Huami Magazine Greenville/Spartanburg Sept./Oct. 2023

“We looked like a wholesome, loving family on the outside, but on the inside, our house was a living hell. I had a controlling father, and my mother was his punching bag. I felt abandonment, fear, anxiety, and depression. I didn’t take care of my childhood trauma, so it showed up in my adult life. I wanted control, and the men in my life were victims of my wrath. My life came full circle when I met a man just like my father.

It is time for my story to be told my way. My trauma. My triggers. My truth.”

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Dear Abuser…

Align Your Assignment With God

There Are No If, Ands, Or Buts About It!

Your assignment is not the assignment of everyone else. Once I learned what those nine words truly meant, my focus on life changed. Of course, I have been told that God gives His toughest battles to His strongest warriors, but that memo didn’t include details of when the battles would end. Instead of sticking my chest out during my victories and hanging my head during the moments of defeat, I’ve decided to learn from each circumstance, and by doing so, I am prepared for the next battle with each new day.

A Letter from the Editor

What if tomorrow didn’t arrive? All of your plans, hopes and dreams wouldn’t have a street to park on. What if everything that you decided to put off until tomorrow never happened? There would be no reason to save for a rainy day, and you could spare someone the trouble of making promises. What if your last opportunity seemingly expired today? What would you do?

The best advice I have ever given myself is to be satisfied in my attempts to be better. When I first launched Huami Magazine, I was presented with a situation that adversely impacted the quality of my relatively new publication. I was frustrated, but I also knew what had occurred and why it happened. The idea of quitting never came into my mind, even while I sat motionless, staring at the balled-up copy in reference. I didn’t know then, but God was preparing me for something greater.

In November of this year, we will begin our seventeenthanniversary celebration of the birth of Huami Magazine. When I think about all of the layouts, the photo shoots, the interviews, and the distributions that have taken place, all I can say is God has been faithful and continues to keep His promise.

I’ve been told that I often seem like I do too much. Honestly, I feel like I am not doing enough and I’m a firm believer in knowing that God wouldn’t put anything on me that I couldn’t handle. I sometimes wonder how life would be if I chose to sit idle and accept what it presented to me. I have found that to be very boring. In my opinion, opportunity is a blessing that isn’t afforded to everyone. A challenge to me is an adventure. What is the worst that can happen? If I do nothing, I fail, and if I try I don’t, but instead learn something new about myself. Relinquish your pride and in return acquire life.

Had I given up in the beginning, the stories and testimonies of countless individuals may have never been published. Had I given in to the pressure of operating in the unknown, my mother would have never been able to mail magazines to her friends. Had I not decided to pour everything I have in me into producing something my community would celebrate, the hope that others have in God doing a great work for them may not exist.

The best advice ever given to me happened when someone told me to make my tomorrow happen today. In doing so I have pressed my way through doors with a key that only hope provided. I have also learned the difference between what God blesses me with and what life can burden me with as well. I compare it to knowing when to be confident and when to be quiet, because someone may get it confused with being arrogant.

Make you tomorrow happen today, but most importantly make it count. Life is but a whisper and we must put ourselves in a position to hear what it is telling us.

All of my assignments have come with a lot of responsibility. What is more interesting is that the same set of instructions has accompanied them all: to seek God first and operate according to His plans. My assignment is not everyone else’s, and I know everything I desire is connected to how it aligns with God’s plan. Learn your assignment and align it with God. He will handle the rest for you.

Terry L. Watson

Exquisite Illusions

By Terry L. Watson

In the upstate community of South Carolina, she is well-known as “Teena Mac”. In the professional realm and not-so-personal circle, she is comfortable with being Tina McDowell.

Born and raised in Spartanburg, SC, by a single mother who gave birth to her at age 13, Tina’s life began with all odds statistically against her. Her mother, Debra Wright, instilled values of hard work and dedication to achieve within Tina at an early age. These same values are the foundation upon which she stands, and she established her legacy.

Tina is a multifaceted person. She is a mother of one daughter, Kareena, and Mimi of two amazing grandchildren, Devante and Neila. She is a teacher, Web Designer, Life and Mindfulness Coach, Photographer, Digital Creator, Self-Published Author, and Philanthropist. However, the most important title she wears is the daughter of the King, and she professes that she has a strong faith in God and knows that by placing Him first, her potential is limitless.

Tina graduated from Southern Wesleyan University, obtaining her Bachelor of Science in Business Administration with an emphasis in Management. She also received her Master of Arts in Computer Resources and Information Management from Webster University.

Tina is also an entrepreneur and owns several brands with Tina McDowell Enterprises. One of them is Exquisite Illusions, a Web Design, Photography, and Branding company that helps female entrepreneurs develop an online presence for their Biz/Brand with intentional branding strategies. “I specialize in creating exquisite brand identities and branding content for savvy modern-day entrepreneurs. Our services are structured to help you achieve your desired personal and business goals,” she says.

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“Whether it is a personal aspiration or a business target, having a clear vision and a welldefined plan is crucial for success.”

Her company offers Web Design Services, Social Media Management, Administrative Services, Photography, Self-Publishing Services, Digital Creation, Hosting Services, Domain Registration, and Facilitator Services. “I teach individuals how to start a business and entrepreneurs how to present their businesses online. I also create and sell digital products. I offer one-on-one and group master classes using graphic design tools, custom branded apparel creation, computer applications, and selfpublishing,” she says. Other brands in her enterprise are Girl Boss Brand Society, KM Kouture, Domains N Things, and The Wright Stuff Boutique, which is a partnership with her mother.

Tina officially started her career teaching in higher education. She says, “Teaching has always been my true passion. During my years working in the IT industry, I always felt like something was missing. In 2005, I embarked on my entrepreneurial journey with an MLM, and in 2013, I decided to pursue another childhood passion: photography. This is how Exquisite Illusions was developed.”

