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FEATURES 042 Ċ a season of pride

January 6th marked a historic day for equal rights in Florida, and hundreds of couples made their way to courthouses throughout the state to finally get the chance to say “I do.”

From Palm Beach to Key West, South Florida’s Pride events are a whirlwind of color, flavors, sounds and...well, pride. Pick the one you want to hit or, better yet, check them all out.

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What started as love of music and a desire to foster community developed into one of Little Havana’s iconic hot spots: Hoy Como Ayer. This is Vilela’s version of the American dream.

Step into the sizzling San Juan nightlife, participate in Curaçao’s Pride parade — the largest in the Caribbean — or simply let it all hang out at Cupecoy Beach in St. Maarten.

on the cover: Fabio Díaz Vilela, shot by KSO on location at his nightclub, Hoy Como Ayer, and styled by Jorge Aguinaga, owner of 8 & 22 Hair Salon.

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It’s all fun and games this season, but with a decidedly adult twist.

The Imitation Game, Jimmy Somerville and Dragon Age: Inquisition deliver some serious entertainment.

Urbanites never had it this good, or this fresh! For tastier, healthier fare, look no further than your local farmers market.

Incessant sneezing and teary eyes may have you running for the drugstore, but that shouldn’t be your only outing this season.

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Weekends in South Florida are dragalicious. So are weeknights and mornings too! Check out some of the most outrageous entertainment around at your local drag show.

Financial advisor Damian Pardo sits down to discuss his hopes and concerns for the LGBT community.

020 Ċ statement pieces Is your wardrobe on life support?

Tis the season for florals and bright pops of color. Dabble with a few accessories or dive right into a fresher, livelier look.

026 Ċ chez moi With a few key elements, you can turn even the most unassuming patio into your outdoor oasis.

052 Ċ scoreboard Team USA has a strong chance of taking it all this summer at the FIFA Women’s World Cup Canada, and Megan Rapinoe will be helping them get there.

058 Ċ the scene Were you there? Find out who was at this year’s Love is Love wedding, Aqua Annual Family LGBTQ BBQ and Gay Chili Cook-Off to benefit Compass Youth.

062 Ċ season’s highlights Mark your calendar! Parades, concerts and even a polo tournament all promise to keep us all out on the town.

Don’t forget to check out Steve Rothaus’ Gay South Florida News in the Miami Herald and at miamiherald.com — or follow his Twitter account, @SteveRothaus — for the latest information about our community.

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s we get ready to celebrate our achievements at Pride events across the land, I’m reminded of just how much a sense of community really means to me.

Throughout my life, I’ve had the opportunity to live in various places, in the States and abroad. I was lucky enough to spend well over 10 years living in San Francisco. Whether it was strolling the Castro or grabbing

drinks in the Mission, I always felt I belonged. It also helped that I worked at a lesbian lifestyle magazine and got to be among my peers on a daily basis.

It wasn’t until I relocated to South Florida in 2012 that I realized just how much I missed that sense of place. I spent quite some time searching for the “Castro” in South Florida. What I learned was just how spread out the community here could feel.

Then I moved to Wilton Manors. Walking Wilton Drive

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with all its rainbow flags and seeing people out and about took me back to my days on the West Coast. But while checking out local shops and hanging out at coffee houses, I realized most of the publications available didn’t resonate. I couldn’t find a magazine that spoke to those of us who are building careers, closing on houses, investing in retirement, launching new businesses or settling down to start a family. And that’s how Palette was born.

With Palette we want to cover and discover a range of topics — dining, national news, local profiles, health and business. I hope the thoughtfully presented and engaging content will speak to South Florida’s LGBTQI community and help bring us closer together, from the Palm Beaches down through Broward, Miami-Dade and the Florida Keys.

My hope with this first issue is that you find something that speaks to you, and, like myself, discover new things about this ever-evolving place we call home.

I look forward to hearing from you, and I sincerely hope we grow into our own community of readers, explorers, diners, supporters, collectors, redecorators, fashionistas and organizers.

Feel free to drop me a line. Send your thoughts or story suggestions to ethan@miamiherald.com, and follow us on Twitter and Instagram.

Whether you have lived here your whole life or are new to the area, let’s embark on this journey together and find out everything South Florida has to offer.

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WE ASKED Now that marriage equality has been achieved in Florida, what do you feel is the most pressing matter we need to tackle next?

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It is a landmark achievement that marriage equality has reached Florida.

Miami is a very LGBT-friendly destination.

We need to continue to make sure that LGBT rights are respected across Florida, as well as throughout the globe.

While it is illegal to discriminate in employment, housing and public accommodations based on race, color, religion, sex, national origin, age, handicap or marital status, Florida law does not protect individuals from discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identification. In order to make Florida competitive on a national basis (most states have such protections), it is imperative that we enact legislation that protects our LGBT citizens against being fired for being gay/transgendered.

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KEITH BLACKBURN President & CEO Greater Fort Lauderdale Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce The next challenge will be transgender rights and acceptance of LGBT families.

While Broward County and most of South Florida have transgender protections, the Florida legislature seems to be ignorant as to understanding transgender people. Also, as LGBT people marry, we will see more and more having families. We need to educate the schools, businesses and the citizens to show respect and acceptance for all families.

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CHIP MCKENNEY Founder & President Gay Polo League Now that marriage equality has been achieved in Florida, I feel the most pressing matter we need to tackle next is to continue to push for marriage equality until every state recognizes it. While it is wonderful Florida recognizes LGBT marriage, we should not stop our efforts until all states do.

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WELL PLAYED These gaming, movie and music options are sure to keep you engaged, informed and, above all, entertained.

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ow do you keep yourself busy on your downtime?

Whether you’d rather watch Academy Award-winning films, dance to great music or dive into a world of fantasy, this season you’ll find options to spare.

