Mass of The Resurrection
For The Life and Witness of
Cora Aslee Gibson
BORN: January 24th, 1929
DIED: July 28th, 2024
AGE: 95 Years
SERVICE HELD AT:
St. Gregory the Great Anglican Church Carmichael Road South New Providence, Bahamas
Saturday, August 10th, 2024 at 2:30 p.m.
PRESIDING
The Most Rev’d. Drexel Gomez Assistant Bishop of the Diocese of The Bahamas and The Turks & Caicos Islands
CELEBRANT
Rt. Hon. (Designate) Rev’d. Canon S. Sebastian Campbell Rector, St Gregory the Great Anglican Church
HOMILY
The Rev’d. Canon Atma Budhu Rector, Church of the Epiphany
ASSISTED BY: The Reverend Richard Wood Associate Priest, All Saints Anglican Church
ORGANIST: Mrs. Elizabeth Ferguson
INTERMENT: Lakeview Cemetery New Providence, The Bahamas
Obituary
The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of my enemies: thou anoints my head with oil; my cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.
- Psalm 23
Cora Aslee Gibson, affectionately known as “Toosie” to those who knew her during her youth in Long Island, was born on January 24, 1929, to Ada Turnquest and Hartman Toote. She was the only child of Ada, who passed away months after childbirth. Hartman migrated to New York City and lived there the rest of his life.
Cora was raised by her grandparents on Long Island and various aunts and uncles in Nassau. Her formative years in Long Island profoundly shaped her character and she often regaled her family with fond memories of her youthful experiences in Lower Deadman’s Cay. In her late teens, she moved to Nassau, living first with her late uncle Granville Turnquest and his family until she found employment, and later with her aunt, the late Alice Fox, and her family, before obtaining an apartment of her own. Cora reciprocated this generosity later in life by welcoming into her home, numerous relatives from Long Island, when they moved to Nassau.
While living on Arundel Street in Nassau during her early twenties, she met a dashing young man from Eleuthera, Wilton “Will” Gibson, who was living with his aunt’s family on the same street. A brief courtship was interrupted when Cora moved to New York City to live with her Aunt Lilly in pursuit of better opportunities. However, Will had other thoughts and traveled to New York, persuading Cora to return to Nassau and become his wife. She returned on October 7, 1951 (the day before Will’s birthday), and they were married six months later on April 2, 1952. They were blessed with six children and enjoyed a blissful marriage that lasted 62 years until Will’s passing in 2014.
Cora Aslee Gibson
Throughout her life, Cora was strongly committed to family and family values. She freely gave her time, talents, and resources to assist wherever she could. In 1969, when Will was given an In-Service Award to study for his professional accounting examinations, she and Will made the bold decision to relocate their entire family to England for the duration of his studies.
Her selflessness and commitment to making the world a better place touched the lives of many. Whether she was volunteering with the Yellowbirds at the hospital, the Queen Mary Bahamas Clothing Guild, the Crippled Children’s Committee, at the Ranfurly Home for Children, the Children’s Emergency Hostel, or serving on the government-appointed Juvenile Court Panel, Cora anchored these groups for many years and took delight in the monthly visits, with her family, to these institutions. During her time in England, she also participated in many charitable endeavors and was among the few selected to have tea with Queen Elizabeth, the Queen Mother on one of her official visits to Leeds, England. She was also a devoted member of the Kiwanis Club of Montagu for many years.
Cora was always entrepreneurial, industrious and focused on long-term vision. For decades, she was the successful proprietor of Melita’s on Bay Street. Cora, a chic and fashion conscious lady, made sure that residents and visitors alike could obtain, at Melita’s, fine fabrics, stylish hats, exquisite and unusual notions, accessories for clothing and hats and all of the tools necessary for milliners and seamstresses.
A lifelong devout Anglican, Cora and her family pioneered the expansion of the Anglican Church into southern New Providence. The family began at St. Barnabas (where she and Will were married), then moved to Christ the King, and finally to St. Gregory the Great on Carmichael Road. The Gibson Family were pivotal in the establishment of St. Gregory’s, hosting many of the initial Sunday services on their patio. She was a founding member and the third president of the Anglican Church Women (ACW) organization at St. Gregory’s, where her efforts as a fundraiser had a profound and far-reaching impact on the church. Cora was a woman of strong faith, and her faithfulness to God never wavered. While in the hospital, she comforted herself by reciting the Doxology and Psalm 23, her favorites, with clarity of thought and speech. She made it clear that she was ready to meet her God.
An important aspect of Cora’s life is that she grew up during a time of many social injustices in The Bahamas. These did not quell her courage, vision and fierce determination to ensure that change would come and that every child would have the opportunity to fulfill their God given potential. Pre-1967, she and Will, then a senior civil servant, courageously hosted many meetings of the PLP at their home on West Avenue, contributing to the ushering in of Majority Rule, when Dr. Elwood Donaldson won the Killarney seat for the PLP in the 1967 election. Post-1967 she was active in the Killarney Branch which evolved into Carmichael and Southern Shores constituencies and for many years was a tireless fundraiser for those branches of the PLP.
Cora was a woman of resilience and strong character. God blessed her with 95 years and a legacy that will endure for generations to come. Cora never forgot her humble beginnings. She daily thanked her God that in her lifetime, she moved from having to use the “black people counter” at the rear of Bay Street Stores, to owning a store on Bay Street and seeing her offspring achieve great success. She was proud that, with God’s help, and their unwavering belief in their children’s potential. She and Will raised six successful children who have gone on to achieve great things. In her later life, she was particularly pleased with the developing contributions to society of her grandchildren in their various professions and the potential of her great-grandchildren and generations beyond.
She was the cornerstone of her family, the rock upon which they, and many of their friends, built their lives and dreams. Her steadfast love, grace and compassion knew no bounds. She was an unwavering source of guidance, strength and inspiration, a beacon of light in times of darkness, and a constant source of love and comfort to all who knew her. As a mother, she was the heart and soul of our family. Her nurturing spirit created a home filled with warmth, love, laughter, fun and joy.
As we mourn her passing, we celebrate and treasure the extraordinary life that she lived, the love that she shared, and the lessons that she imparted. We remember her with love, joy and gratitude, cherishing the memories we hold dear and honoring the legacy she leaves behind.
Though she may no longer walk among us, her spirit will live on in the hearts of those who loved her, and her memory will be a guiding light for all who knew her. Today, we say goodbye to a truly remarkable woman, a shining example of love, strength, and grace. May she rest in peace, knowing that her legacy will endure forever. We honor and celebrate the remarkable life of our matriarch, a lady whose presence has graced us all with love, wisdom, and strength. We bid farewell to a beloved mother, grandmother, great grandmother, and friend from Long Island, Bahamas, who lived a life filled with purpose, grace, and unwavering dedication to her family, community, and the causes she held dear.
She is predeceased by: her husband Wilton, son Charles, granddaughter Nhomsa, daughter-in-law DeAnne, sonin-law Kenneth and nephew Don Turnquest.
