“OBITUARY FOR MINERVA KEMP-McINTOSH” Compiled and written by M. Janice Pinder (sister)
Minerva Rebecca Kemp-McIntosh was the sixth of ten (10) children. Born on July 23, 1958, Minerva was the product of the union of her loving mother, Mochrie Cornell Gibson and her charismatic father, Johnathan Melchizedek Kemp; her mother, the pastor’s daughter, and her father, the famous entertainer. This union formed the base of her life-long character: a God-fearing nature and childlike faith; unconditional love, strong family bond and devotion, and an undying love and passion for music. At an early age, Minerva Kemp possessed a love for the Arts; her passion was in cultural dance until she later discovered her melodious singing voice that captivated the nation and deemed her a Bahamian celebrity. Raised in a tight-knit Christian family, Kemp’s mother was her greatest influence, and ensured a Godly foundation for her daughter. Her singing talent began around the age of nine (9) in a small church, “Christian Tabernacle”, on Taylor Street, in her then hometown, Nassau, Bahamas. She and her talented, singing siblings would all amaze the congregation as their mother beamed with pride. Minerva, in tune with her love for the spotlight, willingly agreed to perform with her already popular singing brother, “Little Johnny” Kemp at talent shows at Government High & Garfunkel Auditoriums, and occasionally at the Banana Boat Nightclub, and the Central Highway Club. She and her brother wowed the crowd at many night club ‘Talent Night’ competitions and would always walk away with the winnings! By the age of 11, Minerva was known for her singing talent, however, she maintained her passion for dance. In 1970, at the age of twelve (12), Minerva formed her own dance group, performing at her junior high school and at off campus events. She was so enthralled by dance that she even inspired and encouraged her younger sister to participate and, at times, sneak out with her to perform and win dance competitions.
Entertainment was in her blood; she can be described by her siblings as an affectionate, free-spirited adventurer who was not much of a homebody. She was not interested in housework and chores, only with what satisfied her passion – dancing and singing! She would on occasion skip school just to participate in a dance performance. This stunning “black beauty”, as she was affectionately referred to, was both photogenic and peoplefriendly; one could say that she was born to be a star! However, Minerva’s adventurous nature settled with a spiritual encounter when she became affiliated with the “Crossroads” church group. She then began to sing more than dance, and reconnected with her Christianity. In 1973, at the age of fifteen (15), Minerva and her family relocated to Grand Bahama. She immediately began employment as a salesperson at a popular jewelry store in the then renowned International Bazaar called the “Bombay Bazaar”. It was here that she met and later married (1974) a young man by the name of Phillip Bowe. Their union produced two beautiful children: Phillip Jr. and Anja Bowe, who became the two most important people in her life. Minerva quickly excelled in sales, and soon sought out another employment adventure. She began a new work experience at the Freeport Animal Clinic on Queen’s Highway. In 1977, her then husband was being transferred to Nassau, so she accepted a part-time job at the then CIBC Bank (now First Caribbean International Bank), Potter’s Cay Branch and relocated her family to Nassau. It was here that she began her life-long career in banking. She was officially hired for a permanent position in 1979, when she and her family returned to Freeport, Grand Bahama. As a banker, Minerva finally found her niche. She absolutely loved her job and excelled tremendously in this area, soaking up the knowledge of various aspects of the Banking world. In her position as Personal Banking Manager, she became a pacesetter; advocating for housekeepers, taxi drivers and so many others to be able to qualify for loans. She won many certificates and awards for her outstanding performance in banking, inclusive of the national “Employee of the Year Award”. She
left banking at CIBC in June 2005, after 28 years, and decided to pursue another adventurous career in property sales at Devco, but no sooner found her way back to her prior love – banking. She began working at Fidelity Bank in 2007 and as usual she quickly excelled. Of course she had a top performing record to maintain. Throughout the 30 plus years in her banking career, Minerva exuded excellence and became a Banking icon! Despite her love for banking, Minerva maintained her love for music, and her singing career blossomed on the island of Grand Bahama. She was that voice that wooed crowds at weddings, funerals, church services and special events. She was in demand. She was officially known as Grand Bahama’s “songbird”. People still recall hearing her voice at the end of every day for the ZNS close-out rendition of our country’s National Anthem; or her rendition of “Beulah Land”; and no one else could master those high notes of a Sandi Patty song quite like Minerva. People were simply in awe of her singing talents. Even though she was seldom out of the societal spotlight, she found time for family, church and her many friends. Minerva Kemp-McIntosh was a philanthropist who displayed a genuine love for people. She was loving, caring and compassionate and would help anyone in need. She had this beautiful gift of making everyone feel special. She involved herself in choirs and many civic and charitable organizations, inclusive of Toastmasters, the Cancer Association and the Hope Ball and the Rotary Club of Lucaya, of which she was once President. Rotary, particularly, was like her family away from home. As a divorcee and leukemia survivor (having been initially diagnosed in 2004), these avenues were sources of refuge and helped her to work through the hurts and disappointments in her life.
