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❄ HERBIE FLOWERS

A Ditchling musical legend

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FEAST AND BE MERRY

Christmas food and drink

CHRISTMAS GHOST STORIES

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Tales from the other side

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Be honest, how many mince pies have you eaten so far? The more the merrier I say, because it’s Christmas! I hope you enjoy our festive December issue – we have lots to entertain, inspire and interest you this month. Lisa de Silva spent a fascinating afternoon with the charming Herbie Flowers, our very own local (a Ditchling resident through and through) music legend. Read the story from page 43 to ﬁ nd out how it all started, the greats he has worked with in the past and his ongoing love and enthusiasm for music today. This man is unstoppable! Another local hero, hailing from the village of Balcombe, is the last known survivor of the Zulu war, Lt Colonel Frank Bourne. Roger Linn tells the tale of this young, courageous and dedicated soldier from page 6. Turning to all things Christmassy, we have got an inspiring article on tree decorating (think outside the box this year) from page 21, some more festive crafts to keep little hands busy (p.28), a whopping 5 page Christmas gift guide (starting p.33) a Christmas quiz to test the old grey matter (p.57) and loads more! Congratulations are due to our three prize-winning readers for their hairraising Christmas ghost stories – read their tales from page 74 (if you dare). The lucky three, who all win a year’s subscription to Sussex Living Magazine are Maggie Ellam, Mark Boorsma and Jennifer Wardley. Thank you so much to all the other entrants as well for some truly terrifying and out of this world stories. From all the team here at Sussex Living, we wish you all a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

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BY ROGER LINN

A Local HERO As the last survivor of the Zulu war, Lt Colonel Frank Bourne, OBE, DCM earned his stripes as a young, courageous and dedicated soldier. Roger Linn pays him fitting tribute

Frank Bourne was born in Balcombe in 1854. Eighteen years and eight months later, having grown into an undersized and weedy teenager, he made his way to Reigate and took the queen’s shilling. He enlisted in the 24th Regiment of Foot and began to receive the magniﬁcent sum of 6p a day, from which the government deducted 3.5p for ‘messing’. Laughing, he said, in a radio interview he gave in 1936 at the age of eighty two, that he used the rest of the cash for “luxuries”. He wasn’t the only person with a sense of humour however, because on joining his regiment he was posted to ‘A’ company. This was traditionally called, the ‘Grenadier’ company and in those days it was composed of the very biggest men in the battalion. The regiment had just returned from ﬁ fteen years of service in India, so

Around half past four in the afternoon the first 500 Zulus attacked and Frank’s line of infantrymen performed ‘fire and retire’ as they fell back on the outpost

Lt Colonel Frank Bourne young Frank found himself surrounded by some very tough, experienced soldiers. However given his stature and ‘greenness’ he must have been outstanding at his chosen profession, because when the regiment was ordered to move to South Africa ﬁve years later, Frank had just been promoted to Colour Sergeant of ‘B’ company, making him, at only 23, the youngest Colour Sergeant in the British Army. And that was the position he held when in South Africa a couple of years later, the regiment, now called the South Wales Borderers, formed part of the force led by Lord Chelmsford which continued on page 8

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Scene after the battle

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began the Zulu Wars by crossing the Buffalo River into Zululand. They crossed at a place called Rorke’s Drift. Rorke’s Drift would become one of the most iconic battles in British military history and everybody who has seen the film Zulu knows what happened there. If you haven’t seen Zulu don’t worry because it appears on TV every Christmas. The reality of the defence of Rorke’s Drift however, was somewhat different from the film version. One of the film’s ‘heroes’ alongside Michael Caine and Stanley Baker is the Sgt Major played by Nigel Green – he is portrayed as a man in his 40s, tall in stature with a lifetime’s experience of soldiering behind him. In the film, his magnificent example helps to hold

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the men together and steadies them throughout the fight. In reality of course, he was our Frank, and although his conduct was as courageous as that depicted in the film, he was only 26 years old, 5ft 6ins tall and Rorke’s Drift was probably his first serious battle. Frank recorded his ‘bitter disappointment’ when his company of around a hundred fit men was chosen to stay behind and guard the hospital, stores and pontoons at Rorke’s Drift, however like it or not, he and his sergeants were forced to watch glumly as Chelmsford’s column of four thousand men proudly marched off to engage the enemy. Little did they know. Ten days later, half of the column who were camped ten miles away at a place called Isandhlwana were overwhelmed by around four thousand Zulus. Some twelve hundred British soldiers were killed in the disaster and the victorious Zulus, flushed with success, immediately set off to deal with the tiny outpost at Rorke’s Drift. Frank said that they knew nothing of the calamity taking place ten miles away, but about half past two in the afternoon, stragglers began to arrive with the bad news and it became apparent that their situation had become perilous in the extreme.

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Conduct Medal for ‘outstanding coolness and courage during the battle’ with an annual annuity of £10, but many people felt he should have been among those who received the Victoria Cross. He went on to serve in Burma and India and was commissioned in 1890. At the end of the 1914-18 war, for which he had rejoined the army, he was given the honorary rank of Lieutenant Colonel and appointed OBE. Frank died appropriately enough on ‘Victory in Europe’ day at the end of the second World War. He was the last survivor of the ﬁght at Rorke’s Drift and is buried in Beckenham, Kent.

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With 36 men in the hospital, there was no thought of withdrawal and Colour Sergeant Frank Bourne started his men on turning the little settlement into a position they could defend. They ‘loopholed’ the walls of the hospital and made barricades out of meal bags and wagons, while he took a line of skirmishers forward to try and delay the enemy’s advance. They would have two hours to make such preparations as they could. Around half past four in the afternoon the fi rst 500 Zulus attacked and Frank’s line of disciplined infantrymen performed what the military call ‘fi re and retire’ as they fell back on the outpost. As Frank recorded later, “We knew then that whatever happened, we had to fight it out alone.” And fight it out they did against wave after wave of attackers. The hospital was set on fi re about seven thirty in the evening, but all the sick and wounded were rescued and the desperate defence of the ever decreasing circle went on throughout the night. The Zulus, who numbered in the thousands at the start of the fight, fi nally gave up and withdrew some twelve hours after the fi rst shots were fi red, leaving the men of B company more than a little surprised that they had survived the night. Here’s what Frank said many years later, “I was moving among the men all the time, and not one of them fl inched. Their courage and bravery cannot be expressed in words.” Frank was awarded the Distinguished

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Free lunchtime concert Ensemble Reza have planned a very special free lunchtime concert on Tuesday 8th December at Haywards Heath Methodist Church, Perrymount Road from 1-2pm. The programme, called a ‘Chronological Christmas’ will feature music through the ages from Vivaldi’s Winter from the Four Seasons to popular carols including The Twelve Days of Christmas and Sleigh Ride. Come and join us for mince pies from 12.30pm and get into the spirit of Christmas with some wonderful playing from this virtuoso group. These concerts are always enjoyed, one concert-goer said, “Just an exquisite way to spend one hour. What more could you ask for - top virtuoso musicians playing a programme of music that never fails to please .... for free!” For more information contact: Hannah.carter@ ensemblereza.com

Christmas Carol Party Christmas 2015 is the 90th anniversary of Sharpthorne Carol Party. Founded by the Comber family in 1925 to raise funds for local charities by singing carols in West

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Hoathly, Sharpthorne and the surrounding area, the choir has contributed many thousands of pounds to St. Catherine’s Hospice and other local charities. Unlike most choirs the members only sing together at Christmas resulting in a joyful reunion when rehearsals start in early November. During the early years the choir was transported to the outlying houses in the parish, on the back of a builder’s lorry with a piano strapped to it. Fortunately transportation today is less bumpy! But ninety years later the Carol Party still receives a warm welcome from their wonderful hosts throughout the villages, who enable the festive spirit of the Carol Party to continue to beneﬁt local charities. The Carol Party’s next appearance will be in the beautiful parish church at Highbrook Christmas Market on Saturday 5th December 2015.

Ditchling Film Society Our Christmas film on Thursday 3rd December will be The Hundred-Foot Journey. Hassam Kadam (played by Manish Dayal) is an extraordinarily talented and largely self-taught culinary novice. When he and his family are displaced from their native India and settle in a quaint French village, they decide to open an Indian restaurant. However, Madame Mallory (played by Helen Mirren), the proprietress of a Michelin starred restaurant just a hundred feet away, strongly objects. The Hundred-Foot Journey is a harmonious comedy abounding with flavours that burst across the tongue and a portrayal of two worlds colliding. Directed by Lasse Hallstrom, English and French. According to tradition, before our Christmas film we shall be serving our famous mulled wine and mince pies to get the festive season off to a rip-roaring start. The film will be shown in Ditchling Village Hall starting at 8.00pm (doors 7.30pm). There is ample free parking behind the hall. Guests and temporary members are welcome for the sum of £5.00 payable at the door.

The Gateway Club Mid Sussex Gateway Club is a social club run on a Wednesday evening in Burgess Hill, term time only, for adults with learning disabilities. Our

members enjoy themselves in a relaxed atmosphere taking part in an activity from our busy programme or just enjoying a chat and a cup of tea with friends. We enjoy many activities which include art, pottery, painting, karaoke, games, bingo, discos and so much more. We would love you to come along and meet us and enjoy a fun evening, all for £1.00. Refreshments available to purchase throughout the evening. All our helpers are non-paid volunteers and we are always looking for people to help. We also have an East Grinstead Gateway Club which meets every ﬁrst and third Thursday of the month 7pm to 9 pm. Each member pays £2.00 and this includes refreshments during the evening. The club is in urgent need of volunteers. If you could give just two to four hours a month it would really help with the members enjoying a social evening. Both clubs have a club leader, Diane King, 07592609785 or look at the website www. midsussexmencap.org.uk for further information and programme details.

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Council. With a cold winter predicted the Chairman Phil Revis feels that they desperately need more volunteers prepared to offer a few hours of their time on a regular basis. If you think that you could help make the area safer for vulnerable people please contact the charity through their website www.neighbourlycare.co.uk or email neighbourlycare@outlook.com

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Chailey Heritage Foundation needs you Firstly, can you spare just one hour? Tesco Superstore in Burgess Hill have given Chailey Heritage Foundation the opportunity to do a bucket

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The Wildlife For All Trust For the perfect Christmas present, and to help raise money for charity, The Wildlife For All Trust have produced a beautiful coﬀee table book, ‘Holding On’, which has been described by one reviewer as “stunning”. It contains a wealth of wonderful images by our charity’s director who - despite never promoting his work commercially - is one of the world’s best nature photographers. 100% of sales proceeds from the book go to help our conservation work - the author/photographer doesn’t take a penny! As a charity we are genuinely unusual in our approach. We all work on a non-paid basis, believing that most charities

Marchants Estate Agents are holding a Coffee and Cake morning on Saturday 23rd January 2016 from 9.30am until 1.00pm at 1 Keymer Road, Hassocks, West Sussex BN6 8AE. Please come in and take 5 minutes out of your busy day and relax with a coffee and a slice of home made cake, in return for a small donation to support St. Peter and St. James Hospice. Marchants have a personal connection with the hospice as family members and friends have been patients, and we have experienced first hand the understanding, dedication and compassion for patients, family and carers at such a difficult time. Set within 23 acres of Sussex countryside with tranquil surroundings and spectacular views across to the South

Downs. The Hospice services are free and funding relies on the community for a huge part of this. The Government give less than 14% to the total yearly running costs of the Hospice and £2.6 million is raised every year to sustain the facility. Call Wendy for more information on 01273 843333.

Henfield Living Advent This event takes place in Henfield from the 1st to the 24th December. Like a children’s advent calendar, a different window or door is opened each day for a short ‘performance’ or exhibition, for an assembled audience. This can include songs, carols, music, book recordings, local folklore, sketches, dance and drama, all with a wintery or Christmas theme. Opening with the turning on of the Christmas Lights, this year’s events will include regular Henfield favourites such as the

annual ‘Christmas Starts Here’ concert, the Henfield Christmas Shopping Evening with festive shops, stalls and entertainment; a demonstration by the Spinners & Weavers Group; and the ‘Sheep Trail’ around the village. For the first time Henfield Library will be launching an eleven day children’s ‘character hunt’ around the library from the start of Living Advent, concluding with a prize draw on the evening of 11th December. For more detailed information look out for the posters and leaflets in Henfield High Street shops and in other public places and once more enjoy a very special village Christmas.

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Recently, my seven year old granddaughter was shown a video of her father working at a large commercial exhibition in Abu Dhabi. She thought it was very interesting, “but why”, she asked him, “are there so many shepherds?” At this time of year and for a veteran of so many nativity plays, as both a participant and a spectator, it was not an unreasonable question for the child to ask. Especially since Mid Sussex is chock full of very small shepherds every December. Last year I enjoyed the truly remarkable sight of about thirty of them, complete with fake beards, holding hands outside my house as they waited to cross the road into church. There are two main reasons for the phenomenon of the annual outbreak of tiny shepherds: one is that every child performing in the school’s nativity production must have a role. And whilst the opportunities to dress up as Mary or Joseph are necessarily limited, and there really can’t be more than

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Hurstpierpoint’s Late Night Shopping Event on 3rd December with a special introductory price. It’s clear from the way that Dr Jawahar talks about her practice and about dentistry in general that the pastoral care at the surgery is nothing short of excellent. “Prevention and helping patients maintain their teeth for life are our main aims,” says Dr Jawahar. “We cater to all ages and the service here at Hurst Dental Practice is all about truly personalised care. Generations of people have been traumatised by dentistry and associate it with pain – we want to change that. I always take my time with patients and make sure they are comfortable and for those who fear injections, - we can find alternatives. I can literally feel their pain!” she laughs. The practice provides high quality dental care on a private basis, and has its own bespoke dental care plan under which patients receive regular dental checks, hygiene visits and great discounts on treatments. There is also a limited number of NHS spaces available. So with premium dental care at affordable prices, there’s definitely something to smile about.

