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2022YEAR 18 ISSUE 9 p.24 Stained Glass Artist & Entrepreneur Mary Tillinghast p.52 Josh Mejia, McAllen Chamber of Commerce p.42 Easter Seals Honors Humanitarians of the Year p.59 Meet RGV Partnership’s New President/CEO COMPLIMENTARY Rio Grande Regional Hospital A PILLAR OF HEALTHCARE EXCELLENCE

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Letter from the Publisher . . . . . . . . 6

Happy Hour with the Vaqueros . . . . . . . . 12

Gelman Museum: The Sound of Music . . . . . 20

Gelman Museum: And All That Glass . . . . . 22

Stained Glass Artist & Entrepreneur Mary Tillinghast . . 24

Explore the Valley Nature Center 26

SOCIALIFING 28

Pharr City Hall Updates 32

Mission’s National Night Out 36

AAF Hosts Emotional Intelligence Luncheon . . . . 38

Buenas Tardes, Mission . . . . . . . . . 40

Easter Seals Honors Humanitarians of the Year . . . 42

Etiquestions . . . . . . . . . . . 44

Rio Grande Regional Hospital: Cover Story . . . . 46

Josh Mejia, McAllen Chamber of Commerce . . . . 52

New McAllen Chamber President & CEO takes the Helm . 53

Celebrating India’s 76th Independence Day 54

Daniel Silva, RGV Partnership 58

Meet RGV Partnership’s New President/CEO 59

Caring for the Community: STHS New Tower Opens 62

The High Risk of Falls . . . . . . . . . 64

Edinburg CISD: Simply the Best . . . . . . . 66

Non-Profit Spotlight: Mental Monarchs . . . . . 68

Edinburg’s National Night Out . . . . . . . 70 Out and About: Hot Dogs . . . . . . . . 72

Hispanic Chamber Hosts Update . . . . . . 74

Less Water for More Life . . . . . . . . . 82

Pets of the Month: Looking for a Loving Home 86

Petiquette 87

RGV Pumpkin Patches 88

Book Preservation 90

Calendar of Events 96

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Pumkin Spice. Pumpkin Patches. Pumpkins period!

I love everything about Fall—the colors, the flavors, and hopefully, the cooler weather.

And, of course, my favorite holiday, Halloween.

Fall also means it is gala season galore. My dance card is packed every weekend and several days in between. SOCIALIFE and I are thrilled to support so many wonderful nonprofit organizations. Make

sure to read Dr. Barbara’s tips for parties, pets, and galas in this edition of SOCIALIFE.

Along with parties and celebrations, I am also thrilled to welcome Hidalgo and Cameron County to our SOCIALIFE family. We are growing and expanding across the valley and are excited to share the stories, the restaurants, and the growth of our community.

And speaking of growth, there are so many new

restaurants opening up I’m going to have to get in some extra steps! This month, in Out and About, we’re showcasing the best Hot Dogs. So whether you favor a simple mustard and ketchup dog or a gourmet Chicago dog with all the trimmings, we’ve got you covered.

So kick back, snuggle up, and enjoy this edition of SOCIALIFE.

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HAPPY HOUR WITH THE VAQUEROS

UTRGV Athletics hosted an inaugural “Happy Hour with the Vaqueros” on August 18th at Bubba’s 33 in McAllen. Season ticket holders, donors, and corporate partners were treated to a fun night and talked about what’s to come for Vaqueros this season with UTRGV head baseball coach Derek Matlock, head men’s basketball coach Matt Figger, head women’s basketball coach Lane Lord, head volleyball coach Todd Lowery, and UTRGV Athletics administrators.

Volleyball season is underway, and UTRGV will host its Western Athletic Conference Tournament on November 17-19 at the UTRGV Fieldhouse.

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Dr. Giraldo, a board-certified physician who specializes in interventional cardiology, is one of only a few physicians in the Rio Grande Valley who performs the innovative Transcatheter Aortic Valve Replacement (TAVR) procedure – a less-invasive option for certain patients with severe aortic stenosis.

Aortic stenosis is a common heart condition that narrows the aortic valve opening, making it harder for the heart to pump blood to the body and increasing the risk of heart failure and sudden cardiac death.

During TAVR surgery, Dr. Giraldo replaces the heart valve without open-heart surgery and without removing the diseased valve. The procedure is performed while the heart is beating; therefore, there is no need for a heart-lung machine. By avoiding the need to open the chest, patients may enjoy faster recovery times and less pain.

If you have severe aortic stenosis, you may be a candidate for TAVR.

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THE SOUNDS OF MUSIC

The Gelman Stained Glass Museum hosted the first in its series: “Sounds of Music,” featuring Dolce Quartet, on Saturday, August 13, 2022. Museum visitors enjoyed a classical repertoire composed by Debussy, Bach, and an original piece by local cellist Ashton Gonzalez.

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On August 27, 2022, The Gelman Stained Glass Museum hosted “And All That Glass!” a LIVE installation of the museum’s latest restored window, New Jerusalem (1906), by Mary Tillinghast (1845-1912). Artists from La Casa del Vitral provided the behind-the-scenes look as they installed the 30-foot-tall stained-glass window. Further, guests were introduced to the life and work of America’s most famous female stained-glass artist, Mary Tillinghast.

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Mary Elizabeth Tillinghast (1845-1912) wore many hats: painter, architect, muralist, embroiderer, mosaic and stained-glass artist, and entrepreneur. Born to New York’s upper-class society in 1845, she has been described as “deeply talented,” “willful,” and “whip-smart.” Being an independent female artist, a rarity in the 19th Century, she understood that she had to work tirelessly and be different than her male counterparts. In stained glass, this primarily meant John La Farge and Louis C. Tiffany.

Tillinghast worked briefly for Tiffany before joining La Farge’s design firm in 1881. Here she not only honed her craft but also became masterful at managing the business. By 1884 Tillinghast established her own shop providing interior design services and work in glass. Novel in her approach to stained glass, she was the first to realize the difference that the electric lighting of churches would make in the spectacular effect of window designs.

