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Caring for Senior Dogs Keeping Christmas Simple It Began in a Manger Table of Contents Page 4

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DECEMBER 2020

Temecula Valley Hospital Staff Receives Jimmy Moore Citizen of the Year Award The Kiwanis Club of Temecula Valley presented the Jimmy Moore Citizen of the Year Award to the Temecula Valley Hospital staff for the outstanding services and care provided to the citizens in the Temecula Valley.

Jimmy Moore was known by many as "Mr. Temecula" for having played a major role in the City of Temecula incorporation in 1989.

Jimmy was a 29-year veteran of the U.S. Army who served as a pilot in the Vietnam War, and was an Icon within the Temecula Valley Community. Jimmy was a member of the Kiwanis Club of Temecula Valley, and they acknowledge his accomplishments by recognizing them annually with a "Citizen of the Year" award in his name.

“Each year our club presents this award to individuals, community service organizations or institutions that contributes to our community in an exceptional way.

The Temecula Valley Hospital staff, management and facility certainly cover all three types of past recipients of this award,” said Mark Ward, President, Kiwanis Club of Temecula Valley.

“It is an honor to receive this very special award on behalf of our hospital staff,” said Darlene Wetton, Chief Executive Officer of Temecula Valley Hospital.

“Our

Temecula Valley Hospital employees and the Kiwanis Club have our community at heart in everything they do. What a wonderful way for our teams to come together to celebrate Jimmy Moore’s legacy of our region!”

Please see the attached photo of Temecula Valley Hospital (TVH) CEO Darlene Wetton and Temecula Valley Kiwanis Club.

Left to right: Kiwanis Club President Mark Ward; TVH CEO Darlene Wetton; Kiwanis Club member Dale Qualm; TVH Board Chairman Maj. Gen. Claude Reinke; and Kiwanis Club member Jim Stead.

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THANK YOU DECEMBER 2020

Support Our Local Businesses Anita’s Custom Alterations ..................8 Animal Friends of the Valleys............29 B & G Club Learning Hub ....................5 Barnyard, The .......................................21 Barons’s Pick Up ...................................9 California Technical Academy.............3 Concord Lutheran Academy..............24

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Bolero Winery and Restaurant Open

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Recipe for Pearled Italian Farro

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Caring for Senior Dogs

Citrus and Moss ...................................20 First Light Home Care .........................27 Freedom RV ..........................................14 Gardener’s Cottage ..............................15 Grace Evangelical Free ........................13 Honeycutt Farms..................................22 Hospice of the Valleys ........................27 JDS Digifest ............................................9 Jennifer Smart Foundation ................30 Jeweler by Design ...............................31

ART

OLD TOWN TEMECULA

Plein Air Competition Winners . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .19 Fallbrook Art Gallery Gift Boutique . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .20 Community Events . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .31

Shop Old Town Specialty Shops . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .16 Dining in Old Town . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .17

PETS

COMMUNITY Together Making a Difference . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .9

How to Care for Senior Dogs. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .28 Pet Adoptions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .29

ENTERTAINMENT

RECIPES

Nutcracker Ballet & Christmas Market . . . . . . . . . . . . . .27

Italian Farro with Vegetables . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .22 Garlic Prime Rib . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .23

EVENTS Holiday Events in Temecula . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .15

Bolero Winery and Restaurante . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .10

Jewel Scene ............................................2

FAITH

Joseph Carroll Photography .............25

It Began in a Manger . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .12 The Rude Shepherd . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .13

McCoy Rock ...........................................7 Menifee Bible Church ..........................13

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

FAMILY Keeping Christmas Simple . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .25

Ms Chevious .........................................20 My Granny’s Attic ................................20 Naughty Pig Gourmet Meats .............23

VISITING OUR VINEYARDS

HOME How to Remove Hard Water Stains . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .5 A Landscapers Dream . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .6

Oak Grove Culinary Creations ...........22

KIDS

Platinum Plumbing ...............................5

Kidsbrary – The Littlest Tree . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .24

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The next issue of Neighbors will be the January/February Combination issue which will publish on January 18. See you then.

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Searer Insurance Service ...................26 Swim to Shore......................................25

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Temecula Eye Center ...........................27 Temecula Valley Hospital ...................32 Temecula Women’s Club .....................6 Vintage Begonia Boutique..................19 Wickerd Farm .......................................30 Word Search .........................................14 Word Search November Answer Key .....14 Word Search December Answer Key .....27

Contributing Editors Susan Montgomery Tracy Williams Pastor John Stewart Tristan Haller Chef Daniel Johnson

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Art Director Dorina Blythe, GranDesigns, Inc.

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How to Remove Hard Water Stains from a Glass Shower It’s much easier than you’d think.

By Erica Sloan

It's no secret that showers can be a cleaner's archnemesis, thanks to the triple threat of moisture, high heat, and residue from soaps and shampoos. Saudia Davis, the CEO of GreenHouse Eco-Cleaning, in Brooklyn, knows this well.

But that trifecta, she adds, is often the least of your worries. Perhaps worst of all, minerals in water can deposit cloudy buildup on glass surfaces, even in well-ventilated bathrooms where squeegeeing or wiping down shower walls is second nature.

But don't fret—hope isn't lost entirely. It's absolutely possible to remove the film that these nuisances, from shampoo and soap to hard water, leave behind. Davis suggests this powerful onetwo punch: First, put baking soda or Bon Ami powder cleanser ($1.98, target.com) on a microfiber cloth. Then, moisten the product with an

equal mixture of water and distilled white vinegar before you smear it all over those glass doors.

It's not enough, however, to smear and swipe away. You need to let your concoction sit in order for it to work effectively. So, spray your mixture with more of the vinegar solution until it becomes lightly saturated. Let everything stand for five minutes, then wipe it away with a soft scrubber. But be sure to avoid steel wool, which can scratch glass.

And if you're simply looking to restore shine?

Spritz the surface rubbing alcohol and polish with a clean cloth. Feel free to skip straight to this step if your doors are in good shape but need some help in the glimmer and gleam department.

Photo courtesy Chris Churchill www.marthastewart.com

DECEMBER 2020

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A Landscapers Dream Limestone Ledge Rock for Many Applications As homeowners, landscapers, decorators, we love choices, especially when the choice involves something new or unique. We really love it when it is both, new and unique and it has a ‘story’. If this describes you, then you will love the new and unique limestone ledge rock exclusively from McCoy Rock.