In 2017, the educational institution she worked for permanently closed, prompting her to expand her services to include web/graphic design, social media management, digital creation classes, hosting services, domain registration, and photography. She further enhanced her brand in 2022 by introducing self-publishing classes, and in early 2023, Tina added the title of Self-Published Author to her resume.

Tina’s passion for digital technology has allowed her to work for over 20 years as an instructor, facilitator, coach, and web and graphic designer. She is currently studying to become a Licensed Esthetician. She is a mentor, motivator, and always willing to go the extra. With her nonprofit organization, Jus Us Girlz Empowerment Network, she helps women realize their value by living their best lives. Partnered with her mother, they conduct quarterly workshops for women in their community. Tina is also a member of Changing Your Mind Ministries under the leadership of Pastor Wendell Jones.

From a young age, Tina says she harbored an unwavering fascination with the intricate workings of technology. “I received my first computer, The Commodore 64, in second grade. According to my mother, I was a curious child, constantly bombarding her with questions about the inner mechanisms of various gadgets and devices. This insatiable curiosity drove me to explore the depths of technology, to unravel its mysteries, and comprehend its complexities. I was not content with merely using technology; I yearned to understand it at its core. This passion has remained with me throughout my life and career, fueling my desire to constantly learn and stay abreast of the latest advancements in the field.”

Pictured below with Tina is her mother, Pastor Debra, the co-founder of Jus Us Girlz Empowerment

Photo provided by Let’s Create Photography

Photo provided by Tina McDowell

Tina’s natural love for helping others is genuine and ever-flowing. She says, “Helping individuals and entrepreneurs and empowering others brings me fulfillment. Ultimately, motivation is the catalyst that propels me forward, enabling me to achieve my aspirations while uplifting those around me. As a professional, I understand the significance of setting and attaining goals. Whether it is a personal aspiration or a business target, having a clear vision and a well-defined plan is crucial for success. I take pride in guiding individuals and entrepreneurs through this process, helping them identify their goals, develop strategies, and overcome obstacles. When it comes to entrepreneurs, I am particularly drawn to their ambition and drive. I understand the challenges they face in building and growing their businesses. Assisting entrepreneurs in reaching their business goals benefits them and contributes to the community’s economic growth and development.”

As a business owner, Tina shares how she’s managed the hurdles and challenges of entrepreneurship. “One of the most significant hurdles I have encountered on my entrepreneurial journey is the lack of support from people I expected to receive support from. Witnessing their support for other businesses offering similar products and services can be disheartening. However, I have realized they are not my target customers, and I have learned to extend grace to them and focus on attracting the audience I want to serve.”

Another challenge Tina has faced is people attempting to negotiate her prices. “I have learned to stand firm and provide top-tier services to my clients. I am also committed to personal and professional development and always open to being a student of my craft. I understand the value I bring to the table and the quality of service I provide, and I expect to be adequately compensated for my expertise and efforts,” she says.

In the business sector, Tina has exceeded all of her expectations. In her community, she has answered the call to serve. However, she still searches for opportunities to empower and enrich the lives of others. With her nonprofit organization, Jus Us Girlz Empowerment Network, Tina has seized numerous volunteer opportunities and mentored, motivated, and inspired anyone fortunate to cross her path. Jus Us Girlz Empowerment Network was founded by Tina in 2015, and alongside her mother, Pastor Debra, Tina offers quarterly workshops to women in her community. “Our organization is wholeheartedly committed to supporting women, ages 18 and older, from diverse backgrounds. My mother and I have triumphed over challenges many women face today, and our personal experiences fuel our unwavering passion to empower and uplift others,” she says. “We want women to recognize their value and live their best lives right now.”

It’s evident that Tina is committed to helping individuals and entrepreneurs achieve their goals and being an ambassador for God. “I am God’s Masterpiece, created in His divine design. I thank Him for all the opportunities He has bestowed upon me. I also thank my mother for being the best support system on this planet. God first, but she’s right after Him.”

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Photo provided by Tina McDowell

Latece Logan

Fostering Great Ideas

By Terry L. Watson Photos Provided by Latece Logan

Greenville, SC, native and resident Latece Logan doesn’t appear to have issues standing out front. She proudly holds the title of North Greenville College’s first African American Homecoming Queen. Latece also performed in the Opening Ceremony of the 1996 Olympics in Atlanta, GA. Today, she is the Director of Fostering Great Ideas Life Support Mentoring Relationships Program, which focuses on helping youth who are in foster care. These individuals often lack consistent relationships and may struggle academically, developmentally, and relationally. “High-quality relationships are the foundation for all other learning,” Latece shares. In her role, she oversees over 100 mentor relationships between highly qualified mentors and youth in foster care. She is also enrolled at the Life Purpose Institute out of San Diego, CA, studying to become a certified Life Coach.

Fostering Great Ideas Life Support Mentoring Program is the largest mentor program for youth in foster care in the southeast. Additionally, Latece serves as a Transitional Coach at Legacy Early College and mentors senior scholars as they transition from high school to college. Most recently, Latece was promoted to Fostering Great Ideas Chief Culture Officer, an executive leadership position responsible for fostering an inclusive, collaborative, and engaging organizational culture that aligns with FGI’s mission and values. She is also responsible for leading cultural initiatives, supporting staff development, and implementing programs that enhance the overall organizational environment.

“Through the work of the dedicated team at Fostering Great Ideas, healing is possible and success is attainable,” Latece says. “Fostering Great Ideas is a charity to support children and youth by offering each youth ages 14 and up with a mentor through its Life Support Program. They also offer a Tutor Match Program for school-age youth in foster care. Older youth can join their Aspire program, which provides a certified life coach to help transition from high school to college and beyond. Another program, It’s All Relative, offers supportive training for family members when children are removed from their homes. To ensure that siblings who are separated from their brothers and sisters have regularly scheduled visits with each other, they’ve developed the Sib-Link Program. “When we say family, we mean parents as well. Our Mom’s Matter program is a service that offers training and support while encouraging moms to reach their reunification goals,” Latece says.

