‘JW Patterson Day.’ To honor this wonderful man, each year on this date, Clyattville Elementary will celebrate acts of kindness and acknowledge those demonstrating good work ethics. Furthermore, the 2019-2020 school yearbook will be dedicated to him, and he will be gifted a copy. Lastly, at the end of each school year from this year forward, one student will be selected to receive the J.W. Patterson Award for exhibiting the integrity and compassion that embodied this extraordinary man.”

The school parking lot was packed and the gymnasium had standing room only as the student body, teachers, work colleagues, and audience members shared personal stories, poems, banners, cards, and letters about Patterson. A powerpoint presentation showed highlights of his storied career at CES. Pictures captured him quietly joining a classroom to listen to kindergartners read, participating with older students in outdoor science experiments, sitting with and engaging kids in conversation at lunch, and rolling out play dough ABC's with Pre-K students. Each picture was a pleasant reminder of a man who was so much more than the school custodian!

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One segment of the presentation featured several adults that were past students sharing their touching memories on video. Even though many of them now live in distant states, they wanted to celebrate this man who had made such a lasting impression on their lives. They reached out to CES media specialist Cindy Roberts, who included their pre-recorded tributes. Annette Christie Wahl, now a resident of Palm Beach, California, appeared in the video sending her love and accolades to Patterson. It was one of the many special moments which brought tears to Patterson's eyes.

The lunchroom staff kicked off the celebration in a big way. They presented Patterson with a shadow box containing an authentic Viking football jersey with the number 43, which represented the number of years he worked for CES. And, "you can't have a jersey without a helmet," so Lowndes High School Head Football Coach, Randy McPherson, donated one! Dr. Berry presented Patterson a maroon monogrammed jacket and a piece of luggage on behalf of the school. Each grade level from Pre-K to 5th grade selected specific teachers and students to personally address Patterson with their fond memories.

In addition, each group bestowed thoughtful gifts. Second-grade teachers stood before Patterson dressed in plaid flannel shirts for their presentation since that was always his daily choice of attire.

They gifted him with a new plaid shirt, ball cap, and a t-shirt that read, "The Legend Has Retired!" By the end of the celebration, Patterson's new piece of luggage was packed solid with cards and letters from the students, as well as, gift cards galore! Fruit baskets,

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Former students, past principals, and community leaders converged on the Clyattville Elementary School (CES) campus to pay tribute to one of its finest employees, Mr. J.W. Patterson.

homemade dishes, and other beautifully wrapped presents found their way into Patterson's arms.

Teaching staff including Rena Hendley, Judy Kirkland, Lorri Rogers, and Felicia Allen acknowledged that Patterson had known them all their lives, as each began their school career as first-graders at CES! They fought back tears as each shared how much they adored him when they were children, and their admiration continued to grow throughout the years.

Hendley told the audience that Patterson was so popular that anytime a picture or information about him hit social media that it would "trend," receiving hundreds of likes and comments! Then she read a letter forwarded to her from Rebecca Black Lundy, a resident of North Carolina.

Lundy stated she was crushed that she was unable to attend the retirement celebration, but wanted to send her recollections of the man who made her feel valued and loved.

Her beautiful letter stirred the hearts of all who were present. Sobs were heard and tears rolled down the faces of many because the letter communicated such truth about the impact Patterson made on each child that walked the halls of CES over the past forty-plus years. With each speaker and each memory, the same themes resounded: Remarkably, he knew every single student by name. EVERY.

SINGLE. ONE. Should a child be absent more than a couple of days, one could be assured Patterson would be asking the teacher about him/her.

Patterson always kept candy in his pockets, which he generously and continuously gave out to the children. He was even known to buy ice cream for a few that he realized could not afford such luxuries. At the end of each school year, Lowndes High School students return to their elementary schools where a Senior Parade is held in their honor. The individual that students seek out the most before leaving campus is not always a favorite teacher; it is "Mr. JW." They want to know that they have made him proud!

The retirement celebration's most endearing quality was the way the children practically climbed into Patterson's lap as they reached around his neck for their final hug! The look of astonishment on Patterson's face each time a former student popped up from the audience to say, "Hey! Remember me?"

And without fail, he did. The extensively long line of individuals that could not bear to leave the event without hugging this humble man's neck, or shaking his hard-calloused hand, or having their picture taken with the custodian who was truly a SAINT who walked among us.

Patterson with Renee Warner, Academic Coach at Clyattville Elementary School.

CES Macy Swails gives Patterson a farewell hug.

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Tiffinni and Dr. Mac Vining with their children, Julianna and Jack.