The McCoy family owns a rock quarry near Manhattan, Kansas where they purchased a farm in 1951. The surrounding land, which includes 1000’s of acres, produces limestone ledge rock that is totally unique to the location. Ledge rock is found in other parts of Kansas and other states but the ledge rock quarried by McCoy Rock has a distinctive look and color.

The family farm and quarry still exist and that rock is now available in Temecula, also. When Don McCoy and his wife relocated to Temecula, they extended the family business by offering the Kansas-quarried ledge rock to the local market.

In 2010 Mc Coy Natural limestone ledge rock was chosen for the newly constructed hospital at Fort Riley.

Ledge Rock is popular for both residential and commercial landscape applications. Used for retaining walls, entry ways, golf courses, parks, flower

The original McCoy Farm 1951.

You can view the ledge rock wall in Temecula on Anza Road, just South of DePortola Road.

The ornamental rocks are all unique in shape, texture and color.

beds or more, ledge rock can be adapted for any project, large or small.

The natural edges offer texture, color and interest to any design.

In addition to the ledge rock, McCoy Rock also offers ornamental rock for use in landscape arrangements. The ornamental rocks are all unique in shape, texture and color to provide an impressive accent piece in any landscape. They are full of intricate shapes and cervices that change as the light moves across the space.

So now you know that the McCoy’s have introduced beautiful landscape materials that are new, unique and exclusive with a ‘story’ to the Temecula Valley. The ledge rock and ornamental rock are on display on Anza Road, just south of Deportola Road on the west side of the road.

Take a look at their ad on the next page for more details. For more information call Don McCoy at 714-319-4448.

DECEMBER 2020

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Together, Making a Difference With the holiday approaching and bringing in some much-needed warmth, thankfulness and good cheer, we know nonprofits are working overtime to ensure that those they serve will experience some goodwill through this challenging time. In the “Spirit” of giving, we are taking the phrase, “it is better to give than to receive” to heart. Supporting nonprofit organizations especially during the holiday season is more important than ever. Whether you are looking to donate your time or give back to those less fortunate, there are plenty of opportunities to make someone’s holiday a bit brighter this year.

As a nonprofit ourselves, there are several ways to help us that don't have to involve a monetary contribution. You can share JDS Creative Academy’s worthy cause and follow JDSCA on social media then like, comment and share. Subscribe and watch JDSCA's local news and information TV shows, Spirit Of Innovation and SOI Update. Our main show, Spirit of Innovation is an award-winning magazine-style news and information program.

Spirit of Innovation is our gift to the community to be informed and empowered with local, regional need-to-know information.

All of us at JDS Creative Academy are honored that Stromsoe Insurance is sharing our mission for the month of December in their featured Nonprofitof-the-Month Program. If you or your business is in need of insurance, please consider them. JDSCA is a client of Stromsoe, and we highly recommend their services. For every referral that comes their way, they will donate $20 to nonprofit JDS Creative Academy! Call the Stromsoe Insurance Total Protection Team at (951) 600-5751 or email insure@siaonline.com for more information.

Here at JDS Creative Academy, our purpose is to provide career pathways and opportunities in visual, performing and digital arts for youth, teens and adults. The nonprofit hosts an array of creative classes for K-12, meeting the California Education VAPA Code and vendors with all the Charter Schools in Southern California. Enrollment for 2021 classes are open; scriptwriting, backstage production, acting, musical theatre, fashion design and photography are offered virtually and in-person.

JDSCA also has a specifically designed program to provide services to adults with Intellectual Developmental Disabilities. Did you know that in 2019, the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics reported that only 19.3 percent of persons with a disability were employed? JDSCA is determined to make this number grow and our job-training program works to do just that. In today's changing world, inclusiveness is more vital now than ever before.

Attending our events is another way you can support our causes. A great opportunity to do so is to watch our Willy Wonka Zoomsical, being sent directly to your inbox. If we don’t have your email, subscribe to our newsletter on our website, www.jdscreativeacademy.org. Be sure to stay tuned because we have another production in the works for Christmas.

Just announced: DigiFest Temecula dates! The festival will take place on April 16, 17, & 18, 2021. This annual event will take place virtually and inperson, if able. This city-wide acclaimed event is embarking on its fifth year.

The DigiFest Committee is already in planning sessions and volunteers are always welcome. Competition submissions open January 1, 2021. More information about JDS Creative Academy events and DigiFest can be found on their websites, www.jdscreativeacademy.org and www.DigiFestTemecula,org.

Everyone at JDSCA looks forward to “feeling” your kindness during this holiday season. This organization believes that together, we can make a difference. Whatever your holidays look like, we hope they are filled with happiness and health. Cheers and goodwill to all!

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Visiting Our Vineyards

DECEMBER 2020

Savor Spain in the Heart of the Temecula Valley Wine Country

By Susan Montgomery Let’s go to Spain! Are you eager to start traveling again? I know I am. However, even though we are limited in our travel options right now, we can still savor the tastes, aromas, and traditions of Spain right here in Temecula by visiting Bolero Cellars — the newest addition to Europa Village’s expanding multi-winery resort. We did just that a few weeks ago. During two visits, we enjoyed breakfast, lunch and dinner at Bolero Restaurante and spent the night in a luxurious casita.

David Townsend, Bolero’s Food and Beverage Director, says that the Bolero menu represents something new and interesting as a dining experience in the Temecula wine region. He points out that Chef Luis Sandoval, Bolero’s Chef de Cuisine who developed the Bolero menu, looked for dishes that represented both humble foods from rural regions to artistic representations of modern gastronomy and combined them to make sure each dish has a purpose. The result is an enticing array of authentic dishes to share and enjoy.

Bolero’s culinary team is first-rate. David Townsend spent 20 years running two much-celebrated restaurants at The Rancho Bernardo Inn and the La Valencia Hotel in La Jolla. He then spent another 20 years representing prestigious wine import portfolios. Executive Chef Hany Ali, who was raised in a coastal resort city in Egypt, has worked at highly regarded hotels and restaurants in the U.S. where he developed a reverence for farm-fresh produce, as reflected in the dishes he prepares at

Many delectable Tapas on the menu.

Bolero. Frequently, the vegetables and herbs in the dishes he serves were harvested the same day from Bolero’s garden.

Our first visit to Bolero Restaurante was for lunch on a lovely summer day.