In addition to Minerva’s passions, she had a well-known, favorite hobby: photography. She was known as the selfproclaimed photographer at any given event and would spend hours on end going through the hundreds of photos she took - cropping, resizing, and filtering them to her heart’s desire, and finally compiling them onto her laptop that eventually crashed from overused memory. Fortunately, she was able to recover some of her prized possessions and was determined to begin her memoirs again. Brighter days came when she reconnected with an old family friend from Calvary Temple church, Bishop Cardinal A. McIntosh. Here begins an unconventional love story……………….. At first, his fear of premature feelings after the loss of his first wife (who had been sick for many years), and her fear of marrying a pastor (of whom she had vowed not to ever marry) hindered the progress of a possible relationship. However, as they began communicating via telephone and romantic emails, they developed a beautiful relationship and they both fell passionately in love! It was like a fresh, new teenage courtship after 50 plus years! After their first date in November of 2010 and praying for direction, Bishop, knowing that his intent was greater than Minerva’s, began to passionately pursue her. He recalls thinking that he “had found the object to open up the well inside” and that Minerva was “the one” for him. Their courtship was both intriguing and mysterious. Nonetheless, they tapped into the
spiritual realm of their union and would have communion each morning as Bishop prayed over Minerva and blessed her to begin her day at work. They had soon decided that their courtship would be limited to one year, however, their spiritual “whirlwind romance” forced them to set a date of July 23, which only allowed for a six (6) month courtship. “Cardi” immediately and excitedly went in search of an engagement ring, while on a trip to Las Vegas. He was determined to find that one particular ring that only Minerva would like. However, this mission was completed elsewhere. Next he had to prepare his church family for the announcement and, more importantly, he had to get confirmation and approval from his close friends and spiritual counsel members in his inner circle. They just had to meet her to see if she had passed the test. Minerva was just endearing - the counsel delighted in her company and Bishop was ecstatic! The last thing he had to do was take her to his hometown to meet his parents. They instantaneously loved Minerva, and that was the “icing on the cake”. Bishop began making arrangements for the proposal. He had set his sight on the highest point in Green Turtle Cay, Abaco. He took Minerva on a romantic stroll and led her to a 50-foot tower in Bluff House Marina, all the while nervously praying for a favorable response. The view at
the top of the tower was like the view from a romance novel. On April 23, 2011, Bishop Cardinal McIntosh got down on one knee and asked Lady Minerva Kemp- McIntosh to marry him. “My purpose in life is to lift you from the pain of your yesterday.” With tears streaming down her face, Minerva said, “yes!” The couple was married on July 23, ninety (90) days after that proposal and they took an Alaskan cruise for their honeymoon. Minerva became the First Lady of the Grand Bahama Family Worship Center and grew in faith and in the spirit of God’s Will. She and Bishop travelled to many countries, ministering and proclaiming God’s Word. “Whatever platform God opened for me, you would be there,” he would say to her. They developed and maintained a romance within the ministry and Bishop absolutely adored her. On July 17, 2014, while heading on a cruise, their harmonious relationship experienced a bump and Minerva was hospitalized. The leukemia had come out of remission and they had to postpone their trip. Since then, Minerva had been in a constant battle with this disease, but she maintained her strength and belief in the Almighty God for her healing. “Oh the Blood” became one of Minerva’s most inspirational songs, along with some of her favorite hymns to sing, “Upon This Rock”, “Great Is Thy Faithfulness”, “How Great Thou Art” and “The Prayer”. On February 15, 2019, our “Songbird”, Minerva Kemp-McIntosh, collapsed
as a result of the fatal illness that she had battled for some fifteen (15) years, and was later pronounced dead on February 20, 2019. She is now out of physical pain and at perfect peace. Her adventurous soul and free spirit now roams the heavenly shores, where her melodious singing voice may be enjoyed by the angels! Minerva was a talented Bahamian singer who was “famous, in her own right” and was indeed an icon in Bahamian society and she will be missed by all. May her legacy live on through her family, friends and fans! She is survived by her: Husband: Bishop Cardinal A. McIntosh, one son: Phillip Bowe Jr., one daughter: Anja Bowe, Children of her blended family/union: Chrystal (Ryan) Flowers, Gayle (Wenrick) Clarke, Lisa McIntosh, Gabrielle McIntosh and Solomon McIntosh, Andrew Brennen, Grandchildren: Ashley Bowe, Addison Bethell (Bowe), Amaya Flowers, Aden Brennen Brothers: Van (Joyce) Bethell, Sobig (Elizabeth) Kemp, Percy (Chelsea) Kemp, Blanton Kemp, Jonathan M. (Catherine) Kemp, Micheal Kemp, David Kemp.
Sisters: Genie Kemp, Yvonne (Donald) Ward, Janice Pinder, Patricia “Patty” (Jed) Grossman, Deann Cox. Nieces and nephews: Cornell (DeAndre) Kirkendoll, Vaughn Bethell, Jovan (Tracey) Bethell; Sobig Kemp Jr., Shenika Kemp, Tawari (Cheryl) Rodgers, Juan Rodgers; Tamika (Kevin) Bowe, Sacha Kemp, Renee Kemp, Shaunna (Godfrey) Burrows; Keva Basden; Melissa (Eric) Perry, Blanton (Cryscal) Kemp Jr., Madea (Dano) Dean, Brenton Kemp; Jason Kemp, Jared Kemp; Doñyelle Ward, Donnáe (Angaza) Laughinghouse, Dawn Ward; Jade Pinder, Jason Pinder; Leslie Ingraham; and numerous other nieces, nephews, grand nieces and nephews. Parents-in-law: Cardinal McIntosh Sr. and Gladys McIntosh Other In-laws: Deidre Fisher-Kemp, Bridgette Ingraham; Reuben (Junnie) McIntosh, Luella McIntosh, Andrew (Patricia) McIntosh, Barbara (Geno) Simms, Darryl McIntosh, James (Denise) McIntosh, Arnold (Lavern) McIntosh, Don (Giselle) McIntosh, Linda (Mark) Baker, Rosie (Floyd) Johnson, Angel Gardiner. Numerous aunts and uncles including: Freida Johnson, Lester (Sandra) Gibson, Vernon Pinder, Cora Gibson, and a host of cousins, other relatives and close friends, including Gilbert & Mabel, Brian & Genevieve Harris, and many other close friends (too numerous to mention).