Cora is survived by:
Children and spouses: Joan Herious, Pamela Gibson, Maxwell Gibson (Allyson), Larry Gibson, Dwight Gibson and daughter-in-law Cheryl Gibson.; Grandchildren: Hon. Justice Camille Darville-Gomez, Zoë Gibson-Bowleg (Anthon), Dr. Demetra GibsonObusez (Dr. Emmanuel), Dr. Larry Gibson II (Lauren), Lovant Gibson, Leighton Gibson, Deon Gibson, Daniel Gibson and Dr. Daria Gibson; Great GrandChildren: Eva, Alexander, and Dylan Gomez, Aamari and Amira Bowleg, Nicole and Christina Obusez, Natalie and Xavier Gibson, Laylah Gibson; Siblings and In-Laws: Phyllis Toote, Dennis Toote, Freda Johnson, Lester Gibson (Sandra), and Lenita Butler; Caregiver: Emily Manchus; Adopted Daughter: Patricia Grant (Alan); Adopted Son: Canon Atma Budhu (Lavinia); Nieces and Nephews: (Phyllis): Anita (Thelma): Daisy, Jeffrey, Delores, Keith, Claudine, Carol, Desmond and James. (Mochrie): Van, Sobig, Eugenie, Percy, Blanton, Minerva (deceased), Johnny (deceased), Yvonne and Janice. (Blanton): Derrick, Brendon, Desiree, Roger, Headley, Terrance, Bianca, Blendira, Blanton Jr. (Freda): Orval, Claudette, Melony, Dwayne and Ian. (Lester): Adra, Martin, Cyprian, Cyprianna, Kaiwan, Donovan Gibson, and Donovan Curry;
Numerous cousins including: The families of: Gordon Wong, Eloise Johnson (Cyril), Joycelyn Turnquest, Brenda Lamm, Beryl Edgecombe, Florinda Storr, Colin Fox, Trevor Turnquest, Vincent Turnquest, Dodridge Hunt, Geneva Sweeting, Jacqueline Ritchie, Sylvia Major Knowles, Glen Major, The Most Honourable Dame Ivy Dumont, The Most Honourable Perry (Bernadette) Christie, the Children of Emerald Sands, Agnes Miller, Judy Turnquest, Midlean Basden, Jan Bowleg, Willard and Tyrone Gibson, the Children of: Ishmael, Harold, David, Elizabeth, Florence and MacDonald Gibson;
A host of other relatives and friends including: Bernadette Gibson, H.E. Damien Gomez KC, Toni Deane, Rashema Ingraham, Ruby Ann Cooper-Darling and Family, Rosamund Williams and Family, Dr. Lincoln (Dr. Megan) Marshall, Winston Marshall, Christopher Smith, Rt. Rev’d Laish Boyd and Family, Most Rev’d. Drexel Gomez and Family, Rt. Rev’d Gilbert Thompson and Family, Canon Sebastian Campbell and Family, Canon Atma Budhu and Family, Venerable Keith Cartwright, Very Rev’d Patrick Adderley and Family, Rev’d Dr. James Moultrie and Family, Rev’d. Richard Wood and Family, Rev’d. Dr. Kari Marcelle and Family, the Toote Family, Sam Cumberbatch and Family, Carlton Jones and Family, Garnet Knowles and Family, Sylvia Scriven, the Simmons Family, the Marshall Family, the Maynard Family, the Roberts Family, the Bethel Family, the Gomez Family, the Darville Family, the Major, Ritchie and Hunt Families of Long Island, the Mortimer Family, Shirley Braynen, Majorie (Madge) Stuart, the Longley Family, the Rolle Family, Marjorie Adderley and Family, Florence Pratt and the members of the Kiwanis Club of Ft. Montagu.
Special Thanks to: Dr. Sheena Antonio-Collie, Dr. Tavanette Ingraham, Dr. Krista Nottage, Dr. Ignacio Leo, Doctors, Nurses and staff of Doctors Hospital, Doctors, Nurses and staff of Princess Margaret Hospital.
The Celebration Of The Eucharist of The Resurrection
PRELUDE | Organ Voluntary
THE INTRODUCTORY RITE
Celebrant: With faith in Jesus Christ, we reverently receive the body of our sister Cora for burial. Our sister was washed in Holy Baptism and anointed with the Holy Spirit. Let us therefore, with confidence, pray to God, our Heavenly Father, the Giver of life, that she will raise him to perfection in the company of the Saints.
People: Amen.
Celebrant: Praise be God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all consolation! He comforts us in our afflictions and thus enables us to comfort those who are in trouble, with the same consolation we have received from Him.
People: Blessed be God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Celebrant: I bless the body of Cora with the holy water that recalls her baptism of which St. Paul writes: All of us who were baptized Into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death. By baptism into his death we were buried together with Him, so that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might live a new life. For if we have been united with Him by likeness to His death, so shall we be united with Him by likeness to His resurrection.
People: Amen.
(The pall is now spread on the casket, as a reminder of her baptism and in hope of the resurrection.)
Celebrant: On the day of her baptism, Cora put on Christ’s. In the day of Christ’s coming, may she be clothed with glory.
People: Amen
Celebrant: The Lord be with you.
People: And also with you.
Celebrant: Let us pray:
O God of grace and glory, we remember before you this day our sister Cora. We thank you for giving her to us, her family and friends, to know and love as a companion on our earthly pilgrimage. In your boundless compassion, console us who mourn. Give us faith to see in death the gate of eternal life, so that in quiet confidence we may continue our course on earth, until, by your call, we are reunited with those who have gone before; through Jesus Christ our Lord. People: Amen
THE PROCESSION TO THE SANCTUARY BEGINS
(The Priests and Clerks go before the Corpse up the aisle and say):
Jesus said, I am the resurrection, and I am the life; he who believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live, and whoever lives and believes in me shall never die. (John 11:25-26)
The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases, His compassion never fails: every morning they are renewed. (Lamentations 3: 22-23)
Jesus said, Let not your hearts be troubled; believe in God, believe also in me. (John 14:1)
I am sure that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 8: 38-39)
If we live, we live to the Lord, and if we die, we die to the Lord; so then, whether we live or whether we die, we are the Lord’s. For to this end Christ died and lived again, that he might be Lord both of the dead and of the living. (Romans 14: 8-9)
We brought nothing into the world, and we take nothing out. The Lord gives, and the Lord takes away: Blessed be the name of the Lord. (Job 1: 21)
The eternal God is our refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms. (Deuteronomy 33:27).
TRIBUTES Leighton Gibson (Grandson)
Daniel Gibson (Grandson)
THE INTROIT HYMN | “For All The Saints”
For all the saints who from their labors rest, who thee by faith before the world confessed, thy name, O Jesus, be forever blest. Alleluia, Alleluia.
Thou wast their Rock, their Fortress, and their might; thou, Lord, their Captain in the well-fought fight; thou, in the darkness, still their one true light. Alleluia, Alleluia.
O, may thy soldiers, faithful, true and bold, fight as the saints who nobly fought of old and win, with them the victor’s crown of gold. Alleluia, Alleluia.
O blest communion, fellowship divine! We feebly struggle, they in glory shine; yet all are one in Thee, for all are Thine. Alleluia, Alleluia.
And when the strife is fierce, the warfare long, steals on the ear the distant triumph song, and hearts are brave again, and arms are strong. Alleluia, Alleluia.
The golden evening brightens in the west; soon, soon, to faithful warriors cometh rest. sweet is the calm of Paradise the blest. Alleluia, Alleluia.
But, lo, there breaks a yet more glorious day; the saints triumphant rise in bright array; the King of Glory passes on His way. Alleluia, Alleluia.
From earth’s wide bounds, from ocean’s farthest coast, through gates of pearl streams in the countless host, Singing to Father, Son, and Holy Ghost, Alleluia, Alleluia.
PREPARATION OF THE EUCHARIST
Celebrant: Alleluia! Christ is risen!
People: The Lord is risen indeed! Alleluia!
Celebrant: The Lord be with you.
People: And also, with you.
Celebrant: Let us pray:
Almighty God, we remember before you today your servant Cora and we pray that, having opened to her the gates of larger life, you will receive her more and more into your joyful service, that, with all who have served you in the past, she may share in the eternal victory of Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for, ever and ever. Amen.
THE LITURGY OF THE WORD
FIRST LESSON | Read by: Zoë Gibson-Bowleg (Granddaughter)
Reader: A reading from the Word of God written in the book of Wisdom 3: 1-5, 9.
But the souls of the righteous are in the hand of God, and no torment will ever touch them. In the eyes of the foolish they seemed to have died, and their departure was thought to be a disaster, and their going from us to be their destruction; but they are at peace. For though in the sight of others they were punished, their hope is full of immortality. Having been disciplined a little, they will receive great good, because God tested them and found them worthy of himself; Those who trust in him will understand truth, and the faithful will abide with him in love, because grace and mercy are upon his holy ones, and he watches over his elect.
The word of the lord.
People: Thanks be to God.
THE PSALM | Played by: Deon Gibson (Grandson)
THE NEW TESTAMENT LESSON | Read by: Eva Gomez (Great Granddaughter)
Reader: A reading from the Word of God written in the book of 2 Corinthians 4:16-5:9.
So, we do not lose heart. Even though our outer nature is wasting away, our inner nature is being renewed day by day. For this slight momentary affliction is preparing us for an eternal weight of glory beyond all measure, because we look not at what can be seen but at what cannot be seen; for what can be seen is temporary, but what cannot be seen is eternal. For we know that if the earthly tent we live in is destroyed, we have a building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens. For in this tent we groan, longing to be clothed with our heavenly dwelling if indeed, when we have taken it off, we will not be found naked. For while we are still in this tent, we groan under our burden, because we wish not to be unclothed but to be further clothed, so that what is mortal may be swallowed up by life. He who has prepared us for this very thing is God, who has given us the Spirit as a guarantee. So, we are always confident; even though we know that while we are at home in the body, we are away from the Lord for we walk by faith, not by sight. Yes, we do have confidence, and we would rather be away from the body and at home with the Lord. So, whether we are at home or away, we make it our aim to please him.
