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FREE ISSUE 222 FEBRUARY 14, 2024

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what do I know? We men just write out the checks, charasho?” Mikhail, a person Lani had never witnessed smiling, emitted a throaty chuckle. Lani slithered back inside and closed the door softly. Leave it to Chaim Tzvi; he could get a tree to be his friend. And with his magnetic personality, he always got things moving. He was just… great. Back in the basement kitchen, Lani noticed the time and panicked. She’d planned on running over to the hardware store to buy temporary shades for their new windows, but she had to put together some sort of meal for her kids first; they’d expect supper when they came home, move or not. As she slit open a package of chicken, her cell phone beeped. She washed her hands quickly and answered. “Mrs. Lani, it’s Louis, the car-


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After that, she quickly and mechanically finished cooking, and as she set the timer on the oven, an idea that had been germinating in her head crystallized. She called Chaim Tzvi to run it by him. He loved the idea and immediately agreed. Sticking Shifra into her high chair with corn snacks, Lani dialed her sister. “Riva? Where am I catching you?” Riva’s voice was grim. “Not at work, rest assured.” “Okay, listen. I just thought of an amazing idea.” She explained how crazy her schedule had become, how she literally did not have time to eat. “You’re not working now, so I was thinking, maybe you want to work for me, in my breakfast business? We’ll figure out payment, obviously.” “So sweet,” Riva said bitterly. “Rescuing the damsel in distress.” “Riva!” Lani snapped. “I’m not doing this to rescue you. I’m drowning in Mother Hen orders, and I can’t juggle them because I’m so busy with the house. I’m asking you as a favor, for me. I need your help.” “I know, I know,” Riva said apologetically. “And if it would be a favor to me, that wouldn’t make you a bad person. I lost it there, sorry.” Lani didn’t respond, just absorbed the irony of the Mother Hen plot. Riva had sent her the lead, and that lead was now paying itself back. She heard Eli whining in the background, and then Riva said, “I’ll do it. Thanks, Lan.” * * * * *

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“RIVA!” LANI SNAPPED. “I’M NOT DOING THIS TO RESCUE YOU. I’M ASKING YOU AS A FAVOR, FOR ME. I NEED YOUR HELP”’’ “Well, my rules didn’t change,” their mother said. “Do whatever you want in my kitchen, as long as I get it back the way I gave it to you.” She swung her bag over her shoulder. “Okay, I have to hurry here, I need to be in class in fifteen minutes. Have fun!” She left the house. She was subbing for the last two weeks of school, which was déjà vu in its own right. “I used to hate those subbing days,” Riva told Lani. “Mommy would arrive home from school a little later than me, and I hated getting home to an empty house.” “True. But she was a real stay-athome-mom anyway, even on days that she worked. It’s a mentality, I think.” “Yes. I mean, I wonder.” Riva dropped a spoonful of yogurt into a yogurt cup. “Grr, Lani, this is getting me nervous. Do I have that mentality? Why do I feel so… I don’t know — antsy, maybe — all week?” “Because you’re not used to it. Let it grow on you, I’m pretty sure you’re going to love it.” Lani folded open her notebook and slapped it down on an empty spot on the counter. “Anyway, you’re not a stay-at-home mom today, ha-ha. So let me tell you what has to happen here. I really have to fly, I promised Andy that I’d be in the house when the low-voltage guy comes.” Riva added granola over the yogurt and snapped on a lid. Then she bent over the folder and concentrated on Lani’s instructions. “That’s basically it,” Lani said when she finished her list. “Call me if you have any questions. I’ll try to be back


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engagement, I set up cha completely calm and prepared. “I want to racks around the house,” Chaya says. She sets up be able to focus on the significance of the motwo racks in the basement and one in each ment,” she explains. “I don’t want my head to bedroom. “I go through be consumed with lastall my closets and sort minute hems and emerall the clothing and accessories we own. This includes everything, down to gency shopping trips.” When Hashem gave her this nature, he essentially shells, tights, belts and shoes. I hang each set of clothing sent her the refuah lifnei hamakah. Literally. together on the rack.” Because six weeks before her second son’s wedding, Chaya lives in a big house, so she has the space to set up all those racks. But even if your space is limited, she Chaya was diagnosed with a life-threatening disease. claims, you can designate one closet in the house for the same purpose, and follow the same system in a more condensed format. “Seeing everything in front of your eyes helps you The curveball came swiftly and suddenly. organize your tasks. How much clothing do we need to “My son was bar mitzvah on Sunday after Sukkos,” buy? Which outfits need alterations? What do I want to change to bring new life to old clothing?” Chaya recounts. “The Friday before, I started feeling reKnowing all this, you can get to work on those tasks ally sick. I pushed myself for the next two days, attendright away. There are several months to prepare for a ing the bar mitzvah in a half-dead state. Immediately wedding; why leave everything for the last minute? after the bar mitzvah, I checked myself into the hospiStarting the work in advance saves so much time, en- tal.” ergy and money, Chaya believes. “There’s no over-shopIt was a terrifying time in the Jacobs’ lives. Family ping. I don’t walk into the shell store and buy every color and friends worried whether Chaya would make it to shell on the racks, just in case. I know exactly what I own the wedding. But Chaya herself remained calm. “S’geit and what I’m missing, and shop accordingly.” zein a chasunah,” she kept repeating to everyone. “There As time passes, the racks fill up. Aufruf, wedding, will be a wedding, and we will celebrate it with true joy.” sheva brachos… all the clothing is neatly hanging and She remained in the hospital until shortly before ready, for each member of the family. “Ready” means the wedding. She knew her life was in Hashem’s hands, altered, adjusted, pressed, and so on, so that when the and a tremendous dose of bitachon got her through those day comes, there’s no frantic scrambling to move a but- frightening few weeks. ton or figure out which shoes to wear. (Chaya clarifies And wedding prep? that she doesn’t have separate shoes for each outfit; she “By the time I got sick, there was nothing left to take just knows which shoes go with which outfit.) If she uses care of. The racks were ready, every last shoe polished. any of the clothing or shoes for other occasions during All I needed to do was feel better the day before the wedthe engagement, she puts it right back on the rack after- ding.” ward. “I get laser-focused on the details,” Chaya says. “I check how By the time I got sick, there was nothing left many shirts the men and boys own, buy additional shirts as to take care of. The racks were ready, every needed, and have all those shirts last shoe polished. All I needed to do was pressed and hanging and ready for each part of the simcha.” feel better the day before the wedding. Her goal is to arrive at the sim-

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ahead of time. “Getting things done in advance also helps spread wedding expenses out over a greater span of time,” Chaya posits. “The weeks leading up to a wedding cost so much money, it’s counterintuitive to allow dozens of random miscellaneous expenses to overlap.” The same applies to gifts. “I bought a bracelet for my son’s kallah before my son even entered shidduchim,” she recalls. Again, it was an expense she didn’t have to swing at the same time that she was suddenly absorbing so many other expenses. And it also provided peace of mind. “My son ended up getting engaged before the time we had set to officially start listening to shidduchim. It definitely helped to have a bracelet ready to give the kallah at the l’chaim.” This obviously can’t be done with all gifts. Chaya wanted the kallah to choose her watch and her earrings on her own, so that had to happen at the relevant time. But everything else? “I have a closet full of gifts ready for every occasion,” she shares. “I hate shopping under stress.” How does she remember all the things she has at home? “I probably wouldn’t remember what I have, but I’m constantly going through that closet. I put

together gifts and wrap them up on my own. I enjoy it, and it’s also an economical system. You buy things when you find them, not when you need them.” It’s easier to shop when you’re not under any pressure. After each wedding, Chaya looks forward to reacquiring the space that all those racks take up. “But not right away,” she’s quick to add. “Before returning all the clothing to their closets, I hang everything back up on those racks and run an inventory report. I check if anything needs to be fixed or replaced, so that I don’t discover problems next time I want to use the clothes.” She notes with satisfaction that every single thing on the racks got used the way she had intended. The week of the simcha was smooth and easy, without any unnecessary clothing crises. When her second wedding rolled around, Chaya was fully prepared. “After sorting and organizing all the clothing, I realized that I only needed two more outfits for the simcha.” It was a great relief. I’m not up to marrying off children yet, but I do have a whole lot of appointments on my calendar. What would it be like to live without my typical last-minute rushing? It wouldn’t require a racking system, but setting out clothing for children at night should be a great first step. Who knows? I may yet show up at a doctor’s office with a stable pulse and five minutes to spare.