Fostering Great Ideas is also big on community connections and education through its Care2Foster program, which supports current foster families and recruits new ones. They also advocate for youth in foster care and help amplify their voices through their Speak Up Program. Lastly, they offer an interactive role-play workshop called Life in Limbo, that gives a perspective of what the experience is like for those in foster care.

I did not get where I am today because of my education. I got where I am today because I’m operating in my gift, and it has made room for me.”

Latece’s journey at FGI began in 2015. After her friend, Ava Smith, the owner of Flatfee Recruiting, submitted Latece’s resume to David White, CEO of Fostering Great Ideas, she was hired for an entry-level position. In eight short years, she earned the executive leadership position as the CCO, and she’s not finished, as her story is still being written.

Inspiring people to be their best selves Latece says, is what drives her. “I love God, and I love God’s people. He is my source and my strength and it is through Him I live and have my being. His love for me has compelled me to treat people how I would like to be treated, and I want to demonstrate His love everywhere I go through words of encouragement, affirmation, and simple acts of kindness.” Even more, helping others is something she loves to do, unconditionally. She adds, “With FGI, I have the ability to express who I truly am. Proverbs 18:16 says, “A man’s gift maketh room for him, and bringeth him before great men”. I did not get where I am today because of my education. I got where I am today because I’m operating in my gift, and it has made room for me. Empowering people to thrive and support them as they help others do the same gives me life!”

Latece also acknowledges the impact her mother had on her life. “My mother was a beautiful woman. She was wise as a serpent yet gentle as a dove. She passed away in 1999, yet the love she carried in her heart for her family is why I love as hard as I do. I want to be just like her; someone who is loved and adored, not because of my accomplishments, but because of how I treat people and love God.”

Latece has enjoyed her journey and shares there isn’t much she would change about how things have happened. “If I could change anything about my journey with our organization, It would be to push to go statewide sooner because too many children are still waiting to feel the support and love that Fostering Great Ideas offers. It takes funding from individual donors, corporations, and grants, and we need to push harder for these children daily.”

As the future unfolds for Latece, her purpose will be the same. She says, “On a professional note, I will strive to enable Fostering Great Ideas to be known as a one-stop shop for the needs of youth in foster care and will equip our volunteers and staff to do just that. Personally, I plan to continue to educate myself on building leaders to empower youth and families to live life out loud and unapologetically. Soon, I will be a certified life coach and own a Performance Coach Practice to help people perform in whatever capacity they desire.” Latece has been married to Bud Logan for 24 years, and they have two accomplished daughters, Shekinah Ellis and LaChara Logan. She also has a bonus son, JaQuan Logan, and grandson, Landon Logan. Latece is also under the Worship & Arts Pastor, Jessica Duckett, of the Divine Worship Center Praise Team.

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Please visit their website to learn more about Latece Logan and Fostering Great Ideas Life Support Mentoring Relationships Program.

Chef Jelian Steward

By Terry L. Watson

Jelian Steward of Chicago, IL, owns Signature Taste by Jelian - Chef Jelian Steward. Her company prides itself on providing excellent personal chef services. Additional services Jelian offers include catering, event and meal planning, private dining experiences, cooking classes, speaking engagements, and live cooking demonstrations. As if her plate wasn’t full, Jelian has found time to author and publish her first book, “A Good Conversation About Life & Food”, released in 2022.

Jelian’s shares she has always cooked since she was young. She had cooked for lounges, parties, company parties, and friends and family but never really thought about making it a career. Yet, life would have other plans. Her journey in business began in 2016 after she was asked to cater a nonprofit cancer awareness event for 150 people. “It was that defining moment I knew I could connect to people with my food. It was at that moment when Signature Taste by Jelian was officially born,” she says.

The products offered by Jelian are very diverse and designed to meet her customers’ needs. They include vegetarian, gluten-free, comfort food, small bites, and more. “I was extremely adamant about not being put into a “cultural box” with my food. I can cook anything, and I love all food, so I love to be challenged with foods from different cultures. And because I am a nurse by trade, I am conscious about what and how I cook. It is not enough for me to only cook; the setup and service of the food are just as important as the taste,” she says.

Photos Provided by Chef Jelian Steward

Born on the south side of Chicago, Jelian is the only child to her mother and baby girl to her father. She grew up in the Chatham neighborhood, attended Kenwood Academy High School, and graduated in 1998. After high school, she enrolled in Canella Hair College of Design and shared that doing hair was something she’d enjoyed doing since the age of 14. She became pregnant while enrolled in hair school and realized she needed to do more to provide for her unborn son. “I worked and went to school, and after I had my first son, I transitioned into healthcare. I started as a Patient Care Technician at Northwestern Hospital, and soon after giving birth to my second son in June 2002, I became an EMT and began working in the emergency department at Saint Anthony Hospital. I then married my children’s father and, as life would have it, became pregnant with my third son.”

With life moving at full speed for Jelian, her next venture involved enrolling at Wilbur Wright College to obtain a nursing degree. In 2012, she accomplished her goal.

When asked what she loves most about her food, Jelian says she loves the preparation. “Cooking gives me relief; it’s like my way of communicating through my food. I feel like you get to know a little bit of me through my food. The setup is critical but exciting to plan and execute, and my client’s face at the end is everything. As I go down the list, I can say it is how my sons, husband, and team look after completing an event. The satisfaction of being a part of and creating gives them joy. Having my family proud of me is very important to me.”

