Original Memory Book for William Archie Carey

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f I think I may scatter some comfort and cheer, I’ll be willing to tarry one more little year But, then, if, like Moses, my work is all done, I pray the dear father to gather me home

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CELEBRATING HIS LIFE

William

ARCHIE CAREY July 6, 1928 – October 6, 2020 Aged: 92 Years Old Due to the 2020 pandemic, the service is held at Woodlawn Gardens Soldier Road Nassau, New Providence The Bahamas Friday, October 23, 2020 OFFICIATING Pastor Roderick Rolle Elder Arnold McCartney INTERMENT Woodlawn Gardens Soldier Road Nassau, New Providence The Bahamas

Elder, Father, Brother, Friend “The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord: and he delighteth in his way. Though he fall, he shall not be utterly cast down: for the Lord upholdeth him with his hand. I have been young, and now am old; yet have I not seen the righteous forsaken, nor his seed begging for bread.”

Psalms 37 verses 23-26 (KJV) Early Life

William Archie Carey, most often called Archie, was the second child of six children born to James and Adrianna ‘Zilla’ Carey on 6th July, 1928, in the quaint settlement of Tarpum Bay, Eleuthera. His other siblings are James (affectionately known as Jim), Gweneth Munnings, Benson, Helen Smith and youngest brother, Lorenza (affectionately known as Ren).

Like most mothers at the time, his mother Zilla was a homemaker, staying home to care for the children and cook and complete wifely chores. Although she is remembered for her good culinary skills, she was

known as a strict disciplinarian.

Archie’s father, James, was a successful farmer while still in Eleuthera, producing enough crops to feed his family and provide an income. Once the family relocated to Nassau, he assumed the job of a sanitary inspector and continued to apply himself in the area of farming.

Elder Archie related fond memories of life in Tarpum Bay. In particular, he recalls living near Pastor Ed Allen and this closeness allowed their friendship to develop. They both attended the Tarpum Bay School and walked there together each day. They also each assumed the role of playmate for the other. The closeness shared between these two gentlemen in their lifetimes was an indication of their mutual affection.

When Archie was nine years old, his father moved to Nassau in search of economic prosperity and the family followed a month later. Their initial residence was in the Bain Town area off Hutchinson Street where they resided for one year. They then moved to White’s Addition off Mackey Street where his mother dwelled until her death in 1979.

Elder Archie recalls the excitement of moving to the big city. In touring the over-the-hill area, he happened upon a vendor selling snowballs. Of course he had no knowledge of what to expect but decided to treat himself, making the one-penny purchase. Without thinking, he immediately took a big bite out of the snowball. The shock of it being cold compelled him to spit it out quickly. Thus, he learnt his first lesson about city life: things aren’t always as they seem.

Young Adulthood

Archie attended the Eastern Junior and Senior Schools, leaving shortly after his fourteenth birthday in order to seek employment to assist his father in providing for his family. Formal education after age fourteen for most young men of his day was not customary, but Elder Archie continued to develop himself through his voracious appetite for the printed word. He read everything – magazines, journals, novels and other books especially history books. He was also an ardent reader of the daily papers.

Archie’s then immediate family became members of Central Gospel Chapel where he worshipped until young adulthood. His conversion took place fifty-eight years ago at Central Gospel Chapel in 1945. His spiritual father was Brother Cecil Simms. Due to his love for his Lord and his desire to serve Him, he became extremely active in the Youth Ministry. Much of his time was spent assisting with crusades, tent and open-air meetings. During those years, he worked closely with W.H. Farrington, an indefatigable servant of God.

As a young man, Archie pursued the trade of a mechanic at the Central Garage and was a star pupil. It was said that there was nothing wrong with a vehicle that he could not repair. For some time, he was engaged in full time employment at Central Garage.

As young men in Christ working together, many unwavering friendships were formed. Archie and Ed Allen cemented their friendship and another strong bond was formed with William “Al” McCartney. Not only did these men discuss the Lord’s work but, as eligible bachelors, they also discussed potential mates. It was through Archie’s friendship with Al that he met and fell in love with the beautiful and

demure Ivis McCartney, Al’s sister. Even now the older members still comment on the fashion plates that Ivis and her sisters portrayed as they sauntered along East Street.

In 1952, Archie wrote Elder Alfred McCartney to request Ivis’ hand in marriage. Before giving an answer, Elder Alfred thought that he should ask his son Al’s opinion. His response was, “Archie? Oh he’s alright.

He’ll take good care of her. Only one thing though, he’s cheap.”

Archie and Ivis were married 67 years ago on 25 March 1953. Their marriage took place at East Street Gospel with Brother Farrington performing the ceremony. The reception was held at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Alfred McCartney, through McCartney’s Lane off Wulff Road.

Family Life

The newlyweds took up residence on Mackey Street where they lived for decades, building a strong and loving home for their three daughters. Archie and Ivis are the proud parents of Dale Charlene McHardy, Shawn Melony Turnquest and Carla Kim Gibson. Up to the time of their death, they continued to exude pride in their children, and the decent, Godly lifestyles that they have resolved to lead. Dale is a professor at the University of The Bahamas, Shawn is an educator and is presently Vice Principal at Queen’s College and Kim studied Business and Finance and is currently the Managing Director of Carey’s Fabric and Uniform Store, the post she assumed after several years at the then Canadian Imperial Bank of Commerce.

After God, Elder Archie loved his family next.

He delighted in his three daughters and instilled in them confidence, wisdom, strength and love for God to help them navigate life’s rough waters. He was fiercely protective of his wife and children and provided for them mightily. In turn, they respected, revered and loved him. He saw to the educational and spiritual growth of his children and they were all actively involved in the assembly of East Street Gospel Chapel. Archie and Ivis’ daughters concur

that it was because of the steadfast and unwavering love and protection of their parents, that they were less influenced by peer pressure than many other young people. They further add that their parents exuded confidence, even if times when there must have been uncertainty. By their examples they taught their children honestly, integrity, courtesy, professionalism, godliness – to stand up for what one knows is right.

Professional Involvement

At the time of his marriage, Elder Archie was employed at Carl Claridge Construction Company as a mechanic. This opportunity to learn about construction did not elude him as he witnessed the preparation of rock and other products needed for building. Occasionally, his job entailed travel to Mastic Point, Andros by boat to the pine forests to retrieve lumber.

After leaving Carl Claridge, he was employed at Nassau Rock Products also as a mechanic. Elder Archie recalls the time of the taxi driver’s strike in 1958 when many workers, including those at his place of employment, walked off their jobs in solidarity with the taxi drivers. However, while understanding the cause, he felt, that as a Christian, he ought to render a fair day’s work for a fair day’s pay and, deeming it unrelated to his present job, he crossed the picket line to fulfill the call of his conscience. He was always a man of independent thought and impeccable integrity. He marched to the drumbeat of a Godly heart.

In 1960, seven years after marriage, Elder Archie thought that it was time to improve his financial standing. While attending his Uncle Thomas’ funeral in Miami, Florida he decided to purchase a dump truck in the hope of augmenting his income. The perfect truck was located. However, at a cost $650.00, it exceeded the amount he and Ivis had saved. A down payment was made and, shortly after, through God’s help, the remainder was found, and the red truck took up residence on the vacant lot next to their home on Mackey Street.

In 1967, after a change in management and government, Elder Archie found himself without a job. Despite great disappointment, he fought back. He decided to buy a contingent of trucks to start, what he hoped would be a profitable trucking business. It was this type of resilience and tenacity that made him a success. Archie took the lemons that life gave him and made lemonade.

Thus began a profitable and most rewarding career in the trucking and building industry. Elder Archie assisted in the development of many subdivisions, roads and airports here and in the Family Islands. It was truly a family business, with Ivis monitoring the jobs completed by the trucks and equipment.

During whatever spare time his job afforded him, Elder Archie pursued the hobby of farming and growing a variety of fruits and vegetables. His vast mango orchard has produced thousands of sweet fruits, which have delighted the palate of many.

In the last 30 years of his life, Elder Archie became an integral part in running Carey’s Dept. Store, now renamed, Carey’s Fabric and Uniform Store. This marked a more pleasant and less strenuous chapter in his professional life.

Spiritual Life

As a young man, Archie was actively involved in the Ministry at Central Gospel Chapel but, after his marriage to Ivis in 1953, he followed her to East Street.

Archie was a devout member of East Street Gospel all of his adult life and supported God’s work in any way that he could. While at East Street, he attended Men’s Fellowship meetings. He became an Elder and was a modest, quiet and constant presence.

Archie’s favorite scripture is Proverbs Chapter 3 verses 5-6: “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own

understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths.” He also recited Psalm Chapter 27 verse 1: “The Lord is the light of my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?” His favorite hymn is “Beulah Land.”

He, along with Pastor James Shearer labored between the years 1987-1990 with the Englerston Gospel Chapel on Cordeaux Avenue and was responsible for building and stabilizing the assembly there. They conducted the Breaking of Bread Services and the Gospel evening services. The church and its choir became known for its rustic, heart-felt renditions.

Archie served God in the best way that he could, generously supporting church initiatives. In particular, he used his resources to assist in the construction of new edifices.

Believers’ Gospel Chapel

When the property for Believers’ Gospel Chapel was located, Brother Archie was one of the first persons who was contacted by Sister Vylma Curling to give an opinion on the location. Archie assisted in securing the property by ensuring that the bush was cleared. He then set about preparing the land for building.

In 1987, Brother Ned Wallace, a great Brethren patriarch, began the construction of the church. Sadly, he died before seeing his dream come to fruition. Elders Archie, Al and others, saw to its eventual completion.

Today, the church stands as a testament to faithful

Christian stewardship. Within its confines, souls have been saved and lives have been renewed.

Elder Archie loved Believers’ and determined to serve God there for the rest of his time on Earth. He was a stabilizing presence – faithful, committed and reliable. He mentored many of the brothers there and did what he could to sustain the growth of the church.

He went home to be with the Lord on October 6, 2020.