The word of the lord.
People: Thanks be to God.
THE GRADUAL HYMN | “Great Is Thy Faithfulness”
Great is Thy faithfulness, O God my Father; There is no shadow of turning with Thee; Thou changest not, Thy compassions, they fail not; As Thou hast been, Thou forever wilt be.
Great is Thy faithfulness! Great is Thy faithfulness! Morning by morning new mercies I see; All I have needed Thy hand hath provided: Great is Thy faithfulness, Lord, unto me!
Summer and winter, and springtime and harvest; Sun, moon, and stars in their courses above Join with all nature in manifold witness to Thy great faithfulness, mercy, and love.
Pardon for sin and a peace that endureth, Thine own dear presence to cheer and to guide; Strength for today and bright hope for tomorrow: Blessings all mine, with ten thousand beside.
THE GOSPEL
Priest: The Lord be with you. People: And also with you
Priest: A Reading from the Holy Gospel according to St. John 14:1-6. People: Glory to Christ our Saviour.
“Do not let your hearts be troubled. Believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father’s house there are many dwelling-places. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, so that where I am, there you may be also. And you know the way to the place where I am going.” Thomas said to him, “Lord, we do not know where you are going. How can we know the way?” Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the father except through me.”
Priest: This is the Gospel of Christ. People: Praise to Christ our Lord.
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RESPONSIVE HYMN | ”He Is Lord”
He is Lord, He is Lord! He is risen from the dead and he is Lord! Ev’ry knee shall bow, ev’ry tongue confess That Jesus Christ is Lord.
THE HOMILY | The Rev’d. Canon Atma Budhu
THE CREED
Celebrant: Let us with confidence and hope confess faith into which we were baptized as we say:
People: I believe in God, the Father Almighty, creator of heaven and earth. I believe in Jesus Christ, His only Son, our Lord.
He was conceived by the power of the Holy Spirit and born of the Virgin Mary. He suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, died, and was buried. He descended to the dead. On the third day He rose again. He ascended into heaven, and is seated at the right hand of the Father. He will come again to judge the living and the dead.
I believe in the Holy Spirit, the Holy Catholic Church, the communion of Saints, the forgiveness of sins, the resurrection of the body, and the life everlasting. Amen.
THE PRAYER OF THE FAITHFUL | Led by: Dr. Larry R. Gibson II (Grandson) & Dr. Demetra Gibson-Obusez (Granddaughter)
Leader: We have gathered to celebrate the entry of Cora into life eternal. People: To affirm with praise and thanksgiving the goodness of the Lord.
Leader: Let us rejoice in God’s presence with us, in death as in life among those who now see God face to face.
People: Our lips will shout for joy, for God’s love is over all that God has made. Blessed be God’s glorious Name forever!
Leader: We feel the pain of separation, we are conscious of our loss, but we have hope in Jesus Christ. People: We give thanks to God from whom comes all life and death and who surrounds us in both. We have affirmed our faith and rejoice in Christ’s victory over death, which is God’s promise to us.
Leader: Lord, You raised the dead to life.
People: Give to our sister Cora eternal life;
Leader: Our sister Cora was washed in Baptism and anointed with the Holy Spirit. People: Give her fellowship with all your saints.
Leader: She was nourished with Your Body and Blood People: Grant her a place at the table in your heavenly kingdom.
Leader: Comfort us in our sorrows at the death of our sister, Cora. People: Let our faith be our consolation, and eternal life our hope.
Leader: Lord Jesus Christ, we commend to you our sister Cora who was reborn by water and the Spirit in Holy Baptism. Grant that her death may recall to us victory over death, and be an occasion for us to renew our trust in your father’s love, Give us we pray, the faith that follow where you have led the way; and where you live and reign with the Father and the Holy Spirit to the ages of ages.
People: Amen.
THE PENITENCE
Celebrant: If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, God is faithful and just, and will forgive our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Let us therefore confess our sins.
Silence
People: Almighty God our Heavenly Father, we have sinned against You and one another, in thought, word and deed, and in what we have left undone. We are sorry and repent of all our sins. For your Son, our Lord Jesus Christ’s sake, forgive us all that is past, and grant that we may serve you in newness of life to the honour and glory of your Name.
THE ABSOLUTION
Celebrant: Almighty God, have mercy upon you, pardon and deliver you from all your sins, confirm and strengthen you in all goodness, and keep you in life eternal; through Jesus Christ, our Lord.
People: Amen.
THE GREETING OF PEACE
Celebrant: We are the Body of Christ. By the One Spirit we were all baptized into one Body and have all been made to drink of the One Spirit.
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People: Let us then pursue the things that make for peace and build up the common life.
Celebrant: The peace of the Lord be always with you.
People: And also with you.
OFFERTORY HYMN | “And Can It Be”
And can it be that I should gain
An int’rest in the Savior’s blood?
Died He for me, who caused His pain? For me, who Him to death pursued?
Amazing love! how can it be That Thou, my God, should die for me?
Amazing love! how can it be That Thou, my God, should die for me!
Tis mystery all! Th’Immortal dies! Who can explore His strange design? In vain the firstborn seraph tries To sound the depths of love divine!
‘Tis mercy all! let earth adore, Let angel minds inquire no more.
He left His Father’s throne above, So free, so infinite His grace; Emptied Himself of all but love, And bled for Adam’s helpless race; ‘Tis mercy all, immense and free; For, O my God, it found out me.
Long my imprisoned spirit lay Fast bound in sin and nature’s night; Thine eye diffused a quick’ning ray, I woke, the dungeon flamed with light; My chains fell off, my heart was free; I rose, went forth and followed Thee.
No condemnation now I dread; Jesus, and all in Him is mine! Alive in Him, my living Head, And clothed in righteousness divine, Bold I approach th’eternal throne, And claim the crown, through Christ my own.
ELEMENT BEARERS
Lovant Gibson (Grandson), Dr. Daria Gibson (Granddaughter), Dylan Gomez (Great Grandson)
THE DOXOLOGY
Praise God, from whom all blessings flow Praise Him, all creatures here below Praise Him above, ye heav’nly host Praise Father, Son and Holy Ghost
Amen
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Celebrant: Father,
PRAYERS OVER THE GIFTS
People: We offer to you these gifts which you have given us; this bread, this wine, this money. With them we offer ourselves, our lives, and our work to become through your Holy Spirit a reasonable, Holy and lively sacrifice. As this bread and wine become the Body and Blood of Christ, so may we and all your people become channels of your love through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
THE MINISTRY OF THE HOLY EUCHARIST
Celebrant: The Lord be with you. People: And also with you.
Celebrant: Lift up your hearts.
People: We lift them up to the Lord.
Celebrant: Let us give thanks to the Lord our God. People: It is right to give God thanks and praise.
Celebrant: It is right, and a good and joyful thing, always and everywhere to give you thanks, Father Almighty, Everlasting God: Through Jesus Christ our Lord; who rose victorious from the dead, and comforts us with the blessed hope of everlasting life. For to your faithful people, 0 Lord, life is changed, not ended; and when our mortal body lies in death, there is prepared for us a dwelling place eternal in the heavens.
Therefore, we praise you, joining our voices with angels and archangels and with all the company of heaven, who forever sing this hymn to proclaim the glory of your Name: People: Holy, holy, holy Lord, God of power and might; heaven and earth are full of your glory. Hosanna in the highest. Blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord. Hosanna in the highest.
Celebrant: All Holy and glorious Father, our Creator God, we give you thanks because in your loving wisdom you brought all things into being and are truly worthy of praise from every creature you have made. Again and again, we have turned away from you; yet in every age your steadfast love has called us to return, to live in union with you: for it is your eternal purpose to put new life into all things and make them holy.
Through your Son, Jesus Christ who took our human nature upon Him you have redeemed the world from the bondage of sin: and by the power of your Holy Spirit, you have gathered a people to yourself, to make known in every place His perfect offering which He made to the glory of your Name.
