Bull Run Mountain Neighbors - March 2021

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Always Looking at the Bright Side: ALSO INSIDE: Cover photo by The Little Photo Shop | An exclusive magazine serving the neighborhoods of Piedmont and Dominion Valley

Ask the Librarian: Nonfiction … It Doesn’t Need to Be A Painful Read Aloud Pg. 18 Celebrating Differences: World Down Syndrome Awareness Month Pg. 20 Haymarket Gainesville Library to Unveil A Pollinator and Native Plants Garden Pg. 22


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FOOD PANTRY NEEDS Please help us feed the hungry in NoVa! WE NEED: fresh vegetables, fruit, dairy and meat (if delivered directly to HoM). To help keep the food pantry stocked all year, please donate: Cans of tomatoes, chicken, tuna, vegetables, soup, beans, fruit and corn; macaroni and cheese; olive/ vegetable oil; pasta and sauce; cereal. Check out the link to our website for an Amazon wish list as well: www.houseofmercyva.org Food Pantry / Donation Center / Thrift Store 8170 Flannery Court, Manassas, VA 20109 Monday - Saturday, 10 a.m. - 5 p.m. info@houseofmercyva.org / (703) 659-1636

PUBLICATION TEAM Publisher......................................................Michael & Debbie Wykowski Content Coordinator................................................... Marianne Weaver Designer....................................................................................Jody Zipp Contributing Photographer........Melinda Ratcliff, The Little Photo Shop

Dear Readers,

We’re getting there … slowly. Life isn’t back to what it was in early 2020, but we seem to be moving in the right direction. The COVID-19 vaccine has been administered to our frontline healthcare workers and our most vulnerable living in nursing homes. In this issue, we cover teachers who have received the vaccine. And although most high school students aren’t back in the classroom yet, local high schools did salvage the basketball season (see inside for an update). Soon, the high school football teams will take to the field. Football in the spring … it’s not “normal,” but I’ll take it! As you and your family return to your pastimes and activities outside of the house, please keep us posted. Football, band, hockey, robotics, lacrosse, debate, tennis, dance, scouts, drama, … whatever you’re doing, we’d love to feature it. Send email to me at mweaver@ bestversionmedia.com.

Debbie and Michael Wykowski,

PUBLISHERS

Marianne Weaver, CONTENT COORDINATOR

FEEDBACK/IDEAS/SUBMISSIONS: Have feedback, ideas or submissions? We are always happy to hear from you! Deadlines for submissions are the 10th of each month. Go to www. bestversionmedia.com and click “Submit Content.” You may also email your thoughts, ideas and photos to: mweaver@bestversionmedia.com. ADVERTISING: To learn more about becoming a sponsor, contact Michael and Debbie Wykowski by email at dwykowski@bestversionmedia.com, mwykowski@bestversionmedia.com or call 703-203-9130. HOA SUBMISSION INFORMATION Are you on the association board for your subdivision? Contact us for information on how you can submit articles, updates, reminders, events and more to the residents. We create customized homeowners’ association sections at no cost to the HOA or the residents. Any content, resident submissions, guest columns, advertisements and advertorials are not necessarily endorsed by or represent the views of Best Version Media (BVM) or any municipality, homeowners associations, businesses or organizations that this publication serves. BVM is not responsible for the reliability, suitability or timeliness of any content submitted. All content submitted is done so at the sole discretion of the submitting party. © 2021 Best Version Media. All rights reserved.

Debbie and Michael Wykowski, Publishers

Marianne Weaver Content Coordinator

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EXPERT CONTRIBUTORS AUTO DETAILING On The Fly Detailing Dillon Thompson, Owner 571-469-1055 | contact@ontheflydetailing.com OnTheFlyDetailing.com Facebook: OnTheFlyDetailingVA Instagram: @OnTheFlyDetailing On The Fly Detailing is a family-owned auto detailing company focusing on the exclusive desires of the motor vehicle enthusiast. Every vehicle touched by On The Fly Detailing is treated as a valued piece of artwork; but unlike art, vehicles are constantly exposed to uninvited abuse from sun, terrain, and daily use. So when you need the absolute finest level of care for your vehicle, look no further than On The Fly Detailing.

COLLEGE PLANNING Your College Planning Coach Luanne Lee 703-928-9036 | luanne@ycpcoach.com www.ycpcoach.com Luanne is in the financial services industry with a unique position as a Certified College Financial Planning and Funding Specialist. Luanne will create a personal plan to help your children select the right fit schools, graduate in 4 years with a career path they will flourish in, without spending your retirement savings or adding a lifetime burden of debt for you or your children. Your College Planning Coach...Making College Affordable...One Family at a Time!

EDUCATIONAL CONSULTANT Claire Machosky-Ullman, BA, MS, SAS Author: A PATH TO LEARNING AND LITERACY and STUDY*LEARN*SUCCEED 516-384-9517 | cmachosky@comcast.net Claire’s mission is to help students learn “How to Study”. She believes students need to be taught how to study, and her recently released book, A PATH TO LEARNING AND LITERACY, does just that. An experienced teacher, school administrator, and educational consultant, Claire designed and successfully taught programs that improved student understanding and performance. She served on curriculum and assessment committees with the NY State Department of Education, and is currently a Teaching with Primary Sources (TPS) Coach with the Library of Congress. As an author and based on the content of her book, she gives talks on School Success and offers “How to Study” workshops for students.

