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Ritu Kamra Kumar

The refrigerator would be overcrowded as hundred of sandwiches were stored in it. His surprise birthday gift would be kept at a place that would be out of his reach. In a quick succession of time, he grew up, an adolescent, and my cuddling and pampering continued as I still regarded him as a kid. True children never grow up for parents. His birthday parties now were held in restaurants with his besties and he came home all smeared with cake and coke on his face. Dinners at home with near and dear ones concluded a blissful day of celebrations. All through these years, one thing remained intact, his strong emotional bond with us. He grew up to be a caring and compassionate, cheerful and charming lad whose priority remained his parents' happiness and well-being. When he left for his higher studies in Manipal, we feel empty home syndrome and became emotionally unstable. Each letter and note that he wrote from there became a prized possession. His living far from home turned him into a fairly mature lad with independence and an attitude of free will. It cemented the bond further.

Now, as he flies his wings with his wife by his side to far-off places due to his professional compulsions his loving and lively gestures, and surprise visits keep our laughing quotient in perfect health and good humor. So now the roles have reversed. It is he who counsels us in high and low notes of life, cheers us as a friend, advises us as an elder, and takes care of us as a God-sent angel. We have learned a lot from him to love and to be loved. If this whole world is blessed with the light of sons like him, never will a mother be hurt, and never will a mother end up in grief. What does world feminism mean? I would say with pride and head held high “Enlightened sons and progressive mothers”. May his tribe increase!

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