The Journey Magazine April 2008 by Suzy Childers

April 2008

Inspiring woman Jennifer Wade

Relationships

Remember Your First Love

At home

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2 From The Editor 3 Giving Back: March of Dimes 4 The Review 5 At Home 7 Calendar of Events 8 Ask Amy 9 In The Kitchen: Quick Meals 11 Inspiring Woman: Jennifer Wade 14 Places and Faces

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17 Your Wallet: The Credit Union Difference 18 Relationships: Golden Rule in Marriage 19 Pretty Babies... Sponsored by Memorial Health System of East Texas 20 Parenting: Fun Family Gardening 21 Simple Solutions: Spring Cleaning 23 Womenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Health: Are you at Risk?

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Welcome I have to be honest with all of you, the hardest part of this

questions is what makes up our journey and what makes our

entire publication for me is this part! It is like pulling teeth for

journey special. All of our journeys combined are what makes

me to create this letter every month. The reason I write my

us stronger women. It was not God’s intention for us all to

monthly letter is because there is so much covered in each issue,

experience the same things in life. It was His intention to use

I want to sum it all up somehow. The reason it is so hard is

our lives to impact those around us. The women in East Texas

because there is so much covered in each issue, I cannot seem to

are simply amazing. The Journey we are on is sometimes wild,

sum it up in the depth I would like to. This month is no different

bumpy, under construction, “smooth sailing”…but at whatever

in that once again, the Inspiring Woman will leave you with

point we currently face, we are to stay open to see what God

your mouth hanging wide open. How in the world she does it,

is trying to show us. Believe it or not, wherever we are in our

I still do not know.

journeys, God has it under control. We just have to ride through

Once again, I have to reiterate the meaning of words “the

it so we can see the other side.

journey.” Every one of us is put here for a reason. Many of us are still trying to figure out why? What is our purpose?

Here is to the April Showers so we can enjoy the May flowers!

Our goal? Our legacy? Our individual answer to all of those

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Giving Back

The March of Dimes mission targets the overall health of babies. The focus includes birth defects prevention, premature birth, and infant mortality. A lot of this is accomplished by research. Research is the main way for all of those involved, including parents, physicians, and family, to learn valuable tools to implement if they do find themselves in one of these categories.

because they have a personal connection or can relate to the cause of March of Dimes.” Mitchie Kinney’s daughter was born prematurely in July 2004. “After being the Ambassador Family in 2005, the awareness we spread and the contacts we made were amazing! We received phone calls from family members of our friends that had given our number to them because they were now dealing with what we went through.” There is a unique bond that is shared between anyone who has gone through premature birth. People who have experienced it want to be there for new parents dealing with the extreme stress of the situation. Prematurity has increased by more than 30 percent since 1981 and now affects more than 500,000 babies each year.

Nationally, March of Dimes hosts a walk known as Walk for Babies. This walk raised over $110.3 million in 2007. Hopefully, with everyone’s help, the number will be far exceeded this year. The local Nacogdoches chapter of March for Dimes is hosting their walk Saturday, April 19, at Pecan Acres Park. Mitchie Kinney is in charge of organizing the volunteers for this event, after being the Ambassador Family three years ago. Kathy McGough said, “Just about everyone involved with this organization is here

Approximately 20,000 teams will participate in Walk for Babies nationwide, drawn from corporations, unions, schools, clubs, family teams, and other organizations. Walk for Babies takes place in 1,100 communities in all 50 states, the District of Columbia and Puerto Rico. If you have any questions, contact Mitchie Kinney at (936)560-5717 or go to marchofdimes.com. Our local walk is not listed online since the Nacogdoches chapter it is solely volunteer base.

arch of Dimes is a large national organization that has done a great job branding their name. The name recognition is there, but unfortunately the local, community level awareness is not. There is a March of Dimes organization in East Texas just waiting for your involvement.

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The Review

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What an invention! This advancement in women’s wear is revolutionary. This bra is a must have for every wardrobe. The design reduces VBL (Visible Bra Lines), gives a smooth, sexy back and provides extraordinary comfort! The soft, wide straps distribute weight evenly and stay where they belong. The nometal bra is airport-friendly and so comfy; you’ll forget you have it on! Available now at The Fashion Shop in Nacogdoches and Brandy’s in Lufkin.

