Today's Charlotte Woman August 2013

AUGUST 2013 VOL 17 | NO 4 | COMPLIMENTARY

Erica Bryant Gives Good News

Home Tour Kerri Robusto’s Amazing Abode

The Success Issue

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Editor’s Letter Run Your Own Race

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10 Girl Time Tips,Trends And Fancies

22 Wine Up

14 Eventful

A Hidden Jewel Of A Wine

Goings On Around The Queen City

24 At Home

16 Anchored In Success Erica Bryant Gives Good News

Kerri Robusto’s Amazing Baxter Abode

40 A Purposeful Life Give Yourself The Gift Of Intentionality

42 Style

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58 The Final Word Success: A Personal Definition

32 Special Advertising Section: Spotlight On Success Allergy Asthma & Immunology Relief (AAIR) Of Charlotte Huntersville Family Fitness & Aquatics Suzanne Bird, Braces By Bird Tricia Sisson,The Range At Lake Norman

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OnTheCover Erica Bryant, WSOC television news broadcaster, on location at Bebe Gallini’s.

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Run Your Own Race n our cover story on WSOC television newscaster Erica Bryant, the TV personality offers positive advice that hit home for me. In the story, she encourages people to, “Remember on this journey, don’t compare yourself to others. Run your own race.”

It’s excellent advice. And not advice I can always seem to follow.

As much as I like to consider myself grounded and happy with who I am, I tend to fall victim to that truly feminine phenomenon where you compare yourself mercilessly to all the other females in the room. It’s a wicked game. Maybe you’ve played it before? The game is called “I’m Not Good Enough.”

It often begins with an event … perhaps a high-school reunion, a birthday party in a fancy restaurant, or maybe even a tee-ball game. Maybe it’s a trip to the pool, or the gym, for that matter. You begin the game with your self-esteem intact, relatively happy with your hair, body, clothing choices and moral fiber … until that woman walks in the room, looking so gorgeous or thin or successful that envy clouds your brain. It comes over you like a thunderstorm. Suddenly, you hate the outfit you are wearing, the style of your hair, your eyes, you. You don’t see all of your God-given blessings; instead, you only see what you are not.

Nine times out of 10, you wind up feeling like dog meat.

An area where I often play the “I’m Not Good Enough” game is when it comes to my career.

In the world of journalism, television broadcasters are at the top of the food chain. Those in radio are a very close second. Editors and writers of magazines are somewhat lower on the rungs of

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success. Or, at least, that’s how my clouded mind sees it at times.

Many moons ago, I was a NASCAR reporter. I still remember the sting I felt when famous drivers would rebuff me for interviews, then fall all over themselves being funny and friendly to the reporter beside me who just happened to have a camera crew with him/her.

I decided to leave NASCAR, but I have second-guessed the decision many times.

Looking back, I’ve often wondered if, had I stayed in NASCAR, I could have made the jump to television reporter? I think of Erin Andrews, arguably one of the most successful woman sports anchors today, and I go green. Could I have become more successful, better paid, happier, if only I hadn’t jumped the NASCAR ship to get my master’s degree?

Before long, I’ve convinced myself I’ve fallen short of my childhood career aspirations.

Thankfully, I always bring myself back to reality. I remember how much I hate speaking in public. How I despise interviewing famous people who really don’t want to talk to me in the first place.

How I love working from home, and interfacing with local Charlotte women who are excited to be a part of my chosen publication. How I enjoy being an everpresent force in my child’s life, and how I can wear jeans nearly every single day!

In essence, when I stop thinking about what I’m not — rich, famous, well known, “successful” — I can remember all the things I am. And that’s when I can begin to run a good race, all over again.

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Spreading The Love Condiment Is Conduit To Fame ost people don’t enjoy a claim to fame due to their fondness for condiments. But for Michelle Hart of Mooresville, her affinity for Duke’s Mayonnaise — a Southern tradition, we must admit — gained her the recognition of the 125-year-old company and a spot in a national television commercial.

Hart wasn’t planning on entering the Lights, Camera, Duke’s Contest, which was posted on the company’s Facebook page. Contestants were asked to record a video

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6 tablespoons unsweetened cocoa 3 cups all purpose flour 1 tablespoon baking soda 1/4 teaspoon salt 1 1/2 cups sugar 1 1/2 cups of Duke’s Mayonnaise 1 1/2 teaspoon pure vanilla extract 1 1/2 cups cold water Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Grease and flour two 8-inch pans. Sift cocoa, flour, baking soda, salt and sugar into a medium bowl and mix well. In a large bowl, combine mayonnaise, vanilla and water with an electric mixer at low speed. Once smooth, slowly add in dry mixture until just incorporated (do not over-beat). Pour batter into cake pans and bake for 30 minutes, or until done. Cool on wire racks.

Note: Hart says that you can use any icing, but it’s fantastic with a chocolate butter cream icing!

detailing why they love the brand of mayonnaise, and upload it to the company’s page.

“At first, I wasn’t going to enter the contest,” Hart says.

“I just commented on a status that Duke’s had up on Facebook asking what lengths you went to in order to get Duke’s. Then they posted again, saying they wanted a video from me! So I just sat down and videoed myself telling my story of what I did so I could enjoy Duke’s Mayonnaise.”