Jelians shares that her grandmother is who she credits with having the biggest impact on her life. She says, “I learned so much from her. She included life lessons and stories while teaching me how to cook; it was a great way for us to connect. Though she passed in 2010, I continue to use my passion for cooking to connect with her. Comfort food is what we loved to eat together. I cook when I feel sad, need to tell her something, or want to feel her spirit. Often, it is something that she used to cook for me, like fried okra and tomatoes, greens, and hot water cornbread, but when I’m really missing her, I try to show out with some of my recipes like cabbage and collard greens or my braised oxtails.”

A woman of character and integrity, staying true to her values and beliefs is very important to Jelian, and it’s how she runs her business. “I have learned that sometimes people project their fears onto you, especially when you decide to start a business. When they try to talk you into situations where only their benefit is guaranteed, yours is contingent on their word of mouth, followers, or connections. I have to look at why I decided to start Signature Taste by Jelian in the first place. My company is my baby, and I have been able to birth many passions from my gift. I mentor, give back, teach, and connect people through my food and book.”

Jelian believes that everything in life happens for a reason. She also believes that she has more learning and growing to do. “I have learned my worth and what I am capable of. I have catered corporate events and weddings for 200 people, which is the bulk of my business, with a staff of three people. Everything happened without a hitch, yet everything you can think of went wrong behind the scenes. Undeterred, I can return to what is essential and get to work. Food does that for me. Feeding people and communicating with people through my food does that for me,” she says.

For others on a journey similar to that of Jelian’s, she offers some advice that will help them understand what to expect. She says, “Stay true to your vision and your beliefs. Don’t allow people to put a cap on your creativity and your vision. God gives vision to those who seek it, and if God gave you the vision, He will also provide the blueprint. Stay faithful, stay grounded, and stay true to your vision.”

Moving forward, Chef Jelian plans to continue promoting her book, catering, and filming her show. I miss filming my cooking show. I have episodes on my YouTube Channel, and I am ready to resume filming. I have also started on my second book, which will be the second part of this series. Additionally, I am making self-care a priority and prioritizing my needs and my loved ones.” To learn more about Chef Jelian, please visit her website.

Cooking gives me relief; it’s like my way of communicating through my food. I feel like you get to know a little bit of me through my food.”

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Young Male Mentoring Program Aims To Lead Youth To Purpose

By Terry L. Watson

The Purposed Man Mentoring Group (TPM) is currently seeking to partner with individual and corporate sponsors to assist with making our upcoming “KICKIN IT” Sneaker Campaign 2023 a success.

TPM is a 501(c)(3) Non-Profit organization based in Greensboro, NC. Executive Director, Terry Watson, says, “Our mission is to meet the needs and concerns of young males while assisting them with becoming positive citizens through positive role modeling and hands-on activities. We also aim to provide them with guidance and assistance to develop great males of purpose.”

Terry also shares, “We strongly believe in the strength of individual and community empowerment through community building, community reinvestment, and peerto-peer networking and connections.”

TPM is excited to host its first sneaker giveaway, designed for ten young males ages 8 to 13. The sneakers will be awarded to those that demonstrate a need. Each participant must submit a completed application to be considered for the awards. Those accepted participants will be awarded a shoe voucher for $150.

TPM is also looking for sponsorships and donations for the Kickin It Sneaker Campaign that will allow us to purchase T-Shirts, food, and supplies for the anticipated awards ceremony scheduled for October 22, 2023. At this event, the participants will be entertained by a guest speaker and receive other empowering information.

Any donations are tax deductible and are greatly appreciated. Donations can be made by visiting their website.

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NijalonAfredanz Dance Center

By Terry L. Watson Photos Provided by Afredanz Dance Center

Since she was twelve years old, owning and operating her own dance studio has always been her goal and dream. Today, Nijalon Jackson-Causey is living her dream out loud. She is the owner of Afredanz Dance Center.

Based in Pascagoula, MS, Afredanz Dance Center is the gateway to a world of dance, offering an array of captivating genres for all age groups. Their dance classes encompass the elegance of ballet, the exuberance of jazz, the energy of hiphop, the innovation of modern dance, and the rich heritage of African/Afro-Caribbean Dance. Whether you’re a tiny tot of three or, a spirited 18-year-old, or even an adult seeking to express yourself through dance fitness, they’ve got something for everyone. Nijalon says, “Our mission at Afredanz Dance Center is to provide a multifaceted and high-quality dance experience aimed at both liberation and education. We are dedicated to enriching the world of dance by offering a diverse range of dance styles and dimensions, including education, therapy, technical excellence, and entertainment. Through our commitment to culture, diversity, and authenticity, we empower dancers on their unique journeys while advocating for the profound impact of dance in our society.”

A native of Moss Point, MS, Nijalon describes herself as a creative, vibrant, and courageous being. She is a wife and a mother to two amazing children who keep her on my toes. “I love to dance, teach dance, educate and inspire people through dance. However, my experience with dance was not traditional. I came from a single-parent household in which we were in poverty. I did not have the resources and support that many successful dancers have. I also became a mother at eighteen years old, which had put my dance dreams to a halt for three years.Despite the obstacles, I was eager and determined to learn and grow, so I did whatever I could to ensure that I would get closer and closer to my dreams,” she says.

“Through our commitment to culture, diversity, and authenticity, we empower dancers on their unique journeys while advocating for the profound impact of dance in our society.”

Nijalon was introduced to dance while in elementary school. To step out of her comfort zone, she joined her school’s dance team. “At eleven years old, I was painfully shy and awkward, so you can imagine how I was terrified but oddly still interested in dancing in front of people,” she says. Over time, Nijalon grew to love dance, and the rest was history.

For over 20 years, Nijalon’s world has centered around dance. She has taught dance competition teams and dance education in Moss Point’s school district for three years. She is also a performer and choreographer and has produced dance productions. Nijalon is currently producing a holiday dance production called The Dreamcatcher. This is Nijalon’s second year producing The Dreamcatcher, and it continues to be free for the children in her community to participate, with no previous dance training required.