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At Home

Fern in an Urn! An idea so simple anyone can recreate it! Do you have a space in your home that is “blah” and you have no idea what to put there? I have found that a little greenery does miracles. I love this idea and it is so easy. Just purchase the urn (or other large container) of your choice. Next, find an artificial fern or similar plant and place it in the urn. If it the plant needs something to stabilize it, I have used newspaper as a filler in the base of the planter. I have a before and after so you can see what a difference it makes.

Before

After

Classic Black and White Pictures

The touch of a black and white photograph is so classic and timeless. This is a simple idea that you can use to fill the hallway or entry to your home. It is an easy way to make a dramatic statement. You can use old or new photos that have been matted with a white mat and a simple black frame. The frames don’t have to all match perfectly (just make sure they are all the same color). If you have a color photo, you will want to either scan it into your computer and change the color digitally or use the Kodak kiosk at your local photo department. Once they are framed, place them on the wall 2 to 3 inches apart. There is no wrong way! Have fun and keep adding picture when you want. If you get the amount you want to keep, simply update older pictures with the new ones.

Table Top Photography Display I love it when things are displayed as a grouping. I have a collection of pictures in beautiful enameled and jeweled picture frames. They are my absolute favorite. The frames are very dramatic and display beautifully. Do your treasured family photos justice by displaying them in a grouping of beautiful frames on a table top or bedside table.

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Life & Home

Shower Curtains ...not Windows!

Jazz up a Lamp

I was having the hardest time finding a shower curtain I liked. I searched the internet and every store I could think of. I had in my mind what I wanted but could NOT find it , until one day I was in a local â&#x20AC;&#x153;Bigâ&#x20AC;? discount store and found the most beautiful velvet drapery panels. I bought them and quickly took them home to see if my brainstorm worked! Much to my delight, it did!!! I used two shower rods and two drapery panels. One rod is for the plastic shower curtain and the other is for the panels. I was very happy with the outcome. Shower curtains are hard to find and sometimes pricey. I bought two Velvet panels for less than $20.00.

This is an easy decorating tip! I have many lamps in my home and am always trying to think of ways to make them more interesting. I decorated this lamp at Christmas with a beaded garland I found at Hobby Lobby. I cut the garland to the length I wanted. I wrapped the garland around the neck of the lamp leaving some slack. I like it so much I decided to keep it.

Do you have a great idea in your home? JANE WELBORN from Lufkin showed us this great ideaâ&#x20AC;ŚShe simply bought an antique picture frame and took off all the frame backing. Then she used the frame as a centerpiece for the mirror in her guest bath. Send us your decorating ideas to athome@tjmag.com. Samie just might come to your home to take photos for your home to be featured in an issue of The Journey! Home decorating and style is a passion for Samie Montes, who is a mother to two beautiful daughters, Grace and Vivian. She and her husband Chad make their home in Lufkin, Texas. Samie is a member of The Junior League of Lufkin. She is involved with St. Cyprians Episcopal School and a board member of CASA of the Pines. Samie is now available for home decorating consultations. You can reach her by telephone at (936) 632-4659 or by email at samie3475@ yahoo.com.

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Join us for a princess party, followed by a mother/daughter look-alike contest! Saturday, May 3

10 a.m. Princesses 10 and under (and their moms) are invited to the Milkshake Princess Party. Princesses will receive a princess photo, wand, tiara and much more. Noon Mothers and daughters of all ages are invited to compete in the mother/daughter look-alike contest. Registration forms available at Customer Service.

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Calendar of Events

SFA Opera- The Bartered Bride 7:30 p.m., SFA Cole Concert Hall. For more information please call 1-888240-ARTS.

Tennis Tournament Dinner and Auction Benefiting the Mosaic Center in Lufkin. For more information, contact (936)639-5068.

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Join album-making enthusiasts from all over Angelina County for a Two-Day Event celebrating National Scrapbook Day. Creative Memories consultants from the area will be on hand to assist you on preserving your precious memories, plus you will have the opportunity to win some great door prizes! Your registration fee includes 2 awesome gifts, exciting breakout sessions, snacks and drinks, the use of tools, and plenty of space and uninterrupted time to work. There will also be an on-site store to purchase all of your album-making supplies. Friday, April 11: 6-11 p.m., Saturday, April 12: 9a.m.-5 p.m. Calvary Baptist Church in Lufkin. To register or for more information, contact Becky Walker at (936)465-4440 or beckywalker@ consolidated.net

Jazz on the Patio Enjoy live jazz music at the Fredonia Hotel Pool Patio. Call (936)564-1234 for more information. 7 p.m.