He was predeceased by his loving and dedicated wife of 62 years, Mrs. Ivis B. Carey, who went home to glory on the 20th of January 2016; Children: Dale and Perry McHardy, Shawn and O.A. “Tommy” Turnquest and Kim and Dwayne Gibson; Adopted Daughter: Gloria Wallace; Grandchildren: Dr. Tarah (née McHardy) and Justin McDonald, Tamarah “Teri” (née McHardy) and Michael Smith, Perry McHardy Jr.; O. A. Carey and Kendira Turnquest, Robert Turnquest, and Erin (née Turnquest) and Andre Hill; Kaurin, Kendall and Daylen Gibson; Great-grandchildren: Trinity and Justice Tatum McDonald; Cori Smith; O. A. “Ben” Turnquest; and Adam Hill; Siblings and their spouses: Gweneth Munnings (nee Carey), Helen (nee Carey) and Leon Smith, and Lorenza Carey. He was predeceased by his brothers James “Jim” Carey and Benson Carey;

In-laws and their spouses: William Alfred “Al” McCartney, Dorothy “Dot” Moncur, Angela and Charles Wallace, Arnold and Mary McCartney; Nephews: Thomas “Tommy” Carey, Dr. Harold (Moneira), Timothy (Ruth) and Leslie (Sheree) Munnings; Livingston Smith; Lorenza Jr. and James Carey; William (Margaret), Dr. Barrett, Lennox (Alanna) and Keith (Desiree) McCartney; William (Phillipa), Philip (Hollis), Peter and Craig Delancy; Augustus (Conra) Moncur; Carvill Wallace; Garvin and Mark McCartney; Nieces: Patricia (Douglas) Carey-Collins, Barbara (Rodney) Carey-Burrows, Paulette Carey-Jacobs, Dr. Earla Carey-Baines, Sheila ‘Shelley’ Carey; Carol Misiewicz; Italia (Keith) Seymour and Ingrid (Ita) Peter; Tamara ‘Tammy’ (Ian) Cargill; Cislyn Simmons and Deitra Delancy; Alexandra, Amanda and Anita Moncur; Dr. Charlene Wallace-Ferguson, Kayla Wallace-Hilton; Tonya McCartney-Tynes; The families of the late: William “Boy” Carey, James Carey, John Carey, Cofield Carey, Charles “Lil Bulla”

Carey, Lousilla Carey-McCartney, Rebecca “Becky” Carey-Walkine, Mona Carey-Thompson, Irene CareyGibson, Naomi Carey, Vera Carey-Edgecombe, Emily Carey-Nottage, Ethel Carey, Freda Carey-Thompson, Talmadge Carey, Brindley Carey, Coolridge Carey; A host of other relatives and friends including: Kimberleigh Peterson and Family, Most Hon. Dr. Hubert Minnis and Mrs. Minnis, Sir Orville Turnquest and Family, Rt. Hon. Hubert Ingraham and Mrs. Ingraham, Rt. Hon. Perry Christie and Mrs. Christie, Priscilla Carey-Clarke and Family, Pastor Roderick Rolle and Family, Elder Barton Duncanson and Family, Elder Theodore Thompson and Family, Deacon Churchill Bethel and Family, Deacon Martin Farrington and Family, Deacon Vernon Deal and Family, Deacon Everette Sweeting and Family, Deacon Durell Shearer and Family, Sis. Vylma Thompson-Curling, Sis. Paula McGregor and Family, Sis. Eula Mortimer, Sis. Ursula Chisolm, Bro. Derek and Sis. Alceta Knowles, Bro. Patrick and Sis. Phillipa Knowles, Sis. Patrice Henry and Family, Kenris Carey and Family, Mrs. Velma Allen and Family, Pastor Emeritus Tom and Mrs. Roberts, Pastor James Shearer, Pastor Emeritus Rex Major, Bishop Dr. Deanza and Edris Cunningham, the members of Believers’ Gospel Chapel, East Street Gospel Chapel and Central Gospel Chapel, Brunette Fortune, Shevette Gibson and Shaquon Austin

of Carey’s Fabric and Uniform Store, Andy Bethel (barber), Natalyia Wallace, Dr. Indira Grimes, Andrea Gibson, Marsha Cates, Maria Tsavoussis, Clint Higgs, Sylvia Beneby, Virginia Minnis, Angela Culmer, Donna McCartney-Adderley, Veronica Duncanson, Sheena and Hillary Deveaux, Dr. Greg and Carolyn Neil, Janet Johnson, Basil and Maxine McHardy, Nigel and Sharon McHardy, Manfred Strachan and Family, Charles and Patricia Wells, Charles and Caryl Lashley, Edward and Michele Fields, Mr. Charles Gibson, Dion and Aynda Gibson, Dr. Charlisa Gibson, Teresa and Taylor Singleton, Paulette Roach, Gina Bastian, Lisa McCartney, Kim Rahming, Susan Griffin-Hanna, Mrs. Remelda Moxey and Family, William and June Wilson and Family, the Faculty and Staff of the University of The Bahamas, Rev. Henry Knowles, the Board of Governors, Administration and Staff of Queen’s College, the Board and Management of The Bahamas Agriculture and Industrial Corporation, the National Scholarship Committee, REACH, Members of the Eta Psi Omega Chapter of the Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, The Bahamas Alumni Chapter of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity Inc., the Staff of the Attorney General’s Office, Mrs. Erika Rolle, Cerine “Nikki” Washington (caregiver) and the community of Winton Heights.

THE NAMING AND DEDICATION OF THE W. ARCHIE CAREY ACTIVITY CENTRE On Sunday, February 26, 2012, the W. Archie Carey Activity Centre Dedication Service was held. In attendance were many members of Believers’ Gospel Chapel, the family members of Elder Archie and members from other Brethren assemblies.

We were pleased to have participating Deacon Churchill Bethel and Elder Arnold McCartney who rendered the prayers, Elder Barton Duncanson who gave opening remarks and who welcomed the guests and, Kim Gibson, Elder Archie’s youngest daughter who presented a profile of her father. Pastor Roderick Rolle gave a stirring message as he ministered to the congregation. At the appointed time, the plaque was unveiled, and the ribbon was cut by Sister Ivis Carey, proud wife of our Elder and honoree.

This event was the highlight of Elder Archie’s spiritual life. Though humble and unassuming, this event brought him great pride. His gifts were always quietly given, expecting nothing in return. A few months before his passing, strangely, Elder Archie began asking his daughters questions about his life and legacy. One such question was, “Is my name still on the Church’s Activity Centre?” He was visibly satisfied with the answer.

Thank you, Believers’, for being led by the spirit to thank and honour the life, loyalty, and love of one of your founding Elders, Elder Archie Carey.

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A Godly, Family

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From then to now

ARCHIE & IVIS (Written in April 2003 and on the Occasion of the Honouring of Elder Emeritus Archie and Sister Ivis Carey by Believers’ Gospel Chapel)

By Mrs. Heather Wood There are times in our lives when we pause and reflect On the goodness of God, and the way He has blessed.

We thank Him for keeping, through laughter and tears, For guiding, sustaining – lo! These many years.

Eleuthera-born Archie did not stay there long.

Came over to Nassau when he was still young.

Someone else came to Nassau. She was only three.

Her name at the time was Ivis McCartney.

Their lives were to cross, though this they did not know They were married in March, some fifty years ago.

Now Ivis, a teacher and secretary too, Knew just how to work and to see things come through.

She would sew and make sandwiches in their little shop To help with the income, which was not a lot.

Archie worked in construction. He built many things.

He knew satisfaction that honest work brings.

Then came special blessings, not just two but three Dale, Shawn then Kim made a fine family.

Their home was a place filled with love every day.

Both the parents taught lessons in their own special way.

Their commitment to God and to family too, Was expressed in “Now do as I say and I do.”

By example they taught to their Dale, Shawn and Kim About Jesus as Lord, and to trust only Him. First at Central, then East Street, and now they’ve moved out.

To the East, to Believers’ always present no doubt.

Now Grammy and Gramps as they live every day, Have taught their grandchildren that they need to pray.

In their walk and communion each day with their Lord In their reading and study of his Holy Word.

“Grammy shop” named by grandchildren, as I am told Is much more than a place just where fabric is sold.

It’s a strong place of refuge for children and grands.

Where they learnt how to work if they’d time on their hands.

It’s where Grammy would say with grandmotherly wit, That a person’s “hecate’ or ‘jubidip’.

In today’s world of chaos, there is peace, there is calm In their presence, the young ones feel safe from all harm.

We are proud to salute these great persons today.

They’ve influenced our lives in such positive ways.

Our prayer is that God will continue to bless, To inspire and to lead them to much happiness.

May they live long to see their offspring succeed May the Lord who they love supply all their needs.

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A TRIBUTE TO OUR DADDY

W. ARCHIE CAREY

Proverbs 22 vs 6 “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”

Daddy was a remarkable man. He was not so because he made national headlines or was in charge of what some would consider an important organization. He was remarkable in his laser focus on what he deemed were the most important things to him...and in life.

As little girls, Daddy ensured that we had a happy and memorable childhood. Certainly, all our needs were met but, for him, that was not enough. He worked a little harder and pushed a little more to ensure that many of the extras were at our disposal. He and Mummy loved to see us dress up as little girls with pretty clothing, candy curls and bows. They made sure we were always well turned-out. At Christmas, the newest and most exciting toys were placed by Santa Claus under the tree. Not that Daddy knew about these toys or really even cared. He simply wanted to see our smiles.

As time progressed, and as finances permitted, he invested in our education. Dale and Shawn had their early start in public education before moving on to private schooling. Dale attended St. John’s College and Shawn and Kim attended Queen’s College. Indeed, he and Mummy also invested in extra classes and piano lessons. Their focus was always on what more they could do for their girls.

At the end of our high school careers, Daddy and Mummy had prepared, ahead of time, to support our

continued education abroad. Dale and Kim attended universities in the U.S.A. and Shawn matriculated in Montreal, Canada. Daddy and Mummy always wanted us to pursue tertiary education and prepared faithfully for that time.

Although our home in Mackey Street had all of the then modern conveniences, Daddy wanted more for his family, hence, he set about building one of the first and most magnificent houses on Culbert’s Hill in Winton.

He and Mummy were proud of this accomplishment and freely shared their home with family and friends.

Our home became the place for church functions, parties and even weddings. The wedding receptions of both Dale and Shawn, which saw more than 700 guests, were hosted in the gardens of the Culbert’s Hill home.

In later years, we realized how our parents were able to do this. We discovered that it was due to the many sacrifices they were prepared to make. They managed what they had wisely. We were known as the family that kept our cars for at least 15 years and, Daddy would not buy a new truck when a second-hand truck would do.

Shawn recalls borrowing Daddy’s truck one day shortly after it rained. As she drove in a pothole, she felt water splash her feet. When she looked down there was a gaping hole on the floor. Daddy later reminded her, with a chuckle, that that major defect did not interfere with the functioning of the vehicle.

Daddy was our shield, our Knight in Shining Armor. He defended and protected us mightily. One day, as a little girl, Dale arrived home crying because she had been frightened by a rubber snake that a classmate threw on her. Daddy, without missing a beat, made his way down Mackey Street until he found the prankster and

confiscated the snake. He was that kind of father.