As an independent entrepreneur, Tillinghast attracted clients such as the philanthropist Margaret Olivia Sage, Alexander Graham Bell, and tobacco magnate Pierre Lorillard. In 1893, she was a medal recipient of The World’s Columbian Exposition, and an 1896 article described her as “the most versatile artist we can boast among women in this country.”

Tillinghast was masterful at cultivating the press, inviting its members to literary and musical salons at her opulent New York duplex at 3 Washington Square North, where she also had a well-known and famously unheated studio. At her death in 1912, the artist Edward Hopper took over the studio until 1967. It is now part of the New York University Campus.

The story of Mary Tillinghast resonates with the narrative of progress for women in America. Her indomitable grit and willpower characterize the Gilded Age. Her works echo the American Renaissance as her massive windows were installed not only in the newly built mansions on the East Coast but in religious institutions quintessential to our country’s founding.

Not only does her spirit live in New York, but she is alive, symbolically speaking, in the most unusual place: San Juan, Texas.

Tillinghast’s story, and that of her patron, Margaret Sage, have been re-envisioned at the Gelman Stained Glass Museum. Here two of her windows commissioned by Sage in 1906 have been permanently reinstalled for the world to enjoy again. Soaring over 30 feet tall by 15 feet wide, these masterpieces were originally installed at the First Presbyterian Church in Syracuse, New York.

To recreate the buzz and excitement of a memorial window dedication in the 1900s, the Gelman Museum hosted a public installation. “And All That Glass,” honoring Tillinghast’s legacy, invited the public to step into the Gilded Age and to experience a behind-the-scenes installation as one would have done 100 years ago.

“The most frequent question asked by visitors to the museum,” said Miriam Cepeda, Executive Director of the Gelman Museum, “is, How did all these windows become part of the collection?” The short answer: Time. Nothing can escape time. Time tends to erase memories and demolish longstanding cornerstones in our community, such as the First Presbyterian Church in Syracuse, New York, where Tillinghast’s “New Jerusalem” windows were originally installed.

But, like the church, Tillinghast’s extraordinary accomplishments have also been lost to time; her archives vanished after her death in 1912. The erosion of Tillinghast’s memory has been restored by installing the New Jerusalem windows, which have virtually traveled across time (over 100 years) and across the country to their final destination.

The Gelman Stained Glass Museum is a setting as magnificent as the First Presbyterian Church in Syracuse, New York. A museum that will memorialize Tillinghast’s indomitable spirit, leaving lessons for young women everywhere, “what one little woman can do when she makes up her mind to it.”

Please scan the QR code to read more about Mary Tillinghast, First Presbyterian Church, and the museum’s collection. To visit the museum, tickets can be purchased online at www.gelmanmuseum.org.

Photographer: Byron Company Mary Tillinghast at her easel, circa 1897 Photographer: Byron Company Mary Tillinghast in her studio, circa 1897
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MISSION HOSTS BIGGEST NATIONAL NIGHT OUT

Since 1984, a Tuesday in August has been designated a distinctive community night out against crime. This special night involves citizens, city officials, law enforcement agencies, civic groups, and school and neighborhood organizations from communities throughout the United States. The City of Mission designated Tuesday, Aug. 9, 2022, as Mission National Night Out.

The event is designed to:

• Heighten crime prevention efforts and community awareness.

• Generate support for and participation in local anticrime programs.

• Strengthen neighborhood spirit and police-community partnerships; and

• Send a message to criminals, letting them know that neighborhoods are organized and fighting back.

This year, the City of Mission partnered with Mission CISD and Sharyland ISD to take the event to new heights. A Back-to-School Safety Prayer Walk was incorporated into this year’s festivities. There were also bounce houses for the kids, games, music, entertainment, free haircuts, and plenty of vendor giveaways. About 1,000 backpacks and school supply sets were handed out to help local families. This is the biggest National Night Out ever hosted by the City of Mission. Approximately 5,000 people showed up for the community outing.

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AAF HOSTS EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE LUNCHEON

On August 25th, Dr. Barbara Baggerly-Hinojosa, CEO of Leadership Empowerment Group was the American Advertising Federation - RGV’s (AAF RGV) 2022-2023 luncheon kick-off speaker. Hosted at the Embassy Suites McAllen Convention Center, Dr. Hinojosa delved into how understanding our emotional intelligence can help us succeed in business and in our personal relationships. The AAF RGV hosts monthly events for members and the public to support the advertising, public relations, and marketing community. To learn more, visit AAF-RGV.org.

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On August 10, The Greater Mission Chamber of Commerce (GMCC) brought together three trailblazing leaders making waves and positively impacting our community, for the Buenas Tardes Luncheon, Community Leader Spotlight. The panel consisted of Anabell Cardona, President & CEO of Valley Grande Institute, Cliffe Killam, President & CEO of Killam Development & Francisco Ochoa, Jr., CEO of Taco Palenque. The sold-out event was held at the Mission Event Center and sponsored by PlainsCapital Bank.

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YOU ARE Not Alone

IF YOU OR SOMEONE YOU LOVE IS STRUGGLING WITH SUICIDAL THOUGHTS, SOUTH TEXAS HEALTH SYSTEM® BEHAVIORAL IS HERE FOR YOU.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, suicide is a leading cause of death – claiming the lives of nearly 50,000 Americans each year. Suicidal thoughts are commonly a symptom of a larger behavioral health disorder and the warning signs may be similar to those of depression.

In times of crisis, the team at South Texas Health System Behavioral is here for you. If you are struggling with suicidal thoughts, we are ready to listen to your specific needs and respond accordingly.

Millions of Americans are affected by a mental health condition or substance use disorder. If you are one of them, you don’t have to go it alone. Compassionate care is just a phone call away.

For a confidential assessment or for more information, call our hotline, available 24/7, at 956-388-1300 or visit southtexashealthsystembehavioral.com

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Easterseals Rio Grande Valley Honors Humanitarians of the Year

Since 1978 Easterseals Rio Grande Valley has recognized exceptional people for their commitment to helping those most in need with their “Humanitarian of the Year” award. Easterseals RGV is honoring Carlos Melguizo and Saul Sanchez, co-owners of Carats and community superheroes, this year.

