Thanksgiving Service for the Life and Witness of the Late
Sunrise: December 1, 1948 Sunset: August 21, 2021 Age: 72 years Graveside Burial Service and Interment held at: Lakeview Memorial Gardens Gladstone Road Nassau, NP, The Bahamas Friday, September 10, 2021 at 1:00 pm Officiating: Rev. Dr. Ronald R. Bastian Senior Pastor Everlasting Life Baptist Ministries Assisted by Other Ministers of the Gospel Father, in Thy gracious keeping, leave we now Thy servant sleeping. Rest in Peace
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devoted son, nephew, brother, husband, uncle, father, grandfather and friend; a mentor, an advisor and a man of God.
John Wellington “Welly” Dorsett was welcomed into the world in Nassau, Bahamas on the first day of December 1948 by his parents, Joyous “Aunty” Longley and Neville Dorsett. He was the second child and first son of what would eventually be Joyous’ 13 children. Shortly after birth, Welly moved to Mangrove Cay, Andros with his grandparents and his “adopted mother” and aunt, Merlene “Aunty Merle” Longley. There, he spent all of his childhood years. As a boy, he enjoyed fishing, cutting quarry from the pit and helping his aunt sell produce she grew from her garden. He attended the Victoria Point All Age School “until [he] was tired.” As a young boy, Welly set many goals. He knew what he wanted out of life and worked toward achieving them. Around the age of 16, Welly observed some workers threading pipe and he was so fascinated that he made up his mind then to become a plumber. In 1967, at the age of 18, he moved back to Nassau to seek employment; he did electronic work and other odd jobs before starting his plumbing apprenticeship, which assisted him with savings. One of the many goals he set as a child was to marry at the age of 30 and be able to take his wife into his own house. When the property next to his mother’s home in Nassau became available for sale, he purchased it with the funds he had saved. He was proud to say that this was his first investment as a young man. Welly met his future wife, Audrey Atwell, in 1971, while working at Western Plumbing. She was a senior at Jordan Prince William High School, then on Baillou Hill Road. He would see “this tiny, cute, bow-legged girl” walking home from school past Western Plumbing; he approached her and asked to walk her home. They started dating and, in 1978, just two weeks shy of his 30th birthday, he married the love of his life. They moved into their own home, where they resided for their entire marriage. This union produced four daughters: Alexya, Jasmin, Juliette and Ashan. After many years, much training and hard work, Welly became a Master Licensed Plumber in 1983. He worked as a plumbing contractor for over 50 years, until his retirement in 2018. During this time, he gathered many loyal customers who still called for him to assist with their plumbing repairs well after his retirement. After retirement, Welly delved into one of his lifelong passions—farming—which he developed as a child, learning from Aunty Merle. He pursued his love for farming and quickly launched Joyous Farms, named after his dear mother. He sold an assortment of crops
including pumpkin, watermelon, cassava, sweet potato and plums, but his best sellers were sugarcane and sugarcane juice. He was pleased with what he had accomplished and was excited at all the possibilities now that he could devote his full time and attention to farming. Welly was a staunch supporter, advisor and mentor to all his younger siblings, who still see him as a cherished big brother and second father, even today. He was a devoted husband and father, constantly telling his friends, customers and acquaintances how proud he was of his daughters’ accomplishments. Welly grew up as an Anglican attending St. David’s in Lisbon Creek, Andros. After he wed, he moved to his mother’s church, St. Gregory’s Anglican Church in Nassau. It was here that he began his Christian walk with God and he became involved in several areas of ministry, including Acolytes, Anglican Church Men (ACM), Land and Buildings Committee and Vestry. In November 2008, Welly was led by the Holy Spirit to make a transition in his faith, which resulted in him moving to Everlasting Life Baptist Ministries. Here, he was able to receive a new outlook on life and renew his commitment to Christ. He was affectionately called “Uncle Welly” by the church members. Welly was always a God-fearing man and always maintained integrity of the highest standard. Many knew him as a man of good character and one who was frank and “plain-speaking.” He credited his mother and “adopted mother” for instilling the traditional values, wisdom, knowledge and strong