Order of Service Pre-Service: Music/Slideshow
Procession of the Family | Bishop Sobig Kemp (brother) Call to Worship | Moderator - Pastor Percy Kemp (brother) Opening Prayer | Apostle Phalmon Ferguson, UFMI Praise & Worship | Bishop Denczil Rolle & Friends Old Testament Reading | (Isaiah 26:1-4 (NLT) | Wenrick Clarke (Son-in-law) Congregational Hymn | “Great is Thy Faithfulness�
Great is Thy faithfulness, O God my Father; There is no shadow of turning with Thee; Thou changest not, Thy compassions they fail not; As Thou hast been, Thou forever will be. Great is Thy faithfulness! Great is Thy faithfulness! Morning by morning new mercies I see. All I have needed Thy hand hath provided; Great is Thy faithfulness, Lord, unto me!
Pardon for sin And a peace that endureth; Thine own dear presence to cheer And to guide; Strength for today and bright hope for tomorrow, Blessings all mine, with ten thousand beside! Great is Thy faithfulness! Great is Thy faithfulness! Morning by morning new mercies I see. All I have needed, Thy hand hath provided; Great is Thy faithfulness! Great is Thy faithfulness! Great is Thy faithfulness! Lord, unto me!
Remarks | Hon. K. Peter Turnquest, M.P. Deputy Prime Minister & Min. of Finance Gregory Bethel, President, Fidelity Bank Donald Ward (Brother-in-law), Rotary Club of Sunrise
Song Tribute | Male Quartet, “Beulah Land” New Testament Reading | 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18 (NKJV) | Astranique Bowe (Daughter-in-law) Regards | Pastor Wendell Smith, GBFWC Visiting Clergy Selection | Calvary Temple Reunion Choir Obituary | Van Bethell (brother) & Jade Pinder (niece) Song Tribute | Anja Bowe (daughter) “Upon this Rock” As I Knew Her | Allison McBride (Friend) Lisa Strachan (Friend) Song Tribute | Female Trio, “I’m Looking for a Miracle” Tribute from the McIntosh Family | Luella McIntosh (Sister-in-law) Solomon McIntosh (son from blended family) Song Tribute | Tony Lowe “What are you doing…rest of your life” Tribute from Nieces & Nephews | Melissa Perry & Jason Pinder Reflections | Gilbert Harris (Friend) Song Tribute | Phil & Anja Bowe (children) “The Prayer” Tribute from Sisters | Genie Kemp, Yvonne Ward & Janice Pinder Tribute from Husband | Bishop Cardinal A. McIntosh Song Tribute | Naomi Crawford, “Sheltered in the Arms of God” Eulogy | Bishop Henry Fernandez, The Faith Center Prayer for the Family | Bishop Godfrey Williams, Jubilee Cathedral Acknowledgements
Recessional Hymn | “To God Be the Glory” To God be the glory, great things He hath done, So loved He the world that He gave us His Son, Who yielded His life our redemption to win, And opened the life-gate that all may go in. Praise the Lord, praise the Lord, Let the earth hear His voice; Praise the Lord, praise the Lord, Let the people rejoice; Oh, come to the Father, through Jesus the Son, And give Him the glory; great things He hath done. Oh, perfect redemption, the purchase of blood, To every believer the promise of God; The vilest offender who truly believes, That moment from Jesus a pardon receives. Great things He hath taught us, great things He hath done, And great our rejoicing through Jesus the Son; But purer, and higher, and greater will be Our wonder, our transport when Jesus we see.
Wife TO MY
Hey Girl,
Today I called your name. As I stood in the echo chamber of the hall of memories and tearfully whispered your name. Briefly, My senses suddenly came alive as when one is seated in Carnegie hall enthralled by the skill, precision and sound of the world’s greatest orchestra while accompanying the Angelic voice of the incomparable iconic Andrea Bocelli. As your name rolled off my lips my senses were immediately flooded with your essence. M - marvelous, mysterious, ***majestic I - intriguing, inviting, **intoxicating N - noble, nice, neat E - effervescent, energetic, ***enchanting, engaging R - regal, real, refreshing ***romantic V - vogue,vintage, ***vivacious, vulnerable A - angelic, authentic the brevity of our time together leaves my heart aching and a great void exist due to your passing, yet,I take comfort in knowing that your faith and trust in Jesus Christ as Savoiur and Lord has caused you to pass from death to life and you are forever in the presence of your King of Kings and Lord of Lords no more aches, no more pain and physical suffering. You are now His special prize. Psalms 116:15 (NKJV) Precious in the sight of the LORD [Is] the death of His saints. As I meditate the summary of our time together 7 YRS 91 MTHS 392 WKS 3,744 DYS 65,856 HRS 3,951,360 MIN 337,081,600 SECS this intriguing fact emerges Your name contains 7 letters you were born in the 7th month we were married for 7years and 7months. I’ve been most blessed to have had you as my wife and my life immeasurable and eternally impacted to continue and fulfill our God given assignment. So this is not goodbye my love but simply see you in the later... Your loving husband
Mother
A light from my life is extinguished. A voice I loved is still. A place is vacant within my heart Which never can be filled. A reservoir of beautiful memories Filled with a million tears. I wish I had more time with you If just for a few more years. I hold you close within my heart, And there you’ll always remain. To walk with me throughout my life Until we meet again. So rest in peace my loved one And thanks for all you’ve done I know that God has given you The crown you’ve truly won.