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offering specialized pediatric cardiology care at new children’s specialty center in Valdosta New center brings convenient, world-class pediatric cardiology care closer to home for South Georgia children

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olfson Children’s Hospital of Jacksonville has opened a new children’s specialty center in Valdosta, providing children in the South Georgia region with specialized pediatric cardiology care in a convenient outpatient setting.

and their families,” said Justin "Mac" Vining, MD, a pediatric cardiologist with Wolfson Children's Specialty Services - Cardiology.

"Our new center makes it possible for more children with congenital heart disease and rhythm disorders to receive care close to home, which is wonderful for our patients and their families."

The new Wolfson Children’s Specialty Center – Valdosta is located inside the Griner Medical Group Building. Before the new Valdosta center opened, South Georgia families had to travel to Jacksonville, Brunswick, Waycross, or Tallahassee to receive Wolfson Children's world-class, outpatient pediatric cardiology care.

A South Georgia native, Dr. Vining earned his bachelor’s degree in biology at Valdosta State University before graduating from the Medical College of Georgia, where he also completed his pediatric residency and pediatric cardiology fellowships. Dr. Vining served patients in Georgia as an outreach pediatric cardiologist before joining the medical staff at Tallahassee Memorial HealthCare. Dr. Vining also provides care at Wolfson Children's at Tallahassee Memorial HealthCare, a specialty center offering access to high-

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quality outpatient pediatric cardiology care in collaboration with Tallahassee Primary Care Associates. He is boardcertified in pediatric cardiology and general pediatrics.

pediatric cardiac imaging specialists with Wolfson Children’s Hospital of Jacksonville. These include EKGs, Holter and event monitors, and echocardiograms.

Dr. Vining, who grew up in Douglas, Ga., developed a passion for working with children as a guitar instructor in college. “After growing up in rural Georgia, I have always desired to return to South Georgia to areas underserved in pediatric cardiology,” he said.

In addition to the Valdosta center, Wolfson Children's Hospital offers cardiology checkups, comprehensive testing, and pediatric cardiology specialists at each of its outpatient specialty care locations, including Wolfson Children’s at Southeast Georgia Health System in Brunswick and a satellite pediatric cardiology location in Waycross, Ga.

Dr. Vining and his wife and college sweetheart, Tiffinni, have two children, Jack and Julianna, and are actively involved in their church. In addition to practicing medicine, Dr. Vining enjoys singing, playing guitar, photography, hunting, fishing, and cheering on the Georgia Bulldogs.

Wolfson Children's Hospital provides care for patients of all ages with congenital heart diagnoses by offering the latest in advanced treatments, diagnostics, and surgery. Wolfson Children's Hospital cares for children from North Florida, South Georgia, and beyond, providing services in partnership with pediatric physician specialists with Nemours Children's Specialty Care, University of Florida College of Medicine – Jacksonville, UPMC Children’s Hospital of Pittsburgh, and Emergency Resources Group. For additional information, please visit wolfsonchildrens.com.

Dr. Vining believes in providing the best care possible to all children with congenital heart disease and rhythm disorders.

While some heart defects are detected with routine screening at the hospital during birth or shortly thereafter, many heart defects do not have any symptoms and may not be identified until later during childhood during a routine medical checkup. Early detection is critical to the successful treatment of CHDs. He is also passionate about promoting healthy lifestyles for children and safe sports participation.

“Preventative pediatric heart screenings are a vital part of our youth’s health and wellness, and they can expose potentially life-threatening conditions and save lives,” said Dr. Vining. “Make sure your child has a thorough physical exam with a pediatrician or other primary care provider as part of a regular annual visit. If your child participates in sports, ask for a heart screening EKG.” Dr. Vining ensures the family understands their child’s cardiac condition and treatment options during appointments and is committed to partnering with each child’s referring health care provider to ensure the best possible outcomes.

At Wolfson Children’s Specialty Center – Valdosta, Dr. Vining offers consultation and outpatient appointments for children of all ages with congenital heart disease (CHD), heart rhythm disturbances, high cholesterol, and high blood pressure. The Valdosta center provides cardiac diagnostic testing for children that is performed and interpreted by

About Wolfson Children’s Specialty Center – Valdosta Wolfson Children’s Specialty Center - Valdosta serves children in Lowndes and surrounding counties, enhancing access to the specialists and services of Wolfson Children’s Hospital in Jacksonville, Florida.

Opened in July 2019, Wolfson Children’s Specialty Center – Valdosta provides services in outpatient pediatric cardiology. The Center is located inside the Griner Medical Group Building, located at 3301 N. Oak St.