With Hashem’s help, Chaya made it out of that dark period of illness. Now she reflects on the blessing of her foresight — foresight that she couldn’t have known would prove so critical. But it doesn’t have to take a crisis to test one’s efficiency. “My friend recently married off a child,” Chaya relates, “and when I saw her at the wedding, I just felt so bad. Don’t get me wrong; she looked beautiful. But she seemed half drunk from fatigue. She’d made it to the wedding, yes, but with so much stress and aggravation.” Chaya believes that mechuteinistes could avoid getting harried by wedding prep if they follow her system. “It works with everything,” she asserts. “Gifts, shopping, aufruf and sheva brachos planning.” If you’re going to the seamstress to fix a dress, why not take along anything that needs alterations and check that off your list? Baalei simcha inevitably spend hours at the seamstress before weddings, “I bought a bracelet for my son’s kallah before but so many of those hours could be spared if you make my son even entered shidduchim” the most out of each trip —

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If you’re planning a wedding, another item you may want to add to your master list of lists is advice from Mrs. Shoshy Slomiuc, gown designer and dresser extraordinaire. But where does all this wisdom come from? How does a woman become an expert in everything wedding, and turn into that magical figure mechuteinistes remember for the rest of their lives? Shoshy’s story began when she of chesed launched Shoshy directly simchas in the past, so she had expehelped friends custom-make their into the thick of things — this time rience providing dressing services, gowns and dresses for their simchas. as a wedding dresser families have but here it was different — and just as life-saving. They were customers, That soon turned into a bustling come to rely on. “It all started with a customer not family, but she dressed and fed design business as she followed her passion and steadily grew a satis- I was working with. I knew she and buttoned and pinned, and the fied customer base of women she wouldn’t be hiring a dresser, and difference she made to the baalei dressed to perfection in honor of I also knew that with seven girls to simcha that day was so remarkable primp to perfection on the big day, that Shoshy immediately knew that their simchas. “When I finger an inch of fab- there was no way she was making it there was a need for this service. “The reality is,” Shoshy explains, ric, I can visualize the completed to the wedding in one piece.” Shoshy had helped out members “that whoever you’d typically rely gown. I know the way the material will fall. That’s why I enjoy this so of her own family when they made on for help is also trying to get to much,” Shoshy explains. “Put me into a sewing room “I knew she wouldn’t be hiring a dresser, and I also for a week; it’ll be the greatest treat.” knew that with seven girls to primp to perfection on Of course, one the big day, there was no way she was making it to thing follows another, and soon the wedding in one piece” a second round

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the wedding. Sisters, close friends — they’re all busy getting ready just when you could use another pair of hands.” This is where a wedding dresser comes in. “When I greet the mechuteiniste, I can visibly see the tension melting off her. There are always so many things happening at once, and when the mother of the chasan or kallah knows that someone who isn’t from the wedding party is here for the express purpose of making sure everything runs smoothly, it makes a world of a difference.” When does the job begin, and

when does it end? “It begins with coordinating the big day,” says Shoshy, “starting with a detailed schedule. This includes everything from the kallah’s wake time and davening, all the way to arranging for transportation to the hall. All of the wedding gowns go in a separate car, by the way, so they arrive there in one piece.” Shoshy makes sure to arrive before the mechutanim do, and she’s

generally joined by her seamstress. She makes sure to bring along a bunch of just-in-case items, including a portable steamer.” For a mechuteiniste, there’s nothing like arriving at the hall and being told to “sit down, because everything is taken care of.” While she sits and relaxes, Shoshy makes sure the gowns get steamed first thing. Then the kids get fed so they’re not hungry, and then she gets them dressed, all the way down to the last detail. Then the bubbies arrive, and it’s their turn to feel like royalty. Shoshy

TIPS FROM THE TRENCHES For families who aren’t planning to hire a dresser, here are a bunch of pointers to add to that list that keeps growing. But Shoshy’s tips are additions you won’t regret! Really think through how you’re getting to the hall. And do not put on those gowns at home! All you need is one car door slamming on the fabric, and you’re in trouble. Rather take the gowns separately in another car, and get dressed at the hall. Always account for unexpected delays. If you need to be at the hall at three o’clock, aim to be there at two-thirty. Chances are you’ll only be there at three anyway, and in the event you’re early, no one will throw you out. If you actually have extra time, you’ll find a Tehillim and have some quiet time to daven.

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Little kids are not fun when they’re hungry. Make sure they’re fed and have them use the bathroom before dressing them. Also bring along extra food (that doesn’t get them dirty or make a mess) so the kids don’t get hungry later. Make sure your gowns aren’t too long. This is something I often struggle with, when my clients show up in too-long gowns that need to be hemmed — or even cut! — at the very last minute. Gowns should never drag on or even touch the floor. The proper length is a half-inch to an inch off the floor, and even shorter when it comes to little kids. Back when your gowns are being fitted, pay attention to details. Was there delicate fabric that could get caught in the zipper? Which side should


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will adjust their wigs, make sure their dress is sitting just right, and otherwise take care of whatever still needs to be done. Once the actual wedding begins, Shoshy either leaves, or she stays until after the chuppah, after the first dance, or all the way until mitzvah tantz, depending on the job. “If I’m there for the kallah’s side, staying until after the chuppah will allow me to help the kallah get ready

for pictures.” Shoshy’s greatest challenge is when the mechutanim don’t show up on time. “Obviously,” she says, “we improvise as needed, but then the photographer gets nervous, and the ca-

the seam allowances face for the gown to lie flat? Which pleats need to sit in which direction? This way, when you actually get dressed, you’ll know exactly what to do. Men, try on your suits! I had a client whose husband sent his suit to the cleaners and only put it on for the first time at the hall. Well, he was going to put it on, but couldn’t, and my seamstress had to let it out on all sides so he should be able to get into it. Not a good idea! I always steam my customers’ gowns at the hall to get that finished, crisp look. It may be worthwhile to invest in a portable steamer — which isn’t pricey in the least — if you’ll be dealing with a bunch of gowns. Think of everything you might need at the wedding. Take a needle and thread to match every dress, as well as black thread for the men. Things happen at weddings, and you need to be prepared. Also take along scissors, safety pins, bobby pins, a comb, Static Guard (especially in the winter), pain relievers (both for kids and adults), mouthwash, toothbrushes, toothpaste and deodorant.

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terer gets nervous… That’s not fun.” But no matter the stresses involved in preparing a family for a wedding, there’s no other job in the world for Shoshy. “There’s nothing like getting people ready for a simcha. There’s just something so beautiful about what I do. And my favorite part of all? That’s seeing a calm mother, who takes my advice when I tell her to sit and relax because everything is taken care of.”

For mothers who will be wearing something on their wigs under the chuppah, remember to bring that along too. Before the wedding begins, make sure to prepare the dek tichel, along with some pins, behind the kallah’s chair so it’s ready when it’s needed. Designate one person (a sister of the mechuteiniste is a good idea) to be in charge of tissues. The mother of the chasan or kallah will need tissues during kabbalah panim, but she shouldn’t be holding them the whole time. Rather, have someone stand by to bring them to her and take away the used ones. Most important of all, if you’re marrying off a child, remember to be present at the wedding. A simcha like this is meant to be enjoyed, so try to minimize the stress wherever you can and revel in the nachas!