Pitch, Hit, and Run Children ages 7-14 are allowed to participate in baseball and showcase their pitching, hitting, and running abilities. Morris Frank Park Field #5. Contact Mike Akridge for more information at (936)633-0250.

“On Golden Pond” 8 p.m., Lamp Lite Theatre, Loop 224 and Old Tyler Road, (936)564-8300. Tickets $15 Adult and $12 Student and Senior.

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Tennis Tournament Crown Colony Open, A junior Grand Prix Event. All Day. Conact Karen Crumpton for more information at (936) 631-1529

Harley Night at Harlon’s 6 p.m. until close, Harlon’s BBQ, 603 Old Tyler Road, (936)564-4850

“On Golden Pond” 2 p.m., Lamp Lite Theatre, Loop 224 and Old Tyler Road, (936)564-8300. Tickets $15 Adult and $12 Student and Senior.

Guided Downtown Walking Tour 10:30 a.m. Downtown Nacogdoches. Tours depart from the Visitors Center, 200 E. Main Street. For more information call 1-888-Oldest Town. Tickets are $2.

ANNUAL POWER OF HOPE PAGEANT BENEFITING ANGELINA COUNTY RELAY FOR LIFE. Will be hosted at the American Cancer Society office in Lufkin from 1-3 p.m. Hosted by Kim Herman, past committee chairman and captain of the Slack Super Moms Team. Entry fee is $40 and includes casual western wear and fun optionals. All contestants will receive a title, crown, banner and gift. Registration 1-1:30 p.m with pageant starting at 2 p.m. Deadline to enter is April 14 to avoid a $10.00 late fee. Please email bhkh@consolidated.net or call (936)212-1543 for paperwork or for more information.

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Cruisin’ in the Pines 5 p.m., Classic, Antique and Muscle Cars. For more information call Doug James at (936)564-9128. Millard’s Flea Market Shop for bargains at this monthly flea market. Dusk to Dawn, Highway 59 North. For more information call (936)564-4490.

Nacogdoches Americana Music Fest An annual celebration of various genres of music indigenous to the United States, including country, bluegrass, jazz, gospel and rock. Local, regional and nationally known acts perform throughout the day in historic downtown Nacogdoches. Headliners this year are the Gourds and David Olney with Sergio Webb. 12 p.m. to 10:30 p.m. Festival Plaza, Downtown Nacogdoches. For more information visit: www.nacogdochesamericanafest.com

Travel to historic sawmill sites throughout East Texas. Registration fee is $20.00. Registration is limited and pre-registration is necessary. Contact the Texas Forestry Museum for further information. 9 a.m. -5 p.m. (936)632-9535 or info@treetexas.com.

Cancer Survivor Meal A FREE, DELICIOUS meal provided by the American Cancer Society to honor those individuals that have survived cancer. Door prizes are given. Cancer survivor plus one guest are invited. To register, contact Beverly Slaughter at (936)635.1937.

Dinner and Dancing Under the Stars This annual Museum fundraiser is one spectacular party! Held in the back garden of the Museum, live entertainment is provided by Emage. Fabulous food, a live and silent auction and loads of fun await you! Please call the Museum to make your reservation today. 6:30-10:30 p.m. Call (936)639-4434 or visit www.metlufkin.blogspot.com for more information and to book your reservation.

“On Golden Pond” 2 p.m., Lamp Lite Theatre, Loop 224 and Old Tyler Road, (936)564-8300. Tickets $15 Adult and $12 Student and Senior.

May 1

Gardening Friends of Lufkin Dr. Brent Pemberton “Tropical and Award-Winning Plants at the Overton Center” Held the first Thursday of each month February through November. Lectures are FREE and open to everyone! Following each lecture, there will be a drawing for free plants and refreshments. For more information, call Rachel Emrick, City Arborist, at (936) 633-0431.

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Relay for Life 7 a.m.-7 p.m. Homer Bryce Stadium. For more information, please call 936634-2940.

Crime Stoppers Fish Fry Log onto www.nacexpo.net or call (936)564-0849 for more information.

Fredonia 5k Walk/Run For more information call Robin Dawley at (936)554-7816.

