Service of Praise and Celebration For The Life of
Bishop
Theophilus McLenie Bosfield Stuart April 2, 1926 – April 6, 2019
New Vision Church of God The Bluff, Eleuthera The Bahamas Officiant Bishop Dr. Moses A. Johnson National Overseer & Administrative Bishop Church of God, The Bahamas Assisted By Bishop Victor Johnson Bishop Philemon Wilson Bishop Samuel Higgs Organist Bro. Giovanni Imlach Bro. Renaldo Grant Guitarist Joseph (Rocky) Saunders Interment The Bluff Public Cemetery
Bishop
Theophilus McLenie Bosfield Stuart “Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled.” Matthew 5:6 (KJV). Dad, the patriarch of our family, told us his story and we wanted to share it with you! Theophilus McLenie Bostfield Stuart (“Theo”) was the fourth child of Joseph and Mary (Dorsette) Stuart of The Bluff, Eleuthera. His arrival into this world on a beautiful spring morning, Friday, 2nd April, 1926, placed him into the hands of godly parents; a mother who served as prayer leader in the Methodist Church and a father who was a catechist in the Anglican Church. At the age of twelve years he suffered from the typhoid fever, which at that time was viewed as fatal. In fact, they had given up hope on this angel and had already bought a suit in preparation for his burial, but God had other plans for his life. As a result of the typhoid fever, he was unable to attend the public school for some time, so his parents decided to provide him with a home teacher, Mrs. Laura Anderson, who provided instructions and inspired his mind until he was well enough to return to school. In the 1940’s, as many Bahamians did, Theo sought the opportunity to earn a living by travelling to the USA to work on “the Contract”. With the earnings from this employment, he made an investment in the hobby that he loved - sailing. He
purchased his first boat “The Yankee” which he sailed and shared with his childhood friend, Wilson Barry, who predeceased him. He often recounted the story of how, on the death of his mother, Wilson sailed with him to Nassau to collect her body for burial. His love for the water also led him to engage in the transport of tourists from Hog (Paradise) Island to the Sea Gardens for a short period and, thereafter, he returned to “the Contract” for another eleven months. At the age of twenty-four, Theo married the beautiful Cynthia Neely. This couple was blessed with ten children and, as the wise and strategic planner he was, he even engineered this aspect of his life to produce an even figure of five boys and five girls. Theo and Cynthia provided a loving and nurturing environment for their children and instilled in them Godly principles which served as the foundation of all their lives. As a father, he made certain that every Sunday morning his family assembled for prayer. With his soul mate of 67 years, he taught each of us that “the family that prays together, stays together”. In fact, he would often tell others how it was at one of our Sunday morning family devotions that Gregory and Simeon gave their lives to the Lord. Dad was the consummate protector of and provider for his family, ensuring that all our needs were met. Dad loved farming, and as a young father providing for his family, he toiled the soils of North Eleuthera to produce some of the sweetest fruits and vegetables to ever touch your palate. He developed his farming business into “mass production” by clearing and growing produce on acres of land. His farms yielded hundreds of sacks and crates of produce which he initially sold from the back of his trucks by driving the length of Eleuthera on a weekly basis. The success of his farming business led him to invest in his love of sailing and to the purchase of his second boat, “Bahamas Daybreak I”. “Bahamas Daybreak I” was followed by the larger and modernized vessels of “Bahamas Daybreak II and III” which provided mail service to the Island of Eleuthera for over 40 years. In November 2007 he was recognized by The Bahamas Maritime Authority and The Bahamas Ship Register on its 30th Anniversary for his excellent and long service as a Mailboat Service Provider. Theo never gave up his farming and continued to farm and transport his produce to Nassau on his boats to ensure that others would know that Eleuthera grew the sweetest oranges and tangerines. Dad loved his community, “The Bluff ”. He was a community man, always believing that “if our community is strong, then our country will be strong”. With this belief, he served as an advocate for community improvements and positive change. He represented the community on various boards and committees throughout his life time. Most noted among them were his long term contribution as a member of the Harbour Island Commanage Committee and The Bluff Eleuthera Association. In
appreciation of these contributions, he was recognized by numerous boards and committees on the Island of Eleuthera. Additionally, in light of the foregoing, in the 1970’s he was honoured at Government House and received the Queen’s Silver Jubilee Medal for distinguished service. His love for family and community was immeasurable but his love for God was far above all and simply overwhelming. This journey with God began as a young man in the Anglican Church and was renewed when he joined the Church of God under the leadership of Elder Wilfred Hudson. It was Pastor John Neely however, who became his spiritual mentor and guided him in the teachings and work of the Church. He took God and the work of His House seriously and gave God his best in time, talent and earnings. In fact, the sanctuary in which we sit today is in great part the result of his vision and commitment to God. Bishop Stuart served as Assistant Pastor and then Pastor of the New Vision Church of God for thirty plus years before retiring from active pastoral duties in 2009. In all that he achieved, Bishop Stuart appreciated that the most important thing in life is a relationship with God. He firmly believed that, as a Minister of God, his responsibility was to proclaim the Gospel of Jesus Christ throughout the islands of The Bahamas, wherever he travelled and with whomever he came in contact. Whether he was preaching in Africa with his friend, Bishop Asbury R. Sellers, in the United States with his son-in-law, Rev. Wellington Johnson or in the Turks and Caicos with his friend, Bishop Dudley Kelly, you were going to hear about how good God is from Bishop Stuart. It was a joy for him to spread the Good News and he did it proudly and boldly where ever life’s journey took him. Bishop Stuart was a faithful steward who studied the Word of God and embraced every opportunity he had to share It with others. In dedication to his calling, Bishop Stuart received from the Educational Division of the International Office of the Church of God (Cleveland, Tennessee) an Exhorter Certificate in 1987, a Licensed Minister Certificate in 1989 and a Certificate of Ordination in 1997. As God would have it, he was ordained “Bishop” in March 1998 at the National Convention of the Church of God by the late Bishop William M. Johnson, former Administrative Bishop of the Church of God, The Bahamas. Ironically enough, Dad travelled from Eleuthera to Nassau in late January of this year (2019) because Mom required medical attention, as always, of utmost concern, was his better half “Cinny”. He, however, began to experience some medical challenges with his heart and lungs. As time passed, his medical condition grew worse and he was admitted to hospital on 3rd April, 2019, just one day after we celebrated his 93rd birthday with him. We hoped and prayed that God would send our Dad home with us again, but on 6th April, 2019, God looked down at a faithful servant and said, “Come home my child and rest”.