Hart, who was born and raised in Mooresville, says her video wasn’t anything special. In it, she explained that while living in Colorado, she couldn't buy Duke's ... and

couldn’t live without it. “My husband was stationed in Colorado for the Army and when we moved out there you couldn’t get Duke’s,” Hart explains. “So between my mom and my grandmother, they took turns mailing me Duke’s because I wouldn’t buy any other mayo.”

The company was so intrigued by Hart’s testimonial that they selected her to be one of three winners.

“Michelle was selected because of her authenticity, and because her love of Duke’s came through in the video.

She’s a great example of a Duke’s fan,” says Erin Hatcher, Duke’s Mayonnaise brand manager.

The winners starred in national television commercials.

“I am in one of the five versions of the commercial that are airing all over the country,” Hart says. “Besides hearing myself on TV and seeing my three sons’ faces light up when they see me on TV, there are no other perks. But it was a great experience.”

Hart truly prefers Duke’s Mayonnaise.

“I absolutely love Duke’s,” she says. “I refuse to buy anything else. I was raised on Duke’s. My mom uses it, my grandma used it, and it’s the only thing any of us will buy.

If one store is out, I’ll go to another to find it!”

In addition to sandwiches, Hart uses the mayonnaise in many recipes, including hamburgers (she mixes the mayo directly into the meat). Left, Hart shares her recipe for a chocolate cake featuring, of course, Duke’s Mayonnaise.

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ary Nell McPherson, executive director of Freedom School Partners, is passionate about two things: children and books.

When she joins the two together, she is completely in her element.

Since 1999, McPherson has worked tirelessly in the community to help prevent summertime learning loss for low-income children. She was originally hired as the sole employee of Freedom School Partners (formerly Seigle Avenue Partners), which served

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100 children in its first year. Last year, the nonprofit served 1,550 children at 25 sites.

McPherson’s work is sorely needed in the Charlotte community. According to data from the Foundation For The Carolinas, over 50,000 children are in need, and only 10 percent of children in all CharlotteMecklenburg schools take part in summer programming. Here, McPherson shares her passion, and explains the little things we can all do to encourage children.

Q: Why is the Freedom School Partners dear to your heart?

A: I love the work of Freedom School Partners for three reasons. Through this

terrific summer learning program, we have an incredible impact on scholars (the 1,200 school-age children served in Freedom School this year), servant leader interns (the 142 college students hired to work as the inspirational leaders for scholars in Freedom School), and the community (hundreds of volunteers who engage in many ways to support children, families and schools through Freedom Schools). For the scholars, we strengthen literacy skills and ignite children’s passion for reading; develop character strengths that children need to make good decisions; and connect children to a broader community that believes in them. The college students are developing leadership skills to become strong advocates for children and leaders in their schools and communities. At the

community-wide level, we cultivate meaningful partnerships that strengthen our collective commitment to children and lead to sustainable change.

Q: What is one thing everyone can do to encourage children to succeed in school … and life?

A: Everyone can be a role model by believing in children and encouraging children to read and to grow into their full potential. Taking time to speak to children, look them in the eye, really listen to how their day is going, offer a smile and a handshake, say “Hello, friend!” … these small acts of affirmation from adults to children make more difference than most people realize.

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The Friday night series welcomes families and friends to enjoy the great outdoors and a fun cinematic experience by watching family friendly movies on an impressive 30-foot screen. Each movie

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The Bard And Beyond MacBeth Comes To Town

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ut, out, out of the house and to the Booth Playhouse to enjoy the timeless production of “MacBeth” Aug. 15 through Aug. 25, hosted by the Charlotte Shakespeare Festival.

The show celebrates the eighth year of the Charlotte Shakespeare Festival, and the first time the show has been featured at the Booth. Elise Wilkinson, Charlotte Shakespeare’s artistic director, will direct the play. The show begins at 7:30 p.m. on Thursdays, 8 p.m. on Friday

and Saturday evenings, 2 p.m. for the Saturday matinee and 3 p.m. for the Sunday matinee. Admission is free but a $5 donation is encouraged and appreciated.

Advance donors can reserve seats.

WantToGo? The Booth Playhouse is located in Founder’s Hall, 130 N.Tryon Street.Visit Charlotteshakespeare.com.

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begins at dusk. Before settling down to enjoy the film, kick off Friday evenings at 7 p.m. with activities the whole family will enjoy, including a live band and delicious concessions. Bring a lawn chair and blanket, come early and enjoy the show!

Movie Schedule: Aug. 2: “Rise of the Guardians” (PG) Aug. 9: “The Croods” (PG) Aug. 16: “We Bought a Zoo” (PG) Aug. 23: “Madagascar 3” (PG)

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tir your imagination and experience the phenomenon of Disney’s well-loved musical “The Lion King”Aug. 6 through Sept. 1 at Belk Theater.

The Tony Award-winning Broadway sensation returns to the stage for the first time since 2007, and features a spectacle of animals brought to life by award-winning director Julie Taymor. From stunning visual images to the pulsating rhythms of the African Pridelands to a score featuring Elton John and the Oscar-winning song “Can You Feel The Love Tonight,” the award-winning musical will be long remembered.

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ANCHORED IN SUCCESS

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TV News Broadcaster Erica Bryant Fulfills Her Childhood Career Dream

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ebster’s dictionary defines success as “the accomplishment of an aim or purpose.” Having fulfilled her lifelong dream of becoming a news broadcaster, WSOC news anchor Erica Bryant would seem to fit that definition perfectly. Only, she doesn’t quite agree.