Angelina County Benefit Rodeo Lufkin Expo Center For more information, go to www.angelinacountyexpo.com

Gospel Concert Log onto www.nacexpo.net or call (936)564-0849 for more information.

Kurth Memorial Library Book Sale Contact Tamara Crail-Walters for more information at (936)632-7126

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“On Golden Pond” 8 p.m., Lamp Lite Theatre, Loop 224 and Old Tyler Road, (936)564-8300. Tickets $15 Adult and $12 Student and Senior.

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Christian Healing Conference Norma Dearing, author and popular speaker for conferences for the International Order of St. Luke, as well as the host of a live radio program on XM Satellite channel 170 from midnight to 2 a.m. weeknights, is coming to St. Cyprian’s Episcopal Church in Lufkin. Norma served as a director of prayer mininistry at Chrisian Healing Ministries (CHM) in Jacksonville, FL with Francis MacNutt. Her ministry experience includes teaching on inner healing and forgiveness, as well as physical healing as outlined in her book, The Healing Touch,AGuide to Healing Prayer. She is a vibrant and attractive woman, wife and mother. She is very relational and funny, and, like Beth Moore, especially appeals to women. For more information, or to book your place at the conference, please contact St. Cyprian’s Episcopal Church or Jan or Pete Peterson at (936)699-3194.

May Day Join us at the Museum of East Texas as we celebrate the arrival of Spring with our first annual May Day party! Fun outside games will be played in the back garden and a variety of craft projects will be available for you to create. Refreshments provided, and the event is free of charge. Parents are encouraged to attend with their children.1-3 p.m. For more information, please call (936)639-4434 or visit www.metlufkin.blogspot.com

The Joe P. Collins Memorial Open Car & Truck Show will be held on Saturday, May 3rd at the Wal-Mart parking lot (Hwy 59 and Daniel McCall). Registration is from 9– 11 a.m. with trophy awards given at 3 p.m. Cost for entry is $20. There will be 20 classes for all makes and models including: Street Rods, Classic Pickups, Daily Driver, Occasional Driver, Restored Police Vehicles, Modified, and more! Participants will receive t-shirts and door prizes, plus can participate in a chance to win the 50/50 jar pot. This is a charity event with all proceeds benefiting Hospice in the Pines. For more information, contact Roman Collins, Car Show Coordinator, at (936) 366-3261 or email policemustang@yahoo.com

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Multicultural Festival 10 a.m. to 5 p.m., Downtown Nacogdoches. Join in on the fun as Sacred Heart Catholic Church hosts this 2 day event. Includes a midway, carnival rides, and kid games.

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elieve me, as a working mom I know how hectic life can be and understand that although you really want your family to eat right and live a healthier life, making that a reality can be tough. Whether you’re a mom, dad, grandparent, or neighbor, we each play a role in modeling healthy habits for our children. To make the task a little easier, each month I will share some tips and tools brought to light in the “Ask Amy” emails I receive. It is my hope these answers are of benefit to you and your family - I’m here to help. And remember, you don’t have to overhaul your habits overnight. Living a healthy lifestyle means taking it one step at a time. Well Wishes! Amy

Q: I seem to catch every little bug that goes around. I have a four-year-

old daughter that attends preschool. I have never had such a hard time kicking this type of illness. Can you recommend a diet that will help boost my immune system? Thanks!

A: I know from experience how challenging it can be to focus on your health while trying to balance work and family demands. There are three lifestyle factors to address when it comes to boosting your immune system: diet, exercise, and sleep.

Amy McLeod, RD, LD is Director of Food and Nutrition Services at Woodland Heights Medical Center where she oversees clinical nutrition and patient and visitor dining. Previously Ms. McLeod operated a nutrition consulting practice for physician offices, dialysis and longterm care. Amy holds degrees from the University of Texas at Austin and Stephen F. Austin State University. Her volunteer work includes serving as board member for the Texas State Board of Examiners of Dietitians, as State Media Representative for the Texas Dietetic Association, and locally on the School Health Advisory Committee for Lufkin Independent School District and the Vision 20/20 Healthcare Task Force for the Angelina County Chamber of Commerce. Amy and her husband Jim have two active boys, Charles, eight, and J.B., four.