“Cinny”
MILDRED CYNTHIA STUART “Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies…Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.” Proverbs 31:10 & 28 On the eve of the weekend - Friday, October 21st, 1932 - Captain Blake and Grace Irene (Moss) Neely joyfully welcomed their third baby girl into the family, naming her Mildred Cynthia. This household was filled with excitement, especially the girls as they had officially outnumbered the boys – three (girls) to two (boys). “Cinny”, as she was affectionately called, attained most of her education at The Bluff All-Age School. In her pre-teens, she briefly lived with her grandparents, Papa Thomas and Mary Moss, in Upper Bogue and went to the Upper Bogue All-Age School where Papa Tom was headmaster. Being the fifth of nine children, she grew up in a lively household where there were always tasks to be completed. She learned to cook and plait straw while watching her oldest sister, Nellie; made mashed pumpkin and cucumber salad from her youngest sister, Virginia’s special recipe, and her sense of style from her sister, Gloria. Though she regularly attended church, as a teenager, there was
one Harvest Thanksgiving Service that was etched in her mind forever. Blushingly, she would recollect that first time she laid eyes on Theophilus Stuart as he sang in that Harvest Service, even recalling the song “We Plough the Fields and Scatter”. Though they did not immediately connect, they were mutually smitten and intrigued, which led them to later seek out each other. This courtship led to her marrying her “Captain” in 1951. God entrusted them with ten beautiful children, five boys and five girls. Cynthia was determined to provide for her family and be a support to her husband. Her strong work ethics led her to be a “shop owner” which we would now refer to as an entrepreneur. The times when she assisted Pa Blake with the selling of goods proved beneficial in establishing her own business. In addition to her convenience store, which provided grocery to The Bluff community, she also sold clothing - which aligned with her love for shopping - and sold straw, which she plaited on her porch. Her most proud position, however, was being the Chief Executive and Operations Officer of the Stuart Household. She was a home maker extraordinaire, ensuring all ten of her children and husband were fed daily with the most delicious meals. Mom loved to cook for her family, she prepared the most scrumptious meals. Every morning we woke up to the aroma of breakfast being prepared in the kitchen. Unanimously, the favorite dish was soup. She must have even “put her foot in it”. Her potato bread, banana pancakes, steam cabbage with salt beef, and secret recipe “red eggs” were staples in the household. It was imperative that she baked bread several times a week as this was the antidote for her fried fish which would set an untrained palate on fire. As one can imagine, taking care of such a large family must not have been an easy task, but she did so with grace and ease as she knew the real source of her strength came from her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Early in her life, God gave her a vision that one of her assignments was to hold street meetings in every settlement in Eleuthera. She obeyed and with the help of her dear friend, Evelyn Neely, they went from north to south of the island evangelizing and conducting missionary work. As a pastor’s wife, she supported Bishop Stuart in church ministry. She hosted various ministers and their spouses when they visited the Church of God in The Bluff and ensured they were well nourished to provide the Lord’s message to His people. Mother Stuart, along with her husband, would hold weekly family prayers as she was determined all her children would personally have a relationship with God and know their Bible. As the saying goes, “All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy”. Mom’s play was her annual trips where she toured the USA. She lived for her month-long summer visits with her sisters who resided in New York and New Orleans and her daughter, Donna, in Tennessee. Though she was not a fan of flying, Mom would hop on the flight to Florida and proceed on the road trip touching almost every landmark and shopping mall. By the end of her visit, she would have literally a truck load of luggage to bring back containing something for each and every one of her children, grandchildren, family members and friends. It has been said that when her money ran low, she would request a cup of coffee for “the nerves”. Cynthia lived a full, eventful life despite medical challenges which required her to attend doctor in Nassau. On every visit, when it was time to return to The Bluff, her face would be pinned up as she was not ready to part ways with “Funky Nassau”. Pa Theo would have to say “Cinny, it’s time” and off they went back home. As the years progressed, her once annual doctor visits became more frequent as the doctor’s appointments multiplied. Though she was not thrilled to be visiting the doctor more often, she was happy to spend time with her daughter, Jennifer, and being visited by her children, grandchildren and other relatives that lived in Nassau. Mom, unexpectedly, had to come to Nassau in late January this year (2019) to see various doctors. As usual, Dad accompanied her; however, he also fell ill and passed on Saturday, April 6th, 2019. Mom, not wanting her “Captain” to leave her behind, decided to join his ship to heaven and she passed on Monday, April 15th, 2019.
Order of Service Moderator | Bishop Victor Johnson Praise Worshipers Musical Prelude Entrance and Viewing | The Family Ministerial Procession Opening Remarks | Moderator Praise and Worship | Praise Team Congregational Hymn | “Blessed Jesus Hold My Hand” As I travel through this pilgrim land There is a Friend who walks with me Leads me safely through the sinking sand It is the Christ of Calvary This would be my prayer, dear Lord, each day To help me do the best I can For I need Thy light to guide me day and night Blessed Jesus, hold my hand
Let me travel in the light divine That I may see the blessed way Keep me that I may be wholly Thine And sing redemption’s song some day I will be a soldier brave and true And ever firmly take a stand As I onward go and daily meet the foe Blessed Jesus, hold my hand
(Chorus) Jesus, hold my hand, I need Thee every hour Through this pilgrim land Protect me by The power Hear my feeble plea, plea O Lord, look down on me, While I kneel in prayer I hope to meet you there Blessed Jesus hold my hand
When I wander through the valley dim Toward the setting of the sun If I a crown of life have won I have put my faith in Thee, dear Lord, That I may reach the golden strand There’s no other friend on whom I can depend Blessed Jesus, hold my hand.