Daddy left school at an early age to help to provide for his family but that did not prevent him from trying to better himself. As children, we were aware that Daddy rose at 5:00 a.m. every morning to get his trucks on the road before 6:00 p.m. He successfully ran two businesses and was able to achieve much more.

Daddy also owned and operated a farm. He was proud of his farm that supplied many native fruits and even supported the rearing of livestock. As children, visiting the farm was our Sunday outing.

Although Daddy loved us with all his being, he was also a disciplinarian. He insisted on good manners and did not tolerate “back talk”. Together, he and Mummy scrutinized our friends and warned us about “bad company”. Many of the “fun” things that our peers did we were not permitted to do. However, by the time Kim grew up, we could not help but wonder if this was the same Daddy. As the youngest, she seemed to have a lot more leeway, received a lot more gifts and had a lot more fun. Even in their leniency, Daddy and Mummy wanted us to live lives pleasing to God. This leads us to the main focus of Daddy’s existence – to serve God. His commitment to God and His work was evident. He saw to it that his family worshipped the Almighty and lived by Godly principles. His greatest satisfaction was seeing his children and later grand children come to know the Lord in a personal way.

One of the few places we could attend was church and saw to it, he did. Before East Street started its afternoon Sunday School, Dale and Shawn attended the Sunday School at Faith Temple, which was then located on Madeira Street and, was therefore in

walking distance at the time. Later on a Sunday, Dale, Shawn and Kim attended the Sunday School at East Street with Mummy as she taught Sunday School there.

Daddy’s outings were always church-related. There was the weekly Prayer meeting, the Gospel Meeting and the Breaking of the Bread Service. He also attended the Church’s Business Meetings. Daddy spent time at Englerston Gospel Chapel building the church there, but it was at East Street Gospel Chapel and later Believers’ Gospel that he spent most of his time and served as an Elder.

Like any father, Daddy wanted to make us proud and often sought affirmation. He knew that we delighted in his business and spiritual accomplishments. We believe that one of his finest moments was the naming of the Activity Centre at Believers The W. Archie Carey Activity Centre.

Daddy was a study of contrasts. He was stern, yet gentle.

Whenever one of us was ill, he was the first to shed a tear

and constantly checked on us. When we all had a turn at becoming gravely ill as a young woman, he spent days awash with tears.

Daddy did not take on the world…never tried to. He focused on where God placed him and gave his best there.

Daddy was a man of few words, but he did not have to speak.

His life spoke more loudly. He adored Mummy, and they spent most of their time together. He cherished us, and we loved him in return. Throughout our lives, through all the ups and downs, Daddy stood with us. Whenever hard times came, he would remind us that, “With Christ in the vessel, we can smile at the storm.” As he grew older, his care took the form of spiritual admonition. Without fail, as we left Daddy at the end of every visit, he would quote Proverbs 3 vs.6, “Acknowledge Him in all thy ways and He shall direct thy paths.” He blew us kisses and told us how much he loved us every time we were leaving from a visit. He was strong and stern, yet so loving and kind.

Daddy, we are grateful that we were able to declare our love for you while you were still able to hear. We salute you and now blow kisses back at you. We will never forget you and your fine Christian example. We thank you for your many gifts and for your love. You have worked hard and now it is time to rest in the presence of God. Your grateful and loving daughters, Dale, Shawn and Kim

A TRIBUTE TO OUR GRAMPS The last time I saw Gramps he welcomed me with his usual happy greeting every time he saw me, “Is that my granddaughter? Look at my eldest grand!” After embracing him with a warm hug, and taking a seat beside his chair, I heard him softly say as he closed his eyes, “Trust in the Lord my child with all your heart and lean not on thine own understanding; in all thy ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct thy paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).” The spirit of the room was calm and sweet as we recited the last several words of this Bible verse together. Then, while turning to look at me, he smiled a big smile and in a loud, strong voice said, “Amen!” This was our Gramps-a gentle giant of a man that loved God, loved his family, and lived life by example in every way. This was the Gramps that Teri, PJ and I knew and loved.

Our Gramps lived a life that was filled with love for God. He was a devout Christian and member of the church. Every Sunday morning, without fail he would get dressed and head to church with his Bible in hand to attend the weekly service. As his grandchildren, we knew that spending time with Gramps on a Sunday meant going with him to church first. We have countless memories of sitting together in church on the bench that was the second row from the front in Believers’ Gospel Chapel. Grammy would be to our side and Gramps would be sitting beside her on the end, legs crossed, and eyes closed as he listened intently to the sermon’s message and reflected on its word. Sometimes, during the service, he would lean over Grammy to smile at us and ask if we were okay. He was so happy and proud to have us worshipping by his side and we could feel this.

Our Gramps lived a life that was filled with love for his family. There was nothing that our Gramps would not do for us. He took advantage of every opportunity that he had to show us that he loved us. As little children, we lived near his farm and almost every day, after working on the farm, Gramps would stop by to visit us. He never came empty handed.

Some days he would bring a quarter pound bag of sweets, some days a brown paper bag filled with sodas and biscuits, some days we would get KFC. On his busy days when he was pressed to find time to bring tangible surprises for us, he would simply just pull his little cream-colored truck into the yard, yell out our names and after seeing us, blow us kisses from where he was parked. Before driving off he would yell “I love you!” and then laugh and disappear down the road as we waved bye to him.

Our Gramps lived a life that was filled with examples for us to emulate. He was a quiet and observant on-looker that preferred to be seen and not heard. A stickler for time, our Gramps was never late. Often, he would be the first person to arrive to many weddings and funerals. It was always amusing to see him comfortably take his seat at a venue while the organizers were still scurrying around, setting up and completing last minute tasks. Our Gramps was reliable and dependable. If he said he was going to do something, rest assured it would get done. My favorite school-pick up days were when Gramps would come for us. Without a hitch, at 3:01 PM we could count on seeing his truck pull into the school yard to collect us. All of our friends knew our grandfather for his timeliness and for the way he would summon us to gather our things and come. With a loud “Oye!” and a long beckoning arm extended out of the truck window, everyone knew that Mr. Carey had arrived to pick up his grandkids. We still laugh about this even today.

After more than 60 years of marriage, with all of his children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren to testify, our Gramps has finished his earthly race and is finally re-united with his beloved Ivis in heaven up above. He has given us all a wonderful legacy to live up to and remember him by. On behalf of all of the McHardy grandchildren, Tarah (Justin), Teri (Mike) and PJ we want to say that we love you Gramps, our Gramps, and we are so proud and appreciative of all of the things you have done for us. A good and faithful servant has heard from his Master, “Well done” (Matt 25:23).

Love, Tarah, “Teri” & Perry Jr.

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MEMORIES OF OUR DEVOTED GRANDFATHER We are blessed with many wonderful memories of Gramps. He led a Godly example and left us an unforgettable and everlasting legacy. Gramps has had a great influence over our lives.

Gramps found it his life’s mission to share his Christian faith and walk with us. He and Grammy were eager to share their favorite verses of scripture from Proverbs 3:5-6: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct thy paths.” They repeated these words often and emphatically, many times starting to recite the passage before pausing as a cue for us to finish it. For him, these was not just words to be repeated but a philosophy to live by. He leaned on God, and we witnessed this in all aspects of Gramps’ church, family and business life. Gramps spoke with pride of his involvement at Central, East Street and Englerston Gospel Chapels. We were equally as proud to see him play such a pivotal role in the establishment of Believers’ Gospel Chapel and in serving as one of the Elders in what he called “The Feast in the East”. He led songs and prayers and served his Lord gladly! Gramps loved the Brethren Church and often asked us about East Street Gospel Chapel where we attend. Indeed, he left a Christian heritage for us and made his mark on the church.

Though Gramps was a man of few words, he was a lover of history and current affairs. He lived through so many world events and took great interest in them. Gramps shared that in his youth, he was eager to serve in the Second World War, as his older brother Jim did, but the war ended before he was old enough to enlist. He loved to share his personal history of his birthplace of Tarpum Bay (“Tahpum,” as he said in the Eleutheran drawl that never left him despite coming to Nassau as a boy). He enjoyed sharing stories of the races that he ran as a youngster and the fierce competition between Western and Eastern Senior Schools. In the back office of the shop on Mackey Street, he offered us a Coke and the newspaper, which he had already read from cover to cover. Though we do not think that he ever called a local talk show, he shared his own side commentary while callers opined on the issues of the day. He had a quiet demeanor but was connected and knew what was happening in the world around him.

Gramps had an unshakeable work ethic. He had a regular routine of opening the store, making sure that it was ready for business. For decades, right up to several years ago, he was the last person in the store to secure it at the end of every day. This unfailing consistency served him throughout his life: We enjoyed hearing about the trucking business that he formed as a young husband and father before starting the store, and it was clear that he also relished telling us that his business had “trucksss,” emphasizing the plural! When he dedicated himself to the store, he was there every day, firmly and gently “watching the floor” and welcoming customers. He has shown us how to be reliable and dependable in whatever we do.

Gramps took tremendous delight in his farm, where he cultivated mangoes. As young children, we witnessed him hoisting crates of mangoes onto his shoulders. These mangoes, he often said with obvious pride, grew from trees that he planted. He later took Carey and Robert on the farm on several occasions to collect mangoes and place them on the back of his truck to take them to the shop. In Carey, he cultivated a love of farming that has already become evident. Although Gramps tried, he was not quite able to create in Robert a love for the soil! Erin often enjoyed the fruits of our labour while eating the juicy mangoes that we picked.

Gramps was a towering, loving fixture in our lives. He was ever dependable, and when our mother had to teach late or had a staff meeting, we knew that Gramps would be there to pick us up from in his old beige, stick shift Mitsubishi truck. We climbed into the truck that he loved and kept for many years. As the truck lurched with each changing gear, Gramps distracted us, asking us how we were doing and how our lessons went. Yet the truck rattled on, with a gaping hole in the floor of the driver’s seat that allowed splashes of water inside on rainy days. Despite its defects, Gramps’ truck was as dependable as he was.

Gramps willingly gave us advice and told Carey and Robert that we should marry someone who knew how to cook peas and rice and macaroni (Erin wanted to know why she never received this advice!). As Erin and then Carey got married, Gramps wasn’t afraid to ask Robert when it would be his time.

As we build families of our own, Gramps has left us with many fond memories and life lessons to share with our own children: to love and serve the Lord, to work hard, to be steady and steadfast. We know that he is in Heaven with his “queen,” Grammy and the Lord that he has leaned on for so many years. Gramps, we love you and miss you.