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• Focus on consuming 3-5 nutrient rich fruits and vegetables per day. The brighter the color, the more nutrient dense the fruit or vegetable will be. • Include protein with each meal. Lean meat, fish, poultry and eggs are all good sources of protein. Include one or two ounces at breakfast and 3-4 ounces with lunch and dinner to provide you with plenty of immune boosting antibodies that help fight illness and disease. • Reduce or eliminate sources of refined carbohydrate such as sodas, sugary snacks, chips and sweets. Some research indicates that excessive intakes of refined carbohydrates such as regular sodas and sweets depress the immune system, making you more susceptible to illness. Instead, choose whole grains and 100% wholewheat bread, cereal, rice and pasta. • Include healthy monounsaturated fats such as olive and canola oil and vegetable oil spreads in your diet. • Include a multi-vitamin for days you know you won’t be able to include those 3-5 fruits and veggies. • Drink plenty of water. Many people feel run down when all they need to is reach for some H20! • Include some form of exercise for at least 30 minutes, three times per week. Exercise helps to reduce stress levels, improves circulation and will help you sleep better at night. • Get adequate sleep, which experts say is about eight hours. You’ll feel more refreshed and have more energy to accomplish your goals. Decide to work on just one issue per week and you’ll be well on your way to an improved immune system.

Q: I know my kids should be eating more vegetables, but it is so hard to put into practice on a daily basis. If you have any tips to help, I would appreciate it! A: Kids like having control. That’s why it’s important to present them with choices when it comes to eating better. For example, rather than tell your kids, “Try some broccoli with your dinner,” ask them to choose between two different vegetables by saying, “Would you like broccoli or carrots for dinner?” You may find they will choose a vegetable when given the opportunity. Another idea is to take your child with you shopping. Although I know it can be a hassle, getting them involved in selecting healthier foods will give them a greater “buy-in” to try the food. You might even make it fun saying, “let’s try out a new vegetable – you pick.” Get your child involved by having them help you prepare dinner. I have found this to be a great way to get even the finicky eater to try something new.

Amy would love to answer any questions you may have regarding health and nutrition. Email her at askamy@brookshirebrothers.com There is a wealth of information and tools at www.brookshirebrothers.com to help you with your wellness goals.

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In The Kitchen

Make Your List Unforgettable

Have you ever made a grocery list and forgotten to take it with you? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. A recent American Heart Association survey showed that nearly 70 percent of female grocery shoppers that make grocery lists forget to take them to the store. Let new technology help you make forgotten grocery lists a thing of the past. The American Heart Association has a free online grocery list builder that lets you save your grocery list and download it to your Web-enabled mobile phone or PDA. Start by making your list online. Go to heartcheckmark.org and click on “My Grocery List.” Choose from hundreds of foods certified by the American Heart Association to be low in saturated fat and cholesterol. You can also add other needed items in the My Items category. Enter your e-mail address to save your list for future use. Then print and go, or download the list from your Web-enabled mobile phone or PDA by visiting mylist.heartcheckmark.org. From there, enter your e-mail address and click retrieve. “Busy people rely on technology to keep them organized,” says Penny Kris-Etherton, R.D., Ph.D., professor of nutrition at Pennsylvania State University. “Now it’s easy to keep your grocery list in your Web-enabled mobile phone or PDA and feel confident that you are selecting foods low in saturated fat and cholesterol,”

For more information about “My Grocery List” or the American Heart Association’s Food Certification Program, visit heartcheckmark.org. Courtesy of Family Features

Beefy Me ica Lasagna 1-1/2 9 2 1 1-1/2 1 1-1/2 1/2 2

pounds ground beef (95% lean) corn tortillas cans (10 ounces each) mild enchilada sauce can (15 ounces) black beans, rinsed, drained cups frozen corn teaspoon ground cumin cups shredded Mexican cheese blend Crunchy Tortilla Strips (optional)* cup chopped tomato tablespoons chopped fresh cilantro