Hear us, therefore, Father, through your Son, Jesus Christ our Lord; and grant that these gifts of bread and wine may be unto us His Body and Blood. For, on the night He was betrayed He took bread, and when He had given thanks to you, He broke it and gave it to His disciples and said: “Take this and eat it: This is my Body which is given for you. Do this for the remembrance of me.” And after supper He took the cup of wine; and when He had given thanks, He gave it to them and said: “Drink this, all of you: This is my Blood of the New Covenant, which is shed for you and for many for the forgiveness of sins. Whenever you drink it, do this for the remembrance of me.”
Celebrant: Let us proclaim the mystery of our faith.
People: Christ has died Christ is risen Christ will come again.
Celebrant: And so, Heavenly Father, rejoicing in His Holy Incarnation; His Blessed Passion and His Perfect Sacrifice made once for all upon the Cross; His Mighty Resurrection from the dead; His Glorious Ascension into heaven; and looking for His Coming in glory; we offer to you this Bread and this Cup. We pray that you will accept this sacrifice of praise and thanksgiving; and grant that all who eat and drink of the Body and Blood, of your Son, our great High Priest, may be renewed by your Holy Spirit, and be one Body, one Spirit, in Him.
Let faith and love increase in us. Unite us with all Bishops, all other ministers of your Word and Sacraments, and with the whole people of God, living and departed, whom you have made for yourself. Confirm us in holiness that we may be found ready to join the company of the Blessed Virgin Mary, the Holy Apostles, and all your saints, when our Lord Jesus Christ comes again: Forever giving you thanks and praise through Him from whom all good things do come.
With Him and in Him and through Him, by the power of the Holy Spirit, we worship you, Father Almighty, with all who stand before you in earth and heaven, in songs of everlasting praise: People: Blessing and honour and glory and power be yours for ever and ever. Amen.
THE LORD’S PRAYER
Celebrant: As our Saviour has taught us, so we pray:
People: Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your Name; your kingdom come; your will be done on earth as in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. Forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us. Save us from the time of trial and deliver us from evil. For the kingdom, the power, and the glory are yours now and forever. Amen.
THE BREAKING OF THE BREAD
Celebrant: We break this bread to share in the body of Christ.
People: Though we are many, we are one body, because we all share in one bread.
THE AGNUS DEI
Lamb of God, you take away the sin of the world: grant her rest.
Lamb of God, you take away the sin of the world: grant her rest.
Lamb of God, you take away the sin of the world: grant her rest eternal.
INVITATION TO COMMUNION
Celebrant: My brothers and sisters in Christ draw near and receive His Body which he gave for you, and his Blood, which He shed for you. Remember that He died for you, and feed on Him in your hearts by faith with thanksgiving.
People: Grant Gracious Lord, that we may so eat the flesh of your dear Son Jesus Christ and drink His Blood that we may evermore dwell in Him and He in us. Amen.
COMMUNION HYMNS:
HYMN | “Count Your Blessings”
When upon life’s billows you are tempest tossed, When you are discouraged, thinking all is lost, Count your many blessings, name them one by one, And it will surprise you what the Lord hath done.
Count your blessings, name them one by one; Count your blessings, see what God hath done; Count your blessings, name them one by one; Count your many blessings, see what God hath done.
Are you ever burdened with a load of care? Does the cross seem heavy you are called to bear? Count your many blessings, ev’ry doubt will fly, And you will be singing as the days go by.
When you look at others with their lands and gold, Think that Christ has promised you His wealth untold; Count your many blessings, money cannot buy Your reward in heaven, nor your home on high.
So, amid the conflict, whether great or small, Do not be discouraged, God is over all; Count your many blessings, angels will attend, Help and comfort give you to your journey’s end.
HYMN | “Lord Enthroned in Heavenly Splendor”
Lord, enthroned in heavenly splendor, first-begotten from the dead. Thou alone, our strong defender, liftest up thy people’s head. Alleluia! Alleluia! Alleluia! Jesus, true and living bread! Jesus, true and living bread!
Here our humblest homage pay we, here in loving reverence bow; here for faith’s discernment pray we, lest we fail to know thee now. Alleluia! Alleluia! Alleluia! Thou art here, we ask not how. Thou art here, we ask not how.
Though the lowliest form doth veil thee as of old in Bethlehem, here as there thine angels hail thee, branch and flower of Jesse’s stem. Alleluia! Alleluia! Alleluia! We in worship join with them. We in worship join with them.
Paschal Lamb, thine offering, finished once for all when thou was slain, in its fullness undiminished shall for evermore remain. Alleluia! Alleluia! Alleluia!
Cleansing souls from every stain. Cleansing souls from every stain.
Life-imparting heavenly Manna, stricken Rock with streaming side, heaven and earth with loud hosanna worship thee, the Lamb who died. Alleluia! Alleluia! Alleluia!
Risen, ascended, glorified! Risen, ascended, glorified!
HYMN | “Alleluia, Sing To Jesus”
Alleluia, sing to Jesus! His the scepter, His the throne; Alleluia, his the triumph, His the victory alone: Hark, the songs of peaceful Sion Thunder like a mighty flood; Jesus out of every nation Has redeemed us by his blood.
Alleluia, not as orphans Are we left in sorrow now; Alleluia, he is near us, Faith believes, nor questions how: Though the cloud from sight received Him When the forty days were o’er, Shall our hearts forget His promise, ‘I am with you evermore’?
Alleluia, Bread of angels, Thou on earth our food, our stay; Alleluia, here the sinful Flee to thee from day to day: Intercessor, Friend of sinners, Earth’s Redeemer, Plead for me, Where the songs of all the sinless Sweep across the crystal sea.
Alleluia, King eternal, Thee the Lord of lords we own; Alleluia, born of Mary, Earth thy footstool, heaven thy throne: Thou within the veil hast entered, Robed in flesh our great High Priest; Thou on earth both Priest and Victim In the Eucharistic feast.
Alleluia! Alleluia! Glory be to God on high! Alleluia to the Savior, Who has gained the victory; Alleluia to the Spirit, Fount of love and sanctity! Alleluia, alleluia To the Triune Majesty.
POST COMMUNION PRAYER:
People: Almighty God, we thank You that in Your great love You have fed us with the spiritual food and drink of the Body and Blood of Your Son Jesus Christ, and have given us a foretaste of Your heavenly banquet. Grant that this Sacrament may be unto us a comfort in affliction, and a pledge of our inheritance in that kingdom where there is no death, neither sorrow, nor crying, but the fullness of life with all your saints, through Jesus Christ our Saviour. Amen.
HYMN | “Let Us Break Bread Together”
Let us break bread together on our knees. Let us break bread together on our knees.
When I fall on my knees with my face to the rising sun, O Lord have mercy on me.
Let us drink wine together on our knees. Let us drink wine together on our knees.
Let us praise God together on our knees. Let us praise God together on our knees.
THE COMMENDATION
Priest: Give rest, O Christ to Your servant with your saints.
People: Where sorrow and pain are no more, neither sighing, but life everlasting.
Priest: You only are immortal, the Creator and Maker of mankind; and we are mortal, formed of the earth, and to the earth shall we return. For so did You ordain when You created me, saying, “You are dust, and to dust shall you return.” All of us go down to the dust; yet even at the grave we make our song: Alleluia! Alleluia! Alleluia!
People: Give rest, O Christ, to your servant with your saints, where sorrow and pain are no more, neither sighing, but life everlasting.
Priest: Lord, have mercy…
People: Christ, have mercy… Lord, have mercy…
Priest: Our Father,
People: Who art in heaven, hallowed be thy Name. Thy Kingdom come; Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive them that trespass against us.
Priest: And lead us not into temptation.
People: But deliver us from evil.
Priest: From the gate of hell
People: Deliver her soul, O Lord.
Priest: May she rest in peace.
People: Amen.
Priest: O Lord, hear my prayer.
People: And let our cry come unto thee.
Priest: The Lord be with you.
People: And also with you.
Priest: Let us pray:
Into Your hands, O merciful Saviour we commend your servant, Cora. Acknowledge, we humbly beseech you, a sheep of your own fold, a lamb of your own flock, a sinner of your own redeeming. Receive her soul into the arms of your mercy, in the blessed rest of everlasting peace, and into the glorious company of the saints in light.
People: Amen.
Priest: Rest eternal grant unto her O Lord.
People: And let light perpetual shine upon her.
Priest: May she rest in peace.
People: Amen.
