REQUIEM MASS The Service of Thanksgiving for The Late
JOSEPH Cornelius Lédée
March 18, 1933—April 11, 2021 Aged: 88 Years SERVICE HELD AT: The Church of The Most Holy Trinity Stapledon Gardens New Providence The Bahamas Saturday, April 24, 2021 2:00 p.m. OFFICIATING The Venerable Mark R. Lindsay-Fox - Rector Rev’d. Fr. Roderick Bain - Assistant Curate Rev’d. Fr. John Kabiga - Associate Priest ORGANIST Mr. David Rahming
OBITUARY “Ever living, ever dying they smile, they cry, they give, they take. Up the mountain ever climbing, unerringly they seek the lake” An extract from THEY GO, a poem penned by Joseph C. Lédée Over 1000 feet high, deep within the lush, exotic forested mountain range of Tamana, Trinidad, Joseph Cornelius was born on March 18, 1933 to Vernon and Gwendoline Lédée, on the family’s sprawling cocoa estate. The last of five children, Jospeh’s close-knitted family would have been filled with great celebration, as the feast of St. Joseph was the following day. Being devout Roman Catholics, the Lédée household was one of firm discipline, strict order and strong work ethic. Nothing but excellence was expected, everyone knew their roles and tasks, and a very high premium was placed on education. Despite walking many miles to attend school, Joseph’s commitment to his studies earned him top marks in Mathematics, Latin, Spanish, History and other subjects. He was a superior student, attaining various accolades that would lead to him becoming a teacher, an honoured and highly respected occupation, especially in those days. Joseph, who never failed to vividly describe his early days, was immensely proud of his parents and siblings. His father baked various types of cakes, his mother tended to the garden, growing fruits and vegetables, while he and his siblings tended to the livestock. He always said that their survival was in their own hands, and never considered their chores to be onerous work. Joseph was never afraid of hard work! In February of 1990, Joseph and Theodora were introduced at a party of a mutual friend. Coincidentally, her brother Maxwell was also at that party, and played an integral part in their meeting. From that day on, the couple became inseparable, attending church every Sunday with Theodora’s daughter, Ormanda, at The Anglican Church Of The Epiphany, where Joseph became quite involved. On December 14, 1990, Joseph and Theodora Johnson nee Kerr were united in Holy Matrimony, and experienced thirty (30) blissful years together. Joseph shared wonderful, adventurous and often frightful stories of his younger days in the rainforests of Tamana, better known as “the jungle” to his children. The highly venomous mappipire and coral snakes; the agouti and the lappe that he and his brothers trapped, plucked and ate with heroic pleasure; bird hunting and the eating of countless tropical fruits and vegetables filled his stories. These
were the stories that captivated the listener, transporting them into Joseph’s world, if they dared! He was inspired to apply for a position in The Bahamas with the Education Board; successfully obtaining various posts in Pirate’s Well, Mayaguana, Behring Point, Andros and subsequently here in Nassau, at the Bahamas Baptist High School. During his tenure, he also served as a catechist and a Boy Scouts leader, teaching cricket and soccer to eager students. His former students and their families continued to visit with him, sharing old stories and joyfully recalling memories of the many parties he hosted. Joseph was the consummate professional, diligent, well-read and always progressive. In the late sixties, upon graduating from the University of the West Indies (UWI) with a Bachelor’s of Science degree in Banking and Finance, he returned home to pursue a career in banking. He later joined NatWest International, before moving on to the Bank of Montreal International, retiring in 1989. Joseph’s desire was always to study law, and upon graduating from the Norman Manley School of Law at UWI, he was called to The Bahamas Bar on November 11, 1994. He was extremely proud of this accomplishment, as it was his life-long goal. Joseph established his law practice in Grosvenor’s Close, where he offered superb service to his clients. His legal colleagues held him in high regards, and he continually shared his legal knowledge with others. Joseph was a gifted agriculturalist, educator, senior banker and a lawyer with the utmost integrity. He was also a great cook and a prolific writer, having written many poems and books including CLEOLAMAE and HYDRACÔTE, which were both published. Joseph was a musical artist (songwriter and performer), and a lover of laughter and good times – a true, true Trini! Throughout his life, we recalled those special times with fondness. Much of his talents fell on his children, who inherited his gardening, culinary and writing skills.