Total preparation and cooking time: 45 minutes 1. Heat oven to 350°F. Brown ground beef in large nonstick skillet over medium heat 8 to 10 minutes or until beef is no longer pink in center, breaking up into 3/4-inch crumbles. Pour off drippings. Stir in 1 can enchilada sauce, black beans, corn and cumin; bring to a boil. Reduce heat; simmer 5 minutes, stirring occasionally. 2. Spray 11-3/4 x 7-1/2-inch glass baking dish with nonstick cooking spray. Arrange 3 tortillas in dish, cutting 1 as needed to cover bottom. Spread 1/4 cup remaining enchilada sauce over tortillas; cover with 1/3 beef mixture, then 1/3 cheese. Repeat layers twice, omitting final cheese layer. Pour remaining can enchilada sauce over top. 3. Cover with aluminum foil. Bake in 350°F oven 30 minutes. Remove foil; sprinkle with remaining cheese. Bake, uncovered, 5 minutes or until cheese is melted. Top with tortilla strips, if desired, tomato and cilantro. *Cut 2 corn tortillas in half, then crosswise into 1/4-inch wide strips. Place in single layer on baking sheet. Spray lightly with nonstick cooking spray. Bake 4 to 8 minutes at 400°F until crisp. Makes 8 servings. Nutrition information per serving: 349 calories; 13 g fat (7 g saturated fat; 2 g monounsaturated fat); 76 mg cholesterol; 441 mg sodium; 29 g carbohydrate; 5.4 g fiber; 29 g protein; 5.7 mg niacin; 0.4 mg vitamin B6; 1.7 mcg vitamin B12; 3.8 mg iron; 15.4 mcg selenium; 5.0 mg zinc. Cook’s Tip: Lasagna may be made up to 24 hours ahead through Step 2; refrigerate, covered. Increase baking time to 45 minutes. Recipe and photo as seen in The Healthy Beef Cookbook, published by John Wiley & Sons.

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In The Kitchen

Microwave Moms:

The Secret Ingredient for Well-Balanced Meals

Considering today’s

demands of work and after-school activities, creating a weeknight dinner from scratch is not always realistic. Many parents are too busy to make dinner, but feel guilty for not providing their children with a hearty, home-cooked meal. “When prepared properly, a meal made in 15 minutes can be just as enjoyable as one that takes hours,” said Joan Hanson, test kitchen director of Hormel Foods. “With more convenient meal options available today, families can spend more time together and less time in the kitchen, without sacrificing the meal’s flavor.”

Hanson offers the following tips on how to make dinnertime less daunting.

Add a Gourmet Touch

Turn any meal gourmet with a surprise twist on the core items. For a fresh spinach salad, add mandarin oranges and sprinkle in some microwave-ready bacon for a protein punch.

Embrace the Center of the Plate

It’s possible to honor the main course, or center of the plate, and still save time by preparing your side items from scratch. For a hearty meal, ready in minutes, serve a satisfying, microwave-friendly meat product, such as beef tips & gravy over cooked egg noodles and pair with a green salad.

Be Creative with the Everyday

Give regular sandwiches a delicious makeover by first microwaving HORMEL® Beef Roast Au Jus, which can go from the refrigerator to the table in four minutes. Pile the meat high on a toasted French baguette. Dip the sandwich in savory au jus and accompany with French fries and fresh fruit for a complete meal.

Take Comfort in Dinner

Whether it’s a crisp evening or the family just had a long day, comfort foods often warm the body and the soul. Next time the family is in need of an uplifting meal, heat microwavable, fully-cooked meatloaf and gravy for the family to enjoy. Serve with mashed potatoes and buttered broccoli spears for a delicious dinner in minutes. For more dinnertime recipes, visit www.HormelFoodsRecipes.com. Courtesy of Family Features

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Inspiring Woman Jennifer Wade

Elliott & Evan Just about every pregnant woman carries a feeling of uncertainty during her pregnancy: she hears stories about other pregnancies, every appointment with her obstetrician seems to be running a different type of test or check on the baby’s health, and there is almost always a concern about circumstances that can cause complications to the pregnancy. Jennifer Wade is no different. Jennifer had a hard time conceiving a child. She went through many levels of medication trying to get pregnant. Finally, she decided to try In-Vitro Fertilization. When her Ob-Gyn told her the IVF was successful, he also let her know she was expecting twins. Jennifer was ecstatic to hear the news. This was something she waited for a very long time. When carrying multiples, a woman is automatically watched more closely by her doctor. At 18 weeks, she was put on bed rest due to a thinning cervix. Then at 24 weeks and 4 days, her water broke. “My sister is a nurse at Memorial Hospital in Lufkin, so I immediately called her. I planned on using that hospital because she works in Henderson Women’s Center.” Jennifer rushed to Memorial Hospital. Once she was there, the nurses took care of her. Forty-five minutes later, she had a placental abruption and was rushed to Houston. A placental abruption occurs when the placenta separates from the uterus and it can deprive oxygen to the baby. When she arrived in Houston, the doctors went ahead and performed an emergency C-section.