Priest: May her soul and the souls of all faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. People: Amen.
In Thanksgiving for
life of Cora Aslee Gibson
RECESSIONAL
All hail the power of Jesus’ name! Let angels prostrate fall; Bring forth the royal diadem and crown him Lord of all.
Crown him, ye morning stars of light, Who fixed this floating ball; Now hail the strength of Israel’s might, And crown him Lord of all.
Crown him, ye martyrs of your God, who from his altar call; extol the Stem of Jesse’s Rod, and crown him Lord of all.
HYMN | “All Hail The Power of Jesus Name”
Ye seed of Isreal’s chosen race, ye ransomed of the fall, hail him who saves you by his grace, and crown him Lord of all.
Sinners whose love can ne’er forget the wormwood and the gall, go spread your trophies at his feet, and crown him Lord of all.
Let every tribe and every tongue before him prostrate fall, and shout in universal song the crowned Lord of all.
(As the body is borne from the church, a hymn, or one or more of these may be sung or said.)
Christ is risen from the dead, trampling down death by death, and giving life to those in the tomb.
The Sun of Righteousness is gloriously risen, giving light to those who sat in darkness and in the shadow of death.
The Lord will guide our feet into the way of peace, having taken away the sin of the world.
Christ will open the kingdom of heaven to all who believe in His Name, saying, Come, O blessed of my Father; inherit the kingdom prepared for you.
Into paradise may the angels lead you. At your coming may the Martyrs receive you, and bring you into the Holy city, Jerusalem.
THE COMMITTAL
Everyone the Father gives to me will come to me; I will never tum away anyone who believes in me.
He who raised Jesus Christ from the dead will also give new life to our mortal bodies through His indwelling Spirit.
My heart, therefore, is glad, and my spirit rejoices; my body also shall rest in hope.
You will show me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy, and in your right hand are pleasures for evermore.
I heard a voice from heaven, saying, “Write this: “Happy are the dead who die in the faith of Christ! Henceforth,” says the Spirit, “they may rest from their labors; for they take with them the record of their deeds.” Man born of a woman has but a short time to live. Like a flower he blossoms and then withers; like a shadow he flees and never stays.
In the midst of life we are in death; to whom can we turn for help, but to you, Lord, who are justly angered by our sins?
Lord God, holy and mighty, holy and immortal, holy and most merciful Saviour, deliver us from the bitter pains of eternal death. You know the secrets of our hearts: In your mercy hear our prayer, forgive us our sins, and at our last hour let us not fall away from you.
Priest: In sure and certain hope of the resurrection to eternal life through our Lord Jesus Christ, we commend to Almighty God our sister and we commit his body to the ground*; earth to earth, ashes to ashes, dust to dust. And we beseech you in your infinite goodness to give us grace to live in your dear love and to die in your favour that when your well-beloved Son shall come again in judgement both this our sister and we ourselves may be found acceptable in your sight. Grant this for the sake of your Son Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. Or the deep, or the elements, or, its resting place.
Priest: The Lord be with you.
People: And also with you.
Priest: Let us pray.
Cora Aslee Gibson
Almighty God, with whom still live the spirits of those who die in the Lord, and with whom the souls of the faithful are in joy and felicity; we give you heartfelt thanks for the good examples of all your servants, who, having finished their course in faith, now find rest and refreshment. May we, with all who have died in the true faith of your holy Name, have perfect fulfillment and bliss in your eternal and everlasting glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Grant, O Lord, to all who are bereaved the Spirit of faith and courage, that they may have strength to meet the days to come with steadfastness and patience; not sorrowing as those without hope, but in thankful remembrance of your great goodness, and in the joyful expectation of eternal life with those they love. And this we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Priest: Rest eternal grant to her, O Lord;
People: And let light perpetual shine upon her.
Priest: May she and all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.
People: Amen.
Priest: The Lord bless her and keep her, the Lord make His face to shine upon her and be gracious to his the Lord lift up His countenance upon her and give her peace.
Priest: Alleluia, Christ is risen.
People: The Lord is risen indeed. Alleluia!
Priest: Let us go forth in the name of Christ.
People: Thanks be to God.
Aslee Gibson
GRAVESIDE HYMNS
“The Day Thou Gavest, Lord, Is Ended”
The day thou gavest, Lord, is ended; The darkness falls at Thy behest; To Thee our morning hymns ascended, Thy praise shall sanctify our rest.
We thank Thee that Thy church unsleeping, While earth rolls onward into light, Through all the world her watch is keeping, And rests not now by day or night.
As o’er each continent and island The dawn leads on another day, The voice of prayer is never silent, Nor dies the strain of praise away.
The sun that bids us rest is waking Our brethren ‘neath the western sky, And hour by hour fresh lips are making Thy wondrous doings heard on high.
So be it, Lord! Thy throne shall never, Like earth’s proud empires, pass away; Thy kingdom stands, and grows for ever, Till all Thy creatures own Thy sway.
“I Am Thine, O Lord, I Have Heard Thy Voice”
I am Thine, O Lord, I have heard Thy voice, And it told Thy love to me; But I long to rise in the arms of faith, And be closer drawn to Thee.
Draw me nearer, nearer, blessed Lord, To the cross where Thou hast died; Draw me nearer, nearer, nearer, blessed Lord, To Thy precious, bleeding side.
Consecrate me now to Thy service, Lord, By the pow’r of grace divine; Let my soul look up with a steadfast hope, And my will be lost in Thine.
Oh, the pure delight of a single hour That before Thy throne I spend, When I kneel in prayer, and with Thee, my God,I commune as friend with friend!
There are depths of love that I cannot know Till I cross the narrow sea; There are heights of joy that I may not reach Till I rest in peace with Thee.
When peace like a river attendeth my way
When sorrow like sea billows roll Whatever my lot, Thou hast taught me to say It is well, it is well with my soul.
It is well, It is well
With my soul, with my soul
It is well, it is well with my soul.
Tho’ Satan should buffet tho’ trials should come
Let this blest assurance control
That Christ has regarded my helpless estate And hath shed His own blood for my soul.
“It
Is Well”
My sin oh the bliss of this glorious tho’t
My sin not in part but the whole
Is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more
Praise the Lord, praise the Lord, O my soul.
And Lord, haste the day when the faith shall be sight
The clouds be rolled back as a scroll
The trump shall resound and the Lord shall descend
Even so it is well with my soul.
“It’s
Alright Now”
There was a time I travelled
A lonely, sinful road
Beneath a burden bending low But now all things are different For Jesus took my load
It’s alright now, I’m His I know
It’s alright now, for I am in my Savior’s care It’s alright now, my Savior hears and answers prayer He’ll walk beside me ‘til I climb the heavenly stair And everything is alright now.
A down a lonely pathway
Without a friend to guide
I walked in sin and sorrow all alone
‘Til Jesus came and found me
And drew me to His side
It’s alright now, it’s alright now for I’m His own.
No more in sin I wander
No more in darkness roam
The Lord has placed my feet on higher ground
Each day new heights I’m gaining, My soul is nearing Home
It’s alright now, I’m heaven bound.
“Blessed Jesus Hold My Hand”
As I travel thru this pilgrim land
There is a friend who walks with me
Leads me safely thru the sinking sand
It is the Christ of Calvary
This would be my prayer dear Lord each day
To help me do the best I can
For I need Thy light to guide me day and night
Blessed Jesus, hold my hand.
Blessed Jesus, hold my hand
Yes, I need Thee ev’ry hour
Thru this land this pilgrim land
By Thy saving pow’r
Hear my plea my feeble plea
Lord dear Lord look down on me
When I kneel in prayer
Blessed Jesus, hold my hand.
Let me travel in the light divine
That I may see the blessed way
Keep me that I may be wholly Thine
And sing redemption’s song some day.
I will be a soldier brave and true
And ever firmly take a stand
As I onward go and daily meet the foe
Blessed Jesus, hold my hand.
When I wander thru the valley dim
Toward the setting of the sun
Lead me safely to a land of rest
If I a crown of life has won
I have put my faith in Thee dear Lord
That I may reach the golden strand
There’s no other friend on whom I can depend
Blessed Jesus, hold my hand.
In Thanksgiving for
life of Cora Aslee Gibson
Mommy
Praise God from whom all blessings flow Praise Him all creatures here below Praise Him above, Ye heavenly host Praise Father, Son, and Holy Ghost
The penning of a tribute to anyone is typically not an easy task. To a loved one it becomes harder and to a parent it brings with it a flood of emotions that are often hard to control and express. But here I am, and I must do my best, as those words you echoed daily ... “do your best”. You were my mommy.