Joseph is survived by his children from his union with Frances Marshall Lédée, with whom he lovingly formed a family consisting of Sara, Steine, Emile, Yolande and Dominic. Upon marriage to Theodora, the family became a blended family with his children and Ormanda. We experienced folkloric storytelling, beaching, games nights, carnival and calypso music, dancing and spicy Trinidadian food, which filled our memories of those days. Joseph was the king of efficiency and discipline: nothing broken was not fixed, no destination was arrived at late, no promise made was not kept. All matters pertaining to church were paramount and could never be ignored. Shoes were cleaned Sunday nights while watching The Wild, Wild World of Animals, because all schoolwork was completed, checked and perfected the night before. Joseph’s health began a steady decline in July of last year. Even though we prayed for and remained hopeful for his recovery, it was not to be. With his loving, caring and devoted wife Theodora, his faithfully supportive brother-in-law Maxwell and Dr. Susan Williams-Lockhart at his side, Joseph (Daddy, Uncle Joseph, Teacher “Ledee”) quietly made his entrance into Glory, there to meet his Loving Master. May he rest in peace. Joseph was predeceased by his parents: Vernon and Gwendoline Lédée, his siblings: Albert, John and Norma Lédée, Irma Pierre and his daughter: Margaret De Souza of Trinidad & Tobago; Left to cherish his memories are his Wife: Theodora Lédée; Daughters and Sons: June Collie, Sara Evans, Steine and Donald Campbell, Yolande Lédée Phelps, Dr. Ormanda Johnson, Hamlet and Cindy Alexander, Hasdrubal and Emile Lédée, Dominic and Helena Deveaux and Julien Mensah; Grandchildren: Jason and Theresa De Souza, Autrey Collie, Ajanée and Cassim Evans, Ferron and Devard Campbell,
Josef, Saiah and John Phelps, Daniel Johnson-Mensah, Kristian, Kristel and David-Anthony Alexander, Alexander, Amina and Malia Lédée and Danica Deveaux; Great grandchildren: Trinity, Trenyse, Travon and Ajay Collie, Ashton, Jessiah and Shyaeir Evans and Dakari Ferguson; Sister-in-law: Gertrude Sweeting; Brothers-in-law: Maxwell Moncur and George Kerr; Nieces and Nephews: Vincent and Sydney Lédée, Shadaina Moncur, Maxiann and Leroy Forbes, Cohen Sweeting, Ret. Nurse Stephanie Johnson and Family, Betty Ann Major and Family; Special Friends: Rev. Cedric and Beverley Farquharson, Earl and Ann Alfred of Trinidad & Tobago, Lloyd Goodridge of the USA, Denison Theophilus and Family of St. Lucia, Maria, Sandra and Villann Johnson, Annamae Fox and Family, Patricia Burrows and Family, Antoinette Bonamy and Family, Pauline and Thomas Dean; Other relatives and friends: Frances Lédée, Brenda McIntosh, Fred Phelps, Fay Culmer and Family, Brenda Moncur and Family, the Moncur families, Brenda Ferguson and Family, Deborah Fawkes, Gregory Armbrister, Stacie Williams, Audrey and John Ellis, Veronica Saunders and Family, Carolyn Johnson and Family, Arnette Chisholm and Family, Vernon Deal, Sylvester George, Pearl Hollingsworth, Rosie Charlemagne, the Manasco Group, former students of the Bahamas Baptist Highschool and other schools in Andros and Mayaguana, The Bar Association of The Bahamas and the Trinidad and Tobago Bahamas Association. He is also remembered with fondness by his childhood friends in Trinidad. Special Thanks To: Dr. Susan Williams-Lockhart, Dr. Eugene Gray, Dr. Adrian Sawyer, Dr. Charles Rahming, Dr. Nicole Adderley, Dr. Carnille Farquharson, Dr. Dean Tseretopoulos and Dr. Dionne Dames-Rahming
ORDER OF THE SERVICE OPENING HYMN | “And Can It Be” And can it be that I should gain An interest in the Savior’s blood? Died He for me, who caused His pain— For me, who Him to death pursued? Amazing love! How can it be, That Thou, my God, shouldst die for me?
Long my imprisoned spirit lay Fast bound in sin and nature’s night; Thine eye diffused a quickening ray I woke, the dungeon flamed with light; My chains feel off, my heart was free, I rose, went forth, and followed Thee.
’Tis mystery all: thee Immortal dies: Who can explore His strange design? In vain the firstborn seraph tries To sound the depths of love divine. ’Tis mercy all! Let earth adore, Let angel minds inquire no more.
No condemnation now I dread; Jesus, and all in Him, is mine; Alive in Him, my living Head, And clothed in righteousness divine, Bold I approach thee eternal throne, And claim the crown, through Christ my own.
He left His Father’s throne above So free, so infinite His grace— Emptied Himself of all but love, And bled for Adam’s helpless race: ’Tis mercy all, immense and free, For O my God, it found out me! THE COLLECT FOR THE DEPARTED: Priest: The Lord be with you. All: And also with you. Celebrant: Let us pray: Almighty God, we remember before you today your servant, Joseph; and we pray that, having opened to him the gates of larger life, you will receive him more and more into your joyful service, that, with all who have served you in the past, he may share in the eternal victory of Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for, ever and ever. All: Amen
THE MINISTRY OF THE WORD OLD TESTAMENT LESSON | Émile Lédée (Son) Reader: A Reading from the Word of God written in Wisdom Chapter 3, beginning at Verse 1 But the souls of the righteous are in the hand of God, and no torment will ever touch them. In the eyes of the foolish they seemed to have died, and their departure was thought to be a disaster, and their going from us to be their destruction; but they are at peace. For though in the sight of others they were punished, their hope is full of immortality. Having been disciplined a little, they will receive great good, because God tested them and found them worthy of himself; Those who trust in him will understand truth, and the faithful will abide with him in love, because grace and mercy are upon his holy ones, and he watches over his elect. Reader: The Word of the Lord. All: Thanks be to God. SELECTION | Retired Chief Superintendent Sylvester George (Friend) PSALM 116: | Yolande Lédée Phelps (Daughter) I love the LORD, because he has heard the voice of my supplication, because he has inclined his ear to me whenever I called upon him. The cords of death entangled me; the grip of the grave took hold of me; I came to grief and sorrow. Then I called upon the Name of the LORD: “O LORD, I pray you, save my life.” Gracious is the LORD and righteous; our God is full of compassion. The LORD watches over the innocent; I was brought very low, and he helped me. Turn again to your rest, O my soul, for the LORD has treated you well. For you have rescued my life from death, my eyes from tears, and my feet from stumbling. I will walk in the presence of the LORD in the land of the living. I believed, even when I said, “I have been brought very low.” In my distress I said, “No one can be trusted.” How shall I repay the LORD for all the good things he has done for me? I will lift up the cup of salvation and call upon the Name of the LORD. I will fulfill my vows to the LORD in the presence of all his people. Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his servants. O LORD, I am your servant; I am your servant and the child of your handmaid; you have freed me from my bonds. I will offer you the sacrifice of thanksgiving and call upon the Name of the LORD. I will fulfill my vows to the LORD in the presence of all his people, In the courts of the LORD’S house, in the midst of you, O Jerusalem. Hallelujah! NEW TESTAMENT LESSON | Shadaina Moncur (Niece) Reader: A Reading from the Word of God written in 1st Thessalonians Chapter 4, beginning at Verse 13. But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers and sisters, about those who have died, so that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have died. For this we declare to you by the word of the Lord, that we who are alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will by no means precede those who have died. For the Lord himself, with a cry of command, with the
archangel’s call and with the sound of God’s trumpet, will descend from heaven, and the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up in the clouds together with them to meet the Lord in the air; and so we will be with the Lord for ever. Therefore encourage one another with these words. Reader: The Word of the Lord. All: Thanks be to God. GRADUAL HYMN | Love Divine, All Love Excelling Love divine, all loves excelling, joy of heaven, to earth come down, fix in us thy humble dwelling, all thy faithful mercies crown. Jesu, thou art all compassion, pure unbounded love thou art; visit us with thy salvation, enter every trembling heart.