We sat on the patio and ordered a bottle of nicely chilled Spanish wine.

(Bolero serves Europa’s estate-produced wines as well as some special wines directly from Spain.) For appetizers, we ordered Smoked Salmon with Crispy Cone. The salmon topped a delicious mixture Begger’s Purse Crepe, a creative breakfast appetizer. of Manchego cream and chives. One person in our party of four had enjoyed this traditional tapa in Spain and she said it was just as tasty as the Spanish version she recalled. Other dishes our group enjoyed included a creative Leeks and Asparagus Salad with tomato vinaigrette; a Jumbo Lump Crab Salad served with baby green beans and raspberry vinaigrette; a heavenly Chilled Lobster Salad (the lobster was perfectly tender and obviously very fresh); Seared Jumbo Sea Scallops in a flavorful Romesco Sauce; and the tantalizing El Matador Burger made with beef and chorizo, topped with crispy shallots and parsley aioli.

Our lunch was so delicious that we had to go back. Our next visit included an extraordinary dinner and a luxurious overnight stay in one of Bolero’s charming, private casitas. This time we were with a group of five and several of us splurged on icy, perfectly prepared martinis while others enjoyed traditional Spanish Sangria to launch our dining experience. It is nice to have the option of mixed cocktails and microbrews, but we also ordered an excellent bold and subtly spicy Bolero 2015 Tempranillo to accompany our dinner.

Bolero Winery

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Visiting Our Vineyards

Bolero Restaurant’s Patio

After sharing several tapas, including Ceviche, beautifully prepared with shrimp, whitefish, calamari and citrus; delectable Grilled Octopus Salad with onions, tomatoes and avocado; refreshing Watermelon Salad, with pine nuts and goat cheese; and Catalan-style Pan de Cristal, which is toasted bread with garlic and tomato, we all feasted on wonderful Mixed Seafood and Spanish Chorizo Paella, made with shrimp, scallops, mussels, and whitefish with saffron-infused Bomba rice, Piquilla peppers, and sweet peas. Each order of paella at Bolero is made from scratch after it is ordered.

This was among the very best paellas I have ever tasted with its combination of unique, delectable flavors that melded together so well. We also enjoyed the tableside preparation and serving of this traditional Spanish dish.

There are many other appealing choices on the Bolero menu, including Roasted Chicken with Grilled Sweet Corn and Mustard Greens, Roasted Whole Red Snapper, and a unique Organized Caesar Salad with bite-sized portions in a lovely light Caesar dressing.

Food and Beverage Director David Townsend points out that the ingredients in Bolero’s dishes are all of the highest quality. He says the seafood on Bolero’s menu is “the best of the best” and their beef comes from a rare breed of cattle called Piedmontese, which is originally from Italy but is now being bred on a small ranch in Nebraska and then is flown in specifically for Bolero. He says, “Whether you order the Flat Iron Steak with Crispy Shallot Onion Rings or the grilled three-pound Tomahawk Steak, there is no substitute for the tender and distinctive beef flavor these steaks offer.”

After dinner, we adjourned to the courtyard outside of our casita and enjoyed the ambiance of flickering flames in the firepit. We were supplied with all the makings for s’mores, which we roasted while sipping some more great Bolero wine. After such an enchanting evening, we slept like babies in our cozy casita bed with its smooth,

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comfy linens. In the morning we sipped coffee from our in-room coffee maker and took a long refreshing shower in the spacious, walk-in tiled shower.

Bolero has 12 stylishly furnished casitas that offer guests the utmost in comfort and luxury.

Breakfast was as delicious as lunch and dinner. We started with tasty bloody marys and a creative breakfast appetizer, Beggar’s Purse Crepe — an imaginatively presented little crepe gathered together so it could hold a house-made Nutella and fromage blanc (white cheese), surrounded by berries. Next we enjoyed two-egg Seared Jumbo Sea Scallops in a flavorful Romesco omelets. There are a variSauce ety of omelet options, but I chose the Serrano Jamon omelet, made with flavorful, dry-cured Spanish ham and a creamy cheese. Several coffees are also offered, including espresso, cappuccino, latte and macchiato. It was a glorious morning to bask in the sun on Bolero’s pleasant patio, while enjoying an amazing Spanish breakfast.

Mixed Seafood and Spanish Chorizo Paella, made with shrimp, scallops, mussels, and whitefish with saffron-infused Bomba rice prepared and served tableside.

Europa Village’s other winery destination is the Prelude to C’est La Vie and Vienza tasting room, which is the first phase of the resort’s European Village concept.

Europa is now starting to build its next wine village, Vienza Winery Resort and Spa focusing on Italy, and eventually they will create a third winery resort, C’est La Vie, with a French countryside theme.

There is so much more to come at Europa Village. David Townsend emphasizes, “The concept of walking between our ultimate presentation of three wineries and countries will be unlike anything in the world.”

Bolero Restaurante is open seven days a week for breakfast, lunch and dinner. Reservations are encouraged, especially on weekends, but the restaurant can frequently also accommodate walk-in guests. The Catina at Bolero is also a pleasant dining option if you would prefer a more casual rustic bar setting. Are you ready for your Spanish adventure?

Chilled Lobster Salad (the lobster was perfectly tender and obviously very fresh).

Photography by Todd Montgomery

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theGoodnews

She gave birth to her firstborn son. She wrapped him snugly in strips of cloth and laid him in a manger, because there was no ~ Luke 2:7 NLT lodging available for them.

It Began in a Manger

By Max Lucado Curious, this royal throne room. No tapestries covering the windows. No velvet garments on the courtesans. And, instead of a golden scepter, the king holds a crudely whittled olive-wood rattle.

Curious, the sounds in the court. Cows munching, hooves crunching, a mother humming, a babe nursing.

It could have begun anywhere, the story of the king. But, curiously, it began in a manger. Step into the doorway, peek through the window.

He is here!

The Arrival The noise and the bustle began earlier than usual in the village. As night gave way to dawn, people were already on the streets. Vendors were positioning themselves on the corners of the most heavily traveled avenues. Store owners were unlocking the doors to their shops.

Children were awakened by the excited barking of the street dogs and the complaints of donkeys pulling carts.

The owner of the inn had awakened earlier than most in the town. After all, the inn was full, all the beds taken. Every available mat or blanket had been put to use. Soon all the customers would be stirring and there would be a lot of work to do.