FAMILY, PERSONAL INJURY AND CRIMINAL LAW Dougherty Tobias Iszard Northern Virginia Law, P.C. Partners: Donna Dougherty, Esq., Ashleigh Iszard and Amy Tobias 703-530-7022 | northvalaw.com Dougherty Tobias Iszard, Northern Virginia Law, PC is operated by three dynamic woman law partners who maintain the goal of providing excellent representation considering each client’s needs. The firm is comprised of six (6) lawyers who utilize a team approach with each and every client insuring that each client receives only the best legal representation. Our lawyers have extensive courtroom experience and are known as fierce advocates. As a result, due to our reputation for zealous advocacy, we are often able to reach quick and beneficial settlements for our clients. Check out our website northvalaw.com for yourself and read testimonials from prior clients.

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FINANCIAL ADVISOR Deborah Trnka - Edward Jones Advisors Deborah Trnka 571-248-8267 deborah.trnka@edwardjones.com Edward Jones is a different kind of investment firm. To us, face time and think time make sense. We meet with you to learn your individual needs so we can develop a strategy to help you achieve your long-term financial goals. You can expect personalized service to develop an investment strategy that makes sense for you. Contact me today!

HEATING, COOLING AND PLUMBING Appleton Campbell Featured Employee: Sunny Singanong 540-347-0765 appletoncampbell.com “I’ve been in the HVAC industry for 12 years and the last 2 with Appleton Campbell have been the best by far. I’ve seen my career excel and I look forward to many more years working here.” – Sunny Singanong, HVAC Service Technician. Appleton Campbell is Class A Contractor with masters in Plumbing, Gas Fitter, HVAC and Electrical. To learn more please visit appletoncampbell.com

INSURANCE - HOME, AUTO, BUSINESS Stover Insurance Agency Eddy Lang 571-261-2700 | www.stoveragency.com haymarket@stoveragency.com The Stover Insurance Agency has served individuals and businesses with their insurance needs since 1930. Whether you are insuring your family, your home, your automobile or your business, you want to feel confident that you have an organization behind you that will take care of your needs. The Stover Insurance Agency is there for you.

ORTHODONTICS TEEM Orthodontics Dr. Madueke Ekoh 703-753-4777 | teemortho.com Dr. Ekoh’s journey started in Nigeria, obtaining his Pre-Bachelors in Dental Surgery before emigrating to the U.S. He received his Doctorate in Dental Surgery and Orthodontist certificate at Howard University. To keep up with the advances in orthodontic care, Dr. Ekoh regularly attends numerous seminars, and is an active member in several professional associations, including the American Association of Orthodontists. He lives in Haymarket with his wife and four children. “My vision is to make advanced, high quality and cuttingedge orthodontic care available and affordable to everyone. I believe that great orthodontic care should not only improve the smile, but help people experience the joy of living better.”

PERFORMING ARTS Lasley Centre for the Performing Arts Kalie Lasley 540-905-2782 | klasley@lasleycentre.com www.lasleycentre.com Kalie Lasley is an American Ballet Theatre (ABT) Affiliate Teacher and the Executive Director of Lasley Centre for the Performing Arts in Vint Hill. Ms. Lasley has an extensive background in dance, including time as a professional dancer at the prestigious San Francisco Ballet. Lasley Centre opened in 2011, growing into a 9,000 square foot, state-of-the-art facility where students from pre-ballet to pre-professional train to be technically sound artists in a nurturing environment.


PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION OmniRide 703-730-6664 omniride.com OmniRide has provided mobility services for Northern Virginia for over three decades. This includes Local bus service in Prince William County, Manassas and Manassas Park; Express service for commuters between Prince William County and employment centers in Northern Virginia and Washington D.C.; and Metro Express which connects riders with Metro Stations. OmniRide also offers assistance to carpoolers and vanpoolers and coordinates a variety of employer services. For more information visit OmniRide.com.

REAL ESTATE Delaney Real Estate Team - RE/MAX Gateway Roya Delaney 240-505-2544 Cell | 703-754-1700 Office royasellshomes@gmail.com Roya became an award winning and successful Realtor® in a short time. With her passion for helping others, her business background, and her Real Estate investing experience, it’s no wonder! Roya offers honesty, integrity, and full support during all phases of her customer’s transactions. Her negotiation skills, drive and determination get her clients from “Listed” to “Sold!” Whether downsizing or looking for a more spacious home, let Roya’s 16 years of local expertise help you to achieve your Real Estate goals.

SOCIAL EDUCATION National League of Junior Cotillions Kathleen Geneva 703-901-1498 | kathleen.geneva@nljc.com www.nljc.com/chapter/westprincewilliam Kathleen Geneva is a licensed Modern Etiquette and Cotillion Instructor with the National League of Junior Cotillions (NLJC) and the Emily Post Institute.She was recently awarded the Best New Director of the Year by the NLJC and also received recognition for Best Public Relations for her local franchise Chapters.Mrs. Geneva has a genuine passion for teaching children the importance of social education. Her goal is for every student to leave her program with an increased sense of knowledge, confidence, self worth and skills that will assist them in young adulthood and last them a lifetime.