Finish then thy new creation: pure and spotless let us be; let us see thy great salvation, perfectly restored in thee; changed from glory into glory, till in heaven we take our place, till we cast our crowns before thee, lost in wonder, love, and praise.
Come, almighty to deliver, let us all thy grace receive; suddenly return, and never, never more thy temples leave. Thee we would be always blessing, serve thee as thy hosts above; pray, and praise thee, without ceasing, glory in thy perfect love. THE GOSPEL | Clergy Priest: The Lord be with you. All: And also with you Priest: A Reading from the Word of God written in John Chapter 14, beginning at Verse 1. All: Glory to Christ our Saviour. Do not let your hearts be troubled. Believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father’s house there are many dwelling-places. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, so that where I am, there you may be also. And you know the way to the place where I am going.’ Thomas said to him, ‘Lord, we do not know where you are going. How can we know the way?’ Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
Priest: This is the Gospel of Christ All: Praise to Christ our Lord THE HOMILY | Archdeacon Mark Lindsay-Fox THE PRAYER OF THE FAITHFUL | Led by: Josef and Saiah Phelps (Grandchildren) Leader: We have gathered to celebrate the entry of Joseph into life eternal. People: To affirm with praise and thanksgiving the goodness of the Lord. Leader: Let us rejoice in God’s presence with us, in death as in life among those who now see God face to face. People: Our lips will shout for joy, for God’s love is over all that God has made. Blessed be God’s glorious Name forever! Leader: We feel the pain of separation, we are conscious of our loss, but we have hope in Jesus Christ. People: We give thanks to God from whom comes all life and death and who surrounds us in both. We have affirmed our faith and rejoice in Christ’s victory over death, which is God’s promise to us. Leader: Lord, You raised the dead to life. People: Give to our brother Joseph; eternal life. Leader: Our brother Joseph; was washed in Baptism and anointed with the Holy Spirit. Give him fellowship with all your saints. People: Hear us, Lord. Leader: He was nourished with Your Body and Blood; Grant him a place at the table in your heavenly kingdom. People: Hear us, Lord. Leader: Comfort us in our sorrows at the death of our brother, Joseph; Let our faith be our consolation, and eternal life our hope. All: Amen THE PENITENCE: Priest: If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, God is faithful and just, and will forgive our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Let us therefore confess our sins. All: Almighty God our Heavenly Father, we have sinned against You and one another, in thought, word and deed, and in what we have left undone. We are sorry and repent of all our sins. For your Son, our Lord Jesus Christ’s sake, forgive us all that is past, and grant that we may serve you in newness of life to the honour and glory of your Name.
THE ABSOLUTION: Celebrant: Almighty God, have mercy upon you, pardon and deliver you from all your sins, confirm and strengthen you in all goodness, and keep you in life eternal; through Jesus Christ, our Lord. ALL: Amen. OFFERTORY HYMN | O Jesus I Have Promised O Jesus, I have promised to serve Thee to the end; be thou forever near me, my master and my friend; I shall not fear the battle if thou art by my side, nor wander from the pathway, if thou wilt be my guide.
O Jesus, Thou hast promised to all who follow thee that where Thou art in glory there shall thy servant be; and Jesus, I have promised to serve thee to the end; O give me grace to follow, my master and my Friend.
O let me feel Thee near me: the world is ever near; I see the sights that dazzle, the tempting sounds I hear; my foes are ever near me, around me and within; but, Jesus, draw thou nearer, and shield my soul from sin.
O let me see thy footmarks, and in them plant mine own; my hope to follow duly is in thy strength alone. O guide me, call me, draw me, uphold me to the end; and then in heaven receive me, my Savior and my friend.
O let me hear thee speaking in accents clear and still, above the storms of passion, the murmurs of self-will; O speak to reassure me, to hasten, or control; O speak, and make me listen, thou Guardian of my soul. THE MINISTRY OF THE HOLY EUCHARIST (Highest reverence due – No Talking – No Movement) THE PRESENTATION OF THE OFFERINGS | Form A | Page 126 B.C.P.
THE EUCHARISTIC PRAYER | Form E | Page 142 B.C.P. PROPER PREFACE | Commemoration of the Dead | Page 129 B.C.P. THE LORD’S PRAYER THE BREAKING OF THE BREAD: Celebrant: We break this bread to share in the Body of Christ. All: Though we are many, we are one body, because we all share in one bread. The Invitation: Celebrant: My brothers and sisters in Christ, draw near and receive His Body, which He gave for you, and His Blood, which He shed for you. Remember that He died for you and feed on Him in your hearts by faith with thanksgiving. All: Grant us, gracious Lord, that we so eat the flesh of Your Dear Son, Jesus Christ and drink His Blood, that we may evermore dwell in Him and Him in us. Amen The Agnus Dei: All: Lamb of God, You take away the sin of the world; grant him rest. Lamb of God, You take away the sin of the world; grant him rest. Lamb of God, You take away the sin of the world; grant him rest eternal. COMMUNION HYMN | I am The Bread of Life I am the bread of life; he who comes to me shall not hunger; he who believes in me shall not thirst. No one can come to me unless the Father draw him. (Chorus) And I will raise him up, and I will raise him up, and I will raise him up on the last day. The bread that I will give is my flesh for the life of the world, and they who eat of this bread, they shall live forever. Unless you eat of the flesh of the Son of Man and drink of his blood,
you shall not have life within you, you shall not have life within you. I am the resurrection, I am the life; they who believe in me, even if they die, they shall live forever. Yes, Lord, we believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God, who has come into the world.