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festive The centrepiece of any home at Christmas time? The Christmas tree of course! Do you have special traditional family decorations or do you fancy something a bit different this year? Read on and be inspired Christmas is an important religious festival at this time of year, but is celebrated by many people regardless of their religion. The turn of the year is an important time for all cultures. For everybody there is one key element (Christmas dinner, the Queen’s Speech, presents, cards, family, a special decoration, a favourite carol) without which it would not be ‘Christmas’. Our British Christmas ‘traditions’ have constantly been changing over time. Initially the Pagans and the Romans decorated outdoor evergreen trees which then formed the focus for a community celebration. Decorating outside trees is a modern revival made possible by modern technology allowing us to put lights outside safely. Our community celebrations are wonderfully successful around 5th November when we come together to watch firework displays, and many people now set off fireworks at Christmas and New Year. All these

lights serve the purpose to lighten the darkness in the darkest part of the year here in the Northern Hemisphere. The fashion of decorating inside might link to the Dark Ages when everyday folk changed the rushes on their floors around the Winter Solstice, fi lling their homes with sweet scent. Around the turn of the sixteenth century it was fashionable for evergreens to decorate the feasting hall. Maybe the red berries on the holly and white berries on the mistletoe were made more significant by England’s new national emblem, the Tudor Rose. The idea of a decorated tree inside is a German tradition brought to Britain by Prince Albert, Queen Victoria’s husband. Your tree may be real or artificial or even minimalist but, if you have any thought of celebrating Christmas, the chances are you will have a decorated tree either inside, outside or both.

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So, how are you going to decorate with style this year? What does your tree need to be perfectly decorated? Wander the High Street shops, visit your local Garden Centre, browse this magazine, go to see 81 full sized decorated trees in Holy Trinity Church, CuckďŹ eld (11-13th December) and you might be able to answer my question. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder when it comes to festive decoration. A special Santa Claus looks after presents under our tree at home; my dad made it from the festive advertising of a chocolate manufacturer approximately 80 years ago. Then there are the wooden tree decorations bought on a trip to the Arctic Circle to see the real Santa Claus when my boys were small. Each year when our decorations are unwrapped I am surrounded by special memories. Whether you decide to buy your decorations or make them, remember that you are following a line of tradition stretching back in time. The timing of Christmas coincides with the Winter Solstice and the turning of the year; it links us inextricably to our ancestors who built Stonehenge.

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Christmas colours are historically red and green. Green reminds us that spring will come again and red is a reminder that Christ will die a grisly death on the cross, and Santa Claus wears red because St. Nicholas was a bishop. Christmas tree designers often choose a theme for their trees; tartan, quirky colour combinations or the ‘traditional’ look. We have seen a wonderful and diverse collection of Christmas Trees over the years in Cuckfield, inspiring, amusing and thrilling for all the visitors we receive. Many people create masterpieces from scratch using knitting, crochet, beading, macramé, baking and wood carving. If you are not skilled in any of these arts you could try to find a bought object that you could modify; bath ducks with Santa hats made of felt perhaps? Why not make an early resolution this year and create or buy a special decoration that your children will cherish. A bought decoration can be rendered special if it is wrapped as a stocking gift with a special message attached explaining why it has been selected. I saw this and thought of you . . . However you mark this festive season, be inspired and enjoy!

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The holly takes the

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together in a star shape. 2) Bind well with the vine, twine or string to secure the star. 3) Arrange the holly, berries and pine tree cuttings in the centre and secure using more vine, twine or string. 4) Spray lightly with the gold spray and tie a string at the top for hanging up.

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HISTORY

BY PHILIP PAVEY

Philip Pavey spent time last summer making pilgrimages to some of the ancient churches in the South Downs. Here he shares his findings with us Here through the strong and shadeless days The tinkling silence thrills; Or little, lost, Down churches praise The Lord who made the hills: Sussex – Rudyard Kipling, 1902

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Streat Church

PILGRIMAGE Kipling’s great love song to his adopted county brieﬂy captures the special character of the ancient churches along the foot of the South Downs – mostly small and simple, and at once homely and holy. Five of them lie close together under the short stretch of downland that runs from the Jack and Jill windmills to Ditchling Beacon, and all are eminently worth a visit. The church of St. John the Baptist at Clayton dates from late AngloSaxon times, and still has the tall narrow shape of that early period. It can be reached on foot by a mile-long track that runs southwards from Hassocks station, immediately east of the railway line, or by a path steeply descending northwards from the Jack and Jill windmills car park. The church has just a nave for the congregation and a chancel (area around the altar) with no side aisles or transepts. The two sections of the church are divided by a wall pierced by a large and graceful

chancel arch dating from about 1050. The church’s great treasure is its twelfth century wall paintings, which are of national, if not international, importance. Having been painted over by protestant reformers in the sixteenth century, they were discovered and restored in late Victorian times. They seem initially a little pale and indistinct, but when the eyesight adjusts it becomes possible to make out a lot of detail. Above the chancel arch is the imposing ﬁgure of Christ in glory. Proceeding towards him along the north wall is a great line of ﬁgures, met by St Peter holding his keys. There is a similar procession on the south wall, though Satan on a fearsome beast is attempting to pull some of them the other way! On the west wall is a beautiful modern engraved glass window to mark the millennium, showing the church beneath the Downs. Two miles east of Clayton

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Clayton Church

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trees on St Catherine’s Hill behind, silhouetted against a red sky. Beyond and above, a young mounted warrior with a shining face rises through the starry heavens towards angels bearing a chalice. A bridle path on the southern side of the main road, going east, runs for about 300 yards from where it is possible to cross the road carefully (to the gateway of ‘Old Middleton’) and take a path for about a mile northeast to Streat Church. This serves an even smaller hamlet and feels remote and time-lost. Its dedication is not known (not St. Reat!) but like Westmeston its nave is originally Norman, and its chancel from the thirteenth century. It has two iron memorial slabs (look for one with a ﬁgure 3 the wrong way round) reminding us of the Sussex iron industry ﬁred by charcoal, before the age of coal. A beautiful modern stained glass window of St Francis with many brightly coloured birds on a local Sussex

Ditchling Church

Westmeston Church is peaceful and engagingly picturesque, with a nave of Norman origin and a chancel in the simple thirteenth century style

backdrop, is in the nave’s north wall. A major east-west track lies immediately south of the churchyard from where there is a stunning view of the South Downs, including the V-shaped hillside wood planted to mark Queen Victoria’s diamond jubilee in 1887. Proceeding eastwards along this track a mile and a quarter takes the rambler to East Chiltington Church, again with its dedication unknown. It is a very simple structure of Norman nave and fourteenth century chancel, surrounded by glorious countryside. There is a blocked up round-headed

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Norman doorway in the north wall of the nave and one of the cross beams in the roof has the carved date 1669. Of great interest are the wooden boards under the tower recording bequests to the poor – one from 1797 is of £4 6s 8d (£4.33) per year “ for ever”, one of the administrators being ‘John Hamshar’ – surely ‘Hampshire’ pronounced with a Sussex accent! A short stroll westward from the church back along the same track, to the south-east corner of Plumpton racecourse, and then north up the lane, gives access to Plumpton railway station. Alternatively, the visitor can continue back to Streat from where the same track goes on westward for a mile and a half to Ditchling. The church of St. Margaret is grander than its neighbours, as beﬁts a large village, but like them it has a pyramidical ‘Sussex cap’ atop its tower, which is so redolent of Downland churches. It is spacious and airy with large pointed arches which are more ornate in the

chancel (dating from 1263). The origin of Ditchling’s name is Dicul-inghas, meaning Dicul’s settlement, as with many other Sussex places such as Steyning (Stanna-inghas) or Fulking (Folka-inghas). But all the other names end in –a which seems to be the early AngloSaxon norm. I wonder whether Dicul was the Irish monk Dicuil recorded by the eighth century historian Bede as the ﬁ rst to bring Christianity to Sussex, with a mission at Bosham. Bede tells us that he had no success and was then supplanted by St Wilfrid, whom we know had little time for Celtic Christianity. Was he possibly displaced eastwards to make Ditchling the fount of Christianity in East Sussex? It would be nice to think he had more success in this lovely setting, but we may never know! Reference Ordnance Survey 198 Landranger map 1:50,000 scale Church guides Judith Glover, The Place Names of Sussex, B.T. Batsford 1975

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Sunday 20 December, 18:30 Thursday 24 December Friday 25 December

Burgess Hill St Andrew’s Church, Junction Road, Burgess Hill RH15 0LG Saturday 12 December, 19:30

Burgess Hill Choral Society Christmas Concert Join us for: Karl Jenkins’ Gloria, Vaughan Williams’ Fantasia on Christmas Carols, Hely-Hutchinson’s Carol Symphony and carols for choir and audience. £13 or free of charge for accompanied under-16s. Ticket information: www.burgesshillchoralsociety.org.uk or 07702 318335

The Point at the The Woolpack Pub, Burgess Hill RH15 8NN Sunday 06 December, 19:00-21:00

Church in a Pub – Christmas Special Live music, Christmas Carols, thought for the day, mulled wine and more. A very informal way to do church! Free entrance but bring money to buy your own drinks at the bar! www.thepointchurch.co.uk jules@thepointchurch.co.uk

The Point, St Paul’s Catholic College, Burgess Hill RH15 8GA Sunday 13 December, 10:30

Friday 25 December, 10:30

Sunday 29 November, 18:00

Saturday 05 December, 16:00 Christingle

Wednesday 16 December, 19:00 Carols around the Christmas Tree, followed by a mince pie.

Sunday 20 December, 18:00

Candlelit Nine Lessons and Carols

Thursday 24 December

16:00 Christmas Eve Children’s Crib and Nativity Service, incorporating Posada, for families. 23:30 Midnight Mass

Friday 25 December

Christmas Day 08:00 Said Eucharist 10:00 Christmas Eucharist. A Celebration for everyone

Sunday 27 December

St John the Evangelist Patronal Festival 08:00 Said Eucharist 10:00 Sung Eucharist

Sunday 03 January

Thursday 24 December 16:00-17:00 Christingle Christmas service for children including the preparation of a Christingle. A free will offering will be taken during the service. 23:00-12:10 Midnight Communion All welcome to the service. All who have a tradition of taking communion in church welcome to share communion. A free offering will be taken during the service.

The King’s Church Mid-Sussex, The King’s Centre, 33-35 Victoria Road, Burgess Hill RH15 9LR Monday 21 December, 18:30

Sussex Chorus Family Christmas Concert This comfortable, warm church, with good facilities and plenty of easy parking provides an ideal setting for families to enjoy this seasonal music. The programme will include both well known and less familiar seasonal songs and carols with many old favourites for audience participation, including those which are suitable for children. Alan Vincent, Sussex Chorus’s Music Director, will conduct the concert whilst John Walker will play the keyboard. Haywards Heath U3A Handbell Group will be taking part too. Tickets £12, £3 for students and those under 16 and are available from the Sussex Chorus website, the Ticket Manager (01444 412579), www.We GotTickets.com, Burgess Hill Help Point, 96 Church Walk, Burgess Hill, RH15 9AS (01444 247726), Carousel Music (01444 417654) and on the door. The programme and refreshments are included in the ticket price

Sunday 20 December, 09:30 & 11:30 Christmas Carol Services

Friday 25 December, 10:30

Epiphany - 08:00 Said Eucharist 10:00 Sung Eucharist

Christmas Day Service

Burgess Hill Methodist Church, Gloucester Road, Burgess Hill RH15 8QD

Chailey

Carol Service. Carols and Christmas readings by candle light. Join us for coffee and mince pies after the service. A free will offering will be taken during the service. Contact: 01444 236733

Sunday 06 December, 16:00-17:00

Sunday 20 December, 18:30-19:30

Chailey Free Church, A275, South Chailey BN8 4AN Christingle Service A traditional Christingle Service suitable for all ages. Christingles (orange, sweets and candle) provided free of charge.

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Christmas GIFts

The Cheesemaking Workshop For a unique and fun Christmas gift choose a gift voucher for the Cheesemaking Workshop, where guests learn to make 6 soft cheeses in a day. They will also enjoy cheese tastings, a delicious cheese inspired lunch with wine and take home some of the cheeses made on the day. 01903 889 730 www.thecheesemakingworkshop.co.uk

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Haywards Guns The John Field Storm Rain Jacket is made from recycled polyester- Tex3. It’s waterproof, windproof and breathable. Available in sizes small to xxl, priced at £165. Buncton Barn, Buncton Lane, Bolney, West Sussex RH17 5RE 01444 882815 customerservices@haywardsguns.co.uk www.haywardsguns.co.uk

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Penny Farthing Jewellers An independent family business specialising in handmade jewellery in platinum, 18 carat gold, diamonds and all precious stones. We also source jewellery collections world wide and offer a full jewellery and watch restoration service.

At Sarah Lacey Drycleaning we have a range of beautiful Gisela Graham Christmas decorations and gifts to choose from. 1 College Road, Haywards Heath, West Sussex RH16 1QN

01444 416644 Stuck for a www.sarahlacey-drycleaning.co.uk Christmas gift idea? Vouchers available Pet Shelf for our Gluten Free Tis the season to be jolly! Spoil your Cookery Courses – the pets this Christmas with our cracking perfect present for range of festive products. Enter SL15 good food lovers. at checkout to claim your £10* sleigh Veryan Young 07786 735714 www.very-good-food.co.uk discount. info@very-good-food.co.uk

Nova House, Edward Way, Victoria Business Park, Burgess Hill, West Sussex, RH15 9UA (0) 1444 831500 www.petshelf.co.uk *Minimum £50 spend

Rushfields

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Choose from our extensive range of food and drink to make your own bespoke hampers, or pick one of our ready-made ones – perfect for Christmas.

Rusdens

Henfi eld Road, Poynings, West Sussex BN45 7AY 01273 857445 www.rushfields.com

Offering fashionable, fun and affordable furniture and home accessories, use Rusdens to deck your halls this year. For many Christmas gift ideas, come visit us in-store or online. 87-89 London Road, East Grinstead, West Sussex, RH19 1EJ 01342 325033 rusdens.co.uk

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Church & Carol SERVICES

Sunday 20 December, 16:00-17:00 Carol Service Sing your favourite carols at our candlelit family Carol Service. You are welcome to join us for tea afterwards.