“Carlos and Saul represent the best in community partners, they serve as champions for the Easterseals mission, and they understand the important role our programs have in the community,” said Pattie Rosenlund, Easterseals RGV Executive Director. “When asked, they are there; even better, they create opportunities to partner and support Easterseals and the families we serve.”

For over a decade, Melguizo and Sanchez have dedicated their support to Easterseals; Carlos has tirelessly served on the board since 2014. “When I started on the board,” stated Melguizo, “I volunteered to bring in local and new artists to paint ostrich eggs for our annual fundraiser. It grew from there.”

Their commitment goes well beyond the boardroom, remarked Rosenlund. “They always go way beyond the scope of workadding another event to support an event further!” The couple hosts numerous events at their boutique, Carats, in McAllen,

where proceeds go to support the non-profit further. “During the COVID lockdown, while stores were closed, Easterseals’ children’s needs did not shut down,” said Melguizo. “We had to be creative. I found some high end designer shoe duster bags in a closet, and I had masks made. Our clients bought them out! Everything was donated, and all of the proceeds went to Easterseals. That felt great.” While Easterseals is part of a national network, its mission and operations are independent—what’s raised stays. “Easterseals is our number one charity to support,” said Melguizo, “everything that is raised stays here in the RGV.”

Beyond fundraising, Melguizo and Sanchez are passionate about the Easterseals mission of connecting families in need with the services Easterseals offers. “We have seen the impact that Easterseals has. We know it works. Our Goddaughter has benefitted tremendously from Easterseals,” said Sanchez, who is also a board member for Palm Valley Animal Society. “We don’t have children, only our fur babies— Lucila, Guido, and Archie the cat. This is our way of helping children.”

This is not the first time Easterseals has recognized the couple. In 2017, they were selected as the “Perfect Pair” event champions. “We want to be an example for the business community to be involved and to make a difference,” said Sanchez.

Melguizo and Sanchez will be honored at the Easterseals Annual Dinner and Ostrich Egg Auction on October 27, 2022, at the McAllen Convention Center.

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Lately, I have been trying hard to work on my body language so that others perceive me as warm and competent. Do you have any etiquette tips that might help me? I am a social person but often get misunderstood.

Learning how to convey warmth and competence is an essential social skill.  Your question is very important. According to Harvard psychologist Amy Cuddy, perceptions of warmth and competence account for roughly 90 percent of the variability in whether others perceive you positively or negatively. Research shows that eye contact, nodding, and smiling are three key physical indicators of warmth. Try looking at the person talking and ensure you are smiling and paying attention.

I am getting ready for all the Fall social events and always have trouble with small talk. What are some etiquette tips that can help me?

Mastering the art of small talk and making polite conversation is a staple activity of social etiquette. Always have something to say. Know a little about a lot of things. Take the initiative; don’t just stand there at events. Open the conversation by being in the moment. Then, go on to other appropriate topics of conversation such as news events, sports, entertainment, travel, hobbies, etc. Just remember to smile and engage. Eye contact is important, and remember to listen well.

Yay for gala season! I am excited for this season as well. My best advice is to sharpen your dining skills and table manners. Let’s face it, we are often judged by our table manners, and we often judge others by their table manners.

Barbara Baggerly-Hinojosa, Ph.D. is a wife, mother, and educator living in the Rio Grande Valley of Texas. She is a graduate of Our Lady of the Lake University with a Ph.D. in Leadership Studies. In addition, she holds an Associate of Arts degree in Education from McLennan Community College, Bachelor of Arts in Interdisciplinary Studies from the University of Texas – Pan American, and a Master of Arts in Educational Supervision from the University of Texas – Pan American. Dr. Baggerly-Hinojosa’s current research is focused on servant leadership, gender issues in leadership, and leadership communication. www.leadershipempowermentgroup.com
I am super excited because gala season is about to begin. What are your top suggestions for me to put my best foot forward?
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Rio Grande Regional Hospital (RGRH), an HCA Healthcare-affiliated hospital, proudly celebrates forty years of providing healthcare excellence to the residents of the Rio Grande Valley. Since opening its doors in 1982, Rio Grande Regional Hospital has remained committed to providing high-quality, compassionate care. The hospital’s proven track record of serving the medical needs of the Valley communities has led Rio Grande Regional Hospital to earn national recognition for patient safety and clinical excellence and be recognized as one of the Best Places to Work in Healthcare, four years in a row. »

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On September 27, 1982, Rio Grande Regional Hospital opened its doors as a 150-bed hospital with less than 400 employees and 200 physicians. Today, the hospital is a 320-licensed-bed hospital with multiple outreach access points across Hidalgo County, which include three freestanding emergency rooms, three women’s clinics, three full-service laboratories, a family practice clinic, a mammography center, and a surgery center.

Overall, the hospital has over 1,200 employees and more than 500 physicians representing over 35 specialties and has the support of HCA Healthcare, the nation’s leading provider of healthcare services, to provide you with patientcentered medical care practiced with integrity and compassion.

In addition to celebrating its 40th anniversary, Rio Grande Regional Hospital is excited about its new brand identity, the CARE logo. The logo change is a rebranding that represents the hospital’s complement of services and encircles the center diamond with care and nurturing. RGRH’s new CARE logo connects the hospital’s mission, the brand, and its continuous commitment to remain principled, strong, committed, and caring. The diamond in the center represents RGRH’s patients, who are always at the forefront, and the new colors, orange and navy, will carry us into the future. Furthermore, the hospital’s name will remain the same as it represents the excellent reputation Rio Grande Regional Hospital has proudly upheld for forty years.

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For 40 years, Rio Grande Regional Hospital has stood proudly as a pillar of healthcare excellence in the Rio Grande Valley. Through the years, the hospital has remained dedicated to its mission, “Above all else, we are committed to the care and improvement of human life.