Based on the true story of Enigma code cracker Alan Turing, played flawlessly by Benedict Cumberbatch, The Imitation Game reveals two aspects of recent British history: one, the welldocumented allied effort to defeat the Nazis; the other, the persecution of British citizens by way of an archaic and cruel law.

Though largely responsible for the code-breaking work that helped defeat the Germans during World War II, Turing was relegated to being a secret hero of the war because of his homosexuality. The interrogation during his 1951 arrest for an encounter with a male hustler serves as a framework for the film. Turing

is questioned by a detective who is completely ignorant of his heroic past, and flashbacks — including the invention of his “universal machine” — reveal the story.

The film received eight Academy Award nominations (including Best Picture, Best Actor and Best Actress in a Supporting Role). It grabbed the Oscar for Best Adapted Screenplay and was on heavy rotation in the awards circuit with Golden Globe, BAFTA and GLAAD Media Awards nods as well. Thanks to first-rate performances by an incredibly talented cast, The Imitation Game easily ranks as one of the best biopics of 2014.

Homage (Membran), released in early March, is the ideal name for Jimmy Somerville’s new solo effort.

With his trademark falsetto in full display, Somerville, the former frontman of legendary queer Brit bands like Bronski Beat (who appear in the soundtrack for the 2014 film Pride) and The Communards, has long had an affinity for dance music. On the

reverent Homage, Somerville pays tribute to disco culture with a series of original tunes that range from the (live) strings on “Some Wonder” — which calls to mind the Love Unlimited Orchestra’s “Love’s Theme” — and the vintage Giorgio Moroder vibe on the sultry strut of “The Core” to the exuberant energy of “Travesty.”

Don’t be surprised if you hear the hipshaker “Strong Enough,” the luminous “Bright Thing” or the hand-clapper “This Hand” at tea dances and house parties throughout the year.

Nominated for a Special Recognition by GLAAD Media Awards, Dragon Age: Inquisition (BioWare/Electronic Arts) enjoys the distinction of having the most successful launch in gaming giant Electronic Art’s history.

Cinematic in scope, Dragon Age: Inquisition contains multiple LGBT elements, including queer romances, risque sex scenes and a prominent, plot-oriented trans character. The brilliantly detailed landscapes and epic storyline, along with the way that little choices — as well as major decisions — can change every aspect of an individual’s game are some of Inquisition’s greatest draws. With characters dressed (and undressed) in an array of “period” attire and Ċ Left to right: Benedict topped off with hairstyles to match, Cumberbatch as Alan Turing; it is details such as these that have Jimmy Somerville’s latest release, Homage; Sera from the potential to attract people of Dragon Age: Inquisition all stripes.s

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FARM-TO-TABLE EXPERIENCE Whether right on a farm or at one of South Florida’s many farmers markets, fresh and locally grown goods abound.

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he “eat local” mantra makes sense. Not only is out-of-state produce picked prematurely in order to survive the long hauls, but transporting goods over long distances adds to their cost and negatively impacts Ċ Freshly picked produce the environment. Thanks to the and sustainable meats, at the increasing number of farmers market and on your plate markets across South Florida,

produce and other food items are available from local growers, with much of it being organic and/or grown sustainably. From Palm Beach to the Keys, there’s bound to be a farmers market near you.

In Palm Beach, the Riverwalk Green & Artisan Market features a large produce selection, as well as local artisans selling everything from jam to clothing. The Delray

Beach GreenMarket, now in its 10th year, has more than 65 produce vendors, offering fresh squeezed juice; farm fresh eggs; raw milk and butter; baked goods (many of them gluten-free); and 100 percent grass-fed, antibiotic and hormone free, Florida-grown beef, poultry, pork and lamb. The live musical entertainment makes for a festive weekly atmosphere, too.

The Dania Beach PATCH Market Garden specializes in organic, locally grown fruits and vegetables, many of which have been grown by area students in a program that introduces young people to gardening. The Las Olas Sunday Market not only includes local and organic produce, but also locally grown orchids, raw organic treats, fresh baked goods (many gluten-free), French pottery and soy candles, among many other products. Tamarac’s Community Farmers Market in Veterans Park offers a cross between a county fair and a farmers market offering kettle corn, ice cream and barbecue, in addition to the local produce and artisanal goods.

Miami-Dade has a wide variety of farmers markets that sell everything from fresh produce to artisanal items. The Aventura Green Market takes place on Saturdays at Founders Park.

Lincoln Road in Miami Beach is another popular shopping destination with a weekly farmers market. There, you can buy fresh ceviche and guacamole in addition to locally grown produce, jams and jellies. Verde Community Farm & Market, built at the former Homestead Air Force Base, is part of a program that teaches formerly homeless families how to farm.

In the Keys, most farmers markets are open seasonally, but a number of grocers, like The Urbn Grdn (sic) in Islamorada, The Good Food Conspiracy Store in Big Pine Key and Help Yourself in Key West, sell produce from local farmers.

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If the sight of all that fresh food makes you want to run for the farm, then you’re in luck. Several local farms serve up delicious meals right on the premises.

“Dinner in Paradise” at Paradise Farms in Homestead features five-course meals prepared by the area’s top chefs. Local, organic products are paired with fine wines and served under the stars. This year the farm is donating proceeds to Lotus House, an organization dedicated to improving the lives of homeless women, youth and children. For more information, visit paradisefarms.net.

Swank Specialty Produce in Loxahatchee Groves offers the “Swank Table,” a multi-course meal served in the fields. Each event is themed and benefits a local charity. The remaining dinner

this season is themed “Prime Cuts: A Beef Lover’s Paradise,” and proceeds benefit Food for the Poor. For more information, visit swankspecialtyproduce.com.