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You have the lead role in the play, but you are miserable. Because you are terribly shy. You hate to be in the limelight. You dread performing. To make matters worse, no one is going to coach you through this. No one is going to help you practice your lines, perfect your movements or guide you how to present yourself on stage. But this is your child’s wedding. And you have no choice but be the hostess in the limelight.

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For those of us who are making to master. Even those of us who con- up during a simcha. a simcha and are shy, uncomfort- sider ourselves to be a “people perWe hope every guest exercises able with crowds or insecure, the son,” thriving on social events and her dan l’kaf zechus muscles, underabove description fits perfectly. We human interaction, may still fall standing that if we fall short in our are cast in a role — baruch Hashem! short when we are cast in a role that hosting etiquette, it is because we — and are expected to perform well obligates us to host dozens or hun- are under pressure, over-exhausted in public. Our simcha guests won’t dreds of guests properly. We need and a bundle of nerves. However, complain that they wasted their to keep the act up while cajoling a on the flip side, many of our guests money on a ticket for a poor perfor- waiter to bring an extra table, calm- have traveled long distances, made mance, but they might feel slighted ing our little one’s tears and dealing time-consuming and expensive for not being treated well enough with other mishaps that may crop babysitting arrangements, and gotor somewhat ignored. (Help!) We hope every guest exercises her dan l’kaf And even if we are not as shy as depicted zechus muscles, understanding that if we fall short above, hosting guests in our hosting etiquette, it is because we are under at a simcha demands skills and finesse pressure, over-exhausted and a bundle of nerves which are not simple

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ten all dressed up after a long day to attend our simcha. Therefore, it is incumbent upon us to do our utmost to try to show our hakaras hatov to our guests. For how can we make a simcha without guests with whom to share it? When I married off my first child, Overwhelmed was my middle name. Ever since I played the role of mechuteiniste, I’ve been noticing things at simchas and comparing it to my big night. For example, I spotted a mechuteiniste’s warmth and collected presence, and reflected on how I dealt with challenges at my child’s wedding. I also observed that guests do not always feel welcomed properly by the simcha’s hostess. Our close friends and family in attendance are usually not the ones affected by our performance — they know the real version of ourselves. Rather, it’s the people from the neighborhood, shul, work or more distant relatives who don’t know us that well who may leave the hall thinking that perhaps they should not have gone through the whole bother of attending our simcha… I am positive all hostesses would be utterly horrified if they were informed that their guests didn’t feel welcomed and comfortable at their simcha. Therefore, here are some tips for simcha hostesses so they can be their very best selves on the big day. Just like we troubled ourselves to find the right hall, the perfect dress and the accurate list of addresses for invitations, so too must we do our best to make each guest feel appreciated. Focusing on the guests’ needs will shove our own shyness and awkwardness to the back burner. Here are a few examples of how to make your guests feel welcome.

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outdoors and is not set up formally with chairs, have someone prepare chairs for them. Make sure to dance with them — a family member can be appointed to usher them into the circle — or walk over to where they are sitting to “dance” with them. Tell them how much it means to you that they were able to enhance your simcha with their presence. Treat them for what they are: the most chashuve guests. A note to other guests: When wishing mazel tov to older guests, remember to introduce yourself! As a family grows, it may be more difficult for all great-aunts and great-great-aunts to remember who you are, but they may feel bad to ask.

LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION At a drop-in-and-say-mazel-tov vort or aufruf kiddush where people are milling about rather than sitting down for a meal, make a conscious effort to place yourself close to the entrance in a visible spot. At your child’s kabbalas panim, try to stay put right near the kallah. Make it easy for the guests to find you. There is nothing quite as frustrating as guests circling the hall a few times to locate the baalas simcha. The guests will appreciate the convenience of finding you immediately more than the exquisite fruit platter on display that you paid so much money for.

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This suggestion might sound silly to some, totally irrelevant to others. But many guests have testified that it makes them feel warmly received when the hostess takes a step toward them. Literally. That means that as the guest is wending her way to you,

First, a special mention about properly treating those who are the crowning glory of our simchas: our grandparents (or great-grandparents) or any older relatives and friends. We must go out of our way to give them the respect they deserve. Designate someone to see to their needs, including picking them up and taking them home. If the chuppah is taking place

A note to other guests: When wishing mazel tov to older guests, remember to introduce yourself!

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the baalas simcha, do not stand frozen in place and wait for her to reach you. Take a step forward to meet and greet them. I never thought about this until someone pointed it out to me. The next time a baalas simcha stepped forward to me, I was able to pinpoint why I felt warmly welcomed. If you are the one exhibiting statue-like behavior, you are probably unaware of it and doing otherwise doesn’t come naturally to you. Remind yourself to take a step toward the well-wisher as a visible sign of your happiness to see your guests.

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ished with the first one, they turn in the direction of the second. It may sound like a good idea, but guests usually see right through this and know quite well that the hostess was aware of their presence all along. I once approached a baalas simcha who was deep in conversation with a guest. I placed myself on the side, patiently waiting my turn. I was so touched when — although she continued speaking to the first person — she reached out to me to take my hand in hers in a warm, friendly clutch. She sent a powerful message of, “I am so happy you came,” even though she couldn’t actually say those words to me yet. If a particular guest gets into a lengthy conversation, try to explain to her that you will likely have to interrupt her to accept quick mazel tov wishes from others. It’s not fair to keep people waiting.

What should you do when you are accepting mazel tov wishes from one guest, and another guest approaches you? This can be a very delicate situation because the guest you are connecting with may feel slighted when you turn away abruptly to face the new guest, and the When people wish you mazel tov, pay attention to new guest may feel bad when not acknowledged im- how you respond. Thank you or bruchah tiyeh is very nice, mediately. There is a subtle conflict of, “Let’s see who is but why not add a few words? Voice your appreciation for their participation. Acknowledge the effort it took. more important here...” Most guests are understanding and don’t take it per- Make your response personal. Practice — in your mind sonally, but it’s crucial to take heed of this as one can or with your voice —to make sure that you don’t sound never know who may be more sensitive. The best thing stiff, which might (wrongly) suggest you are just paying to do is greet the “new guest,” sensitive or not, with a lip service. quick hand gesture or smile to inform her that you will be with her shortly. Sometimes the new guest does take preference, whether due to age, relationship, status, dis(BUT DON’T FORCE IT) tance traveled and even neediness. Excuse yourself to the person you are talking to, thank her profusely, and Is the buffet at your kiddush there just to impress then turn to the second person. Try not to interrupt the guests and to tantalize their senses? Invite guests to sit person you were talking to mid-sentence and make the down and have something to eat. A friend of mine asks transition as gentle as possible. her sisters to play this role at her simchas. A thoughtful One of the ways hostesses deal with the twoat-a-time guests sceThe best thing to do is greet the “new guest,” nario is pretending they sensitive or not, with a quick hand gesture or didn’t notice the “new guest” by averting their smile to inform her that you will be with her shortly gaze. Once they are fin-

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NAVIGATING THE DANCE FLOOR The act of inviting people at the wedding to dance with you in the center of the circle could use a skilled military strategist to ensure perfect maneuvers. But don’t worry too much. Guests do not expect perfection. However, having the intention — even before the wedding — to dance with as many guests as possible, and making a concerted effort to do so, will very likely lead to better outcomes. A note to the guests: When you are dancing in the center of the circle, you be the one to leave the dance. It’s very uncomfortable for the baalas simcha to “terminate” the dance. Give a few round-and-rounds, then wish her mazel tov and say, “You have so many people to dance with — go ahead.” If the guest feels uncomfortable putting an end to the dance, think of how much harder it is for the baalas simcha. A note to kallahs: You can do the tremendous mitzvah of hachnasas orchim by including the chasan’s side as much as possible. After all, it is their simcha too. Many kallahs and mechuteinistes take dance lessons before the wedding. Since they lack dancing know-how, they know that unless they prepare themselves, they will not make the best impression. This article highlights the need to prepare ourselves in a different way, one far more important than looking good on the dance floor. Let’s do our best so that our guests walk out of our simcha with a spring in their step.