“Perhaps you have heard the saying, ‘Success is a journey, not a destination.’ I believe that is true. I have a successful career and a blessed life, but I really feel like I’m still on the journey. I know that God isn’t finished with me yet,” Bryant says.

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Top, Erica Bryant poses with the WSOC team at the Democratic National Convention. Above left, Bryant was the first to land an exclusive interview with Paula Broadwell after Broadwell’s relationship with General David Petraeus was revealed. Above right, Bryant with coworker Blair Miller. Far right, Bryant and Miller teamed up with Diane Sawyer at the DNC. www.TodaysCharlotteWomanMag.com | August 2013 18

Career Calling Bryant, who hails from Marietta, Ga., is one of the lucky few who found her life’s calling early on.

“From the time I was 8 or 9 years old, I knew I wanted to be a television news journalist. I never changed my mind. Every night, I watched anchorwoman Monica Kaufman Pearson on WSB-TV. She was the first woman and first minority to anchor the evening news in Atlanta. I really admired her work on the air and in the community. I knew that was what I wanted to do.”

Bryant’s parents supported her decision to decline a full scholarship to the University of Georgia to accept a partial scholarship to UNC-Chapel Hill.

“I knew it was respected as one of the best journalism programs in the country, so I became a Tarheel,” Bryant says.

Post-graduation, she snagged her first gig at WHNS in Greenville, S.C. That was followed by a stint at WCBD in Charleston, S.C., which led to her current job at WSOC — where she’s worked for nine years.

“Most people have to change sta-

tions many times to continue to grow,” Bryant says. “It’s a little unusual to have only worked at three stations over the length of my career, but I’m lucky that there’s been opportunity for growth at all of them.”

WSOC news anchor and reporter Blair Miller has known Bryant since he first got into broadcasting 15 years ago.

“We worked at the same TV station in Charleston, and the first newscast I anchored was with Erica,” he says.

“She’s an amazing woman and friend, as well as one of the classiest people I know. In our business, at any given

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moment the news of the day can drastically change our day. I have worked with Erica in many situations, while covering everything from major weather storms to unthinkable violence. Through it all, she is calm, collected and amazingly poised to be a leader in our industry.”

He adds, “I spend more time with her than I do my own family. We often joke that we know each other like brother and sister. She’s one of the most professional people I’ve ever worked with in this business and I’m so lucky to sit by someone like her every night.”

With her 44th birthday approaching next month, Bryant says she’s busily reexamining priorities, setting new goals, and adding to her bucket list … all while raising two children, anchoring three newscasts five days each week, making public appearances most weekends, and working with several nonprofit community organizations.

While her juggling act is the same as many working moms, her schedule is a bit more complicated than most. Her normal working hours are 2:30 p.m. to

11:30 p.m., but she says “normal” news days are few and far between. Breaking news can happen anytime, anywhere, and she has to be prepared to report it.

“You have to be flexible and ready to change plans and schedules at a moment’s notice,” Bryant says.

With 9-year-old son Tré and 12-yearold daughter Ashleigh, Bryant depends on a babysitter to help pick the kids up

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Bryant covets the few nights a week that she can leave the station for a dinner break and make it to her son’s basketball games, or pick up her daughter at gymnastics practice.

She arrives home every night a little before midnight and makes it a point to

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get up early in the morning to prepare breakfast and take her children to school. Four to five hours of sleep each night is the norm for Bryant.

On weekends when there are no youth tournaments or competitions, the family of three grabs every blanket and pillow they can find, cuddles up together in front of the television and watches movies. The kids take turns picking the flicks.

“Sometimes, people think I’m different just because I’m on TV. But I am the same as any other parent … driving my kids around, going to practice, helping with homework, and joining them for lunch at school. My schedule is just a bit crazier,” she says.

Success Secrets Bryant says her secrets to success are easy to define. First and foremost, faith fuels her positive outlook and resilient demeanor.

“Success is knowing that the Lord is always present. He has sustained me through my triumphs and my challenges. That knowledge brings me peace and comfort on this journey,” Bryant says.

She adds, “I am a domestic violence survivor. That experience has made me infinitely resilient. God’s grace brought me through it. I know that He was taking care of me when I couldn’t take care of myself. Success is now being in a position to help others by serving as a

board member of Safe Alliance, which runs Mecklenburg County’s newly constructed Clyde and Ethel Dickson Domestic Violence Shelter.”

Her children provide inspiration, as well. “I am blessed with two amazing children,” Bryant says. “Like any mom, I want the best for them.Working hard to provide for them fuels me.”

She has also learned the importance of choosing her friends carefully along the way.

“I think it is crucial to realize the great gift it is to be able to choose your friends. I try to surround myself with people who motivate me and support me on this journey. I also value people who possess those characteristics that I

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would like to emulate,” she says.

A few special people stand out from the crowd for Bryant.

“My mother equals unwavering strength and speaks truth,” she says. “First Lady Brenda Jones and Deaconess Daisy Walker at Friendship Missionary Baptist Church exude faith, compassion and purpose. My news director, Julie Szulczewski, is a great leader and coach.

These dynamic women — and so many others — help me stay focused on what I’d like to achieve.”

Above all, Bryant encourages others to take care not to measure success by another’s standards.

“Remember on this journey, don’t compare yourself to others,” Bryant says.