Love, Carey, Robert and Erin.

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TO OUR GRAMPS FROM THE GIBSON GRANDS It’s an honor to be able to speak on my grandfather, Gramps, as we called him and it was evident that he loved Kendall, Daylen and I immensely. Some of our best childhood memories involved spending time at his house on Culbert’s Hill. Every Sunday religiously, we would pack as many toys as possible, quickly run into the house and spend lots of time together. It was clear that Gramps enjoyed having us there, just as much as we enjoyed being there. It was typical to see him lying on the floor near us just watching us play. I also remember my siblings and I playing on the treadmill, and despite the many dangers that Grammy would warn us about, Gramps always had our back and replied with “Let them play, Ivis”. Gramps never raised his voice at us and we never heard no. I remember Gramps offering me a Pepsi soda and explaining that my daddy said I couldn’t drink soda during the week and him telling me “that’s okay, don’t worry about him”. On Saturdays, thanks to Gramps I was introduced to the amazingness of a two-piece original from KFC and it was always matched with a Pepsi.

Gramps was very passionate about the store. Although it was Grammy’s dream, he played a major role as well. He assisted Grammy in any way he could and became instrumental to its operations. I remember going to the store and always greeting Gramps with a kiss on the cheek. He often asked me about my day and how school was going.

He told me if anyone at school ever gave me problems, he would bring his truck to school to deal with them. It always felt like Gramps was there to protect us and had our back.

Gramps had a love for farming; Not only did he have a farm full of fruit, but his backyard also had many fruit trees.

As a small child, his backyard seemed everlasting. He grew all sorts of things from mangos to jujus to grapefruit. I loved when we picked the fruit together and he educated us on which plant was what. From these conversations my interest in farm developed. I also remember going to Gramps’ farm and picking mangos. Gramps grew the tastiest mangos. I even recall stories of him sharing that he raised all sorts of animals on his farm as well, like pigs, goats and sheep.

Gramps was a God-fearing man. Every Sunday he was found in the 3rd row of the center aisle of Believers’ Gospel Chapel. I remember him being very involved in Church and performing the breaking of bread ceremony. I also remember hearing stories on how he played a major role in the construction of Believers’ using his trucking service.

In 2012, I vividly remember the construction of the church’s activity center and attending the service where the church’s activity center was named after him. He was so proud and well deserving of that honor.

In Gramps’ later years, he spent most of his time at home where we would visit him, update him on what’s going on and bring him treats. Gramps’ especially loved when we brought him ice cream. When Kendall told Gramps that she was going off to school, he was so excited that she was going to the United Kingdom. He couldn’t believe that she would be making that long journey at such a young age to further her education. As for Daylen, during every visit he made a B line dash to Gramps’ room, heading straight for his snacks. Even though Gramps was very protective of his snacks, he never had a problem sharing with Daylen. He truly enjoyed being in our company.

It was clear how much Gramps loved and cared for Grammy; they were pretty much inseparable. It gives us peace during this difficult time to know that they are reunited together again in Heaven with their Lord and Savior.

Gramps lived a long life where he always put his family and God first and his legacy will live on forever.

Love, Kaurin, Kendall and Daylen.

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The McHardy Family

MY FATHER-IN-LAW

MR. W ARCHIE CAREY HAD AN AMAZING LIFE.

He was the leader of the family, an entrepreneur, and held office in his community and church. Mr. Carey grew up in the small town of Tarpum Bay, Eleuthera. Even though his family moved to Nassau when he was a young man, those small-town traits were embedded in his personality. He was loved by so many, adored by those who knew him well and respected by all.

There are two encounters between the two of us that emerge from the rest. Priceless treasures that are forever sealed in the deep crevices of my memory. The first time I visited his house for a date with Dale, his eldest daughter. I will never forget what he said to me. “You are talking about dating and intentions, future intentions.” He then went on to make it abundantly clear that anything less than respectable ones were not to be tolerated. I assured him there was nothing to worry about. I told him I would treat his daughter with the honour and respect she so rightfully deserves. I’m so glad he was able to witness that during these first forty years of our marriage.

Another moment was when Dale and I decided to get married.

I had now known him for some time, so my approach was more relaxed than my first encounter. However, he invited me to sit while he called Mrs. Carey to join in on the conversation. We talked on several subjects for some time, and to sum it up, our discussion produced forty years of marriage with three lovely children and three grandchildren.

His life was a living proof that hard work during his early years paid off with uncountable dividends. We are all honoured to have reaped those benefits. He was an amazing man, husband, father, grandfather, brother and friend.

He was a dedicated family man. Family was more important to him than anything this world could ever provide. He knew the things of this world were temporary. The riches we see with our own eyes are nothing but rubble and ashes, compared to the glorious prize of eternal life into which he has now entered.

On one of our many visits with him, I watched his daughter, my wife, lean in close when he attempted to speak to her. I watched Dale smile through the deep pain when he expressed his desire to meet his wife at the Eastern Gate. “I want to meet my wife at The Eastern Gate. She has been waiting too long for me. We made a promise that whoever gets there first will wait for the other on the other side.”

During my many Sunday visits with him when I would deliver his Sunday dinner, Mr. Carey would always inquire about my family, current events and my general well-being. He was a man of integrity, passion and faith.

But most of all he was a son of the Most High God. We know he is now worshipping at the foot of The King. His footprints will eternally reside within our hearts, our minds and actions. We will look up and thank God for his many blessings. We will thank him for the man he was and his memory. He will forever be engraved inside our hearts.

Perry McHardy (Son-in-Law)

The Turnquest Family

TRIBUTE FROM TOMMY My Father-in-Law flourished in his role as a protector of his family. He was an alpha male, and did not apologize for the stern stances that he took when it came to his family.

I met Mr. Archie Carey in 1978, a few months after I began dating his daughter Shawn, and I was told that he “kept a tight hold over his daughters”. I think that for the next 44 years I witnessed that first-hand. He loved his daughters unconditionally and wanted only the best for them. He did not allow his daughters to go many places other than church, and when we were dating, I knew that I would be in trouble if I brought Shawn home late. Also, while courting, there was no staying late in the Carey’s home. At a certain hour, you would hear rustling, or windows being closed, and you knew it was time to go home.

Over the years, I witnessed a softening of Mr. Carey, first by the time Kim got married, and definitely when the grandchildren came along. He cherished his grandchildren and cherished his role as the family’s Patriarch.

I truly believe that my father-in-law loved me, but I know that he was driven by his desire to see his daughter happy. Whenever I went to the Store, and he was there in the office, opposite his wife at the time, the first thing he would ask, in his still Tarpum Bay accent, “Tommy, how’s Shawn?” We would then talk about politics, as he was an ardent FNM supporter, and at the end he would admonish me with the parting words, “In all thy ways, acknowledge Him, and He will direct your path.”

Gramps was an industrious and hardworking Christian who protected and provided for his family. His Christian walk and example served as the guiding light and moral compass of this family, as well as to his church family. For this, he has been justly recognized, first with the designation of “Elder Emeritus” and also the naming of the Church’s Activity Centre after him.

Gramps’s earthly presence is no longer with us, but we all know that he is now in a better place, safe in the arms of his God, next to his beloved Ivis, looking down and watching over us. We have been blessed by his long life and his Christian witness. We will ensure that his legacy survives forever!

The Gibson Family

A TRIBUTE TO MY FATHER-IN-LAW

juicy mangoes and second, tasting Mrs. Carey’s guava duff, the absolute best in the business.

If you truly knew Mr. Carey, you know that he loved his KFC, Pepsi soda, Miami Dolphins, and all of his grandchildren. He was a man of order and preparation.

Every Saturday morning, he came to the store and around 11:45 he would hop in his truck and head to KFC Mackey Street to purchase about 5 orders of 2 piece chicken combos with Pepsi’s for him and his staff.

During football season, on Sunday afternoons around 1:30, Mrs. Carey would call me at home and ask how I was doing and then immediately say “Mr. Carey want me to find out if the Dolphins playing today and what station it on.” When we saw each other later, we discussed the loss and he would always exclaim, “Man, the Dolphins lose again!”

Words cannot describe Mr. Carey’s unshakable faith in God and how much he loved attending church. He surrounded himself by men of sterling integrity such as the late Elder Ned Wallace, Pastor Ed Allen as well as his bother in law, Pastor Al McCartney. He enjoyed the respect of his fellow Elders who admired his strength, consistency in faith and his contributions of time, talent and finances to build and expand the Brethren Denomination.

I remember during his last days when Mr. Carey’s appetite started to wane, we contacted the Elders of Believers Gospel Chapel to come to his house to cheer him up and they all came right away that Sunday. Elder Duncanson suggested we try some fresh coconut water and so we contacted his son, Barton Jr., to bark us some coconuts out of the Carey’s yard and without hesitation, he came and did so. That day Mr. Carey drank the coconut water with pleasure and started gaining his strength back.

What was more noteworthy for me was watching the responses of the leadership team, hearing them pray and sing to Mr. Carey, a testament to the influence that Mr. Carey’s walk with God had on their lives.

I will miss him, but I know that he died empty, giving his all to God, his biological family, his church family and everyone near to him.

A man of God and a man of honor; I’ve known Archie Carey for half of my life. As the last son-in-law, I was privileged to benefit from his gentle side and never once had to experience his wrath. I think I was always afraid to test him because of the stories I heard from both Perry and Tommy. In fact, all of Kim’ s first cousins would tell you that “Uncle Archie” was a ‘no nonsense’ man. Despite his strictness, I cannot recall an occasion when Mr. Carey spoke ill of anyone. He was always an optimist and offered encouraging words to all he came in contact with.

Almost every time I saw Mr. Carey, he was sitting close by his beloved wife, Ivis Carey. I found this intriguing because whether it was at the store on Mackey Street or at the house in Winton Heights, they were always not adhering to ‘social distancing’, because they were truly one in the same.

What was equally puzzling but not surprising, given how he felt about his wife, was seeing them drive home from work together. Mrs. Carey would pull off in her vehicle and Mr. Carey would be right behind her all the way home, provided that he could keep up. This occurred six days a week, for as long as I knew them.

From the days Kim and I dated, I recognized in Mr. Carey a man of humility. He was unafraid of hard work and equally unprepared to change his utility truck unless the wheels were falling off. I enjoyed hearing his proud stories about farming and his training as a mechanic, owning and operating large dump trucks that helped create our infrastructure we enjoy in New Providence today. I would always marvel at the level of industry and vison he possessed related to business and land development.