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In the world of family, mechutanim play a special role, adding warmth and color to the fabric of our lives. Here we celebrate the mechutanim whose acts of kindness made shared journeys even more special.


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Music to My Ears Eight weeks before their daughter Kaila’s wedding, crisis struck the Friedman family — a devastating fire destroyed their home and everything in it. Thankfully, no one was hurt, but with just two months to the chuppah and weeks’ worth of kallah shopping reduced to ashes, their lives were upended. The Freidmans found a temporary new home and tried to create a semblance of normalcy. One morning, there was an unexpected knock on the door. To their surprise, it was their mechutanim, the Steins, who had made a special trip to show their support for the kallah and their future mechutanim during this trying time. With candid charm, Mrs. Stein, Kaila’s future mother-in-law, remarked, “I can’t even imagine sticking my pinky toe into your shoe right now!” Her unique form of expression left an enduring imprint. But it wasn’t just words; they walked in bearing three massive boxes filled with thoughtful gifts. Among the surprises were a stereo, a collection of sefarim for the kallah’s brother, and adorable little toys for the youngest member of the family. The gift of music brought unexpected comfort to the

Freidmans in the aftermath of the fire. The stereo, now a symbol of resilience and recovery, played melodies that became the soundtrack to their journey as they rebuilt their lives. In the midst of chaos, the mechutanim provided not only material gifts but a sense of support, a reminder that even in the face of adversity, shared kindness could create a melody. In those trying times, the mechutanim played an unexpected but crucial role, turning a symphony of challenges into a chorus of compassion and solidarity.

Talent Ticket One day during Chaya Blau’s engagement, her excitement overflowed, and she started dancing where she stood — which was, unfortunately, on a staircase. With uncertain grace, she slipped and slid down the stairs, earning herself a trip to the ER with a dislocated shoulder. In the emergency room, a doctor and some nurses put the shoulder back into place. “Help! I’m getting married in two weeks,” Chaya told the attending doctor, nurse and

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C is for Care As if navigating the trials of a daughter in shidduchim weren’t difficult enough, Sury Morgenstern found herself grappling with another daunting challenge: cancer. It felt as though the sun had set prematurely. Amid the tornado of diagnostics and treatment, a flicker of light emerged: her daughter Fraidy got engaged! But within the context of a health crisis, the engagement promised to be an emotional roller coaster. From the start, the mechutanim, the Goldbergs, were angels in human guise. At the l’chaim, the mechuteiniste, Leah Malky, said, “We’re all here for you. This is a journey we’ll navigate together. And when you’re ready, im yirtzeh Hashem, we’ll celebrate the wedding gezunterheit.” It was such a relief that the mechutanim maintained the perfect balance of respect and compassion, and that they managed to break the ice so graciously. Sury, a courageous warrior, danced between joy and fear, celebrating a simcha while waging her personal battle against an invisible foe. However, setting a date for the wedding proved complicated amid the interplay of wedding preparations and hospitalizations. Remarkably, the mechutanim never pressured her. “Give yourself all the time you need,” they said. When things were finally looking up, a wedding date was set. Sury was scheduled for surgery a month before the wedding, a procedure that would hopefully reclaim her health. Despite her deep desire to support Fraidy in the final weeks leading to the big day, she was a shadow of herself, with little energy. It was during this time that a thoughtful text from Leah Malky arrived. Are you up for a visitor? Sury welcomed the prospect of spending time with someone she had grown to love over the past few months — a bond forged through shared trials. Although this special woman had entered her life less than half a year before, Sury felt a genuine connection and looked forward to their time together. Recognizing the unwavering support of the mechutanim throughout their darkest hours, Sury was confident that her daughter Fraidy was joining a wonderful family.


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Once upon a time, there was a brandnew chasan and kallah. Balloons were still flying, the chasan was still practicing his new in-laws’ name and the kallah was just getting to know her new grandmothers. And then the chasan came down with the flu. Chassanim are certainly experts at many things, but nursing a fever is not one of them. And Yanky was no different. He didn’t just adopt the usual sickbed demeanor; he transformed into the king of the common cold. Ensconced in layers of blankets with tissue boxes strategically arranged within arm’s reach, Yanky emitted pitiful sighs so loud that they reached his new mechutanim’s ears. The mechuteiniste, a hint of mischief in her voice, declared, “Why should the kallah hog the spotlight? Let’s give the chasan a taste of the royal treatment, too!” Enter the ever-prepared mechutanim, swooping in with a care package that would make any sick day feel like a cozy retreat. They unveiled a shawl fit for a flu-stricken king, a siddur to request Divine intervention, and an assortment of teas and herbal concoctions that claimed to be the elixir of life. And so Yanky found himself basking in the glory of a flu-induced celebration. The shawl became his royal cape, the siddur his trusty sidekick, and the teas and herbs his adult lollipops. As Yanky sipped his chamomile tea, he marveled at how swiftly he had bounced back from the flu. For even in the face of fever and chills, mechutanim with a healthy sense of humor have a way of expediting the refuah. We won’t say if Yanky was at all enticed to feign illness again. However, duty called, and with a commitment to his reputation as a serious learner, he traded his temptations for the glow of his Gemara once more.

“You’ll still see us enough,” Chaim Minkowitz promised his siblings in New York when he married Ruti and moved with her to her native Bnei Brak. As the oldest in the family, his absence was keenly felt. But true to his word, Chaim and Ruti came to Boro Park twice a year, for Sukkos and Pesach. By the second Pesach after their wedding, the Minkowitz household echoed with the happy laughter of Yiddy, Chaim and Ruti’s beloved baby. Chaim’s siblings playfully doted on the little one, engaging in friendly squabbles over who should bathe or dress him in his adorable outfits and tiny shoes. Yiddy, the adorable bundle of love, undoubtedly stole the show with his irresistible cuteness. Amid all the delight that little Yiddy brought into the family, there was an additional cause for celebration: 21-year-old Zissy got engaged. The simcha was truly complete, enhanced even more by the fact that Chaim and Ruti were still in New York to share in the joyous occasion. The vort was on a Monday, and the junior Minkowitz family departed to Eretz Yisroel the next day, on Tuesday. No one could have predicted that the joyous occasion would be followed by devastating news just days later, on Wednesday, when Yiddy passed away from crib death.

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As soon as the Minkowitz parents received the heartbreaking news, they booked tickets and boarded the next flight to Eretz Yisroel to be with Chaim and Ruti at this painful time. Zissy and her siblings were left to grapple with their profound loss all on their own. The abrupt shift from celebration to tragedy was like a sudden storm cloud eclipsing the joyous occasion. Erev Shabbos arrived, and Zissy’s future in-laws, in an act both thoughtful and comforting, delivered a tray of enormous, freshly baked warm challos. The simplicity of the gesture struck the perfect chord: neither excessive nor understated, but profoundly touching. The accompanying note, bearing words of sympathy and love, held the family close during their darkest hours.

