THE BARSTOW SCHOOL • 2023–2024
IMPACT REPORT
WELCOME
As we celebrate The Barstow School’s 140th anniversary, I am delighted to reflect on our storied past and the exciting advancements ahead. The 2024–2025 school year not only marks a historic moment for our school, but also highlights the strength and generosity of our community. Your support has been instrumental in driving our mission forward and achieving many milestones.
This past year was remarkable because of the extraordinary generosity of our donors. Combined with a historic 2021 gift from an anonymous donor, we were able to construct a state-of-the-art athletic center and complete a second entrance to our school. These projects enhance our campus infrastructure and ensure that Barstow remains at the forefront of providing an exemplary educational environment.
Additions to our physical campus symbolize our commitment to excellence and our readiness to meet future challenges. Our donors’ support is a testament to the confidence they have in us to continue providing a top-tier education and to uphold our mission to provide symmetrical development of mind, body, and character.
We are deeply grateful for our community’s unwavering support. Thank you for being an integral part of our ongoing story. As we honor our past and look to the future, I am reminded of the incredible achievements we have made since 1884, and will continue to make together.
Sincerely,
Shane A. Foster President of The Barstow Schools
“Education should open windows for you on every side to see all that has gone on in the past and therefore understand what is going on in the present.”
Mary Louis Barstow, Founder
OUR YEAR IN REVIEW
HONORS, ACCOLADES AND THE BARSTOW EXPERIENCE
AUGUST
The Barstow School opens with a record enrollment of 775 preschool–grade 12 students.
SEPTEMBER
Six seniors named National Merit Scholarship semifinalists — nearly 10% of the Class of 2024: Liane Bdair, Jack Cuezze, Raj Fanaswala, Daniel John, Connor Lucido, Paranjay Sharma.
OCTOBER
Barstow named to the 2023 AP School Honor Roll, Platinum Level, for college prep excellence.
NOVEMBER
FIRST Robotics Team 1939 revives GoBabyGo! Community Build, hosting six teams at the Dan & Cassidy Towriss IDEA Space for an adaptive mobility service project.
DECEMBER
Upper school cybersecurity finishes first in the Missouri gold division of the National Youth Cyber Defense Competition.
JANUARY
Barstow begins a yearlong celebration of our 140th year. Founded in 1884, Barstow is the oldest independent school west of the Mississippi River.
FEBRUARY
Basketball standout Aidan Lawlor ‘24 named one of ten Hy-Vee Scholar Athletes of the Year.
MARCH
Barstow debaters win the Cross River Classic novice policy debate championship in Iowa City.
APRIL
Diya Krishnan, grade 7, and Joseph Giacondo and Pier Lashbrook, grade 6, win first place in the junior division of the Greater Kansas City Regional Science and Engineering Fair.
MAY
Barstow chosen as one of 30 international founding schools in the Responsible AI in Learning (RAIL) cohort by the Middle States Association.
JUNE
Based on community voting, Barstow earns four 2024 KC Favorites awards: favorite private school, elementary school, middle school and summer camp program.
BUILDING ON EXCELLENCE
ATHLETIC CENTER NAMED FOR PRESIDENT SHANE FOSTER
Barstow is proud to open the Foster Athletic Center, a facility that reshapes campus and reconfirms the school’s commitment to athletic excellence, in September 2024. The 12,000 square foot, two-story center features state-of-the-art golf hitting bays, a dance studio, locker rooms, event space, a concession stand and an outdoor patio with views of the soccer and baseball fields. The center is named in honor of President Shane Foster, who will retire in June 2025 after 17 years of dedicated leadership. The $3.5 million center was funded by an anonymous donor, who gave a $7.5 million gift in 2021.
“On behalf of the Board of Trustees, we extend our deepest gratitude to Shane for his bold leadership and for his commitment to the mission and values of The Barstow School,” Board Chair Soni Patel said.
KNIGHTS DRIVE
EAGERLY AWAITED SECOND ENTRANCE OPENS
Barstow’s second entrance, Knights Drive, is now officially open. This new driveway is located south of the existing Barstow School Drive entrance, running alongside the outfield fence of the Graves Family Baseball Stadium. It provides access to the Foster Athletic Center and middle school entrance. Additionally, two new parking lots have been constructed, adding 147 parking spaces. Through the 2022–2023 Driving Forward campaign, our community generously contributed $1 million, matched by a $1.3 million gift from an anonymous donor, bringing the total to $2.3 million raised.
MARQUEE REFRESH
In March, the iconic State Line Road marquee received a facelift that included brick and mortar repair, a bolder dimensional nameplate and a new message board insert for celebrating student accomplishments.
WELCOMING WALKWAY
A brick-lined walkway leading to the middle school entrance acknowledges donors who gave $5,000 or more to Driving Forward. The walkway is surrounded by beautiful landscaping and benches.
RESTORED & IMPROVED
The Sears Memorial Gateway, dedicated in 1972, has also been restored. Brick pillars that flank the circle drive were repaired and capped with new lights. Aging planters were replaced with custom stone work.
ROOTS OF REMEMBRANCE
ENHANCING OUTDOOR SPACES FOR OUR COMMUNITY
This campaign offers the Barstow community an opportunity to honor or remember loved ones by purchasing a tree, bench or picnic table (or other options), each accompanied by a personalized plaque. It’s also a unique way to celebrate milestone reunions or any special occasion.
By contributing to this campaign, you not only commemorate cherished individuals or moments but also help beautify and enhance our outdoor spaces for everyone to enjoy. Join us in honoring memories and strengthening community connections through the Roots of Remembrance campaign.
To learn more about this campaign and its opportunities, visit www.barstowschool.org/support#roots-of-remembrance
THE BARSTOW SCHOOL DONOR REPORT
THANK YOU SO MUCH for your incredible generosity this past year! Your contributions were truly above and beyond. They embody the very essence of The Barstow School, as stated by Mary Louise Barstow, that our mission is “to promote sound scholarship and to give symmetrical development to mind, body, and character.”
Your support of The Barstow Fund has enabled us to offer scholarships and financial aid to students, provide competitive compensation to attract and retain high-quality teachers, and invest in security measures to ensure a safe learning environment, and much more.