work ethic that guided him throughout life. Welly spent most of his spare time with family, reading his bible, and encouraging or advising others. He always maintained that despite the odds and no matter the circumstance, one can make it in life. He was passionate about his work for the Lord and his aim was to live and witness for Him as long as he had the ability to do so. Welly said that his faith deepened over the last few years. In 2013, God’s call on his life to the ordained ministry as a Deacon was fulfilled; he turned toward the Word, service, sacrament and order. Over the years, Welly overcame various health challenges through God’s help. Throughout each of his illnesses, he called on God and remained faithful and trusted that he would be healed. He used his illnesses as opportunities to testify to many others about the faithfulness and healing power of God. However, in July 2021, he suffered a brief illness and succumbed to his final health challenge. Welly slipped away from this life into eternity on the morning of August 21, 2021 at 3:09 am. May his soul rest in peace and rise in glory! Left to cherish his memories are his: Wife: Audrey Elizabeth Dorsett Children: Dr. Alexya Dorsett-Williams (Barry Williams), Jasmin Dorsett (Sean Insanally), Juliette (Benjamin Roger) Pinder and Ashan Dorsett Grandchildren: Ambrosine and Xandria Williams
Adopted grandchildren: Rickeya and Brenneka Marshall Siblings: Beatrice Rand, R. Monique Forbes, Marzell Morvis Smith, Paul (Anita) Glinton, Udell (Brennell) Cartwright, Marjoriana King, Eureka Glinton, Bradly (Inger) Dorsett, D’Antoine (Marsha) Morley, Lula McKenzie, Katie Longley, Rev. Ednal (Yevette) Minnis, Helena (Rudolph) Smith, George (Tonya) Minnis, Jacquelyn (Stephen) Russell, Bernie (Carla) Minnis and Darlene (Derek) Miller Stepmother: Idell Dorsett In-laws: Stephen (Tammi) and Neville Atwell, Rev. Dr. Jerline Martin, Anita (Paul) Glinton, Claudine (Kirk Sr.) Hutchinson, Valencia (Jason) Boehner, Patrick (Christine) and Anthony (Linda) Delancy Uncles and Aunts: Beaufort (Daisy), Garnett (Alice) and Gloria Dorsett Nieces and Nephews: Ronell Forbes, Adell Forbes-Bybee, Tameka Forbes and Toni Johnson; Vanessa Tumuluri, La’keva McDonald, Cedeno, Karranda, Deival, Marlene and De’Ondra Smith; Sharia (Leo) Clarke and Torrell Glinton; Keyshan (Ronald) Bastian, Redell Butler and Deona (Audley) Pearson; Gladstone (Renell) King, Tameka (Denis) Mugisha and Aldeka Demeritte; Ashley Minnis; Alicia, Anishka, Ava, Bra’nee, Bradly Jr., Brayman and Neville Dorsett; Clesha, Daniel and Belecia Morley; Krystal (Nado) Swann, Glenndear and Desmond (Rolecea) Pinder; Lamar (Andira), Nikita and Jordan Minnis; Celicia (Crispin) Knowles, Rudy (Nasheko) Williams, Austin (Nadia) and Emmanuel Smith; Indera, Gia and Michael Minnis; Victoria and Caitlin Russell; Eden and Eve Minnis; Dereka, Deranique, Deressa and Derelene Milller; Swayde and Joya Smith; Stephen, Lorenzo (Latoya), Sonia, Sandra and Shawn (April) Atwell and Shanice (Christopher) Hill; Donald Jr., Angelo (Malika Pryor), and ASP Donevon (Pradesta) Martin, Donnella Martin-Lloyd and Donnevette Martin-Scavella; Kirk Jr. (Princess) and Kendrick Hutchinson; Neville Jr., PC Lorenzo, Nevon and Nevado Atwell, Nevette (Timothy) Missick, Tanario Cooper and Lavonda Cartwright; Karlton Dimitri, Hindrik, Madalynn and Annalea Boehner; Jennifer, Anthony Jr., Antoinette, Tito, Tiffany, Patrick Jr., Alicia and Kristin Delancy Numerous grandnieces and grandnephews A host of other relatives and friends: The Longley Family, The Dorsett Family, The Forbes Family, The Adderley Family, The Smith Family, The Bain Family, The Watson Family, The Penn Family, The Bannister Family, The Curry Family, Bertrand Bernadin and Family, Patrick Edwards and Family, Benjamin Bain and Family, Roscoe Turnquest and Family, Elouise Fernander and Family, William Smith and Family, Angie Johnson and Family, Andrea Jenoure and Family, Yvette Robinson and Family, The Island Dental Family including Dr. Marlene Sawyer and Della-reese Symmonett, The Millar’s Heights community, Senior Pastor Dr. Ronald R. Bastian and The Everlasting Life Baptist Ministries Church Family, The Right Rev. Laish Boyd, The St. Gregory’s Church Family including Rev. Canon Sebastian Campbell, Rev. Fr. Richard Wood and Rev. Dr. James Moultrie; Rev. Canon Atma Budhu, Archdeacon James Palacious, Rev. Fr. Neil Nairn, The Pilgrim Ministries Church Family, The Miracle Working Church of God Family, RBC Royal Bank, Prophix Software, The National Insurance Board and nCino Inc. Special thanks to: Dr. Jason Thompson, Dr. Kevin Moss, Dr. Charlyon Bonimy and the medical team at Doctors Hospital; Dr. Graham Cates and Family Medicine Center.