Unmasked Kindness When the Weisfelds made a shidduch, joy filled the air, and a wedding date was set with excitement and blessings. It was a given that Kalman and Goldy Weisfeld, their married couple spending their shanah rishonah in Eretz Yisroel, would come in for the wedding. But there were post-Covid complications — closed borders, expired passports — and it seemed that Kalman and Goldy would have to celebrate from afar. The realization that they might miss the wedding hit them hard. “You’ll represent us, right?” Goldy made her parents promise. Enter the Feketes, Goldy’s septuagenarian parents. Determined to represent Kalman and Goldy, they concocted a plan that was as amusing as it was heartwarming. In their fun-loving manner, they hatched the ultimate plot to crash the aufruf — Covid style. Armed with a printer, scissors and a dash of creativity, they printed larger-than-life pictures of Goldy’s and Kalman’s faces, which they transformed into the most fashionable and Covidfriendly accessories: face masks! Not only did each mask obscure the nose and mouth, it covered the eyes, ears and chins, too. On the morning of the aufruf, Goldy’s parents burst into Kalman’s parents’ home, faces beaming from ear to ear, quite literally. Laughter rebounded through the room as everyone tried to contain their surprise. The Feketes proudly declared themselves the official representatives of the absent couple, proving that even closed borders couldn’t keep the spirit of celebration away.

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SUEDE WELCOME POUCH Welcome your guests with lots of extra surprises! Included in this package are treats, amenities, and just-in-case items, which are greatly appreciated by out-of-towners.

You will need: Cricut machine

Print itinerary and water wrapper.

Vinyl transfer sheet

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Permanent vinyls for pouches (see Step 2 for details) 1 10” x 12” suede pouch (available at The Party Shoppe or Creative Elements) 3 5” suede pouches (available at The Party Shoppe or Creative Elements) 12.7 fl. oz. Voss water bottle Amenities of your choice (small tissues, mouth wash, hand sanitizer) Treats of your choice (chocolate and candies) Just in case items (a rain bonnet for wet weather, reflectors for upstate, Bobby pins, etc.) Candles, tray and matches Cellophane bag for candles, tray and matches Monogram tag or dried flowers (optional)

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Cricut a large Welcome to fit the front of the large pouch. Next, print the words Amenities, Treats and Just in Case to fit the smaller pouches.

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VELVET HOSTESS BOX A neat box delivers a super clean look, and choosing velvet definitely makes a statement.

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Step 3: Take off the water bottle labels, and replace them with the white labels you printed. Place it vertically along the bottle.

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FELT WELCOME BAG These bags are great because you can hang them on your guests’ doors without having to enter the apartment or hotel room. And when guests find it immediately upon their arrival, it makes them feel truly welcome!

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Step 2: Wrap the magazine cover around your magazine, and secure it with a small piece of tape.

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INCLUDE THINGS AT THE SIMCHA THAT AMPLIFY YOUR OWN PERSONAL JOY, THINGS THAT YOU ENJOY AND MAKE YOU HAPPY, EVEN IF IT’S SOMETHING OTHERS DON’T DO. – Dini Fleischer

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Someone told me to expect at least five things to go wrong on the day of the wedding. When the first thing goes wrong, say, “That’s one...” When the next thing goes wrong, say, “That’s two…” This type of thinking helps you stay calm when something doesn’t work out — like when the florist delivers the wrong flowers, which is what happened to us…

– Malky T. During the meal, go around to all of the tables to greet your guests. It will give you the chance to make personal contact with them, which will make everyone, especially you, feel good.

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WHEN I MARRIED OFF MY SON, SOMEONE TOLD ME THAT IN ORDER TO BE A GOOD MOTHER-IN-LAW, ALL I HAD TO DO WAS LOVE MY DAUGHTER-IN-LAW UP AND DOWN AND SEE ONLY HER GOOD QUALITIES. I LOVED THAT ADVICE. – Yiity Kirsch The Boro Park View

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DON’T FEEL PRESSURED TO BUY EVERY SINGLE THING BEFORE THE WEDDING. YOU DON’T LIVE ON MARS, AND THE STORES WILL BE OPEN AFTER THE WEDDING. ENJOY THE PREPARATIONS.

THINGS TEND TO GO WRONG ON THE DAY OF A CHASUNAH. JUST KEEP REPEATING, “ZOL OISGEIN OIF DEM” — LET IT BE THESE SMALL THINGS THAT GO WRONG, AND NOT MORE IMPORTANT ONES. AND ENJOY THE WEDDING! – Esti Klein

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Encore sock store, you’d never guess at the sinking feeling I have when it’s time to pay. You’d never imagine the endless indecision about whether or not I can buy another set of pajamas for the baby, or maybe it’s better just to stick with what I have and wash everything more frequently. Are pajamas a luxury? Does everyone else stress over pajamas? How did we get here? But even stronger than the torment and despair was a burning sense of determination. We were now on the same team. We were determined to solve this problem. Together. Because that was the only way it could be solved. We agreed that the first step would be tracking. We would write down every single expense. Every time we spent any money, no matter how small a sum, we would write it down. Mortgage, food, tuition, car insurance, gas. Whether it was $15 for a haircut, $10 to chip in for a teacher’s gift, $24.89 for a takeout lunch. Everything. We decided to meet on the first Sunday of every month, back in the park, to review our spending. I needed support, but I didn’t want to talk to anyone. It was just too big and too embarrassing. But a few weeks later, neurotically tracking every cent, I ran across a magazine article about people who had been in enormous debt and managed to get out of it. They climbed the mountain, paid it all off, and started their lives over. Reading their stories gave me hope: Other Other people people had been here and done it; we could do it had been too. By charting our expenses for three months, here and we got a very clear picture of where we were spending our money. Now we could decide what done it; we to cut (eating in the pizza shop once a week), and how we could maximize our money (shopping could do it too in discount warehouse stores). We also learned to prioritize what we had to buy now and what could wait. Amazingly, we stopped accruing debt. Not even one more dollar. The next front we attacked was our debt. My husband worked with credit card companies to get the interest rates lowered on our cards with balances, and on settling the outstanding balances. He also asked his boss for a raise. I left my eight-hour-a-week, low-paying job, and found a job that brought in significantly more money (and was much more satisfying). What happened in those first three months surprised me. I felt enormously empowered. I stopped spending money out of boredom and instead got creative about spending time without spending money. I stopped obsessing anxiously over how many pairs of socks I could buy and began walking into stores with confidence in my choices. I noticed that I was slowly changing. Money had more value, in a good way. I now made sure to pay the cleaning lady on time, and no longer argued with a taxi driver over the price. Everyone works for a living, and every penny counts. For myself, and for others. A month later, we met again in the park. And we met again the next month. A year later, we still meet on the first Sunday of every month to talk about money. Instead of dread and despair, now we look forward to these money meetings, as we like to call them. But back then, the meetings were fraught with tension and stress. I made a conscious decision not to get caught up in despair. Progress was measured in baby steps, and we celebrated the tiniest improvements. At the end of each meeting, we’d pump each other with words of encouragement and emunah, reminding each other, and ourselves, that Hashem is with us on this journey.

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Adding in Order to Subtract With Tosfos Shabbos, the dividends are enormous. After all, it’s a proven method of protection in turbulent times. Says the Zohar Hakadosh on the fact that Moslems observe their day of rest on Friday and the Christians on Sunday, the fact that we, Klal Yisroel with our Shabbos, is surrounded on either side is so that the two should have no connection. And when we extend Shabbos on both sides, we’re taking away their power. The Rema Mipano says in the same vein that in order to guarantee protection from Hashem from the Moslems, we need Tosfos Shabbos on Fridays, and to be protected from the Christians, we must add to Shabbos on Motzei Shabbos. By taking away from their “day of rest” on Friday and Sunday, we are mevatel their klipos. * * * * *

“After Hashem gave me my life back post-Covid, I wanted to do something for Him in return. I realized what a gift He’d given me, not only my life but my mind, the fact that I can learn and share with others.” So attributes R’ Shaul Katz the drive for his Tosfos Shabbos initiative for kids: a way to open the gates of bracha, hashpa’a and protection in this world. Fitting indeed for a Yid whose essence bespeaks constant gratitude. He encapsulates this in a gem of an original vort: “We say this every Friday night in Ribbon Ha’olamim: “Modeh ani lefanecha…al kol hachesed asher asisa imadi,

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Well, here’s a loaded noun. Defined as either a “person who makes plans” or a “list or chart with information that is an aid to planning,” it seems that planners use planners well. And hey, please don’t prepare any other plans before you get the finer deets of planners down pat!