Chillbar, at Yellow Green Farmers Market in Hollywood, isn’t exactly dining on the farm, but it’s as close as you can get without leaving the city. The open-air café serves up late breakfast, lunch and early dinner Thursday through Sunday. The internationally inspired menu features everything from stuffed grape leaves to Creole frog legs for appetizers. Other options include salads, sandwiches, burgers and assorted breakfast fare. The desserts and exotic cocktail menu are both quite tempting. For more information, visit hollywoodchillbar.com.s

Local Picks BROWARD Coral Springs Coral Springs Green Market 561.929.0237 Hollywood Josh’s Organic Garden 954.456.3276 Wilton Manors Urban Life Green Market 954.394.4322 MIAMI-DADE Coconut Grove Coconut Grove Organic Market 305.238.7747

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Kendall Kendall Village Farmers Market 305.318.6148 Brickell Flatiron Park Farmers Market 305.531.0038 Miami Beach Normandy Village Marketplace 305.531.0038 MONROE Islamorada Islamorada Marketplace on 90 305.318.6148 Key West Bayview Park Green Market 561.929.0237 PALM BEACH Loxahatchee The Acreage Green Market 561.723.3898

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BEST IN SHOW South Florida can be an outrageous drag.

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utting together a memorable drag show is no easy feat. Queens may seem like they come a dime a dozen, but it’s quite a competitive field.

Drag performance is an art form that requires practice, time and a genuine thirst for the spotlight. The artists are in charge of makeup, wigs, clothing and music — all of which require a good deal of money. And while at times drag queens aren’t paid well (if at all), they still manage to crank out some of the best performances you’ll see anywhere.

South Florida’s drag circuit truly offers the cream of the crop.

From beloved locals to national acts, you’ll never get bored at your neighborhood drag show.

If you’re feeling a twinge of guilt after Saturday night’s shenanigans, head straight to church. And by church, we mean the Sunday Gospel Brunch at Lips in Ft. Lauderdale.

Lips has been a staple in the drag scene for more than seven years now.

Originally hailing from New York, the self-proclaimed “ultimate in drag dining” space has a theme each night, including Dragalicious Tuesdays, hosted by the incomparable Lady LaRouge. Lips also has locations in San Diego, Atlanta and soon in Chicago, too. The price includes your meal and the show, which makes for a great night out that won’t break the bank.

801 Bourbon Bar is a fantastic spot in Key West, where all walks of life are lured in by the always hilarious queens out front.

The ladies at 801 are tall, lanky and sometimes a little hairy; they’re an all-out riot. It’s fun and convenient, with shows scattered throughout the day and the prime location on Duval Street. The frozen drinks will cool you off on a hot summer day, and the sizzling queens will have you laughing, cringing and crying until you’re off to your next destination.

Tucked away on Ocean Drive in Miami Beach is Palace — an indooroutdoor bar with a lot of soul. The space bills itself as the only gay restaurant and bar on Ocean Drive.

Now in its 26th year, it doesn’t seem to be going anywhere anytime soon. For a different taste of local nightlife, catch a weekend show or check out the Sunday brunch, appropriately titled “Brunchic.”

If you’re stopping by Wilton Manors, make sure to check out two prominent drag spots. On Sunday night, B. bar & Grille (formerly Bill’s Filling Station) hosts a show titled “Trannie Palace,” helmed by local celebrity Misty Eyez. The femcee dazzles the crowd with her glamorous hair, makeup, glitzy dresses and a serious dose of slapstick humor.

The Manor is another popular spot in this gay mecca. While The Manor hosts weekly parties and drag shows, its real draw is in the national acts it attracts. The space has been graced by none other than Sharon Needles, Bianca Del Rio and Courtney Act, among many others. It’s definitely the go-to spot for big names, so you’ll want to keep their calendar handy.

No matter which bar, club or venue you choose, you’re pretty much in good hands. Let’s face it — sometimes you just need a fantastic song and dance to brighten up the week. Whether it’s over a leisurely Sunday brunch or on a random weeknight, you owe it to yourself to hit one of these drag shows.s

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THOUGH WELL PAST THE HALF-WAY MARK, WHEN FLORIDA BECAME THE 36TH STATE TO RECOGNIZE SAMESEX MARRIAGE, IT TRULY FELT LIKE A TIPPING POINT. In fact, it’s hard to believe that just three years ago, only nine states actively supported marriage equality.

“It is incredibly gratifying that the hard work of so many is paying off,” says Elizabeth Schwartz, P.A., the Miami attorney who represented six same-sex couples challenging the state’s ban. “To see the transformational impact that this evolution in marriage equality has had on people’s lives in Florida is nothing short of astounding.”

While states like Massachusetts, California and Washington were among the first to change the laws in their books, other states not usually associated with liberal movements had also joined the fold. Alaska, Idaho and Wyoming all lifted their bans in October 2014, and they were quickly followed by Montana and South Carolina.

On the heels of the Palmetto State’s legal recognition of samesex marriages, Florida made its

mark. Known for its split-downthe-middle politics, Florida remained a wild card throughout much of the movement.

Many believed it would be one of the last states to lift its ban when Attorney General Pam Bondi — who made it very clear she was not bending on the matter — was re-elected. Some couples simply assumed it would be some time before they could exchange their vows, have their marriages recognized or even get a divorce in the Sunshine State.

But the tide had turned well before Bondi’s election in November. Monroe Chief Circuit Judge Luis Garcia and MiamiDade Circuit Judge Sarah Zabel had ruled Florida’s gay marriage ban unconstitutional in July, and U.S. District Judge Robert L. Hinkle of Tallahassee reinforced their rulings by declaring the ban unconstitutional a month later.

The rulings were stayed to allow Bondi the chance to appeal them.

But when the U.S. Supreme Court denied her request on a 7-2 vote in December, it was just a matter of waiting for the big day to arrive: January 6.

GOING TO THE COURTHOUSE Early on Monday, January 5th, Judge Zabel at the downtown Miami courthouse quietly lifted the stay on the very ruling she had made in July.