Every experience and goal she has embarked on has aligned Nijalon with her dreams. She created a business plan in 2014, but did not form her business until 2021. She opened the doors to her studio in February 2023. “As a dance educator and advocate, I strive to provide a very enlightening and enjoyable experience to make any person’s experience worthwhile,” Nijalon says. “I am the product of my environment, and I believe in giving back to my community and creating opportunities. Also, I believe in the benefits and freedoms experienced through dance, which often becomes inspirational and life-changing.”

Nijalon obtained a Dance Education, a Bachelor’s in Fine Arts Degree from the University of Southern Mississippi, and an Associate’s Degree in Business Marketing Management from Mississippi Gulf Coast Community College. She is the first cohort of the Invest in Progress Grant from the BOSS Network and Sage Invests, in which recipients receive a $10,000 grant and a year of monthly mentorship through the BOSS Business University. This online program helps Black women successfully start and grow their businesses. Even more, Nijalon is the third cohort for ELEVATE Mississippi, a program that supports Mississippi residents and business owners in need of technical assistance to enhance their business operations.

I want my children to know they can do anything they have in their hearts and minds, and I strive to show them that no matter how big the obstacle, they can overcome it.”

Nijalon says she loves the chance she gets to meet different people through dance. “The dance world is small, and you will quickly realize how everyone is connected. I also enjoy transforming non-dancers into dancers,” she says. Nijalon admits she is forever grateful for the individuals who have paved the way for her success, and because of them and God, she would not be where she is today. “My life is a testament to what perseverance looks like. I want my children to know they can do anything they have in their hearts and minds, and I strive to show them that no matter how big the obstacle, they can overcome it.”

The way Nijalon studio offers dance and the structure of her classes and dance environment are much different than other dance studios in her area. Her flavor of different also comes with a few challenges. Nijalon says, “I notice that some people are not open to change or feel comfortable experiencing something different. Therefore, I often advocate and push for people to experience my services. It is challenging me to be courageous and put myself out there, and on the flip side, my creativity has grown and evolved during the process. Debbie Allen once said, “But out of limitations come creativity”. In this very moment is where my creativity is flourishing and growing.”

As Nijalon looks to the future, her plans include starting a dance company for teens to dance, create dances, and showcase their art. “Once my studio reaches my enrollment goal, I will embark on that journey,” she says. “I see my dance studio being the go-to company for future dance professionals or children who desire a dance career post-high school. I made it this far; therefore, I know I can make it even further and continue to achieve my dreams and goals.”

Memphis Shelby Police Activities League

Little Can Go A Long Way”

By Monica Montgomery Photos Provided by Craig Littles

Over the years, stories of youth growing up in crimeinfested areas have become increasingly common. Craig Littles, a military veteran and former law enforcement officer from North Memphis, Tennessee, has a similar story. But instead of giving in to the pull of the role models in his community, Mr. Littles took a different path with the help of his mother and sports coaches. Grateful for the opportunities and help he was blessed to have, Craig has built a community that helps kids like him find a different path. Today, he is the founder and Executive Director of the Sheriffs and Police Activities Leagues. The Memphis Shelby Police Activity League, or PAL, has been a life-altering organization for the youth of North Memphis for over thirty years.

In addition to being the founder of the Memphis Shelby County PAL, Craig is the National PAL Vice President. Nationally, PAL serves 1.5 million youth, over three hundred chapters, and seven international chapters. Locally, Memphis PALs serve over two thousand youth annually.

Craig’s passion for being an advocate and resource for the youth in his community comes from a deep sense of gratitude and respect for God and those people he believes God sent to help him beat the odds.

“Growing up in an impoverished neighborhood in Memphis, my role models were gang bangers and dope dealers,” Craig explains. “I started this program thirty years ago to be a better role model than our kids see in the community every day.”

Craig, a single parent to three, now adult children understand the importance of good examples outside and in the home. He and his brother, John Littles were raised by a single mother, Carolyn Willis who made sure they were surrounded by strong male mentors who could give them good guidance and sound advice when needed. “My brother and I are a year apart, and our mother ensured we were always involved in something positive. We were really good at sports, so that’s where we focused our energy,” Craig shares. “It made our mother happy because it kept us busy, in school, and away from influences that would distract us.”

A star athlete, Craig, and a fellow teammate were being heavily recruited to play college football. Going to college and getting a degree, all while doing something you enjoy would be ideal for anyone working to change their circumstances. Craig was no different, but he had to look at the bigger picture.

“I wanted to go to college, but I needed to get out of Memphis. One weekend, a teammate and I were scheduled to be picked up for a college visit. We waited, and they never came. The entire weekend passed, they didn’t come, and no one called. We found out later the coach and the staff of the college’s program were fired,” Craig shares.

Feeling like the college option was closed to him, he did what a lot of young men do. He went to the military. “When the college tour fell through, I signed up for the Army as soon as I was able to. College was my first choice, but in the end, I had to get out of my neighborhood. I saw the military as the fast way to do that at the time.”

After four years in the Army, one spent in the Dessert Storm campaign, Craig came home with a purpose. “While in Dessert Storm, I prayed to God. I told him if he got us home safely, I would do whatever He told me to do! I had no idea of what that would be. I didn’t know if I would be a minister, a teacher, or a chef! It didn’t matter. If God got me out of the foxhole and home safely, I would dedicate my life to doing what he directed me to do,” He shares pointedly. “When I returned home, I kept my promise. I went with what I knew and what had worked for me and my brother as children. Sports.”

In 1996, Craig started the first youth sports program. “When I got out of the Army, God led me to start a youth organization. I gathered several of my high school buddies, and we started with twenty-five football players and five cheerleaders and started our youth football cheer program called Memphis Bears Inc.”