“Run your own race. Your experiences are unique to you. How each person manages circumstances will be different.

Each person will quantify or define success differently. Mold your own definition of success.” [TCW]

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hat I love about wine, apart from the obvious joy of tasting it, is that there are constantly new little gems turning up — from previously unknown wine regions to grapes we haven’t encountered before. One of my latest finds is the Knights Valley region in California.

My wife and I actually knew about Knights Valley. In the past, we would pass by it as we drove between Napa Valley and Sonoma. Maybe the reason we paid so little attention to it previously is that the region is so small — if you blink as you drive by you can miss it altogether. Knights Valley has 8 square kilometers planted to vineyards; Napa has 174 square kilometers. In other words, Knights Valley is a blip on the vinous radar.

All that changed a few months ago, when we were in Manhattan visiting our daughter and her husband. Our daughter’s father-inlaw is somewhat of a wine lover, and he wanted us to taste a wine that a friend of his had made in Knights Valley. Lights flashed and bells rung when we sipped the wine, and we vowed to visit the region as soon as we could.

Custom Design It’s as if Knights Valley was custom designed to produce great wines.

Many, many years ago the Russian River used to flow through the valley, depositing gravel as it traveled along.

All that changed when Mount Saint Helena erupted and changed the course of the river. That episode of geological attitude produced welldraining soil consisting of volcanic residue and gravel. The magic that makes the wines from Bordeaux’s left bank so wonderful is gravel in the soil — a gift from one of that region’s very own rivers. Knights Valley was poised for greatness.

Another little oddity amplifies the valley’s uniqueness. There’s a gap in the mountains that funnels cool breezes in from the Pacific Ocean. That’s great for varietal grapes such as Cabernet Sauvignon, because it keeps them from getting too toasty, and therefore they get more “hang time” on the vine to build up flavor. It also enables cool climate grapes like Sauvignon Blanc to do pretty well.

Knights Valley has some 30 or so vineyards, but only two wineries. We unashamedly used our extended family connections to set up a visit to one of the wineries, Knights Bridge.

We were welcomed into the home of one of the winery’s owners,Tim Carl, and discovered a beautiful house with gorgeous gardens. But as we looked around the vineyards, we did a double-take. The vineyards appeared scraggly and unkempt.

That’s when we got our first clue as to how special these wines really were.

The sole objective at Knights Bridge is to produce wine that is an expression of where it is from. One step toward that objective is the way the land is farmed. The whole operation is based on biodynamic, sustainable farming.

Rather than neat and tidy rows of vines, the winery uses natural cover crops — mixes of clovers, légumes, cereals and other low-growing grasses — to maintain a healthy balance between soil and vine. All very rugged looking, but great for the vines. And this unique approach shows through in the wine.

How did the wines taste? In a word, wonderful. We were surprised to see a Sauvignon Blanc, as we were preconditioned to expect just Cabernet Sauvignon. (Got to give thanks to Mother Nature for that gap in the mountains.) The Sauvignon Blanc was nicely balanced, with all the elements of the grape — light fruit with a touch of minerality. Low key and nuanced. We moved on to a Chardonnay; this wine was a bit deeper. It had aged a little time in oak and that came across with a nice biscuity flavor that mixed in with the deeper fruits from the grape.

To taste the Cabernet Sauvignons, we

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“I’m convinced that wines taste better when you drink them on their home turf.”

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moved out to the patio. This had to be perfection. It was a crisp sunny day, and we were gazing out at those rugged vines and sipping on fine wines. My main definition of greatness in a wine is how complex it is — how many layers of taste and texture you experience when you taste it.

These wines fit the bill. There was layer after layer after layer.

The wines offered dark fruit, black cherries and raspberry. On top of that there was a little coffee and a floral edge, and woody aromas and flavors. Finally came a long finish, smooth but a little bitter.

You don’t taste this wine, you have a conversation with it.

I’m convinced that wines taste better when you drink them on their home turf. I have no hard data to back this up, but my wife and I have done enough experimenting to build up a sound anecdotal opinion. Maybe it’s the fact that the wines haven’t had to travel. Maybe it’s just the ambiance of the moment. Whatever the reason, the sense is palpable. Sitting back in a chair at Knights Valley looking up at the hills where the grapes came from and enjoying the wines made from them was simply outstanding.

Wines from Knights Valley aren’t seen too often on wine merchants’ shelves — not surprising given the size of the place. Look for the label Beringer, which owns some of the vineyards in Knights Valley and have a large, nationwide distribution, meaning their prices are reachable. Or, you might have to get on Knights Bridge’s website to see if any wines tickle your fancy.

One caveat, these are definitely wines for a special occasion. But, then again, I’m increasingly convinced that we all deserve a little treat every now and then. [TCW]

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t’s a partnership that would make most home connoisseurs drool — a husband and wife team expertly equipped to design, build and decorate a house that perfectly fits their personalities, styles and needs … and be kid-friendly, at that.

Kerri Robusto, director of marketing, sales and leasing for Clear Springs Development — the master developer for Baxter Village in Fort Mill — admits that it’s a pretty sweet deal. And she happily reaps the benefits.

“My husband, Chris, grew up in his family’s custom home business,” explains Robusto, who moonlights as an interior designer. “We have both spent most of our careers in the residential housing industry, so we both live and breathe homes. This is the second custom home we’ve designed and built for ourselves. The first was a pre-kids plan, and this house is all about the kids!”