PLANNED BY WHOM? Personal diaries and almanacs preceded the planner. The former were blank books, the latter annual calendars that included helpful information pertaining to the schedules and industries of their users — for example, weather forecasts, farmers’ planting dates and tide tables. It isn’t clear if it was the American Revolution that got in the way, or perhaps Philadelphia publisher

Robert Aitken was simply too far ahead of his time, but his 1773 brainwave of the first published daily planner didn’t gain much traction. Clever department store exec John Wanamaker picked up the thread in 1900 with his Wanamaker Diary, a daily planner peppered with advertisements from his catalogs — sure to keep the Wanamaker products in customers’ minds every day.

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PLANNER TYPES From the personal to academic and much in between, there exists a planner for every schedule. There are health and fitness planners, family organization planners, work planners and wedding planners (both books and people with that last one!). Bullet journals allow for more freestyling and control over your planner page layouts, and daily, weekly and monthly planners let you choose the extent of your foresight.

BALABUSTA’S BOON No one needs to plan ahead more than the Yiddishe mother, housewife and breadwinner, to name a few of the roles she plays. Enter the Balabusta’s Daily Organizer. This gem is a sixteen-month calendar including Jewish and secular dates, menu planning, grocery and to-do lists, with health and organizational tips thrown in, too.

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PLANNERS AND ADHD There are plenty of adults with an ADHD-style brain (myself included!) who struggle with time management — and planners scare us silly. That’s not to say that scheduling goes out the window, though. I find it helpful to jot daily tasks and grocery lists on a large magnetic whiteboard on my freezer, and important dates on a large wall calendar. That’s about how much planning I can handle, although sharing this info on planners may just change that.

ARE PLANNERS PRODUCTIVE? Short answer: Yes! The benefits of this modest scheduling aid include the following empowering list: • It helps declutter the mind as you jot things down. • It reduces stress as you plan ahead, because proactive planning rather than passive living is a proven stress-buster.

• Using a planner can improve memory and learning. • Being well-planned boosts happiness. • It makes for more mindfulness as you go about planning and executing tasks in a deliberate way. • Best of all, it improves your overall chances of success.

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OF COURSE. THAT’S WHAT IT SAYS IN THE CONTRACT YOU SIGNED, SEÑOR RUBINOV.

I READ THE CONTRACT SEVERAL TIMES. I DID NOT COME ACROSS THAT CONDITION.

YOU ARE OBLIGATED TO INCREASE THE FARM’S INCOME AND TAXES WITHIN A FEW MONTHS…

…OR THE CONTRACT IS VOID AND THE ARGENTINE GOVERNMENT WILL BE ALLOWED TO TAKE BACK THE FARM AND RESELL IT.

I STILL CAN’T SEE IT, EVEN WITH YOUR GLASSES.

HERE.

WITHIN HALF A YEAR? THAT’S IMPOSSIBLE!

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IF, WITHIN SIX MONTHS, YOU WANT TO BUY BACK YOUR PROPERTY FROM ME FOR A FAIR PRICE, I’LL BE HAPPY TO SELL IT TO YOU AND PURCHASE ANOTHER FARM IN THE AREA.

INSOLENT JEW! YOU THINK I’LL WAIT? I’LL BURN YOUR FIELDS! I’LL LET YOUR CATTLE LOOSE! I’LL...

YOU WON’T DO ANY OF THAT, SEÑOR MORENO.

POLICÍA (POLICEMAN) ALVAREZ WILL REPORT TO ME ANY ACTS OF VIOLENCE AGAINST THE RUBINOV FAMILY. AND EVEN IF THERE IS NO CLEAR EVIDENCE OF YOUR INVOLVEMENT, YOU WILL BE HELD GUILTY AND RESPONSIBLE. IS THAT CLEAR? GOOD DAY TO YOU.

OKAY, AT LEAST THAT. I HOPE THE THREAT HELPS.

RIBONO SHEL OLAM! THIS IS A GREAT TEST OF FAITH. TO REHABILITATE SUCH A WRECKED FARM WITHIN A FEW MONTHS! BUT YOU ARE THE ONE WHO DETERMINES THE HARVEST.

PLEASE HELP ME AND PROTECT MY FAMILY.

DESPITE DON SILVA’S PROMISES, I FEEL UNEASY...

YEHUDA RUBINOV’S HUNCH PROVES CORRECT, FOR INDEED...

POOR THING. RAISING HIS CHILDREN ALONE AND DEALING WITH ALL OF THIS...

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ACTS OF VIOLENCE? WHAT ACTS OF VIOLENCE? THERE WON’T BE ANYTHING TO REPORT, RIGHT, SEÑOR POLICÍA?


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CATSKILLS The famous Mountain Square mall in Monticello has retail and office space available. Please call 845-642-0208 MIAMI BEACH FLORIDA Carriage Club North. Beautiful 2 Bedroom, 2 bath, Ground floor. Call: 347.499.0031 MONSEY VACATION/ SIMCHA RENTAL Beautiful fully furnished Shabbos equipped 6 bedroom 4 bath house Highview/ College. Call/ whatsapp 718541-0292 HOLLYWOOD FLORIDA Beautiful private villa. 4 Master suites with kosher kitchen, huge living area, pool. Walking distance to Shul/ Kosher shopping. Call/ whatsapp 718-541-0292 LAKEHOUSE VILLA Luxurious 3 bedroom lake house villa in Case Grande Arizona. Private pool fully stocked kosher kitchen. 520.251.4459

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KOSHER VILLAS IN ARIZONA Luxury villas in Casa Grande/Tuscon. Heated pool on gorgeous property. All amenities and kitchen accessories included. Near shul & Kosher grocery. call/ text 929-592-0368/929441-5709 Still available for Pesach!

DUPLEX FOR SALE BEAUTIFUL UPGRADED DUPLEX CONDO for sale: 12th Ave, Low 40’s. 5 Bedrooms,windowsIn all room. Three full baths. Pesach kitchen/ Laundry room. Front porch + beautiful rooftop and patio. Call/text OWNER at 929-6276014

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Classifieds NORTH MIAMI FL 2-bedroom, 2-baths with private heated pool and spa. $400/night, Discount for 5+ nights. Call/Text: 917-3824810, email: 1752nmb@ gmail.com

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VACATION HOME 8 BR / 5 BA home with game room ++ in White Lake. Available weekly, shabbosim & yomim tovim. Starting at $250 / night + cleaning. Call / text 845-248-7600

BOOKKEEPER POSITION Seeking Bookeeper in BP, QuickBooks proficient, Experienced,detail oriented, P/t or F/t. Email resume: bpjobposition80@gmail.com Text: 347-631-9535

MIAMI RENTAL Miami spacious & spotless 2 bedroom condo with porch. 37st indian creek. Near shul, beach, shopping. Kosher kitchen/hotplate etc. 347247-4816

PLAYGROUP TEACHER Seeking playgroup teacher and assistant Full Time/Part time. 15th ave 45th St. Great Environment 347-946-4325

SEEKING STORAGE SPACE Hair and wig supply company looking to rent storge warehouse space in BP pls call or text 917-971-7104 ask for Eli OFFICE ROOMS FOR RENT 13&45th Walk-in level 2 spacious office rooms with windows available for rent asking $1600 please call or text 9293388502.