And with that, Catherina Pareto and Karla Arguello of Coconut Grove became the first same-sex couple to get married in Florida.

Later that evening, couples, along with families, friends and a frenzy of reporters and photographers gathered at courthouses from Palm Beach down to Monroe, waiting patiently for the coveted piece of paper that would make their relationships legally binding. While most were already married either

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in practice or after filing paperwork in other states, many echoed the same sentiment. It mattered to be recognized legally as couples in their own state. Their home.

At the Broward County Courthouse just after midnight, Shannon Kicklighter and Chris Neill were the first to receive their marriage license, and the room erupted in cheers. A mass wedding followed at 3 a.m., with hundreds in attendance.

“Our community has been fighting for marriage equality for a long time,” says Wilton Manors Mayor Gary Resnick. “We applaud the courts’ decisions to strike down Florida’s ban [on same-sex marriage]. Love is love, and gay and lesbian couples who decide to get married should have the same rights as everyone else.”

The emotional ceremonies are just the tip of the iceberg.

Since lifting the ban, the LGBT community and South Florida, in particular, have been in something of a honeymoon phase, and the effects on the local economy are starting to show.

Exactly one month after the first marriage licenses were issued, on February 5th, Lance Bass served as ambassador for the collective wedding ceremony held by the Greater Fort Lauderdale Convention & Visitors Bureau, aptly titled “Love is Love.” Couples from all over the world flew in for the occasion, including Bass and husband Michael Turchin.

Q Clockwise from top: Couples who got married on January 6th in Broward, Monroe and Palm Beach.

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“We cannot become complacent as our fight for full equality is ongoing.”

— Elizabeth Schwartz

With 100 LGBT and straight couples invited to participate in the all-expense-paid nuptials, the event was at once a celebration of equal love and a sneak-peak into what this legal change could mean for the local wedding industry — from caterers and florists all the way to the big-name resorts that serve as reception venues and which host massive weddingindustry conventions.

One year earlier, the historic Biltmore Hotel in Coral Gables had already launched an elegant advertising campaign geared toward the LGBT market during the 2014 Miami Gay & Lesbian Film Festival, well before legislation on same-sex marriage was anywhere near certain.

AFTER THE HONEYMOON “We all need to come together to just celebrate life and love,” says Bass, a Florida native, who was proud of his home state for finally doing the right thing. “[Florida’s politicians] are showing that they’re leaders down here, and hopefully the rest of the states will follow.”

Although finally getting samesex marriages recognized calls to mind the historic strides made by the African-American civil rights victories half a century ago, many voices within the LGBT community are quick to point out that the fight for equality is far from over.

“Marriage does not solve the problems of everyone in our community. There are still the marginalized folks among us,

including our seniors and youth, our transgender community, those living with no protections against discrimination and much more,” says Elizabeth Schwartz. “Marriage sure helps many, but it doesn’t mean justice for all.”

Those who wish to see the LGBT community move forward must continue to band together. While it’s important to celebrate victories, it’s just as crucial to stay focused on the many hurdles left to clear.

“We cannot become complacent as our fight for full equality is ongoing. Fortunately, we enjoy unprecedented support from across the state and nation, and with the momentum the marriage win brings, we’ve got the wind at our backs like never before,” says Schwartz.s

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Few could guess at the long, hardfought history that lies behind Fabio Díaz Vilela’s restless, childlike demeanor — a history that exemplifies the American Dream.

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FABIO DIAZ VILELA

TO SUCCESS

FABITO

— AS HE IS CALLED BY THOSE WHO KNOW HIM BEST —

is the youngest of two siblings. His family left Cuba for Miami in search of better opportunities. “When I was very young I was thrilled when my father, who was a radio and TV producer in Cuba, would take me to visit the Radio Progreso recording studios in Havana,” he recalls fondly. “It was then that I began growing increasingly curious about everything that related to program production, and I learned to observe artists and get to know their nuances and expectations.”

It was in those formative days that Díaz realized that his future had to be related in some way to show business. At 19, during his third year at journalism school at the Universidad de la Habana, he made the tough decision to leave Cuba with his family. He left behind his grandmother (“one of the most important people in my life”), his traditions, his friends and his country — and everything that goes with that. “It was quite painful because it was like being reborn, but the bond I had with my mother and sister and my desire to see the world provided the push that I needed to take that step.”

Miami, the city that has embraced so many Cuban exiles for more than half a century, welcomed him with open arms.

“Immediately I caught on to how things worked here, and I realized that in this country everything is possible. Here you can reach your dreams through hard work and sacrifice.”

Like any other newcomer, Díaz began his pilgrimage through the Magic City working at whatever he could find. That is how he made his first acquaintance with the culinary world: He worked the counter at Juanito’s Esquina de Tejas. “That was my first taste of the service industry, and it made me stronger.

It defined a lot for me. For the first time, I learned to appreciate every minute of work I had, and I began to see the importance behind each job, regardless of how basic it might seem.”

Versailles Restaurant and Larios on the Beach would cement his learning experiences and taught him about the business end of the industry. “During that time, I worked very hard, and it took me no time to notice that this city is full of potential. I learned about the positive and negative aspects of this business and about customer service, managing large events and attention to the smallest details.”

One night, as he was driving to work he saw a “For Sale” sign posted on the door of the former Café Nostalgia on Calle Ocho — a place he frequented and cared for deeply. “I didn’t hesitate an instant in making an offer to stay with the place. I always knew that that space was meant for me,” Díaz assures.

The decision to buy the space that would change his life was actually a great financial risk for a young man who had but $10,000 to put toward his dream.