I will always have a reservoir of memories to comfort me now that she’s gone. Mom and I had a beautiful relationship and she will always be a part of me. She was my mother-in-love! - Astranique “Nikki” Bowe (daughter-in-law)
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y Dear Grammy, what a privilege it has been to have you in my life! You were one of the most beautiful and classy ladies I have ever met, but more importantly you had a big and beautiful heart. I will forever cherish our special “girl time” filled with laughter and long conversations about everything from hair and makeup to relationships, to career goals, to the importance of walking in the principles of God. You told me that you will love me forever and I am confident that although you are absent from this Earth that your love will remain with me always. I will hold on to the memories of the pride in your eyes, the joy in your smile, the warmth of your hugs and the love in your kiss. Although I miss you with all my heart, I know that you now have perfect healing and Heaven’s choir has gained one of the greatest songbirds. I will continue to make you proud Grammy! Rest in Heaven until we meet again. - Your loving granddaughter, Ashley
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he reality of how much I loved, needed and depended on you was manifested my first day of university. I remember being lost on campus, going to the wrong classes and simply being overwhelmed. The first thing I did when I returned to my dorm room was pick-up the phone and call. The minute I heard your voice, I began to cry and the only words I could get out my mouth was, “Mommy, I want to come home.” Your response to me was, “son, you’re not coming home, just hang in there and everything will be alright.” Truth is, you were ALWAYS my go-to. No matter what was going on in my life – the good, the bad and the ugly; you never forsook me. You loved me despite my shortcomings and there were many times when you exhibited tough love and in those moments, I couldn’t appreciate it, but now, I am so grateful that you did. You were my protector, my confidant, my role model - my world. You wanted the absolute best for us. You wanted a better life for us than you had and whenever we made a mistake, you made sure we understood the lesson that was to be learned. I was, and still am, proud to be the son of Minerva Kemp – you had an infectious smile and a big heart – you are the most giving and compassionate person I know. The way people were drawn to you always left me in awe, and I always wanted to emulate that. Your presence always lit up a room. I am who I am because you loved me…unconditionally. Your prayers and the seeds you sowed have given me an abundant harvest. Despite the challenges of life, you taught me to fight valiantly, keep my dignity and to always walk with my head held high. Most importantly, you practiced what you preached. In the midst of your illness you never gave up, you were bold and courageous - never losing your zeal for life and never complained. Mommy, you have prepared Anja and I to take flight and soar. We are well equipped to face life without you. Rest assured that we will carry on your legacy and make you proud of us as we were proud of you. Through our voice and our philanthropy, which we got from you, we will keep the memory of you alive. There are mothers who give birth and those who give life - you gave me life and your presence will always encompass me. I will miss you and love you forever. – Phil Bowe (son)
Mother
Words cannot describe how much I’m going to miss the most impactful woman of my life, my role model and a mentor and friend to so many, my dear mother. My mom worked hard her entire life. And while I was young my own concept of my immediate family included my mommy, my brother who lived abroad, my mom’s closest sisters, Genie and Janice, and my cousins Jade and Jason. I know I didn’t quite get the idea, but I had the best of both worlds if you ask me ... like they say it takes a village... Throughout this time, I’ve lived with mommy alone and I am so grateful I got to experience those years, good and bad. While I was younger my mom did not have the most patience with things like homework and cooking dinner every evening after a long day of work, so my upbringing was less conventional and that time was spent with my aunties as they picked me up every day from school and kept me until mom got off from work. But One thing I could always count on was mommy having time to snap a picture with me ... I remember I looked forward to taking pictures almost every Sunday morning before church or before a big event, even some days before she left for work in the front room on a brown coffee table. Really, she never needed a reason to get cuddled up into a pose and smile for the camera and I was excited for it. This to me was the most special moments. She made me feel like the fanciest little princes,s but also I can now look back at those beautiful moments and smile. Things like cooking etc. I learned from auntie Janice, but when it came to having a strategy and plan in life, the importance of savings, having a gracious attitude, and most importantly to put God first in everything, mommy was a drill master. Mommy did not let up when it came to these topics, with the inclusion of cleaning my room and wearing shoes around the house; things I still struggle with; Mommy was very particular and I drove her crazy with my teenage antics. Especially since I was nothing like her in that area after all of these years of living with her. I’m smiling now as I imagine her saying it, “I just don’t understand, all of these years you lived with me, and you refuse to keep this room clean, learn from me!” We struggled to see eye to eye throughout my teenage years, but inevitably I always saw the bigger picture and found later that she always had a reason and was always right, every time! At the time I couldn’t understand and it was annoying, but I realize most decisions I’d made in favour of her forceful suggestions have actually propelled me in life and turned out to be the better path. Mommy was gifted.
