SISTAH Talk - The Makeover: Rebranding and Reinventing You

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HOW TO HAVE THE PERFECT CONVERSATION by AJ Williams “The Single Black Chick” #ChickChat Contrary to popular belief, being a good conversationalist is not something you are just born with. That person you envy because they seem to be able to talk to anybody, maneuver their way through social situations with ease, and automatically inspire confessions and comfort in their conversational partners? Yeah, that person has done some work. They’ve probably read a book, a blog or both on the subject because being good at conversation is like being good at basketball. You don’t just walk onto the court, and miraculously know how to shoot the three — unless you’re Steph Curry. But even he had to practice. The flip side to this truth is you can learn to be a great conversationalist. Even if you’ve spent 12 |

your entire life bemoaning your fate because you just aren’t that good a “talker”, wishing you hadn’t blurted that embarrassing fact on your last date or overshared with that handsome stranger at the bar, you can evolve. You just need a little practice. How to get that practice? I like to chat on Livelinks! Livelinks is a chatline where you can connect with local like-minded singles whenever you like. The beauty of phone chat is you can do it anytime, anywhere, and there’s always someone on the line up for having a conversation. While you chat, you can practice the subtle art of conversation that will lead you to greater success in your relationships and your career… And to help you on your quest for the perfect


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