“I knew that I was putting all my eggs in one basket, but I was convinced that this was the opportunity of a lifetime,” he says. The deed was signed and the space — newly christened Hoy Como Ayer — belonged to Díaz. “We wanted a name that would honor the past and the present and that would connect generations. The Beny [Moré] song seemed perfect,” says

Díaz. “At first, everything was a challenge and we had to work relentlessly to get the club off the ground. But three events helped set us on the right track: the first run of A 2.50 la Cuba Libre, Fuákata on Thursday nights and Albita Rodríguez’s live shows. I remember we were under incredible pressure to pay the bills and keep the place running, but with those three events we were able to find some stability and keep going.”

Little by little, Hoy Como Ayer became an indispensable part of the Little Havana landscape. It turned into the evening spot of choice for locals and tourists looking for a friendly crowd, dancing and — above all — great music.

Even now, the local nightclub retains the kind of charm that delights and turns regular spaces into landmarks. Far from pretentious, the place is billed as a “space made for all,” and it is a rightful heir to the grand legacy of both Cuban music and the unique culture that defines the Magic City. Nicole Kidman, Mick Jagger, Ricky Martin and Shakira are just a few of the celebrities that have sat at its tables, confirming with their presence the kind of success that the club has achieved. Recently, actor and director Jon Favreau shot a scene of Chef — the runaway hit starring Sofía Vergara — on the premises.

“We are very fortunate to have famous personalities among our customers, but in the end, the final verdict comes from those who pack the club night after night,” says Díaz. “Our purpose is to make people feel at home and to have those who visit leave with a genuine smile after experiencing cultural enrichment.”

Nearing its 15th anniversary, Hoy Como Ayer has made it to Travel + Leisure‘s 101 Places Every Traveler Should Know list — for the third time. Clearly Díaz’s unassuming space has made a lasting impression.

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oy Como Ayer has also served as the springboard for the young entrepreneur to cement his reputation as an influential artistic producer. It is where he expanded his intimate circle, having met countless friends and collaborators there. “We are all like family here. I have people working with me that were with me at the very beginning, and they have kept the same customers for many years,” says Díaz. Another highlight of his tenure at Hoy Como Ayer was meeting the love of his life. “Eduardo was a regular,” he recalls, speaking about his partner, Eduardo Guerra.

“It was here that our relationship began and where it blossomed.”

The happy couple, who recently celebrated a seventh anniversary, has not overlooked the possibility of tying the knot. “We’re eager to do it, but we had always put it off because of work, or because we were required to travel out of state to actually get married. But I think that now that we are able to do it right here, everything’s changed.”

From left: Alexander Castaño, Madeleine Gonzalez, Yoany Perez, Eduardo Guerra, Fabio Diaz and Katia Villaverde at the bar in Hoy Como Ayer.

The happy couple, who recently celebrated a seventh anniversary, has not overlooked the possibility of tying the knot.

Both men share the day-to-day responsibilities of the business and enjoy the fruits of the work that every project yields with the same zest and zeal as that of newly minted entrepreneurs. “Each show is a new challenge for us, and though each time we host a performance we understand exactly what we are agreeing to do, we feel extremely fortunate to get to do it together.”

The first few shows were produced as Hoy Como Ayer, but the actual production arm of their company started just two years ago, under the moniker Producciones FABIO DV. “It has allowed me to concentrate on working with the kinds of shows that this town needs. I want to embrace all generations and help foster a true appreciation for theater,” Díaz asserts. “I think my generation is tasked with the important role of bringing together all Cubans and promoting communication. I would like to facilitate a cultural exchange between artists from both shores and build those cultural and communal bridges.”

It goes without saying that the roster of projects does not end there. Díaz intends to keep working with local artists that stand out, as well as well-known stars. “I want to vary the productions and dive into new projects,” he says smiling as he let’s us in on his dream to one day promote Belgian-Canadian singer Lara Fabian — one of his “greatest idols.” He’d also like to create spaces like Hoy Como Ayer in other cities so that those communities can enjoy great Cuban music, maybe in New York or San Juan...maybe even Havana. And why not?s

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here are a few places you could travel to for a great pride event. West Hollywood, New York, San Francisco, Tel Aviv and Sao Paulo all host their own high-volume versions every year. Given the option to choose from a growing number of destinations, most people opt for the one that gives them the most bang for their buck. And you can tan, shop and bask in the diversity of the LGBT community right in South Florida, without having to book a flight.

Pridefest of Lake Worth and the Palm Beaches already kicked off the 2015 festivities in late March, and with events in Miami Beach, Wilton Manors and Key West still to come, pride season in the Sunshine State is anything but dull. Our sandy beaches and pristine pools serve as the perfect backdrop for any pride plan, whether you choose a vacation in the Keys or a pool party in South Beach. You can even take the kids to Disney for the weekend and make it a family thing.

Miami Beach Now in its 6th year, Miami Beach Gay Pride kicks off on April 11th and runs through the following day. The “Two Days of Fun in the Miami Beach Sun” theme was announced by Mark Fernandes, chair of the organizing committee for the festival, so there’s clearly a beach motif going on this year. Mario Lopez will be the Grand Marshal, so if you’re a fan of “Saved By

From left: Stonewall Pride Festival; Key West Pride; and Pepe Billete at Miami Beach Pride

Wilton Manors Arguably one of the biggest pride events of the season, Wilton Manors Stonewall honors those involved in the Stonewall riots — the 1969 bar raid at the Stonewall Inn in Greenwich Village, New York that led to the beginning of the gay liberation movement.

Waves of folks come to celebrate those who were here before and those who are here now. Stonewall Pride is a joyous day, complete with a parade, live performances and plenty of vendors and drinking spots.

Tucked away on Wilton Drive, this year’s festival closes off the street from June 19-20 for two unforgettable parties. The Twilight Pride Parade will begin at dusk on Friday. Saturday will include an entire day of activities, scheduled from noon until the bars close at 3 a.m. Previous headliners include Andy Bell of Erasure, Amber and Kristine W, among countless others.

