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While these differing opinions are allowable, we must ask ourselves; are our reactions and responses beneficial to our mental health? This is a self review and audit question that can help us through life and many other transitions In this edition, we look at transitions in caregiving, and professionals and resources that can help us with the process We also highlight how others have adjusted to changes thrust upon them by the ill health of their loved ones. Moreover, our online platforms are brimming with information that can help you with these transitions as well. Like, share, subscribe. Support is at your fingertips!
Our lives are a story of transition
All through our lives, we are constantly leaving one chapter behind while moving on to the next. Kenya just went through the elections process and now we have a new government. The outcome of these elections has been met with all manner of reactions and responses. On one side lie those on the resistance end of the spectrum while on the other are those that are accepting of the results.
Rhoda Wagaki Founding Director Note from Self The End is the Beginning
I don't remember The first time I read the expression "bloom where you're planted" attributed to the Bishop of Geneva, Saint Francis de Sales (1567 1622) It has however moved me for years. I keep asking myself, "am I growing in this?" 'This' applies to all situations; the good, the bad, and everything in between. It seems to me that there are many reminders to find the lesson in the tough times In good times, however, not so much. Rather, the latter is largely seen as a time to ride the happy wave. While that is okay, this expression reminds me to stay present and look for the growth point. Sometimes looking for the growth point is a hard and painful process In many situations, you just want to get it over and done with. But don't. Over time, the outcome is well worth the time and effort. Trust me; well, perhaps don't, but please work at blooming in the caregiving role where you have been planted.
If a survey was done, it's probable that 90% of people would say that talking with loved ones about the end of life is important. In real life though, a very small number of people have actually done so.
End-of-Life Doulas or EOLDs, also called Death Doulas, assist in the dying process, much like a midwife or doula does with the birthing process. They aim to help families cope with death by recognizing it as a natural and important part of life. This concept may seem like a new or progressive idea, but they are as old as culture itself. EOLDs can offer a variety of services that include creating a peaceful, loving atmosphere at death; and, most importantly, providing grief care before, during, and after the death of a loved one. Death doulas can help families find ways to honor those who have died as much as they were honored in life. Ultimately this service can normalize the death space for families and communities.
YouTube - Nurturing by Mother Nature. She's good with TLC! FB live with a Death doula Mother nature is continually giving us an array of options to help rejuvenate ourselves From the morning sun to the beauty of nature, the fresh highland air when you can access it, and the evening jog if you enjoy exercise. The question is, do you have time to pause and smell the flowers (so to speak)? We took the time with Plantastic with Kui. Catch the episodes on our youtube channel; suruvi self care for caregivers
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The Birth of a Union "Nurse Aides Society of Kenya seeks to unite all the caregivers in Kenya, both professional and family caregivers. Our main goal right now is to grow in number and to give back to the community. Thus far, we have had one activity at the Nyumba ya Wazee, Kasarani, as our team grows steadily. We appreciate everyone who showed up; you made it a resounding success. We look forward to visiting many other Homecare centres and are inviting as many care aides as can come. Our volunteering activities will go hand in hand with developing our individual self care plans. Registration to join this society are ongoing and we welcome all the caregivers in Kenya to join us. This is our UMBRELLA and our room to oversee professional protection and regulations that must be met."
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You can climb it in your own time
The mountain will still be there
If a shower stings like needles and a bath feels like you'll drown
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Don't make yourself feel worse
A rest is not defeat
While you are getting re-aligned
From an anxious, fractured mind
If the mountain seems too big today
Then climb a hill instead If the morning brings you sadness
If you haven't washed your hair for days
There's no shame in rearranging
Don't think of it as failure
The world will not stop turning
When you want to try again
THE MOUNTAIN
If the day ahead weighs heavy
A day is not a life time
Don't throw away your crown
It's ok to take a moment
It's ok to stay in bed
Just a quiet, kind retreat
Just love yourself till then Laura Ding-Edwards