From my perspective, Mr. Carey treated his family, friends and employees all fairly and never asked anyone to do something that he himself was not prepared to do. I remember the many days he went from the store to Hanna Road to oversee the careful picking and crating of the worldfamous mangoes. I knew I was not going to leave the Carey Mr. Carey, take your well-deserved rest. family after two events occurred: first, eating Mr. Carey’s Love, Dwayne

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A TRIBUTE FROM THE GREAT-GRANDCHILDREN

PlaySafe

I’m wretched; I cannot sleep dear father, Cried a beautiful Jewish maid Laying her hand upon his shoulder For I am terribly afraid.

Be not afraid my dearest; Said the father to the maid Why do you look so distressed And why are you so dismayed?

The Angel! My father. The angel, she cried Is Passing through at midnight.

I can not believe it; although I have tried That the blood of the lamb is surely applied.

Go: lie down and rest said the father to the child The blood has been sprinkled; I’ve told you before My servants shall not my word deny.

For I’ve told him; to sprinkle the blood on the door.

The child could not rest, she was not at peace She would have her father to go out and see One glance was sufficient; he looked up and saw Oh horror of horrors; no blood on the door.

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The father who trusted his servant of old Now hurried himself and ran to the fold

The lamb without blemish was slain as was taught He took then the hyssop and sprinkled the Door.

A pleasant look came over the Jewish maid’s face She hurried to bed and went fast to sleep The blood gave her shelter; she knew she was safe.

Her terrors had vanished; the blood gave her peace.

Say friends, “this is a lesson for you and for me” For Jesus “God’s lamb” died on Calvary’s tree For naught but the blood from his hands side and feet.

Can bring to our hearts sweet patient Relief.

This poem was written by Alfred A. McCartney, the father-in-law of Archie Carey. It was written on June 2, 1941. Elder Alfred McCartney, a pioneer in the Brethren Church, was a prolific writer of poems based on biblical stories. It was his hope that his poems would lead persons to Christ.

This poem speaks of the final plague in the Bible, where God commands Moses to tell the Israelites to mark their doors with the blood of a lamb. In this year, 2020, the year of the COVID-19 pandemic, this poem and story remind us of the protection God promises us and the “sweet patient relief ” we receive when we obey Him.

DAD CAREY,

close overseeing of his princesses, nothing was left undone.

My brothers Perry, Tommy and Dwayne can elaborate further on this role.

As a Provider one would only have to look around at all he has accomplished during his lifetime to know that he was a man who understood what was necessary to play this role. Dad Carey would sometimes talk about his very humble beginnings in Tarpum Bay followed by his move to New Providence. He would talk about some of his teachers like Mr. Donald W. Davis and others, whom he credited with helping to instill in him good morals and values that remained with him throughout his lifetime.

Since Mum Carey’s passing almost five years ago, he would openly speak of how much he missed her and was looking forward to once again being reunited with her. We can only imagine what a glorious reunion that was on the evening of Tuesday, October 6th, 2020, “just inside The Eastern Gate” (they had an agreement that whoever died first, would wait by the Eastern Gate for the other). Our visits since he stopped coming to the shop were pleasant times. Dad Carey always wanted to know what was going on and nine times out of ten he already knew. He would sometimes ask me what my name was again, and when I would tell him and remind him that I was his “Brown” daughter that was left in the oven too long, he would laugh. The remainder of the visit would include prayers, singing a song and repeating his favourite scripture Proverbs 3:5-6: “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart and lean not unto thine own understanding.

In all they ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths.”

Dad Carey you will be missed and remembered always……

Rest easy and in Peace until we meet again around God’s throne.

The words of the Psalmist David recorded in Psalms 37 verses 23-26 (NIV) speak very clearly of Dad Carey.

“The Lord makes firm the steps of the one who delights in him; though he may stumble he will not fall, for the Lord upholds him with his hand. I was young and now I am old, yet I have never seen the righteous forsaken or their children begging bread. They are always generous and lend freely; their children will be a blessing.”

Over the past 35 plus years my daughter Natalyia and I have been a part of the William Archie and Ivis Beatrice Carey family. Our relationship developed as a result of my friendship with Tommy Turnquest who introduced us to Shawn his future wife. This relationship has been a lasting one that continues to this day.

My first impressions of Mr. Carey who later became “Dad Carey” were as follows: - A man of few words but when he spoke whatever said was final - A man who loved his wife/queen and their three princesses unequivocally As time passed, I came to realize that Dad Carey truly embodied the three “P’s” (Priest, Protector and Provider) that all real men should incorporate in their life pattern. He was indeed the Priest, Protector and Provider for his family.

In his role as Priest he led the way accompanied by his queen and princesses in worship and service to Almighty God. As an Elder in his church, he was an example worth following because his walk and talk were always in complete agreement. He was and will always be an excellent role model for any man desiring to be a priest.

Being the Protector of his precious family whom he loved without bounds was also very important to him. Dad Carey Love, ensured that his presence was always in the present. From Natalyia & Gloria (your adopted brown daughter) making sure that he secured his home each evening, to the

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TRIBUTE FROM THE CHILDREN OF JAMES THOMAS CAREY We, the children of the late James Thomas Carey, older brother of William Archie Carey, extend deepest condolences to our dearest cousins Dale, Shawn and Kim on the passing of their father. As the two oldest siblings, our father and Uncle Archie shared a very special bond. They were firm believers in the commandment “honour thy father and mother” and, throughout their lives, sought to observe the many lessons learned from their parents and raised their children to do the same. They were extremely proud of their Eleuthera heritage and were both industrious, hardworking men. We fondly recall the many times they would visit each other at their respective business establishments and engage in long conversations, each standing beside their truck. Indeed, in our father’s declining years, Uncle Archie’s many visits and telephone calls were a source of comfort and were always welcomed and deeply appreciated.

Uncle Archie was a devoted family man who deeply loved his wife and daughters and who was fiercely proud of their many accomplishments. An astute businessman, Uncle Archie worked hard for his family and ensured that his daughters had the very best he could provide. Together, he and Aunt Ivis raised their daughters to be upright, honest, responsible, law-abiding citizens. They instilled in Dale, Shawn and Kim the importance of family and the belief that God and country come before self. As his health continued to fail, Dale, Shawn and Kim did not fail him; they lovingly provided and cared for Uncle Archie as he once did for them. They ensured he had the very best they could provide. Uncle Archie fought a good fight, he has finished his course and he has kept the faith.

“Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him.”

Patricia Carey Collins, Barbara Carey Burrows, Paulette Carey Jacobs, Earla Carey Baines, Sheila (Shelley) Carey, Thomas (Tommy) Carey.

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Tribute to Uncle Archie Our mother remembers a young William Archie working in their father’s tomato farm in Tarpum Bay. After the family moved to Nassau, she recalled that her brother was a good-looking schoolboy who was followed by a troupe of admirers, and he was their “mother’s pet”. Carol and I remember when our uncle made a living driving a huge dump truck. We witnessed the birth of Carey’s Department Store and marveled as our uncle and aunt built a business that challenged the established retailers. The Store became for the nieces and grandnieces what our uncle Jim’s Service Station had been for the nephews; a first summer job and a place to learn how to be of service.

Uncle never stopped farming and the favorite memory that we all share are his mangoes! Every season he personally delivered to our mother the biggest and juiciest fruit harvested from his acreage in Kool Acres. They came by the bucketload – two weeks’ worth of clothes staining, teeth picking and seed sucking mangoes for me, Carol, Timothy and Leslie and our children with more to spare.

Uncle Archie was a quiet man. He led by example, in his work ethic, in his generosity to his church, and most of all, in his devotion to aunt Ivis. Her sudden departure in January 2016 was a blow that ended his daily visits to the shop. From then on, we only saw him at his home during our visits with our mother. To Dale, Shawn and Kim we say that our uncle knows that we loved and respected him. Our mom spoke of him every day. He shall be sorely missed. May he Rest In Peace.

Dr. Harold Munnings, nephew (on behalf of the Munnings family)

TRIBUTE TO MY BROTHER, ARCHIE CAREY

Tribute to my brother, Archie James and Priscilla Carey had six children and I was the youngest. My parents gave birth to my two beautiful sisters; Gweneth and Helen. My parents also gave birth to my three handsome brothers; James, Archie, and Benson.

Archie is the second born of the family. He came to be one of my first role models. I appreciate and cherish all the times we shared. Archie was blessed with mother’s wit.

He understood the value of hard work and committed himself to the task at hand.

Archie was an athlete and one of the best around town. He loved to participate and watch sports. I can still remember walking to Archie’s house on Friday nights to watch boxing. He enjoyed the things that made him happy and would travel to witness the World Series. This is where my passion for sports developed. To this day, I am still a Los Angeles Dodgers fan because he was a Dodgers fan.

Also, Archie was a generous person. He displayed this in many ways. I have never in my life seen a man with more mangoes than Archie! He would give away boxes upon boxes of mangoes to the Ranfurly Home and the residents of Kemp Road. I’m almost certain that a few of the mango trees in Kemp Road came about from the mangoes Archie had given them.

My two sons, LJ and James, got the chance to know their Uncle Archie. It was always a pleasure when the boys and I would stop by the shop. Archie and Ivis would always be so welcoming and give them a word of encouragement.

Archie, you have fought a good fight. You were a faithful member of the Brethren church. You were a family man and loved your wife, children, grandchildren, and greatgrandchildren. You have touched the lives of many individuals. Archie, you will forever live in our hearts.

Until we meet again.

Lorenza Carey Sr., Lorenza Carey Jr. & James Carey

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My dear brother Archie, as my big brother, you are the consummate family man, you were always an inspiration to me, our entire family and everyone who worked under your supervision. That was demonstrated in the business successes of your wonderful family. You have left a void in the family that will never be filled. Your footprints are in the sand. I will cherish my fond memories of you as I reminisce on the great times we had even all the way back as children. Rest in peace my dear brother, as you sit in the arms of the Lord and as we mourn your death.

Your loving sister, Helen Carey-Smith

ARCHIE’S SIBLINGS AND EXTENDED FAMILY

Service

ORDER OF Opening Sentences | Pastor Roderick Rolle Invocation | Elder Arnold McCartney Opening Hymn | When Peace Like A River When peace like a river attendeth my way, when sorrows like sea billows roll; whatever my lot, thou hast taught me to say, “It is well, it is well with my soul.”

My sin oh, the bliss of this glorious thought! my sin, not in part, but the whole, is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more; praise the Lord, praise the Lord, O my soul! Refrain

Refrain (may be sung after final stanza only): It is well with my soul; it is well, it is well with my soul.

