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Helping Women Be Financially Independent. An Exclusive Interview With Author, Financial Speaker & Wealth Retreat Leader Millen Livis
Q: What was your first job? How did it shape or impact you?
ML: I was born and raised in the former Soviet Union. My first job was working at a data-entry center. It was a very boring, meaningless (to me) work, with a minimum wage pay.
There were only women in our department… of all ages.
Working at this job taught me to be grateful for any job (because I was helping my parents with my wages), shaped my perception about any job as a stepping stone to something bigger and better (not the final destination), and motivated me to get knowledge and experience in the area of my interest (at that time it was physics), so that I could enjoy meaningful work that pays well and creates a positive impact on other people’s lives.
I decided to be SO good at what I do that my gender (women were inferior workforce in the former Soviet Union) and my ethnicity (I come from Jewish heritage and was discriminated because of it in the Soviet Union) will not be used to dismiss or ignore me.
Q: What changes in your life led you to become an International Holistic Financial Independence mentor?
ML: I had a pivotal moment (phase) in my life after I walked out from my financially comfortable by loveless marriage and my financially comfortable but meaningless Wall Street career, and “jumped” into entrepreneurship – started my real estate investment company with a couple of business partners.
My intention (my North Star) was to experience FREEDOM – freedom of money, choice, time, location. To achieve that, I had to become financially free, so that I won’t depend on any partner, boss, or government with my financial security.
My “parachute” didn’t open when I jumped. I crushed… became financially broke, emotionally broken and deeply depressed.
However, by the grace of God, I was introduced to a life coach who helped me shift my perceptions on success, self-leadership, and what’s possible (among many other things).
Working with this coach helped turn my “sinking ship” 180 degrees…
I learned the tools that helped me develop a wealth mindset, become a savvy manager of my money, and, eventually, a strategic investor.
This experience also led to my spiritual awakening.
Within 7 years I became financially independent, from ground ZERO….
Then published my two bestselling books.
Eventually I decided to become a mentor to women who want to control their money (so money won’t control them); who want to live without constant money worries, stress, and anxiety; and who want to create their own unique path to financial independence.
Q: Tell us something about the MILLENaire Method you have adopted.
ML: The MILLENaire Method is my holistic system for becoming financially independent.
This method was born by reverse-engineering my path to Financial Independence.
It includes four pillars - fundamental skillsets - that one must develop in order to become financially independent:
1. Wealth Mindset
2. Savvy Money Management
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4.
Strategic Investing
Practical Spirituality
All my work with clients and students is based on this method.
Q: What is one reason you hear that will lead women to seek your mentoring services?
ML: Many women like my holistic approach to creating lasting wealth. I teach “hard” (very practical) money skills (savvy money management and investing) as well as “soft” money skills (wealth mindset and spiritual principles of creating financial wealth). And they like that I “walk the talk” - embody what I teach, have achieved what they are aspired to achieve.
Q: Are your mentoring sessions private or in a class setting? What are some of the topics you cover?
ML: As of now, I offer both - private mentoring and group programs.
One of my group programs – Awakened Money Mas- tery program – helps clients develop Wealth Mindset (as opposed to Consumer or Scarcity mindsets) and become savvy managers of their money.
This program helps my clients truly transform their relationship with money, their money story, and their bank accounts. They have more money with less stress and less risk.
Q: Were there moments in your career that were pivotal to getting where you are today?
ML: Yes. Here’re some of them.
- I would have perished, like many of my colleges and friends, on 9/11 2001 (I used to work in World Trade Center) if I didn’t listen to my intuition and didn’t resign a couple of months prior to this tragic day.
- While being in a very dark place in my life, I made a scary decision to invest in myself and work with the life coach, when I was lost, fearful, and broke.
- After years of living “by default,” I recognized the importance of living “by design” - the importance of knowing your goals. Because I started with the end in mind (financial independence).
- I used to struggle with making quick decisions and realized the importance of knowing your values in life in order to be decisive. Because it helped me be clear about my priorities and make decisions that are aligned with my values and goals.
Q: You’re also an author, can you tell us about some of the topics you’ve written about?
ML: I published two bestselling books of my own, and two collaborative books.
- A Shift Toward Purpose: Secrets to an Amazing Career
- A Shift Toward Abundance: Secrets to Financial Freedom
Q: What’s the best advice you’ve ever received?
ML: Failure is not a person. It’s an experience. And it has the beginning and the end. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel…just keep going.