“Stonewall is tremendously important to the city and our community,” says Wilton Manors Mayor Gary Resnick. “We’re thrilled that some wonderful volunteers with experience putting on this event once again stepped forward to partner with the city. It promises to be a terrific event for everyone to celebrate.”

Key West You can’t go wrong at a place where the motto is “One Human Family.”

Key West will be celebrating it’s 35th Pride event from June 10-14, and it will be much bigger and brighter than the humble march up Duval Street that took place in 1980. Committed to sending a message about how a community could live together, the participation of the LGBT community along with friends, family members, Key West residents

and visitors is what has always made this event particularly special.

The tropical island is a perfect celebratory spot, as it has a longstanding tradition of inclusion and tolerance and also offers a host of great activities in addition to the festival itself, including sunset snorkel tours and a fun shop crawl.

Whether you’re looking for sun, snorkeling and a laid-back vibe or an outrageously fun vacation, Key West Pride is sure to fit the bill. Oh yeah, and don’t forget about the foam party. For more information, visit keywestpride.org.s

GAY DAYS Though not exactly South Florida, many locals drive to Orlando for “Gay Days.” From June 2-8, you’ll be surrounded by 150,000 other members of the LGBT community and be a stone’s throw away from Disney World. Honestly, what more could you ask for?

On June 6th, an estimated 50,000 people will don red t-shirts and enter the Magic Kingdom for a very prideful day — but also for the roller coasters. Go with a group of friends and make some new ones, too. It’s the ideal environment for people from all walks of life to co-mingle. It’s hard to have a bad day in Disney World.

For more information, visit gaydays.com.

From left to right: Michele Eve Photography; courtesy of the Key West Business Guild; J. Ethan Duran

the Bell,” that should be enough incentive to make it out there. More than 80,000 people were in attendance in 2014.

Since its inception, Miami Beach Gay Pride has grown from a small local gathering to a high-profile pride destination. Enlisting the talent of A-list celebrities such as Gloria Estefan (Grand Marshal in 2014), Adam Lambert (who performed in 2013) and dozens of DJs from across the globe, the event always delivers a great time to its thousands of attendees, year after year.

With the inclusion of a parade, live performances, community booths, expo areas, kid-friendly play zones and food and drink vendors, the festival really caters to anyone that supports the LGBT community. For more information, visit miamibeachgaypride.com.

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Clockwise from top: Anse Marcel Beach, St. Martin; El Yunque National Forest, Puerto Rico; Fort Amsterdam, Curaçao. Opposite page: El Morro National Monument, Puerto Rico.

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HEN IT COMES TO EASY GETAWAYS FROM SOUTH FLORIDA, THE CARIBBEAN IS A QUICK FLIGHT OFF THE GRID TO ISLANDS WHERE THE WATER’S JUST A LITTLE BIT BLUER AND THE SUN SHINES JUST A LITTLE BIT BRIGHTER. AND FOR THOSE READY TO BASK IN THAT SUN — BE IT FOR A SIMPLE SPRINGTIME ESCAPE OR A LONG-AWAITED HONEYMOON — THE CARIBBEAN IS CALLING. WHETHER YOU’RE LOOKING FOR A COSMOPOLITAN RETREAT, THE CARIBBEAN’S LARGEST GAY PRIDE FESTIVAL, ISLAND HOPPING IN THE LAP OF LUXURY OR THE RELAXATION OF AN ALL-ENCOMPASSING RESORT, WE’VE GOT THREE DISTINCT DESTINATIONS TO TEMPT EVERY TYPE OF TRAVELER.

PUERTO RICO: AN URBANITE’S PARADISE

With splashy hotels lining the beach, a burgeoning arts district, sizzling culinary delights and a nightlife scene that goes strong well into the wee hours, Puerto Rico’s capital San Juan is one of the most gay-friendly destinations in the Caribbean — especially in trendy neighborhoods like Condado and Santurce.

Oceanfront Condado is packed with resorts like the Atlantic Beach Hotel (atlanticbeachhotel.com) on Calle Vendig. The area features a popular gay beach, weekly drag shows and plenty of cafes and restaurants. The chic, gay-owned Oceano (oceanopr. com) is perfect for sunset drinks and sumptuous dining to the smooth beats of a live DJ. Nearby, Santurce is the hip, up-and-coming art and music mecca, with a string of sexy gay bars that line Calle Condado.

There, you’ll find Circo Bar, a multi-level hub of entertainment, featuring drag shows and dancing until dawn. Similarly, Scandalo draws a crowd that's ready to party, while Tía María’s Liquor Store is a more laid-back option that's slightly off the beaten path and offers pool tables and karaoke nights.

San Juan certainly enjoys a hip nightlife scene, but its culinary offerings are just as mouthwatering. For a taste of the truly

authentic, head to El Jibarito, a no-frills joint serving some of the island’s best mofongo — made with fried plantains swimming in a garlicky broth topped with pork cracklings, it is easily Puerto Rico’s signature dish. And for a little nostalgia, seek out Barrachina (barrachina.com), whose claim to fame is having invented the piña colada — go see for yourself!

In Old San Juan, with its narrow, cobblestone streets, pastel Spanish Revival architecture and wrought-iron balconies, discover Jose Enrique (joseenriquepr.com) inside an unassuming yellow stucco facade. With fresh, down-to-earth fare prepared by one of Food &

Wine magazine’s best new chefs, it also happens to be one of Spanish celebrity chef José Andrés' local favorites. Expect fresh-caught fish, lobster fritters in lime and avocado mousse, and crispy tostones the size of your head.

Another popular LGBT destination in Puerto Rico is Vieques Island. A variety of welcoming guesthouses, the sleek W Retreat & Spa (wvieques. com) and the stylish, new El Blok Hotel (elblok.com) — featuring a hip bar and restaurant by Jose Enrique — are all great places to stay on the island. It’s the perfect destination for snorkeling, kayaking in the bioluminescent bay at night and beach hopping by day.