This moment is so bitter sweet because even though I know you’re in a better place, free from pain and bad experience, I cannot help but feel deprived in some ways. I’m constantly reminding myself to have faith in the belief that you are with me throughout all of my growing pains and milestones, but the stain of not having you there is daunting. I’m almost 30 years old and I feel like I still need my mommy to get a second opinion. I’ll always feel the sting of not physically sharing moments with you like, my wedding day, my first child and simply making you proud as I grow into the woman you raised me to be. And these are all things I’ve looked forward to my entire life. Just to have you there to say, “ I’m so proud of you baby”, means the world to me and I’d give anything to hear you say those words again. But I can’t be selfish. God blessed me with you for 29 years and I wouldn’t change one moment. Mom had regrets of working so much and felt guilt, thinking she was neglecting me, but mommy, you are the reason I am who I am today and I’m just happy that I got a chance to tell you how much I love and appreciate you. I wouldn’t change a thing, you did it all and more for me mommy and I love you forever. I have to admit that I feel mommy had been preparing me for this moment all of my life. In her role as mom and dad she has not only encouraged me to be an independent, self-efficient young lady, but also to be loving and courteous to everyone I meet. “A good attitude can get you anywhere”, you always said. You have proven this and it shows through the large supportive network of friends that have become my extended family and have been supporting me emotionally, financially, or anyway they can only because I am an extension of you. Mommy, I will never forget the things I have learned from you and I will pass them on and embrace your legacy throughout my entire life; I can’t wait to tell my children about the gem of my life and teach them everything you’ve taught me. You were the greatest thing to ever happen to me as you walked beside me in every new development twist or turn in my path. You are my everything mommy and if anything I feel closer to you because I know now you can go with me where ever I go, through the spirit, still by my side, whispering the best advice in my ear. I just hope to someday be a woman that is as strong, resilient, caring, intelligent, graceful, impactful, and iconic as the impeccable woman you are! I love you forever Mommy! – Anja Bowe (your one and only daughter)
To our Sister
“Minerva - My Sister & Mother” Mom died when I was barely fifteen. Since then you’ve been my guardian – from what I’ve seen. You took me in and I became part of your family And Sis, that meant the whole world to me. Through the years, we’ve had our ups and downs, Yet I don’t know what I would have done without you around. You mean more to me than a sister or a brother, To me, you’ve been a second mother. You’ve been there for me at times when I was blue And I hope to always be there for you. You’re my parent, my sister and my friend And my love for you has no end. So on this special day, I want to thank you for guiding me – never going astray.
When I wrote this poem for Mother’s Day in 1996, I would have never dreamed that I would have been using it for this occasion. Words cannot express how much I am going to miss you. I can’t believe you are gone. You mean I’m not going to hear “Hey, Sis” on the other end of the phone? But I know that you are now free of pain and your carefree laughter will be permanently etched in my memories. Love you, sis. Janice Pinder (sister)
God granted my request, Miracle Minerva, my first sister, a special gift. What a bond. What a friendship. A sister who filled my heart with love. One in whom I could express my feelings, dreams and my secrets. We shared tears sorrow, joy laughter, kisses and embraces. I cannot hold you in my arms any longer but your love and memories will be embraced and printed in and on my heart. I am blessed to call you sister. I celebrate with you as you behold Jesus face to face singing with the heavenly hosts of angels and worshipping with the four and twenty elders casting your crowns at Jesus’ feet. You are Home now... perfectly whole....Until we meet again. See you at Home when I get there. Love always. - “Big Sis”, Genie.
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ribute to my dear sis .all pain and worries are over you were a true humanitarian and we will miss you but only for a while. Rest in heaven my “twin” sister! love always Blanton.
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y dear sister, Lady Minerva, lived by an assertive and enterprising philosophy. She is an epitome of a free-spirited professional. She is a great model and example of a gifted and anointed woman of God. A kind and compassionate motivator. Now enjoying Paradise with Jesus until we meet again! Bishop Sobig, Lady Elizabeth, Sobig Jr., and Rev. Shenika Kemp.
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ove you Sis! You will always have a place in my heart. I can hear you now, in that heavenly tone, singing with the angels. We will miss you here on earth but rejoice in knowing that you are at peace with the Lord.” Loving You Always Van & Joyce + Cornell, Vaughn, & Jovan
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y dear sister Minerva. You were such a unique character, achieving in areas where no one expected you could. You sure showed them, and us for that matter. We will miss your determination, your generosity, love for family, love of laughter, love of life, and love for God. Time to rest now Nerve. You fought a good fight. Rest in peace. …Brother Percy & Family (Chelsea, Tammy, Sacha, Renee & Shaunna)
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“ o my beautiful aunt, heaven has received another angel and your spirit will live on with all of us. You will be missed greatly.” - Cornell Kirkendoll & Family (niece)
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“ unt Minerva made you feel like the most important person in the world every time you saw her with a smile and a kiss. She will be truly missed and God has received a great angel!” - Jovan Bethell (nephew)
You were brave and strong, but God needed a singer and called you home. Forever in my heart. - Lesley Ingraham (niece)
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unt Nerva will always hold a very special place in my heart. From when I was a child growing up I remember her always being the most affectionate, loving, and positive. I’m so thankful I got to spend good quality time with her when she came to Tulsa. - Sobig Kemp Jr. (niece)
It’s difficult to fathom that I won’t hear you calling me “Sweet niece” again. Every time you said it, my heart melted and I felt very special and very much loved. I miss you my sweet aunt and wish I could hear you say it one more time. Take your rest until we meet again. Love you Auntie. - Tammy Bowe (niece)