for Deacon John Wellington Dorsett who departed this life on August 21, 2021 and entered into eternity to be with the Lord; whose mortal remains we lay to rest on this 10th day of September 2021
Seating of the Family Opening Sentences | Rev. Dr. Ronald R. Bastian, Senior Pastor Moderator | Minister Keyshan Bastian, Niece Congregational Hymn | City of Gold There’s a city of Light, where there cometh no night; ‘Tis a city of beauty untold; All my treasures are there and its beauty I’ll share, When I get to that city of old (Chorus) When I leave all trouble and care, I will say good morning up there; I will have a great gladness untold, When I get to that city of gold
There’s no sorrow up there, in that city so fair And no sickness can enter I’m told; Shadows all will have flown, I will meet friends I’ve known When we get to that city of gold Won’t you go there with me to the home of the free, Would you see heaven’s beauty unfold? If you will come along, we will sing heaven’s song When we get to that city of gold
Opening Prayer | Rev. Dr. Jerline Martin, Sister-in-law Prayer Response | My Help, Psalm 121, led by Daughters I will lift up mine eyes to the hills From whence cometh my help My help cometh from the Lord, The Lord which made heaven and earth He said, He would not suffer thy foot, Thy foot to be moved The Lord that keepeth thee, He will not slumber nor sleep Oh, the Lord is thy keeper, the Lord is thy shade Upon thy right hand, upon thy right hand No the sun shall not smite thee by day, Nor the moon by night He shall preserve thy soul, even forevermore My help, my help, my help, All of my help cometh from the Lord (Repeat from beginning)
Reading: Wisdom 3:1-9 | Bradly Dorsett, Brother Reader: A reading from the Word of God written in Wisdom 3:1-9 But the souls of the righteous are in the hand of God, and there shall no torment touch them. 2In the sight of the unwise they seemed to die: and their departure is taken for misery, 3And their going from us to be utter destruction: but they are in peace. 4For though they be punished in the sight of men, yet is their hope full of immortality. 5And having been a little chastised, they shall be greatly rewarded: for God proved them, and found them worthy for himself. 6As gold in the furnace hath he tried them, and received them as a burnt offering. 7And in the time of their visitation they shall shine, and run to and fro like sparks among the stubble. 8 They shall judge the nations, and have dominion over the people, and their Lord shall reign forever. 9They that put their trust in him shall understand the truth: and such as be faithful in love shall abide with him: for grace and mercy is to his saints, and he hath care for his elect. 1
Reader: The Word of the Lord. Congregation: Thanks be to God. Tribute | Katie Longley, Sister Reading: 1 Corinthians 15:50-58 | Bernie Minnis, Brother Reader: A reading from the Word of God written in 1 Corinthians 15:50-58 Now this I say, brethren, that flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God; neither doth corruption inherit incorruption. 51 Behold, I shew you a mystery; We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, 52 in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trump: for the trumpet shall sound, and the dead shall be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed. 53 For this corruptible must put on incorruption, and this mortal must put on immortality. 54 So when this corruptible shall have put on incorruption, and this mortal shall have put on immortality, then shall be brought to pass the saying that is written, Death is swallowed up in victory. 55 O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory? 56 The sting of death is sin; and the strength of sin is the law. 57 But thanks be to God, which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. 58 Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye steadfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord. 50
Reader: The Word of the Lord. Congregation: Thanks be to God. Solo Selection | Till We Meet Again | Mericha R. Walker Eulogy | Rev. Dr. Ronald R. Bastian, Senior Pastor As I Knew Him | Donevon Martin, Nephew Condolences (2 minutes) | Representative from Everlasting Life Baptist Ministries and others Resolution | Minister Keyshan Bastian, Niece Prayer for the Family | Rev. Ednal G. Minnis, Brother
Congregational Hymn | ’Tis So Sweet to Trust in Jesus ’Tis so sweet to trust in Jesus, Just to take Him at His word; Just to rest upon His promise, Just to know, “Thus saith the Lord.”