Craig returned home in 1991 and joined the Shelby County Sheriff’s Office in the jail division; later, he became a Memphis Police Officer. “Law enforcement felt like a natural progression for me but not for the reasons you may think,” Craig starts to explain. “I’ve always felt the call to help people. For that reason, I find myself drawn to the jobs and situations nobody wants to do.”

Growing up in an impoverished neighborhood in Memphis, my role models were gang bangers and dope dealers.... I started this program thirty years ago to be a better role model than our kids see in the community every day.”

Pictured from top right to bottom right:

1. Craig Littles with his children (Eldest, YarKeva Nicolé Littles, and twins Morgan Janay Littles, Branson Marcel Littles).

2. Craig as a soldier in the US Army

3. Young baby Craig (5 months old)

4. Craig while serving as an officer with the Memphis Police Department.

In the thirty years since starting their first sports program, Craig and his team have been strategic and hyper-focused on creating programs that benefit the youth and the community. Continuing to draw from his own childhood, Craig wanted to channel the group’s efforts toward mentorship. “Again, growing up without a father in the home, my mother tried to ensure my brother and I were exposed to good male role models. Whether it was our uncles, the pastor, or our coaches. She positioned us in a space where we had positive examples to help shape and mold us into the men we are today. Our coaches held us accountable and gave us goals. Those things kept us out of trouble. That is what we set out to do for the kids in our community. We wanted to give them good role models to emulate because that is what worked for us,” Craig explained.

Because of the overwhelming response to their initial project, new programs and initiatives Trezevant were started. “We started with the twenty-five football players and five cheerleaders, and we immediately saw the positive impact that it made in our community. As a result, the program grew. We started a track program, a summer program, and on the academic side, we have tutoring and homework assistance,” Littles shared with enthusiasm. “There was such a need; students and families were hungry for the opportunities our programs have brought to this community.”

In the years since Craig gathered a few high school buddies to honor his promise to God, they have not had a shortage of support from the community. “We have a strong volunteer base and partners who provide financial support. We have thirty staff members and over two hundred volunteers that span all programs. Our volunteers include the advisors, coaches, tutors, board members, and booster club.”

Because Memphis Shelby PAL is an independent non-profit, the program relies on financial support from sponsors and partners. “We have been so blessed to have so many people and companies who believe in us and what we are doing here,” Craig explains. “The programs that we create are not based on what I think is needed. We listen to the community and create programs based on their needs. Whether the need is nutrition, mentorship, or help with academics. We work to find a partner that helps us meet that need.” Craig shares. “If a parent says they need intervention for their child, we’ve partnered with the Ford Foundation and the juvenile court. In some cases, in lieu of being arrested, those students attend my training. There are a plethora of avenues that we can access to support our families at Littles or no cost to them.”

The success of the programs that MSC PAL has instituted has been evident in the students who graduate from it. “We have students who go on to complete college and trade school successfully. We have students who come back and volunteer, and we’ve had students come back and teach or join the police department in their community,” Craig said with pride. “That is why our program is so successful. We focus on

where the need is. For those reasons, the people of the community respect what we do, and we get to see the success stories that make this all worthwhile.”

If you haven’t caught on yet, Craig Littles loves his community and the people that live there. So, it was only fitting that the program be housed at his alma mater. “The best part is that we were able to host the program at our alma mater, Trezevant High School. That’s where it started for us. Now, thirty years later, we are still there and have been blessed to open an after-school program inside of the school. Trezevant High School and Memphis Shelby County Schools donated a wing inside of Trezevant. With a $300,000.000 renovation, Memphis Shelby County PAL was able to start after-school, summer, and extended learning programs,” Craig said proudly.

Over the years, Craig has been recognized for his labor of love. Craig has received numerous awards, such as the Meritorious Community Service Award by former Mayor W. W. Herenton, Outstanding Community Service by former Congressman Harold Ford Jr., River City Gala, Community Man of The Year, and Community Service Award, Memphis Police Department, just to name a few.

Staying true to his original vision to give kids in the North Memphis community something to emulate, make them proud of themselves, and stand a Littles taller, Craig’s current project is to give the local schools a stadium to hold their sports events.

“Right now, the schools must leave the area to participate in sporting events. They don’t have a place in their community built for them,” Craig explained. “The Field of Dreams Project is a state-of-the-art sports stadium where local schools can host sporting events and activities,” he shares passionately.

Astylux Notary & Courier Services

By Terry L. Watson

Hailing from Catawba County, NC, particularly Hickory, NC, T. Alexis Byrd is deeply connected to her roots. However, her upbringing carries a unique twist due to her family’s military background spanning an impressive five generations. Her legacy was further enriched by formative years spent in Germany, a testament to the enduring commitment of her family to serve. Alexis says those diverse experiences have shaped her.

In 2001, Alexis embarked on a new journey with the United States Air Force as a dedicated Logistician. In her role, she gained invaluable skills, exhibited a strong sense of discipline and duty, and enjoyed a career lasting 20 years. Having concluded this illustrious chapter, Alexis now resides alongside her teenage son in Wayne County, NC. Wayne County, she says, has become her cherished home, a place where she is forging a fresh path as an entrepreneur, driven by the values and principles instilled by her family’s rich military history.

Throughout her career, Alexis has had the privilege of shouldering diverse responsibilities within the intricate supply chain process. These roles ranged from offering indispensable customer support to military personnel and civilians to orchestrating management of

issuance, storage, order requests, transportation logistics, inventory upkeep, real-time tracking, security protocols, repairs, and addressing general inquiries regarding an extensive assortment of supplies and invaluable hazardous equipment. Alexis was also entrusted with safeguarding Personally Identifiable Information (PII), reinforcing the importance of data security and privacy. Furthermore, Alexis acquired valuable skill sets that she still utilizes today.