O Lord, haste the day when my faith shall be sight, the clouds be rolled back as a scroll; the trump shall resound and the Lord shall descend; even so, it is well with my soul. Refrain

Though Satan should buffet, though trials should come, let this blest assurance control: that Christ has regarded my helpless estate, and has shed his own blood for my soul. Refrain

Scripture Reading | Proverbs 3:1-12 | Kaurin Gibson (Granddaughter) Hymn | Beulah Land I’m kind of homesick for a country To which I’ve never been before.

No sad goodbyes will there be spoken For time won’t matter anymore.

I’m looking now across the river Where my faith will end in sight.

There’s just a few more days to labor.

Then I will take my heavenly flight.

Beulah Land (Beulah Land) I’m longing for you (I’m longing for you) And some day (And some day) on thee I’ll stand (Someday we will stand) There my home (There my home) shall be eternal (Eternal) Beulah Land, sweet Beulah Land Obituary | Dr. Tarah McDonald (Granddaughter) As I knew Him | O. A. Carey Turnquest (Grandson)

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Hymn | It May Be At Morn It may be at morn, when the day is awaking, When sunlight through darkness And shadow is breaking, That Jesus will come In the fullness of glory, To receive from the world His own.

It may be at midday, it may be at twilight, It may be, perchance, That the blackness of midnight Will burst into light In the blaze of His glory, When Jesus receives His own.

While hosts cry Hosanna, From heaven descending, With glorified saints and the angels attending, With grace on His brow, Like a halo of glory, Will Jesus receive His own O joy! O delight!

Should we go without dying, No sickness, no sadness, No dread and no crying, Caught up through the clouds With our Lord into glory, When Jesus receives His own.

O Lord Jesus, how long, how long Ere we shout the glad song, Christ returneth! Hallelujah! hallelujah!

Amen, Hallelujah! Amen.

Eulogy/Sermonette | Pastor Roderick Rolle (Believers’ Gospel Chapel) Prayer For The Family | Pastor Roderick Rolle THE COMMITTAL SERVICE Opening Sentences | Pastor Roderick Rolle Prayer | Elder Arnold McCartney Hymn | City of Gold There’s a city of light Where there cometh no night, ‘Tis a city of beauty untold; All my treasures are there And its beauty I’ll share When I get to that city of gold.

There’s no sorrow up there In that city so fair And no sickness can enter I’m told; Shadows all will have flown, I will meet friends I’ve known, When we get to that city of gold.

When I leave all trouble and care, I will say good morning up there; I will have great gladness untold, When I get to that city of gold.

Won’t you go there with me To the home of the free, Would you see heaven’s beauty unfold? If you will come along We will sing heaven’s song, When we get to that city of gold.

Committal of The Body | Pastor Roderick Rolle Words of Encouragement | Butler’s Funeral Home

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Closing Hymn | I Will Meet You In The Morning I will meet you in the morning, Just inside the Eastern Gate; Then be ready, faithful pilgrim, Lest with you it be too late.

If you hasten off to glory, Linger near the Eastern Gate, For I’m coming in the morning; So you’ll not have long to wait.

I will meet you, I will meet you Just inside the Eastern Gate over there; I will meet you, I will meet you, I will meet you in the morning over there.

Keep your lamps all trimmed and burning; For the Bridegroom watch and wait; He’ll be with us at the meeting Just inside the Eastern Gate.

Oh, the joys of that glad meeting With the saints who for us wait!

What a blessed, happy meeting Just inside the Eastern Gate!

BENEDICTION

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CONDOLENCES AND TRIBUTE FOR

William Archie Carey

The Most Hon. DR. HUBERT MINNIS Prime Minister of The Bahamas

William Archie Carey, a son of Eleuthera and The Bahamas, was a life well-lived. A committed Christian, he was also deeply devoted to his family and to the nation, both of which he loved and to which he dedicated his tremendous energy and gifts.

It might be said, that his homes, in addition to his residence on Culbert’s Hill in Winton and the family’s homestead of many years on Mackey Street, were East Street Gospel Chapel, and eventually Believers Gospel Chapel, his spiritual homes.

His greatest love was to his wife of 62 years, Ivis Carey, nee McCartney, who predeceased him. This love was extended to his beloved three daughters: Dale Charlene McHardy, Shawn Melony Turnquest and Carla Kim Wanda Gibson. He was enormously proud and spoke often and enthusiastically about the personal and professional development of his daughters, whom he adored.

His love for his family was also manifested in

the joy he felt about his grandchildren and other family members, a love which was reciprocated and which was a wellspring and bedrock of his life.

Archie’s faith and spiritual journey was animated and his Christian witness was always evident. He was active in various ministries in the Brethren Church and was keenly focused on the spiritual growth of young people, youth ministry and the development of Brethren Assemblies.

He was a member of the Men’s Fellowship meetings and became a church elder. He used his talents to help build his faith community spiritually, and physically in the construction of new edifices.

Archie was an Elder of East Street Gospel Chapel and then Believers’ Gospel Chapel, a church that he was instrumental in building from the very beginning.

As a result of his faithfulness to his God and Believers’, the church named their activity centre in his honour in 2012 – “The W. Archie Carey Activity Centre”.

Archie was a self-taught man who read voraciously and who was always deeply interested in current affairs and history. He always impressed upon others the importance of learning and education.

Talented in many areas, he was a successful businessman who was involved in auto mechanics, construction and the retail sector. For 20 plus years he was an integral part of Carey’s Department Store.

He loved the outdoors and loved his farm. He was literally a man of the soil, a gentleman farmer. Over the years he produced an overflowing bounty of fruits and vegetables. He was especially known for his mango orchard. Just as he shared the fruits of the spirit with countless others, he generously shared the fruits of his farming labor with family, friends, fellow church members and neighbors.

The Bahamas has been blessed by the life of William Archie Carey, whose spirit and legacy will live on through his children, through his spiritual example and through his devotion to his country and his God.

On behalf of the nation, and on my own behalf and that of Patricia, I extended my condolences to: Dale, Shawn and Kim, and to his extended family and friends.

He is now with the God to whom he devoted his life and with his beloved Ivis, where together they can now sing in praise and thanksgiving from Archie’s favorite hymn: Beulah Land.

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TRIBUTE TO ARCHIE

MY BEST FRIEND & BEST MAN!……..A QUIET GIANT OF A MAN!

Having both being born in and descended from Tarpum Bay, Eleuthera it’s perhaps only natural that we would be close friends. The McCartneys, Allens and Careys were ‘always close-knit.’

Both of our immediate families emigrated to New Providence during our preteen years in search of a better economic base to sustain ourselves. We both had to leave school early in order to work to help support our families.

Both families attended Central Gospel Chapel. Archie, Ed Allen and I as young men became very involved with Evangelist W.H. Farrington and his ongoing street open-air and tent gospel meetings and crusades. We were also very involved with the youth ministry.

Archie developed a passion for auto mechanics and large trucks. He was an apprentice at Central Garage and later became full time mechanic there. Later he started his own trucking business…eventually owing several ‘dump’ trucks.

I regarded Archie as my best friend. He was my ‘Best Man’ in my wedding. Our close friendship caused Archie to meet and develop a fondness and love for my sister Ivis. They had a courtship and in 1952 he wrote a letter to my father, Alfred, asking for ‘hand in marriage’. My father asked me for my opinion of Archie. I replied, “Archie? He’s alright! I think that he will take good care of her. Only one thing though, he’s ‘CHEAP!’“ They were married the following year and took up residence on Mackey Street and eventually operated his trucking business from that location.

Archie was always obsessed with his love for his family and almighty God. He ensured the success of his businesses and the careers of his children. Together we pooled our personal financial resources to see to the completion of Believers’ Gospel Chapel after the construction stalled due to the untimely demise of brother Ned Wallace in 1987. He has been a stalwart brethren. As an Elder while at East Street Gospel Chapel, he was a stabilizing force both there and assisted other assemblies like Englerston, Blue Hill and Believers’ in their times of need.

Our friendship over the years has been unshaken, harmonious and sustained. We have seen and experienced the fruits of our spiritual and manual labour here on Earth. You have now gone on ahead of me for your eternal and well-deserved reward. I will see you and be with you around the throne of grace soon!

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Mathew 25:21: His Lord said unto him, Well done thou good and faithful servant: thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy Lord.

Love, Al McCartney

Tribute to Uncle Archie

William Archie Carey was a Tarpum Bay man married to the “most beautiful woman” in The Bahamas. We would dare say, in the whole world as far as he was concerned. That woman was our aunt, the late Ivis Beatrice McCartney, also of Tarpum Bay.

They were a couple who had three, beautiful daughters, Dale, Shawn and Kim, our cousins. That completed the Archie Carey team.

Uncle Archie was a man of few words, no booming voice and always appeared to wear a slight smile on his face. Though most of us had minimal interaction with him, we all knew him and he knew all of us by name and whose children we were.

Uncle Archie was a great provider for his family. He worked laboriously, daily, toting sand, fill or rock in his big dump trucks.

Some of the children of his sister-in-law, Ruth, can recall him coming home, weary and parking the dump truck after a long day of driving.

We would have been in his back yard picking jujus from his tree at the Mackey Street homestead. Later on, during retirement years, that dump truck was down sized to a ‘lil’ green pick-up truck, his last mode of transportation.

Uncle Archie was very protective of his family, particularly his daughters (some of the younger cousins, church young folk and suitors in those days can attest to that). They were all he had at home.

Upon retirement from trucking and relocating residence to Winton, Uncle Archie would drive every (Monday to Saturday) morning to their fabric store on Mackey Street to ensure that the store was safe before his wife Ivis would come to open up for business. There he would remain sitting there with her in their office.

That’s often where many of us family members on occasions interacted with them both.

Uncle Archie was a man who had given his life to God at a young age, we were told. That being said, meant that he and his family went to church every Sunday where they worshipped with the saints in the Brethren assembly at East Street Gospel Chapel.

We as nieces and nephews were aware of Uncle Archie’s desire and dedication to help the church spread the gospel. This he did as an active participant, both financially and physically, by helping to plant churches.

One such church is Believers’ Gospel Chapel where one would have found him (until he was confined to home) Sunday mornings worshipping and praising his Lord. His hands would be waving high in the air, particularly when the congregation sang the song ‘We are marching to Zion.’

To sum it all up as one cousin stated: “Uncle Archie was a gentle giant of a man that loved the Lord, his church and family. A man of few words but his actions showed the love he had for his wife and family”.