Yes, ’tis sweet to trust in Jesus, Just from sin and self to cease; Just from Jesus simply taking Life, and rest, and joy, and peace.
(Refrain) Jesus, Jesus, how I trust Him! How I’ve proved Him o’er and o’er! Jesus, Jesus, precious Jesus! O for grace to trust Him more!
I’m so glad I learned to trust Thee, Precious Jesus, Savior, Friend; And I know that Thou art with me, Wilt be with me to the end.
O how sweet to trust in Jesus, Just to trust His cleansing blood; Just in simple faith to plunge me ’Neath the healing, cleansing flood! The Committal Hymn of Committal | It is Finished There’s a line that has been drawn through the ages On that line stands the old rugged cross On that cross a battle is raging For the gain of man’s soul for his loss (Chorus) It is finished The battle is over It is finished, There’ll be no more war It is finished, The end of the conflict It is finished, And Jesus is Lord On one side march the forces of evil All the demons and devils of hell On the other the angels of glory And they meet on Golgotha’s hill The Benediction
GRAVESIDE HYMNS When Peace Like A River
I’m Glad I Counted the Cost
When peace like a river attendeth my way When sorrows like sea billows roll Whatever my lot, Thou hast taught me to say It is well, it is well with my soul
When first I started to seek the Lord, I’m glad I counted the cost; I fully measured to Jesus’ word, I’m glad I counted the cost.
(Refrain) It is well (it is well) With my soul (with my soul) It is well, it is well with my soul
(Chorus) I’ve paid the price and obtained the prize, He saved my soul that was lost; And now my treasures are in the skies, I’m glad I counted the cost.
Though Satan should buffet, though trials should come Let this blest assurance control That Christ has regarded my helpless estate And has shed His own blood for my soul My sin, oh the bliss of this glorious thought My sin, not in part, but the whole Is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more Praise the Lord, praise the Lord, O my soul! And Lord, haste the day when my faith shall be sight The clouds be rolled back as a scroll The trump shall resound, and the Lord shall descend Even so, it is well with my soul! It’s Alright Now There was a time I traveled a lonely sinful road Beneath a heavy burden bending low But now all things are different for Jesus took my load It’s alright now I’m His I know (Chorus) It’s alright now for I am in my Savior’s care It’s alright now my Savior hears and answers prayer He’ll walk beside me ‘til I climb the heav’nly stair And ev’rything is alright now A-down a lonely pathway without a friend to guide I walked in sin and sorrow all alone ’Til Jesus came and found me and drew me to His side It’s alright now for I’m His own No more in sin I wander, no more in darkness roam The Lord has placed my feet on higher ground Each day new heights I’m gaining, my soul is nearing home It’s alright now I’m heaven bound
I laid my sorrows at Jesus’ feet, I’m glad I counted the cost; And now I’ve pleasures so pure and sweet, I’m glad I counted the cost. I’ve bid farewell to this world of sin, I’m glad I counted the cost; And now my Jesus abides within, I’m glad I counted the cost. Although the trials seem hard to bear, I’m glad I counted the cost; I now my burdens with Jesus share, I’m glad I counted the cost. ’Twill not be long till the Lord shall come, I’m glad I counted the cost; And bear my soul to that heav’nly home, I’m glad I counted the cost.
I’ll Fly Away Some glad morning, when this life is o’er, I’ll fly away; To a home on God’s celestial shore, I’ll fly away (I’ll fly away). (Chorus) I’ll fly away, Oh Glory I’ll fly away; (in the morning) When I die, Hallelujah, by and by, I’ll fly away (I’ll fly away). When the shadows of this life have gone, I’ll fly away; Like a bird from prison bars has flown, I’ll fly away (I’ll fly away) Just a few more weary days and then, I’ll fly away; To a land where joy shall never end, I’ll fly away (I’ll fly away)
That Glad Reunion Day There will be a happy meeting in Heaven, I know When we see the many loved ones we’ve known here below Gathered on that blessed hilltop with hearts all aglow That will be a glad reunion day. (Chorus) A glad day, a wonderful day, A glad day, a glorious day There with all the holy angels and loved ones to stay That will be a glad reunion day. When we live a million years in that wonderful place Basking in the love of Jesus, beholding His face It will seem but just a moment of praising His grace That will be a glad reunion day. A glad day, a wonderful day, A glad day, a glorious day There with all the holy angels and loved ones to stay That will be a glad reunion day.