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Curaçao images from top: Willemstad; Mt. Christoffel National Park; and Mushroom Forest dive site.

Opposite page: Cupecoy Beach, St. Maarten

The Dutch island of Curaçao, just 35 miles north of Venezuela, is a simmering melting pot of cultures with four official languages — Dutch, Spanish, English and Papiamento (an African-Creole dialect).

It’s also the most outrightly gay-friendly destination in the Caribbean, and the home of the week-long South Caribbean Pride Festival in May (southcaribbeanpride.com), a celebration that brings together neighboring islanders and global travelers. With 17 hotels and attractions holding membership in the International Gay & Lesbian Travel Association (IGLTA) — the most of any Caribbean island — it’s safe to say that Curaçao is a safe haven for the LGBT community.

The Floris Suite Hotel (florissuitehotel.com) in Willemstad is ground zero for gay travel, as it is the official sponsor of the island’s pride festivals — there’s a pride festival in late September, as well. The Floris is adults-only and home to the always happening Rainbow Lounge. Expect a sexy scene with pool parties galore, live DJs and entertainment around the clock.

House music is definitely hot in Curaçao, as the island plays host to headliners like Afrojack, Hardwell and Sidney Samson at music festivals and clubs. Late night party spots include Café de Heeren, a café by day and a hopping dance venue by night, and Bermuda Caribbean Discotheque (bermudacuracao.com), with three distinct areas featuring a variety of DJs and live musicians in an indoor/outdoor historic setting. For a weekend party, head to the Mambo Beach Club (mambobeach.com) and enjoy the beach, the pool and a full bar in a festive, anything goes atmosphere.

Curaçao is not without its natural beauty. A hotspot for diving and snorkeling, you shouldn't miss out on the chance to commune with nature. On the island’s northern stretches, you’ll find the rugged Christoffel National Park and Shete Boka National Park, which is best explored by ATV.

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CURAÇAO: OUT & PROUD IN THE TROPICS

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ST. MAARTEN/ST. MARTIN: ISLAND HOPPING

An island divided into two distinct territories — French and Dutch — St. Maarten/St. Martin has plenty of European charm wrapped in a classic Caribbean setting. It’s also an ideal point of departure for island hopping, with day trips to ritzy St. Barts, luxurious Anguilla and idyllic Saba. Famous for the perilously close positioning of Maho Beach to the Princess Juliana International Airport runway, visitors clamor to the sand to snap seemingly death-defying pictures of planes coming in for landing.

Once you’ve arrived, check into either Belmond La Samanna (belmond.com/la-samanna-st-martin), a luxurious retreat situated on 55 oceanfront-acres on the French side, or the all-inclusive, adults-only Sonesta Ocean Point (sonesta.com/ oceanpoint) on the Dutch side, both IGLTA members. Rainbow Beach Club (rainbowbeachclub.com) is the only gay guesthouse on the island. It is located near Cupecoy Beach, one of St. Maarten’s clothing optional gay beaches. Also nearby is the upscale Blue Mall where you can get your luxury shopping fix.

Nightlife in St. Maarten/St. Martin might not be as plentiful as in Puerto Rico or Curaçao, but there definitely are a few hot spots to hit up during your stay. Bliss on Maho Beach is the island’s gay megaclub under the stars, and Eros (erosclubsaintmartin.com) in Marigot has been the heart of LGBT nightlife on the island for more than 30 years — their Saturday night parties are legendary.

For the only drag show and cabaret, head to L’Escargot (lescargotrestaurant.com) in a funky Creole cottage. The place also dishes up delicious French cuisine. Le Cottage is another excellent French restaurant that prepares lobster in every imaginable way (think: doused in ginger, swimming in coconut milk or prepared in a bisque over puff pastry).s

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A TITAN ON THE FIELD Megan Rapinoe and the Women’s National Team return to the FIFA Women’s World Cup.

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Ċ Megan Rapinoe, Team USA Midfielder

hey called it one of the greatest games in Olympic history. The USA v.

Canada’s semifinal during the 2012 Summer Olympics in London was an edge-of-yourseat rollercoaster ride, complete with a never-before-seen stunt: the Goal Olimpico. Midfielder

Megan Rapinoe’s goal, scored from the corner, was the first anyone had achieved at the Olympic Games. With it, she earned a spot in the sport’s history, as well as international recognition.

This summer, Rapinoe will once again join Team USA, this time at the FIFA Women’s World Cup in Canada. The competition is fierce, with highly ranked teams from all over the globe — including Canada and Japan, which Team USA beat in 2012 to win the gold.

Team USA is ranked second in the world, bested only by Germany. And the athletes of Team USA have proven they’re up to the challenge. The women were undefeated in 2013. Forward Abby Wambach has scored more goals than any player in history, male or female. In 2014, goalkeeper Hope Solo broke the U.S. National Team record for shutouts, adding the 72nd to her career in a game against Mexico. And the team earned its seventh CONCACAF championship last year by beating Costa Rica 6-0.

The players have their work cut out for them in the World Cup, though. In June, USA will have to defeat Australia, Sweden and Nigeria to advance to the next stage of the competition — the round of 16. Of these, Sweden presents the biggest challenge. The Women’s National Team lost to Sweden 1-0 in last year’s Algarve Cup; in 2013, in the same tournament, the two teams ended in a draw.

The Women’s National Team (WNT) is also under the direction of a new coach, Jill Ellis, as former coach Pia Sundhage stepped down to coach in her home country after the 2012 Olympics. The twist?

Sundhage is Swedish. She’ll be Team USA’s opponent, rather than its leader, during the World Cup’s first round this summer.