Alexis also holds the distinction of being an Iraq veteran, having undertaken a deployment to the region. This experience bolstered her expertise and honed her ability to navigate complex and challenging situations. Over the course of her Air Force career, she achieved significant academic milestones and earned an Associate’s Degree of Applied Science in Logistics from the Community College of the Air Force. She also attained a Bachelor’s Degree of Arts in Social & Criminal Justice with Magna Cum Laude honors from the University of Arizona Global Campus, formally Ashford University.

Photos Provided by T. Alexis Byrd

Today, Alexis owns Astylux, LLC, a diverse notary company based in Wayne County. Their services include Notarizations, Mobile Notary Services, Electronic Notarization, In-Person Electronic Notarization (IPEN), I-9 Employment Verification Forms, Efficient Courier Services, Comprehensive Administrative Support, Notary Signing Agent, Witnessing Services, and Apostille Agent Services.

“Our services come to you,” Alexis says. “We utilize our extended knowledge of the federal and state laws, immeasurable customer service skills, leadership, and compassion to ensure essential documents of community patrons are legally authenticated, protected, and transported safely with the utmost confidentiality and care.” Convenience is provided at your doorstep with exceptional Mobile Notary Services. “Our team brings the notarization process to you. Whether it’s your residence, business, or place of employment, we are committed to making notarization hassle-free and accessible,” she says. Astylux was recently aligned with the EscrowTab platform to integrate IPEN Services. “We expertly fuse in-person and electronic processes,” Alexis says, “redefining notarization for enhanced efficiency, real-time updates, and advanced encryption techniques.”

As a Notary Signing Agent, Alexis partners with various Title Companies, Lenders, Borrowers, Sellers, Escrow Officers, Loan Officers, Attorneys, Settlement Agents, Real Estate Agents and various Signing Agencies. “We ensure a seamless process, acting as impartial witnesses and ensuring swift communication with lenders.” Providing Apostille Agent Services ensures her client’s documents are properly authenticated by the Secretary of State for international use. Whether it’s a vital record, legal document, or business agreement, her company navigates the complexities of the apostille process.

So how did Alexis start her company? She says, nearly five years prior to her retirement from the U.S. Air Force, a journey unfolded that would shape her into a business owner. She learned the role of a notary held the potential to greatly enrich and uplift her community. Her vision went beyond the conventional, encompassing the creation of a meticulously tailored mobile notary service to meet the unique needs of Wayne County and its neighboring regions. She emphasizes, “While our services are finely tuned for this specific region, it’s crucial to note that they are designed to benefit everyone, regardless of location or background. We aim to reach a wide, diverse audience, ensuring that quality assistance is accessible to all.”

Drawing on her expertise as a Logistician and her educational background in Social & Criminal Justice, Alexis developed an integrated notary and courier service that aligned with the convenience-driven ethos of the community. She also aimed to create opportunities for employment and mentorship, nurturing local talents in business and notarial domains. She immersed herself in over twenty Small Business Association courses, both in physical and virtual spaces. She served as an Apostille Agent, an I-9 Employment Verification Authorized Representative, a Notary Signing Agent, and even a Courier. Alexis enrolled in the Notary class at Wayne Community College and the Electronic Notary course at Wake Tech Community College. By August 2021, she proudly became a Commissioned Notary. She was then

certified as a Notary Signing Agent in March 2022. She obtained her courier license in June 2022. On February 14, 2022, Astylux LLC was formed. The grand inauguration of Astylux Notary & Courier Services on July 1, 2022, marked the beginning of a significant chapter devoted to redefining notarial and courier services in her community.

Alexis says she appreciates the opportunity to make a meaningful contribution to her community. “Every day brings the chance to connect with diverse individuals, expanding my network while keeping stress at bay. The continuous learning, whether it’s about business dynamics, local insights, or new regulations, keeps me engaged and educated. This knowledge is a gift I’m eager to share, allowing me to teach others along the way.”

Alexis appreciates the individuals who have had a significant influence in making her the accomplished woman she is today. One is Reverend James N. Holloway, her grandfather. He pastored while concurrently owning a highly regarded janitorial service in Hickory, NC. Alongside him, she credits her grandmother, Nettie G. Liles-Holloway, who served as a dedicated first lady and a missionary, deeply involved in community outreach.

Alexis also acknowledges the support of her customers. “Each time they reach out, or I arrive at their location, their genuine gratitude and sense of relief leave a lasting impact. Their overwhelmingly positive reviews are uplifting and serve as a driving force, propelling me to push forward and consistently enhance the services I offer,” she says.

Looking ahead, Alexis shares her plans involve a steadfast dedication to continuous learning as a notary and business owner. “ I’m committed to elevating my brand’s presence by acquiring innovative skills, enabling me to effectively engage with a broader audience. In summary, my vision includes a continuous journey of self-improvement, expanding my brand’s influence through innovative skills, and extending my impact beyond local boundaries,” she concludes.

To learn more about Astylux, LLC and the services they offer, please visit their website.

Eller Lundy Broken Men Foundation

By Terry L. Watson

Photos Provided by Ellery Lundy

Ellery Lundy is the President and Founder of The Broken Men Foundation. His nonprofit organization is designed to help men deal with trauma from various life situations, whether it be divorce, separation, drug abuse, gun safety, gun prevention, and more.

A native of Richmond, VA, Ellery says that just because someone is broken, it doesn’t mean they should stay broken. “We want to teach men through our program how to take back the community and lead in a positive way. We also want to extend our hands to the youth and raise boys to become men,” Ellery says. “Men have a tendency not to communicate. We act out in different fashions, sometimes resulting in domestic violence, becoming abusive parents, or worse. Men must understand they aren’t alone in this journey, and it is okay to talk about the past and move forward.”

In 2014, the Academy began with only three participants. Since then, its focus has specialized on mentoring young men between the ages of 12-18 and offering a 16-week curriculum covering a variety of topics aimed at better understanding adolescent behavior to allow our mentors to teach problem-solving skills.