Thanks to your support, our 140 year mission of nurturing brilliant minds and well-rounded individuals continues to reach new heights! We are grateful for your unwavering support on behalf of the Board of Trustees.
With sincere gratitude,
Erin Garrison Board of Trustees
Advancement Chair
2024–2025 BOARD OF TRUSTEES
EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE
MEMBERS
KEY TO DONOR REPORT SYMBOLS
The Barstow Fund Donor The Barstow Fund plays a crucial role in maintaining the high standards of our school’s operations and ensuring the ongoing excellence of our academic, arts and athletic programs.
Endowment Fund Donor The Endowment Fund serves as a long-term savings account for the school. Contributions to the endowment are invested indefinitely, and a portion of the principal is allocated each year to support the school’s programs and needs.
Designated Gifts Donor These generous individuals contribute to scholarships and projects that enhance our campus, supporting various needs for the benefit of students, faculty and staff.
In-Kind Donor In-kind donors generously provide goods and services instead of monetary contributions, such as donating equipment and supplies to support Barstow’s initiatives.
IDEA Space Donor We honor donors who support the Dan & Cassidy Towriss IDEA Space KC. We appreciate those who believe in the power of an IDEA and support innovation, discovery, entrepreneurship and arts.
Armillary Society Member Armillary Society members have donated consecutively for five or more years and exemplify our culture of philanthropy.
CONSTITUENTS
The Barstow Community has many supporters from different groups, all sharing a common goal to uphold the school’s mission.
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2023–2024 Trustee
Every effort is made to ensure the donor list is accurate and complete. This report includes received, pledged and in-kind contributions from July 1, 2023–June 30, 2024. If there is an error or omission, please accept our apologies and contact Jennifer Dreiling, Vice President Advancement, so that future publications will be accurate.
2023–2024
DONOR REPORT
WITH GRATITUDE. Supporters listed here raised $1.4 million in 2023–2024.
STANDARDS HIGH SOCIETY
$1,000,000 and above
Anonymous Donor
MIND BODY CHARACTER SOCIETY
$100,000–$999,999
Backstrom Family Foundation
Anne and JB Hodgdon
Ewing Marion Kauffman Foundation
Cassidy Rudman Towriss ’12 and Dan Towriss
1884 FOUNDERS SOCIETY
$25,000–$99,999
Fry Orthodontics Specialists
Kompass Kapital Foundation
Stephanie and Michael Kulp
Jane Anne M. Moran ’58*
Carla and Danny O’Neill Foundation
Michelle and Timothy Prier
SAGE Dining Services, Inc
Norman C. Schultz Foundation
Elizabeth Betsey G. Sutton ’38*
Anonymous Donor
MARY LOUISE BARSTOW SOCIETY
$10,000–$24,999
Jennifer Gille Bacon and Charles Bacon
Allison and Derek Dummermuth
The Fox Family Foundation
Anne Thompson Gartner ’44*
Graves Family Foundation
Pam and Porky Joerling
Krause Family Foundation
McCandless Family Foundation
Norquist-Robinson Foundation Anne N. Patterson ’61
Ginger and Robert Rothhaas
Carrie and Erik Samartino
Burton Sexton ’96 and Anne Sexton
Eric Swearingen
Lindsay and Jason Taylor
Shelley King Theis ’71
The United Way of Greater Kansas City
Rutherford Van Voorst Charitable Remainder Trust
Westphal Family Charitable Foundation
Anonymous Donor
ADA K. BRANN SOCIETY
$5,000–$9,999
Andrea Baca
Amy and Jonathan Bauman
Amber Branson
Jan Clarkson ’80
Maria C. Spressao Doretto ’72 and Do Doretto
Kevin Dunn and Robert Legler
Polly and Shane Foster
Nicki and Jeremy Fry
Deanna and Greg Graves
Gretchen Gregory and Stephen Brodd
Megan and Robert Holmes
Chelsea and Alex Jurrens
Carol Mosman McNeer ’63 and J. Frederick McNeer
JoZach Miller ’80 and Peter Bali
Onsite Construction
Terri and Viraj Patel
Jessica and Demetrius Peterson
Jason Press ’90 and Caleb Hartzler
BARSTOW SOCIETY
$1,500–$4,999
AesthetiCare MedSpa
Akshay Anand
Anne and Regev Alon
Krista Overstreet and Danny Arment
Ascend Wealth Management
Nicole and Aaron Baker
Cassie Morrow Banka ’05 and Chad Banka
Cheri and Robert Brooks
Joel Brous ’88 and Carrie Brous
Brooke and John Cardarella
CBIZ
Community Capital Fund
Cornell Roofing & Sheet Metal Co.
Twyla Dell
Sheila and William Donovan
Beth and Christopher Eperjesy
Dody and Brian Everist
Joseph Fox ’04 and Hannah Fox
Kristin and Ford Galvin
Erin and Andy Garrison
Laura Hockaday Hall ’83 and David Hall
Sean Hart ’87
Mandy Haslag and Stephen Wiles
Monisha Ireland and John Ireland
J.E. Dunn Construction Company
Jan Johnson
Dipinpreet Rai and Amandeep Kalra
Karats Jewelers
Kauffman Foundation Matching Gifts Program
Laura and Christian Kaufman
Tara and Carmen Kesner
Sarah and Travis Kramer
Amy and Christopher Krantz
Deborah and Ronald Krantz
Erica and Greg Lubbers
Rajya and Pat Malay
Multistudio
Sara and Michael O’Keefe
Douglas W. Pagan ’89 and Jenny Pagan
Aradhana and Vishal Pandey
Soni and Amar Patel
Shobha Patel
Pro-Mechanical, LLC
Quality Plumbing
Christy Rodes and Ferd Good
Emily Eschbacher Rucker ’96
Brandi and Jordan Scafe
Schreiber Charitable Trust
Schwab Charitable
Heather Sherman ’84 and David Fandel
Spencer Fane, LLP
Laura Riss Stanford ’74 and Lee Stanford
Summit Lawn and Landscape, Inc.