For every minute of the last forty years, our lights have been on, and our doors have been open. Rio Grande Regional Hospital opened its doors with a promise to provide the finest healthcare to the Valley.  Forty years later, the hospital has kept its commitment by supporting the Valley’s best doctors, nurses, and healthcare professionals, constantly updating our healthcare team’s training and education, and acquiring state-of-the-art equipment. Our team now has decades of experience listening and learning from our patients to meet the needs of our growing community.

Rio Grande Regional Hospital has played an essential key role in providing medical services to the community for the last 40 years.   As I look into the future, I firmly believe Rio Grande Regional will continue to meet the ever-changing needs and demands of healthcare and will continue to serve our community by providing high-quality care.  I am proud of the team that has diligently brought us to where we are today, and I look forward to continue working with everyone as we plan for the future.

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Celebrating 40 years of service to the communities of the Rio Grande Valley. For more information or to find a physician, visit riohealth.com or call 956.632.6000 101 E Ridge Rd, McAllen, TX 78503
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McAllen Chamber of Commerce President/CEO, Josh Mejia

Josh Mejia’s first 100 days were starkly silent. Not because he didn’t have anything to say, but because he spent his first three months intensely listening to stakeholders, board members, and community members and crafting a collective vision for the chamber.

“We are a resource-rich community,” Mejia stated. “There is a beautiful sense of collective impact in McAllen, and the city has a way of making everyone shine.” But to grow, a plan has to be in place.

Meeting with the staff and moving to the board members and other stakeholders, Mejia began to piece together the picture of the McAllen Chamber—specifically its strengths and opportunities. The result? A collective vision focusing on tourism, government affairs, and economic development. Every step, Mejia stressed, must be intentional toward those objectives.

And the framework for the pillars of tourism, government affairs, and economic development is the expectation for members to engage fully. “I want folks to feel as though they are advocating for the business community by providing a small investment in the form of a membership,” Mejia stated. “Every dollar that’s invested is going back to the community in a variety of ways. And, if the city grows economically, then there are far more opportunities for everyone in the fabric of what creates our business community. We want to be the ultimate advocate and catalyst for that growth.”

This, Mejia stresses, is just the beginning. “I kept hearing folks saying, you know, the Chamber does so much for the community,” Mejia said. “And I kept thinking to myself, oh, there’s way more that we can do.”

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FOCUS ON ECONOMIC GROWTH AND TOURISM NEW MCALLEN CHAMBER PRESIDENT AND CEO TAKES THE HELM

On August 4, the McAllen Chamber of Commerce hosted a meet and greet to introduce Josh Mejia, their new president and CEO. Mejia, a Brownsville native, took office on June 29, 2022. Mejia thanked the business community, partners and stakeholder for the warm welcome he and his family have received. In his remarks, Mejia stated, “my primary role is to become your biggest advocate and resource.” His additional remarks included focusing on a new chapter in economic growth and tourism fo the community.

JOSH MEJIA, MCALLEN CHAMBER PRESIDENT AND CEO
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CELEBRATING INDIA’S 76TH INDEPENDENCE DAY

On August 14, 2022, the Association of Rio Grande Valley (IARGV) celebrated India’s 76th Independence Day. This year, Indian and American flags were hoisted at the Embassy Suites McAllen Convention Center, and McAllen Mayor Javier Villalobos kindly participated as chief guest. Celebration activities included a march-past, cultural program, and light dinner. The event was attended by more than 150 people of the Indian diaspora and their local friends.

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RGV Partnership President and CEO DANIEL SILVA

For Daniel Silva, the new President and CEO of the RGV Partnership, the job started before he did. “The Friday before my first official day,” Silva recalled, “I got a call from a board member about an amazing opportunity with Workforce Commission. These things can’t wait. So before I even walked into the office on my first day, we were already off and running.”

Education, healthcare, workforce development, transportation, and energy are the pillars of the Partnership’s focus. “A lot of those elements I’ve focused on over my past 20 years, but only for a specific city,” Silva stated. “I want to do something on a more regional scale, have a bigger impact on the valley.” And that’s just what the Partnership is all about.

The RGV Partnership is the bridge between all counties—Cameron, Hidalgo, Starr, and Willacy. Using energy as an example of how this works, Silva explained, “LNG is talking to Brownsville, and then wind farms are talking to Harlingen– two different chambers and different EDCs. They’re going to claim them as important to their communities. My job is to take both of those and put them together as energy

to benefit the region.” Silva further states, “We have a population and workforce that can attract these businesses, but we all need to be on the same page.”

The goal is for the RGV Partnership to be the regional entity for any economic resource. This provides a single source for site selectors and any entity in the Valley that is searching for information. “Instead of gathering information from a lot of different avenues, the Partnership can promote the entire region successfully,” stated Silva.

Over the past six or seven years, Silva observed, cities are finding their niche. “For example, Rio Grande City is full of history. Edinburg is the County Seat, University town and health care delivery. McAllen is top of mind for the maquiladoras, industrial parks and retail. Mission is the go-to for start-up businesses and produce. Harlingen is wind farms and a lot of industrial space. Brownsville is liquid energy and SpaceX.” With so much to offer, Silva’s goal is for the Valley to be on every site selector’s radar. “They’re looking at the Chicago metro area, the LA metro area, and the Dallas metro area. We also want the Rio Grande Valley to be top of mind.”

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MEET RGV PARTNERSHIP’S NEW PRESIDENT/CEO

On August 18, 2022, The RGV Partnership hosted a meet and greet for their new President/CEO, Daniel Silva, at their headquarters in Weslaco. RGV Partnership Chairwoman Arlene Garza, President of Gulf Aviation, announced the Board’s selection of Mr. Silva and expressed their excitement about adding his skill set and experience to the Partnership. Silva expressed his gratitude for the Board’s confidence in him and that he was excited to hit the ground running and looked forward to working with everyone as he moved the RGV Partnership forward.

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CARING FOR THE COMMUNITY

On Friday, August 5, South Texas Health System Edinburg officially opened the first two floors of its new $100+ million patient tower. South Texas Health System Edinburg leaders were joined by State Sen. Juan “Chuy” Hinojosa, Edinburg Mayor Ramiro Garza, Jr., as well as state, local and community leaders, for a special ribbon-cutting ceremony to official herald the opening of the first two floors of the new patient tower, which more than doubles the hospital’s overall size.
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THE HIGH RISK of FALLS

Falls Prevention Awareness Week happens each September, making it a key time to increase awareness about the impact of falls, especially among older adults. It also serves as an important opportunity to brush up on tips to help prevent injuries from falls.