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Evan

On April 10, 2006, Jennifer gave birth to a baby girl named Elliott and a baby boy named Evan. Jennifer stayed in the hospital for five days before she was able to be released. The babies were in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU)

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and she did not know how long it would be before they would be able to come home. Life is very difficult for premature babies when they enter this world. The babies have to endure many obstacles to ensure their safety while they grow in size, strength, and health. In addition, the mother and father and family experience a tremendous amount of anxiety and stress while they wait for their babies to come home. Elliott was released at two and a half months on July 3. The family stayed in a furnished apartment in Houston while they waited for Evan to be released. “It was a difficult place to be because I couldn’t be with Evan all the time,” Jennifer said. “The nurses would help me as much as possible. They would go hold him on their breaks so someone was holding him a lot. Since they were the smallest babies in there, they had a lot of attention.” The whole time both the babies were in the hospital, Jennifer kept a journal of everything that occurred as

they progressed including what happened that day, the changes in feedings, and strides that were made. This helped her to see that the babies were making progress. Jennifer remembers the first feeding. “They ate 2ml through their feeding tube. This was about 30 drops of milk and was a 3 hour feeding.” When Evan was four months old, on August 7, he was able to come home. Once the family they came home, they had to create and adjust to their new routine. The babies were growing and healthy. Then there was a tragic accident. When Evan was seven months old, Jennifer rushed home from work to the horrific news that Evan died in his sleep during a nap. This life altering event is something she is still trying to cope with on a daily basis. Most of us can’t begin to imagine how difficult it would be to lose a child. The grieving process is difficult to go through, but Jennifer wants to go there because she

is able to share Evan’s life. “This is still a nightmare for me and I relive it everyday. A part of me died the day Evan died. From here on out, nothing will hurt this bad. It helps me put everything else and all other problems into perspective,” says Jennifer Wade. This year, March of Dimes of Nacogdoches asked Jennifer to be the Ambassador family for their March for Babies walk. The walk will be in memory of and celebration for Evan and Elliott. Their little lives raise awareness, hope, strength, and courage for all families. The events this family has endured were not what they planned for, and that is what the March of Dimes is about. Their mission is to raise funds for research about premature birth, to make monies available to women dealing with premature births, and more. One could wonder how any person manages to get out of bed every morning and continue on after such a tragedy, let alone be the spokesperson for a huge

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event. People not going through the tragedy themselves struggle with how to approach anyone dealing with such a loss? When you ask Jennifer these questions she says, “One of the hardest things I had to and still have to deal with is not hearing from some of my friends. It hurts me not to have those people around me that I need to hear from the most. But on the flip side, some people have just been there for him and me that I am amazed to see. At Evan’s funeral, seven of his nurses came and that meant so much to me.” When you ask her about being the March of Dimes of Nacogdoches Ambassador Family, she explains, “I wanted to do this for Evan. Of course, I would not want to be here and I wish no one would ever have to go through this. But this is my opportunity to let everyone know who Evan was, that he existed. He changed my life and I want other people to hear about and know him, too.”

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Krista, Jennifer’s sister, says, “Jennifer is the strongest, most amazing woman I know.” Krista, who works in Labor and Delivery, says, “I do this everyday. I have done countless numbers of emergency C-sections, but it is completely different when you are on the other side of the blue drape. You seem to lose it all when it is your own family.” She goes on to say, “Jennifer seemed to be the strong one during it all. She was the one encouraging the rest of us.” Like many sisters, they have a wonderful bond and are very close. “I hope that I can be at least half the mother she is,” said Krista. This story is everyone’s worst nightmare. It is one that no one hopes anyone will ever have to go through. Jennifer is proud to be Elliott and Evan’s mother. “Even in the bad times I am happy because Elliott is still here and I am her mom.” Jennifer says, “Don’t take things for granted. Your health, how much time you think you might have, you just never know. Love your children. Hug your children. Because you just never know.” * If you would like to walk in honor of Evan, make a donation, or get involved with March of Dimes, contact Mitchie Kinney at (936)560-5717. The March for Babies Walk is scheduled for April 19th at Pecan Acres Park.