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It's BACK...Love Downtown Valdosta is a month-long promotion, encouraging people to shop, dine and explore locally. For every $25 spent in a downtown participating business during the month of February, participants will be entered to win up to $250 in Downtown Giveaways. Drawing will be held March 1. Also, don't forget to add a lock to the Love Lock fence located at Bennie's Alley and Ashley Street!

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Trivia Night—Feb – March: Monday Nights @ 8pm – 10:30pm A NEW theme every week! Grab your peeps and head on down to Bleu Pub and win BIG! Prizes include bar cash as some awesome trophies!

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First Friday—Feb. 7 / March 6 / April 3 @ 5 pm – 11 pm Welcome to First Friday! Downtown Valdosta comes to life after dark with shopping, music, art, food and so much more! Bring a friend or bring twelve! Stay tuned for the lineup!

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Food Truck Thursday—March 19 / April 16 @ 5pm – 8:30pm Join the City of Valdosta & Valdosta Main Street for Food Truck Thursdays. This family fun event will happen every 3rd Thursday of each month from March through October. There will be a variety

of food trucks set up & live music on stage. Bring your picnic blankets or chairs and enjoy a fun night out in the heart of Valdosta! For more information contact Valdosta Main Street at (229) 259-3577

Easter Egg Hunt—April 6 – 10 A fun twist on the traditional Easter Egg Hunt.

This annual downtown scavenger hunt on Main Street will include hints to the location of a single egg, posted daily on social media. Visit www.valdostamainstreet.com for a list of participating merchants.

Songwriter Showcase—April 18 The beautiful Dosta Playhouse located downtown will host the Valdosta Songwriter Showcase this Spring.

This intimate concert features artists sharing the stage, playing their songs and sharing the stories behind them.

Makers Market—April 11 @ 9am – 1pm Join Downtown Valdosta Main Street every Second Saturday as they welcome farmers, growers, artisans and producers from all over South Georgia and north Florida! Courthouse Square in Downtown Valdosta! Music, Mimosas, Bloody Mary's and the best shopping around!

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AROUND LOWNDES WHERE TO GO, THINGS TO SEE, WHAT TO DO

• A N EV E N IN G WIT H L IS A HARPER Rarely are the terms hilarious storyteller and theological scholar used in the same sentence, much less used to describe the same person but then again, Lisa Harper is anything but stereotypical! She has been lauded as a gifted communicator, whose writing and speaking overflow with colorful pop culture references that connect the dots between the Bible era and modern life. Her style combines sound scriptural exposition with easy-to-relate to anecdotes and comedic wit.

Childcare is available for children ages 6 weeks – 3rd grade, but space is limited and on a first come first serve basis.

IF YOU GO: Date & Time: Sunday, March 15, 2020 – 6:00 – 9:00 pm Location: Park Avenue United Methodist Church, 100 E. Park Ave. Tickets: $20 For More Information: 229-242-3562 / media@paumc.com

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A R O U N D LOWNDES • 2 0 T H A N N U A L VA D O STA - L O WNDES AZALEA FESTIVAL

The 20th Azalea Festival (March 14 & 15, 2020) is fast approaching, and we expect it to be an even larger success. Already on tap are plans for approximately 225 arts & crafts vendors from several different states, a huge food court, six stage areas of entertainment, a Classic Car & Motorcycle Show, a newly expanded KidZone, the World Famous Disc-Connected K9’s Frisbee Show, the Paul Bunyan Lumberjack Show (sponsored by The Langdale Company), the Falconry Forever/Birds of Prey Exhibits and Demonstrations, entertainment by Wild Adventures Theme Park, two great bands, the VLPRA Azalea 5K race, and a whole lot more.

IF YOU GO: Dates/Times: Saturday, March 14 & Sunday March 15 Place: drexel park For more information: azaleafestival.com | 229-269-9381

• 2020 SOUTH GEORGIA F I LM FESTIVAL The 2020 South Georgia Film Festival again looks to celebrate the art and industry of film across the region.

Along with three days of films and panels, this is a celebration of the creative spirit in Valdosta.

IF YOU GO: For More Information: and to Purchase Passes at southgeorgiafilm.com

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A R O U N D LOWNDES โ ข 1 3 T H A N N U A L L AW E N F OR CEM ENT APPRECIATION DINNER

The LEAD event honors law enforcement officers from the Valdosta Police Department, Lowndes County Sheriffโ s Office, and the Georgia State Patrol. All proceeds from the event go toward the Rotary Law Enforcement fund and used for the assistance and recognition of officers who served residents of Lowndes County. For the past 12 years, the fund has assisted officers and their families in times of natural disaster, medical emergency, and urgent need.