While falls can happen at any age, the reality is that your risk increases with age. In fact, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), 3 million older adults are treated in emergency departments for fall injuries each year, and falls are the leading cause of injuries in older adults. All too often, they result in moderate to severe injuries, including hip fractures, lacerations, and head traumas. Falls can even increase the risk of premature death. What’s more, once an older adult has fallen, it may lead to a loss of confidence, which can have a negative impact on activity levels and opportunities for socialization.

WHEN TO SEE A DOCTOR

Most falls result in bumps and bruises that can often be managed at home. If swelling, discoloration, severe pain, and/or difficulty walking occur, it’s important to get immediate medical care. If someone is not waking normally after a fall or the person who fell won’t let you touch an area that was injured, they need to be seen by a medical professional.

If the person who has fallen is unconscious, or if there is a concern for a head or neck injury, call 911 immediately and do not attempt to move that person.

Learn more about South Texas Health System emergency services at southtexashealthsystem.com/er To learn more about Fall Prevention Classes, visit sthsmcallen.com/fallsafety.

Accepts Medicare, Medicaid, and most medical insurance plans. The South Texas Health System Trauma & Critical Care Institute is a network of six freestanding emergency departments and four emergency rooms, including one specializing in pediatric care and another specializing in cardiac care. Part of the South Texas Health System Trauma & Critical Care Institute’s commitment to caring for residents of the Rio Grande Valley includes providing education and community outreach, including Fall Prevention Classes.
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CARING FOR TRAUMATIC INJURIES

All too often, however, falls can result in traumatic injuries. According to the CDC, at least 300,000 older people are hospitalized for hip fractures each year. When a fall does result in a traumatic injury, it’s important to know that South Texas Health System® Clinics trauma surgeons are here to help. They are:

Dr. Palacio is the Director of Research for the trauma program and Director for the Advanced Trauma and Life Support course at South Texas Health System McAllen. He is also the local Program Director of the General Surgery Residency at the Valley Health System GME Consortium and an instructor for the American College of Surgeons STOP THE BLEED® class.

Why Do We Fall?

Dr. Rendon is the Associate Trauma Medical Director at South Texas Health System McAllen. He also serves as the Program Site Director for San Antonio Brooke Army Medical Center Acute Care Surgery and Surgical Critical Care Fellowship. He is committed to teaching and mentoring residents, fellows, and medical students.

Medication risks

LeRone Simpson, MD, FACS

Dr. Simpson is a board-certified General Surgeon and Surgical Critical Care Intensivist. He has served the Rio Grande Valley since 2016 as a Trauma Surgeon at South Texas Health System McAllen. He has a continued interest in research and is involved in several ongoing clinical research projects.

Understanding some of the reasons for falls can help reduce your risk. These include:

Environmental risks

If you are distracted or in a hurry, it increases the odds of missing a step or curb. Be aware of uneven pavements and slippery surfaces due to ice, water, or leaves.

Internal risks

There are many internal factors that increase the risk for falls, including poor vision and impaired hearing, changes in blood pressure when standing from a sitting position, joint and foot problems, and nervous system disorders such as Parkinson’s disease, dementia, and stroke.

Drugs that have an increased fall risk include blood pressure medications, sedatives, anti-depressants, certain painkillers, and diabetes medications. Taking multiple medications may increase your risk and should always be discussed with your physician.

Alcohol risks

Alcohol slows your reflexes and response time. It can also alter balance and cause dizziness. Consuming alcohol while taking medication multiplies the risk for falling.

Visit the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention website at cdc.gov to learn more about fall prevention, including tips for avoiding falls.

Your Health. Our Purpose.

Medical emergencies, like falls, happen every day. While you can’t plan for the unexpected, you can take comfort in knowing that South Texas Health System and our affiliated physician practices, South Texas Health System Clinics, are here – ready to provide care when you need us, where you need us.

Providers with South Texas Health System Clinics deliver high-quality family medicine, health screenings, and specialized care to the residents of the Rio Grande Valley. With 28 locations Valleywide, you and your family are invited to become part of their family.

For physician referral assistance, call 956-625-1144.

To view the South Texas Health System Clinics’ provider directory or to schedule appointments online, visit sthsclinics.com.

Physicians are independent practitioners who, with limited exceptions, are not employees or agents of South Texas Health System. The System shall not be liable for actions or treatments provided by physicians. Visit our website for language assistance, disability accommodations, and the nondiscrimination notice.

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EDINBURG CISD: SIMPLY THE BEST

The Edinburg Chamber of Commerce hosted its State of Our Education Forum on August 9, 2022. Over 250 attendees learned about the advancements and challenges facing Edinburg’s educational institutions.

Panelists included: UTRGV President, Dr. Guy Bailey; Edinburg CISD Superintendent, Dr. Mario H. Salinas; and State Senator Juan “Chuy” Hinojosa. Key issues addressed during the forum were safety, mental health, broadband, funding, and opening a new collegiate high school. Visit www.edinburg.com for more upcoming events.

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NON-PROFIT SPOTLIGHT

mentalwellnessig@gmail.com Mentalmonarchs.com

Mental Monarch is a non-profit organization dedicated to breaking the stigma associated with mental illness. Creating events and initiatives that educate, support, and fund others’ well-being is our passion and our duty as a society. The funds Mental Monarch raises educate communities on mental health issues and provide support and training for those struggling with mental illness while providing them with the resources they need to seek treatment.

The organization was founded on friendship and a passion for self-love. Brooke Williamson, marriage and family therapist - associate, and Maelia Salcines, children’s book author, met and quickly developed a friendship. Their shared interests in psychology and mental health opened up many conversations about how to improve access to services in the Rio Grande Valley.