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What is a credit union’s purpose? The philosophy of People Helping People has been the foundation of the credit union movement since its inception. Credit unions exist to help people, not make a profit. Our goal is to serve all our members well – including those of modest means. Every member counts. For this reason, our members are fiercely loyal. They know their credit union will be there for them in good times as well as bad. This same people-first philosophy causes credit unions to be viable community partners with strong involvement in charitable activities and worthwhile causes. What services do credit unions offer? Credit unions are full-service financial institutions with the ability to offer a wide range of services all designed to help meet your financial needs for saving and borrowing. Whether you need a consumer or mortgage loan, checking account, or credit card, a credit union can assist you - and with the best rates around. Credit unions also assist members to become better educated consumers of financial services. The Credit Union National Association, Inc. (CUNA) has partnered with the National Endowment for Financial Education (NEFE), a non-profit foundation, to expand financial education among high school students. Financial literacy information is available FREE of charge in various formats to schools and community organizations.

Each credit union is governed by a board of directors, elected by and from the credit union’s Is my money safe? membership. Board members serve voluntarily and Absolutely. Credit unions are supervised by the receive no compensation for time committed. National Credit Union Administration (NCUA), a U.S. Government Agency. NCUA also insures each Who can join a credit union? member’s deposits to the full legal limit. Some Credit unions are for everyone, but not everyone credit unions in Texas have a state charter can belong to any given credit union. Members of a credit union must share a common bond. and are also supervised by the Texas Credit Union Individuals qualify for membership through their Department (TCUD). employer, organizational affiliations (like churches Why wait? or social groups) or through their community. Credit unions are meeting the financial needs of How can I locate a credit union that I am eligible people all over the world. Nearly 82 million people to join? nationally belong to 9,964 credit unions, reaching CU Match Up is a user-friendly, web-based service over one-third of the nation’s population. Today, that links individuals or groups with credit unions like years back, credit unions continue to serve they may be eligible to join. Log on to www.joinacu. humble, hard working members of all financial org and complete a series of simple fields, such as the means. Join a credit union today and start taking city, county or zip code of where you live, employer advantage of member ownership! information, or other association information. Your Information provided by East Texas Professional Credit Union input is compared to the information contained in and obtained through the Texas Credit Union League. the CU Match Up database and a list of matching credit unions is displayed. You can then receive detailed information on one or all credit unions listed by clicking on the credit union’s name.

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Relationships

By Kathryn Greene

The

Golden Rule in Marriage

Remember the Golden Rule… Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. What if you were to treat your spouse as you would like to be treated? How different would your marriage be? Many couples are caught in a cycle – if he would then I would, if she would then I would. The cycle has the possibility of being stopped when one of them starts doing what is right no matter what the other spouse does.

What are some ways that you would like to be treated? •

I would like to be listened to and responded to in a way that helps me to feel significant. Have you ever felt like you are talking to the wall? You know it is true because when you finish sharing your thought there is absolutely no response, or the response is totally different than the thought you had been sharing. You are effectively listening when you are able to repeat back to the person sharing what was just said – and look them in the eye when talking.

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I would like help when cleaning the table after a meal. This would allow more time for us to do things as a couple. I could even have time to help with the yard duties if I had help with the household chores.

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I would like to be told that I look pretty. It is the desire of every woman to be told by the man in her life that she looks good to him rather than to only hear that from the man she works with. A woman usually dresses to please the man in her life. If she never gets a positive response from him, she will look for it from someone who will give it to her.

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I would like an open and honest relationship with my husband. I don’t want to feel that I have to walk around on eggshells all the time for fear that I am going to say or do something wrong. I don’t want there to be any secrets or deception. Sometimes honesty hurts, but later it can to be dealt with.

I realize that if I want to be treated kindly in these ways, I should first of all treat my spouse in these ways: •

I should make it a practice to listen to my husband and not give my opinion on how he should have handled a matter differently. I should always work to show him respect – even when I may not agree with him.

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If I want help with my household chores, I need to be willing to offer my help with the outside chores. I can’t do it all, and neither can he.

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As it is my desire to be told “You look good”, it is my man’s desire to be told “You are the greatest!”

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How can I expect openness if I am not open myself? A man needs a woman he can turn his back on, trust with his money, and from whom he can seek selfless counsel. When I offer that type of relationship in the marriage, it will bring great return.

I hope you will take the time to reflect on: “Am I treating my spouse in the way that I would like to be treated?”

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