Nancy Embry Thiessen ’66‡ and Michael Thiessen
Kirby Upjohn ’66
US Bank Foundation
Molly and Eric Westphal
Thomas Whittaker ’83 and Loren Whittaker
Janet and Mark Yagan
Ashlee and Aaron Yager
Yellow Dog Networks
Katie and Ryan Zeldin
Anonymous Donor
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KNIGHTS SOCIETY
$500–$1,499
Michelle and Luke Abbott
Jennifer Bailey and David Cramer
Debby and David Bell
Susan Bernstein ’88 and Chucker Luetje
Diane Virden Brent ’64 and J. Ford Brent II
Lesleigh and Tolga Cetinguc
Jessica and Jason Chanos
Coco Cheung and Victor Zhang
Mary Jo Cianciaruso
Kristine and Kipp Cooper
Betty Ann Cortelyou ’61
Monique and Tim Cowden
Betty Curry
Mignon Goetz DeShon ’54* and Dick DeShon
Elizabeth Dummermuth
Karen Dummermuth
Stephanie and Adam Elyachar
Laura and Steve Fox
Sabrina Galante and Maximiliano Caballero Vieyra
Kory Gallagher
Susie and Ryan George
Tara and Brian Georgie
Dana and Christopher Goodwin
Karen and Sean Greenwood
Debbie Harris
Amy Hasty
Katrina Waldrop Henke ’80 and Thomas Henke
Emily Horak
Brette and Gregory Humphreys
Alyssa and Philip Jennings
Ram Kalra
Khyati and Rahul Kapur
Victoria Hoss Lee ’09 and Ryan Lee
Shelly Legler
Beth and Michael Liss
Sue Welsh Macintosh ’61 and Robert Macintosh
Kevin D. Martin ’74 and Carolyn Martin
Timothy Martin ’81 and Janice Martin
Wendy and John Marvin
Georgette Carkener McConnell ’61 and Michael McConnell
Jennifer and Dan McNickle
Esin Cakmakci Midia and Ramin Midia
Maegan and Cameron Miller
Mpress
Deanna and Todd Nelson
Ashley and Gregory Nerman
Mary Phelps
Kulnarin and Brett Purcell
Anna Braukmann Raccuglia ’99 and Paul Raccuglia ’99
Jill Ingram Reynolds ’74
Henrietta Robertson ’68 and Heaton Robertson
Carrie and Michael Robinson
Shane Rudman ’10 and Minka Rudman
Lisa Jones Schellhorn ’68 and Charles Schellhorn
Cathy King Schultz ’96 and Edward Schultz
Emely and Gary Seaton
Jackee Shepherd
Stefanie and Rachel Shustek
Tiffany and Allan Simpson
Elizabeth and Bryan Smith
Brooke and Matthew Thompson
Jeff Thompson
Lauren and David Thompson
Erin Thornburgh and Paul Fast
Lisa Tillema
Sarah and Kyle Tulp
Lauren and Corbin Umstattd
Jennifer Thiessen Waldeck ’90 and John Waldeck
Audra and Derrick Ward
Maurice A. Watson ’76
Joan Gregg Zacher ’59
*denotes deceased ‡denotes honorary alumni
GREEN AND WHITE SOCIETY
up to $499
Tammy and J. Ken Adams
Charlotte Adelsperger
Miriam Anderson
Andrew Appel ’87 and Clara Keller
Art of Sports
Russ Ascheman
Rhonda and Andy Atkins
Janice Germann Baker ’65 and James Baker
Candice and Ian Baldwin
Jack M. Balkin ’74 and Margret Wolfe
Liz Bartow‡
Mallory and Jimmy Becker
Andrea Franz Becker ’08 and Will Becker
Linda Morgan Bell ’62 and Richard Bell
Carey and Austin Bickford
Susie and Paul Blackman
Walter Brayman‡
Sarah and Nathan Brecheisen
Blaine M. Bridenball ’95
Jeanne Brown ’14
Sharon Brown
Michelle Brunell and Kristine Wright
Amie and Brad Buckner
Molly and Jason Camis
Anne Sutton Canfield ’63
Kristina and Brett Carlgren
Joseph D. Chilen ’12
Elizabeth Bolton Christenberry ’74 and Robert Christenberry
Zach Claster
Gayle and Roy Cockerham
Susan Coddon
Karen Collins
Wendy and Eric Conaway
Gabriel Cook
Natalie and Sam Cook
Clay Copilevitz ’87
Megan and Steven Culver
Ellen and Scott‡ Daniel
Patricia Davies
Nicholas Dawar ’15
Nirmala Deshmukh
Neha and Samir Doshi
Jennifer and Scott Dreiling
Deborah Arthur Dribben ’52
Christian Duke
Nick Earnest ’97 and Abbi Joseph Earnest
Charlene Elliott
Wendee Elliott-Clement and Joseph Clement
Christi and Peter Ellis
Bill Erwin
Rebecca Murphy Evans and Ryan Evans
Annie Fairchild
Lisa Senter Fairchild ’77 and Charles Fairchild
Heather and Mark Fehling
Toney Findley
Gregory Fox ’08 and Maggie Fox
Kenneth Fox ’10
Wendy Franz
Stephanie Freeland and Ron Youngblood
Chloe Friesema ’11 and Nicole Friesema
Faith and Joe Bob Fuller
Fun Services of KC, LLC
Terri and Fritz‡ Gabler
Annie and Kent Gajewski
Annabel Mancillas and David Gajewski
Amy and Pat Galvin
Claudia Kelley Gant ’70
Rebecca Garry
Ronna and Josh Garry
Debbie Gates ’74 and Marvin Gates II ’73
Cynthia Gibson ’66
Jill Gilgus
Andy Gill
Justin Goldsborough ’98
George Goode
Adina and Sean Goodman
Lindsey and Robert Graham
Meg Truog Grandcolas ’88 and Gary Grandcolas
Mitchell Gratwick II‡
Aaron Greenbaum ’12
Cheryl Wilhite Greene ’73
Sandra and James Gregory
Anh and James Griffith
Pamela Sutherland Gyllenborg ’72 and John Gyllenborg ’72
Beth Hafner
Aileen Har and David Coddon
Jamie and Jay Harkar
Kolby Harlin
Ronald Harmon
Ashley Harper ’88
Phyllis Rahm Hart ’55
Nelopher Hathiary and Tayeb Fanaswala
Cathy Heath-Williams
Serri and Steve Helm
James L. Helman ’78
Marsha‡ and Reber Herdliska
Sara Hernandez
Paget Gates Higgins ’59 and Thomas Higgins
Mary and Scott‡ Hill
Sarah Hill
Sarah and Sean Holmes
Emily Huffman ’81
Ellyn and Megan Hunter
Nancy and Joe Huppe
Katie and Scott‡ Huppe
Anne Hyvrard‡
Karthik and Preeti Iyer
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The Barstow community enjoyed an elegant evening to support our school at the Green & White Gala on Saturday, Oct. 7, 2023. Hundreds of guests enjoyed cocktails, dinner and dancing at Studio Dan Meiner. The gala raised nearly $310,000 for campus safety and security enhancements, including a mass communication system, camera server upgrades, two-way radios and new entry doors.