The outlook for matches against the WNT’s two other firstround opponents is sunnier. In 2013, Team USA dominated Australia 4-0 at an international friendly. Nigeria was ranked well below Team USA at number 32.

But will Rapinoe be able to assist her team on the field as in the past? The midfielder suffered a strain in her right knee in January, an injury that kept her out of training camp and sidelined her during several planned exhibition games. No decision had been made about whether Rapinoe would be recovered in time to play in the World Cup, as of press time. But Rapinoe is as supportive off the field as she is on it, where her teammates depend on her precise passes and powerful defense to let them shine. With her energy and confidence bolstering them, there’s a good chance they can bring the cup home.s All the information presented is accurate as of press time. For the latest updates, visit ussoccer.com/ womens-national-team.

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BREATHE EASY Allergy season is a year-round affair in South Florida, but that shouldn’t keep you indoors.

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by JOHN TOMKIW

ith the rest of the country dealing with the aftermath of Snowpocalypse 2015 — or whatever dramatic name was assigned for the last storm of the century — here in Florida, we have been basking in sun-kissed climes, warm waters and lush foliage.

But that’s both a blessing and a curse. While the rest of the country is blanketed in snow, Florida’s flora is

almost in perpetual bloom. And that means one thing: pollen.

Indeed, Florida’s allergy season is longer and stronger than most, with different allergen-producing foliage peaking earlier and at different times throughout the year.

According to Michael Wein, M.D., a clinical professor at the Florida State University School of

Medicine in Vero Beach, there’s a major tree pollen season for oak and pine from December through May, another tree pollen season from October through November, a grass pollen season from April to October, a weed season — for things like ragweed and dog fennel — from May through December and a minor weed pollen season — for sorrel and dock — from March though July.

That doesn’t leave people much time without a box of tissues.

But that also doesn’t mean allergy sufferers need to sequester themselves indoors. With some planning, you can ensure that allergies won’t take over.

“Our expectation is for our patients to do all the things they enjoy to do, whether it’s inside or outside… and I think a lot of that is about having allergy symptoms under control,” says Thomas Johnson, MD, of Allergy and Asthma Care of Florida, in Ocala.

To that end, he recommends that people get tested to determine which pollens they are specifically allergic to; track pollen counts at the National Allergy Bureau website (aaaai.org/nab); and start treatment before the season hits full bloom.

“Keeping a good amount of control leading up to and during that season is key,” Johnson says.

“Allergy shots can significantly improve [symptoms]. With other medications, you can start taking them ahead of the season — like nasal steroids, which can help reduce the inflammation in the nose so you don’t have the same symptoms. Antihistamines can help as well.”s

Dr. Wein suggests: • Participate in outdoor activities after it rains, or in the evening, when pollen counts are generally lower.

• Avoid hanging clothes outside to air dry.

• Shower after outdoor activities to remove any clinging pollen.

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Family To You Is Family To Us At Jackson Health System, we’ve dedicated ourselves to helping families get the best care available. It’s our commitment to every family that passes through our doors that got us recognized by the Human Rights Campaign as a “Leader in LGBT Healthcare Equality” for four years running… and for nine of our facilities, including our centers and major hospitals.

That means every Jackson facility that applied met core foundational criteria for LGBT patient-centered care. We respect the unique nature of your rights, keeping an open visitation policy and providing assistance with healthcare surrogacy.

What’s more, our staff receives training in LGBT patient-centered care.

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Damian Pardo Ċ Financial Advisor

Q: January 6th was a historic day in Florida. How did you receive the news?

A: As a gay Miamian raised in Florida, I relished basking in the loving sun of equality on January 6, 2015. I vividly recalled the brutally stark attacks during Anita Bryant’s “Save Our Children” campaign, the plague-like environment during the beginning of the AIDS crisis, the thousands of coffee table conversations helping to usher in basic and sporadic protections from discriminations AND FINALLY, a significant deliverable of equality and justice — MARRIAGE.

Q: Do you have any reservations?

A: Income inequality, infidelity, disparate health care needs or simply just growing apart might be among the most common obstacles on the road ahead. In a community where there is no tradition of divorce, no folklore of warnings, no locker room conversations or tips — pre-nups, titling assets, beneficiary designations — LGBT people would be wise to think through the potential outcomes.

Ironically, while many straight people are re-evaluating the modern application and functionality of marriage as an institution, LGBT

people have jumped in head first screaming, “we have arrived!”

Q: As a financial advisor, what are your main concerns for newlyweds?

A: Do they know that they may not be able to remove their spouse as a beneficiary on their 401K, annuity or life insurance? Or that after a certain number of years of marriage, they may be required to leave a percentage of their accumulated wealth or even their primary home to their spouse? Or that the inheritance they planned for their nephews may already be spoken for? Or perhaps they may end up having a lifetime of commitments as a consequence of a “plunge for equality.”

Q: Florida has achieved marriage equality, but that’s not the final step.

What do you feel is next?

A: Marriage equality is an historic and monumental step forward for the LGBT community. I admittedly rode a wave of largely celebratory emotions. Yet, marriage in Florida is one “task completed,” where several “tasks” remain to be won.

Employment discrimination, advocacy and services for the elderly LGBT population and eradicating religious-based phobias still figure prominently as milestones on the horizon.

We have made monumental progress on our road to full equality.

Even so, we must stoically assess where we are as individuals and as a community and forge ahead to secure our hard earned, bright future in the Sunshine State.s

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Miami Gay and Lesbian Film Festival April 24-May 3 mglff.com

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Kathy Griffin at the Broward Center for the Performing Arts in Fort Lauderdale April 25 browardcenter.org Care Resource AIDS Walk April 26 careresource.org

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Pridelines Youth Prom May 16 pridelines.org 24th Annual Island City Canoe Race in Wilton Manors May 16 sunny.org Equality Equal Business Luncheon May 28 gaybizmiami.com

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