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Novant Health UVA Health System NOTES: NH UVA Works with Local Public Schools to Vaccinate Staff Submitted by Novant Health UVA Health System Novant Health UVA Health System, Prince William County Public Schools, Manassas City Public Schools and Manassas Park City Schools joined forces to vaccinate employees of the three area public school districts. Starting in February, Novant Health UVA Health System received a weekly allotment of 2,925 doses of the Pfizer BioNTech-COVID-19 vaccine from the Prince William Health District. The weekly allotment supplied vaccination clinics for the public school employees who were not vaccinated at earlier clinics. Novant Health UVA Health System previously vaccinated approximately 760 high-risk employees of PWCPS with the Moderna COVID-19 vaccine through clinics that took place at Novant Health UVA Health System Prince William Medical Center Saturday and Sunday, Jan. 23 and 24. An additional 2,400 PWCPS employees were vaccinated with the health system’s existing Moderna COVID-19 vaccine supply during clinics Saturday and Sunday, Jan. 30 and 31, at Unity Reed High School. Employees of Manassas City Public Schools and Manassas Park City Schools were invited to attend a vaccine clinic at Unity Reed High School Sunday, Feb. 7, to receive their first dose of the Pfizer BioNTech-COVID-19 vaccine. Novant Health UVA Health System had the supply and capacity to inoculate 1,837 employees of the two school districts. Due to the large population size, PWCPS has led efforts to prioritize its employees based on highest risk. The organizations estimate it will take a minimum of four to five weeks to inoculate all 11,700 PWCPS employees with their first dose. Weekly numbers and timelines could change, as future vaccination clinics are entirely dependent on the allocation of vaccines from the Virginia Department of Health and Prince William Health District to Novant Health UVA Health System. The vaccination program is also reliant on the availability of school nurses and non-clinical staff to support the clinics alongside Novant Health UVA Health System staff.

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RESIDENT FEATURE

Always Looking at the Bright Side: By Marianne Weaver | Photos by The Little Photo Shop

Over the years, the Brennan family—Ron and Renee and their daughters Ellen, 27; Ruby, 14; and Georgia, 13—have faced their share of challenges. Through it all, this family of five find support from each other and work together to make their community a better, more inclusive, place for all.

“Like the saying goes, it’s not about waiting for the storm to pass, but learning to dance in the rain,” said Renee. Ruby was born with Down syndrome and heart issues, which required open-heart surgery when she was just 3 months old. After years of ear problems, she has permanent hearing loss. She also was diagnosed with alopecia, an auto-immune disorder that causes hair loss, which is now in remission. And in March, she was diagnosed with an immune disease that affects her B cell memory. “After each of these issues, we work to rally and look for our blessings, which are many,” said Renee. “Then we try to dance in the proverbial rain because we know that it never rains forever. There’s always going to be sun on the horizon!” NEBRASKA NATIVES Ron and Renee were both born and raised in Nebraska. After high school, Ron enlisted in the Army. He served for four years, then enrolled at the University of Nebraska at Lincoln, where he met Renee.

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“We met at a music store where he worked, and I told my friend he was the most handsome man,” said Renee. “My friend said ‘Renee, I think he’s out of your league,’ to which I replied, ‘Just watch!’” Their first date was at a Spaghetti Works followed by tennis. The rest is history. Their first child, Ellen, was born in Nebraska. Three weeks later, the family packed up and moved to Houston where Renee started working as an event planner at IBM. “The hardest part about leaving Nebraska was leaving behind our friends and family, but we were excited to live in Houston,” she said. “We both loved Houston, they have such wonderful restaurants, every type of food you can think of, the Tex-Mex was amazing! We also loved all of the cultural events and night life.” Six years later, Ron’s job transferred the family to Tampa, where they lived for two years before another job transfer brought them to Northern Virginia. The family has lived in Dominion Valley ever since – 17 years. Ron works in project management for NTT Data. Renee is a stay-at-home mom who substitute teaches at Alvey, Buckland Mills and Gravely Elementary Schools. THREE DAUGHTERS Ellen graduated from Battlefield High School then earned a bachelor’s degree from James Madison University and a master’s degree from Georgetown University. She lives in Alexandria and is a consultant for Eagle Hill Consulting.

Ruby is a seventh grader at Bull Run Middle School. She plays TOPS Soccer, a soccer program for kids with special needs, and also participates with the Special Olympics in activities such as bowling and bocce ball. “Ruby is also active in a group that we created over a year ago called the Social Butterflies,” said Renee, who explained that studies have shown that loneliness greatly impacts kids with disabilities as they become teens. “We created this group to facilitate social interaction among girls her age with Down syndrome who live in Northern Virginia.”

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To date, the group has organized dance lessons taught by the Battlefield High School dance team, a tea party, bowling, a farm tour, and a “Zombies 2” pajama-movie party. “COVID has put a damper on the group’s in-person activities, but the girls Zoom and text,” said Renee. “Although Ruby loves her friends, her favorite people are Ellen and Georgia. Although Ellen doesn’t live with us, she’s still ‘her person,’ she works to maintain a close relationship with her. They do ‘sister sleepovers’ and FaceTime frequently. Her sisters are just her favorite!”

campaign promoting inclusive language and the elimination of the R-word and other disrespectful words,” said Renee. “She loves art and laughing and socializing with her friends.” FAMILY TIME Renee said the family enjoys spending time in D.C. visiting monuments and museums, picnicking on the Mall, flying kites, visiting battlefields, and taking in all of the history this region has to offer. They also enjoy beach vacations at Sea Colony in Bethany, Del., with family and friends. And, of course, they love to visit Walt Disney World as often as possible. But mostly, they are truly passionate about advocating for Ruby, Down syndrome, inclusion and disability acceptance.

Georgia is a seventh-grade honor roll student at Ronald Reagan Middle School. She played volleyball on both the school team and a club team. As a Ronald Regan Mustang Ambassador who displays leadership by demonstrating R.I.D.E.R (responsibility, integrity, discipline, enthusiasm, respect) values, she is partnered with new students to give school tours, assist with schedules and lockers, and generally help new students feel welcome.

“I enjoy writing and I frequently write about our disability journey on my personal Facebook page,” said Renee. “I know that many people don’t understand disability so I share our journey. I share our joys, our medical issues, our pitfalls, but mostly her spicy and fun personality.”

“She is a member of the No Place for Hate Club where she works diligently on the ‘Spread the Word to End the Word’

Renee said her goal is to show people that Ruby is more alike than different when included in everyday activities.