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Sherri Jacobson Jacobs ’87 and Jon Jacobs
Scott B. Jantz ’95
Jordan Johnson
Kerry and Ron Johnson
Elias Jones
Leigh Jones-Bamman ’70
Gina Kaefring
Sheetal and Kiran Kakarala
Lauren Kanan ’15 and William Kanan ’13
KC Happy Campers Glamping Parties and Picnics
Linda Schooling Kekina ’68
Janet Kelley ’67
Courtney Kendall
Christina and Todd Kieffer
Jean Titus Kiene ’60
Lilly Kissee
Sarah and David Knights
Krista and Paul Knoflicek
Gretchen Eschbacher Koch ’93
James Korneman ’93
Julie Kramschuster
Emma Krasnopoler ’15
Carol Davis Krueger ’79
Bridget Kukuk
Swapnam and Lala Kumar
Lilli and Anthony Lackey
Rae Ann and David Lackey
Ann Hatfield Lane ’70 and Gary Lane
Cindy McCollum Larson ’89 and Mark Larson
Emily Leavey
Claire Lednicky ’15
Gordon K. Lenci‡
Chandi and Paul Levin
Mark Lewis ’96 Sara Lewis
Teresa Lorenz-Do and Lam Do
*denotes deceased ‡denotes honorary alumni
Loretta Losse Boyd
Mary Lynne Lucido and Phillip Lucido
Gay Lee Ludwig-Bonney and Robert S. Bonney
Amanda Marvin and Martin Benega
Christina Payne McAllister ’87
Brenda McCandless
Sarah Walsh McClanahan ’54 and Robert McClanahan
Ann McCray ’78
Renee McGhee-Lenart
Sharon McKibben
Mira Mdivani
The Inn at Meadowbrook
George T. Mensch
Jan Merrill
Catherine Metcalf
Jo Mettenburg and James L. Zenk
Marilyn and Kurt Metzl
Microsoft Rewards/Give with Bing
Deborah Miles
Judy Field Miller ’59 and John Miller
Terry Miller
Kristi Mitchell‡ and Mark Swezey
Asha Molina
David Moore ’87 and Jann Stevens-Moore
Nathan Moore
Gresham Morrison ’94
Aisha Sharif and David Muhammad
Stephanie Tucker Muir
Gena Munsch
Byron Myers ’94
Lori and Scott Myron
Angela and Chad Nadler
Sue Nagy‡
Brent Neihart ’09 and Rachel Neihart
Wendy Ketterman Neihart ’79 and David Neihart ’79
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GIFTS THAT GIVE BACK
At The Barstow School, donations are more than just financial contributions—they are gifts that give back. Donations create a ripple effect that enables us to provide unparalleled learning experiences for students, enhance our campus and build community.
OUR STUDENTS
The Integrity Award Established by Shelley King Theis ’71, this annual $12,000 grant supports four upper school students who display exemplary character and passion for academics, arts, athletics or service.
Backstrom Family Scholarship awards
$40,000 annually to support a minimum of two upper or middle school students of color in their educational journey.
The Todd Epsten ’78 Award for Excellence in Broadcast Journalism honors a BTVN senior who excels in storytelling and leadership; includes $250 for college tuition.
OUR CAMPUS
Senior Circle Armillary dedicated by Jan Clarkson ’80, memorializes the spirit of her classmate and friend, Cathy Trenton ’80.
American Flag and Flagpole A $10,000 donation from the children of Karen Van
Voorst Turner ’53 in memory of her patriotism and love for Barstow.
Garden and Orchard The trust of Elizabeth “Betsey” G. Sutton provided $27,000 to relocate and improve the school garden on the northeast side of campus.
OUR COMMUNITY
Betsi Brooks Krumm Award honors an outstanding faculty member in memory of Betsi Brooks Krumm ’90, an alumna who dedicated her career to teaching. The award is accompanied by a monetary gift.
Mid-America Regional Council
$7,000 grant to the Dan & Cassidy Towriss IDEA Space to create EcoSpark Waste Reduction Challenge.
Ewing Marion Kauffman Foundation
$225,000 grant to continue and strengthen our Inclusion, Equity, and Diversity (ID+E) learning initiatives and community programs.
BARSTOW BEYOND
Our campuses, programs and experiences extend far beyond State Line Road, providing opportunities for students to broaden their understanding of the world.
INO BARSTOW JOINS INTERNATIONAL CAMPUSES
Opened in Istanbul, Türkiye, in September 2023, INO Barstow joins our Ghana and China campuses in creating global recognition of the Barstow name and adding a revenue stream to support Kansas City operations since 2014.
RETURN TO INTERNATIONAL TRAVEL
Twenty-one upper school students travelled to Malaga and Seville, Spain, with faculty members Amanda Marvin, Matt Thurman and Mallory Plunghken May 24–June 7. The cultural immersion trip included the exchange of mayoral proclamations between sister cities Kansas City and Seville declaring May 25, 2024, as a Day of Cultural Understanding.