How does one encapsulate a life of ninety-five years?
A tapestry woven with love, wisdom, and grace. You walked this earth with beauty and resilience, a gentle strength that touched all who knew you, leaving indelible marks of kindness and compassion in your wake. You were my mommy.
Through the trails and triumphs, you stood tall and firm, a beacon of unwavering love and devotion. Your nurturing embrace and comforting words shaped my very being, guiding me through life’s twists and turns with wisdom beyond measure. As your last child, your baby, I may have been viewed by my siblings as spoiled; I called it blessed! The beneficiary of all the lessons and adjustments to parenting you and Daddy learned in raising my five other siblings I got and was able to use as I raised my own children. I learnt what it meant to build a home, not just raise a household. Thank you, Mommy!
As you journey beyond the veil, know that your spirit will forever live on in the hearts of those you touched, and the lives you blessed. Your legacy of love will endure in the memories we hold dear, a testament to the remarkable woman you were. Though the sun has set on your earthly days, your light shines brightly in the heavens above, a guiding star to lead us through the darkest nights. Your words always consistent, “do your best”, and “in all things remember you know how to pray”, will guide us. Bless you Mommy!
The Doxology and Psalm 23 your constant “go to’s” even to the very end. They will always have a different meaning for me going forward. Your book had ninetyfive chapters; I am blessed to have been a part of fiftyseven of them. I now must continue writing as you would want the story to go on. I will do my best. Sleep in Peace Mommy!
Your Baby, Dwight
A Tribute to Our Mother
On June 28, 2024 at 7:30 am, I received the call from the hospital for the family to come to the hospital right away. Nervously I asked what happened and the person on the other end of the phone answered you will see. These words sent shock waves and chills through my body but I managed to call my sister Joan and asked her to let everybody know as I got dressed and went to pick Joan up to go to the hospital. Mommy had left this world and entered into eternity. She was everything to us and so much more than we can explain. We would give anything to be able to hear our mother’s voice one more time.
Sitting here now writing these words are the hardest thing to do as we had you for ninety five years and this was still not enough. We have to relive the wonderful memories we had with you as we realize this is the final good bye. Mom - we love you and miss you every day. You were a devoted and dedicated mother.
Mommy was an amazing woman. She was self-less always concerned for the well-being of others over her own. Even during the last weeks of her life, she put everyone else above herself. She always asked whoever was around if they had something to eat and if they were comfortable.
There wasn’t any need that anyone had that our Mom didn’t try to meet. No matter what the need may have been, Mom wanted to help fulfill it. She gave all of herself at all times and sacrificed her own needs and desires for the sake of her family and she gave willingly without question and without asking for anything in return.
Mom loved without condition and she loved with her whole heart. Her love was never forced; it was just always there – no matter what. She loved her children, grandchildren and great grand like no one else could – and it was a strong, genuine love. As her life came to a close, we realized that no matter how much she told us she loved us, she couldn’t put it into words - her love was so great. When we left home for school you were, when we returned from school you were there. You were always there for us regardless of the situation or other interest or activity you were involved with.
Mom always made us laugh without even trying to. She would make a comment that no one expected and that comment would surely bring a smile and a laugh. She found humor in everyday things and it was always a pleasure to be around her.
Mom you somehow knew when to swoop in and save us and when to step back and let us learn from our own mistake which made us resilient. You’ve wiped our tears; cheered us on and told us that we are capable of anything in the world which made us confident. You have loved us unconditionally even when we were difficult and that made me strong. Sometime we thought you were too strict with us but we realized it was for our own good. You were our biggest supporter, our wisdom, our reality check, our incredible mother.
You prayed daily for the entire family and encouraged us (Joan, Charles (Deceased), Pamela, Maxwell, Larry and Dwight) to have a personal relationship with God.
Mom because of you we are the persons we are today. Your love for God and your prayers have protected our family and our strong Christian values that you and Dad have instilled in us over the years will remain with us forever.
We Love You, Joan and Pam
My parents were an incredible team who exemplified the virtues needed for nation building.
They loved their God. While in her hospital bed, Mummy, strongly recited the Doxology and the 23rd Psalm. St. Gregory’s, where services were held at our home, on West Ave., before an edifice was built, is but one example of their faith in action. The Children’s Emergency Hostel, the Vestry, ACM and ACW are some of the other examples. They instilled in us love of worship and commitment to serving in the Church. Whether in The Bahamas or the UK, for Mummy and Daddy, the Priest was revered, as we children were reminded on many Sundays when, what we thought we would have for Sunday dinner was served to the Parish Priest and any visiting family. We, happily, learned to love “fire engine” on those Sundays. We respected our elders and always addressed them as “Sir” or “Ma’am”. For Mummy and Daddy, these values were non-negotiable.
For Mummy and Daddy, after God came family. They were married for more than 60 years. Again, they demonstrated, not just talked, their love of and commitment to family. Mummy welcoming family into our home, Grumpa living with us when he came to Nassau to record Harvest Time, taking the family to Leeds, in the 1960s, while Daddy pursued his professional accounting qualification, being one of the first Bahamians to do so in the UK, birthdays –where everyone got a piece of the first slice of cake, and Mummy and Daddy delighting in their Grands and Great Grands are only a few of the many examples. Mummy, always mindful of Daddy’s financial position,
masterfully, worked with Daddy, to make his “In Service Award” stretch to take us on holidays to Spain, Scotland, the Great Lakes and other exciting places in the UK and Europe. These were life lessons for us on saving and “living within your means”. Their love enveloped extended family, their children’s friends as well as their friends. Our home was a gathering place always filled with love, laughter and lots of delicious food and fun. I can’t forget Mummy, who could not reverse, co-opting me to drive her new car to take her wherever she needed to go.
They loved their country. Daddy, supported, as always by Mummy, and his colleagues built BTC from Batelco, a Government Department to a well sought after communications enterprise. BTC had fiberoptic cable before most, if not all, communications companies in the Caribbean. Daddy and his colleagues laid the foundation. Mummy was proud of her lineage as a direct descendant of Sankey Toote, I think that his first name was Thaddeus, one for the first black MPs (Parliament was then called the Legislative Council, well before political parties were formed), businessman and land owner (Zode House is on land that he used to own). Just like Sankey Toote, Mummy had a Vision for her country, and she, with Daddy, made sacrifices to accomplish it. One example is that Mummy and Daddy held many PLP meetings in their home and they were instrumental in accomplishing Majority Rule. Killarney was one of the seats in the PLP column in 1967.
Mummy, with her beloved Will, exemplified the virtues of what it takes to build strong families, communities and nations, some of which are, being God fearing, committed to family and family life, courage, trustworthiness and industriousness.
This is how Mummy lived and God blessed her with 95 years. She has gone on to her well deserved rest. She and Daddy left their family a precious legacy. This is why although we shall always miss you Mummy, we celebrate your life, and will do our best to follow your worthy example and pass the legacy on to generations to come.
Rest in peace Mummy.
Love Always, Max and Allyson
life of Cora Aslee Gibson
A Tribute to Mom
“The influence of a mother in the lives of her children is beyond calculation.”
James Faust
In loving memory of Mom, who lived a long and full life until the age of 95. She was a beacon of strength and love, guiding me through life’s challenges with care and wisdom. She was there for all the noteworthy events in my life and her support was always unparalleled and unquestioned.
Though she may have left this earthly space, her spirit lives on in the hearts of those she touched. Forever remembered, forever cherished, in the legacy of love and lessons she imparted.
Rest in peace, Mom, your memory is a treasure we shall hold dear. Your love will be an eternal flame that will never fade, forever in our hearts, forever by our side.
Love, Larry
of Cora Aslee Gibson
Psalm 23 – “The Lord is
To this day, I recite this prayer, a cherished scripture recommended to me by “Granny,” in times of trouble and need. I have passed this onto each of my children and sometimes, I am even called upon by them to recite it to calm whatever “troubled waters” they may be navigating at the time. It has always brought us each during these times, a sense of peace and comfort.