Vintage Meets Modern A native of Tyler, Texas, Robusto moved to Charlotte in 1996 for a job, and she moved to Baxter Village in 2001. Her husband built the French Country styled house under his homebuilding company, Live Well Homes.

“The architecture is technically French Country because of the roof pitches, massing, window sizes and placement, etc.,” Robusto says.

“But it feels very English Manor to me, with the painted brick and herringbone accents. The interior design is very eclectic in both finishes and furniture. It’s a mad mix of vintage and modern; a little 1940s Hollywood Glam meets rustic reclaimed farmhouse — comfortable but quirky.”

Robusto’s love for interior design comes from an unlikely source — her need to establish order.

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“We blended traditional and modern finishes and furniture with a twist of retro throughout the house, which gives it so much personality,” Robusto says. “I love the mix

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“Everything should have a place,” she says. “But rather than being black and white — stark and modern — I prefer the character of controlled chaos, featuring an eclectic mix of styles that come together to create an individualized look. It’s ‘order’ with a lot of frosting!”

She adds, “When you combine industrial metal, modern lines and sleek surfaces with wood, texture, color, vintage textiles, etc., it gives your space so much more charm.”

Her favorite room in the home is, surprisingly, her closet.

Robusto considers the space her personal sanctuary. Her favorite room to share with others is the kitchen. Instead of a formal dining room, the family opted for a kitchen that opens to the gathering room, which features a table that seats up to 10 comfortably. The space opens to an outdoor living space that features a covered porch. In essence, it’s the perfect gathering spot.

“This area is a buzzing hub of activity,” she says.“It has such easy and functional flow.”

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of materials and textures. It’s an interesting blend.”

Robusto also puts an unexpected focus on ceilings, a technique she suggests other home owners consider.

“Ceilings can add unexpected drama to a room,” she says. “There are so many great treatments, and they don’t have to be expensive! But those types of details add so much character to a room.”

In the foyer, she used a barrel ceiling with stained tongue and groove to make the area warm and inviting.

For a more traditional feel, she used coffered ceilings in the living room, master bedroom and master sitting room. The kitchen/gathering area features a cathedral ceiling with exposed beams and tongue and groove to give the area expansive height and dimension. And in the powder bath and master bathroom, she used groin ceilings, which create a European feel.

“Each ceiling treatment adds an element of surprise as you pass from one room to the next,” she says.

It’s only fitting that a Texas native have at least one bullhead hanging in her home. The longhorn that adorns her study is affectionately named Derby.

“Being from Texas, I can’t help but incorporate my roots everywhere I can. Our longhorn (Derby) is one of my most prized possessions. All of our personal photos are saved in the ‘Cloud,’ so if we had a fire, you would see me running out the door with Derby under one arm!”

Robusto laughs.

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— Kerri Robusto

sometimes, the best way to get a dramatic result is by winging it! Case in point: The finish on the study’s walls, which she calls “an experiment that thankfully worked out.”

“I saw a whitewash finish on Pinterest, so I decided to tackle that room one night with a girlfriend,” she says. “The base coat, which was very dark, was already painted. I added some glaze with matte white paint and proceeded to paint it on and then wipe it off. After seven hours and many cocktails, we had a masterpiece! With the trim and walls all painted the same, I think it gives a renaissance feel.”

Robusto is proof that thinking outside the box can do wonders for your décor. No matter what style your home, she suggests considering it the palette upon which you tell the story of your life.

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someone asks me to help them decorate their home, the first thing I tell them to do is identify any furniture, art and accessories they are using that don’t really mean anything to them … those things that are just filling space. Then we determine if they can be refurbished into something else — something they create. Maybe we reupholster a chair in a fabric they love, or we repaint picture frames or a piece of furniture. Then it becomes something meaningful to them.”

Robusto adds, “Don’t just buy to fill a space. Fill your home with colors and textures and pieces that touch you.”

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That’s why Dr. O’Connor opened a solo practice earlier this year.

Dr. O’Connor says, “I am able to have a stronger bond with my patients.

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Heidy Markwell, Latoya Breeden and Crystal Hartis created a strong bond at Huntersville Family Fitness & Aquatics.

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his January, Huntersville Family Fitness & Aquatics offered the Whatcha Got To Lose Challenge, and three participants — Crystal Hartis, Heidy Markwell and Latoya Breeden — found themselves not losers but winners, both in overall health and teambuilding prowess.

Hartis joined the program in January 2013 as part of a New Year’s Resolution — a resolution she’s made for several years but never fulfilled. When weight loss didn’t happen quickly, she got discouraged. But she felt accountable to her teammates, and refused to quit.

Hartis says the culture at HFFA encouraged her not to give up.

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Hartis adds, “Although the three of us have not reached our weight goals, we continue to work together to achieve what we started, and I can say we are healthier and happier for having started the process.”

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Soon, she noticed her endurance was increasing exponentially.

“I began to feel stronger, better, and more confident, and became more willing to participate in group exercise classes outside of the Whatcha Got To Lose Challenge. Now, exercise plays a big part of my life. I simply can’t live without it.”

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Breeden joined the program to lose weight, and never expected how much she would gain — theoretically, of course.

“I initially set out to lose pounds,” Breeden says. “Pounds and inches began to fall off, but it became more about the growth and positive changes that I saw in my body and within me as a person. I began to see what a strong woman I am, and now, I like what I see!”