COMMUNION HYMN | Here, O My Lord, I See Thee Face to Face Here, O my Lord, I see thee face to face; here faith would touch and handle things unseen; here grasp with firmer hand the eternal grace, and all my weariness upon thee lean. Here would I feed upon the bread of God; here drink with thee the royal wine of heaven; here would I lay aside each earthly load; here taste afresh the calm of sin forgiven. I have no help but thine; nor do I need another arm save thine to lean upon: it is enough, my Lord, enough indeed, my strength is in thy might, thy might alone. POST COMMUNION PRAYER: All: Almighty God, we thank You that in Your great love You have fed us with the spiritual food and drink of the Body and Blood of Your Son Jesus Christ, and have given us a foretaste of Your heavenly banquet. Grant that this Sacrament may be unto us a comfort in affliction, and a pledge of our inheritance in that kingdom where there is no death, neither sorrow, nor crying, but the fullness of life with all your saints, through Jesus Christ our Saviour. Amen. THE RECESSIONAL HYMN | How Great Thou Art Oh Lord, my God, when I, in awesome wonder consider all the worlds thy hands have made; I see the stars, I hear the rolling thunder, thy power throughout the universe displayed: (Chorus) Then sings my soul, my Savior God to thee, how great thou art! How great Thou art! Then sings my soul, my Savior God to thee, how great thou art! How great Thou art! When through the woods and forest glades I wander, and hear the birds sing sweetly in the trees; when I look down from lofty mountain grandeur, and hear the brook, and feel the gentle breeze. And when I think that God, his Son not sparing, sent him to die - I scarce can take it in: that on the cross, my burden gladly bearing, he bled and died to take away my sin. When Christ shall come with shout of acclamation and take me home - what joy shall fill my heart! Then shall I bow in humble adoration, and then proclaim, my God, how great thou art!
Farewell
MY DARLING Joseph, you were always the person to say on Saturday night, “Mass tomorrow morning.” Joseph, you believed strongly in your God and Saviour and I know that you are now in Heaven singing with the Angels and praying for those of us left here on earth. “Darling”, My Lady”, “Teddy”, “Ernestine” or “Theodora” - whichever name you called me, it was always said in a loving and caring manner. You were so gentle. Joseph, our introduction at a party, in February 1990, was the beginning of a beautiful relationship, which lead to us being married that same year on the 14th December, 1990. Our thirty years together flew by so quickly. Of course, each year I had to remind you that “today is our anniversary.” Your reply was always “How many years?” You would often look at me and say, “Teddy, where were you all of my life, you are such a good person.” I would always answer “Joseph, let us thank God and enjoy our years together.” In humour I would say, “You know that I could not have married you when you sported your “afro” hairstyle.” We both enjoyed entertaining, and over the past years, you never missed a weekend without “cooking up” some sweet potato, yam, eddo, cassava, plaintain, etc. from your backyard garden, along with the native fruit juices of Trinidad, the trees of which you grew in your yard. You enjoyed baking bread, cakes, fruitcakes and preparing our meals. It was never a chore. I remember sometimes we would have tickets for a formal occasion and you would say “Teddy, do you really want to dress up tonight?” We would then put on our casual clothes and go somewhere for a quiet meal. I worked for you at your law office for a few years. Wow! I told you at least once a week, “Please feel free to fire me.” Unfortunately, I was an unpaid worker, so you were not about to “fire” your free labour! Your question every morning was “Have
you heard from Ormanda, how is she doing?” Ormanda ensured that you were always well cared for. Every night Ormanda would call and I would put the phone speakers on so that you, Daniel’s beloved Papa, could hear Daniel’s Jokes Of The Day. How you would laugh and enjoy them each night. Ormanda ensured that Daniel spent at least five months of each year with us, either in England, Maine or at home in The Bahamas because she wanted Daniel to know the love of his Grandparents. I thank God for blessing you with so many talents that you so efficiently displayed throughout your life. Joseph, you were born into a loving home. Daily, you told me stories about your parents or your siblings, or about your only nephew, Vincent, as well as your children and your life as a teacher. Through God’s grace and goodness, you taught, mentored and became a friend to many persons in The Bahamas and Trinidad. We have received so many kind words of expressions from those persons whose lives you indelibly touched over the many years. My Darling Joseph, the poem entitled “SELDOM”, that you wrote about me in 2003 which made me cry, and again two weeks ago, when I re-read it to you and told you how much I loved and cared for you, is even more painful to read as I write this tribute to you. Even as I prayed daily to God for your healing, I also prayed that we would have each other for a few more years. Joseph, I realized that you were ready to be with Your Saviour, as a few days before your death, while holding my hand, you said, “Teddy, let us go home.” I was frightened but I bravely answered, “Joseph, look around, you are at home, you are not in the hospital.” But sadly, “I want to go home”, was your cry until you peacefully slipped away. I tried to reassure you that you were at home in our bedroom, but you knew that your eternal home was with Your God. I shall always thank God that you were a part of my life for thirty years. May God in His Mercy grant you Eternal Peace. LOVE YOU FOREVER MY DARLING HUSBAND, THEODORA
SELDOM My heart will skip when I espy A damsel on life’s strand, Of buxom face, demure, not shy, A treasure of a land, A damsel who is frank and fair, Of gentle words well spoken, And who is heard to sing so clear The praises of her brethren. My heart would skip when I descry A damsel fraught with kindness, Without a wish to vilify A wretch bereaved in sadness, A damsel who would share with all The talents she was given, And view her sharing as a call, Her effort real, not striven. My heart would skip when I discern, Unselfishness unfeigned, Within a dame of great concern, Unspoilt and unrestrained, A dame whose time she’ll freely give Without a hidden game, Because it’s just her way to live And love it just the same. My heart would skip when I behold That winning smile in flower, With love and blessings to unfold, The smile of sweet Theodora, A genial smile by angel blushed, A jewel framed by Nature. I ponder it in quiet hushed, Enthralled in joy and wonder. Joseph C. Lédée 11th May, 2003
Daddy, A parent is one who provides divine guidance; loves with correction unconditionally; is sensitive to the needs of others; and helps his children understand a purpose driven life, all uniquely woven with humor and laughter. Thank you for the impartation!