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“It not only helps Ruby, obviously, but it helps others in becoming more accepting and tolerant,” said Renee. “I also work to educate our friends and their kids about usage of the R-word, how hurtful and demeaning it is to those with a disability. I believe that if I start with our friends and family, it will have a ripple effect, it can reverberate throughout our school, community, our entire area!” To spread awareness, the family has taken part in the DSANV Down Syndrome Buddy Walk and Spread the Word to End the Word campaigns. They celebrate World Down Syndrome Day March 21 each year. “That date is symbolic because it represents three copies (March is the third month) of the 21st chromosome, or Trisomy 21,” said Renee. “On World Down Syndrome Day we ask people to wear silly socks to support Down syndrome awareness and inclusion in community, classrooms and the workplace! It’s so fun to see everyone post pictures of themselves and their kids in silly socks. It warms our heart and gives us such a sense of acceptance and community.” “SPARE” TIME In his down time, Ron enjoys hiking and orienteering and

spends lots of time outdoors on the Appalachian Trail and in Prince William Forest Park. Renee loves to read and is a member of two book clubs. “I like to socialize, meet new people, and learn new things,” she said, adding that she created two social groups, one for Dominion Valley residents and one for those beyond her neighborhood. “Both groups sole purpose is purely social and fun, a wonderful way to meet or get to know each other and do some fun things together,” she said. “It’s been a nice way to experience things that I never would have experienced, like cooking competitions and classes, learning to knit, trapeze lessons, goat yoga, horseback riding, cookie decorating, ax throwing and other social activities like wine festivals.” Recently, Renee was awarded the Dominion Valley Country Club Good Citizens Award. “I do truly love our neighborhood, there’s so much to do and we’ve met so many wonderful people,” she said. “Although it’s large, it has a true community atmosphere and feel, where neighbors look out for each other. I love raising our kids here, there’s so much to do for them. The schools are wonderful, and we’ve all met so many forever friends!” Do you know a family that has an interesting story to share or who owns a business and might like to be featured in the magazine? Let us know! Send an email with the contact information to dwykowski@bestversionmedia.com.

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PET CORNER

Sponsored by A Dog’s Day Out

Fun in the Snow Five-year-old Riley loves the snow!

Banner and Bucky

Meet Banner (labradoodle) & Bucky (rescue mix). Banner is 4 years old and Bucky is 1 year old. Bucky keeps Banner on his toes on a daily basis! Both love peanut butter and daily walks.

Introducing: Peanut

The Rebelo family never dreamed they’d add a hamster to the family … until they adopted Peanut.

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By Marianne Weaver • SHOW US YOUR PETS!

To see your pet featured here, send an email to mweaver@ bestversionmedia.com. Be sure to include a high-resolution photo of your pet, along with his or her name, age and a short introduction.


Clifton Community Woman’s Club

Virtual C.A.R.E.S. Fundraiser: Open to All

Submitted by the Clifton Community Woman’s Club

• Education - video or PDF of any type of class, teaching or instruction

The Clifton Community Woman’s Club, a locally well-known 501(c)3 organization, is holding its fundraiser virtually this year to benefit their charitable trust. Each year they give approximately $20,000 to scholarships, food banks, veterans, women and children in need, and others.

• Service - photos of person with materials being created and/or donated as a volunteer

C.A.R.E.S. is an acronym for Creative, Arts, Recording, Education, and Service. Participants will enter a photo or three-minute video of their project with an entrance fee of $25. The five categories include: • Creative - crafts, fiber, paper, wood • Arts - painting, sculpture, poetry, creative writing, photography • Recording - video of music, dance, stories, dramatic reading, acting

Submissions are open until Wednesday, March 31, to all age groups. Children’s participation is welcome. Winners in each category will be recognized on ZOOM Saturday, April 17, with first place winners in each category receiving $100 and second place winners receiving $50. Children’s first place winners will receive a certificate of achievement. All will receive certificates of participation. For more information watch our video at the competition website cliftoncwc.org/cares. This contest is not sponsored by or endorsed by Best Version Media in any way.

BATTLEFIELD HIGH SCHOOL

FOOTBALL

By Marianne Weaver Are you ready for some football? Prince William County high schools football season begins in February. Although under the most recent executive order from Governor Northam, only 25 spectators are permitted per field, Prince William County Public Schools have a plan for remote spectators. Through a cooperative arrangement with The NFHS Network, two Pixellot cameras have been installed at every PWCS high school. The cameras are unmanned, computercontrolled panoramic cameras that bring automated live and on-demand coverage. To subscribe, visit www.nfhsnetwork.com.

SCHEDULE 2/26.... Battlefield vs. John Champe....7 p.m. 3/5..... Battlefield vs. Unity Reed........7 p.m. 3/12.... Battlefield @ John Champe......7 p.m. 3/19.... Battlefield @ Osbourn Park......7 p.m. 3/26.... Battlefield vs. Osbourn............7 p.m. 4/1..... Battlefield vs Patriot...............7 p.m. 4/9..... Varsity Region Semifinals 4/16.... Varsity Region Finals Schedule is subject to change. Check bobcatspride.org for updates. BULL RUN MOUNTAIN NEIGHBORS

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BUSINESS PROFILE

Stover Insurance Agency: 25 Years of Experience Submitted by Stover Insurance Agency