Mental Monarch is an online platform for mental healthrelated information, research, and self-care. The dedicated team creates blogs that outline information such as what to expect when attending therapy and how to make the most out of your visits. The site also reviews mental health books,

articles, and personal stories from those who have gone through similar experiences.

To help others cope with their mental health struggles, Mental Monarch has created a fashion line that promotes self-care and helps bring comfort and joy to those in need. All profits go directly back to our organization and are used to show support and create community connections by hosting events such as an upcoming Mental Health Market.

The Mental Health Market will be a night of food, drinks, and mental health in the beautiful Loretto at Mission on October 5th from 6 - 10 pm. The event is free and open to all ages. Featuring live music and art, the event also features local vendors, great food and drink, an opportunity to support the Mental Monarch mental health fashion line, and learn about our mental health community.

To learn more about the Mental Monarch nonprofit organization and advocacy work, please visit mentalmonarchs.com and shop to support mental health. We are also on Instagram @mentalmonarchs and Twitter @mentalmonarchs!

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EDINBURG’S NATIONAL NIGHT OUT

The Edinburg Police Department hosted its 26th Annual National Night Out celebration at the Edinburg Municipal Park on August 2, 2022. The fun-filled family event is part of a community-building campaign promoting strong police-community partnerships and neighborhood camaraderie making cities safer places to live and work.

To kick off the festivities, Edinburg City Council, Edinburg Police Department, Edinburg Fire Department, and Edinburg Housing Authority volunteers visited several apartment complexes-playing games with the children and handing out backpacks, school supplies, and treats. Many federal, state and local law enforcement agencies participated in the main event held at Municipal Park. Thousands of residents from all over Hidalgo County came to enjoy live music and dance performances, tasty food truck eats, a car show, an 800-backpack and 150-soccer ball giveaway, free haircuts for school-aged children, and more.

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PREPARING FOR THE 88TH LEGISLATURE HISPANIC CHAMBER HOSTS UPDATE

EDINBURG’S NATIONAL NIGHT OUT

The Edinburg Police Department hosted its 26th Annual National Night Out celebration at the Edinburg Municipal Park on August 2, 2022. The fun-filled family event is part of a community-building campaign promoting strong police-community partnerships and neighborhood camaraderie making cities safer places to live and work.

On August 25th, the RGV Hispanic Chamber of Commerce held its Legislative Update Luncheon at the McAllen Radisson. The event reviewed interim issues and legislative action expected when the 88th Legislature convenes in January 2023.

UT Rio Grande Valley Sr. Vice President Veronica Gonzales moderated the event and posed questions to two of the Valley’s state legislative delegation – Sen. Juan “Chuy” Hinojosa of McAllen and Rep. R.D. ‘Bobby’ Guerra of McAllen.  The sold-out event featured discussions on a broad range of issues, from abortion to the workforce, education, the budget surplus, the electrical grid, and more.

To kick off the festivities, Edinburg City Council, Edinburg Police Department, Edinburg Fire Department, and Edinburg Housing Authority volunteers visited several apartment complexes-playing games with the children and handing out backpacks, school supplies, and treats. Many federal, state and local law enforcement agencies participated in the main event held at Municipal Park. Thousands of residents from all over Hidalgo County came to enjoy live music and dance performances, tasty food truck eats, a car show, an 800-backpack and 150-soccer ball giveaway, free haircuts for school-aged children, and more.

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Less Water for More Life

It is no secret that the Rio Grande Valley is often dry for extended periods of time. When it rains, it can be anywhere from a hurricane to a soft drizzle, with lots of yearly variation in annual rainfall. Regardless of how much rain we get in a given year, we know that water has and will continue to be one of our most important resources.

On September 21, 2022, Falcon Reservoir was at 16.6% capacity, according to Water Data for Texas. The reservoir was at its lowest point ever at 9% capacity just over a month prior, culminating in an ongoing and historic drought in Texas and northern Mexico. And while recent rains have helped the situation – September is, on average, our rainiest month of the year – the reality is that the necessity of water conservation is not going away. If anything, the need will only become even more critical in the face of growing populations and predictions of a drying climate.

The good news is we have a great opportunity to reduce our water use in towns and cities.

That opportunity comes in the form of expanses of green grass, blades shorn every other week – our lawns. The Texas Water Development Board shows that roughly 27% of statewide water use comes from the municipal sector and that it is expected to grow to 38% by 2060. Of that water use, roughly half of it – 46.6%, according to a paper in the Texas Water Journal – goes towards irrigation for areas that are mostly covered by grass; lawns, parks, golf courses, cemeteries, rights-of-way. At the same time, ecological research tells us that those lawns, which also take effort and expense to maintain, do not provide a habitat for pollinators and other wildlife.

The chance to create a positive change for people and wildlife is clear. The question is, are we willing to do it: will we use less water in exchange for more life?

WAYS TO REDUCE URBAN LANDSCAPING WATER USE

Water less frequently. Most lawns do not require daily, or even weekly, watering. Instead of following a rigid schedule, only water when grass shows persistent signs of drought stress. A side benefit of less watering is that you will not have to mow your lawn as often either!

Replace lawn with drought-resistant native plants. There are over 1,200 species of plant growing in the wild in the Rio Grande Valley, and many of them can survive and even thrive on much less water than traditional landscaping plants. They also have the side benefit of helping to support pollinators, birds, and other wildlife in our cities.

Use compost and mulch. Soils with more organic matter retain moisture longer, and a thick layer of mulch also helps keep soil moisture from evaporating. Mulch also helps prevent weed invasions and eventually breaks down into healthy soil. You can use a variety of materials for mulch, from as simple as leaves from your yard to wood chips. Make sure to use at least 3 inches of mulch for the best results in weed suppression and water retention.

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SOCIALIFE Magazine’s monthly pet section takes an entertaining look at RGV furry friend culture. It’s local, relevant, fun, and informative.