Invocation | Bishop Anthony Dean
“My Jesus I Love Thee” My Jesus I love Thee, I know Thou art mine For Thee all the follies of sin I resign My gracious Redeemer, my Saviour art Thou If ever I loved Thee my Jesus ‘tis now
I’ll love Thee in life and I will love Thee in death And praise Thee as long as Thou lendest me breath And say when the death dew lies cold on my brow If ever I loved Thee my Jesus ‘tis now
I love Thee because Thou has first loved me And purchased my pardon on Calvary’s tree I love Thee for wearing the thorns on Thy brow If ever I loved Thee my Jesus ‘tis now
In mansions of glory and endless delight I’ll ever adore Thee in heaven so bright I’ll sing with the glittering crown on my brow If ever I loved Thee my Jesus ‘tis now
Old Testament Lesson | Job 19: 25-27 | Nadia Stuart (Granddaughter) Selection | The North Eleuthera District Choir Congregational Hymn | “Heaven’s Jubilee” Some glad morning, we shall see Jesus in the air Coming after you and me, joy is ours to share What rejoicing, that will be, when the saints shall raise Headed for that jubilee, yonder in the skies.
Seems that now I almost see all the sainted dead Raising for that jubilee, that is just ahead In the twinkling of an eye, changed with them to be All the living saints to fly to that jubilee
(Chorus) Oh what singing, Oh what shouting On that happy morning, when we all shall rise Oh what glory, hallelujah? When we meet our blessed Saviour in the skies.
When with all the heavenly host, we’ll begin to sing, Singing in the Holy Ghost how the heav’ns ring Millions there will join the song, with them we shall be Praising Christ thru ages long, Heaven’s jubilee.
Selection | Bishop Samuel Higgs and Joseph (Rocky) Saunders Reflections | Bishop Dudley Kelly (Friend) Rev. Wellington A. Johnson (Son-in-Law) New Testament Reading | 1 John 5: 1-11 | Wellington Anthony Johnson Jr. (Grandson) Obituary to be Read in Silence Selection | The Brown Brothers (Nephews) Tribute to Our Dad | Gerald Stuart Sr. (Son)
Congregational Hymn | “Oh, I Want to See Him” As I journey through the land, singing as I go, Pointing souls to Calvary—to the crimson flow, Many arrows pierce my soul from without, within; But my Lord leads me on, through Him I must win. Chorus: Oh, I want to see Him, look upon His face, There to sing forever of His saving grace; On the streets of glory let me lift my voice, Cares all past, home at last, ever to rejoice. When in service for my Lord dark may be the night, But I’ll cling more close to Him, He will give me light; Satan’s snares may vex my soul, turn my thoughts aside; But my Lord goes ahead, leads whate’er betide. When in valleys low I look toward the mountain height, And behold my Savior there, leading in the fight, With a tender hand outstretched toward the valley low, Guiding me, I can see, as I onward go. When before me billows rise from the mighty deep, Then my Lord directs my bark; He doth safely keep, And He leads me gently on through this world below; He’s a real Friend to me, oh, I love Him so. Condolences | (Two Minutes) | Rev. Phillip Bethel Bishop Dan Nixon Bishop Samuel Higgs The Right Hon. Perry G. Christie Selection | New Vision Sanctuary Choir Eulogy | Bishop Dr. Moses A. Johnson Overseer and Administrative Bishop, Church of God, The Bahamas Prayer for the Family | Bishop Philemon Wilson Vote of Thanks | Bishop Simeon Stuart (Son/ Pastor) Closing Prayer | Bishop Carlton Stuart
Recessional Hymn | “Glad Reunion Day” There will be a happy meeting in heaven I know When we see the many loved ones we’ve known here below. Gather on the blessed hilltops with hearts all aglow. That will be a glad reunion day.
There within the holy city we’ll sing and rejoice, Praising Christ the blessed Saviour with heart and with voice. Tell him how we came to love Him and make Him our choice. That will be a glad reunion day.
(Chorus) Glad day, a wonderful day, Glad day, a glorious day; There with all the holy angels and loved ones to stay, That will be a glad reunion day.
When we live a million years in that wonderful place Basking in the love of Jesus, beholding His face. It will seem but just a moment of praising His grace. That will be glad reunion day.
Graveside Service Hymn | “ It’s Alright Now”
There was a time I travelled a lonely sinful road; Beneath a heavy burden bending low; But now all things are different, since Jesus took my load It’s alright now, I’m His I know.
A’ down a lonely pathway, without a friend to guide, I walked in sin and sorrow all alone ‘Till Jesus came and found me, and drew me to His side; It’s alright now, for I’m His own.
(Chorus) It’s alright now, for I am in my Saviour’s care It’s alright now; my Saviour hears and answers prayer He’ll walk with me, (He’ll walk beside me) Till I climb the heavenly stair, And everything (And everything is alright now)
No more in sin I wander, no more in darkness roam The Lord has placed my feet on higher ground; Each day new heights I’m gaining, my soul is nearing home, It’s alright now, I’m heaven bound.