IF YOU GO: Dates/Times: Thursday, Feb. 20, 2020 Place: Rainwater Conference Center Tickets: $100 per person Corporate Sponsorships Available For more information: jtdominey@bellsouth.net

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n honor of the Valdosta Symphony Orchestra's 30th anniversary, the organization has chosen some remarkable pieces of music. In the fall they played Mozart and Beethoven and this spring they are preparing Verdi's Requiem, which will have the Whitehead stage bursting with more than 100 musicians. Valdosta residents have a thriving symphony right in their backyard, a jewel that many larger cities cannot sustain.

In this issue, the five first seat members of the woodwind section offer the readers insight into their lives as professional musicians, and an invitation to join them in March for a profound live musical experience.

While each of these members teaches music at Valdosta State University--teaching their instruments' specialties in particular--they are also active members within the Valdosta community. They sat down recently with Valdosta Magazine to discuss what they love about Valdosta and why live music is important for both individuals and the community, collectively.

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“There is an immediacy to live performance which enables a direct emotional connection between the performer and the audience.”

Oboe player, Dr. Susan Eischeid comes to Valdosta after years of living all over North America. Born in Michigan, raised in Salt Lake City and Pennsylvania, she earned her doctorate at Cincinnati Conservatory of Music and performed for several years with the Mexico City Philharmonic Orchestra. She has called Valdosta home since 1994 and loves the beauty of the hanging Spanish Moss in the trees and the expansive southern skies.

When not teaching Music History, Chamber Music, Oboe, and The Arts in the Holocaust, Dr. Eischeid volunteers at the local animal shelter and does the Valdosta Daily Times Pets of the Week section, and serves on the Board of Directors of a regional German Shepherd rescue. Her beloved shepherd, Wolfgang, whom she affectionately calls Wolfie (for Mozart), is a trained pet therapy dog. She spends her free time taking him to nursing homes and hospice programs to visit with their residents.

"We are so lucky to have a quality orchestra like the VSO in a community of this size!" she said. "In other parts of the country, even major orchestras are struggling to survive and grow new audiences.

Our community and university support for the VSO is unparalleled and I am so grateful to everyone who makes it possible."

ELIZABETH GOODE ”There is a connection with live performances that can never be replicated” Elizabeth Goode found her way to Valdosta 24 years ago. Originally from Sweetwater, Tennessee, she was in graduate school at Yale University in New Haven, Connecticut, before arriving in the South.

She has played the flute since she was 12 years, old and the piano since age six. For her students at VSU, she teaches private flute lessons and freshman music theory.

Her favorite aspect of life in Valdosta is her interactions with her students and her fellow music colleagues. In her free time, she enjoys spending time outdoors gardening and hiking.

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MATTHEW ROEHRICH "So much of our experience of music is insular: private, individual, and passive. We mostly use music as wallpaper to decorate our days in a pleasant but unobtrusive way. Live performances like those of the VSO force us back into a shared experience of the present moment and, in the best cases, confront us with music that demands our whole attention and rewards us with emotional and intellectual satisfaction for which we have no names, and which are not present anywhere else in our ordinary lives."

Originally from Forest, VA Matthew came to Valdosta from Indianapolis, IN. What began four years ago as an interim oneyear appointment at VSU became a full-time position. He enjoys the experience of small-town Southern living here in Valdosta, the shops and restaurants in the charming downtown, and the oldgrowth oak trees covered in Spanish moss. He admitted, while laughing, to finally getting used to being called "Sir".

He started playing the saxophone 25 years ago, when he decided the trombone wasn't for him, way back in the sixth grade. At VSU, Matthew teaches classical and jazz saxophone lessons, jazz improvisation, and he coaches a small jazz combo.

When asked what he does when he's not performing or teaching the sax, he says, "In my free time I like to read as widely as I can, mostly fiction and poetry, but right now I'm neck-deep in philosopher Charles Taylor's A Secular Age and really enjoying it.

I've also recently been enjoying going to the gym, though sadly there is, as yet, no evidence for this claim."

PETER GELDRICH “Music is an art form that is meant to be experienced live and is much more effective in a live setting.�

Peter Geldrich began playing the clarinet at age10 and he hasn't put it down since. When his wife finished her doctoral degree in New York, they moved to Valdosta. Shortly after his wife became VSU's bassoon professor, he became the University's clarinet professor. Although his wife now teaches at the University of Florida, Peter teaches clarinet, World Music, Graduate Music History and he conducts a clarinet choir. His favorite perk of his job is performing with the Valdosta Symphony Orchestra.