DAN & CASSIDY TOWRISS IDEA SPACE
Our STEAM learning center in Leawood, Kansas, provided innovative experiences in science, technology, engineering, arts and math to 2,360 students in 2023–2024.
» 118% enrollment growth in after school classes
» 17 Barstow electives for 184 middle & upper school students
» KC STEM Alliance Remake Learning Days site
» 55 metro schools and districts served
BARSTOW GLOBAL ONLINE
Our k–12 online school meets the growing demand for a non-traditional education.
» 51 full and part-time students enrolled
» 43 courses offered
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Linda Terrill and Ben Neill
Ruby and Richard Nelson
Network for Good
Irit and Gil Nevat
Carly and Tim Ning
Julia Norton-Keidel
Annabel Fisher Nutter ’49‡
Daly Jordan O’Brien ’63
Tom O’Brien
Susan Olander ’74
Barbie and Terry O’Toole
Lesly Ozar
Mary Lou Pagano‡
Ami Parekh Gordon ’96 and Lance Gordon
Teresa Lo and Rex Parker
Mary Beth and Frank Patry
Cheryl and Glen Payne
Patricia Payne
Mary Ann Peacher
Joseph Penn ’14
Brandon Pepin ’94 and Yayoi Domae
Joan and Larry Perkins
Barbara Peterson
Drew Petty
Amy McCarthy-Phillips ’69
Piersol Foundation, Inc.
Reinhold Pircher
Mallory and Andrew Plungkhen
Robert B. Pohl ’89 and Kristen Pohl
Andrea Poisner-Corchine
Reina and Chandler Poore
Beni Porat
Becky and Mark Presko
Kasie and Nick Presko
Marlena Puckett and Michael Gonzales
*denotes deceased ‡denotes honorary alumni
Kati Purmort
Joni and Philip Rauen
Shanchiya Ravindradas and Romain Calini
Ann North Readey ’66 and John Readey
Page Branton Reed ’73 and Bruce Reed
Erica and Jay Reich
Jean Baumgardt Reichenbach ’70
Danielle Reno and Peter Garrett
Anne Butler Rice ’86 and Eric Rice
Ashlee Robinson and John McLeod
Christy Roitz
Mindy Roper‡
Jan Rosenthal
Dian and Don Roth
Jennifer and Steve Roth
Alex J. Rubin ’93
Joannie and Rodger Rudkin
Deann and Carlos Salazar
Kurt Schlanker
Stacy B. Chick Schleicher ’90 and Brian Schleicher
Leslie and Scott Schulte
Sydney Schwartz
Abha and Aakash Shah
Priyanka and Prateek Sharma
Marnyka Honeycutt and Mark Sharp
Kara and Daniel Sherwood
Sonya and Christopher Shore
Nasra Siad and Abebaw Assefa
Debra Siler
Nikki and Dan Sims
Kendra Spahr and Todd Race
Allison and Joseph Spicer
Amanda Stallings
Melanie and Don‡ Stelting
Norma Stevens‡
Marian Rene Street
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THE HERITAGE SOCIETY
The Heritage Society honors donors who have left a legacy for The Barstow School through planned giving. Members of the Heritage Society have shown their generosity to provide for the future of our school.
Diana Johnson Abitz ’75 and Daniel Abitz
Susan Belger Angulo ’76 and Thomas Angulo
Rilye Semple Ashby ’48* and George B. Ashby*
Janice Germann Baker ’65 and James Baker
Linde Lee Johnson Barber ’74* and David Barber
Helen Ward Beals ’09*
Lee Ann Duckett Bell ’86*
Betty Brookfield Berol*
Jane B. Bolton*
Beverly Pierson Bradley ’44*
Patricia and Andrew Brown
Carolgene Burd ’64*
Charles A. Carter, Jr.*
Betty Ann Cortelyou ’61
Melanie McVay DiLeo ’66 and Charles DiLeo
Robert Dockhorn
Ann Duckett
Leslie Teel Dunn ’70 and Tom Dunn
Veronica and George Egon
A. D. Eldridge*
Dody and Brian Everist
Annette and Eugene E. Fibuch*
Louis* and Fred Fisher*
Marguerite Peet Foster ’43*
Elaine Patterson French ’40*
Barbara and Gene Funk*
Anne Thompson Gartner ’44*
Joyce Generali and Jay Backstrom
Martha Stout Gledhill ’19*
Amanda and Thomas Goldsborough
Scott C. Gyllenborg ’74 and Christina Gyllenborg
Elise Schmahlfeldt Hall ’52
Joy Hanshaw
Judy Hart*
Paget Gates Higgins ’59 and Thomas Higgins
Ellen Jurden Hockaday ’56 and Irv Hockaday, Jr.
Betty Branson Holliday ’57*
Myrna Pratt Horne*
Carol and Dennis Hudson*
Josephine Hellings Huguenin ’31*
Quintanella B. Johnson
George Cook Jordan*
Leslie Kase ’77
Janet Kelley ’67
Betty and William Kessinger*
Nancie and Paul S. Kivett
Lois Dubach Lacy ’55
Martha Lally-Platt’75 and Stephen Platt
Kelly Brent Lambert ’50* and Sanders R. Lambert, Jr.*
Cindy McCollum Larson ’89 and Mark Larson
Nancy Staley Laubach ’44*
Gordon K. Lenci
Robert Mackenzie
Grace Madison*
Wendy and John Marvin
Susan McGee ’76
Charlotte and John Morrow
Wendy Ketterman Neihart ’79 and David Neihart ’79
Sheryl and James L. Osborn
Rosalyn Osborn
Betty Ann Patti*
Marguerite Munger Peet ’21*
Lisa Pelofsky ’82 and Bronwyn Werner
Charles Pine*
Emily Lou Withers Potter ’46* and George W. Potter, Jr.*
Douglas Price ’76
Astrid Reed*
Deborah R. Reichman ’70
Michele and Grant Ritchey
Judith Robinson ’57
Jean Wight Rosahn ’35*
Anne Potter Russ ’78 and Norbert Russ
Charles H. Sachs
Jane and Gerald Schaumburg
Caroline M. Scofield*
Stan Shaffer ’73 and Kathy Shaffer
Mary Jane and Bruce Short
Maye Wymore Sibley ’31*
Michael Sigler ’72
Miriam Babbitt Simpson*
Thomas Staley*
Charlotte Redheffer Stewart ’40*
Josephine Reid Stubbs ’25*
Kate and Whitney Sunderland, Jr.