Heaven’s Jubilee Some glad morning we shall see, Jesus in the air Coming after you and me, joy is ours to share What rejoicing there will be, when the saints shall rise Headed for that jubilee, yonder in the skies (Chorus) Oh what singing, oh what shouting On that happy morning when we all shall rise Oh what glory, Hallelujah When we meet our blessed Savior in the skies Seems that now I almost see, all the sainted dead Rising for that jubilee, that is just ahead In the twinkling of an eye, changed with them to be All the living saints to fly, to that jubilee. When with all that heavenly host, we begin to sing Singing in the Holy Ghost, how the heavens will ring Millions there will join the song, with them we shall be Praising Christ through ages long, heaven’s jubilee.
1948 - 2021
Gone, but never forgotten.
IN MEMORY OF DADDY WITH LOVE I have so many fond memories of daddy…In my younger days, although he was very strict, I remember him being a good babysitter, picking me up from school, and attending PTA meetings. He taught me how to save money and how to work hard towards my goals. Daddy was truly the King in his castle. He loved to be pampered, he enjoyed us combing his hair, giving him facials and grooming his Nails. More recently, he would take us out to the farm to show us his produce, and Julie and I took a delight in assisting him in selling them. One of his last words to us before his passing was to take care of the farm. Daddy was a great grandfather as well and took interest in my children. He attended most of their recitals or school plays. He also loved his wider family and touched everyone in a very special way. Daddy you are gone, but not forgotten. Memories of you will live on in our hearts forever! Love, Your firstborn Lexy
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love you so much Granddaddy. Time cannot steal the treasures and memories that all of us carry in our hearts. We will miss you and you will never be forgotten. Love, Brosie
JOHN WELLINGTON DORSETT – A GOOD MAN “…You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous man, though for a good man someone might possibly dare to die. But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. Since we have now been justified by his blood, how much more shall we be saved from God’s wrath through him!” Romans 5:6 -9 It was so far from my mind that I’d be at this moment experiencing the sorrow of your passing. I thought you’d be around for a longer time and had no expectations of your death. I’m so sad that you’ve left us and while the reality of our mortality dominates my thoughts of late, the shock of your passing touches deep within me. We shared many great times together over the years—its amazing that I’ve known you for almost 30 years — from the day Lexy introduced me to you…Whew Survival!!! From that first day Respect was established, Rules laid out and then again on the second day, the third day too and all days thereafter. It was very clear from those talks and there was no misunderstanding within me— “Fa Real.” Mrs. D, by the way, was never far behind— “get um Welly!” “You tell um Welly”—Actually, Mrs. D did most of the talking. I called you “Mr. D,” a continued recognition of the respect that was established. In our many talks I told you that you had done so well raising your family from the days of selling all manner of items to pay for Lexy’s Girl Guide trips, to your plumbing contracts and jobs, your investments in business and even in the capital markets for which I was your unofficial Investment Advisor—I didn’t charge for advice given by the way. You were a role model of how a man should take care of his family—a model I did not grow up with to the degree I saw in you. You exhibited kindness and helpfulness to others, but you were no push over—that’s for sure. We talked about so much—money, politics, business, land investments, family challenges from A to Z, Da Farm and life disappointments and successes. We established that we were not perfect people but that we both cared for others and demonstrated that—that was important. We didn’t agree on everything (“ya tink”), but we never had a bad moment in our relationship not once—only spirited ones. You accepted me and I accepted you. I do remember fondly you schooling me that the profession of a Plumber was just as good as that of a doctor, lawyer or accountant and finance Executive (that’s me) and these Bahamian people (that’s me too) need to understand that—I of course agreed vehemently— “you right Mr. D!!”—you had to know when to disagree with Mr. D—knowing that determined if it was a 5-minute discussion or a 5-hour discussion—especially after saying goodbye for like the tenth time—seriously, “I gatta go Mr. D”—I said that a lot. He called me Big Shot, Executive and Big Timer by the way—and addressed me as “Yes Sir”—like “really” Mr. D—I didn’t disagree as per usual, ’cause I had to go again. So many memories…can’t say all here. Your commitment to serving God was notable and you gave tremendously of yourself to both St. Gregory’s and Everlasting Life Baptist Ministries. You spoke your mind and was not afraid to say if you disagreed with something even in the church and with church leaders. You were respected. I will miss you Mr. D. You were a great example. You loved your family, and that love was appreciated and given all the way down and back up from your grandkids who loved you dearly. They reflected the love you gave them, and they miss you too. It’s hard to believe you’re gone. With Much Love, Barry aka Big Shot Executive Accountant—equivalent to Professional Plumber Extraordinaire (that would make you smile)
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addy, words cannot express the sorrow and pain in my heart at your passing, especially since I hadn’t gotten to hug you or tease you about your primming for almost 2 years, since the start of this terrible pandemic. I miss you and I love you – I can’t say it enough.