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When asked what he enjoys about Valdosta, Peter sums it up quite well, “The people in Valdosta are a wonderful combination of loyal Valdosta citizens who have long ties to the community, mixed with academics from the university and military personnel from Moody Air Force Base, both of whom come from all over the country. This diversity gives Valdosta a unique feel.”

When not performing or teaching, Peter has taken up the harmonica as a new musical outlet that is outside his comfort zone. He also gets outdoors every chance

he gets and in particular, he enjoys hiking.

“Music is an art form that is meant to be experienced live and is much more effective in a live setting. In an age when we are barraged with distractions from all sides, it can be a profound experience to sit in a darkened concert hall and allow a musical performance to immerse you. This is especially true for symphonic music, where one moment a single instrument may make you lean forward in your seat to listen closely to a lyrical melody, and the next you are bombarded by the full might of the ensemble making a declamatory sonic statement.”

NINA ELISE SCHEIBE “Live music is all about making an emotional connection with others through a shared experience. It builds community, which is something we need more than ever these days.”

Nina joined the VSU faculty this past year and as a doctoral student at Florida State University, she is living and commuting from Tallahassee. Originally from Cape Girardeau, Missouri, she has been playing the bassoon for 15 years.

In addition to private lessons and chamber groups, she teaches an Introduction to Music class and a perspectives course called World Music Cultures.

Nina doesn't yet know Valdosta very well. "I haven't had much time to explore,' she said, "but I'm told there are some great antique shops and a produce market I need to check out. So far, my favorite thing is seeing the dome of West Hall lit up as I leave the Music Annex in the evenings. It's a beautiful reminder of just how lucky I am to be here and to do what I do."

Free time for Nina is not something she has much of, as all of her time is consumed by writing her dissertation. Once that is complete, she is looking forward to getting back to hot yoga, knitting, and making an absolute mess in the kitchen. She also jokes that she has several years of novels and superhero movies to catch up on.

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VanLandingham’s exhibit consists of oil paintings of

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landscapes found in the South East United States, primarily Georgia and Florida, capturing the familiarity and beauty of the southern coast and countryside. VanLandingham’s artwork will showcase a variety of entrancing scenes of water, land and sky.

Cabral’s inspired art work features acrylic paint on canvas, while occasionally incorporating mixed media fabrics and

vinyl into her paintings. Upon losing her mother in 1997, the natural evolution of grief and emotion transformed Cabral’s expression. Driven by the notion that the desire to connect and revisit one’s childhood is universal, Cabral transforms her canvas with childlike and innocent imagery touched also by the heartache of grief and separation.

The Turner Center’s East African Art and Fine European Porcelain permanent collections are also on display in the Tillman and Howard Galleries.

All exhibits will remain open for the public’s enjoyment through Wednesday, Feb. 26. For more information, call 229-247-2787 or visit www.turnercenter.org.

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30 YEAR ANNIVERSARY VALDOSTA SYMPHONY GUILD PRESENTS THE SYMPHONY BALL “TOUJOURS PARIS” AT VALDOSTA COUNTRY CLUB embers and guests of the Valdosta Symphony Guild, led by president Pat Colson, celebrated their 30th Annual Symphony Ball on November 9, 2019, with a blaze of color and beauty as Valdosta Country Club was transformed to “Toujours Paris” by 98

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The annual event, the second Saturday in November, raises funds for the Valdosta Symphony Orchestra and its programs for children and youth.

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of Now”. The keynote speaker was Dr. John W. Culbreath, former superintendent of Dougherty County Schools. The chairperson for this event was Dr. Samuel Clemons, Sr. (Ronnie Pierce, Creative Photography)

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he Pinevale High School Alumni Association celebrated its 11th class reunion in 2019, celebrating the classes of 1957-1972. There were approximately 300 reunion participants during this three-day event.

Dr. Willie Houseal, Chairman of the Pinevale High School Alumni Association, Inc., said the reunion was an overall success. “Bringing all 16 classes together was challenging and rewarding at the same time.” He said. A meet-and-greet took place on a Friday, followed by an Orange and Black Ball the following evening, held at James H. Rainwater Conference Center. The reunion culminated Sunday with a worship service at Pinevale gym, with one classmate delivering a spirit-filled sermon. “The Pinevale High School Alumni classes of 1957-1972 will share memories of this special reunion for many years,” said Houseal.

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