Prayer | Bishop Joseph Smith Scripture Committal | Bishop Dr. Moses A. Johnson Remarks | Funeral Director Benediction
Hymns It is Well with My Soul When peace, like a river, attendeth my way, when sorrows like sea billows roll; whatever my lot, thou hast taught me to say, It is well, it is well with my soul. (Chorus) It is well, it is well, With my soul, with my soul, It is well; it is well, with my soul. Though Satan should buffet, though trials should come, let this blest assurance control that Christ has regarded my helpless estate, And hath shed His own blood for my soul. My sin, oh, the bliss of this glorious thought! My sin, not in part but the whole, is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more, praise the Lord, praise the Lord, O my soul! And, Lord, haste the day when my faith shall be sight, the clouds be rolled back as a scroll; the trump shall resound, and the Lord shall descend Even so, it is well with my soul
When We All Get to Heaven Sing the wondrous love of Jesus, Sing His mercy and His grace. In the mansions bright and blessèd He’ll prepare for us a place. (Chorus) When we all get to Heaven, What a day of rejoicing that will be! When we all see Jesus, We’ll sing and shout the victory! While we walk the pilgrim pathway, Clouds will overspread the sky; But when travelling days are over, Not a shadow, not a sigh. Let us then be true and faithful, Trusting, serving every day; Just one glimpse of Him in glory Will the toils of life repay. Onward to the prize before us! Soon His beauty we’ll behold; Soon the pearly gates will open; We shall tread the streets of gold.
Tribute to Bishop Theophilus Stuart
Today, I would like to make a tribute to my very best friend-a great man of God, a loving husband, wonderful father of 10 children and an Honorable man of God in his community – Bishop Theophilus Stuart. Almighty God gave me the elite privilege of meeting Bishop Stuart in May, 1987. Bishop Stuart and I immediately became friends and remained so until the end. And I found him to be all of the above. He could best be described in my opinion as a Servant Leader like Jesus Christ - the Bible says, “Peter saith unto him, thou shalt never wash my feet. Jesus answered him, If I wash thee not, thou hast no part with me. Simon Peter saith unto him, Lord, not my feet only, but also my hands and my head.” (St. John 13:8-9) My most memorable moment out of many is–when Bishop Stuart and others accompanied me to Ghana, West Africa and we discussed this trip when I return to the Bahamas every time because he was interested in knowing all he could about Africa and welfare of the people. He always told me if he had not met me, he would have never had the opportunity to visit Africa. It was a wonderful trip. Last month March 4th, I came to visit Bishop Stuart and we resumed our many wonderful talks as we had always done down through the years. Bishop Stuart was a great listener. In closing, I will say to Bishop Stuart, sleep on my dear friend. I will see you in the morning and to his family may God Bless you. I encourage his sons and daughters to continue to walk in your father’s footsteps as he followed Christ. ~Bishop Asbury R. Sellers – Harvest Ministries
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message from your youngest Branches Oeclia & Malia Dear Dad, you were a true example of a Godly father! A true leader, both Spiritually and in our home. A great provider for your family, and a devoted servant of God. We were all blessed to have you in our lives! Saying Good bye today is heart breaking but even in the sadness of the lost of your earthly presence with us my heart rejoices knowing that you have gone on home to meet our heavenly father! - Ocelia
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ear Grandpa you were the best Grandpa a Girl could ever have. I Miss you! I hope you like it up there: Grandma was in the Hospital, but she is coming out today. You were a servant of God and I know that you’re in heaven with God and his Angels. I know you still love me and one thing for sure you are happy and that’s all that matters to me! Rest in Peace I love you and Miss you -Malia
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h Daddy, you leaving us is very hard. The day you told me you were tired, but not in any pain I tried to accept the fact that you were soon going to make that transition from earth to glory, but was asking God to allow you to be with us longer. I will miss the phone calls each day, you asking, “How is my loving Daughter”, I will miss the Godly instructions, the old story telling and your sweet laughter. Thanks for being a mentor. As a great father-in-law, you have impacted my life with your love, kindness, wisdom & words of encouragement. Thanks for the many prayers you have prayed on behalf of us. “For I am now ready to be offered, and the time of my departure is at hand. I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith: Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, shall give me at that day: and not to me only, but unto all them also that love his appearing.” – 2 Timothy 4:6-7 It is hard to continue this tribute to you. We will meet you in glory. May your soul Rest in Peace. - Cedric&Melrose
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will always cherish our moments and conversations together. You have taught me so many things with words of wisdom. You have taught me how to work hard, to accomplish my goals in life. The most important thing, you taught me from the Word of God, is to know Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior, which I did. I am going to miss coming and picking you up from home and taking you to church and fellowshipping with you. I am forever grateful to God for you being my dad. Rest In Peace, Your Loving Son, Simeon
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ou were a very humbled and dedicated man to family and unto God. I am indeed grateful to have had you as my father in law. I will always cherish our moments, our conversations and most importantly your words of wisdom as you impart the Word of God, and your telephone call on Sunday morning to pick you up for church. Rest in peace Pa Theo. Your Loving daughter in-law, Evelyn (Lyn)
A Tribute to Dad
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Theophilus Stuart) Job 1:1-2 reads: There was a man in the land of Uz whose name was Job, and that man was blameless and upright, one who feared God and turned away from evil. 2 There were born to him seven sons and three daughters. There was a man in the city of Bluff, Eleuthera whose name was Theophilus Stuart, and that man was blameless and upright, one who feared God and shunned evil. There was born to him 5 sons and 5 daughters. Dad, we will miss you. The visits we made over the years will always be remembered for the love you showed us. We will miss your wisdom, your encouragement, your godly advice, your humor and especially the “preaching in the house.” Dad, we will always look back on your life of integrity. Your life was characterized by so many important values that you have left for us to follow: Determination – you were determined to make your life count each day through hard work as a boat captain, a farmer, a preacher and a pastor. Devotion – you were devoted first to God and then to your family. You made certain that your wife and children received the attention and provision that they needed. Dedication – all of us can remember your dedication to God as you would preach the Word Sunday after Sunday and teach the Word through the week. Your desire was that each of your children make it to heaven. Dad you have overcome this life. You have finished your course and completed the race – henceforth there is laid up for you a crown of righteousness. We love you Dad and we will miss you –but we are so thankful for the years God graciously gave you to us and for the knowledge that one day, because we serve the same Lord, we will see you again – in a place where there will be no more sickness, sadness or separation. - Donna and Wellington