One’s imagination is kindled thinking about the conversation of the innkeeper and his family at the breakfast table. Did anyone mention the arrival of the young couple the night before? Did anyone comment on the pregnancy of the girl on the donkey? Perhaps. Perhaps someone raised the subject. But, at best, it was raised, not discussed. There was nothing that novel about them. They were, possibly, one of several families turned away that night.

Besides, who had time to talk about them when there was so much excitement in the air? Augustus did the economy of Bethlehem a favor when he decreed that a census should be taken. Who could remember when such commerce had hit the village?

No, it is doubtful that anyone mentioned the couple’s arrival or wondered about the condition of the girl. They were too busy. The day was upon them. The day’s bread had to be made. The morning’s chores had to be done. There was too much to do to imagine that the impossible had occurred.

God had entered the world as a baby.

Yet, were someone to chance upon the sheep stable on the outskirts of Bethlehem that morning, what a peculiar scene they would behold.

The stable stinks like all stables do. The stench of urine, dung, and sheep reeks pungently in the air. The ground is hard, the hay scarce. Cobwebs cling to the ceiling and a mouse scurries across the dirt floor.

A more lowly place of birth could not exist.

Off to one side sit a group of shepherds. They sit silently on the floor, perhaps perplexed, perhaps in awe, no doubt in amazement. Their night watch had been interrupted by an explosion of light from heaven and a symphony of angels. God goes to those who have time to hear him—so on this cloudless night he went to simple shepherds.

Near the young mother sits the weary father. If anyone is dozing, he is. He can’t remember the last time he sat down. And now that the excitement has subsided a bit, now that Mary and the baby are comfortable, he leans against the wall of the stable and feels his eyes grow heavy. He still hasn’t figured it all out. The mystery of the event still puzzles him. But he hasn’t the energy to wrestle with the questions. What’s important is that the baby is fine and that Mary is safe. As sleep comes, he remembers the name the angel told him to use . . . Jesus. “We will call him Jesus.”

Wide awake is Mary. My, how young she looks! Her head rests on the soft leather of Joseph’s saddle. The pain has been eclipsed by wonder. She looks into the face of the baby. Her son. Her Lord. His Majesty. At this point in history, the human being who best understands who God is and what he is doing is a teenage girl in a smelly stable. She can’t take her eyes off him. Somehow Mary knows she is holding God. So, this is he. She remembers the words of the angel, “His kingdom will never end.”

He looks anything but a king.

His face is prunish and red. His cry, though strong and healthy, is still the helpless and piercing cry of a baby. And he is absolutely dependent upon Mary for his wellbeing.

Majesty in the midst of the mundane. Holiness in the filth of sheep manure and sweat. Divinity entering the world on the floor of a stable, through the womb of a teenager and in the presence of a carpenter.

She touches the face of the infant-God. How long was your journey! This baby had overlooked the universe. These rags keeping him warm were the robes of eternity.

His golden throne room had been abandoned in favor of a dirty sheep pen. And worshiping angels had been replaced with kind but bewildered shepherds.

Meanwhile, the city hums. The merchants are unaware that God has visited their planet. The innkeeper would never believe that he had just sent God into the cold. And the people would scoff at anyone who told them the Messiah lay in the arms of a teenager on the outskirts of their village. They were all too busy to consider the possibility.

Those who missed His Majesty’s arrival that night missed it not because of evil acts or malice; no, they missed it because they simply weren’t looking.

Little has changed in the last two thousand years, has it?

For more devotional reading visit www.MaxLucado.com Printed with Permission

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theGoodnews

Suddenly, an angel of the Lord appeared among them, and the radiance of the Lord’s glory surrounded them. They were terrified, but the angel reassured them. “Don’t be afraid!” he said. “I bring you good news that will bring great joy to all people. ~Luke 2: 9-10 NLT

The Rude Shepherd

By Joni Eareckson Tada

"And they came in haste and found their way to Mary and Joseph, and the baby as he lay in the manger." ~ Luke 2:16 KJV It was one of those classic, picturesque Christmas plays at church. The concert was near the end. Mary and Joseph were in place with baby Jesus around the manger.

The lights were low, the choir sang softly in the background. Man-made snowflakes drifted slowly on the scene. The shepherds gathered quietly around. You felt like you were really there.

But Pete, one of the shepherds, wasn't satisfied. Blocked by one of the other shepherds, Pete wanted to get closer to the manger. He elbowed the other boy and glared at him as he moved in. A few in the audience chuckled, others were taken aback by the young man's rudeness.

It was a little embarrassing for a Christmas concert, but how realistic! How fitting that there should be a few pokes and shoves at such a momentous occasion. I imagine there was more than one "Let me see!" that first night. Pete's pushiness was not just realistic, but appropriate. The coming of the Messiah is not just an event to behold but an occasion upon which to intrude with as much

self-centeredness as possible. Every sinner ought to run to the manger and cry, "Out of my way! Me first! He came because of me!"

That's how Bartimaeus, the blind beggar felt. He cared not at all that he was being rude. Parents of desperate children pushed their way to Jesus. Men broke through a roof for their paralyzed friend.

And Peter's approach to Jesus was often one of intrusion -- he pleaded with Jesus to clean not only his feet, but his entire body.

Crash the nativity scene this year, won't you? Get as close as you can, daring even to pick up the Christ-child. Selfishly cling to the incarnation as if you were the worst of sinners. Jesus will not mind. He came because of you.

“Jesus, You intruded on our planet in a rude visitation. You sought joy for Yourself and broke through Satan's kingdom to reach me. Thank You for Your heavenly rudeness.”

Blessings, Joni and Friends, www.joniandfriends.org Taken from More Precious Than Silver. Copyright © 1998 by Joni Eareckson Tada. Used with permission Joni & Friends Disability Center.

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Temecula’s Special Events Holiday Schedule The City of Temecula will be hosting the following free holiday events and activities:

• ‘Twas the Lights Before Christmas Home Decorating Contest – online form. Decorate your home for the holidays and submit a photo to enter the contest

• Old Town Lighting & Christmas Tree – Old Town Temecula. Take a stroll through Old Town to enjoy the holiday lights and festive sights

• Letters to Santa – Santa can’t wait to write back! Send a letter to our City Hall North Pole that we can pass along to Santa

• Christmas

Cookie Virtual Exchange – online form Send a recipe and picture of your favorite holiday treat to share on our online gallery.