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or as long as I can remember, I always regarded my Aunt Minerva as somewhat of a celebrity. I thought of her as being on another plane of existence as far as glamour, and style, and attitude. Abounding in beauty. Witty. Cunning. Lots of sass. She was like a Bahamian Foxy Brown. Like a black superhero with a mean jumpkick. Always had her hair done her and nails looking pristine. She was a queen. But much more significantly, a richly loving human being. She was kind, compassionate, fair and abounding in witty quips. She was a badass. She’s a Kemp, so she was very protective. And strong. And don’t mess with her family or anyone she cared for. No one would dare. Because she’d gladly and without hesitation put her fists in the air and invite you to fisticuffs. A woman of immense integrity and respect. And boy, could she sing. Minerva was so beautiful and she loved so abundantly, she made everyone feel like family, like you were special and made sure you knew how meaningful you were. My dearest Empress Aunt Minerva...I’ll always love you and keep you close to my heart for the rest of my days. Until we meet again. – Jason Kemp (nephew)
Aunty Minerva was a phenomenal woman. Trying to imagine a world without her in it is something I never believed I would have to do. She was gracious, stylish, beautiful, loving, the toughest competitor you’ll ever play in beach volleyball, but most of us will remember her as her moniker, “the Songbird”. I have very few memories of Aunt Minerva where she wasn’t singing in fact. I especially relish the memories of her signature smile and constantly rambunctious and flowing energy. I thank God for lending us her spirit. Love you forever and ever Aunty. Give our love to the rest of our family in heaven. Rest in Paradise - Jared Kemp (nephew)
Auntie, I will always cherish the special bond that our families shared
– You were a constant source of love, guidance and support in my mom’s life and by extension mine for as long as I can remember. As little girls, Anja and I lived to go shopping together in the best boutique ever – your closet! Exploring your endless supply of stylish shoes, bags, jewelry – you name it! (If only we had somewhere to go!) I always loved our time spent having sleepovers, family dinners, watching movies, shopping and all piling up in bed talking and laughing for hours on end. You were the essence of grace, beauty and class - I am inspired in remembering the way you exuded strength, independence and selfsufficiency yet always remained humble and grounded, being sure to show and tell your loved ones how much we all meant to you every chance you got. Your love can never, ever be duplicated or forgotten. Love you forever, Auntie! Until we meet again… Jade Pinder (niece)
Auntie, I will miss you tremendously. You had a big impact on my life
at a time when I needed a woman’s love as I was blossoming into a young woman. I admired your beauty, your fierceness, your glamorous style, your big smile and your warm sweet heart. I thank you so much for all the sweet loving kisses you gave me. I enjoyed our late night ‘BIG girl’ conversations where u dropped all the knowledge! You were powerful and influential, and I will continue to look up to the heavens where you are truly being the beautiful angel God has always created you to be. Love you, Sacha Kemp (niece)
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ime is so precious. You cant slow it down, you can’t speed it up. I wish I had more time with Aunty; More time for hugs, kisses and laughter. Heaven couldn’t wait for her. May her spirit live on. - Dawn Ward (niece)
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Minerva was the one person in a room whose energy was magnetic; always laughing or smiling and generally demonstrating what it is to live. I’ve no doubt she’s doing the same in the great halls of heaven; she will be missed. – Donyelle Ward (niece)
At this time you’re standing at those big golden gates, Up in Heaven your new life awaits. I know you’re looking down on us wanting us to be strong, And I know you have been all along. We all miss you and that’s definitely true, When we think of all the times we had with you. For now you’ve gone up high in the sky, Because this is your time to say goodbye. Love you,Shenika
A TRIBUTE TO MINERVA Ecclesiastes 3:1-2: To everything there is a season, A time for every purpose under heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die: A time to plant, and A time to pluck what is planted. Lady M, the day you entered my life I discovered a warm, loving, happy, excited, determine, enthusiastic generous and caring person. With your shooting embraces, infectious smile and melodious voice, you touched lives everywhere you went. I am thankful that I was privilege to be a part of your life. There was always, the same love, trust, and respect between us...we had a unique relationship. There are many that will miss you deeply, but I have a settled peace about your departure, because I know that death is only a servant that opens the door through which all of us must enter our final dynasty. Lady, you were a champion in your own right. It seems like just yesterday you came into our lives as a pillar of strength and support to my brother as his wife, and now…gone too soon. Sleep on my dear sister, take your rest...soon and very soon...we will all be together again, rejoicing in the presence of our Lord. – Luella McIntosh (sister-in-law)
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e never saw your wings! How is it that we never saw your wings when you were here with us? When you closed your eyes and soared to the heavens, we could hear the faint flutter of your wings as you left. Your body no longer on this side. Your spirit here eternally, we see your halo shine. We close our eyes and see the multicolored wings. Surround us in our saddest moments and our happiest times. Sister, our God has given you an assignment always our sister, forever our angel. You fly into our dreams and when we are asleep we feel your wings brush against our face, wiping away the tears we shed since we can no longer hold you in our arms but only in our hearts. You have earned those
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ime. One of the most precious resources we have. No matter how much we have to spend, it’s the one thing we always end up craving more of. The time that we spent with you was much shorter than we could have anticipated, but in that period of time we found you to be: Strong -You had an admirable strength and a resolve that didn’t quit. Passionate -You threw yourself wholeheartedly into whatever you did. Industrious -You were a certified mover and a shaker, who knew how to make things happen. Stylish -The world was your runway. You definitely knew how to put yourself together. Talented -You had an undeniably beautiful voice that touched the lives of many. A Leader -You were a strong-minded, intelligent and creative leader who knew how to bring her vision to life. ‘Lady’, ‘Mrs. Minerva’, ‘Mom’, ‘Mum’, ‘Mama’: We all knew you by many names. You were a woman to be loved, respected, and admired, and we cherish the moments in time that we were able to spend with you. May you Rest in Heaven. We love you, Gail, Lisa, Crystal, Gabrielle, Solomon, Ryan, Wenrick, Andrew, Brinard, Amaya and Aiden. wings dear sister and you will always be our Angel. - Your Abaco McIntosh Family.