Breeden always dreamed of being a runner, but a diagnosis of “weak knees” kept her from fulfilling this goal. That all changed with help from HFFA. “I am proud to say that I ran three different 5Ks this past spring, and on my very first run, I actually placed third for my age group!” she says. “God can have plans for us that are much bigger than we can imagine.”

Breeden says the program provided the structure she needed to flourish.

Trainers provided challenging workouts, and the weekly weigh-ins made her accountable. But in the end, the relationships made the difference.

“My team members were just an awesome group of people,” Breeden says. “It was a huge sacrifice to commit to working out five days per week. We all have families and careers! My team members have been instrumental in my success, because they have been so supportive.”

ToLearnMore HFFA is starting another Whatcha Got To Lose Challenge in September. Call 704/766-2222 and ask for Joanna Thompson. [TCW]

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ird Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics is opening a new orthodontic office, Braces by Bird, in the fall of 2013. The new practice will be located across the street from the current practice, in the Cedar Walk Development.

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Tricia Sisson, co-owner and CEO of The Range at Lake Norman, says being womanowned in an industry dominated by men is a plus. “We hear new range owners consistently stating they ‘cater to women,’ ”she says.

“Just because you carry some pink guns and purses does not mean you’re focused on your female customers.”

Sisson knows what other women need to feel comfortable in a gun range. “Having an atmosphere that is clean and quiet, and having women sales associates and female instructors helps make a woman more comfortable in a range,” she says.

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Business Award for Team Spirit for the eastern U.S., presented in London. In 2012, Helmandollar was runner-up for the Small Business of the Year award from the Lake Norman Chamber of Commerce.

Helmandollar enjoys helping others find success in their lives — both clients and employees. “I love the challenge of developing people, things and ideas,” she says. “If allowed, I can steer a person in my employ and help them grow to exponential heights. All I need is cooperation, dedication and talent.”

Her business stands out from other spas and salons due to the level of connection and commitment among employees.

“We work cohesively rather than independently,” she says, “which has made our business stand out among the masses of salons both locally and nationwide.” [TCW]

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A PERSONAL CONNECTION Dr. Jessica Patel, Of Cotswold Family Dentistry, Relates Well To Patients

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hen visiting the dentist, it’s easy to assume they always have had a perfect set of teeth and cannot empathize with your dental issues. Dr. Jessica Patel, with Cotswold Family Dentistry, is proof that isn’t the case.

In fact, the Raleigh native and mother of two had so many dental procedures growing up that she feels she can easily relate to patients, no matter the procedure.

“I was exposed to a wide variety of dental procedures and techniques from very early on in my life,” Dr. Patel says. “I had horrible teeth growing up, and as a result I have had a lot of dental work — fillings, extractions, braces, bridges, bone grafting, implants, root canals, crowns and TMJ problems. I feel this has allowed me to connect with our patients on a more personal level.”

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“Changing peoples’ smiles and how they feel about themselves is a truly rewarding feeling,” she says.

Dr. Patel is the newest member of Cotswold Family Dentistry. A graduate of UNC Chapel Hill, she completed an advanced education in general dentistry residency at the University of Florida before joining forces with Dr. Colleen Peleaux and Dr. Darragh Bailey.

Dr. Bailey says that Dr. Patel is the perfect addition to the team. “Dr. Patel has been a perfect fit for our practice from the very start! We feel very blessed to have found a partner who has the same guiding principles that both Dr. Peleaux and I have for our patients and team members. She has blended seamlessly into our family here at Cotswold Family Dentistry.” [TCW]

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THE BIRTHDAY LIST A Give Yourself The Gift

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t 25, I was an obsessive high school teacher and coach. While my career was incredibly rewarding and fun, I didn’t have much fun outside of work. As the years passed by and I witnessed the incredible things my friends were doing, I realized my life was really in my hands.

Whether or not I had a good time or traveled or experienced new challenges was on me. I could budget my time, energy and money to give myself the kind of experiences I so admired from my friends’ stories or had dreamed about trying. Those opportunities didn’t have to be a dream if I was willing to be intentional.

And so, because I have always been most motivated by capturing my dreams in writing, I sat down and wrote a list.

Twenty-five things to do before turning 26, I scrawled. Then I thoughtfully numbered different experiences I wanted to have or things I wanted to do.

That first list was both practical (get re-certified

in CPR and First Aid) and expansive (travel). I read 25 books and finally got my North Carolina’s driver’s license. As I tackled each item on the list, I scratched it off with great satisfaction. My life was expanding outside my classroom, and it ironically made me a better teacher, because it made me a more wellrounded and happier person.

Fifteen years later, I still make a list every year, coinciding with my birthday.

With those lists as my guide, I’ve traveled to other countries, learned how to surf and stand-up paddle, run races, read scores of books, rescued a great dog, tried Rolfing, yoga, Pilates, rock climbing, snow-shoeing and kickboxing, cycled numerous century rides, raised thousands of dollars for causes I believe in, worked with endangered leatherback turtles in Trinidad, treated my parents to a few adventures, paid off my student loans early, been to Major League spring training in Florida and Panthers Training Camp in Spartanburg, seen whales in the ocean and more.

I have never completed any year’s list, and while that might seem like it would be a defeat for a former workaholic, it isn’t. My annual birthday list is a daring, inspiring suggestion, and I know that whatever I accomplish from it is a gift.