• Holiday Drive-in Movies – Lot on Santiago Road and Ynez Road Enjoy a holiday-themed movie with the family from the comfort of your own vehicle (pre-registration required)

• Here

Comes Santa Claus – Temecula Neighborhoods (routes posted online). See Santa, Frosty, and Rudolph drive by spreading cheer from your front porch

• New

Year’s Eve Grape Drop – online. Enjoy two festive bands and two Grape Drops on Facebook at 9:00 pm and 12:00 am

Temecula City Council Member and Temecula Community Services District President, Zak Schwank commented, “We all love celebrating the holidays in Temecula with our traditional signature events. Although we are still unable to come

together in large groups this winter, we are not going to let the pandemic spoil our fun. These new events will help our community remain safe and physically distanced while enjoying the spirit of the festive holiday season responsibly.”

Visit TemeculaCA.gov/Events in November for the full holiday line-up with specific dates and times. Please stay tuned for more information by following @TemeculaParksAndRec on social media.

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Old Town Spice and Tea Merchants Citrus and Moss Where Happiness Begins

More Unique Gift Ideas The Little Viking Chewish Princess Designer Pet Apparel & Accessories Located inside Ms Chevious Boutique at the corner of 6th and Front Street All Valley Coin Gold and silver buyers, jewelry repair Old Town Sweet Shoppe Hand-dipped chocolate, nostalgic candies, ice cream and more Temecula Valley Cheese Company Cheese plates, sandwiches, salads and gifts Old Town Smoke Shoppe Coin-Op Arcade & Game Room 4th Street Antiques Lorimar Wine Tasting The Press Espresso

Olivedipity Free Olive Oil and Balsamic Vinegar Tasting

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Cowgirl Cantina Inspired Mexican Cuisine

The Gambling Cowboy Chophouse and Saloon Rustic Yet Elegant Steakhouse

1909 Gastropub Heated Outdoor Patio Dining in the Center of Old Town

EAT Marketplace Extraordinary Artisan Table Locally Sourced Healthy Eats

Lukes on Front 4th Floor Roof Top Dining with a View of Old Town Mad Madeline’s Grill 5th & Front, Multiple Winner of Hamburger Wars

Lots of Eateries: Great Food ~ Fun Faire ~ Cozy Outdoor Dining Blackbird Gastropub Contemporary Spin in Pub Grub. Fifth St. Penfold’s Cafe & Bakery The place for Breakfast or any meal Be Good Restaurant & Experience Main & Front St. Espadin Mexcal + Cocina Fifth and Front.

The Public House Rustic Backyard dining experience.

Excellent food.

Texas Lil’s Mesquite Grille Tex/Mex Small Barn Old Town on Front Street The Goat & Vine 2nd Street

Swing Inn Cafe Corner Gathering place Soro’s Mediterranean Grill Il Tramonto Ristorante Italian Cuisine on 5th Havana Kitchen You guessed it – the best of Cuban- 5th St.

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Temecula Valley Museum Announces Winning Entries from 13th Annual Ralph Love Plein Air Competition The Temecula Valley, with beautiful scenery and a quaint Old Town, was the perfect inspiration for artists participating in the 13th Annual Ralph Love Plein Air Competition. Local artists were invited by the City of Temecula Community Services Department to spend one week painting works of art inspired by local scenes. Nine participating artists submitted original art works for a chance to win a prize in the 13th Annual Plein Air Competition.

This competition is held annually in honor of renowned Temecula artist Ralph Love.

The anonymous, unsigned pieces were judged at the Temecula Valley Museum by esteemed judges, Geoffrey Allen (Best of Show 2019 Winner); Bonnie Martland (artist and former art teacher at Temecula Unified School District); Fred Lamb (Fred Lamb Graphic Design and former art gallery owner); Tony Moromarco (artist, instructor, and owner of Bigfoot Graphics); Eric Levine (Community Services Commission Chair); Dale Borgeson (Community Services Commissioner); and special guest judge Evelyn Norris (the late Ralph Love’s daughter). Scorecards were carefully tabulated to determine the winners.

Best of Show, Tamra Gerard at Vitagliano Winery and Vineyards

Eighteen artists participated for 2020, submitting 45 stunning pieces of artwork, in mediums ranging from oil, watercolor, and mixed media.

This year, due to COVID-19 restrictions, we are unable to hold the Awards Ceremony, however, the original artwork can be viewed online any time on the TemeculaValleyMuseum.org website. Prize winners and awards are as follows:

Best of Show - Tamra Gerard: Vitagliano Winery and Vineyards 1st Place - Vicki Pedersen: View from Fazeli Cellars and Winery 2nd Place - Barbara Nelson: Robert Renzoni Vineyards and Winery 3rd Place - Greg Stogner: Tending Rose Haven Heritage Garden The Plein Air Exhibition will be on display at the Temecula Valley Museum when it reopens. Guests can also view all the artwork online at TemeculaValleyMuseum.org.

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Art of the Holiday Presented in The Janice Griffiths Gallery Fallbrook’s Art Gallery will present a gift boutique show that offers unique, affordable artful gifts in a wide variety of mediums including woodworking, glass, textile art, jewelry, greeting cards, functional and decorative ceramics, gourd art, ornaments, and more - all handcrafted, perfect for holiday gift giving.

Restocking continues daily. Sales have been brisk, so if you see it, and like it, buy it now because it may not be there tomorrow.

Show Open Daily through December 24th Hours Mon - Sat 10am to 4pm Sun Noon to 3pm FREE ADMISSION | FREE PARKING For further information about upcoming Exhibitions, Artist Opportunities, Membership, our Artist Guild, and more please visit our website: www.fallbrookartcenter.org 103 South Main at Alvarado Fallbrook CA 92028 | 760.728.1414 info@fallbrookartcenter.org www.fallbrookartcenter.org Become a member and receive free annual admission!

COVID-19 safety protocols are in place:facial coverings, temperature readings, and social distancing are required. WE ARE OPEN IN THE PURPLE TIER FOLLOWING ESTABLISHED PROTOCOL.

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DINING

Pearled Italian Farro with Butternut Squash, Sweet Peppers & Garden Peas with Green Garlic Sauce From Alfred Fierro, Chef at Monte de Oro Winery

With Christmas just around the corner this is the ultimate side dish to accompany your Christmas Ham, Turkey, or Prime Rib this holiday season. Farro is a hearty whole wheat grain with a firm texture and delicious nutty flavor.