There’s so much to remember about Granny, or as my children and the other grands and great-grands affectionately called her, Nana. Throughout the years, I have observed Granny in her various roles as a doting and faithful wife to Gramps, a loving mother, and a devoted grandmother and great-grandmother. She was generous to a fault, often secretly handing over “envelopes” in her bedroom or elsewhere to the grands and great grands, away from the prying eyes of their parents. When I was much younger and school-aged, she sewed my school uniform skirts and those of my female cousins. This tradition continued until the last of us graduated from high school. My first job was at her store called Melita’s where I was introduced to gloves, hats and to always carry a handkerchief in my purse.
Granny was the consummate prayer warrior who firmly believed that “prayer changes things.” She encouraged all of us to pray daily, and if you ever complained about anything while visiting her home, she would immediately take you to her room, make you kneel down, and offer up prayers on your behalf.
Her love for cooking and entertaining her family was legendary. She was famous for her crab and rice, made in one of the largest pots you’d ever seen, and her conch fritters. New Year’s Day was always spent at her home with immediate and extended family and friends. This tradition
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continued even after she was unable to do the cooking herself, with my mother Joan and Aunt Pam taking over the responsibility.
Granny’s civic-mindedness was evident in her involvement in worthy causes, whether it was at the Boys Industrial School (now Simpson Penn Centre for Boys), the Yellow Birds, or later, the Kiwanis Club. As a child, I recall her preparing a meal on Sunday to take to the Boys Industrial School, or making conch fritter batter for the Church cookouts in the early days before the Church had been built. She was always busy, always involved.
After Gramps passed away, she missed him terribly. She often talked about “going home,” and it became clear that she meant her eternal home, signaling that her time with us would soon draw to a close. On the day before her passing, she recalled to us that she had seen a kitchen very clearly but could not see the cook, causing her to ask us, “who is the cook?” I now believe that she has assumed the role of the cook in God’s heavenly kitchen.
While we mourn our loss, we find comfort in the 95 years she spent with us. Her legacy as a God fearing, generous grandmother and great grandmother, a dedicated wife and a life of committment to helping the less fortunate will be remembered. She was a beacon of strength in our family, and now she rests in peace with her beloved husband, Wilton, son, Charlie and granddaughter Nhomsa.
Camille Darville Gomez Granddaughter
AAs we sit down to reflect on the life of our grandmother, known to her grands and great-grands as Nana, we are filled with a profound sense of gratitude for the memories and the legacy she has left behind. Our earliest and most cherished memories of her revolve around her fine fabric and notions store, Melita’s. It was there, amidst rolls of vibrant fabrics and the hum of sewing machines, that our love for fashion was born. Nana had an impeccable eye for beauty and style and she was a lady of grace. She delighted in watching the “who’s who” come in to select fabrics to design the most exquisite dresses. If you were to look back at pictures from the past you would see how these ladies transformed themselves into the belles of the balls, and in those moments, Nana taught us to appreciate the artistry of fashion.
Working at Melita’s was not just about the work itself. Work came with its own special perks. Nana would treat us to regular Burger King lunches (a welcome break from the healthy meals prepared at home). But… all her grands know just what the white envelope meant. This was the most exciting part of the week as young children. Receiving our salaries (which by the way was always way more than any allowance we would receive). Though we would have been more than happy to be volunteering our services, the white envelope instilled in all of us a sense of independence and the value of hard work from a young age.
Nana’s love and care extended beyond the walls of her store. Every school year, she made sure we had the nicest, crispest school uniforms. We have no clue where our other friends got their uniforms from. We don’t even know where our cousins got their uniforms from. What we do know, though, was at some point during the summer we got measured up in time for the new school year. Come September we would step out the car with immense pride knowing that her skillful hands and loving heart stitched each piece, and we wore them with pride, knowing they were made with so much love.
In our later years, we cherished the moments spent listening to her stories. Nana often took a back seat to Gramps, but in her quiet way, she demonstrated the wisdom of knowing how to support your man. She embodied the saying that behind every successful man is a good woman, and she showed us daily what it meant to be that supportive force.
For the last ten years, since Gramps passed away, Nana longed to be reunited with the love of her life. It is a bittersweet comfort to know that she has finally found her Will, and that they are together once more. While we grieve her loss, we find solace in the thought that she is in a better place, happy and whole again.
Nana’s legacy lives on in the lessons she taught us, the love she gave us, and the memories we hold dear. She was a woman of grace, strength, and immense love. Nana, you will forever be missed, but your spirit and the beautiful memories we shared will remain with us always. Thank you for everything. Rest in peace, knowing you were deeply loved and will never be forgotten.
Love, Zoë and Demetra
Dear Nana,
They say the best way to pay tribute to those who have passed away is not through grief but through gratitude. Allow me to take a moment to share a few of the numerous things that make me most grateful to have had you as my grandmother.
I am grateful that you poured your whole self into cultivating a tight-knit, loving family, extending through several generations. Ever since I was a little boy, the house on Carmichael Road always had family swinging through; aunts, uncles, and cousins, all wanting to be in your orbit and share their day with you and Gramps. You were the heartbeat of the family. There was always plenty of food and laughs to share, hugs doled out frequently, bumps and bruises, both physically and figuratively, sweetly tended to. You taught us to put family first and to always show up for each other. You embodied this by traveling near and far to see your children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren’s graduations, weddings, and other important events. In recent years, being able to do video calls and seeing Natalie and Xavier delight in telling you about their activities and blowing you kisses was truly special.
I am grateful for your ability to listen. When someone was having a conversation with you, you made them feel like they were the most important person in that moment. You asked questions and paid attention to the answers, truly caring about the responses, no matter how trivial. In our visit a few weeks ago, you asked Xavier what his favorite colors were and sure enough, the next time we saw you, you were wearing a beautiful outfit in those exact colors, much to his excitement. You sought to engage us in conversation that broadened our horizons, educated us on both history and current events, and stood strong in your convictions. You were never afraid to give your opinion and always stood up for your beliefs.
I am grateful for your community leadership. At a time when there were not many women-led businesses, you not only operated Melita’s, but you did so on top of running a full household. Your success undoubtedly paved the way
for numerous women coming behind you, making it just a bit easier for them to realize they could do the same. As a young man, the time I spent in the shop with you was truly transformative in my life. I loved nothing more than to spend the afternoon there, chatting together you while we worked. You would inevitably impart some life lesson and your wisdom always echoed, coming back to help me later on. Not only did you teach me basic business skills at the shop, you treated me with the utmost respect, instilled a strong sense of hard work, and demonstrated first hand the value of making a difference in your community and working on your passions.
I am grateful you were devoted foremost to God and your husband. I’m grateful for your quick-witted sense of humor. I’m grateful you had the warmest smile and for how your eyes would light up when you saw me. I’m grateful I got to share you with Lauren, Natalie, and Xavier so that your light could shine on them for even a short while. Most of all, I’m grateful God chose you to be my Nana.
We will miss you dearly but take solace in knowing you are at peace and will continue to be our biggest supporter and guardian angel in heaven.
All my love, LR
life of Cora Aslee Gibson
Nana,
This tribute is not the easiest to write as we most recently had a chat, where you pressured me to hurry and set a wedding date so that you could ensure you had the right coloured dress; and honestly one thing I always wanted, especially after losing my mother, was to have both my grandmothers present on that occasion when it came. Our Lord, however, had other plans for you and He called you home.
When I think of you though, Nana, I reminisce on our conversations about my work and how you always encouraged me and reminded me profusely that I can do all things through Christ and remember to pray and trust in Him. I also think of the days after swimming, running around Melita’s; and now as an adult, I realize the significance as you a black female entrepreneur having a business on Bay Street. The spoiling with whatever fast food any of your grandchildren wanted, and the strong relationship I witnessed between you and my dad are also forever etched my heart.
In recent times, we enjoyed conversations on my career and doing my best to make a difference in our country; something you lived and left a great example for all of us to follow; we also shared our love for and devotion to the Lord our God, always touching on how it is by His grace alone that we have come this far, and by His grace and mercy we will continue to carry on.
Nana, you lived a full life, you’ve seen seasons come and seasons go; and whilst we honor your earthly pilgrimage, I have no doubt that you are feasting on a heavenly banquet with Gramps, Uncle Charlie, Uncle Kenny, Nhomsa and my mum, along with all of the other family members. We weep for you not because we didn’t expect you to trod this path, but because it hurts not to have you here to impart further wisdom and knowledge. Nonetheless, whilst we love you and wish you had a little more time with us, we
know that Jesus loves you best and by God’s grace, we shall meet again.