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randpa Theo: The Legacy He Left Behind If we could describe our Grandpa in one word, it would be “amazing” because of how he touched our lives. Grandpa Theo’s number one goal throughout life was to serve God and he made sure that everyone who knew him knew the importance of that too. He was a devoted, caring, protecting and wonderful human being. A man after God’s own heart. A role model for boys and men to pattern their lives after. A passionate family man with a special love for desserts. We can remember calling the house numerous times in Eleuthera and Grandpa would usually be the first to grab the telephone. No matter how loud either of us would say hello and ask how he was doing, he would always reply with “Hello, hello, hello who dis? What ya say?” “My granddaughter, my granddaughter aye?”. The greetings of a sweet noble and God-fearing man will echo in our hearts and minds forever. We are going to miss hearing that sweet voice grandpa but we’re reminded of the fact that whenever we feel saddened, that you are in a better place. You’re in heaven cheering the rest of us on to live holy and true to God so that we can make it in like you did. We are so glad that we got to celebrate your 93rd birthday with you not knowing it would’ve been your last. It was such a special family gathering, but we did not dream it was a farewell. Before your departure, you made very sure to ask everyone if we were all saved. Well guess what grandpa? We are sure that we’re saved, and we’ll be seeing you someday again. You lived a full amazing life Grandpa, but it still seems like you left us all too soon. Love your granddaughters, Lashondra Albury & Alexis Stuart
A Tribute to Bishop Theophilus “Theo” Stuart When we reflect on Daddy’s life, this visionary leader, great patriarch, a giant of a man comes to mind for his selfless invaluable contribution to society. The name Theophilus literally means ‘Friend of God’. His name is synonymous with such defining characteristics as wise, God-fearing, provider, protector, disciplinarian and teacher, one who possessed strong moral and spiritual principles. On Tuesday April 2nd, we celebrated your 93rd birthday. Through labored breaths you asked that I John 5: 6-8 be read and it states “This is he that came by water and blood, even Jesus Christ; not by water only, but by water and blood; and it is the spirit that bear witness because the spirit is truth. For there are three that bear record in heaven. The Father, the Word and the Holy Ghost and these three are one. And these are they that bear witness in the earth, the Spirit and the water and the blood; and these three are one”. You then proceed to expound on the word by asking “What is a record? How do you know that your name is recorded in heaven and how do you know that you are saved?” You confirmed that your anchor holds both safe and steadfast. You urged the family to live peaceably and continue to build on their spiritual lives. One of your favorite scriptures, Psalm 16:11 states, “Thou will show me the path of life; in thy presence is fullness of joy and at thy right hand (symbolic of a place of power and authority) there are pleasures forever more”. You finished strong and assured us that you were not just getting older but getting closer to home, on your way to a place not prepared by hands but eternal in the heavens. - Lovingly Jack and Carolyn
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addy, 56 years with you is a lot to talk about and to condense in such a small space. However, I would say though that today I am overwhelmed, but yet satisfied and grateful to know that I was given the awesome privilege to call you Dad. Let me hasten to say that the values you instilled in me will be with me for the rest of my life. Yes, I thought that when we were children and young adults that you were the toughest father in the whole universe! But today as I reflect, I have come to the conclusion that it was not in vain but it has contributed immensely to my growth and success. Daddy, you taught me your seaman skills, your agricultural skills, but most importantly you taught me how to love the Lord! You often told me how proud of me you were. I can vividly recall when Yvette and I took you and Bishop Kelly for a buggy ride through the farms, how happy the two of you were, like little boys in a candy store, you were so elated to be back to something that you loved doing. We stopped and cut coconuts, drank the water and ate the jelly, Daddy you were sooo happy!! It was such a joy to hear the excitement in both you and Bishop Kelly’s voices!!!! In recent months, after you became immobile, our bond became even stronger and every opportunity you had you told me how much you loved me. We would have long conversations talking about everything from farming, to adventures of the sea, politics and of course the Bible. You found so much joy in quoting scriptures and telling those Bible stories!!(Even if I fell asleep while you were talking.) You used every opportunity you had to proclaim
so proudly that when the call is made on your life, you were ready to go to Heaven to meet your Lord and Savior. At the same time, you always said that you would like all of your ten children and families to join you in the great beyond!!! Today Yvette reflects with me as you two shared a special bond that was more than just in-laws. She found pleasure in visiting you and Mom every week. You felt that she was your connection to South Eleuthera, as you reminisced over the days that you traded your fruits there and you thought that she should know everyone you asked about be they dead or alive! One thing that will never be forgotten is that once we were in your presence you were in charge, so when we entered your room you expected our undivided attention. If you thought you weren’t getting that you would say “I am talking to you!” And if we were watching a program on television, when we were not thinking you would grab the remote and change the channel to your favorite channel TBN! We would only laugh! So Daddy as you have taken your flight, which happens to be the same month our baby left us 15 years ago, we can only imagine the joy you felt when Baby Theo stood at the gate to welcome his Grandpa Theo into Heaven!!!! So sleep on Daddy, take your much deserved rest. We dearly loved you but Jesus loves you best!!!! Greg & Yvette
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ur father/father-in-law, you were truly an “Earthly Father”. You epitomized fatherly characteristics, based on biblical and logical principles. You were a provider for and protector of your family members; a strong disciplinarian, becoming mellow and compassionate later on; a Godly, prayerful, industrious and wise man. Truly, a loving father. Daddy…I thank God that you were always a part of my life and for the kind of father you were. Not many men today can say that about their father. I always remember the values you instilled in me. Papa Theo (what I called you, my father-in-law)…I especially remember and miss those regular and lengthy conversations we had on any and everything “under the sun”…just you and me. We had our special times whether in The Bluff, Nassau or on the telephone. You would often inform me of matters or seek my opinion on issues. If we agreed with each other, you ended the conversation with “Okay, Bridge, my darling”; but if my view differed from yours, it just ended with “Okay, my daughter-inlaw”, with a follow-up days later to see if my view had changed. Papa Theo, I will also remember and miss you going to church with me when you were in Nassau…standing and talking so strong at the pulpit when you were invited to give greetings to the congregation…which turned into a mini sermon because you were always preaching the Gospel and Salvation of Jesus Christ.