I remember the good times and the bad times between us. I remember how, when I was a teenager and a young adult, we constantly disagreed. But, I also remember that over the years, you came to see me as an adult in my own right and how we came to love each other even more. I fondly remember how as we all got older, the roles partly reversed and Lexy, Julie, Shan and I all started lecturing and parenting you and mummy about taking care of yourselves and about making the best decisions. I’m sure that in time, it will get easier to remember you with smiles and happiness, instead of mixing those smiles with tears and sorrow and missing you. Until that time comes, I will grieve for you and I will continue to love you and I will continue to miss you dearly. The words of this song express my feelings well: I didn’t know [that day] would be our last Or that I’d have to say goodbye to you so fast I’m so numb, I can’t feel anymore Prayin’ you’d just walk back through that door And tell me that I was only dreamin’ You’re not really gone as long as I believe There will be another angel Around the throne tonight Your love lives on inside of me And I will hold on tight It’s not my place to question Only God knows why I’m just jealous of the angels Around the throne tonight - Jennifer Bostic Daddy, I promise you that I will try to continue to live your legacy and to carry on your name through our shared initials, JWD. John Wellington Dorsett, know that you are loved immensely. Your daughter, Jasmin Willette Dorsett
MR. DORSETT,
I will never forget the time that we spent together. From the first time that I met you, I knew we were kindred spirits. You always took time to speak with me and tell me your old people stories. We would laugh and try to one up each other with our tales, if I said I had to work hard, you would tell me about the times that you were working in the rock quarry. Your hard work, dedication and commitment to your family was astounding. You raised four strong women that are a living testament and your legacy. Even when you could ease up and take a little break, you continued to persevere. You are loved and will truly be missed by all who were in your presence. Not having your guidance leaves me with a void that I know will not be filled. I pray that you find rest and peace in Heaven. With love, Your son-in-law, Sean
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addy, I never thought that drive to the hospital and those moments in the waiting room would be our last time together. Although my heart aches at your passing, you taught us to give thanks in everything; and so, I am thankful to God for blessing us with you. You loved Mummy, each of your daughters and all of your family in every way. You were a wonderful and instrumental earthly father… the best father a girl could ever ask God for. Thank you for helping me accomplish my dreams and making me the strong woman I am today. You and Roger always called me “hard mouth,” but I’d like to think this is one of the qualities I got from you—you called it “plainspeaking.” I will always cherish your words of wisdom and sound advice along with the memories we all made together. Your passing is bittersweet because although we will miss you on earth, we know that you are with our Lord and Saviour. Oh, and guess what Daddy? Where you are now, there is no pain—so no more back, side and knee pain…I know you’re happy about that!