What’s not accomplished is given a quick review when I write the next year’s list to see if I want to try again, but that’s all.

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gift to myself that has made every year richer and encouraged me to appreciate that the journey is the goal and that I am more in charge of my journey than I sometimes realize.

Want to write your own birthday list?

Now’s the perfect time, even if your birthday isn’t right around the corner.

Craft your own list with these steps and start living with greater intention.

1. Decide how many items to include on your list. When’s your birthday? If it’s almost a year away (or happening shortly), craft a full birthday list.

Otherwise, prorate your list. If your birthday is six months away, create a half-list, or a quarter list if it’s just a few months away.

2. Brainstorm all possibilities. Make a list of everything you have ever wanted to do or thought you should try, and ask others for suggestions, too.

3. Claim this year’s items. Make your final list and then pencil in a month next to each item when you might try to scratch it off your list.

4. Whenever you plan your to-dos, look over your birthday list to make sure you are making the necessary plans to help you accomplish your dreams.

5. Enjoy celebrating your life and growth over and over again! [TCW]

Rosie Molinary is an author, speaker and educator who empowers others to be intentional. Learn more at Rosiemolinary.com.

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adly, we canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t always turn to our favorite skin or hair professional for our beauty needs. (The wallet says it is so.) Luckily, there are tools on the market to help us achieve professional grade results in the safety of our own cluttered bathroom! Consider this array of products when looking to enhance your beauty needs this summer.

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Closing Spaces with Porcelain Veneers Dr. Ross W. Nash Ross W. Nash, DDS, is one of only 46 Accredited Fellows in the American Academy of Cosmetic Dentistry, meaning he has acquired extraordinary skills in the area of esthetic and cosmetic dentistry.

hile orthodontic treatment is ideal for closing spaces, some people exhibit situations that do not respond well to braces. Various conditions result in teeth that are smaller than normal and even after treatment with braces, spaces still exist. Such was the case with this beautiful, young woman. Her dental health was excellent, but she felt that her smile was compromised due the spaces in the front area of her upper teeth. With minimal tooth preparation, we were able to add porcelain veneers to increase the size of her front teeth.

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The Good News About Sex After Hysterectomy

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ysterectomy may mark the end of your reproductive life, but it doesn’t need to spell the end of your sex life. In fact, it can usher in a renewal of sexual expression.

Research has shown that sex often improves after surgery, because women experience relief from painful problems that prompted the surgery in the first place, such as fibroids, endometriosis, chronic pelvic pain and pelvic congestion. A hopeful study from the University of Maryland shows that for the majority of women, the frequency of sex, the frequency of orgasm, and the intensity of orgasm all increase after hysterectomy. The study, reported in the Journal of the American Medical Association, also found that painful sex declines in most women after hysterectomy.

What else can women expect? According to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, hysterectomy, which involves the removal of the uterus and sometimes the ovaries and fallopian tubes, usually shortens the vagina. Postmenopausal women are usually more affected by this change. Trying different sexual positions and using natural vaginal lubricants can help ease discomfort during intercourse.

When hysterectomy involves the removal of the ovaries, it triggers changes that affect a woman’s body in the same ways as menopause. Women may experience menopause symptoms such as lowered libido, a lack of lubrication, and dry, thinning tissues that make sex painful. Nonprescription lubricants can help restore vaginal moisture. Fortunately a woman’s capacity to climax should not change, because sensation and arousal happen in the vagina and clitoris.

Lastly, when doctors perform cervix-sparing surgery, it may have less of an impact on sexual functioning.

Studies show that if the cervix is left in place, women don’t report a decline in sexual response.

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Distracted Driving Avoid Delayed Reaction ou’d expect that using a hands-free device to talk, text or send email would be safe while driving, right? After all, you can keep your hands on the wheel.

But new research from the University of Utah suggests that speech-based technologies in the car can overload the driver’s attention and impair their ability to drive safely.

Researchers found that as mental workloads and distractions increase, reaction time slows, brain function is compromised, and drivers scan the road less and miss visual cues. That could result in drivers not seeing items right in front of them, including stop signs and pedestrians.

The research team measured brain waves, eye movement and other metrics to assess what happens to drivers’ mental workload when they try to multitask in the car.

Listening to and responding to voiceactivated email features raised distraction levels to a “3” — or significant risk. By contrast, listening to the car radio was rated a “1,” or minimal risk; while talking on a cell phone — both hand-held and hands-free — resulted in a “2,” or moderate risk.

The take-home message: Limit the use of voice-activated technologies on the road. And to keep yourself and loved ones safe, disable the voice-to-text and social media functions on your digital device when your car is in motion.

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he FDA recently rolled out new rules about the labeling of sunscreens, with one of the most important guidelines centering around “broad spectrum” sunscreens — those that offer protection against both UVB and UVA rays.

All sunscreen products offer protection against UVB rays, which are the primary cause of sunburn. But both UVB and UVA rays contribute to suninduced skin cancer and premature skin aging.

If you’re serious about protecting your skin, make sure your sunscreen is labeled “broad spectrum.” Sunscreens that are not broad spectrum or that lack an SPF of at least 15 must now carry the following warning: “Skin Cancer/Skin Aging Alert: Spending time in the sun increases your risk of skin cancer and early skin aging. This product has been shown only to help prevent sunburn, not skin cancer or early skin aging.”

