Keep it short and sweet

There’s nothing worse than being stuck on a bad date – that’s the stuff of nightmares. I typically recommend a drinks-and-appetizers date for my clients because it’s casual, fun, and comfortable for most people, but it also allows for a more graceful exit in case it’s needed. Even if it’s a great date, it’s easy to overstay your welcome. You aren’t supposed to learn everything about this person on the first date, so leave some room for mystery. Better to err on the side of leaving them wanting more, especially if you’re drinking. Six cocktails deep isn’t anyone’s best look.

Dating is very vulnerable: you’re showing up to meet a stranger in hopes that they will like you. The fear of rejection triggers our deepest insecurities and can shake us to our core. For this reason, some people spend the whole date wondering what the other person is thinking and trying to behave in a way that will win their approval. This is a waste of your time and theirs. You have no idea what the other person is thinking and frankly, it’s irrelevant. Stay present in your own experience of the interaction and authentic to who you really are. Trust yourself and remember that you’re seeking someone who will like you exactly as you are. After the date is over, make your decision based on how YOU felt, not your assumptions of how they did.

Guests enjoyed the view from the top at The Davenport Social Club to celebrate the launch of The City Magazine’s June issue, which showcased the community’s leading men in business who are taking the city of El Paso to new heights.

Ethos Financial hosted an appreciation dinner at the El Paso Country Club to celebrate success and support.

Guests enjoyed meaningful conversation, making connections, and looking ahead to the future.