Mary* and Whitney Sunderland*
Joan Thompson
Barbara Welch Thompson ’44*
Darlene and Gerald F. Tuohy*
Janet E. Turner ’32*
Maurice A. Watson ’76
Georgia Berkshire Welch ’19*
Raymond B. White*
Scott M. Wolff ’76 and Karen Wolff
Beth and William Zollars
* Denotes deceased
To learn how to become a part of the Heritage Society, please contact Jennifer Dreiling, Vice President Advancement, at jennifer.dreiling@barstowschool.org or 816-277-0433.
Jean and Alan Stribling
Carole and John Strube
Srikala Subramanian and Tyler Thomas
Audrey Sundet
Gail Taliaferro
Rose and Eugene Tate
Matchless Cabinet - Lindsay and Jason Taylor
Shruti and Ajay Tejwani
Shelagh Montgomery Thomas and Dale Thomas
Donna Thomason ’72
Rachael and Matt Thurman
Stephanie Stubbs Tinsley ’62 and Jerry Tinsley
Kathleen and Anthony Totta
Heather Towle and Ralph P. Millard
Emily Tranin ’16
Lisa and Bryan Tulp
Kimberly‡ and David Vasquez
Jordan Vaughn
Penelope Smith Vrooman ’54‡
Peter Vrooman ’88 and Kenyon Vrooman
Virginia Raymond Wagner ’56 and Richard Wagner
Michael Wall
Terri and Paul Warning
Mimi Fitch Wayne ’79 and Bill Wayne
Danna Weddle and Adam Groden
DJ and Les Weisbrod
Mary White
Maureen Whittaker
Casey and Maxwell Williams
Judson Woods ’13
Shirley and John Young
Yourcause
Catherine Madden Zahniser and Alan Zahniser
Lindsay Zimmerman
Anonymous Donor
Donor Report continued from page 28 *denotes deceased ‡denotes honorary alumni
YOUR SUPPORT AND COMMITMENT to The Barstow School have profoundly impacted our community, driving its continued growth and excellence. It takes everyone’s support—parents, grandparents, alumni, faculty, staff, and friends of the school—to make a difference, no matter the size of the donation. We are deeply grateful for your belief in our mission, which enables us to provide exceptional education and opportunities to our students.
Gratefully yours,
Jennifer Dreiling Vice President Advancement
WAYS TO GIVE
Visit barstowschool.org/support to learn about ways to support the school.
OFFICE OF ADVANCEMENT
Jennifer Dreiling Vice President Advancement jennifer.dreiling@barstowschool.org
Dan McNickle
Community Relations and Barstow Fund Manager dan.mcnickle@barstowschool.org
Lauren Fox Kanan ’15 Director of Alumni Relations lauren.kanan@barstowschool.org
Mary White Events Coordinator mary.white@barstowschool.org
Gena Munsch Administrative Assistant gena.munsch@barstowschool.org
The Barstow School is classifed as a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization by the standards of the Internal Revenue Service.
ENGAGED AND INSPIRED
ALUMNI COMMUNITY
FELLOW ALUMNI
I am so happy to share updates about our alumni community in this special section of our Impact Report. Since I started my role in January, it has been a pleasure connecting with alumni from the Class of 1954 to our most recent alumni: the Class of 2024. We have shared stories over coffee dates, challenged each other in pickleball and toured our campuses together.
In the following pages, I hope you see familiar faces and enjoy reading your classmates’ updates and accomplishments. The amazing paths Barstow graduates take never cease to amaze me. This year, our alumni have hiked the Pacific Crest Trail, performed around the country and the world, and celebrated major life events such as marriages and new family members. One alumna even won an Emmy Award.
Thank you for keeping us up to date with your stories!
Sincerely,
Lauren Fox Kanan ’15 Director of Alumni Relations
Lauren is a 2015 graduate of The Barstow School who later attended The University of Notre Dame (B.A. The Program of Liberal Studies) and The University of Kansas (M.A. English Literature). She has studied abroad in Angers, France, received bylines in The New York Times and married a familiar face: Will Kanan ’13.
ALUMNI BOARD
2024–2025
David Franz ’05 – President
Caroline Elton ’89
Craig McPherson ’02
Jack Pettyrock ’15
Anna Braukmann Raccuglia ’99
Emily Eschbacher Rucker ’96
Burton Sexton ’96
Wenhan Sun ’20
DEMOGRAPHICS
Total Living Alumni
2,924
Top Five States
Kansas (941)
Missouri (484) California (119) Texas (85) Colorado (68)
CONDOLENCES
Age Groups
18–35 (976)
36–64 (1,142)
65+ (739) + Honorary (67)
Please see our website for condolences.
www.barstowschool.org/condolences
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1 Kristi Mitchell‡, Francesca Mauro ’18, Bianca Tucker ’18, Katharina Staecker ’18 and Robbie Putney ’19.
2 Sam Dow ’78, Meredith Apostolou ’78, Halli Vrooman ’78 and Ann McCray ’78.
3 Bill Frank‡ and Sunkeerth Tummala ’15.
4 Eighty-one people attended Toast To Togetherness on Tuesday, Nov. 21, 2023.
5 Mark Luce‡, Kristi Mitchell‡, Liz Bartow‡, Scott Daniel‡, Scott Hill‡, Angela Guldin‡, Art Crumm‡, Penelope Smith Vrooman ’54 and Bill Frank‡.
‡ denotes honorary alumni
TOAST TO TOGETHERNESS
Save the date for A Toast to Togetherness on Tuesday, Nov. 26. Our annual pre-holiday gathering connects alumni from diverse class years and cities near and far.
This year, we will announce our Alumni Award winners at the event.
THE MARTHA BELLE AIKINS SMITH VOLUNTEER AWARD
For the Barstow alum who demonstrates exemplary and steadfast efforts, whether fostering the recruitment of volunteers, exhibiting ongoing camaraderie for the success of the school or providing stewardship to its volunteers.