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he sweetest soul, the most precious and selfless grandfather. You were a faithful servant. A strong presence. A constant reminder that joy lives in those who gave their troubles to our heavenly father. We will remember all those hot summer breaks in Eleuthera, the memories shared in Bluff and tagging along to the Gas Station. You gave us your time, love and spiritual counsel and this will certainly will be missed. Although your earthly days have come to an end, it eases our pain to know that you are rejoicing and watching over us every step of the way. God called you home and we could only picture the excitement on your face as he opened those heaven gates and welcomed you to the eternity that you spoke passionately about. You will forever live in our hearts as we forever lived in your prayers. We love you and miss you so much - Embri and Ebony
Daddy/Papa Theo, we will always love and remember you. Oh, how we will miss those powerful prayers and your preparedness “to come to Nassau to deal with matters”, if need be. Truly, you combined “faith and works”. We know you are with your Heavenly Father and we continue to “press toward the mark” to see you, again. -Emmet and Bridg
A Tribute to Dad as a Farmer By Gerald
Dad you were the greatest spiritual mentor, business consultant, way maker, disciplinarian, exemplary leader and a true family ambassador. Your latter days with us were filled with laughter and happiness. Your voice in the hallway or bathroom, when you shouted “hallelujah, thank you Jesus” startled us because we were not expecting the sudden outburst – but that was you. When you felt the presence of the lord, everyone knew. I can hear you now saying “Hallelujah – Thank You Jesus”. I will never forget times we spent in the farms picking oranges and tangerines. You showing me how to pick a tangerine without plugging it. All the techniques of trying to turn a sour plant into a navel orange or tangerine tree (budding). Cutting the banana and preparing it for market – you had to break off every black bud of each banana. After struggling to get it to the truck, if the truck was at another farm, you had to cover up the produce and reload that day or the next morning. The bananas and sacks of oranges and crates of tangerine were very heavy but we did it. The best baked sweet potatoes I have ever tasted were the ones we cooked in the farm with rocks and sticks. Lunch time was very exciting especially when it was watermelon season. Freshly baked bread and watermelon were the best. The best water I ever tasted was out of the spring well on the airport road. We tied rope to a paint bucket and pulled water from the well you discovered – that was cool! Before the day ended we had to go and feed the sheep at bamboo point. Make sure they had their licking salt block (brown block)
cut the Jumbey Bush for food and pump water from the clamp pump you installed. The day was not over yet, when we got home, dad you crated up oranges, tangerines, mixed small and large, cut up the bunches of bananas, most of the bananas were green but you as a high tech farmer knew your stuff. You made green bananas ripe overnight. To accomplish this, you put us down into a huge wooden barrel, we stacked the hands of bananas in layers separated by crockers bag between each layer. When the barrel was full, you pulled us out and as a chemist you started your lab work. Next morning we had golden bananas. Three a.m. you were accompanied by one of the boys and Bishop Kelly or Mr. Bain and off you went to market – South Eleuthera. This father-son-daughter relationship made me and my siblings what we are today. You always taught us to put God first and all other things would be added. Also respect your elders, honesty and hard work pays off. I know you are resting with the Lord. Thank you Lord for giving him to us for 93 years.
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here do I begin, words cannot express what a wonderful father I had. Dad was a disciplinarian but you did it with love. As I reflect on one occasion when Jennifer and I were in Nassau schooling, we came to the boat to visit you, and my sister - the fashionista, her face was beautifully made up, however, you did not have the same opinion. You told her to go wash off all that “bondo” on your face before I wipe it off. You told her she was beautiful without it and that God had already made you beautiful, you don’t have to add to it. There are so many memories that remain so special. I also reflect on how, as children you always took us with you selling fruits. The boys always went but, when the girls accompanied you it was a special occasion. You were always so proud of your kids. Everywhere I went with you, you introduce me your daughter, the nurse. You were just as proud of each of us and showed it to us daily. With you as a dad nothing felt impossible. And oh the prayers! Every day you called each of your children’s names in prayer with Mom. As a father-in-law, it was a pleasure getting your crabs to send with Bertha. Bertha would say every time when she left for Eleuthera or Nassau to spend time with you, “can you find some crabs for mum and dad? You know they want their crab and dough”. She took pleasure in preparing the special delicacy for you and mom. You were a no nonsense man, but a loving person who welcomed me into the family and always made me feel a part of the family. I remember Christmas past, you asked me if I was coming, at the time I was not sure but I am glad I was able to spend such a beautiful time with my family. I will continue to remember how you encouraged me to put God first in everything and make him the head of my life. -Bertha and Dewitt
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hen I think about the lost of my grandfather, all I can do is smile and think about the good times. Whenever it was time for exams I remember calling Grandpa and asking you to pray for me, which gave me the extra confidence needed at the time. Even when I look back at working at the gas station, when you would come and work with us for the day, I always looked up to you for guidance on how to carry out my duties. Words really can’t express the love and respect that I have for you, grandpa. I am really going to miss going to church with you and all of the jokes the stories. You always made sure that I was “good” whenever I lived with you. -Andre
Tribute to Grammy from LaTonya and Anthony J (Grandchildren) Words cannot express the sadness we feel as we mourn your loss, just after losing Grandpa Theo! However, we will continue to think on the good times...helping you in the store during the summer, our adventurous road trips every year, shopping till we dropped, eating too much at the Golden Corral and jokes upon jokes as we enjoyed God’s gift of laughter! As we look back on the God-fearing, loving, caring and funny woman that you were, we know that God and Grandpa are now smiling a big smile as they welcome you into their arms.