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SHELTER OF THE MONTH

Palm Valley Animal Society

Palm Valley Animal Society (PVAS) is the largest animal shelter in the Rio Grande Valley, taking in more than 15,000 pets every year. PVAS currently contracts with five cities and Hidalgo County at large to provide sheltering services for RGV pets in need. In addition to shelter services, PVAS also has a Pet Resources Center that provides self-

supported rehoming, food and pet supplies, access to virtual behavior training options, and much more to help keep pets out of the shelter and with their families. PVAS is working with its partners to create innovative ways to serve the needs of pets and their people and expand lifesaving shelter practices to have a safe, humane community.

TITUS has been in our care for 300 days and still counting. He can be a bit reserved at first. But once he feels at ease, Titus becomes quite the charmer. We have learned he is leash trained. He enjoys walks in our park area even more, when he has other dogs to play with.

TINTIN is currently located at Petsmart on 7600 N 10th St. This beautiful girl is the sweetest and loves to follow you around. She has been in our care since June and is looking for her perfect match. If you love cuddles and are looking for a cat, TinTin is the one for you!

AQUAFINA is a little bundle of joy who enjoys playtime more than anything. She is very playful with other kittens and with any toy she can get her paws on. She can be very affectionate and a cuddle bug.

Visit these adoptable pets and others at Palm Valley Animal Society

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BINKY is a ball of energy ready to sweep you off your feet! This silly boy loves to be outside having a great time. He likes to give hugs and kisses. If you are looking for a dog that will keep you company, Binky is the one for you!
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If your cat has 100% free reign of the house (she walks on countertops, furniture, laps, kitchen tables, etc.), you might want to consider retraining her before you have company or keeping her confined during the visit. Many guests are uncomfortable seeing a kitty trot across the counter. Cats can be retrained in a variety of ways, but you might want to seek professional advice. If you do not want to retrain your cat, keeping her in a bedroom or another secluded location during your guest visits is probably best.

I love to take my dogs on a walk every morning. For some reason, they love to run around in my neighbor’s yard. My neighbor says it is ok, but I get the feeling she is annoyed. What should I do?

Walks with our pets are usually so much fun for both pets and people.  First, make sure you are walking your dogs on a leash.  Many communities have Leash Laws, and you want to make sure you are abiding by them.  Secondly, it is always a good idea not to let your dogs run around on other people’s property.  While your neighbor may say it is ok, just to be polite, she may actually not appreciate it.

For pets participating in festivities, proper pet etiquette is determined by the guests. For guests who enjoy being around pets, it is ok to have your social pets in attendance. However, for guests who do not enjoy being around pets, it is best to have your pets secluded during the party. You will also want to ensure your pets are okay with all the social activities. If people and noises bother your pets, it is best to keep them away from the party.

Barbara Baggerly-Hinojosa, Ph.D. is a wife, mother, and educator living in the Rio Grande Valley of Texas. She is a graduate of Our Lady of the Lake University with a Ph.D. in Leadership Studies. In addition, she holds an Associate of Arts degree in Education from McLennan Community College, Bachelor of Arts in Interdisciplinary Studies from the University of Texas – Pan American, and a Master of Arts in Educational Supervision from the University of Texas – Pan American. Dr. Baggerly-Hinojosa’s current research is focused on servant leadership, gender issues in leadership, and leadership communication. www.leadershipempowermentgroup.com
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DONNA Donna’s Corn Maze

807 N. Valley View Rd. (956) 239-4504

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Edinburg FUMC Pumpkin Patch

3707 N. University Dr. (956) 381-9806

Rocky Dee’s Pumpkin Patch

4708 E. Richardson Rd. (956) 638-1854

Rancho Los Cantu

9617 N. Seminary Rd. (956) 239-0291

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The T-Ranch 25492 N. FM 2556 (956) 244-5253

MCALLEN

Maddie’s Pumpkin Patch 6712 N Bentsen Rd. (956) 457-3035

St. Mark Pumpkin Patch

301 W. Pecan Blvd. (956) 682-1481

SAN BENITO Pumpkin Patch at Big Red’s Ranch 34179 FM1577 (956) 204-0069

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Maddie’s Pumpkin Patch 1205 E. Mile 12 ½ N. Rd. (956) 457-3035

We believe in nourishing growth in this great community. Help us journal the social, political, and economic development of the RGV.
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The Museum of South Texas

History archives hold several rare, hard-to-find, and out-of-print books. While the information in books is timeless, the books are not.

Books are subject to normal wear and tear and can be sensitive to environmental conditions such as relative humidity, temperature, mold, and dust. Books, like other objects, need special care. Book conservators repair, restore, and maintain

books in libraries and museums; there are many throughout the state of Texas. However, professional conservation can be expensive, so staff at the Museum of South Texas History create customized phase boxes to mitigate damage to and preserve our rare books.

A phase box is an inexpensive alternative to professional conservation. It is a container made of archival quality materials that provide some

additional protection for a book. They are custom-made to fit an individual manuscript. They prevent further damage to the book and help keep all pieces together in case there are a few loose pages or a damaged cover.

You can easily make a phase box at home. There are plenty of howto instructions and videos online. Check out the photos for an overview of how to create a phase box for your precious tomes.

by Kelly Francis-Love, archivist at the Museum of South Texas History
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CONGRATULATIONS

September 8 - 10

South Texas International Film Festival Edinburg Conference Center at Renaissance City of Edinburg Cultural Arts

September 9

Carefest Kick-Off Dinner

RGV Catholic Charities Embassy Suites by Hilton McAllen Convention Center 6 PM

September 10

Carefest 2022

Family Outdoor Festival

RGV Catholic Charities McAllen Convention Center Oval Park 5 - 10 PM

2nd Annual 9/11 Remembrance 5K City of Edinburg Edinburg Fire Station #1 7:30 AM

September 15

TASTE McAllen McAllen Convention Center 7:30 - 10:30 PM

September 16

Latina Leadership Conference RGV Hispanic Chamber of Commerce & City of Edinburg Edinburg Conference Center at Renaissance 9 AM - 4 PM

September 17

Casino Night Fundraiser

Supporting the South Texas Book Festival McAllen Public Library 7 - 10 PM

Battle by the Bay Midvalley Boxing Academy Cameron County Amphitheater South Padre Island 4 PM