1 bunch of Chives Salt/Pepper In a blender, add all the ingredients and blend on high until smooth. Season with salt and pepper to taste.

For the Farro: 2 ½ cups Farro 10 cups Water Salt Rinse the farro and add to a pot along with 10 cups of salted water. Bring to a boil and lower to a simmer uncovered for 20 minutes.

Drain and set aside to cool.

For the Butternut Squash: 1 large Butternut Squash Peel the Butternut Squash, remove seeds, and chop into a medium dice. In a mixing bowl, toss with oil, salt, and pepper. Place on a baking sheet and roast in the oven at 350 degrees until soft, around 20 minutes.

For the Green Garlic Sauce: ½ cup Olive Oil 1 bunch Flat Leaf Parsley Juice of ½ Lemon

For the rest of the Vegetables: ½ lb Sliced Sweet Mini-Peppers 1 lb Fresh Garden Peas 1 large Red Onion 6 Garlic Cloves, finely chopped 2 sprigs of Thyme, rough chopped 3 sprigs of Rosemary, rough chopped 2 springs Sage 2 cups Chicken Stock 1 stick Butter, salted In a large pan, heat on medium, add butter. After the butter has melted, sauté garlic and onions until fragrant and soft, around 5 minutes. Add sweet peppers and cook for another 3-5 minutes. Add farro, butternut squash, and stock. Simmer until all the stock has evaporated. Fold in herbs and heavily season with salt and pepper. Transfer to your favorite dish. Serve with Green Garlic Sauce on the side.

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DINING

Garlic Prime Rib Prime Rib

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Ingredients • 1 (10 pound) prime rib roast

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• 10 cloves garlic, minced

• 1 1/2 tablespoons all-purpose flour

• 2 tablespoons olive oil

• 2 cups beef broth

• 2 teaspoons salt

• salt and ground black pepper to taste

• 2 teaspoons ground black pepper

Directions • Melt beef fat drippings in a skillet over medium-high heat. Whisk flour into beef fat; cook, whiski constantly, until the mixture thickens, about 3 min.

• 1/4 cup beef fat drippings from a prime rib or other roast beef

• 2 teaspoons dried thyme

• Pour beef broth into fat mixture; increase heat to high and bring mixture to a boil.

• Boil mixture until it thickens slightly; season with salt and pepper to taste • Serve as a “gravy” on the side.

Directions COOKING TIMES BELOW BASED ON 10# ROAST- Internal Temp is key130-135F Place the roast in a roasting pan with the fatty side up. In a small bowl, mix together the garlic, olive oil, salt, pepper and thyme. Spread the mixture over the fatty layer of the roast, and let the roast sit out until it is at room temperature, no longer than 1 hour. Since our meat has no hormones, cooking times will be faster-follow below.

• Preheat the oven to 500 degrees F. • Bake the roast for 20 minutes in the preheated oven, then reduce the temperature to 325 degrees F, and continue roasting for an additional 60 to 75 minutes.

The internal temperature of any size roast should be at 130-135 degrees F for medium rare. Larger roast will take longer- Smaller roast, less time-internal temp is key Allow the roast to rest for 10 or 15 minutes before carving so the meat can retain its juices.

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Kids

The Littlest Tree

By Professor Kidsbrary

Not so long ago In a small logging town, Trees perfect for Christmas Could be abundantly found

One day as they stood chatting As they swayed to and froe, They talked about their future And the places they would go

Some were called Blue Spruce, A type of hearty pine, That grew on mountain tops, Near the river Rhine…

One little Spruce among them The smallest of any tree, Sat in the middle of these giants As dwarfed as he could be!

Some trees became houses Where families would live, Others turned into furniture So, comfort they’d give

You see he wasn’t very tall Making others unaware, Though his branches were quite thick, No one seemed… to even care

From wood used for paper, Cardboard boxes…jewelry, Or boats so large and sturdy They could sail upon the sea!

The other trees all laughed at him “You’ll soon be firewood, No need to fight your challenged height, It won’t do you any good.”

Yes, all the trees were destined To become practical or great, Judged by color, weight and height Major factors in their fate But the very special trees The ones with fragrance pure, Perfect branches and majestic Like the Noble and Douglas Fur They became Christmas trees Considered forest royalty, First inspected, hand selected Then admired for all to see!

The days and weeks went by Most trees gone, he felt alone…

“No one wants me… I’m too small, I will never… find a home.”

Just then the moonlight shone Upon a family, Walking through the woods at night Looking for... that perfect tree.

First came a little girl, then boy Next a father with their mother, It was apparent by watching them How much they loved each other!

“That’s the one!” the girl shouted “It’s our new Christmas tree!”

“I can’t believe it” said the tiny Spruce “She’s pointing… right at me!”

The family took turns digging They unearthed him form the ground, Wrapping blankets around his roots, They now took him back to town Once inside their cozy home The decorating, they all shared, Then finally plugging in the lights They all stood back… and stared “This is the best tree ever!”

Exclaimed the little boy with glee, “After Christmas we should plant him, So, in our yard… he’ll always be!”

The littlest tree was so happy, What he heard brought him to tears, To be a part of this wonderful family, Growing with them through the years!

It’s all part of God’s great plan Everything he made on Earth, Was created with a purpose…

To serve others and have worth!

WOW words Comprehension Name several items a tree could be turned into?

Antonym Name a word that means the opposite of sturdy.

Rhyming Name a word that rhymes with spruce Synonym What is another word that mean’s chatting?

Vocabulary What does the word future mean?

WOW wisdom

Sometimes, we compare ourselves to others. We might think that we have a friends or classmates, who can run faster than us, are smarter, can draw, sing or are better at games. But, like our little tree in the story, even though he was smaller than all the other trees, he still had qualities that made him special. We are all given gifts and talents, that make us unique! Do you know what yours are? If you’re having a hard time figuring it out, ask your mom, dad or someone you trust to help you.

You will learn, that YOU are amazing… just the way you are!

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Kids

Conscious Parenting ~ Keeping Christmas Simple

By Traci L. Williams

Christmas can be a wonderful season or it can be a stressful one. How many times have you been so busy throughout the holidays that you felt like you missed them? If you are ready to stop doing that, this is the year!