THE NANCY & ANN HATFIELD ALUM OF THE YEAR
AWARD Awarded to an alum for outstanding contribution to Barstow or the community through dedication to the highest ideals of The Barstow School.
THE ANNE POTTER RUSS ’78 ALUMNI LEGACY AWARD
Presented to a Barstow School alum who is a parent of a current Barstow student or parent of a graduate. This person demonstrates leadership in engaging Barstow alumni in the life of the school.
Know an alumni who should be celebrated? Contact Lauren Kanan (lauren.kanan@barstowschool.org) with nominations.
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1 Faakir Habeebullah ‘08 was one of four alumni speakers who spoke to seniors on Senior Seminar day.
2 Nick Dawar ’15 participated in Speed Jenga at Alumni Field Day on March 2.
3 Cherry Street campus meet-up. Back row: Jennifer Russell Sawyer ‘65, Nancy Embry Thiessen ‘66, Joann Hurwitt Kinney ‘63 Jean Welsh Honan ‘57 Middle row: Melissa Russell Langstaff ‘63, Barbara Buesking Milledge ‘58, Kirby Upjohn ‘66, Jo Meyer Missildine ‘63 Front row: Paget Gates Higgins ‘59, Penelope Smith Vrooman ‘54 and Daly Jordan O’Brien ‘63
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1 Faakir Habeebullah ’08, Grace Guthrie ’13, Bianca Tucker ’18 and Taryn Blankenship ’15 spoke to seniors on April 19 about college and their careers.
2 Barstow alumni met up in New York City during spring break. From left: Andrea Zaldumbide ’08, Leo Yuan ’14, Antionette Cheng ’20, Sam Lee ’16, Mark Luce‡, Alexey Ayzin ’19 and Taylor Kay Phillips ’11.
3 Alumni gathered for a reception for Commencement speaker Elyse Nelson ’05 on May 19. From left: Walter Brayman‡, Jane White‡, Cassie Morrow Banka ’05, Mark Luce‡, Anne Hyvrard‡, Anellen Neill‡, Scott Daniel‡, Liz Bartow‡, Sue Nagy‡, Kristi Mitchell‡, Elyse Nelson ’05, Scott Daniel‡, Anna Nelson Wilt ’99, Joe Fox ’04, David Koppel ’05, Kevin Martin ’03 and Lauren Fox Kanan ’15.
4 Brandon Pepin ’94 delivered the charge to seniors at Upper School Convocation.
5 Linda Schooling Kekina ’68, Penelope Smith Vrooman ’54, Martha Lally-Platt ’75, Daly Jordan O’Brien ’63, Kirby Upjohn ’66, Anne Sutton Canfield ’63 and Pam Sutherland Gyllenborg ’72 gathered for Afternoon Tea.
‡ denotes honorary alumni
CLASS NOTES
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Mary Judith Robinson’s latest book “Memoir of a Reluctant Debutante: Or, When in Danger, Breathe” was published in January 2024. It includes a section about her time at Barstow.
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Alumnae from the Class of 1963 gathered in September 2023 for their 60th Reunion. Judy Shaper and Anne Sutton Canfield were two of the attendees. Anne wrote, “The years drop away, and it’s surprising how easy it is to pick up where we left off, as if no time had gone by.”
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Classmates from the Class of 1982 gathered in May at The Elms Resort and Spa to collectively celebrate their 60th birthdays. Heather Craft Ludvigsen came all the way from Denmark joining Laura Adelman Hewitt, Stephanie Thedinger Fitzgerald, Jennifer Charno Nelson, Heidi Brayman, Tiffany Basantz Klosener, Helen Sifers, Lisa Daily Sutton, Mindy Backstrom Stewart, Lindy Senter Cross, Shelley Quirk Porter, Julie Phillips Thomas and Lisa Pelofsky. A great time was had by all!
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Siblings Boyd and Beth Morrison wrote “The Last True Templar,” a historical adventure novel that was published in September 2023.
87 Sean Hart delivered a speech at the Junior-Senior Breakfast on May 17. His son, Alex Hart, graduated from Barstow this May and is now attending the University of Kansas.
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Thank you to local meteorologist Jeff Penner for speaking to our Pre-K students this spring about the weather!
99/02
Patrick Delaney ‘99, the Director of Federal Government Affairs at Walmart, snapped a photo with his Barstow soccer teammate and Kansas City mayor Quinton Lucas ‘02. The two alumni were at the White House celebration of the Chiefs’ Super Bowl win.
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Adrienne Johnson Krunich was selected as a Mansfield Fellow and is embarking on a 1 year fellowship in Tokyo, Japan, as an aviation safety expert, collaborating with partners in the Asia Pacific Region.
05
Elyse Nelson delivered a fantastic address at 2024 Commencement. Elyse is an associate curator at The Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York.
06
Haley Hannah is currently performing in the first national tour of Beetlejuice The Musical.
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Taylor Kay Phillips won her second Emmy this February. Taylor and her colleagues at Last Week Tonight with John Oliver won the Emmy for Outstanding Writing for a Variety Series.
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The Class of 2013 gathered in November of 2023 to celebrate their 10th anniversary.
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Special thanks to Jay Gillen and Hannah Lentell Williams for participating in 2024 Homecoming as our Alumni Presenters!
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Sam and Jack Pettyrock tied the knot on September 30, 2023. Fellow Class of 2015 alumni Kieran McMann, Emily Burcham, Danielle Fleming, Tyler Gratwick and Max Waldrop were in the wedding party.
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After completing his urban technology graduate school studies in New York City, Cheng Gong joined Waymo, Alphabet’s self-driving company that is at the forefront of the industry. He helped the company expand its robotaxi service in San Francisco, opening up access to its hundreds-strong fleet to all riders in the city, and more.
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E-Beth Leach lives in London and works for the British Red Cross. She stopped by campus in the spring and found Dexter Paul wearing the crab hat she gave him her senior year.
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Jillian Gillen played professional volleyball for the Orlando Valkyries in the inaugural season of the Pro Volleyball Federation. She is now an assistant volleyball coach at the University of Arkansas and will return to pro play with Columbus Fury in 2025.