Friday 25 December, 10:30-11:15

Christmas Day Service Celebrate the birth of Jesus with us on Christmas morning. Bring one of your presents to show off too! Contact: Dave Caughley 01273 400785 Contact@chaileyfreechurch.com

Carols followed by Midnight Mass Join us in the tranquil surroundings of the 4th oldest Church in England to sing carols followed by Midnight Mass. Contact: Sue Perry 0300 111 8150 office@ worthparish.org.uk www.worthparish.org

Cuckfield Cuckfield Holy Trinity Church, Church Street, Cuckfield RH17 5JZ

K2, Pease Pottage Hill, Crawley RH11 9BQ

Friday 11 to Sunday 13 December Christmas Tree Festival

Friday 18 December 18:00

Sunday 06 December

Choir from 15:00, Service 15:30 Tree of Light At St Catherine’s Hospice, we understand that the loss of someone special can be so hard. Our Tree of Light service offers an opportunity to remember a loved one and dedicate a star in their memory. Contact: www.stch.org.uk/treeoflight 01293 447364

St Nicholas Church, Church Road, Crawley RH10 7RT Sunday 29 November, 18:30-19:30

Advent Carol Service An awe-inspiring start to Christmas with a mix of choir-only pieces and Carols for all in tranquil and ancient surroundings. Nine Lessons and Carols

Thursday 24 December, 23:00-00:30

Ditchling, Streat & Westmeston St Margaret’s Church, Ditchling, West Street, Ditchling BN6 8TS Thursday 24 December

The Cuckfield Nativity (starting in the Church)

Sunday 20 December 09:45

Family Carol Service 18:00 Service of 9 lessons and Carols

Thursday 24 December 14:30

Crib Service in the Church* 16:30 Crib Service in the Church* 16:30 Stable Service in the Old School* (*these services will be ticketed (free) available from Gill in the Church office, Monday to Friday 9am to 12noon). 23:15 Midnight Mass

Friday 25 December, 08:00

a Carol Concert to raise funds for the RNLI. £6 including refreshments. Tickets available at the door or from Roger on 01342 324196

Sackville College East Grinstead RH19 3BX Monday 07 December, 19:30

16:30 Family Crib Service 23:30 Midnight Mass

Friday 25 December, 09:45 Christmas Celebration/Holy Communion

Crawley

Sunday 20 December, 18:30-19:30

An awe-inspiring start to Christmas with a mix of choir-only pieces and carols for all in tranquil and ancient surroundings.

Sunday 27 December, 09:45

Beacon Holy Communion/Junior Church

Carols for all to sing, accompanied by the organ. Hot drinks and light refreshments in the Common Room afterwards. Tickets £5 from the College Office, weekday mornings.

Wednesday 09 December 19:30

Dormansland St John’s Church, Dormansland RH7 6QU Saturday 05 December, 19:00-22:00

Christmas Concert presented by Dormansland Committee of Action Medical Research for Children Greenstede Singers performing a selection of Christmas songs and Carols. Refreshments available and Christmas cards on sale. Tickets £8 to include refreshments, available from Claire 01342 323697

East Grinstead

Concert of Seasonal Music with ‘Cantu Amici’ includes some carols for all to sing. Hot drinks and light refreshments in the Common Room afterwards. Tickets £7.50 from the College Office, weekday mornings. Contact: 01342 323414

The Chequer Mead Theatre, De La Road, East Grinstead RH19 3BS Tuesday 08 December 14:00-15:00

The Forest Row Lifeboat Choir present a Christmas Carol Concert Annual Chequer Mead Carol Concert to raise funds for the RNLI. £4.50, Concessions £3.50 Box Office 01342 30200

West Street Church, West Street, East Grinstead RH19 4EY

Holy Communion 09:45 Family Eucharist for Christmas

Trinity Methodist Church, East Grinstead RH19 2HA

Christmas Services

08:00 Holy Communion 09:45 Parish Eucharist

Carols and Cakes The Forest Row Lifeboat Choir present

Carols by Candlelight (followed by refreshments)

Sunday 27 December

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Christmas GIFts

Tina Bucknall Come in for gift vouchers, decorations, tasteful affordable gifts and homeware and our new beautful selection of clothes, sizes 8-18. Late night shopping every Thursday evening until 8pm during December.

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poponin Get creative and crafty at poponin this December - paint, draw, stick and more. Have your little ones make festive art for friends and family. Open Tue, Wed, Fri until we go large in the New Year. Pop in Thursday 3rd December for the Hurstpierpoint Christmas evening. 110 High Street, Hurstpierpoint 01273 834763 www.poponin.co.uk

Inspirations Be inspired for all your special gifts - Christmas, birthday, wedding, new baby. Also lovely decorations, cards & gift wrap. Designers Choice, 9 Keymer Road, Hassocks, West Sussex BN6 8AD 01273 834581 / 01273 841048 inspirations4gifts@gmail.com

Skelton Workshops Gift vouchers for Christmas. Taster Sessions in stone carving. Friday or Saturday mornings. £25 per session plus £10 for a starter piece of stone. Contact Helen Mary Skelton. Blabers Mead, Streat, East Sussex BN6 8RR 01273 842363 helenmaryskelton@hotmail.com www.skeltonworshops.co.uk

Rok Skool Gift voucher: 6 lessons at Rok Skool, Haywards Heath, for just £99! All ages welcome. You choose: drums, guitar, piano or bass; singing, songwriting, recording or band workshops. 07506 838 050 info@rokskool.co.uk www.rokskool.co.uk

Rushfields

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A huge range of gifts for all the family this Christmas. From gardening and homewear to hampers and toys.

Beautiful Danon jewellery handcrafted with crystals, pearls, semi-precious stones and leather. This gorgeous collection is growing all the time with lovely new heart and pearl pieces added to the collection this month just in time for Christmas. Shop 2, Cobblestone Walk, 74 High Street, Steyning, West Sussex BN44 3RD 01903 814264

Henfi eld Road, Poynings, West Sussex BN45 7AY 01273 857445 www.rushfields.com

Qleisure We all know how hard it is to find the perfect gift for that special person. For something a little bit different that’s fresh and exciting, look no further! Karting Gift Vouchers available. 01273 834403 info@qleisure.co.uk www.qleisure.co.uk

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Church & Carol SERVICES

St Mary’s Church, Windmill Lane, East Grinstead RH19 2DS Thursday 10 - Sunday 13 December, 14:00 Tree Festival. An interesting display of illuminated and decorated trees plus a range of musical contributions and refreshments. All donations will benefit RNLI, Christian Aid and Family Support Work (Sussex) More details of times and performances during the event at www.stmaryeastgrinstead.co.uk

Jubilee Community Centre, Charlwoods Road, East Grinstead RH19 3HL Friday 11 December, 14:00-16:00

U3A Christmas Concert in aid of Riding for the Disabled. East Grinstead U3A Singing for Pleasure will be singing a selection of modern and traditional songs including Christmas carols. Refreshments and Raffle. £5 – tickets available at the door to include refreshments. Contact: audreyebateman@gmail.com

Forest Row Freshfield Hall, The Square, Forest Row RH18 5ES

Saturday 12 December, 19:45-21:45 Christmas Carol Concert with the Forest Row Choir and Guests Annual Carol Concert to raise funds for the RNLI. £10, to include a supper. Tickets available from Bishops in Forest Row or Roger 01342 324196

Hassocks Adastra Hall, Keymer Road, Hassocks BN6 8QH Sunday 13 December 15:00-16:30

Carols Together (organised by Churches Together) This afternoon is for all ages. Tea and minced pies will be served.

St. Cosmas and St. Damian, Keymer Road, Keymer BN6 8QL Sunday 29 December, 18:00 Advent Carol Service

Sunday 06 December, 15:30 Christingle Service with Christmas Tree Exhibition

Sunday 20 December 09:45 Nativity Service

Thursday 24 December 18:00 9 Lessons and Carols 23:30 First Mass of Christmas with Carols

Friday 25 December

08:00 Holy Communion 09:45 Family Eucharist with Carols

St. John the Baptist Church, Underhill Lane, Clayton BN6 9PJ Sunday 20 December, 11:15

Family Service with Nativity

Friday 25 December, 11:15

Holy Communion with Carols

St. Francis of Assisi, Priory Road, Hassocks BN6 8N Sunday 20 December, 10:15 Christmas Family Service

Thursday 24 December, 16:00 Crib Service

Friday 25 December, 10:30 Family Eucharist with Carols

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St. Edwards Roman Catholic Church, 2 Lodge Lane, Keymer BN6 8NA Thursday 24 December, 21:00

First Mass of Christmas with Carols

Friday 25 December, 10:30 Mass with Carols

United Reformed Church, 23 Keymer Road, Hassocks BN6 8AB Sunday 20 December, 10:30 Festival Service

Thursday 24 December 15:00 Crib Service 18:30 Carols by Candlelight

Friday 25 December, 10:00 Family Service

Haywards Heath

Haywards Heath Methodist Church, Perrymount Road, Haywards Heath RH16 3DN

Henfield

Panto a la Carte, or Good Fairy v Bad Fairy The Gilbert & Sullivan Society of Sussex presents its Annual Christmas Concert. £6 for members and £12 for nonmembers, both prices to include interval refreshments. Please buy tickets in advance. Contact: Edwin Cowley 01342 715709 ecowley@theiet.org www.gilbertandsullivantoday.org.uk

Haywards Heath Music Society Concert Lecturer Janet Canetty-Clarke will give an illustrated talk entitled A Celebration of Christmas in Music and Painting. £8 adults, under-18s free. Contact: Christine Colbourne 01444-456227 www.haywardsheathmusicsociety.org.uk

Christingle

Sunday, 20 December, 16:30

16:00 Crib Service 23:30 Midnight Mass

Friday, 25 December, 10:00

Clair Hall, Perrymount Road, Haywards Heath RH16 3DN

Christmas Carol Service led by Rev David Chapman

Thursday, 24 December

Christmas Communion

15:00-17:00 ‘Messy Nativity’. The first Messy Church service at this venue. 23:15 Holy Communion for Christmas Rev David Chapman

St Peter’s Church, Woodmancote

The Birch Hotel, Lewes Road, Haywards Heath RH17 7SF Sunday 06 December, 14:45-17:00

Sunday 13 December, 17:30-18:30

Mid Sussex Sinfonia Family Concert Christmas family concert including Sleigh Ride, the Nutcracker Suite (featuring the Balcombe & Lindfield Dance School). Full programme at www.midsussexsinfonia.co.uk Adults £10, Under 16s £5, Family ticket (2 adults, 2 children) £25. Ticket Secretary: Mrs Nicola Nuttall 01444 411470

Ascension Church, Haywards Heath, West Sussex RH16 4JS Sunday 13th December, 18:00-19:30

Carols for the Community An evening of traditional carols, readings and prayers followed by festive refreshments in the Ashenground Community Centre. www.ascensionchurch.co.uk ascensionhh@gmail.co.uk

Haywards Heath Baptist Church, 7 South Road, Haywards Heath RH16 4DZ Sunday 13 December

10:00 Family Nativity Service 15:00 Tree of Light service (in conjunction with St Catherine’s Hospice)

Sunday 20 December

18:30 Candlelight Carol Service

Thursday 24 December

15:00 Crib Service 11:30 Midnight Communion Service

Friday 25 December

10:00 Christmas Family Service

At Harlands School, Penland Road, Haywards Heath RH16 1PJ Sunday 13 December

Wednesday 09 December, 19:45-22:00

Friday, 25 December, 10:30

Wednesday, 09 December, 15:30 Sunday, 20 December, 18:30

Nine lessons and carols by candlelight - drinks and mince pies will be served afterwards

Thursday, 24 December

Sunday 20 December, 11:00 Carol Service

Thursday 24 December, 23:30 Midnight Communion

Christmas Morning Service - A family service led Rev David Chapman

Friday 25 December, 09:45

08:00 Holy Communion for Christmas led by Rev David Chapman 10:30 Morning Service led by Rev David Chapman

St Giles’ Church, Shermanbury

Sunday 27 December

St Wilfrid’s Church, Haywards Heath RH16 3QH Saturday 12 December, 19:30-21:30

Christmas Communion

Sunday 13 December, 11:15 Carol Service

Friday 25 December, 10:00 Christmas Communion

Henfield Evangelical Free Church Sunday 20 December

A Christmas Celebration This will feature Britten’s “A Ceremony of Carols” and a selection of other Christmas music including Rubbra’s Virgin’s Cradle Hymn.

10:30 Morning Service 18:30 Carols by Candlelight, followed by mince pies & coffee/tea

Christingle Service

Morning Service (no evening service)

Sunday 13 December, 16:00 Sunday 20 December, 18:00 Carol Service

Thursday 24 December 15:00 Crib & Nativity Service (followed by mince pies in the hall) 23:30 Holy Communion

Friday 25 December, 10:30 Christmas Service

Sunday 27 December, 10:30

Corpus Christi Roman Catholic Church, Tanyard, Henfield Thursday 24 December

Friday 25 December

10:00 Eucharistic Service 18:00 Vigil Mass of the Nativity of the Lord

08:00 Holy Communion (Said) 10:00 Holy Communion (Sung)

Christmas Day Mass

Presentation Church, New England Road, Haywards Heath RH16 3LE Sunday 20 December

10:30 Family Nativity Service 18:30 Carol Service

Thursday, 24 December

10:00 Family Nativity Service

15:00 Crib Service 23:30 Midnight Mass

Christmas Family Service

Christmas Day Communion

Friday 25 December, 10:00

St Peter’s Church, Henfield

Friday 25 December, 10:00

Friday, 25th December, 09:45

Horsted Keynes St Giles Church, Church Lane, Horsted Keynes RH17 7AY Sunday 20 December, 16:00 Carol Service

Thursday 24 December 16:00 Christingle Service 18:00 Confessions 23:30 Midnight Mass

Friday 25 December

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Christmas GIFts

Smiffy Bears A sweet little bear shop with homemade bears by Smiff y, stockist for Charlie Bears and Merrythought, vintage bears and a bear hospital. Many more bears plus Smiff y has over thirty years of restoration experience. Come and visit, bear hugs are free. Cobblestone Walk, 74, High St, Steyning, West Sussex BN44 3RD 07885075890 j.smith157@ntlworld.com

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Rowfant House Rowfant House vouchers make the perfect Christmas presents. Choose from Afternoon tea for 2; Standard, Premium, or Deluxe, Sunday Lunch for 2 and Events Voucher. Wallage Lane, Rowfant, West Sussex RH10 4NG 01342 714869 www.rowfanthouse.co.uk

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Ride down your high street in style on one of these awesome retro skateboards! This is one very cool Christmas present!