September 24

ONAM Festival City of Edinburg & Kerala Association of the RGV Edinburg City Hall Courtyard 6 - 10 PM

September 29

“A Golden Affair” VIDA’s 2nd Annual Gala Doubletree Suites, McAllen 6:30 PM

PSJA 10th Annual Foundation Gala PSJA Education Foundation Bert Ogden Arena 6 - 10 PM

September 30

MustB in Concert Cameron County Amphitheater South Padre Island

September 30 - October 1

4th Annual Fishing for Kids Tournament McAllen ISD, Stars Scholarship Fund, McAllen Education Foundation

Jim’s Pier, South Padre Island

October 1

¡Fandango! Back in the Saddle Again Museum of South Texas History 6:30 PM

October 7

10th Annual Boots and Bling Gala RGV Literacy Center Regency Hall Galeria, Pharr 7 - 11 PM

October 8

13th Annual Mission Pink “Rock Out Cancer” Mission Regional Medical Center 7 AM

Filipino Festival

City of Edinburg & ANAK Edinburg City Hall Courtyard 6 - 10 PM

Oc tober 13

A Night with the Stars Gala South Texas College Foundation Corinthian Event Center 6-9 PM

Greater Chamber of Harlingen Annual Gala Hilton Garden Inn Harlingen Convention Center 6 PM

A Night in Wonderland Annual Awards Gala

Greater Mission Chamber of Commerce Mission Event Center 6 - 9:30 PM

October 14

Clint Black in Concert Cameron County Amphitheater

South Padre Island 6 PM - 12 AM

October 15

Dancing with the Stars RGV Diabetes Association McAllen Convention Center 6 - 9 PM

AC/DC Thunderstruck in Concert Cameron County Amphitheater South Padre Island 6 PM - 12 AM

University Draft House Beerfest Edinburg Chamber and Edinburg Arts Foundation

Edinburg City Hall Courtyard 6:30 - 10:30 PM

Barktober Beer Fest Yaqui Animal Rescue/5x5Brewing Co. 5x5 Brewing Co. 5 - 9 PM

October 18

Turning Spaces Into Places: Building Brands for Community Destinations

The American Advertising Federation - RGV Embassy Suites McAllen Convention Center 11:30 AM

October 20

Scholarship Gala 2022 IDEA Public Schools

Mission Events Center 6:30 PM

October 21 - 23

Fiesta De Palmas McAllen Convention Center

Fri: 5 - 10 PM

Sat: 12 - 11 PM

Sun: 12 - 9 PM

October 21

Mistica by Ballet Nepantala City of Edinburg & Edinburg Arts Foundation Location TBA 6 PM

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October 22

Los Muertos Bailan

Block Party from Edinburg City Hall Courtyard to MOST History Museum City of Edinburg/MOST History Museum 5 - 11 PM

October 27

Annual Dinner & Ostrich Egg Auction 2022 EasterSeals RGV McAllen Convention Center 6 PM

October 29

Edinburg Haunted Tour

MOST History Museum, Edinburg Cultural Arts, and City of Edinburg Downtown Edinburg 6 - 11 PM

November 3

Man & Woman of the Year McAllen Chamber of Commerce

Embassy Suites by Hilton McAllen Convention Center 6:30 - 10 PM

November 4

9th Annual Live2Lead RGV Mission Events Center 9 AM - 4 PM

Noche de Gala

RGV Hispanic Chamber of Commerce Kalos Event Center 6 PM - Midnight

Romantic Masterpieces

Valley Symphony Orchestra McAllen Performing Arts Center 8 PM

November 5

Access to Hope Gala Access Esperanza Clinics Food Bank of the RGV 6 - 10 PM

Veteran’s Day Parade

City of Edinburg Closner Blvd 10 AM

South Texas Veteran’s Day Festival Edinburg Amphitheater at Promenade Park 6 - 10 PM

November 9 - 13

29th Annual Rio Grande Valley Birding Festival

Harlingen Convention Center

November 11 - 12

Rio Fest

City of Harlingen Harlingen Baseball Field 12 PM - 10 PM

November 12

Winter Wonderland Gala and Fundraiser SPI Chamber of Commerce Isla Grand Beach Resort 7 - 11 PM

Shaken not Stirred

The Junior League of McAllen Food Bank of the RGV 7 - 11 PM

November 16

90th Annual Casino Night Edinburg Chamber of Commerce Edinburg Conference Center at Renaissance 6:30 PM

November 19

5K Color Splash Palm Valley Animal Shelter Edinburg Municipal Park 8 AM

Craft Beer Festival Cameron County Amphitheater South Padre Island 6 PM

November 29

Mighty Homes of Hope Habitat for Humanity of the RGV North Park Lexus RGV

December 1

Pretty in Pearls Comfort House McAllen Convention Center 6 PM

Lighting of the Christmas Tree City of Edinburg Edinburg City Hall Courtyard 5 - 10 PM

December 1-31

South Pole Illuminated Festival McAllen Convention Center, Oval Park

December 2

A Touch of Frost Valley Symphony Orchestra McAllen Performing Arts Center 8 PM

December 3

McAllen Holiday Parade City of McAllen McAllen Veterans Memorial Stadium 5 PM

December 8 - 9

Annual Mission Community Health and Wellness Fair

Greater Mission Chamber of Commerce Mission Events Center 7:30 - 11:30 PM

December 11 - 12

RGV Ballet’s The Nutcracker McAllen Performing Arts Center 3 PM

December 11

Serenata a La Virgen Gelman Stained Glass Museum 7 - 8:30 PM

December 16

“An Evening of Joy & Giving” Renaissance Cancer Foundation Renaissance Conference Center, Edinburg 6 - 10 PM

January 26 - 27

Annual Education Concerts Valley Symphony Orchestra McAllen Performing Arts Center 9 AM

February 17

Out of this World Valley Symphony Orchestra McAllen Performing Arts Center 8 PM

March 25

Carmen y Mas Valley Symphony Orchestra McAllen Performing Arts Center 8 PM

April 21

West Side Story Valley Symphony Orchestra McAllen Performing Arts Center 8 PM

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