In The Storm In the storm perceptions are never right Dark clouds drift by and cover the light The tempest rages without end in sight Decisions made now could alter a life In the storm there’s much to fear Danger lurks from everywhere Seas are rough and the way unclear Be aware and please take care In the storm you cannot think ahead In spite of all that was said The feeling that you dread Has taken over instead In the storm a safe harbour you need Good friends will grant it indeed In solace the soul you must feed Doubts and fears must not proceed In the storm you think it would last That it will never past Although the trials you face are vast Hold on, the silver lining has been cast June Collie
May your soul Rest In Peace.... Sara & Kids
A Love Letter to My Daddy Where do I begin and where should I end? So very much sits between your “dash” and mine, Daddy. You were my first love and my first love lost; the bearer of utter joy and of disabling pain, but through the gaps, and the highs and the lows, you were my hero whom I completely adored, the object of my shadow. Taught to honour you still by our devoted mother, my love and respect for you will forever have no length, no width, nor depth! I will count it all joy, and longingly remember those special moments that God created just for you and me, particularly in your latter days, for which I am immensely grateful! Rest In Peace, Joe, Your Loving Daughter, Steine
Daddy, You’ll never really be gone. That’s just the way our bond works. While physical presence has to be sacrificed, the truth is the children and I have you for all eternity, and eternity is now. Best Father and Grandfather Ever! AEIOU Yolande, Josef, Saiah and John
Papa
I have many fond memories of you over the years, from your singing and love of music to your great cooking and telling your stories of your days growing up in Tamana, Trinidad. When I went to medical school at UWI in Trinidad, I got to see for myself your ‘sweet Trinidad’ and enjoyed spending weekends with Aunt Irma and Margaret. With all of our shared love of travelling, I took you and Mummy on many adventures and have so many happy recollections of our various trips. I enjoyed watching your great bond with your Grandson Daniel, and you loved to hear daily of ‘Daniel’s hilarious sayings’ that kept everyone thoroughly entertained. You and ‘your great love’, my sweet gem of a Mother, who is beautiful inside and out, were a good match. She perfectly complimented you and was loved and respected by all. She was so caring and devoted in every aspect, and you both enjoyed a great life together for the past 30 years filled with mutual love. You will certainly be missed! Dr. Ormanda Johnson (Daughter)
Dear Daddy,
As a young boy, while watching you point out the star constellations at night, little did I know that you would be preparing me for the same career as that of my grandfather; the discipline derived from the founders of Astronomy from the black kingdoms of Kemet, Kush and Sudan; more commonly known as the Geodetic Science (Land Surveying). Looking back now, it makes perfect sense to me as more than a few persons have mentioned that my knowledge should be shared in academia. After all, I do have you to thank for setting that spark within me. To date, I can safely say that there is not a man that I know that has been marinated and aged in black essence like you. For sure, one could not tell this by just looking at you and most definitely would not by looking my grandfather. I still laugh to this day when I made the assumption as to your father’s gene pool and you said to me, “Your grandfather was not a white man, he was Octoroon”. Your ability to story tell (Anansi tales were the best), catch wild meat, cook and bake is to be revered. That you were a lyrics man following suite of the Mighty Sparrow was only icing on the cake. I recall on quite a few occasions at your home, watching heavenly constructs visit for your cooking (this of course, was between marriages); this young lad paid attention and those inherited talents bloomed at college and university. As you were an educator early on, discipline came with the territory. At an early age I was a challenging boy and needed to be kept in line. I remember one day in front our yard, Ted and Tim Tanner (twins), Mark Carter and I were on our bicycles (Choppers were the rave back then). I do not recall exactly what derogatory remark came from the twins but the resulting action was for me throw them into our thorn bush. Mark made a statement and I gave him a warning and when you came home from work, you verbally scolded me for my behavior. Because I knew that I was right, I looked up at you and in my mind said, “if you test me, you will end up just like those two”. I can honestly say that the overwhelming majority of disciplined “cut hip” that I took from you was warranted. I was the typical curious and hellish boy; and my love of fire was more reason to keep me at close range; a junior pyromaniac in the making. That attraction most likely came about when you used to grill food in the backyard and primarily from what was grown in the small farm section. When you were on your game as a father, very few could compare; when you were not, times were challenging. What I can say is that my mother always preached forgiveness and encouraged my siblings and I to spend time with you. It is this positivity and understanding that she instilled in us that has allowed me to personally enjoy the last twenty-plus years with and now honor you. To the last offspring of Vernon & Gwendoline Lédée, the Bushman from Tamana Hill, Daddy I will miss you! With Love and Respect, Myles
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n this occasion, we would like to express how appreciative we are of the time we’ve been able to spend with our grandfather. He’s left a lasting impression on us both by instilling his love for education, music and nature every time we would visit. It was a blessing to have known our Grandaddy and share our lives with him. Granddaddy, we will always miss you and cherish all of the amazing memories we had with you. Love you always, Ferron and Devard.