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ome people come into your life for a season. Others come to stay forever. You will forever be in our hearts and we will treasure the many lovely memories we have of our times together over the years. “The Eternal God is our refuge and underneath are the Everlasting Arms” Deuteronomy 33:27 From the Harris family (Gilbert, Mable, Brian and Genevieve Harris, Dante and Jessica Barry)
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y Minerva, My Bestie, My Confidant but most of All My Partner in Christ. Thank you for overlooking my broken fence and just admired the flowers in my garden. You were the one who saw the tears behind my smiles when no one else did. I will forever love and cherish the memories we shared. As we would say to each other, “ Love you for Life”, Your Ally. – Allison
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o a wonderful soul: My Cousin and best friend As kids we were always told how much we resembled our grandmother/great grandmother, from that day we became Siamese twins, - inseparable. I can talk about how well she sang, her energetic spirit, her beautiful smile or her warm giving heart but our relationship was nurtured on far more. We shared everything, so when the family moved to Freeport it was the most unbearable separation I’ve experienced; but nothing can compare to the separation I’m experiencing today. I never thought this day would come so soon. To Minerva I would say, “Now it’s time to let go, your spirit is now free, even though you really won’t be gone because you’ll live inside me. This is hardly a goodbye, so I won’t weep anymore because now you’re in a better place than you’ve ever been before. Even though I will miss you and I’ll think about you every day you’ll always be a part of me and that’s all I need to say.” - Constance Gibson
A Girlfriend is a Sister that you choose. Minerva, we chose to
be sisters from the moment we met; time and distance did not weaken that bond. Thank you for being my bubbly, sincere, giving girlfriend. I will carry you in my heart forever and always. Your Forever Friend, Anja Dillet
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ittle sis, we have shared so many thoughts, secrets and so much happiness in times of yesterday, to say how much I ‘m missing you, I can never find a way. Our cherished friendship has now become a memory, but the memory has become my treasure. Rest in peace Rebecca. Much love, Pauline
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ecky, The day you passed away earth lost and heaven won and for that...I am grateful. Becky, you have blessed my life in ways that no small space in any booklet could ever hold. You were truly my earth angel, my moral compass, my center of reason and my quiet guiding conscience. You helped me to see good in the face of evil, you made me find purity of heart even when it was hidden behind bad intentions and ill will; you showed me what the power of faith in Our Father can and will do. I no longer have you to slobber me with hugs and kisses, but I have to hold onto the memory of a true ANGEL. Enchant them with your heavenly voice and color the skies with your loving, beautiful spirit. Thank you for the few short years…take your rest and wait for me my sister and my friend. I love you….we love you! Lisa (Strachanee) & Lia, and the rest of our entire family. A TRIBUTE FROM FRIENDS “I’ve learnt that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will not forget how you made them feel”. - Maya Angelou It is hard to turn the page when you know that someone special whom you hold so dear to you won’t be in the next chapter, but we take comfort in knowing that she will always be in our hearts as we move to that next chapter, cheering us on. Minerva (Rebecca) our dear friend/sister, was a compassionate, caring, selfless, and very loving person. She was a fantastic friend and confidant who always saw the good in everyone. If you needed her, she was always available, and ever present, asking what she can do to help. She was just that type of person, the one whose name could easily be found next to ‘empathetic’ in the dictionary. An individual of tremendous faith, she knew that even in death, the victory was hers; her loving Father would be there with open arms to carry her safely to her rest, in her heavenly home. The comfort of having Minerva as a friend may have been taken away, but we will forever cherish the memory of her friendship. “Love never dies – The song ended, but the melody lingers on.” Sleep on dear sister, take your rest! We love you dearly, but Jesus loves you best. Forever in our hearts, Marva, Pauline & Carol A TRIBUTE TO LADY MINERVA MCINTOSH “You Were Here” Lady Minerva, I can resoundingly say without fear of contradiction or reservations, “You Were Here” and the indelible impact that you made in my life will forever be cherished. I have seen you at the ‘highs’ and the ‘lows’, and the essence of who you were was a worshipper. I am truly grateful to God for affording me the opportunity to serve you; however, you never viewed me or treated me as an assistant, you gladly and lovingly embraced me as a close friend, sister and confidant, Lady Minerva, “You Were Certainly Here.” Loving and missing you, Sophia “Soph” Carey (friend)
To Minerva... our Superstar!
It’s unbelievable that we won’t hear the well-known patter of your swift feet moving throughout the office anymore. We won’t hear your melodious singing during our morning devotions. Those email exchanges which championed the cause of your clients, your vigor and life in the branch, we will miss sorely. Your candid advice about relationships, your kindness towards us and constant encouragement leaves us with a hole that will be impossible to fill...the way you did. Our tears are from mixed emotions. We are sad that we won’t be able to see you on this side of Heaven anymore. You were such a Fighter and knowing that, carried us through most of the days. We know how long and hard you fought and for you to have said that you were tired...you must have been. The news of your passing was very hard to accept - and it still is - but we are comforted to know that your pain and suffering is over. Lady Mac, we are honored to have known you, to have shared with you, learned from you and to have worked with you. During your absence from us, we were able to express to you over the phone and in those brief visits to the branch, just how much we loved you, missed you, appreciated you, admired you and prayed for you. While we hurt, we are most happy that you died in Christ and that we, who serve the Lord, will definitely see you again. We will cherish every memory and you will never be forgotten! From the “Freeport Superstars”, the Board, ExCom Members, Management and the entire staff of Fidelity Bank (Bahamas) Limited, rest in eternal peace.