To a man of great wisdom, strong faith, patient understanding, unwavering strength and abounding love, my Daddy, John Wellington Dorsett…I will always love and celebrate you! I pray to God that I can follow in your footsteps and complete some of the work you were not able to finish. Until we meet again...Rest in peace and rise in glory! Your loving daughter, Juliette aka your personal secretary, speech writer, masseuse and nail technician
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r. D aka “young fella” to me! I wish I had just one more day to articulate these words directly to you “young fella,” but I hope that one day I can tell you directly in heaven. There is so much I would want to tell you...but guess what, you and I lived that experience. I mean, a father-in-law and a little wacky guy like me experienced highs and lows together. We had great long conversations and shared great meals together too! Heck, we even shoveled manure together, and had a great time doing it. But what I truly treasured the most was how you accepted me just like a son. Though I will forever miss you, I will do my best to try and represent your values by expressing them to my wife so that you may rest a little easier until the day we all rise in glory with our Lord! Love, Rog
DADDY,
Losing you like this has been the most difficult thing I’ve ever encountered. My heart aches because I haven’t been able to touch or see you in person for so long. Despite this, I can’t help but be grateful for all the time we had together and all the love we shared. You were an amazing father, mentor, protector, encourager and friend. You blessed us, your family, greatly and everyone else you encountered –that’s why I feel so honoured to be your daughter. Although very different, we were still so much alike –the messy ones, the playful/silly ones, the ones that loved power tools we never had the time use, the ones that enjoyed working with our hands, the ones that saw beauty and new purpose/usefulness in the discarded and the ones passionate about building up whatever or whoever was around us –creating something we didn’t realize was even possible at the outset. We didn’t agree all the time, but I have been so fortunate to have you so present in my life; even when I didn’t ask for or want your help or guidance. I treasure every moment I’ve spent with you and all the things you taught me throughout the years. The smiles, the laughter, the disagreements and the tears. Most of all, I appreciate the constant reassurance that we, your family, deserved only the best; even if it meant lost money, jobs, homes or relationships. You always said “when you all feel, we feel” expressing your continuous desire to always keep us safe and away from any pain. I began to understand this sentiment more and more as you aged. I am so grateful I got to spend a couple of months with you the last time I came home. I remember you telling me how happy it made you that I helped you at the farm and packaged cane with you every night those few weeks (even though I always ate half). My last night you said “Shan, I really enjoyed your company, and I am already sad to see you go.” The following day at my send off you gave me the tightest hug, but I didn’t realize that it would be my last. Now I am grieved –not because you died but because I know intimately and will miss how you lived, loved and sacrificed for us and everyone you loved. I know you knew I loved you, but I hope you realized you were my world. The legacy you’ve left behind is so profound and I pray that we are strengthened and guided to complete all that you started, and the dreams left unfulfilled. Thank you for everything Daddy –we are forever indebted. I miss you and love you immensely Your baby girl, Shan
BROTHER...FRIEND...PROTECTOR Welly, as I reflect on who you were and what you meant to me, I can’t help but come to the realization that you were not only my brother and friend...you were my protector...my hero. I will cherish all of the many memories that we shared over the years. Some that come to mind are of you always coming to my rescue whenever I got into fights at school during the time we lived in Andros with our grandparents Papa Jack and Catherine along with Aunty Merle. As teenagers, we came to Nassau, and you secured a job with Mr. Granger to help with his plumbing business. Eventually, I moved to Freeport and you ended up moving there as well and stayed with me while working at the Princess Towers Hotel. After a while, you returned to Nassau and secured a job with Western Plumbing where you spotted the lovely Audrey Atwell as she walked passed the store on her way home from school; and the rest, as they say, “is history!” Thank you for being there for me over the years; not only as my brother...my friend...and my protector, but as “my hero.” Love, your sister, Rhody
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ncle Welly...these are just some of the words that come to mind when I reflect on the man that you were and are. For it is my belief that physical absence doesn’t negate a persons’ presence when they depart this earthly plain. With that said, please know that your presence was and is a “gift.” You positively impacted all those you came in contact with; whether family, friend or otherwise. Your words of wisdom, or stern counsel often “rang true” to those whom you imparted knowledge through conversation, prayer, and “YES” even discipline! Those who were fortunate enough to know you beyond mere pleasantries understood that this was always out of love; for you wanted only the best for them.
The Gift... • Man of “honour” • Kind-hearted • Selfless • Loving • Reliable • Dependable • Dedicated • Committed • Faithful • Trustworthy • Kept your word • Family-oriented • Proud Father and Grandfather • Loving and dedicated Husband
I’m sure that I’m not the only one who appreciated your somewhat dry sense of humour, and your approach to getting your point across because there was always a lesson in it; if the person was paying attention. Though “our hearts are full” as we pay well-deserved tribute to you, we know that you will always be around...watching over us, and guiding us along the way as we each continue our own personal journey on life’s path. The soul never dies...it is forever! We will now find comfort in your heavenly presence as we continue to seek your counsel... asking ourselves... “what would Welly do?”’ Know that you are FOREVER loved, and GREATLY missed and that your presence was truly “A GIFT!” Love, Kell