As the owner and agency principal, Eddy Lang manages Stover Insurance. Stover Insurance is local, licensed independent insurance agency located in the town of Haymarket. Stover Insurance is committed to providing superior service with an independent price to both area families and businesses. Eddy grew up in Northern Virginia and has been a resident of Haymarket for the past 18 years. He has more than 25 years of experience in the insurance industry helping to determine what policies and coverages best fit the needs of both individuals and companies. Eddy specializes in home, auto and business insurance. As an independent agency, Stover represents a wide variety of carriers that gives them the ability to offer a multitude of additional options to clients that a typical captured company may not. Eddy believes strongly that it is important when it

comes to insurance that people understand that insurance is asset protection and everyone’s situation is different. Insurance should be tailored specifically to fit the needs of an individual or company. Not only is price important but it is just as important to make sure to have the proper coverages in place. If a person, family or business are not properly covered it could end up costing more out of pocket than people realize. Currently, Stover is one of the leading insurance agencies in Northern Virginia and continuing to grow because of their commitment in providing great customer service and knowledge of insurance to their clients and the community. Stover Insurance Agency • Eddy Lang 571-261-2700 • haymarket@stoveragency.com www.stoveragency.com

HGBACORNER By Doug Burum, President No meetings are scheduled, due to the need to help stop the community spread of the COVID-19 virus. On behalf of the entire board, we are thinking of you and praying for your health and safety. You and your business are important, and we are still here to help. Please contact us through our website below, or our Facebook pages. WHY JOIN HGBA? • Networking - Find new businesses or find a local, trusted source to help your business grow. • Community Involvement - Give back to our community through partnerships with local organizations. • Marketing - Through our directories, community outreach and mobile app, we bring attention to our local businesses. • Value - No other area business organization delivers the combination of business opportunity, marketing and voice for a nominal membership fee. TO LEARN MORE ABOUT HGBA Download the Wild Apricot Member app use • hgba.wildapricot.org Login hgbaguest@hgba.biz • Password hgba1234 FOLLOW US ON facebook.com/HGBizA • twitter.com/HGBABIZ • hgbabiz.com/linkedin

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PROCESS: Making the Plan to Reach Your Goal EXPERT CONTRIBUTOR By Claire Johnson Machosky BA, MS, SAS, Book Author

“Ask your children about their goals and listen to what they want to do. Discuss how they could achieve their goals. Their input will give you insights on how to help them ‘start with the end in mind’*.” – A Path to Learning and Literacy, A Note to Parents, page 45 Working smart is learning to work toward achieving one’s goals. It is not working fast or finding short-cuts; those habits only lead to stress. If you recall in my last article, I emphasized the importance of Identifying the Task, because it is important to know what to do before figuring out how to do it. Process is designing a plan of action! Parents can help their children identify and plan the steps needed to successfully do assignments. Your child should talk about a plan for doing a homework assignment, a plan for completing

an extended project, a plan for preparing to take a test, and in today’s environment, a plan for attending classes virtually. Encourage your children to talk about how they plan to do their work. It will help them organize their ideas, identify the materials needed and create ideas for following through and completing work. Talk with your child about “starting with the end in mind.” Ask him/her to describe what an excellent project looks like. Starting with the end in mind gives one the ability to visualize his/her completed task: an excellent rating on homework, an A+ grade on a project, a superior test grade. It is a beginning step to setting goals. Together, set a goal and ask your child to list the steps he/she thinks are needed to reach that goal. Visualize it; think about following the steps you listed to reach that goal. Your child now knows the must-do actions to get the grade wanted. Reassure your child that he/she is capable of the hard work required and of your confidence in their ability. Explain how there are no short-cuts. It is important to plan enough time to complete the assignment/project/test prep and do the required readings. To plan for the needed time, estimate how much time should be needed to do an excellent job then add another 10 percent. For example, if you have an upcoming test and your estimated study time is two hours, add other 15 to 20 minutes to your study time to allow for clarifying information. If you don’t need it – great! But remember, it is better to plan than cram! Determine how you will spread out that time, maybe over two or three separate study sessions on different days. Reading is an area that is too often short changed. I have two tips to greatly improve understanding of content: Preview and Summarize! Preview reading assignments by looking over the assigned reading section and notice all headings in boldface print; rephrase those headings into questions to be answered by your reading and look for all words in italics as they are key

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words that you need to add to your vocabulary. Now read and summarize what you have read. You should be able to answer the questions you identified in previewing the assignment, and you should know new vocabulary. Most students fail to realize how essential reading is to all learning. If you employ the above steps to all reading, you will increase you reading speed, and develop a remarkable vocabulary. PROCESS: MAKING THE PLAN TO REACH YOUR GOAL The following are a few checklist items to help children and parents with a personal plan for completing all assignments and preparing for all tests. » Plan how to use your time before you begin your homework or studying for a test. » Preview reading assignments and read for information and understanding. » Review work for accuracy and following instructions. » Check that work is complete and submitted on time. Routinely check your work and be assured that satisfaction and accomplishment will be your intrinsic rewards. NEXT MONTH’S TOPIC: LISTENING Claire Johnson Machosky BA, MS, SAS, is a parent and educator dedicated to helping all children learn to study and succeed. She is the author of “A Path to Learning and Literacy.” *Stephen R. Covey – “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People,” 1989.

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Sponsored by Minneland Academy

KIDS CORNER

Battlefield High School Boys Basketball By Marianne Weaver Photo courtesy of Battlefield High School The Battlefield High School boys varsity basketball team finished the regular season with an impressive 8-3 conference record.

Do you know a youth with an interesting story to share, a business venture, academic or athletic achievement? Let us know! Send an email with the contact information to mweaver@bestversionmedia.com.