Tribute to Grandpa Theo: I don’t think we would have ever been prepared for this day even though God blessed us with enjoying you for 93 years! Although we lived in the states we always looked forward to our summer and Christmas trips to come visit you and Grammy. Riding to and from the farm as kids in your pick-up truck to check on the crops and pick fruit was an adventure we enjoyed every minute of! Mandatory Sunday morning prayer that taught us to pray together as a family is forever etched in our hearts as we start traditions in our own families. The way you would talk to and take an interest in not only us, but friends and neighbors everywhere, gave us a great example of what loving others means. More than anything else, the one thing we can say that you showed us was, what a real man who loves the Lord looks like. You walked it out until your last day on this earth and we know that God is saying, “well done my good and faithful servant well done!” With all our love, Your grands LaTonya and Anthony-J
No more sickness, no more pain, only joy as you are in the loving arms of your Heavenly Father and your Theo! Missing you.
Tribute to Mom from Greg (Son)
Mummy, Mummy, Mummy!!!! Words are just so inadequate right now for me to explain what I am feeling. The pain is so real!!! Mummy, when I sat in your room on Sunday night, just you and I in some cases, I played the song on my phone “And can it be that I should gain....my chains fell off my heart was free, I rose went forth and followed thee”. I could see you rejoicing in the Lord! I did not dream this would be the last time I shared your company. This I will never, ever forget!!!! Everyone told me I looked like you, this made me feel so, so special!!! Mum, I just appreciated the fact that you were interested in my welfare and how was I doing in life. This was evident every time I would visit you home in Bluff or in Nassau. The usual questions would be - “How are you son?” “How’s Yvette doing?’ (If she wasn’t with me) “How are the children?” Your parting words to me always were: “Okay, Son, take care. Mummy want you to go to church and love the Lord.” Mummy love you!!! Proverbs 31 epitomizes the virtuous woman you truly were. Although there is ten of us, your love was endless and overflowed to each of us individually. I never dreamed this day would come, but I can smile through the tears knowing you are reunited with Daddy forever!! I’ll always carry you in my heart....... Rest in paradise Mummy!!!!!
Tribute to Great-Grandpa Theo:
Dear great-grandpa, we didn’t know you long but boy did we love you so much! It was so fun to hear your excited voice on the phone asking “how’s my great-grand daughter “ and “how’s my great-grand son” and then you would ask “when you coming to see me?” We are sad that you are gone but daddy and mommy told us that one day we would see you again in heaven! We are excited about that but we still will miss you! Love, Your great-grands Dannyelle and DJ
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or all the laughs, for all the teasing, for all the lectures of disapproval when it came to Tabby’s wardrobe choices For all the messages of blessings, for all the bedside chatting and for all the spontaneous scripture lessons and bible trivia you would give to Lici over face time For all the family prayers, for all the words of wisdom, for all the encouragement and declarations of love. For always believing in us and encouraging us to stay true to our faith. For who you were and who you will continue to be in our hearts, we would like to say thank you. Rest in Peace and love Pa Theo -Delicia and Tabitha
A Tribute to Mom By Gerald, Sr. (Son)
The “Pearl of the Stuart Garden” - her beauty shining in her prayers, kindness and concern. The personal affection she had for Dad and each of us, Donna, Gerald, Jack, Emmet, Greg, Simeon, Albertha, Jen, Melrose and Celia, kept us together as a garden of love. I personally called her Blake’s beautiful daughter. This always brought a smile to her face. Dad and us were blessed to have a wife and mom who worked tirelessly to make certain that we all ate well. The family meals were ready at 6 a.m. every morning. Sunday mornings by 8 a.m. breakfast and dinner were ready because everyone had to be in church. She loved cooking for her family. My favourite was the minced cabbage and peas soup and dumpling. Boy, that was good! Mom, knowing me and my weakness for food, took my portions of the minced cabbage and peas soup and put it aside and said, “This is for Gerald”. When Mom stopped cooking, I knew she was not well. Cooking was her passion. She never cooked a small pot. She always cooked for twelve or more. When some of my siblings were off to school and relocated, she continued to cook for twelve. She fed the neighbours’ children and those who helped in the kitchen. She just could not cook a small pot of food. Mom was the accountant for the family business. She would take inventory of the store, produce the shopping list for Dad and stock the shelves for the customers. Dad was the farmer and captain, and she ran the business. Her greatest desire, up until her death, was that all the children accept Jesus as their personal saviour and for us to all meet in heaven. We have honoured that request, Mom. We will all be there on that “great reunion day”. No more needles, Mom. I watched you stick yourself so many times. We love you. We will see you, again.
Tribute to Grammy from Andre (Grandson) When I think about the passing of my grandmother, I look back at all the good times. When I was younger and I use to stay with my grandparents, you would be in the kitchen cooking. I also look back at times when we would go for a drive “up the shore” just so you could get out of the house. I also remember you talking about going to New York, your most favorite place to travel. I will truly miss you.
Papa Theo
The sweetest soul. The most precious and selfless grandfather. You were a faithful servant. A strong presence. A constant reminder that joy lives in those who gave their troubles to our heavenly father.