Our ultimate goal is to make young men accountable for their actions, thus enabling them to become productive members of our community.”

Ellery shares his organization is deeply rooted in academic achievement, the establishment of social skills, self-esteem and responsibility, citizenship, and community involvement. “Our ultimate goal is to make young men accountable for their actions, thus enabling them to become productive members of our community.” As of 2023, they have graduated over 500 men.

Ellery has been certified in the Fatherhood Initiative program for fragile families through the Virginia Department of State Social Services and Certified in Crisis Intervention. He has coached various sports in the community, from girl’s basketball to little league football, and has also officiated numerous games from little league, high school, and even semi-pro.

The Broken Men Foundation gives back to its community with its outreach program. In September, they conducted a back-to-school supply event. In October, they will conduct a breast cancer walk to raise cancer awareness, and in November, they will conduct a Thanksgiving food drive and give food to families in need. Additionally, they will partner with other organizations in December to give away toys to families.

Ellery shares that what he loves most about his foundation is dealing with the unknown. “When we have young men into our program, we may not always know what they are dealing with. We began by letting our mentees know that we love them. We want them to know that none of us are perfect, and we are all in this thing together,” he says.

Ellery acknowledges his mother, Lydia Lundy, for instilling sound values into him and his siblings. “She always told me as a young man that I was no less than any other man. My mother told me whenever I needed to tell a man something, to look into his eyes and tell it. She taught us to be respectful and confident,” he says.

Of course, Ellery couldn’t do all that he does alone. A stellar group of individuals, such as Steve Clarke, the Executive Director and Vice President of the organization, surrounds him. There is also James Fobbs, Keith Adams, Pastor Calvin Harris, Shawn Hobbs, Troy Mithcell, James Jones, Charles Johnson, Chris McNeil, Ray Smith, Rickey Brown, William Simmons, and Leroy Terry Cain, Jr. Some additional assistance comes by way of Doreen Lundy, Joe Lajoie, and Rachel Fenton.

When asked if he would change anything about his journey with the organization, Ellery says he wishes he would leave his job sooner. “Other than that, there is nothing I would change. I believe we are where we are supposed to be in life. I appreciate every part of the journey,” he says.

Looking ahead, Ellery hopes to take his organization to higher heights. “I want to make our organization bigger than organizations like ours. I want to secure more grants and help our organization to be bigger than the Boys & Girls Club and the YMCA. Those are both great organizations, and we have the opportunity to reach even more young men. I want to secure a building and buses to transport our group to events outside Richmond. I want to ensure they are exposed to the things that will help them continue to succeed.

To learn more about the Broken Men Foundation, please visit their website.

Ellery Lundy

Ashton Hairston

The son of Shannon Hairston

Doula & Nanny, LLC.

By Terry L. Watson Photos Provided by Victoria Hart

According to Merriam-Webster’s online dictionary, the definition of a doula is a person trained to provide advice, information, emotional support, and physical comfort to a mother before, during, and just after childbirth. This definition accurately describes Victoria Hart.

The Mississippi Gulfport resident owns Hart of A Doula & Nanny, LLC. Her company offers various levels of support, such as physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. With her nanny services, Victoria provided exceptional childcare as well. “My services are designed for all but mainly for those who need that extra hand,” she shares.

At just 27, Victoria has already accomplished a lot. She has enjoyed four years of marriage with her husband, Jarell, and besides being an aspiring entrepreneur, she has a bachelor’s degree in Natural Science. Even more, Victoria was on the road to obtaining her BSN but God said otherwise. More touching is how she describes motherhood. “I am an Angel Mom to five Angel Babies. My time will come when God says that I am ready.”

Victoria launched her business in October 2021 after Victoria’s cousin, who was expecting her second child, asked her to be her doula. “My cousin’s first birth experience was the opposite of how she planned it. She researched that having a doula by her side might empower her to take control of her birth. Once she asked me, I immediately fell in love with everything a doula stands for. In January 2022, her VBAC (Vaginal Birth After Cesarean) was extremely successful. That experience hugely impacted my doula business, and as a result, it flourished. Currently, I have 25 Doula Babies,” she says.

While Victoria started her nanny business in April 2022, she has served as a nanny since she was 19. “It was basically a summer job while on break from college. However, I have always loved watching kids, even as a kid myself,” she says. Victoria now has 45 “Nanny Babies”.

When asked what inspires her the most about her business, Victoria shared that, regarding being a doula, seeing how black women were mistreated during pregnancy and even childbirth made her realize how much of an impact she could make in their lives. “I have been discriminated against in the medical field concerning infertility issues, so I know firsthand what that can feel like.” In response to the same question pertaining to being a nanny, she says, “In this day and age, it is hard to trust people with your kids because you never know their true intentions. With me, on the other hand, my intentions are pure from the start, and my parents can tell. I desire to be the extra help they need when they cannot find it anywhere else.”

Victoria says she really loves what she does. She shares that hearing how her attendance during the birthing experience or watching her client’s children changed their lives for the better makes it all worth it. “I just do what I love. I have been told numerous times that I inspire other people to follow their passions. The fact that I followed my passion and can help families in need and still pay my bills is all that I need.”

Growing both businesses has proven to be a little challenging, but fortunately for Victoria, the assistance of social media has helped in many ways. Additionally, finding ways to fund her businesses has been a learning experience. Victoria says she wished she had obtained funding before jumping into entrepreneurship. “I just jumped in, head and HART first, no questions asked,” she says.

In the future, Victoria hopes to open a birthing center in her area. Currently, there isn’t one, and she says doctors are afraid to open one due to liability issues. She also hopes to open a postpartum care center to provide care for the first few weeks after birth, which can sometimes be rough with the transition into being a newborn mom. Victoria has plans in the works for a daycare center with after-hour options.