Twilight Designz

66 High Street, Lindfield, West Sussex RH16 2HL 01444 484400 swalkstore@gmail.com www.swalkstore.com

Original handmade wine glass jewels; perfect gifts for any occasion. Choose from ready made or design and personalise your own! All come gift wrapped. 07854744568 info@twilightdesignz.co.uk www.twilightdesignz.co.uk

Calliope Gifts From contemporary to traditional, Calliope Gifts has the decorations and presents for you and your family this Christmas. Unit 13, The Orchards Shopping Centre, Haywards Heath, West Sussex RH16 3TH 01444 441551 haywardsheath@calliopegifts.co.uk www.calliopegifts.co.uk

Bullfrog Music Hundreds of instruments and gift ideas, as well as accessories and sheet music. Make it a Musical Christmas! 15-17 Ship Street, East Grinstead, West Sussex RH19 4EG Tel 01342 315602 www.bullfrogmusic.co.uk

Rushfields Now in stock, a huge range of festive ornaments, like this LED Snowman, and fiber optic or real Christmas trees. Make your Christmas sparkle! Henfield Road, Poynings, West Sussex BN45 7AY 01273 857445 www.rushfields.com

Shea Innocence Shea Innocence creates handmade soy wax scented candles in a wide range of beautiful fragrances. We also handmake natural body butters with shea butter. Use code GREEN10 for 10% off. 145-157 St John Street, London EC1V 4PW 07517904898 www.sheainnocence.com S u ss e x L i v i n g December 2015

Church & Carol SERVICES

08:00 Prayer Book Eucharist 10:00 All Age Eucharist

Hurstpierpoint

Saturday, 12 December, 19:00-21:00

Sunday 13 December, 14.30

Evangelical Church, 149 High Street, Hurstpierpoint BN6 9SA Sunday 20 December

Midnight service of Holy Communion

The Church of St Peter and St Paul (Lingfield Parish Church), Old Town, Lingfield, Surrey RH7 6AH

Village Centre, Trinity Road, Hurstpierpoint BN6 9UY Hurstpierpoint Singers 65th Christmas Concert. The ever popular programme of Christmas music, modern and traditional, with appropriate readings. Please come along and join in the audience carols and sample the mince pies and a glass of wine. Tickets £8 (accompanied children under 12 free), and are available from The Mint Shop and JanTon News, Hurst and Hassocks Hardware, Hassocks, or on the door. Contact: Joan Denley 01273 834534

Thursday 24 December, 23:30

Lingfield

Christmas Cheer! East Grinstead Choral Society presents Seasonal Cheer with carols for choir and audience. Includes glass of wine & mince pie. Adult £12; family £25 (2 adults and up to 2 children; Bullfrog Music, Ship Street, East Grinstead or on the door. Further info: http://www. egcs.co.uk Box office: 01342 328774

Sunday 20 December, 18:00

Friday 25 December, 10:00

Holy Communion for Christmas Day

The Transfiguration, Pyecombe Sunday 13 December, 18:00

Carol Service with the Mid Sussex Brass Band – and refreshments

Thursday 24 December, 23:30

Crib Service with Nativity Play Midnight Mass

Holy Trinity, Poynings

Sheffield Park, Nr Uckfield

08:00 Christmas Early Morning Eucharist 09:45 Christmas Family Eucharist

Carol Service followed by mulled wine and mince pies

Oak Hall, Sheffield Park & Garden, Nr Uckfield, East Sussex TN22 3QX

Thursday 24 December, 17:00 Thursday 24 December, 23:30

Keymer

Christingle Service for children of all ages - with oranges and sweets

Come and join with us as we rejoice in our saviour’s birth.

St Edward’s RC Church, 2 Lodge Lane, Keymer BN6 8NA

Short quiet service of Holy Communion

Holy Trinity Church, Hurstpierpoint BN6

First Mass of Christmas

St Andrews, Edburton

Mass. There is no Mass on those days at St Luke’s, Hurstpierpoint

Carol Service - followed by mulled wine and mince pies

Candlelit Advent Service

Carol Service Followed by tea in church – for all ages

Midnight Service of Holy Communion You and your family would be welcome at any of these services

Friday 25 December

Sunday 29 November, 18:00

Sunday 20 December, 14:30

Poynings, Pyecombe, Newtimber & Edburton

Candlelit Carol Service with wine and mince pies afterwards

10:30 Morning Worship. Rev Jon Hobbs 16:30 We extend a warm welcome to you to join us as we celebrate the Christmas season with carols, readings and thoughts from the Christmas Story. Refreshments will be served.

Friday 25 December, 10:00

St John the Evangelist, Newtimber

Thursday 24 December, 21:00 Friday, 25 December, 10:30

Saturday 19 December, 18:00 Thursday 24 December, 15:30 Friday 25 December, 08:00

Sunday 13 & Sunday 20 December, 18:0020:00

Sunday 20 December, 18:00

Victorian Family Christmas Concert The Knole Singers perform a festive concert. This magical evening will conclude with fireside mulled wine and mince pies. Tickets £18.50. Family discounts available. Book on 0844 249 1895 www.nationaltrust.org.uk/sheffield-parkand-garden

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Christmas GIFts

Heaven Farm Shop Custom-made hampers produced using local and regional produce while you wait in our shop. Christmas produce as well. Open Tuesday to Sunday. Furners Green, Uckfield, East Sussex TN22 3RG 01825 790331 info@heavenfarmshop.co.uk www.heavenfarmshop.co.uk

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Ashley & Thomas Huge selection of gifts for ladies from £10.00. Free gift wrapping service. Hurstpierpoint Late Night Shopping Evening 3rd December. We wish all our customers a very Happy Christmas. 54a High Street, Hurstpierpoint, West Sussex, BN6 9RG 07748630316

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Even though legendary bass player, Herbie Flowers, has worked all over the world recording with superstars like David Bowie, Marc Bolan, Lou Reed, Paul McCartney and Elton John, he cannot ever imagine living anywhere other than his ‘dear sweet Ditchling.’ Lisa de Silva meets the man himself

s one of the most famous bassist session musicians in the UK, at 77 years old Herbie still does the odd recording session, but playing live jazz remains his greatest love. In fact, our interview comes the morning after a gig in Chatham, “When I’m playing music and it’s a good gig, I always think

I can’t believe my luck,” he laughs. “There’s something about music that stops you thinking about everything else. It’s a wonderful thing.” His band, Music Box, are welcome regulars on the Sussex music scene, playing such diverse venues and events as local music, jazz and arts festivals including Hurst Festival, The Hawth, clubs continued on page 44

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and bars in Hastings and Lewes, many venues in Brighton and Ditchling Museum. Always busy working, Herbie is also part of a jazz trio called, Two Grandfathers and a Russian, who regularly gig in Finland. To discover where his lifelong love of music fi rst emerged, we need to go back to post-war Britain and Herbie’s Aunty Jean, who spent the best part of 80 years as a pub pianist in south west London. “When I was a young lad, from about 1945 onwards, she’d take me on the bus to Richmond to Bensteads, the music shop, where she’d spend about half an hour thumbing through all the new sheet music, secretly learning it all by heart. I loved the shop as it was full of interesting things like ukuleles and mouth organs and I was fascinated by Aunty Jean and how she memorised all these songs off by heart.” It must run in the family, because just like Aunty Jean, throughout his career Herbie has also committed 1000s of songs to memory. From an early age, Herbie was also allowed to sit in on his brother’s piano lessons and with his natural flair for music, started to pick up some piano playing skills. At school, when his music teacher, Mrs Barlow told him he had perfect pitch and to take up music, it was all the nod he needed and he joined the Tiffi n Boys School Band on the tuba. Little did he know that his enduring career as a musician had just begun. It was during this time that Herbie started his love affair with Sussex. “My Uncle Ben and Aunty Kath owned Leawards Farm in Chailey and we’d go down there a lot, especially during the war to get

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out of London. I fi nally moved down about 30 years ago when I realised I didn’t want to be in London anymore and now I can’t imagine living anywhere other than my dear sweet Ditchling. I love the fact that Ditchling, along with many other Sussex villages is a bit quirky and I thank Brighton for our multicultural broadminded outlook.” When Herbie fi rst moved to Ditchling the village boasted 28 shops, now down to around five, but thankfully the local Post Office is staying open after a recent closure scare. “It’s the heart of the community,” explains Herbie. His Sussex location also offers Herbie the convenience of easy transport connections wherever his gigs take him. Interestingly, despite his successful career as a musician, growing up Herbie dreamed of becoming a test pilot and joined the Air Training Corps, where he won a competition for a gliding scholarship. As a result, he earned a glider pilot’s licence. “As a musician I travel all over the place, but for me gliding is the real flying. I loved it although I’ve not been up in a glider for the last 25 years.” Unable to fi nd a civilian job he enjoyed, when it came to National Service, Herbie asked for an early call up and was conscripted into the RAF. Perhaps disappointingly for him he failed the pilot selection process, but this loss was the music world’s gain, as he became a bandsman when his tuba playing talent got him into the RAF Central Band. He spent the following years touring the Far East, which was where he not only discovered his fi rst love of jazz, continued on page 46

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but also ended up marrying the colonel’s daughter. “Wherever we went the US military used to send all these fantastic bands who played jazz music. It was where I discovered how much I loved jazz.” During this time he also bought a double bass off of his band master and to this day the bass remains his instrument of choice. Throughout his career Herbie has played in a number of bands including Blue Mink, which he helped to form in 1969 and whose debut single, Melting Pot, reached number three in the UK charts. During the 1970s, he joined Marc Bolan’s glam rock band, T Rex and in the 1980s formed Sky, with classical guitarist, John Williams. However, it is as one of the UK’s most accomplished session musicians that Herbie has made a living, working alongside some of the world’s most iconic rock stars. He has played on albums by David Bowie, Elton John, David Essex, Paul McCartney, George Harrison and played bass on Jeff Wayne’s, War of the Worlds. Most famously, it is his hand behind the prominent bass line on Lou Reed’s, Walk on the Wild Side and by the end of the 1970s, Herbie had played bass on over 500 hit recordings. His most treasured possession, aside from his two children and granddaughter, is his Ivor Novello Award which he won in 1970 for composing the Clive Dunn hit, Grandad. “It’s a soppy song really,” laughs Herbie. “But it was the first real Christmas

Herbie claims to have millions of favourite songs, but the day of our interview, it’s Bert Bacharach’s A House Is Not A Home

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number one, before the Christmas number one had become a thing. I’m really proud to be the first musician to win an Ivor Novello for songwriting. It was the first song I ever wrote and I can genuinely say in that sense, I’m a one hit wonder!” Back in 1959 Herbie bought a Fender jazz bass guitar while in New York, but never felt comfortable playing electronic music. “To be honest, I’m not a fan of electronic music, much of it sounds like it’s been generated by a computer. As a musician, there’s something organic and real about playing all kinds of different music. I was never someone who thought I’d just buy an electronic instrument, join a band and have a hit. That was never my ambition, I wanted to be a musician and that’s what I am.” Herbie’s passion for music is matched by his desire to help young musicians forge a musical career. Once a month he broadcasts a live podcast that goes all over the world from a music shop in Brighton. Embracing the digital age, the Thursday Night Show gives young musicians a chance to www.sussexliving.com

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showcase their skills or just log on, listen in and join in the chatroom help and advice. “I take it to heart that young musicians these days do not get the support they deserve,” explains Herbie. “So many big companies take so much money out of the music business, but pay barely any tax to help sustain the cultural life of the country.” He laments the closure of so many of our music schools. For ﬁve years during the 1990s, Herbie taught bass at a local college and during the latter half of his career, spent many years running Rock Shops, attended by school children from all over Sussex. These week long workshops brought together both accomplished and young musicians and were based on learning about composition, improvisation and putting together a band to create original music. “It was a great learning opportunity and meant that over the years, so many hundreds of young musicians all met and connected and lots of them went on to forge a career in the music business.” One ambition on Herbie’s bucket list would be to set up and establish a new music school, such as the Sussex Cello Academy. One musical group he has already set up is a 150 strong choir in Shoreham. “It really started up by accident,” he says. “We’d been doing a jazz recital in Shoreham about four years ago, when I said how many of you would join a choir if we put continued on page 48

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one together and about half the audience put their hands up. So, I decided to go ahead and do it and it’s wonderful. I can’t make all the rehearsals but I still do a few of the gigs with them. People love music and I’m lucky that I can reach out and start these things off,” he smiles. At 77 years old, Herbie shows no signs of slowing down and his diary is full right up until the Ditchling Fair next June. “You’ve got to keep yourself going,” he tells me. “If we shut ourselves away we’d miss all the action. Music keeps me going but I have to play everyday. To be honest, I’m happiest when I’m on stage at a gig and it’s all going well, but I don’t want to sit in a comfort

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zone and I’m always trying to push the barriers to play better. I have to practise thirty minutes a day, although I seem to spend twenty-five minutes of that just looking at the double bass and five minutes going over to it and playing one long note!” Herbie claims to have millions of favourite songs, but the day of our interview, it’s Bert Bacharach’s A House Is Not A Home, the version sung by Dusty Springfield, who Herbie has worked with in the past. “I’m a bit of a softie for nice pretty things, which is probably why I love music,” he confesses. “Being a musician, I love lyrics and great songs and thankfully, there’s so many of them.” Having played at a few receptions in Ditchling Museum, Herbie is hoping to establish a regular music event there for small orchestras, jazz or folk musicians to play and loves nothing more than hearing from people who have been inspired to start playing, or resume playing an instrument after seeing him perform. “When I’m playing music, it stops me wondering what happened to the last seventy-seven years. I can’t believe it’s all gone so quickly, but I’m optimistic and determined to get a telegram from the Queen.”