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HEAR START TEACHER Head Start Teacher position in Brooklyn. 90 credits/12 Education credits. Enjoys working with children. Call: 718.686.2415 Email: jobs@ yeled.org GREAT OFFICE Requirements: Female, F/T, computer savy, motivated, responsible, organized, Great Pay, Potential and benefits, email: Geshmakeoffice@ gmail.com

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Daycare Center seeking Teacher for toddler classroom 9am-3pm Mon-Fri. Great benefits and salary. Email resume to gbaum@ beabove.org or call (917)618-4187. DAYCARE AFTER HOURS TEACHER

Daycare Center seeking after-hours Teacher for toddler classroom 2pm-4:30pm MonThur. Email resume to gbaum@beabove.org or call (917)618-4187. JOBS AVAILABLE

Part-time & Full-time jobs available. Email TopPartTimeJobs@ gmail.com F/T POSITION BP RE Management Office, Friendly environ (all female) Will train, some computer knowledge pref, email resume to resumesbpmgmt@ gmail.com. Flexible start date. JOB OPPORTUNITY Seeking a motivated, dynamic, responsible girl to do accounts payables. Interpersonal phone skills, detail oriented and responsible. Transportation from BP provided. Please send resume to: jobs@kleinsnaturals.com

SECRETARY JOB Looking for a secretary at a busy BP construction office to assist in running the plans dept. previous construction industry experience a plus. Email resume hr@ tristatefiresprinklers.com F/T SECRETARY Heimishe Boro Park office seeking a full-time motivated, responsible and detail-oriented secretary. Will train. Email resume: cberkovits@thenutteryny. com SECRETARIAL/ BILLING POSITION Marketing firm in Boro Park seeks full-time in-house secretarial/billing candidate. Responsibilities include answering calls, client communication, media placement management, and billing. Ideal for an organized, enthusiastic communicator who thrives in a fast-paced creative environment. Email resume to Marketingjob2024@gmail. com CASE MANGER Looking for a job? Do you enjoy working with kids and have a BA ? Then this job might be a great fit for you. Be a “Care Manager” for IDCC, FT or PT. great benefits! Yiddish speaking preferred, please email with confidence to mlax@interborough.org

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Now offering workshops and private groups for women Now offering workshops and private groups and girls. Including art, jewelry making, arts and crafts. for women and girls. Available for Bas mitzvahs, birthday parties, Including art, jewelry making, arts and staff meetings,crafts. family gatherings... For information call Moria 7182083508 Available for Bas mitzvahs, birthday parties, M0548442714@gmail.com staff meetings, family gatherings...

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Classifieds AFTER SCHOOL POSITION Work part time with children after school, Locations throughout Brooklyn, Must be high School graduate. Salary range $20-$30 an hour. Email resume to: thinkyeled@yeled.org AMAZING PART TIME JOB Part time job assisting adorable children in need. Afternoon or evening hours. Flexible scheduling. Locations throughout Brooklyn. $$ Best Pay $$. Call:718.686.2326 or call: 347.946.4506

ABA PARAPROFESSIONAL Join our team as an afterschool ABA Paraprofessional! Make a positive impact by assisting children in developing social and behavioral skills. If you`re passionate about fostering growth in a supportive environment, apply now to be a crucial part of our after-school ABA program. Please Call/Text: 917.968.2292 or email to: scaplan@yeled.org AMAZING ABA OPPORTUNITY Last few ABA Para openings! Afternoon. Evening and full day cases. Send resume to: smarkovic@yeled.org

ATT POST HS AND SEMINARY STUDENTS Hiring mature and caring post High School And seminary students to work with adorable children with additional needs. Full time, Afternoon and evening hours. Located in Local Schools, Yeled Center or homes. $$ Great Pay $$. Email to: smarkovic@yeled. org or call: 718.686.2326

PAYROLL SPECIALIST Yeled V`Yalda Boro Park Seeking Full Time payroll specialist. Experienced a plus, Detail oriented, Organizational skills, Computer savvy, Strong interpersonal & phone skills. Salary: $42,000.-$45,000. Email: jobs@yeled.org Phone: 718.686.2422

REMOTE RECRUITER Work remotely as a recruiter where you will source and onboard providers for an agency servicing children. option of working remotely. offering competitive salary plus commission. social media presence required. Email resume to chana@ hiresolutionsny.com or call 845-422-8098 ext 105

ABA CENTER Seeking post sem women to work at a fantastic ABA center in Boro Park 38th St. & 12th Ave. From either 2:30 PM-4:30 PM or a full day 9:00 AM-4:30 PM. Subs are welcome if you can do these time frames. Please Call/ Text: 917.968.2292

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P/T BOOKKEEPER Seeking part time bookkeeper, morning hours. Quickbooks knowledge required. $25-$27/hr. Email resume to chana@ hiresolutionsny.com or call 845-422-8098 ext 105

ABA PARAS ABA Paras needed male/ female, Boro Park, Flatbush, Crown Heights, Far Rockaway and Queens. Para rate ranges:$22-$35. Rate commensurate with experience. Email: inspara@yeled.org or Call: 718.686.2349

CASE MANAGER Do you have case management experience? Join our growing team! Feel fulfilled at the end of your work day knowing that you are making a difference in children’s lives! Flexible hours! Prior case management experience required. Email resume to chana@hiresolutionsny.com or call 845-422-8098 ext 105

JOIN OUR SALES TEAM! Be Your Own Boss! Join New York Life Insurance Co. as a seasoned salesperson or our fast track to management program. Experience top training, support, and retirement benefits. Make an impact, secure your future. Connect today! dglick@ newyorklife.com or Call 845639-5216 REGISTERED NURSE Looking for a part-time Registered Nurse for a Childcare Facility in Staten Island. Must have good computer skills, Ability to work with young children and parents. Excellent communication and interpersonal skills. Please email resume to: mrosin@ yeled.org

SALES AND MARKETING SPECIALISTS Use your sales and marketing experience to expand our clientele of organizations, schools and community centers referring their students to our mental health professionals. Generous compensation, remote position. Email resume to chana@hiresolutionsny.com or call 845-422-8098 ext 105 MEDICAL BILLING- F/T Attention recent grads! Fast paced multi girl office seeking full time employees. Great environment! Come with a friend! Email resume to chana@hiresolutionsny. com or call 845-422-8098 ext 105

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MENTORS WANTED Looking for mentors to work with children in their homes after school. We aim to find the right student and location. Perfect for younger adults. Call/Text: 917.968.2292

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HUMAN RESOURCES DIRECTOR Full time position for a mature individual to work in an all-female office in Monsey. The right candidate will play an integral role in the infrastructure that supports a busy Agency and contribute to an effective employee experience. Great opportunity for someone with superior organizational, computer and communication skills. Her responsibilities will be to assist in staffing, compensation, benefits, employee relations, training and compliance. For more information, please send resume to:

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CONTROLLER Seeking Controller for Monsey nonprofit agency. The Controller will direct the financial affairs of the agency and prepare financial analyses of operations, including interim and final financial statements with supporting schedules, for the guidance of management. The Controller is responsible for the company’s financial plans and policies, its accounting practices, the conduct of its relationships with lending institutions and the financial community, the maintenance of its fiscal records, and the preparation of financial reports. The position includes supervision over general accounting, internal auditing, cost accounting, and budgetary controls.

Qualifications: BA/BS Degree in Accounting, Finance or related major; 5+ year’s experience; Experience in accounting & financial management; Excellent Computer Skills; Excellent communication skills both verbal and written; Experience with Consolidating Fiscal Reporting (CFR) and/or nonprofits.