As Christmas approaches, explore with your kids what each of you enjoy most about Christmas. It may be family, lights, glitter, movies, food, gifts, eggnog or time off from school and work. It’s time to enjoy those things and not let the self-imposed deadlines, family arguments and fast pace of the season take away your joy.

This year has brought with it much change and many losses. How can you use that to create simplicity? What we had before COVID wasn’t working. So, let’s drop the crazy stuff that doesn’t work and move on to a more meaningful and calmer holiday.

Here’s how you can do that: 1.

Who do you want to spend Christmas with this year? Are you able to make that happen?

2.

Who do your kids want to see? Can you coordinate that time? (even on Zoom)

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What are two things that would make Christmas special for each person in your family? (ask them so you know for sure)

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Who can you invite that may be alone or unable to see family?

5.

Plan with your kids to create fun craft projects (cards, ornaments and cookies) over their school break. These make great gifts! The cost is low, the quality time is invaluable and the joy of giving something handmade is priceless.

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Make new traditions that are meaningful.

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Let go of old traditions that don’t work.

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Slow down and really enjoy the season. It’s okay to say no to some things.

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Give your kids a true break from school; no catch-up. Teach them the value of balance.

10. Ask people what they want to receive, instead of guessing.

11. Shop early for your baking and craft supplies so you are ready to go.

12. Let go of the stress.

13. Enjoy dinners, hot cocoa, evening walks and Christmas movies together as a family.

14. Let your kids get back to exploring their imaginations by allowing for down time. They will find a way to fill the space with bike rides, swinging, music, playing or building legos.

The reality is this: there will always be high’s and low’s because sadness and happiness exist simultaneously. The good news is you get to choose what you focus on. How can you make this Christmas meaningful, connected and relaxing, regardless of your circumstances?

Every day we have a choice as parents to choose stress or joy. This is how our children learn to choose for themselves. Give some thought to what really matters to you and your family in this season of giving. What do you want your kids to pass on to their children? If there was a year to make changes and to simplify, this is that year! Pick up the pieces you want to keep, and sweep the others away.

Wishing you and your family a most blessed Christmas.

Traci L. Williams is the Founder of A Loving Way to Parent. She is known for her intuitive and practical approach to parenting. Schedule a free 15minute phone consultation to find out how she can support your family! (traci@lovingway.com ~ 951-240-1407 ~ www.alovingway.com).

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Temecula Theater Connecting You to the Nutcracker Ballet & Christmas Market at Europa Village Winery Presented by The Ballet Studio The Ballet Studio, brings its version of the most-performed ballet in the world to the outdoor Plaza of Europa Village Winery in the heart of the Temecula Wine Country. The enchanting tale of a girls first love, a Magician, a Rat King, a Nutcracker, and a Prince, set to Tchaikovsky's classic score comes to life in the magical Christmas setting at Europa.

This perfect holiday outing for the whole family in a Covid safe environment. This production of Nutcracker has been featured in the LA TIMES Top10 Nutcrackers to see in So Cal and #12 of 23 on KIDSGUIDE BLOG for Nutcrackers to take kids to see.

Not only will guests have the opportunity to experience this holiday classic but you can enjoy all that Europa has to offer for these special dates. Book a carriage ride that takes you around the highly decorated Europa property and enjoy some Christmas carols and hot chocolate. Take your picture with Clara or the Snow Queen, or with the Big Jolly guy himself (SANTA). Enjoy the Nutcracker Christmas market and the Europa Christmas Faire with vendors featuring gift items, food goodies, wine, holiday items and so much more.

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Note: If there is inclement weather or additional Covid restrictions that hamper the presentation of a performance, an alternate date will be selected.

If guest is unable to adjust to the new date, a full refund will be offered.

Europa Village Winery DEC 3 - 5, 2020 Market opens at 4PM/Ballet at 7PM TICKETS: BrownPaperTickets Tickets available through temeculatheater.org soon

Stay healthy and safe.

We can't wait to be back on stage sharing live music with you!

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PETS

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Caring for Senior Dogs: “ How to Improve Their Golden Years

Dedicated to little Chloe who lived an amazing 17 years 4 months and 9 days.

By Lauri Julian

What kinds of health problems can affect older pets?

In addition to senility, vision and hearing loss, older pets can develop the same health issues seen in older people including heart disease, kidney/liver disease, cancer, diabetes, and dental disease, among others. There are symptoms to look for such as increased thirst and urination or decreased/no urination, decreased appetite, poor hair coat, and vomiting, possibly indicating kidney disease.

By catching it early, a supplement could help. For heart disease, symptoms may include coughing, difficulty breathing and decreased tolerance of exercise. If your dog is displaying these symptoms, consult your veterinarian right away. Catching health issues early is key. Also, checking your dog’s gum color is an important indicator of their health. Check out this chart for more info: https://www.petful.com/pet-health/pale-gums-in-dogs/.

Some tips to improve your senior dog’s health, safety, and quality of life: • Schedule regular visits with your veterinarian. Exams and blood tests can catch health issues sooner and medications can help extend your pet’s life. Dental disease can seriously affect your pet’s overall health affecting the heart, kidneys, liver, and even sepsis can occur.

• Keep your dog close to its ideal body weight. Feed a high-quality diet, choose one that’s right for your dog’s age, health, and lifestyle. Overweight dogs have a higher incidence of certain diseases; being underweight could There are many things to consider as our pets age. Their eyesight gets poor, their hearing diminishes, and/or they suffer from arthritis and other health problems/diseases that can greatly affect their ability to function. Senior dogs have different care requirements, but when your dog is considered senior depends on breed, size, genetics, nutrition, healthcare, and environment.

indicate kidney disease or other conditions.

• Exercise your senior dog. It can help your older dog stay lean and maintain healthy joints and muscles, but take their size, breed, and health issues into consideration.

• Keep them “young at heart.” Find out if they’re still interested in playing

What to expect as your dog grows older.

Your dog will slow down and tire more easily. He may have difficulty getting up or finding a comfortable sleeping position. He may be reluctant to use stairs or get in/out of the car. He may be stuck in the yard, not sure how to get back in, unable to see or hear you to help guide him. Seniors may run into things and stumble; they may get underfoot. They may startle when you go to pet or pick them up. At this time in their life, it’s important to be especially patient and not get frustrated. They’re not trying to annoy or irritate you; they simply have more limitations. This is when they need your love and kindness even more.