Love you always, Deon
In Loving Memory of Nana
Precious in the sight of the Lord is death of his faithful servant -Psalm 116:15
Today, I pay tribute to a remarkable woman who touched my life in ways that words can barely express - my beloved grandmother. She was not just a grandmother to me, but a guiding light, a source of endless love, and a beacon of wisdom.
Her presence in my life was a constant reminder of the power of resilience, kindness, and unwavering strength. She faced life’s challenges with grace and dignity, always putting her family and loved ones above all else. Her legacy of love and compassion will forever live on in the hearts of those she touched.
As I navigate the journey of adulthood, I carry with me the lessons she taught me - to be kind, to be strong, and to never lose sight of what truly matters in life. Her wisdom continues to guide me, her love continues to inspire me, and her spirit lives on in every act of kindness and every moment of joy.
Rest in peace, Nana (My Hot Stuff) and I thank you for all the support you gave me throughout my life.
Love, Lovant
Cora Aslee Gibson
In Thanksgiving for the life of Cora Aslee Gibson
Dear Nana,
I will say that you are the best Nana ever.
Even though you are not here with us anymore, I know you are watching over me from heaven. I will always carry you in my heart.
Goodbye for now, Nana. I will never forget you.
Love, Laylah
life of Cora Aslee Gibson
A Tribute to Nana
In a home filled with warmth and endless grace, A great grandmother’s love lit every space. Her children, wrapped in care so deep, In her tender gaze, found dreams to keep.
With beauty that time could never dim, She moved through life, a hymn, a hymn. Her smile, a beacon bright and true, In every heart, her love renews.
She called her great grandson her boyfriend, dear, With laughter and joy, held him near. In every word, a playful song, In her arms, he felt he belonged.
A warrior strong, she faced the fight, With COVID-19, through days and nights. Her spirit fierce, her courage bold, A story of strength, so often told.
As life grew thin, and twilight fell, She had one question left to tell. Before she passed, with a gentle sigh, “Who is the cook in the kitchen?” her final why.
Dylan Gomez Great Grandson
A Tribute to Cora
-One who gave so much-
God gave you a long and beautiful life, because he knew you were able to deal with whatever came your way, and so you did. Now he has called you home. He knows it all and so you have arrived to join your loved ones that you have longed to see.
We will miss you but you are now in his care forever.
Love Rosie Rosamund Williams your friend.
- St. Gregory The Great ANGLICAN CHURCH WOMEN (A.C.W.)
In loving memory of Past President Cora Gibson, from her devoted Sisters in Christ at St. Gregory the Great ACW: Oh, sweet rose, a lovely flower that came from God above. Cora Gibson was a beacon of grace and warmth; her life was a testament to the boundless love of God. Sister Cora brought us joy, peace, and love. Our Sister Cora was a woman who lived with humility and grace. Sister Cora was our teacher, our pillow stone, our confidante, and our biggest supporter. She made sure the ACW was well taken care of, just like everything else she was a part of. Her unwavering faith, gentle spirit, and kind heart touched everyone who had the privilege of knowing her. Sister Cora was the glue that kept our church family together. By opening her home to St. Gregory the Great for one of our very first Masses, as a cherished member of our ACW, Cora’s presence was a source of inspiration.
Sister Cora was smart, cheerful, and witty—a ball of joy, the life of any good party or social event. Her laughter filled our gatherings with light, and her prayers uplifted us in moments of need. She was a stern, no-nonsense person. She was large and in charge, laying down the laws and rules of the ACW, as she holds the title of our second President. Sister Cora gave each one the same amount of love and support, even when she was not physically able to join us at church or meetings. Sister Cora exemplified the character of a Proverbs 31 woman. She was a woman who feared the Lord. She made certain that her children were religiously taught, and for this, we give her high praises.
There are treasures on earth which make life worthwhile; Sister Cora was a special treasure. Sister Cora, thank you for all you have done for the ACW of St. Gregory the Great. We stand on your foundation to be productive Christian women. Though we grieve the loss of such a beloved sister, we find solace in the cherished memories and the enduring legacy of her faith and kindness. Cora’s spirit will forever remain a guiding light for us all. As we continue our journey, we hold her in our hearts, grateful for the time we shared and the love she so generously gave.
It is hard to say goodbye, but we know that you are gone to be with the Lord. Fond memories will always be in our hearts. We love you, but Jesus loves you the best. Sleep on and take your rest. With heartfelt sympathy and love.
St. Gregory’s the Great, A.C.W President (Orita Brown Stubbs JP), Executives and Members
Cora Aslee Gibson
Tribute to Cora Gibson
By The Marshall brothers (Richie, Winsie, Dr. Linkey and Dennis).
“ Those we love must someday pass beyond our present sight, must leave us and the world we know without their radiant light. But we know that like a candle their lovely light will shine to brighten up another place more perfect more devine”.
- Anonymous author
The passing of a mother is one such occasion for each of us...siblings and adopted siblings...and family members to reflect in our own way, how much Mom Cora meant to us all both individually and collectively.
The relationship between the Gibsons and Marshalls began back in 1964 when we met Joan and Charles Alex at St. John’s College on Market Street Hill. We fondly recall the Gibson’s move from Musgrove Street in Chippingham to West Avenue in the Carmichael area...where we would gather under the firm but affectionate eyes of “Momsie”.
We can vividly recall Wilton and Momsie rellocating to the United Kingdom for Wilton to complete his professional accounting studies...and taking with them the young children...including infant Dwight.
Upon their return from the United Kingdom...our families reunited...and the bonds grew stronger both in our professional and personal lives.
As youngsters, the guys developed and mastered the art of team-play in both dominoes and cards (whist).
The relationship continued and grew as we shared in significant events in each others lives...and the Marshalls brought Alex and Larry into the Lunch Bunch.
We were all impacted by Momsie’s discipline and devotion to family...we loved her dearly...and will miss her greatly.
As St Francis of Assisi admonishes “May her soul find rest and eternal peace”.
Lieutenant Governor Anastacia Johnson, President Michelle Minnis, Officers, Board of Directors, and Members extend their sincerest sympathies to the Gibson family on the passing of Past Chair Cora Gibson, a devoted Kiwanian and cherished community pillar. Known affectionately as the “Mother of The Kiwanis Club of Fort Montagu,” Cora’s generosity and commitment were unwavering. Her life was a testament to service, dedication, and the spirit of giving.
Past Chair Cora’s Kiwanian legacy spanned generations, with her late husband Wilton and daughter Pamela serving as Distinguished Presidents, and her late granddaughter Nhomsa as a Past President, all within the Kiwanis Club of Fort Montagu. Cora’s leadership and influence were integral to the club’s success and growth.
In 2009, the Kiwanis Club of Fort Montagu honored Past Chair Cora for her dedicated service, celebrating her as the heart and soul of the club. Despite her health challenges in later years, she remained an active member. Although she was unable to attend meetings and participate in projects, she was adamant about remaining a financial member, embodying the Kiwanian spirit until her passing. Cora’s love for cooking was well-known; she often shared her culinary talents at board meetings and was the designated chef during her extensive travels, always finding joy in shopping and preparing a scrumptious Bahamian breakfast.
Past Chair Cora’s life journey is a shining example of community service and dedication. Her selfless contributions and kind heart touched countless lives, leaving an indelible mark on all who knew her. Rest in peace, dear Cora; your impact and legacy will forever be remembered throughout the Kiwanis Organization.
In Thanksgiving for the life of
Cora Aslee Gibson
In Thanksgiving for the life of
Message of Gratitude
Dear Family and Friends,
We would like to express our heartfelt gratitude for the love, support, and kindness you have shown us during this incredibly difficult time. Your presence, comforting words, and acts of compassion have provided us with strength and solace as we navigate the loss of our beloved Mother, Grandmother and Great-grandmother.
Please continue to keep us in your thoughts and prayers as we cherish her memories and strive to find peace in the midst of our sorrow. Your support means more to us than words can convey.
With heartfelt thanks and immense gratitude,
The
Gibson Family
PALLBEARERS
Maxwell E. Gibson
Dwight F. Gibson
Deon D. Gibson
Lovant B. K. Gibson
Alexander D. L. Gomez
Larry R. Gibson
Larry R. Gibson II
Leighton J. W. Gibson
Daniel J. A. Gibson
Dylan P. F. Gomez