Grammy Cynnie
A humble, sweet and caring grandmother who loved her kisses. A pillar of strength and love and an obedient women of God. We’re going to miss hearing you say every chance you got “Grammy love you now.” Although your earthly days have come to an end, it eases our pain to know that you’re rejoicing and watching over us every step of the way. God called you home and we could only picture the excitement on your face as he opened those heaven gates and welcomed you to the eternity that you spoke so passionately about. You will forever live in our hearts as we forever lived in your prayers. We love you and miss you both so much. - Embri and Ebony
Mar Cynnie there are no words! I would miss those weekly visits.... The
times you thought my dress or skirt was too short in your opinion and you would say I wish I had a piece of cloth to add to that ....... The times you would ask 101 times how’s my son?, when is he coming to visit me? Is Perry Christie his friend? ...... The times I would make cake for you at your request, and you would want it right away and Mellie and Ms Collie would not give it to you when you wanted it and you would get upset with them!..... The rare times I got you to side with me against Gregory!...... The times when you just was not feeling good and would just want to lie in your bed..... Mar Cynnie I am grateful for the 28 years I spent with you. You accepted me and made me feel like one of your daughters. You will always hold a special place in my heart! Rest In Peace!!!! -yvette
Tribute from(SonEmmet and Bridgette and Daughter-in-Law) Our father/father-in-law, you were truly an “Earthly Father”. You epitomized fatherly characteristics, based on biblical and logical principles. You were a provider for and protector of your family members; a strong disciplinarian, becoming mellow and compassionate later on; a Godly, prayerful, industrious and wise man. Truly, a loving father.
Our mother/mother-in-law, you exemplified ALL the qualities of a mother the way God meant it. You were loving, caring, compassionate, always giving, a home maker and always prayerful. Daddy…I thank God that you were always a part of my life and for the kind of father you were. Not many men can say that about their father. I always remember the values you instilled in me. Mum…you were the sweetest and most beautiful mother on earth. I am going to miss your hugs/kisses and seeing the smile on your face. You had your special and calm way of giving counsel. Papa Theo (what I called you, my father-in-law)…I especially remember and miss those regular conversations we had on any and everything “under the sun”…just you and me. If we agreed with each other, you ended the conversation with “Okay, Bridge, my darling”; but if my view differed from yours, it just ended with “Okay, my daughter-in-law”, with a follow-up to see if my view had changed. Papa Theo, I will also remember and miss you going to church with me when you were in Nassau…standing and talking so strong at the pulpit when you were invited to give greetings to the congregation…which turned into a mini sermon because you were always preaching the Gospel and Salvation of Jesus Christ. Grammie Cynnie (what I called you, my mother-in-law), I won’t hear your special words of encouragement or compliments anymore and you ending telephone conversations with “Glad to hear your voice”. I will always remember your sayings such as “wear the troubles of this world loose”; “pray and fast to push your way through” and “keep on the firing line”. Words of advice for the different seasons of life. Daddy/Papa Theo and Mum/Grammie Cynnie, we will always love and remember you. Oh, how we will miss those powerful prayers and your preparedness “to come to Nassau to deal with matters”, if need be. Truly, you all combined “faith and works”. We know you are TOGETHER with your Heavenly Father and we continue to “press toward the mark” to see both of you, again.
Tribute to M atriarch Mother Cynthia Stuart. Proverbs 31: 10 –31 Mother Cynthia ‘s life reflects the life of this scripture ;
Who can find a virtuous wife ? For her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trust her (she was Bishop’s help mate, his support beam of 67 years ) , vs 12 she will do him good and not evil all the days of her life., she willingly worked with her hands. She is like the merchant ship she brings her food from afar (sacrificial love ) she also rises up while it is yet night and provides for her household, (mom was known for her most delectable dishes, ) vs 17 she girds herself with strength and her lamp does not go out by night. Vs20 She extends her hand to the poor , she reaches out to the needy (mom was full of compassion for the less fortunate) strength and honor are her clothing . She opens her mouth with wisdom and on her tongue is the law of kindness. She watches over the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness ,vs 28 her children rise up and call her blessed ,her husband also and he praises her, vs 29 “many daughters have done well but you excel them all ,” vs 30 charm is deceitful and beauty is passing but a woman who fears the Lord , she shall be praised , vs 31 give her of the fruit of her hand and let her own works praise her in the gates. Jack and Carolyn
Awards and Certificates 1977 Awarded Queen’s Silver Jubilee Medal for Distinguished Service 1985 International Convention on Standards of Training, Certification and Watchkeeping for Seafarers 1987 Bahamas Government Ministry of Transport and Local Government Certificate of Appreciation 1987 Exhorter Certificate, Educational Division Office of the Church of God (Cleveland, Tennessee) 1989 Community Service Award, The Bluff Branch of the St. John’s High School 1989 Licensed Minister Certificate, International Office of the Church of God (Cleveland, Tennessee) 1989 Shipping Award, The Bluff Branch of the St. John’s High School 1997 Certificate of Ordination, International Office of the Church of God (Cleveland, Tennessee) 2000 Certificate of Appreciation for Outstanding Service, The Community of The Bluff 2004 Service Award from Church of God North Eleuthera District 2007 The Bahamas Ship Resister 30th Year Anniversary Award 2008 W.R. Franks Award - Family Island Pastor, Church of God, Bahamas, Turks & Caicos Islands 2012 50 Years of Service Harbour Island Commonage Award 2015 Church of God Bahamas, Exemplary and Dedicated Service Pastoral Award 2017 25 Years Committed Pastoral Ministry Award, Central Eleuthera Christian Council 2017 Honours for Community Contributions, The Bluff Eleuthera Association
Message of Gratitude
We, the Family of our dearly beloved, Bishop Theophilus M. B. Stuart wish to convey our sincere gratitude and appreciation for the many expressions of sympathy offered through your prayers, calls, texts, visits, kind words and other gestures of love. Please know, they were sources of strength during our time of sorrow and uplifted our hearts during this period of bereavement. We thank you sincerely. The Family
Pall Bearers
Gerald Stuart Jr. Wellington Anthony Johnson Jr. Dewitt Edgecombe Nelson Bastian Christopher Brown Crestwell Stuart Glen Neely Hewitt Stuart Jr. Owen Brown
Honorary Pall Bearers Gerald Stuart Sr. Jack Stuart Gregory Stuart Emmett Stuart Bishop Simeon Stuart Rev. Wellington Anthony Johnson Sr. Danny Wade Bishop Asbury R. Sellers Bishop Dudley Kelly Mr. Clarence Finlayson Mr. Joshua Culmer, JP, MBE