Possible behavior changes in senior dogs As our pets age, they start demonstrating behaviors that aren’t typical for them. They may react to sounds or increase vocalization, irritability, and aggression. Their interaction with humans and other pets may diminish. Also, house soiling, repetitive activity and altered sleep cycles can indicate a change in their health. They may not like to be touched as much; they may have pain, and their bodies lose muscle mass and weaken. Finding a way to show affection that your dog still enjoys is key to maintaining that part of your relationship. A senior pet may experience cognitive dysfunction – acting confused or staring off into space.

They can appear disoriented, anxious and wander around the house. If your dog exhibits these symptoms, check with your veterinarian for possible treatment options to manage dog dementia.

with toys or fetch. Being around a younger dog could help them play more.

• Senior proof your home. Adjust your dog’s food/water bowls so they don’t have to lean down. Watch your senior dog on the stairs – eyesight may be worse; arthritis can cause pain and weakness. Use dog gates to block stairs.

• Make special accommodations for arthritic dogs. Supplements and pain/anti-inflammatory meds can help (ask your vet). Use softer bedding and ramps/steps next to your bed or car to make it easier. Rugs over hard floors can help them gain footing.

• Assist pets who have cataracts or blindness. Try not to change furniture, the yard, or their daily routine if eyesight is an issue. Products like Muffins Halo can help keep them safe. www.muffinshalo.com • Find other ways to communicate if they’re hearing-impaired. Clapping your hands may help get your dog’s attention or teach non-verbal cues.

• Embrace every day. Instead of feeling dread about losing your pet or not adopting a senior dog, use it as a reminder to live in the moment! Take a walk together, give them special attention and treats. Snuggle with them.

For more information on caring for older pets, warning signs of disease, and human age equivalent, visit: www.avma.org/resources/petowners/petcare/seniorpet-care-faq.

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Pets to Adopt for Christmas!

Retrievers and Friends

Jasmine is a precious little, 2 yr. old Chihuahua mix. She’s sweet and gentle, very quiet, crate trained, well behaved and good with other dogs.

Amanda is a 1 yr. old Calico.

She’s an amazing cat with an excellent temperament, kind and loving. Amanda has a nice, soft short coat.

Peanut is a tiny 8 yr. old Chihuahua. She’s very sweet and friendly, about 5 lbs. She likes to cuddle and sit in the sun.

Callie is a beautiful 7 yr. old, medium hair Calico. She’s declawed, not a fan of other cats and needs a quiet, gentle home, no kids.

If you are interested in these or other adoptable animals, please visit www.retrieversandfriends.com.

Help Animal Friends of the Valleys End Pet Overpopulation AFV’s LOW-COST, HIGH-QUALITY SPAY/NEUTER CLINIC Call (951) 674-SPAY to schedule a spay/neuter appointment AFV’S LOW-COST VACCINATION CLINIC .OW /PEN $AYS 10:00 am - 1:00 pm Located at 29001 Bastron Ave., Lake Elsinore No appointment necessary!

are wonderful Animal Adoptions - There ing mes animals that need lov ho Some of the services offered include pet licensing, microchipping and humane euthanasia for sick, elderly and injured pets

SOUTHWEST COMMUNITIES ANIMAL CENTER 33751 Mission Trail, Wildomar, 92595 (951) 674-0618 Volunteer orientation classes are held on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday of every month at 5:00 pm We are always in need of Foster Families.

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Community Events Candlelight Vigil - Temecula Celebrates 20th Annual Night of Remembrance Temecula’s 20th annual candlelight vigil will be held on Friday, December 4th from 7p – 8:30p at the beautiful Hawk Ranch in Murrieta located at 42149 Elm St., Murrieta, CA 92562. The event, Community Christmas Caroling: A Celebration of Love & Light, will bring together families, friends and our community to celebrate those we’ve lost and those we love. This FREE community event will feature acoustic caroling, complementary hot chocolate and cookies, candles and fellowship. Be sure to bring chairs, blankets and good cheer.

Find Your Voice Center Holiday Activities Holiday raffle includes movie memorabilia, celebrity-signed items and more! We’re bundling raffle tickets with discounts on your holiday greeting videos filmed on our green screen. Visit FYVcenter.org for raffle details and to schedule your family video shoot. Join us 12/20 for our socially-distanced holiday open house. The Find Your Voice Center is run by the nonprofit Jennifer Smart Foundation, located in G165 at the Outlets at Lake Elsinore. Our mission is to encourage effective communication in youth and adults, providing training and resources to help share their messages with a broader audience.

Disaster Preparedness Program The Boys & Girls Club of Southwest County has partnered with LISTOS California to engage the local community on Disaster Readiness. Whether it’s an earthquake, wildfire, flood, or COVID-19, the Boys & Girls Club of Southwest County and LISTOS California want everyone to get ready and stay safe. Together, let’s establish resilient communities and build a new culture of disaster preparedness for all Californians.

Learn More at https://www.bgcswc.org/emergency-preparedness Disaster Readiness is EVERYONE’S responsibility because we never know when disaster will strike. By spending just 15 minutes to download the Disaster Ready guide by LISTOS California and the Disaster Readiness training put on by the team at Boys & Girls Club of Southwest County, in the links below, you will be a step ahead of any disaster that comes our way with only 5 easy steps to getting prepared.

Download the Disaster Ready Guide at https://irp-cdn.multiscreensite.com/8de5abcb/files/uploaded/ENG-Disaster%20Ready%20Guide-Digital-SelfPrint.pdf

Purchase Your Tickets for WildLights at the Living Desert Tickets for The Living Desert Zoo and Garden’s WildLights are now on sale to members and guests! WildLights will amaze guests with over a million twinkling LED lights and festive activities, transforming The Living Desert into a luminescent winter wonderland for all to enjoy. Advanced reservations are required for both members and guests, and tickets are limited to accommodate for health and safety precautions. With a new route for 2020, WildLights pathways will take guests on an illuminated journey around the Zoo with vantages of select animal habitats including the emus of the new Australian Adventures. Take a spin on the carousel, make s’mores around a fire, or get a souvenir photo with Santa for an additional fee. WildLights is presented by the H.N. and Frances C. Berger Foundation and is sponsored by HiTech Lights.

December 4 & 5; Dec 11 & 12; Dec 18- 24; Dec 26 & 27 ~ 6pm - 9pm Tickets are expected to sell out, so guests are encouraged to reserve early at https://www.livingdesert.org/events/upcoming-zoo-events/wildlights/