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I Io Antoinette Cheng graduated with academic honors from The Juilliard School with a Bachelor’s of Music. She moved to England this fall to pursue a Master of Philosophy in Music (Musicology) at the University of Oxford.
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Sage Holmes spent the summer of 2024 interning for the Natural Resources Conservation Service, an agency of the United States Department of Agriculture. She traveled throughout Michigan digging up dirt, surveying the soil and collecting data that farmers will use as they determine what crops to plant next season. Sage is a senior at Kansas State University and is majoring in Environmental Science with a minor in Agronomy.
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On Monday, May 19, the Class of 2024 became the newest members of the Alumni Association. Please join us in congratulating these students as they begin their next chapters. (To view a matriculation map of the colleges and universities, please see page 40.)
UPCOMING
ALUMNI EVENTS
KNIGHT SCHOOL WITH MARK LUCE
Join us for a series of virtual book club discussions led by English Department Chair Mark Luce. The group will read one August Wilson play each quarter. The October selection is “Ma Rainey’s Black Bottom.”
GREEN AND WHITE GALA
Celebrate 140 years of The Barstow School in Kansas City!
Saturday, Oct. 19 | 6–11 p.m. — Fiorella’s Event Space, Overland Park, Kan.
BEING HUMAN WITH GINGER ROTHHAAS
Join us for wine, cheese and a presentation by Barstow parent Ginger Rothhaas about her book “Being Human: 150 Practices to Make it Easier.”
Wednesday, November 6 | 4:30–6 p.m. — Dan & Cassidy Towriss IDEA Space KC, Leawood, Kan.
A TOAST TO TOGETHERNESS
Gather with fellow Barstow alumni before the holiday season!
Tuesday, November 26 | 6–8 p.m. — Chicken N Pickle, Overland Park, Kan.
For more information and registration, visit our website, www.barstowschool.org/alumni.
REUNIONS
The Classes of 1974, 1984, 1999, 2004 and 2014 are planning fall reunions! Haven’t heard from your class reunion committee? Send your updated contact information to Lauren Kanan, and she’ll help connect you.
Does your class year end in 0 or 5? If so, your reunion year is approaching. Contact Lauren Kanan if you’d like to help plan a reunion for your class. Oct 1 Oct 19 Nov 6 Nov 26
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1 Mayor Quinton Lucas ’02 visits first grade students.
2 Walter Brayman‡, who taught history at Barstow for 31 years, visited campus for numerous alumni events this year. He is pictured in Barstow’s front lobby with his book: “Standard’s High: Barstow’s First 100 Years.”
3 Amy Goostree, Toby Goostree ’99, Jack Goostree, Class of 2036, Alex Hart ’24, Sean Hart ’87 and Kim Vasquez‡.
‡ denotes honorary alumni
CLASS OF 2024 MATRICULATION
1. American University
2. Bates College
3. Clemson University
4. The College of Wooster
5. Columbia University
6. Creighton University
7. Elon University
8. Franklin University Switzerland
9. Georgia Institute of Technology
10. Indiana University–Bloomington
11. Johnson County Fire Academy
12. Kansas State University (4)
13. Labette Community College
14. Lawrence University
15. Lafayette College
16. Marist College
17. Missouri Southern State University
18. Northwestern University (2)
19. Occidental College
20. Oregon State University
21. Purdue University
22. Rockhurst University
23. Taras Shevchenko National University of Kyiv, Ukraine
24. Texas Christian University
25. United States Military Academy–West Point
26. University of California–Los Angeles
27. University of California–San Diego
28. University of Kansas (12)
29. University of Minnesota
30. University of Missouri–Columbia (5)
31. University of Missouri–Kansas City School of Medicine
32. University of Pennsylvania
33. University of Richmond (2)
34. University of Southern California
35. University of St. Thomas
36. University of Wisconsin–Madison (2)
37. Vanderbilt University
38. Wake Forest University (2)
39. Washington University in St. Louis
40. William Jewell College
A LEGACY OF LEADERSHIP
For 17 years, Shane Foster has exemplified exceptional leadership as President of The Barstow School. His visionary approach has significantly advanced Barstow’s reputation for academic excellence and innovation. Under his stewardship, Barstow created distinctive programs and initiatives that extended the school’s influence locally and globally. As one of the longest-serving heads of school, second only to Mary Louise Barstow, Shane Foster has played a crucial role in shaping Barstow into a world-renowned independent school, leaving a legacy of excellence that will endure for generations.
One of Mr. Foster’s most remarkable achievements has been the expansion of Barstow’s global footprint. He established international campuses in China, Ghana, and Türkiye, and forged partnerships with schools across Central and South America, Australia and Europe. These efforts ensure that Barstow students not only receive a top-tier education. but also become global citizens, prepared to thrive in an increasingly interconnected world.
Mr. Foster led Barstow’s integration of technology into the curriculum. He launched the first online classes in 2013, a forward-thinking initiative that put the school at
the forefront of digital education.He embraced STEAM learning early on, culminating in the opening of the Dan & Cassidy Towriss IDEA Space in 2022, which serves every Barstow student as well as hundreds of students across Kansas City.
His tenure saw unprecedented enrollment growth, the expansion of campus facilities, financial stability and increased philanthropy, including the largest single gift in the school’s history—a transformative $7.5 million donation. This funding facilitated significant campus improvements, including construction of a new athletic center named in his honor. Signature programs such as BTVN and robotics became integral parts of Barstow’s offerings under Mr. Foster’s leadership. His dedication and resilience during the covid-19 pandemic, when Barstow remained open for in-person learning during the 2020–2021 school year, demonstrated his steadfast support for the school community.
Shane Foster will have a lasting impact on The Barstow School. His visionary leadership has preserved and enhanced Barstow’s legacy as a leading independent school, establishing him as an outstanding figure in the world of education.
Celebrating 140 years of The Barstow School in Kansas City Saturday, Oct. 19, 6–11 p.m. Fiorella’s Event Space Visit www.barstowschool.org/greenandwhite for information & tickets.