Girl Scout Troop 74 and the American Red Cross to Host Blood Drive in March By Marianne Weaver Junior Girl Scout Troop 74 is hosting a blood drive with the American Red Cross and Dominion Valley Country Club to earn their Bronze Award. Did you know that the need for blood is constant and only volunteer donors can fulfill that need for patients in the community? Nationwide, someone needs a unit of blood every 2 to 3 seconds and most of us will need blood in our lifetime. One blood donor can save up to three lives! Approximately 36,000 units of red blood cells are needed every day in the United States. The American Red Cross provides about 40 percent of blood in the United States, but it’s not enough because only 3 percent of eligible people donate blood each year. Please consider donating blood Friday, March 19. DRIVE DETAILS: Site/Address: Dominion Valley Country Club, 15200 Arnold Palmer Drive, Haymarket Room Name: Waverly Ballroom Date: Friday March 19, 2021 • Time: 1 p.m. – 6 p.m. Blood Program Leader Names: Adeline Lorenzi, Isla Vettickal and Emily Ray • Email: girlscouttroop74@gmail.com APPOINTMENT LINK: www.redcrossblood.org/give.html/drive-results?zipSponsor= JuniorTroop74

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CALENDAR of EVENTS Throughout the month of March DOMINION VALLEY BOOK DRIVE! In honor Dr. Seuss Day ( March 2), Dominion Valley is collecting children’s books throughout the month of March. Bring your new/gently used children’s books to one of our drop-off locations at the clubhouse, sports pavilion and pro-shop. All donations will benefit a local children’s charity. Please call (571) 222-6900 with any questions. Thursday, March 18 SETTING UP YOUR GARDEN SPACE, BEGINNING VEGETABLE GARDENER SERIES @ Zoom Learn how to choose and prepare an area suitable for a vegetable garden. This session will cover the importance and steps for testing the soil and making appropriate amendments before planting—including using compost as a soil amendment— and some tips for growing in raised beds. Registration required and space is limited. Time: 7 p.m. – 8 p.m. nsvmga.org/events/2021-webinars Saturday, April 10 – Friday, April 30 VIRTUAL WALK FOR LITERACY Quaker Custom Homes presents a virtual Walk-a-thon to benefit BEACON for Adult Literacy. Walk two, three or five miles, individually or in a team! For more information or to register, visit beaconliteracy.org

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Saturday, April 24 CRAWLIN’4 GRACIE’S GOWNS 2021 @ 11850 Livingston Road, Suite 105 Manassas The fourth annual Crawlin’ for Gracie’s Gowns will be held at Finlay Fire in Manassas. There will be fun activities for children, food, vendors, and of course, Jeeps! All proceeds benefit Gracie’s Gowns, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization - so contest fees and donations are tax-deductible. Time: 1 p.m. – 6 p.m. • Cost: Free For questions, comments, concerns, please contact Tara Anderson, Tara101689@gmail. com, (804)-572-8691 or Gracie’s Gowns, jessica@graciesgowns.org, (540)-287-0143 Sunday, April 25 FESTIVAL OF COLORS 2021HOLI DC @ Bull Run Park Special Events Center, 7700 Bull Run Drive, Centreville Colors, shopping, music, dance, food, drinks and fun. Time: Noon-8 p.m. • Cost: $7 - $50 festivalofcolorsdc.com Saturday, May 8 MANASSAS VIKING FESTIVAL @ Historic Old Town Manassas Time: 10 a.m.– 5 p.m. • Cost: Free manassasvikingfest@gmail.com

Monday, May 17 BOYS & GIRLS CLUBS OF FAUQUIER CHARITY GOLF OUTING @ Evergreen Country Club, Haymarket Save the Date! -- Look for more details in the coming weeks. Please reach out to Deanna Hammer with any questions at Deanna@bgcfauquier.org Saturday, June 5 VINTAGE VIRGINIA WINE & FOOD FESTIVAL @ Bull Run Park Special Events Center, 7700 Bull Run Drive, Centreville Guests can enjoy not only wine and ciders from Virginia’s best producers, but also more than 50 Virginia-crafted beers and spirits. Time: 11 a.m. –6 p.m. • Cost: $10 - $99 drinkeatrelax.com Sunday, June 27 PWC EATZ AND BREW FESTIVAL 2021 @ Manassas Mall, 8300 Sudley Road, Manassas PWC’s newest family spring festival will include food vendors, exhibitors, shopping, kids’ events, music, entertainment and more. Time: Noon- 5 p.m. • Cost: Free PWCEatzandBrew.com Event information may be out of date due to the COVID-19. Confirm details with event organizers.

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Nonfiction … It Doesn’t Need to Be A Painful Read Aloud By Tammy Hinkle, Librarian Growing up, my sons loved to check out nonfiction books from the school library. They were always about something I found gross … bugs, snakes, spiders. Fortunately for me, my husband did not shy away from those books. The boys knew they could go to their father and he would read and talk for hours about the topics that fascinated them. When they began bringing home these books, I realized that even in my classroom, I avoided reading nonfiction stories as a fun read aloud. The books I chose as our read aloud were fictional stories. When I moved to my position in the library, I saw on a daily basis how many children, boys and girls, checked out nonfiction books on topics they were curious about. So, I have made it a point to read more nonfiction to my classes. I’m still not going to read about snakes and spiders though. There are so many nonfiction books that are wonderful as a read aloud. Here are just a few that my students have loved. “Starstruck: The Cosmic Journey of Neil DeGrasse Tyson” by Kathleen Krull and Paul Brewer. This biography about