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apa I am going to miss you so much and I am sad to hear that you have passed. You were the best Papa. You always sang nursery rhymes with me and gave the biggest hugs. You would come to visit me often and I always spent my summers and other holidays with you in The Bahamas. There we would go in the yard and you would tell me great stories and cut coconuts. I love you Papa! Daniel Theodore Johnson-Mensah (Grandson)
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remember how much Granddaddy liked his yard, he was very in touch with nature and he had a beautiful yard. I’ve spent visits at his house running around, looking at the plants, and collecting rocks in the gardens. Granddaddy would tell us folktales from Trinidad, and would tell us stories that taught wisdom. Aunt Teddy would always ask us if we were hungry and prepare something for us to eat. Sometimes when we went to the house we would eat ice cream and pound cake. I will cherish all of the memories I’ve spent with them. Thank you Aunty Teddy and Granddaddy for everything over the past years. Love you and we will all miss you, Granddaddy. From: Malia Pauline Rose Lédée
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would describe my Grandfather as determined because I have always heard from my dad and others about all he had achieved. People would come up to me and ask who my family was, I’d respond saying “Frances Lédée,” “Joseph Lédée” and be instantly greeted with respect and thankfulness. That’s because I come from a well-accomplished family, and I have my Grand-daddy to thank for that. Aside from work, Grand-daddy would tell my sister and me folklore or fairy tales or quiz us on Spanish words and math. He would also sing us songs, and though I didn’t understand them, I was still thankful for the moments and the opportunity to know him. I just know that my Grandfather contributed a lot to this country and the people that he met along his journey. I am just as thankful to be a part of honoring his accomplishments today in writing this tribute. From yours truly, Amina Frances Ta-meri Ledee
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y grandfather was a very wise man. I can vividly recall him always pushing me to be the best I could be, whether that was sticking to violin, playing sports, or excelling in academics. My grandfather saw potential in me and wanted me to aspire to greatness. I know I can because I am a descendant of him. My grandfather worked as a teacher, banker, and attorney in the course of one lifetime. I can only hope to be half the man he was. Love, Alex
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ife is short and there never seems to be enough TIME in our lives to accomplish our goals. Joseph was able to accomplish most of his dreams with his TIME on this earth. He was multitalented, therefore TIME was his friend and enabled him to pursue and accomplish many of his dreams and aspirations, (his bucket list). From the first time I had the opportunity and pleasure of meeting Joseph, over 30 odd years ago , I was drawn to his personality, sense of humor and his self confidence. He was quite versed in most aspects of life, from music, play writing to world affairs and any and everything in between. I thank you Joseph for the many years that you made my lovely sister Theodora happy, and she will always be a part of you. To the end of your time on this earth, you would always try to the best of your ability to be independent. Your TIME on this earth was very fulfilling and I know that you are at peace. You fought a great fight and now you can rest peacefully in the arms of the Creator. Amen. Rest in peace brother Joseph, for over the years you became more than a brother in law, you are my brother. It is your time now to begin a new life for eternity. Love you always! Maxwell
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oseph Lédée was a purpose-driven man. He was a man of immense intellect who always sought to improve himself - adding noteworthy titles over his many years teacher, banker, attorney-at-law, writer; yet always humble in demeanor. He was a lover of life who took great pride in his wife, children, grandchildren, friends, his garden, and his Calypso. He appreciated the life he lived and never neglected to pay homage to the land of his birth, Trinidad. A man who listened more than he spoke, yet spoke volumes with just a few words. You have left an astounding legacy for your children and grandchildren. You will live on in each of them! Lots of love, from Brenda McIntosh Lédée
The last of his generation and the last of my ancestors. He was the uncle that for the last ten years or more was very relaxed with me and treated me as a little brother. He was from his younger days to the end was precise in his dealings with anyone including his families and relatives. Ambition with education that was him, accommodating to friends and family was as good as it could have been. A wicked sense of humor, at his home we were in the yard admiring different fruit trees. I picked an orange, peeled it and proceeded to suck it. I said to him it is sour. He started laughing hysterically and said of all the fruits that was your choice. He could of stopped me but it would of spoiled his pleasure. To this day I smile of that remembrance. He was an argriculturist to some extent and also a hunter. Hunting were his topic of conversation with the Ledee families of Trinidad. So many stories on that topic. Please don’t forget his dancing was admiring and a great swimmer as well. As I grieve at his departure, it is the destiny for all of us. May he rest in peace until the bell tolls for us that’s left behind. VINCENT LEDEE
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ncle Joseph was a blessing to all those who knew him. He touched the lives of the many people he met as a teacher, lawyer, author and retiree. He genuinely loved people and we loved him. I will always remember uncle Joseph for his sense of humor (I had to be quick on my toes to figure out exactly what he meant), his ready smiles, life advice (including free legal advice), hospitality (especially his famous drinks made with passion fruit or sorrel), his singing, zest for learning, engaging storytelling, cultural fables, wise proverbs and his published books. Just to name a few. Uncle Joseph was always free with sharing his vast knowledge and experiences. Growing up, it seemed to me that he knew everything about everything. He was a loving husband with my awesome aunt by his side, a kind father, a man who cherished his family and friends and to me, an amazing and wonderful uncle. Love you uncle Joseph. Maxiann Forbes a.k.a. “Tall girl”
Tribute To My “Uncle Joseph “
As I absorb that you are no longer with us, I count my blessings and thank my aunt for choosing you to not only be her loving husband, but also my uncle. This role in a person’s life is so significant and you personified your responsibility as an uncle, with such Grace and pleasure and I am extremely grateful for you. Thank you for being a huge part of my life, guiding and influencing me, to help mold me into the person I have become today. Thank you for always being there, to listen and offer the best advice not just for me but for my children as well. I am honored and proud to have been your niece. If every heart and mind were as unselfish, warm and caring like yours, then what a lovely world there would be. Today, you are no longer with us, and loss has taught us the importance of facing each day with hope of happy memories to help us on our own way. I will miss your jokes that you always started with after a greeting. So even though we are filled with sadness that you are no longer with us, your influence, kindness, love, support and thoughtfulness will continue to guide us daily. Sometimes, you will never know or understand the value of a moment until it becomes a memory. Thank you for that caring smile and warm embrace that will continue to be in my heart forever. I love you, take your welll deserved rest. Your niece, Shadaina Moncur
Joseph Ledee, a Good Friend, a Kind Neighbor.