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Penny Hoyle and husband Craig, who have recently opened the aptly named The Penny Black Barber Shop, decided to combine the best qualities of a proper, old fashioned barber shop with additions that would appeal to all ages and tastes. One of the most striking features of the barber’s interior is a fully functioning miniature car that doubles as a seat for boys and girls up to the age of five. Parents are as fascinated with the car as their offspring; with steering, a radio, a horn and flashing lights, the motor persuades even the most reticent child that a visit to the hairdresser can be great fun. A ‘fi lling station’ offers kids free lollies and a fish tank, complete with angel fish, is mounted above the mirror to keep them completely entertained. Older kids and parents have a wonderful retro arcade games table to keep them amused offering 60 games. The table has proved a hit with nostalgic fathers keen to reignite their teenage gaming skills! Penny, who has always lived in the village, grew up in the pub at the top of the High Street and knows everyone by name, which adds to the incredibly welcoming atmosphere in the shop. Her assistant, Neil, has worked with her for over five years and the pair have created a friendly, homely feel for their customers. Although it’s a walk-in barbers, Craig, who trained at the London School of Barbering, offers wet shaves by appointment only. The luxurious wet shave is an unhurried 30 minute session with hot towels and a straight, cut throat razor. Word is already spreading and a glance through the glowing testimonials on the Penny Black Barber Shop Facebook page show how appreciative locals are flocking to the shop, which is becoming a social hub for the village. One client wrote, “I cannot recommend these guys enough… you will have our custom forever” while others commented on the “great service” and the “lovely

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All the trimmings! Christmas dinner in our house is massive! Everyone gets stuck in and helps – even the children peel some veg – all made extra festive with a drop of Prosecco or sherry, of course. We always get a turkey crown and ham prepared by our local butcher and accompany them with pigs in blankets, stuffing, Yorkshire puddings and this array of tasty, flavoursome side dishes (serves 8). Crackers and silly hats mandatory.

Crispy, fluffy garlic and rosemary roasties

1 large bag of white roasting potatoes  3 tbsp plain flour  5 cloves of garlic  3 sprigs of rosemary   Olive oil Salt

COOK TIME 1HR 45mins

Preheat oven to 200C, Gas Mark 6. Put a large pan of water on a high heat to boil. Peel and quarter potatoes, parboil until slightly soft, this should take roughly 10 to 15 mins. Pour a generous glug of olive oil into a large baking tray along with the rosemary and crushed garlic cloves (leave skins on so they don’t burn and taste bitter) and place into the oven to heat.  Drain potatoes in a colander and leave for a few minutes. Sprinkle over a generous amount of salt and the flour, place a plate over the top of the colander and give it a good old shake! Carefully pour the potatoes into the hot oil and spoon over the top. Place back in the oven for 1 hour, turning occasionally, and then turn oven down to 160C, Gas Mark 3 until crispy and golden.

Cauliflower and broccoli cheese 2 cauliflower heads  2 broccoli  heads 200g cheddar cheese, grated  100g Parmesan cheese, grated  2 to 3 tsp wholegrain mustard  100g salted butter 2 pints of milk  3 tbsp plain flour   Pepper

COOK TIME 1HR

In a thick bottomed pan make a roux with butter and flour on a low heat. When you have a thick paste add the milk a little at a time and stir constantly, until thick and there are no lumps. Add the mustard and most of the grated cheeses, leaving a little for the top.  Parboil broccoli and cauliflower until part cooked and leave to drain and cool. Leaving it to cool helps to keep a thick cheese sauce and stops it going watery. Place the broccoli and cauliflower into a large dish, pour on the cheese sauce and sprinkle the remainder of the cheese over the top and bake in the oven for 20 mins on high or under the grill until browned. continued on page 52

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Honey roasted root vegetables 5 large carrots   5 large parsnips   5 sweet potatoes  2 tbsp runny honey  Sprig of fresh thyme  2 tablespoons of olive oil  Salt and pepper

COOK TIME 30 - 40 mins

Mum’s peas

600g petit pois   1 small onion, finely diced  ½ romaine lettuce heart, roughly chopped   Olive oil  Large knob of butter Pepper Heat a large pan on medium heat, add a glug of olive oil then fry the chopped onions until transparent and cooked. Tip in the petit pois, lettuce, butter and pepper and stir. Turn the heat down low and leave to cook, stirring occasionally, for 30 minutes with the lid on or until tender.

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Preheat oven to 180C, Gas Mrk 4. Put the olive oil in a large baking tray and place in the oven to heat up. Peel, half and chop all the vegetables lengthways into similar sizes.  Place the vegetables in the hot oil, sprinkle with a little salt and pepper, add the thyme and stir to coat. Drizzle honey all over and place back in the oven for 1 hour, checking and turning now and then.

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600g Brussels sprouts, peeled and ends cut off 150g pancetta, cut into lardons Olive oil  Knob of butter  Salt and pepper Boil a medium sized pan of water and simmer sprouts for 20 minutes or until almost cooked through. Take sprouts out to drain and cool. In a frying pan, fry the pancetta on a medium heat until slightly crispy. Half the sprouts and fry them in with the pancetta, with a knob of butter, salt and pepper until slightly brown.

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In ONE SLICE OR TWO? National Fruit Cake Month falls this Christmas season – light or dark, rich or sweet, iced or naked, festive feasting just wouldn’t be the same without it I’m never quite sure whether December has been christened National Fruit Cake Month because the cake is a traditional Christmas confection, or because in December there always seem to be more loonies on the bus than usual. However, assuming it’s the former, October might be a better choice if only because, in my house at least, that’s when the Christmas fruit cake is started by creating the glorious mixture of exotic ingredients which make up our traditional cake. I say ‘our’ because no two fruit cakes are the same and most of their recipes are closely guarded secrets which have been passed down through generations. In fact I know one so hushhush that it contains over 20 ingredients including, muscovado sugar, dried fruits, honey, eggs, almonds, orange zest, chocolate and

much, much more. Our own is a much more modest affair sometimes referred to as ‘Bung In The Oven’ cake. When the mixture has been prepared, the children who are now hanging around the kitchen in mysteriously large numbers, are allowed one fi ngerful of the mixture before it is placed in the oven. If baked with love, the fi nished article is a perfectly cooked, aromatic and risen fruit cake awaiting only marzipan, icing and decorations. And yet it still lacks one vital ingredient. For the next two months while the cake matures it will be pierced every couple of weeks with a kitchen skewer and liberally doused with brandy. Rum can be used as an interesting alternative, but remember only modest quantities should be employed, or your guests will start to talk funny after a couple of slices. SUSSEX LIVING December 2015

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Gluten free

Christmas chocolate orange tray bake Makes 18 slices i Preparation 50 mins i Cooking time 40-50 MINS i Oven temp 180C, gas 4

A certain fruit shaped, orange flavoured chocolate treat is a staple in many Christmas stockings, and the inspiration for this shortbread based tray bake. The crumbly, buttery shortbread is perfectly accompanied by the chocolate and orange striped sponge and glossy chocolate top. We enjoy this as a festive teatime treat, but I have also used it to replace the classic Christmas pudding as a lighter option after our traditional turkey lunch. Delicious served with a big dollop of chocolate ice cream.

Christmas chocolate orange tray bake Shortbread

175g gluten free plain flour 50g cornflour 1 Â˝ tsp xanthan gum 175g butter Zest of 1 medium orange 75g golden caster sugar 1. Preheat oven to 180C, Gas Mark 4. Grease and line a 12 x 7 inch Swiss roll tin with baking paper. 2. In a large bowl, place the flours and xanthan gum. Rub in the butter, then add the orange zest and caster sugar and combine all the ingredients together into a soft dough. 3. Pat the shortbread dough into the prepared tin, making sure all the base is covered. If the mixture is too soft, place a piece of cling film over the shortbread mix and press it into place. Remove the cling film (if used) and place the tin into a preheated oven. 4. Bake for 20-25 minutes. Remove from the oven and cool in the tin.

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Sponge

225g soft butter 225g golden caster sugar 225g gluten free self-raising flour 4 medium eggs 1 tsp vanilla essence 2 desert spoons sifted cocoa powder Zest of 1 medium orange You will also need 2 piping bags 1. In a large bowl beat the butter, sugar, eggs, flour and vanilla essence together until pale and fluffy. 2. Divide the mixture into two separate bowls, add the cocoa to one half of the sponge mixture and the orange zest to the other half. 3. Fill the piping bags, separately, with each flavour and pipe alternate lines lengthwise over the shortbread until it is covered (should look stripy). 4. Return to the oven for 20-25 minutes or until golden. The sponge should spring back when touched. 5. Cool in the tin.

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65g gluten free plain chocolate 2 dessert spoons cocoa powder, sifted 100g butter 150g light brown sugar 4 tbsp milk 60g icing sugar, sifted Zest of 1 medium orange 1. Melt the chocolate, cocoa powder, butter, sugar and milk over a low heat, until the sugar has dissolved. 2. Beat in the orange zest and icing sugar. 3. Spoon the icing over the cake and leave to set (takes about 1 Â˝ hours). 4. Once the icing has set, slice into 18 pieces and store in an airtight tin. Keeps for 2 -3 days.

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CHRISTMAS QUIZ

ENTERTAIN me! Do you know your Christmas number ones from your festive flops? Your Cinderella from Sleeping Beauty? Got the T.V classics programmed on your series record? Then it’s time to test your knowledge with our Christmas Entertainment Quiz and fi nd out if you are the belle of the ball or the panto dame… “It’s behind you!”

Which of the following artistes did not have a UK Christmas Number One single? Bob the Builder, The Wombles, Benny Hill, Mr. Blobby or St. Winifred’s School Choir?

In pantomime, Buttons is the servant to Baron Hardup, and the Baron is the father of whom?

Which tradition began on Radio, Christmas Day 1932, and has also been broadcast on television from 1957 onwards?

After arriving in Oz, what footwear did Glinda the Good Witch of the North magically transfer on to Dorothy’s feet?

In November 1975 ‘Bohemian Rhapsody’ hit the top spot in the charts, where it would remain over Christmas and long into January the following year. In the lyrics it mentions the title of the song that succeeded it at number one. What was the title of that song?

Between 1971-1977 and then again from 1990 -1994, I hosted twelve Christmas Specials of a very popular family game show. My many catchphrases included “Good game, good game”, “I hope you’re playing this at home”, “Give us a twirl” and “Didn’t they do well”. Who am I?

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In which pantomime would you find Widow Twankey running the Chinese laundry?

What is the title of the Christmas film from 1946, set in Bedford Falls, which told the tale of George Bailey and his guardian angel Clarence Oddbody?

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Which X Factor winner recorded the UK Christmas Number One single last year?

In the 1989 ‘Only Fools and Horses’ Christmas special, Del, Rodney and Uncle Albert went on the Jolly Boys Outing. At which seaside town did they end up?

Which film is a story about one of Santa’s elves, called Buddy who learns of his true identity as a human and then travels to New York City to meet his biological father, spreading Christmas cheer into a world of cynics as he goes?

Complete the next two lines of the pantomime rhyme… “Fee-fi-fo-fum, I smell the blood of an Englishman”

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Look we have Gardiner Opticians has always prided itself on delivering high quality customer service from friendly, experienced staff and now this welcoming practice has another cause for celebration – it has moved into spacious new premises offering clients the latest in modern eye care technology and equipment “We’re all thrilled with the new building. We’ve got lots more space, it’s a more convenient location for clients and we’re fully equipped to provide the highest level of eye care,” explains owner, Catriona Gardiner.

“The staff and dispensers here are wonderful. They are all highly experienced, know everyone by name and are happy to go that extra mile for all of our clients” In fact, the practice is not moving far from its old location in Church Walk, Burgess Hill, as the new shop can be found a short distance away in Church

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Road. The building was formerly Dockerills the Ironmongers and, working with local architects and builders Clive Voller Associates and Robert Simpson Construction, Catriona was able to retain the old character of this much-loved building. This combination of old and new reﬂects Gardiner Opticians’ philosophy. “There had been an opticians on our old site for 30 years. I took over the practice when the previous owner, Wendy Carey, retired but I’ve always strived to retain the traditional values of personal service and genuine client care that was at the heart of the business,” says Catriona. “The move means we can build on this reputation within a contemporary spacious environment, with all the latest eye care and computer technology needed to modernise

the business.” Catriona had worked alongside Wendy for 12 years, before taking over the business in 2012, but sharing the same ethos of genuine client care meant that both staﬀ and clients have remained incredibly loyal. “The staﬀ and dispensers here are wonderful. They are all highly experienced, know everyone by name and are happy to go that extra mile for all of our clients.Nova’s been here over twenty-three years and I don’t think we’ll ever let her retire!” laughs Catriona. As an independent, Gardiner Opticians can always bring that personal touch to client relationships and treatment. What’s more, it is also free to choose which suppliers and products are stocked. This is an www.sussexliving.com

moved! aspect of the business that Catriona really enjoys and she prides herself on constantly introducing new lines and brands, experimenting with modern styles and colours, offering a wide choice of both classic and contemporary glasses. New brands include Calvin Klein, the French brand, Chloé and Scandinavian styling from Öga, all stocked alongside a range which includes Nike, Silhouette, Elle, Lightec and Esprit. More recently the practice has noticed a trend away from traditional metal to more adventurous acetate frames. While thicker style frames remain popular, the Scandinavian influence in all things design has seen a more minimalistic look emerge. The use of innovative materials such as titanium and carbon fibre results in lightweight designs with a more subtle approach to colour. “It’s really important when you’re wearing glasses everyday to get the right choice for you, in terms of styling and comfort,” explains Catriona. “All of our staff and dispensers really

know their stuff, which means they can offer great advice in helping clients choosing frames. Our main concern is that everyone leaves feeling happy and satisfied.” The store also stocks an impressive range of specialist sports eyewear and contact lenses. As technology has advanced, most prescriptions are suitable for contact lenses and it seems that the trend for daily disposables is showing no signs of slowing down. “Disposable contact lenses are really popular these days as they’re so convenient. People like the fact that you don’t have to clean them, there’s a reduced chance of infection as deposits don’t have a chance to build up on the lenses, they’re great for most sports and they’re a good option for those who have to wear glasses all the time as it gives them the chance to have a break from wearing spectacles,” says Catriona. In fact, the practice has seen a growing trend in clients adopting a mix and match approach to wearing both glasses and contact lenses. Eye health is vital for quality

of life and regular eye tests are always recommended. “Eye tests are important because as well as giving people an idea of their general eye health, we also screen for various eye conditions. Some of these have few initial symptoms, but like all health issues, the earlier problems can be detected the better the outcome, as it limits the damage being done.” Catriona explains that regular eye tests are particularly important for children, diabetics, those with a family history of glaucoma, the elderly and those buying off the peg reading glasses. As natural changes occur to your vision in your forties and early fifties, an eye test can help to explain what is happening to your vision now and what to expect over the coming years. Gardiner Opticians is also proud to be part of the Acute Community Eye Service (ACES), a free NHS community service which works with local GPs to assess and manage certain medical eye conditions. Alongside her work at Gardiner Opticians, Catriona also works at the Princess Royal and Sussex Eye Hospital as a specialist paediatric optometrist. “I’m very lucky to be able to have two very different jobs which I love. At the hospital it’s great to work within a team and I enjoy working with the children. At Gardiner Opticians, I love getting to know my clients and building up relationships with them.” With the whole team at Gardiners committed to maintaining their reputation for excellent care and service, you can be sure of a warm and friendly welcome at their wonderful new practice.