‘To God Be The Glory’. Uncle Archie is now resting with his Lord and Saviour and his dear wife Aunt Ivis.

Dear cousins Dale, Shawn and Kim, our prayer is that God’s grace comfort all of you and the grand children during this time.

McCartneys, Delancys, Moncurs and Wallaces (Nieces and Nephews)

A Tribute to Archie Carey It is with a mixture of pride and profound sadness that I offer this tribute to my friend. Archie is also my husband’s friend, actually his nephew, and mine also by marriage.

While Talmadge was Archie’s uncle, they grew up as brothers. They were inseparable from an early age.

I would like to illustrate a couple of examples of the strength of the bond that existed between my husband and his nephew. Talmadge wanted a taxi plate and he got taxi #201; Archie felt he should be in that business as well and so he also got a plate. They worked together for many years. Some years later, the construction industry was booming and the demand for sand was very strong. So, they each bought a truck and made money during the boom times. It was through these types of entrepreneurial endeavors that Archie and Ivis were able to establish Carey’s Department Store on Mackey Street. They lived not far from the store until they moved further east.

Talmadge and I moved out East and so did Archie. I share these examples to illustrate both a bond and an example. These men wanted better for their families and set goals to achieve them. I daresay, Archie had Ivis and Talmadge had me, and not only were we both more than supporting our husbands, but also we had our own dreams and ambitions. I am glad to be able to share how Archie told me that Ivis was his queen and his three daughters were his princesses. He benefitted greatly from his wife’s skills.

Like most Eleuthera men, they loved growing things. Talmadge never quit growing vegetables. Archie had a grove of mangoes and bananas, along with every imaginable root crop. Archie and Talmadge enjoyed an inseparable personal and business friendship. They both loved baseball. Often, they would travel to Atlanta and New York to see their teams play. They supported the Atlanta Braves and Brooklyn Dodgers.

Archie was very involved in his chosen Brethren Church. The contribution of he and his wife to the life and witness of the Brethren Church stands as a testimony to their commitment and devotion. Very few people were committed and as devoted as they. Archie was an exceptional and devoted father and husband. He was involved in choosing the site for the Church on Prince Charles. Often, when we hear stories like this we are moved to ask why. The spirit of giving is grounded in the love of God and family. Archie was like that. I join others in celebrating his life and witness.

Rest on brother and enjoy the rewards of your labour.

Kenris L. Carey, JP, OBE President Emerita, The Bahamas Conference of the Methodist Church

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Archie Carey

TRIBUTE TO ELDER EMERITUS FROM EAST ST. GOSPEL CHAPEL

On behalf of the Pastors, Deacons, members and followers of East St. Gospel Chapel, I wish to convey our sincere condolences to the Carey and McCartney Families on the passing of a gentle giant in the Christian faith. Elder Emeritus Archie Carey was a silent warrior who demonstrated his faith, not as much in words as in his actions

As one of the original twelve Elders of East St. Gospel Chapel, Elder Archie was not one to be often seen or heard speaking from the pulpit; however, his contribution to the growth and development of our churches was significant.

As James says in chapter 2:18, “shew me thy faith without thy works, and I will shew thee my faith by my works”. Elder Archie was a tireless worker among the Brethren Assemblies whenever the call was made. He assisted with all the building projects undertaken by the East St Assembly including Blue Hill Gospel Chapel, Freeport Gospel Chapel, Believers Gospel Chapel and the Christian Life Centre (CLC). He also assisted at the Englerston Gospel Chapel on the passing of Bro. Addington Taylor. He was generous with his resources which God had blessed him. He never forgot his humble beginnings from Tarpum Bay Eleuthera and would often share the rich produce of his farm with members of the assemblies.

“With Christ in the vessel you can smile at the

storm “were words he would often utter when facing life’s challenges. One such challenge while he was still an Elder at East St. was the illness of his last daughter Kim Gibson.

Being the loving and caring husband and father that he was, Kim’s illness took a severe toll on him, but he continued to trust God for her healing, which God eventually granted by His sovereign grace. He would face another challenge with the death of his loving wife Sis. Ives, whom the Lord however called home to be with Himself.

Although he and his faithful wife Ives were blessed with all girls, Dale, Shawn and Kim, he was a perfect role model for our young men in our assemblies and the wider Bahamas because he was humble. hard working and loyal.

Loyal to his darling wife Ives, whom he cherished, and his daughters whom he defended with his life. He will be sorely missed by all who knew and loved him.

On our last visit at his home, he joined in with singing many of the popular songs of the faith such as Blessed Assurance and Victory in Jesus. We know that our dear Brother and Elder Archie has gone home for his reward and joined Sis Ives and all the Saints as they gather around the throne of God. Indeed Elder Archie has fought a good fight, he has finished his course and has kept the faith. May his soul and all the souls of the faithful departed through the mercies of God rest in peace.

Pastor Edmund Dorsett Pastoral Board Chairman East St. Gospel Chapel

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TRIBUTE TO ELDER WILLIAM ARCHIE CAREY

BY BELIEVERS’ GOSPEL CHAPEL Psalm 116:15 Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints.

the church members fellowship at their home and always welcomed us warmly.

Believers’ Gospel Chapel was privileged and honoured to have a man such as William Archie Carey pass its way. He played a pivotal role in all the major accomplishments of our Assembly; from securing the property for the construction of the edifice, donating his resources and time and most importantly, in service for our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ as an Elder at Believers.

Elder Carey dedicated his time, talents, treasure and interests to the work and ministry of our Lord. He was faithful to the work of Believers’ and in recognition of his faithful Christian stewardship was honoured in 2003. He was also conferred the status of Elder Emeritus. In 2012, the Activity Centre was named in his honour and will serve as a legacy to him.

The History of Believers’ records that Elder Carey was one of the first persons who sanctioned the site for purchase and willingly donated his equipment to have the property cleared.

He assisted with other Brethren from East Street Gospel Chapel in overseeing the completion of the construction of Believers’ Gospel Chapel. He, along with now Bishop Deanza Cunningham, Elder Arnold McCartney and a group from East Street Gospel Chapel led the charge in ministry at Believers’ Gospel Chapel in April 1991, when the first official service was held.

In the early years of Believers, Elder Carey, and his wife Sister Ivis opened their home, where many of the church’s activities were held – from tea parties, Christmas parties, anniversary functions and cell group meetings. They enjoyed having

He would fondly be remembered for his participation in the weekly Communion Service, where members anticipated his favorite selection of hymns from the Believers’ Hymn Book, namely number 155 “In the darkness storm and sorrow, one bright glean I see, well I know the blessed morrow, Christ will come for me.”

We also remember his acknowledgement to church members of his favorite scripture Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.

6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

His passing leaves a void in our Assembly, but he has faithfully served and has gone on to his eternal rest. We bid him good night, good night, good night.

TRIBUTE TO ELDER

Archie Carey

I speak of this beloved Elder as a Brethren Legend— one who was anxious to be a part of the extension of God’s kingdom., an encourager and one who followed through with whatever was related to God’s work.

His name would be etched in Brethren history as one who made a great impact in the birth of Believers’ Gospel Chapel— the Chapel in the East.

Bro Carey, you completed your course, your Mission was accomplished.

Enjoy your Eternal home with Sister Ivis and the Saints who preceded you.

Condolences to your children and the entire Family. “Be strengthened in the Lord.” We will meet you in the morning!

Sis Vylma Thompson-Curling

The Man

There are men that are giants that are never seen.

There are men who are quietly thunderous.

There are men who walk slowly and gently but, whose footprints are massive and indelible.

There are men who say few words but speak volumes.

There are men whose significance far exceed their presence.

There are men who give limitlessly and take little.

There are men whose deeds go unnoticed but are eternally etched in our lives.

There are men who are a actually happy, because their only need is the happiness of those they love.

These are the men upon which the world thrives.

Arch was such a man.

Ed Fields

TRIBUTE FROM

Teresa Singleton

To Mr. C., a man I always admired Whenever I think of Mr. C. I always think on how he would stand in his pew at Believers’ Gospel Chapel and quote scriptures with such grace and eloquence. There was something poetic in his delivery. He would put his left hand up and quote scripture with a passion and rhythm I had never before witnessed. His love for the Lord was evident. I have and will miss that. That was special and unique but that was Mr C. Take your well-deserved rest Mr. Carey. You will remain in our hearts.

Love, Teresa Singleton

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TRIBUTE TO COUSIN

Archie

I count it a privilege to write a tribute to Cousin Archie, and give God thanks for his earthly sojourn. His life is one that epitomizes the power of a silent sermon, as he was someone on whom one could count and one who lived a life of dedication to his God, church, family and community.

Cousin Archie was first cousin of my dad (George) through my dad’s mother, and cousin Ivis was first cousin to my dad through my dad’s father’s lineage.

Therefore, Dale, Shawn and Kim are my double cousins. Then to add to the familial mix, Shawn is married to my first cousin (Tommy), my mother’s nephew, a match made and sanctioned by my sister (Pammie).

I have known Cousin Archie all of my life and my fondest memories would definitely center around East Street Gospel Chapel, where our families played integral roles and were founding members of the church. Of course, Carey’s Department Store would also play center stage, beginning with the earlier business at the side of the modern enterprise that now occupies its proud place in the Mackey Street community.

The store’s office was the “hub”. Whenever we visited the shop to purchase an item, or to deliver the world-famous tarts made by my grandmother (one of Cousin Archie’s cousins, Aunt Olga), we had to visit him and Cousin Ivis, who was in and out assisting her customers. You knew that your visit would be at least 30 minutes, as he enquired always about the family – first, second and third generations – and wanted to “catch up”. I would always remember his rather shy, but always pleasant demeanour, that Tarpum Bay accent and his stutter. Perhaps that is why he never said so much, but his strength, dependability and dedication were his hallmarks.

Cousin’s Archie’s first love after his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ was his family.

His strong work ethic, dedication to providing for his family, perseverance and ambition were all his traits. Yes, he was rather overprotective of his “girls”, to the point of being so strict and always questioning their suitors and the whereabouts of his daughters. He was able, through the graciousness of God, to achieve and amass much.

Who could forget those visits to their “mansion” on Culbert’s Hill, where they hosted many family and church functions and which featured the pool, the well-manicured yard, and treats coming out of Aunt Ivis’ kitchen? With whatever he had, his generous spirit and kindness extended far and wide. II Corinthians 9:7: “…so let him give: not grudgingly, or of necessity: for God loveth a cheerful giver”. This scripture verse Cousin Archie, and of course Aunt Ivis, lived out. Whenever you visited the shop, you could be assured of sharing in the bounty from his farms.