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Classifieds SECRETARY/BOOKKEEPER Full Time position in Boro Park Good time management skills. Detail oriented, computer literate. Comfortable with MS word & excel. Great work environment. Opportunity to grow, great benefits. Will train. Email to: jobs@yeled. org or call: 718.686.2422 OFFICE MANAGER Experienced Office Manager needed to oversee administrative tasks, lead hiring and recruitment efforts, and foster a positive work environment. If you’re organized, dynamic, and ready to make an impact, apply now! Full Benefits package included 75-100k based on experience. Email sheindy@hiresolutionsny. com or call 845-422-8098 ext 104. F/T COORDINATOR Looking for a coordinator in an all girls, dynamic office. Starting salary is 25-30 an hour, based on experience. Full benefits package included. Email sheindy@ hiresolutionsny.com or call 845-422-8098 ext 104. SEAMSTRESS Looking for an experienced seamstress specializing in bridal gowns. centrally located in boro park flexible hours please call 929-4897998

ADMINISTRATIVE ASSISTANT/PROGRAM SUPPORT SPECIALIST Full time in Boro Park office. Strong computer skills, knowledge of Microsoft suite. Great communications skills. Motivated and responsible. Email to: smarkovic@yeled. org or call: 718.686.2326 ACCOUNTING MANAGER Amazing opportunity to Join our accounting team as a staff accountant. competitive salary, great environment, tremendous growth potential. minimum 2 years private accounting experience required. Email resume to chana@ hiresolutionsny.com or call 845-422-8098 ext 105

ABA THERAPIST Seeking woman/girl to provide home based ABA therapy in BP. MonThurs 5pm and on. High functioning client! Great Pay! Call/text 929-290-0627 HIRING Hamaspik Choice is looking to hire an Office Assistant in our Brooklyn Office. Range 25-30 per hour. Send resume to jobs@hamaspikchoice.org RECEPTIONIST Fast paced multi girl office seeking full time receptionist. Email resume to chana@hiresolutionsny.com or call 845-422-8098 ext 105

GREAT OPPORTUNITY Looking for someone with a sense of fashion to run a small business in their home/space in boro park commission based only. Must enjoy fashion and working with people. Email chicandmodestfinds@ gmail.com

RECEPTIONIST Seeking a tech savvy, young at heart middle aged woman to serve as a receptionist and admin assistant in our busy, fast paced office. Full time, generous pay! Email resume to chana@hiresolutionsny. com or call 845-422-8098 ext 105

INTAKE SPECIALIST IDCC Health Homes Program is seeking an Intake specialist with 1 year experience in HR or Case managing, FT, great benefits, job location at our Kings highway office,some travel required. Yiddish speaking only, BA rqrd, please email mlax@ interborough.org

FEMALE POSITION AVAILABLE IN B.P Afternoon and Evenings PT or FT or Sundays Good for high school, college student or mature adult Help High functioning Women with daily living skills Beautiful environment. Call Chana 347-598-3127 Send resume to c.rabiner@hcsny.org

ADMINISTRATIVE ASSISTANT HCS is looking for a fulltime, responsible and organized persons with excellent communication and basic computer skills. Responsibilities include simple office tasks such as making reports, tracking tasks, creating documents, and answering phone calls. Please forward resume’ to jobs@hcsny.org DIRECT SUPPORT PROFESSIONAL HCS is seeking female Direct Support Professionals to work in a beautiful group home in Boro Park for highly independent young women. Experience working with individuals with developmental disabilities a plus. Driver’s license Preferred. Full-time, flexible hours. Monday through Friday 3:00 PM to 10:30 PM. Please contact 347-598-3127 COORDINATOR HCS is looking for a full-time, responsible and organized person with excellent communication and computer skills to work with parents, workers and care managers. Responsibilities include coordinating services, recordkeeping and collaborating with a team. Please forward resume’ to jobs@hcsny.org

ACCOUNTS PAYABLE ASSISTANT Multi-girl Real Estate Office located in Boro Park is looking for an Accounts Payable Assistant. Prior experience preferred. Email: hr@guardian.nyc or fax: 718.298.2299 202

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Classifieds MATH TUTORING Tutoring by math specialist, after school hours. Servicing all elementary grades K-8 and high school, including Regents. Also accepting P3. Call 347-809-1653. Only calls no texts please. ROOM DIVIDER We make WALL to split existing room and make second bedroom. It’s including regular or sliding door. We install also plastic ACCORDION partitions that fully fold to one or both sides. LIGHT-fixture+switch+outlet in new room . We work Sunday too. Call/Text:929430-7551 :646-288-0185. E-mail:roomdividers11219@ google.com SERVICE COORDINATOR Seeking a female service coordinator to help enhance quality of life for elderly people. PT position with potential for growth. Requires a BA in health or human services, experience working with the disadvantaged population, and a driver’s license. Boro Park location. Please email resume to sashitzky@ hamaspikkings.org

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SECRETARY Heimish BP multi girl office Seeking full time, female secretary. Great environment, great pay. Will train. Email resume: resumessfs@gmail.com F/T POSITION AVAILABLE Looking to fill Medicaid pending specialist positions. Great environment, lots of room for growth! Email resume to jobs@fcc-corp.com GREAT OPPORTUNITY Make a new friend! A sweet 10-year-old girl with emotional health challenges would love a friend to play with on Shabbos afternoons. Become her big sister and build her up! Great pay and enjoyable work, in Boro Park, higher avenues and higher streets area. Candidates must be high school grads. Email lcohen@comforthealthny.org or call 718.387.8400 ext. 405. HANDYMAN & PAINTING Experienced & Reliable handyman. Small jobs our specialty! Plumbing, Electric, construction, Locksmith, painting, plastering. Shabbos clocks, outlets/switches, call: 347.275.5408

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‫האדמו”ר מקאסוב בביקור באנטווערפן‬

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Boro Park Primary Care No Long Waits Walk-ins welcome

Internal Medicine Health from the inside out

Sharon D Kheradnam, M Adina Mizrahi, DNP

First Floor Primary Care + Multi Specialty Entrance on 16th Ave.

16th Ave cor. 48th St. 718.840.3535

3rd Floor Women’s Health Center Entrance on 48th St.


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‫הרבני הנגיד ר’ יוסף אליעזר איצקאוויטש ווייזט פאר האדמו”ר מסאטמאר דעם נייעם ספר אויף הל’ צדקה‪‘ ,‬צדקה וברכה’‬ ‫וואס איז ערשינען לרגל בר מצוות בנו הב’ חיים יושע ני”‪‎‬ו‬

‫שמחת התנאים לנכד האדמו”ר מבאבוב‬

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‫הנחת תפילין לנכד אב”ד לינז‬

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Boro Park Primary Care No PCP change needed Walk-ins welcome

Pediatrics Big care for little people

Chaya Kessler CPNP-PC

First Floor Primary Care + Multi Specialty Entrance on 16th Ave.

16th Ave cor. 48th St. 718.840.3535

3rd Floor Women’s Health Center Entrance on 48th St.


Contents

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FREE ISSUE 222 FEBRUARY 14, 2024

FYI: PLANNERS

‫פרשת תרומה‬ ‫ה’ אדר א’ תשפ”ד‬

BEHIRUS TELECOURSE GIVES PARENTS CLARITY IN A CONFUSING GENERATION

TIME OF JOY SPIRIT OF THE IN-LAW

These mechutanim really are family

POV

Gorgeous gifts for your guests

TRIPLE DANCE

TOSFOS SHABBOS CONTEST CONTINUES

New Column

DIY HOSTESS PACKAGES

Tell us what you think!

WEDDING PREP:

How to host your simcha with calm, confidence and class

DISCOVER THE WONDROUS WORKS OF ELEVEN VITALITY. FEVER?

RSV?

VIRUS?

COUGH?

STREP?

FLU?

JUST WALK IN TO PARCARE

No PCP change needed

16TH AVE COR. 48TH ST.

718.840.3535

Publisher:

YOEL ITZKOWITZ Editor in Chief:

D. GORALNIK Content Editor:

R. REESE

Associate Editor:

E.M. NEIMAN Food Editor:

M.P. WERCBERGER Creative Director:

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