Minerva Minerva Kemp-McIntosh joined the Lucaya Rotary Club in September 2001 and she was inducted on the 25th of the same month. It was not long before she became a superstar in the club, including her Angelic voice, her great ability to get things done and her unique ability to raise money for the organization. Minerva embraced the vision of Rotary International by inviting other professionals to join and share the experience in service to the community. Rotary International is an organization that promotes the family. You would have thought that only Minerva had family–as she often spoke about Phil and Anja, her gems. Her genuine enthusiasm was noticed by her peers and she aggressively worked her way through every directorate and became the Rotary club secretary and shortly thereafter, President and leader of the club from 2008-2009. Minerva was dedicated, honest, trustworthy, family oriented and kind which embodied the Ideals of Rotary and our very Moto-service above self. At the end of her tenure as president she was awarded the Paul Harris Fellowship Award for exceptional service and contribution to the Rotary organization. Minerva was also honored ‘Rotarian of the year’ for loyal and unselfish service. We will miss her many attributes including her generosity during the meeting or socials when she always paid without being called on to do so; her unwavering support for the Rotary Foundation especially our Polio Plus effort; her healthy laughter in those moments of having fun and being one of the crew; the words of wisdom when strife came in our midst; her dues being paid on time and for her Godly leadership. On behalf of President Kevin Seymour, the Officers and Board of Directors, the Members and our Spouses, with sincere appreciation, we pay tribute to a Rotary Icon and friend. We will always remember Minerva, Lady McIntosh, and we thank her entire family for loaning us the GIFT that build Goodwill gave so much to our community and the world. She truly exemplified “SERVICE ABOVE SELF”.
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You could not stay another day,
To love, to laugh, to work or play; The tasks you left undone must stay that way. Your parting has certainly left a void, But we promise to fill it with remembered joy. Your smile, your hugs, your beautiful voice, We will always remember you that way. With love always, Children’s Church and Youth Department
ady Minerva, today we celebrate your time here with us in Ministry. As we reflect on your life, and the phenomenal woman you were, we are all saddened by your loss. When you first came into our ministry and appointed me as the President of the Women’s Ministry I was a little reluctant, but with your backing and as the months and the years passed by we worked tirelessly together in building the women’s ministry. I realized that it was God’s timing; you brought out the best in me. Your exuberant energy, your infectious smile, the hugs, your generosity and encouraging words made us all feel loved and special. Lady you have lived a full life unselfishly. Thank you, Lady Minerva for all that you have taught us, the love you gave us and the legacy that you have left for us. Sleep on lady take your rest. We love you but Jesus loves you best. Willamae McIntosh & G B Family Worship Centre Women of Influence Ladies Ministry
In celebration of the life of our beloved Lady Minerva
We celebrate the grace, style, warmth, love and joy you brought to our ministry and our lives. And as much as we would’ve loved more time, We are thankful to God for the time that He loaned you to us. We are thankful we got to know you, to fellowship with you, to laugh and cry with you and, especially that we got to love you. Today, although our hearts are heavy, we praise God from whom all blessings flow – Lady Minerva you were indeed a true blessing to us. God has you in His keeping and we have you in our heart. GBFWC Leadership
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e didn’t know we needed you until God sent you our way. Your style, your melodious voice and those hugs that could brighten a day, We didn’t know we needed you but were happy God sent you our way. It wasn’t long before God said you couldn’t stay, that He had to take you away. We cried and prayed but heaven needed that melodious voice and hugs to brighten the day. We didn’t know we needed you but are forever grateful that God sent you our way. Forever in our hearts, Elder Bernice, Minister Lakiska and the Voices of Praise Worship Team
Acknowledgements SPECIAL THANKS TO:
Grand Bahama Family Worship Center Calvary Temple Assembly of God Bishop Henry Fernandez, The Faith Center, Florida Bishop Godfrey Williams, Jubilee Cathedral Apostle Phalmon Ferguson, United Faith Ministries International Apostle R. Caleb & Danielle Jean, Divine Hope Ministries, Florida Pastor Percy Kemp & Bishop Sobig Kemp Reuben & Junnie McIntosh & the Abaco McIntosh Family Marva Pratt & Carol Rolle Naomi Taylor-Crawford & Family Gilbert, Mable & The Harris Family Constance Gibson – Minerva’s Attire Kent & Emil Symonette & Family Dr. Kevin Bethel, MD Dr. Juan Carlos Ramos, MD & staff of Sylvester Cancer Comprehensive Care, Florida Staff of University of Miami Health Services, Florida Staff of Memorial Regional Hospital, Florida Ms. Carol Bennett, Ms. Sheena Moreé & The Calvary Temple Reunited Mass Choir Rotary Club of Lucaya Staff of Fidelity Bank Geoffery Thompson, Florist The Protocol Team Allyson McBride, Dynasti Graphix Dale Wilson – Photography ZNS & Freeport News Restview Funeral Home Addis Huyler & SIDDA Communications Group Janice & Jade Pinder – Compiling/ organizing booklet Jade & Jason Pinder - Slideshows & all persons who assisted the family
Perhaps you sang a lovely hymn, or sat quietly in a chair. Perhaps you sent a floral piece, if so we saw it there. Perhaps you spoke the kindest words as many friends can say. Perhaps you were not there at all; just thought of us that day. Whatever you did to console our hearts, We thank you oh, so very much, whatever the part. The Family.
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