Cousin Archie lived a good life and will be remembered for his generosity towards his church, and in particular, Believers’ Gospel Chapel, as he and Cousin Ivis were two of the founding members. Many can attest to receiving many produce items (whatever was in season) from his farm, gifts from his resources, his time and sage advice relative to his earlier years as a businessman trucking fill and being involved in farming.

Cousin Archie lived a good life and will be remembered for his Christian witness and his commitment to his God, family, church and the wider community.

Be comforted, dear cousins, knowing that your dad, grandfather and great grandfather is with his Lord and Savior and with his queen, Aunt Ivis. His legacy lives on through his children, grandchildren and great grand children as they all make their contributions to nation building both locally and abroad.

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MAY HE REST IN PEACE and RISE IN GLORY. Donna (McCartney) Adderley, Cousin

TRIBUTE FROM CAREY’S FABRIC & UNIFORM STORE We are pleased to pay a tribute to our Boss, who over the years has played the role of a grandfather. Mr. Carey made us all feel welcomed and comfortable from the moment we started to work at Carey’s. He would always be the first one to be inside the store. Whenever we would come in early, we would always be greeted by Mr. Carey who would always be at the cutting table. We would say “Good morning Mr. Carey” and he would reply “Good morning, you’re early. The early bird catches the worm.”

I can remember the first attempt to cut fabric and I asked Mr. Carey which way the fabric should be folded. He replied, “The two selvages should always be together.” I later told Mrs. Carey about what I learned from Mr. Carey and she was surprised to know what he knew and she laughed. During our time with Mr. Carey he was always soft-spoken and never said much. He would always ask how we were doing. Many days he would sit on the table and he would crack his famous joke about him wanting to eat cake, “I’m ready to eat cake.” If he needed the assistance of one of the staff he would always say “Hey lady!” And it was always a request for a cup of Coke soda or water in his blue cup, or asking us to call Kim. We could all agree that Mr. Carey was compassionate, humble, peaceful and above all caring. We will truly miss you Mr. Carey.

You will always be in our hearts.

Love, Brunette and Shavette.

TRIBUTE FROM ANDY BETHEL (personal barber) This is a glorious day the Lord has made…great things He has done. Some may not understand but we lift up our eyes to the hills to give Him thanks for all He has done. I was pleased to visit Mr. Carey every several weeks to cut his hair at his home.

Mr. Carey isn’t here physically anymore more but indeed he will always be here in spirit. We have connected so much over the years as I told him stories about “What’s New”. They were some of his favourite words.

To Kim, Mrs. McHardy and Mrs. Turnquest, I pray the Lord dries your tears and gives you joy in your hearts. You have done well.

I give my condolences to the entire Carey family.

MEMORIES OF

Mr. Carey

I met Mr. Carey when I was 18 years old. I had moved to Nassau from Eleuthera to attend College of the Bahamas where I met his daughter Kim, who would become a lifelong friend. He reminded me so much of my father when I met him. A man with three daughters, wanting to provide, love and protect them. I have fond memories of being at the store and at the Carey home with him. His quiet presence was always there, and I always felt welcomed by him. I smile when I remember on one occasion being at his home and a suitor came to visit. Mr. Carey came charging down the driveway to defend and protect. I was young and my family was in Eleuthera and Mr. Carey took on the role of protector to me.

Years later, Kim and I still laugh about that incident, and on occasion when I came in from Eleuthera and visited the store he would too.

I have not seen him in recent times, but Kim would always keep me updated on him. I was saddened on the night she messaged to say he had passed. He was a giant of a man who loved God and loved his family. He will be missed.

Rest in Peace Mr. Carey.

Susan Griffin-Hanna

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A MEMORIAL STATEMENT:

Archie Carey by David Allen

Mr. Archie Carey was a great man who stood tall in every way. He was a family man who had a deep relationship with his children and his wife, Ivis, who was my first cousin. Deeply committed to his faith in Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior, Archie and his wife, Ivis were a special blessing and encouragement to many in his church and beyond. They were a bulwark of faithfulness, commitment and support to all who came their way. His three children are outstanding citizens who are making valuable contributions to the education, industry and hope of Bahamian society.

Mr. Carey was a hardworking man who was known for his expertise with heavy equipment and complex building projects in The Bahamas. At the same time, he was quiet, resourceful and had a welcoming and kind spirit. I have memories of sitting with him as he shared so many interesting stories of our ancestral home in Tarpum Bay, Eleuthera. He had a great sense of humor and, in spite of his challenges, was always positive and encouraging. His faith shone brightly in every aspect of his life, bringing hope and encouragement to all.

Archie Carey was a special person who can best be described in the words of the poet Longfellow: Lives of great men all remind us We can make our lives sublime.

And, departing, leave behind us Footprints on the sands of time.

Archie Carey is gone, but he will never be forgotten.

Cousin David

CONDOLENCES FROM Anishka Beneby Shawn, Dale and Kim, my prayers are with you and your family on the passing of your dad. The joy is knowing that he is in a beautiful place.

He has gone on to receive his reward as his work on earth is done. I love you and if you need me for anything please let me know.

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CONDOLENCES FROM Radford and Cecile Hill

Shawn, Dale and Kim, I am so sorry to learn of your loss. I know it is difficult for all of you because of the closeness. It feels like an era is passing with the death of stalwarts like your Dad. It is only faith that we can rely on in times like this and your faith will see you through. Lots of love, from Raddy and Cecile Hill and family.

CONDOLENCES FROM

Allyson and Max Gibson Dear Shawn, Dale and Kim, I have just learned of the passing of your dear Father.

Max, Zoe and Demetra join me in sending condolences and assurances of our prayers.

Your Father was a role model, Christian gentleman, who loved His Lord and Savior, an astute and generous businessman, and patriot.

I won’t forget my conversations with him, which usually happened at church. I think that our last conversation was at Deenie Duncanson’s funeral. He stood tall, ramrod straight, well groomed (as always) and with a kind and firm voice, and smiling eyes, encouraged me and spoke of Christians remembering our obligation to God and our brothers and sisters. Also, as usual, he spoke to me about my Dad, who held your Dad in high esteem.

In a polarized world, he is a reminder of the importance people putting country, including our final home, before politics and other things that (unfortunately) separate us.

I don’t think that anything can prepare a person for the loss of a parent, especially one like your Dad, who was a family man and an anchor in the communities of which he was a part.

I hope that you find comfort in your amazingly wonderful memories of him during his long and well lived life.

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TRIBUTE FROM SHANNAH GIBSON I was still in shock when I heard the news and was not sure of the words I should say to the Carey family. I convey my deepest sympathies and condolences on the passing of Mr. Carey.

I can still remember the first day I started my employment at Carey’s Department Store. As a left-handed person, Mrs. Carey had to give me a left-handed pair of scissors. She would watch me cut fabric until I became better đ&#x;˜Š.

I miss Mr. and Mrs. Carey dearly. They were two wonderful but no-nonsense persons who were truly made for ear other. Now, they are in heaven watching over their daughters. God truly takes the best. Rest in peace, Mr. and Mrs Carey – two angels.

Love, Shannah

CONDOLENCES FROM Pastor Geoff and Heather Wood My dear Shawn, Dale and Kim, My heart goes out to you.

I’ve been wrestling all day since I got the news this morning of your father’s passing, with what I could say that could in any way, ease the deep hurt that I know you must be feeling just now. Words seem so inadequate at times like these.

Allow me to say how sorry I was to learn that he had slipped away, but at the same time there is a feeling of joy that another of God’s faithful servants has gone to his reward and has joined his beloved Ivis again.

May you all draw comfort from treasured memories of precious happy moments with your father and smile through your tears as you rejoice over a life well lived.

May it be of additional solace to know that there are persons who are praying for your family and who care.

Geoff joins me in sending sincerest sympathy to you and your families.

May God bless, comfort, strengthen and guide you all at this difficult time.

In His love.

Pastor Geoff and Heather Wood

CONDOLENCES FROM Gilbert and Betsy Peterson

Gilbert and I are so saddened to learn of the passing of your beloved father.

May his eternal soul Rest In Peace. Nothing can prepare us as daughters for this loss. I pray that Almighty God will comfort you. May God bind your family together as you mourn. Do let others help you at this difficult time so you can spend time in God’s peace. I send my love.

Gilbert and Betsy Peterson

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CONDOLENCES FROM Maria Tsavoussis Shawn, Dale and Kim, I have heard of your very sad news early this morning. Your father was a giant of a man in the keen manner in which he looked after his family, in his integrity and decency, in his ageless principles and no-nonsense manner.

His suffering is over; may he rest in peace and may his memory be eternal.

Maria Tsavoussis CONDOLENCES FROM Donnalee Nottage Deepest sympathy to Dale, Shawn and Kim on the passing of your dear father.

My late father, Burke Bowe, was his neighbor and childhood friend on Mackey Street.

I had the tremendous opportunity for him to tell me stories about Mr. Carey, the late Sir Clement Maynard and my dad sitting on the same bench in class. The track teams and St. Bernard’s cricket team and the horse-riding team, of which they were all a part, also included my uncles Sam and Cecil and Uncle Peter Bowe (the last of the siblings alive now). Sometimes, I would just go to Carey’s Department Store to hear a story from Mr. Carey or his wife (who my late mother sat with in the same bench in school). My life is so much richer because of Mr. and Mrs. Carey and what they taught me about the way we should live – in love and peace.

Sleep on, Mr. Carey, and take your well-deserved rest until that glad reunion day when you shall rise to meet our Lord and Savior in the air.

Until then, treasure the memories.

Donalee Nottage

CONDOLENCES FROM Dr. Martha Wright Shawn, so sorry to hear about your daddy this morning.

I know he is glad to be finally be with your mom though.

I will always remember him as the kind sweet man he always was to me whenever I visited.

He is surely in a better place now.

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IN APPRECIATION We cannot begin to thank our many relatives and friends for the outpouring of love, support and condolences received. Your visits, telephone calls, thoughts and prayers have helped to ease the pain of our great loss.

Special thanks are extended to Dr. Indira Grimes, who will be long remembered for her professional and loving care. We also thank the nurses who assisted from time to time.

William Archie Carey has gone on to his eternal rest. As we close this chapter of his earthly life, we leave you with these words: Who does God’s work will get God’s pay; No human hand God’s hand can stay He does not pay as others pay But God’s high wisdom knows a way: Who does God’s work will get God’s pay.

The Family

Honorary Pall Bearers Perry McHardy Sr. O.A. “Tommy” Turnquest Dwayne Gibson O.A. Carey Turnquest Robert Turnquest

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