astrophysicist Neil DeGrasse Tyson engages the reader from the first page. The authors did a wonderful job capturing Neil’s enthusiasm for learning and his unending quest to pursue his dream of becoming a scientist even when the odds were stacked against him. Many students will see themselves in these pages. Neil talked too much in class, laughed too loud, danced, wrestled, and read everything about space he could. For you parents, if you like space, follow Neil on Twitter. I enjoy his humor and knowledge. Another biography my students enjoyed was “John Deere, That’s Who” by Tracy Nelson Maurer. I know what you’re thinking: Is this the tractor company? It is one and the same. This biography tells the story of how John began his company more than 200 years ago. The story starts with John’s failed attempts as a blacksmith in Vermont. He had to leave his family behind and head west to start over. When he was at his lowest, he recognized a need the farmers in the west had and worked to find a solution. Through his perseverance he succeeded, and his company continues on until modern times. When I first selected this book, I thought that there was no way my students were going to engage with this book, but I was willing to give it a try. I am happy to say that I was wrong. They asked so many good questions and had insights that I didn’t see coming. The more we talked, the more they wanted to know. The next story that my students really enjoyed was “The Boo-Boos That Changed the World: A True Story about and Accidental Invention (Really!)” by Barry Wittenstein. This is the story of the inventor of Band-Aids. One hundred years ago, Earle Dickenson invented the Band-Aid to help his accidentprone wife. My students loved that fact that something they use ALL THE TIME almost didn’t make it. The story tell how they

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couldn’t even give the first BandAid’s away, but through several failed attempts, Earle figured out how to make the Band-Aid a staple in homes all over the world. Another favorite of my students was “Whoosh: Lonnie Johnson’s Super Soaking Stream of Inventions” by Chris Barton. This is the story of the inventor of the Super Soaker Water Gun, Lonnie Johnson. The story starts off when Lonnie was young and curious about how things worked. He took everything apart and may have caused a small fire in the kitchen. His mom promptly moved him to an outside work area but did not discourage him from his exploration. Lonnie goes on to invent many toys without any success as a businessman. He does not give up though. Eventually, it is his Super Soaker that is his breakthrough invention. The kids loved learning about Lonnie, all the challenges he faced, and how he eventually succeeded at doing what he loves to do, invent toys. My students loved “Curiosity: The Story of the Mars Rover” by Markus Motum. This story is told from the point of view of Curiosity. My younger students loved that Curiosity was telling his own story. My older students loved all the facts that the

author included. The best part was seeing so many kids go right back to the space section of the library and checking more books out on this topic. Another book about space my students really enjoyed was “Go for The Moon: A Rocket, a Boy, and The First Moon Landing” by Chris Gall. This book tells two stories at the same time. The first is the events leading up to and including the first moon landing. There is plenty of details and descriptions to keep any space enthusiastic engaged. The second story is of a little boy who is watching the events unfold during this time period. It shows how excited people where to watch this historic event happen. The last two books are “Hawk Rising” and “Coyote Moon” by Maria Gianferrari. These books look at animals you might not expect to find in your neighborhood. Maria does an excellent job of telling the story of how coyotes and hawks live right alongside humans. The illustrations done by Brian Floca and Bagram Ibatoulline are amazing. I hope a few of these books your child will find interesting and lead to more reading!

Happy Reading! Follow me on Twitter: Buckland Mills Elementary School @hinkle_tammy

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Celebrating Differences: March is World Down Syndrome Awareness Month By Marianne Weaver Down syndrome (Trisomy 21) is a naturally occurring chromosomal arrangement that presents across racial, gender and socioeconomic lines and causes varying degrees of intellectual and physical disability and associated medical issues. According to the United Nations, the estimated incidence of Down syndrome is between 1 in 1,000 to 1 in 1,100 live births worldwide. Each year, approximately 3,000 to 5,000 children are born with this chromosome disorder. In December 2011, the General Assembly of the United Nations declared March 21 as World Down Syndrome Day. The number of individuals in Northern Virginia diagnosed with an intellectual and developmental disability (IDD), including Down syndrome, is 39,000. Individuals with Down syndrome and their families are served by the Down Syndrome Association of Northern Virginia (DSANV). Founded in 1972 as MOMS, the organization was renamed Parents of Down Syndrome in the ’80s before becoming the Down Syndrome Association of Northern Virginia (DSANV) in 2004. “During the period of restructuring, DSANV morphed from an all-volunteer organization to a professional organization with staff,” said Mary Ford,

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DSANV executive director. “Today we are still in the process of moving along that continuum slowly adding staff as we can successfully raise funds to do so. We also continue to rely on the contributions of volunteers from board members to parents to talented college student interns.” MEETING NEEDS The organization has grown to more than 1,600 members representing the many thousands of individuals in the Northern Virginia area who have Down syndrome. Families tap into DSANV programming, including hands-on classes and webinars, social and recreational programs, parent support programs, and community building events. Alison Pondo of Haymarket found the organization in June 2015 shortly after receiving her daughter’s prenatal diagnosis.

Six years later, the Pondos are still very active with DSANV. The organization that supported her newborn has offered classes and clubs that have grown along with her.

“The DSANV has truly supported Lottie and our family from the start,” said Pondo. “Before she was born, we were supported by the DSANV’s new parent coordinator and connected with another local ‘mentor’ family who was able to answer questions and lend an understanding ear. We were also connected with other families with young children (3 and under) at the DSANV‘s new parent breakfasts.”

“Lottie is now in her third year of the DSANV’s Learning Program,” said Pondo. “This program has been instrumental in helping us become more effective first teachers to Lottie by teaching us skills to adapt our approach to learning to her cognitive profile. The DSANV has also been a huge information resource, connecting us with medical professionals and other community groups throughout the course of Lottie’s life.”