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Starting and finishing at Hassocks Railway Station, Les Campbell celebrates 10 years of walking with Sussex Living by revisiting his very first walk, a 6 mile circular After ten years since my very first walk for Sussex Living I thought now is the appropriate time to repeat my steps. I have updated the walk description where necessary, and have changed the route around Ditchling. The walk involves one steep uphill climb and one steep descent, which may be slippery in wet conditions. From the East side of Hassocks Railway Station, drop down to Keymer Road, and just before the railway bridge, go up some steps and follow the signed path which runs for about a mile along the east side of the railway. When you reach the road, turn left to the road junction. Cross the Ditchling road and go through a kissing gate, and across Clayton Green to the car park entrance in the far corner. Clayton Church to your right is well worth a visit for the wall paintings alone. Cross Underhill Lane and follow a bridleway uphill to a gate leading on to open downland. Turn right and climb steeply to eventually reach the car park beside Jack and Jill Windmills. These two windmills are probably the most well known landmarks on the South Downs. Jack is currently

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undergoing extensive restoration work. Go through the car park, and turn left gently uphill along a rough track and take the left fork. After about a mile, Keymer Post is reached at a four-way signpost. Carry straight on for about 200 yards, until you come to a small gate in the fence on your left. Go through this gate, and go diagonally right downhill on a well-defined path to Underhill Lane. The chalk surface of this path can be very slippery when damp. Turn right along Underhill Lane and in about 150 yards look for a

signed path on your left. Go over the stile, and follow the waymarked path through several fields to eventually join a narrow path leading into a housing estate on the outskirts of Ditchling. Turn left and take an enclosed path indicated by a no cycling sign (very faded!) which leads out to the road junction of the B2112 and Beacon Road. Turn left on a wide grassy verge at the last house (no.16) cross to the signed path opposite. Go through a gate and follow a right hand field edge keeping right to join an unsurfaced track by a pair of cottages. Go up this track to join the B2116 on the outskirts of Ditchling. If you want to visit Ditchling village turn right. Cross to Lodge Hill Lane opposite, and follow it past the pond and where the lane bears left, turn right into Boddingtons Lane. Just before the house on your right, go left on a permissive path which takes you up on to Lodge Hill. At the top of the hill, pause to admire the view then go straight on to join Lodge Hill Lane once again. Turn right, and almost immediately, look for a stile on continued on page 62

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your left. Go over this and turn right to follow a ridge path which becomes enclosed, out to a rough parking area by Oldland Mill. This historic post mill has been restored by a dedicated group of volunteers and is owned by the Hassocks Amenity Association. It is open to the public on selected dates only. Follow Mill Lane downhill to join Ockley Lane. Cross to the opposite pavement, and turn right round the bend then left on a wide track opposite Ockley Manor. Follow this obvious track past Woodside ignoring the path oﬀ to your right, and go straight ahead through the Clayton Mills housing estate to the bottom of Woodsland Road. At the top of this road turn right for the station. We are very grateful to Les Campbell for bringing us new and exciting local walks every month. A founder member and former Chairman of the Mid Sussex Ramblers, he is a very experienced and enthusiastic walker indeed. Les insists on testing all routes personally, making sure they are suitable for walking. However, even he cannot guarantee the effects of the weather, or roadworks, or any other factors outside of his control. If you would like to send your feedback about a local walk, please email editorial@sussexliving.com

Distance: 6 miles Stiles: Several Map: Ordnance Survey Explorer Map N0. 122/OL11 Parking: Hassocks Station (fee payable) or nearby roads Refreshments: The Hassocks pub or JJ’s café at the top of Woodsland Road Public Transport: Regular train services to Hassocks from Burgess Hill and Haywards Heath.

Dear Sussex Living... … We have always benefited from the inclusion of our fundraising events in your magazine, and our recent John Rutter Requiem Workshop in October was a case in point, when we had a lot of people from within the area come along. Thank you for all you have done for us. Yours sincerely, Jacqueline Wiginton, St Mary’s Balcombe Fundraising …Very many thanks to all at Sussex Living – what a great crowd they are! I have been advertising in their magazine for many years now and certainly have acquired many new customers as a result. Well worth letting them sort out your website too – I get many compliments for mine! Anne, Feathers of Hurstpierpoint …A lovely band of bro’s! Thanks to you. I’m not only impressed with the mag, now the worker-bees too! FYI,

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Be a Christmas Goddess A comfortable Christmas doesn’t have to mean wearing a gaudy snowman jumper. For clothes that pack a punch, look fab but are comfy enough to relax in and festively expand, look no further – no excuse to be trussed up like the turkey! Thinking about that mandatory family afternoon country walk on Christmas Day and Boxing Day? A cable knit sweater, a flash of tartan and sturdy boots are the answer to “how do I keep warm?” without donning that aforementioned novelty jumper. An Aran sweater looks as great with simple trousers as it does with a lace or checked shirt. The trick to not overheating when juggling walks, cooking and sitting round the dinner table is layers – pick some knitwear that isn’t too chunky and pop on a silk shirt with a nice top underneath for extra warmth. Monochrome is still a strong choice at Christmas. It’s fashionable and pulls together any outfit without looking like you’re trying too hard. Choose a shirt with a monochrome pattern, that you feel is suitably festive and pair with some sleek leggings (perfect for after-dinner tummies) or flannel trousers. If you feel that these options are too casual to suit how you envisage your Christmas Day outfit looking, a hint of glitz and glamour can still be made comfortable. A sparkly top with jeans and your favourite snuggly slippers, a cashmere jumpsuit or black lace culottes with a cashmere jumper are just some of the options to add a subtle touch of luxury to your day. Skirts and dresses can also be easy on the overfed waistline. Ranging from black and white circle skirts with fitted black crew neck sweaters or sparkly fulllength skirts with three-quarter

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Lustig & Webb Salon De Coiffure is celebrating a wonderful fi rst year in Hurstpierpoint, and are excited about the future with an expansion to their premises, and their team Tucked away in a quiet corner on Hurstpierpoint High Street, Lustig & Webb is a haven for all things hair and glamour. Run by four dynamic, award-winning hairdressers, the zingy, fresh interior coupled with a relaxed and chatty atmosphere means that Lustig & Webb has the air of an exclusive salon. Stephen Webb, stylist and joint owner of the business, says, “The support we have received in the last year has been wonderful. We have built up a loyal, and lovely client base and want to say thank you to them all.” And it’s not just locally Lustig & Webb are making a name for themselves, they are getting known and respected in the wider world of hairdressing as well. The team at Lustig & Webb includes Stephen, Daniel Lustig, and Jacqui Taylor – all highly skilled hairdressing professionals with years of experience at top London and Brighton salons between them. They are now thrilled to welcome their newest team member, Amy Cadwallader. A bright and enthusiastic stylist with experience working locally, Amy also holds international credentials from Australia’s ‘Bondi Beach’ salon. “I love making people feel good about themselves and their hair,” Amy smiles. With ongoing training from the likes of Kevin Murphy, who comes into the salon, and days up at L’Oreal in London, the team are proud to stay on top of their game. They also have exciting plans for the future with exclusive Mac make-up tutorials from Cara Luck, complete with fi zz and nibbles for the perfect girls night out, and as one of the stars of TV’s ‘Gogglebox’, Stephen plans to introduce a special ‘Gogglebox’ appointment so customers can have their hair done while chatting all things TV. Specifically chosen for their high-end quality, the salon uses GHD Hair Straighteners and the exclusive KM range of sulphate-free hair products – also available to purchase. “We are always up to date with all the latest trends and cutting-edge techniques,” says Daniel, explaining how Jacqui is an expert in balayage – where the hair is handpainted to create the most beautiful natural-looking colour. “We also love styling bridal parties – it’s always great fun!” Despite the glitz and glamour, Lustig & Webb have their feet fi rmly on the ground with very competitive prices and a 15% discount for NHS workers and for those who work on Hurst High Street.

WONDERFUL “We love keeping things local”, says Stephen. “We’ve even ‘traded’ our hairdressing services with other businesses on the High Street. It’s a great way to do business and really get involved with the local community”. So if you want a relaxing, friendly hair appointment with all the skill of a London salon and a little bit of pizazz thrown in – then make a date in your diary for Lustig & Webb.

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ENVIRONMENT

BY RUTH LAWRENCE

A Winter

Flock A flock of wheeling longtailed tits capture Ruth Lawrence’s imagination this month as she takes a winter stroll in the countryside

An afternoon stroll in light woodland at the edge of Chailey Common seemed strangely quiet. Other than the rumble of cars passing over cattle grids and the occasional caw of a distant crow, the air was still and silent. The sound of sharply fluttering wings came from nowhere, accompanied by high pitched trilling calls; it was a flock of one of our smallest birds, the diminutive long-tailed tit. I stood still as at least a dozen flitted among the slim branches of silver birch above my head. Long-tailed tits live in family parties of up to twenty, consisting of a brood, its parents and extra adults who help raise the brood if their own has failed. As winter approaches, each flock maintains a vigorously defended winter territory that can expand to 25 hectares. They seemed to move as one through the trees, calling continuously; their togetherness is a survival mechanism because their low weight of less than 8g means that they need one

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another’s body heat on freezing winter nights. Huddling close in large groups allows them to survive the cold for they are unusually small for birds at this latitude. Their bodies seem little more than small feathered spheres, beautifully marked with dusky pink patches contrasting with their black and white plumage; it’s the extra long tail that serves to double their length. The nest of a long-tailed tit is a remarkable home; constructed from moss, spider silk and up to two thousand feathers, it is a fully enclosed dome, leaving only a small entrance hole for extra protection against rats, squirrels, magpies and stoats. It is camouﬂaged on the outside by tiny ﬂakes of lichen, chosen for their grey green colour so that the pale surface makes the nest very hard to detect. The spider silk helps to anchor nest-

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Valentine’s Day started with early Christian saints named Valentinus and became a day of celebration with the feast of Saint Valentine’s Day. The meaning of the day changed in the Middle Ages when the tradition of courtly love ﬂourished. Presents, ﬂowers, chocolates and greetings cards, known as Valentines, were all used as tokens to express love. This tradition has held strong and is still how we celebrate Valentine’s Day today, along with special meals in restaurants, hearts, balloons, winged Cupids and doves. So how do you celebrate yours? Do you have a special (or funny!) Valentines story? Please share it with us and warm the hearts of Mid Sussex. Terms and conditions Email your Valentines stories to editorial@sussexliving.com Choosing which stories are printed is at the discretion of Sussex Living Magazine and we are under no obligation to print stories online or in the magazine which we do not feel are suitable. All entries must be received by midnight on Thursday 31st December 2015. Entrants will be informed before their story is printed. Entrants must be 18 or over, or have written parental permission.

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CHRISTMAS GHOST STORIES

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my pretty ones… Christmas cheer and Christmas fear go hand in hand this time of year, so settle back for three ghostly tales from our readers chilling enough to wake the dead and send you off straight home to bed Do you hear things go bump in the night? Does your blood run cold when you ﬂ ick on the bedside light and catch dark shadows slipping from the sides of your vision? Does your mind wander to wonder what lies at the bottom of the garden, waiting with clawed hand and rasping breath?

Chilled to the bone and bristling with fear, we all know the stomach lurch of ghostly encounters – a visit from beyond the grave, a warning from a drifting spirit or perhaps just one too many late night ghost stories told around the ﬁ re on Christmas Eve…

The return of

Mrs Harrison Christmas 1959 by Maggie Ellam

Mrs Smithson reviewed her day. Cosily tucked up in bed, she was pleased that her Christmas plans were taking shape. It was the family’s first Christmas in the house, a fine old Edwardian home, and Mrs Smithson had been to the library to look up how the first families may have prepared for this festive season half a century or so before. The children had, with only a little bickering, made paper chains by interleaving coloured strips of crêpe paper. Cards were strung from the mantelpiece. She opened her eyes, it really was very dark – she couldn’t see the time. Her husband snored gently beside her. She turned over, and through the shadows was quite, quite certain that by her bed was a woman, slightly bent over, wrapped in a shawl. She blinked, no, the shape was still there. “Don’t be stupid,” she told herself. “You are a grown woman, it must be shadows. Turn over and close your eyes tight, she’ll go away.” A few moments later, she couldn’t help but look again. The woman was still there, unmoving. Mrs Smithson thought about all the families who had lived in her house. She remembered the kind Mrs Harrison, from whom they had bought it. Mrs Harrison and her late husband had called it home for several decades, and didn’t Mrs Harrison say to her, “I love this house, you won’t mind if I come and live here again when I die?”