I first met Mr. Ledee in 1965 at the Bahamas Baptist College located on Rosetta Street, Palmdale, where he was a high school teacher and I was a seminary student at the Bahamas Baptist Institute, which was at the same location. Mr. Ledee was a gifted individual who shared his God given talents to the benefit of his fellowman. Each week at the high school, there was a morning religious service for the students and the speaker was selected from one of the seminary students. The sermon was graded by the seminary students however the High school students were not involved in the grading process. Mr. Ledee, nevertheless, critiqued the sermons and for me, provided helpful hints on English grammar and the use of humor in my sermons. You see, Mr. Ledee had an excellent sense of humor but unfortunately many of his stories were too mature for my sermons. Mr. Ledee and I became close friends and neighbors when he took up residence in Skyline Heights in the early eighties and we remained close friends up to the time of his demise. His children and my children remain close friends to this day. In addition to his academic qualifications, Mr. Ledee was an outdoors person and specialized in growing tropical and exotic fruits which he freely shared with us and other neighbors. He and my wife Beverley had a running contest on the best lawn in the neighborhood however he lost out on that one as my wife has a green thumb and her garden is kept green 365 days of the year. In earlier days, Skyline Heights had an abundance of trees, many of which were uprooted during hurricanes, blocking the streets. Mr. Ledee and I were always the first to grab our tools and unblock the streets so motorists could freely travel. Over the course of his working life, in addition to being an Educator, Mr. Ledee was also a Bank Executive, a noted Attorney and the Author of two popular novels, “Cleolamae” and “Hydracote.” Here is how the late Larry Smith, a noted Bahamian journalist described the novels in a review of Bahamian books on November 26, 2008. He said “a Bahamas based Trini Lawyer, Joseph Ledee, published “Cleolamae”, a historical novel (Media Enterprises, 1999) and followed it up with a compendium of short stories and creative writings called “Hydracote” (Media Enterprises, 2001). “Cleolamae” is described as a fable of Bahamian life that highlights the history and culture of the Bahamian people, with whom the author has spent most of his life.” Joseph Ledee was God’s gift to this country and his memory will forever linger in the heart of his dear and faithful wife Theodora, his family and all of us. May his soul rest in peace! Rev. Cedric P. Farquharson
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ncle Joseph, I still can’t believe I am writing a tribute because of your passing. Words cannot describe this difficult moment, but if this is the last time I get to say goodbye then I know I will do so with the knowledge that I consider myself blessed to have lived this life as your nephew.
The benefits of your hard work is a living testimony for so many young men and women you took under your wings at a personal and professional level. Uncle Joseph, you were and will always be an inspiration to myself, the entire family and anyone that came in contact with you. While we mourn today, we also take comfort in the fact that your mission on earth have been fulfilled. We thank the Lord for your life and bid you farewell until we meet again. Love, Trudy and Cohen.
Tribute to a Family Friend.
We were privileged to have Joe as a part of our family for well over 40 years. We got to know Joe through one of our sisters, his former student, in the mid to late 1970s. We came to love Joe for his wicked sense of humor, character and most of all his smarts. He always had a smart word which either annoyed you or left you laughing uncontrollably. While he was kindhearted he was also a no nonsense person and didn’t tolerate idle talk. As the years went by our friendship grew and Joe became a part of our family. We have fond memories of regular visits, plucking fruits from his garden, the fellowships and our famous Christmas and birthdays get together. Joe had a passion for music and serenaded us on numerous occasions with his musical talent. Whenever we needed a word of encouragement or to pick his legal mind, he always had the right response even though there were times the response was not what we wanted to hear but we knew it was the right one. In recent years even though Joe’s health began to fade his wit was still strong and remained to the end. Rest on dear friend we will always remember you!!! The Johnson Sisters
A Salute to My Late, Treasured and Life-long Friend, Joseph Cornelius Lédée
One day in September 1962 sitting next to me on a BOAC aircraft departing from the Piarco Trinidad Airport was a life-long and treasured friend, Joseph Cornelius Lédée. Having attended Trinidad’s independence celebration from Great Britain, I was returning to The Bahamas where I was the principal of the Ragged Island Public School. Joe, however, as he was popularly known, was making his first trip to The Bahamas to assume a teaching position at an elementary school on Mayaguana, one of the far flung islands in the country. There being no land, air, or regular shipping service between the two islands, but only a telephone service that lacked real privacy, communication between us was minimal to say the least. During summer vacations, though, we would meet in Nassau and have a good time. Joe, however, not intending to make teaching a career, entered the University of the West Indies where he graduated with distinction in Banking and Finance. Following graduation for a second time, he distinguished himself as a lawyer in the Courts of The Bahamas, and also successfully operated his own law practice. On occasion when I needed assistance with legal matters, I turned to Joe, who gladly came to my assistance. Whenever my wife, Joyce, now deceased, or I wanted to visit Nassau, Joe’s home was always open to us. When Joe’s daughter, Steine, was a student at college in New York City, we kept in close touch with her, and when our son Keith graduated from high school in New York City, Joe received him at the national airport in Nassau. Keith spent an unforgettable week in The Bahamas. Never shall I forget the week that the deceased and his wife Theodora (Teddy) spent at our Palm Coast, Florida, home. Time after time as the years rolled by, Joe would refer to it with joy! Joe was not only a valued friend, and an outstanding