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y beloved brother Welly, my heart is still aching and broken at the thought that God had called you home. I will always treasure our relationship as brother and sister and our countless lengthy conversations. I miss you so much and will never forget you, my dear brother and one day we shall meet again. Sleep on and take your well-deserved rest. For your work on earth is finished and you have now gone on to your heavenly reward. Your sister, Udell
AN UNCLE…INCOMPARABLE! Throughout life we come to treasure the small things, those thoughtful gestures that make you pause and say “Wow!” While my fond memories of Uncle Welly are many, I recall when I began construction, he stepped in as a father would, sharing all his knowledge and ensuring that my best interests were always first. This created a bond and love and from then on he was like a second father… from cautioning about saving habits to interviewing my then fiancé (lol), now husband. He wore so many hats in my life, time would not permit me to share, but in each role, from him at church as a child, to having him worship with my husband and I in his latter years, his impact on my life is unparalleled. You told us you would be with us until the church was built, but we had no idea it would be this way! We will always love you Uncle Welly and will miss you tremendously! Love, Keyshan
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ncle Welly, I thank you for giving me my first summer job and advice on taking my lunch to work to save money. I’ll cherish your words of wisdom and pass those words we’ve had to my son. You are missed, and passing your house won’t be the same, but the lessons you’ve shown me I know will take me far. Forever in our hearts Uncle Welly. We love and miss you. Lamar
TO MY “BIG BRO”
I couldn’t promise all the things of the world, nor could I have promised you all the fine things that money can buy, but I can give you this one promise that my love for you will NEVER die! Thank you for giving me all of your love and continuous support, your guidance and constant lectures has helped me to become the man that I am today, and for that reason I cannot thank you enough. It is because of you that I am the efficient, productive, dedicated, consistent, hard-working successful Plumbing contractor I am today. You trained me well and would always remind me to NEVER chase a dollar because I would NEVER catch it, but instead to chase my passion and the money will ALWAYS come and that has stuck with me for the last 36 years. Bro I love you, since our mom taught us how to pray as children, you were always in my prayers and as I think of you keep smiling down on me. There isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t think of the many things you did or said, anyone that knew Mr. J Wellington Dorsett knew that you never tolerated nonsense, you were never afraid to speak your mind and you never cut corners. Bro, I know they said that no one is perfect, but they’re wrong. I found perfection in you and you displayed all of the qualities that a PERFECT dad, granddad, husband, brother, uncle, cousin and friend should have. As a child you were my hero and still are to this day. I’ve found confidence in you, praise in your accomplishments, smiles in your laughter, peace in your words, but most of all I’ve found love in your heart. For us your siblings you were our strength when we would fall weak, you ALWAYS encouraged us to do our BEST, now that you’re gone, rest assured that we will continue to do our best if only FOR YOU! I love you bro and I’m really going to miss you, I was BLESSED to call you my BIG BROTHER. What else can I say other than I hope you, Auntie, Vonnie and Elvis have caught up with each other by now, I know you guys have LOTS to catch up on during their absence these past years, assure them that everyone down here is doing well and making the best out of their daily lives. Until we meet again BIG BRO, sleep and take your rest. I love you, but God loves you BEST! George
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W Dorsett, as I fondly referred to you sometimes, you were the ‘Wind beneath my Wings.’ My world will never be the same without you in my daily life. There is emptiness and pain, and yes even bitterness and anger at death knocking at your door so early in life. I hoped and I prayed without ceasing that we would have more time, but it wasn’t meant to be. Our last conversation ended with the words “I love you’ and for that I am grateful. You were more than a brother to me and my siblings, you were the father figure in our lives. You could be counted on and depended on always. Whether we needed simple advice, an empathetic ear, or a shoulder to lean on, you were always there for us. Whenever, I described you to my friends and persons who did not know you, I boasted of your integrity; how you were ‘a man of your word’ and that you were the most honest and upfront person that I knew. You called ‘a spade - a spade’ and your strong principles did not allow you to let something wrong stand unchallenged. I always admired that about you and even though it will be tough, I will strive to emulate some of those life principles of yours. Although sad, I am so grateful and thankful to God for having blessed me with you as a brother. Having you as a brother is a gift that will remain with me, and will live on in the memories and stories of you, and even more so in what all of us have become because of you. You dear brother are our ‘Hero’ and the ‘Wind Beneath our Winds’. I take comfort in knowing that you’re with Aunt Merle, Auntie Francita, our uncles and cousins, our brother Elvis, sister Laverne and our dear mother Joyous, Keeping watch over us. Love always, Katie
MESSAGE OF GRATITUDE We, the family of the late John Wellington Dorsett would like to thank all who have displayed love and concern for us during this time of bereavement. We sincerely appreciate your prayers, calls, visits and other acts of kindness. May God continually bless you! The Family
HONOURARY PALLBEARERS Paul Glinton Bradly Dorsett D’Antoine Morley Rev. Ednal Minnis George Minnis Bernie Minnis Barry Williams Benjamin Roger Pinder
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