“Your head is playing tricks,” she told herself. “You are the wife of a colonel, you don’t give in to such imaginations. Anyway, wouldn’t she be happily reunited with her husband?” The cat door flapped down in the kitchen, the cat mewed as it came into the room. Then it hissed, and Mrs Smithson heard it scrabble downstairs. “Oh-oh,” she said to herself. She opened an eye again. Yes, the shadowy figure was definitely there. Should she talk to it? No, she couldn’t encourage it. What was she thinking? Encourage a shadow? Come, come, woman. Mrs Smithson moved over closer to her husband, just to be safe. She was, despite her common sense approach to the shadows, rather nervous. Next she knew, it was Christmas Eve morning. There is so much to do, come on everyone, let’s get busy. Then she recalled her “visitor”. Wasn’t she silly, must have done more than was good for her the day before. That afternoon she fussed her husband to go and collect the turkey. Fresh, of course, direct from the farm, as in the olden days. The neighbour waved, and called her over. “Oh, Mrs Smithson, I’ve just heard. Poor Mrs Harrison, who lived in your house, died peacefully in her bed last evening”. Readers, this is a true story, Mrs Smithson is my mother. continued on page 76

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Flip FLap by Mark Boorsma

Christmas Eve in The Cadgwith Cove Inn and John was having a few pre-Christmas rums with his yarntelling friends. Outside the wind and sea were rising – it was going to be a wet holiday. Inside the fi re roared and Peter, Cornwall’s fi nest storyteller began to tell his tale of the Stripple Stones Strangler. It was a beautifully crafted, on the spot yarn made more dramatic by the crashing waves. The whole pub was captivated, the silence complete. As Peter fi nished there was the rushing sound of the pub’s audience exhaling, then spontaneous applause. As usual, John had those extra drinks he would regret during the night. His wife often ribbed that story telling was just an excuse to get sozzled. True, he had outstayed his time tonight but wasn’t it for art? “Watch out for the strangler, John,” the landlord said cheerily as he bolted the door. Collar up against the rising wind and sea spray, rolling clouds obscured the moon. Only 3 miles home, a mixture of farmland and lanes he knew like the back of his hand. A sudden squall soaked him to the skin but fortified by the rum he soldiered on. “Great tale, great tale,” he mumbled to himself and wondered if he could embellish it a bit for next summer’s visitors. More rum he thought. Above the wind and crashing waves, he heard

a fl apping sound. He stopped, straining to hear but there was nothing. He quickened his pace and now he distinctly heard the “fl ip-fl ap” sound. He stopped; it stopped. He turned to face his pursuer but met a wall of darkness. Panic began to set in and he broke into a half run. “Flip-fl ap; fl ipfl ap; fl ip-fl ap” the sound got louder. The faster he moved the quicker the sound became. He climbed the fi nal gate and stepped back on to the road. Sheltered by the wall the wind and waves seemed distant. He paused briefly to catch his breath. He was close to home now. As he moved away, “fl ip-fl ap”; “fl ip-fl ap”. He stopped. Silence again apart from his alcohol fumed breath. He moved, whatever was behind moved. Looking down he noticed his soaked and muddied jeans had become board like. He moved forward and his jeans legs slapped against each other, “fl ip-fl ap”. He moved faster and the sound grew louder. He broke into a manic laugh which became a belly roar as he realised his fear was caused by himself! This would make a great story too, he said to himself as he hurried home to tell his wife. By now he was completely oblivious to the storm, the rain tipping and the wind howling around him. So oblivious that he did not notice a fi nal “fl ip-fl ap” as a pair of icy hands closed around his throat. continued on page 78

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Bringing an exciting new service to potential service users, these facilities are comprised of two buildings, each purpose-built, consisting of four 10 bedded units. The Granary unit provides nursing support to younger people with acquired brain injury and neurological conditions. This specialist care service, with nursing and physiotherapy input has been equipped with all the latest technological aids, including a hydrotherapy pool and a salt cave. The Laurels unit supports people with autism or young people leaving school or college with profound learning and physical disabilities. This service offers all the latest technologies, and various IT equipment and ipads for effective communication including the new eye gaze system and a specialist gymnasium. Sussex Healthcare champions the use of the latest high-tech, interactive technology systems, which are a strong focal point in all their facilities. Alternative methods of communication for those people who may not speak is encouraged and the group has built a specialist technology room, within the day centre, which can be utilised by service users who may wish to access it. All of which are fantastic sensory learning tools that have the capacity to engage the service users and are suitable for any ability.

Whether the choice is to play individually or interact with one another in a group, the systems can be controlled by simply moving on or over the projected image or by using their eyes as a mouse. As well as the use of the above facilities, arts, crafts and cooking are some of the many popular activities enjoyed by the service users along with the strong emphasis around community participation. Service users attend social outings and outreach services with the help and support of the homes dedicated mini bus service. In addition, both units have the added benefit of a beautiful and diverse landscape, which can be explored and utilised as stimulation for service users creative projects. The sessions are intended to trigger the learning of new skills or improve those they already have. Sussex Healthcare staff are genuinely passionate about the people in their care and their wellbeing is always at the centre of everything they do. The service is very proud to be able to offer a diverse training programme at Sussex Healthcare training academy for all staff including nurses, carers, physios, chefs and activity staff. Sussex Healthcare values their staff, and the staff teams benefit from the opportunities for development at every level. Sussex Healthcare is committed to genuine inclusion for people of any ability. Having achieved accreditation for People Standards (IIP) in 2014, the group operates with professionalism and excellence, with over 30 years of healthcare in Sussex, offering a range of quality person-centred services.

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Christmas

by Jennifer Wardley

It was James who suggested a game of Blind Man’s Buff. In one ﬂuid movement, he turned off the light switch and smacked Megan on the shoulder, calling “Tag, you’re it!”. We shushed her protesting howl with threatened punishments. James was the eldest and I was smart enough to take his side in arguments. Besides, given the choice, I’d rather have Meg coming after me in the dark. Stepping out of my shoes I tiptoed towards the wall. Soon there were mufﬂed thumps and Meg cried, “You’re it, you’re it!”. James said nothing in reply so I felt towards the door and switched the light back on. Meg stood red-faced by the table. James was leaning against the windowsill. “One of you was there,” Meg said, pointing at the unoccupied chair. “Your hair felt all springy under my hand.” “Not me,” I said, shrugging. James just laughed. “I was hiding. Why would I sit at the table?” He was convincing, as usual. I tried to keep the peace. “Look Meg, James’ jumper is on the back of the chair. You probably felt that. It’s confusing in the dark.” “Perhaps it was a ghost,” James added unhelpfully. “Dad says there’s no such thing,” said Meg, glowering at James. James rolled his eyes. “Fine, I’ll be it,” he said. So I turned out the light again, and groped along the wall to the window. Then I draped

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myself in the soft lining of the brocade curtains. An icy draft seeped through gaps in the wooden window frames, intruding upon my cosy haven. I buried myself deeper into the fabric. James had returned to the centre of the room, walking into the table, because I heard a loud metallic clunk and Megan gasped as he uttered a rude word. With an inaudible sigh I sleepily watched my breath steaming up the windowpane. Then I looked beyond the glass into the limitless darkness outside and suddenly my chilly body froze right through. For there was a bloodless face, as thin as vapour and with vacant eyes staring at me! Hurriedly untangling myself from the curtain with a yell, I tripped and fell from my hiding place as the lights in the room went on again. Then, as I looked back and saw a pale bony hand moving rapidly away into the night I realised the ghostlike ﬁ gure was... wearing my favourite jumper. I had been frightened of my own reﬂection in the glass! “I slipped off the sill,” I told the others. I was not going to confess what really happened. I’d never hear the end of it. However, I soon had something else to preoccupy my mind. James was at the table looking as white as an alabaster statue. “Very funny, Tom,” he said slowly, “you were sitting in that chair again, weren’t you?”

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Rowfant House, Wallage Lane, Rowfant, Crawley RH10 4NG Dine and Dance with Seasonal Fayre – advance booking necessary. 2 courses - £22.95, 3 courses - £29.95. Contact: Marketing Team 01342 714869 functions@rowfanthouse. co.uk www.rowfanthouse.co.uk

The Orchards Shopping Centre, Haywards Heath After the Festival Weekend, Father Christmas is coming back to see us again! He will be returning to his grotto in The Orchards for three Saturdays and he has even agreed to have his photograph taken with anyone - as long as they pay £1 to help raise funds for Great Ormond Street Hospital.

Thursday 03 December, 17:30-20:30

Saturday 05 & 12 December, 10:00-16:00

Hurst Dental Practice, 78 High Street, Hurstpierpoint BN6 9RQ Free bubbles and nibbles for adults, fun and games for kids, goody bags, raffle in aid of St Peters and St James Hospice. Free prize draw. Meet the team too!! Contact: Dr Anu Jawahar MFDS RCS Ed 01273 834868/01273 832209 info@hpp.dental.co.uk www.hurstpierpointdental.co.uk/ home.html

Perry Barn, Poling Street, Arundel BN189PS For a unique and fun day book a course at the Cheesemaking Workshop. Learn to make 6 soft cheeses in a day, enjoy cheese tastings, a delicious lunch with wine. £110. Mandy Nolan 01903 889730 nolan@ decoratingwith.freeserve.co.uk. wwwthecheesemakingworkshop.co.uk

Henfield Living Advent

Tuesday 01 December - Sunday 05 January

Wilde about Kingscote

Kingscote Estate, Mill Place Farm, Vowels Lane, East Grinstead RH19 4LG An exhibition of paintings and drawings of life and locations on the estate by William de Wilde. Open Tuesday - Friday 10-5 pm or by appointment. Free. Contact: William de Wilde 01342 312867 info@williamdewilde.org www.williamdewilde.org Tuesday 01 December - Sunday 03 January, 10:00-16:00

Christmas at Standen

Standen - National Trust, West Hoathly Road, East Grinstead RH19 4NE Make Standen part of your family Christmas; see the house decorated through the ages, visit the Winter Tree designed by Dame Zandra Rhoades and Andrew Logan, choose unique craft gifts and join in the Woodlands. Visit our website for full details and booking information. www.nationaltrust.org.uk/standen 01342 323029 Tuesday 01 December - Saturday 09 January 2016

Burgess Hill Artists Christmas Exhibition

Upstairs at Walkways Cafe in the Martlets, Burgess Hill Town Centre A percentage of all sales goes in support of Age UK’s Cherry Tree Centre. For more infotmation please visit www.burgesshillartists.co.uk or ring Melanie 01444 245896. Tuesday 01 December - Sunday 03 January 2016, 10:00-16:00

A Topsy-turvy Christmas at Nymans

Nymans National Trust, Nymans, Handcross RH17 6EB You can expect the unexpected at Nymans this Christmas where nothing is quite as it seems. Please see website for admission details www. nationaltrust.org.uk 01444 405250 nymans@nationaltrust.org.uk Wednesday 02 December, 18:00-21:00

Steyning Late Night Christmas Shopping

High Street, Steyning Shopping, fun fair, food, stalls, music, entertainment and raffle. Contact: Alanmarsh44@gmail.com Wednesday 02 December, 19:00-21:00

Christmas Light Garlands

Made and Making, The Workroom, Unit 3 Dumbrells, Dumbrell Court Road, Ditchling BN6 8GT Come and make your own festive light garland. Teens and adults

Christmas Party Night

Open Evening

Thursday 03 December, 19:30

Ditchling Film Society Ditchling Village Hall See Local Living

Thursday 03 December, 20:00

Greyhound - Open Mic Night

Greyhound Inn, Keymer Road, Hassocks BN6 8QT Every Thursday! Whatever your talent, come and show it off or just watch others. Pop in for a fun night out - entrance free! Contact: thegreyhoundinnkeymer@yahoo. co.uk Friday 04 December, 10:00-16:00

Christmas Fayre

Cumnor House School, London Road, Danehill RH17 7HT Lots of stalls with fabulous Christmas temptations and present ideas, as well as a cafe with live entertainment. Come along and do all your shopping whilst supporting a life changing cause, Spinal Research.

Saturday 05, 12 & 19 December

Haywards Heath’s Christmas Festival

Cheesemaking Workshop

Saturday 05 December

Christmas Carol Party

West Hoathly, Sharpthorne and surrounding areas See Local Living Saturday 05 December, 10:30-12:30

RSPCA Brighton Christmas Fair

Patcham Methodist Hall, Ladies Mile Road, Patcham, Brighton BN1 8QE Lots of Christmas bargains, cakes, books, tombola, raffle, delicious refreshments, and much more! All proceeds go to help the animals. Free admission. Contact: RSPCA Brighton Animal Shelter 01273 554218 emainfo@rspca-brighton.co.uk, www.rspca-brighton.co.uk Saturday 05 December, 12:00-15:00

Christmas Bazaar

St Lawrence CEP School, Trinity Road, Hurstpierpoint BN6 9UY Visit Father Christmas, win prizes, buy toys, games and books. BBQ and refreshments. Contact: Kate Halls 01273 833964 stlawrencehurst@gmail.com

Friday 04 December, 19:30-21:30

Saturday 05 December, 13:45-16:00

Main Hall, East Court Mansion, East Grinstead, West Sussex RH19 3LT ‘Belgians in Sussex’ a talk by Sally White, who is Curator of the Worthing Museum and Art gallery. All welcome. Non-members £1.50 – members £1.00 – Including refreshments. Contact: Joan Roberts 01342 322648 www. eastgrinsteadsociety.org

Hurstpierpoint Village Centre, Trinity Road, Hurstpierpoint BN6 9UY We will be selling toys, jewellery, home-made cakes, gifts, cosmetics, “good-as-new” clothes, books, White Elephant and Gold Elephant stalls, tombola, grand raffle and fruit raffle. Refreshments available. All profits go towards the upkeep of our beautiful church.

East Grinstead Society Meeting

Pyecombe Church Christmas Fair

Friday 04 - Sunday 06 December

Saturday 05 December, 14:00-16:00

Amongst others see: Melvyn Bragg, Vince Cable, Charles Moore, John Julius Norwich, Alison Weir, Norman Baker, Daphne Selfe, Virginia Nicholson. Book online or on 0333 666 3366 www.lewesspeakersfestival.com.

King Edward Hall, High Street, Lindfield RH16 2HH Join us for tea with mince pies and Christmas Cake and enjoy some entertainment in a hall overlooking the village pond.

The Lewes Speakers Festival

Christmas Party for MSOPC’s aged 60+ Supporters

Saturday 05 December, 19:30-22:00

Whist Drive

Chailey Village Hall (next to The Five Bells) Chailey Green, Lewes, East Sussex BN8 4DA Chailey Women’s Institute Whist Drive with prizes, refreshments and raffle. Tickets £3.50. Contact: Margaret Smith 01825 723519 Saturday 05, 12 & 19 December, 11:00-17:00 Sunday 06, 13 & 20 December, 11:00-16:30

Meet Father Christmas!