lawyer, he was also a poet and short story writer of no mean order. As a matter of fact, on his insistence, I edited and wrote the back cover for his publication titled, “HYDRACôTE” which he published in 2001. When Joe and I retired, we kept in constant touch, and I was deeply saddened to learn of his illness. Being 5 years his senior, I also have my health problem, but the intensity of his ill-health was greater than mine. About a week before his demise, I called his home, and his loving, dedicated wife, Teddy, got him to the phone. For a while the conversation went on quite nicely, when suddenly it went off track, letting me realize that he had greatly deteriorated mentally, which deeply saddened me. So on the morning of April 13th when my phone rang while I was still in bed, and I heard his daughter Steine on the line, I immediately realized that the news would not be good...and it was not! My life-long friend had passed on to his reward. It grieves my heart that failing health prevents me from being present to say farewell to my treasured friend. I therefore embrace this opportunity to extend my deepest condolences to his wife, Teddy, his children, Sara, Steine, Emile and Yolande; his former wife, Frances, and his other offsprings. May He Rest In Peace! Lloyd G. S. Goodridge April 2021
The MATH TEACHER on the CUTTING EDGE Our last exchange with Mr. LEDEE and his family would have been at his home when he and his wife hosted us graciously as a BBC group...the comraderie and hospitality were surreal and enjoyed by all....so much we talked about our best days at Bahamas Baptist College from Form1 through Form 5. Our academic journey was truly attributed to our Mathematical genius. Mr. Ledee”s mathematical insight and ability influenced our appreciation and application to the world of math. He never waivered in his commitment to his students. We thank God for his life, legacy, and influence. As his life journey has ended on this side, let us be reminded of a verse taken from the BEATITUDES:BLESSED ARE THOSE WHO MOURN...for they shall be COMFORTED May the ANGELS bear him into ABRAHAM’S BOSOM and may he be granted Perpetual PEACE. from a Bahamas Baptist High student that Joseph taught.
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oseph and I remained close friends over the decades. He was a regular visitor to San Salvador when I lived there, and our friendship blossomed as young men through our shared interests in maintaining active social schedules. We also shared a passion for the garden and lots of time was spent discussing the fate of whatever crops we had planted and harvested.
Later in life, we spent many a Saturday at Beverley’s Kitchen on Carmichael Road, occasionally with the Justice Neville Smith and Mr Carlton Blair for a good local Bahamian breakfast and lots of laughter. These wonderful memories will stay with me. I offer my condolences and best wishes to his family Denison Theophilus
Tribute to Joe Ledee, My Trusted Colleague & Friend
Joe was a “GREAT” friend and teacher, with an infectious passion for life that came from his heart. After 55 years of friendship. I will miss him dearly! We were teaching colleagues at the former Bahamas Baptist High School/Community College where he taught Spanish, History and Mathematics and had the know-how and patience to make difficult topics easy, and fun, to learn. Joe was a caring teacher, he took pride and joy in being instrumental in influencing young minds and shaping the character, caliber and future of his students. Joe was not only an effective instructor, but also a respected mentor and counselor for many students even after they had graduated; and for his colleagues too. Joe sustained a compassionate and motivating relationship with his students and displayed a winning sense of humor while at the same time communicating to them that he expected their best. His jokes often raised brows and resounding laughter in class and during after-school detention. He inspired trust in students, teachers and parents. From a professional perspective, Joe made me realize the importance of showing the right kind of strictness with students. I learned, by observing Joe in action, how to encourage my students by believing in them and communicating positive expectations of them. When I kept students in detention, they rebelled, sulked and grumbled and worked reluctantly; but when Joe kept students in detention, he used the time, not as punishment, but a time to let the students know that he believed in them and what he expected of them; and to encourage them to have faith in their abilities, to envision their futures, and to do their best. Joe also counseled me on how to diffuse student arguments, conflicts and incidence of disrespect. When Joe was confronted with such situations, he kept his cool, calmed the students down, while encouraging them to respectfully bring issues forward and to accept diverse opinions or deserved disciplinary actions. Here his jokes were particularly effective! I tried to emulate Joe’s unshakeable patience and wisdom in dealing with student conflicts and disciplinary matters; but I never mastered the art of telling jokes! From a personal perspective, Joe was a true friend. He could see behind my smile any time I tried to pretend. I learned from Joe to “give myself grace”, especially when confronted with teaching or personal challenges - to accept and forgive my own failures and the failures of others; to laugh at myself and with others and to persist in pursuing my personal goals with confidence and faith despite unavoidable obstacles. I will always be grateful for Joe’s friendship; for the ‘uncle’ he was to “my girls”, as he always called them, and for ‘aunt’ Teddy, his beloved wife who accepted us as ‘family’. Teddy, Joe has gone on before us, but we will remain united in family love and in shared memories of Joe. May his soul rest in peace! Pat Burrows
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS We the family of the late Joseph Cornelius Lédée wish to convey our sincere appreciation for your expressions of love and kindness throughout his illness. Your prayers, encouraging telephone calls, and visits have strengthened us during this time of bereavement. We received numerous written tributes that we were unable to include in Joseph’s Memory Booklet, but we shall treasure them always. We thank God for his life, and we will continue to cherish his legacy. May God Bless You All, The Family Funeral Service Entrusted To:
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