Beyond that, board-certified Charlotte dermatologist Peggy Fuller, M.D., the founder and director of Esthetics Center for Dermatology, has a few sun-savvy rules of her own:

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Choose a sunscreen with SPF of 30 or higher. Apply a generous amount 30 minutes before you leave home in the morning to the entire face, ears, neck, back of neck and décolletage.

“You need it even if you’re just driving in the car all day,” Fuller says.

“Remember, there’s glaring morning and evening sun that penetrates through the windshield.”

Reapply sunscreen to sun-exposed areas every two hours while outside. Reapply more often if you’ve been in the water or engaging in vigorous exercise. In fact, the FDA states that sunscreen products can no longer use the words “waterproof” and “sweat proof,” because they give consumers a false sense of security.

The good news is that sunscreen really does work. In a recent study, Australian researchers reported that people who applied sunscreen every day experienced 24 percent less skin aging, compared to those who used sunscreen less often — even among those in middle age. More important, another study found that daily use of sunscreen with at least SPF 16 slashed patients’ risk of skin cancer in half.

Diet & Exercise Little Changes = Big Pay-Offs

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ou aren’t alone if you find national diet and exercise guidelines daunting. Heartthumping exercise five days a week?

Five to nine servings of fruits and vegetables every single day?

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Cut up your food into small pieces.

Arizona State University researchers showed that people feel full faster, and eat less when their food is served in small pieces.

Don’t skip meals. Recent research from a yearlong study at the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center in Seattle showed that women who skipped meals lost an average of eight fewer pounds than those who didn’t skip.

Stand up every 20 minutes. Sitting for long periods leads to unhealthy metabolic changes. But just getting up and moving around for a minute or two every 20 minutes lowers glucose and insulin levels by as much as 30 percent, according to new Australian research.

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Eat to slow music. A study showed that people who listened to fast music with meals ate on average five bites per minute. Those who didn’t listen to music ate four bites per minute.

Those who listened to slow music ate just three bites per minute.

Eat just 150 fewer calories a day.

You’ll lose 10 pounds in a year without making any other change.

Easy ways to make the cut: Switch from whole milk to skim milk, or from butter to a vegetable-based bread spread.

sensations (sea breezes). Allow yourself to be totally absorbed in the sensual aspects of this special place.

Make a mental escape. Imagine yourself in a place you feel at peace — say, a sunny beach or your grandmother’s gardenia-filled backyard.

Focus on smells (suntan lotion, ocean air), sounds (waves breaking) and

Practice mindfulness. It’s easy to focus on what you are doing tomorrow, or what happened yesterday. Try to tune into the task at hand, whether it’s making a salad or taking a bath, and watch your worries flee. [TCW]

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Try a mini-relaxation. Close your eyes, then focus on your breathing.

Allow your chest to rise and fall as you inhale and exhale. Count down from 10 to 0, taking a complete breath — one inhalation, one exhalation — with each count. Do a couple of these “minis” when you are out of sorts, and you’ll feel better. They are little reminders that you can find your center even when your surroundings seem out of control.

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SUCCESS A Personal Definition

By Victoria Moreland

grew up in the ’70s during the women’s liberation movement.

It was the age of Gloria Steinem, the ERA amendment, and Malibu Barbie, with her deep, dark tan and no discernable profession. I read Glamour magazine while I lay in my twin bed, learning about the possibilities for me — the successful superwoman that I would become and the fabulous clothes I would wear. I argued with my father for the rights of my mother to live in a household where housework was equally divided. Truth was, I didn’t like my chores. Why couldn’t my little brother fold clothes, too? He took out the trash. I folded underwear.

But I digress. This is not an essay about my teenage chores. It’s about my path to become the successful woman I am today. Right?

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When I was a younger woman, I had the ultimate power career. I wore the power suits and the high-heeled pumps.

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Then one day, my dream changed.

I wanted a family and a career, but not in equal measure. So I hung up my suit, traded in my heels for flats, and leaned out in another direction. With it came marriage, motherhood, a part-time writing career and a few part-time teaching gigs. Hardly glamorous, and certainly not the superwoman I read about in my teens.

At first, I saw this as a defeat of my early feminist ideals. Here I was, choosing a less ambitious path of parttime work and domesticity. If I could have it all, shouldn’t I want it all? But I didn’t. Fortunately, I had the financial backing of my husband to allow me to explore my options.

Over the years, I have struggled with the idea of accomplishing less than I once imagined, even cursing my lack of ambition. I found peace by altering my definition of success; finding it in the accomplishments of my daughter or in my students, or maybe in that chapter I just wrote.

Success for me now is rooted in personal satisfaction, transcending

career aspirations, and allowing me to enjoy the simpler aspects of my life.

Some might see this as settling for less, but it doesn’t feel that way for me.

I have no regrets.

My preteen daughter now talks about staying home when she gets married.

There is no shame in staying home, but she only knows me in my current incarnation. She doesn’t know the younger me, who strived to move forward in her career, navigating a world that was once dominated by men.

I tell her that she can be anything she wants — a veterinarian, an engineer, a stay-at-home mom. Yet, I encourage her to reach toward something beyond what she sees in me. I want her to have the opportunity to define her version of success.

Lately, I’m feeling that itch of ambition again. Perhaps, reinvention is the order of the day. It may be time to lean in and show my daughter the woman I once was.

Victoria Moreland is a novelist and a freelance writer who lives with her family in south Charlotte.

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