Garden Pride Garden Centre, Ditchling Common BN6 8TP Meet Father Christmas and his reindeer at this fun event. Every child receives a book. £3 pp. All in support of St Peter & St James Hospice. Sunday 06 December, 10:00-14:00

Conservation Work Party

Bedelands Nature Reserve - meet in car park Help to maintain your local nature reserve and enjoy the workout for free. All tools supplied. Stay as long as you wish. This will be shorter than usual as we will have festive fayre and a bonfire after. Contact: Mary Smith 01444 242667 mary.s.smith@talktalk.net Sunday 06 December, 12:00-14:00

Santa’s Grotto Day

Cats Protection, National Cat Centre, Chelwood Gate, Haywards Heath RH17 7TT Join us for a fun packed day in our winter wonderland including facepainting, stalls, games and a chance to win a Christmas hamper, plus a visit to Santa for £3. Sunday 06 December, 19:30

Wivelsfield FILMS- Mr Holmes (PG) (Drama, Mystery & Suspense)

Wivelsfield Village Hall, off Eastern Road, Wivelsfield Green RH17 7QG Mr Holmes is a new twist on the world’s most famous detective. Homemade cakes, ice creams and drinks served before the film and during the interval. Tickets £6 on the door, in advance from the Post Office & Village Stores or The Cock Inn, or online via the Facebook page for Wivelsfield Films or wivelsfieldfilms. com Doors/licenced bar: 19:00. Free, easy parking at the hall. Monday 07 & 14 December, 08:00-17:00

General Antiques & Collectables Auction

Gorringes, Garden Street, Lewes, East Sussex NB7 1TJ Gorringes hold a weekly Monday sale located at Gorringes Garden Street Auction Rooms, Lewes. This is a well-established regular auction holding between 600 and 800 lots of antique and other furniture, ceramics, jewellery, pictures, silver and collectables. Viewing: Friday 9am 5pm, Saturday, 9am - 12:30, Monday 8am - 10:30am. Auction: Mondays, Small Items at 10:30am and Furniture at 1,00pm. Contact: 01273 478221 clientservices@gorringes.co.uk S u ss e x L i v i n g December 2015

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Christmas Social Evening

St Barnabas Church Hall, Dunnings Road East Grinstead East Grinstead Natural History Society Christmas Social. £4.50 for guests including refreshments. Contact: 01342 315051 Tuesday 08 December, 13:00-14:00

Ensemble Reza lunchtime concert

Haywards Heath Methodist Church See Local Living Tuesday 08 December, 19:30

Weald Classic Vehicle Club

Weald Inn, Royal George Road, Burgess Hill RH15 9SJ We meet every 2nd Tuesday of the month at the Weald Inn. Owners and enthusiasts welcome. Come and have a chat, listen to a few stories or even tell a tale of two. For further information please call Fred Bone on 01444 239853. Tuesday 08 December, 19:45-21:45

Wolstonbury WI Monthly Meeting

Club Suite, Hurstpierpoint Village Centre, Trinity Road, Hurstpierpoint BN6 9UY The history of the Punch and Judy show. Speaker, Professor Gwynn Edwards. Visitors welcome. Tuesday 08 December, 09:30–16:00

A French Christmas with PeterBayless

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Kingscote Estate, Tithe Barn, Mill Place Farm, Vowels Lane, East Grinstead, West Sussex RH19 4LG Join a small class to learn how to cook Peter’s French Christmas menu - Cost £165 per person. For further information or to book this course email info@kingscoteestate.com or call 01342 327535 www.kingscoteestate.com Tuesday 08 December, 20:00

The Group

Meet in a pub in Burgess Hill Single? Aged 45+? The Group might be exactly right for you. We meet in Burgess Hill on the 2nd Tuesday evening every month. The Group is not a dating agency, but it is an opportunity to meet other single men and women. 400 members in Sussex. Contact: www.thegroup.org.uk Wednesday 09 December, 20:00-22:00

The Mid-Sussex Franco-British Society - Soiree Amicale Function Suite, Clair Hall, Perrymount, Haywards Heath RH16 3DN For members and invited guests. Contact: Barbara Stevens 01444 452385 Thursday 10 & 23 December

Chailey Heritage volunteers

Chailey Heritage Foundation, Haywards Heath Road, North Chailey, Lewes, West Sussex BN8 4EF See Local Living

Thursday 10 December, 14:30

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Clair Hall, Perrymount, Haywards Heath RH16 3DN A talk: A Celebratory History of Christmas by Andy Thomas

Friday 11 December, 18:30 until closing

Mid Sussex Association National Trust

Thursday 10 December

Christmas Party Night

Mid Sussex Amateur Radio Society Christmas Dinner

The Plough, London Road, Pyecombe, West Sussex BN45 7FN All those that have booked are welcome to come and join in the Chistmas Fayre. Contact: Stella Rogers 07803 086838 Saturday 12 December, 11:00-16:00

Mansion Market

Queens Hall, High Street, Cuckfield RH17 5EL 35 plus quaint, quirky and contemporary stalls comprising of jams to jewellery, vintage homewares to Italian handbags! Refreshments available. Free admission. Contact: Beverley Smith 01444 440274 allthingsnicecft@aol.com

Kidbrooke Park, Priory Road, Forest Row RH18 5JB You can be sure of a warm welcome from the friendly stall-holders at this festive Market held in an atmospheric 18th century mansion. Local, talented crafts-people, plants, slippers, designer clothing, toys, cakes, jewellery, delicious local organic produce and much more. The Mansion Market is the place to find the perfect Christmas gift for all. Food is served all day in the Cafe, there are delightful puppet shows for children and taster therapy sessions. Free admission and parking.

Friday 11 December

Saturday 12 December 14:30-16:30

Henfield High Street BN5 Late Night Shopping: Seasonal stalls, Santa’s Grotto, hot street food, ‘Find the Sheep Trail’, Carol Singers. Contact: Carol Eastwood 01273

The Adastra Hall, Keymer Road, Hassocks BN6 8QH This is always a friendly and enjoyable occasion and advance tickets, at the very reasonable cost of just £2.50

Friday 11 December, 09:30-13:00

Cuckfield Crafts and Market

Henfield Christmas Shopping Evening

The “Magic of Christmas” with Friends and Neighbours

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DiaryDates (including refreshments) go on sale from Monday 30 November from Pavilion Electrics in Keymer Road, Hassocks or by ringing 01273 845291. There will be a Grand Raffle to add to the excitement so please come along and join us for an enjoyable and festive couple of hours. Lets ‘GET TOGETHER’ at this special time of the year - we look forward to your company. Contact: 01273 845291

Saturday 12 December

Family Carol Concert

Blind Veterans UK, The Chapel, Greenways, Ovingdean BN2 7BS Performances by Thomas Cooper & Women of Note. Complimentary mulled wine and mince pies. Retirment collection. Free entry (please phone to reserve your ticket). Contact: Rachel 01273 391455 rachel.chitty@blindveterans.org.uk Saturday 12 December, 20:30-23:30

Contraband

Clayton & Keymer Royal British Legion, Woodsland Road, Hassocks BN6 8HE 5 Piece covers band. From Kings of Leon, Duffy, The Killers and much more. One of the best bands in the South. A great night of entertainment. £3 Guest fee members free. Contact: ckrbl@btconnect.com 01273 845829. Saturday 12 December, 20:30

An Eclectic Christmas Gig Live @ The Watermill

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The Watermill Inn, 1 Leylands Road, Burgess Hill, West Sussex RH15 0QF Local singing duo Eclectic, performing live at The Watermill Inn! An eclectic mix of genres from country and pop to rock ‘n roll, plus a few Christmas hits for a great festive evening’s entertainment! Free entrance. Contact: 07572293820 followthepinkguitar@hotmail.com www.eclecticduo.com

Tuesday 15 December, 20:00-22:00

Wednesday 16 December

Saturday 19 December, 09:00-13:00

Monday 14 December, 20:00

Made and Making, The Workroom, Unit 3 Turner Dumbrells, Dumbrell Court Road, Ditchling BN6 8GT A beginners workshop. Teens and adults - all welcome. £35. Contact: sarah@madeandmaking.co.uk 07967 819540 www.madeandmaking.co.uk

National Tyres Forecourt, 60 Keymer Road, Hassocks BN6 8AR Locally produced and made cakes, fruit, vegetables, plants, eggs, honey, cheese, oils, pies, meat, bread, soup, fish, plants, furniture repairs. Contact: amandajanefelix@gmail.com

Greyhound - Quiz Night

Greyhound Inn, Keymer Road, Hassocks BN6 8QT We currently hold a monthly quiz on the second Monday of each month. Why not pop along for this fun night and pit your wits against others. Contact: thegreyhoundinnkeymer@yahoo. co.uk Tuesday 15 December, 10:00-16:00

Paintings Valuation Day

Bonhams, 19 Palmeira Square, Hove BN3 2JN Bonhams Paintings Specialist will be at the office to provide free and confidential auction valuations on items you are considering selling. To make an appointment, please contact Jenny Bouston on 01273 220 000 or email jenny.bouston@ bonhams.com

Lindfield & District Folk Dance Club

Ashenground Community Centre, Southdown Close/Vale Road, Haywards Heath RH16 4JR Folk dancing for fun, no partner needed. £2 including tea/coffee and biscuit at half time. First evening free. Contact: Mike 01444 482741

Christmas Needle Felted Bunting

Thursday 17 December, 19:30

Friday 18 December, 19:30-22:00

Mid Sussex Amateur Radio Society Christmas Quiz

Cyprus Hall, Millfield Suite, Cyprus Road, Burgess Hill, West Sussex RH15 8DX Come along for a Fun Quiz and chat, plus mincepies and a cuppa. Contact: Stella Rogers 07803 086838

Hassocks Village Market

Sunday 20 December, 10:00

Mid Sussex Brass Band - “Merry Christmas”

Weald Classic Car Club Breakfast

St Andrews Church, Junction Road, Burgess Hill We would love you to come along to our very special Christmas event. Contact: Paul Homewood 01444 454824 Friday 18 December, 19:15-21:45

Music for Everyone

The Cyprus Hall, Cyprus Road, Burgess Hill RH15 8DX Celebrated organist/keyboard player Andrew Nix. Entry £5 on the door. Doors open 18:00. Contact: Rosalie Birchmore 01444 241269

Chalet Cafe, Henfield Road, Cowfold RH13 8DU All welcome.

Monday 21 December, 08:30 – Thursday 31 December, 17:30

Christmas Holiday Club

The Triangle, Triangle Way, Burgess Hill RH15 8WA Entertain your little one with our fun filled Christmas Holiday club for ages 5-13! Expect fun crafts, sports and swimming. From £9.95. Contact: 01444 876000 enquiries@ thetriangleleisurecentre.org www. thetriangleleisurecentre.org

Cuckfield Crafts & Market Friday 11th December 9.30am-1pm Belshazzar’s Feast

The Sorcerer’s Apprentice

Christmas themed show with an eclectic and eccentric mix of tunes. Classical and jazz with a bit of pop & music hall.

Perfect heart-warming Christmas theatre for kids aged 4 years plus. Christmas wishes all round!

Tuesday 22nd December 7.30pm Martlets Hall

Monday 21st December 2.00pm Clair Hall

Lively village market offering a delightful mix of stalls with something for everyone, including a huge plant stall. Tea, coffee and cakes are available.

LAST MARKET THIS YEAR

Contact Beverley allthingsnicecft@aol.com | 01444 440274 Queens Hall, High Street, Cuckfield, RH17 5EL

Swing ‘n’ Sinatra

An Evening Of Burlesque

An evening of famous songs spanning Sinatra’s career with singers and multi instrumentalists.

Thrill-a-minute, fun ﬁlled frolic into the world of Burlesque! Legends from around the world united on stage!

Thursday 3rd December 7.30pm Clair Hall

Friday 4th December 7.30pm Martlets Hall

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Monday 21 December, 14:00–15:00

The Sorcerer’s Apprentice

Clair Hall, Perrymount Road, Haywards Heath RH16 3DN Little people aged 3-7 will love this funny, heartwarming tale. An irresistible blend of music, puppetry and storytelling. £9.50. Contact: 01444 455440 enquiries@clairhall.org www.clairhall.org Monday 21 December, 18-30-20:00

Family Carol Concert

The Kings Church, 33-35 Victoria Road, Burgess Hill,RH15 9LR Now in its third year, family friendly Christmas favourites with much audience participation. After concert refreshments included in ticket price. Tickets £12, students and children under 16 £3 from ticket manager 01444 412579; Burgess Hill Help Point 01444 247726; Carousel Music 01444 417654; www.WeGotTickets.com www.sussexchoris.org Monday 28, Tuesday 29, Wednesday 30 & Friday 31 December, 12:15 & 14:45

Fairy Godmother Specials

Bluebell Railway, Sheffield Park Station TN22 3QL After Christmas come and take a ride on one of our vintage steam trains from Shefﬁeld Park to East Grinstead where the Fairy Godmother

and a children’s entertainer will be on board the train with a special Christmas treat for the children. You will be on board for 1 hour and 45 minutes. Seats will be reserved on the train in third class accommodation priced at £17.50 per adult and £9.20 per child and £7 per toddler (no seat reserved for toddlers). For bookings, please call 01825 720800.

Wednesday, 30th December until Saturday 09 January 2016

The Wizard Of Oz

The Players Theatre, 147 High Street, Hurstpierpoint BN6 9PU The traditional story of a young girl, Dorothy, who meets up with a Lion, a Scarecrow and a Tin Man and sets off along the Yellow Brick Road to ﬁnd the elusive Wizard Of Oz in the Emerald City. This should be a very entertaining treat for all the family and of course there will be a few songs along the way. Tickets will be available from Vanilla, 40 High Street, Hurstpierpoint 01273 834506 (9.30am to 5.00pm only please). Family tickets (2 adults and 2 children) are £25, Children £6, Adults £10. Performances at 2.30pm on 1st, 2nd, 3rd and 9th January. 7.30pm on 30th December, 1st, 2nd, 6th, 7th, 8th & 9th January.

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