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THE PROGRAMS Hands-On • The Learning Program teaches students with Down syndrome literacy, math, communication and fine motor skills. Parents are taught to be effective first teachers. • The Cooking Club uses Janice Goldschmidt’s “Teaching Authentic Cooking Skills to Adults with Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities: Active Engagement.” Families learn to prepare meals together, make healthy eating choices, and promote independence in the kitchen. • Relationshapes is based on the award-winning Circles® curriculum. Students learn social and relationship boundaries, interpersonal skills, and relationship-specific social skills. • Adults with Down syndrome conduct self-advocate led webinars in which they share their experiences in navigating higher education, employment, disability advocacy, and other topics of their choice. • Books and Buddies is a summer book club for school-aged children with Down syndrome conducted by licensed speech therapists. Social and Recreational Programs • DSANV partners with Washington Speech to hold monthly BINGO, promoting speech skills in a fun social setting and also partners with the Young Men’s Service League for additional BINGO to include weekly sessions in the summer. • DSANV hosts movie watch parties and webinar dance parties. When the pandemic subsides, there will be

Show Your Support: Rock Your Odd Socks March 21 Down Syndrome International, a United Kingdom-based international disabled people’s organization, created the #LotsOfSocks campaign to raise awareness about Down syndrome. It’s easy to participate: On Sunday, March 21, wear your craziest mismatched sock combo. When asked about them, respond: “I’m wearing them to raise awareness of Down syndrome.” Spread the awareness online with #LotsOfSocks. movie outings, trips to the water park, and other in-person activities. • Champion football is a non-contact, modified flag football style game providing the excitement and camaraderie of team football. Parent Support Programs • New parent breakfasts are quarterly community-building events for parents with a diagnosis or who have recently welcomed a child with Down syndrome. • Expert speakers and training sessions are offered on a variety of subjects covering educational, medical, legal and social services topics. • Dads Appreciating Down Syndrome (DADS) is a monthly social meeting for fathers of children with Down syndrome. Community-Building Events • World Down Syndrome Day is March 21. DSANV invites the community to join in Down syndrome awareness and advocacy celebrations.

• Spring picnic is hosted by DSANV to facilitate interaction among the Down syndrome community of Northern Virginia where members interact and learn from each other. • Buddy Walk® and Family Festival is DSANV’s largest annual fundraiser and community event, which brings old and new members together, with their extended families and friends, to celebrate Down syndrome and to make possible DSANV programming throughout the year. DSANV looks forward to returning to Signal Hill Park for this popular event, possibly in 2021. • The annual holiday party brings together member families for a breakfast buffet, a DJ, children’s games and family portraits with Santa.

“More than anything, the DSANV has provided us with a sense of community and lasting friendships forged through a mutual desire for all people with Down syndrome to be contributing members in our community and to lead meaningful and fulfilled lives,” said Pondo. “This sense of community and friendship is tangible each year at the Annual DSANV Buddy Walk, which has become one of our family’s favorite days of the year.” To learn more about DSANV, visit dsanv.org.

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Haymarket Gainesville Library to Unveil

A Pollinator and Native Plants Garden Article and Photos by Linda Larsen Libraries have always been more than just four walls to house books. As Prince William Public Libraries (PWPL) commits to exploring and introducing even more ways to make our libraries versatile and inviting, Haymarket Gainesville Library is doing its part with a new Pollinator and Native Plants Garden. The garden project – scheduled to break ground this month – will increase the number of birds, bees and pollinators in the area by developing a natural habitat comprised of native plantings. Imagine dogwood flowers, the Virginia state flower, bursting open and dotting the trees in the spring; imagine redbud trees blooming and maple trees changing from light greens to dark greens to blazing reds, yellows and oranges through the seasons; imagine shrubs providing protection for birds, bees and pollinators and sustaining birds through the winter. Imagine children gathered to listen to story time or participate in a nature program while shaded by trees; imagine a book

The committee, comprised of members who live in Prince William County, began meeting in January 2020 to discuss planning for the Haymarket/Gainesville Pollinator/Native Plants Library Garden Project, the Eagle Scout Garden, and an herb garden near the historic Bushy House.

club in a group discussion about the nuances of an author’s meaning; imagine sitting on a bench or boulder reading poetry, or meditating, or feeling a fresh breeze on a warm day. This will all be possible thanks to the efforts of many in making the Pollinator and Native Plants Garden a reality. The new garden received initial funding through a grant provided by ChangeX, a nonprofit organization supported by Microsoft. Additional funding was donated by Friends of the Library and individual donors. The concept of a garden on the grounds of the library was inspired by Gay Koerber and me, both residents of Haymarket. Gay and I called upon community members to form a committee through the cooperative efforts of Jessica Scalph, branch administrator at Haymarket Gainesville Library and Karen Nizialek, president of the Friends of the Library. The committee included Henry Smith of Prince William County Facilities and Buildings; Nancy Vehrs, president of the Native Plants Society and president of the Prince William County Native Plants Society; members of the Regency Garden Club; Heritage Hunt Garden Club; Friends of the Library; and others. Jill Lehman, a landscape designer and Rotary Club member, offered her services to the group. She developed a comprehensive plan, which was approved by the committee. Estimates were researched and a contract was signed with Meadows Farms Nurseries to begin work in spring 2021. The committee met several times, outdoors, to survey the southwestern portion of land. This area of land is close to the children’s section of the library, and there are many spacious windows throughout the library that overlook the future garden. The committee found a way to connect the rural theme of the library’s interior to nature out of doors. The committee also addressed water sources, maintenance of the garden, and accessibility to the garden. The committee encourages the community to support the library by checking out books and by supporting future book sales and plant sales that benefit the garden. Financial contributions will fund an herb garden at the historic Busy House, located on the library grounds, as well as a revitalization of the Eagle Scout Garden. This garden is located behind the library and it will become the recipient of native plantings in the fall. For more information, contact Linda Larsen at lklebrlarsen@comcast.net.

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